In Your Right Mind with Monique Rhodes

Think your habits, reactions, and relationship patterns are just “who you are”? Think again. In this powerful reflection, I uncover how the beliefs you inherited—often silently—from your family may still be shaping your life today. If you've ever felt stuck in cycles you can't explain, this might be the truth you didn't know you were living.

You're doing the work, showing up, trying your best—and yet, it still feels like nothing's happening. In this podcast, we explore why the slow, invisible effort you're making might be more powerful than you think—and how small daily choices are planting the future you can't yet see.

In today's episode, I explore how one man's quiet, consistent presence became a powerful reminder that the most meaningful impact doesn't come from status—it comes from how we show up. This is a story about grace, dignity, and the kind of kindness that lingers long after the moment has passed.

After years of heartbreak and disappointment, Anna believed everyone else was the problem—until one quiet confession changed everything. What if the story you keep telling isn't the whole truth… and never was?

Think finding the “right” partner is the key to a happy life? New research says otherwise. In this episode, we dive into the surprising science showing that single women often live longer, feel more fulfilled, and experience more freedom than their married peers. If you've ever questioned whether partnership is the only path to happiness—this conversation will change the way you see solitude, self-love, and what it really means to be whole.

Ever found yourself shutting down in a difficult conversation—heart racing, walls up, ready to walk away? You're not alone. In this episode, we dive into the life-changing practice of staying present when everything in you wants to retreat. If you've been longing for deeper relationships, better communication, and more resilience in the face of conflict, this is the conversation you didn't know you needed. Staying is hard—but it might just change everything.

Do you ever feel like you're always the one holding space, checking in, showing up—only to be met with silence when you need support? In this episode, we explore the quiet heartbreak of feeling unseen, the real reason people don't always respond the way you hope, and what to do when you're tired of being the strong one. If you're feeling hurt, unacknowledged, or just over-carrying the emotional weight—this conversation is for you.

In a world obsessed with healing, boundaries, and becoming your “highest self,” it's easy to lose sight of something essential: other people. In this episode, we explore how the self-help industry may be quietly fueling self-absorption—and why the science (and ancient wisdom) tells us that true happiness lies not in endless self-focus, but in connection, compassion, and turning toward others. If you've been doing all the “inner work” but still feel disconnected, this conversation might be exactly what you need.

When someone you love stops being the person you remember—what do you do? In this episode, we explore the quiet heartbreak of watching someone evolve and the deeper truth about what it means to stay. If you've ever felt distance growing between you and someone you care about—not because they left, but because they changed—this is the perspective shift that might bring peace, compassion, and connection back into the relationship.

Avoidance only makes fear grow louder. In this episode, I explore why putting things off makes them feel heavier, and how one small step can shift everything. Let's talk about how gentle action—not perfection—breaks the cycle of procrastination and brings us back to steadiness, clarity, and self-trust.

What if your way of showing love is actually pushing people away? In this episode, we explore the surprising ways well-intentioned affection can create distance—and what real kindness actually looks like. Whether you're someone who needs space or someone who needs closeness, this conversation will challenge what you think connection means, and show you how to love people better—on their terms, not just yours.

Ever feel like life keeps sending you the same challenges on repeat? What if those patterns—and even the pain—aren't punishment, but invitations? In this episode, we explore the idea that everything entering your life is here to teach you something vital. If you're tired of feeling like things are just happening to you, this conversation will help you reclaim your power, shift your perspective, and begin to meet your life with clarity, meaning, and trust.

Have you ever felt like meditation “isn't working” because you're not calmer or more blissful? In this episode, I reveal the real purpose of meditation—and why it has little to do with escaping life and everything to do with truly seeing it. Discover how this simple shift can transform your relationship with yourself and bring you back to the only moment you really have—right now.

If you've been overwhelmed by all the conflict, division, and noise around you—and you're wondering how one person can possibly make a difference—this episode is for you. We explore the quiet but powerful choice that changes how you relate to the world, and why peace doesn't start out there—it starts with the way you show up, right here, right now. This isn't about fixing everything. It's about shifting something that truly matters.

If you've been chasing the next version of your life, always waiting for clarity, peace, or happiness to finally arrive—this episode is for you. We explore why the present moment feels so hard to stay in, and what changes when you stop running from discomfort and start working with it instead. This might be the mindset shift that brings you back home to yourself.

Do you ever feel like life is racing past you, even when you're doing all the “right” things? In this episode, we explore what it really means to slow down and reconnect with the beauty of the present moment. If you've been feeling disconnected, distracted, or like you're sleepwalking through your days, this simple shift in perspective might be exactly what brings you back to life.

You know your flaws by heart—but what if they're not the most honest part of your story? In this episode, we explore how constantly identifying with your shortcomings keeps you stuck, and how reconnecting with your basic goodness can shift everything. If you're ready to stop living from self-doubt and start rooting into something deeper, this conversation might be exactly what you've been needing.

You keep thinking happiness is just one achievement, one change, one breakthrough away—but what if the real key to feeling alive has been right in front of you all along? In this episode, we explore the underrated power of gratitude—not as a checklist, but as a radical shift in how you experience your life. If you're tired of chasing fulfillment and still feeling empty, this might be the perspective that changes everything.

If you've been feeling disconnected, burned out, or just going through the motions—this might be the reminder you didn't know you needed. In this episode, we explore the quiet, powerful force that makes life deeply meaningful, breaks down emotional walls, and helps you reconnect with yourself and others in the most human way possible. It's not hustle. It's not perfection. It's something simpler—and far more life-changing.

Are you moving so fast through life that you barely notice the moments slipping away? In this episode, we explore why presence is the most underrated secret to feeling truly alive—and how learning to slow down, even just a little, can change the way you see everything. What if the peace you've been chasing is already here, waiting for you to notice? If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

Are you gripping tightly to control, certainty, and old stories about who you are? In this episode, we explore the surprising truth about what happens when you stop resisting uncertainty and start training in letting go. If you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of what's next—this might be the mindset shift that opens up everything. Limitless possibilities begin the moment you choose to soften. If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

Feeling stuck in the middle of a major life transition—like a breakup, career change, or identity shift? That queasy, uncertain in-between space might actually be where the real transformation begins. In this episode, we explore how staying with discomfort instead of running from it can open the door to profound clarity, compassion, and strength. If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

Do you ever feel like you're not enough—like something deep inside you is just… wrong? You're not alone, and more importantly, you're not broken. In this episode, we dig into the quiet lie so many of us carry: the belief that we're inherently unworthy. But what if that feeling isn't truth—just a habit? Join me for a powerful conversation about self-worth, emotional resilience, and the surprising antidote to self-criticism. This might just change the way you speak to yourself. If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

We spend so much of our lives running from discomfort—hiding behind distractions, perfectionism, or denial. But what if the way through isn't resistance, but radical curiosity? In this episode, I talk about why facing our inner walls with gentleness and honesty might be the most courageous thing we ever do. If you've ever felt stuck, scared, or ashamed of your own patterns, this conversation is for you. If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

Are you tired of feeling like you're never enough? In this episode, we explore a radical approach to self-acceptance that doesn't ask you to change a thing—but instead invites you to open your heart to exactly who you are right now. If you've been waiting to feel “ready” before fully living your life, this might be the truth you've needed all along. If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

If you've ever found yourself spiraling in self-doubt, stuck in a loop of “I'm not good enough,” this episode is for you. We're diving into how thoughts of unworthiness quietly shape your life—and what happens when you stop feeding them. Learn how to reclaim your confidence, shift your mindset, and reconnect with the truth of who you really are. This isn't fluff—it's the foundation of your freedom. If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

What if the power to change your life isn't out there—but within you? In this episode, I explore how your inner world shapes everything around you. From the stories you believe to the compassion you offer yourself, true transformation begins when you turn inward. Let's talk about why tending to your mind is the most radical—and empowering—choice you can make. If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

We often think peace comes when life finally calms down—but what if that idea is holding us back? In this episode, I explore why chasing perfect stillness can actually increase our anxiety, and how real peace is something much more courageous. Let's look at how we can build a peace that doesn't crumble, even when life feels chaotic. True peace isn't about control—it's about learning to stay open. If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

Life pulls us in every direction—but there's one simple habit that can instantly bring you peace. In this episode, I explore how gently coming back to the present moment, even for seconds a day, can shift everything. It's not about perfection—it's about presence. This practice is a quiet rebellion in a noisy world, and it's one of the greatest acts of self-respect we can offer ourselves. If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

We all try to save time with clever hacks, but have you ever stopped to ask what you're doing with the time you save? In this episode, I reflect on a powerful conversation from my Happiness Club about how we invest our most precious resource. Just like money, time can bring extraordinary returns—if we use it wisely. Let's explore how small shifts in our daily choices can lead to a much happier life. If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

How do we stay hopeful in a world full of real challenges? In this episode, I explore the idea of realistic optimism—not pretending life is perfect, but trusting in our resilience and our power to grow, even in hard times. I'll share how every setback can become fuel for wisdom, courage, and compassion when we face it with integrity and care. Let's dive into how practical optimism helps us stay grounded, inspired, and ready to keep showing up for what matters. If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

Can something as simple as a 3-second pause change your life? In this episode, I explore how learning to pause—truly pause—can become one of the most powerful practices for building presence, resilience, and connection. You'll discover how small, intentional breaks in your day can help you respond instead of react, reconnect with your values, and bring more calm and clarity into your relationships. If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

How do we stay open-hearted when life feels too heavy to hold? In today's episode, I respond to a powerful letter from a listener navigating the tension between protecting their energy and yearning to reconnect. We'll explore how pulling back can sometimes keep us stuck, and how generosity—even the quiet kind—can gently reopen our hearts.   If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

What if enoughness isn't something you earn—but something you choose? In this episode, I respond to a heartfelt letter from a student feeling stuck in the chase for more. Together, we explore how gratitude isn't just a checklist—it's a lens that transforms how we see our lives.   If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.  

How can we truly live each moment rather than just pass through it? In this episode, I reflect on the quiet power of presence—the joy of tasting your coffee, of really hearing a loved one's voice, of noticing the wonder woven into everyday life. Together, we'll explore how letting go of future-chasing and past-carrying allows us to find beauty right where we are.   If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

How can we bring peace into a world that feels anything but peaceful? In today's episode, I explore why peace begins within—not in grand gestures or perfect circumstances, but in the small, quiet choices we make every day. You'll learn how softness, presence, and radical empathy can become acts of strength, and how your inner calm can ripple out to transform your relationships—and maybe even the world.   If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

What if the most powerful shift in your life could begin with a single quiet moment? In this episode, I explore how meditation isn't about escape—it's about presence. We'll look at how developing the simple practice of attention, held with kindness, can deepen clarity, create choice, and gently bring you back to your most authentic self.   If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

What if the life you're living is already a quiet miracle? In this episode, I reflect on the power of gratitude to shift our perspective from scarcity to presence. Learn how to honor the life you have—not by fixing everything, but by recognizing the beauty and wonder in even the smallest moments.   If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

What if your attention is the most valuable currency you have? In this episode, I explore how protecting your focus and aligning your time with your values can transform your life. Discover practical ways to set boundaries, limit distractions, and create a life of purpose, intention, and happiness—one mindful moment at a time.   If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

What if the waves you're riding aren't challenging you to grow? In this episode, I explore Seth Godin's thought-provoking quote, "Better waves make better surfers," and reflect on how the right environment shapes our resilience and potential. Discover what it means to choose growth over safety, find your courage, and step into a life that feels both expansive and alive. If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

What if failure isn't the end, but a step toward refinement? In this episode, I challenge the conventional idea of failure, inviting you to see missteps as experiments in progress rather than personal shortcomings. Learn how to approach life with curiosity instead of criticism, and discover the freedom and happiness that come from treating every stumble as an opportunity to grow and evolve.   If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

What if your best moments are hidden in the early hours? In this episode, I reflect on the sacredness of morning rituals and the contrast between hours that nourish us and those that drain us. By trading late-night habits for early-morning vitality, discover how small shifts can lead to greater clarity, peace, and purpose in your daily life.   If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

Welcome to the 'In Your Right Mind' podcast, where we explore meaningful ideas and practical tools to help you live with more clarity, joy, and purpose. Each episode offers insights and reflections to support you on your journey to a happier, more connected life. Join me as we uncover ways to navigate life's challenges and embrace its beauty.   If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

Welcome to the 'In Your Right Mind' podcast, where we explore meaningful ideas and practical tools to help you live with more clarity, joy, and purpose. Each episode offers insights and reflections to support you on your journey to a happier, more connected life. Join me as we uncover ways to navigate life's challenges and embrace its beauty.   If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

How do you know when it's time to stop playing it safe? In this episode, I explore why the most meaningful changes in life often ask us to risk comfort for truth. We'll look at how “being sensible” can keep us stuck—and why choosing the sacred over the sensible is sometimes the bravest thing you can do. 

Welcome to the 'In Your Right Mind' podcast, where we explore meaningful ideas and practical tools to help you live with more clarity, joy, and purpose. Each episode offers insights and reflections to support you on your journey to a happier, more connected life. Join me as we uncover ways to navigate life's challenges and embrace its beauty.   If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

Welcome to the 'In Your Right Mind' podcast, where we explore meaningful ideas and practical tools to help you live with more clarity, joy, and purpose. Each episode offers insights and reflections to support you on your journey to a happier, more connected life. Join me as we uncover ways to navigate life's challenges and embrace its beauty.   If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.

What if one small, consistent habit could reshape not just your routine—but your identity? In this episode, I share the power of choosing just one habit to commit to over time, and how doing so creates lasting, meaningful change. I'll explore why going deep instead of wide is the key to sustainable transformation.

Welcome to the 'In Your Right Mind' podcast, where we explore meaningful ideas and practical tools to help you live with more clarity, joy, and purpose. Each episode offers insights and reflections to support you on your journey to a happier, more connected life. Join me as we uncover ways to navigate life's challenges and embrace its beauty.   If you'd like to go deeper into this work, visit iintendtobehappy.com—it's a wonderful place to begin your journey with me.