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What is a contract? It is an agreement, which is comprised of a minimum of three distinct elements: Terms and Conditions: Here is where we set expectations.  What are we expecting to be done?Consideration: This is where we define what we are getting in return for what we are giving or doing.Length of Time: This simply states how long this agreement will be in effect.Acceptance Learn why it is important to know what you are agreeing to before you sign on the dotted line.

We often confuse our gifts and talents with our purpose.  Our gifts and talents are conduits and tools in the demonstration of our purpose. What is God’s plan for you and your business?  When the world was wiped clean due to the flood, God confirmed that his mission statement had not changed.  Simply put:  He originally created the planet for man to fill and he still wanted them to do it.  The fact that he had to wipe out and start with a clean slate did not change that mission statement.

According to Genesis 2:2  “On the seventh day—with the canvas of the cosmos completed—God paused from His labor and rested.” Pay particular attention to the words paused and rested. When we think of resting from our work, we think of taking a vacation or a break from work.  That’s not what God did here. At the end of the 6th day, God was done with creating.  But he was not finished with his creation.  There is a difference.

Within the faith based small business community - there’s a trend to attach God’s name, an aspect of his persona  or something Biblical to everything we do. When Adam named the animals, he didn’t attach God’s name to them.  When he named his wife, he didn’t attach God to her name.  He named her based on who she was and her purpose. When we name our businesses, does the brand we are seeking to create accurately reflect what we are seeking to do? Is the name of our business an accurate reflection of the services, goods or information we are seeking to provide?

Today’s episode is entitled “The Power of Words” and answers the question: Which three words are the key to lasting success? Most of us are familiar with the concept of the Law of Attraction. There’s something far more powerful than the law of attraction and that’s the power of our words.  Scripture teaches us that we are made in the image of God.  Jesus said that we would do works greater than He.  He raised the dead, healed the sick and more. Learn the direct correlation between the words God spoke during creation and the words we speak over our businesses.  

Much like you, I’ve been struggling to find the balance in my work life and focusing on God’s will for me. We see depictions of Boss Babes and Boss Chicks with chants of Girl Power, but what does that really mean?  Some of the very people you admire and view as successful are barely making ends meet and desperate for that next client or venture, while trying to balance family and/or relationships.  Others have achieved monetary goals but have difficulty maintaining them. And even more are those who appear to have it all but are lonely, because running a successful business as a solo entrepreneur often means long hours and little time for much else. That’s not how God wants us to live, Boss or not. Join me on this journey to help you become and remain successfully successful!

Talk about serendipitous!   Rene Syler is a former anchor of CBS' The Early Show, published author, blogger, and the co-host of this year's Black Weblog Awards!  Her book, "Good Enough Mother" was written for "every woman who's passed off store-bought cakes as her own at the school-bake sale" and gives an honest look at motherhood!  AND, she just snagged a partnership with Evenflo! Hear how she triumphed and exuded tenacity while reinventing herself and how you can, too!  Join us as we let our natural hair down, literally and symbolically! Connect with Rene online: GEM Website Facebook Twitter

As her twitter bio puts it Royce is:  Mother 1st, Author, Dancer, VH1's Basketball Wives! Join us for this exclusive interview just before a new episode of Basketball Wives airs immediately following our chat! Got questions?  Call in or join us in the chat room LIVE!  Catch up on Basketball Wives here! Join Royce online: Website Twitter

I had the pleasure of interviewing the ladies of VH1's Love & Hip Hop just prior to the first episode airing.  Mashonda shares her history as a songwriter, why she feels she is the Poster Woman of Love & Hip Hop, what kind of dad Fabolous is, what she expected upon completion of the show and so much MORE!

Somaya Reece joins us LIVE for this EXCLUSIVE after the show chat!  Although three hours of footage was taped, you will only see 90 minutes on television.  What REALLY happened at the Reunion Show?  Learn how Somaya gives a whole new meaning to the Vagina Monologues!  We give you the RAW/UNCUT version of the show, with special callers who ATTENDED the taping and know what only insider's know:  It ain't over!

Join me and the ENTIRE cast of VH-1's hit series "Beverly Hills Fabulous".  Elgin Charles and his team join us LIVE to take your calls and answer questions about the show.  During the LIVE show, ONE caller will be selected by the Emperor of Hair, Elgin Charles himself to receive a FABULOUS EXCLUSIVE prize package.  AND listen at the top of the show for the UNRELEASED Elgin Charles theme song, featuring Chris Brown's artist Joelle James, the Skeem Team and produced by Octavia March!

One of our most successful shows to date, David Coleman, America's one and ONLY "Hitch" aka The Dating Doctor rejoins us during Cybercrush Month.  We take your questions & calls live & via the chatroom.  Join us for a fun-packed hour!  Shy?  Submit your question in advance to thatwritingchic@gmail.com!

Matchmaker Paul Carrick Brunson Spring has Sprung and romance is in the air. Paul stopped by to help us kick off National Cybercrush Month as we discussed the do's and don'ts of dating, what it takes to make a relationship last and what you should know before making the decision to take it to the next level.

Generation NextGeneration Next is a new web-based reality show about teenage boys and their relationships with their dads and/or mentors. Joining us LIVE will be Eric Williams (Basketball Wives, NBA), his son, and the entire cast, including the creator and director of the series.

Connie Chris Affectionately dubbed "Mz. Berry" on Season 2 of Ray J of Love, Connie Chris stopped by to discuss how she went from being a Realtor to a reality show. She shares with us her craziest fan moment (IT'S INSANE) and what fuels her most. Hear as she gives advice to her younger self. An intimate conversation with an impassioned woman, find out what she's up to now and what's next for her!

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The 100 Million Hit Wonder Asa is a three time cancer survivor, who turned a layoff into a career as a comedian. His wildly popular youtube series quickly rose to fame with over 110 MILLION hits and counting! Hear from the man who won the "Be The King" contest and interviewed Larry King live on television just prior to the King of Talk's departure. Asa talks about his newest venture, the webseries "120 with Asa."

Ready or Not - They're Back! Mint Condition is back with a new album and sounding better than ever. Join me LIVE! as I speak with the group who have blessed the airwaves with hits such as "Breakin' My Heart (Pretty Brown Eyes)", "Ready or Not" and "What Kind of Man Would I Be?" Currently the house band for TV One's "Way Black When", their single "Caught My Eye" is currently available on Itunes.

The Gatekeepers Post Author and media personality, Jeff Rivera launches The Gatekeepers Post, a new social media community intended to make a significant impact on the conversation of book publishing. Joined by industry heavyweights such as Zane, Jane Friedman, Hachette this collaborative will forever change the publishing industry.

300 Steps To Greatness Starting TODAY, I'm embarking on the biggest journey of my life and I want to invite you to join me and my special co-host Shawna Marie of The Healing Truth Center as we usher in GREATNESS! We will share our goals, visions and plans for this year and offer ourselves to YOU in assisting you getting started on this journey of 300 Steps To Greatness!

Guitar Her The former member of Day 26 is back with a fresh, new mixtape. With over 250,000 downloads within the first week, Que is giving his fans a chance to speak with him PERSONALLY on Christmas Eve. Listen to music from the album, and get to know Que on an intimate level. Share your comments and speak with Que LIVE! It all happens this Friday, December 24th, 8pm EST! " I was learning to play the guitar and I realized that the guitar is like a woman, her body is my instrument, and I'm her muse," says Que. "I want people to see beyond what was depicted of me on TV, that I am a regular person, not a diva, not a 'celebrity'. I'm just Qwanell. The direction that Guitar Her as an album will allow me to do that." Each song exudes the strength of love, the sensual side of every man, and the passion for music Que Mosley has. In 2011, Que will release the Guitar Her Unplugged EP. " I want to tell my story of the journey my way with the same honesty and realness that you hear in a guitar. That's why the Guitar Her follow-up EP that will be coming out in 2011 will be entitled 'Guitar Her Unplugged'. This will be performed and recorded live with a band and will allow me to share that honesty, and realness with my fans that you can't hide in a live show," says Que. Click on the "Guitar Her" link on this page to download the FREE mixtape!

The Little Black Book of Success - Laws of Leadership for Black Women An Emmy-Award Winning Executive Producer for HBO, The Deputy General Counsel for Time, Inc. and a former EVP/HR for New Line Cinema discuss the importance of branding, recreating yourself in the workplace during tough economic times, and why you constantly need to evaluate the company you keep. In this no holds barred conversation, the women share their advice on dealing with racism in the workplace as well as providing insight into the best way to develop a mentor relationship. We talk about the entitlement mentality and how to deal with those who are constantly seeking to get the "hook-up". The authors, to "support women who do not always have access to coaches, mentors, or the ‘Old Boys' Network," and their professional advice is savvy and sensitive to the challenges women of color face in the workplace. They offer self-affirming advice to rev up a career, complete with "MAMAisms"-what the authors describe as aphorisms and "familiar terms, both practical and spiritual, that we grew up with and can draw upon as we travel the road to leadership success." The authors revisit and refresh familiar tips on staying positive, honing skill sets, having a plan of action and following through, networking, and avoiding common workplace dilemmas. They also provide valuable advice on achieving work/life balance and finding guidance, mentorship, and support.

Production Notices Boy actor meets girl producer. Their love for television gets me hired on The Celebrity Apprentice. Learn the amazing story of how Micah Molinari & Sonia Riahi are changing the way people get work in the television and film industry, one Facebook posting at a time. With over 50,000 fans and 40+ location pages, the fast-growing international website www.productionnotices.com is serving notice that pink slips don't last always! Learn how you can have access to casting calls, audio jobs, editor, producer and even assistant roles on all of the projects you want to work on. Real advice from the people who are living it and are on a mission to get you HIRED! Their extensive network of Show Runners, Talent Execs, Production Companies and more reach out to them specifically to hire the people they are in contact with. Don't be the last to know!

Anne Wayman Anne Wayman is an accomplished writer who blogged years before it was even popular! Her website, www.aboutfreelancewriting helps aspiring writers do what they love while making a living at it, with priceless advice about setting fees, landing a writing job and even posting actual jobs! She shares real tips on how to begin a career in writing, but, more importantly, how to get that first article published and maintain your sanity while continuing to earn a living as a writer.

Note: To have your name or loved ones name read aloud in a tribute at the end of this episode, send an e-mail to muse@thatwritingchic.com subject: Tribute Cast of Knight To D7 An extraordinary story of sacrifice takes place one ordinary afternoon when a young engineer, Dustin Harper, visits his longtime friend, Brady Collins. Their ongoing game of chess is brought to a halt when Brady reveals that his continuing battle with cancer has taken a turn for the worst. The only thing harder than saying goodbye will be honoring Brady’s last request. Producer and Writer Greg Wilson will join us LIVE along with the cast, which includes Jackee Harry and Hector Elizondo. Dedicated to the memory of my Mother and Aunt and all of those affected by breast cancer.

Ken Atchity With more than forty years experience in the publishing world, and twenty years in entertainment, Dr. Ken Atchity is a self-defined "story merchant" - writer, producer, career coach, teacher, and literary manager, responsible for launching dozens of books and films. His life's passion is finding great storytellers and turning them into bestselling authors and screenwriters. Ken has produced 30 films, including "Joe Somebody" (Tim Allen; Fox), "Life or Something Like It" (Angelina Jolie; Fox), "The Amityville Horror" (NBC), "Shadow of Obsession" (NBC), "The Madam's Family" (CBS), "Gospel Hill" (Fox), and "The Kennedy Detail" (Discovery). Films in development include "Meg," "3 Men Seeking Monsters" (Informant Media), "Demonkeeper," "The Lost Valentine" (Hallmark Hall of Fame, starring Betty White and Jennifer Love Hewitt), "Hysteria" (Informant Media, starring Maggie Gylenhaal and Jonathan Price), "Boobytrap" (Informant Media), and Ripley's Believe-It-Or-Not (starring Jim Carrey; Paramount).

NOTE: DUE TO TECHNICAL DIFFICULTIES, THIS IS JUST A PREVIEW. THE ENTIRE INTERVIEW IS SCHEDULE TO AIR ON SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 20TH 1PM EST AND WILL BE AVAILABLE FOR DOWNLOAD/PODCAST IMMEDIATELY FOLLOWING. The Little Black Book of Success - Laws of Leadership for Black Women An Emmy-Award Winning Executive Producer for HBO, The Deputy General Counsel for Time, Inc. and a former EVP/HR for New Line Cinema discuss the importance of branding, recreating yourself in the workplace during tough economic times, and why you constantly need to evaluate the company you keep. In this no holds barred conversation, the women share their advice on dealing with racism in the workplace as well as providing insight into the best way to develop a mentor relationship. We talk about the "hook-up" mentality and how to deal with those who are constantly seeking to get the "hook-up". The authors, to "support women who do not always have access to coaches, mentors, or the ‘Old Boys' Network," and their professional advice is savvy and sensitive to the challenges women of color face in the workplace. They offer self-affirming advice to rev up a career, complete with "MAMAisms"-what the authors describe as aphorisms and "familiar terms, both practical and spiritual, that we grew up with and can draw upon as we travel the road to leadership success." The authors revisit and refresh familiar tips on staying positive, honing skill sets, having a plan of action and following through, networking, and avoiding common workplace dilemmas. They also provide valuable advice on achieving work/life balance and finding guidance, mentorship, and support.

Barbara DeShong Too Rich & Too Thin is a fast-paced, humorous mystery that follows Texas psychologist and police profiler Dr. Jessica LeFave as she searches for her husband’s killer while investigating the murder of one of his eccentric patients. Ms. DeShong spoke with us about the symptoms of depression, how to help a person who may be suicidal, bipolar disorder & the surge of substance abuse in Hollywood. We talk about Lindsey Lohan, Heath Ledger and what we could have learned from their deaths. Learn the symptoms of diet addiction as well as the pitfalls of poor self-image. DeShong is a psychologist and blogger who utilizes her more than 30 years experience counseling patients and speaking on topics such as improving relationships and coping with stress and anxiety to bring a unique perspective to the murder mystery genre. Learn more at www.mysteryshrink.com

Elgin Charles Elgin Charles, owner of the renowned salon in Beverly Hills chatted with me about the wonderful world of hair. THE premiere hair designer for tinseltown's finest speaks about Natalie Cole and the role she played in him becoming the sole African-American salon owner in Beverly Hills. Elgin shares how he landed a spot in Chris Rock's "Good Hair" documentary and speaks for the first time publicly about his upcoming VH1 reality show "Beverly Hills Fabulous"! He candidly shares what it is like raising a son with his ex-wife, Jackee Harry and what role faith has played in his success. BE INSPIRED!

Jeff Rivera Hear the story of Jeff Rivera who gives new meaning to the phrase "NO EXCUSES!" Once a homeless young man living in a car and dealing with unimaginable obstacles, learn the journey that lead him to becoming an award winning author, sought after journalist and being featured on a syndicated television show. His resume includes heavy hitters such as MediaBistro.com, the Huffington Post, National Public Radio, New York Roundtable Writers Conference and others. The brains behind www.gumbowriters.com, Jeff reveals trade secrets to getting your book published and teaches us all a lesson on what matters most. The process of writing his first novel, "Forever My Lady" was the proving ground that planted seeds for which he is reaping an incredible harvest today.

Albert Butler Once voted the sexiest man on talk radio, Al Butler a weekly Columnist for the Tyra Banks show website and regular host “Al B in the Afternoon” stopped by and discussed his career, Glenn Beck, controversy surround the proposed Mosque at Ground Zero and gives relationship advice! Hear why he thinks the face of Talk Radio needs to be changed. His radio show can be heard every Weekday from 4pm – 7pm on 900 AM WURD in Philadelphia, which streams online as well.

  Author of the wildly successful "The Screenwriter's Bible", Dave Trottier has sold several screenplays and developed projects for The Walt Disney Company, Jim Henson Pictures, and more. He shares how his career started and gives tips for aspiring and veteran screenwriters alike. Learn about formatting, pitching and what part passion plays in getting your story sold!

April R. Silver April R. Silver is a social entrepreneur, activist, and writer. She heads AKILA WORKSONGS, Inc. (AW), a communications agency that services the unique needs of progressive artists, activists, advocates, and organizations. April takes us through her journey from a student in college who worked on the first Hip Hop conference and shares with us what drives her to inspire change in others. Learn about her extensive clientelle list and what is next for this multi-faceted renaissance woman.

Dennis Vaughn After a prestigious legal career spanning 40 years, Dennis Vaughn wrote a complex, riveting novel that explores the declining ethical and professional standards in the legal profession as cut-throat competition diminishes loyalty between attorneys, their law firms and their clients. We discuss his first novel "The Price of Revenge" and how the legal landscape has changed over the years.

Shawna Marie Shawna Marie Aarons-Cooke is an author, licensed psychotherapist, ordained minister, professional speaker and media personality. She is also the founder of Healing Truth Center - an online community and resource for spiritual counseling, education and healing. Shawna Marie is inspiring change through the Prosperity NOW! Prayer Movement. My fellow Blog Talk Radio Show Host (Living In Spiritual Perspective) shared with us the essentials to living a blessed, peaceful and prosperous life. Her affirmations promote abundance health and wealth for every lifestyle. BE INSPIRED!

Jennifer Brett Meet the writer of the Atlanta Journal-Constitution's daily Peach Buzz column, featuring celeb and society news. Jennifer gives advice to those pursuing a career in journalism and shares how developing and maintaining relationships can be vital to a successful career.

Who Am I? I switch roles and get interviewed by my BlogTalk Radio colleague Shawna Marie on her show Living in Spiritual Perspective as we discuss Faith, Finances and Victory! I share my personal journey and insights into the path that led me to create Musings Of A Muse. I reveal what I feel God required of me before I received a significant breakthrough in my life. An intimate look into the things that inspire me to inspire you the most!

Aliya S. King N.Y. Times Best Selling Author, Aliya took time away from penning music mogul Timbaland's memoirs to share with us how a celebrity interview paved the way to a career as a novelist and how her time with Faith Evans forever changed the way she thinks of the day that Notorious B.I.G. was murdered. Find out what my connection is to Frank Lucas and why I never went to see "American Gangster" - the film that Aliya's second book was based on. Aliya also discusses the Vibe magazine article that lead to the penning of her first novel, the recently released "Platinum" - a fictional depiction of the wives of Hip Hop's largest superstars.

A Week With My Father Giacomo Knox is 39 years old and has not seen his dad in more than 30 years. This REALITY show takes us on the journey as he reconnects with his dad and they spend a week together. He and producer Julie House capture the emotions, honesty and hard questions that must be answered. We talk about single parent homes, absent fathers and the effect on children.

Bette Pegas First-time author, Bette Pegas speaks about her adventures in the Galapagos Islands as detailed in her book "Chasing A Dream In The Galapagos - A Personal Evolution". She took a chance and went on the adventure of a lifetime. What she learned is found in the pages of her book. We discuss FEAR and the importance of facing it, the oil spill and why the delicate balance that exists between man and animals is so important.

Karel Segers Referred by many as Australia's Robert McKee, Karel joins us to discuss #scriptchat, the Mystery Man and gives real advice to screenwriters! How important is a logline? What contributed to Toy Story 3's box office success? Can Hollywood be replaced as a film mecca? Learn how he went from radio show host to giving advice to screenwriters!

Jackee Harry In what she refers to as one of her most comprehensive and insightful interviews ever (yay!), Jackee spills about her role in The Vagina Monologues, how she turned two lines into an incredibly successful career, the phone call she got from Oprah and why her life is so golden right now! Learn about her various film/television accolades, how she got started and what she wants you to know about getting ahead in the entertainment industry. Find out about her latest ventures in film, national spokesperson and all around business woman!

David Coleman David Coleman aka The Dating Doctor aka the real "Hitch" answered chat room, twitter and listener questions about "Cougars", bad kissing, relationship addiction, internet/twitter dating, ex-lovers being friends, first dates, who holds the REAL power in your relationship and so much more! Tune in and learn what you need to stop revolving and start evolving in your relationships! Shout out to Tonya Ashley for winning an autographed copy of his book "Date Smart"!

Chandra Turner Ed2010 started in 1998 when founder and president Chandra (Czape) Turner was an editorial assistant. She and a friend decided to meet up with other magazine whippersnappers and swap job secrets and advice. Chandra shares advice for interns who want plumb journalism gigs and what it takes to maintain a career in the industry. She discusses how she balances life as the Executive Editor of Parents Magazine, www.ed2010.com and being a wife and mother. Most importantly, she answers the question: Just what does a magazine editor do?

Melinda Doolittle My interview with Melinda Doolittle, about life after Idol and her new book "Beyond Me' complete with answers to your submitted questions! Hear how a prayer from God changed her life and catapulted her on stage for all the world to see. Find out why she embraces the motto "Dream Big, Pray Hard, Be Prepared!" And learn what she hopes to accomplish before she turns 40! Congrats to Desiree Swain, the winner of an autographed copy of Melinda's Book!

Mark Curry Mark Curry shared with us his experiences in the music industry as a former Bad Boy artist, the power of words and the influence of his father in his life. He discusses his relationship with Sean "Puffy" Combs and why anyone pursuing a career with a record label should read his book. He shares his feelings about Usher and who he feels is the best rapper to ever live.

Best friends for nearly 30 years, who have turned a friendship into one of the most successful and enduring writing collaborations in contemporary women’s fiction, phenom writing duo DeBerry & Grant discuss their latest release. Leesa Davis, Entertainment Writer, Fashion, TV Production & Casting Rep joins us as well.

Note: Technical Difficulties ended the show 3 minutes premature - however, JR Jackson shared his Sport views with us - and I mean this man KNOW ALL sports! MC Hammer's cousin Marv is larger than life in more ways than one. As the "purple guppie" on A&E's Hammertime, he leaves audiences in stitches whenever he's around. Learn more about his passion to help teens through HodgePodge Teen Cafe.

Vanessa Brantley-Newton, author/illustrator joins us to discuss her latest release "Don't Let Aunt Mabel Bless The Table". Hear about her incredible journey. Steve Rivers - Actor/Comedian/TV Writer & Producer joins us to talk about his latest projects and how he got started with Skoob TV!