Black Millennial Marriage Podcast

Magic Mind's got a Black Friday offer, it's currently 50% off until the 6th of December, only with my link:https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPDBF Use my code RANDIEPDBF for 50% off #magicmindHey y'all!It's the end of. . . . the SEASON! So, here's a longer episode to reflect on this long ass year. Tune in as Mikey and Randie reveal the 3 biggest things that affected them and stood out to them this year, and their favorite episodes and collabs. Later, they have a relationship check-in rating sex, money, communication, and parenting. During the check-in they both express hardships, disconnection, the fun, and still as always . . . love.Then, before the fight or flight they gift superlatives, an annual tradition for the most supportive and engaged Patrons. Superlatives range from “Most likely to burn shit up” to “Most likely to wear white people down.”Mikey ends the episode with a fight about Randie's sleep talking, but of course it's all love as they show each other some PDA.It has been a long ass $&(@)@_! year, but they and you made it. Praise GOD. As always, your hosts appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn't be here without your support and they want you to know they're grateful.They'll see you in 2025!To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. BlueSky Profiles:Randie: https://bsky.app/profile/ranthesolarpunk.blksky.socialMikey: https://bsky.app/profile/eastatlantamike.bsky.socialFollow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

My productivity hack: https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD20Use my code RANDIEPD20 for 20% off #magicmind..Hey y'all,The temptation to roll over and die is . . . well, tempting. But in this Indie Randie details the 4 things keeping her afloat, helping her resist despair, and inspiring her to imagine a better future. Because if Bisan from Gaza can show up, then so will she.Tune in as the shorter half of the BMM podcast shares her feelings on the world around her, the fear she and everyone else is feeling, and the raging determination she has to survive as those who came before her did.In the EP, Randie talks green juices, the Dodo Bird's Youtube channel, her favorite go to app for self-care, and her new found fascination for Solarpunk art, activism, and literature.She hopes you're being extra extra extra extra compassionate towards yourselves. And hopes you're also taking care of your mental, physical, and all the things in between. Why? Because she wants you to survive too.Items Mentioned:→ My productivity hack: https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD20Use my code RANDIEPD20 for 20% off #magicmind → Parable of the Sower, by Octavia Butler: https://bookshop.org/p/books/parable-of-the-sower-octavia-e-butler/19767724?ean=9781538732182→ Rest is Resistance: A Manifesto, by Tricia Hersey: → https://shorturl.at/F85If → Finch App: https://finchcare.com/Become my friend. Binxie would love to meet you! → Randie's Friend Code: HEB6GN4MLD→ Get the rest of the EP's resources and mentions: https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/qs5afe3o6nd9mljfv0cup/EP-RESOURCES.pdf?rlkey=rq301e6yc9inkm1mpdaga4ofj&st=4g3zn504&dl=0 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

My productivity hack https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD40Use my code RANDIEPD40 for getting 40% off your subscription (available only for the first 10 orders)...In hindsight, there are many things the Chapmans are glad they didn't know before they got married. And they bet you would agree. Tune in as one of your favorite couples discuss what was worth finding out . . . all after the fact. For Mikey, it's how deep fatherhood really is. He realizes he was thinking too small when his original goal was to be better than his dad. For Randie, it's learning that none of their plans mattered. Life lifes, whether you're good or not.And more.It's a fun convo with a semi-heated fight or flight that's about . . . you guessed it. Electricity. God, they're old.But it's all love, as always, when the Chapmans show each other some gratitude during their PDA. As always, Randie and Mikey thank you for listening and they hope you enjoy.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Family: http://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow BMM on Social Media:FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Get your Magic Mind subscription here https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD20You get up to 48% off with my code: RANDIEPD20...“It's been 3 weeks since you been lookin' for your friend” and that's all the more reason to call a therapist.Hey y'all! Tune in as Randie chats with therapist and podcast host of the Situationsh!t Podcast, Dontea' (Don-Tay-Yah) Mitchell-Hunter. Together the two talk letting people play in their faces, Dontea's work as a self-worth therapist, the reasons why we as people tend to attach ourselves to unfulfilling relationships and friendships, and then some.It's a great convo full of gems and the shorter half of the BMM podcast hopes you enjoy.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Family: http://bit.ly/JOINBMMConnect with Dontea' :Free therapy consultations: https://www.soireesintherapy.com/book-nowSkip consult and book a session now via email: info@soireesintherapy.comListen to the Situationsh!t Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/situationsh-t/id1572306399Follow the Situationsh!t Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/situationshitpod/ Follow Dontea's therapy work on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soireesintherapy/ Follow BMM on Social Media:FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Get your Magic Mind subscription here https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD20You get up to 48% off with my code: RANDIEPD20..Hey y'all, tune in to hear the Chapmans collaboration with the wonderful Weyu Shameka. Host and podcaster of the Labyrinth of the first Gen podcast.On this episode, Weyu interviews Mikey and Randie about family, immigrant families and parents, marriage, and community. It was a good convo and they hope you enjoy!Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Family: http://bit.ly/JOINBMMFollow Labyrinth of the First Gen on Instagram @LabyrinthoftheFirstGenWhat to Expect in Season 3 of the Labyrinth of the First Gen Podcast:Meet the First-Gen Pioneers: Explore the inspiring journeys of first-generation immigrants who are redefining success on their own terms. Unveiling Bolivian-American Identity: Join the founders of NYC's acclaimed restaurant, The Llama Party, as they share their experiences navigating Bolivian-American heritage.Breaking Barriers in Brazil: Be empowered by Brazilian powerhouse Mercedes Santos as she challenges traditional gender roles and inspires social change. Palestinian & Muslim Identities Intersect: Delve into the complexities of navigating Palestinian and Muslim identities within the United States.Don't miss the season premiere starting July 30th! Tune in every Tuesday for a new episode.Follow BMM on Social Media:FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Try Magic Mind for free here: https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPDTRIALWith my code RANDIEPDTRIAL (just cover shipping!).Hey y'all! Your favorite bi-monthly podcasters are here tehehehe. But no seriously, the Chapmans know everybody's going through it in some way and that's why they're back with a Flashback. Tune in to hear the opening convo and see what Mikey and Randie have been up to, and then vibe out to an oldie but good episode. BTW, don't forget to let them know what you think of Magic Mind! ..Everyone has a bucket list and so do the Chapmans.In this episode the couple talk about 10 things they believe every couple should do together before they get married. From arguing in front of a parent to having sex in an unconventional place, Mikey and Randie laugh it out as they reminisce on all the things they did before their wedding and how it helped them in the long run.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all!Tune in as Randie sits down with Kathy, host of the Lichen Sclerosus Podcast. Kathy was diagnosed with LS 5 years ago at 40 and the life-changing diagnosis paved the way for her podcast and organization on a mission to educate women about the auto immune disease that commonly affects the genitals.In this episode, Kathy details the symptoms she experienced before diagnosis, the sub-par medical care she initially received, and how living with this diagnosis affects her body, marriage, and children. It's a wonderful, informative conversation that highlights how powerful women are (In Randie's humble opinion). You'll not only enjoy the interview, but you'll get insight into how to maintain a healthy vulva and what to do if you are experiencing LS symptoms.Items Mentioned:**As Amazon Associates we earn from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you. It's a great way to support the show and there's also no pressure or hard feelings if you'd prefer to skip the links.**Listen to the Lichen Sclerosus Podcast: https://followthepodcast.com/lspodcastFollow Kathy on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lichensclerosuspodcast/ and every where else atLichen Sclerosus FAQ: https://lssupportnetwork.org/lichen-sclerosus-overview/To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Book a Podcast Strategy Session with Randie! https://wordieproductions.com/pick-my-brain-strategy-session/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all!Tune in as Mikey and Randie talk about money . . . again.And the backstory involves Youtube Premium and wondering who gon' pay the bill LOL.Together, the Chapmans reveal what's been going on with work and money, and all the POSITIVE things they're doing instead of—or in conjunction with— the “bad” habits.The “good” habits range from speaking up and refusing to isolate from friends, re-parenting themselves, and not OD'ing on chocolate. There's more but you gotta press play.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight wishing Randie would love him in a more goofier way…? But it's all love as y'all know, when in the end they show each other some PDA. As always, your hosts appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn't be here without your support and they want you to know they're grateful.View their registry here: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/24UJLF8RYINYRTo hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Join our newsletter! https://blackmillennialmarriagepodcast.myflodesk.com/newsletterPitch to be a Guest on our show: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfAHXaoMiu9HpxgM4ZtsjbwJiiPvIhTYjG4yeKH2KKREkr50w/viewform Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsHey, (in our best Mikey voice), he's back.In his first Indie episode of the season, Mikey reflects on three versions of himself. Inspired by the beef between Kendrick, Drake, and Cole (until he opted out), the taller half of the BMM podcast gives a music lesson and explains why he believes that in life, he chose Jermaine's route. Tune in as Mikey nerds out (again lol ) about all things music and personal growth.You'll love this one. Items Mentioned:To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae: https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/BMM 002 Almost Breaking Up & Non-Negotiables: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-002-almost-breaking-up-non-negotiables/id1363790050?i=1000407452259 Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all! Mikey and Randie are doing something new and will be dropping flashback/memory lane episodes on Fridays.Tune in to hear Game of Moans. This was another fan favorite back in the day. Happy Listening!... The Chapmans are BACK for Season 2! The theme? Plot twists. For their first episode back Mikey and Randie talk about sex. But wait! There's no tears, no disgruntlement, or deep conversations, only laughs and a little shade. Together, they ask each other questions ranging from, “What's your most embarrassing moment in bed,” “Has my rank changed?”, “What do you wish we did more of?” and that's just the beginning. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight questioning Randie's hate of his favorite show, “How I Met Your Mother.” It gets heated, but as always it's all love when the Chapmans end the episode with public displays of affection.Recorded right before the Coronavirus stopped the world in its tracks, the couple hopes you can take a load off and smile it out with this episode.Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.Items Mentioned:To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Join our newsletter! https://blackmillennialmarriagepodcast.myflodesk.com/newsletterPitch to be a Guest on our show: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfAHXaoMiu9HpxgM4ZtsjbwJiiPvIhTYjG4yeKH2KKREkr50w/viewform Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098**Most product links are affiliate links. At no additional cost to you, we may receive a small commission if you purchase via our links. It's a great way to support us and our work. But no pressure and no hard feelings if you'd rather not.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Randie thinks she's cracking..or snapping. Tune in as the shorter half of the BMM podcast shares some heartfelt thoughts about money, wounds, patterns, cycles, and being herself. Happy Listening.Items Mentioned:**As Amazon Associates we earn from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you. It's a great way to support the show. However, there's also no pressure or hard feelings if you'd prefer to skip the links.**Book a Podcast Strategy Session with Randie! https://wordieproductions.com/pick-my-brain-strategy-session/To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Ancestors Said by Ehime Era : https://amzn.to/4dmxD91Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all! Mikey and Randie are doing something new and will be dropping flashback/memory lane episodes on Fridays.First up, an episode from 2020 when they were celebrating 4 years of marriage. This was a fan favorite back then and they hope you still enjoy it! Especially because the couple just celebrated EIGHT years married! Wow. So many things have stayed the same. haha. Happy Listening. ...The Chapmans have been married for FOUR years, and in this episode they reflect on only the good parts. Together the couple share what they're grateful for and detail their favorite moments of year four. Later, Mikey shares that he's learned Randie is still deep and capable of great change and transformation, while Randie reveals she's discovered that perhaps her husband is plagued by patriarchy too. Finally, there are two fights. The first is about Randie's “man-hating bag,” and the other about Mikey's inability to realize who he has married. But, in the end it's all love when they show each other some PDA. It hasn't been the average four years, so tune in and hear all about it.Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Do you want them to continue to stay together forever ever?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.Items Mentioned:To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Join our newsletter! https://blackmillennialmarriagepodcast.myflodesk.com/newsletterPitch to be a Guest on our show: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfAHXaoMiu9HpxgM4ZtsjbwJiiPvIhTYjG4yeKH2KKREkr50w/viewform Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098**Most product links are affiliate links. At no additional cost to you, we may receive a small commission if you purchase via our links. It's a great way to support us and our work. But no pressure and no hard feelings if you'd rather not. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all! Mikey and Randie are back for Season 7. The Chapmans done batch recorded and everything lmao. In this episode the couple interview Dr. Tiffany Smith and her husband Mr. Horace a.k.a. Mr. Smith.Tune in to hear your hosts chat with the couple about their love story, the challenges of Horace living with chronic pain, functional medicine, and the surprising benefits of aromatherapy. Dr. Tiffany even gifts BMM listeners with a special offering.Later, Randie brings a fight or flight about Mikey's freudian slip concerning her . . . hair.But it's always love, as the couple end with PDA.As always, Mikey and Randie appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn't be here without your support and they want you to know they're grateful.*BTW: Today (April 24th) is the couple's EIGHT year Anniversary! Show them some love.View their new apartment registry here: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/24UJLF8RYINYRItems Mentioned:Connect with Dr. Tiffany on IG https://www.instagram.com/dr.tiffanymsmith/Dr. Tiffany's Offering for BMM listeners: Text selflove to 702-919-4249To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Join our newsletter! https://blackmillennialmarriagepodcast.myflodesk.com/newsletterPitch to be a Guest on our show: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfAHXaoMiu9HpxgM4ZtsjbwJiiPvIhTYjG4yeKH2KKREkr50w/viewform Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'alllllllll!The Chapmans are out of the Bat Cave and want to tell you all about it.In this episode they discuss Randie's revelation, Mikey's heart felt intentions, and the thing that finally made them realize they need to QUIT the house buying process (for now).Later, the couple gives out Patreon Superlatives to their most engaged Patrons of 2023. The Superlatives range from the most delulu to the one most likely to be Robin Hood.Then, Randie brings a fight or flight that asks Mikey why he is always throwing away her shit. But it's all love as you know when they end the show with some PDA.As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn't be here without your support and they want you to know they're grateful.View their registry here: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/24UJLF8RYINYRItems Mentioned:BMM 023 It's a Hard Knock Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-023-its-a-hard-knock-life/id1363790050?i=1000419418837 To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Join our newsletter! https://blackmillennialmarriagepodcast.myflodesk.com/newsletterPitch to be a Guest on our show: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfAHXaoMiu9HpxgM4ZtsjbwJiiPvIhTYjG4yeKH2KKREkr50w/viewform Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all!Mikey and Randie are sick right now, but would never leave you hanging.So tune in for a raw and unedited version of "Plastic Off the Sofa". These kinds of episodes don't have any music or any edits, and they are a favorite of those on Patreon because listeners get a BTS look into what crafting an episode is like.This episode in particular was a very popular episode last year, downloaded over 4k times and so they wanted to share the original and uncut version with y'all.They'll see y'all next week when they get their voices back.About this episode:Mikey and Randie haven't had a relationship check-in in a long long time, until today that is. For the inaugural episode of Season 5, tune in as the couple rate sex, family, communication, self, and money on a scale of 1-5. The convo is all things juicy, funny, and enlightening, and they hope to inspire you to check in with you and yours as well.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight asking Randie to be more considerate than she is. But it's all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Like Saturn, the sisters have returned to one another. Tune in for this extra special Indie where Randie interviews her baby sister, Bri.In this episode they discuss their childhoods, and Bri reveals what little Bri wants from Little Ran. Later, Bri talks about what going no contact with certain family members has taught her, what she does to take care of herself, and what being a sister means to her.This indie is full of warm hugs, apologies, love and laughter, and the girls hope you enjoy.Items Mentioned:**As Amazon Associates we earn from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you.**BMM Indie 064: https://redcircle.com/shows/18770380-ea84-4e44-99ce-d28b950cf790/episodes/1335aa42-cc0e-4907-bb05-acc303d98506Ho'oponopono Prayer: https://www.google.com/search?q=ho%27oponopono+prayer&rlz=1C5CHFA_enUS1082US1082&oq=ho%27oponopono+PRAYER&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqCggAEAAYsQMYgAQyCggAEAAYsQMYgAQyBwgBEAAYgAQyBwgCEAAYgAQyBwgDEAAYgAQyBwgEEAAYgAQyBwgFEAAYgAQyBwgGEAAYgAQyBwgHEAAYgAQyBwgIEAAYgAQyBwgJEAAYgATSAQgxOTQ1ajBqN6gCALACAA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8#ip=1To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all! With just a few more episodes left for this season, Mikey and Randie are back with an update. In this episode, they detail what's been going on with them. They shed light on weight loss and gain, new projects, layoffs, and more. But what they also really want is for you to tell them what YOU have been up to. It's getting closer and closer to the end of the year and they need your reviews, feedback, emails, and all that jazz.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight about Randie's “ways,” and after fighting, the Mrs. decides to fly.But it's all love, when in the end they show each other some PDA. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn't be here without your support and they want you to know they're grateful.Items Mentioned:Try Magic Mind at www.magicmind.com/bmm with code BMM20BMM 023 It's a Hard Knock Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-023-its-a-hard-knock-life/id1363790050?i=1000419418837 To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Join our newsletter! https://blackmillennialmarriagepodcast.myflodesk.com/newsletterPitch to be a Guest on our show: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfAHXaoMiu9HpxgM4ZtsjbwJiiPvIhTYjG4yeKH2KKREkr50w/viewform Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098**Most product links are affiliate links. At no additional cost to you, we may receive a small commission if you purchase via our links.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

So what had happened was…Randie's mom heard her Indie episode, Mothering Myself. And like, duh right? That was always a possibility. And still..Randie was scared shitless.Tune in to hear about the creative block Randie's been experiencing, her thoughts on her own cowardice behavior, and what finally accepting her safety means for her.She wonders…what will it look like now for her to create solely for her and solely out of love for her inner child and adult self? Well, we'll all find out together and it'll start with this episode.Items Mentioned:**As Amazon Associates we earn from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you. You get the exact same products and service you'd get from Amazon already and you'll be supporting our podcast.**Try Magic Mind at www.magicmind.com/bmm with code BMM20BMM Indie 136: Bad Trip: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-136-bad-trip/id1363790050?i=1000550704964BMM Indie 141: Mothering Myself: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-141-mothering-myself/id1363790050?i=1000555955894BMM Indie 149: Big Ran. Little Ran. Ft. Randy H: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-149-big-ran-little-ran-ft-randy-h/id1363790050?i=1000588049011DECK: African Goddess Rising Oracle Deck by Abiola Abrams: https://amzn.to/3FTFHhXWhat is the Mother Wound, Bethany Webster: https://static1.squarespace.com/static/59779f182e69cffa18f2305c/t/601a1cae705c9530fa1ab810/1612324022651/Bethany+Webster+-+What+is+The+Mother+Wound.pdfBOOK: Discovering the Inner Mother, Bethany Webster: https://amzn.to/47lRC44To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all, Hey!It's a good day for a throwback.And in this episode the Chapmans highlight BMM EP 059: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love? Do you remember that episode? It was a lot of fun and Mikey and Randie wanted to share the unedited version of that episode with you.In this episode, Randie reads a listener's love story that started at Sonics, involves a little head, and ends in a lasting marriage. Later, Mikey and Randie answer a listener's question that reveals why they got married and also why they believe millennials are shying away from the commitment. Before the episode's end, the Chapmans hypothetically renegotiate terms of their relationship and engage in a fight or flight that gets deeper than expected. However, as always Mikey and Randie reel it in with some always appreciated PDA and they hope you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.NOTE: The unedited versions of the episodes are episodes without any editing. It is raw audio from the recording session before the public gets the cleaned up version. Normally, the couple only share these versions of the podcast with their Patreon, but a rabbit hole gave the Mrs. the idea to share this particular episode.Let Mikey and Randie know if you like these kind of episodes and walks down memory lane. We hope you enjoy!.Items Mentioned:Grab some Magic Mind at www.magicmind.com/bmm and use our code BMM20 for 50% off a subscription or 20% off your first order. Hurry! The 50% discount only lasts for 10 days from our episode airing date.To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://forms.gle/N1ycUcmCXhchxuWm7Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all!Tune in for the Chapman's first mini episode this season. As a reminder, Minis are all about their experiences as parents and in this episode Mikey and Randie reveal what parenting Drew has made them realize about their childhoods.The list ranges from being hit a lot to, in some cases, wishing they had the parents they wanted.It's a fun episode in that Randie and Mikey really enjoyed recording it and chatting about this wild ride called parenthood.Later, the couple end the episode with some PDA to Drew and to each other in their roles as parents.And just so you know, you don't have to be a parent to relate to this episode. In fact reach out to the Chapmans if you're a parent, aunt, uncle, guardian, friend of a friend who's a parent and tell them what the children around you make you remember about your childhood.The answers may surprise you. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn't be here without your support and they want you to know they're grateful. Items Mentioned:To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/BMM Mini: Let's Not Fight: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-mini-lets-not-fight/id1363790050?i=1000487751107BMM Indie 149: Big Ran. Little Ran. Ft. Randy H: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-149-big-ran-little-ran-ft-randy-h/id1363790050?i=1000588049011Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://forms.gle/N1ycUcmCXhchxuWm7Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all! Was a pastor featured on the BMM podcast on your Bingo card for 2023? It certainly wasn't on Mikey and Randie's, but seeing as this season's theme is “Lemonade” the Chapmans are committed to acknowledging the nourishment all around them. Enter Kristian A. Smith, a man who wears many hats, and is also the host of the Holy Smokes Spirituality and Cigars podcast. In this episode, the couple interview Kristian and discuss the first time they all broke an unspoken spoken rule, his ministry, how he and his wife, Pamela, are deconstructing marriage, how his relationship changed his faith and more. Kristian even shares a hack to how you can ensure the church you're visiting (if you still visit churches) believes in inclusive and humane theology.Later, Randie and Mikey chat with Kristian about how cigars bring people closer and after the interview the Chapmans shower each other in some PDA.This episode will surprise you in the best way, and your hosts hope you enjoy. Items Mentioned:Kristian's IG: https://www.instagram.com/thekristianasmith/The Holy Smokes Spirituality & Cigars Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/holy-smokes-cigars-and-spirituality/id1504148872Holy Smokes Spirituality and Cigars IG: https://www.instagram.com/holysmokesmovement/Pamela Merritt, TherapyNTheology: https://www.therapyntheology.com/bioThe Faith Community: https://thefaithcommunity.org/home1Breaking All the Rules: An Ancient Framework for Modern Faith, Kristian A. Smith https://amzn.to/3PHe2qi BMM Indie 157 I Can Fix That: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-157-i-can-fix-that/id1363790050?i=1000626113405Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://forms.gle/N1ycUcmCXhchxuWm7**Most product links are affiliate links. At no additional cost to you, we may receive a small commission if you purchase via our links.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, (in our best Mikey voice), he's back.It's been over a year since Mikey dropped an indie and in this episode he reveals where he's been and how working on his latest project— his 1978 Monte Carlo Landau—is healing him. Tune in as Mikey nerds out with some history about the car, details the story of his cousin Quacy a.k.a. Chess gifting him the Monte Carlo, and discusses the three things re-building his dream car has taught him. Later, Mikey gives a head nod to a cousin who is really like a brother and ends the episode with some words of encouragement for anyone realizing that life will life. We hope you enjoy. Happy Listening.Items Mentioned:To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you'll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae: https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/BMM Indie 139: It's Hard to Talk About Noble: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-139-its-hard-to-talk-about-noble/id1363790050?i=1000552394875Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all!In this episode, Mikey and Randie detail their most recent relationship breakthrough.It started with an argument and turned into a moment of vulnerability. And it's all thanks to that damn word chart.Later, Randie brings a fight or flight questioning Mikey about therapy. But it's all love, when in the end they show each other some PDA. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn't be here without your support and they want you to know they're grateful.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMBuy Into-Me-See: https://rb.gy/rwhoxCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://forms.gle/N1ycUcmCXhchxuWm7Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all!In this episode Randie interviews her sex and intimacy doula, Yanitza. Together they droid out over their pleasure muse THE Janelle Monáe, discuss the shame surrounding sex, pleasure, and intimacy and what this work has taught Yanitza about herself and about people. Later they talk about how grief affects our capacity to receive, and what working with a sex and intimacy doula looks like.It's a fun episode and Randie's first in-person interview with a listener, turned Patron, turned friend, turned doula ever in the history of BMM. And it's only up from here.So tune in and come as you are.Items Mentioned:Listen to Ad-Free Episodeshttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMBMM Indie 151: Honey & Self-Sabotage : https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-151-honey-self-sabotage-bonus-ep/id1363790050?i=1000615916050 Connect with YanitzaIG: https://www.instagram.com/yanitzamarcel/IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecyanmango/Contact: https://calendly.com/cyanm/one-on-one?month=2023-07 Book: Come as You Are The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life, by Emily Nagoski Ph.D : https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090 Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all!In this episode Mikey and Randie interview Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-Muhammad on her latest book Into-Me-See: Mastering Black Intimacy for the Relationship You've Always Wanted and there's so much to say.Before beginning the interview, The Chapmans and Dr. Jeannelle share their first memories of feeling safe. Later, the duo learn that finding out she was married to a narcissist inspired Dr. Jeannelle to write this book and more. Together, they discuss the infamous emotions chart that everybody in the world needs to print and hang up in their house, activities couples can do to draw them closer and ensure their needs are being met, HBNS (Hot Butt-Naked Sex), and how the brain remembers trauma even when you're no longer in danger.To end, the couple show each other some love in their PDA segment because you know that's how they do. In all, nothing but playing the episode can do justice to the gems Dr. Jeannelle shared in her book and on the show.So tune in and grab the book. Randie finished it in one day!As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn't be here without your support and they want you to know they're grateful.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMConnect with Dr. Jeannelle!IG: https://www.instagram.com/Tmi.counseling/IG: https://www.instagram.com/drjeannelle/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.jeannellelmft Buy Into-Me-See: https://rb.gy/rwhoxCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all. Mikey and Randie, are back after a hiatus of seven months.And in this episode, they detail what's changed about them and how having boundaries, self-respect, and faith again has affected them and the podcast for the better. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that turns into a poem, wondering when Randie will remember who she is. But, just like old times, it's all love when they show each other PDA.As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn't be here without your support and they want you to know they're grateful.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Gettin' Free! : A Juneteenth Collaboration brought to you by Sistas Who Kill: A True Crime Podcast. We know that history is told from the side of the victors, but that leaves room for misinformation and false narratives. We are on a mission to change that.11 Black podcasts have come together to reclaim our history and tell it our way - flavor and all. Welcome to a chronological journey to get free. Learn where we've come, what we've overcome, and how much further we need to go. Sistas Who Kill IG: @SistasWhoKillPod22:16 Hoodrat to Headwrap IG: @ihartericka42:25 Black Millennial MarriageIG:@blackmillennialmarriage54:03 Journey to LaunchIG: @JourneyToLaunch 1:05:36 So what are you readingIG: @sowhatareyoureadingpodcast 1:22:28 Chile, PleaseIG: @itshoneychile1:34:36 The Professional Silly PodcastIG: @itsprosilly 1:47:00 Jokes on YouIG: @JokesOnYouPod2:04:07 Black Fashion History IG: @blackfashionhistorypodcast2:15:31 Zora's DaughtersIG: @zorasdaughters2:26:35 Black True CrimeIG: @blacktruecrimepodcastSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsDidn't expect a bonus Indie Episode from Randie did you? (Or maybe you did if you caught her latest IG Live)She misses y'all! Mikey and Randie both do. And they want you to consider this episode an apology, an olive branch, and a promise that they will be back sooner than you think with episodes. Get excited.And . . .Tune in as Randie details a homework assignment she received from her sex and intimacy doula. This homework included lots of honey and an epiphany about her attachment to self-sabotage. Prayerfully, you can feel the love through this episode. Randie loves and misses y'all and as always, hopes you enjoy this episode.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Family: http://bit.ly/JOINBMMContact Yanitza Cubilette, Sex and Intimacy Doula: yanitzacubilette@gmail.comBook: The Mountain is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery, By: Brianna WestArticle by Lisa A. Romano: Tina Turner an Aching Icon  Documentary: Tina Follow us on Social Media:FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Now whoever thought that making more money and making it out of the valley would scare the hell out of Mikey and Randie?Can you relate? Tune in as the Chapmans detail why abundance has been triggering them and find out how they self-sabotage and re-ground themselves back in the present. Because the truth is, it's been a hard few years and it's also true that trouble don't last always. Right?Later Randie brings a fight or flight confronting Mikey about how he parents when he's worn out. But it's all love when in the end the couple shower each other with PDA and thank one another for being the bomb ass spouses they are.As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and being here 5 seasons later. And they hope you continue to enjoy.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsWas an episode with Randie's dad on your bingo card for 2022?Tune in as Big Ran gets interviewed by the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast. Together the two detail their happiest childhood memories and later Randie learns what inspired her dad to give up the drugs you snort and heavy alcohol. Big Ran also reveals how he thinks his upbringing affected his previous marriage and parenting, talks about what reconciling with all of his kids would look like in a perfect world, and more. It's a special episode and a good one. And as always, Randie (the big one too) hopes you enjoy.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.There are plenty of things Mikey and Randie wished they remembered before they argued. And in this episode, they're gonna discuss. Tune in as the couple talk about being on the same team, being allowed to be angry, and remembering that they don't have to internalize the others' triggers and more.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight Randie can't help but fly away from and it all seems too easy. They wonder:: has being married for 6 years tamed them or is this growth? No one knows. The only thing for certain is, the Mr. misses make-up sex SMH. But it's all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and being here 5 seasons later. And they hope you continue to enjoy.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Mikey and Randie are finally on the same page. Tune in as the couple detail their current home buying journey, barriers that stopped them in the past, and why, four years since moving into the Bat Cave, they're finally ready to take action.Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that makes Mikey laughs till he cries and also makes him fly quicker than he ever has in the history of fight or flights. But it's all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.As always, they appreciate you for listening and kicking off season 5 with them and they hope you enjoy.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMBMM 023: It's a Hard Knock Life: https://bit.ly/3TwBeHeBMM 036: The Bat Cave:  https://bit.ly/3D0YCpnCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIf you find that you're always in some type of f*ck sh*t, then you're the problem. You are the problem. But it's not just you though. In this Indie episode, Randie details reading Codependent No More by Melody Beattie. She explains why she finally read the book, confesses to being a codependent in recovery, and reads some codependent characteristics she's certain may resonate with you a little all too well. Later, Randie details the ways she is working to break codependent habits that portray her as a victim and leave her looking for others to rescue her and be the authority in her life.It gets deep, y'all.Tune in as the sultry voice half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast shares what it's been like taking responsibility over her life. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMWebsite: Out of the Fog: https://outofthefog.website/Book:Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parentshttps://amzn.to/3VangfJBook: Codependent No Morehttps://amzn.to/3SSPCJ8Podcast Starter Kit: https://msha.ke/wordieproductions#aboutContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Mikey and Randie haven't had a relationship check-in in a long long time, until today that is. For the inaugural episode of Season 5, tune in as the couple rate sex, family, communication, self, and money on a scale of 1-5. The convo is all things juicy, funny, and enlightening, and they hope to inspire you to check in with you and yours as well.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight asking Randie to be more considerate than she is. But it's all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.As always, they appreciate you for listening and kicking off season 5 with them and they hope you enjoy.Ad-Free Highlight Reel (Only on Patreon)03:47 The Chapmans begin the relationship check-in46:31 Fight or Flight50:13 PDAItems Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Phew it's been a long long time, and the Chapmans have missed y'all.In this episode, Mikey and Randie explain their impromptu break, read your emails, play your voicemails, and gift Patreon superlatives. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that questions if Mikey knows the true meaning of words. But in the end, it's all love when they show each other some PDA. Finally, if you stick around, you'll hear a message from Drew that the couple is certain will make you smile.As always the Chapmans thank y'all for your grace, love, and listens this special season. May Noble's name live on forever and ever.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Will you laugh until you cry? Mikey and Randie did. Like, real tears while hearing each other read the funniest stories they could find on the internet.After all, it can't all be doom and gloom--can it? No one can stay down forever, and the Chapmans believe that. There were many many times they never thought they'd see the sun shine after Noble passed away, but then . . . something would make them laugh.So tune in for this feel good episode, Randie and Mikey are certain you'll enjoy it.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that makes no sense to the Mrs. But in the end, it's all love when they show each other some PDA--some spicy PDA, they might add.As always the Chapmans thank y'all for listening to this very special season.Remember to rate and review them 5 stars if you enjoy this and every other episode. It means more than you know!Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.April 24th marked six years that Mikey and Randie have been married, and it's safe to say they didn't know what they were really getting into when they said “I do."  So, there lies the question…would they still marry each other if they knew about all the grief they would endure?The answer is "Yes and"…lol. Well, you gotta tune in to hear.Later, Randie brings a fight questioning how Mikey documents his life. But it's all love when in the end they show each other some PDA.The Chapmans have 5 episodes left for this season, and as always they thank you for tuning in, downloading, and messaging them with your feelings.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/More Items Mentioned:Wordie Productions:Wordie ProductionsBMM Indie 136: Bad TripBMM 090: The F*ck?BMM 097: BMM X Cheat CodeNetflix's Russian DollFollow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie's stuck on a roller coaster that sends her round and round on a ride of hating herself, shaming herself, and blaming herself for Noble's death. At least that's what her therapist says.But why? Why can't Randie just be sad and mourn without beating herself up?A phone call days before Noble's birth may give a hint to the answer.Tune in as the mother half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast details revealing the truth to her therapist and discusses what it means to finally believe she is worthy.It's a wild thing, but somehow grief and her children are teaching Randie to mother herself. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.In Lemonade Beyoncè said, “Grief sedated by orgasm. Orgasm heightened by grief,” and the Chapmans believe she was on to something.In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss how grief has affected their sex life. Together they detail sex before and after Noble, how sex has evolved, and then end the main segment with advice for grieving couples.Later, the Mr. brings a fight questioning the ways Randie takes care of herself. But it's all love when in the end they show each other some PDA.As always, Mikey and Randie thank you for tuning in to this special season and they hope to encourage you to have conversations about pleasure even when you're in deep grief.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/More Items Mentioned:Wordie Productions:Wordie ProductionsGrieving is Loving, Dr. Joanne Cacciatore: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/50891548Bearing the Unbearable, Dr. Joanne Cacciatore: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/32926208-bearing-the-unbearable Dipsea Stories: https://www.dipseastories.com/The Chapman's do the Lift Challenge: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ca5BZa0gJIC/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_linkFollow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIt's been a long time since Mikey has dropped an Indie and if you think he's been stalling, he has. Still, while it's hard, the father half of the BMM Podcast knows not talking about Noble is not an option.Join him as he details why it's hard to talk about his deceased son, how he fears he's just too angry, and worries that no one cares. Later, he discusses the ways he's been taking care of himself in an effort to get himself out of his hole. After all, he did promise Noble that he would try.As always Mikey is grateful for the people tuning in for this special season and he hopes it encourages someone to open up about their grief.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMFollow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.The Chapmans are mad as hell, but they have a complicated relationship with anger. They're certain you can relate.In this episode, Mikey and Randie discuss how they viewed rage before and now after their son, Noble. They detail how their anger affects their marriage and what they're learning and unlearning about being mad.Later, Randie brings a fight questioning Mikey's habits around their daughter, Drew, but it's all love in the end when they shower each other with PDA.As always, the Chapmans thank you for tuning into this special season and they hope this episode encourages you to consider how you can better honor the full range of your emotions.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/More Items Mentioned:Wordie Productions:Wordie ProductionsDiscovering the Inner Mother: amazon.com/Discovering-Inner-Mother-Claiming-Personal/dp/109416835Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts."Wubba Lubba Dub Dub," translates to "I am in great pain, please help me." And it's from the Rick and Morty show.Irrelevant? The Chapmans think not. When they weren't watching TV to help their pain, they were receiving help and support to guide them back to life.And in this episode, Randie and Mikey share 10 things they received that's not food or money that helped them in the early days of their sorrow. From planting a tree in Noble's memory to openly admitting his death is really that bad, the couple acknowledge the love they received and how it helped them.Later, Mikey brings a fight questioning Randie's parenting tactics. But it's all love in the end when they show each other some PDA.As always, the Chapmans hopes you take something away from this episode and that it helps you support someone you love when they are experiencing deep grief.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/More Items Mentioned:Wordie Productions:Wordie ProductionsMolly Bear: https://www.mollybears.org/The Gifted Tree: https://bit.ly/3rOwPUWBox of Sunshine: https://www.etsy.com/market/box_of_sunshineFollow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsMikey and Randie are BACK for Season 4 of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast and the theme is . . .grief.Together the couple will detail the sadness, breakthroughs, triggers, triumphs, and ways life has shifted since the loss of their son, Noble.And in this Indie episode, Randie details the last time she got high while on vacation in Denver and how that experience convinced her she really needed help.Tune in. This episode is especially for those who are grieving and running from it. The Mrs. hopes that by listening to this episode you feel courageous to take care of the person you are right now. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMSuggested Reading and Listening:Discovering the Inner Mother: A Guide to Healing the Mother Wound and Claiming Your Personal Poweramazon.com/Discovering-Inner-Mother-Claiming-Personal/dp/1094168351Podcast: #GoodAncestor: Jennifer Arnise on Healing the Black Mother Woundhttp://laylafsaad.com/good-ancestor-podcast/ep018-jennifer-arniseBroken Heart Syndrome:https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/17857-broken-heart-syndromeContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Mikey and Randie are BACK for Season 4 of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast and the theme is . . .grief.Together the couple will detail the sadness, breakthroughs, triggers, triumphs, and ways life has shifted since the loss of their son, Noble.And in this episode the couple discuss vices and the ways they tried and failed to escape their grief.Later, Randie brings a fight questioning Mikey's cooking habits and memory. But it's all love in the end when they show each other some PDA.As always, the Chapmans hopes you take something away from this episode and that you consider the ways and reasons you may run from grief.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/More Items Mentioned:Wordie Productions:Wordie ProductionsFollow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie's here with a bonus episode she didn't expect to record. In this Indie episode the shorter half of the BMM podcast is here to tell everyone she's really not okay.With a message that is sometimes read and sometimes not, Randie reveals how she has tried and failed to manipulate her grief and tried and failed to fake the funk. In fact, every time she tries to run away from the pain and from her uncomfortable grief, her inner child screams--"LOOK AT ME! WHY WON'T YOU ADMIT THAT WE ARE HURTING."Thus, tired of hiding and being yelled at, Randie faces the truth: this shit sucks. And also ...why did her baby have to die?Tune in. This episode is especially for those who are grieving and lying about it. The Mrs. hopes that by listening to this episode you feel empowered and encouraged to admit where you are. Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon Familyhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMGrieving is Loving, Dr. Joanne Cacciatorehttps://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/50891548Bearing the Unbearable, Dr. Joanne Cacciatorehttps://www.goodreads.com/book/show/32926208-bearing-the-unbearableContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Today marks four months since Mikey and Randie lost their son, Noble, and in dedication they wanted to end the season properly.In this episode, Randie and Mikey detail why they're doing this episode, where they've been the past few months, and where they are now. There's also some exciting news for what's in store for BMM in 2022.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight confronting Randie about an annoying habit. But in the end, it's all love when they show each other some PDA.This season was hard. Nothing went how they hoped and they miss their son terribly. Still, the Chapmans thank you for your support and kindness, and they thank you for tuning in.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/More Items Mentioned:Molly Bear: Molly Bear OrganizationRachel's Gift Box: Rachel's Gift BoxWordie Productions:Wordie ProductionsFollow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube ( https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg ) | iTunes ( https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050 ) | Spotify ( https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt ) | Stitcher ( http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr ) | Google Podcasts ( https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts ). Randie's water broke and she's on bed rest. This new development is a pregnancy plot twist for sure and the Chapmans record in bed to tell you all about it. Together they detail the ER and hospital stay and the plan for the baby and pregnancy. Later, Mikey and Randie detail how they're doing and what's helping the Mrs. survive. They conclude the episode with some much needed PDA and even laugh a bit. As always, Randie and Mikey appreciate everyone for their love, encouragement, and support and they thank you for everything. Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: * *Join Our Patreon* http://bit.ly/JOINBMM * *Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae* https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ More Items Mentioned: * Randie's Blog post: It Might Help me to Write. ( https://www.patreon.com/posts/53118206 ) * Video: Drew visits the Hospital ( https://www.instagram.com/p/CQwXpmSgiDd/ ) * Cashapp Randie and Mikey to donate to Hospital food fund: $RandieChap and $Gr8ness21 *Follow us on Social Media* * FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB * IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG * Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter ( http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter%22 ) *Contact* * Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com * Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube ( https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg ) | iTunes ( https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050 ) | Spotify ( https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt ) | Stitcher ( http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr ) | Google Podcasts ( https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts ). In this episode, the Chapmans wonder if they got married too young. Together Mikey and Randie reveal if they regret their decision and discuss how self-esteem affected their reasons to say, “I Do.” Later, the Mrs. brings a fight or flight blaming Mikey for failing to read the room. And his response may surprise you. In the end though, it's all love when they show each other some PDA. As always, Randie and Mikey hope you enjoy this episode and are inspired to have a good conversation with your person. Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: * *Join Our Patreon* http://bit.ly/JOINBMM * *Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae* https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Episodes Mentioned: * *BMM 002: Almost Breaking Up & Non-Negotiables* ( https://www.blackmillennialmarriage.com/podcast/bmm-061-oh-you-watch-porn-porn/ ) * *BMM 130: No One is Coming to Save Us* ( https://www.blackmillennialmarriage.com/podcast/bmm-023-its-a-hard-knock-life/ ) ** *Follow us on Social Media* * FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB * IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG * Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter ( http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter%22 ) *Contact* * Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com * Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts There comes a point in every marriage where a couple realizes: No one is coming to save them. Mikey and Randie have reached that moment, especially concerning the podcast. In this episode, the Chapmans detail the ways they’ve been playing small, reveal why they’ve been passive participants in this podcast game, and discuss how they intend to confront and stop the bullshit. From utilizing their resources, trusting their first thought, and asking for help, Randie and Mikey let listeners in on their process. In conversation with each other, they realize: nothing will move and change unless they do. Thus, the couple is ready to get out of their own way. Finally, Mikey brings a fight or flight and confesses he hasn’t been feeling the love lately, but in the end it’s all giggles when the Chapmans show each other some PDA. As always, Randie and Mikey hope you enjoy this episode and are also inspired to take back your power. Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Episodes Mentioned: BMM 061: Oh, You Watch Porn Porn BMM 023: It’s a Hard Knock Life BMM Indie 122: I Quit Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098

Listen to us on: Youtube ( https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg ) | iTunes ( https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050 ) | Spotify ( https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt ) | Stitcher ( http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr ) | Google Podcasts ( https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts ) There comes a point in every marriage where a couple realizes: No one is coming to save them. Mikey and Randie have reached that moment, especially concerning the podcast. In this episode, the Chapmans detail the ways they've been playing small, reveal why they've been passive participants in this podcast game, and discuss how they intend to confront and stop the bullshit. From utilizing their resources, trusting their first thought, and asking for help, Randie and Mikey let listeners in on their process. In conversation with each other, they realize: nothing will move and change unless they do. Thus, the couple is ready to get out of their own way. Finally, Mikey brings a fight or flight and confesses he hasn't been feeling the love lately, but in the end it's all giggles when the Chapmans show each other some PDA. As always, Randie and Mikey hope you enjoy this episode and are also inspired to take back your power. Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: * * * *Join Our Patreon* http://bit.ly/JOINBMM * * * *Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae* https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Episodes Mentioned: * *BMM 061: Oh, You Watch Porn Porn* ( https://www.blackmillennialmarriage.com/podcast/bmm-061-oh-you-watch-porn-porn/ ) * *BMM 023: It's a Hard Knock Life ( https://www.blackmillennialmarriage.com/podcast/bmm-023-its-a-hard-knock-life/ ) * * * *BMM Indie 122: I Quit* ( https://www.blackmillennialmarriage.com/podcast/bmm-indie-122-i-quit/ ) * * *Follow us on Social Media* * * * FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB * IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG * Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter ( http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter%22 ) * *Contact* * * Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com * Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Randie’s back with her first Indie of season 3, and it’s story time! The baby’s all good and all is well, but not without a few lessons. In this episode, the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast details a failed test involving a prenatal appointment from hell.  The Mrs. describes the lessons she has learned about her body, boundaries, and baby, and hopes you are inspired to advocate and listen to yourself as well. Later, Randie brings a book recommendation that she can’t stop talking about and really wants you to read. Lastly, she hopes you tune in and that you enjoy. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM The Shadow https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shadow_(psychology) Untamed, Glennon Doyle https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/52129515-untamed Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098