The Desi Reality

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Today, we have @sweetathansugar joining us AGAIN after a year! Time truly flies by.

Hey, guys! On today's episode, we have Dr. Anjali Ferguson joining us to talk about her children's book and experience as a South Asian female psychologist. Dr. Ferguson is a culturally-responsive clinical psychologist, speaker, and global resource on racial and social equity trauma. Both her and her husband wrote a book called The Ordinary Day, a family conversation starter about racism, colorism, and more. (There are even prompts on how to start this conversation!) Join the conversation and find free resources for children and families like her landmark Blindian (Black + Indian) findings in her research-informed, inclusive online community, Parenting Culture. To learn how you can benefit from Dr. Ferguson's racial and social equity training, visit www.draferguson.com or join the conversation at www.parentingculture.org. I hope you all enjoy today's episode! DM @thedesireality with any feedback you have. :)

Hey guys! Today, we have Shagun Patel joining the podcast to talk about knowing your worth, setting boundaries, cutting out toxicity, and navigating through mental health as a South Asian woman. She is one of the most well spoken and kind people I have spoken to, so I know for a fact many of you will enjoy today's episode. Her advice is phenomenal and left me with a lot of positive introspection. I hope you all experience the same!

Hey guys! In today's episode, we have Shanks joining me to talk about his experience as a South Asian LGBTQ+ content creator. We talked about lack of representation, discrimination he has faced from brands, struggles with finding one's identity, and advice for anyone who is struggling to come out. Be sure to listen in and DM me any feedback you have regarding this episode @thedesireality on Instagram). I hope you guys have an amazing week! I love you all.

Hey guys! On today's episode, one of my closest friends Sanya Mahajan is joining us to talk about toxic diet culture in general, insecurities during the summer/insecurities that come with being South Asian, and the struggles of being South Asian as well as having body image issues. Sanya is one of the sweetest, most kind hearted people I know, and all of her advice is very thoughtful + helpful. She is the founder of the Bamble Ramble podcast as well, so be sure to check it out! Be sure to DM any feedback you have to @thedesireality on Instagram.

Hey guys! Today's episode is in honor of pride month and the importance of being supportive no matter what month of the year it is. Being South Asian, a lot of individuals struggle to come out because of the extreme stigma and guilt complex we feel as immigrant children. I wanted to highlight a couple of your experiences you all have shared with me and remind you all that your identity is nothing to be ashamed of, ever. With Roe V Wade and its concerns in contingency with the same sex marriage laws, I briefly broke everything down so it is easy to understand where these concerns are coming about. I am always a safe person to come out to. I love you all- always. Please DM me if you ever need anything (@thedesireality). Side note, it is my birthday today! Yay! I am so grateful for all of you. Please check in on your friends for me today. Thank you so much.:)

Hey everyone! Today, I have one of my close friends Japna Kaur joining me to talk about the South Asian mental health taboo, generational differences, advice, resources, and the importance of seeking the right kind of help at the right time. This episode is like being on a FaceTime call with us, so hopefully it feels like a relaxed/relatable episode for all of you to tune into. She's an aspiring YouTuber and a mental health advocate, so be sure to follow all of her socials @japnakaurr. (I love her content, and I think all of you will too!) :) Be sure to DM us if you ever need anything: @thedesireality or @japnakaurr on Instagram! I love you all! Have an amazing day. :)

Hey guys. In honor of Cooper Noriega's passing and Mens' Mental Health, I decided to do this very raw and real episode. It's extremely unstructured in comparison to my normal question answer format, but it's a real conversation that we must have. Mens' mental health matters. The South Asian cultural norms/constructs only add to the pressures and necessities to destigmatize mental health. Check in on your friends today. I love you all very much. My DMs are always open: @thedesireality.

Hey guys! Today, we have Simran Duggi, Ms. Teen South Asia International, joining us to talk about her experiences in pageantry, her thoughts on representation in mainstream media, how she is using her platform, her experiences with mental health, and more. I hope you all enjoy today's episode! Be sure to DM me any feedback on @thedesireality on Instagram. I hope you all are having an amazing week

Hey guys! Today's topic is a bit sensitive, so I want to give you all a TW regarding conversation on rape culture. We preface this in the second half of the episode, so if you'd still like to listen to the firsthand regarding how curvy women are treated in the South Asian community, you definetly can. Sonya, from YouthSpeaksCA, joins me to talk about her first hand experiences regarding both of these topics and why spreading awareness regarding this is so important. I hope you all hear the urgency of spreading awareness regarding such important topics like such. I love you all. Take your time listening to this episode if necessary. Don't hesitate to take breaks. Have an amazing day everyone. Be sure to support Sonya and her podcast @YouthSpeaksCA:) Feel free to DM @thedesireality regarding any feedback on this episode.

Hey guys! It is such an honor to have the iconic Nadia Jagessar from Indian Matchmaking join me today! We discuss her experiences on Netflix, mental health, the importance of therapy, South Asian representation, her experiences being Guyanese, and more! Nadia is such a sweetheart and has such an uplifting outlook on her experiences/passions. I hope you guys enjoy today's episode! Be sure to show her some love (@nadiajagessar on Instagram) and leave me any feedback you have on this episode! (@thedesireality on Instagram)!

HEY GUYS! Happy new year!!!! I love you all so much!! Also, happy 1 year anniversary to this podcast!! I'm so grateful to be able to spend one of my best decisions of 2021 on the same day as the new year. I hope you guys are able to listen in- I'm so grateful for every bit of your support and I truly hope you guys remember to take care of yourselves this year. This is our year. Here's to many more anniversaries in the future:) I'm so grateful for this family we've built.

Hey guys! Today, I have Krish Shah joining me to talk about his book called "The Game Of Life". This book is about mental health, specifically issues related to beauty, confidence, academics, and status being all apart of perception. As stated on the campaign page, the book is "a diary about love, hope, faith, and understanding." I really hope you guys enjoy listening to this episode! Be sure to check out the campaign page I am linking here: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/the-game-of-life-by-krish-shah#/ Stay tuned for more!! Be sure to follow @thedesireality on Instagram and leave me some feedback regarding this episode!

Hey guys! Today, Aimen is joining us to talk about her journey to creating a "clean-ingredient", South Asian owned, sustainable, hybrid skincare and makeup product makeup brand. She opens up about her switch from pursuing dentistry and how she's using her background to guide her in her creative creation process. I hope this episode is a reminder to all of you to pursue what you want to do. Be sure to support Redux Makeup on Instagram (@reduxmakeup) and DM me some feedback on this episode (@thedesireality.) I am so grateful for all of you!

Hey guys! Today's episode is all about ending child marriages. Child marriages are a lot more prevalent than you think- they are apart of almost every culture and occur in numerous places. The laws that still allow child marriages that still exist in our community is appalling. The domestic violence, physical violence, emotional violence, sexual assault, and deprivation of opportunity that has to be faced is disgusting. Sasha opens up about her experiences and how she has survived, conquered, and turned around to make a change. PLEASE check out the "resources" highlight on the @thedesireality Instagram if you are or know anyone going through a child marriage. The impacts on the physical and mental health of an individual is not worth it. I love you all and I'm thankful for all of you. Thank you for listening in

Hey guys! Today's episode is with Tulsi Thakor! She is a student and amazing influencer! She opens up about her personal experiences and gives her advice to those of you going through abusive/toxic relationships, PTSD, anxiety and or depression. As she continues to represent South Asian culture in a beautiful way, she opens up to break the stigma/remind all of you that you're not alone. I've been wanting to make an episode regarding these subjects for so long and am so glad I've finally been able to. I hope this helps at least one of you.

Hey guys! I hope you're doing well! I hope you enjoy this episode where Hiba comes on and opens up about her unique experiences especially as a Muslim Indian woman! She's a sweetheart! Be sure to check her out on Instagram @_hibasiddiquii and follow @thedesireality/ DM @thedesireality us your feedback!

Hey guys! Today's episode is all about stepping outside of the box and realizing your creativity has a place in this world. Mathushaa Sagtidas, an extremely talented photographer, speaks about her personal experiences as well as her inspiration to pursue the kind of work she wants to. If you need a reminder that your creativity is valued even if it isn't what fits in the "traditional" norm, this is the episode for you! Be sure to check out Mathushaa (@mathuxphotos) and DM/follow @thedesireality on Instagram to give feedback/tune in for more. AND... I hope you liked the title:) Don't let societal norms limit your passion and potential! I love you all!

Hey guys! I've been wanting to do an episode on colorism forever and I couldn't have asked for a better conversation to have had. In today's episode, I have Rachel Charles joining me to talk about her experiences with colorism and pageantry as well as her thoughts on Fair & Lovely, mental health as a South Asian, mainstream industries' roles in the perpetuation of colorist beauty standards, what we can do as allies to break stigma surrounding colorism, advice for people struggling to embrace their skin, and most importantly, the beautiful and "not so beautiful" parts of the pageant world. I really hope you guys enjoy this episode! Be sure to follow Rachel on Instagram and Tiktok! Follow @thedesireality on Instagram for more episodes! Be sure to DM us feedback as well! I hope you guys enjoy today's episode!

Hey guys! Welcome back to The Desi Reality! Today, we have Milan Mathew on to talk all about content creation, Eurocentric beauty standards, self love, and enjoying her own company by finding a balance between self reliance and external resources. You may know her from her iconic transition videos including her transition videos into her iconic pink Lengha! Today, she expresses how trusting herself has gotten her to where she is and how her mental health has affected her journey as her platform grows. I really hope you guys relate to her like I do- she's a sweetheart and extremely personable. I hope this puts you all in an inspired and optimistic mood! I love you all! Be sure to check out Milan on all of her platforms and follow/DM the @thedesireality Instagram for more/to give us any feedback!

Hey guys! Welcome back! Today's episode is all about staying motivated to pursue passions and taking them to places you may have never thought they could've gone. A prime example of someone who has done this is Alisha! She has several initiatives that are truly making an impact and is truly inspirational! I hope you guys enjoy today's episode! Make sure to follow Alisha and her initiatives as well as @thedesireality on Instagram!

Hey guys! I'm so excited to be back! Today's episode is all about insecurities, especially during the summer, specifically for many South Asians. From body hair to body dysmorphia, there are several things that can stop us from stepping out and having fun during the summer. I want this episode to be a reminder that you're not alone and that these insecurities should not hold you back from doing what your heart tells you to do. I hope you guys are doing well and I hope you guys enjoy this format! I kind of just sat down and spoke from the heart. Let me know if you guys liked this episode. If so, I'm happy to make more like this one! Have an amazing day and don't forget to follow @thedesireality on instagram to DM your feedback!:)

Hey guys! On today's episode, we are joined by the lovely Sweta (@sweetathansugar) to talk all about balancing out being a lifestyle and career content creator, business associate at Visa Inc., Head of Strategic Partnership & Operations at Boss Woman Collective, Director of Academic Relations at The Hustle HQ, and Leadership Council member at Upwardly Global. She talks about not only her journey, but also her advice and personal experiences, especially being South Asian, as she continues to pursue her aspirations. Be sure to follow her on instagram(@sweetathansugar) and follow @thedesireality on instagram to DM us your feedback and stay tuned for more!

Hey guys! Today's episode is all about growing up brown and opening up about growing to love our culture. I am joined by the amazing Rhea Malik (@rheaamalik on Instagram). I hope you guys enjoy this episode and I hope you all have an amazing day! Be sure to follow @thedesireality on instagram and DM us with your feedback!

Hey guys! Today we have a very special guest on today - Tanya! (@taanyaar) She joins me to talk about Eurocentric standards, being yourself, wearing what you want, and the lack of South Asian representation in the mainstream industries. She has unique take on how she grew up around her culture and brings light to ways to express yourself in a way I haven't thought about before. I really hope you guys enjoy this episode. Tanya is an absolute sweetheart, so please be sure to give her a follow on all social media platforms: @taanyaar, and our podcast instagram page @thedesireality to DM u suggestions or feedback! Have an amazing day everyone!:) I know this time of the year can be stressful, but push through. I promise it'll be worth it!:)

Hey guys! It's Ananya! On today's episode, we have 3 very special guests. Piyali, Karthik, and Rahul are South Asian siblings from Australia who are some of the kindest and funnest people I've talked to. We have an amazing conversation surrounding the LGBTQ+ community, South Asian struggles, actively normalizing mental health, comparisons between Australia and America in terms of mental health, amazing advice, an analogy that describes South Asians so well(chai lattes) and so much more! Though this episode is a bit longer, it is definitely worth a listen. I hope you guys enjoy it! Be sure to follow @thedesireality on instagram and DM us any questions, feedback, or suggestions you have! Also, be sure to follow our lovely guests: @kjr.media , @pip_ramnath, and @rahul__.r !

Hey guys! On today's episode, I have Jazz joining me to talk all about being confident and embracing who you are despite beauty standards and social media pressures we all deal with. From personal experiences to honest advice, Jazz and I talk all about being confident in your own skin. This is one of my favorite episodes thus far and I really hope you guys enjoy it! Be sure to follow us on instagram (@thedesireality) for updates on new episodes/DM us your feedback and Jazz on tiktok and instagram(@jazz3o1).:) Have an amazing day!

Hey guys! Happy "day after" the 21st day of the 21 year of the 21st century! On today's episode, we have Neha Checka (@indianactivist on tiktok) joining us to talk about the struggles of being South Asian while growing up and how to push through these struggles. We also talk about how to find yourself and embrace your roots despite what others say! I really hope you guys enjoy this episode! Be sure to follow Neha on instagram (@neha.checka) and tiktok (@indianactivist) as well as our instagram (@thedesireality) for updates on episodes. Please DM us if you have any feedback! Thank you for listening in!:)

Hey guys! Welcome back to another episode! Today's episode features Eesh Manwani! We talk about how the stigma surrounding women's health and the LGBTQ+ community in the South Asian community all connects to mental health and feeling isolated/uncomfortable when talking about things that should be normalized. I hope you guys enjoy this episode! Please be sure to follow our instagram (@thedesireality) for updates on new episode releases and to give us feedback! Also, please be sure to follow eesh on instagram and tiktok(@eesh_m).

Hey Guys! Welcome back to The Desi Reality! Today, we have Ashna joining us to talk about her journey to body confidence and self love as well as how she balances out her passions. She's a model, UIUC graduate, on the road to med school, published author, and much more. I hope you guys enjoy this episode! Be sure to follow our instagram (@thedesireality) and follow Ashna (@ashnagray) on all social media platforms!

Hey guys! It's Ananya! Today's episode is going to be talking about what this podcast is all about! I hope you guys enjoy it!