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Fan girl moment! In this episode we interview one of our idles, Tristan Taormino. We learn all about her life from her upbringing to what lead her to become a trailblazing feminist pornographer and why she's proudly known as Butt Girl. Tristan also shares advice for folks who want to watch ethical porn, as well as how to navigate shame around being turned on by rough or objectifying imagery or fantasies. Get ready to laugh, learn, and listen to an inspiring life story! About our guest: Tristan Taormino is a writer, speaker, sex educator, and host of the podcast Sex Out Loud. A former syndicated columnist for The Village Voice, she is the author of numerous books, including Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships, Down and Dirty Sex Secrets, The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women, and her recent memoir A Part of the Heart Can't Be Eaten. She is the founding editor of the annual Best Lesbian Erotica anthologies, editor of The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play, and the Erotic Edge, and coeditor of The Feminist Porn Book: The Politics of Producing Pleasure. Taormino has won four Lambda Literary Awards and eight Feminist Porn Awards, among other awards. She lives in Los Angeles. To learn more go to tristantaormino.com Join us for our live Topless (and tapas) book reading in San Francisco on Wednesday, November 15th! Tickets are limited to snag yours ASAP here Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at calm.com/shameless Get 20% off The Personal Massager by Butter Wellness when you go to butterwellness.com and use the code “SHAMELESS” at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
Join DB for an enlightening exploration into the wonderful world of kink and fetishes with the brilliant Arielle Greenberg, a seasoned kinkster and author of the upcoming book Super Freaks. They cover a range of topics from positive representations of kink in media, to the intersection of queerness and kink. Arielle even gives DB a kink quiz! Arielle also shares her insights on the most common and least common fetishes, the psychology behind kink, and the magical allure they hold. Don't miss out on this kinky conversation - tune in now! —— (0:13:42) - Kink and Porn Literacy for Youth (0:24:25) - Understanding Kink and Fetishism (0:29:14) - Common and Uncommon Fetishes (0:38:07) - Exploring Kink Representation in Media (0:47:45) - Queerness and Kink Culture Intersection Find more from Arielle: Ariellegreenberg.net Arielle Greenberg is a longtime practitioner of kink, speaks about kink and ethical nonmonogamy at universities and on such podcasts as Dear Sugar, Why Are People into That?, and Sex Out Loud. She is the author of several books of poetry and creative nonfiction. A former tenured professor in English at Columbia College Chicago, she has spent over twenty years as a scholar and academic, teaching cultural studies, writing and literature to undergraduate and graduate students, as well as in the community. She currently teaches at the College of the Atlantic in Bar Harbor, Maine. —— Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @edwithdb Want to get in touch with Sex Ed with DB? Email us at sexedwithdb@gmail.com. —— Sex Ed with DB, Season 8 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den, Uberlube, Magic Wand, and Future Method. Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! —— About Sex Ed with DB: Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disability, HIV, sex in the media, and more. —— Sex Ed with DB, Season 8 Team: Creator, Host, Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) Producer and Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen Associate Producer: Sadie Lidji Marketing Coordinator: Kate Fiala
Are you tired of the same old dating scene? Do you crave something more adventurous and exciting? Look no further than the world of polyamory! In this episode, we sit down with the brilliant Dr. Marie Thouin to explore the ins and outs of non-monogamous dating. Dr. Thouin is a polyamorous relationship coach who helps individuals and couples navigate the complexities of multiple relationships. Her approach emphasizes mindfulness and personal growth, as she believes that dating can be a powerful tool for self-discovery. We dive into the philosophy of mindful dating and how it applies to polyamory. By being intentional and present in our dating experiences, we can learn more about ourselves and what we truly desire in relationships. We also discuss the unique opportunities and challenges of dating as a non-monogamous person, including how to meet other CNM folks and how to navigate rejection. And for those who are new to the world of polyamory, fear not! Dr. Thouin breaks down some common misconceptions and provides practical tips for creating a good online dating profile that accurately reflects our desires and boundaries. Overall, this episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in modern love and relationships. Join us as we explore the exciting and complex world of polyamory and dating. About Marie: Dr. Marie Thouin is the founder of Love InSight, a Mindful Dating & Relationship Coaching practice where she helps people of all ages, genders, sexual, and relationship orientations navigate the path of intimate love in a creative and empowered way. She is also a leading scholar and researcher on compersion in consensually non-monogamous relationships. She completed her PhD on compersion in 2021, and her work has since been featured in several publications and podcasts including ELLE, Multiamory, Loving Without Boundaries, and Sex Out Loud. She shares her research on her website, www.whatiscompersion.com, and is in the process of preparing a groundbreaking book on that topic. Websites: www.whatiscompersion.com & www.loveinsight-dating.com Instagram: @love_insight_dating LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marie-thouin/ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/fT4knDPI1Ao ---- About Sex Ed for the Modern Bed: Meet Taara! A sex educator, podcaster, and somatic sex educator, Taara is on a mission to help people discover their authentic sexual selves. Since 2014, Taara has been working as a non-monogamous educator and podcaster with her partner. But in April 2021, she decided to take her knowledge to the next level and enrolled in school to become a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. Taara has dedicated her life to helping others explore their sexuality in a safe and supportive environment. www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/ About Sex and Sensibility: I have a background in neuroscience /neurobiology & spent the past decade exploring tools and modalities around emotional release and Somatic bodywork. Trained as a relationship/intimacy coach with the Somatica® Institute before embarking on the path of Sexological Bodywork & Somatic Sex Education with the ISSSE where I'm currently completing my training. I hold trainings in performance hypnosis, doula training, lactation education, dominatrix work, business coaching, Hakomi Psycotherapy and psychedelic guidance/integration. I place high value on my clients exploring the taboo, enjoying the freedom to discover various sensations, find empowerment outside of normative realms & lean in to playing with power dynamics. www.mysexandsensibility.com --- WORK WITH US: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/services https://mysexandsensibility.com/ --- SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Twitter: twitter.com/sxuninterrupted Instagram: www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/sexuninterrupted/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/sexuninterrupted Music Credit: Shake - Anno Domini Beats (Theme Music) © SU Lifestyle Media Inc.
Are you tired of the same old dating scene? Do you crave something more adventurous and exciting? Look no further than the world of polyamory! In this episode, we sit down with the brilliant Dr. Marie Thouin to explore the ins and outs of non-monogamous dating. Dr. Thouin is a polyamorous relationship coach who helps individuals and couples navigate the complexities of multiple relationships. Her approach emphasizes mindfulness and personal growth, as she believes that dating can be a powerful tool for self-discovery. We dive into the philosophy of mindful dating and how it applies to polyamory. By being intentional and present in our dating experiences, we can learn more about ourselves and what we truly desire in relationships. We also discuss the unique opportunities and challenges of dating as a non-monogamous person, including how to meet other CNM folks and how to navigate rejection. And for those who are new to the world of polyamory, fear not! Dr. Thouin breaks down some common misconceptions and provides practical tips for creating a good online dating profile that accurately reflects our desires and boundaries. Overall, this episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in modern love and relationships. Join us as we explore the exciting and complex world of polyamory and dating. About Marie: Dr. Marie Thouin is the founder of Love InSight, a Mindful Dating & Relationship Coaching practice where she helps people of all ages, genders, sexual, and relationship orientations navigate the path of intimate love in a creative and empowered way. She is also a leading scholar and researcher on compersion in consensually non-monogamous relationships. She completed her PhD on compersion in 2021, and her work has since been featured in several publications and podcasts including ELLE, Multiamory, Loving Without Boundaries, and Sex Out Loud. She shares her research on her website, www.whatiscompersion.com, and is in the process of preparing a groundbreaking book on that topic. Websites: www.whatiscompersion.com & www.loveinsight-dating.com Instagram: @love_insight_dating LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marie-thouin/ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/fT4knDPI1Ao ---- About Sex Ed for the Modern Bed: Meet Taara! A sex educator, podcaster, and somatic sex educator, Taara is on a mission to help people discover their authentic sexual selves. Since 2014, Taara has been working as a non-monogamous educator and podcaster with her partner. But in April 2021, she decided to take her knowledge to the next level and enrolled in school to become a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. Taara has dedicated her life to helping others explore their sexuality in a safe and supportive environment. www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/ About Sex and Sensibility: I have a background in neuroscience /neurobiology & spent the past decade exploring tools and modalities around emotional release and Somatic bodywork. Trained as a relationship/intimacy coach with the Somatica® Institute before embarking on the path of Sexological Bodywork & Somatic Sex Education with the ISSSE where I'm currently completing my training. I hold trainings in performance hypnosis, doula training, lactation education, dominatrix work, business coaching, Hakomi Psycotherapy and psychedelic guidance/integration. I place high value on my clients exploring the taboo, enjoying the freedom to discover various sensations, find empowerment outside of normative realms & lean in to playing with power dynamics. www.mysexandsensibility.com --- WORK WITH US: https://www.sexedforthemodernbed.com/services https://mysexandsensibility.com/ --- SAY HI ON SOCIAL: Twitter: twitter.com/sxuninterrupted Instagram: www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/sexuninterrupted/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/sexuninterrupted Music Credit: Shake - Anno Domini Beats (Theme Music) © SU Lifestyle Media Inc.
How do you live your authentic kink life when your needs don't match up with the BDSM community status quo? In part 1 (ep 203) Mollena Williams-Haas told us how returning to the leather community after parting ways sparked an unexpected journey of healing and growth. In this discussion, Mollena shares practical advice for digging past the stereotypical BDSM “supposed to's” in order to identify your needs and honor them. D/s relationships are about making life better for both doms and subs -- but how exactly do we go about that? Mollena has some helpful answers … Mollena Williams-Haas Bio Mollena is a writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller, sobriety fiend since March 2007, and Award-Winning Executive Pervert. Owned & collared by renowned contemporary composer Georg Friedrich Haas, she serves as his beloved slave, submissive, wife, servant, and Muse. February 2016 saw a groundbreaking piece about their relationship featured in the New York Times. They are also both the subject of the documentary The Artist and The Pervert. As a two-time leather title holder and kink educator, Mollena's viewpoints on Kink-related issues are frequently sought after by sources like The New York Times, Newsweek, Essence, Ebony, etc. A frequent guest expert on Dan Savage's “Savage Lovecast,” Tristan Taormino's “Sex Out Loud”, and Margaret Cho's “Monsters of Talk” podcast, she's even spoken about Kink at Harvard, Yale, and Princeton. Mollena is also the co-author of the “Toybag Guide: Taboo Play” and “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities”. A professional stage performer since age 5, Mollena's credits include The Wiz and co-starring with Danny Bonaduce in underground cult-classic America's Deadliest Home Video. Her short film, IMPACT, won “Cinekink's Best Experimental Film." Mollena's latest performance piece and movie is Hyena, a collaboration with her husband. Mollena also appeared on Sex with Sunny Megatron on Showtime. Her latest endeavor is The Kink Doula. (Mollena's Full Bio: http://www.mollena.com/about/ ) Episode 204 Helpful Links & Resources Part 1 of this discussion, Episode 203 https://sunnymegatron.com/mollena-williams-haas-bdsm-leather-community/ All That and Mo, Podcast hosted by Mollena Lee Williams Haas https://allthatandmo.com/ Kink Doula https://kinkdoula.com/ Mollena Lee Williams Haas Website http://www.mollena.com/ Mollena Lee Williams Haas Facebook https://www.facebook.com/mollena Mollena Lee Williams Haas Instagram https://www.instagram.com/mollena_lee_williams_haas/ Mollena Lee Williams Haas Twitter https://twitter.com/mollena Mollena Lee Williams Haas Patreon https://www.patreon.com/MollenaLeeWilliamsHaas Mollena on RISK! Episode 442 “Slave” https://soundcloud.com/riskshow/slave-by-mollena-williams-from-episode-442-slave Hyena Teaser Trailer https://youtu.be/UrAJji7qdwk The Artist and the Pervert Trailer https://youtu.be/ko_6bGeADGU The Artist and the Pervert Documentary on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Artist-Pervert-Georg-Friedrich-Haas/dp/B08NC5C1PK The Restrict Act Bill S. 686 https://www.congress.gov/bill/118th-congress/senate-bill/686/text ResistBot https://resist.bot/petitions Find & Contact your Legislators https://www.govtrack.us/congress/bills/118/s686/comment Chat GPT https://chat.openai.com/chat Sunny's Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/l/negotiationwb Sunny Megatron TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Episode 204 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 40% off Beducated's yearly pass https://beducate.me/pd2317-sunny and use code SUNNY Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Go to http://GreenChef.com/sunny60 and use code sunny60 to get 60% off plus free shipping Pleasure Podcasts Network https://www.pleasurepodcasts.com/ Sunny's On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/ 15% off most items from Stockroom https://bit.ly/sunnystockroom15 with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education: http://patreon.com/americansex
Mollena Williams-Haas, a.k.a. The Kink Doula, is back to serve up a slice of community healing. As a BDSM Leather community veteran and legend, Mollena understands the challenges of living your truth when it falls outside of the alt-sex status quo. In this convo, she shares how her rocky relationship with a community she once loved transformed into an unexpected journey of healing and growth. And, in true Mollena fashion, the insights she gleaned from this transformative, powerful experience are life lessons we can all benefit from, no matter our chosen community or family. This is part one of our two-episode extended conversation. Mollena Williams-Haas Bio Mollena is an NYC-born and raised writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller, sobriety fiend since March 2007, and Award-Winning Executive Pervert. Owned and collared by renowned contemporary composer Georg Friedrich Haas since 2013, she serves as his beloved slave, submissive, wife, servant, and Muse. February 2016 saw a groundbreaking piece about their relationship featured in the New York Times. Active in the Leather community since 1996 and teaching since 1998, Mollena's viewpoints on Kink-related issues are frequently sought after by sources like The New York Times, The Huffington Post, Newsweek, Essence, Ebony, etc. She is a frequent guest expert on Dan Savage's “Savage Lovecast,” Tristan Taormino's “Sex Out Loud”, and Margaret Cho's “Monsters of Talk” podcast. She's even spoken about Kink at Harvard, Yale, and Princeton. Molena is also a leather titleholder– International Ms Leather 2010 and Ms. San Francisco Leather 2009. She's the co-author of the “Toybag Guide: Taboo Play.” and “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities”. A professional stage performer since the age of 5, Mollena's credits include singing on the soundtrack for The Wiz and co-starring with Danny Bonaduce in underground cult-classic America's Deadliest Home Video. Her short film, IMPACT, won the “Cinekink's Best Experimental Film" Award. Mollena's latest performance piece is Hyena, a collaboration with her husband. They are also both the subject of the documentary The Artist and The Pervert. Mollena also appeared on Sex with Sunny Megatron on Showtime. Her latest endeavor is The Kink Doula. Mollena's Full Bio: http://www.mollena.com/about/ Episode 203 Helpful Links & Resources All That and Mo, Podcast hosted by Mollena Lee Williams Haas https://allthatandmo.com/ Kink Doula https://kinkdoula.com/ Mollena Lee Williams Haas Website http://www.mollena.com/ Mollena Lee Williams Haas Facebook https://www.facebook.com/mollena Mollena Lee Williams Haas Instagram https://www.instagram.com/mollena_lee_williams_haas/ Mollena Lee Williams Haas Twitter https://twitter.com/mollena Mollena Lee Williams Haas Patreon https://www.patreon.com/MollenaLeeWilliamsHaas Mollena on RISK! Episode 442 “Slave” https://soundcloud.com/riskshow/slave-by-mollena-williams-from-episode-442-slave Hyena Teaser Trailer https://youtu.be/UrAJji7qdwk The Artist and the Pervert Trailer https://youtu.be/ko_6bGeADGU The Artist and the Pervert Documentary on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Artist-Pervert-Georg-Friedrich-Haas/dp/B08NC5C1PK The Restrict Act Bill S. 686 https://www.congress.gov/bill/118th-congress/senate-bill/686/text ResistBot https://resist.bot/petitions Find & Contact your Legislators https://www.govtrack.us/congress/bills/118/s686/comment Chat GPT https://chat.openai.com/chat Sunny's Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/l/negotiationwb Sunny Megatron TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Episode 203 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at http://dipseastories.com/sunny Sluts and Scholars Podcast https://www.slutsandscholars.com/ Double Teamed Podcast https://www.doubleteamedpodcast.com/ Pleasure Podcasts Network https://www.pleasurepodcasts.com/ Sunny's On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/ 15% off most items from Stockroom https://bit.ly/sunnystockroom15 with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education: http://patreon.com/americansex
Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities and the author of "Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships". In addition to her master's in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE certified sex educator and an EMDR certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003. She cohosts her own sex-positive podcast, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron, has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, and has been a guest on Playboy Radio and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and Sex Out Loud. She has written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood Magazine and is a frequent public speaker. Her private practice resides in Encino, CA. For more information, please visit her on the web at KateLoree.com or follow her on social media: Instagram: http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@opendeeplywithkateloree Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter: http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
Circumcision is a routine surgery in the United States that cuts off the most sensitive part of a young boys genitals. On this show, I am dedicated to bringing true informed consent on any and all topics, and I feel this topic is extremely important to understand truly, why we are doing this and if it is truly necessary.To have this conversation, it is my honor to have guest, Georganne Chapin, founder of Intact America, to educate us on this important topic.About Georganne: In a life dedicated to promoting human rights and health care quality and equity, Georganne Chapin has become a widely recognized advocate for ending routine circumcision of baby boys in America. In 2009, she founded and became executive director of Intact America®, the largest national organization working to end child genital cutting in this country and to ensure healthy sexual futures for all people. Prior to that, she founded and currently heads the Hudson Center for Health Equity and Quality and is the former president and CEO of Hudson Health Plan, alarge nonprofit Medicaid managed care organization in the Hudson Valley.In addition to her executive positions, Georganne taught health law and bioethics at Pace University School of Law, and bioethics to doctoral-level nursing students at Dominican College. Her opinion pieces have appeared in the New York Daily News, HuffPost, and Minneapolis Star Tribune, and she has been interviewed by The New York Times, the Economist, MSNBC, NBC10 (Philadelphia), WPSU radio, The New York Post, AskMen.com, SheKnows, Telemundo, Kacey Shine On, First Time Parent, Mel Magazine, South China Morning Post, the Guardian, and othermedia outlets. She also is a frequent guest on popular podcasts, including, The Armchair Expert, Sex Out Loud, Chicana Chisme, Baby Pro Podcast, Depths of Motherhood Podcast, and Eat Sex Play. She was born in Boerne, Texas, and spent most of her childhood in Hawaii, New Mexico and Ohio. Georganne came to New York to earn a BA in Anthropology from Barnard College and an MPhil in Sociomedical Sciences from Columbia University. As a working adult, she obtained a JD from Pace University School of Law, with certificates in Health Law and International Law. Georganne lives near Woodstock in New York's Hudson Valley. She invites listeners to learn more about leaving baby boys intact at IntactAmerica.org.Learn more from Georganne: https://intactamerica.orghttps://www.instagram.com/intactamerica/Sponsors: All natural women's homeopathic hormone supplement $10 off with linkMenopause - https://modere.co/3XRHVVZMenstrual - https://modere.co/3IkPxKTOrganic Herbal Remedies Use Code BROOKE10 to save 10%https://earthley.com/ref/brookebacci/Amazon Storefront(Book recommendations, wellness supplements and more)https://www.amazon.com/shop/brookebrewer20?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsfshop_aipsfbrookebrewer20_FCY5VKK29ERGZAXM03T8Primally Pure Deodorant and natural skin care productshttp://www.primallypure.comUse code BROOKEB at checkout for 10% ofMASA chips - Seed oil Free Tortilla Chipshttp://www.masachips.com/brookebacciUse code BROOKEBACCI to save 10%
What are the attachment styles and how do they impact relationships in general, especially non-monogamy? How do people know if they are non-monogamous? What's the difference between fantasy and innate needs or desires? How do people's unresolved attachment injuries get triggered within non-monogamy and how can they work with this once it's triggered? What are some tools, and do they also apply to monogamous relationships? Lastly, what are some top tips for navigating both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships? About our guest: Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities and the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships. In addition to her master's in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE certified sex educator and an EMDR certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003. She co-hosts her own sex-positive podcast, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron, has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, and has been a guest on Playboy Radio and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and Sex Out Loud. She has written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood Magazine and is a frequent public speaker. Her private practice resides in Encino, CA. For more information, please visit her on the web at KateLoree.com. Attention vulva-owners (in the tri-state area who have never had an orgasm and are interested in contributing to research (and maybe getting a little help along the away! Email the beloved nan@askdoctornan.com to learn more. Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
Welcome to episode 285 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Kate Loree, LMFT to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Kate became involved in the non-monogamous community, looking at why more people are opting for non-monogamy, and how you can manage jealousy in non-monogamous relationships. Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities and the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships. In addition to her master's in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE certified sex educator and an EMDR certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003. She cohosts her own sex-positive podcast, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron, has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, and has been a guest on Playboy Radio and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and Sex Out Loud. She has written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood Magazine and is a frequent public speaker. In this episode, you will hear: How Kate became involved in the non-monogamous community Understanding that non-monogamy is more popular than people realize Looking at the different categories of people identify as non-monogamous How people can be sexually non-monogamous and emotionally monogamous The way in which the non-monogamous community has become diverse Looking at why more people are opting for non-monogamy Understanding the maturity needed to make non-monogamy work How you can manage jealously in non-monogamous relationships Learning to communicate effectively with your partners around jealousy Thank you to our Sponsor: Cozy Earth! Use code ‘Sexology' for 40% off. https://cozyearth.com/discount/SEXOLOGY Find Kate Loree Online https://kateloree.com Sex Quiz for Women https://oasis2care.com/sexquiz Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio
Welcome back to Out Loud, hosted by the Daily Cardinal and Sex Out Loud. Today, we answer more of your questions about sex positions, sex toys, birth control methods, ethical porn and how to practice choking safely.
Welcome back to Out Loud, hosted by the Daily Cardinal and Sex Out Loud. Today, we are joined by Gender and Women's Studies professor and Sex Out Loud faculty advisor LiLi Johnson to discuss the history and implications of monogamy and non-monogamy.
Welcome back to Out Loud, hosted by the Daily Cardinal and Sex Out Loud. Today, we talk all about sex toys. We discuss how to find what you like, the different kinds of toys, price ranges and technologies, stores to check out, how to integrate them into relationships and the importance of cleaning toys.
Welcome back to Out Loud, hosted by the Daily Cardinal and Sex Out Loud. Today, we answer questions submitted by students about everything from lube, crushes, masturbation, resources on campus, safe sex during a pandemic, how to talk about sex and much more. Check out the written version of this Q&A written by co-host Elena Price in the Daily Cardinal's latest print edition, the sex and life issue.
Welcome back to Out Loud, hosted by the Daily Cardinal and Sex Out Loud. Today, we answer questions from students about sex and sexual health. We discuss communication, condoms, lube, STI conversations, hooking up in college and other topics.
Welcome back to Out Loud, hosted by the Daily Cardinal and Sex Out Loud. Today, we talk about the representation of trans people in the media, the hypersexualization of queer characters, how parents react and which networks have and haven't improved.
Welcome back to Out Loud, hosted by the Daily Cardinal and Sex Out Loud. Today, we talk all about orgasms — the different types, how to have them, and tips for more pleasurable sex. Plus, we talk Halloweekend and why costumes don't equal consent.
Welcome to the first episode of Out Loud, hosted by the Daily Cardinal and Sex Out Loud. This week, Elena, Ky and Mia talk about the lack of comprehensive sex education in the U.S. school system.
☎️ Text us! 310-356-3920 ☎️ They say Mama knows best, and this week she's diagnosing my friend with an itchy butthole. Mom also inadvertently medicates our dog with her own thyroid pill. I experience what's known as "The Devil's Kiss." We discuss the new wave of STDs that are about to hit during this upcoming Summer of Love. My mom also falls in love with a 27-year-old Tik Toker. Shoutout to one of our fav Pleasure Podcasts, Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino! To hear their full episode on herpes and other STDs, check out Tristan's interview with Dr. Ina Park. Please support our show by using our sponsors' links below! LORALS – Lorals is our favorite single-use latex panty designed for oral sex! It creates the sexiest, thinnest barrier – perfect for play parties or for oral when you're not as washed as you'd like to be. Get 15% off your first purchase when you use code MOM at www.mylorals.com. PROSE – Want luxurious, shining KarenLee-style hair? Prose will make custom hair products specifically for you! Get 15% off your first order today by visiting www.Prose.com/Sneaky. POUR MOI – Hey vulva-owners, want stronger orgasms? Intensity by Pour Moi is an automatic Kegel exerciser that will strengthen your pelvic floor while providing you with pleasure! Get $25 off with code MOM at PourMoi.com. ❣️Join our sparkling new Sneaky Freak chatroom on Discord! Just visit: https://discord.gg/jJZqkUw3dV. To gain exclusive access to all our Discord channels, join us at Patreon.com/sextalkwithmymom. If you've enjoyed the show, please consider leaving us a review at RateThisPodcast.com/Mom. Also, it would mean the world if you'd support us through Patreon – a platform where you can get exclusive STWMM bonus episodes and Zoom chats with us! Grab some Sex Talk w/ My Mom swag at sextalkwithmymom.com. Get close with us on socials at: Text us - 310-356-3920 Facebook/Instagram - @SexTalkWithMyMom Twitter - @SexTalkPodcast Website - www.SexTalkWithMyMom.com Our podcast's music was crafted by the wildly talented Freddy Avis! Check out his work at http://www.freddyavismusic.com/ Sex Talk With My Mom is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts, a podcast collective revolutionizing the conversation around sex.
Do you feel like the sex ed you received was censored? Do you feel like it was based predominately on heterosexual sex? Do you feel like you weren't educated about the LGBTQ+ community? Because WE DON'T! In this episode, me and my good friend, Grace Tooke, discuss all the issues surrounding sex education! We both share the educational experiences we had regarding sex and what experiences we didn't have but believe we SHOULD have! Whilst discussing all the censored topics that are not discussed by schools, we also touch upon the education we may experience from secondary sources such as our friends, parents and media. Listen to this episode to find out more! [Trigger Warning] Don't forget to follow us over on Instagram at @forbiddenfridayspodcast for some feel good content!
Do you feel like the sex ed you received was censored? Do you feel like it was based predominately on heterosexual sex? Do you feel like you weren't educated about the LGBTQ+ community? Because WE DON'T! In this episode, me and my good friend, Grace Tooke, discuss all the issues surrounding sex education! We both share the educational experiences we had regarding sex and what experiences we didn't have but believe we SHOULD have! Whilst discussing all the censored topics that are not discussed by schools, we also touch upon the education we may experience from secondary sources such as our friends, parents and media. Listen to this episode to find out more! [Trigger Warning] Don't forget to follow us over on Instagram at @forbiddenfridayspodcast for some feel good content!
Rachel talks pandemic, podcast, and gives an Alain de Botton recommendation before getting into a conversation with Chloe from the podcast “Stripper Stories”. They talk about the logistics of working in a strip club, lingerie, client stories, and the challenges and stigmas that people in the sex industry are currently facing. Episode Notes: Conversation with Chloe starts at 10:47:00. Find Chloe on the “Stripper Stories” podcast: Instagram: @stripperstoriespodcast Twitter: @PodcastStripper Find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, Anchor, or wherever you get your podcasts Petitions to support Sex Workers: http://chng.it/DSj5y8Ppqg https://actionnetwork.org/petitions/decrimnowdc/ https://prostitutescollective.net/petition/ https://sign.moveon.org/petitions/decriminilizelegalize Lingerie brand Chloe mentioned: Honey Birdette Brands that Rachel couldn’t remember: Savage X Fenty, Hanky Panky, Yummie, Parade “Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino” podcasts about sex work: The History of Sex Work with Kaytlin Bailey: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-history-of-sex-work-with-kaytlin-bailey/id528427969?i=1000504255697 Natalie West on We Too: Sex Work and Survival https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/natalie-west-on-we-too-sex-work-and-survival/id528427969?i=1000508209391 We Too: Sex Work and Survival Part 2 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/we-too-sex-work-and-survival-part-2/id528427969?i=1000509054993 The Oldest Profession Podcast: https://theoldestprofessionpodcast.com/ “We Too” Book: https://www.feministpress.org/books-n-z/we-too Alain de Botton “On Being” episode, “The True Hard Work of Love and Relationships”: https://onbeing.org/programs/alain-de-botton-the-true-hard-work-of-love-and-relationships/ Alain de Botton NYT Article, “Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person”: https://www.nytimes.com/2016/05/29/opinion/sunday/why-you-will-marry-the-wrong-person.html Let’s keep talking! Have a question or idea for a topic? Email winedine@allportsopen.com! Podcast artwork by Yogesh Nankar (Design by Dreamers). Intro and Outro music by John Bartmann.
Rachel talks pandemic, podcast, and gives an Alain de Botton recommendation before getting into a conversation with Chloe from the podcast “Stripper Stories”. They talk about the logistics of working in a strip club, lingerie, client stories, and the challenges and stigmas that people in the sex industry are currently facing. Episode Notes: Conversation with Chloe starts at 10:47:00. Find Chloe on the “Stripper Stories” podcast: Instagram: @stripperstoriespodcast Twitter: @PodcastStripper Find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, Anchor, or wherever you get your podcasts Petitions to support Sex Workers: http://chng.it/DSj5y8Ppqg https://actionnetwork.org/petitions/decrimnowdc/ https://prostitutescollective.net/petition/ https://sign.moveon.org/petitions/decriminilizelegalize Lingerie brand Chloe mentioned: Honey Birdette Brands that Rachel couldn’t remember: Savage X Fenty, Hanky Panky, Yummie, Parade “Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino” podcasts about sex work: The History of Sex Work with Kaytlin Bailey: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-history-of-sex-work-with-kaytlin-bailey/id528427969?i=1000504255697 Natalie West on We Too: Sex Work and Survival https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/natalie-west-on-we-too-sex-work-and-survival/id528427969?i=1000508209391 We Too: Sex Work and Survival Part 2 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/we-too-sex-work-and-survival-part-2/id528427969?i=1000509054993 The Oldest Profession Podcast: https://theoldestprofessionpodcast.com/ “We Too” Book: https://www.feministpress.org/books-n-z/we-too Alain de Botton “On Being” episode, “The True Hard Work of Love and Relationships”: https://onbeing.org/programs/alain-de-botton-the-true-hard-work-of-love-and-relationships/ Alain de Botton NYT Article, “Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person”: https://www.nytimes.com/2016/05/29/opinion/sunday/why-you-will-marry-the-wrong-person.html Let’s keep talking! Have a question or idea for a topic? Email winedine@allportsopen.com! Podcast artwork by Yogesh Nankar (Design by Dreamers). Intro and Outro music by John Bartmann.
Tristan Taormino is an award-winning writer, sex educator, filmmaker, the host of Sex Out Loud ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-out-loud-with-tristan-taormino/id528427969 ) , and author of 8 books, including The Ultimate Guide to Kink ( https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07H478DNL/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i1 ). Today’s juicy and dynamic conversation is all about anal pleasure, kink, and BDSM. Tristan gives tips for exploring anal play, sheds light on the different types of kink, and gives insight into opening up to these different forms of sexual expression. Today on That Sex Chick: * How Tristan began teaching & writing about sex * Tips and insights for anal sex (hint: there should never be pain) * Normalizing prostate stimulation & massaging * The different forms of physical & psychological kink * How to use nipple clamps! * Where to start in exploring BDSM & kink Follow Tristan: * Instagram: @tristantaormino ( https://www.instagram.com/tristantaormino/?hl=en ) * Twitter: @tristantaormino ( https://twitter.com/tristantaormino?lang=en ) * Website: tristantaormino.com ( http://tristantaormino.com/ ) * Podcast: Sex Out Loud ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-out-loud-with-tristan-taormino/id528427969 ) * Checkout Tristan’s books here ( https://www.amazon.com/Tristan-Taormino/e/B000APS9US%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share ) Connect with Alexa: * thatsexchick.com ( https://www.thatsexchick.com/ ) * IG: @thatsexchick ( https://www.instagram.com/thatsexchick/ ) This show is produced by Soulfire Productions ( http://soulfireproductionsco.com/ )
Tristan Taormino is an award-winning sex educator, media maker, and speaker. She is the author of eight books and editor or co-editor of 25 anthologies. She keynotes, lectures, and teaches workshops around the world on sexual pleasure and health, relationships, and social justice. She is the host of the podcast Sex Out Loud. She is the creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp, a professional training program, and she runs a coaching and consulting business for sexuality professionals. Tristan Taormino / Twitter / Facebook To support this podcast, please visit www.kindful.activistheology.com. To follow Activist Theology on Twitter: @activistheology To follow Activist Theology on Instagram: @activistheology To follow Activist Theology on Facebook: @activistheology To be in touch with Dr. Robyn: robyn@activistheology.com or @irobyn To be in touch with Rev. Anna: anna@activistheology.com or @unholyhairetic Join our community by texting (615) 436-5948
Tristan Taormino is an award-winning sex educator, media maker, and speaker. She is the author of eight books and editor or co-editor of 25 anthologies. She keynotes, lectures, and teaches workshops around the world on sexual pleasure and health, relationships, and social justice. She is the host of the podcast Sex Out Loud. She is the creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp, a professional training program, and she runs a coaching and consulting business for sexuality professionals. Tristan Taormino / Twitter / Facebook To support this podcast, please visit www.kindful.activistheology.com. To follow Activist Theology on Twitter: @activistheology To follow Activist Theology on Instagram: @activistheology To follow Activist Theology on Facebook: @activistheology To be in touch with Dr. Robyn: robyn@activistheology.com or @irobyn To be in touch with Rev. Anna: anna@activistheology.com or @unholyhairetic Join our community by texting (615) 436-5948
This week we're joined by Sex Out Loud podcast host, award-winning author, sex educator, and speaker Tristan Taormino to talk about solo polyamory and relationship anarchy. Tristan has edited 25 anthologies and written 8 books on the subject of sex and relationships, including Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships. She is also the founder of The Open List, which details healthcare and other professionals who have experience working with alternative sexualities and lifestyles. If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory. You can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, bonus episodes, and more!Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, find us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast, tweet at us @Multiamory, check out our Facebook Page, visit our website Multiamory.com, or you can leave us a voicemail at 678-MULTI-05. We love to hear from our listeners and we read every message. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network.
On this episode we dig into non-monogamy with Tristan Taormino. She discusses how the processing of both parties feelings is a crucial element to open relationships. Interestingly, she shares how working on yourself is a big part of the open-minded approach required to make this type of thing work. The Importance of Boundaries in Consensual Non-monogamy Tristan recommends a slow start and provides clear guidelines and examples on how to do this. Knowing what you want and need makes setting boundaries easier. These boundaries include whether or not you and your partner wish to keep your non-monogamy close to home or not. This ultimately bleeds into how much time you will be investing in non-monogamy and the depth of the relationships you will be seeking. Tristan shares the types of boundaries that could come up. Decisions to make regarding non-monogamy Tristan's advice for couples with different feelings about non-monogamy is to go at the pace of the slower partner. Ultimatums are not encouraged especially if your partner agrees to give it a try. Tristan adds valuable advice about making decisions during the heat of a moment, advocating a more thought-through approach when put in these situations. People trying non-monogamy also struggle with certain behaviours including jealousy. We learn more about this and how to constructively handle this. The Common Pitfalls of Consensual Non-monogamy Time management is considered one of the pitfalls of non-monogamy. With many tools available at our disposal, Tristan unpacks the subtle and obvious scenarios that eventually lead to your time being consumed and the negative impact it can have if not managed. We hear about emotional privacy and how it involves considering the preferences of all the parties included in your non-monogamous arrangement. Tristan's suggests the ‘don't ask, don't tell ‘ method if all parties can agree to it. Vito power comes into play here and we hear about how it can be used fairly. Considering the Past Trauma and negative childhood experiences eventually manifest in our relationships. Tristan urges us to investigate these issues so that we are informed when entering a relationship and acutely aware of our partner's triggers and understand why they exist. Background Tristan Taormino is an award-winning writer, sex educator, speaker, filmmaker, and radio host. She is the editor of 25 anthologies and author of eight books, including Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships. She lectures at top colleges and universities and teaches sex and relationship workshops around the world for nearly 20 years. Tristan hosts Sex Out Loud, a weekly radio show on the VoiceAmerica Network and is the creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp, a professional training program while still running a coaching and consulting business for sexuality and creative professionals. Links and Resources Tristan's Book – https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X Website http://tristantaormino.com/ https://openingup.net/ More info: Book and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.com Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com/ Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/ Host Recent Episodes Better Sex with Jessa Zimmerman https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/ Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/141-doing-non-monogamy-well-tristan-taorminoMore info and resources: How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com Access the Free webinar: How to make sex easy and fun for both of you: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast
On this episode we dig into non-monogamy with Tristan Taormino. She discusses how the processing of both parties feelings is a crucial element to open relationships. Interestingly, she shares how working on yourself is a big part of the open-minded approach required to make this type of thing work.The Importance of Boundaries in Consensual Non-monogamyTristan recommends a slow start and provides clear guidelines and examples on how to do this. Knowing what you want and need makes setting boundaries easier. These boundaries include whether or not you and your partner wish to keep your non-monogamy close to home or not. This ultimately bleeds into how much time you will be investing in non-monogamy and the depth of the relationships you will be seeking. Tristan shares the types of boundaries that could come up.Decisions to make regarding non-monogamyTristan’s advice for couples with different feelings about non-monogamy is to go at the pace of the slower partner. Ultimatums are not encouraged especially if your partner agrees to give it a try.Tristan adds valuable advice about making decisions during the heat of a moment, advocating a more thought-through approach when put in these situations. People trying non-monogamy also struggle with certain behaviours including jealousy. We learn more about this and how to constructively handle this.The Common Pitfalls of Consensual Non-monogamyTime management is considered one of the pitfalls of non-monogamy. With many tools available at our disposal, Tristan unpacks the subtle and obvious scenarios that eventually lead to your time being consumed and the negative impact it can have if not managed.We hear about emotional privacy and how it involves considering the preferences of all the parties included in your non-monogamous arrangement. Tristan’s suggests the ‘don’t ask, don’t tell ‘ method if all parties can agree to it. Vito power comes into play here and we hear about how it can be used fairly.Considering the PastTrauma and negative childhood experiences eventually manifest in our relationships. Tristan urges us to investigate these issues so that we are informed when entering a relationship and acutely aware of our partner’s triggers and understand why they exist.BackgroundTristan Taormino is an award-winning writer, sex educator, speaker, filmmaker, and radio host. She is the editor of 25 anthologies and author of eight books, including Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships. She lectures at top colleges and universities and teaches sex and relationship workshops around the world for nearly 20 years.Tristan hosts Sex Out Loud, a weekly radio show on the VoiceAmerica Network and is the creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp, a professional training program while still running a coaching and consulting business for sexuality and creative professionals.Links and ResourcesTristan’s Book –https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295XWebsitehttp://tristantaormino.com/https://openingup.net/More info:Book and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.comPodcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com/Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/Host Recent EpisodesBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/141-doing-non-monogamy-well-tristan-taormino
On this episode we dig into non-monogamy with Tristan Taormino. She discusses how the processing of both parties feelings is a crucial element to open relationships. Interestingly, she shares how working on yourself is a big part of the open-minded approach required to make this type of thing work.The Importance of Boundaries in Consensual Non-monogamyTristan recommends a slow start and provides clear guidelines and examples on how to do this. Knowing what you want and need makes setting boundaries easier. These boundaries include whether or not you and your partner wish to keep your non-monogamy close to home or not. This ultimately bleeds into how much time you will be investing in non-monogamy and the depth of the relationships you will be seeking. Tristan shares the types of boundaries that could come up.Decisions to make regarding non-monogamyTristan’s advice for couples with different feelings about non-monogamy is to go at the pace of the slower partner. Ultimatums are not encouraged especially if your partner agrees to give it a try.Tristan adds valuable advice about making decisions during the heat of a moment, advocating a more thought-through approach when put in these situations. People trying non-monogamy also struggle with certain behaviours including jealousy. We learn more about this and how to constructively handle this.The Common Pitfalls of Consensual Non-monogamyTime management is considered one of the pitfalls of non-monogamy. With many tools available at our disposal, Tristan unpacks the subtle and obvious scenarios that eventually lead to your time being consumed and the negative impact it can have if not managed.We hear about emotional privacy and how it involves considering the preferences of all the parties included in your non-monogamous arrangement. Tristan’s suggests the ‘don’t ask, don’t tell ‘ method if all parties can agree to it. Vito power comes into play here and we hear about how it can be used fairly.Considering the PastTrauma and negative childhood experiences eventually manifest in our relationships. Tristan urges us to investigate these issues so that we are informed when entering a relationship and acutely aware of our partner’s triggers and understand why they exist.BackgroundTristan Taormino is an award-winning writer, sex educator, speaker, filmmaker, and radio host. She is the editor of 25 anthologies and author of eight books, including Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships. She lectures at top colleges and universities and teaches sex and relationship workshops around the world for nearly 20 years.Tristan hosts Sex Out Loud, a weekly radio show on the VoiceAmerica Network and is the creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp, a professional training program while still running a coaching and consulting business for sexuality and creative professionals.Links and ResourcesTristan’s Book –https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295XWebsitehttp://tristantaormino.com/https://openingup.net/More info:Book and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.comPodcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com/Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/Host Recent EpisodesBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/141-doing-non-monogamy-well-tristan-taormino
On this episode we dig into non-monogamy with Tristan Taormino. She discusses how the processing of both parties feelings is a crucial element to open relationships. Interestingly, she shares how working on yourself is a big part of the open-minded approach required to make this type of thing work.The Importance of Boundaries in Consensual Non-monogamyTristan recommends a slow start and provides clear guidelines and examples on how to do this. Knowing what you want and need makes setting boundaries easier. These boundaries include whether or not you and your partner wish to keep your non-monogamy close to home or not. This ultimately bleeds into how much time you will be investing in non-monogamy and the depth of the relationships you will be seeking. Tristan shares the types of boundaries that could come up.Decisions to make regarding non-monogamyTristan’s advice for couples with different feelings about non-monogamy is to go at the pace of the slower partner. Ultimatums are not encouraged especially if your partner agrees to give it a try.Tristan adds valuable advice about making decisions during the heat of a moment, advocating a more thought-through approach when put in these situations. People trying non-monogamy also struggle with certain behaviours including jealousy. We learn more about this and how to constructively handle this.The Common Pitfalls of Consensual Non-monogamyTime management is considered one of the pitfalls of non-monogamy. With many tools available at our disposal, Tristan unpacks the subtle and obvious scenarios that eventually lead to your time being consumed and the negative impact it can have if not managed.We hear about emotional privacy and how it involves considering the preferences of all the parties included in your non-monogamous arrangement. Tristan’s suggests the ‘don’t ask, don’t tell ‘ method if all parties can agree to it. Vito power comes into play here and we hear about how it can be used fairly.Considering the PastTrauma and negative childhood experiences eventually manifest in our relationships. Tristan urges us to investigate these issues so that we are informed when entering a relationship and acutely aware of our partner’s triggers and understand why they exist.BackgroundTristan Taormino is an award-winning writer, sex educator, speaker, filmmaker, and radio host. She is the editor of 25 anthologies and author of eight books, including Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships. She lectures at top colleges and universities and teaches sex and relationship workshops around the world for nearly 20 years.Tristan hosts Sex Out Loud, a weekly radio show on the VoiceAmerica Network and is the creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp, a professional training program while still running a coaching and consulting business for sexuality and creative professionals.Links and ResourcesTristan’s Book –https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295XWebsitehttp://tristantaormino.com/https://openingup.net/More info:Book and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.comPodcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com/Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/Host Recent EpisodesBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/141-doing-non-monogamy-well-tristan-taormino
On this episode we dig into non-monogamy with Tristan Taormino. She discusses how the processing of both parties feelings is a crucial element to open relationships. Interestingly, she shares how working on yourself is a big part of the open-minded approach required to make this type of thing work.The Importance of Boundaries in Consensual Non-monogamyTristan recommends a slow start and provides clear guidelines and examples on how to do this. Knowing what you want and need makes setting boundaries easier. These boundaries include whether or not you and your partner wish to keep your non-monogamy close to home or not. This ultimately bleeds into how much time you will be investing in non-monogamy and the depth of the relationships you will be seeking. Tristan shares the types of boundaries that could come up.Decisions to make regarding non-monogamyTristan’s advice for couples with different feelings about non-monogamy is to go at the pace of the slower partner. Ultimatums are not encouraged especially if your partner agrees to give it a try.Tristan adds valuable advice about making decisions during the heat of a moment, advocating a more thought-through approach when put in these situations. People trying non-monogamy also struggle with certain behaviours including jealousy. We learn more about this and how to constructively handle this.The Common Pitfalls of Consensual Non-monogamyTime management is considered one of the pitfalls of non-monogamy. With many tools available at our disposal, Tristan unpacks the subtle and obvious scenarios that eventually lead to your time being consumed and the negative impact it can have if not managed.We hear about emotional privacy and how it involves considering the preferences of all the parties included in your non-monogamous arrangement. Tristan’s suggests the ‘don’t ask, don’t tell ‘ method if all parties can agree to it. Vito power comes into play here and we hear about how it can be used fairly.Considering the PastTrauma and negative childhood experiences eventually manifest in our relationships. Tristan urges us to investigate these issues so that we are informed when entering a relationship and acutely aware of our partner’s triggers and understand why they exist.BackgroundTristan Taormino is an award-winning writer, sex educator, speaker, filmmaker, and radio host. She is the editor of 25 anthologies and author of eight books, including Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships. She lectures at top colleges and universities and teaches sex and relationship workshops around the world for nearly 20 years.Tristan hosts Sex Out Loud, a weekly radio show on the VoiceAmerica Network and is the creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp, a professional training program while still running a coaching and consulting business for sexuality and creative professionals.Links and ResourcesTristan’s Book –https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295XWebsitehttp://tristantaormino.com/https://openingup.net/More info:Book and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.comPodcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com/Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/Host Recent EpisodesBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/141-doing-non-monogamy-well-tristan-taormino
For the first time in Sex Out Loud history, Tristan covers a topic that is taboo among the BDSM/kink community: Adult Baby & Diaper Lovers. Our expert is Dr. Rhoda, a therapist in private practice and the author of the book No More Hiding: Permission to Love Your Sexual Self. Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb has been counseling and coaching individuals and couples in human sexuality for over 28 years. She is an AASECT certified sex therapist, clinical sexologist, and sexuality coach specializing in areas of alternative sexuality. She has been in private practice for over 14 years. She frequently speaks at AB/DL events such as CapCon, TeddyCon, and US Littles, has been a guest expert on multiple podcasts regarding AB/DL acceptance and educates therapists to understand and work with the AB/DL community.
Tristan realized she's interviewed not one, but TWO former contestants on the TV show The Masked Singer - so we went deep into the Sex Out Loud vault to find the shows from 2012 and 2013 and edited them together, commercial-free. Topics include: anal sex, non-monogamy, embracing your body, clitoral vs g-spot stimulation, favorite sex toys, and much more.
“You've got to set up the dynamic, which is, we can talk about absolutely anything here. I'm not going to judge you. I'm not going to shame you. I can take it.” ~Tristan Taormino Sex episode! Sexpisode? You decide. Either way, educator, author, and media-maker Tristan Taormino talks about the joys of her DIY career and what she wishes therapists knew about sex. From her first book, The Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women (published waaay back in 1997) to her current podcast, Sex Out Loud, Tristan’s dedicated her life to creating shame-free, inclusive spaces where knowledge and straightforward advice flourish. She’s also a prolific maker of feminist porn and erotica and a champion of marginalized voices. She uses her various platforms to amplify the views of her LGBTQIA peers and other groups who are consistently excluded from the CIS male-dominated mainstream conversations around sex and pleasure. Tristan’s gained plenty of cognitive insight into the client-therapist relationship. She’s participated in years of dialectic behavioural therapy (DBT) to address her own childhood traumas and in continued support of her severe depression. She’s witnessed firsthand how therapists’ inherent sexual biases or avoidance tactics inhibit authentic therapeutic conversations. She urges therapists to stop waiting for clients to lead on the subject of sex. With a little grace and a lot of sex-positive education, therapists can gain competencies that support their clients’ sexuality even if they themselves don’t fully embrace every kink or intimate desire on the spectrum. *** Tristan Taormino is an award-winning sex educator, media maker, and speaker. She is the author of eight books and editor or co-editor of 25 anthologies. She keynotes, lectures, and teaches workshops around the world on sexual pleasure and health, relationships, and social justice. She is the host of the podcast Sex Out Loud. She is the creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp, a professional training program, and she runs a coaching and consulting business for sexuality professionals. For full show notes, guest information, and resources, visit: http://www.headhearttherapy.com/podcast Conversations with a Wounded Healer is a proud member of @mhnrnetwork. Let’s be friends! You can find me in the following places… Website: www.headhearttherapy.com/podcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WoundedHealr/ https://www.facebook.com/HeadHeartTherapy/ Instagram: @headhearttherapy Twitter: @WoundedHealr @HeadHeart_Chi
Welcome to episode 181 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Tristan Taormino to the podcast. In this episode Tristan speaks with me about anal pleasure, how we can start our journeys into the world of anal play, recommendations on sex toys and understanding to not put pressure on yourself as you start this journey. Tristan Taormino is a sex educator, media maker, and speaker. She is the author of eight books and editor of 25 anthologies including the award-winning The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women and The Ultimate Guide to Kink. She keynotes, lectures, and teaches workshops around the world on sexual pleasure and health, relationships, and social justice. She is the host of the long-running podcast Sex Out Loud. She is the creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp, a professional training program, and she runs a coaching and consulting business for sexuality professionals. In this episode, you will hear: How can you introduce anal pleasure into your sexual life? Exploring anal sex as a couple The myths and misconceptions around anal sex How anal sex can be more intense than vaginal sex What does anal play involve? Recommendations for the best anal sex toys to use How to make anal sex non-painful Understanding to not compare yourself to porn stars Learning the best practices for anal How to start your journey into the world of anal The best ways to communicate you’re interested in anal sex to your partner The importance to take your time and not put pressure on yourself Find Tristan online http://sexoutloudradio.com The Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women Find me online: http://www.sexologypodcast.com Find me on social media: https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care Download my new ebook for free here: https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/ 101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot: http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist Celebrating One Million Downloads To celebrate hitting one million downloads I am giving away a bottle of Uberlube to anyone who writes a review on iTunes. Simply take a screenshot of your review and email to me or send as a DM to my Instagram page. Thank you for helping Sexology Podcast hit one million downloads! Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio
Our sex-negative culture pushes us to repress and feel shame about our sexuality or lifestyle. Stepping out of the shadows and telling your story becomes an important act of rebellion. There are risks involved in telling your story. More than just the frowning disapproval of judgy relatives at holiday dinners, living an openly atypical life can lead to risks to employment, housing, medical care, and child custody. This is why it's doubly important that those who can live out loud do since their open existence is a powerful 'fuck you' to the status quo. Our guest today has been openly flipping off the establishment for more than 25 years since beginning the magazine 'Pucker Up' shortly after finishing college. She continues to do so as she works on a memoir telling her story from childhood through to her relationship with her father as he battled AIDS in the early years of the epidemic. On this episode of On The Wet Coast, Flick Morrison and Kat Stark are joined by Tristan Taormino to discuss her upcoming (as yet untitled) memoir and to talk about Telling Your Story as Resistance. Tristan Taormino is an award-winning author, sex educator, speaker, and media maker. She is editor of 25 anthologies and the author of eight books on sex and relationships including Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships. She is founder of The Open List, a list of professionals (therapists, social workers, psychiatrists, psychologists, consultants, relationship and life coaches, doctors, lawyers, etc.) who are experienced and knowledgeable about alternative sexuality and lifestyles, including open relationships, polyamory, and non-monogamy. She is the host of the long running podcast Sex Out Loud. Find Tristan at @TristanTaormino and @SexOutLoud on Twitter and her patreon at https://www.patreon.com/tristantaormino Buy Kat Stark's novel, Waking Up Polyamorous, in paperback or ebook at amazon and other online retailers. Kat's saucy memoir Yelling In Pasties: The Wet Coast Confessions of an Anxious Slut is available at your favourite online book source in paperback, ebook, and audiobook - Amazon, Audible , Itunes Follow us on twitter @onthewetcoast @wetcoastKat @seriousFLICK Check out www.onthewetcoast.com for blog posts, toy reviews, and more Contribute to our Patreon https://www.patreon.com/OnTheWetCoast Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/OnTheWetCoast/ Email your questions or comments to contact@onthewetcoast.com Music in this episode: Theme music - A Naked Gun: Bank Assault by Francesco D'Andrea
We were happy to have Dr. Lanae St. John back on the podcast again after 3 years. She recently released her book, READ ME: A Parental Primer for THE TALK and we're so excited to see this book come alive. The information is applicable to adults, parents, and children. She also revealed her five building blocks to a healthy sexuality. These blocks can help anyone build trust in themselves and their partner(s) in creating healthy relationships. We had a great conversation reminiscing over how this book evolved and took form.About Dr. Lanae St.JohnDr. Lanae St.John, known as The MamaSutra, is a board-certified sexologist with the American College of Sexologists and a former professor of human sexuality at City College of San Francisco. She’s been named one of the top 100 sex blogging superheroes by Kinkly.com every year since 2013.Dr. Lanae has been quoted in Forbes.com, Huffington Post, livestrong.com, Popsugar, and Women’s Health Magazine and she’s been a guest on multiple podcasts including Sex Out Loud, Sex Nerd Sandra, and Sexology. In addition, she is the author of Read Me: A Parental Primer for “The Talk." Lanae lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her partner and two daughters.Follow her at https://www.themamasutra.net at @themamasutra on social media.
We were happy to have Dr. Lanae St. John back on the podcast again after 3 years. She recently released her book, READ ME: A Parental Primer for THE TALK and we're so excited to see this book come alive. The information is applicable to adults, parents, and children. She also revealed her five building blocks to a healthy sexuality. These blocks can help anyone build trust in themselves and their partner(s) in creating healthy relationships. We had a great conversation reminiscing over how this book evolved and took form.About Dr. Lanae St.JohnDr. Lanae St.John, known as The MamaSutra, is a board-certified sexologist with the American College of Sexologists and a former professor of human sexuality at City College of San Francisco. She’s been named one of the top 100 sex blogging superheroes by Kinkly.com every year since 2013.Dr. Lanae has been quoted in Forbes.com, Huffington Post, livestrong.com, Popsugar, and Women’s Health Magazine and she’s been a guest on multiple podcasts including Sex Out Loud, Sex Nerd Sandra, and Sexology. In addition, she is the author of Read Me: A Parental Primer for “The Talk." Lanae lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her partner and two daughters.Follow her at https://www.themamasutra.net at @themamasutra on social media.
Sex-cation interview with Matie! This is a really fun episode with Matie Fricker of Self Serve Toys! It was recorded while we were at Desire Riviera Maya – a swinger resort. We were there on a takeover of the resort with The Swingset Takes Desire. We get deep in it and talk about so may sweet and sexy things. Self-Serve Toys was kind enough to give us a promo code: Exxxxtraordinary and listeners will get 20% off! Matie Fricker is a smut peddling sweetheart with a deep love for the odd and tender. She owns Albuquerque’s best sex shop, Self Serve Toys. Self Serve is a shiny bubble of love and safety for those seeking pleasure and joy in their lives. One of her proudest accomplishments was causing Rush Limbaugh to say “female orgasm” on-air multiple times. Matie has been awarded the 2008 Tough Cookie Award from the National Association for Women Business Owners, Best Sexy Shop in ABQ’s Alibi Weekly Newspaper for 13 years and Albuquerque Pride’s Outstanding Retail Store Award. http://selfservetoys.com Here’s the highlights! In finding her fat identity: Overcoming child sexual abuse Coming out as queer Touching a girl’s hand for the first time Learning to feel hunger for sex and eat again “I’m so sure that you’re wrong that your body is wrong. I am 100% confident that you’re wrong about hating your body” Mattie Fricker Virgie Tovar’s “You Have the Right to Remain Fat” https://www.feministpress.org/books-n-z/you-have-the-right-to-remain-fat “We deserve to be treated well” – Briana Cavanaugh The tension of “the good fatty role” v the “good activist role” Food is not poison. My relationship with my body has to be a practice. And my relationship with food has to be a practice. I love your feelings Secrets and being healthy or unhealthy Resources: The Body is Not An Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/books Not having to earn love. About Fat SEX! “Emergent Strategy: Shaping Change, Changing Worlds” by adrienne maree brown “Pleasure Activism” also by adrienne maree brown Standing up to a fat fetishist at sex party Mattie: I want somebody to tell me that I... they love how they love how heavy I am. They love how things feel. They love, they want to, they want to f^&*( me until I juggle… but respectfully. Care about having sex with fat people. Touch us and listen to us. Sex Out Loud podcast with Tristan Taormino http://tristantaormino.com/sex-out-loud/about/ All bodies are good bodies, deserving of love, exactly as they are. This is what my body looks like when it’s not aroused and you have to add arousal. It was so cool to use my body to teach. It was so cool to teach the whole time I was having an orgasm! We help each other feel safe. “Curvy Girl Sex” by Elle Chase: https://shevibe.com/curvy-girl-sex-by-elle-chase.aspx Matie is awesome! You can find Matie at https://www.selfservetoys.com/
Award winning sex educator, Tristan Taormino, joins Jess to talk about spanking, gang bangs, eye candy, social justice and mind-effing. Why you might want to attend Sex Down South this year... How to reclaim the gang bang The role of the gang bang “host” How to discuss rules and boundaries before a group sex experience Spanking rules and tools The importance of understanding your core erotic feeling The benefits of uncovering your elevated erotic feelings The role of a service top The appeal of the mind eff If you purchase tickets to Sex Down South, use code SEXWITHDRJESS for 20% off! Follow Tristan on Instagram, Twitter & Facebook. Have a listen and check out Tristan's podcast, Sex Out Loud. If you've got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone's headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Core Erotic Feeling, Gang-Bangs & Spankings 00:00:05 - 00:05:04 You're listening to the sacs with Dr Jess podcast sacks and relationship advice you can use tonight. Hey Jessica Riley here and today. I am joined by Tristen Tear Amino an award-winning sex. Educator media maker Speaker. She's the author of eight books editor and Co editor of twenty five anthologies and the host of your own podcast. Sex Out loud sex out loud. What do you talk about on sex out loud? You know the show evolved? It's interesting because there's so many sex podcasts right. Sometimes it feels like we're circulating all the Same guests so I think this is my. I'M GONNA go on my eighth year. This my eighth year doing it and I think the focus has become more about gender and sexuality we talk a lot about social justice marginalized communities I like to really mix in voices of you know get like a heavy hitter Janet mock and then have some one that no one's heard of you know someone who doesn't have access to the mainstream media who's doing work kind of on the margins and doing really incredible work so I like to. I like to mix it up between both and then we do questions. Not Every single episode. Do we do questions but people right? Obviously people right to me nonstop with advice questions and they call in. It's interesting because people often don't think about sexuality and social justice but even within our field you can see that there are literally thousands of brilliant folks doing really really genius work In terms of therapy of education in terms of reproductive rights. And they just don't have their voices heard because people meet me and they're like oh my gosh you know you the new Dr Ruth or in Canada the sue. You're the only one doing it and I have to tell them. You know what there are thousands of people who don't have the privilege of having this platform right right and we still thinker like suffering a little bit from being whitewashed and the people who have the most platforms and are talking the most and have the Mike most tend to be white and I feel like a group of people called that out several years ago and I took that call and criticism really seriously and feel like as a white person. It's important for me to acknowledge my white privilege and the privilege. I have in the industry the Privilege. I get with speaking gigs and to really try to push back against you know a panel where they invite me and it's all white people or a conference where they invite me and it's all white speakers so That's become m...
Award winning sex educator, Tristan Taormino, joins Jess to talk about spanking, gang bangs, eye candy, social justice and mind-f*cking. Why you might want to attend Sex Down South this year... How to reclaim the gang bang The role of the gang bang “host” How to discuss rules and boundaries before a group sex experience Spanking rules and tools The importance of understanding your core erotic feeling The benefits of uncovering your elevated erotic feelings The role of a service top The appeal of the mind f*ck If you purchase tickets to Sex Down South, use code SEXWITHDRJESS for 20% off! Follow Tristan on Instagram, Twitter & Facebook. Have a listen and check out Tristan’s podcast, Sex Out Loud.
We talk about: - Going from monogamy to sharing deeply to divorce to partnership - Deep diving into polyamory - Deep diving into the BDSM scene in North Carolina - Sweetness’s husband moving in with someone else - Staying married through metamors and changing living situation - Briana “there's these huge shifts that happen in our relationships. And, um, often they go on an acknowledged” Sweetness: “we realize that we're not, we're not the same people that we were at different points of our marriage” Shifting financial entanglements along with the domestic ones Changing body sizes and coming to terms with shame and being fat Briana: And we have a cultural story about self sacrifice, right? That's what mothers should be doing. And it’s horseshit.” Being sex positive and having grandkids Being anxious being at a sex-cation Stereotypes in the swinger community and in coming to Desire Partner who is gender non-conforming Dealing with not being able to find clothes and lingerie that fit well. And much much more! Resources: Resources: “The Ethical Slut: by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy https://www.akpress.org/ethicalslut.html More Than Two https://www.morethantwo.com/ Tristan Taormino http://tristantaormino.com/ “Sex Out Loud” podcast Life on the Swingset https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/category/podcast/swingset/
I interview Mattie Fricker naked at Desire in Cancun! Sex-cation interview with Matie! This is a really fun episode with Matie Fricker of Self Serve Toys! It was recorded while we were at Desire Riviera Maya – a swinger resort. We were there on a takeover of the resort with The Swingset Takes Desire. We get deep in it and talk about so may sweet and sexy things. Self-Serve Toys was kind enough to give us a promo code: Exxxxtraordinary and listeners will get 20% off! Matie Fricker is a smut peddling sweetheart with a deep love for the odd and tender. She owns Albuquerque’s best sex shop, Self Serve Toys. Self Serve is a shiny bubble of love and safety for those seeking pleasure and joy in their lives. One of her proudest accomplishments was causing Rush Limbaugh to say “female orgasm” on-air multiple times. Matie has been awarded the 2008 Tough Cookie Award from the National Association for Women Business Owners, Best Sexy Shop in ABQ’s Alibi Weekly Newspaper for 13 years and Albuquerque Pride’s Outstanding Retail Store Award. http://selfservetoys.com Here’s the highlights! In finding her fat identity: Overcoming child sexual abuse Coming out as queer Touching a girl’s hand for the first time Learning to feel hunger for sex and eat again “I’m so sure that you’re wrong that you’re body is wrong. I am 100% confident that you’re wrong about hating your body” Mattie Fricker Virgie Tovar’s “You Have the Right to Remain Fat” https://www.feministpress.org/books-n-z/you-have-the-right-to-remain-fat “We deserve to be treated well” – Briana Cavanaugh The tension of “the good fatty role” v the “good activist role” Food is not poison. My relationship with my body has to be a practice. And my relationship with food has to be a practice. I love your feelings Secrets and being healthy or unhealthy Resources: The Body is Not An Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/books Not having to earn love. About Fat SEX! “Emergent Strategy: Shaping Change, Changing Worlds” by adrienne maree brown “Pleasure Activism” also by adrienne maree brown Standing up to a fat fetishist at sex party Mattie: I want somebody to tell me that I fucking love my fat pussy and they love my rolls. And they love how they love how heavy I am. They love how things feel. They love, they want to, they want to fuck me until I juggle… but respectfully. And I fuck feminists who won’t say things like that. Care about fucking fat people. Touch us and listen to us. Sex Out Loud podcast with Tristan Taormino http://tristantaormino.com/sex-out-loud/about/ All bodies are good bodies, deserving of love, exactly as they are. This is what my body looks like when it’s not aroused and you have to add arousal. It was so cool to use my body to teach. It was so cool to teach the whole time I was having an orgasm! We help each other feel safe. “Curvy Girl Sex” by Elle Chase (link on website) Matie is awesome! You can find Matie at https://www.selfservetoys.com/
Ep.184-Dr. Hernando Chaves and I talk about the sexual shame, importance of Sex Ed and consent education at all ages, choosing partners who are a good fit, and the sometimes difficult evolution of an individual within a relationship. This week's Consent Corner focuses on Emotional Intelligence & Consent Comprehension from my book The Consent Guidebook (www.TheConsentGuidebook.com). About Dr. Hernando: Dr. Hernando Chaves holds a B.A. in psychology from University of California Santa Barbara, a M.A. in marital and family therapy from University of San Diego, and a D.H.S. doctorate in human sexuality from the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. He is a licensed marriage and family therapist in CA specializing in intimacy/relational difficulties, sexual concerns/dysfunctions, and with sexual minority communities (LGBTQ, BDSM, fetish, sex work, nonmonogamy), Dr. Chaves is a psychology and sexuality professor at East Los Angeles College and Pepperdine University, presented at various academic institutions including Alliant, Cal Lutheran, CSULB, NYU, Pepperdine, USC, USD and conferences/shows such as AASECT, AVN/AEE, Catalystcon, SSSS, SHE and a Western Region past president and board of directors member for the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality. He has written/consulted for 14 instructional media sex education projects, co-host for Penthouse's Sex Academy instructional series, and BaDoinkVR virtual reality sex therapy instructional video. Dr. Chaves has written for AskMen.com, Sexpert.com, a contributing author to the International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality, contributed/featured in publications such as Rolling Stone, The Guardian, Marie Claire, Bustle, Vice, Maxim, Mens Health, The Daily Star, Esquire, and Alternet, as well as radio and podcast appearances on Sirius XM, 96.3FM, Playboy radio, Sex Nerd Sandra, Sex Out Loud, and Sex with Emily. www.DrHernandoChaves.com
Episode 104 is officially going down in the annals of American Sex history as the go-to butt play guide. Tristan Taormino tells us everything we’ve always wanted to know more about backdoor play. We bust anal sex myths that keep us ashamed and afraid to experiment. Tristan gets to the bottom of the notion that anal is the riskiest kind of sex--find out if that’s really true and why. You'll learn essential anal anatomy, the best lube for your behind, enema do’s and dont’s, the benefits of anal masturbation, specific step-by-step guidelines for givers and receivers to maximize your odds of having a painless & pleasurable experience, the best positions for anal (including pegging), the real story on gaping, anal training & buttplugs, and a butt-load more (ha!). Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 104 Links Tristan Taormino Twitter https://twitter.com/TristanTaormino Tristan Taormino Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tristantaormino/ Tristan Taormino Facebook https://www.facebook.com/AskTristan/ Tristan Taormino SFW website http://tristantaormino.com/ Tristan Taormino NSFW website https://puckerup.com/ Sex Out Loud podcast https://www.voiceamerica.com/show/2096/sex-out-loud Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X/ The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women, 2nd Edition https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Anal-Sex-Women/dp/1573442216 Tristan Taormino Patreon https://www.patreon.com/tristantaormino Tristan Taormino’s bonus story https://www.patreon.com/posts/30122979 Former Podcast with Ruby Ryder on Pegging http://sunnymegatron.com/ruby-ryder-pegging-paradise/ Amberly Rothfield Twitter Video (CAUTION: On a NSFW tube site) https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5d7d8fc6c1fef American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 104 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01
In this episode, I sit down with sex educator and host of Sex Out Loud, Tristan Taormino as we talk about her experiences with chronic back pain and working in the sexuality space. She explains why she loves corsets, why she switched from high heels to flats, we talk about why first class flying is indeed an access issue and a whole lot more about sex, disability and everything in between. Enjoy!You can follow Tristan's work at www.tristantaormino.com or on Twitter www.twitter.com/TristanTaormino.Be sure to support our sponsors:Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark".Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hotYou can get 50% off almost any item in store at www.adameve.com and 10 FREE GIFTS by using DARKPOD at check out!Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark
Nicoletta interviews author, educator, and activist Tristan Taormino while on the road in Orlando Florida for the Podcast Movement conference. This episode is jam packed with everything from cancel and call-out culture to imposter syndrome, age of consent, and more about minor attraction. Also, hear about what Nicoletta and Tristan have in common while they geek out in their robes and matching clitoris necklaces. Tristan: http://tristantaormino.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of Sluts and Scholars Media.
Your host Lisa Cherney is opening up the kimono today! Little did she know when she opened her marriage that it would have a significant impact on her business. If you could live in complete alignment and never suppress any of your magnificence, would you? As you’ll hear, it comes down to questioning your beliefs and stories which open the gateway to freedom. Today’s episode is bound to lead to a #GFRMoment around your business, your mission or feeling fulfilled in life. Get comfy and tune in! ResourcesBooks The Ethical Slut (https://amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Practical-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379) The State of Affairs (https://amazon.com/State-Affairs-Rethinking-Infidelity/dp/0062322591) Sex at Dawn (https://amazon.com/Sex-Dawn-Stray-Modern-Relationships/dp/0061707813) Opening Up (https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X) More Than Two (https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Two-Practical-Polyamory/dp/0991399706) GFR GuestsKamala Devi from episode 2 has a course “ Beyond Monogamy (http://www.kamaladevi.com/beyond-monogamy) “ Reid Mahalko in a future episode on his website PodcastsLisa’s Interview with Andrea J. Lee – Loving without Limits: Opening Up about being Married and Dating (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/doing-impossible-one-thing-at-time-together-podcast/id1319548241?i=1000402281754) The Savage Lovecast (https://www.savagelovecast.com) Multiamory (https://www.multiamory.com/podcast) Life on The Swingset (https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/category/podcast) On the Wetcoast (http://podcasts.onthewetcoast.com) Sex Out Loud (http://tristantaormino.com/category/sex-out-loud) MORE GFR!The 12 GFR Commandments – download your own copy now (https://gfr.life/12c) (https://gfr.life/squad) – get started for just 20 Bucks! Did you enjoy the podcast?If you liked this episode let me know! Reviews for the podcast on iTunes are much appreciated! This helps us reach entrepreneurs just like you to be unapologetically themselves. If you received value from this episode, it would mean the world if you could take a moment and leave your 5-star rating and positive review. You can do that by visiting right here. (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/get-f-ing-real/id1464530109) PHOTO CREDIT: Lindsay Miller, WildlyVisible (https://www.wildlyvisible.com)
Tristan Taormino brings Sex Out Loud and Dylan, Ginger, and Cooper bring Life on the Swingset to the Pleasure Chest Chicago for a two hour chat and attendee Q&A about: Bisexual Male Acceptance Swinging and community Welcoming People, including Racially Diverse, people into the community White Supremacy, Fragility, Shame Spirals, and Erasure Single Men and the Barriers they face in Swinging …and more! Would you like 20% off on an award winning line of restraints, sexual position devices, sex toys, and more? Head over to lifeontheswingset.com/sportsheets to get yourself that 20% off! Tristan Taormino is coming to Desire… are you? Join us from November 2nd through the 9th this 2019 for Life on the Swingset’s eighth trip to Desire! Visit swingsetdesire.com for more information! The primary hotel for the US's largest swinger festival Naughty in N'awlins is almost sold out! Come get Naughty with Cooper S. Beckett, Ginger Bentham, and Dylan Thomas this July 24-28 at Naughty in Nawlins! Help support Life on the Swingset continue to make podcasts, and put on live panels and shows into the future! Throw us a dollar (or a few) each time we release an episode on Patreon! Your support will get you invited to a private chat with other Swingsetters, and give you the opportunity to join live podcast recordings, and listen to episodes commercial free, and with outtakes! The best FREE thing you can do to support us is leave us a five-star review. Come to our review gateway, then copy and paste your review into iTunes or Stitcher! Also, follow us on Spotify! Leave us a comment on this post or at contact@lifeontheswingset.com or leave us a voicemail at 573-55-SWING (573-557-9464). Intro Music: Conro – Thrill of It Outro Music: Infected Mushroom – Kababies Our Naughty in Nawlins Advertisement includes music by ローマンRoman titled: COBRA 320 SPEEDBOAT, off the Paradise album. Our Sportsheets Advertisement includes music by ローマンRoman titled: A M – F M off the P A L M S I V album. These tracks are licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported (CC BY 3.0) license.
Want to learn about anal sex? Who better to learn from than world-renowned sex educator, author, and adult filmmaker, Tristan Taormino (host of the Sex Out Loud podcast). She gives us her top ten tips for anal sex and explains how she became comfortable enough with sex to talk about it on the Howard Stern Show. She also gives us a wonderful guide to safe sex. Best of all – she offers to have sex with Cam! You don't want to miss this incredibly hilarious and informative episode! Want to hear Tristan's secret to how she helped her partner last longer in bed? Check out our Patreon bonus episode where we discuss solutions for premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, women who believe they take too long to orgasm, and insecurity around penis size! Go to www.patreon.com/sextalkwithmymom. Check out Tristan's work! Not Safe For Work website: www.puckerup.com. Safe For Work: www.TristanTaormino.com. Patreon: www.Patreon.com/tristantaormino. Podcast: Sex Out Loud. Social platforms: @TristanTaormino. Be a part of our show! Any anal tips or questions? Text or leave us a voicemail at (YES) TEXT-MOM, or (937)-839-8666. You can also subscribe to us on castbox.fm and participate in our live recordings! Thank you for all the love over the past 200+ episodes. We couldn't do it without you. If you'd like to support the show, consider helping us in the following ways: 1) Enter to win a Sex Talk With My Mom sticker by leaving us a rating and review on iTunes. Make sure to let us know that you did it through email or DM, so we can mail you the sticker. 2) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/sextalkwithmymom. You will receive awesome BONUS EPISODES on an exclusive "Sex Talk With My Patrons" podcast. All proceeds go to creating this podcast! 3) Snag the new Sex Talk With My Mom t-shirt from our merch store at www.sextalkwithmymom.com/merch. You'll look fly as hell! 4) Take a pic of where you're listening to the podcast and tag us on Instagram @SexTalkWithMyMom. Word-of-mouth is really the best way to spread the love. Get close with us on social at: Facebook/Instagram - @SexTalkWithMyMom Twitter - @SexTalkPodcast Website - www.SexTalkWithMyMom.com We are a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. Make sure to check out our sex podcasting friends at www.pleasurepodcasts.com.
Tristan Taormino brings Sex Out Loud and Dylan, Ginger, and Cooper bring Life on the Swingset to the Pleasure Chest Chicago for a two hour chat and attendee Q&A about: Bisexual Acceptance Kink, including Tristan's stories from Twisted Tryst Single men at sexy and kink events How to find community …and more! *** EMBED CODE FOR PODCAST FROM LIBSYN GOES HERE YOU INSENSITIVE CLOD *** Would you like 20% off on an award winning line of restraints, sexual position devices, sex toys, and more? Head over to lifeontheswingset.com/sportsheets to get yourself that 20% off! Tristan Taormino is coming to Desire… are you? Join us from November 2nd through the 9th this 2019 for Life on the Swingset’s eighth trip to Desire! Visit swingsetdesire.com for more information! The primary hotel for the US's largest swinger festival Naughty in N'awlins is almost sold out! Come get Naughty with Cooper S. Beckett, Ginger Bentham, and Dylan Thomas this July 24-28 at Naughty in Nawlins! Help support Life on the Swingset continue to make podcasts, and put on live panels and shows into the future! Throw us a dollar (or a few) each time we release an episode on Patreon! Your support will get you invited to a private chat with other Swingsetters, and give you the opportunity to join live podcast recordings, and listen to episodes commercial free, and with outtakes! The best FREE thing you can do to support us is leave us a five-star review. Come to our review gateway, then copy and paste your review into iTunes or Stitcher! Also, follow us on Spotify! Leave us a comment on this post or at contact@lifeontheswingset.com or leave us a voicemail at 573-55-SWING (573-557-9464). Intro and Music: Rootkit – Voyage (Kage Remix) Our Naughty in Nawlins Advertisement includes music by ローマンRoman titled: COBRA 320 SPEEDBOAT, off the Paradise album. Our Sportsheets Advertisement includes music by ローマンRoman titled: A M – F M off the P A L M S I V album. These tracks are licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported (CC BY 3.0) license.
Bradford and Angela are coming to Desire… are you? Join us from November 2nd through the 9th this 2019 for Life on the Swingset’s eighth trip to Desire! Visit swingsetdesire.com for more information! Help support Life on the Swingset continue to make podcasts, and put on live panels and shows into the future! Throw us a dollar (or a few) each time we release an episode on Patreon! Your support will get you invited to a private chat with other Swingsetters, and give you the opportunity to join live podcast recordings, and listen to episodes commercial free, and with outtakes! You can support us while you buy great sex toys and products from our favorite online retailer SheVibe at lifeontheswingset.com/shevibe. The best FREE thing you can do to support us is leave us a five-star review. Come to our review gateway, then copy and paste your review into iTunes or Stitcher! Also, follow us on Spotify! Leave us a comment on this post or at contact@lifeontheswingset.com or leave us a voicemail at 573-55-SWING (573-557-9464). Dylan Thomas is available for for podcast consultation and production work. If you're interested, visit www.dylanthethomas.com. Our Naughty in Nawlins Advertisement includes music by ローマンRoman titled: COBRA 320 SPEEDBOAT, off the Paradise album. Our episode includes several other tracks from the Paradise album. These tracks are licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported (CC BY 3.0) license.
This BDSM episode is a perfect primer for those dipping their toes into the kinky pool for the first time or for experienced kinksters looking for a little renewed inspiration. Ken & Sunny’s approach to kink is quite different than what’s typically depicted. Nearly every stereotype, archetype, and “rule” you thought applied to BDSM is about to be broken. In this episode Sunny talks with Lexi Sylver of the Seek, Discover, Create podcast about all things BDSM. They cover: the roles of a dominant and submissive, how to start communicating and experimenting with your partner to discover what your kinks are, tips for playing safely, the importance of consent and safe words, what “aftercare” is really all about and how it works, the potentially therapeutic benefits of BDSM play, and more. Get ready for a new spin on a popular subject! ___________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 80 Links Seek Discover Create Podcast with Lexi Sylver https://bit.ly/SDCRadioLexi Lexi Sylver Website https://lexisylver.com Lexi Sylver Facebook https://www.facebook.com/getlexual Lexi Sylver Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lexisylver/ Lexi Sylver Twitter https://twitter.com/lexisylver Lexi Sylver Youtube https://www.youtube.com/user/TheSylverScreen SDC.com Twitter https://twitter.com/sdcmedia SDC.com https://www.sdc.com/ Ken & Sunny on Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast https://www.savagelovecast.com/episodes/600#.XIKDmohKg2w Ken & Sunny on Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/sex-out-loud/e/49169668?autoplay=true Ken & Sunny on The Sex with Emily podcast http://sexwithemily.com/kinky-fun-sex/ Ken & Sunny on A Touch Of Flavor https://atouchofflavor.com/how-to-execute-an-interrogation-scene-with-sunny-megatron-and-ken/ Ken & Sunny on Sex Nerd Sandra, Clown Sex episode https://nerdist.com/2013/05/sex-nerd-sandra-92-clown-sex/ Ken & Sunny on Sex Nerd Sandra, Golden Showers episode https://archive.nerdist.com/sex-nerd-sandra-146-golden-showers-with-ken-melvoin-berg-sunny-megatron-and-damon-holzum/ Yes/No/Maybe & ROUGH BS Scene Negotiation tool http://bit.ly/bdsmynm Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 80 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info XTaxPros.com specializing in taxes for the adult industry & more https://xtaxpros.com/ or (702) 253-7499 Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed
Normalizing Non-Monogamy - Interviews in Polyamory and Swinging
We had the honor of sitting down at Desire in November 2018 with the one and only Tristan Taormino for a an interview in which she tells us things she has never spoken about publicly before. Her words, not ours. The author, porn director, podcaster, and all around bad ass human shares some amazing stories and wisdom with us. If you are thinking about skipping class today, think again. Show Notes $10 Off - Online STI Testing Join Our Patreon Community! Kasidie Online Dating https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/ http://puckerup.com/
Professor Lynn Comella joins us to talk about her books New Views on Pornography: Sexuality, Politics, and the Law (co-edited with Shira Tarrant, 2015) and Vibrator Nation: How Feminist Sex-Toy Stores Changed the Business of Pleasure (2017). The reach of Vibrator Nation’s readership has extended beyond the typical academic circles and has resonated with a mainstream audience due to its easy reading style, and because it details a history of feminist sex shops that the public was obviously eager to read about. The history of these shops is a fascinating one and one that has literally changed the ways in which we think about the female orgasm within our post-sexual revolution era. The story of these stores isn’t one of capitalist opportunism, it’s actually a story about revolutionary feminist sexual educators who wanted to spread their sexual knowledge to a starving female public looking for ways to expand their sexual pleasure. In short, our understanding of sexual history would be incomplete without the information contained in this book. Pornography also has a role to play in this history. We talk about how pornography worked its way into these sex shops after owners long resisted their inclusion. And we also talk about the movies produced by the legendary San Francisco sex shop Good Vibrations. This is a history that you’re not going to want to miss! Learn more about Lynn on her website. Vibrator Nation book review in the New York Times. Lynn’s interview with The Atlantic. Sex Out Loud episode where Tristan Taormino interviews Joani Blank. Vibrator Nation Instagram. Lynn’s Twitter. “Ten Feminist Sex Shops You’re Going to Want to Add to Your Wishlist” pornocultures.podomatic.com facebook.com/AcademicSex @PornoCultures https://concordia.academia.edu/brandrroyo
Special guest Dr. Lanae St.John, known as The MamaSutra, is a board-certified sexologist with the American College of Sexologists and a professor of human sexuality at City College of San Francisco. She's been named one of the top 100 sex blogging superheroes by Kinkly.com every year since 2013.Dr. Lanae has been quoted in Forbes.com, Huffington Post, livestrong.com, Popsugar, and Women's Health Magazine and she's been a guest on multiple podcasts including Sex Out Loud, Sex Nerd Sandra, and Sexology. In addition, she is a writer and blogger with an upcoming parenting book that has a human sexuality focus. Lanae lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her partner and two daughters.http://www.themamasutra.net/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
By popular demand, here is a re-issue of my April 2017 interview with Cooper S Becket about non-monogamy and bisexual men. Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Joining me today is Cooper Beckett. Cooper S. Beckett is the co-founder and host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast since 2010, author of swinging & polyamory novels A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching The Swingularity, and memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory. He teaches and speaks on swinging, polyamory, pegging, play parties, and coloring outside the boundaries of your sexuality. He is a graphic & web designer, photographer, and voice over artist, has been a guest expert on Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast, & is the announcer of Tristan Taormino’s radio show Sex Out Loud. He is currently working on two instructional non-fiction books, one about beginning non-monogamy, and another about pegging. We started by talking about swinging and spoke about the swinging culture in the late 70’s early 80’s and how that went underground after the AIDS crisis began. Cooper talked about the new renaissance that has existed since the internet has boomed and how much easier it is for people to find each other. We spoke about the normative swingers – heterosexual male and a bisexual or bicurious female. Cooper talked about how much more he has enjoyed having parties that are sex parties instead of swinging parties where there is a larger cross section of the non-monogamous community. We spoke about the invisibility of the bisexual male and Cooper talked about the fear that heterosexual males demonstrate when confronted with male bisexuality but also about the attitude from some of the gay community that there is no such thing as bisexuality. I agreed that this was also my experience and both of us spoke about the importance of identifying loudly as bisexual to educate others about bi-invisibility. Cooper spoke about the prevalence of people who are ‘broken’ in some way in alternative communities and made it clear that he wasn’t talking damaged. The example he used was the larger number of people with chronic illness who are seen in these communities and he suggested that people who have chronic illness look for things to make them feel less miserable and so explore more. We spoke about how research in this area would be fascinating and he spoke about the need for research on prostate orgasm (as there is a suggestion of a correlation between regular prostate stimulation and lower levels of prostate cancer) but that there is no research money for any research on sexuality. Cooper’s book, Approaching the Swingularity has just been released. Click the link to purchase from his site www.coopersbeckett.com. (Though it can also be purchased on Amazon. As he is an independent publisher, purchases from his site give him more of the price so please consider purchasing directly). You can also find him on twitter @coopersbeckett. Thanks for joining me this week for Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. Write to me with suggestions for the show, questions you want answered at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com, follow me on twitter @drbisbey. Are you ready to find out what turns you on? If so, take the test! https://the-intimacy-coach.com and press the button that says 'Take the Test'. I look forward to seeing you next week with a new sex love story about polyamory and marriage.
B is for Bisexual Hi everyone! Welcome to the A to Z of Sex. I'm Dr Lori Beth and I am your host. We are working our way through the erotic alphabet one letter at a time. Just a reminder this podcast deals with adult content, so if you don't have total privacy, you might want to put on your headphones. Today the letter is B and B is for Bisexual. People who are bisexual are attracted to both men and women (and some are attracted to all genders) Joining me today to talk about this topic is Cooper S Beckett. Cooper S. Beckett is the co-founder and host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast since 2010, author of swinging & polyamory novels A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching The Swingularity, and memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory. He teaches and speaks on swinging, polyamory, pegging, play parties, and coloring outside the boundaries of your sexuality. He is a graphic & web designer, photographer, and voice over artist, has been a guest expert on Dan Savage's Savage Lovecast, & is the announcer of Tristan Taormino's radio show Sex Out Loud. We started our talk about male bisexuality by looking at some of the differences to female bisexuality. We both agreed that bivisibility is a huge issue but even worse for men than for women. We spoke about how difficult many people find ambivalence and how non-binary identifications are the definition of ambivalence for people who are not non-binary. We spoke about the difficulties and joys of being a bisexual male. Cooper said that in the swinging community he reckons a good 80% of the women are bisexual – or at least willing to engage in bisexual activity. We spoke about how men have encouraged women to explore and he suggested that if women were willing to encourage men more he thought more men would experiment. He was very clear to say that he wasn't blaming women for anything, just suggesting that encouragement would help. We spoke about how communities are not supporting each other at present but instead bickering about levels of privilege, problems and issues. We agreed this was sad but Cooper said it is like the last rat off a sinking ship syndrome. There is so much more persecution at present that people fight for scarce resources. Cooper spoke about a lot of this coming from people being afraid of things they don't understand. We highlighted how important it is to learn what turns you on, accept yourself and what turns you on so that you can create a congruent authentic sexual life. We were both clear that this starts with personal exploration, internal exploration rather than looking to the external world. We spoke about how difficult it can be to seek help when you are struggling with these issues and how important it is that people have safe places to take these issues. Cooper finished by saying that his journey thus far has been wonderful even through the difficult parts and encouraged other men who are unsure to be willing to try. He emphasised that what you do and who you are may be different things and that doing something once doesn't change your orientation. You can find Cooper at http://coopersbeckett.com There you can find links to his podcast and all of his books. Thanks for joining me for the A to Z of Sexoo this week. Write to me with suggestions for the show, questions you want answered at drloribeth@atozofsex.com , follow me on twitter, Instagram and Facebook. Check out my YouTube channel: Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. For a free 30-minute strategy session with me, go to https://atozofsex.com/ and click the button that says Schedule Now! If you enjoy the show please leave me a review on iTunes and Stitcher. The next five people who review the show will receive 1 session free, a £250 value. See you next week when the letter will be C.
Mollena Lee Williams-Haas ep 11 Mollena discusses her contractual Master/slave relationship with famous modern composer husband Georg Friedrich Haas, the unlikely way they met, and how his upbringing in post-Nazi Austria influenced his later work that highlights racism & injustice. We discuss her struggle with alcoholism, how a very real but not real hyena accompanied her in her early days of sobriety & how that inspired a libretto she’s performed worldwide. Mollena also sheds light on why unsolicited advice sucks, reconciling feminism and BDSM & more. Guest Bio Mollena Williams Haas - This “Delicate, Trembling Flower of Submission” © is an NYC born and raised writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller, sobriety fiend since March 2007, and an Award-Winning Executive Pervert. Owned and collared by renowned contemporary composer Georg Friedrich Haas since 2013 and his wife since 2015, she serves as his beloved slave, submissive, wife, servant and Muse. February 2016 saw a groundbreaking piece about their relationship featured in the New York Times. Her opinion and viewpoints on issues of kink, Leather and BDSM are frequently sought after by news and information sources like The New York Times, The Huffington Post, Newsweek, Essence, Ebony, etc. She is a frequent guest expert on Dan Savage’s “Savage Lovecast,” Tristan Taormino’s “Sex Out Loud” three times, and Margaret Cho’s “Monsters of Talk” podcast. Exploring kink since 1993, active in BDSM and the Leather Community since 1996, and teaching since 1998, she speaks internationally on those topics. She’s even spoken about Kink at Harvard, Yale, Princeton. Molena is also a leather titleholder-- International Ms Leather 2010 and Ms. San Francisco Leather 2009. She’s the co-author of the “Toybag Guide: Taboo Play.” and “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities”. Both collaborations with fellow educator Lee Harrington. A professional stage performer since the age of 5, Mollena’s credits include singing on the soundtrack for the movie The Wiz and co-starring with Danny Bonaduce in the underground cult-classic America’s Deadliest Home Video. Her short film, IMPACT, won the “Cinekink’s Best Experimental Film Award. Mollena’s latest performance piece is Hyena, a collaboration with her husband. They are also both the subject of an upcoming documentary called The Artist and The Pervert (trailer below). Mollena also appeared on Sex with Sunny Megatron on Showtime in a segment on race play. Episode 11 Topics Alcoholism, hammerhead sharks, Master/slave dynamics, shower conversations with the universe, a persuasive hyena named Bubbles, Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, being an accidental prophet, anti-fascist art, growing up in the projects, the power of storytelling, hummingbirds are assholes, psychotic breaks, racism on Facebook, NPR Snap Judgement, reconciling self hatred, #NoAdvicePlease, power exchange relationships, The Evil Jewish Lesbian Landladies, BDSM slave contract, post WWII Nazi Austria, what politics has to do with sex, leaving love to fate, Gestalt Therapy, experiencing racism as a child, making an old Austrian cry, conflict is human, the struggles of becoming a sex educator Episode 11 Links Mollena Williams Haas Website Mollena Williams Haas Facebook Other Mentions Chicago BDSM Class: http://bit.ly/bdsmclasssunny Kinkly Sex Blogger 2017 voting: http://bit.ly/votesunny Episode 11 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Sex Toy Spotlight item of the week: Velskin Premium Silicone (get them, or almost anything else at Castle Megastore for 20% off with Code SUNNY) Angela White Fleshlight Contest: Win an Angela White Fleshlight and a copy of Angela Loves Women 3 which signed by both Angela White and Abella Danger, Contest extended-- runs from 10/1-10/31/17. No purchase necessary. Enter online at Castle Megastore Wonder O Wand Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/wandgiveaway/ The Artist & The Pervert Trailer
Cooper S. Beckett sat down with us to talk all things swinging. What’s the difference between swinging and polyamory? Why don’t the sexual subcommunities always play nicely together? What’s the deal with bisexuality in the swing lifestyle? When is the right (and wrong) time for couples to explore non-monogamy? What the heck does the 2008 financial collapse have to do with non-monogamy today? We also discuss Cooper’s coming out and how the current political climate has affected him as a leader in the sex-positive community. Guest bio Cooper S. Beckett is the co-founder and host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast since 2010, author of swinging & polyamory novels A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching The Swingularity, and memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory. He teaches and speaks on swinging, polyamory, pegging, play parties, and coloring outside the boundaries of your sexuality. He is a graphic & web designer, photographer, and voice over artist, has been a guest expert on Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast, & is the announcer of Tristan Taormino’s radio show Sex Out Loud. Episode 8 topics the ethics of unicorn hunting, sex-positive snobbery, queer swinging, the best sex clubs in the US, strictly dickly, toxic monogamy in the swinging lifestyle, kik & snapchat, Life on the Swingset, boring times at sex clubs, everyone wants to fuck Jack Harkness, the personal is political, David Bowie holding the fabric of the universe together, swinging etiquette, millennial swingers, Becker S. Coopet, how to navigate the poly scene, the age gap in the swing community, Approaching the Swingualrity, SLS, bro-jobs, Desire Resorts, bi visibility, Donald Trump golden shower sex tape, Lord of the Cock RIngs, bar-sexuals, sex scandals, swinging for the wrong reasons, the one couples problem swinging can solve, swinging for single men Episode 8 links & info Get Cooper’s book including his new Approaching the Swingualrity audiobook: https://coopersbeckett.com Cooper’s blog and podcast: https://lifeontheswingset.com Episode 8 links Sponsor/Promotional information American Sex Podcast iTunes Giveaway Win a Fun Factory Darling Devil Silicone Vibrator and a Hybrid Battery Kit valued at $110! How? Review and/or subscribe to American Sex Podcast on iTunes during the month of September. Screenshot both and email it to americansexpodcast@gmail.com to be entered in the contest. Winners selected by random computerized drawing 10/2. Must be 18+ and live in the contiguous 48 states to win. More details on the giveaway page. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Celebration & Contest Week 4 Castle Megastore has been helping customers with romance and fun for 30 years! To celebrate they’re running a contest for the whole month on September. Every Purchase you make in store or online will automatically enter you in the the contest. There will be 6 winners at each location for a total of 102 winners. The winners will receive a mystery gift from either We-Vibe, Fun Factory, Clandestine Devices, System JO, Jopen or Lelo. All prizes are valued over $100! The 30th Anniversary Celebration contest runs September 1, 2017 through September 30, 2017. Prize drawings will be held October 2, 2017. You’ll automatically be entered into the contest with every purchase you make, NO MINIMUM! So if you make a $5 purchase or a $100 purchase you’ll be entered. No form to fill out to enter online. In Stores: you’ll need to give your email at checkout so that they can contact you if you win. If you have already provided your email from previous purchases, then you’re already in their system and you’ll be entered in the contest. One entry per purchase per visit, but if you make 5 purchases within the month of September, you be entered into the contest 5 times. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Month Long Specials All Month Long: $30 for 30 days Toy Rack Online & in stores sale 10 for $30 Panties (in stores only) 8 for $30 Plus Size Panties (in stores only) 5 for $30 DVDs *3 for $20 Dvds and $9.99 titles only (in stores only) Weekly sale 9/22-9/30 30% off all Velskin Silicone dildos and penis extenders 20% off Castle Megastore.com purchases every day of the year for our fans with code SUNNY (limited restrictions apply)
Cooper S. Beckett is the co-founder and host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast since 2010, author of swinging & polyamory novels A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching The Swingularity, and memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory. He teaches and speaks on swinging, polyamory, pegging, play parties, and coloring outside the boundaries of your sexuality. He is a graphic & web designer, photographer, and voice over artist, has been a guest expert on Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast, & is the announcer of Tristan Taormino’s radio show Sex Out Loud. He is currently working on two instructional non-fiction books, one about beginning non-monogamy, and another about pegging.http://coopersbeckett.comhttp://swingset.fmhttp://lifeontheswingset.comhttp://ssdesire.com
Cooper S. Beckett is the co-founder and host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast since 2010, author of swinging & polyamory novels A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching The Swingularity, and memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory. He teaches and speaks on swinging, polyamory, pegging, play parties, and coloring outside the boundaries of your sexuality. He is a graphic & web designer, photographer, and voice over artist, has been a guest expert on Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast, & is the announcer of Tristan Taormino’s radio show Sex Out Loud. He is currently working on two instructional non-fiction books, one about beginning non-monogamy, and another about pegging.http://coopersbeckett.comhttp://swingset.fmhttp://lifeontheswingset.comhttp://ssdesire.com
Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Joining me today is Cooper Beckett. Cooper S. Beckett is the co-founder and host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast since 2010, author of swinging & polyamory novels A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching The Swingularity, and memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory. He teaches and speaks on swinging, polyamory, pegging, play parties, and coloring outside the boundaries of your sexuality. He is a graphic & web designer, photographer, and voice over artist, has been a guest expert on Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast, & is the announcer of Tristan Taormino’s radio show Sex Out Loud. He is currently working on two instructional non-fiction books, one about beginning non-monogamy, and another about pegging. We started by talking about swinging and spoke about the swinging culture in the late 70’s early 80’s and how that went underground after the AIDS crisis began. Cooper talked about the new renaissance that has existed since the internet has boomed and how much easier it is for people to find each other. We spoke about the normative swingers – heterosexual male and a bisexual or bicurious female. Cooper talked about how much more he has enjoyed having parties that are sex parties instead of swinging parties where there is a larger cross section of the non-monogamous community. We spoke about the invisibility of the bisexual male and Cooper talked about the fear that heterosexual males demonstrate when confronted with male bisexuality but also about the attitude from some of the gay community that there is no such thing as bisexuality. I agreed that this was also my experience and both of us spoke about the importance of identifying loudly as bisexual to educate others about bi-invisibility. Cooper spoke about the prevalence of people who are ‘broken’ in some way in alternative communities and made it clear that he wasn’t talking damaged. The example he used was the larger number of people with chronic illness who are seen in these communities and he suggested that people who have chronic illness look for things to make them feel less miserable and so explore more. We spoke about how research in this area would be fascinating and he spoke about the need for research on prostate orgasm (as there is a suggestion of a correlation between regular prostate stimulation and lower levels of prostate cancer) but that there is no research money for any research on sexuality. Cooper’s book, Approaching the Swingularity has just been released. Click the link to purchase from his site www.coopersbeckett.com. (Though it can also be purchased on Amazon. As he is an independent publisher, purchases from his site give him more of the price so please consider purchasing directly). You can also find him on twitter @coopersbeckett. Thanks for joining me this week for Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. Write to me with suggestions for the show, questions you want answered at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com, follow me on twitter @drbisbey. For a free 30 minute strategy session with me, go to www.the-intimacy-coach.com and click the button that says Schedule Now! I look forward to seeing you next week when we begin our series on BDSM and Power Exchange.
I answer a few questions that dind't get hit during my fleeting hour on Tristan Taormino's "Sex Out Loud!" The full show will be here http://www.voiceamerica.com/episode/63590/mollena-williams-on-kinky-roleplay-race-play-taboo-fantasies-and-being-a-slave
Tristan Taormino returns to the Swingset to give Cooper some advice on NRE, discuss her new book The Ultimate Guide to Kink, and talk about her new project, a weekly live call-in radio show called Sex Out Loud on VoiceAmerica.com starting June 1st.
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