Coffee with Karim

In Episode 105 of the Coffee with Karim Podcast, we dive into the essential foundations of family connection, exploring the power of attention, affection, and approval in parent-child relationships. Discover insights on nurturing bonds, the human need for intimacy, and navigating family challenges in the digital age, including screen time and effective communication. Perfect for parents, educators, and anyone looking to strengthen family ties. More Info on Studies René Spitz's Observational Studies (1940s): René Spitz was a psychoanalyst who studied infants in orphanages and hospitals. He observed that children who lacked maternal care or consistent adult attention developed what he called “anaclitic depression,” showing signs of developmental delays, emotional withdrawal, and increased mortality. His work highlighted the psychological harm caused by emotional neglect, as many infants in orphanages during this period received minimal affection, and caregivers often focused solely on physical needs. Harry Harlow's Experiments with Rhesus Monkeys (1950s): Although not directly on humans, Harlow's work with rhesus monkeys profoundly impacted how we understand attachment. Harlow found that young monkeys preferred soft, comforting "mothers" over wire ones that only provided food. This work suggested that emotional bonds and comfort are vital to development, reinforcing the importance of nurturing environments for infants and challenging the practice in orphanages where emotional support was often overlooked. Romanian Orphanage Studies (1990s): In the 1990s, psychologists and researchers began studying children in Romanian orphanages who had been raised in extremely deprived conditions. These studies found that children raised without consistent caregivers and social interaction had severe cognitive, emotional, and physical delays. Many children experienced attachment disorders, struggled with emotional regulation, and had long-term developmental impacts.

Habeeb Akande is an author, sex educator, and historian. He is a former student of al-Azhar University and the founder of the Erotology Institute, which provides online courses on Islamic sexology and African intimacy. Habeeb Akande's Work Women of Desire: A Guide to Passionate Love and Sexual Compatibility A Taste of Honey: Sexuality and Erotology in Islam. Kunyaza: The Secret to Female Pleasure. Erotology Institute (www.erotologyinstitute.com) Home (erotologyinstitute.com) The Orgasm Gap (BBC audio documentary on Kunyaza) - BBC World Service - The Documentary, Life Changes, The Orgasm Gap BBC Kunyaza Documentary on YouTube Rwanda: Sexual Pleasure and Controversy - BBC World Service (youtube.com)

0:00 Marriage is Half of Religion 8:00 Compatibility Values 15:00 Defining Needs like "Being Religious" 20:00 Male and Female Psychology 25:00 Avoidance and Aggression in Relationship 28:00 What is Emotional Availability? 32:00 Open Communication 38:00 Acceptance and Accessibility 40:00 Cultural Psychology 45:00 Communication skills + Text messaging 55:00 Conflict Resolution Connect with Karim Serageldin Get 1 on 1 Consulting noor-scheduling.as.me/Karim Support this Podcast www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Websites www.noorhumanconsulting.com coffeewithkarim.com/ ---------------------------------------- Enjoy Noaman Farooq project at Ibn Salim YouTube channel. / @nf.podcast Instagram @noaman.farooq10 _______________________________ Connect with Mindful Muslimah website www.mindful-muslimah.com Instagram handle @mindfulmuslimah

It breaks my heart to see any group of people oppressed and killed. Human lives are all equal and it is sad to watch the news these days around the Israel war on Hamas. At the same time many people including Jewish communities have united upon universal principles and values for a better humanity. I pray both sides can attain peace with the support of the world.

Hamzah Henshaw is a Muslim Pilgrim who accepted Islam at a young age. He is an educator, writer and helps students get into college with 5 before College Project. https://fivebeforecollege.com/

Noaman joins me to discuss this serious topic of suicide. We share our personal journeys, process recent news in Texas with Muslim community and ways to improve well being. Get 1 on 1 Consulting noor-scheduling.as.me/Karim Support this Podcast www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Websites www.noorhumanconsulting.com coffeewithkarim.com/ -------------------- Enjoy Noaman Farooq project at Ibn Salim YouTube channel. youtube.com/channel/UCQ8nJqA6a6aaHV7r_RYij0A Instagram @noaman.farooq10

In this intro series, you will earn about the art of self-regulation – the practice of managing our emotions, thoughts, and behaviors to foster a sense of balance and well-being. What are the signs of dysregulation and what can you do to reduce damaging outbursts. -------------------- Get 1 on 1 Consulting noor-scheduling.as.me/Karim Support this Podcast www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Websites www.noorhumanconsulting.com coffeewithkarim.com/

In this intro series, you will earn about the art of self-regulation – the practice of managing our emotions, thoughts, and behaviors to foster a sense of balance and well-being. We begin with the the first step of mindfulness of thoughts and body and how this relates to personal triggers. -------------------- Get 1 on 1 Consulting noor-scheduling.as.me/Karim Support this Podcast www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Websites www.noorhumanconsulting.com coffeewithkarim.com/

In this episode, we'll explore the profound wisdom of accepting the inevitabilities that shape our existence: the passage of time, the uncertainties of our plans, and the ultimate reality of mortality. Discover how embracing these truths can lead us towards a path of authenticity, personal growth, and maturity. -------------------- Get 1 on 1 Consulting noor-scheduling.as.me/Karim Support this Podcast www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Websites www.noorhumanconsulting.com coffeewithkarim.com/

We asked some men "what they want in future spouse?" -------------------- Get 1 on 1 Consulting noor-scheduling.as.me/Karim Support this Podcast www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Websites www.noorhumanconsulting.com coffeewithkarim.com/ -------------------- Enjoy Noaman Farooq project at Ibn Salim YouTube channel. youtube.com/channel/UCQ8nJqA6a6aaHV7r_RYij0A Instagram @noaman.farooq10

Wisdom, gratitude and tips for a better year this 2023! -------------------- Get 1 on 1 Consulting https://noor-scheduling.as.me/Karim Support this Podcast www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Websites www.noorhumanconsulting.com https://coffeewithkarim.com/ -------------------- Enjoy Noaman Farooq project at Ibn Salim YouTube channel. youtube.com/channel/UCQ8nJqA6a6aaHV7r_RYij0A Instagram @noaman.farooq10

Analyzing Andrew Tate with Karim Serageldin and Noaman Farooq. Andrew Tate was recently detained in Romania for alleged crimes, we discuss the biggest voice in the manosphere. -------------------- Get 1 on 1 Consulting noor-scheduling.as.me/Karim Support this Podcast www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Websites www.noorhumanconsulting.com coffeewithkarim.com/ -------------------- Enjoy Noaman Farooq project at Ibn Salim YouTube channel. youtube.com/channel/UCQ8nJqA6a6aaHV7r_RYij0A Instagram @noaman.farooq10

My 6 year old asks me questions about anything and I answer him. God is not like sharks.

Noaman Farooq and Karim Serageldin discuss celebs from the manosphere such as Jordan Peterson and Andrew Tate. What are struggles of young men today and how is the manosphere impacting thought around masculinity, family life, purpose and identity. Enjoy Noaman's project at Ibn Salim YouTube channel. youtube.com/channel/UCQ8nJqA6a6aaHV7r_RYij0A Support this podcast at Patreon www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim

Trying to get married today. Courtships, dating, arranged marriages. Social applications-pros and cons. What do we need to be aware of? Interview with Noaman Farooq. Enjoy Noaman's project at Ibn Salim YouTube channel. youtube.com/channel/UCQ8nJqA6a6aaHV7r_RYij0A

Trying to get married today. Courtships, dating, arranged marriages. Social applications-pros and cons. What do we need to be aware of? Interview with Noaman Farooq. Enjoy Noaman's project at Ibn Salim YouTube channel. youtube.com/channel/UCQ8nJqA6a6aaHV7r_RYij0A Support this podcast at Patreon www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim

1- Social -sexual conditions of American Muslims. 2- Dunya aint designed for that! 3- Why humans are perfectly imperfect. 4 - Tips for negative thinking and recovery. Interview with Noaman Farooq. Enjoy Noaman's project at Ibn Salim YouTube channel. youtube.com/channel/UCQ8nJqA6a6aaHV7r_RYij0A Support this podcast at Patreon www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim

1-Addiction in pornography focus. 2- The challenge of porn and technology . 3- Human nature and environmental conditions. 4. Sexual and social developmental. 5. Quantities and qualitative data. Interview with Noaman Farooq. Enjoy Noaman's project at Ibn Salim YouTube channel. https://youtube.com/channel/UCQ8nJqA6a6aaHV7r_RYij0A

What are enmeshed families like? How codependency stunts healthy individual and relationship success.

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Exploring the landscape of becoming man in familiar tradition and the gender tides of today. Some men feel left behind in the current society which has undermined the basis of sexuality, gender, masculine and feminine realities. Is there one way to be a man? Mr. Jordan Kohout joins me for 2 part conversation. Support CWK www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Connect with Jordan @renewing-rujula www.instagram.com/renewing.rujula/

Some men feel left behind in the current society which has undermined the basis of sexuality, gender, masculine and feminine realities. Is there one way to be a man? Mr. Jordan Kohout join me for 2 part conversation. Support CWK https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Connect with Jordan https://soundcloud.com/renewing-rujula https://www.instagram.com/renewing.rujula/

part 2 Author of Secrets of Divine Love: A Spiritual Journey into the Heart of Islam Review Book https://www.amazon.com/Secrets-Divine-Love-Spiritual-Journey/dp/1734231203 Join us for a series of wonderful conversations on: Search for meaning and the true self. How many purposes do we have? Long distance relationships. Essence and form. Spirit and law. Principle and practice. Humility leads to love and wisdom. Intimacy and spirituality are intertwined.

Author of Secrets of Divine Love: A Spiritual Journey into the Heart of Islam Review Book https://www.amazon.com/Secrets-Divine-Love-Spiritual-Journey/dp/1734231203 Join us for a series of wonderful conversations on: Search for meaning and the true self. How many purposes do we have? Long distance relationships. Essence and form. Spirit and law. Principle and practice. Intimacy and spirituality are intertwined.

Scrupulosity in religion. Intimacy and sexuality impact by psychology and theology. Obsessive compulsive behaviors and perfectionism. How perception of the DIvine shapes our spiritual potential.

Men, sexuality, spirituality. Reflections on Muslim men with same sex attraction cases. Existential becoming of masculinity and faith in the Divine. https://www.reintegrativetherapy.com/ Group Support with Michael G https://discord.com/invite/7FZMfWb

https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Levels of attack from the dark jinn. How jinn reality is intimately tied to your personal projections. Animal and mammal triggers. Emotional and irrational ego schemes. Deception, fear, anger, fixation, delusion.

The Death clock ticker. What is a waste of time? 7 day time challenge. Laws of growth, consistency and discipline. Self-criticism versus self accountability. Learn with Me https://www.noorhumanconsulting.com/learn PODCAST Membership - give and support https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim

Part 2 includes macro-cultural jinn manifestations; the Unseen realm, witchcraft/magic, occult, Quran power and how war could be a current jinn tactic. Support Podcast https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Join Live classes https://www.noorhumanconsulting.com/

I share my feelings about recent social tensions in France and the Muslim community regarding Charlie Hebdo controversy. After Break (24 min) Segment: Visualize the prophet as though you see him through the accounts of his community. One of his signs of prophecy was his actual physical beauty, powerful glow and exalted manners. Support this podcast https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Noor Human Consulting https://www.noorhumanconsulting.com/

7 Benefits of homeschooling. Why learning at home might be a better choice for some families and how it works. Sponsr this podcast https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Work with Noor HC https://www.noorhumanconsulting.com/ Photo by Gaelle Marcel on Unsplash

How youth to make an impact within our community using social media and fostering social change. *Image created by Catherine Cordasco. Submitted for United Nations Global Call Out To Creatives - help stop the spread of COVID-19. Support this podcast https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Learn more about IMPACT https://sites.google.com/view/impactglobally/meet-the-team?authuser=0

What are they? What do we know about them? Are they only fiery legends of the past and folklore? Have the evil jinn always been aiming to destroy humanity? Perhaps the evil forces are using more innovative ways to do that today? Support this podcast https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Work with Noor HC for spiritual psychology and relationship growth. https://www.noorhumanconsulting.com/

The harm of living in denial. What are defense mechanisms and the proper meaning of your shahadah. Sponsor the podcast https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim

Jibreel Salaam & Mohamed Hassan of the Young and Muslim podcast explore common challenges of growing up Muslim in America. We explore sexual relations, partying and spirituality and religion as we ever evolve into better versions of ourselves. Contact https://www.instagram.com/youngnmuslim/ Support this podcast https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim

Heavy-hearted reflections in this strange yet familiar time. Calling out racism in my community of America and Muslims. Support this podcast. https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim

Our rich discussion continues. Signs of narcissism in marriage, people and society. Advice and reflections from the Quran and when boundaries are needed and when being hush hush is a crime.

What is unity? Valerie Payne, a therapist, and podcaster explores topics on faith, identity, and unity with Karim Serageldin who shares his own experiences growing up as a Muslim in the United States of America. Support CWK https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Tune in to Finding Unity podcast by Valerie Payne https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-unity/id1498082517

Defining a narcissist. What are the signs? Examining modern psychology and the wisdom of the Quran regarding this dangerous state of the self. 1- Defining the condition and its signs. 2- How narcissists destroy lives and crush the truth. 3- Pharaoh the archetype; flying monkeys and scapegoats 4- Iblis and the poverty illusion, envy and fear. Support this podcast. https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Work with Karim at Noor HC noorhuman.com

What do we know and not know about the coronavirus? Should we freak out or not? What should we know and what can we do in these ambiguous and concerning times? Dr. Zeeshan Tayeb shares his insights and more. Visit this website to get vitamins and supplements to help. https://www.landrcenter.com/products-1 https://www.paincincinnati.com/nutritional-services

Reflections and feedback on harmful beliefs about the Divine that can systematically sabotage your growth and ability to make healthy meaning of life. Work with us at Noor https://www.noorhumanconsulting.com/ Support the podcast https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Intro - 20 min Everything is a sign! All or Nothing. Business deals. PRT 2 (20 min -end) Mind Reading. Anthropomorphism Personification of Islam

Insights, stories, and tips to become a couple for paradise. How to improve your premarital and marital experience. Learn more about how love is an action. Support his podcast today! https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Work with Megan at Wives of Jannah https://wivesofjannah.com/ Work with Karim and Noor team. https://www.noorhumanconsulting.com/

New Year 2020 special episode to improve sincerity with the Divine Reality. Work with Karim and his team https://www.noorhumanconsulting.com/ Support this podcast https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim

Relationship with the Quran and how the Quran helps our relationships. Dr. Celene Ibrahim shares about her journey to Islam and more about treasures and tips to get more out of this book of Divine Text Messages! https://www.celeneibrahim.org/about Support this Podcast https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim

How can evil exist in the Most Merciful's world? If we have trust and certainty in the Divine Wisdom, how do we make meaning of evil for the purpose of good? Tune in now for more topics on atheism, existentialism and gratitude. Hamza Andreas Tzortzis -Purchase the Divine Reality https://www.hamzatzortzis.com/ -Free Islamic Education https://iera.org/ Support his Podcast https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim

A story about patience, race and expanding minds and hearts plus she makes some of the best Knafeh out there. Listen to Fatima's story of love and entrepreneurship. https://www.knafehqueens.com/ Keep this podcast brewing at Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim

Key concepts and daily tools to help you overcome anxiety and stress. Learn about different coping strategies and how the human condition tends to transfer energy in healthy and unhealthy ways. Dr. Azadeh Weber has a doctorate in clinical psychology and is a provider at Noor Human Consulting. Join Noor Today https://www.noorhumanconsulting.com/ Support this Podcast https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim

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My spouse has a sex addiction! We discuss the journey of pornography amongst spouses. What addicts should do and what spouses supporting addicts should do and what both need to know. Zeyad Ramadan is the founder of Purify Your Gaze which is dedicated to helping Muslims privately and safely recover from unwanted sexual behaviors. Live free from unwanted sexual behaviors today! >> SIGN UP NOW https://purifyyourgaze.com/ ___________________ Support this Podcast https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim

What is spiritual bypassing? How does it impact our psychology and religious practice? Dr. Azadeh Weber, a provider at Noor Human Consulting, joins me discuss examples and tips for self-awareness and personal development. Need Personal Support? https://www.noorhumanconsulting.com/ Support this podcast today! https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim

A promise from 10 years ago reunites me with a former student Chafik Ziadeh. Chafik works in education today and we discuss Muslim youth in America, finding purpose and a healthy identity through all the growing pains. Music https://coffeewithkarim.com/music Support this Podcast https://www.patreon.com/coffeewithkarim Get personal, spiritual and relationship support! https://www.noorhuman.com