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Description: In the span of a single year, Abby Wambach lost her beloved brother, her wife Glennon Doyle  was diagnosed with anorexia, and her sister-in-law Amanda Doyle was diagnosed with breast cancer. For the first time, the trio who host the wildly popular We Can Do Hard Things podcast, all found themselves simultaneously lost, looking for answers. So they turned toward the only thing that's ever helped them find their way: deep, honest conversations with other brave, kind, wise people. What resulted from those conversations was a myriad of guideposts, words of wisdom from some of the most brilliant wayfinders in the zeitgeist today. In this episode, Jen and Amy talk with Abby and Amanda about some of the most meaningful bits of guidance that they have received from inspirational voices like Elizabeth Gilbert, Jane Fonda, Michelle Obama, Ocean Vuong, Esther Perel,  Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson, and others that they have gathered into a new book called, We Can Do Hard Things: Answers to Life's 20 Questions. Some of the conversations they delve into include: Why are we like this? How do we figure out what we really want? How do we let go, or forgive, or get unstuck? Why do we wake up every day having forgotten everything we know? Why self-loyalty is so damn hard for women? Thought-provoking Quotes: “I'm just trying to remain a human in this political environment, in this place of deep fear where so much is at risk. And I think the way we do that is continuing to see each other as human and continuing to let our hearts break over what should break our hearts.” – Amanda Doyle “Having played on many different teams, I'm well suited to work well with others. I just have to be here and be myself. That is the way that I add value. I am not gonna add value in the way that Glennon and Amanda do. I know that. But that doesn't give me any lack of confidence because I know I bring something to the team.” – Abby Wambach “After 400 or so conversations, it was so wild that, whether we were talking to a person who's been a therapist for 40 years, or a person who's a poet, or a person who's an activist, there were just a handful of questions that all of these people are struggling with. The smartest people in the world are trying to figure out the same things that we are.” – Amanda Doyle Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Forward: A Memoir by Abby Wambach - https://amzn.to/4ckZOFi WOLFPACK: How to Come Together, Unleash Our Power, and Change the Game by Abby Wambach - https://amzn.to/4cpazqg We Can Do Hard Things: Answers to Life's 20 Questions by Glennon Doyle, Abby Wambach, and Amanda Doyle - https://amzn.to/3EfeZ6r Glennon Doyle - https://momastery.com/ Amanda Doyle Stops Keeping Score And Stays In The Moment - https://jenhatmaker.com/podcasts/series-60/amanda-doyle-stops-keeping-score-and-stays-in-the-moment/ Brené Brown - https://brenebrown.com/ Kate Bowler - https://katebowler.com/about/ Suzanne Stabile - https://suzannestabile.com/ Guest's Links: Website - https://abbywambach.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/abbywambach/ Twitter - https://x.com/abbywambach Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/abbywambach/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCej3anJvC-rSMd63asN8cXg Podcast - https://wecandohardthingspodcast.com/ Guest's Links: Twitter - https://x.com/amandafdoyle Podcast - https://wecandohardthingspodcast.com/ Connect with Jen!Jen's Website - https://jenhatmaker.com/ Jen's Instagram - https://instagram.com/jenhatmakerJen's Twitter - https://twitter.com/jenHatmaker/ Jen's Facebook - https://facebook.com/jenhatmakerJen's YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/user/JenHatmaker The For the Love Podcast is presented by Audacy. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There is no doubt that we are living in a rapidly changing world. Whether the topic is politics, technology, or climate - the future that our children face will likely look very different than previous generations. Given the modern challenges of smartphones, social media, and rising mental health issues, should our parenting also be evolving? Sissy Goff is the author of 13 books full of practical parenting advice for just such questions. She's been counseling kids and families for over 30 years, and her latest project focuses on building resilience in children. In this episode Sissy shares practical strategies every parent can use to help their children flourish, as well as advice for adults navigating the digital age. Show Notes Resources: Sissy's Podcast Sissy's Books “Breath” by James Nestor “The Anxious Generation” by Jonathan Haidt “How to Find Meaning After Loss” by David Kessler “The Road Back to You” by Suzanne Stabile “Quiet Power” by Susan Cain Similar Episodes: Robert Waldinger and Marc Schulz Angela Duckworth  Alfie Kohn Transcript Want more NSE? Join NSE+ Today! Our subscriber only community with bonus episodes designed specifically to help you live a good life, ad-free listening, and early access to tickets to our live shows. Great Feeling Studios, the team behind No Small Endeavor and other award-winning podcasts, helps nonprofits and brands tell stories that inspire action. If your organization has a message that deserves to be heard, start your podcast at helpmemakeapodcast.com. Subscribe to episodes: Apple | Spotify | Amazon | Google | YouTubeFollow Us: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | YouTubeFollow Lee: Instagram | TwitterJoin our Email List: nosmallendeavor.com See Privacy Policy: Privacy Policy Amazon Affiliate Disclosure: Tokens Media, LLC is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a… Learn about your ad choices: dovetail.prx.org/ad-choices

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Chapter 1 What's The Road Back to You by Ian Morgan Cron"The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery" by Ian Morgan Cron, co-authored with Suzanne Stabile, is a guide to understanding the Enneagram, a personality typology that divides human behavior into nine distinct types. This book provides insights into each type's motivations, fears, and behaviors, helping readers identify their own Enneagram type. Cron and Stabile use personal stories, humor, and engaging anecdotes to make the complex topics accessible, encouraging self-reflection and personal growth. The authors argue that the Enneagram can lead to deeper connections with others, enhance emotional intelligence, and promote a better understanding of oneself and others. Each chapter delves into the strengths and weaknesses of the nine types, offering readers tools for navigating relationships and fostering compassion. With its blend of spiritual wisdom and practical application, "The Road Back to You" serves as both an introduction to the Enneagram for novices and a valuable resource for those looking to deepen their understanding of this transformative system.Chapter 2 The Road Back to You by Ian Morgan Cron Summary"The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile is a guide to understanding the Enneagram, an ancient personality typing system that categorizes people into nine distinct types based on their core motivations, fears, and behaviors. Here's a summary of the key concepts covered in the book: Overview of the Enneagram:The Enneagram consists of nine personality types, each represented by its own number:The Reformer: Principled, purposeful, and self-controlled, often striving for perfection.The Helper: Caring, generous, and interpersonal, focused on meeting the needs of others.The Achiever: Adaptable, success-oriented, and driven, motivated by a desire for achievement.The Individualist: Sensitive, introspective, and expressive, often feeling different or out of place.The Investigator: Perceptive, innovative, and secretive, valuing knowledge and understanding.The Loyalist: Committed, security-oriented, and responsible, often experiencing anxiety about safety and support.The Enthusiast: Spontaneous, versatile, and scattered, seeking adventure and new experiences.The Challenger: Self-confident, assertive, and decisive, often fighting against injustice.The Peacemaker: Easygoing, receptive, and agreeable, avoiding conflict and seeking harmony. Core Themes:Self-Discovery: The authors stress the importance of understanding one's own Enneagram type as a means to achieve personal growth and deeper self-awareness.Transformation: The book emphasizes that knowledge of one's Enneagram type can lead to transformational change by helping individuals recognize their unconscious patterns, motivations, and ways of interacting with the world.Compassion for Others: Understanding the Enneagram not only helps individuals comprehend themselves but also fosters compassion for others with different personality types.Spiritual Growth: Cron highlights the spiritual dimensions of the Enneagram, encouraging readers to use their personality insights as a guide for spiritual development and deeper relationships.Practical Application: Each type is described in detail, along with its strengths, weaknesses, and advice for personal development. The authors provide practical tips for leveraging this knowledge in everyday life and relationships. Conclusion:"The Road Back to You" serves as an accessible introduction to the Enneagram, making it relevant for both newcomers and those familiar with the system. Through vivid anecdotes and insights, Cron and Stabile invite readers to engage in a journey of self-discovery that can lead to healthier relationships and a more

How do YOU handle Christmas each year? Do you enjoy shopping and being around lots of people? How are you at giving and receiving gifts? On this month's podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim sit down with some Bridge staff members for fun conversations about how each personality type does Christmas.SPEAKERS AND THEIR ROLESBen Sorrells:** Host, Certified Enneagram Coach, Enneagram Type 2Kim:** Host, Enneagram Type 3Rachel:** Guest, Community Engagement Specialist, Enneagram Type 2Andrew Jackson:** Guest, Director of Marketing and Data Analytics, Enneagram Type 9Mark:** Guest, Afternoon Show Host, Enneagram Type 1Lindsey:** Host, Digital Content Producer, Enneagram Type 7Tracey:** Guest, Office Administrator, Enneagram Type 5SUMMARYIn this festive episode, the hosts and guests delve into their unique holiday traditions, gift-wrapping preferences, and the meanings behind Christmas activities. Ben and Kim lead the conversation, engaging their colleagues from 'the Bridge' to share personal stories.They discuss everything from the intricacies of people-watching during the season to managing Christmas shopping using spreadsheets. Rachel and Lindsey highlight the emotional essence and meticulous nature of Christmas preparation, while Andrew and Mark reflect on the deeper significance of making memories and thoughtful gifting.Tracey rounds out the conversation, emphasizing the joy in being attentive and organized, even as the holiday season brings its own set of challenges and delights. RESOURCESEnneagram Information:     - Book: ""The Road Back to You"" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile for understanding Enneagram types.Podcast Contact Information:  - Email: knewme@bridge.org for listener questions and engagement.  - Announcement of a new email list featuring an Enneagram newsletter for ongoing insights.Listeners are encouraged to share their holiday traditions, gift-wrapping quirks, and personal insights on how their Enneagram type influences their Christmas celebrations by reaching out via email - knewme@wearethebridge.orgWAYS TO CONNECTWebsite: Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, for more episodes, resources, and show notes.Social Media: Follow us for updates and more encouraging content:**Instagram**:@enneagrampodcast**Facebook**:@enneagrampodcastEmail: Have questions or suggestions? knewme@wearethebridge.orgSubscribe and Review: Don't forget to subscribe to us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show.Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question toknewme@wearethebridge.orgIf you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us.If you're not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram ExplainedInfo credit: Beth McCord (Your Enneagram Coach)Hosts: Kim Willey and Ben SorrellsBen is a Certified Enneagram Coach through YEC and Beth McCordHelpful Links:Discover your Enneagram Type: Here's one that we like! YEC Enneagram Type AssessmentLearn about all 9 types: 9 Types OverviewIn-depth Enneagram Courses: YEC Enneagram Courses Please share If You Really Knew Me with a friend if you enjoyed this episode. If You Really Knew Me is still growing, and your positive review and 5-star rating would help.The Bridge Podcast Network is made possible by generous support from The Boardwalk Plaza Hotel and Victoria's Restaurant on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware - Open 7 days a week, year-round - Learn more at https://boardwalkplaza.comFeedback, or Show Ideas? Send an email to knewme@wearethebridge.orgDownload The Bridge Mobile App to get the latest podcast episodes as soon as they are published!

Link to our Patreon is : HEREIn this episode of Around the Circle, hosts Jeff Cook and TJ Wilson dive into the unique motivations and challenges of Enneagram Type Sevens with Joel Stabile.Joel creates and cultivates the most popular Enneagram Podcast on the Planet along side Suzanne Stabile. He has a *wonderful* understanding of the heart of Enneagram Sevens. This is a sample of our deep dive. The rest can be found on our Patreon page linked above. Mentioned in this episode:Ad November 2024

Your Enneagram Godmother and an Enneagram Guncle got together for this INCREDIBLE conversation! If you don't know Jonathan yet, Enneagram 3, this is a wonderful introduction.   "...othering the other that othered them." It'll make more sense after you hear him talk about it!   Jonathan is a writer on faith and culture, the author of Learning To Speak God From Scratch, Jesus is Better Than You Imagined, My Guncle and Me and a few other great reads. You can find him on Instagram @jonathan_merritt and online at jonathanmerritt.com   PLUG TIME! OOOOOHHHHHH, don't let this event sell out without you being a part of it: A Contemplative, Healing, Enneagram with Rev. Joseph and Suzanne Stabile, and Hunter Mobley. February 28 - March 1, 2025 in Nashville, TN CLICK HERE FOR TICKETS or visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/nashville   Today's INTRO The Office (S3, E1) Modern Family (S4, E21) The Other Guys (Columbia Pictures 2010)  

Our Patreon is HEREOur Youtube is HEREWelcome to Around the Circle! The Enneagram is more than a personality quiz—it's a powerful tool for self-understanding, personal growth, and improving relationships. If you've discovered your Enneagram type and are wondering what's next, this episode is for you. Jeff Cook, philosophy professor, and DJ Wilson, coffee expert and Enneagram Ninja, dive into 6 key ideas for newcomers who want to move beyond the basics and begin applying the Enneagram in meaningful ways.

We are still pinching ourselves that we had the honor of speaking with Suzanne Stabile! This conversation is filled with grace, truth, love, and wisdom as we are all figuring out how to live in such a divided society. As an internationally recognized Enneagram Master, Suzanne has conducted over 500 Enneagram workshops over the past 30 years. She has spoken to College audiences that include Baylor and Drury Universities, Hendrix College, Perkins School of Theology (SMU) and Brite Divinity School (TCU), Formation Gathering 2017 (Harvard Divinity School), Pepperdine Bible Lectures 2017, Seminary of the Southwest, hundreds of churches across America including First Baptist Austin, Highland Park United Methodist, Dallas, First Congregational Church, L.A., Otter Creek Church, Nashville, First Baptist Church, Portland, and teaches in the Baylor Health Care System, in Dallas, in both the Cancer and Transplant Hospitals. Additionally, she has taught at Richard Rohr's Center for Action and Contemplation and has been a speaker for Conferences offered by the CAC. She taught with Father Rohr to an international audience in Assisi, Italy, on The Enneagram and Paradox. Other events Suzanne has spoken at include The North Texas Conference of the United Methodist Church, Christianity 21, The Festival of Courage and Faith in Greenwich CT, the Emerging Christianity and Telemachus Conferences, the Southwest Regional Gathering of the Disciples of Christ, Laity Lodge and The Apprentice Gathering. Suzanne received her B.S. in Social Sciences from Southern Methodist University in Dallas, Texas where she also completed additional graduate work in the Schools of Sociology and Theology. She has served as a high school professor, the first women's basketball coach at SMU after Title IX, and as the founding Director of Shared Housing, a social service agency in Dallas. When she is not on the road teaching and lecturing, Suzanne is at home in Dallas, Texas with her husband Rev. Joseph Stabile, a United Methodist pastor with whom she co-founded Life in the Trinity Ministry and the Micah Center. She is the mother of four children and grandmother of nine: Will, Noah, Sam, Gracie, Elle, Joley, Jase, Piper, and Josie.

Today, we're revisiting one of our favorites. Enneagram Godmother Suzanne Stabile guides us through: What the hell is the Enneagram and why does it matter?  -The gifts and struggles each Enneagram type faces; -Why the worst part of you is also the BEST part of you; -The core desire / fear that explains your behavior; and  -Why, if Suzanne ever needs brain surgery, she's finding a doctor who's an Enneagram 1 And we FINALLY answer the question: Is Amanda a 3 or a 1?   To continue with follow up episode to this one, check out: Fix Your Most Important Relationships with the Enneagram: Suzanne Stabile. About Suzanne: Suzanne Stabile is an internationally-recognized Enneagram teacher. She is the co-author of The Road Back to You, and the author of The Path Between Us and The Journey Toward Wholeness. With backgrounds in sociology and theology, Suzanne has served as a high school professor; the first women's basketball coach at SMU after Title IX; and as the founding Director of Shared Housing, a social service agency in Dallas. Suzanne lives in Dallas with her husband Rev. Joseph Stabile. She is the mother of four children and grandmother of nine. TW: @SuzanneStabile IG: @suzannestabile To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of the Moms Without Capes podcast, host Onnie Michalsky discusses the Enneagram as a tool for self-discovery and personal growth, particularly for mothers who may feel lost in their roles. The episode features a conversation with Brit Gross, a certified Enneagram coach, who explains the Enneagram system and provides an overview of the nine personality types. By understanding their Enneagram type, listeners can gain insights into their behaviors and motivations, leading to personal growth and more fulfilling relationships. Join my Facebook community, Moms Without Capes to connect with other women reclaiming their sense of identity within motherhood. www.facebook.com/groups/momswithoutcapes TIME SENSITIVE: Attend my newest virtual workshop, The Mother-Load: Lighten the Load of Motherhood by Redistributing Household Tasks www.momswithoutcapes.com/masterclass To learn more about Brit Gross, go to www.archetypecoaching.me Recommended Books: The Road Back to You by Suzanne Stabile and Ian Morgan Crone https://amzn.to/4dpjPdA Enneagram Made Easy by Elizabeth Wagle and Renee Barron https://amzn.to/4fRPaHu For more information about Moms Without Capes, including more resources and ways to hang up your cape, visit my website www.momswithoutcapes.com Thank you so much for tuning in and listening today. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what ideas you may have for future episodes of the Moms Without Capes podcast! Email me at onnie@momswithoutcapes.com If you liked this episode, please show some love by leaving me a 5-Star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, subscribing, and sharing it with a fellow mom! Or buy me a chai latte at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/onnieM DISCLAIMER: Just because I'm a therapist, I'm not your therapist nor am I doing therapy in this podcast episode. Just saying. So enjoy Moms Without Capes for what it is- educational, entertaining, and a way to get my message out into the world!

Over the summer, we are offering some episodes of our podcast we're calling “Unhurried Favorites.” Today I'm sharing my interview with Suzanne Stabile. When we aired it last time, it was only a snippet of our conversation. Well, today, you can listen to it in it's entirety. Most of us have no idea how others see or process their experiences. And that can make relationships difficult. Understanding the motivations and dynamics of our different personality types can be the key that unlocks sometimes mystifying behavior in others―and in ourselves. Suzanne Stabile's book, The Path Between Us looks at the nine Enneagram types and how they behave and experience relationships.  We all desire healthier relationships and Suzanne can help point the way. Suzanne Stabile's book, The Path Between Us looks at the nine Enneagram types and how they behave and experience relationships.   __________________________________________Connect with Gem on Instagram and learn more on the Unhurried Living website and the Replenish Community.Learn about her new book, Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads

Send us a Text Message.Hey friend,If you struggle with clutter and being organized.If you are frustrated with your kid and their bedrooms and how disorganized they can be.If you're wondering why it's so hard to keep it all together with everything you have to do.I am so excited for you to listen to this episode with Laurie Palau!Laurie Palau is the author of HOT MESS: A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO GETTING ORGANIZED, host of the popular weekly podcast This ORGANIZED Life, which has over 3M downloads, and founder of Simply B Organized, a lifestyle company that helps people live simply and work smarter.Her advice has been featured in national publications including Real Simple, Better Homes & Gardens & The New York Times.Laurie speaks, teaches, and writes about Clutter, the Enneagram, and Women's Entrepreneurship. Through coaching, consulting, and 1:1 mentorship, Laurie uses a mix of humor, tough love, and compassion to empower women whether they are running a household, a business or both! Buy her a coffee or a drink, and she'll talk your ear off about all things BRAVO or true crime podcasts. She is a mom to two grown-ish girls and lives in New Hope, PA, with her husband Josh and their dog Jeter.Mentioned in this episode:Laurie's Freebie: https://simplyborganized.myflodesk.com/enneagramcoremotivationsThe Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery by  Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile: https://amzn.to/3ybAlOUThe Wisdom of the Enneagram: The Complete Guide to Psychological and Spiritual Growth for the Nine Personality Types: https://amzn.to/4fbuxG4Where to find Laurie:Website: https://simplyborganized.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/simplyborganized/Podcast: https://simplyborganized.com/this-organized-life/Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@simplyborganizedFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thisorganizedlifepodcastHere book: HOT MESS: A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO GETTING ORGANIZED: https://amzn.to/4d3hBzYSupport the Show.Check out our Moms of Tweens and Teens website HERESign up for our Moms of Tweens and Teens newsletter HERE Find more encouragement, wisdom, and resources: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/momsoftweensandteens/ Join our Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/Momsoftweensandteens Find awesome resources on MOTTs University: https://www.mottsuniversity.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/momsoftweensandteens/ Sheryl also has an Inner Circle weekly Parenting Program with a community of like-minded moms, personal coaching, and tons of resources to equip and support you to love well, navigate the challenges and meet your tween and teen's unique needs during these pivotal years. Get on the waitlist to get all the details and to be the first to know when it opens! https://momsoftweensandteens.lpages.co/waiting-list-for-membe...

Finally, we've arrived at the head center! Ruth and Erin will discuss the 5s, 6s, and 7s of this triad and their special relationship to fear. Erin and Ruth cover all the aspects we've been discussing this season as they apply to the head center: the instincts and their impact on the numbers, what unique challenges and transformation opportunities exist in this triad, and how to love our 5s, 6s, and 7s well. Ruth also asks Erin some broader enneagram questions about wings and arrows (and you'll hear producer Colleen chime in with some clarifying questions here) and what spirituality she applies to the enneagram. Erin also briefly gives us an overview of a few enneagram theories, including the rules of 1, 3, and 7. Over on Patreon, Erin continues to share journal prompts for 5s, 6s, and 7s as well as guidance specific to the unique challenges for head center folks as they work through those questions. Additionally, she elaborates on those enneagram theories that we could only briefly touch on in the episode. This season we are using the framework of the enneagram, and in particular the ways the 3 instinctual subtypes impact each enneagram number, to help people do the necessary inner work of knowing themselves and managing anxiety, triggers, and stuck patterns so that they can lead others well. This season, we are moving beyond the basics of describing each number type to look at our instincts and what motivates our behaviors. Special guest Erin Baute, a leadership behavior strategist with over 20 years of experience in behavior change and professional development, joins us all season long to help us do this important work.   Erin Baute is a professional business coach and leadership behavior strategist with over 20 years of experience in behavior change and professional development, working with individuals and teams. She has a bachelor's degree in Human Development, a Master of Public Health and a PhD in Organizational Psychology, with a focus on personal and professional development using personality as a framework underway. She has been studying and using Enneagram for 14 years and is a Certified Enneagram Teacher and Trainer and an Accredited Enneagram Professional from the International Enneagram Association (IEA). You can find more information about Erin on her website, https://livingtheenneagram.com/, or follow her on Instagram, @livingtheenneagram! Helpful Enneagram Resources: We are diving straight into the deep end of the enneagram this season. If you need some introductory resources to the Enneagram, we highly recommend the following: Self to Lose, Self to Find by Marilyn Vancil The Road Back To You by Suzanne Stabile and Ian Cron The Story of You by Ian Cron The Enneagram for Black Liberation by Chichi Agorom The Enneagram A Christian Perspective by Richard Rohr Support the Transforming Center! Right now you can double the impact of your gift through a $25,000 challenge gift from an alum. Donate today and receive our Good Things ‘zine!   Join our Patreon Book Club this summer! Patrons at all levels will have the opportunity to read and discuss Ashlee Eiland's newest book, Say Good: Speaking Across Hot Topics, Complex Relationships, and Tense Situations. We will meet twice over Zoom, once in July and once in August (with special guest, author Ashlee Eiland! ), to dialogue about the book and our own experiences speaking across difficult topics and conversations. Visit our Patreon page for more information and to sign up today!   Music Credit: Kingdom Come by Aaron Niequist Anthem from Music in Solitude   Support the podcast! This season patrons will receive weekly bonus episodes that will help take these conversations deeper. We have journal prompts for each of the 9 numbers, guidance from Erin on how to determine your instinct or subtype, and more! Become a patron today by visiting our Patreon page!     The Transforming Center exists to create space for God to strengthen leaders and transform communities. You are invited to join our next Transforming Community:® A Two-year Spiritual Formation Experience for Leaders.  Delivered in nine quarterly retreats, this practice-based learning opportunity is grounded in the conviction that the best thing you bring to leadership is your own transforming self! Learn more and apply HERE.   *this post contains affiliate links

It's time for the heart center numbers! Ruth and Erin will discuss the 2s, 3s, and 4s of this triad and their special relationship to connection and disconnection. Erin breaks down each of these numbers and how their instincts impact them. They talk about the challenges our broken and often violent world presents for those in this feelings-centered triad, as well as the unique ways the world needs their heart more than ever. Over on Patreon, Erin continues to share journal prompts for 2s, 3s, and 4s as well as guidance specific to the unique challenges for heart center folks as they work through those questions. This season we are using the framework of the enneagram, and in particular the ways the 3 instinctual subtypes impact each enneagram number, to help people do the necessary inner work of knowing themselves and managing anxiety, triggers, and stuck patterns so that they can lead others well. This season, we are moving beyond the basics of describing each number type to look at our instincts and what motivates our behaviors. Special guest Erin Baute, a leadership behavior strategist with over 20 years of experience in behavior change and professional development, joins us all season long to help us do this important work.   Erin Baute is a professional business coach and leadership behavior strategist with over 20 years of experience in behavior change and professional development, working with individuals and teams. She has a bachelor's degree in Human Development, a Master of Public Health and a PhD in Organizational Psychology, with a focus on personal and professional development using personality as a framework underway. She has been studying and using Enneagram for 14 years and is a Certified Enneagram Teacher and Trainer and an Accredited Enneagram Professional from the International Enneagram Association (IEA). You can find more information about Erin on her website, https://livingtheenneagram.com/, or follow her on Instagram, @livingtheenneagram! Helpful Enneagram Resources: We are diving straight into the deep end of the enneagram this season. If you need some introductory resources to the Enneagram, we highly recommend the following: Self to Lose, Self to Find by Marilyn Vancil The Road Back To You by Suzanne Stabile and Ian Cron The Story of You by Ian Cron The Enneagram for Black Liberation by Chichi Agorom The Enneagram A Christian Perspective by Richard Rohr   Join our Patreon Book Club this summer! Patrons at all levels will have the opportunity to read and discuss Ashlee Eiland's newest book, Say Good: Speaking Across Hot Topics, Complex Relationships, and Tense Situations. We will meet twice over Zoom, once in July and once in August (with special guest, author Ashlee Eiland! ), to dialogue about the book and our own experiences speaking across difficult topics and conversations. Visit our Patreon page for more information and to sign up today!   Music Credit: Kingdom Come by Aaron Niequist No Matter What from Music in Solitude   Support the podcast! This season patrons will receive weekly bonus episodes that will help take these conversations deeper. We have journal prompts for each of the 9 numbers, guidance from Erin on how to determine your instinct or subtype, and more! Become a patron today by visiting our Patreon page!     The Transforming Center exists to create space for God to strengthen leaders and transform communities. You are invited to join our next Transforming Community:® A Two-year Spiritual Formation Experience for Leaders.  Delivered in nine quarterly retreats, this practice-based learning opportunity is grounded in the conviction that the best thing you bring to leadership is your own transforming self! Learn more and apply HERE.   *this post contains affiliate links

We are exploring the body triad this week! Containing the enneagram 8s, 9s, and 1s, these folks have to work to manage their relationship with anger. Ruth and Erin discuss the different relationships each number has with anger and how the subtypes impact that. They also explore what safety looks like for 8s, 9s, and 1s, as well as the unique invitations towards transformation for each number. Over on Patreon, Erin is sharing a worksheet that helps us reclaim our own sense of safety and transformational journal questions for the body center numbers. She's also providing some guidance specific to the unique challenges of 8s, 9s, and 1's as they work through those questions. This season we are using the framework of the enneagram, and in particular the ways the 3 instinctual subtypes impact each enneagram number, to help people do the necessary inner work of knowing themselves and managing anxiety, triggers, and stuck patterns so that they can lead others well. This season, we are moving beyond the basics of describing each number type to look at our instincts and what motivates our behaviors. Special guest Erin Baute, a leadership behavior strategist with over 20 years of experience in behavior change and professional development, joins us all season long to help us do this important work.   Erin Baute is a professional business coach and leadership behavior strategist with over 20 years of experience in behavior change and professional development, working with individuals and teams. She has a bachelor's degree in Human Development, a Master of Public Health and a PhD in Organizational Psychology, with a focus on personal and professional development using personality as a framework underway. She has been studying and using Enneagram for 14 years and is a Certified Enneagram Teacher and Trainer and an Accredited Enneagram Professional from the International Enneagram Association (IEA). You can find more information about Erin on her website, https://livingtheenneagram.com/, or follow her on Instagram, @livingtheenneagram! Helpful Enneagram Resources: We are diving straight into the deep end of the enneagram this season. If you need some introductory resources to the Enneagram, we highly recommend the following: Self to Lose, Self to Find by Marilyn Vancil The Road Back To You by Suzanne Stabile and Ian Cron The Story of You by Ian Cron The Enneagram for Black Liberation by Chichi Agorom The Enneagram A Christian Perspective by Richard Rohr   Interested in our live virtual event: SPIRITUAL DIRECTION: An Essential Practice for Transforming Leaders? Visit our Online Oasis Information page to learn more and sign up today!   Music Credit: Kingdom Come by Aaron Niequist Anthemr from Music in Solitude   Support the podcast! This season patrons will receive weekly bonus episodes that will help take these conversations deeper. We have journal prompts for each of the 9 numbers, guidance from Erin on how to determine your instinct or subtype, and more! Become a patron today by visiting our Patreon page!     The Transforming Center exists to create space for God to strengthen leaders and transform communities. You are invited to join our next Transforming Community:® A Two-year Spiritual Formation Experience for Leaders.  Delivered in nine quarterly retreats, this practice-based learning opportunity is grounded in the conviction that the best thing you bring to leadership is your own transforming self! Learn more and apply HERE.   *this post contains affiliate links

"You can't treat what you haven't diagnosed and you can't diagnose what you haven't assessed." - Chanel Dokun "You can't fix what you can't name." - Suzanne Stabile   Yeah, the two of them could talk for way longer than an hour! But, for today, let's meet Enneagram One, Chanel Dokun. She is a mother of two, life coach, speaker, and author of Life Starts Now. To find out more about Chanel and what she is doing in the world, visit chaneldokun.com.    SUPER PROMOS today Alabama, The Enneagram and Spiritual Practices with Suzanne and Rev. Joseph Stabile, September 6-7 CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFO AND TICKETS South Carolina, The Enneagram and Relationships with the Enneagram Godmother, October 4-5 CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFO AND TICKETS Texas and Online, 2024 Enneagram Bootcamp: Stress, Loss, and Relationships with Suzanne Stabile and LTM, August 1-3 CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFO AND TICKETS The 2025 Cohort Program The deadline to apply is August 20, 2024, so there is time, but don't miss out on this incredible opportunity to dive into solitary work that cannot be done alone in the greatest space with the greatest people. CLICK HERE to learn more about each cohort: the dates, expectations, and applications.   TODAY's INTRO: SNL (NBC: May 13, 2017) 30 Rock (NBC: S6, E8) VEEP (HBO: S7, E1)

In this episode, Ruth is joined by our guest this season, Erin Baute! Erin and Ruth discuss the three subtypes or instincts, how they show up in all of us developmentally, and why they are so important to our conversations about developing our own sense of internal safety. They also discuss what it truly means to feel safe and how people have weaponized it to detract from their own behaviors. Over on Patreon, Erin and Colleen sit down to have a conversation that delves deeper into instinct theory, how to determine your own instinct preferences, and what it means to be the “countertype” of your number.   This season we are using the framework of the enneagram, and in particular the ways the 3 instinctual subtypes impact each enneagram number, to help people do the necessary inner work of knowing themselves and managing anxiety, triggers, and stuck patterns so that they can lead others well. This season, we are moving beyond the basics of describing each number type to look at our instincts and what motivates our behaviors. Special guest Erin Baute, a leadership behavior strategist with over 20 years of experience in behavior change and professional development, joins us all season long to help us do this important work.   Erin Baute is a professional business coach and leadership behavior strategist with over 20 years of experience in behavior change and professional development, working with individuals and teams. She has a bachelor's degree in Human Development, a Master of Public Health and a PhD in Organizational Psychology, with a focus on personal and professional development using personality as a framework underway. She has been studying and using Enneagram for 14 years and is a Certified Enneagram Teacher and Trainer and an Accredited Enneagram Professional from the International Enneagram Association (IEA). You can find more information about Erin on her website, https://livingtheenneagram.com/, or follow her on Instagram, @livingtheenneagram!   Mentioned in the episode: The Complete Enneagram: 27 Paths to Greater Self-Knowledge by Beatrice Chestnut The Gottman Institute   Helpful Enneagram Resources: We are diving straight into the deep end of the enneagram this season. If you need some introductory resources to the Enneagram, we highly recommend the following: Self to Lose, Self to Find by Marilyn Vancil The Road Back To You by Suzanne Stabile and Ian Cron The Story of You by Ian Cron The Enneagram for Black Liberation by Chichi Agorom The Enneagram A Christian Perspective by Richard Rohr   Interested in our live virtual event: SPIRITUAL DIRECTION: An Essential Practice for Transforming Leaders? Visit our Online Oasis Information page to learn more and sign up today!   Music Credit: Kingdom Come by Aaron Niequist Springs of Living Water from Music in Solitude   Support the podcast! This season patrons will receive weekly bonus episodes that will help take these conversations deeper. We have journal prompts for each of the 9 numbers, guidance from Erin on how to determine your instinct or subtype, and more! Become a patron today by visiting our Patreon page!     The Transforming Center exists to create space for God to strengthen leaders and transform communities. You are invited to join our next Transforming Community:® A Two-year Spiritual Formation Experience for Leaders.  Delivered in nine quarterly retreats, this practice-based learning opportunity is grounded in the conviction that the best thing you bring to leadership is your own transforming self! Learn more and apply HERE.   *this post contains affiliate links

Episode Summary: In this episode, Kelly and Alix discuss some of their most influential self-help books. From sexuality and the sleep cycle, to stress and then science of breathing, they take a look at books that have had an impact on the way they live their lives. Topics Discussed:[2:46] The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile[14:01] The Four Agreements by Miguel Ruiz and Janet Mills[21:12] The Untethered Soul: the Journey Beyond Yourself by Michael A. Singer[26:03] Come as You Are & Burnout by Emily Nagoski https://amzn.to/3UT4viI[32:01] Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams by Matthew Walker[35:55] Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art by James NestorOther Resources MentionedMatthew Walker on The Huberman LabWhat's New at LitJoy?Fablehaven: Rise of the Evening StarKingdom of the Wicked CollectionFollow LitJoy!We deeply appreciate your support in creating a community around stories!Make sure to RATE & REVIEW The LitJoy Podcast wherever you listen.Subscribe to our email list at https://litjoycrate.com/podcast-emailJoin our Lunacorns private membership group at https://litjoycrate.com/podcast-lunacornsFollow us on Instagram @litjoycrateFollow us on TikTok @litjoycrateCheck out LitJoy's officially licensed author collections!Use the code PODCAST10 for a 10% off discount!Find all episode show notes on The LitJoy Podcast homepage!Thank you for listening to this week's podcast! We have an amazing interview with Brandon Mull, author of the Fablehaven series, that you won't want to miss next week. Then we'll be back the following week for Part 2 of Alix and Kelly's Most Influential Self-Help Book Recs... see you then! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to season 23! This season we are using the framework of the enneagram, and in particular the ways the 3 instinctual subtypes impact each enneagram number, to help people do the necessary inner work of knowing themselves and managing anxiety, triggers, and stuck patterns so that they can lead others well. This season, we are moving beyond the basics of describing each number type to look at our instincts and what motivates our behaviors. Special guest, Erin Baute, a leadership behavior strategist with over 20 years of experience in behavior change and professional development, joins us all season long to help us do this important work.   Today, Ruth kicks off the season with a solo episode. She gives an introduction to the season ahead, an overview of how she uses the enneagram as a tool, in conjunction with the Holy Spirit, for self-examination and confession, and some guidance for interacting with the enneagram well. We conclude this episode with the Welcoming Prayer, a prayer Ruth often uses as a way to pray into the new things we discover about ourselves as we work with the enneagram.   Mentioned in the episode: Erin Baute, our guest this season. Find more info at her website or follow her on instagram!   Helpful Enneagram Resources: We are diving straight into the deep end of the enneagram this season. If you need some introductory resources to the Enneagram we highly recommend the following: Self to Lose, Self to Find by Marilyn Vancil The Road Back To You by Suzanne Stabile and Ian Cron The Story of You by Ian Cron The Enneagram for Black Liberation by Chichi Agorom The Enneagram A Christian Perspective by Richard Rohr   Interested in our live virtual event: SPIRITUAL DIRECTION: An Essential Practice for Transforming Leaders? Visit our Online Oasis Information page to learn more and sign up today!   Music Credit: Kingdom Come by Aaron Niequist Chasing Butterflies from Music in Solitude   Support the podcast! This season patrons will receive weekly bonus episodes that will help take these conversations deeper. We have journal prompts for each of the 9 numbers, guidance from Erin on how to determine your instinct or subtype, and more! Become a patron today by visiting our Patreon page!     The Transforming Center exists to create space for God to strengthen leaders and transform communities. You are invited to join our next Transforming Community:® A Two-year Spiritual Formation Experience for Leaders.  Delivered in nine quarterly retreats, this practice-based learning opportunity is grounded in the conviction that the best thing you bring to leadership is your own transforming self! Learn more and apply HERE.   *this post contains affiliate links

This past week I made it home for good after a wild month of traveling and speaking about my book, just in time to sit down with my toughest reader, my life companion, and my favorite guy around, Chris Hohorst, on his experience of Blessed Are The Rest of Us. We've never done this sort of thing before, and it was a delight.  A few more links! Find out more about Suzanne Stabile here. Here's a link to Micha's new book Blessed Are The Rest of Us: How Limits and Longing Make Us Whole. Find it at Target, Barnes and Noble, Amazon, and Bookshop.org. It's availble at 40% off the price of other booksellers at BakerBookHouse. Just use the code SLOWWAY at checkout. Learn more about Micha's other podcast The Lucky Few at their website and instagram.   Micha will be hosting a weekly virtual book club for paid subscribers this spring, following the release of her new book. If you're interested, become a paid subscriber and support her work! Here's a link to learn more. Find a transcript of this episode here.  Find Micha's website and sign up for her weekly newsletter here. Find Micha on Instagram.  Find Micha on Threads. 

This is our unabridged interview with Suzanne Stabile. What is the Enneagram, and how can it help us live a good life? “The unexamined life is not worth living,” said Socrates. But if that's true, how are we to go about examining our lives, and what templates or metrics are we to use? One of the best places to start, suggests author and speaker Suzanne Stabile, is the ancient wisdom tool known as the Enneagram. What at first glance seems like a Myers-Briggs-esque personality test for grouping humanity into neat piles is actually a tool for observing our way of seeing and being in the world and helps us see that not everyone experiences the world in the same way. Using the Enneagram, she says, “I teach people who they're not. I don't teach people who they are.” In this episode, she gives an overview of the ways in which the Enneagram just might help us become more understanding, compassionate, holistic people. Show Notes: Similar episodes Ian Cron: Recovery, the Enneagram, and Being Human Tara Brach: Radical Acceptance David Brooks: Can We Save Society by Knowing Each Other? Kelly Corrigan: How Vulnerability Leads to Connection Resources mentioned this episode The Road Back to You by Suzanne Stabile and Ian Cron The Path Between Us by Suzanne Stabile The Enneagram Journey podcast Suzanne's website PDF of Lee's Interview Notes Transcript for Abridged Episode JOIN NSE+ Today! Our subscriber only community with bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and discounts on live shows Subscribe to episodes: Apple | Spotify | Amazon | Google | YouTube Follow Us: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | YouTube Follow Lee: Instagram | Twitter Join our Email List: nosmallendeavor.com See Privacy Policy: Privacy Policy Amazon Affiliate Disclosure: Tokens Media, LLC is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com.

What is the Enneagram, and how can it help us live a good life? “The unexamined life is not worth living,” said Socrates. But if that's true, how are we to go about examining our lives, and what templates or metrics are we to use? One of the best places to start, suggests author and speaker Suzanne Stabile, is the ancient wisdom tool known as the Enneagram. What at first glance seems like a Myers-Briggs-esque personality test for grouping humanity into neat piles is actually a tool for observing our way of seeing and being in the world and helps us see that not everyone experiences the world in the same way. Using the Enneagram, she says, “I teach people who they're not. I don't teach people who they are.” In this episode, she gives an overview of the ways in which the Enneagram just might help us become more understanding, compassionate, holistic people. Show Notes: Similar episodes Ian Cron: Recovery, the Enneagram, and Being Human Tara Brach: Radical Acceptance David Brooks: Can We Save Society by Knowing Each Other? Kelly Corrigan: How Vulnerability Leads to Connection Resources mentioned this episode The Road Back to You by Suzanne Stabile and Ian Cron The Path Between Us by Suzanne Stabile The Enneagram Journey podcast Suzanne's website PDF of Lee's Interview Notes Transcription Link JOIN NSE+ Today! Our subscriber only community with bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and discounts on live shows Subscribe to episodes: Apple | Spotify | Amazon | Google | YouTube Follow Us: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | YouTube Follow Lee: Instagram | Twitter Join our Email List: nosmallendeavor.com See Privacy Policy: Privacy Policy Amazon Affiliate Disclosure: Tokens Media, LLC is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com.

In this episode, we're excited to have bestselling author Rachel Newman, a beacon of hope for overwhelmed moms. As a mother of three, including twins, and a former high school German teacher, Rachel brings a unique perspective on managing the chaos of parenting. This conversation takes an intimate turn as we discuss the unpredictable nature of motherhood, from the background cacophony of barking dogs and coughing children to the deeper issues of overwhelm and self-neglect that many mothers face. Rachel opens up about her journey from resentment to rediscovering joy in motherhood and shares valuable insights from her book, "Mom Me," a guide to bidding farewell to overwhelm and prioritizing oneself. We dive into the importance of shifting focus from to-do lists to the impact of our actions on our family, the role of self-care in being a better parent, and the power of reframing our daily tasks as meaningful contributions. Rachel also highlights a crucial book in her life, "The Road Back to You" by Ian Cron and Suzanne Stabile, discussing its impact on her personal development and relationships. Join us in this heartfelt discussion that not only sheds light on the struggles of motherhood but also offers practical strategies and a reminder that amidst the imperfections and unexpected turns, you are doing a fantastic job. Rachel Newman is a bestselling author, life coach, full time employee, wife, and mom to 3 toddlers, a 5 year old and 3 year old twins. Basically she wears too many hats and has created systems to thrive in the chaos. Rachel believes that moms should never rank last on their priority lists and she teaches women to take care of themselves before serving their families. She's an avid Texas Tech football fan, distance runner, and coffee fanatic. Connect with Rachel: Instagram: @the.rachel.newman www.momsupportcorner.com Connect with me: linktr.ee/momsupportcorner #Motherhood #SelfCare #Parenting #RachelNewman #ImperfectMoming #FamilyLife #MentalHealth #ParentingTips #MotherhoodJourney #BestsellingAuthor --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/momsupportcoach/support

In this episode Alix and Kelly continue to discuss books that lend to deep and interesting conversations! Reading can be such a solitary experience, but books remain one of the most impactful tools in connecting with others! Let's discuss!Topics Discussed:[2:45] The Forgotten Garden by Kate Morton: family secrets! Are we capable of keeping secrets? audiobook[9:00] The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde: gushing about our crush, Oscar, "what would my portrait look like?" audiobook [16:50] Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir: aliens are real (obviously), this is a MUST READ! There is so much to talk about! audiobook[26:10] A History of Wild Places by Shea Ernshaw: unique mix of genres, cults and fascinating human behavior, and missing people. audiobook [33:10] Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus: treatment of women in STEM in the 50s (cue feminist rage), privilege, reading in discomfort, and suppers at six! audiobook [42:00] The Road Back to You by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile: personality tests, tools for relationships, and understanding motivations and weaknesses. audiobook [48:15] The Silent Patient by Alex Michaelides: a gateway read into thrillers, a shocking ending, and human motivation and morality. audiobook What's New!Shop the ACOTAR Velaris Bookshelf Alley: www.litjoycrate.com/velarisNew Year Goals! Check out The Reading Journal: litjoycrate.com/products/reading-journalVampire Academy Special Edition Box Set: https://litjoycrate.com/roseJoin Us!We deeply appreciate your support in creating community around stories!Make sure to follow The LitJoy Podcast here.Subscribe to our email list at https://litjoycrate.com/podcast-emailJoin our Lunacorns private membership group at https://litjoycrate.com/podcast-lunacornsFollow us on Instagram @litjoycrateFollow us on TikTok @litjoycrateUse the code PODCAST10 at litjoycrate.com/podcast for a 10% off discount! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abby opens up about starting therapy and the work she's been doing to unearth and express uncomfortable emotions like anger and sadness. She shares her long-held fear that if she feels and expresses her full self, people will leave her. In a profound moment, Abby shares a deep longing to truly love herself. She explains that this love has been clouded by messages she's received since childhood which have led to difficulty trusting others, equating anger with not being okay, and a feeling like something is “wrong” with her.  For the episode Abby mentions with Suzanne Stabile, check out Fix Your Most Important Relationships with the Enneagram: Suzanne Stabile To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You may know that Suzanne was introduced to the world of podcasting through friend of the show, Luke Norsworthy. Now Luke has introduced Suzanne to Jason Miller, Enneagram 5, pastor at South Bend City Church and author of When The World Breaks. We'll get a peek at their relationship and Jason's affection for all Sevens! What is it like to be an enneagram Five and a church planter? Are you a non-anxious individual? And, lets reexamine our feelings about the word promiscuous. “In our dualistic culture, a neutral stand is not appreciated.” - SS   PLUG TIME The 4 Mantras with Suzanne Stabile - at The Micah Center and Online Show Up Pay Attention Tell The Truth Don't Get Attached to the Results Saturday, December 9th at The Micah Center with an online option for those who can't make it in person. There is no better time to walk through and with these Mantras than leading into Christmas and the New Year. AND, there is no better person to learn them from than Suzanne. REGISTER HERE "I was reading Richard Rohr before it was cool." We heard that in this episode and immediately loved the phrase. So, why not put it on a super comfortable, tri-blend tee?! Get yours here before they sell out. Take the time and visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com for more opportunities! TODAY'S INTRO The Office (S7: E15) It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia (S10: E9) Promiscuous by Nelly Furtado ft. Timbaland Joe DeRosa, You Let Me Down, Feb. 2017

In today's episode, Kaia sits down (literally) with her bestie, Maggie McGill [they/she], and talks about their shared experience of being Enneagram 7s. They'll share about the unconventional way they became friends in the middle of the pandemic and the discomfort of vulnerability that brought them closer. If you've ever found yourself in friendship with someone that's in a toxic, unhealthy, or abusive relationship -- Maggie will share about their experience of that -- both how to show up, and how not to show up.-- If today's episode reminds you of a story or sentiment you'd like to share with the Warmly community, click here. --Special thanks. Warmly's theme music is written and produced by A Day Without Love. You can listen to more of their stuff here. Stay in touch. 

Every adoptee walks through life dealing with the loss of at least their first family, and each one will experience that loss with a different lens. This week, Suzanne Stabile joins Lisa and Melissa for a rich conversation about adoption, the Enneagram, mystery, and curiosity. Suzanne shares vulnerably about how she's dealing with the "adoption-shaped hole" in her life. As an internationally recognized Enneagram Master, Suzanne has conducted over 500 Enneagram workshops over the past 30 years. She's the author of The Road Back to You, The Path Between Us, and The Journey Toward Wholeness. When she is not on the road teaching and lecturing, Suzanne is at home in Dallas, Texas with her husband, Rev. Joseph Stabile, a United Methodist pastor with whom she co-founded Life in the Trinity Ministry and the Micah Center. She is the mother of four children and grandmother of nine. Click here to download a transcript for this episode. Relevant Links Life in the Trinity Ministry The Enneagram Journey Podcast Ambiguous Loss* by Pauline Boss Healing Through the Dark Emotions* by Miriam Greenspan The Girls Who Went Away* by Anne Fessler *this is an affiliate link

This thought-provoking episode delves into the Enneagram, a dynamic personality system that holds great wisdom to better understand ourselves and those around us. Join us as Jess McGrail, an Enneagram expert, shares her wisdom on how this tool can be used for personal awareness and growth. Jess offers practical advice for identifying your Enneagram type and what resources to trust in going deeper into this topic. Discover the significance of Enneagram wings, stances, and arrows. Gain valuable tips for using this tool to foster compassion and connection in your personal and professional life. Whether you're a nurse or simply curious about the Enneagram, this episode offers valuable takeaways for enhancing your life and connections. Thanks for listening and subscribing!Helpful Links:- Jess McGrail's On Demand Class "Exploring the Enneagram"- The Road Back to You book by Suzanne Stabile & Ian Cron- Be mentored by Jess through monthly calls as part of the  Bundle Birth Nurse Group Mentorship Program- Click here to email Jess McGrail- Check out the Enneagram Institute Website - Check out the Typology Website

Channeling our inner Jeff Foxworthy... If you've ever thought to yourself, "How can I make sure people already know that I know the Enneagram and that I'm not new to it like they are?", you might be an Enneagram 3! Welcome Mallory Wyckoff to The Enneagram Journey! Mallory Wyckoff (DMin, MTS) is a writer, speaker, spiritual director, and peacemaker. She also serves as key relationships officer with Search for Common Ground, the world's largest organization dedicated to peacebuilding. Having completed her dissertation on the impact of sexual trauma on survivors' theological perception and spiritual formation, Mallory has a DMin in missional and spiritual formation. Today's episode includes talk about Curiosity, the difference between an Enneagram 1 and 3, Shame, Imaginative Prayer, and discussion about her newest book, God Is. You can find out more about Mallory at mallorywyckoff.com   TODAY'S PLUG: The 4 Mantras and The Holidays with Suzanne Stabile Saturday, December 9th in Dallas and Online Show Up, Pay Attention, Tell the Truth, Don't attach to the Results. How hard can it be? For different Enneagram numbers, some of these can prove to be difficult enough, but then add the pressures of the holiday season?! No worries though, because this year Suzanne Stabile is going to give us some tools to help us adhere to the 4 Mantras, and have a healthier and happier holiday season. CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFORMATION AND TO REGISTER   Thank you for your support of The Enneagram Journey podcast and of Life in the Trinity Ministry! To learn more about LTM, programming, and to donate visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/about   TODAY'S INTRO: Shame, The Avett Brothers Laura Addis (E3 on The Enneagram Journey Podcast, June 2022) Barbie (Warner Bros. 2023) Ted Lasso (S1, E8)

Perfectionism can keep us from starting altogether, stop us mid-art, and suck the joy out of the finished creative project. Can you relate?  This week on the podcast, Merideth chats with Enneagram One, Kendra Adachi (aka The Lazy Genius) about holding creative goals loosely, embracing imperfection, and becoming the architecture of your creative life.  Invitation:  1. Kendra's advice: "Ask someone you trust what they believe you bring to the creative process." 2. Explore The Lazy Genius' Magic Question: "What can I do now to make something easier later?" 3. Kendra says she lives by Suzanne Stabile's question, "What is mine to do?" Take this question to your journal and see what comes up.    Kendra Adachi's Lazy Genius Collective Elizabeth Joy Hooker's IG David Gate, poet, Enneagram Postcards Enneagram Workshop with Artists for Joy Enjoy the episode? Buy Merideth a coffee

We all have that one relationship that needs fixing… Today, Suzanne Stabile is back to tell us how we can use the Enneagram to improve our relationships and love our people better.  She guides us through:  How to stop misjudging and misunderstanding people;  How to start respecting your own innate gifts;   How to get rid of codependency; and  How to get what you are missing – more thinking, feeling, or doing – in your life.  If you missed our first episode with Suzanne, check out Episode 226 Enneagram: Why You Are the Way You Are. About Suzanne: Suzanne Stabile is an internationally-recognized Enneagram teacher. She is the co-author of The Road Back to You, and the author of The Path Between Us and The Journey Toward Wholeness. With backgrounds in sociology and theology, Suzanne has served as a high school professor; the first women's basketball coach at SMU after Title IX; and as the founding Director of Shared Housing, a social service agency in Dallas. Suzanne lives in Dallas with her husband Rev. Joseph Stabile. She is the mother of four children and grandmother of nine. TW: @SuzanneStabile IG: @suzannestabile To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Enneagram Godmother Suzanne Stabile guides us through: What the hell is the Enneagram and why does it matter?  The gifts and struggles each Enneagram type faces; Why the worst part of you is also the BEST part of you; The core desire / fear that explains your behavior; and  Why, if Suzanne ever needs brain surgery, she's finding a doctor who's an Enneagram 1. And we FINALLY answer the question: Is Amanda a 3 or a 1?   (Also meet back here tomorrow for a bonus episode where Suzanne uses the Enneagram to fix our relationships.) About Suzanne: Suzanne Stabile is an internationally-recognized Enneagram teacher. She is the co-author of The Road Back to You, and the author of The Path Between Us and The Journey Toward Wholeness. With backgrounds in sociology and theology, Suzanne has served as a high school professor; the first women's basketball coach at SMU after Title IX; and as the founding Director of Shared Housing, a social service agency in Dallas. Suzanne lives in Dallas with her husband Rev. Joseph Stabile. She is the mother of four children and grandmother of nine. TW: @SuzanneStabile IG: @suzannestabile To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We often have opportunities to be guests on other podcasts, and we've had some great conversations. We'd hate for you to miss them. Because we're taking the month of July off from recording new episodes, we thought it would be the perfect time to share some of those interviews with you right here on our podcast. The authors of Reclaim Compassion and hosts of The Adoption Connection podcast, Melissa Corkum (Enneagram 7) and Lisa C. Qualls (Enneagram 3) join Suzanne Stabile and Joel on the Journey. Parenting is HARD Working together as a 3 and a 7 and how they related differently to feelings Blocked care What is hand lettering? Relevant Links Click here to download a transcript for this episode. Relevant Links This episode first appeared on The Enneagram Journey Podcast. Reclaim Compassion* by Lisa C. Qualls and Melissa Corkum Free blocked care assessment *this is an affiliate link  

A lot packed into today's episode! This Q&A conversation was recorded in front of a live audience on The Table. Suzanne answers questions that have been sent in via the voicemail app on theenneagramjourney.com as well as some that were submitted live during the recording. What is her experience with twins and enneagram numbers? Comparing a 7 in stress vs. an 8 in low space Mistyping between a 1 and 4 2s and altruistic giving aaaaand more!   PLUG TIME! Kansas City, June 23-24, The Enneagram with Suzanne Stabile. Find your enneagram number and explore the role it plays in your life and in your relationships. Tickets are only $30 at Resurrection UMC. Click here for more information and registration. 2023 Enneagram Bootcamp: Naming and Navigating, August 3-5 The flagship event each year for LTM. This 3 day teaching event is for everyone no matter where you are on your Enneagram Journey. Suzanne will be combining Enneagram Triad teaching with Enneagram Stance wisdom to help participants better name and navigate their way in the world. Join us in Dallas for an incredible opportinity of growth and community, but if you cannot be with us in person, join online from where you are in the world! lifeinthetrinityministry.com/23bc Todays INTRO: "Nobody Like Me (Think I'll Go Eat Worms)" ABC Kids The Office - S6: E4 Daily Affirmations with Stuart Smalley, SNL (NBC)

Teachers: Luke Norsworthy, Suzanne Stabile We haven't met anyone who doesn't want to belong or have meaning. Yet many of us seem to miss out on both. Drawing upon on timeless wisdom from the Living Word, Enneagram Master teacher Suzanne Stabile and Luke Norsworthy will discuss how to find both.

Teachers: Luke Norsworthy, Suzanne Stabile We haven't met anyone who doesn't want to belong or have meaning. Yet many of us seem to miss out on both. Drawing upon on timeless wisdom from the Living Word, Enneagram Master teacher Suzanne Stabile and Luke Norsworthy will discuss how to find both.

Enneagram master teacher Suzanne Stabile discusses ambiguous loss, grief, and fear.   

Enneagram master teacher Suzanne Stabile and Luke have a lovely conversation from Pepperdine's Campus for Harbor '23. 

The unexamined life is not worth living”, Socrates tells us. This rings true both for the Big Concepts we've tackled on this podcast so far, and the invitation to know ourselves as we seek out meaning with those we love. In many ways, the pursuit of wisdom is as much about our inner world as it is about the outer world of ideas and beliefs. Many have dubbed Suzanne Stabile “The Enneagram Godmother”. She's been a student of this ancient system for over 30 years, which has made her an accomplished author and much sought-after speaker. Suzanne's unique story-based teaching style radiates a desire to help people learn who they are so they can get out of their own way and love others better. In this episode, we invite Suzanne to share her wisdom about what comes on the other side of the theory itself. You can find Suzanne's work and connect with what she's doing at https://suzannestabile.com/ To join the discussion, visit us on Instagram @meaninginthemiddlepod and in the Meaning in the Middle Facebook group.Cheers! 

Join us for a deep dive into a relationship chat on our repressed centers of intelligence, or stances, with Suzanne Stabile, best-selling author, speaker, and Master Enneagram teacher (The Road Back to You, The Path Between Us, The Journey Toward Wholeness). Suzanne shares her wisdom from connecting with thousands of families and across thirty-five years of marriage, offering honest advice for marriage success. As we discuss changing instincts across seasons and a conversation about our stances or repressed Centers of Intelligence, we increasingly learn to balance thinking, feeling, and doing with more consistency and balance with intention.  Show links: Find Suzanne's books and courses, including her The Table Membership >> here Become an E + M Certified Coach!   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!  

mentor and master Enneagram teacher Suzanne Stabile joins me in discussing Helen Palmer's chapter on Type 2podcast cover photo by Inti St Clairend music is “Anyone Who Loves Me” by Charlotte Cardin

It was my joy to talk with Enneagram Godmother,  Suzanne Stabile (Social 2) about her latest book, Journey to Wholeness, which along with Suzanne's unique teachings on the link between our types and stress/self-care, outlines a clear approach to balancing the Centers of Intelligence. Did the pandemic have anything to do with this book? [2.38] Is this book an evolution from the previous book, the Path Between Us? [07.11]How Suzanne approaches the issue of mistyping [10.38]The basis for the book's theory regarding accessing the high side of Stress number as a way to self-care, and the 'acting out' that happens in the Security number [13.41]Demo of the theory using Types 2 and 4 [19.04]Should we manage the dominant Center before practising using the repressed Center [20.52]?Why managing the dominant Center needs to be the first focus [21.25]Suzanne on bringing up her repressed Center, thinking [24.40]Why doesn't Suzanne talk about the instincts in her book? [26.25]How the dominant instinct/subtype changes [29.16]Suzanne on her love for reading and how it supports her repressed Center [32.17]Suzanne's next move: moral injury [35.19]Suzanne's very practical new Enneagram book: The Journey Toward Wholeness: Enneagram Wisdom for Stress, Balance, and Transformation: https://amzn.to/3w0HUn7 References:Maurice Nicoll- the neurologist, psychiatrist and Fourth Way teacher who named the Centers: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maurice_Nicoll Find Suzanne: Life in the Trinity Ministry: https://www.lifeinthetrinityministry.comhttps://suzannestabile.com***Music by Reverie-Now from PixabayPlease leave the podcast a review or rating to help people find it!If you have something to teach me about the Enneagram, please get in touch.Website: www.thepracticalenneagram.comEmail address: rez@thepracticalenneagram 

Most of us have no idea how others see or process their experiences. And that can make relationships difficult.  Understanding the motivations and dynamics of our different personality types can be the key that unlocks sometimes mystifying behavior in others―and in ourselves.   Suzanne Stabile's book, The Path Between Us looks at the nine Enneagram types and how they behave and experience relationships.   Today I'm sharing a portion of my Replenish conversation with Suzanne. We all desire healthier relationships and Suzanne can help point the way. The question I asked Suzanne for this I Can Do That! Podcast episode is this: What is a unique challenge for each Enneagram type in relationships? Connect with Gem on Instagram and learn more on the Unhurried Living website and the Replenish Community.Learn about her new book, Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads

Most of us have no idea how others see or process their experiences. And that can make relationships difficult.  Understanding the motivations and dynamics of our different personality types can be the key that unlocks sometimes mystifying behavior in others―and in ourselves.   Suzanne Stabile's book, The Path Between Us looks at the nine Enneagram types and how they behave and experience relationships.   Today I'm sharing a portion of my Replenish conversation with Suzanne. We all desire healthier relationships and Suzanne can help point the way. The question I asked Suzanne for this I Can Do That! Podcast episode is this: What is a unique challenge for each Enneagram type in relationships? Connect with Gem on Instagram and learn more on the Unhurried Living website and the Replenish Community.Learn about her new book, Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads

Today I'm glad to welcome our favorite Enneagram teacher, author Suzanne Stabile, to talk about the three centers of intelligence and how our stances inform our decisions.   Suzanne is a highly sought-after speaker and teacher, known for her personal vulnerability and creative approach to Enneagram instruction. After 25 years of studying the enneagram, learning from people's stories, cultivating relationships, and learning under Father Richard Rohr, she has become a bestselling author and world-class teacher of the enneagram.   Her most recent enneagram book is called The Journey Toward Wholeness: Enneagram Wisdom for Stress, Balance and Transformation and if you ask me, it's her best one yet. Listen in.     Links + Resources From This Episode: Find Suzanne online and on Instagram The Journey Toward Wholeness by Suzanne Stabile As a bonus for listening, Suzanne's publisher IVPRESS is offering a promo code for 30% off The Journey Toward Wholeness. Simply use code NRT at checkout at ivpress.com for 30% off today. (This code expires December 5, 2022!) Order The Next Right Thing Guided Journal Grab a copy of my book The Next Right Thing  Find me on Instagram @emilypfreeman Download a transcript of this, and every, episode at emilypfreeman.com.

The podcast hits the road for Charlotte, NC in today's episode, sitting down with homeschooling moms, Melissa (enneagram 9) and Alexiz (enneagram 1).  Like all of the Tour '22 podcasts, this episode is a little longer than our typical shows, but it is packed with great Q&A, enneagram insights from the guests on life as a 1 and 9, wisdom from the Godmother, and a few laughs. If this episode convinces you to free up your weekend November 11 and 12, then join us in Kansas City, MO for the final stop of The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour '22! Friday night live podcast recording with Suzanne and Ryan Motter (8&9) and teaching Saturday with Suzanne Stabile. lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 SAVE THE DATE!!! March 9-11, 2023 is LTM's Spring Event. This year Suzanne will be speaking and teaching on the Enneagram, Parenting and Foster Care and Adoption. Registration will open up on Black Friday with a sweet sale. Don't miss out! Thank you for your support of the podcast and of LTM. Keep listening, keeping joining in the community, and keep growing! The podcast and ministry are dependent on your support. You can donate at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/donate TODAY's INTRO: Joe List on This Week at the Comedy Cellar The Whitest Kids You Know - Homeschool Joey and Billy Schewee on TEJ Podcast EP 85 Jennifer Fulwiler standup

Suzanne's favorite way to teach returns on this episode of The Enneagram Journey! We remove a few more messages from the inbox as Suzanne talks about: Some differences between EIGHTS and TWOS Vulnerability and Betrayal Anxiety and Fear Addressing some difficult family circumstances Special contribution from a guest in the Micah Center! PLUG for the Enneagram Event of the Year!! From Intentional To Intuitive with Suzanne Stabile, August 4-6 in Dallas, TX or join Online! suzannestabile.com/event/i2i Finding balance between our Enneagram Number, Stress Number and Security Number. Learning to acknowledge and develop healthy responses to Shame, Fear, and Anger. These challenges are going to be different for each Triad and for each individual Number Where Shame, Fear, and Anger show up in our attempt to live by the 4 Mantras: Show Up Pay Attention Tell The Truth Don't Attach to the Results Early Bird price ends June 1. TODAY'S INTRO Stan Marsh being vulnerable on South Park (season 9, episode 5) Braden and Andrew Bowles on The Enneagram Journey (September 2020) Trailer for Failure To Launch (Paramount 2006)