Podcast appearances and mentions of Lindsay C Gibson

In today's episode, you'll learn how to heal from an emotionally immature parent. If you've ever felt invisible in your own family, like your needs didn't matter, or if nothing you did was ever enough, this episode is for you. Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson is here to assure you that you're not imagining it. You're not too sensitive. You're not overreacting. And you're not alone. If you find yourself struggling to set boundaries, you're still craving your parent's approval, or you're always walking on eggshells to keep the peace, Dr. Gibson says the reason you feel this way is because you grew up with an emotionally immature parent. And today you'll finally understand what that means. You're about to learn the 4 subtle signs you had an emotionally immature parent and how that shapes your adult life – and the exact path to healing. Today's episode is not about blame. It's about clarity and finally having the language to describe what you've felt for years but couldn't quite explain. You'll learn how to name the behaviors that left you feeling dismissed or unseen, and you'll have the tools to begin healing. And that's a big deal, because doing this work doesn't just change how you feel; it changes how you live. For the last 30 years, Dr. Gibson has helped millions of people around the world break free from the invisible emotional suffering that has held them back since childhood. She is a pioneering expert on the topic of emotionally immature parents, and is the author of the New York Times bestseller "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents."  If you've spent your entire life feeling like something was off in your relationship with your parents, but you could never quite put your finger on it, Dr. Gibson is here to say: You were right. And if you feel guilty for just considering that something might have been off, you need to hear this conversation today. This is an episode you don't want to miss. For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page. If you liked this episode, you'll love listening to this one next: Why You Feel Lost in Life: Dr. Gabor Maté on Trauma & How to HealConnect with Mel: Get Mel's #1 bestselling book, The Let Them TheoryWatch the episodes on YouTubeFollow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast InstagramMel's TikTokSign up for Mel's personal letterSubscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes ad-freeDisclaimer

Are you ready to say YES to yourself? The Say YES Sisterhood is your invitation to a vibrant community of women who are embracing their dreams, reclaiming their joy, and living life with intention. Join today!In this heart-expanding episode, Wendy sits down with Kamini Wood, a certified life coach and author, to explore what it really means to reclaim your agency and say yes to yourself. Together, they dive into topics like people-pleasing, high-functioning codependency, reparenting the inner child, and navigating the discomfort of rest. Kamini shares practical tools for self-reflection and personal growth, from values-based decision making to Internal Family Systems and journaling as a path to healing. If you've ever felt stuck in over-functioning, this episode is your invitation to slow down, tune in, and remember who you really are beneath all the roles you play.About Kamini:Kamini Wood, an entrepreneur, author, podcaster, and certified life coach, specializes in helping high achievers—teens through adults—overcome anxiety, stress, perfectionism, ADHD, toxic relationships, and more. As the founder and CEO of Live Joy Your Way and the creator of the AuthenticMe® method, Kamini empowers individuals to break free fromlimiting beliefs, release trauma, and rediscover their authentic selves.She is the author of the bestselling book Om: Life's Gentle Reminders, a compilation of inspirational stories designed to help readers live a joyous and fulfilled life. Kamini's coaching combines her deep understanding of patterns with certifications in life and wellness coaching, high-performance coaching, and teen life coaching. Her expertise includes breathwork, meditation, conscious uncoupling, and promoting diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging. She also holds board certification from the American Association of Drugless Practitioners and is currently pursuing a Master's in positive psychology at the University of Pennsylvania.Connect with Kamini:KaminiWood.comOn Instagram @itsauthenticmeOn FacebookReferenced in this Episode:Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. GibsonHealing from Emotionally Immature Parents with Lindsay C. Gibson on the We Can Do Hard Things Podcast________________________________________________________________________________________ Say YES to joining Wendy for her: Say YES Sisterhood PWH Farm StaysPWH Curated France TripsInstagram: @phineaswrighthouseFacebook: Phineas Wright HouseWebsite: Phineas Wright HousePodcast Production By Resonant Collective Want to start your own podcast? Let's chat!Thank you for listening to the Say YES to yourself! podcast. It would mean the world if you would take one minute to follow, leave a 5-star review, and share with a friend.

What happens when the people who were supposed to love and protect you become the source of your deepest wounds? Therapist Gabrielle Wells joins us to dive into the reality of growing up with narcissistic or emotionally immature parents—the red flags, the long-term impact, and how it shapes the way we navigate love, trust, and boundaries. Whether you've gone no-contact, are still trying to make it work, or just find yourself dissociating at family dinners, this conversation is for you. Because sometimes, “but they did their best” just isn't good enough.Tools and references from Gabrielle: Gabrielle Wells, MS, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist #142692 Supervised by Briana Ferron, M.A., LMFT #130324You can look into individual and group therapy services with Gabrielle here.Resources on coping with a narcissistic parent: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal From Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyDRecovering from Emotionally Immature Parents: Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries & Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy by Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyDAdult Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers: Quiet the Critical Voice in Your Head, Heal Self-Doubt and live the Life You Deserve by Stephanie M. Kriesberg, PsyDDr. Ramani on YouTube

Boundaries make nourishing relationships possible — regardless of what our guilty feelings might tell us when we set those boundaries. Our guest for part two of this conversation, Registered Psychologist Janelle Drisner, helps us grapple with the tension between human limitations and unconditional love. This time, Janelle dives deeper into the complexities and limitations of relationships, how we show up for each other and the necessary, uncomfortable work of articulating our boundaries — in pursuit of more authentic relationships.Read our blog: CroneCast.caShare your questions and comments at cronecast.ca/contact.  We want to hear from you about all things crone.--From This Episode-- Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People: Avoid Emotional Traps, Stand Up for Your Self, and Transform Your Relationships as an Adult Child of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson(00:53) - - With Every No, There Is A Yes (04:11) - - Communicating Your Boundaries (11:40) - - Challenging Cultural Scripts (14:49) - - Anger Is A Source Of Courage (17:42) - - Apology Is Only The Beginning Of Repair (22:15) - - Relationships With Adult Children (27:43) - - Wrestling With The Roles We're Given (31:29) - - Unconditional Love And Being Human --Credits-- Hosted by Trudy Callaghan and Lisa Austin Produced by Odvod MediaAudio Engineering by Steve GlenOriginal music by Darrin Hagen

In this episode, Whitney Goodman discusses emotional immaturity, its traits, and how to effectively deal with emotionally immature individuals. She emphasizes the importance of emotional regulation and provides practical strategies for managing interactions, drawing from insights in Lindsay C. Gibson's book, 'Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents.' Join The Family Cyclebreakers Club: www.callinghome.co/join Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this powerful episode, Dr. Jim Bramson interviews Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson, clinical psychologist and bestselling author of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. Together, they delve into the lasting impact of emotionally immature parents on their children's lives—from feelings of neglect and rejection to lifelong challenges with self-worth, relationships, and parenting.Dr. Gibson explains the four types of emotionally immature parents, how their behaviors influence family dynamics, and shares practical strategies for healing. She highlights the importance of setting healthy boundaries, developing emotional autonomy, and differentiating from immature parents to reclaim personal identity and foster growth. Lindsay also discusses how these experiences affect our own parenting styles and the journey to healing the inner child.The conversation explores the impact of emotional neglect or unresolved childhood trauma and how these patterns manifest in adulthood. Dr. Gibson stresses that in contrast to emotionally immature parents, emotionally mature parents are curious, emotionally attuned, and are on the lookout for ways to improve their child's self-worth. On a lighter note, Dr. Bramson shares the fascinating origin of Mt. Pleasant, Michigan—a town where Dr. Gibson attended graduate school and a special place for your Michigan-native host.This episode blends deep emotional insight with inspiring stories of hope and intergenerational transformation. Whether you're on a personal healing journey or looking to break generational cycles, this episode is for you. Tune in for a thought-provoking and uplifting conversation.WCMI networking group A networking group for mindfulness-focused clinicians dedicated to learning together & collaborating for more information click here

Natalie chats with Lindsay C. Gibson, the author of million-copy selling 'Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents'. They delve into the characteristics of emotionally immature parents, the impact on their children, and the resulting emotional loneliness. They also discuss the importance of understanding these dynamics, the process of reparenting, and the nuances of emotional expression. The conversation highlights how these experiences shape adult relationships and the tendency towards people pleasing as a coping mechanism. They round out their chat with advice for people who want to break the cycle in their own parenting and for those who've had to distance themselves or become estranged.    Lindsay's book: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents Natalie's book: The Joy of Saying No 'Reclaimed' membership: https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/reclaimed/ Work with me: https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/consultations/ Baggage Reclaim: https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk  Shop courses and books: https://store.baggagereclaim.com Sign up for my newsletter: https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/newsletter/ Leave a voice note: https://www.speakpipe.com/baggagereclaim  Support the podcast and leave a tip: https://baggagereclaim.ck.page/products/podcast     

Chapter 1:Summary of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents"Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents" by Lindsay C. Gibson explores the impact of having emotionally immature parents on their children's emotional development and relationships. The book defines emotionally immature parents as those who struggle with emotional regulation, often exhibiting behaviors that are self-centered, irresponsible, or unpredictable. Gibson identifies four main types of emotionally immature parents: the emotional parent, the driven parent, the passive parent, and the rejecting parent. Each type has distinct characteristics and ways of interacting with their children, often leaving the children to navigate a complex emotional landscape on their own.The author emphasizes the lasting effects these parenting styles can have on children, leading to issues such as difficulty in relationships, low self-esteem, and challenges in emotional regulation. Throughout the book, Gibson provides strategies for adult children to understand their upbringing, heal from past wounds, and develop healthier relationships in adulthood. She encourages readers to cultivate emotional intelligence, establish boundaries, and find supportive connections outside of their family of origin.Overall, the book serves as a guide for those affected by emotionally immature parenting, offering insights that can lead to personal growth and improved emotional well-being.Chapter 2:The Theme of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents"Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents" by Lindsay C. Gibson delves into the psychological impacts of being raised by parents who are emotionally immature. Here are some key plot points, character development aspects, and thematic ideas present in the book: Key Plot Points1. Introduction to Emotional Immaturity: The book begins with a definition of emotional immaturity and its characteristics. It outlines how such immaturity manifests in parenting styles, including unpredictability, lack of responsibility, and emotional volatility.2. Impact on Children: Gibson discusses how children of emotionally immature parents often internalize their parents' behaviors and develop coping mechanisms that affect their emotional health and relationships in adulthood.3. Types of Emotionally Immature Parents: The author categorizes emotionally immature parents into four types: the "Emotional Child," the "Driven," the "Passive," and the "Rejecting." Each type has distinct traits that influence their children's emotional development.4. Recognizing Patterns: The book highlights the importance of recognizing inherited emotional patterns and understanding how they impact one's relationships and self-perception as an adult.5. Healing and Development: Gibson provides a roadmap for healing, including practical strategies for self-reflection, establishing boundaries, and learning healthier emotional responses. This includes techniques for nurturing emotional maturity in oneself.6. Success Stories: The narrative includes anecdotes and success stories of individuals who have overcome the challenges presented by their upbringing, illustrating potential growth and positive change. Character Development- Self-Discovery: Characters (which can be interpreted as the readers and individuals relating to their own stories) evolve through a journey of self-discovery, learning to identify the traits of their parents that have affected them and how to navigate their emotions.- Navigating Relationships: The book emphasizes the development of healthy relationships as a central theme, where individuals learn to communicate needs, set boundaries, and choose partners who exhibit emotional maturity.- Empowerment: There is a significant focus on empowering individuals to reclaim their narratives and take...

“Whatever you think an animal might need, you need too.” – Tiffany Wentz-Root on self-compassion for wildlife rehabilitators.Partners for Wildlife kicks off its fourth season with the second part of our compassion fatigue conversation. Washington state-based mental health therapist Tiffany Wentz-Root joins host Gail Buhl to discuss the impact of trauma, burnout, balance, joy, boundaries, and the power of memes!This episode contains references to restrained eating habits, military service, negative self-talk, elements of depression, and child-care trauma.Special thanks to Partners For Wildlife and The Raptor Center at the University of Minnesota College of Veterinary Medicine.Links:Part one of this conversationCheck out Lindsay C. Gibson's book: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature ParentsLearn more about The Raptor CenterFinding a therapist through Psychology Today

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Are you ready to explore and express your true individuality? We will follow a powerful exercise from the book "Adult Children of Emotional Immature Parents" by Lindsay C. Gibson that will help us uncover our healing fantasy and the self-role that we created when we were little. You will need two pieces of paper for this exercise. I can't wait to spend time with you!

BUY THE SLOW LIVING BOOK HERE! Today we are talking about the last phase in our Slow Parenting Series, the adult years and estrangement.Estrangement happens later in life when a family member cuts off another family member. This could be an adult child deciding to distant themselves from a parent or relative. Many times it is because the adult child is attempting to protect themselves.So... how do you keep your children from becoming estranged from you?Clinical psychologist Lindsay C. Gibson wrote the book "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents" where she talks about the four types of difficult parents. I am sharing with you more detail on these parenting types and how they can lead to estrangement in the adult childhood years. The emotional parentThe driven parentThe passive parentThe rejecting parentThere are many ways to prevent them from becoming estranged, one of the most simple is having good communication. Say your sorry, show humility, and really work on yourself! Learn more about the four types of parents from Lindsay C. Gibson in her book, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents.Want to go back and listen to all of the episodes in the Slow Parenting Series? Ready, set, go!Episode 5 - Teaching Your Children to Slow DownEpisode 138 - Slow Parenting Series: Intro Episode 140 - Slow Parenting Series: Mindful Kids and Newborn StageEpisode 144 - Slow Parenting Series: School Age Readiness Episode 145 - Slow Parenting Series: Teaching Emotional Regulation to Children Episode 148 - Slow Parenting Series: The Tween and Teen Years with Amylee, the Productive Mama Want to know more about living a slowed down life?!Simple Shortcuts to Peace Course - https://stephanieodea.com/peaceNew Year, New You Mini Challenge - https://stephanieodea.com/newyouJoin me for my LIVE Masterclass - https://stephanieodea.com/masterclass/Website - https://stephanieodea.comBlog - https://stephanieodea.com/blog/Slow Living Podcast - https://stephanieodea.com/podcastSpeaking Opportunities -

In this second conversation, Host Monique Koven and psychologist and author Dr.Lindsay Gibson discuss emotional immaturity and its impact on relationships. They explore the characteristics of emotional immaturity, such as egocentrism and poor empathy, and how it can manifest in various relationships. They also discuss the continuum of emotional maturity and the role of hope in dealing with emotionally immature individuals.  Dr. Gibson offers insights into the experiences of those raised by emotionally immature parents and offers strategies for navigating relationships with emotionally immature people. She also shares information about her books on the topic.takeaways:Emotional immaturity can manifest in various relationships, including parent-child relationships, romantic relationships, and friendships.Emotional immaturity is characterized by egocentrism and poor empathy, where individuals prioritize their own needs and emotions over others.Emotional maturity is a continuum, and individuals can exhibit emotional immaturity in certain areas while being mature in others.Hope is important in dealing with emotionally immature individuals, but it is also important to recognize and set boundaries to protect oneself.Those raised by emotionally immature parents may have developed skills in caretaking and empathy, but it is important for them to prioritize their own needs and establish healthy boundaries in relationships.Listening to one's body and recognizing how relationships make them feel can help identify emotionally draining or unhealthy dynamics.Dr. Lindsay C Gibson's Books  Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents https://amzn.to/3XmLN40Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents Guided Journal: Your Space to Heal, Reflect, and Reconnect with Your True Self https://amzn.to/4e6KSuhDisentangling From Emotionally Immature People https://amzn.to/3MnFS8CSupport the Show.Find a list of my recommended books, trainings + resources for healing traumahttps://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ The Foundational Journey to Change Your Biology – 6-week online course guided and designed by Dr. Aimie as a journey into your nervous system to change your biology trauma reactions.https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/foundational-journeySubscribe to this channel on Youtube and Watch the episode on video https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PADisclaimer: This episode and website contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commision at no cost to you.

In this part #2 of a series of the book "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents" by Lindsay C. Gibson, we will explore the 4 types of emotionally immature parents. By understanding more about your parent's behavior and choices, you may be able to process and heal toxic dynamics and family systems that no longer serve you. The goal is not to blame, but to be very compassionate, accept, forgive, and heal this generational trauma so that we don't continue passing it along to future generations. Can't wait to share time with you!

In this part #1 of a series of the book "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents" by Lindsay C. Gibson, we are going to assess our childhood difficulties with an emotionally immature parent and become aware of the impact that those difficulties had on our lives. Emotional Immaturity shows up in relationships (with ourselves and with others) and it impacts every area of our lives. Let's become aware of these difficulties so that we can get started healing them. The goal is not to blame, but to be very compassionate, accept, forgive, and heal this generational trauma so that we don't continue passing it along to future generations. Can't wait to share time with you!

Today Joanna, Kia, and Sarah L. get vulnerable on the topics of reparenting ourselves, healing through therapy, and setting boundaries with extended family. We discuss our specific experiences with anxiety and depression in motherhood, the process of identifying patterns from our own childhoods we hope to break in raising our families, and how seeking help and healing through therapy has looked for us. We've also gathered actionable steps and helpful resources to support your journey toward self-care and emotional growth.Meagan and Sarah have passed the mic over to our team this summer. Enjoy the fantastic, all-new podcast episodes they've prepared for you, and we'll talk to you in August!HELPFUL LINKS:Follow Joanna Martin, Kia Hammond and Sarah Limberg on InstagramReparenting in Therapy, by Jodi Clarke, MA, LPC/MHSP (VeryWellMind.com)The definition of boundaryOur recommended books on boundaries (these include affiliate links):Set Boundaries Find Peace: Drawing The Right Lines by Joe MontgomeryGood Boundaries And Goodbyes by Lysa TerKeurstStrong Like Water by Aundi KolberWhat My Bones Know by Stephanie FooBoundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life by Dr. Henry CloudBraving the Wilderness by Brene BrownGood Inside by Dr. Becky KennedyAdult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyDListen to the podcast We Can Do Hard ThingsKatie Stricker Naptime KitchenKendra Adachi, The Lazy GeniusSimilar episodes from our archives:Strong As A Mother With Kate RopeReal Stories About Postpartum Mental HealthBlack Motherhood & Mental HealthSelf-Improvement & Self-Acceptance In MotherhoodOTHER HELPFUL LINKS:Visit our websiteCheck out deals from our partnersFollow us on InstagramJoin our private listener group on Facebook (be sure to answer the membership questions!)Sign up for our newsletterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of Anime Binge Club, Spencer and Kevin delve into personal introspection and the impact of self-help books, specifically "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents" by Lindsay C. Gibson. Spencer shares his recent personal revelations and the validation he feels from the book, while Kevin reflects on his own patterns of behavior in relationships. The conversation also touches on the political climate and the nature of healing fantasies. Then we dive into episode seven of Neon Genesis Evangelion, discussing its slower pace, budget-conscious animation choices, and character development, particularly of Misato. We also explore the cultural differences in how sexuality and prudishness are portrayed in anime versus American media. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

En este episodio, Marisa profundiza en cómo enfrentarnos a personas emocionalmente inmaduras, especialmente dentro de nuestras familias. Marisa comparte herramientas y estrategias clave para manejar estos desafíos y proteger tu bienestar emocional, basadas en el libro "Hijos Adultos de Padres Emocionalmente Inmaduros" de Lindsay C. Gibson.Si deseas conseguir el libro, puedes hacerlo directamente aquí: https://rb.gy/6o165g

Emotionally immature people can wreck your life. One of our most popular guests returns to teach you how to make sure they don't.Description: Our relationships are the most important variable in our health and happiness, but they may also be the most difficult. This is especially true when those closest to us turn out to be emotionally immature people.Lindsay C. Gibson is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author who specializes in helping people identify and deal with emotionally immature people, or EIP's. Her first appearance on our show was one of our most popular episodes of 2022. Now she's back to offer concrete strategies for handling the EIP's in your life, wherever you may find them. Her new book is called Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People.In this episode we talk about:A primer on the cardinal characteristics of emotionally immature people (EIP's), how to spot them, and why you might want toWhat Lindsay means by “disentangling” from EIP's, and how to do itWhat often happens to your own sense of self when you're in relationship (or even just in conversation) with an EIP How to interact with an EIP How to prevent brain scramble when you're talking with someone who isn't making any attempt to understand what you're saying How she reacts when she comes across EIP's in her everyday lifeWhether it's possible to have some immature characteristics without being an EIPHandling your own emotionally immature tendencies Whether or not EIP's can changeThe limits of estrangementWhy she encourages “alternatives to forgiveness”Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/tph/podcast-episode/lindsay-gibson-791Book Mentioned:Disentangling from Emotionally Immature PeopleOther Resources Mentioned:Lindsay's first appearance on the Ten Percent Happier PodcastAdditional Resources:Download the Ten Percent Happier app today: https://10percenthappier.app.link/installSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's guest, Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson, gives advice for dealing with emotionally immature people— whether they are your parents, boss, spouse or childhood friend, she offers practical tools to help navigate these difficult relationships. Description: Emotionally immature people (EIP's) are hard to avoid and most of us, if not all of us, have to deal with them at some point in our lives. These interactions can range from mildly annoying to genuinely traumatic, especially if the emotionally immature people in question are our own parents, which is true for an awful lot of us.Today's guest, clinical psychologist Lindsay C. Gibson, gives advice for dealing with emotionally immature people, whether they're your parents or not. She has written a sleeper hit book on the subject called, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents. In this episode we talk about:The signs of emotional immaturityWhether or not I'm emotionally immatureWhat happens to children who are raised by emotionally immature parents, including their signature coping strategiesWhy adult children of EIP's turn to healing fantasies, and how to let them goHow to cope with emotionally immature parents as an adultWhat role compassion should and should not play in your relationship with EIP'sHow to healFull Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/lindsay-gibson-2022-rerunBooks Mentioned:Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved ParentsWho You Were Meant to Be: A Guide to Rediscovering Your Life's PurposeRecovering from Emotionally Immature Parents: Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional AutonomySelf-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: Honor Your Emotions, Nurture Your Self, and Live with ConfidenceDisentangling from Emotionally Immature People: Avoid Emotional Traps, Stand Up for Your Self, and Transform Your Relationships as an Adult Child of Emotionally Immature Parents Other Resources Mentioned:Lisa Feldman BarrettAdditional Resources:Download the Ten Percent Happier app today: https://10percenthappier.app.link/installSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyD, leader of the Healing for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents Online Course, shares how to treat adult children of emotionally immature parents. Lindsay is a clinical psychologist and psychotherapist with more than thirty years' experience working in both public service and private practice. Her books—including the #1 Amazon best seller, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents—have sold more than a million copies, and have been translated into thirty-four languages. In the past, Gibson has served as an adjunct assistant professor, teaching doctoral clinical psychology students clinical theory and psychotherapy techniques. She specializes in therapy and coaching with adults to attain new levels of personal growth, emotional intimacy in relationships, and confidence in dealing with emotionally immature family members. Her website is available at http://www.lindsaygibsonpsyd.com/. Gibson lives and works in Virginia Beach, VA.  Check out the Quick Tip Here: https://www.newharbinger.com/blog/quick-tips-therapists/working-with-adult-children-of-emotionally-immature-parents/   Buy the Course: https://www.adultchildrencourse.com   If you have ideas for future episodes, thoughts, or questions, we'd love to hear from you! Send us an email at podcast@newharbinger.com 

This is an episode we all needed today.Let's talk people pleasing with Natalie Lue - how to identify if you are one, how to stop, and how to ensure you don't pass that trait onto your kids.You can buy Natalie's 'The Joy of Saying No' here. Natalie also recommended 'Adult Children of Emotional Immature Parents' by Lindsay C Gibson.Listen by clicking ‘Play', subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and Acast, and please do rate and review to help others find the podcast.Find a new episode every Tuesday & Friday and in the meantime check out Made By Mammas on Instagram: @madebymammas.Made By Mammas®, this has been an Insanity Studios production. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hôm nay BV gửi đến bạn video "Sống cuộc đời không bị cha mẹ kiểm soát" qua cuốn sách tâm lý học nổi tiếng mang tên: Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents (Phụ đề: Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries & Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy”). Bản dịch là “Khi cha mẹ chưa trưởng thành cảm xúc”. Tác giả là Tiến sĩ Lindsay C. Gibson, bà sẽ cung cấp cho bạn những công cụ thực tiễn để bảo vệ mình trong khi tương tác với cha mẹ chưa trưởng thành, giành lại quyền tự chủ cảm xúc, chữa lành cho chính bạn và đứa trẻ trong bạn. ------------------------- Nếu bạn muốn mua sách giấy để đọc, có thể ủng hộ Better Version bằng cách mua qua đường link này nhé, cám ơn các bạn! Link shopee: https://shorten.asia/UqBbpFtr Link Tiki: https://shorten.asia/JWKD9q31 Link Lazada: https://shorten.asia/y6mMAqFW ❤️ Link tổng hợp các cuốn sách trong tất cả video: https://beacons.ai/betterversion.vn/b... ❤️ ỦNG HỘ KÊNH TẠI: https://beacons.ai/betterversion.donate

In this week's episode of the Calling Home podcast, Whitney speaks with therapist and author Lindsay C. Gibson discusses the challenges of dealing with emotionally immature parents. They'll discuss how emotional immaturity exists on a spectrum and can be influenced by various factors such as life stage and external circumstances. Lindsay will explain how adult children can express their feelings and set boundaries with their parents, rather than try to change them. Find Lindsay's book Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents on Amazon.  Have a question for Whitney? Call Home at 866-225-5466.  Click here to get “Toxic Positivity” on paperback.  Join Whitney's Family Cycle Breakers Club for further support and discussion on family dynamics at CallingHome.co. Follow the Calling Home community on Instagram or TikTok.  Follow Whitney Goodman on Instagram or TikTok.  The Calling Home podcast is not engaged in providing therapy services, mental health advice or other medical advice or services, is not a substitute for advice from a qualified healthcare provider, and does not create any therapist-patient or other treatment relationship between you and Calling Home or Whitney Goodman. For more information on this, please see Calling Home's Terms of Service. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Introduction to The Empower Energy Technique (EET) Healing Series: Healing from Negative Self-Judgment and Back PainI am excited to start The Empower Energy Technique (EET) Healing Series which share the EETs that I've done over the years with my patients that have been particularly useful for my patients and can be universally helpful for others.To start this series, I've created three different YouTube videos and podcasts. The first is a brief introduction to EET and will walk you through an EET session that addresses negative self-judgment and regret. In addition, it contains an intention that helps reduce back pain because, according to Louise Hay, back pain has a lot to do with regret!The second EET Healing Series targets healing from emotionally immature parents. If you've read the ground-breaking book by Lindsay C. Gibson called "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents," then you know what this EET will be targeting.Emotionally immature parents are self-centered and lack empathy. They use their children for their own unfulfilled needs. Adult children of emotionally immature parents feel unseen and unlovable despite their efforts to be all that they can be to "earn" love from their parents. Session 2 of the EET series uses Life Energy to heal from the consequences of these early childhood traumas.The third EET Healing Series targets healing from dependency on psychiatric medications. I recommend working with a holistic and integrative psychiatrist on this issue, but not everyone can afford a holistic psychiatrist, so this EET is meant to provide some energy support to those who want to get off their psychiatric medications but can't afford medical treatment. The EET focuses on the use of Life Energy to help improve the neurological system and minimize damage and hypersensitivities that come from psychiatric medication exposure.There will be more EETs to come, so please subscribe to my YouTube and podcast channels for EET Healing Techniques that will be posted soon!Have a great week!Click here to listen to all of The Holistic Psychiatrist Podcast episodes If you like this podcast, please give it a 5-star rating and share this with others! Thank you! For more about Dr. Alice W. Lee, please visit: Website: www.holisticpsychiatrist.com More stories and insights: Holistic Articles YouTube: The Holistic Psychiatrist To schedule consultations or appointments, call Dr. Lee's office at 240-437-7600 Dr. Lee has office locations in Lehi, Utah, and Yonkers, New York. The content provided by this podcast is for informational purposes only and has not been approved by the U.S. FDA. This podcast is not intended to provide personal medical advice, which should be obtained from a medical professional.

Episode 2 of The Empower Energy Technique (EET) Healing Series: Healing from Emotionally Immature ParentsI am excited to start The Empower Energy Technique (EET) Healing Series which share the EETs that I've done over the years with my patients that have been particularly useful for my patients and can be universally helpful for others.To start this series, I've created three different YouTube videos and podcasts. The first is a brief introduction to EET and will walk you through an EET session that addresses negative self-judgment and regret.This second episode using EET targets healing from emotionally immature parents. If you've read the ground-breaking book by Lindsay C. Gibson called "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents," then you know what this EET will be targeting. Emotionally immature parents are self-centered and lack empathy. They use their children for their own unfulfilled needs. The adult children of emotionally immature parents feel unseen and unlovable despite their efforts to be all that they can be to "earn" love from their parents. Session 2 of the EET series uses Life Energy to heal from the consequences of these early childhood traumas.I hope that you will benefit from this particular application of EET. Enjoy!Click here to listen to all of The Holistic Psychiatrist Podcast episodes If you like this podcast, please give it a 5-star rating and share this with others! Thank you! For more about Dr. Alice W. Lee, please visit: Website: www.holisticpsychiatrist.com More stories and insights: Holistic Articles YouTube: The Holistic Psychiatrist To schedule consultations or appointments, call Dr. Lee's office at 240-437-7600 Dr. Lee has office locations in Lehi, Utah, and Yonkers, New York. The content provided by this podcast is for informational purposes only and has not been approved by the U.S. FDA. This podcast is not intended to provide personal medical advice, which should be obtained from a medical professional.

This episode is about how to develop emotional maturity as an adult. Have you begun developing self-awareness but realized there are some immature patterns you'd like to change? Or have you noticed that in certain relationships you can be emotionally immature? Or do you struggle to handle or process your emotions? In this episode, I answer a listener question from someone who read the book Adult Children on Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C Gibson and not only saw their parents' behaviors in the book, but through self-reflection they realized they too possess some of these immature behaviors. In this episode, I outline 4 steps on how to develop emotional maturity. My intention for this episode is to help you to learn how to build emotional maturity, embrace your humanity, practice self-compassion, and lean into feeling your feelings.Timestamps ⏱️Introduction: 00:14Listener Question: 2:07Outro: 23:36For episode show notes, please visit: https://www.newviewadvice.com/94For more free resources and to learn more about New View Advice, visit: https://www.newviewadvice.com/Want to have a question answered? You can submit your question here: https://www.newviewadvice.com/ask-a-questionThanks so much for listening! Sending you so much love!

“(Internalizers) develop a role-self that's overly focused on other people, along with a healing fantasy that they can change others' feelings and behaviors toward them. ” Lindsay C. Gibson, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents A podcast where we share sixty seconds of inspiration to help you create a kinder, gentler world faster than the speed of heartbreak. We believe that kindness needs to be the number one cherished idea in the world today. So, we created a show that adds one sweet droplet of goodness into the ocean of your life - every day.  #onekindmoment #kindness Yesterday by John Hobart - Music Design by Jason Inc. https://brucewaynemclellan.com/    

Lindsay C. Gibson, is back again to answer even more of your questions about the emotionally immature people in your life!  Discover:  How to know if your family member is a narcissist or emotionally immature + the major difference between the two; What to do if you realize that you are emotionally immature and the best ways to build up your emotional capacities;  A gentle way forward if you love your family member, but find yourself healthier when you are not around them; and Abby's new strategy for self-care in complex relationships with family and how you can implement the same tactic in your own life! To learn more about the emotionally immature people in your life, check out the last episode – ,How to Deal with Emotionally Immature Partners & In-Laws with Lindsay C. Gibson – as well as Episode 263. Healing from Emotionally Immature Parents with Lindsay C. GIbson and Episode 264. Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People with Lindsay C. Gibson About Lindsay: Lindsay C. Gibson is an author and clinical psychologist, and practicing psychotherapist for over thirty years. She has written several books, including Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People. Dr. Gibson specializes in therapy and coaching with adults to attain new levels of personal growth and confidence in dealing with emotionally immature people. Her books can be found at http://www.lindsaygibsonpsyd.com/books.html, and her website is http://www.lindsaygibsonpsyd.com/. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lindsay C. Gibson is back by popular demand to answer YOUR questions on the emotionally immature people in your life.  Discover:  How to protect your energy when in relationship with emotionally immature people;  Why you might want to pay attention to when and where you use the word “navigate” to describe your relationship with someone; Practical tools to set boundaries with emotionally immature in-laws (plus a simple practice to get you and your partner on the same page);  Why neglect in romantic relationships is so deeply painful and what to do about it; and The best thing to do when partnered with someone who has emotional “Walls” up. (It might surprise you!) Check out our past episodes with Lindsay Gibson:  Episode 263. Healing from Emotionally Immature Parents with Lindsay C. GIbson & Episode 264. Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People with Lindsay C. Gibson. About Lindsay: Lindsay C. Gibson is an author and clinical psychologist, and practicing psychotherapist for over thirty years. She has written several books, including Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People. Dr. Gibson specializes in therapy and coaching with adults to attain new levels of personal growth and confidence in dealing with emotionally immature people. Her books can be found at http://www.lindsaygibsonpsyd.com/books.html, and her website is http://www.lindsaygibsonpsyd.com/. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We all want our kids to grow up confident and self-sufficient. But by doing too much and protecting our kids from failure, so many well-meaning moms and dads end up discouraging the autonomy they want their kids to achieve. Welcome to the first episode of an ongoing conversation with my friend and fave, Michaeleen Doucleff, author of the phenomenal book Hunt, Gather, Parent. We use real stories from my Mastermind Parents to help us find antidotes to the performative, perfectionist parenting models we're trying to overturn.In this episode, you'll learn:The key mindset shift that will help you develop a mutually respectful, collaborative connection with your children.What happens when you stop trying to find the perfect script and start talking to your kids like full human beings.Why parents who do the most for their kids wind up raising little anxious humans.How the strategies we use to motivate and reward our kiddos actually push down their natural drive to help out.And much more! As always, thanks for listening. Head over to Facebook, where you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community. We post tips and tools and do pop-up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it!Get all the links, resources, and transcripts here: https://mastermindparenting.com/podcast-277About Randi RubensteinRandi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong-willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays.She's the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S.At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along.Randi's Web and Social LinksWebsite: https://mastermindparenting.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mastermindparentingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mastermind_parenting/About Michaleen Doucleff:Michaleen Doucleff is an award-winning global health correspondent and the author of Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans. https://michaeleendoucleff.com/hunt-gather-parent/ Resources Discussed/LinksJonathan Haidt's upcoming book The Anxious Generation https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/729231/the-anxious-generation-by-jonathan-haidt Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, by Lindsay C. Gibson https://www.newharbinger.com/9781626251700/adult-children-of-emotionally-immature-parents/The Whole Brain Child, by Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. & Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D. https://www.tinabryson.com/thewholebrainchildOur 12-week Basics Bootcamp program is now available as a 100% online self-study course!

Emotionally immature parents set us up for lots of challenges in our own role as family pack leaders. One of the most difficult ways that shows up is when our actual kiddos act in ways that echo behavior we endured from emotionally immature grown-ups. This week I invite you to listen in on some coaching I did with two of my amazing Masterminders. They're making huge strides recognizing the behavior that's triggering their instinctive responses, and using their pack leadership skills to break the cycle of blame and disappointment.In this episode, you'll learn:Why so much of what we think of as “bad” behavior comes down to our own unrealistic expectations for our kids.How building your pack leadership can help you be more conscious of the skills your kids haven't developed yet, and provide the guidance and certainty they need to learn them.The ways your own upbringing influences those expectations, and how understanding the connection can help you lead with empathy rather than judgment.And much more! As always, thanks for listening. Head over to Facebook, where you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community. We post tips and tools and do pop-up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it!Get all the links, resources, and transcripts here: https://mastermindparenting.com/podcast-275About Randi RubensteinRandi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong-willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays.She's the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S.At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along.Randi's Web and Social LinksWebsite: https://mastermindparenting.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mastermindparentingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mastermind_parenting/Resources Discussed/LinksAdult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, by Lindsay C. Gibson https://www.newharbinger.com/9781626251700/adult-children-of-emotionally-immature-parents/Our 12-week Basics Bootcamp program is now available as a 100% online self-study course! https://mastermindparenting.com/minimasters/Live assessment: https://mastermindparenting.com/live-assessment/

Look out, listener, I have another new book crush, and I can't wait to discuss her work with you! I've recently been captivated by Lindsay C. Gibson and her book Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. It spoke to so much of my experience with my own parents and their resistance to reflecting on how they raised me, and it also explains the conditioning that so many of my Mastermind parents are struggling against! I'm ready to start a whole conversation on the topics this book raised. I'm glad you're here to be part of it!In this episode, you'll learn:Why it can be so hard for our parents to face the mistakes they made raising us, and how we can learn from their resistance to self-reflection.How the concept of emotional immaturity can help you understand your own healing, and help you keep that behavior out of your own parenting. Why highly-sensitive kids are uniquely equipped to see through the pretense and performance that we use to mask our insecurities as parents.And much more! As always, thanks for listening. Head over to Facebook, where you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community. We post tips and tools and do pop-up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it!Get all the links, resources, and transcripts here: https://mastermindparenting.com/podcast-274About Randi RubensteinRandi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong-willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays.She's the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S.At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along.Randi's Web and Social LinksWebsite: https://mastermindparenting.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mastermindparentingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mastermind_parenting/Resources Discussed/LinksAdult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, by Lindsay C. Gibson https://www.newharbinger.com/9781626251700/adult-children-of-emotionally-immature-parents/Author and podcaster Glennon Doyle https://momastery.com/ Our 12-week Basics Bootcamp program is now available as a 100% online self-study course! https://mastermindparenting.com/minimasters/Live assessment: https://mastermindparenting.com/live-assessment/

“Knowing your true emotions and thoughts probably felt dangerous if it threatened to distance you from the people you depended on.” Lindsay C. Gibson, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents A podcast where we share sixty seconds of inspiration to help you create a kinder, gentler world faster than the speed of heartbreak. We believe that kindness needs to be the number one cherished idea in the world today. So, we created a show that adds one sweet droplet of goodness into the ocean of your life - every day.  #onekindmoment #kindness #healingtrauma Yesterday by John Hobart - Music Design by Jason Inc. https://brucewaynemclellan.com/    

On this episode, we hear about: - A man wondering if he should tell his parents the truth - A woman reeling after learning about her ex's secret sex addiction - A wife unsure of how to handle her husband's extreme anger Lyrics of the Day: "Since U Been Gone" - Kelly Clarkson  To buy "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents" by Lindsay C. Gibson click here. Let us know what's going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show.  Support Our Sponsors: BetterHelp Hallow Organifi Thorne Add products to your cart create an account at checkout Receive 25% off ALL orders Resources: Building a Non-Anxious Life Anxiety Test Own Your Past, Change Your Future Questions for Humans Conversation Cards John's Free Guided Meditation Listen to all The Ramsey Network podcasts anytime, anywhere in our app. Download at: https://apple.co/3eN8jNq These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. https://www.megaphone.fm/adchoices Ramsey Solutions Privacy Policy

Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyD, is an author and psychologist who has been a psychotherapist for more than thirty years, working in both public and private practice. In this episode M.O.N.K. breaks down the main concepts of her book Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. Topics Covered: Emotional immaturity Effects of emotional immaturity in parenting and leadership Stress innoculation Defense mechanisms Survival mode Fear of connection Fragility Characteristics of emotional immaturity Characteristics of emotional maturity Emotional mirroring *** Pick up the Book: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Reclaiming the Man. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can connect with everything going on in the Glawry Universe by clicking ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@_glawry_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@xxmonkxx⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@_glawry_

Author and clinical psychologist, Lindsay C. Gibson, is back to share practical steps to disentangle ourselves from emotionally immature people (EIPs), emphasizing the importance of repetition, persistence, and consistency in communication as well as boundary setting. Lindsay addresses questions about being in relationship with EIPs including:  Are people raised by EIPs prone to entering relationships with similar dynamics? What happens when we try to have conversations or engage in conflict with EIPs? How do we ACTUALLY HEAL as adult children of EIPs and maintain healthy detachment? For Part 1 of our conversation, check out: 263. Healing from Emotionally Immature Parents with Lindsay C. Gibson. Lindsay C. Gibson's books can be found here:  http://www.lindsaygibsonpsyd.com/books.html About Lindsay: Lindsay C. Gibson is an author and clinical psychologist, and practicing psychotherapist for over thirty years. She has written several books, including Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People. Dr. Gibson specializes in therapy and coaching with adults to attain new levels of personal growth and confidence in dealing with emotionally immature people.  Website: http://www.lindsaygibsonpsyd.com/ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

A podcast where we share sixty seconds of inspiration to help you create a kinder, gentler world faster than the speed of heartbreak. We believe that kindness needs to be the number one cherished idea in the world today. So, we created a show that adds one sweet droplet of goodness into the ocean of your life - every day.  #onekindmoment #kindness #kindnessquotes #kind Yesterday by John Hobart - Music Design by Jason Inc. https://brucewaynemclellan.com/    

Author and clinical psychologist, Lindsay C. Gibson, helps us identify the characteristics of emotionally immature people (EIPs) like ego-centrism, lack of empathy, and fear of emotional intimacy. Lindsay shares the effects of being raised by emotionally immature parents, mapping out two routes children often take – becoming internalizers or externalizers – and how that plays out in adult relationships and professional lives.  Emphasizing the importance of self-compassion, Lindsay explains how often the most important step toward healing is identifying the EIPs in our lives.  Lindsay C. Gibson's books can be found here:  http://www.lindsaygibsonpsyd.com/books.html About Lindsay: Lindsay C. Gibson is an author and clinical psychologist, and practicing psychotherapist for over thirty years. She has written several books, including Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People. Dr. Gibson specializes in therapy and coaching with adults to attain new levels of personal growth and confidence in dealing with emotionally immature people.  Website: http://www.lindsaygibsonpsyd.com/ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this, Michelle's first solo podcast episode, she shares about what got her to her life's calling: intimacy. She was always comfortable talking about sex, but safe emotional and physical intimacy has been a struggle in her history. Learn who Michelle 1.0 was and how the journey to the current operating system (Michelle 4.0 or 5.0 - she's lost count) is due in large part to her getting into pro cuddling when she did. Also, a lovely tribute to the healing power of relationship. Takeaways Touch workers play a vital role in supporting and guiding their clients on their journey. Self-care is crucial for healers to maintain their well-being and effectiveness. Building trust with clients is essential for a successful healing relationship. Being a touch worker is a privilege and a rewarding experience. Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's website is ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠ and can be found on social media at @meetmichellerenee. Links from today's episode (some are affiliate links): We're Not Really Strangers: https://amzn.to/46MIIfD Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C Gibson: https://amzn.to/3tvGJ0Q Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker: https://amzn.to/45JYTtn Watch our Wedding Vows: https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/blog/wedding Join my bi-weekly newsletter: https://bit.ly/mmrnewsletter Check out the Cuddlist Basic Training and get 10% with this link: https://cuddlist.podia.com/cuddle-therapy-basic-training/6dnxo?coupon=REFERRAL

In last week's episode, we explored the signs and effects of emotional immaturity in parents. Today, we dive into practical ways of navigating these complex dynamics as an adult with an emotionally immature parent. Tune in as we discuss the following strategies:letting go of the fantasyhow to individuate and process your feelingsfocusing on what you can controlestablishing appropriate boundaries Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson's book: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents--------------------------------We're eager to hear your thoughts on the podcast! Got any questions, topic suggestions, or just want to get in touch? We'd love to hear from you via this quick feedback form: https://tally.so/r/w4Jkgr

In today's episode, we uncover both the obvious and subtle signs that indicate emotional immaturity in parents, exploring the profound impact it can have on their children's emotional well-being and future relationships. Whether you're a parent seeking to better understand your own behaviors or someone who grew up with emotionally immature parents, this episode will help you identify the 4 types of emotional immaturity that parents tend to fall in. Next week, we'll discuss how to practically navigate these complex dynamics in our relationships.Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson's book: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents--------------------------------We're eager to hear your thoughts on the podcast! Got any questions, topic suggestions, or just want to get in touch? We'd love to hear from you via this quick feedback form: https://tally.so/r/w4Jkgr

Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyD, author of Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People, joins us for a second time to discuss navigating relationships with emotionally immature people. Lindsay is a clinical psychologist who has been a psychotherapist for more than thirty-five years, working in both public and private practice. In the past, Gibson has served as adjunct assistant professor for the Virginia Consortium Program in clinical psychology, teaching doctoral students clinical theory and psychotherapy techniques. She specializes in working with adults to attain new levels of personal growth, emotional intimacy with others, and confidence in dealing with emotionally immature family members.  Gibson is author of four other books: Who You Were Meant to Be, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents, and Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. She also wrote a monthly column on well-being for Tidewater Women and Tidewater Family magazines for over twenty years. Her website is available at www.lindsaygibsonpsyd.com. Gibson lives and works in Virginia Beach, VA.  Visit our website at www.newharbinger.com and use coupon code 'Podcast25' to receive 25% off your entire order.  Buy the Book:  New Harbinger - https://bit.ly/3Yh7bXp   Amazon - https://a.co/d/fyHfPM5   Barnes & Noble - https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/1141749969   Bookshop.org - https://bit.ly/45ahf6E   This podcast is edited by Jesse Fankushen.

Ok. This is a BIG ONE. This week's guest is Dr Lindsay C. Gibson: A clinical psychologist and bestselling author who specializes in helping people identify and deal with emotionally immature people, or EIP's. Her book Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents was a breakthrough best-seller. And she's since followed it with a series of popular, related books, including: Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents, Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, and her latest work, Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People.Dr Gibson has been featured on some really huge platforms - like the Ten Percent Happier podcast - and her interview also happened to be one of their most popular episodes.It was such a privilege to chat with her.Our conversation focused specifically on dealing with EIPs in the workplace.We covered: How Dr Gibson defines Emotionally Immature People (EIPs) And how to spot them in the wilds. How emotionally immature behavior might manifest at work. The workplace dynamics and patterns that Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents can be especially mindful of. How to spot an EIP in a job interview. (Hint: They don't seem to have time for your questions. You already feel like a burden.)Stay Up To Date via the Content People newsletter: https://meredithfarley.substack.com/Where to find Lindsay C. Gibson online:Website: www.lindsaygibsonpsyd.com/Books: Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents. Who You Were Meant to Be: A Guide to Rediscovering Your Life's Purpose Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents: Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: Honor Your Emotions, Nurture Your Self, and Live with Confidence

Have you felt your parent was emotionally unavailable? Do you have trust issues with your parent(s)? Did the way your caregiver's raised you still impact you as an adult? If you grew up with emotionally immature parents, there's a good chance your adult relationships or marriage have been impacted! We break it down in this episode and give you relationship tips and advice for how to navigate through this! Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting or Self Involved Parents by Lindsay C Gibson https://bookshop.org/a/56047/9781626251700 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/decoding-couples/support

Our relationships are the most important variable in our health and happiness, but they may also be the most difficult. This is especially true when those closest to us turn out to be emotionally immature people.Lindsay C. Gibson is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author who specializes in helping people identify and deal with emotionally immature people, or EIP's. Her first appearance on our show was one of our most popular episodes of 2022. Now she's back to offer concrete strategies for handling the EIP's in your life, wherever you may find them. Her new book is called Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People.In this episode we talk about:A primer on the cardinal characteristics of emotionally immature people (EIP's), how to spot them, and why you might want toWhat Lindsay means by “disentangling” from EIP's, and how to do itWhat often happens to your own sense of self when you're in relationship (or even just in conversation) with an EIP How to interact with an EIP How to prevent brain scramble when you're talking with someone who isn't making any attempt to understand what you're saying How she reacts when she comes across EIP's in her everyday lifeWhether it's possible to have some immature characteristics without being an EIPHandling your own emotionally immature tendencies Whether or not EIP's can changeThe limits of estrangementWhy she encourages “alternatives to forgiveness”For tickets to TPH's live event in Boston on September 7:https://thewilbur.com/armory/artist/dan-harris/Full Shownotes:https://www.tenpercent.com/tph/podcast-episode/lindsay-c-gibson-617See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

 7 out of every 10 adults have experienced a traumatic event, and whether you are aware of it or not, you are most likely interacting with trauma survivors both personally and professionally on a daily basis. Tune into today's episode to learn one of two tips that will help you be more informed, supportive and safe for those survivors in your life.  ----------  Free Resources:   ·   The Body Keeps the Score: Brian, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel Van Der Kolk, M.D. ·   No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma & Restoring Wholeness with The Internal Family Systems Model by  Richard C. Schwartz, PhD ·   Trauma Stewardship: An Everyday Guide to Caring for Self While Caring for Others by Laura van Dernoot Lipsky ·   The A-to-Z Self Care Handbook for Social Workers and Other Helping Professionals by  Erlene Grise-Owens ·   Help for the Helper: Self-Care Strategies for Managing Burnout and Stress by  Babette Rothschild ·   Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Amelia & Emiy Nagoski, PhD ·   Eastern Body-Western Mind: Psychology and the Chakra System as a Path to the Self by Anodea Judith ·   Running on Empty: Overcoming your Childhood Neglect by  Jonice Webb, PhD ·   Attached: The New Science on Adult Attachment and How It Can Help you Find and Keep Love by Amir Levine, M.D. and Rachel Heller, M.A. ·   My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Mending of Our Bodies and Hearts by  Resmaa Menakem, MSW ·   Lifting Heavy Things: Healing Trauma One Rep at a Time by Laura Khoudari ·   Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Controlling Yourself by Melody Beattie ·   Dissociation Made Simple: A Stigma- Free Guide to Embracing Your Dissociative Mind and Navigating Daily Life by Jamie Marich, PhD ·   Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved parents by Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyD ·   The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse by Wendy Maltz ·   The Complex PTSD Workbook: A Mind-Body Approach to Regaining Emotional Control & Becoming Whole by Arielle Schwartz, PhD & Jim Knipe, PhD ----------  Stay Connected  Instagram: @jess_demarchis_coaching Website: www.jessicademarchis.com

7 out of every 10 adults have experienced a traumatic event, and whether you are aware of it or not, you are most likely interacting with trauma survivors both personally and professionally on a daily basis. Tune into today's episode to learn one of two tips that will help you be more informed, supportive and safe for those survivors in your life.  ----------  Free Resources:   ·   The Body Keeps the Score: Brian, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel Van Der Kolk, M.D. ·   No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma & Restoring Wholeness with The Internal Family Systems Model by  Richard C. Schwartz, PhD ·   Trauma Stewardship: An Everyday Guide to Caring for Self While Caring for Others by Laura van Dernoot Lipsky ·   The A-to-Z Self Care Handbook for Social Workers and Other Helping Professionals by  Erlene Grise-Owens ·   Help for the Helper: Self-Care Strategies for Managing Burnout and Stress by  Babette Rothschild ·   Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Amelia & Emiy Nagoski, PhD ·   Eastern Body-Western Mind: Psychology and the Chakra System as a Path to the Self by Anodea Judith ·   Running on Empty: Overcoming your Childhood Neglect by  Jonice Webb, PhD ·   Attached: The New Science on Adult Attachment and How It Can Help you Find and Keep Love by Amir Levine, M.D. and Rachel Heller, M.A. ·   My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Mending of Our Bodies and Hearts by  Resmaa Menakem, MSW ·   Lifting Heavy Things: Healing Trauma One Rep at a Time by Laura Khoudari ·   Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Controlling Yourself by Melody Beattie ·   Dissociation Made Simple: A Stigma- Free Guide to Embracing Your Dissociative Mind and Navigating Daily Life by Jamie Marich, PhD ·   Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved parents by Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyD ·   The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse by Wendy Maltz ·   The Complex PTSD Workbook: A Mind-Body Approach to Regaining Emotional Control & Becoming Whole by Arielle Schwartz, PhD & Jim Knipe, PhD ----------  Stay Connected  Instagram: @jess_demarchis_coaching Website: www.jessicademarchis.com  

Today I am sharing a video episode to watch or listen to. Dr. Lindsay Gibson joins us on the podcast to discuss “Emotionally Immature Parents”. Dr. Gibson has been a psychologist for over thirty years, working in both public and private practice. In the past, she has served as an adjunct assistant professor in Clinical Psychology, teaching doctoral students clinical theory and psychotherapeutic techniques. Dr. Gibson is the author of four books: Who You Were Meant to Be, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents and Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: Honor Your Emotions, Nurture Your Self & Live With Confidence. Lindsay's book “ Adult Children Of Emotionally Immature Parents” prompted me to reach out to her to ask her more. Note *** I will be taking some time away. I have some great guests conversations lined up for when we resume. Take good care everyone!

Emotionally immature people (EIP's) are hard to avoid and most of us, if not all of us, have to deal with them at some point in our lives. These interactions can range from mildly annoying to genuinely traumatic, especially if the emotionally immature people in question are our own parents, which is true for an awful lot of us.Today's guest, clinical psychologist Lindsay C. Gibson, gives advice for dealing with emotionally immature people, whether they're your parents or not. She has written a sleeper hit book on the subject called, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents.In this episode we talk about:The signs of emotional immaturity Whether or not I'm emotionally immatureWhat happens to children who are raised by emotionally immature parents, including their signature coping strategiesWhy adult children of EIP's turn to healing fantasies, and how to let them goHow to cope with emotionally immature parents as an adultWhat role compassion should and should not play in your relationship with EIP'sHow to healFull Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/lindsay-gibson-497See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.