I Can't Mom Today

Vera and Heather have decided to end the I Can't Mom Today Podcast after almost six years.  This is their final goodbye and thank you to all the podcast listeners.  

The kids count the days til Summer Break, but do you?  It's not always an easy transition.  We've got some tips on how to make it a weee bit easier.  Don't forget to pick up some amazing I Can't Mom Today merch here!: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699  

It's only natural to want to ease our kid's pain, but getting in the habit of 'fixing' everything for our kids can actually be detrimental in the long run.  What can we do differently? Here's the book that Heather mentions in the episode: https://www.amazon.com/Ruby-Finds-Worry-Tom-Percival/dp/1547602376

What is a sleep divorce and can it work for you and your partner?  Link to the CBD Heather takes we mention in the podcast: https://www.getsoul.com And of course I Can't Mom Today merch!: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699    

More and more people are noticing that their kids are simply fried.  It's being said that not only are there not enough teachers, but not enough school counselors to help our kids.  Can you relate? Don't forget to pick up your I Can't Mom Today Merch!: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699

Do you think you're the best Mom in the world?  Apparently 73% of Moms think they are.  We'd like to think we are a little more humble than that, aren't you?  Don't forget you can pick up amazing I Can't Mom Today merch here: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699 And the Ultimate Cloths you've heard us talk about here: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune  

Have you booked Summer Camp for your kids yet?  Some of our experiences and tips on getting your kids into the right one! Don't forget to pick up your I Can't Mom Today merch just in time for Mother's Day here!  : https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699

Did you have a habit or ritual that you realized later might be viewed as a tad strange?  Here are some of ours...maybe you can relate! Also, just in time for Mother's Day don't forget to pick up your I Can't Mom Today merch and ultimate cloths: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699

Is it just us or does it seem to take at least 5 phone calls to get anything done these days????  It really seems like everyone is in slo-mo.  Not easy when you're trying to take care of yourself and your little one(s)!

Vera watched the Jonah Hill documentary called 'Stutz' (currently on Netflix) and loved it.  So many nuggets of wisdom to handle everyday life.  Really.  We share some of those precious nuggets in this episode.

Week 2 of caffeine free Heather!  It's been a rough week.  On top of it all, Heather accidentally overscheduled Baker, thus resulting in meltdown city.   Don't forget to pick up your I Can't Mom Today merch here!: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699

Heather's quit caffeine.  Lookout!  As she's dragging her butt around we discuss some little things we've tried to save money.  Don't forget to pick up your I Can't Mom Today merch here!: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699

Ever heard of something being 'Low Vibration?" It's something that brings you down.  Here are some ways/things to raise your vibration!  Don't forget to pick up your I Can't Mom Today merch here!: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699

Believe it or not, Spring will be here before you know it!  All things Spring and how YOU can get your very own FREE I Can't Mom Today sticker.  Also, if you would like to buys some merch: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699 Some ultimate cloths: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune And special thanks to Altrua Global Solutions for the stickers!: https://www.altruaglobalsolutions.com    

Heather and Vera delve into the (not so) new trend of the Tradwife.  The term may be new, but it adopts some older philospohies.  Are you a Tradwife?  Is this a good or a bed thing?   Don't forget to pick up your I Can't Mom Today Merch here!: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699

We all frequently feel like we're burning the candle at both ends, so we found a poll that asked people if they had to name one habit they developed that changed their lives (and made things easier), what was it?  Here are the top 4 answers.  Don't forget to pick up your I Can't Mom Today Merch here: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699

Unfortunately Vera's son fell victim to some scams and fraud recently.  We wanted to share with you some things you can do to protect your little ones, not so little ones (and yourself!) from some of these $%^& scammers out there! If you wanna pick up some I Can't Mom Today merch it's here: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/i-cant-mom-today?ref_id=25699 And some Ultimate Cloths: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune  

Do you make resolutions every New Year or Goals?  How do you keep them?  Most people give up after the first month or so.  Baker has been out of school for eons...  Heather got a new puppy (is she crazy?!)...Jerr Bear has Covid and more!

Krampus Nacht?  Ye 'Ol Pooping Log?  Some strange holiday traditions around the world.  And you thought your family was weird.  Don't forget to order your I Can't Mom Today Merch here: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699 And give the gift of cleanliness with an Ultimate Cloth!: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune  

Ever heard of the Five Gift Rule?  Supposedly it's a good polcy to have for Christmas to keep from going present overload.  We discuss the details.  Would it work for you?  And speaking of Gifts!  Don't forget to pick up your I Can't Mom Today Merch here!: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699   Or perhaps an Ultimate Cloth for the one you love?: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune

Vera's been having a rough go of it lately, and ALMOST had to cancel a long planned trip away with some girlfriends.  We talk about how important it is to give yourself a break (no matter how long or short)...and what Heather can do to develop a 'friend group.'  Don't forget to order your I Can't Mom Today swag just in time for Christmas!: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699

Expensive little boogers these kids of ours are?!  How do you handle school fundraisers?  Are you the kind of parent whose busting their tail selling gift wrap at the office every year?  Or do you say 'no way jose?' Also with the holidays around the corner don't forget to pick up some I Can't Mom Today swag for your favorite Mom!  (or yourself): https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699 And The Ultimate Cloth! (discount code ICMT): https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune

will Baker be sporting the skunk costume again this year?  And what's scarier than Halloween??? Spending all of your time in spooky doctor and pharmacy phone zones (like Vera).  

Welp,, Vera is an empty nester no more.  Luke is moving back in.  We just gotta maintain a positive attitude!  At least Heather isn't coughing like crazy anymore....

Poor Heather is still sick, WHERE ARE ALL OF THE WORKERS OF THE WORLD??? AND How in the hell are we supposed to get anything done and stay sane?  How do we keep our Stressbuckets from overflowing?

Heather's taking a productivity class!  She shares some of her wisdom and Vera is going broke feeding her kid via cash app.  What's a Mom to do?  How can we be more productive without breaking our backs?

Have you noticed a lot of days where you just don't feel like doing anything?  Is it okay to just 'BE?' With the help of a reel from Ask Courtney, we realize maybe there's nothing wrong with having those days when you just want to rest and have a freakin' pajama day.  Check Courtney out!  https://beacons.ai/ask.courtney And don't forget to pick up your I Can't Mom Today merch here: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699

Is it possible to change and/or evolve?  How do we change the way we think and improve the ways we approach life and our attitudes towards things?  Here's the article we discuss on being a better person: https://medium.com/an-idea/40-ways-to-evolve-into-a-better-person-86a3c446ea96

How can you make it a point to take care of yourself and your most essential needs?  It's hard when you're a Mom and sometimes those needs change with time.  Heather and Vera discuss 'Living Intentionally.'  It ain't always easy!  Here's the article we cite: https://www.simplyfiercely.com/be-intentional/  

Heather and Vera talk about some Mom hacks that she has discovered as Baker starts Kindergarten...and find out how you can watch Paws Of Fury The Legend Of Hank for free!  

Baker starts Kindergarten this year!  Are you ready for the new school year?  Heather and Vera discuss the worries and different aspects of getting back to school.  Is such a bittersweet time of year.  Don't forget to pick up your very own I Can't Mom Today merch here! :   https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699

Vera (with Heather on vacay) is joined by Kristal Franklin, Owner and Operator of Gallops Family Center to discuss the differences in behaviors she's observed in her students and children since Covid.  what can we do about these behaviors as parents?   Don't forget to pick up your very own I Can't Mom Today Merch here: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699

Alicia Silverstone recently admitted that she still sleeps with her 11 year old son, Bear.  Creepy or cute?  And is it our place to judge?

When do you decide it's time to break down and take your kid to the ER?  Baker had a bad fever and the tumultuousness ensued.   Don't forget about your I Can't Mom Today Merch!  Everything from hoodies to stickers and magnets can be yours!: https://www.teepublic.com/?ref_id=25699

As COVID continues to sweep through the few people that haven't had it, big developments from the Supreme Court.  We talk about all the things. All proceeds from the month of July 2022 from sales will benefit a nonprofit that supports Women's Rights.  Grab your I Can't Mom Today Merch Here: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/i-cant-mom-today?ref_id=25699 The Ultimate Cloth: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune 15% discount on this amazing cloth that cleans everything with just water. PUSH Journals: https://bit.ly/34iX1NT   This is a great tool to help you reach those 30, 60 and 90 day goals.

What do you listen to to keep calm when you just CAN'T MOM???  Don't forget to show your Can't Mom pride with some of our merch1: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/i-cant-mom-today?ref_id=25699

It's official!  Jerry has Covid.  Vera is doing her best to avoid and actually kinda enjoying sleeping in the guest room?...  Don't forget to pick up some I Can't Mom Today Merch!  https://www.teepublic.com/stores/i-cant-mom-today?ref_id=25699

Father's Day gift ideas, generic and unique. Show links: Stealth Ab Workout Game: https://www.trystealth.com/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=search&utm_campaign=16155076521&utm_content=581364933077 Naboso foot support items: https://www.naboso.com/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_content=evergreen&gclid=CjwKCAjwp7eUBhBeEiwAZbHwkTY7rTc5VUr2psP1JI4zM2o5lz8608vO-owMAvKJMCtLHyjD09un4hoCYYQQAvD_BwE (20% off with code Optimal, not our code, but wanted to share an amazing discount.) Want to show that I Can't Mom Today pride?  Or wear it when you want to say it, grab some merch. https://www.teepublic.com/stores/i-cant-mom-today?ref_id=25699 The Ultimate Cloth: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune 15% discount on this amazing cloth that cleans everything with just water. PUSH Journals: https://bit.ly/34iX1NT   This is a great tool to help you reach those 30, 60 and 90 day goals.

Kids often think the strangest things are awesome.  We asked and you provided, hear about the strangest things kids either brought to school or brought home.

Vera's sleep deprived.  Her automatic bed is stuck up (literally!) and Rad Brad keeps stealing Heather's hard seltzers.  What's a Mom to do?  Do you have certain things you hide from your family so you can keep them for yourself?  We have a few... Don't forget to pick up some I Can't Mom Today Merch!  Super cute hoodies, stickers and more:  https://www.teepublic.com/stores/i-cant-mom-today?ref_id=25699

We all want to stay young longer or get rid of those pimples, we are adults after all.  In this episode, Vera and Heather talk with Danielle Gronich (The Achne Guru™) and Kayleigh Christina (holistic nutritionist) of CLEARSTEM Skincare. They have some amazing insight on how to clean your skin with clean skincare and about how you can find out if your products are pore clogging.   Show Links: CLEARSTEM Skincare: https://clearstemskincare.com/  Want to show that I Can't Mom Today pride?  Or wear it when you want to say it, grab some merch. https://www.teepublic.com/stores/i-cant-mom-today?ref_id=25699 The Ultimate Cloth: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune 15% discount on this amazing cloth that cleans everything with just water. PUSH Journals: https://bit.ly/34iX1NT   This is a great tool to help you reach those 30, 60 and 90 day goals.

Sometimes you just need a change of perspective.  Join us as Heather walks Vera through a little bit of a mini life coaching session.  Pick up some out of the box tips to change your perspective while getting s done. Show Links: Want to show that I Can't Mom Today pride?  Or wear it when you want to say it, grab some merch. https://www.teepublic.com/stores/i-cant-mom-today?ref_id=25699 The Ultimate Cloth: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune 15% discount on this amazing cloth that cleans everything with just water. PUSH Journals: https://bit.ly/34iX1NT   This is a great tool to help you reach those 30, 60 and 90 day goals.

This week Vera and Heather talk about how Vera broke her arm and how she's coping.   Show Links: Want to show that I Can't Mom Today pride?  Or wear it when you want to say it, grab some merch. https://www.teepublic.com/stores/i-cant-mom-today?ref_id=25699 The Ultimate Cloth: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune 15% discount on this amazing cloth that cleans everything with just water. PUSH Journals: https://bit.ly/34iX1NT   This is a great tool to help you reach those 30, 60 and 90 day goals.

What do you get for mom?  We will tell you the most important things moms want.   Show Links: Want to show that I Can't Mom Today pride?  Or wear it when you want to say it, grab some merch. https://www.teepublic.com/stores/i-cant-mom-today?ref_id=25699 The Ultimate Cloth: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune 15% discount on this amazing cloth that cleans everything with just water. PUSH Journals: https://bit.ly/34iX1NT   This is a great tool to help you reach those 30, 60 and 90 day goals.

Going through and illness with a parent or loved one is hard, but it comforting to know that family is there to unite and support.  On this episode Vera and Heather discuss the loss of Brad's dad and how the experience was different from the loss of Heather's dad. Show links:  Want to show that I Can't Mom Today pride?  Or wear it when you want to say it, grab some merch. https://www.teepublic.com/stores/i-cant-mom-today?ref_id=25699 The Ultimate Cloth: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune 15% discount on this amazing cloth that cleans everything with just water. PUSH Journals: https://bit.ly/34iX1NT   This is a great tool to help you reach those 30, 60 and 90 day goals.

Today we talk about half siblings.  What to say and how to approach talking about it. Show links:  Want to show that I Can't Mom Today pride?  Or wear it when you want to say it, grab some merch. https://www.teepublic.com/stores/i-cant-mom-today?ref_id=25699 The Ultimate Cloth: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune 15% discount on this amazing cloth that cleans everything with just water. PUSH Journals: https://bit.ly/34iX1NT   This is a great tool to help you reach those 30, 60 and 90 day goals.

This week Lauren Barrett joins Vera and Heather.  Lauren is a teaches deaf and hard of hearing students and is an author.  She will help us learn how to be more inclusive and teach our kids about inclusion. Show links: Lauren Barrett Writes: https://www.laurenbarrettwrites.com Henry's Hiccups: https://www.amazon.com/Henrys-Hiccups-Lauren-Barrett/dp/B09FNQXB7C We're Different, We're The Same: https://www.amazon.com/Were-Different-Sesame-Street-Pictureback/dp/0679832270 Access Graphic: https://accessibility.umn.edu/importance-accessibility/accessibility-vs-accommodation CODA Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10366460/  Want to show that I Can't Mom Today pride?  Or wear it when you want to say it, grab some merch. http://tee.pub/lic/fjx_E2wS2so  I Can't Mom Today Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/i-cant-mom-today?ref_id=25699 The Ultimate Cloth: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune 15% discount on this amazing cloth that cleans everything with just water. PUSH Journals: https://bit.ly/34iX1NT   This is a great tool to help you reach those 30, 60 and 90 day goals.  

Why are we so ashamed of our periods?  Let's embrace them women! Want to show that I Can't Mom Today pride?  Or wear it when you want to say it, grab some merch. https://www.teepublic.com/stores/i-cant-mom-today?ref_id=25699 The Ultimate Cloth: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune 15% discount on this amazing cloth that cleans everything with just water. PUSH Journals: https://bit.ly/34iX1NT   This is a great tool to help you reach those 30, 60 and 90 day goals.    

We all do it at some point, caring what others think of you.  This week Vera and Heather give you some tips on how to cope with those worries. Links from today's show: Inc. "How to Stop Worrying What Other People Think of You": https://www.inc.com/lolly-daskal/how-to-stop-worrying-what-other-people-think-of-you.html  The Ultimate Cloth: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune 15% discount on this amazing cloth that cleans everything with just water. PUSH Journals: https://bit.ly/34iX1NT   This is a great tool to help you reach those 30, 60 and 90 day goals.  

Breakups are hard.  Join Vera and Heather this week as they provide some tips about how to navigate these big feelings. Links from today's show: Very Well Family: "10 Ways to Help Your Teen Deal With a Breakup" https://www.verywellfamily.com/how-to-help-your-teen-deal-with-a-breakup-4047445  The Ultimate Cloth: https://www.ultimatecloth.com/heather-tune 15% discount on this amazing cloth that cleans everything with just water. PUSH Journals: https://bit.ly/34iX1NT   This is a great tool to help you reach those 30, 60 and 90 day goals.  

The beginning of this month marks the coming and going of Mardis Gras, as well as the beginning of Women's History Month!  Heather and Vera discuss some amazing women from history that you may not have heard of and catch up on Mardis Gras maylay (or not....)  Here are some links for the shows and article we discuss: https://www.bustle.com/p/31-groundbreaking-women-from-history-you-didnt-learn-about-in-school-40648 (Zelda show with Cristina Ricci)   https://www.imdb.com/title/tt4878612/ Yellow Jackets (creepy but sooooo good!)  https://www.sho.com/yellowjackets