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Diem is like chat gpt, meets reddit, meets your cherished group chat In this episode, we delve into the fascinating world of "Diem," a one-of-a-kind social search engine created by the Emma Bates. "Diem" is a platform like no other, tailored for women, providing a space to access and share knowledge inspired by women's traditions and experiences. Imagine it as a blend of Reddit, your cherished group chat, and Chat GPT, offering a fresh and innovative space for candid discussions. Here, topics range from friendships to birth control, toxic masculinity, harassment, chronic pain, big career moves, captivating books, and easy recipes.Our conversation with Emma kicks off by exploring the essence of "Diem" and the critical mission it serves—closing the gender information gap. We then dive into what makes "Diem" truly stand out, including its unique integration of AI through a feminine lens and the incorporation of real-life anecdotes from the community to enrich AI-generated responses. Emma passionately explains why it's essential to address taboo topics and how community members play a pivotal role in shaping the platform's growth and intelligence. As our discussion unfolds, we also touch on the impact "Diem" has already made and Emma's inspiring vision for its ongoing social influence. To conclude, Emma extends a warm invitation to our listeners, encouraging them to engage with and support the empowering mission of "Diem." Join us for a captivating exploration of this transformative platform and its dedication to the empowerment of women and non-binary individuals.Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTok

Iman Hariri-Kia is a writer, editor, and author born and based in New York City. An award-winning journalist, she covers sex, relationships, identity, and adolescence. Her work has appeared in Vogue, NY Mag's The Cut, Harper's Bazaar, Allure, Cosmopolitan, Teen Vogue, and more. Her debut novel, A Hundred Other Girls, was published in July 2022 to critical acclaim. Her sophomore novel, The Most Famous Girl In The World, will be published in May 2024. First we explore Iman's journey to self-acceptance as an Iranian-American, her insights into societal pressures, and the complex interplay between Western ideals and cultural identity.In part two, we delve into Iman's experiences living in Iran, her observations of the struggle for gender equality and human rights, and her stories of resilience from women who escaped domestic abuse. Part three uncovers Iman's transition to becoming a novelist, and how her real-life experiences shaped her debut work, "A Hundred Other Girls," focusing on themes of sisterhood and the evolving media landscape. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTok

In this episode, Bri and Sesana open up about their guilty pleasures and why we sometimes enjoy doing things others might frown upon. They delve into embracing those secret indulgences that make us feel good. Whether it be trashy reality TV, going goblin mode, or playing board games, it's important that we let ourselves indulge in the things we love.  Tune in as they share their personal experiences and discuss the liberating feeling of unapologetically enjoying life's little pleasures.Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTok

Join Bri and Sesana, as they delve deep into the world of Black hair, its cultural significance, and its impact on both the macro and micro levels of society.In this episode, Bri and Sesana explore the historical roots of the desire for straight hair among Black women, a desire that traces its origins back to the dark days of slavery. Unraveling the complex threads of history, they shed light on how this longing for straight hair has been intertwined with issues of identity, self-esteem, and societal standards. Bri and Sesana also share their personal journeys and experiences with embracing their natural hair textures.  Tune in for an enlightening conversation on the significance of hair in our lives. Inspired by Angelina Chapin's "The Cost of Straight Hair."Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTok

In this episode, Bri and Sesana delve into the concept of being an "it girl." They explore whether it entails participating in the latest TikTok and beauty trends (picture blueberry-glazed donut makeup and chocolate buttercream hair, for instance) or if it's a quality that originates from within. Tune in as Bri and Sesana discuss their journeys towards increased self-confidence, reducing feelings of victimhood, and embracing a more adventurous approach to life.Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTok

Bri and Sesana go in depth on their career histories and trajectory. Bri talks about how she navigated from working in large tech to a startup and now PR. Sesana discusses her career switch from consulting to Venture Capital. If you want to switch jobs, network with better ease, or are just nosy about our 9 to 5s, tune in! Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTok

Cedoni Francis is a full-time creator and former Googler. Her layoff at Google catapulted her into full-time content creator. Born and raised in Brooklyn, Cedoni attended Vanderbilt University where she majored in Political Science. This has made her well-equipped to discuss varying cultural phenomena on her TikTok from her chin liposuction and IUD insertion to investing and applying for her MBA. Join us for an electrifying conversation as Cedoni shares her secrets on staying poised, even in the face of a recession. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTok

This week Bri and Sesana discuss their personal views on how to be okay with being alone. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTok

By day Kiana Brooks works as a luxury buyer. And by night she's getting personal on her Tik Tok – from her journey to “un-big her back” to chronicling *that* Tarte influencer trip. Listen to this week's episode as Bri and Sesana sit down to chat with her about the latest fashion trends on TikTok, navigating the fashion industry, and sharing your deepest darkest secrets. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTok

 What would it look like to completely bet on yourself? Sesana and Bri have the pleasure of sitting down with attorney and beauty creator, Eni Popoola. After recently announcing she was pressing pause on her big law career, Eni opens up about the moments that led up to her big career transition, and how she's putting 100% into her next endeavor. You can follow Eni on Instagram and TikTok @Enigivensunday. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTok

In this episode, Sesana and Bri deep-dive into the joys of therapy and boundary setting. They discuss how healthy boundaries have saved their relationships, as well as the line between healthy boundaries and controlling behavior (cough cough, Jonah Hill).Additionally, they explore the challenges of over-intellectualizing your emotions and emphasize why you shouldn't take (all your) advice from relationship podcasters. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTok

We missed you! After a couple months hiatus, Bri and Sesana are back for Season 3.  Remember the phrase "You'll understand when you get older"... ? Bri and Ses used to hate hearing that phrase, but finally they get it. Get the full-rundown of their past couple months of life: birthdays, dating, jobs changes, summer plans, more! Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTok

This week, on a solo episode, Ses and Bri dive into your questions about life, love and careers. From making big moves across the country to taking risks in your dating life, Ses and Bri are here to offer guidance. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

This week, Ses is joined by TV personality, Alysse Joyner. Alysse made her first TV appearance on MTV's "Double Shot at Love" where she dated Jersey Shore's Vinny Guadagnino. Since her time on the show, Alysse has built out her social media and joined Only Fans. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

It is time for a life update with Ses and Bri! This week the two sit down to talk about the jobs market, the benefits of going into the office and more. Plus, they give a recap of the SZA concert. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

This week, Ses and Bri are joined by Zach Shucklin— a porn writer, producer, and host. He is a writer and host for Vice and Paper magazine. He is also a porn writer for Brazzers, the number one pay porn site in America. Though he identifies as gay, he writes primarily straight and lesbian porn. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

This week Bri and Sesana sit down with Arewa Basit-- an influencer, performer, and ambassador for self-expression. In 2019, Arewa appeared on MTV's queer season of "Are You the One.” Arewa grew up in a conservative, Nigerian household where they weren't able to fully explore their sexuality and gender expression until they left the household. Arewa identifies as non-binary and uses they/them pronouns.Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

This week we're honoring Black History Month with a special solo episode. Ses and Bri reveal some of their experiences growing up Black in America and South Africa. Plus, they celebrate Black wins and show off their BHM registries.Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

This week, Bri and Ses sit down with Melissa Kerman, an NYC based writer and content creator. Melissa has a reach of over 100,000 people across Instagram and TikTok. You can count on her to offer candid thoughts on everything from gaslighting and friendship to first dates and hook ups.Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

This week, Ses and Bri sit down with political commentator, author and friend, Cole Brown, to explore his books, interracial dating and the ins and outs of navigating a non-linear career path.Cole Brown is the author of Grey Boy: Finding Blackness in a White World, and co-author of First Impressions: Off Screen Conversations with a Bachelor on Race, Family, and Forgiveness with former Bachelor, Matt James. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

Bri & Ses have both entered into new phases of life, and in this week's episode the two discuss how they are navigating their new normals. Plus, they unpack the different ways in which men give them the “ick”.Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

This week, we are joined by Sienna La Rocca, long time friend and mentor to Bri. Sienna is on the CEO communications team at Meta where she leads product communications across Meta's large product portfolio, social and influencer communications, and measurement and analytics. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

In the first episode of 2023, Bri and Ses sit down with Lox Club Co-Founder, Austin Kevitch. Austin offers a fresh perspective on the dating app space, and unpacks the ways that Lox Club aims to take the awkwardness out of online dating, and making it fun.Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

Sesana and Bri get together to review the highs and lows of 2022. From new jobs to new relationships, this year was full of surprises. It has been a great year for Ses and Bri and now they look forward to working towards new goals in 2023. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Maddie Baker and Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

This week, we dig deeper in Part Two of our interview with Serena Pitt. From growing up in an interracial household, to navigating social media as a part of a public relationship, Serena pulls back the curtain on what her relationship is like with Joe today and what their plans are for the future. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Maddie Baker and Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

Serena Pitt is a TV personality known for her appearance on Season 25 of the Bachelor and season 7 of Bachelor in Paradise. Originally from Toronto, Canada, she went on the Bachelor in search of love and ended up getting engaged at the end of her time on Bachelor in Paradise. Outside of the Bachelor franchise, she currently works as a fashion and lifestyle influencer and has a passion for building connections between people and brands. Serena gives us an intimate look into her recent move to New York as well as the ups and downs with her new husband, Joe Amabile.To The Point with Marcus AmickWe cut through all the noise to discuss what matters most in the automotive industry.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifyHosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Maddie Baker and Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

The self proclaimed “internet's most relatable wh*re” Addis Fouche is using her platform to reframe the way we view shame; through sex and other avenues.  Addis is a writer, content creator, sex worker, and human she grew up in Brooklyn, New York and attended Middlebury to study economics and Mandarin. After graduation she embarked on a career in advertising, where she began to sugar on and off before she was recruited to an escorting agency. Listen to hear about her journey and what she is up to now! Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Maddie Baker and Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

Bri and Ses sit down with real estate developer, philanthropist, and certified lover boy, Tyler Cameron. In an intimate conversation, the three break down why Tyler doesn't consider himself to be a relationship expert, how he's grown from his past relationships, and his larger plans for his career and family. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Maddie Baker and Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

From an app on your phone screen to a show on your TV, the modern consumer can't seem to escape this one thing-- dating. This week in a solo episode with Bri and Ses, the two dive deep into what has lead to the today's commodification of dating.Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Maddie Baker and Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

Did you know that marriage is the most important financial decision you'll make in your life? This week, we dive into the intersectionality of love and finances with Haley Sacks–AKA Mrs. Dow Jones. The self-proclaimed “financial popstar” walks us through her journey to financial independence and how it has made all the difference in her life.  Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited by: Maddie Baker and Riley ShoemakerLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: Soundstripe

This week, Bri and Ses are joined by Kamie Crawford– Former Miss Teen USA, Co-host of MTV's “Catfish” and the Host of “Relationshit” podcast. They discuss the realities of catfishing, dating in LA, the crazy pressures of social media, and the challenges of forging your own path.Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited ...

After wearing many hats in Bachelor Nation, Nick Viall gets comfortable getting vulnerable about life moments on the world stage. From retired Bachelor contestant to Bachelor Daddy, Nick takes his life experiences and translates them to help others navigate the messy world of dating and relationships. Bri and Ses sat down with the “Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday” author to discuss everything from f-boys (and girls), to discovering what it means to fall in love with yourself first. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited ...

Part Two: Bri Springs and Sesana Allen continue their conversation with former Bachelor finalist Rachael Kirkconnell. Two years later, Rachael shares an intimate glimpse into what her relationships look like today and how her life has changed since the show.Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited ...

Part One: Two years after competing in the country's most popular dating show, Rachael Kirkconnell sits down with her former Bachelor co-star, Bri Springs and YBWC Co-host Sesana Allen to reflect on their historic season and the controversies surrounding it.Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: YBWC and Under the Influence MediaFollow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInTikTokEdited ...

Bri Springs joins Sesana Allen for Season 2 of YBWC. This season we are focusing on relationships-- quantifying all the qualities you may face as a Zillennial today. Hosted by: Sesana Allen and Bri SpringsProduced by: Serena McNiff, YBWC and Under the Influence MediaEdited by: Katie Lovelace 

Bri Springs is a content creator and marketing expert. She currently works at Lumanu in New York city. Bri is from San Antonio Texas and graduated with a degree in Finance from the University of San Diego. She is also well known for her appearance on Matt James' season of the Bachelor. Listen to us talk about her experience on the Bachelor, her experience with interracial dating, and how she navigates her content creation.Disclaimer: Though informational, discussion should not be seen as financial advice. Insights, statistics, and opinions provided should be seen as just that.Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: deMV Music  (Spotify & Apple Music)

Solo Ceesay, is the Chief Operating Officer and Co-Founder of Calaxy, an open social marketplace for creators, by creators, that aims to reimagine the entertainment industry and the fundamental ways with which we all interact digitally. He graduated from Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania where he played football and thereafter began his banking career in Wall Street. During his time he services as an advisor to Spencer Dinwiddle where he became the first NBA player to tokenize and securitize his contract. A little over a year ago he left Wall Street to develop his dream for a secure ecosystem built for Creators by Creators that revolutionizes content creation/sharing and the fan experience of each: Calaxy.Disclaimer: Though informational, discussion should not be seen as financial advice. Insights, statistics, and opinions provided should be seen as just that.Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: deMV Music  (Spotify & Apple Music)

Natasha Hoskins and Deana Burke are the founders of a social club for women in Web3 called Boys Club, a self-purported “no bro zone for the crypto curious.” Since late 2021, they have cultivated an engaged community of over 15,000 women and nonbinary people who participate in IRL events, collab on projects, and help expand each other's understanding of digital currencies and Web3. In this episode, Hoskins and Burke recount how they got here and share their plans to infiltrate a male-dominated sector.Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: deMV Music  (Spotify & Apple Music)

Alinea Invest makes playlists for investing. They offer a social investing platform for crypto, stocks and playlists. They offer fractional investing, that means $0 commission on investments. Alinea lets you invest in ideas you believe in. With playlists, their investors can invest in a bundle of stocks in one click. Alinea is a YCombinator Startup that has been featured in Fortune, Forbes, Tech Crunch, New York Times, and Crunch Base. They have raised $2.3M for their first round and have built a team of 10 FTE in NYC. Join me with Co-Founders Eve Halimi and Anam Lakhani on their journey to founding and growing Alinea Invest. Though informational discussion should not be seen as financial advice. Insights, statistics, and opinions provided should be seen as just that.Follow Us:InstagramTwitterLinkedInLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: deMV Music  (Spotify & Apple Music)

Kiakili is a creative, illustrator, animator, trader. He has collaborated with several known artists: Lil Nas X, Megan Thee Stallion, Tierra Whack, Chance the Rapper, Aminé, etc.  He has been featured in Forbes Magazine for his success options trading over the pandemic. Tune in to learn about how he did it and how he is using his success to build his community. Though informational discussion should not be seen as financial advice. Insights, statistics, and opinions provided should be seen as just that.Website: yabutwhocares.comFollow Us:InstagramTwitterYouTubeLinkedInLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: deMV Music  (Spotify & Apple Music)

“ya, but who cares” is a research forum and interactive podcast that aims to uncover social and behavioral trends of young people as they navigate adulthood. Our mission: to decipher the psyche of young people in America by pairing quantitative surveys and qualitative analysis.We survey young people on topics that range from investing and online activism to environmentalism and relationships and explore these insights through our podcast.  On each podcast episode we discuss the trends we're seeing, explore the mindsets driving them, and unpack why they might matter through conversations with relevant experts. We will be specific and targeted in our conversations in order to break down broad generalizations about us as a people. Website: coming soon! (yabutwhocares.com)Follow Us:InstagramTwitterYouTubeLinkedInLogo Design: Emma BersonIntro & Outro Music: deMV Music  (Spotify & Apple Music)Copy Editing : Alexa Reinfeld & Emily JohnsEditing & Producing: Isabel HetheringtonExecutive Produced by Sesana Allen