Married On The Mic

Rick recently made the comment to Dana that "most wives do their husband's laundry." So do they? Why doesn't Dana do Rick's laundry anymore? She used to. How do you split up the household chores and other stuff that needs to get done? Does it matter who is home more often or who makes more money? What is the "mental load" and why do most women carry it? Do men even know what the "mental load" is? We also talk about the family meeting we had with Rocco and why Dana is having a hard time coming up with podcast ideas. Follow us on Instagram: https://https://www.instagram.com/marriedonthemic/ Like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marriedonthemic And please leave us a review!

We kick off Episode 49 with a review of the Garth Brooks concert we went to in Orlando over the weekend... One of us cried, and we both enjoyed the show. We're both a little skeptical about some of the "impromptu" moments with fans during the show though. Then we talk about our "emotional bank accounts" and how we seem to be taking too many withdrawals without making enough deposits. We welcome your comments, questions, and future topic suggestions. Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/marriedonthemic/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/marriedonthemic And please leave us a review!

In this episode we talk about the celebrity deaths that have hit us in the feels. Then we discuss I-to-I communication - Initiator to Inquirer. It's a process we have worked on with our marriage therapist for over a year. It involves learning how to bring up things that bother us without blaming or name-calling, and how to be an interested listener instead of rushing to defend ourselves or fight back. Thank you for listening!

If you've been listening to the podcast for a while, you'll remember a few years ago we did an episode and then deleted it less than 24 hours after it was released. This is that episode. We've been busy this week and didn't get a chance to record yet... Rick suggested we re-release the "lost" episode... It's about how to confront a friend. Rick tried to nicely confront a friend about a situation that he wasn't happy about, and it didn't go well. We ended up deleting the episode because it caused some drama... But now it's all in the past so here it is!

In this episode, we do a quick re-cap of Rick's "not a surprise" birthday party. We talk about the things we like to do as a couple and why we're worried about getting back into one of them. We also discuss some past issues we had in our Florida community and why we talked to our therapist about them before we moved back. We also talk about why it's important to not take things personally, both in your marriage and with other people. You can find us on Facebook and Instagram, and if you like the podcast, please leave us a review! https://instagram.com/marriedonthemic https://facebook.com/marriedonthemic

In this episode, Rick and Dana talk about some of their parenting differences and how they've solved these issues. Do you let your child quit an activity or sport if he's not happy? And do you let your kid get a toy every time you go to the store? They also talk about the Christmas gift Rick wasn't completely happy with and whether or not you should be totally honest when a gift isn't quite right. Then they recommend a few helpful books. Find Married on the Mic on Instagram and Facebook and be sure to leave us a review!

After over a year off, Rick and Dana are back with a new episode. They'll talk about why they moved back to Florida and what they argued over during the moving process. They also talk about the challenges of doing this podcast and why it's taken so long to get back to it... And finally, the surprise party that isn't happening.

In this episode, Rick and Dana talk more about "parts" and the therapist's method of helping people heal from past hurts and traumas. They talk about the example given in the book "You Are The One You've Been Waiting For" about a husband who was experiencing severe anger issues. Then Dana gives an example of how the therapist asked her to talk to her younger self and what that was like. The episode takes a nose-dive into another ridiculous argument over dinner and ice cream... and abruptly ends. Enjoy!

In this episode, Rick and Dana talk about the "repair" session they just had with their marriage counselor. After years of arguing and then just dropping the issues and going back to status quo, they finally had a conversation to make up and resolve a recent disagreement. They also talk more about the "You Are The One You've Been Waiting For" book and explain the 3 projects married couples enter into when their "parts" aren't healed. All three of these projects are inevitably fruitless and end up furthering resentment and hurt. They're so relatable that there's a good chance you've tried one if not all 3 of them. On a lighter note, they start the episode by explaining why Rick owes Dana a McFlurry and end with Rick talking about why he hasn't worn his wedding ring in a month. If you like the podcast, please share it and leave us a review! You can also find us at @marriedonthemic on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

In this episode, Rick and Dana get serious and talk about some more things they are learning in marriage counseling. Their therapist is using the IFS (Internal Family Systems) psychotherapy model to help them heal and understand what parts of themselves are getting in the way of having a fulfilling relationship. We all have triggers and past hurts, called parts, that we carry with us. When we communicate from those parts, we can lash out in anger, show aggression, or indulge in other unproductive and damaging behaviors. Listen as Rick and Dana talk about their parts and how they are learning to work on themselves and their relationship. Suggested reading: You Are the One You've Been Waiting for by Dr. Richard Swartz. Find Married on the Mic on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter at @marriedonthemic.

In this episode, Rick and Dana talk about how their marriage counselor analyzed a disagreement over Chick-fil-a sauce. They start the episode by explaining why the first attempt at recording went south... They also talk about podcasting pet peeves and a few more words Rick has a hard time pronouncing. Follow us on social media - look us up on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter at marriedonthemic and please be sure to leave us a 5-star review!

We're back after a long hiatus! During our last couple of episodes, we talked about how we had finally decided to go to marriage counseling. Well, we've done several therapy sessions - we almost got kicked out - and now we feel like we're on a good path. Listen as we talk about some job changes, life changes, and the ups and downs of marriage counseling so far. Make sure you leave us a review and follow us on social media - just search for Married on the Mic on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter!

In this episode, Rick and Dana talk about what to expect in marriage counseling. Dana found some lists of questions and activities that marriage counselors put together. They answer some of the questions and talk about whether or not the activities might work for them.

Rick and Dana had to delete the first version of Episode 38 because the subject matter offended a listener. We discuss why we chose to delete the episode and how sharing life on a podcast is a balancing act. We also get into a discussion about some high-profile married super-couples that put on a good show and ended up shocking fans when they announced their separations.

Rick and Dana are back from vacation and despite being extremely tired, decided to record and release an episode anyway. Rick starts off by telling Dana that people have some questions about things she revealed in the last episode, so she elaborates more on what happened that led her to have a change of heart about their marriage. They also talk about Dana's pre-vacation anxiety and share some highlights of their trip.

Well hello! It's been a long time... Our last episode was released nearly 9 months ago. We had to stop doing the podcast because we couldn't get through an episode without one of us dropping the mic and storming off. It wasn't working - much like our marriage. Things recently came to a breaking point... We were either going to stay together or separate. Listen to find out what happened.

In this episode, Rick and Dana talk about what happened when they went to "meet the teacher" at Rocco's school. Why did Rick want to check out the other classrooms? Then they discuss whether or not it's normal to "spy" on your spouse using your home security camera. Rick ended up unplugging it after he overheard Dana's phone conversation with a guy she knows. And at the end of the podcast, Rick gives Dana an early Christmas gift.

After a 2 month hiatus, Rick & Dana are back with a new season of Married on the Mic! So what's changed? No much... Rick is still snoring and Dana still doesn't have a full-time job. They explain why they took a hiatus, how their summer vacation went, Rick's bowling mishap, and how long has it been since they... um... well... you know...

Rick and Dana talk about why they had to take cold showers for 4 days. They also discuss Dana's adulting challenges and why Rick was irritated when he got home the other day to find the door wide open. Plus Rick had a surprise planned for Dana but he figured she wouldn't appreciate it anyway so he told her about it. All that and more in episode 33. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram at MarriedOnTheMic and make sure your leave us a review!

In this episode Rick and Dana talk about the last episode they recorded but can't release because it turned into a big fight. They also discuss whether or not you should tell someone if they have something gross on their pants... Rick tells a story of how it happened to him. Dana shares why she thinks she's feeling better lately and what she thinks about Rick's friend making a comment about her "fun bags" in a text. Plus work stress - how much should your spouse have to listen to? And the new show they're both into even though they can't seem to watch it together.

Rick returned from a trip to San Diego and went right to work without bothering to call or text Dana. He explains why he didn't think it was a big deal. Dana agreed to feed a friend's goats, pig, and chickens while they were on vacation and quickly realized she will never be a farmer. They also returned to the restaurant with the lackluster waiter discussed in the last episode and Rick wondered if he should say something to him... All this and more in Episode 31! Follow us on Facebook and Instagram at marriedonthemic and please share and leave a review!

In this episode, Rick and Dana talk about the #MySpouseIs challenge and whether or not it was successful in helping them appreciate each other more. Dana talks about why she is feeling good but overwhelmed and Rick wonders how he can support her in her new venture. Finally, is Rick a bad tipper?

Rick and Dana try to figure out which "type" of relationship they have based on a marriage counselor's list. They discuss the power struggle in their marriage and whether or not they are doing enough self-reflection. Dana also brings up a challenge she thinks they should do but Rick feels like she has an unfair advantage. Thank you for listening, please leave a review and find us on social media!

After a 3 week hiatus, Rick and Dana are back to explain why things got so heated they couldn't even get through recording an episode. Dana posted a picture of their son Rocco on social media... and Rick didn't want her too. He expressed his feelings but she left the photo up anyway. Listen as they discuss why he doesn't like the picture and why she had a hard time respecting his feelings. We also try to answer a listener question about the "man period" and give an update about Rick's football endeavors. If you like what you hear, please share and leave us a review!

Rick and Dana talk about their ongoing disagreement regarding whether or not Rick pays too much attention to what she likes/doesn't like on social media. They also discuss whether or not you need to ask your significant other before making a major change to your appearance. Rick's co-worker majorly spoiled "End Game" for him, so how mad should he be? Plus, is it OK that Dana doesn't ask Rick how his day was or how his football game went? Make sure you follow us at MarriedOnTheMic on Instagram and Facebook, share the podcast, and leave a review!

Rick and Dana are finally back! Why did they slack off on the podcast for a few weeks? They saved a disagreement about Rick's trip to the grocery store for this week's episode... Which led to a discussion about Team Work vs. Favors in a marriage. Dana confesses to being a "slouch" and struggling to find motivation to get off the couch. Rick went to a work training and got some positive reinforcement from co-workers... and a pleasant surprise from his loving wife.

Rick and Dana talk about whether or not married couples should always give each other their honest opinions. They discuss the concert they went to and how they deal with social anxiety. Rick wanted Dana to drive to the show so he could play Clash of Clans in the car, but she refused... Then he went off about what a pain she is when she's in the passenger seat. They also talk about Rickisms and the death of the high-pitched voice.

Rick and Dana talk about whether or not it's ok to have a crush on someone outside of marriage. How do you handle it? What if someone has a crush on one of you? Dana explains why she feels like Rick killed their "spark" a long time ago... Will it ever come back? Should men get credit for simply doing the basics of family life? Plus more bed hogging and the pictures to prove it.

Rick and Dana explain why they didn't end up doing a podcast last week. They also talk about how to motivate each other... Or rather, how not to nag each other. Dana spent real money on a virtual dinosaur and Rick launches his new "complaint of the week" feature. Dana gives an update on the new job and explains what happened when she tried to invite Rick to a concert. Rick reveals a surprising "friend suggestion" and why he was afraid to tell Dana about it sooner.

As Rick predicted in the last episode, our cleaning lady QUIT! Did Dana upset her, or did she want out anyway? Rick talks about his birthday... And then we discuss Dana's "guy friends" and whether or not Rick was justified in thinking some of them shouldn't be in her life anymore.

Dana apologizes to Rick for not picking him up at the airport. He thinks it's the only time she's ever apologized to him! Rick thinks he does at least 50% of the house work but Dana disagrees - and she has a study to back it up. Rick thinks teasing is a fun part of a relationship, but Dana doesn't like being made fun of. Plus, Rick's friend wants to share pictures of his wife's boob job with his friends... Is this OK? Finally, Rick and Dana were reviewed by another podcaster, listen to what he had to say about "Married on the Mic"!

Rick flew back from Florida and Dana didn't pick him up from the airport. He had to take the subway home and he was not happy about it. Should she have picked him up? You'll have to hear the whole story before forming an opinion! Rick also recaps his exciting week back home... How he gained 5lbs, got a massage from a dude, and ran into someone he thought was dead!

Check out the new intro! Dana & Rick talk about who hogs the bed, who snores, and whether or not it would be cool for Rick to see a professional cuddler. Plus Dana saw a post in a mom group about asking babysitters to do laundry and other chores too... Is this ok?

Rick stayed out all night and didn't call or text Dana! Is this ever OK? Valentine's Day - a useless holiday or worth celebrating? Plus an update on how the first week as gym members went and is Dana ever going to get a job?

Rick & Dana had a good time watching the Super Bowl party with some Patriots fans. Dana defends Adam Levine's Half Time Show performance. Rocco talks about his new watch and the new How To Train Your Dragon movie. Plus, will Rick get a mani-pedi and should he be giving unsolicited parenting advice?

Rick and Dana discuss their second double date with another couple. Dana gives her expert opinion on the new Most Stuf Oreos after Rick surprised her with a package of them. Rick voices his frustration because Dana refused to meet him at work to help with something. Dana gets candid about how she's really feeling about being unemployed.

Now that their 6-year-old son Rocco is learning how to play lacrosse, Rick & Dana try to determine which type of "sports parents" they will become. Will Dana be the "Chatty Kathy" or the "Bobby Knight" on the sidelines? Will Rick end up being "that guy" on the field? Which type of sports parent are you?

Would you confront your neighbor if you saw him shoveling snow into your yard? Rick said something... But Dana didn't want him to. Following up from last week's episode, we picked a sport for Rocco to start playing.

Rick and Dana talk about whether or not it's cool to pee with the door open and fart in front of each other. Rick wants Rocco to play a certain sport, and Dana doesn't... Plus a few movie reviews and New Year's Resolution updates.

Rick & Dana discuss what they got for Christmas and their New Year's resolutions for each other... and Rocco wants to know, "what does mommy do all day?"

Rick and Dana are back! It's fall and that means Dana is now a "football widow" for the season. They also talk about the kids going back to school, Dana's birthday, and which podcast you should really be listening to if you want some solid marriage advice.

Rick & Dana discuss the inappropriate text one of them received from a friend of the opposite sex. Should this person be unfriended? Rick is tired of being nap-shamed. Dana issues a correction about last week's toilet paper discussion. They also discuss whether or not men who do the dishes really do have more sex. Follow us on Instagram and Facebook at marriedonthemic. SUBSCRIBE on Apple Podcasts or Google Play and please leave a review!

In Episode 9, Rick and Dana talk about some co-parenting and step-parenting struggles and how seeing a family therapist has helped. They also introduce their first "He Said, She Said" segment - a toilet paper tiff. To fold or clump? Should the roll go over or under? Should little boys be allowed to pee outside? What about girls? If you have an idea for "He Said, She Said" reach out to Rick or Dana on Facebook or Instagram. Subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Google Play and please leave a review! Thank you for listening.

In this episode, Rick and Dana talk about 15 common marriage arguments, what they mean, and how to resolve them. They also talk about some of the feedback they've received and whether or not they'll continue doing the podcast. Rick also shares some more about the bachelor party weekend and Dana's theory about the strip club he went to.

Rick just returned from a bachelor party weekend so he and Dana discuss boundaries when it comes to behavior at bachelor/bachelorette parties. They also review the Justin Timberlake concert and talk about whether or not Dana should always invite Rick first when she gets tickets to a show. Finally, how often should couples with kids go out on date nights? Does going out more often correlate to marriage longevity? The answer might surprise you!

Rick and Dana read the emails they sent to each other when she asked him out for the first time. Then they ask each other questions about their best times together and what they each want out of their marriage in the future. Please leave a review and share with friends if you're enjoying this podcast!

Rick & Dana tell the story of how they met and fell in love. Then they discuss why Rick's feeling were hurt on his birthday and whether or not they should go to marriage counseling. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts or Google Play and don't forget to leave us a review! We're also on Facebook at Married On The Mic or on Instagram @marriedonthemic. Thanks for listening!

Rick & Dana discuss 9 things happy couples talk about and things they think should be left unsaid. Rick reveals he's been wanting to talk to Dana about something she had no idea about, and she confessed there's something about her past she wishes he didn't know. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts or Google Play.

Rick & Dana talk about how too much screen time affects their family and relationships. Find out what experts are saying about the effects of tablet use on kids' brains and how it interferes with their development.

Rick & Dana discuss why women say their husbands stress them out more than the kids. They also explain why Rick thought he shouldn't have to clean the towels and why he's agreed to do them from now on.

In this debut Valentine's Day episode, Rick and Dana discuss gift-giving in their relationship. They also took the Love Language test and revealed their results to each other.