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True Vine Talks is a Mental Health Podcast hosted by Linda Goad and Rachel Baldrige-Bush. Linda and Rachel believe emotion is the fastest and most reliable tool for lasting change. Linda is a licensed professional counselor and owner of True Vine Counseli

Linda Goad and Rachel Baldrige-Bush


    • Apr 3, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 36m AVG DURATION
    • 52 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from True Vine Talks

    'Let Them' by Cassie Phillips

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2025 36:35


    Linda and Rachel read Cassie Phillips's poem 'Let Them'. Her words teach us that we deserve better, and when we find better, our lives improve.

    How Media Can Influence Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2025 31:37


    Linda and Rachel discuss how themes in popular media (television, movies, magazines, etc.) can influence behavior in romantic relationships.

    Black & White Thinking

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2025 36:07


    Linda and Rachel discuss 'black and white thinking' (AKA dichotomous thinking). This cognitive distortion occurs when an individual views the world in extreme opposites. This can look like believing something is all good or all bad, perfect or terrible, always or never, etc.

    Navigating Difficult Conversations

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 40:02


    Linda and Rachel share some helpful tips for navigating those difficult conversations with important people in your life. Though they can be uncomfortable, these conversations can also bring closeness, increase satisfaction, and deepen trust in relationships.

    Elements of Healthy Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2025 46:27


    Linda and Rachel answer the question: "How do you know what healthy is if you have been in insecure attachment patterns all your life?"

    Psychology of Human Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 34:18


    To celebrate their 100th episode together, Linda and Rachel discuss the Psychology of Human Relationships. Listen to learn about the science of human connection, how the quality of our relationships affects mental health, and some of the elements of meaningful connection that cultivate stronger bonds.

    Self-Disclosure from your Therapist

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2025 28:57


    Nobody always has everything together. Not even licensed professional counselors. Linda and Rachel discuss the appropriate use of self-disclosure during therapy sessions and how they hope it helps encourage trust and authenticity.

    Transition to Parenthood

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2024 46:00


    Linda and Rachel have a candid conversation about their transitions to parenthood. They hope their transparency in sharing personal experiences during postpartum will help validate other new parents. The two hope to normalize how overwhelming and challenging bringing home a new baby can be and reduce the shame some new parents face when they don't always feel the 'joy' society expects them to have.

    Couples Therapy Sessions

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2024 33:28


    Linda and Rachel use a clip from the movie 'Mr. and Mrs. Smith' (2005) to discuss couples therapy sessions.

    Silence during therapy sessions

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2024 19:29


    Linda and Rachel use the silent session scene from the movie 'Good Will Hunting' (1997) to discuss silence during therapy sessions and how they might handle it as professional counselors.

    Dissociative Identity Disorder

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2024 32:43


    Linda and Rachel discuss the DSM-5 Dissociative Identity Disorder diagnosis using a clip from the movie 'Split' (2016).

    Superpowers of The Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2024 24:35


    Linda and Rachel discuss the dismissive avoidant attachment style and the many strengths of individuals with this type of attachment. This podcast episode is a mini-series, part 2 of 2.

    Superpowers of the Anxious Preoccupied Attachment Style

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2024 30:28


    Linda and Rachel discuss the anxious preoccupied attachment style and the many strengths of individuals with this type of attachment. This podcast episode is a mini-series, part 1 of 2.

    Emotionally Immature People

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 44:07


    Linda and Rachel discuss how frustrating it can be to interact with an emotionally immature person. Listen to learn the characteristics of an emotionally immature person, why individuals might be emotionally immature adults, and what to do for yourself if you care for an emotionally immature individual.

    A Tribute to Dr. Sue Johnson

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2024 19:49


    Linda and Rachel honor the passing of Dr. Sue Johnson, creator of Emotionally Focused Therapy by sharing what they have learned through Sue's research on love and attachment.

    Stigma as a Barrier to Mental Health Care

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2024 42:36


    On February 28, 2024, Elon Musk posted on X (previously Twitter): "Put Never Went to Therapy" on my gravestone. In this episode of True Vine Talks, Linda and Rachel discuss how the stigma around mental health care remains and creates barriers to those who could benefit from receiving therapy.

    Codependency

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 37:39


    Codependency is a term used to describe an unhealthy relationship dynamic between a ‘taker' and a ‘giver.' In this episode of True Vine Talks, Linda and Rachel explain codependency, how the codependent relationship is created, and the steps to take if you realize you are in a codependent relationship.

    Leading Cause of Divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2024 36:54


    Linda and Rachel discuss the leading cause of divorce - lack of communication and unrealistic expectations. Listen and learn how poor communication in relationships leads to loneliness and resentment.

    Have you ever dated a 'project' ?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2024 39:41


    In this episode, Linda and Rachel discuss why so many people get stuck in cycles of dating ‘projects.' Project dating refers to the habit of falling in love with someone's potential and feeling like you aren't enough when that individual doesn't change, improve, or grow in the relationship. If this sounds familiar, listen and learn about some of the reasons people find themselves repeating this habit over and over again. As well as how to look for a consistent, long-term partner instead of another project.

    Managing Rejection within Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2024 43:37


    Linda and Rachel discuss how rejection can show up in any relationship. Listen and learn about the four types of rejection, where perceived rejections stem from, and how to work with parts of yourself to help manage feelings of rejection.

    How Trauma Impacts Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2024 33:00


    Linda and Rachel discuss how past trauma can impact current relationships, especially romantic relationships. Previous relational trauma can lead to feeling suspicious, distrusting others, questioning intentions, and fear of harsh consequences or abandonment. Listen and learn how the trauma someone experienced in a past relationship can prevent them from being able to trust and open up emotionally with their current romantic partner.

    Common Obstacles to Change

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2024 40:48


    Have you ever wondered what keeps some people stuck, unable to change? In this episode, Linda and Rachel discuss some common obstacles individuals must overcome to obtain the mental health progress they seek.

    Is it Burnout? Or is it Betrayal?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2023 44:50


    Most of us have heard about burnout. A state of physical and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged stress. Many employees have experienced this within the workplace. When an individual experiences burnout, others are quick to suggest they weren't taking good enough care of themselves. Our question on this podcast is: could the reason behind such high rates of burnout be caused by betrayal? Many Employees have been betrayed by their employers. Individuals do not feel supported in the workplace. Many workers are expected to perform at unrealistic levels without necessary economic support (such as competitive wages, affordable childcare, paid leave, and cost-effective health insurance). Referenced Sources: NY Times Article: "How Society Has Turned Its Back On Mothers" https://www.nytimes.com/2021/02/04/parenting/working-mom-burnout-coronavirus.html#:~:text=%E2%80%9CBetrayal%E2%80%9D%20describes%20what%20my%20patients,the%20broken%20structures%20around%20them. Parent Data Podcast: Self-Care Without Candleshttps://parentdata.org/self-care-without-candles/

    "The Woman in Me" by Britney Spears

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2023 41:09


    Linda and Rachel honor Britney's life story by discussing the honesty and bravery she has expressed in her memoir "The Woman in Me". Listen to learn about toxic relationships and how to tell if someone has your best interest at heart.

    Jungian Archetypes

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2023 36:04


    Linda and Rachel discuss the work of Carl Jung on personalities. Listen and learn about the 12 archetypes and more. Below is a link to a free quiz, to find out which archetypes are your strongest.https://www.psychologistworld.com/tests/jung-archetype-quiz

    Birth Order & Personality

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2023 40:24


    In this episode of True Vine Talks, Linda and Rachel discuss Alfred Adler's birth order personality theory. Have you ever noticed unique traits of only children, oldest children, middle children, or youngest? Listen to learn about how birth order can impact your personality. We hope you enjoy it!

    The Big Five Personality Traits

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2023 38:51


    Linda and Rachel discuss The Big Five personality traits. They are Openness (to experience), Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, and Neuroticism. These five broad dimensions of personality remain mostly stable throughout an individual's life. They are influenced by both genes and the environment. Each trait represents a continuum (or spectrum). You can take a free Big Five Personality test here: https://bigfive-test.com/

    Lessons in the 'Barbie' Movie

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2023 36:57


    Linda and Rachel discuss the deep, underlying themes and mental health lessons in the 'Barbie' Movie. 1. You are (K)enough, just as you are! 2. We are all children, learning how to be adults. 3. When all power is given to any singular group it is not good. 4. Oppression or disregard of others leads them to feel worthless. 5. It is not your burden to fix others who do not yet know themself. 6. Life is a constant balance of contradicting double standards that make it impossible to please everyone. 7. Life will never be perfect, but your mindset can help make it better.

    Being Authentic in a World of AI

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2023 42:38


    What does it mean to be authentic? Why is living an authentic life so important? What makes authenticity difficult? What skills are needed to be your truly authentic self? We answer all these questions in this episode of True Vine Talks Podcast. We hope you enjoy it!

    Transitioning to Adulthood

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2023 39:19


    Linda and Rachel discuss the life transition from adolescence to adulthood. Individuals, aged 18-20, find themselves trying to figure out who they are and longing to feel lovable within intimate relationships. Their parents are trying to figure out how to help them be more independent while continuing to support them financially and keep them physically safe. This is a confusing and overwhelming time for both emerging adults and their parents. Thus, it is no surprise that navigating independence, trust, and mutual respect between emerging adults and their parents can create conflict.

    Anger

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2023 34:20


    Linda and Rachel discuss what they believe is the most misread emotion... anger. Many people are uncomfortable with (or even fear) anger because of the behavior associated with it. Linda and Rachel want to help people understand anger is a healthy emotion. Learning to express anger respectfully allows us to set boundaries and fight for justice.

    Validation vs Affirmation

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2023 33:51


    One of the words we find ourselves, as therapists, using often is validation. We have realized that not everyone fully understands what we mean when we discuss validating feelings. Validating an emotion is accepting it as factual and understandable. Affirmation is encouraging and supporting someone. The two are different, and it is important to validate emotions before we affirm.

    Exiled Parts of Self

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2023 37:36


    Linda and Rachel discuss what 'exiled' parts of self are based on the Internal Family Systems (IFS) Model. Listen to learn how these parts of self become exiled and why they can be challenging to access and heal.

    Protector Parts of Self

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2023 29:31


    The Internal Family Systems model of therapy believes if we experience a situation where we cannot protect ourselves (physically, mentally, or emotionally), parts of our mind become activated and may take on extreme roles. These parts carry the emotions, sensations, and memories from those experiences. They protect you from feeling hurt, humiliated, frightened, or shamed again. Consequently, these protector parts keep your more vulnerable, needy parts inaccessible (exiled). In therapy, Linda and Rachel help clients access and heal their more vulnerable parts by working to unburden protectors and regain their trust in the self.

    Phil Maynard

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2023 70:58


    Content Warning: This episode is created for adult audiences only. The conversation includes personal experiences of mental illness, substance abuse, suicide, and hospitalization. These topics may be distressing to some listeners. Discretion is advised. Please see below for resources and support.Special guest, Phil Maynard, shares his personal experiences with mental illness and recovery. Phil is a Peer Recovery Support Specialist who uses his story, compassion for others, and great sense of humor to spread hope in recovery. Phil, thanks for your time spent with us on the True Vine Talks Podcast. Your story is moving; the work you do is so important.Suicide Hotline: 988Text Crisis Line: text 'HOME' to 741741

    Social Contagion

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2023 36:56


    Linda, Katlin, and Rachel discuss a theory that mental health content online may be contributing to a mass social/emotional contagion, particularly among the teen/adolescent population. Listen to learn more about adolescent development, social contagion theory, mirror neurons, and the fixed mindset.

    Caylin France

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2023 38:54


    Caylin France is a Student Support Specialist at Marshall University. She joins us on the podcast to discuss her her passion for helping others succeed; mentally, emotionally, and academically. Caylin shared some of her experiences participating in (and working for) the Upward Bound Program at Marshall and how it played a huge role in finding her purpose.

    Setting & Maintaining Intentions

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2023 36:59


    January is a time when many of us set goals or New Years resolutions. If we are unable to maintain these plans, we can feel defeated or disappointed in ourselves. Change is challenging to maintain, because it involves intentionally choosing to do what is best for you, over what might be fun, fast, or easy in the moment. Linda, Katlin, and Rachel discuss the importance of setting and maintaining intentions in order to build healthy habits and reach our goals. When feeling discouraged, Katlin recommends the 3 Rs: re-evaluate, revisit, and reset your intention(s).

    Managing Expectations during the Holidays

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2022 24:25


    The Holiday season, for many people, can lead to feelings of loneliness and disappointment. Linda and Rachel discuss the importance of being flexible with Holiday plans and managing our expectations.

    Shame and Intimacy

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2022 29:24


    Linda and Rachel discuss the layers of shame that can surface around sex in relationships. Our view of sex and sexuality is shaped by the messages we received from society, our culture, our friends and family, and our own inner beliefs about our self-worth. In this podcast we discuss how shame can prevent emotional connection through sexual bonding and how we help couples have these difficult conversations.

    Why Change is so Challenging

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2022 30:43


    Have you ever wondered why it is so difficult to change? In this episode Linda and Rachel discuss why we experience resistance toward change. Listen to learn skills for adapting and conquering the changes you want to make in your life.

    Reparenting Your Inner Child

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2022 39:57


    Linda, Katlin, and Rachel discuss how to reparent your inner child through self discipline, joy, emotion regulation, and self care. Listen and learn about some of the obstacles that come up for individuals beginning the reparenting process and how to overcome them.

    Elizabeth Slagel (Weymouth Hill)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2022 29:56


    Our guest, Elizabeth Slagel, is the owner/operator of Weymouth Hill Event Venue in Ironton, OH. Elizabeth has a passion for creative endeavors. We enjoyed watching her light up as she discussed the joy she finds in helping her clients design the perfect "wow factor" for their event. Elizabeth, thank you for your time and insight into the power of moments. Contact Weymouth Hill if you are planning an event that you want to make a magical moment. Website: https://weymouthhill.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WeymouthHill

    Parts of Self (IFS)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2022 34:25


    Linda and Rachel discuss the 4 parts of self based on the Internal Family Systems Model (IFS). Listen and learn about how we all have our authentic self, managers, firefighters, and exiled (or hurt child) parts of self. We hope this podcast helps you understand how complex our internal worlds are. Thank you for listening!

    Coping with Traumatic News Events

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2022 31:17


    Linda, Katin, and Rachel discuss the impacts of consuming traumatic news in our daily lives. Listen to learn how our brains interpret news events as immediate threats and trigger anxiety; as well as ways to cope with the stress these types of events can cause. [Trigger Warning: the events discussed in this podcast include violence, such as mass shootings].

    College and Mental Health

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2022 47:40


    Special guests, Lilly and Georgia Slagel, share genuine vulnerability while discussing personal experiences adjusting to college life. We hope this podcast will help normalize how difficult the transition from high school to college can be for many individuals. Being thrust into a multitude of changes, while trying to discover who you want to be, is no small feat. If you relate to the challenges discussed in this podcast and would like to schedule a therapy appointment, please email us at truevinewv@gmail.com

    What to expect in Couples Counseling

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2022 38:42


    Linda and Rachel discuss what new clients can expect when they come in for couples counseling. At True Vine, we are not going to place blame on either partner, we are not going to give relationship advice, and we are not going to tell you how to compromise. What we will do is help you learn how to have deeper, more meaningful, conversations with one another. Conversations that get to the root of your conflict and increase emotional connection. Leaving couples feeling closer and better able to make decisions together.

    Anxiety vs Arousal for the HSP

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2022 34:27


    Linda and Rachel discuss subtle differences between the Highly Sensitive Person experiencing nervous system arousal and someone experiencing anxiety.

    The Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2022 36:35


    Linda and Rachel share their personal revelations after reading 'The Highly Sensitive Person' written by Elaine Aron, PhD. Highly Sensitive People (or Empaths) process information more deeply and experience more frequent nervous system activation. These experiences are often misinterpreted as anxious feelings. To learn more and determine whether you may be a HSP, check out the following resources:https://hsperson.com/test/highly-sensitive-test/https://hsperson.com/store/bookstore/

    Emotions 101

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2022 27:45


    Linda and Rachel provide a crash course on emotions. Listen to learn about the four parts of emotions, the difference between primary and secondary emotions, and the main purpose of five common emotions we experience as humans (anger, sadness, fear, shame, and guilt). Special guest, Grant Goad, joins the podcast to provide insight on emotion for teens and young adults. Grant discusses the importance of recognizing and identifying different emotions. Grant also shared some of his personal experiences, as a high school student during the pandemic.

    Inner Child

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2022 22:51


    Linda and Rachel discuss "the inner child", which is a term used in various therapy models. At True Vine Counseling, we believe learning how to connect with and nurture your inner child is an important process in your healing journey. As an adult, you possess the power to validate and meet the needs your younger self longed for, but did not receive. This process can help you gain a sense of self-trust and inner peace.

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