In Other Words

Listen to this new episode where Danielle and Zara have an honest conversation about the presence of children in media. We discuss the legalities around child labour, the horrendous lengths parents will go to for attention, and assess who has access to child-content. It's a scary world and kids deserve privacy and protection - especially from their caregivers.

Calling all our DAY ONE listeners! In this special episode, requested by a listener, Danielle & Zara quiz each other on their own podcast - all the things relating to In Other Words. We chat about our cover art, struggle through some tough questions, Zara's favourite object, and much more. Do we really mean what we say? Do we remember all the things we've said over the past 5 seasons? We're put to the test.

This was coming eventually… Danielle and Zara have a long and informal conversation about the role of Christian women in the church, in marriage, and life in general. Looking at the contentious scriptures and breaking them down in a digestible way, we hope this discussion is helpful. We talk about Eve (who screwed us over), the importance of women in the early church, and our Proverbs 31 Husband.

WE'RE BACK! Danielle & Zara kick off season 5 of In Other Words with a personal Q&A. A lot has changed since season 1 and we thought it was time for us to give you a glimpse into who we are. We share our thoughts on ‘the one', exciting things still to come this year, identifying as LGBTQ+ while also being Christian, and of course, our standard virgins who talk about sex segment. We love you!

Warning: episode contains “heresy”. As Christians ourselves, we are allowed to poke fun of all the things only Christians say. In our Season 4 finale, Danielle and Zara share their thoughts on common Christian phrases that could use some adjusting or completely ditching. God bless you as you listen to this episode. For more: https://linktr.ee/inotherwordspod Music: Your Brain On https://www.instagram.com/ybo_band/ Production: https://www.instagram.com/graphik.studios/

Never count calories. In this episode we take a hard look at the topic of eating disorders. We are joined by Kaitlin Solomon who shares her struggle with Anorexia Nervosa. She discusses her personal journey, types of eating disorders, the warning signs, causes, and how we can support those struggling. Please reach out if you are struggling! “(This) sickness will not end in death. No, it happened for the glory of God so that the Son of God will receive glory from this.” - ‭‭John‬ ‭11‬:‭4

It's a love story, baby just say yes. In this episode Danielle & Zara embrace all the love and share the stories of listeners and their significant others. Finding someone to talk to, choose-your-own-adventure dates, and late slip duty all serve as the pillars of love (in this episode at least). And of course, we have to end with the story of Danielle & Devan who have since gotten engaged! We love love and we love you. Happy listening… For more: https://linktr.ee/inotherwordspod Music: Your Brain On https://www.instagram.com/ybo_band/ Production: https://www.instagram.com/graphik.studios/

We're very much in 2023 at this point, but that doesn't mean that last year was meaningless. In this episode, Danielle and Zara take a look back at 2022 and share the 22 lessons they learned. Being a good steward, making connections, and doing hard things are some of the topics we touch on. It wasn't the easiest year, but it brought much growth. Danielle got LinkedIn; Zara learned that proper tarred roads are a real blessing not to be taken for granted. We're learning, and we hope we inspire you to do the same. 0:00 - Introduction 04:58 - Just go for it 06:50 - Long distance can actually work 10:05 - Consistency is always key 11:34 - Obedience brings peace 13:08 - You need to own your decisions 14:41 - How to manage money 19:23 - Social media shouldn't be taken seriously 21:10 - I can and I must make decisions 24:00 - You can't control other people's actions 25:23 - Put yourself out there 26:33 - Connections are everything 28:23 - Teenagers are flaky 29:55 - Intentional rest is so important 32:28 - Things in Cape Town work 35:05 - I need to find time to do things enjoy 36:28 - God's calendar looks different to mine 39:15 - Hard things aren't necessarily bad 40:51 - Life can and should be average 43:13 - Exercise is so important 46:45 - Be faithful with what I have 47:46 - What mental breakdowns tell us 50:48 - I need hugs 52:10 - Outro

It's random Q&A time! In this episode, Danielle & Zara answer questions anonymously sent in by their listeners. We chat about accepting social invites, establishing physical boundaries in romantic relationships, and discovering the root of our self-esteem issues. Do we have hope for South Africa? What's the best advice we've ever been given? And of course, we can't have a Q&A without a segment from the virgins who talk about sex… so listen to find out why it's good to have sex FOR your nose, but not WITH your nose…

Your favourite podcast is back after an unplanned hiatus. In this episode, Danielle and Zara discuss the books they read in 2022. From the controversial (Where the Crawdads Sing), the mystery (Caught), the emotional (A Thousand Splendid Suns), the non-fiction (Becoming), the Christian (Knowing God), the classic (Little Women), the weird (The Secret History), and everything in between.  Hear our thoughts on Beth Moore, Arthur Golden, and many more.  If you're a bookworm, consider this your ultimate book-recommendation hub. If you're not on the same page and hate reading, be better. Hopefully this episode will inspire you.  Leaders are readers. And In Other Words Podcast Listeners are the leaders of the leaders who are readers.  Enjoy. And leave us your book suggestions. Also, feel free to leave us a review on whatever streaming platforms you use.

Danielle's kids won't see a rhinoceros?! In this episode, Zara & Danielle chat about the fears they have with regards to all things motherhood. Despite the common narrative that all women's God-given role is to have children, we do have some thoughts…and concerns. Body changes, resentful kids, breastfeeding - we get real about it all. (Oh, and we discuss the 44 people Charlize spoke about…)

Despite Zara's interesting demonstration of the piano's sustain pedal… Sustainability is a multi-faceted and sometimes daunting topic. In this episode, Danielle and Zara attempt to make it accessible for us all, since it affects every human being.  What is sustainability? Why is it important? What are some of the nuances? Are there harmful ideas surrounding sustainability?  And most importantly… HOW CAN THE AVERAGE PERSON LIVE MORE SUSTAINABLY?  We are all consumers and can all be more sustainable. We discuss the agricultural sector's role in emissions, the importance of consuming things in season and so much more. For more, click here.

In this episode, Danielle & Zara are joined by special guest musician, Shaun Labuschagne - a self-proclaimed music expert. Thank You for the Music… we review songs submitted by our wonderful listeners (find links below). We give our OPINIONS on a variety of songs. Some were a vibe, others were… not. We talk about chord progressions, reveal our lack of understanding Korean, our distaste of pop, and other “musicy” stuff. Listen to our take on songs featured by Queen, Etta James, the Foo Fighters, and tons of different artists from varying genres. Check out the playlist: Apple Music Spotify YouTube For more, click here.

Life can be scary sometimes. And so can In Other Words… In this episode, Danielle and Zara share scary stories from listeners about the spooky, the criminal, the medical, and all things terrifying. Some things you'll learn: - Eskom is (almost always) the antagonist. - Avoid Hout Bay? - If you don't share this episode with 10 people, very bad things will happen… Listen and beware... Check out our links here.

Why do we love serial killers? Why are we, as humans, drawn to the unthinkable? Is true crime an aid to help us avoid the worst? In this episode, Danielle & Zara review the evidence and discuss the “true crime” genre, the fear it evokes, the glorification of evil people, and lots more. P.S. We apologise for any clicking sounds! Recording remotely has its challenges. True Crime Recommendations: Don't F**k with Cats The Trials of Gabriel Fernandez American Murder: The Family Next Door Mommy Dead and Dearest The Son Does Shine When They See Us Dirty John: Betty Broderick Story Unbelievable Extremely Wicked, Shockingly Evil, and Vile Under the Banner of Heaven Keep Sweet, Pray and Obey For more: https://linktr.ee/inotherwordspod

Stereotypes. We hear them. Sometimes we even believe them. Sometimes they're low-key true. Are religious people judgemental? Do real men cry? Do female breadwinners emasculate their male spouse? Danielle and Zara discuss what the audience believes, their thoughts, and some fun history on all kinds of stereotypes.

Danielle and Zara chat all about friendship in this episode packed with all kinds of stories & advice. Some friendships will last a lifetime, while others won't. Some people like serving; Danielle does not. Some people solve conflict through talking, and others need time and space. Join us as we chat through friendship types, seasons, and expressions.

In this episode, Danielle & Zara are joined by Christel Rohrs Viero as she shares her journey of growing up in a conservative church, marrying an unkind man, and eventually finding freedom. Trigger warning, since this episode discusses many topics related to abuse. We discuss the warning signs one can sometimes miss, being forced into sex tapes, and the differences between advice & control. If ANYONE is dealing with any form of physical, emotional, financial, verbal, or spiritual abuse please feel free to reach out to us and we will get you connected to Christel.

WE'RE BACK. Season 4 of In Other Words kicks off with a comprehensive update on the lives of Danielle & Zara. Zara shares the story of knocking a little boy over with her car, and Danielle chats about the weight of a Master's thesis, and how amidst the doubt, anxiety, and exhaustion of the past few months we have managed to find joy. Our hope for this episode is that our listeners would feel seen, and know that you're not alone in so much of what you're going through. Welcome back, friends!

A perfect way to end season 3 of In Other Words! Danielle & Zara discuss all things relating to the female body… the pill, pubic hair, PCOS, panties, pain, pregnancy prevention, progesterone, pelvic floor, so… ALL THE THINGS.  And yes, of course we have to end the season as “virgins who talk about sex” haha.  Please remember - we are not health care professionals. *if you haven't spoken to your kids about the birds and the bees… maybe listen to this with headphones

*Apologies for the echoey sound* This episode takes a more serious tone, as Danielle & Zara discuss the topic of Human Trafficking.  With special guest, Christel, we discuss the most likely targets for traffickers, how to spot trafficking fronts, interacting with pimps, and loads more. We hope that her experiences shed light on important things we ought to know about the devastating and dark things taking place both overseas and under our noses. *Listener discretion is advised. RSA Human Trafficking Hotline: 0800222777 Youtube Channel Instagram: @inotherwords_podcast

The world of customer service is filled with absurdity, humour, and all the things. Danielle and Zara share stories about life in retail. Inappropriate flirting, middle-aged males who love “romance”, and foot cream scrubs… This episode also features two special excerpts from friends (Krissi & Aleasha). This episode is definitely one worth buying into. Instagram: @inotherwords_podcast Youtube Channel

Our final episode of That's a Red Flag is definitely not one you want to miss.  Danielle and Zara both have jobs and go to church - so we're not playing around discussing these warning signs ;)  High turnover, hypocrisy, and surface-level fellowship are just some of the things you might want to avoid. (Please note this episode is a green flag). Instagram: @inotherwords_podcast YouTube Channel

RED FLAGS Part 2 is all about the questionable things that celebrities & politicians do that should raise some concerns. Tone deaf renditions of “Imagine”, countless claims of sexual harassment, and Putin are just some of the red flags we need to see before professing support for a public figure. Don't sleep on this episode. Instagram: @inotherwords_podcast YouTube

Sometimes we like to see how red the flags can get… hence a 3-part series - starting with warning signs in relationships and friendships. Danielle and Zara talk all about compromise, “crazy” exes, and inconsistency. Are we the drama? I don't think we're the drama. But we might be since we have so many red flags to point out. Don't miss this!

You know those things you're too afraid to ask anyone? The things you have to Google in incognito-mode… the ones that are generally fairly TMI. Well, good thing we're here to give you the answers - and we didn't hold back.  Morning wood? Sex before marriage? The pill?  After this episode, you'll see why we're considering changing our podcast name to “virgins who talk about sex” haha.  Enjoy. Viewer discretion is advised.

There is so much content online right now. It's actually overwhelming trying to sort through pointless content to find genuine insight & entertainment. Lucky for you, in this episode of your favourite podcast, Danielle & Zara reveal their favourite APPS, INSTAGRAM PAGES, YOUTUBE CHANNELS, PODCASTS, AND TIK TOK CONTENT. What's the best navigation app? Which influencers are actually worth following? Where do I find good music? Give this episode a listen and don't forget to rate, subscribe, like, comment and do all the things.

Danielle & Zara are about to SPILL. THE. TEA. In this episode we're sharing both personal and listener stories about our experience with gossip and rumours. Purity rings, self-defence, and the “we need to pray” free gossip pass. We're breaking it down and calling BS out. (Viewer discretion is advised)

Danielle amd Zara live in South Africa - a country known for its extreme inequality and prejudice. Yes, we are talking about RACISM. We address the topic from a petty, as well as a grand standpoint. In other words, we talk about standards of beauty, poor education, oppression, and other racial issues still rife today. We don't have all the answers, but we hope this episode sparks conversations for necessary change.

Rejection. In this episode, Danielle & Zara tackle this subject from their own personal experiences. Rejection can lead to so many other issues, like co-dependency, labelling ourselves as unworthy, and conflict. We talk about it all. You can't deny that the post you saw about your friends hanging out without you didn't make you feel at least a little rejected. So, don't miss this one (we'll feel rejected if you do).

We're back!! In this season 3 premiere, Danielle and Zara are offering their advice to all questions Christian & faith-centered. We talk about finding the balance between honouring your parents while prioritising your own well-being. We got a ton of questions about quiet times - and yes, we struggle too so we're offering our best advice. We hope our advice is beneficial. Jesus loves you.

Life can actually be pretty wonderful. Who knew? In the SEASON FINALE of season 2, Danielle and Zara discuss the best things that have ever happened to them and their listeners. Don't miss drivers' test stories, orange hearts, and all the ebbs and flows. After the accident, my life got crazier than ever before…

Yes, Christian teachings can get very dodgy. Luckily, Danielle & Zara have brought in a special guest to break these teachings down and help us better understand and correct them. In this episode we chat about balancing certain truths, answering listener questions, and colonial missionary work, etc. Get ready for some prosperity slamming, SPCA-calling, and a HUGE announcement.

Since we did an episode on trends we don't particularly like, we decided to quit the complaining and talk about some of the trends we love. Yes, it turns out we're mainstream after all. The cult that is the office fandom, streaming services, and the focus on human dignity are all mentioned in this episode. You're about to get an inside glimpse into how “undeep” we are, and some divine revelation.

Life is so freaking scary. Buckle up as Danielle & Zara share their experience of a quarter life crisis. We reveal the biggest fears facing our generation - the difficultly of living ethically, the struggle of rejection, unemployment, and so much more. Are we doomed? Listen to this episode to find out.

Okay, GUYS. Danielle & Zara are giving you the inside scoop on everything you've wanted to know about women. In this episode, we are joined by our producer/D's man/the male representative of In Other Words. Devan asks us why the guy has to message first, ladies' thoughts on “gym guys”, and going to the bathroom together. We also chat about the so-called “nice guy” trope, and tons more.

It's the 21st century - where changing the world has been reduced to posting an aesthetically pleasing Instagram infographic. In this episode Danielle and Zara talk about the harm in posting about things without giving it more thought or action. We don't know everything and we weren't all called to be “activists”. Our conversations matter and so do the little things.

With local elections around the corner, Danielle and Zara welcome guest, Luke Albert, to discuss the current political situation in South Africa. We touch on the content of our main parties' manifestos, how democracy works here, and where we're headed. Cape exit? Political prostitution? Who to vote for? We hope you enjoy this brief conversation and that it gives you the understanding and peace of mind you're looking for. 02:47 - What does the South African government structure look like? 08:23 - What is the difference between national and local elections? 11:35 - What can we expect from the elections and voting day? 14:10 - How do we choose who to vote for? 16:55 - ANC 26:01 - EFF 35:46 - DA 43:49 - Cape Independence Party 49:30 - ActionSA 52:17 - ACDP 55:24 - GOOD 58:43 - Freedom Front

It's time to get to the bottom of some sketchy stuff. In this episode, Danielle and Zara tackle some of the widest spread conspiracy theories. Is the earth flat? From Diana's death to the disappearance of Madeleine McCann, we give our thoughts about the absurdity and plausibility of your theories. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inotherwords_podcast/

Henry Ward Beecher once said “gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul”. In this episode, Danielle & Zara spend time reflecting on all the blessings life brings and how often we fail to appreciate the little things. We discuss the value of low maintenance friends, water, Cape Town, and so much more. As you listen, make your own list of things for which you are thankful.

In this episode, Danielle and Zara are sharing your embarrassing stories. Don't worry, we're exposing ourselves too. Golden Circle drama, flashing my crush, ripped pants, make outs gone wrong, and so much more. Prepare for some major feelings of second-hand embarrassment.

What is the paradox of tolerance? Why are the so-called tolerant so intolerant? In this episode, Danielle & Zara unpack this philosophy in an attempt to better understand people's way of thinking. How do you respond to racist family members? What are the benefits of commenting when you're less bitter?We've been given free will & freedom of speech - now how do we best use this? Using examples of Nazi Germany, the Covid vaccine, etc. - we try to understand the topic of tolerance.

In this episode, Danielle & Zara respond to anonymous listeners' problems and offer their advice. Being transgender and Christian, using the enneagram, and dealing with a cheating partner are just some of the difficult challenges with which this episode deals. Listen along and feel free to reach out and offer any advice you may have regarding these topics.

What makes something a trend? Who even decides that? We may disagree about which trends we like or dislike, but we can all agree that some trends really make no sense. In this episode, Danielle and Zara chat about their least favourite trends in fashion, entertainment, and skincare. From kitten heels to the romanticisation of cheating - this episode is bound to be one of our trendiest yet.

Modesty Culture refers to ‘the mode of dress and deportment which intends to avoid the encouraging of sexual attraction in others.' Danielle & Zara discuss the importance of personal conviction, the blame often placed on women for men's lust, narratives seen in society, and much more. We strip the topic and unpack what true modesty should look like.

This episode is exciting - you get your voices heard. We love interacting, and in this episode we chat about the differing opinions and preferences of our listeners based on the Instagram Polls we did a few weeks ago. Curly or straight? City or countryside? Ross & Rachel, vaccines, astrology. Hear Danielle & Zara's opinions along with the wider audience.

We were on a break...but we're back! In this episode, In Other Words kicks off with its second season. Danielle & Zara update their listeners on what life has looked like over the past couple of months. Finding balance between working & relaxing, the state of South Africa, and so much more can be found in this first episode. We end it off with a fun game of Would You Rather and Most Likely. Thank you so much for your support; we are so thankful - D & Z.

The self-love movement has taken this generation by storm. Danielle & Zara break down its main mantras and get real about the need we have to apologise for everything, not living in the past, and how sunshine is a must. We hope you LOVE our season one finale.

Our friend, Clive Bowers, joins the episode to share his personal journey of porn addiction. This important episode discusses the precautions we need to take when it comes to what we expose ourselves to, the justifications people use to normalise pornography, ways to face temptation, and so much more.  Viewer discretion is advised.

We truly are our own worst critics. We base how well we're doing on how much we're struggling. In this episode Danielle & Zara get candid about doubting their Christianity, their abilities & skills. We all struggle with self-confidence at one point or another - tune in to hear our thoughts on how to combat those negative feelings.

Unfortunately for many, money makes the world go round. Our society has made us avid consumers. Danielle & Zara discuss the very materialistic ways we all act. Expensive gifts on Valentine's Day, having nice things, and the pull social media has on our need for more - we discuss it ALL.