Podcasts about avoidant attachment style

You know that you should walk away yet it is so difficult for you to pull the plug on this Relationship. You might've even tried to leave in the past but always return to this familiar and uncomfortable place. Why does this happen?In this podcast, we explore our attachment style and how it keeps us stuck in relationships we know we should get out of. We also discuss tools we can use to make letting go easier. Support the show

What do the TV and film characters Don Draper (Mad Men), James Bond, Miranda Priestly (The Devil Wears Prada), and Rick Blaine (Casablanca) have in common? Each is a fairly good illustration of the Avoidant-Dismissive Attachment Style portrayed in film.In the last episode, I discussed how our experiences with caregivers during our first three years of life may continue to impact our ability to regulate emotions and form beliefs about ourselves and others. More deeply, I address how attachment shapes our neurophysiology - specifically our right and left hemisphere differentiation, our limbic system (“lizard brain”) and our autonomic nervous system.In this episode, I will focus more closely on one end of the attachment spectrum - the avoidant-dismissive attachment style. I'll discuss:* How, in the early research, attachment was measured in toddlers and adults* How avoidant-dismissive attachment appears to develop* What it looks like in relationships* Personality Disorders that, if present, align with this type of attachment style* Similarities with undermethylation and how avoidant-dismissive attachment style may relate to undermethylation* The role of psychotherapy, group work, and supportive relationships in healing* Other tools, practices, and choices that can support healing.* How awareness of these patterns can transform not only personal well-being but also parenting and family dynamics across generationsOne theme I return to often is that growth is always possible. While avoidant attachment may develop early in life, it does not define a person forever. With curiosity, growing compassion, and the willingness to practice new ways of relating to ourselves and to others, we can expand our capacity for connection and begin to feel more whole.In the next episode, I look forward to discussing the other end of the attachment spectrum - the Anxious-Ambivalent (Preoccupied) Attachment Style.As always, I welcome any comments and questions, as these help guide the information that I share.Until next time,CourtneyTo learn more about non-patient consultations, treatment, and monthly mentorship groups, please visit my website at:CourtneySnyderMD.comLinks to related content:Methylation & Brain HealthUndermethylation Myths, MTHFR & The Great Folate DebateMedical Disclaimer:This newsletter is for educational purposes and not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment for either yourself or others, including but not limited to patients that you are treating (if you are a practitioner). Consult your physician for any medical issues that you may be having. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit courtneysnydermd.substack.com/subscribe

Dating someone with an avoidant attachment style can leave you second-guessing yourself, waiting for scraps of connection, and telling yourself stories that keep you in pain. I've been there, and I know how easy it is to cling to beliefs that feel comforting in the moment but ultimately keep you stuck. In this episode, I'm breaking down the three most common lies you tell yourself in this dynamic—and the truth that will set you free.✨ Inside the episode, you'll discover:Why the belief “If I'm patient enough, they'll eventually love me the way I need” keeps you settling for crumbs instead of receiving real intimacyHow internalizing their distance as “something is wrong with me” reinforces old childhood woundsThe painful trap of “If I just love them enough, I can fix them”—and what actually heals relationship patterns at the rootIf this feels familiar, I want you to know you are not broken, and it's never too late to rewire your attachment style. You are so worthy of a love that is safe, secure, and consistent.✨ P.S. — Did you know I have a private podcast, Secure.Soft.Magnetic? It's exclusive content you won't hear anywhere else—bite-sized episodes with the exact tools and mindset shifts to help you embody secure attachment and show up with confidence in dating and relationships. Click Here to Grab the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private PodcastAnd if you're ready to take this work even deeper, I'd love to personally invite you to apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program. This is where I walk you step by step through the process of healing attachment wounds so you can finally create the healthy love you deserve.

Dating someone with an attachment style different from your own can be challenging and it can be difficult to view your relationship from a different perspective. In this episode, we talk about dating someone who is avoidantly attached. Check us out on YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Coach Craig Kenneth⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get Craig's help personally: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.askcraig.net/take-action/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get Victoria's help: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.askcraig.net/victoria⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Craig's workbook series: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.askcraig.net/workbooks-1/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get Started on the Creative Healing Course: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://courses.askcraig.net/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

 Love me, but from over there - The Avoidant attachment style  I want to send out a hopeful message to everyone listening – you have secure attachment in your system biologically. It's in your system and your system wants to be connected, that's what it's wired for. It's that throughout development stuff get's dumped on your system, which interrupts this. Wounds, attachment injuries, trauma disconnects us and our system wants us to return to security. People use different language for attachment style which can be confusing so, were going to refer to the avoidant attachment style today – can also be referred to as the dismissive avoidant, insecure, fearful avoidant etc.How it develops The avoidant attachment develops through absenteeism – it's a message of “nobodies there”. Think of a vacant, dissociated parent – a child might be trying to find their parents eyes staring at them and there's nobody home! Which is scary for infants who are 100% dependant on their parents! I also want to add that sometimes it's not just the parenting of the child – sometimes it's a medical procedure or an illness, maybe there was birth trauma or the parent is unwell – different factors can come in here. Any parents listening please take the burden to be perfect off your shoulders, we only need 30% attunement for secure attachment and it is a very forgiving system. Another way it can show up is when only left-brain activities are responded to – so whenever there is a learning of a skill, or an achievement in some way they were there, but whenever it was emotional or there was a need for comforting, they weren't available enough. So, what this means is there sense of self is largely felt as isolated and they tend to regulate through dissociative mechanisms like zoning out to Netflix because they have a knee – jerk reaction to withdraw and a stress on connection. If you're an avoidant you need time to surface to connection – it's like you've been deep deep diving in the ocean and if you come up too quick you get the bends, so when I'm working with couples sometimes I'll ask how much time they need to re-surface or what helps them come up slowly, because it's hard to go from deep deep isolation to connection. Avoidance is a deep withdrawal that has helped them survive – it doesn't mean they want to be alone. And often when an avoidant starts to connect to the longing of connection, it's incredibly painful, that's also our secure attachment surfacing! How to move towards security?Experiment with low-risk situations of connectYou can find more of us here: Our Online Psychology practice: Did you know we have online appointments available with our amazing therapists Lisa or Maddie. Learn more here https://thepsychcollaborative.com.au The Thriving Therapists: To connect with a safe and supportive community of like-minded therapists, head to our Thriving Therapists Facebook group: https://m.facebook.com/groups/224252457083630/?ref=share&mibextid=S66gvFOr find us on our Instagram: https://instagram.com/thethrivingtherapists?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA==The Psychology Sisters Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/thepsychologysisters/?hl=enThe Psych Collaborative instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/thepsychcollaborative/?hl=enPlease note: this episode is for informational purposes only and does not replace personalised psychological advice.

Develop a secure attachment style by practicing these positive affirmations every day. These affirmations will help you release the pain of past relationships, reparent yourself, and open your heart to healthy, loving connections. Build the self confidence, trust, and skills to maintain healthy relationships, set healthy boundaries, and thrive. You are worthy of safe, fulfilling relationships now. Start using this affirmation session daily, and over time you will experience healing, emotional growth, and trust in yourself and others. #affirmations #positiveaffirmations #secureattachment #attachmentstyles #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #healing Heal your attachment problems and develop a secure attachment style with my Secure Attachment Journal: https://stan.store/goodpplstuff/p/heal-your-attachment-style Get ad-free access to the entire WMU catalog + bonus content by joining the WMU Premium Feed. Grab a 7-day free trial of Wake Me Up premium: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://goodpeoplestuff.supercast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ About Wake Me Up Wake Me Up is the # 1 guided morning routine podcast. Our guided morning wake ups offer affirmations, mindfulness, meditation, yoga, and motivation specifically designed to help you get out of bed and start your day with a positive mindset. Stop pressing the snooze button all morning long, and turn on an episode of Wake Me Up instead. You will be happier and more successful at everything in life because of it! Try out our different kinds of episodes to see what you like. And add it into your morning routine every day. Each day, you will be happier than the day before :)   Check out my sleep meditation podcast, Sleep Escape on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Music⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   I make this channel to serve you. Part of that is creating tools like journals and courses to dive deeper into certain topics, all of which you can find here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://stan.store/goodpplstuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Wake Me Up on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Podchaser⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Say hi or request an episode at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.wakemeuppodcast.com/contact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. See visual guides for the yoga and stretches in WMU episodes at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.wakemeuppodcast.com/stretches⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. **Only partake in the physical movements suggested in Wake Me Up episodes if you are physically able and in safe surroundings. All movements are done at the individual's own risk. Be safe, and always consult a doctor if you have any questions or concerns.** Have a wonderful day

Ich besprich Zetteli vo euch übers putze bis hi zu Avoidant-Attachment-Style und en Mögliche Umgang demit. Die Folg isch in Zämmearbeit mit Nivea entstande und enthaltet somit Werbig. Vill Freud bim lose :)

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this spoke to me. I'm avoidance and alissa is anxious/secure. it's been crazy

It can be difficult to understand what love may feel like for someone with a completely different way of relating than you. In this episode, we talk about love from the avoidant perspective. Check us out on YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Coach Craig Kenneth⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get Craig's help personally: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.askcraig.net/take-action/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get Victoria's help: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.askcraig.net/victoria⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Craig's workbook series: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.askcraig.net/workbooks-1/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get Started on the Creative Healing Course: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://courses.askcraig.net/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-05-07-25&el=youtube-podcast     Do you feel uncomfortable with vulnerability, tend to pull away in relationships, or avoid conflict at all costs? You might be operating with a dismissive avoidant attachment style—and you're not alone. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais shares the 10 most common signs of dismissive avoidant attachment and the powerful subconscious programming behind them. Whether you relate to these traits or recognize them in a partner, this episode offers clarity and a compassionate path forward.   What You'll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why DAs avoid vulnerability and emotional intimacy ✔️ How they subconsciously escape from emotional discomfort ✔️ The impact of covert emotional neglect on identity and core wounds ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants fear conflict—and how it plays out in relationships ✔️ How shame, fear of criticism, and a belief of being “defective” shape their behavior ✔️ Why DAs tend to lose feelings suddenly—and how it's linked to fear, not fact ✔️ What it means when DAs say, “I'm just not capable of being in a relationship” ✔️ Simple reprogramming steps to become securely attached If you've ever said “I don't do emotions,” or dated someone who shuts down the moment things get real, this episode is your blueprint to understanding and transforming dismissive avoidant attachment from the inside out. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and world-renowned expert on attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in CBT, somatic healing, and subconscious reprogramming, Thais has helped over 70,000 students transform their emotional patterns and relationships. Helpful Resources:

We all have a dash of Anxious, Secure, and Avoidant Attachment styles. You could say we are a "Wild Mix" of things. One attachment style dominates usually. This episode touches more on the Avoidant Attachment Style. Also, I will be discussing my future book reading plans. My outro will include a plug for Lady Liberty Tattoo podcast for those of you searching for more tattoo info. They are based in MN. Enjoy!

► Get Access To Our Courses & Community:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://understandable.net/join/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠(Ad)► Download the Free Workbook full of Re-Regulation Resources & Writing techniques:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://understandable.net/book/⁠⁠⁠⁠ (Ad)If you are insecurely attached, so have an avoidant, an anxious or a fearful-avoidant attachment style, the big question is:IS IT POSSIBLE TO WORK THROUGH AND TRANSFORM AN INSECURE ATTACHMENT STYLE AND RESOLVE TOXIC RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS AND THE SYMPTOMS OF CHILDHOOD TRAUMA?I'll give you the answer straight away:Our attachment style is not determined like for example our Myer's Briggs Personality Type.Therefore, we have the ability to change and transform our attachment patterns in many areas.Usually, we need to go through these 4 stages that I will explain to you in detail in this video.And I will introduce you to the big 3 skills you need to learn and nurture in order to transform insecure attachment & live healthier relationships.► Links and Resources:Journey To Secure Attachment Blog Article: https://exquisite.love/blog/journey-to-secure-attachmentThe 4 Attachment Styles Episode: https://youtu.be/1S-YK065XLA?si=4kYlgVNI2HiLSbyGCodependency Episode: https://youtu.be/OSeR88YWwhU?si=adqBVXyu7AV-oMopToxic Shame Episode: https://youtu.be/ELUfIk0lzxU?si=iqiQDtYL1VhhK255Polyvagal Theory Episode: https://youtu.be/2iT8Msp8Vx0?si=KqfKns7ngiXYQoGw99 Positive Beliefs Episode: https://youtu.be/YKaFLo_USU0?si=thC3Rjz14czki1DsAttachment Styles Series:Episode 1/8: Avoidant Attachment Style: 10 Signs: https://youtu.be/4vs3gDlmS18Episode 2/8: Working Through Avoidant Attachment: https://youtu.be/FpNODQ7xYJgEpisode 3/8: Anxious Attachment: 10 Signs: https://youtu.be/rXscvYntSpYEpisode 4/8: Working Through Anxious Attachment: https://youtu.be/lbLG9432BkYEpisode 5/8: Fearful-Avoidant Attachment: 10 Signs: https://youtu.be/V5Nn_XOHFX8Episode 6/8: Working Through Fearful Avoidant Attachment: https://youtu.be/leT0-kFOSR0Episode 7/8: Secure Attachment: 10 Signs: https://youtu.be/YXdW4mwwogoEpisode 8/8: Becoming Securely Attached: https://youtu.be/wq6sRKNdUsE⁠► Subscribe On Your Favorite Platform!YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGiJdF0yeTyRJanW_uSICDw?sub_confirmation=1⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/2gaheQLxBwByM9txVzlpI6⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/understandable/id1399616905⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Music:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://music.amazon.de/podcasts/ee3580cb-61c5-4aa1-9ad4-1204014078e7/understandable⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠► Episode Timestamps:00:00 Intro02:29 The Path From Insecure To Secure AttachmentFinal Thoughts03:52 Stage 1: Unconscious Insecurity05:54 Stage 2: Conscious Insecurity08:12 Stage 3: Conscious Security10:51 Stage 4: Unconscious/Natural Security13:50 How To Transform Insecure Attachment14:17 Skill 1: Self Regulation17:53 Skill 2: Self-Care20:02 Skill 3: Self-Resourcing21:05 Final Thoughts► Reach Out To Me :)E-Mail: info@understandable.net► Hi, my name is Robert! I create videos about childhood trauma & attachment theory.My content aims to help you transform trauma-driven reactions that block you, so you can embrace a life full of happiness, safe & loving relationships, and self-confidence. :)► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education.I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.

► Get Access To Our Courses & Community:⁠⁠⁠https://understandable.net/join/⁠⁠ ⁠(Ad)► Download the Free Workbook full of Re-Regulation Resources & Writing techniques:⁠⁠⁠https://understandable.net/book/⁠⁠⁠ (Ad)In the last six episodes here on this channel, we talked about all the insecure attachment styles that often are the consequence of a traumatic childhood.Around 40% of the population belong to that group of insecurely attached people, according to attachment expert Heidi Priebe.But - that also means that at the same time, the majority, so 60% of us are actually securely attached.And while securely attached people mistype as anxious, avoidant or fearful-avoidant, it's highly interesting to look at 10 signs today, that you're a securely attached person, who may attract healthy relationships.► Links and Resources:The 4 Attachment Styles Episode:⁠⁠⁠https://youtu.be/1S-YK065XLA?si=eph_m17ILcFl1qYVHow Honest Conflict Builds Intimacy Episode: https://youtu.be/ZhExIeU3Bys?si=aixr-TVX2a8b-UhM Limerence Episode: ⁠https://youtu.be/gDz8U2zaF0A?si=fZkv0Mty0_w1sHyI Attachment Style Quiz: https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/ Attachment Styles Series:Episode 1/8: Avoidant Attachment Style: 10 Signs: https://youtu.be/4vs3gDlmS18Episode 2/8: Working Through Avoidant Attachment: https://youtu.be/FpNODQ7xYJgEpisode 3/8: Anxious Attachment: 10 Signs: https://youtu.be/rXscvYntSpYEpisode 4/8: Working Through Anxious Attachment: https://youtu.be/lbLG9432BkYEpisode 5/8: Fearful-Avoidant Attachment: 10 Signs: https://youtu.be/V5Nn_XOHFX8Episode 6/8: Working Through Fearful Avoidant Attachment: https://youtu.be/leT0-kFOSR0Episode 7/8: Secure Attachment: 10 Signs: https://youtu.be/YXdW4mwwogoEpisode 8/8: Becoming Securely Attached: https://youtu.be/wq6sRKNdUsE► Subscribe On Your Favorite Platform!YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGiJdF0yeTyRJanW_uSICDw?sub_confirmation=1⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/2gaheQLxBwByM9txVzlpI6⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/understandable/id1399616905⁠⁠⁠Amazon Music:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://music.amazon.de/podcasts/ee3580cb-61c5-4aa1-9ad4-1204014078e7/understandable⁠⁠⁠⁠► Episode Timestamps:00:00 Intro02:33 How Does Having A Secure Attachment Style Feel Like?05:03 Sign 1: You Understand That Other People's Emotions Are Not A Reflection Of You & Don't Take Them Personally07:49 Sign 2: You Address Issues & Conflict Directly And Calmly10:59 Sign 3: You Welcome Love In All Forms - Giving And Receiving With Ease12:28 Sign 4: You Emphasize & Connect Deeply With Others While Maintaining Emotional Balance14:22 Sign 5: You Embrace Both, Independence And Interdependence In Relationships17:13 Sign 6: You Trust Yourself And Your Instincts When It Comes To Relationships18:51 Sign 7: You Set Clear Goals And Collaborate In A Way That Respects Your Needs And Others' 20:18 Sign 8: You Naturally Seek And Accept Support When Needed23:01 Sign 9: You Feel Secure & In Your Comfort Zone Whether You're Single Or In A Relationship26:05 Sign 10: You Bounce Back With Strength And Wisdom After Relationship Challenges28:47 Solutions► Reach Out To Me :)E-Mail: info@understandable.net► Hi, my name is Robert! I create videos about childhood trauma & attachment theory.My content aims to help you transform trauma-driven reactions that block you, so you can embrace a life full of happiness, safe & loving relationships, and self-confidence. :)► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education.I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.

► Get Access To Our Courses & Community:⁠⁠https://understandable.net/join/⁠⁠ (Ad)► Download the Free Workbook full of Re-Regulation Resources & Writing techniques:⁠⁠https://understandable.net/book/⁠⁠ (Ad)Is it possible to work through and heal the wounds of a fearful-avoidant attachment style?When you read into the fearful-avoidant attachment style you often get the hopeless message that it's really difficult or even impossible to manage and overcome the symptoms.Fairly, it won't be easy, but if you have this attachment style and truly put the work in, I believe that long term improvements are possible and will make your relationship-life healthier.To give you some approaches and a starting point, I brought together 5 ways to work through a fearful-avoidant attachment style.► Links and Resources:The 4 Attachment Styles Episode:⁠⁠https://youtu.be/1S-YK065XLA?si=eph_m17ILcFl1qYV⁠⁠Polyvagal Theory Episode:https://youtu.be/2iT8Msp8Vx0?si=wk-SaHl2jetGtYEu A simple 3-Step Process To Actually Work On Yourself Episode: https://youtu.be/mWr7CG-RlrI?si=xfgLSGA7TC3DV6eM Shadow Work Episode:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xPSEl9sOd9I► Subscribe On Your Favorite Platform!YouTube:⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGiJdF0yeTyRJanW_uSICDw?sub_confirmation=1⁠⁠⁠Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/2gaheQLxBwByM9txVzlpI6⁠⁠Apple Podcasts:⁠⁠⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/understandable/id1399616905⁠⁠Amazon Music:⁠⁠⁠https://music.amazon.de/podcasts/ee3580cb-61c5-4aa1-9ad4-1204014078e7/understandable⁠⁠⁠► Episode Timestamps:00:00 Intro02:26 Fearful-Avoidant Attachment: You Are Not Alone! 05:42 Approach 1: Re-Regulating The Dysregulated Nervous System09:12 Approach 2: Integrating The Anxious & Avoidant Shadows14:18 Approach 3: Inner Child & Re-Parenting Work19:06 Approach 4: Establish Secure Relationship Habits24:44 Approach 5: Practising Safe, Secure Connections27:06 Final Thoughts► Reach Out To Me :)E-Mail: info@understandable.net► Hi, my name is Robert! I create videos about childhood trauma & attachment theory.My content aims to help you transform trauma-driven reactions that block you, so you can embrace a life full of happiness, safe & loving relationships, and self-confidence. :)► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education.I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast What does a relationship look like with a dismissive avoidant partner? Dismissive avoidant attachment styles often struggle with emotional closeness, vulnerability, and expressing needs, which can create unique relationship challenges. Whether you're in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant or you identify with this attachment style yourself, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast explores why dismissive avoidants behave the way they do—and how to navigate these dynamics in a healthy way. What You'll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The core childhood experiences that shape dismissive avoidant attachment ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants struggle with emotional connection and communication ✔️ How to support a dismissive avoidant partner without triggering them ✔️ The most effective ways to build trust and closeness over time ✔️ How dismissive avoidants self-soothe—and why they withdraw during conflict ✔️ Key strategies for overcoming avoidance and building a healthier attachment style If you've ever felt frustrated in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant or struggled with opening up, trusting others, and maintaining deep emotional connections, this episode is for you. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:

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Have you ever found yourself perpetually in relationships that feel "close, but not quite"?Do you yearn for a meaningful connection yet struggle to make it past the initial stages of getting close to someone?Perhaps you've been hurt before, and now, the walls you've built to protect yourself seem insurmountable. If these scenarios resonate with you, you may be experiencing avoidant attachment, a subtle yet powerful force that shapes how we interact in our romantic lives.Originally Aired: February 10th, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

When one partner's attachment style is anxious, and the other's is avoidant, it can be painful for both. But you can learn to consciously communicate and create ways for each person to feel safe and valued. Today's guests talk about how to lovingly collaborate and negotiate, to meet the needs and desires of each partner. If you're not satisfied with your love or sex-life, and could use some insights into what makes a person want more of you, tell me more about yourself here and we'll schedule a time to talk.

When one partner's attachment style is anxious, and the other's is avoidant, it can be painful for both. But you can learn to consciously communicate and create ways for each person to feel safe and valued. Today's guests talk about how to lovingly collaborate and negotiate, to meet the needs and desires of each partner. If you're not satisfied with your love or sex-life, and could use some insights into what makes a person want more of you, tell me more about yourself here and we'll schedule a time to talk.

Lit AF Relationships podcast is your resource for creating healthy relationships full of love, trust, safety, and respect. On today's episode, Sigrid Blom shares how she overcame her fearful avoidant leaning dismissive avoidant attachment style after a divorce. She used to struggle to set boundaries and have authentic friendships where she was fully showing up as herself. With a slew of diagnoses including autism and ADHD Sigrid always felt like she was the one that needed to fix herself. Now Sigrid is about to embark on her dream of nomad living and has created an incredible group of friends that understand and appreciate her for exactly who she is.Discover your attachment style to break free from old relationship patterns. Take the free quiz here: https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/6329f75e6dd9410016a64043Follow Sigrid Blom on Instagram: @sigfoot Follow Lit AF Relationships on Instagram: @itsmesarahcohan.comVisit the Lit AF Relationships Website: https://www.sarahcohan.com/If you're interested in one-on-one or couples coaching I'd love to help you heal old patterns to create healthy relationships where you feel like you're on the same team. Get started by applying for a free 60-minute healthy relationships call here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSddL3tie849uvgD1m31l4MAH3AzH0FlWgnsG0gPEBEzeDyPyg/viewform

Send us a textIt can be confusing when you're with someone who's got to avoid attachment style and they're acting like what we believe a narcissist would act like. This episode clears that up for us and helps us to embrace the person with an avoidant attachment style with compassion, and run as far away as we can from someone who's got a narcissistic personality disorder.Support the show

Lit AF Relationships podcast is your resource for creating healthy relationships full of love, trust, safety, and respect. In this episode, we sit down with someone who has transformed their relationship style from dismissive avoidant to secure while also navigating the challenges of ADHD. We explore the journey of what it takes to shift from emotional distance and self-reliance to building trust, vulnerability, and deeper connections. Our guest shares insights into the challenges of opening up, how past wounds shaped their avoidant tendencies, and the practices that helped them embrace emotional intimacy. Get ready for an inspiring (and fun!) chat full of practical tips to help you create more secure relationships in your own life.Discover your attachment style to break free from old relationship patterns. Take the free quiz here: https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/6329f75e6dd9410016a64043Follow Lit AF Relationships on Instagram: @itsmesarahcohan.comVisit the Lit AF Relationships Website: https://www.sarahcohan.com/If you're interested in one-on-one or couples coaching I'd love to help you heal old patterns to create healthy relationships where you fell like you're on the same team. Get started by applying for a free 60-minute healthy relationships call here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSddL3tie849uvgD1m31l4MAH3AzH0FlWgnsG0gPEBEzeDyPyg/viewform

In this episode of Can This Be Fixed?, hosts Thais Gibson and Mike Zeo dive into common fears and challenges in relationships, particularly for individuals with dismissive or fearful-avoidant attachment styles. They explore the emotions and thoughts behind major relationship steps like moving in together and answer listener questions from Reddit and YouTube. Topics include understanding the avoidant mindset, how attachment styles influence cheating, and navigating difficult conversations around sensitive topics like pornography. Tune in for insights, practical advice, and personal stories on how to cultivate secure and healthy relationships. Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 02:34 - Moving in With a Partner 04:21 - DAs Need Time Alone 07:27 - DAs and Co-Regulation 09:14 - Living With Your Partner: DA Stages 11:51 - Shame and Acceptance 13:21 - FAs Fears in Relationships 17:26 - Assuming Childhood Experiences into Adulthood 21:02 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 21:54 - DAs / FAs and Cheating 23:07 - Mike's Response 26:02 - Why They Cheat 27:04 - DAs: Talk to Your Partner 31:43 - Meeting Your Needs 36:32 - Routines to Stay Connected 40:27 - Hello Fresh 41:54 - Indeed 43:46 - Question 44:16 - Mike's Response 47:55 - Thais' Response 53:26 - Find the Root Cause 56:05 - Talk to Your Partner (Mike) 57:40 - Talk to Your Partner (Thais) 59:09 - Find More Mike DiZio and PDS Content 59:46 - Conclusion  Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free at The Personal Development School for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_id=sdQsYwFOJyQ&utm_content=mp-09-16-24&el=podcast Get FREE breakfast for life at https://www.HelloFresh.com/freethais Get a $75 Sponsored Job Credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://www.indeed.com/thais Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let's connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week licensed therapist Kati Morton talks about having a dismissive avoidant attachment style and how that can affect our relationship with our therapist. She also discusses how we can tell if we are doing something because of our depression or not, and if being on antidepressants long term can change our brain function. She then talks about alternative treatments for PTSD like magic mushrooms, ketamine, and others. Finally, she explains whether or not our body can recognize our stress before we do, and she digs into how post traumatic growth works. Ask Kati Anything, episode 233 audience questions: 1. Hi Kati! I have a dismissive avoidant attachment style, likely due to childhood emotional neglect, which makes me highly independent and even counter-dependent. I am wondering, what can I do to foster a healthy attachment to my therapist? I have been seeing my therapist for years and she's great, but I still get nervous to share things with her. I don't want to get “too” attached, but I think I need my therapist's help with processing trauma. What should I do? 01:55 2. My psychiatrist tells me I have a strong internal focus of control and that I tend to attribute everything to my own doing. My question is, I'm trying to let myself off the hook sometimes but I have trouble differentiating when I'm NOT doing something because of my depression and when I'm not doing something because I'm just lazy and letting myself off the hook as an excuse. I feel like I may just go to the complete opposite and... 28:35 3. I've been on antidepressants since I was 19. I am now 47 and my entire life is completely different as it once was growing up, obviously…Is it possible that staying on antidepressants too long may change your entire brain function? Will I have to depend on them for the rest of my life? I am afraid that I've been on them so long that I may not know who I really am and this bothers me! 32:47 4. I recently had a breakthrough with magic mushrooms. It completely stripped away any thoughts I had about myself and I was able to forgive and have self compassion towards myself. It's been helping me work through my traumas in therapy. I have major depression, CPTSD, and anxiety. Can you please talk about the benefits of ketamine and mushrooms and can you talk about your thoughts on the integration of therapy and psychedelics? 39:57 5. I was wondering if your body could know that you are stressed or anxious before you realized it yourself? These questions come from the last few weeks because I have been having a lot of physical symptoms of stress and anxiety but I don't usually feel more stressed than usual. I have been picking at my skin, especially on my face which sucks, I have had acid reflux which I should have because I take medication for, my stomach has been upset, I've been clenching my jaw, and... 49:30 6. Hi Kati I was wondering if you could talk about post traumatic growth?!? How do I recover from PTSD after years of trauma abuse and neglect?!? 57:07 PUBLISHED BOOKSTraumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j Are u ok? https://geni.us/sva4iUY ONLINE THERAPY While I do not currently offer online therapy, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/kati (enjoy 10% off your first month) SOCIALX https://twitter.com/KatiMorton TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@katimorton YouTube https://www.youtube.com/katimorton Facebook https://www.facebook.com/katimorton1/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/katimorton Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/katimorton1/ Patreon https://www.katimorton.com/kati-morton-patreon/ PARTNERSHIPS Linnea Toney linnea@underscoretalent.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askkatianything/support

Send us a textAttachment Theory outlines four attachment styles formed during the first 18 months of life: one secure and three insecure—anxious, avoidant, and disorganized (fearful/avoidant). Each style, deeply rooted in childhood experiences, continues to influence our adult relationships and parenting behaviors. In this episode, we explore the avoidant attachment style, often developed in children raised by emotionally distant or strict caregivers who discourage emotional expression and prioritize independence. Adults with avoidant attachment may appear emotionally detached or as if they have a “switch” to turn off feelings. Tune in to gain valuable insights into this attachment style and learn how to navigate your own attachment patterns for healthier, more connected relationships.Support the showWe're eager to hear from you! Feel free to share your thoughts through our anonymous form or simply write to info@freshouttaplans.com with your topic requests or any burning questions you'd like us to explore on the podcast. https://linktr.ee/freshouttaplans

Send us a Text Message.Attachment Theory outlines four attachment styles formed during the first 18 months of life: one secure style and three insecure styles—anxious, avoidant, and disorganized (also known as fearful/avoidant). Each of these styles is deeply rooted in childhood experiences and continues to influence our adult relationships and parenting approaches. In this episode, we focus on the disorganized attachment style, exploring how early chaos and inconsistency impact behavior and relationships later in life. Tune in to gain insights that could help you understand and navigate your own attachment patterns.Support the Show.We're eager to hear from you! Feel free to share your thoughts through our anonymous form or simply write to info@freshouttaplans.com with your topic requests or any burning questions you'd like us to explore on the podcast. https://linktr.ee/freshouttaplans

Imagine someone with an anxious attachment style getting to interview someone with an avoidant attachment style - WELL, this is exactly what this episode is. Kathleen (more anxious) interviews Kelsey (more avoidant) about exactly how she thinks, feels and experiences dating & relationships as an avoidant + all the things she had to consciously work on and change to become more secure in herself and manifest the man + love of her dreams. If you're more avoidant and struggling in the love department OR you've dated/dating an avoidant and have always wondered what goes on in their head - this episode is for you. @kathleen.mindsetcoach on FB & Instagram Submit your What To Do When…question here: https://forms.gle/7pa4hEXXrQtiGGx49 Learn more about coaching here — kathleenmindsetcoach.com and book in a free connection call here: https://tidycal.com/kathleenmindsetcoach/connect

Avoidance styles play significant role in shaping our behaviors and interactions in relationships. Individuals with an avoidant attachment style, may struggle with intimacy, emotional closeness, leading to challenges and maintaining healthy connections with their partners. One common issue that may arise as infidelity or cheating with Relationship.Understanding why someone with an avoidant attachment style may cheat requires a closer look at their underlying motivations and behaviors.This podcast aims to address that  question. Support the Show.

In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais shares her insights into the sex lives of the fearful avoidant attachment style.  She explores how boundaries come into play, how their need for connection influences their sexual behavior, and how emotional trauma manifests in the bedroom. Tune in to find out all about sex and intimacy for the fearful avoidant attachment style. Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mp-06-17-24&el=podcast Cut your wireless bill to just $15 a month by using the link below: http://mintmobile.com/Thais

What happens when a Dismissive Avoidant attachment style realizes they've lost you? This episode covers the unique ways that Dismissive Avoidants process breakups, the timelines for experiencing different feelings throughout their breakup, what exactly they feel when they recognize that you're long gone, and what you can do to heal from a breakup with this attachment style. Let's connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/  https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/

Communication is important because it meets fundamental emotional needs that are at the root of our challenges. In this episode, you will learn helpful tips on how to communicate with someone who has a fearful avoidant attachment style.——— 1-1 Attachment Coaching: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Communication is important because it meets fundamental emotional needs that are at the root of our challenges. In this episode, you will learn what these emotional needs are for the dismissive avoidant attachment style, how to address them, and helpful tips for effective communication. ——— 1-1 Attachment Coaching: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

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Join us as we talk about different types of attachment styles and the interesting subconscious dynamics that come in play within relationships that need to be addressed for better compatibility and understanding. 

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Part 2 of Tony's dive into how narcissism and emotional immaturity contribute to the different attachment styles that we show up with in adulthood. Continuing to read from the article “Narcissistic Personality and Attachment,” https://www.attachmentproject.com/psychology/narcissistic-personality/ Tony delves into the significance of secure attachment and its impact on children's development and adult relationships. The discussion begins with a nostalgic look at the importance of having a supportive figure during childhood, highlighting how a 'superhero' figure can influence one's ability to trust and form healthy relationships. The conversation then transitions into how those without secure attachments in childhood might struggle with narcissistic traits or emotional immaturity in adulthood. Tony explores different attachment styles, including avoidant, anxious, and disorganized, and their connection to narcissistic behaviors and traits. By emphasizing the role of self-reflection, understanding intrinsic values, and committed action through Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Tony offers a pathway toward overcoming challenges related to emotional immaturity and narcissism. The episode is a comprehensive look at how early attachment styles contribute to adult relationship dynamics, with insights on possible paths for healing and growth. 00:00 Introduction to the Episode 00:09 The Concept of a Superhero in Childhood 02:06 The Importance of Secure Attachment 02:36 The Role of Parents in Providing Secure Attachment 03:28 The Impact of Secure Attachment in Adult Relationships 05:08 The Power of Vulnerability in Relationships 05:53 Understanding Different Attachment Styles 08:33 The Journey of Emotional Growth and Awakening 15:51 The Connection Between Narcissism and Attachment Styles 16:29 The Impact of Overindulgence and Authoritarian Parenting on Narcissism 23:31 The Role of Abuse in the Development of Narcissism 29:39 The Complex Relationship Between Narcissism and Attachment Styles 30:45 Understanding Anxious Attachment and Vulnerable Narcissism 31:14 Real-Life Example: Jamie's Case 32:31 Disorganized Attachment Style and Vulnerable Narcissism 32:52 The Role of Approval Seeking and Fear in Narcissism 33:23 Exploring Treatment Approaches for Narcissism 33:43 Disorganized Attachment and Vulnerable Narcissism: Common Ground and Differences 36:26 Case Study: Jordan and Casey 38:23 Avoidant Attachment Style and the Grandiose Narcissist 39:49 Similarities and Differences between Avoidant Attachment and Grandiose Narcissism 50:52 Treatment Approaches for Narcissism and Emotional Maturity 52:22 Wrapping Up: The Complexities of Narcissism and Attachment Styles Available NOW Tony's "Magnetic Marriage Mini-Course" only $25. https://magneticmarriage.mykajabi.com/magnetic-marriage-mini-course Find all the latest links to podcasts, courses, Tony's newsletter, and more at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch And follow Tony on the Virtual Couch YouTube channel for a sneak preview of his upcoming podcast "Murder on the Couch," where True Crime meets therapy, co-hosted with his daughter Sydney. You can watch a pre-release clip here https://youtu.be/-RkRq8SrQy0 Subscribe to Tony's latest podcast, "Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A - Premium Podcast," on the Apple Podcast App. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384 Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony's "Magnetize Your Marriage" virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you'll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. You can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts. Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the "uh's" and "um's" that, in his words, "must be created by wizards and magic!" because it's that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ

In this episode, we discuss common triggers for the avoidant attachment style that may cause someone to close up emotionally. Understanding your own personal triggers can help you to learn to manage them in your healing. Check us out on YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Coach Craig Kenneth⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get Craig's help personally: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.askcraig.net/take-action/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get Victoria's help: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.askcraig.net/victoria⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Craig's workbook series: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.askcraig.net/workbooks-1/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get Started on the Creative Healing Course: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://courses.askcraig.net/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coach-craig-kenneth/support

This week we're talking about insecure attachment styles! We'll uncover the roots of anxious, avoidant, and fearful avoidant attachment styles. From understanding childhood traumas to its impact on our adult relationships, we'll explore how self-awareness, vulnerability, and personal responsibility can pave the way towards earned secure attachment, fostering healthier and more fulfilling relationships.Codependency Alchemy: The Membership: Subscribe on Substack for weekly shadow work prompts, exclusive podcast episodes, and access to monthly masterclasses and group coaching calls. Take the next step in your healing journey and join a supportive community. Use this link and save on the Membership!  Work With Me:The Codependency Assessment: 10 questions to help you see where codependency is influencing your life and relationships.How to Heal Codependency in Your Relationships: A 5-week self-paced course that guides you through the tools & practices I use to get clients from resentful to reciprocal relationships. (USE PROMO CODE "PODCAST" TO GET 50% OFF)1:1 Session: Every month I open a limited number of private sessions where we dive deep into your unique situation, unravel patterns, and discover empowering solutions. Together, we will explore the depths of your emotions, thoughts, and experiences, so that you leave with newfound clarity and direction.Support the show

vulnerability forms the cornerstone of healthy relationships, but it's often challenging for people with an avoidant attachment style to embrace it. in the last episode, we talked about anxious attachment, characterized by the tendency to “chase”. in this ep, we explore the patterns of avoidant attachment, characterized by “fleeing”. let's uncover practical strategies to navigate and overcome these patterns, and foster relationships that facilitate personal growth and emotional fulfillment. this ep is a continuation of a series dedicated to exploring attachment theory and the different attachment styles, helping you foster healthier connections in this love month. stay tuned for the next one!

Have you ever wondered why some people find comfort in the distance while others seek perpetual closeness? We'll explore these contrasting needs, examining the subtle art of balancing intimacy with independence, especially after life-altering events like divorce. Discover the invisible threads that weave through our relationships, binding us in patterns we often don't realize we're repeating. Let's journey into the heart of attachment theory, revealing how our earliest interactions with caregivers set the stage for our adult connections.  We will unravel the complexities of avoidant attachment, the anxious-avoidant trap, and the road to becoming an "earned secure" attacher. In this episode, you will: 1. Understand the deep-rooted impact of attachment styles on your relationships and break free from repetitive patterns.2. Gain valuable tools to heal attachment breaches and work with your nervous system for emotional wellness.3. Learn how to spot avoidant attachment traits within yourself and potential partners to navigate relationships more consciously.Take the first step in understanding and transforming your attachment style to create more fulfilling relationships post-divorce. Tune in to the episode for expert guidance, actionable strategies, and real-life insights to support your journey to a more secure attachment style.Loneliness Roadmap on HeartBeatPost Divorce Roadmap - 21 Days of Guided JournalingFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawnInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dawnwiggins/On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction in the process of forgiveness.

Have you ever found yourself perpetually in relationships that feel "close, but not quite"?Do you yearn for a meaningful connection yet struggle to make it past the initial stages of getting close to someone?Perhaps you've been hurt before, and now, the walls you've built to protect yourself seem insurmountable. If these scenarios resonate with you, you may be experiencing avoidant attachment, a subtle yet powerful force that shapes how we interact in our romantic lives.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti  Dating A Woman With A Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style! (Make Her WANT You MORE) Do you feel like the woman you're dating is not fully there? Do you see that sometimes, when things get serious, she pulls away? If you ever see her doing the push and pull, but she is not fully committed, Then you might be dating a Fearful-Avoidant, Attachment-style woman. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the intricacies of dating a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, shedding light on strategies to enhance your appeal and foster a more profound connection while dating a fearful-avoidant attachment style woman.  Apollonia has worked with many clients to see a pattern in a man dating a fearful-avoidant woman.  However, by offering insights into the dos and don'ts of navigating a relationship with a woman exhibiting fearful-avoidant attachment tendencies, Apollonia provides valuable guidance on establishing and sustaining a lasting bond. She will give you essential advice for those currently dating a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, including effective communication techniques to prevent unintentionally creating distance in the relationship. So, if you're struggling to date a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, how do you know if you're dating a fearful-avoidant attachment style woman, and how do you finally open her up? Then, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 0:33 - Apollonia talks about the different attachment styles. But in today's podcast, she will discuss one attachment style: A fearful, Avoidant Attachment Style. 1:25 - A little background on the theory of Avoidant Attachment Style. John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth tested their attachment theories by analyzing babies' earlier experiences. They saw a pattern of how they would develop later in life in personal growth and relationships. 1:50 - People with Secure Attachments are easy to show affection and interest. They uphold their values, exclude confidence, and, most importantly, set boundaries for people around them. 2:06 - What is an Avoidment Attachment style? Unlike Secure Attachment, they value independence. They hate the idea of being controlled or settling; this leads to unfilling or long-lasting relationships. 3:02 - You might see people with an Avoidment Attachment style holding on to friendships or relationships. However, they have one foot out the door, ready to leave when things get serious. 4:04 - They fear emotional and physical commitment and lash out when confined. They often do things alone and would rather not seek emotional support since they don't trust people. 4:18 - Like Avoidant Attachment, Anoxius Avoidant has some same qualities. They lack self-confidence, suppress their emotions and don't seek help. And unlike Avoidant Attachments, who like to do things alone, they would instead be alone to avoid getting hurt. 5:26 - To date someone with a Fearful, Avoidant Attachment style, you must know when and how to communicate your frustrations. When she promises to call or text and still doesn't, don't get mad, and send her a fury of texts immediately. Take a deep breath, relax, and then send your text. 6:08 - Communicate like adults. No demanding, no controlling the situation, talk. List your needs and wants, and listen to hers. 7:05 - Be patient with her. It's hard to do when she keeps pushing her away and wants to be alone. But remember, she likes to be alone to ease her anxiety. She needs time to think, sometimes requiring her to withdraw a bit. 7:50 - Tap into your empathy, but dont try to fix her. Understand her emotions and let her name her feelings. Support her, but don't push her. If you see that she doesn't want to express her feelings or change, except her or move on to another relationship. You can't change someone to fit your needs, but you can express your desires and wants. 9:31 - Respect their boundaries and maintain your independence. Sometimes, trying to rush the relationships and Fearful, Avoidant Attachment may try to run away at the sight of commitment. That's why giving her space is one way to make her know you respect her boundaries while maintaining yours. 10:47 - The most important thing to do when dating and fearful-avoidant attachment is not to be clingy. Picture this: you have a close friend who tries to cling to you and wants to know everything you do the whole day and every day. This can be overwhelming, so give her space. And she will go to you.  "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!"

Is Jennifer Aniston just like the rest of us?   Turns out, she provides a very common  example of a woman who experiences hyper independence and avoidant attachment style as a coping skill in relationships.   Love, intimacy and closeness brings up fear   Inside of this episode: Learn the difference between hyper-independent, codependent, and interdependent Unpack WHY more women are developing avoidant attachment style Let's explore the phrase “I'm just focusing on my career right now” and how it impacts our love lives If you relate to the belief “I'm better off alone” - you're going to love this episode.   And if you know that you are the common denominator in your relationships, and you're ready to do the internal work, I want to personally invite you to apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program.   We've helped over 500 women become securely attached, and attract their soulmate. Are you next?   Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program

Are you dating with an avoidant attachment style? Most articles and videos talk about what do if you're dating an avoidant, but there aren't many that discuss what to do if you're the avoidant. In this episode, I share what to do if you're a person who avoids intimacy or gets scared when someone gets too close in dating and relationships. ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you're feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate  ►Get Sandy's books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9  ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching  ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear  ►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/  ►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/  ► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/  ►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sandy-weiner9/message