Welcome to the Master/slave lifestyle podcast. Here we will interview real people living the real Master/slave lifestyle - all consensual and all in different ways. Now with over 10,000 listeners!
In this Light & Shadow episode, I explore the key role of the King archetype in the Master, and what it takes for a Master to transcend mere dominance to embody the greatness of a King. I will cover the virtues, responsibilities, and the nuanced balance required for a Master to lead, inspire, and nurture along with attributes—purpose-driven leadership, resilience, and authentic integrity—to forge a Master who is revered and respected. I also delve into the darker aspects of this archetype in becoming a Tyrant or a Weakling—the distorted versions of the King, where power is misused, and leadership turns into oppression or abdication. ----------- Visit masterslavelifestyle.com for more episodes, 90+ articles, and a free guide on mastering power exchange. Explore deeper insights, resources, and a community to support your journey! LINKS: Buy your copy of my book: The Light and Shadow More about the Master mindset SUPPORT THE PODCAST: Support this unique podcast through a monthly or one-off donation EPISODE BREAKDOWN Introduction to the Jungian King archetype in the context of Master Discussion of a Master's life purpose and its significance in becoming the King Exploration of leadership qualities in a Master Emphasis on authenticity and integrity as core traits of a successful Master. Analysis of the role of resilience in a Master's life, especially under pressure or in challenging situations Contrast between positive King traits and the Shadow King, including aspects like the Tyrant and the Weakling Examination of the psychological and emotional aspects of being a Master and how they relate to the King archetype Real-life examples and analogies to illustrate the concepts discussed. Conclusion with key takeaways and reflections on the Master as King archetype in power exchange relationships
The podcast is back! In this interview, I sit down with Barclay or Leather Edge, an amazing voice in the leather and kink community. Barclay is deeply respected worldwide for his insights into Kink and authentic power exchange. He hosts his own popular podcast, where he shares reflections and guidance on navigating the kink lifestyle. In this episode, we dive into his life and 30 year journey into kink and discuss the importance of mentorship, connection, and self-acceptance for those on their own path in this lifestyle. ----------- Visit masterslavelifestyle.com for more episodes, 90+ articles, and a free guide on mastering power exchange. Explore deeper insights, resources, and a community to support your journey! GUEST INFORMATION You can find Leather Edge's podcast and all his other links at his podcast. KinkProud Book Break free from shame and guilt, stop fitting in, and proudly live your desires with the Kink Proud Handbook. SUPPORT THE PODCAST: Support this unique podcast through a monthly or one-off donation BE INTERVIEWED And if you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com EPISODE BREAKDOWN Introduction to Barclay: Background, early days, and initial interests in bondage. First Experiences in Leather: Discovering leather culture in New Orleans, mentorship from a leather couple. Navigating Identity: The evolution from a bottom and boy role to recognizing a dominant identity. Leather Community Lessons: Understanding the concept of "coming of age" in leather, learning community values, and building connections. Transition to Dominance: Barclay's gradual journey into a dominant role and overcoming imposter syndrome. Mentorship and Learning in Kink: The importance of mentorship, learning through mistakes, and finding core community connections. Reflections on Substance Use: Barclay's experience with crystal meth, the impact on his leather journey, and finding recovery. Embracing Authenticity in Power Exchange: The importance of desire and genuine connection, Barclay's demisexual perspective on power exchange. Modern Leather Life and Social Media: Barclay's journey from AOL profiles to social media presence and the role of digital platforms in kink today. Closing Reflections: Advice for newcomers, thoughts on community growth, and Barclay's gratitude for his journey.
In this episode, I talk about slave as a Lover. When we think of the term "Lover," our minds conjure images of passion and romance. Yet, within BDSM relationships, this archetype takes many dimensions, including empathy, connection, innocent energy, vulnerability, and ego. But it's not all light and love. In its darker aspect, the Lover can become the Addictor, the Disconnector, or the Nihilist. Join me as I challenge stereotypes within the gay fetish scene, urging communication for a deeper connection – one that goes beyond the hardness and alphaness often portrayed. It's a call to embrace both strength and vulnerability, to ask for the tenderness we crave, and to push boundaries for a richer, more authentic experience. BUY THE BOOK Get the BOOK about the Light and Shadow of the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW LINKS Mediation for connection - https://masterslavelifestyle.com/connection Addiction In the US, SAMHSA's national helpline is at 800-662-4357 In the UK, Action on Addiction is available on 0300 330 0659. Other countries can be found at [https://www.helpguide.org/find-help.htm](https://www.helpguide.org/find-help.htm) SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle Episode breakdown Slave as a Lover from sensitivity to vulnerability Shadow slave as a lover - understanding grief and hurt and how a slave can hide from connection through obedience Actions a slave can take to improve their lover
Dive into the story of Michael. This episode takes you on his extraordinary journey through the complex world of FinDom (Financial Domination). Find out about Michael and his story as a submissive who later transitioned into a Dominant within the FindDom community, only to confront and overcome the alluring, addictive nature of this facet of the power exchange scene. And how now, in the end, he is discovering his authentic self. Key Points of the Episode: An Unusual Beginning: Explore the roots of Michael's foray into the world of BDSM, beginning as a submissive as a sports fetish. A Transformative Path: Witness the transformation from a submissive to becoming a Dominant in the FinDom scene and the allure of power and control that defines this unique subculture. The Addiction of Control: Delve into the seductive and often addictive aspects of Findom. Micahel candidly shares personal experiences of the power dynamics and the challenges they present. Awakening and Recovery: Learn about Michaels's critical moments of self-awareness and the decision to step away from the world of Findom. Reflections and Insights: Gain valuable insights into the complexities of identity, power, and addiction in the context of FinDom. Micahel reflects on the lessons learned and how they have shaped a new perspective on his life and relationships. Journal Find out more about the Master/slave Journal - your compass and lighthouse for moving forward in the Master/slave Lifestyle - Find out more - https://masterslavelifestyle.com/journal 1:1 KINK IDENTITY COACHING Want to find your kink identity? Whether you're a newcomer or an experienced player, my coaching is tailored to guide and enhance your journey. Find out what it is you really want and desire. FIND OUT MORE - https://masterslavelifestyle.com/coaching/ GUEST INFORMATION Podcast episodes from Michael's podcast that go deeper into who he is Trainers, chavs and peacocks Reflections on Trains, chavs and peacocks Michaels submissive fantasy SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle BE INTERVIEWED And if you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
In this episode, I peel back the layers to uncover the often overlooked aspect of the Master/slave dynamic – the Master as a Lover. When we think of the Lover, our minds instinctively turn to thoughts of sex. However, within the realm of BDSM, particularly Master/slave relationships, the Lover archetype takes on a deeper meaning. It becomes a conduit for connection, a bridge between desires and the profound need for authentic human connection. In "Master as a Lover," we embark on a journey beyond the surface of dominance and submission. We delve into the realm where vulnerability meets control and where the desire for connection transcends the physical. It's an episode that challenges preconceptions, encouraging both Masters and slaves to consider the emotional intricacies that underpin their dynamic. We examine the shadows that can cast themselves over Masters – from being unfeeling and unconnected to the allure of addiction. Unveiling these shadows is crucial, as they often emerge from a lack of connection, leading to dehumanization and negative consequences within the BDSM relationship. Join me as I navigate the complex landscape of the Master as a Lover, exploring how genuine connection, vulnerability, and self-exploration are key ingredients for a healthy and fulfilling Master/slave dynamic. BUY THE BOOK Get the BOOK about the Light and Shadow of the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW LINKS Books: Sacred Power – Holy Surrender (affiliate link) Jolted Awake Links Mediation for connection - https://masterslavelifestyle.com/connection Does a slave have needs? Master Drew from the Duality blog Addiction In the US, SAMHSA's national helpline is at 800-662-4357 In the UK, Action on Addiction is available on 0300 330 0659. Other countries can be found at [https://www.helpguide.org/find-help.htm](https://www.helpguide.org/find-help.htm) SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle
In this episode, we sit down with the enigmatic Sir Kaiju, delving into the journey that led him from the realm of submission to the commanding world of dominance and as an expert fister. The episode includes an informed primer on the intimate art of fisting without the influence of drugs, the importance of mindset in opening up to this unique experience, and how dominance intertwines with this visceral act, and why Sir Kaiju finds profound satisfaction as a Top doing this. Discover the nuanced approach of Sir Kaiju in establishing safe containers for his submissives, fostering trust, and the art of growing and developing within the BDSM dynamic. What's in the episode: Sir Kaiju's candid exploration of his transformation from submissive to dominant. His love for fisting An informed primer on fisting: How to engage without the use of drugs and the importance of mindset How he uses fisting in his dominance Power dynamics in fisting and the unique satisfaction Sir Kaiju finds as a Top. The importance of creating a safe space and container for his submissive so they can enjoy his sadism How he grows and develops his slaves BOOK Get a about the Light and Shadow of the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW SPECIAL OFFER - NEXT STEP 1:1 COACHING Do you feel stuck moving forward with the Master/slave Lifestyle? If so - check out my next step coaching - And SAVE $50 with a LIMITED-TIME SPECIAL OFFER. FIND OUT MORE GUEST INFORMATION Recon - Twitter - https://twitter.com/completefilth1 SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle BE INTERVIEWED And if you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslaveli
In this episode, we navigate the intricate dynamics of a BDSM slave, viewing their journey through the lens of the magician. Including the importance of openness to training and how critical growth and reflection are in order for a slave to be successful. Join me as we unravel the "Safety Officer" concept within, a guardian that protects and potentially obstructs our desires. We'll dive deep into the shadows cast by the Magician archetype, examining the powerful emotion of shame and its intricate dance within the BDSM and kink communities. From the struggles faced by slaves to the nuanced experiences of Masters, we explore the layers of shame that shape our identities. But that's not all—we'll shine a light on specific shadows, from the Innocent one and the Manipulator to the Escaper. Throughout this journey, we'll discuss how these shadows manifest and offer insights on confronting and integrating them for personal growth. So, whether you're a seasoned practitioner of BDSM, someone curious about the psychological underpinnings of human behaviour, or simply seeking a deeper understanding of personal development, this episode has something for you. LINKS: Coaching - https://masterslavelifestyle.com/coaching M/s Online community - https://masterslavelifestyle.com/community The support group - https://masterslavelifestyle.com/support-you/support-group/ Mast.net BUY THE BOOK Get the BOOK about the Light and Shadow of the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW FREE QUIZ Unleash your power and find your light and shadow with the new Master/slave quiz and Discover your strengths and improvement areas Find out your potential pulls to the shadow Test a potential partner TAKE THE TEST NOW SPECIAL OFFER - NEXT STEP 1:1 COACHING It's halfway through the year. Do you feel stuck moving forward with the Master/slave Lifestyle? If so - check out my next step coaching - And SAVE $50 with a LIMITED-TIME SPECIAL OFFER. FIND OUT MORE SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle
In this thought-provoking episode, I embark on a deeply personal journey with Nate, who shares their remarkable story of self-discovery and acceptance. Raised in a staunchly religious and conservative environment, Nate grappled with a secret, a truth about themselves that they were initially afraid to confront. Join me as I explore the moments of realisation, the weight of a conservative upbringing, and the profound spiritual awakening that ultimately led to the liberation of Nate's identity. This episode delves into the challenges of coming out and embracing one's true self, taking us from the confines of a deeply closeted existence to a place of self-assured authenticity. It's a tale of courage, resilience, and the pursuit of fulfilment, told with openness and vulnerability by this guest FREE QUIZ Unleash your power and find your light and shadow with the new Master/slave quiz and Discover your strengths and improvement areas Find out your potential pulls to the shadow Test a potential partner TAKE THE TEST NOW BOOK Get a about the Light and Shadow of the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW SPECIAL OFFER - NEXT STEP 1:1 COACHING It's halfway through the year. Do you feel stuck moving forward with the Master/slave Lifestyle? If so - check out my next step coaching - And SAVE $50 with a LIMITED-TIME SPECIAL OFFER. FIND OUT MORE GUEST INFORMATION Recon - https://www.recon.com/sextween Twitter - https://twitter.com/jordandragon11 (PG version) and https://twitter.com/baronangelwings (Kink version) Instagram https://www.instagram.com/divavalue/ https://www.instagram.com/sexyameninternational/ (Please note that he is soliciting sexy pictures from all ethnicities and of ALL body types for this page) Podcast (Unofficially Opinionated) - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAmfw9JW0LkU-r0Re3eU0rA SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle BE INTERVIEWED And if you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
In this thought-provoking episode, we peel back the curtains on the enigmatic interplay between the Master and the archetype of the Magician. We cover how this can make the Master unique with the ability to transform the slave to new levels of submission, but also, when in the shadow, can turn the Master into an unfeeling manipulator who cares nothing for his slave. BUY THE BOOK Get the BOOK about the Light and Shadow of the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW FREE QUIZ Unleash your power and find your light and shadow with the new Master/slave quiz and Discover your strengths and improvement areas Find out your potential pulls to the shadow Test a potential partner TAKE THE TEST NOW SPECIAL OFFER - NEXT STEP 1:1 COACHING It's halfway through the year. Do you feel stuck moving forward with the Master/slave Lifestyle? If so - check out my next step coaching - And SAVE $50 with a LIMITED-TIME SPECIAL OFFER. FIND OUT MORE SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle
Find out the importance of the role of slave as a warrior and how it helps the slave to serve well and to give up on materialism for the greater good of serving a Master. But also how in the shadow it can lead to a slave to destroy themselves. The warrior, often associated with courage, strength, and purpose, has long captivated our imaginations through epic tales and cinematic portrayals. But what happens when we explore the warrior archetype in the realm of BDSM, where power dynamics and submission take center stage? Join us as we unravel the complexities of the heart-centered slave as a warrior. We'll dive into the profound concept that being a warrior isn't solely confined to the battlefield but can be embodied in the context of BDSM. Discover how the qualities of an action taker, dedication to a higher cause, strength, discipline, boundaries, and protection intertwine with the role of a slave. But as we delve deeper, we also confront the shadow aspects of the warrior archetype within the realm of submission. We'll explore the boundless, nihilistic tendencies, the pursuit of perfection, the denial of self, and the wounds carried by those who navigate the warrior's path in the world of BDSM. Through thought-provoking discussions and insightful perspectives, we aim to shed light on the intricate interplay between the warrior archetype and the complexities of BDSM dynamics. Whether you're new to the concept or well-versed in these realms, prepare to challenge your perceptions and explore the depths of the human psyche. FREE QUIZ Unleash your power and find your light and shadow with the new Master/slave quiz and Discover your strengths and improvement areas Find out your potential pulls to the shadow Test a potential partner TAKE THE TEST NOW SPECIAL OFFER - NEXT STEP 1:1 COACHING It's halfway through the year. Do you feel stuck moving forward with the Master/slave Lifestyle? If so - check out my next step coaching - And SAVE $50 with a LIMITED-TIME SPECIAL OFFER. FIND OUT MORE BOOK Get a BOOK about the Light and Shadow of the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle BE INTERVIEWED And if you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
Step into the alluring world of Master Richard, a realm where power, desire, and unyielding dominance intertwine. Master Richard's journey is a testament to the transformative power of self-realization. Discover the pivotal moment when he embraced his true nature as a Master and embarked on an extraordinary path of self-discovery. Delve into the captivating stories and intimate reflections as Master Richard shares the trials and triumphs of his journey. From his humble beginnings as a submissive to his evolution into a commanding Master, he unravels the profound intricacies that define the Master/Slave dynamic. But it doesn't stop there. Hear how Master Richard envisions a future where the Master/Slave community receives the support, visibility, and understanding it deserves. Join him as he advocates for change and challenges the norms of perception. FREE QUIZ Unleash your power and find your light and shadow with the new Master/slave quiz and Discover your strengths and improvement areas Find out your potential pulls to the shadow Test a potential partner TAKE THE TEST NOW SPECIAL OFFER - NEXT STEP 1:1 COACHING It's halfway through the year. Do you feel stuck moving forward with the Master/slave Lifestyle? If so - check out my next step coaching - And SAVE $50 with a LIMITED-TIME SPECIAL OFFER. FIND OUT MORE BOOK Get a about the Light and Shadow of the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW GUEST INFORMATION TASHRA – https://www.tashra.org FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/12752 Recon: MasterRAS Email: richard@tashra.org SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle BE INTERVIEWED And if you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
Join us in this thought-provoking episode of Master/slave Lifestyle as we explore the intriguing world of archetypes and delve into the warrior archetype in particular. In our exploration, we shed light on the profound connection between the warrior archetype and the role of a BDSM Master. Discover the essence of the warrior archetype as the embodiment of action, power, and purpose. We examine how the archetype represents integrity, as individuals who dedicate themselves to a higher cause and strive for personal growth. Drawing inspiration from beloved characters like Maximus in 'Gladiator' and Jedi Knights in 'Star Wars,' we unravel the qualities that define the archetypal warrior. However, no archetype is without its shadows. In this episode, we dive deep into the shadows that can affect a Master's journey, focusing on the feeling of not having the right to exist. We explore how past experiences of shame related to identity, fetishes, or desires for control can impact a Master's confidence and manifest in various ways. Moreover, we shed light on the shadow aspects of a Master as a warrior, highlighting potential pitfalls such as overinflation, contradiction, and the risk of engaging in non-consensual behavior or dehumanizing others. Tune in to this captivating episode as we unravel the layers of the warrior archetype and its relevance to the world of BDSM Masters. Gain insights, explore the depths of human psychology, and discover how these archetypes shape our identities and relationships. FREE QUIZ Unleash your power and find your light and shadow with the new Master/slave quiz and Discover your strengths and improvement areas Find out your potential pulls to the shadow Test a potential partner TAKE THE TEST NOW SPECIAL OFFER - NEXT STEP 1:1 COACHING It's halfway through the year. Do you feel stuck moving forward with the Master/slave Lifestyle? If so - check out my next step coaching - And SAVE $50 with a LIMITED-TIME SPECIAL OFFER. FIND OUT MORE FREE BOOK Get a FREE BOOK about the Light and Shadow of the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle BE INTERVIEWED And if you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
Discover the captivating story of slave charles, a man who defied societal expectations and discovered his true self at the age of 66. This episode takes you on an unforgettable exploration of charles' life, his struggle with identity, and his courageous decision to embrace his authentic self as a slave. Through heartfelt conversations, we delve into the depths of slave charles' experiences, unearthing the challenges he faced in acknowledging and accepting his true nature. Join us as we unravel the intricate tapestry of his journey, revealing the transformative power of vulnerability, obedience, and the connection between a master and a slave. "Embracing Authenticity" delves into the profound dynamics of mastery and slavery, shedding light on the intensity and depth of human relationships. We invite you to join us on this compelling exploration of self-discovery, as slave charles recounts the moments that led him to confront his fears, embrace his true desires, and ultimately find his place in the world. Through his story, we confront societal norms, challenge preconceptions, and celebrate the beauty of authenticity. Together, we explore the intricate facets of identity and the significance of self-acceptance, inspiring listeners to embark on their own journeys of self-discovery and embrace the fullness of who they truly are. FREE QUIZ Unleash your power and find your light and shadow with the new Master/slave quiz and Discover your strengths and improvement areas Find out your potential pulls to the shadow Test a potential partner TAKE THE TEST NOW SPECIAL OFFER - NEXT STEP 1:1 COACHING It's halfway through the year. Do you feel stuck moving forward with the Master/slave Lifestyle? If so - check out my next step coaching - And SAVE $50 with a LIMITED-TIME SPECIAL OFFER. FIND OUT MORE FREE BOOK Get a FREE BOOK about the Light and Shadow of the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW GUEST INFORMATION TASHRA – https://www.tashra.org Kink Health Study – https://www.kinkhealth.org New study - https://bit.ly/PrEP4Kink SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle BE INTERVIEWED And if you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
In this episode, I speak with a Master and Kink researcher - Dr Richard Sprott, about Kink identity. We delve into power exchange, community building, headspace, and the relationship between kink and sex. With 13 different dimensions and 4 super dimensions to explore, the episode offers a comprehensive look at what makes up the rich tapestry of kink identity and how this relates to Masters and slaves. FREE DOWNLOAD Get a FREE download of the next steps to take in the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW BECOME A MASTER/SLAVE COURSE Do you feel unable to take the next steps to find your Master or slave? With the new Master/slave Lifestyle course, you can now move forward and make the fantasy a reality. And SAVE 50% with a LIMITED-TIME SPECIAL OFFER. TAKE THE NEXT STEP and find out more GUEST INFORMATION TASHRA – https://www.tashra.org Kink Health Study – https://www.kinkhealth.org New study - https://bit.ly/PrEP4Kink SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle BE INTERVIEWED And if you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
Discover a Master's journey from a performer to a Sacred Kink 24/7 Master. We will explore the depths of sacred kink and how it works. How the Master and slave found each other and pushed through their fears and boundaries, and how they live 24/7 without living with each other. And how you could start to use sacred kink yourself. FREE DOWNLOAD Get a FREE download of the next steps to take in the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW BECOME A MASTER/SLAVE COURSE Do you feel unable to take the next steps to find your Master or slave? With the new Master/slave Lifestyle course, you can now move forward and make the fantasy a reality. And SAVE 50% with a LIMITED-TIME SPECIAL OFFER. TAKE THE NEXT STEP and find out more GUEST INFORMATION mrvikthor.com viktorioustantra.com Recon profile - mrvithor (recon ) mysacredkink (Instagram) BOOKS Links are affiliate (and support MSL) Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM & the Ordeal Path by Raven Kaldera Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond by Lee Harrington SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle BE INTERVIEWED And if you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
Listen to the fantastic story of Boss Benjaman and his Alpha Switch Alex talking about their polyamorous Master/slave household. They discuss the actual reality of the lifestyle, what they have done to make it successful, and the issues they have faced. FREE DOWNLOAD Get a FREE download of the next steps to take in the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW BECOME A MASTER/SLAVE COURSE Do you feel unable to take the next steps to find your Master or slave? With the new Master/slave Lifestyle course, you can now move forward and make the fantasy a reality. And SAVE 50% with a LIMITED-TIME SPECIAL OFFER. TAKE THE NEXT STEP and find out more GUEST INFORMATION Alex' Rubber Company - https://vilaingarcon.ca/ Boss's Legal company - https://www.justhuman.ca/ Recon profile - https://www.recon.com/woofyhouse Twitter - https://twitter.com/familleWoofy SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle BE INTERVIEWED And if you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
In this episode, we speak to Thumper (from Denying Thumper) and find out about chastity and orgasm denial. We talk about why it can be such a turnon, how one experiences prolonged chastity and orgasm denial and the mindset needed for it. And why it can be such as joy to the person. Finally, find out how how to choose your first cock cage/chastity belt and how to go more serious and deeper into chastity. FREE KINK 3D COCK CAGE Enter your email address into a prize draw to win a free KINK3D Cock Cage - go to masterslavelifestyle.com/prize to enter and find out more! And check out KINK3D.com for more information on their cages FREE DOWNLOAD Get a FREE download of the next steps to take in the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW BECOME A MASTER/SLAVE COURSE Do you feel unable to take the next steps to find your Master or slave? With the new Master/slave Lifestyle course, you can now move forward and make the fantasy a reality. And SAVE 50% with a LIMITED-TIME SPECIAL OFFER. TAKE THE NEXT STEP and find out more GUEST INFORMATION https://denyingthumper.com https://thesubmissiverabbit.home.blog https://twitter.com/thumperMN SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle BE INTERVIEWED And if you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
Master Jim deeply talks about his 3 years TPE relationship with a slave - from how they found each other online to the slave flying across an ocean to move in and live with him, and finally, how the relationship ended. Find out about his learnings and his experience in this profoundly affecting interview. FREE DOWNLOAD Get a FREE download of the next steps to take in the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW BECOME A MASTER/SLAVE COURSE Do you feel unable to take the next steps to find your Master or slave? With the new Master/slave Lifestyle course, you can now move forward and make the fantasy a reality. And SAVE 50% with a LIMITED-TIME SPECIAL OFFER. TAKE THE NEXT STEP and find out more GUEST INFORMATION Recon - Master Jim https://grizzlypines.com SUPPORT THE PODCAST Become a Patreon member and help support the production of this unique podcast. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle BE INTERVIEWED And if you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
in this episode, we speak to both slave conrad and Alexander about their experiences with pain - how significant health issues stopped them from embracing their desires and how they moved through this to embrace and enjoy BDSM pain. About the guests slave conrad is an owned slave, nurse, hypnotherapist, classical singer, a voice coach for singers and transmen and women, and is a writer of erotic fiction. You can contact him on NLleatherman on twitter and recon Alexander Hahne is a gay trans man, sex educator (gsp), somatic counsellor, sexological bodyworker (ISB), dancer and pleasure activist. He leads workshops and individual counselling on the topics of body awareness, intimacy and sexuality and is a speaker for trans-specific topics in the field of sexual health. Check out www.alexanderhahne.com for more information.
In this episode, we speak to Master Ghee - a Gay Leather Master who also won Mr. SF Eagle Leather 2022. In this episode, we speak of his journey to discover his identity as a Master, the joy he has in controlling a slave through its own pleasure and the fun of objectification. Check out this course: Find a Master/slave in 7 Steps - from writing a profile to collaring: https://masterslavelifestyle.com/find Links: Recon - https://www.recon.com/mastersirg Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/MrSFEagleLeather Contents When did you first release you were a Master? The misconceptions you can have over Mastery when starting out What have the major learnings on his journey been to really understand what he wanted as a Master The three comings out How joining a support group really helped him identify as a Master How the slave is not just the slave - but also a well-rounded being The fun of consensual objectification and calling the slave “it” About punishment of the slave What was he hoping to achieve when he competed for the MR SF Eagle leather award What makes a Good Master/slave What would he like to see more in the community
In this episode, I speak with Dr Richard Sprott and Dr Anna Randall from TASHRA - The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance. In this episode, we discover how they merged the personal and business to focus on kink and BDSM. We talk about how therapy has changed its view on BDSM and Master/slave relationships, and what to do if you are looking for a therapist. But also how we can use the skills we have learnt in BDSM and Master/slave to find the right therapist for us. And they also talk about the Kink Health Study - which will be one of the most extensive studies on Kink people and communities ever done. Links TASHRA - https://www.tashra.org Kink Health Study - https://www.kinkhealth.org Note: Master/slave Lifestyle has been nominated for the Best Media of the Year for the X-Awards. If you believe the Master/slave Podcast is worthy - please take 5 minutes to select the Master/slave Podcast as the winner at x-awards.com. The nominations close on 28 February, and the winner will be announced at Darklands in Antwerp on 8 May. Podcast index Why are they so passionate about kink and mental health How was BDSM first seen by mental health professionals If someone needs to see a therapist, what would you recommend? What should someone do if a therapist shames you for your Masterslave or kink/BDSM fantasies Is there more therapy happening online If you have been shamed before and you are frightened to talk about it with your current therapy, what can you do to open up Why has kink turned into a hot topic? In their previous research - what have they found out - especially in Master/slave power dynamics About the kink health survey
In this episode, Sir Tyger Yoshi and his slave speak about their 3-year relationship. They detail how they found each other, and how by focussing on flow and building up things slowly, they found their way to a total power exchange relationship. Important note: This episode contains a brief mention of suicide; please be aware if this subject triggers you. More info on the Master/slave Lifestyle Community: Join here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle Find out more here: https://masterslavelifestyle.com/community/ More info on Tyger Yoshi and slave Tyger Yoshi: Twitter/IG/recon: tygeryoshi slave: Twitter/IG: tygersslave Recon: slaveinco Information on suicide In the US, the [National Suicide Prevention Lifeline](https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/) is at 800-273-8255 and [online chat is also available](https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/) . You can also text HOME to 741741 to connect with a crisis text line counselor. In the UK and Ireland, [Samaritans](https://www.samaritans.org/) can be contacted on 116 123 or by email [jo@samaritans.org](mailto:jo@samaritans.org) or [jo@samaritans.ie](mailto:jo@samaritans.ie) . In Australia, the crisis support service [Lifeline](https://www.lifeline.org.au/) is 13 11 14. Other international helplines can be found at [befrienders.org](http://www.befrienders.org/)
Find out about Boi David's story to embrace his authentic self as a submissive and Black Man/African American Man. Boi David is the Vice President of the International Level Association (ILA) and was the 2019 winner for Mr Atlanta Eagle. He defines himself as a submissive looking for a dominant to serve. Check out the new Master/slave community here: http://masterslavelifestyle.com/community/ More information on boi David: Instagram: @becomingtheboy Email: becomingtheboy@gmail.com National Leather Association: vice-president@nla-international.com Show notes: 4:00 - How did he realise he was a submissive? 8:18 - About his additional struggle coming out as a submissive because he is an African American/Black man 11:08 - Some of the thoughts and feelings he felt as he was having is coming out as a submissive 16:09 - Boy David shares some of the steps he had on his pathway to power and finding his authentic self 20;05 - Pathway to a submissive 26:01 - How would you define yourself 26:29 - Who do you want to become 39:58- Have you been collared before, and what does collaring mean for you 47:30 - What does the title submissive mean to you? 50:48 - what advice would you give to someone who is black and thinks they might be a submissive 56:37 - What would you like to see in the Master/slave or Dominant/submissive community 59:29 - What makes a good Master and slave
In this episode, we have Dominant Dan back on the show talking about his kinky, polyamorous family. Find out what makes it a family, how it works, Dan's role as the dominant in caring for and looking after the family, and how blood is thicker than water when it comes to family. Links: Recon link: As Master Recon link: Pit of despair (for Bondage) www.cagecommunity.com Connect more with Master/slave Lifestyle Check out https://masterslavelifestyle.com for more information and resources on the gay BDSM Master/slave lifestyle If you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com Become a member of the Master/slave Lifestyle community and gain early access to the podcast and a number of video workshops - https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle Check out the new shop at www.masterslavelifestyle.com/support
In this episode, we talk to Master Cage from San Jose. Master Cage has been a Master and had a polyamorous kink family for 18 years. In this episode, we learn about his household and philosophy of slavery, including how important it is for the Master to mentor the slave and the importance of experiences to figure this out. Links: Recon link: As Master Recon link: Pit of despair (for Bondage) www.cagecommunity.com Connect more with Master/slave Lifestyle Check out https://masterslavelifestyle.com for more information and resources on the gay BDSM Master/slave lifestyle If you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com Become a member of the Master/slave Lifestyle community and gain early access to the podcast and a number of video workshops - https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle
In this episode, I discuss Bootblacking with a boi known as BootBlackCub or Craig- who introduced the concept to the UK. Through our discussion on Bootblacking, we speak about the importance of community and giving to it, what you can get back, and the simple joy of a boi giving. Support the podcast By joining Patreon, you will join the Master/slave community of MasterSlaveLifestyle.com, helping to support a special podcast and website. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle Connect more with Master/slave Lifestyle Check out https://masterslavelifestyle.com for more information and resources on the gay BDSM Master/slave lifestyle If you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com Get a free booklet to help you in understanding your thoughts, what you are looking for, and what your next steps would be. Subscribe here: http://masterslavelifestyle.com/mail More information on BDSM and shame: https://masterslavelifestyle.com/how-to-become-gay-247-master-slave/how-to-find-gay-247-master-slave/how-shames-blocks-our-master-slave-fetishes-and-how-love-helps/ More about BootBlackCub https://twitter.com/bootblackcub http://bootblackcub.com https://twitter.com/kinkyboyspod https://kinkyboyspodcast.com
In the second part of my interview with English Leather Master, we discuss the importance of integration for Master and slave personalities and in the Master/slave relationship. We discuss the importance of integrating oneself to integrating all the different aspects of your life - from your Master/slave relationship to work. We also intimately cover the challenges and issues English Leather Master and his slave had in integrating, along with general challenges in their relationship - including some very personal experiences. You can find the first part of the interview here. Important note: This episode contains a brief mention of suicide; please be aware if this subject can trigger you. You can find help at In the US, the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ is at 800-273-8255 and online chat is also available at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/. You can also text HOME to 741741 to connect with a crisis text line counselor. In the UK and Ireland, Samaritans - https://www.samaritans.org/ can be contacted on 116 123 or email: jo@samaritans.org or jo@samaritans.ie. In Australia, the crisis support service Lifeline - https://www.lifeline.org.au/ is 13 11 14. Other international helplines can be found at www.befrienders.org Support the podcast By joining Patreon, you will join the Master/slave community of MasterSlaveLifestyle.com, helping to support a special podcast and website. Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle Connect more with Master/slave Lifestyle Check out https://masterslavelifestyle.com for more information and resources on the gay BDSM Master/slave lifestyle If you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com Get a free booklet to help you in understanding your thoughts, what you are looking for, and what your next steps would be. Subscribe here: http://masterslavelifestyle.com/mail More information on BDSM coaching: https://masterslavelifestyle.com/join-the-lifestyle/bdsm-coaching-session/ More information on the Keegen mindset: https://masterslavelifestyle.com/how-to-become-gay-247-master-slave/how-to-become-good-bdsm-master/maturing-the-master-mindset/ More about English Leather Master Safe for work: www.EnglishLeatherMaster.com Instagram @englishleathermaster / @elmssub Twitter @elmcoaching Not safe for work: Twitter: @englishleatherm / @elmssub
In this episode, I speak to English Leather Master and his slave. Find out about their journey, from a long-distance relationship to unexpectedly living together at the start of the first wave of COVID lockdowns. We also talk about the need for both Master and slave to do their own growth and healing before they can be ready for a Master/slave relationship and how to move past shame and guilt to become who you are meant to be: a true dominant and a true slave. We found we had so much to talk about that this interview is the podcast's first-ever two-parter. Part 2 is already available for Master/slave members - join and listen now - http://patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle Free download: How to take the next steps in the Master/slave Lifestyle Knowing what you want and making decisions in Master/slavery can be challenging. This is as true if you are ready to find and live the lifestyle full time or whether you are taking your first tentative steps in BDSM or Master/slavery. Subscribe and instantly get this free booklet helps you in understanding your thoughts, what you are looking for, and what your next steps would be. Subscribe here: http://masterslavelifestyle.com/mail Support the podcast and get early access to the next episodes By joining Patreon, you will join the Master/slave community of MasterSlaveLifestyle.com, helping to support a special podcast and website. Membership comes with benefits such as: Early exclusive access to the latest podcast episode Engaging and straightforward video workshops - each month, I will upload a new workshop for members to view The ability to cancel anytime Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle Show notes: Check out https://masterslavelifestyle.com for more information and resources on the gay BDSM Master/slave lifestyle Patreon membership information: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle If you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com More about English Leather Master Safe for work: www.EnglishLeatherMaster.com Instagram @englishleathermaster / @elmssub Twitter @elmcoaching Not safe for work: Twitter: @englishleatherm / @elmssub
Fetish escorting and Master/slave relationships - what can the one learn from the other? In this episode, I will speak with Sir Dave - a Fetish Escort and Master. I will learn more about Fetish Escorting from Sir Dave, and through talking about escorting, we start to find out what Master/slave relationships can learn from this area. Free download Knowing what you want and making decisions in Master/slavery can be challenging. This is as true if you are ready to find and live the lifestyle full time or whether you are taking your first tentative steps in BDSM or Master/slavery. Subscribe and instantly get this free booklet helps you in understanding your thoughts, what you are looking for, and what your next steps would be. Subscribe here: http://masterslavelifestyle.com/mail Support the podcast and get early access to the next episodes By joining Patreon, you will join the Master/slave community of MasterSlaveLifestyle.com, helping to support a special podcast and website. Membership comes with benefits such as: Early exclusive access to the latest podcast episode Engaging and straightforward video workshops - each month, I will upload a new workshop for members to view The ability to cancel anytime Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle Show notes: Check out https://masterslavelifestyle.com for more information and resources on the gay BDSM Master/slave lifestyle Patreon membership information: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle If you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com You can contact Sir Dave at: Website: http://www.sirdave.uk Twitter: https://twitter.com/sirdave_uk
In this epsiode we interview Dan Apus Monoceros. Dan is a Dom, Rigger, Sadist, Owner, Master and more. He has his own kink household, is a BDSM artist and runs some of the best BDSM nights in Berlin. Dan talks about his journey to find his authentic form of dominance and his learnings and thoughts when he tried to become the stereotypical Master, and how important it is to define yourself as you want to be. Support the podcast and get early access to the next episodes By joining Patreon, you will join the Master/slave community of MasterSlaveLifestyle.com, helping to support a special podcast and website. Membership comes with benefits such as: Early exclusive access to the latest podcast episode Engaging and straightforward video workshops - each month, I will upload a new workshop for members to view The ability to cancel anytime Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle Show notes: Check out https://masterslavelifestyle.com for more information and resources on the gay BDSM Master/slave lifestyle Patreon membership information: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle If you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com You can contact Dan at: www.gay-BDSM.club info@gay-BDSM.club Telegram: @DanApusMonoceros Other links from Dan: Recon: DanApusMonoceros - https://www.recon.com/view_profile.aspx?id=534119 https://www.facebook.com/gaybdsmclub https://twitter.com/GayBDSMClub https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD8S_Ned4eTB2fR0rZ1tQtQ https://www.patreon.com/dieteegesellschaft
In this episode of our limited series, I am talking with Master Gary and his thoughts and feeling on his 20 years of Master/slave relationship. Over the episode of the BDSM podcast, we chat in-depth about the vital importance of communication, openness, trust and transparency, and how both Master and slave must grow and develop for it to succeed. Note: We were suffering from some audio issues and as a result, I had to edit much of Master Gary's slave out, which is why you do not hear him speak that often. Support the podcast and join as a Patreon member By joining Patreon, you will join the Master/slave community of MasterSlaveLifestyle.com, helping to support a special podcast and website. Membership comes with benefits such as: Early exclusive access to the latest podcast episode Engaging and straightforward video workshops - each month, I will upload a new workshop for members to view The ability to cancel anytime Find out more here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle Show notes: - Check out https://masterslavelifestyle.com for more information and resources on the gay BDSM Master/slave lifestyle - You can view Master Gary's recon profile here: https://www.recon.com/dominantingmaster - Patreon membership information: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle - if you are interested in being interviewed, you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
In this episode of our limited series, I am talking with AHardenedMaster and his thoughts on his amazing 16 TPE (total power exchange relationship. Over the episode of the BDSM podcast, we candidly chat about his 16-year total power exchange (TPE) relationship with a slave, how it can develop new fetishes, and the importance of a Master to learn and grow. Show notes: - Check out https://masterslavelifestyle.com for more information and resources on the gay BDSM Master/slave lifestyle - You can view AHardenedMaster's recon profile here: Recon And if you are interested in being interviewed you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
In the second episode of our limited season Master/slave lifestyle BDSM podcast, I am talking with Master Tim and slave sean - a polyamorous gay Master/slave couple who have been in a relationship for 14 years. Along with the relationship with each other, they have their own partners and relationship with even more people. Find out how this all works in this second episode. Show notes: - Check out https://masterslavelifestyle.com for more information and resources on the gay fetish Master/slave lifestyle - You can find out more about Master Tim on Twitter and Recon. Master Tim also writes a blog and is a BDSM coach. And if you are interested in being interviewed you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
In our first episode of the Master/salve podcast, I am interviewing with PhoenixLTHR - A Master from a gay Master/slave couple who has been in a fulltime total power exchange relationship for 16 years. In my talks with Him, I have found Him to be one of those rare deep Master souls who I am humbled to have interviewed. Find out how they talk and communicate to explore their deepest desires and fetishes. Find out his thoughts and philosophy in this episode. Show notes: - Check out https://masterslavelifestyle.com for more information and resources on the gay fetish Master/slave lifestyle - You can find out more about PhoenixLTHR on Twitter and Recon And if you are interested in being interviewed you can contact me at contact@masterslavelifestyle.com
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