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So Problematic is a podcast devoted to the woman that knows what she wants but is misunderstood when she speaks. Join us on the adventure of learning adulthood black women, lessons in self care, health and wellness. The topics of motherhood, relationships and lots more. We just want to know whats the problem with the world and not us?

So Problematic


    • Feb 21, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 54m AVG DURATION
    • 86 EPISODES

    5 from 24 ratings Listeners of So Problematic that love the show mention: bringthemio podcast, ladies, real, great, love.


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    The So Problematic podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to gain a deeper understanding of themselves, cultivate healthy relationships, and embrace self-love. Hosted by a dynamic duo of empowering women, this podcast offers genuine, upfront conversations that are both relatable and insightful. From discussing pop culture to diving into real-life experiences, these ladies offer a refreshing perspective that is sure to resonate with listeners from all walks of life.

    One of the best aspects of The So Problematic podcast is the authenticity and vulnerability that the hosts bring to each episode. They don't shy away from discussing difficult topics or sharing their own personal experiences, making it easy for listeners to connect with their stories. This level of transparency creates a safe space where listeners can explore their own emotions and challenges while feeling supported and understood. The hosts also do an excellent job of incorporating humor into their discussions, making even the toughest subjects more approachable.

    Another standout aspect of this podcast is the diverse range of topics covered. Whether they're dissecting relationship dynamics or delving into societal issues, the hosts bring a unique perspective that adds depth and dimension to each conversation. Additionally, the incorporation of pop culture references keeps the content engaging and relevant. This blend of personal anecdotes, cultural analysis, and practical advice ensures that every episode offers something valuable for listeners regardless of their interests or background.

    While The So Problematic podcast has numerous strengths, one area that could be improved is the consistency in audio quality. At times, there may be slight variations in volume or clarity which can be distracting. However, this minor issue does not detract significantly from the overall listening experience and should not discourage potential listeners from giving this podcast a chance.

    In conclusion, The So Problematic podcast is an outstanding addition to any playlist for those seeking personal growth and meaningful connections. With its honest discussions on love, self-respect, and navigating life's complexities, this podcast offers invaluable insights that can positively impact one's relationships and overall well-being. The hosts' genuine approach and range of topics make this podcast a standout choice for anyone looking to embrace self-love, respect, and joy in their lives.



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    Latest episodes from So Problematic

    Let's Get Vulnerable!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2024 40:28


    On this episode, “Let's Get Vulnerable!” Have you ever had to unlearn something taught to you growing up? Or what about in your adult life? We go over a few things we had to unlearn. How do you get vulnerable? Can you be vulnerable with the people around you? Let's talk about it.

    Leaving 2023 Behind

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2024 33:14


    On this episode, “Leaving 2023 Behind” Letting go of your plans and having enough faith to believe things happen for a reason.  Leaving, doubt behind, leaving worry behind, leaving stress behind. What did you leave in 2023? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/soproblematic/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/soproblematic/support

    Ghosting Exceptions

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2023 24:19


    On this episode, “Ghosting with Expectations” Have you ever been online dating and everything is set up but then he ghost you? Who text you 4 days later after missing a dinner date? What the heck is zombing? Grab your drinks let's talk about it!

    I Would Neva…That Was A Lie!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2023 33:05


    How Motherhood Changed Us

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2023 45:49


    On this episode, “How Motherhood Changed Us” Becoming a mother is a beautiful and loving experience but how often do we discuss how it changed us mentally, physically and spiritually? Can't we just talk about it? Make sure you tune in and don't forget to like, comment and share. Have a drink and let's talk about it sis.

    When Your Friendship Changes Like The Seasons...

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2023 38:28


    It's The Gentle Parenting For Me!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2023 31:41


    On this episode, “It's The Gentle Parenting For Me!”…. Do we agree with gentle parenting? Is this a temporary trend people are doing because it sounds good? People out here trying to be the opposite of how they were raised. Listening as we discuss parenting styles. Make sure you tune in and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink and let's talk about it sis.

    It's Called Rice and Peas with a Lil' Two Chains!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2023 37:02


    Today is So Problematic Wednesday- NEW EPISODE!!! - - On this episode, “It's Rice and Peas with a Lil' Two Chains!”…. Hear the experiences of being raised in the US of A but living the Caribbean lifestyle in your home. How different is the food, the government, being raised in a community and the music? Hear Jill rap a lil bit and should we really do a mukbang? Make sure you tune in and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink and let's talk about it sis.

    In Living Intentional: Happy New Year!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2023 36:06


    Today is So Problematic Wednesday- NEW EPISODE!!! - - On this episode, “In Living Intentional: Happy New Year!”…. We been missing for a minute so we wanted to start the new year off right. New words to focus on, the things we learned in 2022. What do we expect going into 2023. Did you catch that new jingle thou lol… Make sure you tune in and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink and let's talk about it sis. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/support

    WTF Is Ya'll Talking About?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2022 31:36


    COURT ME… FEED ME…JUST SAY YOU CANT AFFORD THE DATE!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2022 34:10


    Adulting is Ghetto: Rant 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2022 36:38


    On this episode, “Adulting is Ghetto: Rant 1”…. Paying bills is ghetto, waking up early is ghetto, going to work is ghetto, buying food is ghetto, being responsible is just the ghetto? Do ya'll agree cause when we said we wanted to go up we were only referring to parties, cussing and sleeping in. Let's rant about it. Make sure you tune in and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink and let's talk about it sis.

    Don't Call Us Crazy Just Stop Being Lazy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2022 31:58


    Contradicting Love VS Survival

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2022 40:29


    On this episode, “Contradicting Love vs Survival”…. We are not coming for anyone but is it just us but have you noticed when someone say something one day and then say the opposite the next day or week later? Where you raised on love or on survival? We both have different point of views but did it have an impact on how you see love now? Make sure you tune in and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink and let's talk about it sis.

    Follow Your Dreams w/ Ariana Evans

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2022 69:42


    On this episode, “Follow Your Dreams w/Ariana Evans”…. It started with a dream but she thought nursing was her the journey she was meant to be on. That's until she hit the record button and from there her purpose was made clear. Check out this amazing story of the ICU nurse who had no idea she was meant to do film making. Make sure you tune in and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink and let's talk about it sis.

    Is The Table Round or Square? We Do Not Care… The Table Is For Sale!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2022 40:15


    On this episode, “Is The Table Round or Square? We Do Not Care… The Table Is For Sale!”…. This week we discuss being raised in a Jamaican home, also how the coworker just be trying it in the emails LOL smh. Hearing men ask what women bring to the table is beyond mind blowing. Here we discuss how we feel about this question and how it comes across to us. Listen and let's talk about. Make sure you tune in and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink and let's talk about it sis.

    Learning Hygiene with Dignity…Period!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2022 39:45


    CICIs Diary

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2022 4:09


    Dear Diary was my brother trying to reach out to me? How crazy is that a random conversation went to this. And it was the day before his 10 year anniversary of his passing. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/message

    YOU KNOW VDAY COMING UP- ITS A NO FA ME DAWG

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2022 27:20


    Rediscovering Yourself By Letting Go of Toxic Behavior and People

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2022 39:18


    Triggers; It's Something About The Way He Hits Mine Because He Knows Them All

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2022 77:33


    On this episode, “Triggers; It's Something About The Way He Hits Mine Because He Knows Them All”…. Special Guest from Cookies and Convo Podcast shares her story of trauma and triggers dealing with domestic violence. If you are anyone you know are dealing with domestic violence please call 1-800-787-3224 or your local hotline number in your area. Need help inbox us immediately. Make sure you tune in and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink and let's talk about it sis.

    3 Words for the New Year: We're A Team!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2021 40:09


    Don't Kill Santa Over A Ugly Sweater…. After All The Best Gift is Ya Kids- AGAIN!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2021 41:47


    BONUS episode-Christmas Edition Hope you enjoy our quick convo about gift ideas, the good and the bad ones. What we plan to do for Christmas and how to deal with friends or family who lost someone this holiday. Not sure why we say AGAIN? Check out our last season episode called "Best Gift Is Yo Damn Kids" https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/episodes/Best-Gift-Is-Yo-Damn-Kids-eneihk --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/message

    Light or Dark Skin…No Head, Your Sexual Performance is Dead w/PillowTalkWithTheTea Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2021 73:59


    He's A Stay At Home Father & Imma Stand Beside Him

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2021 49:44


    If You Don't Tell The Money Where To Go… You Going To Wonder Where It Went!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2021 49:29


    Mental Health Boundaries Are Necessary

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2021 45:33


    On this episode, Mental Health Boundaries Are Necessary -This episode we talked about mental health and what is healthy boundaries when it comes to putting yourself first for your own mental insanity. Let's talk about it!!! We came to be problematic AF! Go Listen now

    Whats Does The Booster Shot Have To Do With "Ya'll"?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2021 41:40


    It's More Of An Orange Flag Right? But It's Still A Flag! Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2021 53:05


    On this episode, It's More Of An Orange Flag Right? But It's Still A Flag! Part 1 -This episode we talked about a few red flags in dating. Financial flags, family flags, sex flags I mean we taking it there. Are broken promises a red flag? What about little white lies they aint orange flags? Oh and we only covered a few so you know this is only part 1. Lets talk about it!!! We came to be problematic AF! Go Listen now

    Its Levels To This, Know Ya Place Respect My Space Get Out My Face or You Will Be Replaced!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2021 70:25


    On this episode, Its Levels To This, Know Ya Place Respect My Space Get Out My Face or You Will Be Replaced! This episode we have the pleasure of spending some QT with our friend Desiree new last name! Sharing different aspects of friendships and how they can change. Knowing who your friends are. It's levels to friendships and how they grow. Lets talk about it!!! We came to be problematic AF! Go Listen now

    Ain't No Apology In The First 5 Years Of F**king Up I'm Set In My Ways…But I Know My Position In This Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2021 51:36


    Couldn't Lay in the Bed They Preached F**kery in…But Wish You the Best… Grow the F**k Up!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2021 45:58


    On this episode, Couldn't Lay in the Bed They Preached F**kery in…But Wish You the Best… Grow the F**k Up! This episode we discuss accountability. Being blocked because you call a person out on they bs and they couldn't handle it. Learning from your own mistakes and realizing other people feelings matter. Lets talk about it!!! We came to be problematic AF! Go Listen now

    My Mommy Was Mad At Me So She Put Me In The Corner… But I Saw Grandma Go Get Her Switch Fa Dat Azz!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2021 46:03


    Stop Lyin To That Man You Faked It And His Deep Stroke Ain't Hitting Right!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2021 26:58


    On this episode, Stop Lyin To That Man You Faked It And His Deep Stroke Ain't Hitting Right!!! This episode we discuss the weak deep stroke that does nothing for some women. Men take an estimated 4 minutes to ejaculate but when it takes about 10-11 minutes so quickies don't always work for us. Listen we survived the Cov we can't be out here lying to these men about their whack D game! And who brought out anal OMG!!! We came to be problematic AF! Go Listen now

    Kicked Out After The Wedding Honeymoon Phase Is Over Pack Ya Bags

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2021 29:06


    KEEP YA HAIRBALLS…SINGLE PARENTS HAVE IT TOUGH!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2021 52:33


    On this episode, KEEP YA HAIRBALLS…SINGLE PARENTS HAVE IT TOUGH! This episode we discuss a little bit about new intro music for our podcast shoutout to Erica from @Ericawithacpodcast for an awesome suggestion. We get slightly distracted with CiCi's cat Emma and hairballs wow don't know how that happened… Single parenting is different from solo parenting and we discuss the difference as well as share a few stories since we have experienced them both. We came to be problematic AF! Oh and we have visuals so check out our YOUTUBE CHANNEL and subscribe. - - Make sure you tune in and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink and let's talk about it sis.

    Black-ish or Black AF!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2021 18:42


    This episode we rant really quick about how our own people can be very judgmental about not being woke enough… There are those who are just too woke and tear down others for not being on the same level as them about our history. We are tired of the madness either way… What does Black-ish even mean? Does it have to do with where you were raised or being classified as ghetto? Who gives the Black AF person permission to criticize someone else for not being educated on a certain topic. We started Season 3 with a quick rant we came to be problematic AF! What are your thoughts on the show Black-ish? What do you think about those who are judging the people who are not as educated on our history? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/message

    Happy Podiversary To Us!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2021 26:53


    We want to take the opportunity to say thank you to everyone who has supported us on this podcast journey! We can't wait to see what the future holds and we hope that continue to take to this ride with us. Our podcast is reaching levels we never expected it to and it's beyond a blessing. Hope you enjoy our episode with a few flashbacks of what the year has been like for us! We love you all… Don't forget to comment, like and subscribe. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/message

    happy podiversary
    Order of Business with Dejuan

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2021 72:36


    On this episode, ORDER OF BUSINESS We had the pleasure of having DEJUAN from THE GROWN MAN LOGIC PODCAST join us on this episode. Should we treat a relationship like a business? Do you have monthly or quarterly meeting with your partner? And the order of business is as follows: Billie Jean, Versus Battle, Apocalypse, Marriage, Cain & Abel, Contracts and Emotions. Find out what we discussed with Dejuan on this episode. It was definitely alot of topics so just go listen! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/message

    Gettin Flew Out, To Eat Crawfish in A Motel!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2021 72:42


    On this episode, GETTIN FLEW OUT TO EAT CRAWFISH IN A MOTEL We had the pleasure of having BIG L AND PORK from THE COOL OUT CORNER PODCAST join us on this episode. All we have to say is- please use headphones and definitely prepare yourself for a wild conversation. We talked about getting flown out by the opposite sex and the benefits or requirements that are expected. How are you out here eating crawfish? Dating single mother's-she said what??? We also asked how Big L be sliding in the DMs. Just go listen! Better yet you need the visual for this one so go check out this episode on YOUTUBE. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/message

    What's Anxiety & Setting Boundaries w/ TheBarbieWay

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2021 63:35


    On this episode, WHATS ANXIETY & SETTING BOUNDARIES We had the pleasure of having Cortney from Thee Barbie Way Podcast join us on this episode. How could she not watch The Best Man movie? What does America’s Next Top Model have to do with this? What is up with jealous friends and how do you turn off having anxiety from trying to balance life, podcasting, school, parenting & more. Tune in as we vibe with Thee Barbie Way! - - - Make sure you tune in and don’t forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink and let’s talk about it sis. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/message

    Surviving Alcoholism Abuse

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2021 38:58


    On this episode, SURVIVING ALCOHOLISM ABUSE We had to get deep with dealing with a spouse who was in a relationship with other things and not his wife. Jay shares a little about her struggles of being a wife to a husband with alcoholism and give advice on how to deal with them. We suggest to call for help and to reach out to a supportive friend or family member if you or someone you know is dealing with the same issues. - - - Make sure you tune in and don’t forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink and let’s talk about it sis. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/message

    Lupus Did Not Win...!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2021 56:13


    On this episode, LUPUS DID NOT WIN…! We had the pleasure of speaking with Jay’s Mother Mrs Esther who is a phenomenal nurse, Newlywed, amazing mother and is still surviving Lupus-her way! She shares her story and knowledge about the struggles and blessings that came about when dealing with her condition. Let’s not forget Jay has memories of what it was like for her as well…Make sure you tune in and don’t forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink and let’s talk about it sis.

    Becoming A Mother-Our Stories

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2021 65:57


    On this episode, BECOMING A MOTHER-Sharing Our Stories Every mother has a story…How we delivered our babies into this world or how we felt the first time we made eye contact with those little faces. Jay and CiCi share their birth stories as the reminisce all the good and painful deliveries. It ain’t easy brining life into this world, but we do it and that is what makes us have super powers! - - Make sure you tune in and don’t forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink and let’s talk about it sis.

    Never Loose Yourself In A Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2021 65:37


    Have your relationship taken over so much that you don't know who YOU are anymore? Some relationships have understanding from the jump but others can be very draining. You find yourself justifying someones behavior because you love them or you take interest in their hobbies and forget about yours... Take a listen as we discuss not loosing yourself in a relationship with guests The Nurse & Nerd. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/message

    Family + Toxic Traits

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2021 66:36


    You don't know how toxic certain family traits are until you get old enough to understand them, recognize them and learn from them. You felt criticized, controlled, emotionally drained, self conscious of all of your goals and more. Cici shares a few personal experiences that takes us through an emotional rollercoaster ride but it's her truth and some of us have similar issues we just don't speak of. If you or anyone you know have had suicide thoughts please seek help or talk to someone before you do anything. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/message

    Cici's Meditation Affirmations

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2021 4:55


    *BONUS EPISODE* Here is a little self care mantra from ya girl CiCi. we wanted to provide something a little different so we decided to give a little bonus episode of meditation. hope you enjoy and feel free to share, like, comment, & subscribe. Peace out byyyyeeeeee --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/message

    Women Are A Reflection of How You Treat Her

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2021 40:40


    On this episode, WOMEN ARE A REFLECTION OF HOW YOU TREAT HER - Fellas do you think your woman is just over reacting for no reason? Sis, Did he stop dating you after the first 6 months and now you feel like he is getting comfortable? Lets discuss how the relationship goes through different stages and how you are being treated is a reflection of YOU! So sit back- sip your wine, tequila or tea and allow this knowledge to bless ya soul. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/soproblematic/message

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