Podcast appearances and mentions of kelly mcdaniel

  • 47PODCASTS
  • 69EPISODES
  • 44mAVG DURATION
  • 1MONTHLY NEW EPISODE
  • Apr 30, 2025LATEST

POPULARITY

20172018201920202021202220232024


Best podcasts about kelly mcdaniel

Latest podcast episodes about kelly mcdaniel

Love Purpose Connection with Estelle Bingham
Understanding Mother Hunger, Self-Worth & Reparenting Your Inner Child with Kelly McDaniel

Love Purpose Connection with Estelle Bingham

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 43:41


Have you experienced Mother Hunger?There are invisible wounds many of us carry, the quiet aches from the care we didn't receive and the connections we longed for but never had.In this intimate and healing conversation, Kelly McDaniel - licensed professional counsellor, bestselling author, and women's advocate, introduces the life-changing concept of Mother Hunger.Together, we explore how early attachment injuries shape our sense of self, our relationships, and even how we experience loneliness, and what it takes to begin the tender work of healing.If you've ever struggled with feeling "not enough," found yourself stuck in painful relationship patterns, or carried a deep, nameless sadness, Kelly's compassionate insights will help you understand why, and how to start reconnecting with your true self.

Luisterrijk luisterboeken

Moederhonger gaat over de kinderlijke behoeften en verlangens die niet door de moeder konden worden vervuld. Kelly McDaniel loodst je door dit trauma heen en helpt je je verleden te helen. Uitgegeven door AnkhHermes, Uitgeverij Spreker: Carolina Mout

Life After Diets
183. The Mother Wound – How Our Mothers Screwed Us Up

Life After Diets

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 44:54


In this episode, Stef and Sarah delve into the emotional topic of the mother wound. The discussion begins with light-hearted banter but quickly deepens into a profound conversation about the impact mothers have on their children. They explore insights from books like "Mother Hunger" by Kelly McDaniel and "Discovering the Inner Mother" by Bethany Webster but also bring personal experiences into the room. The hosts discuss the different ways mothers can nurture and unintentionally wound their children (is the Mother Wound even avoidable from an existential perspective?) and how these experiences shape adult relationships and self-concept, including our relationships with food and bodies. They also touch on the societal pressures mothers face and the challenges of achieving a balance between nurturing, protection, and guidance. Stefanie's Somatic Experiencing and Nervous System Regulation Course is enrolling now! Use code: LADLISTENS for a discount at checkout. This course is for beginners looking to gain a broader insight into the role of the nervous system in symptoms of stress, anxiety, erratic moods, body image distress, and food issues. Join our growing support community. This community is for you if you want a safe space to work through your daily struggles with food and body image. Community membership includes livestream episode recordings (online), monthly Zoom support meetings, a private Facebook group and member-only Q&A episodes. For more information go to: https://www.patreon.com/lifeafterdiets Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/lifeafterdietspodcast Email – hello@lifeafterdietspod.com Connect with Stefanie Michele, Recovery Coach, Somatic Therapist IT Stef's Binge Recovery Course -- www.iamstefaniemichele.com/iamstefaniemichelecourse Website – www.iamstefaniemichele.com Instagram – www.instagram.com/iamstefaniemichele Connect with Sarah Dosanjh, Author & Psychotherapist Website – www.thebingeeatingtherapist.com Instagram – www.instagram.com/the_binge_eating_therapist YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBingeEatingTherapist Sarah's book I Can't Stop Eating is available on Amazon If you find this episode helpful, you can subscribe to the Life After Diets podcast, leave us a review, and share your thoughts with us on Instagram and YouTube (@lifeafterdietspodcast). Your feedback helps us create content that matters to you.

Le Gratin par Pauline Laigneau
#275 - Sophie Trudeau - Autrice et ambassadrice en santé mentale, “Mieux se connaître, mieux s'aimer”

Le Gratin par Pauline Laigneau

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2024 51:42


Je crois profondément que rien n'est impossible à ceux qui rêvent assez grand ! Et c'est précisément cette audace qui m'a conduite aujourd'hui à échanger avec une invitée inspirante, Sophie Grégoire Trudeau. Autrice, ambassadrice engagée pour la santé mentale, ancienne Première Dame du Canada, professeure de yoga, chanteuse, animatrice et bien plus encore, Sophie est un modèle de résilience et de transformation. Dans cet épisode, Sophie nous fait revivre son parcours et nous fait réfléchir à des sujets essentiels tels que l'obsession de la performance et l'importance du lâcher-prise. Sophie partage avec nous avec sincérité ses propres combats et les leçons tirées de ses expériences.J'espère de tout cœur que cet épisode vous plaira ! Si c'est le cas, n'hésitez pas à le partager autour de vous et à envoyer un petit mot à Sophie (je suis sûre que ça lui fera très plaisir) et pourquoi pas à me rejoindre sur les réseaux !Notes et références de l'épisode Pour retrouver Sophie : Sur Instagram Sur son site internet Le livre écrit par Sophie : Entre Nous - Mieux se connaître mieux s'aimer Les livres recommandés par Sophie : La folle allure de Christian BobinLe mythe de la normalité de Gabor Maté (version anglaise) Mother Hunger de Kelly McDaniel (version anglaise)L'odeur du café de Dany Laferrière Journal d'un écrivain en pyjama de Dany Laferrière Un certain art de vivre de Dany Laferrière (Liens affiliés Fnac)Chapitrage00:00 Introduction 02:25 Début de l'interview avec Sophie Grégoire37:57 Le crible du Podcast47:12 Les livres recommandés par Sophie Grégoire48:58 Fin de l'épisode1. Faites vous coacher par moi !DEMIAN, un concentré de 10 ans d'expérience d'entrepreneur. Les formations DEMIAN vous apportent des outils et méthodes concrètes pour développer votre projet professionnel.Il s'agit d'un concentré maximal de valeur et d'expérience pour qu'en quelques heures vous gagniez l'équivalent d'années de travail.2. La NewsLa News du vendredi est une mini newsletter pour vous nourrir en plus du podcast. C'est une newsletter très courte, à lire en 5mn top chrono de ce qui m'a marqué dans les dernières semaines : livres à lire, réflexions, applis à télécharger, citations, films ou documentaires à voir etc. Pour la recevoir, il n'y a qu'à s'abonner à la newsletter sur mon site !3. Des conseils concrets sur ma chaîne YouTubeEnvie de lancer votre propre podcast ? De bénéficier de conseils sur quel matériel utiliser ? Ma nouvelle chaîne YouTube est faite pour vous !4.Contactez-moi ! Si le podcast vous plaît, le meilleur moyen de me le dire, ou de me faire vos feed-backs (et ce qui m'aide le plus à le faire connaître) c'est simplement de laisser un avis 5 étoiles ou un commentaire sur l'application iTunes. Ça m'aide vraiment, alors n'hésitez pas :)Pour me poser des questions ou suivre mes tribulations c'est par ici :Sur Instagram @paulinelaigneauSur LinkedIn @pauline laigneauSur YouTube Pauline LaigneauVous pouvez consulter notre politique de confidentialité sur https://art19.com/privacy ainsi que la notice de confidentialité de la Californie sur https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nobody Told Me!
Kelly McDaniel: ...how to deal with "mother hunger"

Nobody Told Me!

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2024 32:08


If you've lost your mother, or were abused, neglected or abandoned by your mother, you may be suffering from “mother hunger”.  On this episode, we'll find out more about how being “under-mothered” impacts you throughout life.  Joining us is licensed trauma therapist Kelly McDaniel, whose latest book is called, "Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance".  Her website is kellymcdanieltherapy.com. Ritual's clinically-backed Essential For Women 18+ multivitamin has high-quality, traceable key ingredients in clean, bioavailable forms.  It's gentle on an empty stomach with a minty essence that helps make taking your multi-vitamin enjoyable. Here's a special offer for our Nobody Told Me listeners! Get 25% off your first month at ritual.com/NTM.  Start Ritual or add Essential for Women 18+ to your subscription today. If you struggle with hair loss, whether it's increased shedding, a widening part, thinning brows or sparse lashes, check out Nulastin.  It just might be the game changer you've been waiting for!  Nulastin serums are transforming---unlocking technology to give you thicker, fuller looking hair, brows and lashes in as soon as 6 weeks. Nobody Told Me listeners get 30% off!  Just go to nulastin.com/nobody and use code NOBODY30 for 30% off.

Feel Lit Alcohol Free
Sober & Strong: Embracing Inner Child Work for Emotional Resilience / EP. 028

Feel Lit Alcohol Free

Play Episode Play 36 sec Highlight Listen Later Jul 23, 2024 32:22 Transcription Available


Send us a Text Message.Welcome to the “Feel Lit Alcohol Free Podcast”! Today, we're diving into a topic that touches the very core of our emotional well-being: “Mother Hunger.” Have you ever wondered how unmet childhood needs can shape your adult life and relationships? Or how re-parenting yourself can be a powerful tool in your alcohol free  journey?In this episode, your hosts Coach Ruby Williams and Coach Susan Larkin are joined by the inspiring Cybele Botran, who has been alcohol-free for an incredible 13 years. Cybele trained under Kelly McDaniel the author of the book, "Mother Hunger." Cybele explains the profound impact of mother hunger on personal development and the path to inner healing.What does it mean to become your own inner loving parent? How can addressing these deep-seated emotional needs transform your sobriety journey? Our speakers share their personal stories, shedding light on the importance of self-discovery, meditation, gratitude, and the strength found in a supportive sober community.Get ready to uncover the emotional, physical, and spiritual dimensions of alcohol-free living. This episode promises to be a transformative experience, offering profound insights and practical resources. So, sit back, relax, and join us as we embark on this journey of healing and self-compassion. Let's dive in!Speaker BioCybele is an International Coaching Federation Professional Certified Coach (PCC), a SHE RECOVERS® Coach, a Mother Hunger® Trained Facilitator, and holds a Master's Degree in Education with over 40 years of teaching experience. She coaches self-identified women and nonbinary people who identify with women's communities. She runs workshops and courses on Mother Hunger, inner child work, and reparenting. Find out more about Cybele at: https://www.cybelebotran.com/Follow Cybele on Facebook, Instagram and ThreadsWe want to hear from you! Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and ask us any questions you have about breaking free from wine or living an alcohol-free lifestyle. Your question could be the highlight of a future episode! Grab your copy of our FREE WineFree Weekend Guide to help you on your alcohol free journey. https://feellitpodcast.com/Guide Find community and connection on the Feel Lit Alcohol Free Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/feellitalcoholfreepodcastWebsites:Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/ Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/Follow Susan: @drinklesswithsusanFollow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoachingIt is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

Mastermind Parenting Podcast
Post Mother's Day: Some of My Mothering Mistakes

Mastermind Parenting Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 34:20 Transcription Available


Mother's Day is so loaded for so many reasons. Now that it's in the rearview for another year, this is a great time to share some more of my most embarrassing/inspiring mothering mistakes. Embarrassing because they seem painfully obvious in hindsight. Inspiring because they're a loving reminder from me to you that no parent is perfect. We all want to do better for our kiddos than our parents did for us. The way to do that isn't to obsess over never messing up, or keep our mistakes secret. It's to own our falibility and let our kids see us as whole, complicated, loving human beings.In this episode, you'll learn:Some of the oops moments that have shaped my kiddos and our relationship over the years.Why I'm happy to let them roast me a little when we're reminiscing about times I've made a mess of things.How love and humor can grow out of being honest with yourself, your family, and the world about your parenting screw ups. And much more! As always, thanks for listening. Head over to Facebook, where you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community. We post tips and tools and do pop-up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it!Get all the links, resources, and transcripts here: https://mastermindparenting.com/podcast-288About Randi RubensteinRandi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong-willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays.She's the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S.At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along.Randi's Web and Social LinksWebsite: https://mastermindparenting.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mastermindparentingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mastermind_parenting/Resources Discussed/LinksMy chat with my son Alec about his needle phobia https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K0BXoDVVo_AMindset: The New Psychology Of Success, by Carol S. Dweckhttps://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/44330/mindset-by-carol-s-dweck-phd/Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance, by Kelly McDaniel https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/books/#motherhungerOur 12-week Basics Bootcamp program is now available as a 100% online self-study course! https://mastermindparenting.com/minimasters/Live assessment: https://mastermindparenting.com/live-assessment/

Voices of The Goddess
The Essence of Love ~ Voices of the Goddess with Matthew Anderson

Voices of The Goddess

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2024 37:29


Matthew Anderson shared with us how important it is to bring in the balance of feminine energy into a love relationship.Join us in this episode as we discuss the magnificent effects of being in love and staying in love.This brilliant man is a life coach, minister, author and an inspirational speaker. His book, The Resurrection of Romance is an Amazon best seller - https://www.amazon.com.au/Resurrection-Romance-Romantic-Relationship-Lifetime/dp/1530218705.He has also been a counselor/coach for 50 years and he conducts his full time practice virtually and specializes in couples and single adults. He also leads couples workshops with his wife Sunny. He and his wife currently live in South Florida.He may be reached at dra@dracoach.com.Book mentioned:Mother Hunger by Kelly McDaniel - https://www.amazon.com.au/Mother-Hunger-Understand-Nurturance-Protection/dp/1401960855 ***Co-host Graciela Laurent, is a published, award-winning and professionally certified portrait photographer specializing in Boudoir and Personal Branding. She creates portraits of who you are and not just what you look like so that you can become who you've always been.Website: http://www.gracielalaurent.com/Co-host Julietta Wenzel, the Magical PT is the owner and founder of Body and Soul PT, as well as Soul Candy: intuitive, hand-made and one-of-a-kind jewelry and artwork. She supports people in finding the magic within themselves, creating balance in their body and soul.Websites: https://bodyandsoul-pt.com & https://soulcandy.love/***Voices of The Goddess with Julietta & Graciela is a podcast where we Empower, Inspire, and Uplift women to be the goddesses they truly are.Join us each week as we sit down for a heart to heart chat, sharing stories and insights with listeners across the globe. Laughter and tears alike abound as we access ancient wisdom in modern times through unique and exciting storytelling - supporting you on your life's journey. If you want to feel more Empowered, Inspired & Uplifted you can find us here:https://www.votgpodcast.com/ https://www.instagram.com/voicesofthegoddess/ https://www.facebook.com/votgpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/thecircleofgoddesses https://www.youtube.com/VoicesoftheGoddess Shine bright and have a magical day!Julietta & Graciela

Bri Books
6 Best Books of 2023, According to Bri Books

Bri Books

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2024 18:44


Welcome to Bri Books! This week, as we'll be delving into all things literary, starting with a review of the 6 best books I read in 2023.  'The War Before: The True Life Story of Becoming A Black Panther, Keeping the Faith in Prison & Fighting for Those Left Behind' by Safiya Bukhari. This book was probably my most valuable and important read of 2023. It's the true-life story of Safiya Bukhari, and it catalogues her lifelong commitment as an advocate for the rights of the oppressed. Following her journey from middle-class student to Black Panter to political prisoner, her wiritings provide an intimate view of a woman wrestling with the issues of her time, including the legacy of the Panthers, misogyny in the movement, her decision to convert to Islandm, the incarceration of outspoken radicals around the world, her passion for family, and how the struggles of social justice movements have paved the way for the progress of today.  ‘Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance' by Kelly McDaniel. This book came recommended by Myleik Teele, founder of Curlbox and host behind Myleik Teele My Taught You podcast. It's truly a life-changing and life-saving book. It comes with countless insights on so many things. Having parts of this book hit home has been enlightening and healing at a whole new level. With ‘Mother Hunger', McDaniel helps women break the cycle of destructive behavior by taking a fresh look at childhood trauma and its lasting impact. McDaniel is the first clinician to identify Mother Hunger, which demystifies the search for love and provides the compass that each woman needs to end the struggle with achy, lonely emptiness, and come home to herself. 'The Yoga Almanac: 52 Practices and Rituals to Stay Grounded Through the Astrological Seasons,' by Lisette Cherreson and Andrea Rice. Sequenced by the astrological calendar, The Yoga Almanac is a practical guide to help you reintegrate with recurring cosmic rhythms, and invite the sacred into your life through learning, movement, breath, and ritual. Featuring 52 seasonally-themed chapters, the Almanac is a comprehensive jumping off point to deepen your relationship to yoga—and to yourself. ‘Forbidden Fairways: African Americans and the Game of Golf' by Calvin H. Sinnette.: The emergence of Tiger Woods on the international golf scene brought the world's attention to the African American experience in golf. But before Tiger, names like Ted Rhodes, Bill Spiller, Ann Gregory, and so many others remained in relative obscurity without being given the chance to compete. ‘Forbidden Fairways' is not just a history of the African Americans who have been playing golf for over 200 years but a tribute to them as well. ‘Spare' by Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex. Spare. Spare! WHAT can I even SAY about the book that kicked off 2023? For the first time, Prince Harry tells his own story, chronicling his journey with raw, unflinching honesty. A landmark publication, Spare is full of insight, revelation, self-examination, and hard-won wisdom about the eternal power of love over grief. From losing his mother, Princess Diana, as a tween to joining the British Army before meeting Meghan Markle his future wife, Harry spared nothing and no one in ‘Spare.' ‘Slow Living: The Secrets to Slowing Down and Noticing the Simple Joys Anywhere' by Helena Woods. This is a fantastic book that breaks down how to inject more calmness, stillness, and intentionality into your daily life. A must for 2024 and beyond!    

The Real Undressed with Deborah Kagan
324.Kelly McDaniel: The Silent Ache of Mother Hunger + the Pathway to Nurturing Your Inner Child

The Real Undressed with Deborah Kagan

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2024 57:03


Dive into a transformative conversation with Kelly McDaniel, a licensed professional counselor, author, and women's advocate who has sparked a movement with her concept of Mother Hunger. In this engaging episode of The Real Undressed, Kelly shines a light on the deep emotional burden that can shape a woman's entire life, from self-worth and eating patterns to relational wellness. You'll be captivated as she explores the power of naming the unspoken pain and the journey to healing. Discover strategies for nurturing insecure attachments and understand the impact of maternal deprivation on adult women.   In this episode you'll learn:   ~ how the concept of Mother Hunger resonates with many women and how it can manifest in their lives. ~ the importance of having a name for our pains and the relief that comes with identifying Mother Hunger. ~ the influence of society and a patriarchal culture on women's self-perception and self-nurture. ~ the lifelong effects of emotional and physical absence or abuse from a mother's love. ~ the role generational patterns play in the development of Mother Hunger. ~ the empowerment that comes from self-mothering and reorienting life to prioritize self-care. ~how men are also affected by Mother Hunger and its implications on their relationships with women. ~ the intricate dance between respecting oneself and navigating traditional roles or expectations in relationships. ~ and much more!     Connect with Kelly McDaniel Website |   https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/kellymcdanieltherapy/  Facebook |  https://www.facebook.com/kellymcdanieltherapy/       *****     MOJO *Be in the Know * VIP LIST   There's A LOT of new mojo coming your way this year. Don't miss out. Get yourself on the *be in the know * list ASAP. It's as simple as click, fill in, mojo! Cannot wait for you to be on the insider's list.  Get on it here:  https://mojo.deborah-kagan.com/email      *****   Connect with Deborah Website | http://therealundressed.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/therealundressed/   https://www.instagram.com/deborahkagan/ Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mojorecoveryspecialist/     Subscribe to The Real Undressed Podcast iTunes | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-real-undressed-with-deborah-kagan/id1494643770 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/1eOQaw6kryBsXo7Jb6qEnv   Please remember to: è Subscribe è Rate è Review the podcast. I read every single one and your feedback is valuable.  

Relationship As Medicine
Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Relationship As Medicine

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2024 35:59


I am so moved and honored to welcome Kelly McDaniel LPC, NCC to the podcast to discuss her book Mother Hunger, a personal life-changer that I frequently recommend to my clients. During this powerful conversation, we explore the term “Mother Hunger” and its various impacts on daughters with mothers who weren't able to tend to them in nurturing and supportive ways. We also discuss: The importance of using non-pathologizing language on experiences that are often so shamed   Yearning for nurturance, protection, and guidance and how someone might start the healing process Mother Hunger as an Epigenetic inheritance from our maternal lineage and how it affects a mother-child bond Implicit Memory and how our bodies carry experiences that elude verbal expression for many Disorganized attachment and confronting the labels society attaches, such as “bipolar disorder” and “borderline personality disorder”  and how these may reflect deeper, unmet needs. Whether you're a mental health professional or someone healing their own Mother Hunger, this conversation will offer insights and connection in a kind and compassionate way. I left this conversation feeling deeply touched by the depth and topics we navigated through and truly in awe of Kelly's ability to put words to such a heartbreaking experience that I have not only experienced but I know many of you have as well. About Kelly McDaniel, LPC, NCC Kelly McDaniel is a licensed professional counselor,author, mother, and women's advocate. In her first book Ready to Heal, (2008) she named an attachment injury as “Mother Hunger” and started a movement. Women resonated with the concept and wanted treatment. Since then, Kelly devotes herself to nurturing insecure attachment and maternal deprivation in adult women. In her second book, Mother Hunger, Kelly speaks to the millions of women who suffer with a life-long emotional burden that adversely affects self-worth, eating patterns, and relational wellness. Catch Kelly speaking at Hay House's I Can Do It! event in March 2024, located in Pheonix, AZ.  Website Purchase Mother Hunger  Instagram: @kellymcdanieltherapy

Fully Nourished®
Hungry For Nurture - Part 1

Fully Nourished®

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2023 45:35


Healing from trauma is a process that requires a nourished body and a shift into your feminine energy. Many women are finding themselves in a state of burnout in high masculine energy and are struggling to heal from their trauma as a result. We have to shift back to our core nature as women to truly process and heal from our traumas. As women, we desire to feel safe and secure and to have stability in our lives.  We often look at our symptoms, such as thin hair, dull skin, and infertility, and we do not see the underlying issue that our metabolism is out of whack. We've been stuck in burnout, and we are not nourishing our bodies to operate at the capacity that they should. Our relationship with our mothers has taken the main burden of shaping how we interpret feminine relationships and how we shape our sense of self. For those of us who are struggling with generations of mother wounds from abandonment, it can be difficult to find and embrace your feminine energy to nourish ourselves.This episode is such a deep cleansing dive that can help us take a deeper look at why and how we operate the way that we do and start to lean into the importance of nurturing ourselves, even if we never really learned how to. In this episode:[02:35] There is a connection between burnout and your identity and sense of self.[05:10] Healing our trauma is a physical process and requires nourishment to accomplish.[09:19] There are lasting effects of chronic adrenaline and cortisol on your fat and muscle tissues. [15:57] At our core, women desire to feel safe and to have stability.[19:12] The deep Mother Wound in our generation and the role it plays in our metabolism and how we nourish our bodies.[28:56] The relationship we have with our mothers shapes our sense of self.[37:55] We need to listen to our bodies and understand the consequences of ignoring what feels right in our bodies and the impact it can have on our children. [39:32] The metabolic process and symptoms of the mother wound and where we see it in society.[42:15] Thanks for listening today. Join us next week for Part 2!Links and Resources:Mother Hunger by Kelly McDaniel: https://amzn.to/3REryfY*Biology of Belief by Bruce Lipton: https://amzn.to/45bpW0j**Some of the links above are affiliate links. Your purchase may provide a small commission at no extra cost to you.Connect with Jessica:I'm launching my first membership!!! Check out Nourished Circle here: https://programs.jessicaashwellness.com/nourished-circle and leave doing your own research behind! PLUS during our Black Friday Sale you'll get a 50% off coupon for Fully Nourished. Connect with Jessica:Have Sunday tea with me! Sign-up for my Sunday newsletter where I share what's on my brain from the nutritional to spiritual: https://www.jessicaashwellness.com/email-subscribe. Ready to go deeper? Learn how to nourish yourself in a way that respects your unique female physiology in my signature Fully Nourished course: https://www.jessicaashwellness.com/fully-nourished Join the Fully Nourished community! Follow me @jessicaashwellness on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicaashwellness/

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
Intimacy Intolerance with Kelly McDaniel

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2023 38:23


What is intimacy? If you Google the term you might find varying--yet similar--definitions...but what does it mean to YOU? In this episode, Kelly McDaniel (author of "Ready to Heal" and "Mother Hunger") is back to talk with Jodi regarding what intimacy really is, and the reason why in love addiction--although we might crave closeness--we struggle to tolerate authentic intimacy. Music by JD Pendley

Nobody Told Me!
Kelly McDaniel: ...how to deal with "mother hunger"

Nobody Told Me!

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2023 27:33


If you've lost your mother, or were abused, neglected or abandoned by your mother, you may be suffering from “mother hunger”.  On this episode, we'll find out more about how being “under-mothered” impacts you throughout life.  Joining us is licensed trauma therapist Kelly McDaniel, whose latest book is called, "Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance".  Her website is kellymcdanieltherapy.com.   Ritual's "Essential for Women 18+" is one of the few women's multi-vitamins that's USP verified, meaning what's on the label is what's in the formula.  It's also soy-free, gluten-free, vegan-friendly and formulated without GMO's.  Ritual's "Essential for Women 18+" is a multi-vitamin you can actually trust. The minty essence in every bottle helps make taking your multi-vitamins enjoyable every day.  Ritual is offering our listeners 20% off during your first month!  Visit ritual.com/NTM to start Ritual or add "Essential for Women 18+" to your subscription today!

T-Talk
When It Hurts Like A Mother

T-Talk

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2023 35:11


Don't let your own issues with your mom hold you back in your parenting journey or your own relationship with yourself. Tune in to this episode as Natalie LeQuang spills the tea on how Kelly McDaniel's Mother Hunger transformed how she views her relationship with her own mom.  Top reasons to listen to the entire episode: Learn about the concept of Mother Hunger and how it can show up in different stages of life. Listen to Natalie's and Shaelene's experiences of healing while also navigating being new moms. Understand concepts of attachment wounding. Identify pivotal moments throughout the lifespan that are impacted by the relationship you have with your mom. Find concrete tools to start healing yourself through how you see the relationship with your mother. Had you ever heard of mother hunger before this episode? How much did it resonate with you? Share with me!   Full Show Notes Here   Connect with Natalie: @safehavenNashville @safehavenmama Connect with Shaelene:  Follow Shaelene on TikTok Follow Shaelene on Instagram Work With Shaelene Sign Up To Receive Emails From Shaelene DBT Group Practice Owners FB Group   Thanks for joining us on the T-Talk podcast! If you enjoyed this episode, please give it a 5-star rating and review. This helps the T-Talk mission of creating accessibility to mental health support and decreasing stigma. Interested in advertising your business or services on T-Talk? Check out our Podcast Sponsorship page, where you can check out everything included in our Pod Sponsor Package and see if it's the right fit for you, your audience and your business! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/t-talk-with-shaelene/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/t-talk-with-shaelene/support

Lunchtime Chats with BTO
S3Ep1: Attachment Theory and Relational Connection

Lunchtime Chats with BTO

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2023 55:27


Welcome to episode 1 of Season 3 of Lunchtime Chats with BTO! Join counselors Kierra Price and new official co-host Nic DiSalvo as they discuss all things relationships, starting with exploring attachment theory and attachment styles. In this episode, Kierra and Nic cover studies related to attachment theory, the biological components of attachment and trauma, and how to identify the four main attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized. Sources for this episode: Experiences in Close Relationships scale link: https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/ECR.php https://www.verywellmind.com/attachment-styles-2795344 Harlow, H. F. (1958). The nature of love. American Psychologist, 13(12), 673–685. https://doi.org/10.1037/h0047884 Ainsworth, M. D. S. (1978). Patterns of attachment: a psychological study of the strange situation. Hillsdale, N.J. : New York, Lawrence Erlbaum Associates. Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance by Kelly McDaniel, LPC You can always find more resources and information on our website brooklineteenoutreach.org. You can find counseling resources on our sister organization Compassionate Counseling's website compassionatecounselingpa.org. Thanks so much for listening! Want us to cover something specific? Reach out to us to request your topic: info@brooklineteenoutreach.org Connect with us! Website: brooklineteenoutreach.org Facebook @ facebook.com/brooklineteenoutreach Etsy Storefront @ PGHTeenCollaborative, https://www.etsy.com/shop/PGHTeenCollaborative?ref=shop_sugg_market Instagram @brooklineteenoutreach Twitter @brookline_teen LinkedIn @ Brookline Teen Outreach Center Patreon @ patreon.com/brooklineteenoutreach This episode is sponsored by Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/brooklineteenoutreach/support --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brooklineteenoutreach/support

Authentic Parenting
Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance with Kelly McDaniel

Authentic Parenting

Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2023 58:47


Mother loss comes in many forms: cancer, suicide, illness, murder, accidents. And while many women still have their mothers, they have lost them to abandonment, addiction, memory malfunction, mental illness and more.  Kelly McDaniel is an author and clinician supporting women on the journey toward relational wholeness.  In her first book, Ready to Heal, she addresses cultural double standards and family wounds that set women up for addictive relationship habits. Her second book, Mother Hunger, is the culmination of 30 years of research, clinical expertise, and a deep understanding of mothering myths. Mother Hunger provides women a name for the misunderstood root of poor eating patterns, chronic relationship disappointment, and distorted self image. In Mother Hunger what Kelly does is validate the experience of mother loss by giving a poignant name to a phenomenon that many will know very well and offer an elegant and useful framework for healing.  In short, this is a conversation about childhood attachment injuries and their lasting impact. Kelly destigmatized the shame that comes with being under-mothered and offers a healing path with powerful tools that include lifestyle changes and therapeutic interventions.  SUPPORT THE SHOW, SHOW YOUR LOVE Become a patron on Patreon.com and join exisiting memebers who contribute towards our monthly goal of $500.  Make a one-time donation in any amount to say “Thank you!” Rate or write a review FULL SHOW NOTES www.authenticparenting.com/podcast HOW TO WORK WITH ANNA I would be thrilled to support you in your parenting journey! All listeners get 10% off on my services. Private Coaching Online courses and classes GET IN TOUCH Comments, questions, feedback, and love notes  USA listeners call 732-763-2576 and leave a voicemail. International listeners use the FREE Speak Pipe tool on my website Email: info@authenticparenting.com STAY CONNECTED Instagram Facebook Group-Authentic Parenting Community Thank you for listening!  With gratitude, Anna Seewald Parent Educator, Keynote Speaker, Author www.authenticparenting.com 

Your Permission Prescription with Nancy Levin
E97: Encore - How to Heal Your Mother Hunger® with Kelly McDaniel

Your Permission Prescription with Nancy Levin

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2023 41:58


In this week's episode of Your Permission Prescription, I'm sharing an encore episode I previously recorded with Kelly McDaniel, the author of Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance. We discuss the complex roots of attachment injuries, otherwise known as Mother Hunger®,  and the common denominator we all experience where there is a lack of nurturing, protection, and guidance.  If you're interested in learning more about how to identify and heal your Mother Hunger®, join me for my daylong workshop Mother Hunger: An Exploration on Saturday, April 22, 2023 live on zoom! Register at nancylevin.com/motherhunger Connect with me: nancylevin.com Instagram Facebook Transform Together Facebook Group

Sober Curious
Healing Our Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Sober Curious

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2023 57:00


In this episode, you will hear me in conversation with Kelly McDaniel, a therapist and author, whose latest book, Mother Hunger, examines the impact on women specifically of having lacked the proper nurturance, protection, and guidance from their primary maternal figure in early life.The reason I wanted to speak to Kelly in the context of “women without kids,” is that it seems obvious to me that living with mother hunger can't NOT have an impact on how one feels about becoming a mother, or about the experience of being a mother after having had a child. In  the episode we discuss:-Kelly's definition of “mother hunger” and how she came up with the term.-Why 50% of the population experience mother hunger and how it manifests in issues around food and love.-What causes mother hunger - and why this is often the result of an epigenetic inheritance.-Why structural issues make it harder for mothers and babies to bond - and the lifelong attachment issues that can result from this.-How mother hunger impacts our procreative choices and how we may feel about becoming mothers ourselves.-The links between mother hunger, anorexia, and being “a-reproductive” (i.e. having no desire to reproduce).-The impact of a lack of paid parental leave on mother hunger-Why choosing not to have a child can be the most “loving” choice if we are aware that our capacity to mother is being compromised.-Why our materialistic, consumer culture is just another substitute mother - and a way we seek to soothe our mother hunger.Learn more about Kelly and her work HERE and check out Mother Hunger HERE.You can get your copy of Women Without Kids: The Revolutionary Rise of an Unsung Sisterhood HERE. 

Women Without Kids
Non-Motherhood and Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Women Without Kids

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2023 56:27


Therapist and author Kelly McDaniel on the links between non-motherhood and what she calls "mother hunger." In the episode we discuss:-Kelly's definition of “mother hunger” and how she came up with the term.-Why 50% of the population experience mother hunger and how it manifests in issues around food and love.-What causes mother hunger - and why this is often the result of an epigenetic inheritance.-Why structural issues make it harder for mothers and babies to bond - and the lifelong attachment issues that can result from this.-How mother hunger impacts our procreative choices and how we may feel about becoming mothers ourselves.-The links between mother hunger, anorexia, and being “a-reproductive” (i.e. having no desire to reproduce).-The impact of a lack of paid parental leave on mother hunger.-Why choosing not to have a child can be the most “loving” choice if we are aware that our capacity to mother is being compromised.-Why our materialistic, consumer culture is just another substitute mother - and a way we seek to soothe our mother hunger.Learn more about Kelly's work HERE and find her book, Mother Hunger, HERE.Get your copy of Women Without Kids: The Revolutionary Rise of an Unsung Sisterhood HERE.

TELUS Talks with Tamara Taggart
Healing childhood trauma: Kelly McDaniel

TELUS Talks with Tamara Taggart

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2022 34:51


Clinical counselor Kelly McDaniel, author of Mother Hunger, discusses why secure maternal attachment in childhood is critical to emotional health and well-being in adulthood. She shares how societal pressures and patriarchal attitudes have hindered women's natural mothering instincts, how “mother hunger” can affect women's adult relationships, and how to break the cycle of trauma to enjoy greater health and well-being.

The Reading Culture
Voice Training: Zetta Elliott on Reckoning with Your Past and Disrupting the Future

The Reading Culture

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2022 29:12


On Today's Show"When you're a kid, and if you love to read, you love stories, you aren't always aware of the fact that you're being erased from those stories, or you don't yet have the expectation that you should be in those books." - Zetta Elliott Scholar and author Zetta Elliott knows the long-term damage of not having representative, relatable stories to read while growing up. Growing up Black in suburban Canada in the '80s meant rarely seeing herself in the books she read. It wasn't until she was a young adult that she realized that erasure's impact on her own voice as a writer.While she is best known for her Dragons in a Bag series, Zetta has had a prolific writing career and spent a great deal of time advocating for fairness and representation in children's literature. She tells us about how she found and reclaimed her voice and her struggles with publishing as a Black author.ContentsChapter 1 - Getting to Know Zetta Elliott (2:02)Chapter 2 - Being Left Out of Literature (5:50)Chapter 3 - Zetta Finds Her Voice (10:46)Chapter 4 - Won't You Celebrate With Me? (14:49)Chapter 5 - Self-Publishing (18:03)Chapter 6 - The Future Depends on Now (23:15)Chapter 7 - Beanstack Featured Librarian (27:10)Today, Beanstack's featured librarian is Kelly McDaniel, assistant director for the Piedmont Regional Library System in northeast Georgia. We had her spill her secrets on how she gets kids excited about reading.Links http://thereadingculturepod.com/ https://www.zettaelliott.com/ https://www.beanstack.com/ https://thereadingculturepod.com/zetta-elliott 

Nobody Told Me!
Kelly McDaniel: ...how to deal with "mother hunger"

Nobody Told Me!

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2022 32:54


Our guest is licensed trauma therapist Kelly McDaniel, whose book is called, "Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance". Her website is kellymcdanieltherapy.com. Thanks to our sponsors of this episode!: Everlywell is digital healthcare designed for you — all at an affordable and transparent price. With over thirty at-home lab tests, you'll be able to choose the test that makes the most sense for you to get the answers you need, like the Metabolism Test or Food Sensitivity Test. Everlywell ships products straight to you with everything needed in one package. To take your at-home lab test, simply collect your sample and use the included prepaid shipping label to mail your test back to a certified lab. Your physician-reviewed results get sent to your phone or device in just days! If you've been experiencing symptoms and don't know where to start, Everlywell is committed to listening and supporting your journey towards better health and wellness. For listeners of Nobody Told Me!, Everlywell is offering a special discount of twenty percent off an at-home lab test at everlywell.com/nobody. That's everlywell.com/nobody for twenty percent off your next at-home lab test. Coda.io With teams working all across the country, if your best work is spread out across documents and spreadsheets, and a stack of workflow tools you have to jump in and out of all day, you need Coda, the doc that brings it all together. Coda is endlessly customizable AND connected. There are templates for anything and everything. Product roadmap, remote onboarding, OKR tracker, meeting notes...You name it, Coda has it. Coda adapts to growing teams and changing strategies. And perhaps most importantly Coda seamlessly integrates with the tools you need. Everything in Coda is synched. Make an update in a table, and it automatically shows up everywhere. No more relying on copy & paste to keep lynchpin projects current! Your team can operate on the same information and collaborate the way we all want to, quickly and efficiently. With Coda, you can solve just about anything. And right now you can get started having your team all working together on the same page for FREE. Head over to Coda.IO/nobodytoldme to get started for FREE.  Coda.IO/nobodytoldme Policygenius is an insurance marketplace that makes it easy to compare quotes from top companies like AIG and Prudential in one place to find your lowest price on life insurance. You could save 50% or more on life insurance by comparing quotes with Policygenius. Options start at just $17 per month for $500,000 of coverage. Just head to Policygenius.com to get personalized quotes in minutes and find the right policy for your needs. The licensed agents at Policygenius work for you, not the insurance companies. They're on hand through the entire process to help you understand your options so you can make decisions with confidence. Policygenius has options that offer coverage in as little as a week and avoid unnecessary medical exams. Policygenius has thousands of five-star reviews across Google and Trustpilot and they've helped more than 30 million people shop for insurance since 2014. Head to policygenius.com to get your free life insurance quotes and see how much you could save. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Food Issues
S7:E4: Breastfeeding Problems, Trauma, and Postpartum Mental Health

Food Issues

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 34:48


We all know “breast is best,” but that doesn't mean breastfeeding always comes naturally or is easy. Many moms struggle with pain, low milk supply, and other breastfeeding problems and often don't have the support they need. In this episode, I sat down with Dr. Kathleen Kendall-Tackett, a health psychologist, International Board Certified Lactation Consultant, and author of Breastfeeding Doesn't Need to Suck. She is also the owner and editor-in-chief of Praeclarus Press.  Kathleen and I talk about the most common breastfeeding problems, why our breasts actually have a storage capacity, why moms quit breastfeeding, and where they can turn for help and support. We also talk about how complex trauma and mental health issues can come into play for breastfeeding moms, why the healthcare system—and society—often fails moms, and what all new moms need to know.  Welcome 2:03 Let's talk about your story! 3:30 What is the biggest challenge for breastfeeding moms today?  9:00 Who should moms see to get help? 12:16 What should moms know about the effects of trauma on pregnancy, labor/delivery, postpartum health, and breastfeeding? 16:05 For moms who are pregnant or thinking about becoming pregnant, should they see a therapist to tease out these issues? 17:13 What is lacking when it comes to healthcare and support after moms give birth?23:26 What are the most common reasons moms quit breastfeeding?  23:41 How can women determine if they have a low milk supply? 27:28 Does nipple pain always have to do with an incorrect latch? 29:30 Can you talk about research that shows moms who have epidurals are less likely to exclusively breastfeed? 30:14 What are tips for moms dealing with breastfeeding problems? LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Kathleen mentions this article in the journal Clinical Lactation which found that breastfeeding moms get more sleep than moms who supplement with formula.  Kathleen talks about Dr. Jack Newman.  Kathleen mentions this 2008 study in JAMA Pediatrics which found that pediatricians are less likely to believe breastfeeding works.  Kathleen mentions Tina Smillie. Kathleen mentions Survivor Moms' Companion.  Julie mentions the book Mother Hunger, by Kelly McDaniel.  Purchase a copy of Kathleen's book, Breastfeeding Doesn't Need to Suck.  Learn more about Kathleen on her website. Follow Kathleen on Facebook and Twitter. FROM OUR PARTNERS Kids Cook Real Food eCourse The Kids Cook Real Food eCourse, created by a mom of 4 and a former elementary school teacher, is designed to build connection, confidence, and creativity in the kitchen. The course includes 30 basic cooking skills, 45 videos including several bonuses, printable supply and grocery shopping lists, and kid-friendly recipes. The course is designed for all kids ages 2 to teen and has three different skill levels. More than 18,000 families have taken the course and The Wall Street Journal named it the #1 cooking class for kids. Sign up now for the Kids Cook Real Food ecourse and get a free lesson for being a “Food Issues” listener. Thrive Market Thrive Market is an online membership-based market that has the highest quality, organic, non-GMO, healthy, and sustainable products. From groceries, clean beauty, safe supplements, and non-toxic home products to ethical meat, sustainable seafood, clean wine, and more, Thrive Market is where members save an average of $32 on every order! Through Thrive Gives, every paid membership sponsors a free one for a low-income family. Join Thrive Market today and get 25% off your first order and a free gift. 

That You May Know Him
World Under Water - Beginnings, Part 15 - Episode 136

That You May Know Him

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2022 51:37


Blake and Kevin dive into Genesis chapter 7 and the events leading up to God flooding the entire earth. They discuss the massive responsibilities placed on Noah and his family, and also, dive into Noah's paternal lineage in an effort to uncover the singular event that initiated the flood.Beginnings is a series produced by That You May Know Him Ministries and is hosted by Blake Barbera and Kevin Powell.   Show Notes:   With: Blake Barbera and Kevin Powell   Scripture Reading by Kelly McDaniel   Website: www.thatyoumayknowhim.com   Send us an email: info@thatyoumayknowhim.com   Buy Blake's Book: Secularism, the Church, and the Way Forward https://wipfandstock.com/978166671051...Subscribe to That You May Know Him on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQj8J9HlcMgTA7Z5raVpeEA/featuredSubscribe to the Podcast: https://www.thatyoumayknowhim.com/listeniTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4KIz8KN...Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/99551148-3529-466b-a628-dfe594d26eca/that-you-may-know-himCastbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/4743963?country=usConnect w/ Blake on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blake.barber...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/barberablake/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/realblakebarb  Support the show

Tell Me Something True with Laura McKowen
Kelly McDaniel on Mother Hunger

Tell Me Something True with Laura McKowen

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2022 60:52 Very Popular


An insatiable need for romantic attention and love. Periods of overeating or starving. Using alcohol, food, or over-working to numb out. A pattern of unstable and painful relationships. Does this sound painfully familiar? Kelly McDaniel is a trauma therapist who saw these traits over and over in clients who felt trapped in cycles of harmful behaviors and were unable to stop. In 2008, she coined the term Mother Hunger as a way to describe this pattern and has since helped countless women. In this conversation, Kelly and Laura talk about: – What Mother Hunger is – How Mother Hunger shows up in our relationship to food – The three critical elements of mothering and what happens when those needs aren't met – What Mother Hunger looks like in other relationships, like friendships and at work – The link between food and unstable relationship patterns – The concept of “frozen grief” – The double-bind women face when it comes to sexual expression – How to begin to heal Episode link: https://www.tmstpod.com/episodes/51-kelly-mcdaniel-on-mother-hunger Show notes: Ready to Heal book Mother Hunger book Kelly's website: https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/ Kelly's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellymcdanieltherapy/ Spotify playlist for this episode: Tell Me Something True is a 100% independent podcast. There are no corporations or advertisers backing this community. We are 100% funded by the TMST community. Become a TMST member today so you can hear the uncut interviews, attend private events with Laura and help keep TMST ad-free. ==== TMST is hosted by Laura McKowen, the bestselling author of We Are The Luckiest and founder of The Luckiest Club. Follow the show and Laura on Instagram.

Red Table Talk
How Mothers Can Damage Their Daughters: Could This Be You?

Red Table Talk

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2022 35:06


Did you know there are THREE CRITICAL NEEDS every daughter requires from her mother? If they aren't met, the effects can be devastating. "Mother Hunger" author and trauma psychotherapist Kelly McDaniel joins the table as Jada, Gammy and Willow open up about how their mothers affected them. Entertainment reporter Tanika Ray discovers how her destructive behaviors are linked to a strained relationship. A 25-year-old woman is anxious about passing along unresolved trauma to her children. A motherless mother shares how devastating losses have affected her own parenting. Don't miss this unforgettable RTT full of life-changing wisdom! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Spiked Sweet Tea
Mother Hunger

Spiked Sweet Tea

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2022 54:44


Dena and Aprylle pulled from the Red Table to discuss the book Mother Hunger written by their recent guest, Kelly McDaniel. You're in for a rare treat as the ladies get personal about the relationships with their own mothers. #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeaPodcast #Blackwomenpodcasts #supportblackwomen #protectblackwomen #blackgirlmagic

Red Table Talk
How Destructive Mothers Damage Their Daughters: Could This Be You?

Red Table Talk

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2022 35:04


Did you know there are THREE CRITICAL NEEDS every daughter requires from her mother? If they aren't met, the effects can be devastating. "Mother Hunger" author and trauma psychotherapist Kelly McDaniel joins the table as Jada, Gammy and Willow open up about how their mothers affected them. Entertainment reporter Tanika Ray discovers how her destructive behaviors are linked to a strained relationship. A 25-year-old woman is anxious about passing along unresolved trauma to her children. A motherless mother shares how devastating losses have affected her own parenting. Don't miss this unforgettable RTT full of life-changing wisdom! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

That You May Know Him
The Great Deluge - Beginnings, Part 14 - Episode 132

That You May Know Him

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 47:08


Blake and Kevin dive into Genesis chapter 6 and the biblical account of the flood. They discuss what qualities made Noah a righteous man, the immense task that God placed before him, and the biblical record of the ark itself. Come along as the hosts jump into this amazing story!Beginnings is a series produced by That You May Know Him Ministries and is hosted by Blake Barbera and Kevin Powell.   Show Notes:   With: Blake Barbera and Kevin Powell   Scripture Reading by Kelly McDaniel   Website: www.thatyoumayknowhim.com   Send us an email: info@thatyoumayknowhim.com   Buy Blake's Book: Secularism, the Church, and the Way Forward https://wipfandstock.com/978166671051...Subscribe to That You May Know Him on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQj8J9HlcMgTA7Z5raVpeEA/featuredSubscribe to the Podcast: https://www.thatyoumayknowhim.com/listeniTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4KIz8KN...Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/99551148-3529-466b-a628-dfe594d26eca/that-you-may-know-himCastbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/4743963?country=usConnect w/ Blake on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blake.barber...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/barberablake/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/realblakebarb  Support the show

That You May Know Him
Miracles and the Gospel - Beginnings, Part 13 - Episode 129

That You May Know Him

Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2022 45:44


Blake and Kevin continue their way through the book of Acts (chapter 3) and pick up the discussion that began in Episode 125 (Beginnings, Part12). Miracles happen all throughout the Bible (and the book of Acts), and in today's episode, the hosts discuss how Peter and John used the miraculous event that occurred at the temple to publically share the Gospel and bring many to salvation.Beginnings is a series produced by That You May Know Him Ministries and is hosted by Blake Barbera and Kevin Powell.   Show Notes:   With: Blake Barbera and Kevin Powell   Scripture Reading by Kelly McDaniel   Website: www.thatyoumayknowhim.com   Send us an email: info@thatyoumayknowhim.com   Buy Blake's Book: Secularism, the Church, and the Way Forward https://wipfandstock.com/978166671051...Subscribe to That You May Know Him on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQj8J9HlcMgTA7Z5raVpeEA/featuredSubscribe to the Podcast: https://www.thatyoumayknowhim.com/listeniTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4KIz8KN...Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/99551148-3529-466b-a628-dfe594d26eca/that-you-may-know-himCastbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/4743963?country=usConnect w/ Blake on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blake.barber...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/barberablake/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/realblakebarb  Support the show

The goop Podcast
Repairing an Imperfect Mother-Daughter Relationship

The goop Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2022 36:54 Very Popular


Kelly McDaniel is a licensed professional counselor and the author of Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance. In this conversation, McDaniel joins cohost Erica Chidi to talk about the experience of yearning for maternal love. McDaniel explains how this type of longing impacts our sense of self and other types of relationships as we become adults. “Depending on what we each did to earn our mother's love—what we end up doing is duplicating that with friendships, in romantic partnerships, and sometimes at work,” says McDaniel. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

That You May Know Him
Miracles - Beginnings, Part 12 - Episode 125

That You May Know Him

Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2022 48:40


In Beginnings, Part 12, Blake and Rich (who's subbing in for Kevin) jump into Acts 3: the healing of the lame man at the gate of the temple. Miracles - supernatural events that occur when God displays his authority over natural laws in order to reveal himself to people - happen everywhere in the Bible and are still happening in the world today! Join Blake and Rich as they discuss an abundance of issues regarding miracles, including their response to those who say they no longer happen, and, their guidance for the local church: expect God to reveal Himself in supernatural ways but stay focused on the miracle-giver and not on the miracles themselves.Beginnings is a series produced by That You May Know Him Ministries and is hosted by Blake Barbera and Kevin Powell (today, Rich Ressel is subbing in for Kevin).   Show Notes:   With: Blake Barbera and Rich Ressel   Scripture Reading by Kelly McDaniel   Website: www.thatyoumayknowhim.com   Send us an email: info@thatyoumayknowhim.com   Buy Blake's Book: Secularism, the Church, and the Way Forward https://wipfandstock.com/978166671051...Subscribe to That You May Know Him on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQj8J9HlcMgTA7Z5raVpeEA/featuredSubscribe to the Podcast: https://www.thatyoumayknowhim.com/listeniTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4KIz8KN...Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/99551148-3529-466b-a628-dfe594d26eca/that-you-may-know-himCastbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/4743963?country=usConnect w/ Blake on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blake.barber...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/barberablake/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/realblakebarb  Support the show

That You May Know Him
The Sons of God, the Nephilim, and the Lost World Of the Flood - Beginnings, Part 11 - Episode 122

That You May Know Him

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2022 45:16


In today's episode, the hosts dive into Genesis chapter 6 and the Lost World of the Flood. Blake and Kevin discuss an array of issues that are raised by Genesis 6: who were the Nephilim? Who are the "Sons of God" in the Old Testament? How many people were on the earth in the days of Noah? And, why did God flood the earth? This episode will surely challenge everything you have been told about the world before the flood, and hopefully, illuminate many of the areas of Scripture that had been previously mysterious. Beginnings is a series produced by That You May Know Him Ministries and is hosted by Blake Barbera and Kevin Powell.   Show Notes:   With: Blake Barbera and Kevin Powell   Scripture Reading by Kelly McDaniel   Website: www.thatyoumayknowhim.com   Send us an email: info@thatyoumayknowhim.com   Buy Blake's Book: Secularism, the Church, and the Way Forward https://wipfandstock.com/978166671051... Subscribe to That You May Know Him on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQj8J9HlcMgTA7Z5raVpeEA/featured Subscribe to the Podcast: https://www.thatyoumayknowhim.com/listen iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4KIz8KN... Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/99551148-3529-466b-a628-dfe594d26eca/that-you-may-know-him Castbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/4743963?country=us Connect w/ Blake on social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blake.barber... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/barberablake/   Twitter: https://twitter.com/realblakebarb  Support the show

Mamaste with Tanika Ray
Mama, Me, Myself, & I

Mamaste with Tanika Ray

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2022 39:34


We can put in all the effort, all the work, all the intense struggle that we have inside of us to try and overcome trauma, but sometimes it still sticks around. Trauma, especially that which we suffered as children, has a tendency to rear its head at the most surprising moments and all of the self love and self care in the world won't ever fully heal us. But the amazing thing we can gain from it is wisdom, courage, and a sense of enduring peace and empowerment.Today, I'm putting it all out there and sharing with you some thoughts I had after a discussion about the book Mother Hunger by Kelly McDaniel. If you're a regular listener, you've probably heard me speak about my mother and the complicated relationship I share with her—this is a further peak into that.Tune in and listen to episode twenty three of Mamaste with Tanika Ray. I'm diving deep and getting real about the way my upbringing and my relationship with my mother affected everything from the way I learned to love others, to picking men, to parenting my own daughter.In This Episode, You Will Learn:I parent my daughter in a way that I wasn't when I was a little girl (04:35)I've put in so much work to overcome my childhood trauma, but it still surfaces and surprises even me (07:00)I automatically respond when I'm triggered the way I, unbeknownst to me, triggered my mother. It's all connected (09:23)Being a mother myself made me realize that I have the ability in my hands to fuck her life up royally or to make her life manageable (14:44)It's so easy to break your child's heart, to burn out their spirit (18:17)Continue to discover yourself, continue to remind yourself what love is, continue to ask yourself and question, “Does this work?” (26:22)Mothering yourself can be an amazing experience in healing (32:25)Resources mentioned:Mother Hunger by Kelly McDanielLet's Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramYouTubeTwitter Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

That You May Know Him
Back to the Garden - Beginnings, Part 9 - Episode 115

That You May Know Him

Play Episode Play 21 sec Highlight Listen Later Mar 16, 2022 45:16


Blake and Kevin continue our ongoing series, Beginnings, by going back to the Garden of Eden and answering a number of important questions that arise from Genesis 3: did Adam actually die when he ate of the tree? Did man and woman have equal consequences for sin? Has the curse on the ground been reversed? Is there significance to Adam naming Eve after the fall and not before it? All this and more on today's episode!  Beginnings is a series produced by That You May Know Him Ministries and is hosted by Blake Barbera and Kevin Powell.  Show Notes:   With: Blake Barbera and Kevin Powell   Scripture Reading by Kelly McDaniel   Website: www.thatyoumayknowhim.com   Send us an email: info@thatyoumayknowhim.com   Subscribe to That You May Know Him on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQj8J9HlcMgTA7Z5raVpeEA/featured   Subscribe to the Podcast: https://www.thatyoumayknowhim.com/listen iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4KIz8KN... Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/99551148-3529-466b-a628-dfe594d26eca/that-you-may-know-him  Castbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/4743963?country=us    Buy Blake's Book: Secularism, the Church, and the Way Forward https://wipfandstock.com/978166671051... Connect w/ Blake on social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blake.barber... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/barberablake/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realblakebarb  Support the show

Not Only, But Also
Rambling, but also reasoning

Not Only, But Also

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2022 62:15


Renee and Nicole are back with their first ever shoot-the-breeze-episode, in which you are invited into their back-and-forth of trying to figure out this week's topic. They end up discussing mentoring, heaven and hell, Oprah, and justice, among other things...including Renee discovering that she prefers monogamy. Welcome to the process.Special appearances by Jonathan Cottrell  and our very own producer, Evan Bates. Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” and outro by Gregory Kyle Klughttps://gregorykyle.com/Referenced in this episode:“Mother Hunger” by Kelly Mcdaniel

Velvet's Edge with Kelly Henderson
Our First Love: Mother Hunger (the Velvet)

Velvet's Edge with Kelly Henderson

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2022 66:58


In the first podcast of this "Month Of Love" on Velvet's Edge, Kelly is joined by licensed therapist and author, Kelly McDaniel. Kelly is the author of Ready to Heal: Breaking Free of Addictive Relationships and her latest book, Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection and Guidance. The women address the ins and outs of toxic relationship dynamics that are so normalized in our society, why our relationships with our mother's are such an integral part of these dynamics and the steps to healing and finding the love and intimacy you truly deserve.  website: kellymcdanieltherapy.com Instagram: @kellymcdanieltherapy  Books: Ready To Heal  Mother Hunger Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com

Worth Recovery
Episode 175: Worth Reading - ”Ready to Heal”

Worth Recovery

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2022 37:45


Worth Reading is a series of podcasts where I share my review of books that have had meaning to me throughout the recovery process.   Today I reflect on "Ready to Heal: Breaking Free of Addictive Relationships" by Kelly McDaniel.  Kelly does a beautiful job explaining some of the unique considerations that need to be made for women in recovery from love, relationship, or sex addiction.  I share some of the most meaningful insights she provides and expand on how they impacted me in recovery.    

reading heal kelly mcdaniel addictive relationships
SHE RECOVERS® Podcast
Episode 61: Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

SHE RECOVERS® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2021 69:01


Kelly McDaniel, LPC, NCC, CSAT, is a licensed professional counselor and author, specializing in treating women who struggle with relationships. As the first clinician to name an attachment injury as Mother Hunger, she explores the legacy of maternal deprivation. Her book 'Mother Hunger', speaks to the millions of women who suffer with a life-long emotional burden that adversely affects self-worth.This podcast episode is Dawn Nickel and Kelly's live session of #MentalHealthMonday.An endless ache to love and be loved. Periods of overeating or starving. A pattern of unstable moods and painful relationships.Do any of these sound familiar?Trauma psychotherapist and author Kelly McDaniel has seen these traits over and over in clients who feel trapped in cycles of harmful behaviors — and are unable to stop.Many of us find ourselves stuck in unhealthy habits simply because we don't see a better way. With Mother Hunger, Kelly McDaniel helps women break the cycle of destructive behavior by taking a fresh look at childhood attachment injuries and their lasting impact.In doing so, she de-stigmatizes the shame that can come with being under-mothered and misdiagnosed, and offers a healing path with powerful tools that include therapeutic interventions and lifestyle changes.In this session of #MentalHealthMonday, Kelly McDaniel weaves her 30 years of research, clinical expertise, and a deep understanding of mothering myths, to explore 'Mother Hunger' and provide an opportunity to understand and heal the misunderstood root of poor eating patterns, chronic relationship disappointment, and distorted self-image. Connect with Kelly at  kellymcdanieltherapy.com and on Instagram: @kellymcdanieltherapy .The SHE RECOVERS FOUNDATION is a grassroots movement and non-profit public charity with a community of women in or seeking recovery from substance use disorders, behavioral health issues and/or life challenges. This lifeline organization connects women through its virtual platforms and in-person community networks, provides resources and supports women to develop their own holistic recovery patchworks, and empowers them to thrive and share their successes. All efforts are designed to end the stigma and shame often associated with recovery so that more women may heal and grow.SHE RECOVERS has launched a partnership with BetterHelp to provide accessible and individualized therapy to those seeking healing.We are honored to offer our listeners a 35% discount on the first month of therapy @  BetterHelp until December 31. Register at betterhelp.com/srf.  SHE RECOVERS is grateful to BetterHelp for making a $100,000 donation in support of our mission in 2021.

The Insider Travel Report Podcast
A Glimpse Into Azamara‘s Future as an Independent Brand

The Insider Travel Report Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2021 15:10


Carol Cabezas, president of Azamara, talks with Kelly McDaniel, on assignment for Insider Travel Report, about Azamara's return to sailing as an independent brand, upcoming voyages and destinations, plans for future programming, as well as Azamara's newest ship, Azamara Onward. For more information, visit www.azamara.com. If interested, the original video of this podcast -- with supplemental pictures and video -- can be found on the Insider Travel Report Youtube channel  or by searching for the podcast's title on Youtube. 

You Can Heal Your Life®
Kelly McDaniel | Mother Hunger (Audiobook Excerpt)

You Can Heal Your Life®

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2021 42:04


This is an excerpt from Kelly McDaniel's audiobook, Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection and Guidance. You can listen to the full audiobook FREE for 14 days in the Hay House Unlimited Audio App. Apple users visit hayhouse.com/apple and Android users visit hayhouse.com/google.

You Can Heal Your Life®
Kelly McDaniel | Healing Your Attachment Injury 

You Can Heal Your Life®

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2021 34:57


50% of people experience a lifelong emotional burden from an attachment injury trauma counselor Kelly McDaniel has coined “mother hunger.” Join Kelly, in conversation with life coach Nancy Levin, as she delves into the causes of “mother hunger,” how it can impact our lives, and where to go to begin your healing. You can listen to Kelly's new audiobook, Mother Hunger FREE for 14 days in the Hay House Unlimited Audio App. Try now! Apple: hayhouse.com/apple or Android: hayhouse.com/google 

Your Permission Prescription with Nancy Levin
E6: How to Heal Your Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Your Permission Prescription with Nancy Levin

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2021 39:09


It's a true joy to welcome Kelly McDaniel, author of Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance, to Your Permission Prescription this week! In this episode, Kelly shares the complex roots of attachment injuries and the common denominator we all experience where there is a lack of nurturing, protection, and guidance. Prepare to take notes and begin to heal as we discuss a connection so many of us yearn for and how it's shaped from birth.

System Speak: Dissociative Identity Disorder ( Multiple Personality Disorder )

Kelly McDaniel is back to tell us about her new book all about “Mother Hunger” after introducing the concept on our podcast in her first interview with us.  We discuss “Third Degree Hunger”, and apply it to what we learned last year.  We share examples of historical parenting trauma due to behaviorist training, and how we have worked to repair that in our family.  She explains the neural pathways of bonding and survival, and how this leads to the betrayal blindness in relational trauma.  She explains the difference between authentic hope and pathological hope.  Trigger warning for topical content of mothers and relational trauma.Trigger  Warning:  Content on this website and in the podcasts is assumed to be trauma and/or dissociative related due to the nature of what is being shared here in general.  Content descriptors are generally given in each episode.  Please use appropriate self-care and your own safety plan while exploring this website and during your listening experience.  Natural pauses due to dissociation have not been edited out of the podcast, and have been left for authenticity.  While some professional material may be referenced for educational purposes, Emma and her system are not your therapist nor offering professional advice.  Any informational material shared or referenced is simply part of our own learning process, and not guaranteed to be the latest research or best method for you.  Please contact your therapist or nearest emergency room in case of any emergency.  This website does not provide any medical, mental health, or social support services. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel: Part Three

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2021 37:55


In the previous two episodes, author and therapist Kelly McDaniel has explained Mother Hunger, how it happens, and provided some well-known cases of Mother Hunger from her forthcoming book for reference. In Part Three, Jodi and Kelly continue their conversation with the definition of Third-Degree Mother Hunger, as well as the steps involved in the healing process. Music by JD Pendley  

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel: Part Two

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2021 35:02


Nurturance, guidance and protection are three developmental needs for appropriate brain development in childhood; but what happens if any (or all) of these are inconsistently provided? In this episode, Jodi continues the Mother Hunger discussion with author and therapist, Kelly McDaniel; listen as they talk about the importance of protection, how daughters look to their mothers for guidance, and how carried shame messes everything up. Music by JD Pendley      

Connectfulness Practice
Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Connectfulness Practice

Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2021 43:05


Kelly McDaniel, LPC returns to the podcast (she joined us on episode 28: https://connectfulness.com/episode/28-legacy-of-chronic-loneliness-kelly-mcdaniel (The Legacy of Chronic Loneliness)) to explore the legacy of maternal deprivation. Her upcoming book, https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/books/ (Mother Hunger), soothes the legacy of shame that accompanies being under-mothered. Mother Hunger addresses the constant search for love —nurturance, protection, and guidance— that may lead to a lifelong quest for what was missing. It’s not about critiquing how you were raised, rather it’s about learning how to heal and re-parent the hungry parts inside. Healing begins with knowing and naming what we are missing. If you’re one of many who feel a sense of dread and grief as Mother's Day nears, these feelings may be related to Mother Hunger and I hope this episode helps you feel a little less alone. RESOURCES: Kelly McDaniel's Website: https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/ (kellymcdanieltherapy.com) https://www.amazon.com/dp/1401960855/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_7ND6ZQGX7BMF41CRY7DJ (Preorder the “Mother Hunger” book) https://connectfulness.com/ (connectfulness.com) If you enjoyed this episode and want to dive in deeper, consider joining one of Rebecca’s online offerings to deepen your relational skills and expand your Self care. Learn more at https://connectfulness.com/offerings (connectfulness.com/offerings) Also, please check out the new http://whydoesmypartner.com/ (WHY DOES MY PARTNER) short form weekly podcast. This podcast is not a substitute for counseling with a licensed provider.

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel: Part One

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2021 45:08


Mothers are valuable: they're our first love and the source of everything we need to survive. But what happens when a mother doesn't get the support she needs, or is struggling with her own unresolved trauma? In this episode (part one of a three-part series), Jodi talks with Kelly McDaniel (author or "Ready to Heal") about her upcoming book, "Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance". The conversation includes a definition of Mother Hunger, how it happens, and how it can affect us. Music by JD Pendley  

Freedom from CPTSD & Anxiety
Mother’s Day And Mother Hunger with Kelly Mcdaniel

Freedom from CPTSD & Anxiety

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2021 27:14


I’m joined once again with Trauma therapist Kelly McDaniel. She is author of the books “Ready to Heal” and the very soon to be released “Mother Hunger”. We are talking about the experience of feeling grief on Mother’s Day. YouTube videohttps://youtu.be/98-g1UA2VAE You can find Kelly on IG @ kellymcdanieltherapy and www.kellymcdanieltherapy.com

Connectfulness Practice
The Legacy of Chronic Loneliness with Kelly McDaniel

Connectfulness Practice

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2021 76:57


We need relationship in order to survive. If you were raised without a secure base you likely learned early on to modify yourself. In this episode I am talking with Kelly McDaniel, LPC, NCC, CSAT, author and psychotherapist, about the complex trauma of chronic loneliness and how to heal from the toxic stress of disconnection. Kelly McDaniel’s first book Ready to Heal (2008) was written for women healing from addictive love and sex. Her new book Mother Hunger arrives July 2021 from Hay House. For full show notes click here. Resources:  kellymcdanieltherapy.com Find Kelly on Instagram: @kellymcdanieltherapy connectfulness.com Supporting Your Relational Self | Begins February 2021 6-week-online-course focuses on your relationship to Self, other intimate relations. Cultivate practices to sustain during these chaotic times. Essential Skills Relationship Bootcamp | April 24-25, 2021This is an authorized presentation of Terry Real's Essential Skills Relationship Bootcamp. Open to individuals, couples and therapists. A combination of lecture, role-play, small group exercises and personal work. Jules, Vickey and I are seeking listener questions to fuel the production of our upcoming podcast at whydoesmypartner.com This podcast is not a substitute for counseling with a licensed provider. After listening, we invite you to deepen into the discussion with us on instagram and please support the show by sharing and reviewing the episode.

The Healing Place Podcast
Special Edition – #PandemicSelfCare with Kelly McDaniel

The Healing Place Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2021 20:54


Please join me as I welcome Kelly McDaniel back to the show for a special pandemic self-care discussion! You can find an information-packed collection of #PandemicSelfCare interviews on the podcast Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/TheHealingPlacePodcast/ Welcome to The Healing Place Podcast! I am your host, Teri Wellbrock. You can listen in on Pandora, iTunes, Blubrry, Spotify, Deezer, Google Podcasts, … Continue reading Special Edition – #PandemicSelfCare with Kelly McDaniel →

Make Mine Mayday
Make Mine Mayday Episode 0: Meet your Hosts, and hear their MC2 stories!

Make Mine Mayday

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2020 108:03


Welcome to the zero episode of the Make Mine Mayday Podcast, Hosted by Kelly McDaniel […] The post Make Mine Mayday Episode 0: Meet your Hosts, and hear their MC2 stories! appeared first on Spidey-dude.com.

Make Mine Mayday
Make Mine Mayday Episode 0: Meet your Hosts, and hear their MC2 stories!

Make Mine Mayday

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2020 108:03


Welcome to the zero episode of the Make Mine Mayday Podcast, Hosted by Kelly McDaniel […] The post Make Mine Mayday Episode 0: Meet your Hosts, and hear their MC2 stories! appeared first on Spidey-dude.com.

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
Ep.3: An Interview with Kelly McDaniel

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2020 26:21


What is love addiction? According to Kelly McDaniel, therapist and author of "Ready to Heal: Breaking Free of Addictive Relationships", the answer is quite complex. In this episode, Kelly joins Jodi to discuss the cultural programming that leads to love addiction; how sex and love get intertwined (and confused) at an early age; and how we can recover. Get a notebook and pen because this episode covers a lot of ground. Music by JD Pendley

The Healing Place Podcast
Kelly McDaniel – Mother Hunger & Early Attachment Injuries

The Healing Place Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2020 53:56


What a powerful, informative, transformative, and inspirational conversation I enjoyed with Kelly McDaniel, LPC, NCC, CSAT. Please join us as we discuss: Mother Hunger ® early attachment injuries her upcoming book release Mother Hunger Her book Ready to Heal: Breaking Free of Addictive Relationships EMDR and more! Welcome to The Healing Place Podcast! I am … Continue reading Kelly McDaniel – Mother Hunger & Early Attachment Injuries →

Sex and the Bull City
What is Mother Hunger? Interview with Kelly McDaniel, LPC, CSAT

Sex and the Bull City

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2020 42:06


Kelly McDaniel discusses her concept of Mother Hunger, which is an early attachment trauma.

IGNTD
Expanding Your Erotic Intelligence with Alexandra Katehakis

IGNTD

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2019 68:07


We have a very special guest for you all today who is absolutely perfect for this month’s theme of sex and intimacy. Some of the work she has done is actually intertwined with our own story and we might not even be where we are today without her!   Alexandra Katehakis is the Clinical Director and founder of the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles, California. This center is actually where I went to do my therapy initially when we first started really dealing with my sex addiction head-on in our relationship. At her center, Alexandra and her staff successfully treat a full spectrum of sexual disorders, ranging from issues of sexual desire and dysfunction to the treatment of sexual addiction. She is also the author of Erotic Intelligence: Igniting Hot, Healthy Sex While in Recovery from Sex Addiction and the co-author of Making Advances: A Comprehensive Guide for Treating Female Sex and Love Addicts, as well as Mirror of Intimacy: Daily Reflections on Emotional and Erotic Intelligence.   Sex addiction is such a taboo area of addiction — a lot of people don’t want to talk about it out in the open which makes it hard for people to get help. In this episode, we really focus on the ideas of sex addiction, the importance of vulnerability and radical transparency when it comes to healing and learning to trust again, how to reach the next level of intimacy with your partner, how to expand your erotic intelligence, and how Alexandra helps her clients work through some of their problems related to sex addiction, trauma, and early sexual programming.   IGNTD Specials: Perfect Bar — Use code IGNTD for 15% off!   Topics Discussed: [:35] A bit about today’s episode! [:52] Reading our review of the week. [1:40] Remember, if you leave a review and we read it on air, we’ll be sending you a special care package! [2:02] We’re coming up on one million downloads! We would love it if you could share this podcast with someone you know so we, as a community, can hit one million before 2020! [3:55] Reading our quote of the day on the theme of vulnerability from our guest’s book, Mirror of Intimacy. [4:16] About our guest, Alexandra Katehakis. [4:30] The importance of vulnerability and radical transparency when it comes to healing and learning to trust again. [7:04] What is EMDR? [8:53] An update on what we’re continuing to work on in our relationship. [12:40] Speaking about how we were first introduced to our guest today, Alexandra. [14:08] If we can reach one million downloads before 2020, ALL reviews will be sent a special package from us! [17:35] The conversation portion of today’s podcast and welcoming Alexandra to the podcast! [19:41] Alexandra speaks about how she first got into doing this kind of work. [21:44] Misconceptions and misunderstandings around those who struggle with sex addictions. [26:11] What exploring our sexuality has looked like in our relationship. [31:06] Where we are, now a decade later. [32:40] Alexandra asks Sophie: “Was there any part of Adi’s stories about acting out [during his sex addiction phrase] that turned you on?” [34:09] How we get programmed early on with our ideas around sexuality and what turns us on. [39:16] How does Alexandra help people understand what turns them on (especially when there’s a lot of shame associated around it for them)? [43:24] The importance of PLAY! [45:00] Why safety is so incredibly crucial for sex. [45:56] What the ‘discovery stage’ of cheating looks like at Alexandra’s center. [48:50] Building intimacy after relationship trauma. [51:56] Why it is harder to recover from the lies rather than the cheating itself. [53:11] How we worked through our cheating. [1:00:28] What is the best advice Alexandra has ever received? [1:01:41] What has been Alexandra’s proudest moment to-date? [1:02:41] What has been one of Alexandra’s hardest moments to-date? [1:03:51] What are some of Alexandra’s self-care habits? [1:04:30] What ignites Alexandra? [1:05:26] Thanking Alexandra for joining us for this episode! [1:05:48] Be sure to let us know if you’d be interested in hearing a session with us and Alexandra!   Mentioned in this Episode: The Abstinence Myth, by Adi Jaffe Philosophie Superfoods Making Advances: A Comprehensive Guide for Treating Female Sex and Love Addicts, by Alexandra Katehakis, Kelly McDaniel, Marnie C. Ferree, and M. Deborah Corley Erotic Intelligence: Igniting Hot, Healthy Sex While in Recovery from Sex Addiction, by Alexandra Katehakis Mirror of Intimacy: Daily Reflections on Emotional and Erotic Intelligence, by Alexandra Katehakis and Tom Bliss Alex KatehakisCenter for Healthy Sex EMDR Perfect Bar Perfect Bar Cups Perfect Bar Chocolate Mint Bar The Alexandra Katehakis Podcast   Find out more about IGNTD: IGNTD.com IGNTD.libysn.com   Subscribe to the Podcast iTunes, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify   Follow us on Social Media! Facebook: IGNTD Instagram: @IGNTD.me Sophie’s Instagram: @Sophie.Jaffe Adi’s Instagram: @DrAdiJaffe   If you enjoyed this podcast… Please let us know what you want to hear about! Tell us in the comments or send us an email at info@igntd.com.   About Our Sponsors: Perfect Bar As the Original Refrigerated Protein Bar, Perfect Bar serves whole food protein bars made with organic nut butter, honey, clean ingredients, and family love. Check out this amazing clean protein bar here: PerfectBar.com — and use code IGNTD for 15% off!   Philosophie Superfoods The Philosophie offers cleanses and other nutritional products that are unlike any of the other supplements and detoxification programs on the market. Why? Because they actually nourish the body with whole, live, nutrient-rich foods. Each of the Philosophie superfoods and protein blends is vegan, raw, gluten-free, and has absolutely no filler ingredients.

Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery
What is Mother Hunger with Carol the Coach

Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2019 61:00


Carol the Coach is interviewing Kellyb McDaniel who specializes in treating women who experience addictive relational patterns. She is the first clinician to name Mother Hunger as an attachment injury and urges clinicians to explore the repercussions of bonding or non-bonding with an emotionally compromised mother. Find out how women with  these issues experience a variety of cyclical, self-sabatoging behaviors.

System Speak: Dissociative Identity Disorder ( Multiple Personality Disorder )

We speak with Kelly McDaniel, who coined the term Mother Hunger. She explains what this means, and how it is the earliest trauma and a disenfranchised grief. We discuss not having “permission” to talk about our mothers, much less work out mother trauma, which leaves us isolated from mothering and healing. In this, she is able to explain how and why dissociation starts in infancy - and what it is protecting us from exactly. Trigger warning for mother related content, and reference to the mother-baby dynamic, though no specific abuse stories are discussed.

Sex, Love, and Addiction
Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Sex, Love, and Addiction

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2018 35:02


Kelly McDaniel is an expert on women and addiction. Her deep empathy in the field helps women find, develop and be okay with themselves despite the trauma that may have occurred in early attachment. Today, she speaks about her upcoming book “Mother Hunger”, the lasting patterns that emerge due to early trauma, and how Mother Hunger treatment is different that typical sex and love addiction treatment.   TAKEAWAYS: [1:04] Kelly McDaniel, LPC, NCC, CST, maintains a private practice in Nashville, where she specializes in the treatment of adults and couples. In addition, she is an EMDR trained therapist and member in the Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health (SASH), and holds an education of an MA from Georgetown University and St. Mary’s University. [1:39] In 2008, Kelly’s first book “Ready to Heal” came out, written for women healing from addictive love and sex. The book kicked off that women needed gender-specific information in a culture that objectifies female bodies and women’s wisdom. [2:38] In 2012, the second edition was expanded to include a chapter on McDaniel’s original term “Mother Hunger​.” Mother Hunger​ is a concept that has assisted both clinicians and clients to identify the origin of addictive relationships and foster the healing process. Currently, Kelly is offering two, three-day therapeutic Intensives for women who are exploring their relational patterns in depth. [5:31] Kelly finds her work resonates with both clinicians and the women that seek help. [7:02] Kelly defines “Mother Hunger” as a form of pre-verbal trauma that occurs in early attachment (5 weeks into conception in utero to age 3) that affects a woman’s belief system, physiology, psychology and relationship capacity. [8:37] A neglected child that is left hungry for connection, touch or love will turn to dissociation, or a freeze state, in order to protect and comfort themselves. [13:32] Our most basic idea of what a good partner would be is deeply affected when we are neglected or abused. When Kelly works with women in betrayal, it is a replay of the original wound and a map of where to go to heal. [17:22] The first ways we take in the world are through our mother’s love and some form of feeding and nourishment. These traumas are related to our most primitive stages of love, and continue to play romantically with both our current day lovers and support system or lack thereof. [20:46] Crisis is when your emotions and intellect is out of balance, and you are so invested emotionally in a situation that you are not thinking clearly. When those who have Mother Hunger get into a relationship, they get weighed down by the emotional need that comes up with the possibility of finally being loved. [21:37] Mother Hunger treatment is very different than standard sex and love addiction treatment. It is more related to the treatment in EMDR and somatic training, and sitting inside the grief for a longer intensive amount of time. [24:04] Women with Mother Hunger haven’t yet built a sense of identity, community or trust within themselves and others. [27:25] We profoundly underestimate postpartum depression and how that affect the ability to give love and nurturing. [29:39] The trauma forms before language, and is wired in to the body as the norm for what the world feels like. [31:30] Women with Mother Hunger transfer their attachment needs to men early on.   RESOURCES Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101 Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Kelly McDaniel Ready to Heal: Breaking Free of Addictive Relationships Mother Hunger Partner Hope Dr. Kenneth Adams Christine Courtois   QUOTES: “There is a huge gap between I am safe and I feel safe that goes into adulthood.” “If your responsiveness from your most important caregiver is impaired from the start, then you don’t even have a sense of what normal or healthy is, because you have never experienced it.” “Our first love is our mother.” “Women gain strength from each other. One of the ways healthy women even tolerate men are with the help of other women.”

Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery
How Mother Hunger Effects Love Addiction for Women with Carol the Coach

Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2018 62:00


Love addiction is common for people who have childhood wounds that occured in their family. Carol the Coach will be interviewing Kelly McDaniel who is an expert in the field of love addiction. Kellly  sees a pre-existing factor called "mother hunger" which feeds into the desire to find love and the compulsion to ease the pain. Listen as Kelly talks about her book, Ready to Heal which helps people to determine how to get healthy from love addiction.

Thanks For Sharing
Episode 73: I,Tonya with Kelly McDaniel

Thanks For Sharing

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2018 41:57


We have Kelly McDaniel back on to talk about her take on I, Tonya - the recent film starring Margot Robbie and Allison Janney depicting the story of Olympic Figure Skater Tonya Harding.  Kelly talks about toxic love, mother wounds, perfectionism, patriarchy and many other forces that shape the broken hearts of girls with cruel mothers.   Resources mentioned in this episode:   Kelly's blog post on Cruel Mothers https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/legacy-maternal-cruelty-tonya/   Books by Peg Streep- Daughter Detox: Recovering from An Unloving Mother and Reclaiming Your Life and Mean Mothers: Overcoming the Legacy of Hurt

Thanks for Sharing
Episode 73: I,Tonya with Kelly McDaniel

Thanks for Sharing

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2018 41:57


We have Kelly McDaniel back on to talk about her take on I, Tonya - the recent film starring Margot Robbie and Allison Janney depicting the story of Olympic Figure Skater Tonya Harding.  Kelly talks about toxic love, mother wounds, perfectionism, patriarchy and many other forces that shape the broken hearts of girls with cruel mothers.   Resources mentioned in this episode:   Kelly's blog post on Cruel Mothers https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/legacy-maternal-cruelty-tonya/   Books by Peg Streep- Daughter Detox: Recovering from An Unloving Mother and Reclaiming Your Life and Mean Mothers: Overcoming the Legacy of Hurt

Thanks For Sharing
Episode 61: Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Thanks For Sharing

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2017 52:30


Jackie and Jon spoke with Kelly McDaniel recently about Mother Hunger and it's particular impact on women in sex addiction recovery- don't tune out men- this is good for you too!  Kelly is a renowned Sex Addiction Therapist, Author (Ready to Heal: Breaking Free from Addictive Relationships), and Trauma Therapist.  Buckle up and get ready to have more light shed on some of the darker corners of your psyche!   Be sure to get more of Kelly's work at www.kellymcdanieltherapy.com or at www.healingheartbreaktherapy.com   You can get Kelly's Book here: http://www.gentlepath.com/product.php?productid=62

Thanks for Sharing
Episode 61: Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Thanks for Sharing

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2017 52:30


Jackie and Jon spoke with Kelly McDaniel recently about Mother Hunger and it's particular impact on women in sex addiction recovery- don't tune out men- this is good for you too!  Kelly is a renowned Sex Addiction Therapist, Author (Ready to Heal: Breaking Free from Addictive Relationships), and Trauma Therapist.  Buckle up and get ready to have more light shed on some of the darker corners of your psyche!   Be sure to get more of Kelly's work at www.kellymcdanieltherapy.com or at www.healingheartbreaktherapy.com   You can get Kelly's Book here: http://www.gentlepath.com/product.php?productid=62

Celebration Church: Stovall and Kerri Weems
SUB30: God Heard You | Pastor Kelly McDaniel

Celebration Church: Stovall and Kerri Weems

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2017 36:06


Pastor Kelly McDaniel See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Celebration Church: Stovall and Kerri Weems

Kelly McDaniel See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The Trauma Therapist | Podcast with Guy Macpherson, PhD | Inspiring interviews with thought-leaders in the field of trauma.

Kelly McDaniel (a Licensed Professional Counselor & National Certified Counselor) developed the term “Mother Hunger” in her first book Ready to Heal to name the attachment trauma between mother and daughter that creates an environment ripe for love addiction to grow. Since publication, Kelly speaks regularly at conferences to raise awareness about the cultural and relational complications facing women recovering from addictive habits. In her practice, Kelly offers individual healing Intensives to support women healing Mother Hunger. Set for publication with Hay House in the summer of 2021, Kelly is currently writing her second book. *In This Episode* * Kelly's Website ( https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/ ) * Connect with Kelly on Facebook ( https://www.facebook.com/kellymcdanieltherapy ) * Contact Kelly ( https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/contact-visit-again/ ) * Adrienne Rich ( https://www.amazon.com/Adrienne-Rich/e/B000APH346/ref=dp_byline_cont_book_1 ) * Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine: A Nove ( https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0735220697/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?creative=9325&creativeASIN=0735220697&ie=UTF8&linkCode=as2&linkId=a06a9552bfecdad5aa41b1069bf406cf&tag=wescoatrapro-20 ) l ( https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0735220697/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?creative=9325&creativeASIN=0735220697&ie=UTF8&linkCode=as2&linkId=a06a9552bfecdad5aa41b1069bf406cf&tag=wescoatrapro-20 ) , Gail Honeyman Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-trauma-therapist-podcast-with-guy-macpherson-phd-inspiring-interviews-with-thought-leaders-in-the-field-of-trauma/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands