Sexy Soulful Confidence

I have been a part of the population of vulva owners who have betryed their sexual satisfaction. I have been one of those vulva owners who has dismissed my pleasure, who has silenced my desires, who has fantasized my way to climax and faked orgasm completely. It sucks. It feels dirty. It feels deceitful, it feels like "why have sex, if this is what it is."  But I promise that's not what sex is.And if that is what it has been for you, then I'm am so ready for you to experience the fullness of what sex can be. I'm so ready for you to look forward to sex. I ‘m so ready for you to prortize your pleasure and be adamant about your sexual satisfaction.Because when you do, your world will change. It is 2021 the bar for sexual satisfaction starts where you feel taken care of. In this episode I cover:1998 Movie - Pleasantville & it's take on sexual suppressionCommon struggles of vulva owners when it comes to sexual satisfaction4 Ways to discover your pleasureWhy sexual wellness is important--Let's Get Social! IG  @BriannaEndrina / Twitter  @BriannaEndrina / Facebook. @BriannaEndrinaI have partnered with a company called TheBiggerO! They are the inclusive, woman-friendly online sex shop you always wished existed. And now it does! It's not necessarily about reaching the biggest O! But rather all of the different ways you can honor, enjoy and enhance your pleasure. It's sexual exploration without judgment. Because I think we can all agree that sex and shame, don't belong together. The Bigger O! offers pleasure essentials for all genders, to use alone or with a partner. Head over to TheBiggerO.com and snag one or 10 of their amazing products from some of the most innovative names in the sex tech game to enhance your play and use coupon code BRE10 at checkout for 10% off. The emphasis is YOUR PLEASURE. Let's explore together...Are you still part of the dating pool? Want a new way to meet? Head over to TheBlinkDate.com and join their waitlist for their audio only blind speed dating. 

You want to feel sexy? You want to learn how to take charge of your life and show up as your most authentic self? This episode has your name written all over it! -- Short and simple, you have everything you need to show up as the goddess you are. It's not maybelline, baby, you were, in fact, born with it! Also, we've got a Full Moon In Aquarius Baby! So how fitting of this episode to come out today! Let's shed our self-doubt, let's release what is not serving us, let's reclaim our power & let our authenticity shine! --Let's Get Social! IG  @BriannaEndrina / Twitter  @BriannaEndrina / Facebook. @BriannaEndrinaI have partnered with a company called TheBiggerO! They are the inclusive, woman-friendly online sex shop you always wished existed. And now it does! It's not necessarily about reaching the biggest O! But rather all of the different ways you can honor, enjoy and enhance your pleasure. It's sexual exploration without judgment. Because I think we can all agree that sex and shame, don't belong together. The Bigger O! offers pleasure essentials for all genders, to use alone or with a partner. Head over to TheBiggerO.com and snag one or 10 of their amazing products from some of the most innovative names in the sex tech game to enhance your play and use coupon code BRE10 at checkout for 10% off. The emphasis is YOUR PLEASURE. Let's explore together...Are you still part of the dating pool? Want a new way to meet? Head over to TheBlinkDate.com and join their waitlist for their audio only blind speed dating. 

Have you been going through a season of singleness or an extended period without sex? My guest host this week, Tara Alice, is diving into the struggles, lessons and clarity that has come from her 2 year season of singleness and 2.5 year abstinence journey!We talk about:The benefits of dating yourselfThe importance of nurturing your platonic relationships The impact of sex energy & sexual spiritualityThe clarity that comes with a season of singleness Her 2.5 year journey without sex+ so much more! Tara is also a Soul Coach! She works with fitting clients, 1 on 1, to bring clarity to their life on a deeper more soulful level.Connect with TaraIG  @TheTaraWay  &  Email  TheTaraWay@gmail.com--Let's Get Social! IG  @BriannaEndrina / Twitter  @BriannaEndrina / Facebook. @BriannaEndrinaI have partnered with a company called TheBiggerO! They are the inclusive, woman-friendly online sex shop you always wished existed. And now it does! It's not necessarily about reaching the biggest O! But rather all of the different ways you can honor, enjoy and enhance your pleasure. It's sexual exploration without judgment. Because I think we can all agree that sex and shame, don't belong together. The Bigger O! offers pleasure essentials for all genders, to use alone or with a partner. Head over to TheBiggerO.com and snag one or 10 of their amazing products from some of the most innovative names in the sex tech game to enhance your play and use coupon code BRE10 at checkout for 10% off. The emphasis is YOUR PLEASURE. Let's explore together...Are you still part of the dating pool? Want a new way to meet? Head over to TheBlinkDate.com and join their waitlist for their audio only blind speed dating.  

What is POWER? How do you utilize it to level up yourself and your relationships? Dr. Harmony Hunt, Doctor of Physical Therapy and Power Exchange Coach joins me this week to demystify how we view POWER and shed light on the way it impacts our relationship to ourselves as well as others. We cover:What power exchange isHow media portrays power exchange50 Shades of GreyBenefits & Relevance of Power Exchange DynamicsCommon misconceptions about Power ExchangeAdvice for anyone seeking to have Heavy Power Exchange relationships...and a ton more! If this episode has you looking at all of your relationships with a new found appreciation and curiosity, then please share, review & follow Dr. Harmony Hunt for more content!Connect w/ Harmony!IG  @PowerExchangeCoach  & @KinkyLifeCoach  Be on the look out for her course on Creating Balance in Power Exchange coming out soon! --Let's Get Social! IG  @BriannaEndrina / Twitter  @BriannaEndrina / Facebook. @BriannaEndrinaI have partnered with a company called TheBiggerO! They are the inclusive, woman-friendly online sex shop you always wished existed. And now it does! It's not necessarily about reaching the biggest O! But rather all of the different ways you can honor, enjoy and enhance your pleasure. It's sexual exploration without judgment. Because I think we can all agree that sex and shame, don't belong together. The Bigger O! offers pleasure essentials for all genders, to use alone or with a partner. Head over to TheBiggerO.com and snag one or 10 of their amazing products from some of the most innovative names in the sex tech game to enhance your play and use coupon code BRE10 at checkout for 10% off. The emphasis is YOUR PLEASURE. Let's explore together...Are you still part of the dating pool? Want a new way to meet? Head over to TheBlinkDate.com and join their waitlist for their audio only blind speed dating. 

It's story time y'all! I made someone uncomfortable, but what's new?  Sexual dissatisfaction is one of the most common things people come to me about.  It breaks my heart knowing that there are so many couples whose sexual needs aren't being met because they don't have the tools or confidence to ask for what they desire. This week I'm coming at ya with a solo episode to talk about how to improve sexual intimacy with your partner and get that good dose of fucking you've been craving.Go get it! Time Code: [ 13:35]  Let's Get Social! IG  @BriannaEndrina / Twitter  @BriannaEndrina / Facebook. @BriannaEndrinaI have partnered with a company called TheBiggerO! They are the inclusive, woman-friendly online sex shop you always wished existed. And now it does! It's not necessarily about reaching the biggest O! But rather all of the different ways you can honor, enjoy and enhance your pleasure. It's sexual exploration without judgment. Because I think we can all agree that sex and shame, don't belong together. The Bigger O! offers pleasure essentials for all genders, to use alone or with a partner. Head over to TheBiggerO.com and snag one or 10 of their amazing products from some of the most innovative names in the sex tech game to enhance your play and use coupon code BRE10 at checkout for 10% off. The emphasis is YOUR PLEASURE. Let's explore together...Are you still part of the dating pool? Want a new way to meet? Head over to TheBlinkDate.com and join their waitlist for their audio only blind speed dating. 

Being a Sugar Baby is one of the many taboo facets of this world that exists, but let's recognize that it is also very much in demand.  A recent statistic from one of the top sugar baby sites, Seeking Arrangements, shows that there are around 8 million sugar baby users world wide-wide-wide…This obviously peaks my interest and I am so excited to be joined today by seasoned Sugar Baby & Host of the Sugar Pussy Podcast, miss Ellie Rae.In this episode we talk about:The intricacies within the sugar world, as she knows it How she navigates having a primary partner along side this facet of her life How sugar has influenced her personal and sexual confidence + a ton more…If you want to hear Ellie's answers to some of the most common questions about the sugar world, head over to my IGTV and watch our convo. She has amazing insight from a sugar baby perspective and it may give you a whole new view on this type of lifestyle. If you favor curiosity over judgment and education over ignorance, this space is for you! Connect w/ EllieIG @EllieSugarRae / Podcast IG @SugarPusPodListen to my Guest Host episode on the Sugar Pussy Podcast! Let's Get Social! IG  @BriannaEndrina / Twitter  @BriannaEndrina / Facebook. @BriannaEndrinaI have partnered with a company called TheBiggerO! They are the inclusive, woman-friendly online sex shop you always wished existed. And now it does! It's not necessarily about reaching the biggest O! But rather all of the different ways you can honor, enjoy and enhance your pleasure. It's sexual exploration without judgment. Because I think we can all agree that sex and shame, don't belong together. The Bigger O! offers pleasure essentials for all genders, to use alone or with a partner. Head over to TheBiggerO.com and snag one or 10 of their amazing products from some of the most innovative names in the sex tech game to enhance your play and use coupon code BRE10 at checkout for 10% off. The emphasis is YOUR PLEASURE. Let's explore together...Are you still part of the dating pool? Want a new way to meet? Head over to TheBlinkDate.com and join their waitlist for their audio only blind speed dating. 

Attention All Penis Owners! This yummy and juicy convo with Men's Intimacy Coach, Allison Cruz, will have you ready to let down your guards, dearmore your hearts and come back home to your body and love your cocks in the most heart-centered way! Allison shares her work as a self-proclaimed Men's Intimacy Initiatress + what catapulted her into this line of work for healing the masculine. We talk about the benefits of Breath Work, Shadow Work and what it means for men and penis-owners to come back home to themselves and own their sexual power. Not a penis owner? Have a hard time seeing vulnerability within the masculines in your life and in yourself? That's ok too!  This episode has loads of information from a vulva owners perspective and I guarantee a few "ah ha!" moments for you also! I know I had many!Connect with Allison! IG: @Intimacy_With_AllisonE-mail: sexlove.and.intimacy@gmail.comLet's Get Social! IG  @BriannaEndrina / Twitter  @BriannaEndrina / Facebook. @BriannaEndrinaI have partnered with a company called TheBiggerO! They are the inclusive, woman-friendly online sex shop you always wished existed. And now it does! It's not necessarily about reaching the biggest O! But rather all of the different ways you can honor, enjoy and enhance your pleasure. It's sexual exploration without judgment. Because I think we can all agree that sex and shame, don't belong together. The Bigger O! offers pleasure essentials for all genders, to use alone or with a partner. Head over to TheBiggerO.com and snag one or 10 of their amazing products from some of the most innovative names in the sex tech game to enhance your play and use coupon code BRE10 at checkout for 10% off. The emphasis is YOUR PLEASURE. Let's explore together...Are you still part of the dating pool? Want a new way to meet? Head over to TheBlinkDate.com and join their waitlist for their audio only blind speed dating. 

Embracing your sexuality is the greatest gift you could give yourself. Showing up in this world in your power, that which sexual energy is inarguably attached too, is one of the greatest feelings. Because you get to come home to yourself in the most intimate way. And when we do that we drip with confidence. Have you ever just looked at someone and you're like...they just look like sex. I guarantee they are standing so strong in their personal power and I'd love to bet that it's because they know who they are through and through. I want that for everyone. I want that for YOU. Here are my 6 Ways To Embrace Your Sexuality. [Time Code: 8m 30s]✨Learn about your Kinks & Fetishes. Knowledge is power. Don't stay ignorant. The more you know, the more confident you will feel✨Surround yourself with likeminded people. You have a tribe. You are not alone. Let support in from people who understand you and relate to you ✨Seek out the experiences you want to explore. Safely of course. Give yourself the opportunity to know first hand if you truly enjoy something or not. Experience is the greatest teacher ✨Prioritize your pleasure and sexual appetite. When we fill our cup and take care of ourselves, we feel whole. We feel aligned. ✨Create Daily Confidence Affirmations. We must rewire the way we view sex, desire & pleasure. We must embody the feeling of acceptance so we can live in it. ✨Talk Therapy & Inner Child work. There is correlation between speaking and healing. Finding a professional to guide you through healing for any deep rooted shame around sex is so importantYou are a sexual being. Decide to love that about yourself!Let's Get Social! Instagram@BriannaEndrinaTwitter@BriannaEndrinaFacebook@BriannaEndrinaI have partnered with a company called TheBiggerO! They are the inclusive, woman-friendly online sex shop you always wished existed. And now it does! It's not necessarily about reaching the biggest O! But rather all of the different ways you can honor, enjoy and enhance your pleasure. It's sexual exploration without judgment. Because I think we can all agree that sex and shame, don't belong together. The Bigger O! offers pleasure essentials for all genders, to use alone or with a partner. Head over to TheBiggerO.com and snag one or 10 of their amazing products from some of the most innovative names in the sex tech game to enhance your play and use coupon code BRE10 at checkout for 10% off. The emphasis is YOUR PLEASURE. Let's explore together...Are you still part of the dating pool? Want a new way to meet? Head over to TheBlinkDate.com and join their waitlist for their audio only blind speed dating. 

 Guest Host, Haley Navarro, joins me this week on Sexy, Soulful, Confidence.We discuss:Her becoming a breath work facilitator & it's healing and wellness benefits.Her lack of sex education & how that shaped her sexual experiencesHow competing in body competitions affected her self-esteemHow having a positive body image impacts becoming a sexual beingFinding out more about her kinks... and a few other fun bits! Get social with Haley!Instagram @IAmHaleyNavarroWebsite: HaleyNavarro.comCheck out Haley's Podcast! The Unfiltered Soul and listen out our episode here.As discussed in the episode, Haley is offering any of my listeners 50% OFF of their FIRST Break Work Session.  So click this LINK for more info on what breath work is, how Haley will facilitate this beautiful healing tool, and to book your first session! Use Code: SSC50 at checkout! Stay Sexy, Stay Curious & Talk Soon!Let's Get Social! Instagram@BriannaEndrinaTwitter@BriannaEndrinaFacebook@BriannaEndrina

There have been a few changes happening with the podcast, my social media & my life in general. I didn't want to keep y'all in the dark any longer. We've got a New Name, New Look, New Collaborations &  Semi-New Content! It's also the end of Masturbation May and I'm finally releasing the episode I should have released on the 1st of the month. But how fitting that it came out on International Masturbation Day!? Love that! In this episode I cover: Masturbation May History Masturbation facts and myths6 Benefits of MasturbationMutual MasturbationLeveling up your Masturbation Masturbation ProductsI have partnered with a company called TheBiggerO! They are the inclusive, woman-friendly online sex shop you always wished existed. And now it does! It's not necessarily about reaching the biggest O! But rather all of the different ways you can honor, enjoy and enhance your pleasure. It's sexual exploration without judgment. Because I think we can all agree that sex and shame, don't belong together. The Bigger O! offers pleasure essentials for all genders, to use alone or with a partner. Head over to TheBiggerO.com and snag one or 10 of their amazing products from some of the most innovative names in the sex tech game to enhance your play and use coupon code BRE10 at checkout for 10% off. The emphasis is YOUR PLEASURE. Let's explore together...Are you still part of the dating pool? Want a new way to meet? Head over to TheBlinkDate.com and join their waitlist for their audio only blind speed dating. Blink was created to put an end to meaningless dating and provide a fresh, new dating experience. If you want to spend less time swiping across curated profiles and/or sending messages with people for a few days before the conversation dwindles and you want to start having actual conversations with potential partners, sign up for our waitlist today! Vote BLINK for the Nav Small Business Grant HereBusiness Name: Blink Date Inc.Business State: CALet's Get Social! Instagram@BriannaEndrinaTwitter@BriannaEndrinaFacebook@BriannaEndrina

I wanna know what y'all think about foreplay. Cause here is the hard and semi-sad truth. When most people think of foreplay they think of a little dry humping, fingering, stroking or some oral action right before intercourse. I put out a poll on IG and I asked y'all “what is foreplay to you?” And the answers I got back were confirming that people confine foreplay to the moments right before the full on sex-making session. Because of that, I really just want to shed some light on how limiting I believe that is for your pleasure. Don't stop your foreplay, I'm just gonna put on my Pleasure Police uniform real quick and write you a little ticket for MORE pleasure. I don't want you to remove what you're doing, if it's working, I just wanna give you some different ideas or share some of my personal perspective on Foreplay and how you can spice it up and incorporate it into your day and not just those moments right before you make the sex.I wanna encourage you to play throughout your day, to come up with some titillating activities that will make for an even steamier sex-making session. Because here's the thing, everyone who wants to have sex wants to have amazing sex and foreplay is such a big part of amazing sex. Foreplay can be anything at all, that encourages & elicits arousal. It can be sexting, a back rub, making dinner together, sending a little surprise to their office with an encouraging note, sitting next to each other naked in the sauna, brushing their hair after a shower, or a small naughty whisper in the ear before heading out for work. Find ways to incorporate foreplay throughout the day so when you get to playing, you're really revved up! Talk with your partner about what y'all find arousing to alleviate some of that pressure and make sure you're advances are met with the appropriate response, then having dialogue about what type of foreplay you enjoy and how you like that foreplay is really essential to y'alls confidence going into it. For example telling your partner: “I'm gonna go down on your vulva so good tonight” vs. “I'm gonna lick your pussy so good tonight” elicits two completely different responses. Now, I'm not saying which one you prefer is right or wrong, it's just about which YOU prefer. So that you have the desired response or you elicit the desired response. If one person's written or auditory form of foreplay prefers to be  told in detail how they're gonna be taken care of vs. fucked so hard — being told the latter is not going to arouse them. It's not going to be foreplay. Foreplay by definition is ‘erotic stimulation preceding sexual intercourse.' And if your partner is not stimulated by your means of  eroticism, then it's not foreplay for THEM.The goal is always to communicate, honestly. Honest communication can alleviate most uncertainties. We all will have our own personal things we're dealing with when it comes to sexual exploration and personal pleasure, but I want you to keep in mind, if you are playing with someone, that in THAT moment or those moments, it is not just about you and sharing is caring.  So share what you enjoy and then enjoy what you've shared so that both partners or all partners feel understood and so that you're foreplay and sex-making are AMAZING.Because again, anyone who wants to have sex, wants to have amazing sex.If you dug this episode or know someone who would dig it, feel free to share so that they can foreplay all day! As always Stay Sexy, Stay Curious & Talk soon! 

What is Numerology? I'm chatting with Professional Numerologist Novalee Wilder in this episode as she gives us a glimpse into the intricate esoteric world of Numerology. Diving into the basics of base numbers, numeroscopes and covering the truth behind compatibility and sexual preferences between numbers. Novalee is an actress, and artist turned professional Numerologist and writer living in Los Angeles. She's been through a whole lot of heartache and pain before finding numerology. She's been walking the talk and clearing the path for years. And now, she'd love to help you release the name vibrations holding you back.She is the author of A Little Bit Of Numerology, Host of The Numerology Podcast & founder of The Numerology School.  ​Head over to NovaleeWilder.com to find out how to work with her & snag a copy of her book! Don't forget to use CODE: BRI for 10% off any of her services. Connect via Social @NovaleeWilderLove this episode? Want more? Subscribe and Share! If you're feeling real fancy, leave a review! Either way, ILuhYouSoMuch! Connect with  me on social @SoBriSays for daily goodness!Stay sexy, Stay Curious! Talk Soon! 

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Boundaries are a form of Self-Care, Self-Love and Ultimately Self-Accpetence.Why we don't want to set boundaries:fear rejectionfear abandonmentdon't want to hurt anyonedon't like to approach conflict head ondon't want to be misunderstood or have what we say be misinterpreted we have a hard time asserting ourselves in vulnerable situationsSetting a boundary is an act of strength. You're honoring your value, your responsibilities and your needs. It does not reflect weakness or selfishness, as you might have been conditioned to fear or believe. - Sarah Dergins When setting a boundary you don't need to smooth over the tension. You don't need to protect people from feeling uncomfortable. It makes sense for people to feel bad and weird when they have crossed a line.  - Jordan Pickle CounsellingAllowing someone to take responsibility for themselves is an act of love. - breakthecycle_coachingBetraying ourselves in the name of love and loyalty and respect.Inconsistent or non existent boundariesPrioritizing other people's expectations of you over your own needsFear of expressing your feelingsChanging yourself in order to make others comfortable or feel betterSuppressing your own values, needs and desires in order to accommodate somone else. **People who get angry or upset at you for placing a boundary, are the ones who benefit from you not having any. Let that sink in. **Boundaries are the high quality information people need to love you better! - Kelsey GrantYou may struggle with setting boundaries if:You second-guess yourself to avoid making important decisionsYou feel guilt when setting boundaries with othersYou Have a hard time identifying and validating your own feelingsYou are a people-pleaserYou feel engulfed or overwhelmed by vulnerability with othersYou Lack awareness of your personal needs in relational dynamicsYou have difficulty trusting your feelings and intuitionYou have fear of individuating and becoming a person separate from your family or partner - sitwithsharonBoundaries to protect your energy and your emotionality can sound like:Can we talk about this later, after I've had time to gather my thoughts?I don't have the energy to respond to this right now, I will respond to your message when I feel recharged and can give it the attention it requires.I need space right now and I will each out when I feel ready.Dating Boundaries: Not agreeing to a second date if you did not feel the connectionNot giving your information to them, out of being politeNot engaging in intimacy if you genuinely don't want tooNot forcing a conversationRespecting your needs & listening to your discomfortLearning how to set boundaries and uphold them leads to:Being able to express your needs more confidentlyBeing able to Self-sooth during conflictKnowing where you can be flexible and where you can'tLearning how to actually listen instead of just waiting to respondScripts for setting boundaries: I want to feel…Which means I need…And so I will.. - MSWjakeAffirmations:"I forgive myself for all the times I traded my authenticity for external validation" - tutu mora"I forgive myself for moving in any type of way that didn't reflect how deep I value myself.""I am Important. My feelings matter. I'm not my mistakes. I am ok with choosing me first. I already have all I need to be happy. I attract all the healthy things and people into my life." - Pivot to happinessFollow Me @SoBriSays / SoBriSays.com Sharing is Caring / Subscribe & Review! ILuhYouSoMuch!