If You Really Knew Me

In this heartfelt episode, hosts Kim and Ben sit down with celebrated CCM artist Jordan Feliz. Known for hits like "The River," "Beloved," and "Jesus Is Coming Back," Jordan opens up about his Enneagram journey, how it influences his life and music, and the ways it has shaped his relationships—with his wife Jamie, their children, and those he meets on the road.Jordan candidly discusses the challenges and strengths of being an Enneagram Type 9 with a 1 wing, the importance of empathy, and how learning about personality types has improved his marriage and parenting. He also shares the inspiration behind his children's book “Beloved,” and the story of how gratitude helped him overcome a painful season of anxiety, inspiring his latest single, "Somebody Praise God for That."Together, Kim, Ben, and Jordan delve into the beauty and burden of being a peacemaker, navigating different personalities within family and friendships, and the spiritual growth that comes through gratitude and self-awareness.KEY TAKEAWAYSEnneagram Journey: Jordan is an Enneagram Type 9 with a 1 wing. He highlights how understanding his type, and those of others, has brought empathy and patience into his life, marriage, and parenting.Energy, Personality, and Performance: Despite common perceptions about Type 9s and energy, Jordan discusses how being an “extroverted nine” impacts his performance and interactions, noting that meet-and-greets can be more draining than concerts because of their emotional intensity.Marriage and Communication: Learning about Enneagram types has strengthened his marriage. Understanding his wife Jamie's (Type 6, wing 7) needs and communication styles helps them find common ground, especially during challenging conversations.Parenting: Jordan and his wife observe emerging personality traits in their children, tailoring their parenting approach to support their uniqueness and foster secure identities."Beloved" and Affirming Identity: The book and song “Beloved” were born from a desire to instill unconditional worth in children, combating cultural pressures with the truth of God's love.Anxiety & Gratitude: Jordan's story of overcoming a season of anxiety by intentionally practicing gratitude demonstrates the transformative power of thankfulness and praising God in all circumstances.Spirituality in Practice: He emphasizes that living out faith is about day-to-day relationship and practicing gratitude, not just “checking off” religious duties.Future Orientation: Jordan shares that he and his family are learning to live with open hands concerning the future, choosing faith and flexibility as they wait on God's guidance.RESOURCESJordan Feliz Official Website: www.jordanfeliz.comBeloved (Children's Book): Learn more about the inspirational children's book referenced in the episode. store.centricitymusic.com/products/beloved-bookMUSIC BY JORDAN FELIZ“The River”“Beloved”“Jesus Is Coming Back”“Somebody Praise God for That”WAYS TO CONNECTNewsletter: Subscribe for further information about enneagram types and regular updates from the podcast. Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, to subscribe and find more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? knewme@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don't forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to knewme@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to knewme@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

They're coming in concert to the Delaware State Fair on Tuesday, July 22nd, and you can get to know more about them BEFORE they arrive... they're Caleb and John.Check out this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim sit down with The Bridge artists Caleb and John. We learn how the Enneagram is a tool they utilize in their lives, all while keeping their focus on Jesus.WAYS TO CONNECTNewsletter: Subscribe for further information about enneagram types and regular updates from the podcast. Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, to subscribe and find more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? knewme@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don't forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to knewme@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to knewme@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to show the specific areas that we need to let Christ transform.For each type, we'll look at our view, where we get stuck, how we try to fix it, and what we can become in Christ.WAYS TO CONNECTNewsletter: Subscribe for further information about enneagram types and regular updates from the podcast. Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, to subscribe and find more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? knewme@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don't forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to knewme@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to knewme@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to point out how the Gospel frees you to become your best self.We'll look at what our Auto-Pilot or average mindset, our unhealthy version, and our healthy selves in each type can look like.WAYS TO CONNECTNewsletter: Subscribe for further information about enneagram types and regular updates from the podcast. Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, to subscribe and find more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? knewme@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don't forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to knewme@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to knewme@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

Has someone ever wronged you, and you can't seem to get past it? Maybe you struggle with even wanting to forgive the person.On this podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben & Kim talk about the seven steps of forgiveness and how it's affected by our enneagram type and the process you walk through.Feel free to reference this below in case you need more to chat about:Forgiveness is something we ALL have to tackle. If you are struggling today, I encourage you to seek the Lord. Only He can give you the strength you need to be able to forgive others AND yourself.WHAT FORGIVENESS IS (AND IS NOT)Forgiveness is giving up your right to hurt someone who has hurt you.Forgiveness does not diminish the wrong done against you.Forgiveness is not a denial of what happened.Forgiveness does not take away the consequences the other person will face because of his or her actions.Forgiveness is an act and a process. Even when a person decides to forgive another person, feelings of relief or healing are usually not immediate. Forgiving someone can be difficult and uncomfortable.Forgiveness is not weakness. It is the most powerful thing you can do. It breaks the hold that has been put on your life. Refusing to forgive allows the person or thing that was hurtful to you to continue to hurt you.Forgiveness does not mean forgetting. Forgiveness does not require you to become a “doormat.”Forgiveness does not require you to open yourself up to the offender to be hurt again.Forgiveness does not wait for the offender to apologize or earn forgiveness in some way.WAYS TO CONNECTNewsletter: Subscribe for further information about enneagram types and regular updates from the podcast. Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, to subscribe and find more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? knewme@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don't forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to knewme@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to knewme@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this insightful episode of "If You Really Knew Me," hosts Kim and Ben welcome Pastor Larry Davis, an experienced leader in managing change within church communities. The episode delves into the complexities of change, likening it to a grieving process, and discusses how different personalities navigate change.Pastor Larry introduces his book, "Grieving the Loss of the Church You Love," highlighting how understanding the emotional aspect of change can aid in smoother transitions. The conversation also explores the Enneagram types, offering personalized strategies for handling change effectively.KEY TAKEAWAYS1. Change and Grief Connection: Change often triggers a sense of loss, similar to the stages of grief. Recognizing this can help individuals and communities navigate transitions more effectively.2. Understanding the Why: Addressing the underlying reasons for resistance to change can transform perceptions and facilitate acceptance.3. Enneagram Insights: Each personality type processes change differently. Understanding these differences can lead to more empathetic and effective leadership and support.4. Leadership in Change: Effective leaders should practice active listening, validate emotions, and tailor their approach to suit individual needs and the collective goal.5. Spiritual Perspective: Embracing change can lead to spiritual growth, as it mirrors the death, burial, and resurrection process inherent in Christian faith.RESOURCESEngage with these resources to deepen your understanding of managing change both personally and within your community.Pastor Larry Davis's book "Grieving the Loss of the Church You Love"Visit PastorLarryDavis.com for further insights and resourcesWAYS TO CONNECTNewsletter: Subscribe for further information about enneagram types and regular updates from the podcast. Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, to subscribe and find more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? knewme@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don't forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to knewme@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to knewme@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

This episode is part 2 of a discussion about grief, featuring licensed clinical professional counselor Chelsea Steinsdorfer. Hosts Kim Willey and Certified Enneagram Coach Ben Sorrells explore how different Enneagram types experience and process grief, including common behaviors, challenges, and helpful coping strategies for each type.KEY TAKEAWAYSEach Enneagram type has distinct needs and ways of processing griefUnderstanding your type can help identify healthy ways to work through griefAnger and anxiety are common grief responses across all typesTaking care of physical needs (sleep, exercise) is important while grievingScripture and faith can be powerful tools for managing grief-related anxietyRESOURCESPsychologyToday.com - For finding a counselorBetterHelp.com - Online counseling platformWhat Each Type Wants During GriefType 1 2 Corinthians 12:9 “But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weakness, so that Christ's power may rest on me.”(Brittany's work referenced for type-specific grief responses): Type 1's want to know the “right” way to proceed with guidelines. Type 2's want support and approval of others while figuring out how to move forward. While they want support from others, they also want to support others grieving to help strengthen their bonds with those people. Type 3's want to know and set goals quickly. They want to express their emotions but not be overwhelmed by them.Type 4's want to discover what is “missing” whether within themselves or in the grieving process. They want to fully express and feel their emotions.Type 5's want clarity before making decisions. They also want to avoid excess emotions (both theirs and others). Type 6's want certainty in plans and in loyalty. They also want reassurance about the future.Type 7's want to explore a range of options. They want freedom to do what they want to do and they prefer quick decisions. Type 8's want some sort of control of either themselves or the situation. They want to get things rolling and to move forward.Type 9's want to take all points into consideration before doing anything. They also want to avoid conflict and to help reduce others' discomfort. WAYS TO CONNECTNewsletter: Subscribe for further information about enneagram types and regular updates from the podcast. Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, to subscribe and find more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? knewme@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don't forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to knewme@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to knewme@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this episode, licensed clinical professional counselor Chelsea Steinsdorfer joins hosts Kim and Ben to discuss grief, its various seasons, and how different Enneagram types may experience loss.Chelsea shares her personal journey through grief, including the loss of her father and years of infertility, and how these experiences shaped her approach to grief counseling. The conversation explores the five seasons of grief - denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance - and how grief manifests as waves that come and go.KEY TAKEAWAYSGrief isn't just about death - it can be any significant loss including relationships, jobs, or life plansThe term ""seasons"" is preferred over ""stages"" as grief isn't linear and can come back aroundEach Enneagram type may experience and process grief differentlyProcessing grief alone isn't recommended - support from others or professional help is valuableAccepting grief doesn't mean forgetting or ""moving on"" - it's about learning to live with the lossPreparing a ""coping toolbox"" during good days can help during difficult waves of griefResources:Books:"Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy" by Mark Vroegop - about discovering the practice of lamentingRESOURCESBooks:"Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy" by Mark Vroegop - about discovering the practice of lamentingCounseling Resources:PsychologyToday.com - find local counselors that match your needsBetterHelp.com - online counseling platformBiblical Reference:Psalm 34:18 - "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves the crushed in spirit"For more about the Enneagram types, listeners are encouraged to refer to Episode 2 of the podcast.WAYS TO CONNECTNewsletter: Subscribe for further information about enneagram types and regular updates from the podcast. Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, to subscribe and find more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? knewme@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don't forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to knewme@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to knewme@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

Has anxiety and fear ever gripped you so tight that you didn't know how to respond to it? Sometimes, as believers, we can feel shame over the inability to handle anxiety and fear.  In this episode, hosts Ben Sorrells and Kim discuss anxiety, its various forms, and how different personality types (using the Enneagram framework) experience and handle anxiety. They share personal experiences and provide practical strategies for managing anxiety, emphasizing the importance of seeking professional help when needed and maintaining a strong spiritual foundation.KEY TAKEAWAYSThere are both helpful and unhelpful forms of anxietyDifferent causes of anxiety include biological, environmental, and psychological factorsThe importance of professional help (doctors, counselors, therapists) in managing anxietyHow different Enneagram types experience and process anxietyThe power of breathing techniques and meditationThe significance of changing pace and environment to gain new perspectivesThe role of faith and scripture in managing anxietyThe importance of not facing anxiety aloneRESOURCES1.   Scripture Resources:Psalm 232 Corinthians 10:4-52.   Musical Resources:"Still Waters" by Lena Crawford (featuring Psalm 23)3.   Anxiety Management Tools:Breathing appsBox breathing techniqueAshwagandha supplements4.   Professional Support Options:Primary care physiciansTherapistsCounselorsNatural health practitionersADDITIONAL RESOURCES12-minute scripture meditation on anxiety and fear (narrated by Pastor Steven Furtick)Christian songs about fear and anxiety:No Fear - Jon ReddickStill Waters (Psalm 23) - Leanna CrawfordHard fought Hallelujah - Brandon LakeDesperate - Jamie MacDonaldAnxious Heart - Jeremy CampBible verses to overcome each Enneagram Type's greatest fearType 1 2 Corinthians 12:9 “But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weakness, so that Christ's power may rest on me.”Type 2Romans 8:37-39 “No, in all things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”Type 3Colossians 3:23 “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.”Type 4 Psalm 139:14 “I praise you because I am fearfully adn wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”Type 5Psalm 118:6-7 “The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me? The Lord is with me; he is my helper.”Type 6Deuteronomy 31:6 “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”Type 7Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.”Type 8Isaiah 52:12 “But you will not leave in haste or go in flight; for the LORD will go before you, the God of Israel will be your rear guard.”Type 91 Peter 1:2 “You were chosen according to the purpose of God the Father and were made a holy people by his Spirit, to obey Jesus Christ and be purified by his blood. May grace and peace be yours in full measure.”Note: This episode provides general information about anxiety and should not be considered medical advice. Please consult healthcare professionals for personal medical concerns.WAYS TO CONNECTNewsletter: Subscribe for further information about enneagram types and regular updates from the podcast. Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, to subscribe and find more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? knewme@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don't forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to knewme@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to knewme@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

How well do you get along with your co-workers? Understanding each other's motivation is KEY to having a great work relationship with team members.On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim sit down with staff members of The Bridge for PART TWO discussion on ways your team can work through conflict.You'll hear lots of laughter and get an inside look at how our Bridge family works with AND connects with each other.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

Do you find it difficult to get along with your co-workers? Sometimes it may even seem like you're on different planets. On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim sit down with staff members of The Bridge to discuss ways our team works through conflict and how understanding each other's motivation can make your work life much easier.If you work with a group of people day-in and day-out, you know how important it is to get along. At The Bridge, we take this to heart.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

How do YOU handle Christmas each year? Do you enjoy shopping and being around lots of people? How are you at giving and receiving gifts? On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim sit down with some Bridge staff members for fun conversations about how each personality type does Christmas.SPEAKERS AND THEIR ROLESBen Sorrells:** Host, Certified Enneagram Coach, Enneagram Type 2Kim:** Host, Enneagram Type 3Rachel:** Guest, Community Engagement Specialist, Enneagram Type 2Andrew Jackson:** Guest, Director of Marketing and Data Analytics, Enneagram Type 9Mark:** Guest, Afternoon Show Host, Enneagram Type 1Lindsey:** Host, Digital Content Producer, Enneagram Type 7Tracey:** Guest, Office Administrator, Enneagram Type 5SUMMARYIn this festive episode, the hosts and guests delve into their unique holiday traditions, gift-wrapping preferences, and the meanings behind Christmas activities. Ben and Kim lead the conversation, engaging their colleagues from 'the Bridge' to share personal stories.They discuss everything from the intricacies of people-watching during the season to managing Christmas shopping using spreadsheets. Rachel and Lindsey highlight the emotional essence and meticulous nature of Christmas preparation, while Andrew and Mark reflect on the deeper significance of making memories and thoughtful gifting.Tracey rounds out the conversation, emphasizing the joy in being attentive and organized, even as the holiday season brings its own set of challenges and delights. RESOURCESEnneagram Information:     - Book: ""The Road Back to You"" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile for understanding Enneagram types.Podcast Contact Information:  - Email: knewme@bridge.org for listener questions and engagement.  - Announcement of a new email list featuring an Enneagram newsletter for ongoing insights.Listeners are encouraged to share their holiday traditions, gift-wrapping quirks, and personal insights on how their Enneagram type influences their Christmas celebrations by reaching out via email - knewme@wearethebridge.orgWAYS TO CONNECTWebsite: Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, for more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? knewme@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don't forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toknewme@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to knewme@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this enlightening episode of "If You Really Knew Me," hosts Kim Willey and Ben Sorrells delve into the core traits, strengths, and challenges faced by Type 9 individuals, aptly named the Peacemakers. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural references, the hosts explore the profound lessons all Enneagram types can learn from a healthy Type 9, emphasizing patience, the importance of having one's voice heard, and the creation of safe spaces for open communication.KEY TAKEAWAYS1. ORIENTATION TO TIME: Type 9s are past-oriented, focused on history and maintaining inner peace.2. TYPE 9 TRAITS: Type 9s are exceptional mediators and leaders due to their ability to understand multiple perspectives and facilitate peaceful communication. However, their core struggle with sloth and indolence can lead to disengagement if not managed well.3. LEARNING FROM A HEALTHY TIME 9: All Enneagram types can benefit from embracing personal desires, recognizing the importance of their voice, creating safe spaces for dialogue, exercising patience, and being gentle in interactions, reflecting the concept of "truth in love."RESOURCESYOUVERSION BIBLE APP: (Popular searches in 2023 related to peace and hope.)SIGN UP FOR: Monthly Enneagram Newsletter at https://www.wearethebridge.org/enneagram  - Tips on understanding Enneagram types  - Fun facts and behind-the-scenes content  - Guest information, upcoming episodes, and events  - Subscribe at https://www.wearethebridge.org/enneagramScriptures and songs related to peace discussed in this episode:Acronym for Peace (People Expressing A Christ Everlasting)Bible Verses:    • “I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” - John 16:33• “Don't worry about anything; instead pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ.” Philippians 4:6-7• “Now may the Lord of peace himself give you his peace at all times and in every situation. The Lord be with you all.” 2 Thessalonians 3:16• “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!” Isaiah 26:3• “Turn away from evil and do good. Search for peace and work to maintain it.” ~ 1 Peter 3:11• Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. ~John 14:27SONG ABOUT GOD'S PEACEFind My Peace - Naomi RainePeace Be Still - Hope DarstPeace - Danny GokeyPrince of Peace - Josh BaldwinPeace - We the KingdomWAYS TO CONNECTWebsite: Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, for more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? ben@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don't forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this heartfelt episode, hosts Kim and Ben welcome Jeremy Rosado, a contestant "American Idol" Season 11 and "The Voice" Season 21, to explore his life and Enneagram journey.Jeremy, a Type Two with a Three wing, discusses how his enneagram type profoundly influences his personal life, relationships, faith, and music career.He shares intimate stories about his family, particularly the significant impact of rescuing his sister from addiction, and how this inspired some of his most touching songs.The episode provides powerful insights into how understanding one's Enneagram type can lead to better self-awareness and more meaningful connections with others.KEY TAKEAWAYS1. Embracing Your Enneagram Type: Jeremy encourages fellow Twos to embrace their natural inclination to help others, even when it feels overwhelming. He stresses the importance of giving oneself grace and acknowledging the gift of making meaningful connections.2. Cultural Influence: Jeremy talks about the influence of his Puerto Rican heritage on his Enneagram type, revealing how his culture's emotional expressiveness amplifies his natural tendencies as a Two.3. Impact of Enneagram on Relationships:  Understanding his enneagram type has helped Jeremy navigate his relationships more effectively, from his personal connections with family to his professional relationships.4. Music as a Reflection of Type Two: Jeremy discusses how his music, particularly songs like ""Still God,"" reflect his type Two personality—full of empathy, love, and the desire to connect deeply with others.5. Balancing Passion and Boundaries: Ben and Jeremy touch on the importance of setting boundaries for Twos, who often give more than they receive, to avoid burnout and maintain healthy relationships.CONNECT WITH JEREMY ROSADOWebsite: Visit Jeremy online at https://www.iamjeremyrosado.comSocial Media: Follow Jeremy for updatesInstagram - @iamjeremyrosadoFacebook - @IAMJEREMYROSADOWAYS TO CONNECTWebsite: Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, for more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? ben@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don't forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

How has God's strength and protection been on display in your life? Maybe he has spared you from harm or given you boldness in a situation.On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim share personal stories of God's strength and protection AND how we can learn to reflect these characteristics of God.In this insightful episode of "If You Really Knew Me," hosts Kim Willey and Ben Sorrells delve into the characteristics and spiritual reflections of Enneagram Type Eights.Highlighting themes of God's strength and protection, they weave personal anecdotes and biblical references to discuss how Type Eights can embody these divine qualities.From powerful stories of natural disasters to acts of courage and protection, Kim and Ben explore the intensity and boldness of Type Eights and how these traits align with God's nature.KEY TAKEAWAYS1. God's Strength and Protection: Kim and Ben shared examples of feeling protected by God's strength in situations ranging from life-threatening weather events to personal crises. Emphasizing that God's strength can manifest in various forms can provide comfort.2. Understanding Type Eight: Type Eights are characterized by their assertiveness, protective nature, and deep desire for control and strength. They are often seen as challengers who defend their inner circle passionately.3. Balancing Intensity with Vulnerability: Despite their tough exterior, Type Eights need to learn to balance their bold nature with tenderness and vulnerability. Learning from their stress and security points (types Two and Five) is pivotal.4. Spiritual Connection and Growth: Alignment with the gospel helps Type Eights to utilize their strength to help others and avoid destructive behavior. It's important to trust in God's unwavering support.5. Practical Scripture References and Songs: Here are some powerful scriptures about God's strength and protection, alongside meaningful songs that echo the theme of divine protection and strength.BIBLE VERSES:Isaiah 54:17 (NLT) - But in that coming day no weapon turned against you will succeed. You will silence every voice raised up to accuse you. These benefits are enjoyed by the servants of the LORD ; their vindication will come from me. I, the LORD, have spoken!2 Thessalonians 3:3 (NIV) - But the Lord is faithful, and he will strengthen you and protect you from the evil one.Psalm 46:1 (NIV) - God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.Isaiah 41:10 (NIV) - So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right handPsalm 32:7 (NIV) - You are my hiding place; you will protect me from trouble and surround me with songs of deliverance.1 Chronicles 16:11 (ESV) - Seek the Lord and his strength; seek his presence continually!Isaiah 40:29 (ESV) - He gives power to the faint, and to him who has no might he increases strength.Psalm 29:11 (ESV) - May the Lord give strength to his people! May the Lord bless his people with peace!Ephesians 3:20 (NIV) - God is able to do far more than we could ever ask for or imagine. He does everything by his power that is working in us.1 Corinthians 6:14 (NIV) - By his power God raised the Lord from the dead, and he will raise us also.SONGS ABOUT GOD'S STRENGTH & PROTECTION Take it all back - Tauren WellsYour Love Defends Me - Matt MaherNever Lost - Elevation WorshipWon't He do it - We the KingdomPower - Chris Tomlin & Bear RhinehartMy God Can - Katy Nichole & Naomi RaineCount ‘Em - Brandon LakeWAYS TO CONNECTWebsite: Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, for more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? ben@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don't forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this enlightening episode of "If You Really Knew Me," hosts Ben and Kim welcome special guest Beth McCord, an Enneagram speaker and author, to discuss the insights and wisdom from her new book "Enneagram for Moms."Beth shares her journey of discovering the unique struggles and strengths of different moms, which was largely influenced by a heartfelt conversation with her husband. The episode delves into the challenges of societal mom-guilt, the freedom found through Jesus in understanding one's God-given role as a parent, and the importance of having curiosity for and honoring our children's individual personalities.Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, Beth emphasizes self-awareness and self-regulation for parents, aiming to create healthier family dynamics. KEY TAKEAWAYS1. Embrace Unique Parenting Styles - Beth McCord encourages moms to honor and validate their unique strengths and struggles, stepping away from comparison and idealization of others. 2. Understanding Enneagram Types - The discussion covers how understanding both parents' and children's Enneagram types can lead to better parenting by addressing core motivations and needs. 3. Children's Personality Types - Beth emphasizes the importance of being curious about our children's personalities, guiding them rather than trying to mold them into versions of ourselves. 4. Learning from Children - Beth mentions the book "How Kids Raise Us" by Dr. Dan Allender and the humility that comes from allowing yourself to also be taught by your children, highlighting mutual growth inthe parent-child relationship. 5. Beth's Book - “Enneagram for Moms” - The book focuses on self-awareness, self-regulation, and caring for oneself based on Enneagram types, aiming to honor and glorify each unique personality type as created by God. RESOURCES:Connect with “If You Really Knew Me”Website: wearethebridge.org/enneagramFacebook: @enneagrampodcast Instagram: @enneagrampodcastBeth McCord's New Book - "Enneagram for Moms" by Beth McCord - Available through https://www.enneagramformoms.com Online Courses - “Discovering You” at https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/a/21465/AXkeBehG "Exploring You" at https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/a/21466/AXkeBehG"Becoming Us" for Couples at https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/a/21464/AXkeBehG15% COUPON CODE - BEN2392 for all eligible purchases from https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/a/21487/AXkeBehGConnect with Beth McCord - Website: yourenneagramcoach.comInstagram: @yourenneagramcoach FREE ENNEAGRAM ASSESSMENT:https://assessment.yourenneagramcoach.com/Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this enlightening episode of "If You Really Knew Me," hosts Ben and Kim chat with special guest Tyler Zach, and dive into an engaging discussion about the Enneagram and its implications for Christians.Tyler, a certified Enneagram coach who has recently transitioned from pastoral ministry to coaching and homeschooling, dispels common misconceptions about the Enneagram and positions it as a valuable tool for self-understanding and personal growth. The conversation also touches on Tyler's devotional book series about the Gospel for each type, free and paid resources, and personal anecdotes about how Enneagram knowledge has positively influenced their lives and relationships.Tune in for an enriching discussion that demystifies the Enneagram and provides valuable insights into personal growth from a Christian perspective.KEY TAKEAWAYS1. VERSATILITY OF THE ENNEAGRAM: The Enneagram is a tool that can be both positively and negatively used. It doesn't define individuals but helps them understand behavioral patterns and motivations, complementing biblical teachings for deeper self-discovery.2. PERSONAL GROWTH AND RELATIONSHIPS: Understanding one's Enneagram type can lead to significant personal and relational growth. The hosts shared how this knowledge has improved their interactions with family members and within their ministries. Understanding and embracing one's unique traits, wings, and motivations is crucial for personal and spiritual development.3. THE CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE: Tyler integrates the Enneagram with biblical teachings, providing unique insights into sin patterns and motivations. His resources aim to guide individuals in discovering their true identity and worth in God. Ben found Tyler's e-course particularly helpful in understanding the Enneagram's history and its application for Christians.RESOURCES:ENNEAGRAM ASSESSMENT TOOL: For a more accurate understanding, consider learning more about YOUR type. This is the assessment tool that we like: https://assessment.yourenneagramcoach.com BOOKS AND COURSES: -Tyler Zach: Gospel for each type - 40 day devotions: gospelforenneagram.com-Tyler Zach's free resources: (including “Should Christians Use The Enneagram”) https://www.tylerzach.com/freeFOLLOW: Tyler Zach:  Instagram and Facebook: @gospelforenneagram Web: gospelforenneagram.comIF YOU REALLY KNEW ME Enneagram Podcast:Instagram and Facebook: @enneagrampodcast    web: wearethebridge.org/enneagram) Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

What happens when a music promoter from a Christian record label sits down to chat with some folks at The Bridge? Find out on this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim enjoy a fun and engaging conversation with Christina Kosters —National Promotion Manager at Capitol Christian Music Group— and walk her through figuring out her personality type and the motivations behind what she does.When your personality and your career line up, it's a beautiful thing. If You Really Knew Me can be found at We Are The Bridge dot org slash podcast, on The Bridge app, OR wherever you listen to podcasts.Ben and Kim helped Christina to determine her enneagram type. She has been told by others that she is an Enneagram type seven. Tune in to see what realization she came to. They explore how understanding one's Enneagram type can lead to better personal and professional relationships, self-awareness, and emotional health. The discussion highlights the importance of aligning one's personality traits with their experiences, motivations, and faith.KEY TAKEAWAYS1.   UNDERSTANDING ENNEAGRAM TYPES: Christina's journey shows how the Enneagram is about motivation, not behavior. When your Enneagram type and your career line up, life is pretty sweet. 2.   FAITH AND PERSONALITY: The conversation discusses how different types reflect facets of God's nature. Christina connects deeply with her type, understanding it as a way to channel God's love and support more effectively in her professional and personal interactions.3.   USE OF ENNEAGRAM IN RELATIONSHIPS AT WORK: The uses of Enneagram in various contexts, including marriage, parenting, and workplace dynamics, are highlighted. Christina notes how her knowledge of the Enneagram aids her in supporting artists by understanding and fulfilling their unique needs.RESOURCES:ENNEAGRAM ASSESSMENT TOOL: For a more accurate understanding, consider the guidance of Christian Enneagram coaches. This is the one we like: https://assessment.yourenneagramcoach.com BOOKS AND COURSES: *More Than Your Number* by Beth and Jeff McCord. “Discovering You” Course: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/a/21465/AXkeBehG (SAVE 15% using COUPON CODE: BEN2392)FOLLOW US: Stay connected by following us on Instagram and Facebook (@enneagrampodcast) and visiting our podcast website (https://www.wearethebridge.org/enneagram/) for updates, resources, and more episodes.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

If you attended The Bridge's Bring the Joy ladies conference in January, you won't want to miss this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim sit down with author, speaker and Joy Bringer, Season Bowers.Even if you didn't attend this event, you will still enjoy Season's passion about God's word and how she navigates the relationships in her life through the lens of the Enneagram. If You Really Knew Me can be found at We Are The Bridge dot org slash podcast, on The Bridge app, OR wherever you listen to podcasts.The Joy Bringer Podcasthttps://www.wearethebridge.org/streaming/podcasts/joy-bringer/Season Bowers website https://seasonbowers.comSeason Bowers on Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/seasonbowersauthorWould you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

Would you consider yourself a faithful person? The definition of faithfulness is lasting loyalty and trustworthiness in relationships. On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me Ben and Kim discuss how we can learn to model God's faithfulness in our relationships with others.  If You Really Knew Me can be found at We Are The Bridge dot org slash podcast, on The Bridge app, OR wherever you listen to podcasts.Bible Verses:    Psalm 89.8 (NIV) Who is like you, LORD God Almighty? You, LORD, are mighty, and your faithfulness surrounds you. 1 John 1:9 (NLT) But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness. 1 Corinthians 1:9 (NLT) God will do this, for he is faithful to do what he says, and he has invited you into partnership with his Son, Jesus Christ our Lord. Philippians 1:6 (ESV) And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ. Proverbs 21:21 (AMP) “He who earnestly seeks righteousness and loyalty finds life, righteousness and honor.” Psalms 25:10 “The Lord leads with unfailing love and faithfulness all who keep his covenant and obey his demands.SONG ABOUT GOD'S Faithfulness: Same God - Elevation Worshiphttps://youtu.be/LawxIZE9ePE?si=z4FhAAgvvT4iaC7R Goodness of God - Jenn Johnsonhttps://youtu.be/n0FBb6hnwTo?si=hlVzksU75I40X0FF Firm Foundation (He Won't) - Cody Carneshttps://youtu.be/x9ndiD0_qNk?si=G6WVb2I5c_CPdU9Z Evidence - Josh Baldwin and Dante Bowehttps://youtu.be/TXuoHg9pSS8?si=yn-NJBxQXrddtx0b Faithfully - Toby Machttps://youtu.be/i5ts5uFsVis?si=2K93f_K9SFSBDLqpWould you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

Have you ever wondered how someone can be at peace and even joyful in the midst of a difficult situation? That's because joy isn't fleeting. It doesn't exit the room when bad circumstances arrive. On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me Ben and Kim discuss how we can learn to walk in Godly joy. If You Really Knew Me can be found at We Are The Bridge dot org slash podcast, on The Bridge app, OR wherever you listen to podcasts.Bible Verses:    Romans 15:13 ~ May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope. James 1:2 ~ Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds,Galatians 5:22-23 - But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control. There is no law against these things!”John 16:24 ~ Until now you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full.Proverbs 17:22 ~ A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.Psalms 16:11 NLT “You will show me the way of life, granting me the joy of your presence and the pleasures of living with you forever.”SONG ABOUT GOD'S JOY!:Cece Winans - I've Got Joyhttps://youtu.be/_LFpy9tRTw8?si=Ax1yqqX89ypRNJN7The Belonging - The Joyhttps://youtu.be/WYcpL6otp_Y?si=axmNIhLGH33CcW96Tauren Wells & Elevation Worship - Joy in the Morninghttps://youtu.be/uysGt7JVw9U?si=rO9AcRUvNer7b185Motion Worship - Joy Songhttps://youtu.be/muJ0bx6bk2o?si=RCL4ceH7XMJWWjtnWould you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

Whether you've been married for a long time or you're still newlyweds, you know marriage takes hard work. What if you had a tool to help you better understand the motivation behind your spouse's heart?On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, join Ben and Kim, AND their spouses, for a light-hearted discussion of how the Enneagram is one of many tools they use in their marriages to better understand one another.Here's the link for the FREE MARRIAGE ASSESSMENT: https://www.becomingus.com/marriage-plan-how-it-worksBecoming Us Coursehttps://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/a/21464/AXkeBehGUse Promo CODE: BEN2392 To get 15% off*on eligible purchases-on multiple payment courses, it will come off the first payment.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

There are many things in life we can ask God for, but the Bible urges us to seek wisdom above all things. On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me Ben and Kim discuss all the wonderful ways God's wisdom is displayed through His children and how we can glean from each other.BIBLE VERSES:1 Kings 3:9 AMPSo give your servant an understanding mind (wisdom) and a hearing heart with which to judge your people, so that I may discern between good and evil. For who is able to judge and rule this great people of Yours?James 1:5 ESVIf any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.James 3:17 ESVBut the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere.Proverbs 3:13 - 18 ESVBlessed is the one who finds wisdom, and the one who gets understanding, for the gain from her is better than gain from silver and her profit better than gold. She is more precious than jewels, and nothing you desire can compare with her. Long life is in her right hand; in her left hand are riches and honor. Her ways are ways of pleasantness, and all her paths are peace. ...Proverbs 1:7 ESVThe fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction.Romans 11:33 NLTOh, how great are God's riches and wisdom and knowledge! How impossible it is for us to understand his decisions and his ways!SONG ABOUT GOD'S WISDOM :To You be the glory by Matt Maher & Kari Jobehttps://youtu.be/74t0RwEntiU?si=RUsC-SvbLGgOpYOcPerfect Wisdom of Our God by Keith & Kristyn Gettyhttps://youtu.be/hSnzYnOe6kI?si=sq7y-NfkQrtL2snHYou Are My Vision by Rend Collectivehttps://youtu.be/rMmSPOF-6Xo?si=6b060JoVNMYLE9LQThy Will by Hillary Scott & The Scott Family https://youtu.be/PAmh3yvmzXs?si=dlhVGOHI9nTg17fFWould you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

We serve an amazing God who is filled with CREATIVITY AND BEAUTY. And we are blessed that He chooses to reflect those traits in us. On this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim discuss how God uses a certain personality type to model these characteristics to others for His Glory.SONGS ABOUT GOD'S BEAUTY AND CREATIVITY :How can you not? - Leanna Crawfordhttps://youtu.be/70JD5YTemJc?si=XfftGE6ZSmbKXlZAJesus Does - We the Kingdomhttps://youtu.be/baz5tuV7X2Q?si=nzU2jq8yyA9J8v2-To Not Worship You - Mercy Mehttps://youtu.be/KIFpkpHSjWA?si=wfEW6y0DK_wAbFwqToo Good to Not Believe - Brandon Lakehttps://youtu.be/lKVX_XdaP04?si=czKTuEVQ3gbxSWWcWaymaker - Sinachhttps://youtu.be/n4XWfwLHeLM?si=i6E30i2MzkSc4CC3SCRIPTURES ABOUT GOD'S CREATIVITY AND BEAUTY:Genesis 1:1 In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.Psalms 139:13 - For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb.Exodus 35:35 He has filled them with skill to do all kinds of work as engravers, designers, embroiderers in blue, purple and scarlet yarn and fine linen, and weavers—all of them skilled workers and designers.Psalms 104:24 How many are your works, LORD! In wisdom you made them all; the earth is full of your creatures.Genesis 1:27 So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.Psalms 8:3-6 When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and stars, which you have set in place, what is mankind that you are mindful of them, human beings that you care for them? You have made them a little lower than the angels and crowned them with glory and honor. You made them rulers over the works of your hands; you put everything under their feet.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

You love their music, now learn more about their heart. On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me Ben and Kim are joined by special guests and Contemporary Christian singers Mike Donehey from Tenth Avenue North, Tyler Roberts from Red Rocks Worship AND Micah Tyler. Learn how personality types affect their music and their relationships with others.Special Guest Videos - Mike Doneheyhttps://youtu.be/L-rpLf10SXA?si=2495bUhwUHM5pjGiMicah Tylerhttps://youtu.be/7DXGozXslIg?si=nCEdZKb84djEHyruRed Rocks Worship (with Tyler Roberts)https://youtu.be/IEiEAtMzQdE?si=A2Ok2_K1ZoWqAM8XWould you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

It's been said humans can survive without food, water and even air for a short period of time, but not without hope. On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me Ben and Kim discuss God's hope and how it can be reflected in each personality type when we are aligned with the Gospel. If You Really Knew Me can be found at We Are The Bridge dot org slash podcast, on The Bridge app, OR wherever you listen to podcasts.Bible Verses About HOPE - Romans 15:13 (NLT) ~ I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in Him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV) ~ For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.Romans 8L24 (NIV) ~ For in this hope we were saved. But hope means that we must trust and wait for what is still unseen. For why would we need to hope for something we already have?Hebrews 6:18-20 (MSG) ~ We who have run for our very lives to God have every reason to grab the promised hope with both hands and never let go. It's an unbreakable spiritual lifeline, reaching past all appearances right to the very presence of God where Jesus, running on ahead of us, has taken up his permanent post as high priest for us, in the order of Melchizedek.Hebrews 11:1 (TPT) ~ Now faith brings our hopes into reality and becomes the foundation needed to acquire the things we long for. It is all the evidence required to prove what is still unseen.Psalms 42:5 (TPT) ~ So then, my soul, why would you be depressed? Why would you sink into despair? Just keep hoping and waiting on God, your Savior. For no matter what, I will still sing with praise, for you are my saving grace!Song About God's HOPE - Phil Wickham – Living Hopehttps://youtu.be/u-1fwZtKJSMJon Reddick & Mandisa – You Keep Hope Alivehttps://youtu.be/4Q9itF7tx0oCrowder & Tauren Wells -All My Hopehttps://youtu.be/8gAM2GTzVeMKingsPorch - I speak Jesus https://youtu.be/VjPLUhE5tiQRiver Valley Worship - Hope has a namehttps://youtu.be/DohShCMjvXICain - I'm so Blessedhttps://youtu.be/Q4exKwB0WRkWould you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

Meet the band CAIN! Check out this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim sit down with the members of CAIN and learn how the Enneagram is a tool they utilize in their lives all while keeping their focus on Jesus. In the episode:CAIN the band https://www.caintheband.comCAIN - I'm So Blessed (Official Music Video)https://youtu.be/Q4exKwB0WRkCAIN - Any More (Official Music Video)https://youtu.be/qnqWwE8zJBQWould you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

How can each of us learn to reflect the love of God better? One of the ways is learning from each other.On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me Ben and Kim discuss how each Enneagram type is wired to show God's love when they are aligned with the Gospel. If You Really Knew Me can be found at We Are The Bridge dot org slash podcast, on The Bridge app, OR wherever you listen to podcasts.In the episode:Scriptures about God's lovehttps://www.cru.org/us/en/train-and-grow/spiritual-growth/gods-love-scriptures.htmlGod So Loved by We the Kingdomhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iq5URsXbKXsGod Really Loves Us by Crowderhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xAr8IZeGtY0You Say by Lauren Daiglehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VvDvlggVS4Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this sometimes, uncertain world, it helps to have daily reminders of God's goodness. If we look, we can see God's goodness all around us in what and WHO He has created.On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me Ben and Kim discuss how God gifts each personality type with different traits so we can learn from each other. They'll also share encouraging songs and scriptures about the goodness of God.In the episode:17 Bible Verses: What God Says About You - Dr. Michelle Bengston1.   I say (or have said) I am unlovable, but God says I am forever loved.“And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God's love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God's love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 8:38-39).2. I say (or have said) I am scarred but God says I am healed.“But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed” (Isaiah 53:5).3. I say I am weak, but God says He makes me strong.“God arms me with strength, and he makes my way perfect” (Psalm 18:32).4. I recognize I am a sinner, but God says I am forgiven.“I am writing to you who are God's children because your sins have been forgiven through Jesus” (1 John 2:12).5. I was abandoned, but God says I am adopted.“God decided in advance to adopt us into his own family by bringing us to himself through Jesus Christ. This is what he wanted to do, and it gave him great pleasure” (Ephesians 1:5).6. I say I am broken, but God says He makes me whole.“So you also are complete through your union with Christ, who is the head over every ruler and authority” (Colossians 2:10).7. I have been rejected, but God says I am His!“Do not fear. I have redeemed you. I have summoned you. You are mine” (Isaiah 43:1).8. I say I am alone, but God says He is always with me.“…Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go” (Joshua 1:9).9. I say I am hopeless, but God says because of Him, I am hopeful.“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare, and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope” (Jeremiah 29:11).10. I say I am purposeless, but God says I was created with purpose.“Perhaps this is the moment for which you've been created” (Esther 4:14).11. I say I have failed, but God says I am victorious in Christ.“But thank God! He gives us victory over sin and death through our Lord Jesus Christ” (1 Corinthians 15:57).12. I say I am lost, but God says He gives me direction.“Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying ‘This is the way; walk in it'” (Isaiah 30:21).13. I say I am worried, anxious, or afraid, but God says with Him I am peace-filled.“Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid” (John 14:27).14. I say I am unhappy, but God says I am joyful/joy-filled.“I have told you these things so that you will be filled with my joy. Yes, your joy will overflow!” (John 15:11)15. I say I am afraid, but God says I am powerful, loved, and have a sound mind.“For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind” (2 Timothy 1:7).16. I say I am nothing special, but God says I am fearfully and wonderfully made.“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well” (Psalm 139:14).17. I say I am worthless, but God says Jesus died because I am worth it.“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).Good, Good Fatherhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vuy1qm91dKMPromiseshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=muEqwtYjdB0Goodness of Godhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uvdLA6praRYGoodness of God by Bethel MusicI love You Lord Oh Your mercy never fails me All my days I've been held in Your hands From the moment that I wake up Until I lay my head I will sing of the goodness of God All my life You have been faithful All my life You have been so, so good With every breath that I am able I will sing of the goodness of God I love Your voice You have led me through the fire In darkest nights You are close like no other I've known You as a father I've known You as a friend I have lived in the goodness of GodYour goodness is running after It's running after me Your goodness is running after It's running after me With my life laid down I'm surrendered now I give You everything Your goodness is running after It's running after me CHORUS 2: All my life You have been faithful All my life You have been so, so good With every breath that I am able Oh, I'm gonna sing of the goodness of God (I'm gonna sing, I'm gonna sing)All my life You have been faithful All my life You have been so, so good With every breath that I am able Oh, I'm gonna sing of the goodness of God Oh, I'm gonna sing of the goodness of GodWould you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

We invite you to meet The Bridge staff and hear our hearts about work culture and showing grace to others.On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim sit down with fellow staff members for Part 2 of Enneagram-informed teams. You'll hear lots of laughter and get an inside look at how our Bridge family works with AND connects with each other.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

If you work with a group of people day-in and day-out, you know how important it is to get along. At The Bridge, we take this to heart.On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim sit down with staff members of The Bridge to discuss how we've used the Enneagram as a tool to understand one another better, which in turn helps our team to be connected and strengthened.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

If you are a leader, you realize the importance of understanding the people on your team. So, what makes a strong leader OR a great work culture?In this week's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim speak to three special guests who lead Christian organizations and get THEIR take on utilizing the Enneagram to understand their team, and themselves, better.If God has entrusted you to lead a group of people, be sure to check out this episode.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

Many people spend their lives trying to figure out their purpose. They may even ask, “Why on earth am I here” or, “What am I supposed to do with my life?”. In this week's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim sit down with special guest Pastor Kenneth Wagner of United Church Delaware to tackle some of those questions. Listen in as they discuss the importance of knowing yourself through the lens of the Enneagram.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

Most of us are so busy focusing on taking care of others that we tend to put ourselves last. We may even think it's prideful to take care of ourselves. Ben and Kim share self-care tips AND encouraging scriptures for each Enneagram type.Remember, the better we know ourselves, the better we can connect with others.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

Most of us are so busy focusing on taking care of others that we tend to put ourselves last. We may even think it's prideful to take care of ourselves. Ben and Kim share self-care tips AND encouraging scriptures for each Enneagram type.Remember, the better we know ourselves, the better we can connect with others.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

You may not be sure what the Enneagram is all about and you may have questions about its use. This week's episode, join Ben and Kim as they chat with special guest Tyler Zach, a pastor, author, AND Enneagram coach about the origins of the Enneagram and his research on Christians using it from a Biblical worldview.Tyler Zach - Gospel for Enneagram https://gospelforenneagram.com/contact-us/Remember, the better we know ourselves, the better we can connect with others.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

God's fingerprint for each of us is SO unique and wonderful. Learn more about it on this week's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim dive deeper into how people of the same Enneagram type can look different from one another based on their subtypes.Remember, the better we know ourselves, the better we can connect with others.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

Do you ever wonder how people of the same Enneagram type can look so different? This is due to a variety of things: Levels of health or alignment with The Gospel (refer to episode 12); our Enneagram Wings; and our subtype. In this episode host Kim Willey and Certified Enneagram Coach, Ben Sorrells will be discussing WINGS. Each Enneagram type has two adjacent wings that we use to influence our personality and behavior.Wings are the personality types on either side of the main type. One of those adjacent wings is more dominant than the other. We can choose the healthy side of our wings to help enhance our main type and guard against blindspots we may not see.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

Do you ever wonder how people of the same Enneagram type can look so different? This is due to a variety of things: Levels of health or alignment with The Gospel (refer to episode 12); our Enneagram Wings; and our subtype. In this episode host Kim Willey and Certified Enneagram Coach, Ben Sorrells will be discussing WINGS. Each Enneagram type has two adjacent wings that we use to influence our personality and behavior.Wings are the personality types on either side of the main type. One of those adjacent wings is more dominant than the other. We can choose the healthy side of our wings to help enhance our main type and guard against blindspots we may not see.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

Social butterflies and Dogs. What do these two things have in common? ….nothing LOL. Except for the fact that these topics will hopefully bring a smile to your face today.Life is crazy so having fun and sometimes being silly is a great stress reliever. In this episode, Kim and Ben have a lighthearted discussion of "Social Butterflies," If dogs had enneagram types, seeing someone's Enneagram type through their social posts, and what parents say to their teens.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

We all have family and friends that we have been praying for to receive Christ as their Savior, but sometimes sharing your faith is hard and you're not sure what to say. Check out this week's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim discuss how to use the Enneagram to share your faith. Whether you know their Enneagram type or not you'll learn simple, effective ways to tell others about Jesus.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to grieve. If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. We also would like to hear your questions about the Enneagram that we will answer and may use in a future episode.Special Guest: Chelsea Steinsdoerfer, LCPCResource: To find a therapist in your area visit psychologytoday.comWould you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to grieve. If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. We also would like to hear your questions about the Enneagram that we will answer and may use in a future episode.Special Guest: Chelsea Steinsdoerfer, LCPCResource: To find a therapist in your area visit psychologytoday.comWould you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to grieve. If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. We also would like to hear your questions about the Enneagram that we will answer and may use in a future episode.Special Guest: Chelsea Steinsdoerfer, LCPCResource: To find a therapist in your area visit psychologytoday.com Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to grieve. If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. We also would like to hear your questions about the Enneagram that we will answer and may use in a future episode.Special Guest: Chelsea Steinsdoerfer, LCPCResource: To find a therapist in your area visit psychologytoday.com Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to show the specific areas that we need to let Christ transform. For each type, we'll look at what our view is, where we get stuck, how we try to fix it, and what we can become in Christ.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to show the specific areas that we need to let Christ transform. For each type, we'll look at what our view is, where we get stuck, how we try to fix it, and what we can become in Christ.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to point out how the Gospel frees you to become your best self. We'll look at what our Auto-Pilot or average mindset looks like, our unhealthy version, and our healthy selves in each type can look like.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to point out how the Gospel frees you to become your best self. We'll look at what our Auto-Pilot or average mindset looks like, our unhealthy version, and our healthy selves in each type can look like.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss Enneagram Stances. Stances describe HOW we carry ourselves - a patterned way of responding to experiences...It's like our default mode. On most episodes, we separate out each type and describe how they handle situations, however, today is a bit different. In this episode, we will also show how some types share the same stances.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss Enneagram Stances. Stances describe HOW we carry ourselves - a patterned way of responding to experiences...It's like our default mode. On most episodes, we separate out each type and describe how they handle situations, however, today is a bit different. In this episode, we will also show how some types share the same stances.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to podcast@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!