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Are some of your relationships more emotionally triggering than others? What happens when you are married to them? Or they are your children? What about your employer? Or Your Clients? Why do we continue to participate in relationships that seem to cause more uncomfortableness than comfortableness? Well, what if you considered you are addicted to them? And the energy that you exchange with them when participating emotionally with them? Being afflicted with stress when it comes to some relationships can be as solvable as identifying the trigger, and learning how to separate yourself from it – not them.
Narcissistic relationships are quite addictive for both individuals. But that addiction looks different for each of them. The victim of narcissistic abuse is addicted to the peaceful moments and love bombing. Love bombing is when they become whatever it is that you desire in the relationship. Your "perfect match." When these moments come, it is such a huge relief from the blaming, guilting, gaslighting, circular conversations and victim mentality. These moments of relief give the victim a massive hit of dopamine and erase months of bad behavior. Overtime, no matter how small the breadcrumbs get, the target of narcissistic abuse is addicted to them. The narcissistic individual is addicted to all the effort their target pours in to pull them out of their abusive behavior. They are experts at playing the victim. Whatever you did that hurt them gives them a free pass to now treat you however they choose. Since their bad behavior is all your fault, you now pour massive amounts of time, energy and effort into making them feel better about themselves and about you. They are addicted to those intense efforts. Thus the bad behavior must continue in order for them to get their "fix."
Love doesn't always feel like “butterflies”. In this pep talk, Tyra unravels the complex web of emotional unavailability in relationships and the journey to reclaiming self-worth. Tyra begins by delving into the deep-rooted desire to be chosen, often linked to unhealed childhood wounds. Discover how this longing can lead us to seek emotionally unavailable partners and why it's essential to recognize these patterns. Try Epidemic Sound Free for 30 Days: https://www.epidemicsound.com/referral/bveuw0 Resources IG Posts: Emotional Unavailability & Moving With Purpose Listen to the For Life's Rainy Day Playlist Wanna give therapy a try? Use BetterHelp: https://rebrand.ly/6ulm6zk Try The Calm App https://rebrand.ly/21n4tre COMMUNITY CONNECTION FORM Sign Up for our Newsletter! Shop the AFBG Merch! Ask a Question Send me a message: affirmationsforblackgirls@gmail.com Our P.O Box: TYRA MORRISON P.O. BOX 674 NORTH HOLLYWOOD, CA 91603 Please Rate, Review, and Subscribe to the podcast to always hear the latest affirmations from your favorite Black Girl! Follow Us on Instagram: Affirmations for Black Girls Insta Follow Us on Twitter: Affirmations for Black Girls Twitter Follow Us on Youtube: Affirmations for Black Girls Youtube The links above may be commission links
Emily & Meg discuss how people and stories are holding them hostage. They explore how we give other people our power, letting them determine our happiness, our value, our worth. They consider how we take other people's stories personally and that begins this hostage situation because we get into the blame game and self-righteousness, all ways that deplete our personal power. The keys to our freedom begin with awareness, self-compassion, self-validation, courage, and detachment. “One of the keys to freedom is awareness: when you realize your head is spinning, your focus is outside yourself or proving yourself.” “We have to learn to distinguish if we are in a lower state of being, a lower vibration in our bodies, in order to clear it.” “The moment you realize you are doing mental gymnastics, you are in a tortured state.” “It can be as simple as I am going to let go, let go, let go, release all those sticky stories, even just on every exhale, it helps us reach for freedom.” “I realized I constantly braced, waiting for the moment I let these intense feelings pierce my soul. But that's when I knew I had to let them come in. I could handle them.” “Sometimes the hardest thing to understand is that you are bracing because there is some truth in other people's assessments of you or your situation and you are not being honest with yourself.” “Once you know your own limits, no one can hold them over your head anymore.” “Am I grounded in my body by these choices of nourishment and care or am I taken out of my body with my fearful thoughts?” “Are we constantly thinking that we are broken and a problem needing to be fixed?” Original Art by Meg Miller References from the episode: #byronkatie #eckharttolle #budha For further exploration, we loved this book: Ready to Heal: Breaking Free of Addictive Relationships by @kellymcdanieltherapy #detachment #stateofflow #mythsthatmakeusmiserable #surrender #trust #Evesdropping #personalgrowth #spotifypodcasts #applepodcasts #healing #positivevibes #selftrust #attachmentwound
This is an episode that starts off as one thing, goes into an entirely different thing and then somehow comes full circle and works relatively cohesively. C'est la vie. I discuss the science behind why unhealthy relationships can be so addicting, our need for validation and how it can be traced back to childhood, the importance of rejecting normalcy, and why it's cool to be a piece of shit. Follow Raya: Instagram: @rayacarmona Twitter: @rayacarmona TikTok: @rayacarmona To watch the podcast on YouTube: Raya's Channel Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/WTGFYPod If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be amazing! You can text, email, Tweet, or send this link to a friend: http://bit.ly/WTGFYPod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Chemistry: that magic ingredient in a story that makes character relationships feel so darn REAL. What is it about a certain "ship," dynamic duo, or group of friends that makes us fall in love so much we can't shut up about them, need to make fan art & videos, and think about these characters as if they are real people? You can probably think of a few shows, films, and novels that have this effect on you. But how can you bring this magic ingredient into your writing to give your characters that extra layer of magic? What is this secret ingredient that builds an atmosphere around a character? In this episode, we're talking about CHARACTER CHEMISTRY and how to craft relationships that will make your readers addicted! We're diving into some amazing story examples, like Miss Scarlet and the Duke, Sherlock, and The Musketeers. Let's go!
Why do people stay in dysfunctional relationships? June Hunt discusses unhealthy connections as she talks with a woman who is heartbroken over a recent relationship. Through this conversation, we learn that there is a source of true love. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/282/29
Why do people stay in dysfunctional relationships? June Hunt discusses unhealthy connections as she talks with a woman who is heartbroken over a recent relationship. Through this conversation, we learn that there is a source of true love. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/282/29
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Social media influencers live the lives we wish we lived - perfect and flawless… Or so we think. IDOL is the story of online health and wellness guru Samantha Miller, whose spiral downwards shows that life behind the camera lens is not always so rosy - that we don't always know who we're idolising. Louise O'Neill is a prolific Irish author with multiple titles to her name. Through IDOL she draws on some of her own, testing experiences with social media, digging into its darker side. And through a tumultuous relationship she also plays with the concepts of memory, self perception and truth. In this episode we find out how the fallibility of memory can be used to create dynamic and interesting characters, we learn about the lasting impacts of addictive relationships, and we explore the concept of abstract characters. IDOL is out now. Find a copy here. Your host is inkjockey founder Mark Heywood. Behind The Spine is an inkjockey production, and the audio accompaniment to The Writing Salon. Sign up to the newsletter here. You can view the full transcript here.
In the first podcast of this "Month Of Love" on Velvet's Edge, Kelly is joined by licensed therapist and author, Kelly McDaniel. Kelly is the author of Ready to Heal: Breaking Free of Addictive Relationships and her latest book, Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection and Guidance. The women address the ins and outs of toxic relationship dynamics that are so normalized in our society, why our relationships with our mother's are such an integral part of these dynamics and the steps to healing and finding the love and intimacy you truly deserve. website: kellymcdanieltherapy.com Instagram: @kellymcdanieltherapy Books: Ready To Heal Mother Hunger Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com
Worth Reading is a series of podcasts where I share my review of books that have had meaning to me throughout the recovery process. Today I reflect on "Ready to Heal: Breaking Free of Addictive Relationships" by Kelly McDaniel. Kelly does a beautiful job explaining some of the unique considerations that need to be made for women in recovery from love, relationship, or sex addiction. I share some of the most meaningful insights she provides and expand on how they impacted me in recovery.
Questions Covered: 16:50 – Is there a patron saint for loving relationships? 31:45 – There are some members of my family who don't get along and it's driving a wedge in my family. How can we address this? 44:45 – My daughter has cut off communication from me and I'm wondering what's healthy for me to do in this situation. …
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To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/282/29
To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/282/29 Why do people stay in dysfunctional relationships? June Hunt discusses unhealthy connections as she talks with a woman who is heartbroken over a recent relationship. Through this conversation, we learn that there is a source of true love.
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The real reason you keep going back to them after they disappoint you.
Discover the traits of addictive relationships to check and see if any of these elements are showing up in your relationship and what you can do to heal them. Intuitive development for happiness and wealth
To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/282/29 Why do people stay in dysfunctional relationships? June Hunt discusses unhealthy connections as she talks with a woman who is heartbroken over a recent relationship. Through this conversation, we learn that there is a source of true love.
What is love addiction? According to Kelly McDaniel, therapist and author of "Ready to Heal: Breaking Free of Addictive Relationships", the answer is quite complex. In this episode, Kelly joins Jodi to discuss the cultural programming that leads to love addiction; how sex and love get intertwined (and confused) at an early age; and how we can recover. Get a notebook and pen because this episode covers a lot of ground. Music by JD Pendley
Why do people stay in dysfunctional relationships? June Hunt discusses unhealthy connections as she talks with a woman who is heartbroken over a recent relationship. Through this conversation, we learn that there is a source of true love. The post Freedom from Addictive Relationships appeared first on Hope For The Heart.
In this week's episode we will dig into the similarities of the chemical addiction cycle that occurs and the addiction to a person and/or relationship. James and I both respond to a listeners question around his concern about his ability to trust himself now, due to his feeling he may be addicted to his ex. Goddess, it's good to know the difference between a soul mate and a soul sucking connection. Let's dig into what that might look like for you and how to get untangled from a toxic relationship that is not serving you in glowing your goddess. Resource: Lisa Knudson Psychotherapy-Addictive Relationship Checklisthttps://lisaknudsonpsychotherapy.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/Addictive-Relationship-Checklist.pdf
The cure for codependency is rooted in developing an ever-deepening relationship with the Lord… The post The road to freedom from addictive relationships appeared first on Hope For The Heart.
This woman left her husband who was abusing her and with counseling and courage became stronger.
Put yourself first and get out of your addictive relationship!
How often do you allow family and friends to get away with things they shouldn't get away with in fear of rocking the boat, and in fear of losing them? We tend to not stand up for ourself and hold in our thoughts and feelings because we don't want to vocalize how we truly feel. One reason we do this, is because we don't have personal boundaries because we want their acceptance and love. We've held our tongue time after time, waiting for true unconditional love, our co-dependent nature, and our fear of them walking out of our life keeps us quiet and secretly resentful and angry. Get the psychological information you need to create healthy boundaries, to say how you feel in a proper way, and to stop worrying about them leaving and instead change the situation or you be the one moving on.
546: Addictive Relationships can be very difficult to go through. It can cloud your judgment, you might be walking on eggshells to avoid your partner being unhappy, and you may not be aware of the toxic patterns because you may be hyper-focused on making the relationship work. This types of relationships can have very extreme emotions, extreme high’s, and lows. One of the biggest dangers in an Addictive Relationship is there might be obvious red flags that might fly over the addicted person head all in the name of making the relationship work. So in this episode, I explain the ways to identify if you’re in an addictive relationship, how this situation begins, and I discuss reasons why it can be extremely challenging to leave.Later on, in the show, I discuss the steps needed to take in order to reclaim your inner power and how to have a healthy and meaningful relationship. So don’t miss this special episode of Live Your True Life Perspectives.
Jackie and Jon spoke with Kelly McDaniel recently about Mother Hunger and it's particular impact on women in sex addiction recovery- don't tune out men- this is good for you too! Kelly is a renowned Sex Addiction Therapist, Author (Ready to Heal: Breaking Free from Addictive Relationships), and Trauma Therapist. Buckle up and get ready to have more light shed on some of the darker corners of your psyche! Be sure to get more of Kelly's work at www.kellymcdanieltherapy.com or at www.healingheartbreaktherapy.com You can get Kelly's Book here: http://www.gentlepath.com/product.php?productid=62
Jackie and Jon spoke with Kelly McDaniel recently about Mother Hunger and it's particular impact on women in sex addiction recovery- don't tune out men- this is good for you too! Kelly is a renowned Sex Addiction Therapist, Author (Ready to Heal: Breaking Free from Addictive Relationships), and Trauma Therapist. Buckle up and get ready to have more light shed on some of the darker corners of your psyche! Be sure to get more of Kelly's work at www.kellymcdanieltherapy.com or at www.healingheartbreaktherapy.com You can get Kelly's Book here: http://www.gentlepath.com/product.php?productid=62
Are you ready to change your life course now and reinvent your life? Join The Reinvention Warrior, Angela Watson Robertson, and her guest and Master of Reinvention, Dianne Bischoff James, as they discuss how to change your life course and reboot your life so you can move forward on the life path you want to create. Watch LIVE on Facebook: Go to www.Facebook.com/TransformationTalkRadio
Breaking Through with Grace Gedeon – Alternate Mondays 3pm PST / 6PM EST on NFTS. BASED IN AUSTRALIA – AN NFTS CONSCIOUSNESS WARRIOR SINCE JANUARY 2017 – Grace is an International Life Coach with a unique capacity to intuitively and clinically diagnose the psychological factors that stand in the way of your success and fulfillment. She teaches effective techniques to help you transform any area of your life in a deep and long lasting way & assists you to resolve current life issues through her ability to tune into the repressed psychological and emotional traumas from your past.
The Relationship Series Podcast: Relationships & Lifestyle Design
In this episode of the Relationship Series Podcast, Ankush Jain speaks to Jill Whalen about her lifelong pattern of addictive friendships and how she finally saw them for what they were. This discussion includes Jill's views on: – why many of us form addictive friendships. – how life is often just one big addiction. ... Read more The post RSP 39: Unravelling the Roots of Addictive Relationships with Jill Whalen appeared first on Ankush Jain Limited.
Well, you might as well face it, you are ADDICTED TO LOVE! How do I know? Because you have been in 3 or more different romantic relationships with the same type of woman or man. How do I know that you are addicted to love? You break up on Friday, and are back into another relationship by Thursday. How do I know that you are addicted to love? Because no matter how many times you let that unhealthy and unproductive person out of your life, some how they masterfully find another entrance into your emotions. BUT YOU HAVE TO SUFFER THROUGH SHAME, GUILT OR ISOLATION ANY LONGER! YOU WILL STOP THE RELATIONSHIP RERUNS IN YOUR LIFE! Bad choices lead to bad relationships. We will inspire, empower and influence you to GIVE IT UP & TURN IT LOOSE those addictive love relationships. Please tune in for some REAL TALK about the REAL ISSUE of being drawn to the wrong relationships for the right reasons. Call 347-215-6446 to share your stories, testimonies and questions.