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Best podcasts about mother hunger

Latest podcast episodes about mother hunger

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
EP56: What I Deserve with Kelly Willis

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2025 44:46


Music has the power to shape moods and moments; but do you ever wonder what shaped the music? Or what someone had to experience in order to bring one of your favorite songs or albums into the world? In this episode, Jodi talks with singer-songwriter, Kelly Willis. Jodi shares the personal significance of Kelly's album, 'What I Deserve' and how it provided hope during a particularly painful time in her life; and Kelly discusses how her childhood as an army brat, growing up without her mother, and early disappointments in the music industry shaped that album. Show notes and resources: Music by JD Pendley Link to Jodi's website and additional resources Read Army Brat by Kelly Willis (and subscribe to her Substack) Link to Kelly's website Listen to What I Deserve by Kelly Willis  Disclaimer: This podcast is shared for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for mental health treatment with a licensed mental health professional or to be used in place of the advice of a physician. If you are struggling please don't delay in seeking the assistance of a licensed mental health practitioner or healthcare professional. If you're in crisis please visit NAMI.org or call 1-800-273-TALK for 24-hour assistance.

Love Purpose Connection with Estelle Bingham
Understanding Mother Hunger, Self-Worth & Reparenting Your Inner Child with Kelly McDaniel

Love Purpose Connection with Estelle Bingham

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 43:41


Have you experienced Mother Hunger?There are invisible wounds many of us carry, the quiet aches from the care we didn't receive and the connections we longed for but never had.In this intimate and healing conversation, Kelly McDaniel - licensed professional counsellor, bestselling author, and women's advocate, introduces the life-changing concept of Mother Hunger.Together, we explore how early attachment injuries shape our sense of self, our relationships, and even how we experience loneliness, and what it takes to begin the tender work of healing.If you've ever struggled with feeling "not enough," found yourself stuck in painful relationship patterns, or carried a deep, nameless sadness, Kelly's compassionate insights will help you understand why, and how to start reconnecting with your true self.

The Best of Azania Mosaka Show
Parenting and Parents: Mother Hunger-Healing from lost nurturance and protection Pt 2  

The Best of Azania Mosaka Show

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2025 22:50


Relebogile Mabotja speaks to Adele Pillay an Author and Child Trauma Expert about healing from the mother hunger.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Best of Azania Mosaka Show
Parenting and Parents: Mother Hunger-Healing from lost nurturance and protection  

The Best of Azania Mosaka Show

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 18:49


Relebogile Mabotja speaks to Adele Pillay an Author and Child Trauma Expert about mother hunger and trying to heal from the wounds of a broken maternal bond.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Secret Life
Mother Hunger: Enmeshment With Your Mother

Secret Life

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2025 25:09 Transcription Available


Are you feeling the weight of emotional entanglement with your mother? In this powerful episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives deep into the concept of "Mother Hunger" and the complexities of enmeshment. Unpacking the insidious nature of this emotional bond, Brianne explains how it can masquerade as nurturing while actually hindering personal growth and independence. With raw honesty, she shares personal anecdotes and insights that resonate with many who find themselves still tethered to their mothers long into adulthood.Join Brianne as she explores the detrimental effects of enmeshment on relationships and personal identity, especially for daughters and sons. Discover the signs of unhealthy attachment and learn how to break free from these patterns. Brianne offers practical strategies for healing the mother wound, including body work, inner child exercises, and the importance of establishing boundaries. This episode serves as a crucial reminder that while the journey to emotional independence can be challenging, it is essential for living a fulfilled and authentic life.Don't miss this enlightening discussion that encourages you to reclaim your autonomy and foster healthier relationships. Tune in to uncover the truth about Mother Hunger and take the first steps toward emotional liberation.If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com______To share your secret and be a guest on the show email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com_____SECRET LIFE'S TOPICS INCLUDE:addiction recovery, mental health, alcoholism, drug addiction, sex addiction, love addiction, OCD, ADHD, dyslexia, eating disorders, debt & money issues, anorexia, depression, shoplifting,  molestation, sexual assault, trauma, relationships, self-love, friendships, community, secrets, self-care, courage, freedom, and happiness._____Create and Host Your Podcast with the same host we use - RedCircle_____Get your copy of SECRET LIFE OF A HOLLYWOOD SEX & LOVE ADDICT -- Secret Life Novel or on Amazon______HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE SHOW?Tell Your Friends & Share Online!Follow, Rate & Review: Apple Podcasts | SpotifyFollow & Listen iHeart | Stitcher | Google Podcasts | Amazon | PandoraSpread the word via social mediaInstagramTwitterFacebook#SecretLifePodcastDonate - You can also support the show with a one-time or monthly donation via PayPal (make payment to secretlifepodcast@icloud.com) or at our WEBSITE.Connect with Brianne Davis-Gantt (@thebriannedavis)Official WebsiteBrianne's Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterConnect with Mark Gantt (@markgantt)Main WebsiteDirecting WebsiteMark Gantt Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secret-life/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Life After Diets
183. The Mother Wound – How Our Mothers Screwed Us Up

Life After Diets

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 44:54


In this episode, Stef and Sarah delve into the emotional topic of the mother wound. The discussion begins with light-hearted banter but quickly deepens into a profound conversation about the impact mothers have on their children. They explore insights from books like "Mother Hunger" by Kelly McDaniel and "Discovering the Inner Mother" by Bethany Webster but also bring personal experiences into the room. The hosts discuss the different ways mothers can nurture and unintentionally wound their children (is the Mother Wound even avoidable from an existential perspective?) and how these experiences shape adult relationships and self-concept, including our relationships with food and bodies. They also touch on the societal pressures mothers face and the challenges of achieving a balance between nurturing, protection, and guidance. Stefanie's Somatic Experiencing and Nervous System Regulation Course is enrolling now! Use code: LADLISTENS for a discount at checkout. This course is for beginners looking to gain a broader insight into the role of the nervous system in symptoms of stress, anxiety, erratic moods, body image distress, and food issues. Join our growing support community. This community is for you if you want a safe space to work through your daily struggles with food and body image. Community membership includes livestream episode recordings (online), monthly Zoom support meetings, a private Facebook group and member-only Q&A episodes. For more information go to: https://www.patreon.com/lifeafterdiets Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/lifeafterdietspodcast Email – hello@lifeafterdietspod.com Connect with Stefanie Michele, Recovery Coach, Somatic Therapist IT Stef's Binge Recovery Course -- www.iamstefaniemichele.com/iamstefaniemichelecourse Website – www.iamstefaniemichele.com Instagram – www.instagram.com/iamstefaniemichele Connect with Sarah Dosanjh, Author & Psychotherapist Website – www.thebingeeatingtherapist.com Instagram – www.instagram.com/the_binge_eating_therapist YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBingeEatingTherapist Sarah's book I Can't Stop Eating is available on Amazon If you find this episode helpful, you can subscribe to the Life After Diets podcast, leave us a review, and share your thoughts with us on Instagram and YouTube (@lifeafterdietspodcast). Your feedback helps us create content that matters to you.

TRU CHAT
Women Speak Out K9

TRU CHAT

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2024 66:12


Hey hey Everybody...Welcome back to another epiode of TRU CHAT..."A Community Podcast," A MejIMusyK Production! I am your host JoY of JoYful SoundZ, and this my friends is part 2 of episode IX, "Women Speak Out". I truly appreciate your patience as I/ we navigate this ever change new world we are all experiencing. In this episode myself and a few other sisters continue to address the comments and concerns given by our brothers from a previous episode titled "Real Shop Talk" We speak on topics such as what a village is/consists of, the bad actors in our villages, disempowered wisdom and what it creates, levels of accountability, and how all of these things show up in our villages that create the divide between men and women causing unhealthy environments and in full circle non-cohesive, dysfunctional Villages/communities. Be sure to stay tuned for part 2 of Mother Hunger! Thank you again and again for all of my listeners and supporters. Please share this podcast with your circles of influence. I am your host, signing off and out...Peeeaaaccce! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mejimusyk/support

Le Gratin par Pauline Laigneau
#275 - Sophie Trudeau - Autrice et ambassadrice en santé mentale, “Mieux se connaître, mieux s'aimer”

Le Gratin par Pauline Laigneau

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2024 51:42


Je crois profondément que rien n'est impossible à ceux qui rêvent assez grand ! Et c'est précisément cette audace qui m'a conduite aujourd'hui à échanger avec une invitée inspirante, Sophie Grégoire Trudeau. Autrice, ambassadrice engagée pour la santé mentale, ancienne Première Dame du Canada, professeure de yoga, chanteuse, animatrice et bien plus encore, Sophie est un modèle de résilience et de transformation. Dans cet épisode, Sophie nous fait revivre son parcours et nous fait réfléchir à des sujets essentiels tels que l'obsession de la performance et l'importance du lâcher-prise. Sophie partage avec nous avec sincérité ses propres combats et les leçons tirées de ses expériences.J'espère de tout cœur que cet épisode vous plaira ! Si c'est le cas, n'hésitez pas à le partager autour de vous et à envoyer un petit mot à Sophie (je suis sûre que ça lui fera très plaisir) et pourquoi pas à me rejoindre sur les réseaux !Notes et références de l'épisode Pour retrouver Sophie : Sur Instagram Sur son site internet Le livre écrit par Sophie : Entre Nous - Mieux se connaître mieux s'aimer Les livres recommandés par Sophie : La folle allure de Christian BobinLe mythe de la normalité de Gabor Maté (version anglaise) Mother Hunger de Kelly McDaniel (version anglaise)L'odeur du café de Dany Laferrière Journal d'un écrivain en pyjama de Dany Laferrière Un certain art de vivre de Dany Laferrière (Liens affiliés Fnac)Chapitrage00:00 Introduction 02:25 Début de l'interview avec Sophie Grégoire37:57 Le crible du Podcast47:12 Les livres recommandés par Sophie Grégoire48:58 Fin de l'épisode1. Faites vous coacher par moi !DEMIAN, un concentré de 10 ans d'expérience d'entrepreneur. Les formations DEMIAN vous apportent des outils et méthodes concrètes pour développer votre projet professionnel.Il s'agit d'un concentré maximal de valeur et d'expérience pour qu'en quelques heures vous gagniez l'équivalent d'années de travail.2. La NewsLa News du vendredi est une mini newsletter pour vous nourrir en plus du podcast. C'est une newsletter très courte, à lire en 5mn top chrono de ce qui m'a marqué dans les dernières semaines : livres à lire, réflexions, applis à télécharger, citations, films ou documentaires à voir etc. Pour la recevoir, il n'y a qu'à s'abonner à la newsletter sur mon site !3. Des conseils concrets sur ma chaîne YouTubeEnvie de lancer votre propre podcast ? De bénéficier de conseils sur quel matériel utiliser ? Ma nouvelle chaîne YouTube est faite pour vous !4.Contactez-moi ! Si le podcast vous plaît, le meilleur moyen de me le dire, ou de me faire vos feed-backs (et ce qui m'aide le plus à le faire connaître) c'est simplement de laisser un avis 5 étoiles ou un commentaire sur l'application iTunes. Ça m'aide vraiment, alors n'hésitez pas :)Pour me poser des questions ou suivre mes tribulations c'est par ici :Sur Instagram @paulinelaigneauSur LinkedIn @pauline laigneauSur YouTube Pauline LaigneauVous pouvez consulter notre politique de confidentialité sur https://art19.com/privacy ainsi que la notice de confidentialité de la Californie sur https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

2 Paleys on a Pod
Healing and Hail in Oklahoma

2 Paleys on a Pod

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2024 40:32


Briyah just returned from the fantastic Green Shoe Foundation in Oklahoma. Bad news is her rental car was plummeted by hail. Good news is she received incredible healing and will now totally be able to re-parent herself after all the Mother Hunger (read the book)! Briyah and Michael talk about what this all has to do with teshuvah (repentance) and the New Year. Chag Sameach to everyone and we wish you a meaningful holiday. Hopefully we have given you some themes to keep in mind.

Anxiety Rx
Healing Anxiety Through Creative Expression and Self-Discovery

Anxiety Rx

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2024 69:47


In this episode of the AnxietyRX Podcast, we're diving deep into the messy world of anxiety, family drama, and career blues. My guest, Michelle - another MBRX student - is an internal auditor who's been on quite a journey. She has tried everything from CBT to IFS to brain spotting to tackle her anxiety, and she's finally figuring it out. We're talking about how her job didn't quite fit and how family issues were adding to the stress, exploring the importance of self-awareness, the role of safety in therapy, and finding healthy coping strategies. Michelle's story is a real eye-opener. It's a powerful reminder that healing isn't always easy, but it's totally possible. Tune in to hear more! Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions. PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 4000+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX ______________________________ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Introduction 01:38 - Discussion on Career 02:24 - Family Influence on Career Choices 03:52 - Loss of Connection with Self 08:04 - Mother's Death and Its Impact 09:44 - Anxiety After Mother's Death 10:39 - Career Misalignment and Grief 11:33 - Job Market Struggles 12:20 - Self-Awareness and Change 12:46 - Complaining and Mental State 14:41 - Childhood Trauma and Anxiety 15:05 - Mother Hunger and Attachment Issues 16:05 - Separation of Self and Anxiety 17:36 - Processing Grief and Moving Forward 17:42 - The Importance of Sports 18:27 - Exploring Anxiety's Roots 19:20 - Challenges with EMDR 20:18 - Referring to Inner Parts 20:44 - Discovering Brain Spotting 22:51 - Neuroscience of Anxiety 24:41 - The Illusion of Protective Anxiety 25:27 - Creating Safety in Therapy 27:19 - Combining Modalities 28:14 - Witnessing in Therapy 29:02 - The Role of the Body in Healing 31:45 - Future Aspirations in Therapy 32:29 - The Intersection of Mind, Body, and Spirit 33:19 - Reflecting on Personal Growth 35:52 - Exploring Maladaptive Patterns 37:36 - Healing Attachment Trauma 38:41 - Writing as a Healing Tool 39:38 - Identifying Sources of Grief 41:32 - Relationship Anxiety 42:33 - Recognizing Healing Potential 44:07 - Curiosity and the Unknown 49:52 - Trauma Bonds 51:29 - Morning Panic Attacks 52:33 - Self-Soothing Techniques 53:22 - Breathwork and Dysregulation 54:24 - Childhood Experiences and Breathing 55:26 - Finding Safe Breathwork 57:10 - Intellectual vs. Emotional Safety 59:02 - Healing Through Safety 01:01:36 - Using Poetry for Healing 01:03:51 - Right Brain and Poetry 01:05:27 - Incremental Healing

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
EP52: Home Again with Anna Christie

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2024 55:25


Love addiction is more than 'just' love addiction: It's a set of symptoms rooted in codependence, and fed by cutural messages that lead girls and women to believe they are unworthy, unwell, unlovable--and all of this starts early in life. Anna Christie's story is an incredible example of the influence those messages can have on us. As she explains in this episode, Anna knew at a young age that she was queer; but through feedback from her environment, she learned this wasn't acceptable, and spent years of her life conforming. Anna's powerful story is an example of the distances we'll travel in search of the belonging we crave, as well as proof that we can find ourselves again.  Show notes and resources: Music by JD Pendley Jodi's website and link to the JOLA Network (online recovery community) and Fall 2024 Mother Hunger online group.   Disclaimer: This podcast is shared for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for mental health treatment with a licensed mental health professional or to be used in place of the advice of a physician. If you are struggling please don't delay in seeking the assistance of a licensed mental health practitioner or healthcare professional. If you're in crisis please visit NAMI.org or call 1-800-273-TALK for 24-hour assistance.

The Hello Someday Podcast
Ep. 229: Reparenting 101: Healing Your Inner Child From Mother Hunger

The Hello Someday Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2024 54:41


Have you ever felt like something was missing from your childhood, even if everything seemed fine on the surface? You're not alone. Many of us carry wounds from our early years, often rooted in what's called "mother hunger"—the deep, often unfulfilled need for nurturing, protection, and guidance from our mothers. When those needs aren't met, it can leave us feeling incomplete, even as adults.  I asked Cybele Botran, a Professional Certified Coach, and a Mother Hunger® Trained Facilitator to walk us through the need for protection, nurturance and guidance we all have in childhood and the primary attachment wound that is created when those needs aren't met.  She also shares how to take care of our own emotional needs, as adults, in the way a loving parent would, without placing blame on primary caregivers and practical ways to do reparenting and inner child work in the healing process.  4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking — and how to make it the best decision of your life. Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking  Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free. Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober. Connect with Casey McGuire Davidson To find out more about Casey and her coaching programs, head over to www.hellosomedaycoaching.com

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
EP51: Sketchy Psychics

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2024 32:39


When an addictive relationship ends, we can find ourselves feeling wobbly, uncertain and very vulnerable. We might seek therapy, or the help of a support group, or even guidance from someone who SAYS they have the solution to our problem and can make the pain go away. In this episode, Jodi and her friend Brooke share stories of seeking comfort from psychics, and why we might look for guidance in such places, and place so much trust in someone we don't even know. Show notes and resources: Music by JD Pendley Jodi's website and link to the JOLA Network (online recovery community) and Fall 2024 Mother Hunger online group.   Disclaimer: This podcast is shared for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for mental health treatment with a licensed mental health professional or to be used in place of the advice of a physician. If you are struggling please don't delay in seeking the assistance of a licensed mental health practitioner or healthcare professional. If you're in crisis please visit NAMI.org or call 1-800-273-TALK for 24-hour assistance.

Nobody Told Me!
Kelly McDaniel: ...how to deal with "mother hunger"

Nobody Told Me!

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2024 32:08


If you've lost your mother, or were abused, neglected or abandoned by your mother, you may be suffering from “mother hunger”.  On this episode, we'll find out more about how being “under-mothered” impacts you throughout life.  Joining us is licensed trauma therapist Kelly McDaniel, whose latest book is called, "Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance".  Her website is kellymcdanieltherapy.com. Ritual's clinically-backed Essential For Women 18+ multivitamin has high-quality, traceable key ingredients in clean, bioavailable forms.  It's gentle on an empty stomach with a minty essence that helps make taking your multi-vitamin enjoyable. Here's a special offer for our Nobody Told Me listeners! Get 25% off your first month at ritual.com/NTM.  Start Ritual or add Essential for Women 18+ to your subscription today. If you struggle with hair loss, whether it's increased shedding, a widening part, thinning brows or sparse lashes, check out Nulastin.  It just might be the game changer you've been waiting for!  Nulastin serums are transforming---unlocking technology to give you thicker, fuller looking hair, brows and lashes in as soon as 6 weeks. Nobody Told Me listeners get 30% off!  Just go to nulastin.com/nobody and use code NOBODY30 for 30% off.

Guys We F****d
IT WAS MOTHER HUNGER?

Guys We F****d

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2024 76:56 Transcription Available


Happy Friday, Fckers! Today's episode is a ‘just-ya-girls' one where your favorite sexual intellectuals, CORINNE FISHER and KRYSTYNA HUTCHINSON, discuss Krystyna's recent European adventures from The Red Light District to the saddest town in France, the midnight sleep-eating roots of mother hunger, and how it feels to stay in your childhood home, alone. Plus! Love letters from the relationship that sparked GWF and how Iranian women today have less rights than their grandmothers.   If you're in NYC, come see GWF LIVE *August 8th* at our original stomping grounds. Get tickets HERE   Follow GWF on all social media platforms: @GuysWeFcked     Follow CORINNE FISHER: @PhilanthropyGal Get tickets for Corinne's EYE OF THE TIGER TOUR at www.corinnefisher.com   Follow KRYSTYNA HUTCHINSON: @KrystynaHutch Sign up for Krystyna's Patreon at www.Patreon.com/KrystynaHutchinson   Follow ERIC FRETTY @EricFretty   Want to write in for advice? Send your dilemma to:  SorryAboutLastNightShow@gmail.com    Watch full episodes of GWF on YouTube www.YouTube.com/GuysWeFcked   MUSIC FEATURED ON TODAY'S EPISODE: Artist: COLIN SMITH Track: STONE FACES https://music.apple.com/us/album/stone-faces/1541633944?i=1541634249See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feel Lit Alcohol Free
Sober & Strong: Embracing Inner Child Work for Emotional Resilience / EP. 028

Feel Lit Alcohol Free

Play Episode Play 36 sec Highlight Listen Later Jul 23, 2024 32:22 Transcription Available


Send us a Text Message.Welcome to the “Feel Lit Alcohol Free Podcast”! Today, we're diving into a topic that touches the very core of our emotional well-being: “Mother Hunger.” Have you ever wondered how unmet childhood needs can shape your adult life and relationships? Or how re-parenting yourself can be a powerful tool in your alcohol free  journey?In this episode, your hosts Coach Ruby Williams and Coach Susan Larkin are joined by the inspiring Cybele Botran, who has been alcohol-free for an incredible 13 years. Cybele trained under Kelly McDaniel the author of the book, "Mother Hunger." Cybele explains the profound impact of mother hunger on personal development and the path to inner healing.What does it mean to become your own inner loving parent? How can addressing these deep-seated emotional needs transform your sobriety journey? Our speakers share their personal stories, shedding light on the importance of self-discovery, meditation, gratitude, and the strength found in a supportive sober community.Get ready to uncover the emotional, physical, and spiritual dimensions of alcohol-free living. This episode promises to be a transformative experience, offering profound insights and practical resources. So, sit back, relax, and join us as we embark on this journey of healing and self-compassion. Let's dive in!Speaker BioCybele is an International Coaching Federation Professional Certified Coach (PCC), a SHE RECOVERS® Coach, a Mother Hunger® Trained Facilitator, and holds a Master's Degree in Education with over 40 years of teaching experience. She coaches self-identified women and nonbinary people who identify with women's communities. She runs workshops and courses on Mother Hunger, inner child work, and reparenting. Find out more about Cybele at: https://www.cybelebotran.com/Follow Cybele on Facebook, Instagram and ThreadsWe want to hear from you! Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and ask us any questions you have about breaking free from wine or living an alcohol-free lifestyle. Your question could be the highlight of a future episode! Grab your copy of our FREE WineFree Weekend Guide to help you on your alcohol free journey. https://feellitpodcast.com/Guide Find community and connection on the Feel Lit Alcohol Free Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/feellitalcoholfreepodcastWebsites:Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/ Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/Follow Susan: @drinklesswithsusanFollow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoachingIt is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

TRU CHAT
TRU CHAT..."Today's Temperature"

TRU CHAT

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2024 65:32


Hey hey Everybody, and welcome back to another episode of TRU CHAT..."Today's Temperature" I am your host JoY of JoYful SoundZ. We the audio book, Mother Hunger by, Kelley McDaniel. Though TRU CHAT isn't a book club, this one assisted in setting the stage to allow these female warriors to begin creating a framework for healing unanswered hurt and more to the younger generations. Stay tuned for part 2 of Women Speak Out VIII. I am your host JoY signing off and out...Peeeaaaccceee. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mejimusyk/support

Harmony in the Home
264: Mother Hunger

Harmony in the Home

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2024 20:35


Did you yearn for a relationship with your mom as a kid, but always seem to fall short? This can be a very lonely and confusing road; especially seeing all the magical mother daughter relationships online with your friends. Today we will unpack what mother hunger is and how to create connection with your kids today so they don't have that same disconnect as an adult. This will lead to having a lot more harmony in your home. Let me know your thoughts on pocket coaching and your biggest takeaway. Check out our sponsor Herbal Face Food and support the show by clicking the link https://tinyurl.com/KellysFavoriteAntiAgingSerum and using the code Harmony20 at checkout for 20% off. Subscribe on Apple! Subscribe on Android! Join my FREE parenting bootcamp! Let's Connect! Here's where you can find me: Learn more at https://www.coachingkelly.com. Find me on Instagram! Find me on Facebook!

Heartgasms
Episode 13: Fill your Cup with Marianne Hermsen

Heartgasms

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 34:55


In today's episode I talk to Marianne Hermsen about: ❤️  Filling your cup first ❤️  Radical self-acceptance and self-love ❤️  Being in touch with your body's needs  ❤️  Healing being diagnosed with breast cancer ❤️  Mother Hunger -  a conversation inspired by the book “Mother Hunger” by Kelly McDaniel https://www.amazon.de/Mother-Hunger-Understand-Nurturance-Protection/dp/1401960855 About Marianne Hermsen: Marianne Hermsen is a certified (CPCC) and accredited coach (PCC). Since 2014 she is faculty of the renowned Co-Active Training Institute (CTI) in her role as examiner, supervisor and group supervisor.  Marianne is a space-holder for women entrepreneurs who choose to do the work they're meant to do, work from their highest potential and create magic shifts in their life and business.  The Feminine Frequency is a private Coaching Program for women coaches who are ready to take up more space, unleash their feminine power and be their unfiltered self. Marianne is also the host of The Unlimited Women Podcast on Soundcloud and ITunes.  Connect with Marianne here: https://www.instagram.com/mariannehermsencom https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannehermsen https://mariannehermsen.com Contact me: info@samallencoachingcreatively.com Join my Permission for Pleasure Group Coaching Programme for Women new cohort starting 09.09.24 https://samallencoachingcreatively.com/permission-for-pleasure Find out more about working with me as a Coach & Tantra Guide & Sexological Bodyworker on my ⁠website⁠ www.samallencoachingcreatively.com Book an intro call ⁠here:⁠ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/heartgasmswithsamallen/message

SisterFriends Cups and Conversations

On Today's episode we are talking about Mother Hunger: the lack of motherly nurturing is very prevalent! An inspirational and informative half hour talk show surrounded around candor, transparency and laughter with SisterFriends. SisterFriends aims to reach a broad multi-cultural, cross generational audience with a platform of hope and love without compromising the truth of the Gospel. https://www.sisterfriendscupsandconvo.com IG @sisterfriendscupsandconvo Twitter @sisterfriendsc1 https://www.facebook.com/SisterFriendscupsandconvo/ email us at SisterFriendscupsandconvo@gmail.com Podcast available on ITunes, Spotify, GooglePlay, Breaker, RadioPublic, IHeart

How the Wise One Grows
How to Decide If You Should Have Kids or Not: Family Planning WIth Keltie Maguire (102)

How the Wise One Grows

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 73:27 Transcription Available


In this episode, clarity coach Keltie Maguire helps us navigate one of life's most significant decisions—whether to embrace parenthood or opt for a child-free lifestyle. We delve into the societal norms, cultural expectations, and personal considerations that impact this choice. Our discussion is guided by listener questions and stories, addressing the stigmas associated with opting out of parenthood and exploring emotional journeys for both paths.We also tackle concepts like 'mother hunger' and 'birth strike' in relation to family planning. This episode is designed to help listeners understand personal fulfillment and intentional living, whether deciding to have children or remain child-free.Join us for an insightful exploration that encourages reflection and self-acceptance, perfect for anyone contemplating this major life decision or seeking affirmation in their choice.Get the FREE Kids or ChildFree Guide!Episodes Referenced:Sober CuriousCalifornia SoberJOIN the FREE Intentional Living Community for HTWOG podcast listeners--  dedicated to continuing our conversations on the podcast, and where you can find support in living a life filled with intention and growth. Resources ReferencedByron Katie's 4 questionsMotherhunger---Kelly McDanielRuby Warrington- Women Without KidsStay Connected with Keltie Maguire:kidsorchildfree.comKids or Childfree PodcastInstagramSupport the Show.Join the ~*Dream Team*~ to support the podcast!Follow @howthewiseonegrows and @hollyzajur on Instagram for more and check out more offerings online.Episode sponsored by Connect Wellness. Connect Wellness empowers people with tools to connect with themselves, others, and the present moment.Be wise-- sign up to be the first to know what's next!

The Hypnotist
The Gnome That Heals From Mother Hunger

The Hypnotist

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2024 26:54


Adam creates a hypnosis session to help a client resolve issues related to mother hunger - where adults are still dealing with the issues of not having their childhood needs met. This client wanted to work on fear, anger and sadness and Adam creates a fairytale as a way of creating a dissociative frame that involved a Gnome called Snorri. Snorri goes on an adventure to resolve the issues related to Mother Hunger. An ideal session for those that had a difficult childhood.  DOWNLOADS: To thank you for being a listener to the show Adam is giving you 100% FREE hypnosis downloads worth up to £200/$250 using the coupon code FREE here: https://www.adamcox.co.uk/store/c15/FREE-Hypnosis  There is a 50% Discount on up to 10 other downloads using the coupon code hypnotist here: https://www.adamcox.co.uk/downloads.html  WORKING WITH ADAM DIRECTLY:  To book a free 30-minute consultation call to consider working with Adam go to: https://go.oncehub.com/AdamCox If you want to work with Adam on a one-to-one basis on hypnosis sessions, wealth coaching, or mentorship you can book sessions here: https://www.adamcox.co.uk/hypnotherapist.html  ABOUT ADAM Adam Cox is one of the world's most innovative hypnotists and is known for being the hypnotherapist of choice for Celebrities, CEO's and even Royalty. Adam's rates for hypnotherapy in pounds and US dollars are here: https://www.adamcox.co.uk/hypnotherapist.html  You can contact Adam at adam@adamcox.co.uk Further information on Adam is here: https://linktr.ee/AdamCoxOfficial  Tags: Adam Cox, the hypnotist, NLP, asmr, hypnosis, hypnotherapy, hypnotist, stress, sleep, worry, meditation, guided meditation, hypnotism, future, empathy, anxiety, joy, purpose, quest, better quality of life, growth, self worth, worthiness, self love, self respect, love hypnosis, relationship hypnosis, mother huunger, sadness hypnosis, confidence, anger hypnosis, fear hypnosis, 

Voices of The Goddess
The Essence of Love ~ Voices of the Goddess with Matthew Anderson

Voices of The Goddess

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2024 37:29


Matthew Anderson shared with us how important it is to bring in the balance of feminine energy into a love relationship.Join us in this episode as we discuss the magnificent effects of being in love and staying in love.This brilliant man is a life coach, minister, author and an inspirational speaker. His book, The Resurrection of Romance is an Amazon best seller - https://www.amazon.com.au/Resurrection-Romance-Romantic-Relationship-Lifetime/dp/1530218705.He has also been a counselor/coach for 50 years and he conducts his full time practice virtually and specializes in couples and single adults. He also leads couples workshops with his wife Sunny. He and his wife currently live in South Florida.He may be reached at dra@dracoach.com.Book mentioned:Mother Hunger by Kelly McDaniel - https://www.amazon.com.au/Mother-Hunger-Understand-Nurturance-Protection/dp/1401960855 ***Co-host Graciela Laurent, is a published, award-winning and professionally certified portrait photographer specializing in Boudoir and Personal Branding. She creates portraits of who you are and not just what you look like so that you can become who you've always been.Website: http://www.gracielalaurent.com/Co-host Julietta Wenzel, the Magical PT is the owner and founder of Body and Soul PT, as well as Soul Candy: intuitive, hand-made and one-of-a-kind jewelry and artwork. She supports people in finding the magic within themselves, creating balance in their body and soul.Websites: https://bodyandsoul-pt.com & https://soulcandy.love/***Voices of The Goddess with Julietta & Graciela is a podcast where we Empower, Inspire, and Uplift women to be the goddesses they truly are.Join us each week as we sit down for a heart to heart chat, sharing stories and insights with listeners across the globe. Laughter and tears alike abound as we access ancient wisdom in modern times through unique and exciting storytelling - supporting you on your life's journey. If you want to feel more Empowered, Inspired & Uplifted you can find us here:https://www.votgpodcast.com/ https://www.instagram.com/voicesofthegoddess/ https://www.facebook.com/votgpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/thecircleofgoddesses https://www.youtube.com/VoicesoftheGoddess Shine bright and have a magical day!Julietta & Graciela

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

The term 'love addiction' is often referred to in the context of romantic relationships, but did you know that the symptoms can apply to platonic relationships, too? In this episode, Jodi talks about her history with undervaluing herself in friendships and overlooking red flags in order to belong and be the "best friend". She's joined by her friend Brooke (from "A Breakup Story"), to discuss the complexity of female friendships past and present. Show notes and resources: Music by JD Pendley Jodi's website: jodiwhiteonline.com NYT article: What To Do If A Friend Ghosts You by Catherine Pearson Books referenced: Facing Love Addiction by Pia Mellody and Mother Hunger by Kelly McDaniel Disclaimer: This podcast is shared for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for mental health treatment with a licensed mental health professional or to be used in place of the advice of a physician. If you are struggling please don't delay in seeking the assistance of a licensed mental health practitioner or healthcare professional.  If you're in crisis please visit NAMI.org or call 1-800-273-TALK for 24-hour assistance. 

Bri Books
6 Best Books of 2023, According to Bri Books

Bri Books

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2024 18:44


Welcome to Bri Books! This week, as we'll be delving into all things literary, starting with a review of the 6 best books I read in 2023.  'The War Before: The True Life Story of Becoming A Black Panther, Keeping the Faith in Prison & Fighting for Those Left Behind' by Safiya Bukhari. This book was probably my most valuable and important read of 2023. It's the true-life story of Safiya Bukhari, and it catalogues her lifelong commitment as an advocate for the rights of the oppressed. Following her journey from middle-class student to Black Panter to political prisoner, her wiritings provide an intimate view of a woman wrestling with the issues of her time, including the legacy of the Panthers, misogyny in the movement, her decision to convert to Islandm, the incarceration of outspoken radicals around the world, her passion for family, and how the struggles of social justice movements have paved the way for the progress of today.  ‘Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance' by Kelly McDaniel. This book came recommended by Myleik Teele, founder of Curlbox and host behind Myleik Teele My Taught You podcast. It's truly a life-changing and life-saving book. It comes with countless insights on so many things. Having parts of this book hit home has been enlightening and healing at a whole new level. With ‘Mother Hunger', McDaniel helps women break the cycle of destructive behavior by taking a fresh look at childhood trauma and its lasting impact. McDaniel is the first clinician to identify Mother Hunger, which demystifies the search for love and provides the compass that each woman needs to end the struggle with achy, lonely emptiness, and come home to herself. 'The Yoga Almanac: 52 Practices and Rituals to Stay Grounded Through the Astrological Seasons,' by Lisette Cherreson and Andrea Rice. Sequenced by the astrological calendar, The Yoga Almanac is a practical guide to help you reintegrate with recurring cosmic rhythms, and invite the sacred into your life through learning, movement, breath, and ritual. Featuring 52 seasonally-themed chapters, the Almanac is a comprehensive jumping off point to deepen your relationship to yoga—and to yourself. ‘Forbidden Fairways: African Americans and the Game of Golf' by Calvin H. Sinnette.: The emergence of Tiger Woods on the international golf scene brought the world's attention to the African American experience in golf. But before Tiger, names like Ted Rhodes, Bill Spiller, Ann Gregory, and so many others remained in relative obscurity without being given the chance to compete. ‘Forbidden Fairways' is not just a history of the African Americans who have been playing golf for over 200 years but a tribute to them as well. ‘Spare' by Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex. Spare. Spare! WHAT can I even SAY about the book that kicked off 2023? For the first time, Prince Harry tells his own story, chronicling his journey with raw, unflinching honesty. A landmark publication, Spare is full of insight, revelation, self-examination, and hard-won wisdom about the eternal power of love over grief. From losing his mother, Princess Diana, as a tween to joining the British Army before meeting Meghan Markle his future wife, Harry spared nothing and no one in ‘Spare.' ‘Slow Living: The Secrets to Slowing Down and Noticing the Simple Joys Anywhere' by Helena Woods. This is a fantastic book that breaks down how to inject more calmness, stillness, and intentionality into your daily life. A must for 2024 and beyond!    

The Real Undressed with Deborah Kagan
324.Kelly McDaniel: The Silent Ache of Mother Hunger + the Pathway to Nurturing Your Inner Child

The Real Undressed with Deborah Kagan

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2024 57:03


Dive into a transformative conversation with Kelly McDaniel, a licensed professional counselor, author, and women's advocate who has sparked a movement with her concept of Mother Hunger. In this engaging episode of The Real Undressed, Kelly shines a light on the deep emotional burden that can shape a woman's entire life, from self-worth and eating patterns to relational wellness. You'll be captivated as she explores the power of naming the unspoken pain and the journey to healing. Discover strategies for nurturing insecure attachments and understand the impact of maternal deprivation on adult women.   In this episode you'll learn:   ~ how the concept of Mother Hunger resonates with many women and how it can manifest in their lives. ~ the importance of having a name for our pains and the relief that comes with identifying Mother Hunger. ~ the influence of society and a patriarchal culture on women's self-perception and self-nurture. ~ the lifelong effects of emotional and physical absence or abuse from a mother's love. ~ the role generational patterns play in the development of Mother Hunger. ~ the empowerment that comes from self-mothering and reorienting life to prioritize self-care. ~how men are also affected by Mother Hunger and its implications on their relationships with women. ~ the intricate dance between respecting oneself and navigating traditional roles or expectations in relationships. ~ and much more!     Connect with Kelly McDaniel Website |   https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/kellymcdanieltherapy/  Facebook |  https://www.facebook.com/kellymcdanieltherapy/       *****     MOJO *Be in the Know * VIP LIST   There's A LOT of new mojo coming your way this year. Don't miss out. Get yourself on the *be in the know * list ASAP. It's as simple as click, fill in, mojo! Cannot wait for you to be on the insider's list.  Get on it here:  https://mojo.deborah-kagan.com/email      *****   Connect with Deborah Website | http://therealundressed.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/therealundressed/   https://www.instagram.com/deborahkagan/ Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mojorecoveryspecialist/     Subscribe to The Real Undressed Podcast iTunes | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-real-undressed-with-deborah-kagan/id1494643770 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/1eOQaw6kryBsXo7Jb6qEnv   Please remember to: è Subscribe è Rate è Review the podcast. I read every single one and your feedback is valuable.  

Relationship As Medicine
Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Relationship As Medicine

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2024 35:59


I am so moved and honored to welcome Kelly McDaniel LPC, NCC to the podcast to discuss her book Mother Hunger, a personal life-changer that I frequently recommend to my clients. During this powerful conversation, we explore the term “Mother Hunger” and its various impacts on daughters with mothers who weren't able to tend to them in nurturing and supportive ways. We also discuss: The importance of using non-pathologizing language on experiences that are often so shamed   Yearning for nurturance, protection, and guidance and how someone might start the healing process Mother Hunger as an Epigenetic inheritance from our maternal lineage and how it affects a mother-child bond Implicit Memory and how our bodies carry experiences that elude verbal expression for many Disorganized attachment and confronting the labels society attaches, such as “bipolar disorder” and “borderline personality disorder”  and how these may reflect deeper, unmet needs. Whether you're a mental health professional or someone healing their own Mother Hunger, this conversation will offer insights and connection in a kind and compassionate way. I left this conversation feeling deeply touched by the depth and topics we navigated through and truly in awe of Kelly's ability to put words to such a heartbreaking experience that I have not only experienced but I know many of you have as well. About Kelly McDaniel, LPC, NCC Kelly McDaniel is a licensed professional counselor,author, mother, and women's advocate. In her first book Ready to Heal, (2008) she named an attachment injury as “Mother Hunger” and started a movement. Women resonated with the concept and wanted treatment. Since then, Kelly devotes herself to nurturing insecure attachment and maternal deprivation in adult women. In her second book, Mother Hunger, Kelly speaks to the millions of women who suffer with a life-long emotional burden that adversely affects self-worth, eating patterns, and relational wellness. Catch Kelly speaking at Hay House's I Can Do It! event in March 2024, located in Pheonix, AZ.  Website Purchase Mother Hunger  Instagram: @kellymcdanieltherapy

Blocked and Reported
Premium: Mother Hunger

Blocked and Reported

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2024 12:44


This week on the Primo episode of Blocked and Reported, Katie and Jesse discuss an evergreen debate on the internet: surrogacy. Julie Bindel: “The Pimping of Pregnancy”Julie Bindel: “Surrogacy Stories”Julie Bindel: “End Womb Trafficking” “The Conservative, Pro-Life Case Against Surrogacy”“I… To hear more, visit www.blockedandreported.org

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
Intimacy Intolerance with Kelly McDaniel

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2023 38:23


What is intimacy? If you Google the term you might find varying--yet similar--definitions...but what does it mean to YOU? In this episode, Kelly McDaniel (author of "Ready to Heal" and "Mother Hunger") is back to talk with Jodi regarding what intimacy really is, and the reason why in love addiction--although we might crave closeness--we struggle to tolerate authentic intimacy. Music by JD Pendley

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
Pretty Baby: A Mother Hunger Conversation

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2023 52:57


Have you seen the Hulu documentary, "Pretty Baby: Brooke Shields"? It paints a powerful portrait of Brooke's sexualization as a child actor, and brings attention to the waters in which young women swim from a young age. In this docuseries, Brooke Shields discusses the highs and lows of her career, and provides insight into the complex relationship with her mother. On this episode of the podcast, Jodi is joined by her friend, Brooke, to discuss "Pretty Baby" through a lens of Mother Hunger (because we can't understand love addiction without talking about Mother Hunger). Even if you haven't watched the documentary, you'll get something out of this one. Music by JD Pendley https://www.journalsofaloveaddict.com/

Nobody Told Me!
Kelly McDaniel: ...how to deal with "mother hunger"

Nobody Told Me!

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2023 27:33


If you've lost your mother, or were abused, neglected or abandoned by your mother, you may be suffering from “mother hunger”.  On this episode, we'll find out more about how being “under-mothered” impacts you throughout life.  Joining us is licensed trauma therapist Kelly McDaniel, whose latest book is called, "Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance".  Her website is kellymcdanieltherapy.com.   Ritual's "Essential for Women 18+" is one of the few women's multi-vitamins that's USP verified, meaning what's on the label is what's in the formula.  It's also soy-free, gluten-free, vegan-friendly and formulated without GMO's.  Ritual's "Essential for Women 18+" is a multi-vitamin you can actually trust. The minty essence in every bottle helps make taking your multi-vitamins enjoyable every day.  Ritual is offering our listeners 20% off during your first month!  Visit ritual.com/NTM to start Ritual or add "Essential for Women 18+" to your subscription today!

Thriving Adoptees - Inspiration For Adoptive Parents & Adoptees

Many of us feel there's something missing from us. Perhaps a hole only our birth mother can fill. Or something else that will make us whole. We've felt this so long we ache for completeness. So what do we do? Where do we look? How will we go from having a hole to feeling whole? Listen in as adoptee and coach Candi answers some of our most existential questions.Here's a link to the image Candi mentions:https://drive.google.com/file/d/1XvuxuHZgi8PDyA6cx0yvj2q61B6N-K2k/view?usp=sharingHere's a bit about Candi and her book:A raw, often wry, memoir of mothers, mysteries, and miracles. Surrendered at birth in a closed adoption, Candi Byrne's biology and ethnicity is a secret. The impending arrival of her first grandchild ignites an urgency to identify potential genetic time bombs and confirm her ancestry. Due to arcane privacy laws, Candi is repeatedly denied access to the one person who could provide that information—her biological mother.After years of failed attempts, she resigns herself to never learning the truth about her roots; that is, until her ninety-year-old Aunt Delores has a vision and insists Candi resume efforts to find her birth family. Candi is gobsmacked when an internet search she's performed thousands of times before suddenly reveals her birth mother's identity. Within hours, she ends up on the doorstep of her birth mother—a place she's sworn never to visit.After a series of guilt-driven interactions with “Those People,” as she refers to her maternal birth family, Candi terminates contact. Although the reunion proves disastrous, it opens her eyes to truths about her relationship with her adoptive mother, Delphine. Though their relationship was difficult and contentious during Delphine's life, a series of miraculous experiences after her death guides Candi home to herself—where, she learns, she has belonged all along.https://www.sweetfirecoaching.com/https://www.amazon.com/dp/1647422795/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_0J00P6AHHVS73TT69EYB

Building Confidence
From Mother Hunger to Self Love: A Transformational Talk with Shruti Goel

Building Confidence

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2023 30:04 Transcription Available


Did you ever stop to consider the lasting impact of your childhood relationship with your mother and how it might be influencing your adult relationships and self-perception today? Intriguing isn't it? My guest, the insightful Shruti Goel, a Jay Shetty certified life and success coach, joins me as we explore the profound concept of mother hunger - the longing for nurturance, protection, and guidance often missing in our early relationships. We discuss how this hunger manifests in our adult lives, causing us to gravitate towards partners who continue the cycle of pain and suffering. We delve into the origins of mother hunger, its societal implications and its effects on adult daughters and their mothers. But what about the men? We also discuss the concept of 'father hunger', and its impact on sons. Drawing from her personal journey, Shruti provides a wealth of resources for our listeners to further understand these complex concepts. This episode is sure to stir your thoughts and perhaps lead you on a journey of self-discovery and healing. Don't miss out!Contact Shruti via her Instagram @shselflovecoachSue Reid is a certified life and success coach who specialises in helping her clients build their confidence so that they can face challenges in their personal and professional lives.Work with Sue if you want to feel more secure in your skin.If you want to face the world with a smile.If you feel stuck and not sure how to move forward.If you have a hard decision to make. Subscribe to the free newsletter 'Confidence Matters' and download the Ebook '30 Day Confidence Boost Workbook' - Click HereSues book 'Building Confidence: How to Thrive As a Shy Person' can be found on AmazonLink- Building Confidence: How to Thrive as a Shy Person eBook : Reid, Sue: Amazon.co.uk: Kindle StoreSue can be contacted via: suereidcoaching.com Instagram @suereid1905Email sue@suereidcoaching.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/suereidcoaching Connect to my Linktree to find all my work.

In Her Image: Finding Heavenly Mother in Scripture, Scholarship, the Arts, & Everyday Life

Mechelle Wingle, our guest from episode 67 titled The Mother Hunger with Mechelle Wingle, sent us this beautiful meditation to share with you on the podcast. It is the second meditation in a series of four being releasing this month. Enjoy! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/inherimage/support

T-Talk
When It Hurts Like A Mother

T-Talk

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2023 35:11


Don't let your own issues with your mom hold you back in your parenting journey or your own relationship with yourself. Tune in to this episode as Natalie LeQuang spills the tea on how Kelly McDaniel's Mother Hunger transformed how she views her relationship with her own mom.  Top reasons to listen to the entire episode: Learn about the concept of Mother Hunger and how it can show up in different stages of life. Listen to Natalie's and Shaelene's experiences of healing while also navigating being new moms. Understand concepts of attachment wounding. Identify pivotal moments throughout the lifespan that are impacted by the relationship you have with your mom. Find concrete tools to start healing yourself through how you see the relationship with your mother. Had you ever heard of mother hunger before this episode? How much did it resonate with you? Share with me!   Full Show Notes Here   Connect with Natalie: @safehavenNashville @safehavenmama Connect with Shaelene:  Follow Shaelene on TikTok Follow Shaelene on Instagram Work With Shaelene Sign Up To Receive Emails From Shaelene DBT Group Practice Owners FB Group   Thanks for joining us on the T-Talk podcast! If you enjoyed this episode, please give it a 5-star rating and review. This helps the T-Talk mission of creating accessibility to mental health support and decreasing stigma. Interested in advertising your business or services on T-Talk? Check out our Podcast Sponsorship page, where you can check out everything included in our Pod Sponsor Package and see if it's the right fit for you, your audience and your business! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/t-talk-with-shaelene/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/t-talk-with-shaelene/support

Your Permission Prescription with Nancy Levin
E105: The Taboo Topic of a Childfree Life with Ruby Warrington

Your Permission Prescription with Nancy Levin

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2023 56:51


In this week's episode of Your Permission Prescription, I'm joined by lifestyle journalist and editor, renowned author, and true thought leader, Ruby Warrington. We discuss her latest book Women Without Kids: The Revolutionary Rise of an Unsung Sisterhood and the stereotypes that surround choosing to live a childfree life. We share our personal experiences of choosing to live childfree, address the misogyny rooted in a woman's role in society, and welcome in a new wave of women making the self-serving choice to not have kids. Learn More: YPP Episode 6: How to Heal Your Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel Women Without Kids Podcast: Non-Motherhood and Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel Connect with me: nancylevin.com Instagram Facebook Transform Together Facebook Group 

Authentic Parenting
Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance with Kelly McDaniel

Authentic Parenting

Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2023 58:47


Mother loss comes in many forms: cancer, suicide, illness, murder, accidents. And while many women still have their mothers, they have lost them to abandonment, addiction, memory malfunction, mental illness and more.  Kelly McDaniel is an author and clinician supporting women on the journey toward relational wholeness.  In her first book, Ready to Heal, she addresses cultural double standards and family wounds that set women up for addictive relationship habits. Her second book, Mother Hunger, is the culmination of 30 years of research, clinical expertise, and a deep understanding of mothering myths. Mother Hunger provides women a name for the misunderstood root of poor eating patterns, chronic relationship disappointment, and distorted self image. In Mother Hunger what Kelly does is validate the experience of mother loss by giving a poignant name to a phenomenon that many will know very well and offer an elegant and useful framework for healing.  In short, this is a conversation about childhood attachment injuries and their lasting impact. Kelly destigmatized the shame that comes with being under-mothered and offers a healing path with powerful tools that include lifestyle changes and therapeutic interventions.  SUPPORT THE SHOW, SHOW YOUR LOVE Become a patron on Patreon.com and join exisiting memebers who contribute towards our monthly goal of $500.  Make a one-time donation in any amount to say “Thank you!” Rate or write a review FULL SHOW NOTES www.authenticparenting.com/podcast HOW TO WORK WITH ANNA I would be thrilled to support you in your parenting journey! All listeners get 10% off on my services. Private Coaching Online courses and classes GET IN TOUCH Comments, questions, feedback, and love notes  USA listeners call 732-763-2576 and leave a voicemail. International listeners use the FREE Speak Pipe tool on my website Email: info@authenticparenting.com STAY CONNECTED Instagram Facebook Group-Authentic Parenting Community Thank you for listening!  With gratitude, Anna Seewald Parent Educator, Keynote Speaker, Author www.authenticparenting.com 

Your Permission Prescription with Nancy Levin
E97: Encore - How to Heal Your Mother Hunger® with Kelly McDaniel

Your Permission Prescription with Nancy Levin

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2023 41:58


In this week's episode of Your Permission Prescription, I'm sharing an encore episode I previously recorded with Kelly McDaniel, the author of Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance. We discuss the complex roots of attachment injuries, otherwise known as Mother Hunger®,  and the common denominator we all experience where there is a lack of nurturing, protection, and guidance.  If you're interested in learning more about how to identify and heal your Mother Hunger®, join me for my daylong workshop Mother Hunger: An Exploration on Saturday, April 22, 2023 live on zoom! Register at nancylevin.com/motherhunger Connect with me: nancylevin.com Instagram Facebook Transform Together Facebook Group

Sober Curious
Healing Our Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Sober Curious

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2023 57:00


In this episode, you will hear me in conversation with Kelly McDaniel, a therapist and author, whose latest book, Mother Hunger, examines the impact on women specifically of having lacked the proper nurturance, protection, and guidance from their primary maternal figure in early life.The reason I wanted to speak to Kelly in the context of “women without kids,” is that it seems obvious to me that living with mother hunger can't NOT have an impact on how one feels about becoming a mother, or about the experience of being a mother after having had a child. In  the episode we discuss:-Kelly's definition of “mother hunger” and how she came up with the term.-Why 50% of the population experience mother hunger and how it manifests in issues around food and love.-What causes mother hunger - and why this is often the result of an epigenetic inheritance.-Why structural issues make it harder for mothers and babies to bond - and the lifelong attachment issues that can result from this.-How mother hunger impacts our procreative choices and how we may feel about becoming mothers ourselves.-The links between mother hunger, anorexia, and being “a-reproductive” (i.e. having no desire to reproduce).-The impact of a lack of paid parental leave on mother hunger-Why choosing not to have a child can be the most “loving” choice if we are aware that our capacity to mother is being compromised.-Why our materialistic, consumer culture is just another substitute mother - and a way we seek to soothe our mother hunger.Learn more about Kelly and her work HERE and check out Mother Hunger HERE.You can get your copy of Women Without Kids: The Revolutionary Rise of an Unsung Sisterhood HERE. 

Women Without Kids
Non-Motherhood and Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Women Without Kids

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2023 56:27


Therapist and author Kelly McDaniel on the links between non-motherhood and what she calls "mother hunger." In the episode we discuss:-Kelly's definition of “mother hunger” and how she came up with the term.-Why 50% of the population experience mother hunger and how it manifests in issues around food and love.-What causes mother hunger - and why this is often the result of an epigenetic inheritance.-Why structural issues make it harder for mothers and babies to bond - and the lifelong attachment issues that can result from this.-How mother hunger impacts our procreative choices and how we may feel about becoming mothers ourselves.-The links between mother hunger, anorexia, and being “a-reproductive” (i.e. having no desire to reproduce).-The impact of a lack of paid parental leave on mother hunger.-Why choosing not to have a child can be the most “loving” choice if we are aware that our capacity to mother is being compromised.-Why our materialistic, consumer culture is just another substitute mother - and a way we seek to soothe our mother hunger.Learn more about Kelly's work HERE and find her book, Mother Hunger, HERE.Get your copy of Women Without Kids: The Revolutionary Rise of an Unsung Sisterhood HERE.

Living Centered Podcast
111 "Living Centered and the Creative Path to Healing Our Family Systems" featuring Nita Andrews

Living Centered Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2023 44:47


This week, Lindsey and Nicole sit down with artist and grief and trauma therapist Nita Andrews. Nita has such a unique and beautiful way of helping clients tend to the wounds of their past to bring about their healing in the here and now. She approaches the world with equal parts curiosity and creativity, and she humbly welcomes us into her process; whatever the medium, whatever the material, she is not afraid to use it to forge a path ahead. We are so grateful to Nita for sharing her own story of heartbreak and the ways she found healing and freedom through poetry, art, and music.   Full Show Notes More about Milestones

TELUS Talks with Tamara Taggart
Healing childhood trauma: Kelly McDaniel

TELUS Talks with Tamara Taggart

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2022 34:51


Clinical counselor Kelly McDaniel, author of Mother Hunger, discusses why secure maternal attachment in childhood is critical to emotional health and well-being in adulthood. She shares how societal pressures and patriarchal attitudes have hindered women's natural mothering instincts, how “mother hunger” can affect women's adult relationships, and how to break the cycle of trauma to enjoy greater health and well-being.

In Her Image: Finding Heavenly Mother in Scripture, Scholarship, the Arts, & Everyday Life

Mechelle Wingle is the owner and founder of the Wholeness Network--a wellness streaming platform and podcast. She is a life coach focused on transforming lives through education and healing. She reached out to share insights from the book Mother Hunger By Kelly McDaniel. Kate and Mechelle dive into the definition of trauma and what the side effects of trauma are that we may not recognize. Then as they discuss the wounding that happens in earthly situations where a mother is absent or emotionally unavailable, followed by how that feeling may translate for those growing up without connection to their Mother God. We hope you'll find this episode insightful and eye-opening as you seek the connection you crave for that Maternal Godly figure in your life. Pain around this subject can be hard to understand and we don't believe Mother in Heaven willfully abandoned us, but that She has been hidden. This is why we make this podcast, to create resources and conversation that fill the hunger we have for Mother in our lives. You can check out more from Mechelle here https://www.mechellewingle.com/ https://www.thewholenessnetwork.com/library-landing-page --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/inherimage/support

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

In love addiction recovery, we focus a lot on developmental trauma and what took place in our family of origin (because looking at our history is important). But there's something else that plays a role in love addiction: Cultural messaging. In this episode, Jodi's friend, Brooke, joins her to talk about the recent Victoria's Secret documentary; and how the company's marketing in the early 2000s led to confusing messages about beauty, and furthered the cultural double bind women experience. Jodi and Brooke also share personal experiences about sexual harassment, body insecurity, and how uncomfortable it is to talk about 'this stuff'. Music by JD Pendley  

Nobody Told Me!
Kelly McDaniel: ...how to deal with "mother hunger"

Nobody Told Me!

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2022 32:54


Our guest is licensed trauma therapist Kelly McDaniel, whose book is called, "Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance". Her website is kellymcdanieltherapy.com. Thanks to our sponsors of this episode!: Everlywell is digital healthcare designed for you — all at an affordable and transparent price. With over thirty at-home lab tests, you'll be able to choose the test that makes the most sense for you to get the answers you need, like the Metabolism Test or Food Sensitivity Test. Everlywell ships products straight to you with everything needed in one package. To take your at-home lab test, simply collect your sample and use the included prepaid shipping label to mail your test back to a certified lab. Your physician-reviewed results get sent to your phone or device in just days! If you've been experiencing symptoms and don't know where to start, Everlywell is committed to listening and supporting your journey towards better health and wellness. For listeners of Nobody Told Me!, Everlywell is offering a special discount of twenty percent off an at-home lab test at everlywell.com/nobody. That's everlywell.com/nobody for twenty percent off your next at-home lab test. Coda.io With teams working all across the country, if your best work is spread out across documents and spreadsheets, and a stack of workflow tools you have to jump in and out of all day, you need Coda, the doc that brings it all together. Coda is endlessly customizable AND connected. There are templates for anything and everything. Product roadmap, remote onboarding, OKR tracker, meeting notes...You name it, Coda has it. Coda adapts to growing teams and changing strategies. And perhaps most importantly Coda seamlessly integrates with the tools you need. Everything in Coda is synched. Make an update in a table, and it automatically shows up everywhere. No more relying on copy & paste to keep lynchpin projects current! Your team can operate on the same information and collaborate the way we all want to, quickly and efficiently. With Coda, you can solve just about anything. And right now you can get started having your team all working together on the same page for FREE. Head over to Coda.IO/nobodytoldme to get started for FREE.  Coda.IO/nobodytoldme Policygenius is an insurance marketplace that makes it easy to compare quotes from top companies like AIG and Prudential in one place to find your lowest price on life insurance. You could save 50% or more on life insurance by comparing quotes with Policygenius. Options start at just $17 per month for $500,000 of coverage. Just head to Policygenius.com to get personalized quotes in minutes and find the right policy for your needs. The licensed agents at Policygenius work for you, not the insurance companies. They're on hand through the entire process to help you understand your options so you can make decisions with confidence. Policygenius has options that offer coverage in as little as a week and avoid unnecessary medical exams. Policygenius has thousands of five-star reviews across Google and Trustpilot and they've helped more than 30 million people shop for insurance since 2014. Head to policygenius.com to get your free life insurance quotes and see how much you could save. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tell Me Something True with Laura McKowen
Erin Lane on the Scripts That Hurt Mothers (and non-mothers, too!)

Tell Me Something True with Laura McKowen

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2022 59:17 Very Popular


We don't like to admit it, but there are a hell of a lot of scripts that run us. They're the “shoulds” - ideas so woven into our lives that we don't even know they exist.For virtually all women - the scripts around motherhood are the most pernicious. They load us down with self-doubt, bake in unattainable expectations, and set us up for a life where we're always defined in relationship to others, our kids, or lack of kids.Erin Lane has spent most of her life challenging these scripts. Her latest book, “Someone Other Than a Mother” tears up the shaming social scripts that are bad for moms and non-moms alike. When we hear things like “Motherhood is the toughest job…” or  "You don't know love until you become a mother" we're encountering the social scripting that defines what's “normal” for the majority of American women.This conversation with Erin is equal parts liberating and bracing. She's cracking something that we need to discuss in specific, urgent ways and we're thrilled to have her as our guest on Tell Me Something True.Resources:Erin's site:  https://www.erinslane.com/Her book - Someone Other Than a MotherIf you care about these kinds of conversations, we hope you'll become a TMST Plus member.  Episode link: Spotify playlist for this episode: Here's the transcript: Tell Me Something True is a 100% independent podcast. There are no corporations or advertisers backing this community. We are 100% funded by the TMST community. Become a TMST member today so you can hear the uncut interviews, attend private events with Laura and help keep TMST ad-free.Support TMST and keep it ad-free: https://tmst.supercast.com/erin s. lane, mother hunger, adoption, motherhood, parenting, codependency, christianity, biblical womanhood, someone other than a mother, laura mckowen, we are the luckiest

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast
The Science of Stuck with Britt Frank

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2022 48:36 Very Popular


Britt Frank is the author of The Science of Stuck: Breaking Through Inertia to Find Your Path Forward. Many of my listeners are stuck on the idea of whether they should stay or go, or stuck in trauma and fear. That's why I invited Britt to the show to talk about the small steps we can take to become unstuck and move forward with dignity.   Britt is a trauma specialist and psychotherapist.  Her work focuses on empowering people to understand the mechanisms of our brains and bodies so we can break through procrastination and find our way home to ourselves. This conversation is amazing, I hope you enjoy it!  Show Highlights The fastest way to get out of being stuck is to take small steps (5:08) How to define the ‘first step' to help you figure out your plan for getting unstuck (7:53) Dissociation is a self-protection mechanism - there'sa reason you're not doing the thing you want to do: you're experiencing the freeze response to trauma (13:11) Britt explains why we can't think ourselves forward (16:04) We explore the steps to help you get unstuck including: Validating what's happening and determining the resources available to help right now (22:40) Why Britt says to stay away from positive and negative thinking and instead focus on accurate thinking (24:52) Your inner critic wants to help, but they are just really bad at it! (27:59) Leaving a relationship requires detox and withdrawal (34:23) Self-sabotage is a way to self-protect - don't blame yourself for self-sabotaging. Recognize it's happening and then follow the steps to move through being stuck (39:41) Self-mothering is one the most powerful ways of breaking trauma bonds (44:24) Learn more about Britt Frank: Britt Frank, MSW, LSCSW, SEP is a clinician, educator, and trauma specialist. She speaks and writes widely about the mental health myths that keep us stuck and stressed. Britt received her BA from Duke University and her MSW from the University of Kansas, where she later became an award-winning adjunct professor. She is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Level 3 trained in the Internal Family Systems therapeutic model. Britt was a primary therapist at a drug and alcohol treatment center, an inpatient therapist at a children's psychiatric hospital, and now owns a private practice. You can find Britt on Instagram @brittfrank or on her website www.scienceofstuck.com. Her debut book The Science of Stuck was released 3-22-22 by Penguin Random House. Resources & Links: Links and information may also be found at:  https://kateanthony.com/podcast/the-science-of-stuck-with-britt-frank/ Get on the list to be notified about Grit & Grace!Britt's websiteBritt on Instagram Britt's book Mother Hunger, Kelly McDaniel TODAY'S EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY: THE DIVORCE SURVIVAL PROGRAM As one of the pioneers of the divorce coaching industry, I've been helping women (most of whom are moms) navigate the divorce process for the last decade. AND NOW, FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER, ALL OF MY DIVORCE WISDOM IS AVAILABLE IN ONE ONLINE PROGRAM. This program is 100% for you if… You're a mom looking for a clear roadmap to a divorce that won't destroy your kids You're looking for answers and a roadmap You understand that divorce is a long game You're willing to put away your boxing gloves You want this to be a respectful and collaborative process in service of your kids You understand that divorce is, first and foremost, an emotional process and you're ready to ‘go there' Are you ready to learn from one of the world's top divorce experts and set yourself on the path towards the best possible outcome? YEAH, Y'ARE!!! JOIN THE SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO FACEBOOK GROUP

Into Our Own Hands
Ep 7 PERMISSION TO BE ALIVE: Acupuncture and The Needle with Margret Hallisey

Into Our Own Hands

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2022 60:05


Work with your hands to move energy - no needles required. Artists as Healers - healing with needles and through creative relationships.   Listen to Gretchen get needled for her Mother Hunger by Margaret and relax deeply into the interview.   About Margaret:  Margaret Hallisey has been a licensed practitioner of Acupuncture and Chinese Herbal Medicine since April 2004. Her initial practice began in Williamsburg, Brooklyn. Her second office in Columbia County, close to Hudson, NY, was opened in October, 2012.  She is board certified by the National Certification Commission for Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine. She earned her Masters in Acupuncture from the Academy for Five Element Acupuncture, when it was located in Hallandale, Florida. She is also a graduate of the Academy's Herbal Studies program and can prescribe custom herbal formulas, as needed. Fresh out of college, Margaret worked as a dancer and choreographer in New York City, which enables her to bring a kinesthetic understanding of body mechanics to her practice. Early in her practice, she worked with many artists and performers, helping them sustain their physicality and creative inspiration. She received her BA from Sarah Lawrence College in 1989.   Margaret has traveled across the United States and Europe to study with experienced practitioners of Chinese Medicine. She is certified in Clean Needle Technique by the Council of Colleges of Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine. In addition to being trained in Classical Acupuncture, Margaret has received training in Auricular Acupuncture, Acupuncture Detoxification, Pain Treatment, and Zero Balancing. She specializes in Fertility, hormonal imbalances and more difficult issues that cannot be explained or addressed by allopathic medicine. www.margarethalliseyacupuncture.com Music credit: "Song We Came To Sing" by Living Roots livingrootsmusic.com

Red Table Talk
Living with Mother Hunger (Maternal Deprivation recap)

Red Table Talk

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2022 51:41


Hosts Tracy T. Rowe, Cara Pressley, and the Red Table Talk community are diving deep into their upbringings to answer the same question Jada, Gammy, and Willow contemplated: Do I have mother hunger? All around the virtual red table, Tracy, Cara, Marian, and NyTasha share how mother hunger is affecting their friendships, romantic relationships, parenting, sex lives, and so much more. But not everyone at the table agrees on how to move forward or who should accept responsibility. Stories of sexual abuse are discussed in this episode. If you or a loved one need help, please call the national sexual assault hotline at 800.656.4673 for confidential 24/7 support. Hosts Information: Cara Pressley@thecareercheerleader Cara's Instagram@TheCareerCheerleader Cara's Facebook@the1cheering4U Cara's Twitter@FeelinSuccessful Cara's TikTokCara's Website Tracy T. Rowe@tracytrowe Tracy's Instagram@troweandco Tracy's Facebook@tracytrowe Tracy's Twitter@tracytrowe Tracy's TikTokTracy's Website ---- #LRTT Listening and loving the show? Please be sure to rate and review. Have a question you want us to discuss on Let's Red Table That? Email us at: letsredtablethat@redtabletalk.com ----- LET'S RED TABLE THAT is produced by Red Table Talk Podcasts. EXECUTIVE PRODUCERS Jada Pinkett Smith, Fallon Jethroe and Ellen Rakieten. PRODUCER Kyla Carneiro. ASSOCIATE PRODUCER Yolanda Chow. EDITORS AND AUDIO MIXERS Calvin Bailiff and Devin Donaghy. PHOTOGRAPHY Lee Salter Creative Firm. MUSIC from Epidemic Sound. LET'S RED TABLE THAT is in partnership with iHeartRadio.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Let's Red Table That
Living with Mother Hunger (Maternal Deprivation recap)

Let's Red Table That

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2022 51:41


Hosts Tracy T. Rowe, Cara Pressley, and the Red Table Talk community are diving deep into their upbringings to answer the same question Jada, Gammy, and Willow contemplated: Do I have mother hunger? All around the virtual red table, Tracy, Cara, Marian, and NyTasha share how mother hunger is affecting their friendships, romantic relationships, parenting, sex lives, and so much more. But not everyone at the table agrees on how to move forward or who should accept responsibility. Stories of sexual abuse are discussed in this episode. If you or a loved one need help, please call the national sexual assault hotline at 800.656.4673 for confidential 24/7 support. Hosts Information: Cara Pressley@thecareercheerleader Cara's Instagram@TheCareerCheerleader Cara's Facebook@the1cheering4U Cara's Twitter@FeelinSuccessful Cara's TikTokCara's Website Tracy T. Rowe@tracytrowe Tracy's Instagram@troweandco Tracy's Facebook@tracytrowe Tracy's Twitter@tracytrowe Tracy's TikTokTracy's Website ---- #LRTT Listening and loving the show? Please be sure to rate and review. Have a question you want us to discuss on Let's Red Table That? Email us at: letsredtablethat@redtabletalk.com ----- LET'S RED TABLE THAT is produced by Red Table Talk Podcasts. EXECUTIVE PRODUCERS Jada Pinkett Smith, Fallon Jethroe and Ellen Rakieten. PRODUCER Kyla Carneiro. ASSOCIATE PRODUCER Yolanda Chow. EDITORS AND AUDIO MIXERS Calvin Bailiff and Devin Donaghy. PHOTOGRAPHY Lee Salter Creative Firm. MUSIC from Epidemic Sound. LET'S RED TABLE THAT is in partnership with iHeartRadio.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Food Issues
S7:E4: Breastfeeding Problems, Trauma, and Postpartum Mental Health

Food Issues

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 34:48


We all know “breast is best,” but that doesn't mean breastfeeding always comes naturally or is easy. Many moms struggle with pain, low milk supply, and other breastfeeding problems and often don't have the support they need. In this episode, I sat down with Dr. Kathleen Kendall-Tackett, a health psychologist, International Board Certified Lactation Consultant, and author of Breastfeeding Doesn't Need to Suck. She is also the owner and editor-in-chief of Praeclarus Press.  Kathleen and I talk about the most common breastfeeding problems, why our breasts actually have a storage capacity, why moms quit breastfeeding, and where they can turn for help and support. We also talk about how complex trauma and mental health issues can come into play for breastfeeding moms, why the healthcare system—and society—often fails moms, and what all new moms need to know.  Welcome 2:03 Let's talk about your story! 3:30 What is the biggest challenge for breastfeeding moms today?  9:00 Who should moms see to get help? 12:16 What should moms know about the effects of trauma on pregnancy, labor/delivery, postpartum health, and breastfeeding? 16:05 For moms who are pregnant or thinking about becoming pregnant, should they see a therapist to tease out these issues? 17:13 What is lacking when it comes to healthcare and support after moms give birth?23:26 What are the most common reasons moms quit breastfeeding?  23:41 How can women determine if they have a low milk supply? 27:28 Does nipple pain always have to do with an incorrect latch? 29:30 Can you talk about research that shows moms who have epidurals are less likely to exclusively breastfeed? 30:14 What are tips for moms dealing with breastfeeding problems? LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Kathleen mentions this article in the journal Clinical Lactation which found that breastfeeding moms get more sleep than moms who supplement with formula.  Kathleen talks about Dr. Jack Newman.  Kathleen mentions this 2008 study in JAMA Pediatrics which found that pediatricians are less likely to believe breastfeeding works.  Kathleen mentions Tina Smillie. Kathleen mentions Survivor Moms' Companion.  Julie mentions the book Mother Hunger, by Kelly McDaniel.  Purchase a copy of Kathleen's book, Breastfeeding Doesn't Need to Suck.  Learn more about Kathleen on her website. Follow Kathleen on Facebook and Twitter. FROM OUR PARTNERS Kids Cook Real Food eCourse The Kids Cook Real Food eCourse, created by a mom of 4 and a former elementary school teacher, is designed to build connection, confidence, and creativity in the kitchen. The course includes 30 basic cooking skills, 45 videos including several bonuses, printable supply and grocery shopping lists, and kid-friendly recipes. The course is designed for all kids ages 2 to teen and has three different skill levels. More than 18,000 families have taken the course and The Wall Street Journal named it the #1 cooking class for kids. Sign up now for the Kids Cook Real Food ecourse and get a free lesson for being a “Food Issues” listener. Thrive Market Thrive Market is an online membership-based market that has the highest quality, organic, non-GMO, healthy, and sustainable products. From groceries, clean beauty, safe supplements, and non-toxic home products to ethical meat, sustainable seafood, clean wine, and more, Thrive Market is where members save an average of $32 on every order! Through Thrive Gives, every paid membership sponsors a free one for a low-income family. Join Thrive Market today and get 25% off your first order and a free gift. 

The Sage Surfer - Musings From the Lineup
Episode 51 - The Mother Hunger

The Sage Surfer - Musings From the Lineup

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2022 37:02


No matter how much work I do, no matter how diligently I guard the gates of Mind…two subtle fears continually seek to penetrate and rule my way of being. The first fear occurs when I compare myself to anything outside of True Will. The antidote is in the poison. Striving to become the greatest version of myself is a welcome challenge…the growth may be uncomfortable, but it isn't rooted in the type of fear that puts me to sleep and lets programming pull the strings of a lifeless corpse. The second fear results from failure to penetrate this life with all we have to muster or playing Mickey Mouse games of what can I get and what's the cost? The antidote is in the poison. Will I make passionate love to the moment…leaving her FULL-FILLED? Or will I short-stroke the bitch creating perpetual Mother Hunger? As we FULL-FILL ourselves we can pull ourselves out of the hat and into the superficial as art. Who ART thou? And that ART will be CHERISHED by those with the Mother Hunger Integrity Love Will Heresy P.S. I created the clothes in all of my recent marketing materials. The Sage Surfer clothing line is in development now…Also, if you want to work with me one-on-one or have access to my classes and other offerings - drop me your email at http://thesagesurfer.com.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tell Me Something True with Laura McKowen
Kelly McDaniel on Mother Hunger

Tell Me Something True with Laura McKowen

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2022 60:52 Very Popular


An insatiable need for romantic attention and love. Periods of overeating or starving. Using alcohol, food, or over-working to numb out. A pattern of unstable and painful relationships. Does this sound painfully familiar? Kelly McDaniel is a trauma therapist who saw these traits over and over in clients who felt trapped in cycles of harmful behaviors and were unable to stop. In 2008, she coined the term Mother Hunger as a way to describe this pattern and has since helped countless women. In this conversation, Kelly and Laura talk about: – What Mother Hunger is – How Mother Hunger shows up in our relationship to food – The three critical elements of mothering and what happens when those needs aren't met – What Mother Hunger looks like in other relationships, like friendships and at work – The link between food and unstable relationship patterns – The concept of “frozen grief” – The double-bind women face when it comes to sexual expression – How to begin to heal Episode link: https://www.tmstpod.com/episodes/51-kelly-mcdaniel-on-mother-hunger Show notes: Ready to Heal book Mother Hunger book Kelly's website: https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/ Kelly's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellymcdanieltherapy/ Spotify playlist for this episode: Tell Me Something True is a 100% independent podcast. There are no corporations or advertisers backing this community. We are 100% funded by the TMST community. Become a TMST member today so you can hear the uncut interviews, attend private events with Laura and help keep TMST ad-free. ==== TMST is hosted by Laura McKowen, the bestselling author of We Are The Luckiest and founder of The Luckiest Club. Follow the show and Laura on Instagram.

Luke Ford
Mother Hunger (6-8-22)

Luke Ford

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2022 109:52


00:30 What really happened on January 6? 15:00 Healing Mother Hunger, https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/a-short-description-of-mother-hunger/ 26:00 Chesa Boudin bounced out as San Francisco's DA 53:00 Democratic crime wave 56:00 Victor Davis Hanson on America's crime wave 59:30 Biden's disinformation board 1:12:00 After the leak, the Supreme Court seethes with resentment and fear behind the scenes, https://www.npr.org/2022/06/08/1103476028/after-the-leak-the-supreme-court-seethes-with-resentment-and-fear-behind-the-sce 1:22:00 Peter Zeihan | Victor Davis Hanson | Michael Beckley, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mNFW3AEv9A 1:40 Fear of abandonment, https://www.verywellmind.com/fear-of-abandonment-2671741 https://www.verywellmind.com/marriage-insecure-attachment-style-2303303 https://www.mindingtherapy.com/mother-hunger-books/ https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/insecure-attachment-style/ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/attachment-and-adult-relationships.htm Insecure Attachment, Dysfunctional Attitudes, and Low Self-Esteem Predicting Prospective Symptoms of Depression and Anxiety During Adolescence, https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2741157/ https://www.attachmentproject.com/blog/insecure-attachment-in-childhood/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/i-hear-you/202001/what-does-it-mean-have-insecure-attachment-style https://www.verywellhealth.com/insecure-attachment-5220170 Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSFVD7Xfhn7sJY8LAIQmH8Q/join https://odysee.com/@LukeFordLive, https://lbry.tv/@LukeFord, https://rumble.com/lukeford https://dlive.tv/lukefordlivestreams Listener Call In #: 1-310-997-4596 Superchat: https://entropystream.live/app/lukefordlive Bitchute: https://www.bitchute.com/channel/lukeford/ Soundcloud MP3s: https://soundcloud.com/luke-ford-666431593 Code of Conduct: https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=125692 https://www.patreon.com/lukeford http://lukeford.net Email me: lukeisback@gmail.com or DM me on Twitter.com/lukeford Support the show | https://www.streamlabs.com/lukeford, https://patreon.com/lukeford, https://PayPal.Me/lukeisback Facebook: http://facebook.com/lukecford Feel free to clip my videos. It's nice when you link back to the original.

Red Table Talk
How Mothers Can Damage Their Daughters: Could This Be You?

Red Table Talk

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2022 35:06


Did you know there are THREE CRITICAL NEEDS every daughter requires from her mother? If they aren't met, the effects can be devastating. "Mother Hunger" author and trauma psychotherapist Kelly McDaniel joins the table as Jada, Gammy and Willow open up about how their mothers affected them. Entertainment reporter Tanika Ray discovers how her destructive behaviors are linked to a strained relationship. A 25-year-old woman is anxious about passing along unresolved trauma to her children. A motherless mother shares how devastating losses have affected her own parenting. Don't miss this unforgettable RTT full of life-changing wisdom! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Magnetic Woman Show
The Great Mother Wound and How It is Impacting Your Leadership

The Magnetic Woman Show

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2022 19:36


Hey Gorgeous!I recently started reading: Mother Hunger.....It is a great book but it really confirmed what I have been saying and working on with clients for years. A lot of our fears and insecurities in Feminine Leadership relate back to what I call The Great Mother Wound. The wounding from your actual mother AND from a disconnection from the Divine Feminine. This is a great episode! If you want more info on Sovereign: http://themagneticwoman.com/sovereign

Spiked Sweet Tea
Mother Hunger

Spiked Sweet Tea

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2022 54:44


Dena and Aprylle pulled from the Red Table to discuss the book Mother Hunger written by their recent guest, Kelly McDaniel. You're in for a rare treat as the ladies get personal about the relationships with their own mothers. #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeaPodcast #Blackwomenpodcasts #supportblackwomen #protectblackwomen #blackgirlmagic

Red Table Talk
How Destructive Mothers Damage Their Daughters: Could This Be You?

Red Table Talk

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2022 35:04


Did you know there are THREE CRITICAL NEEDS every daughter requires from her mother? If they aren't met, the effects can be devastating. "Mother Hunger" author and trauma psychotherapist Kelly McDaniel joins the table as Jada, Gammy and Willow open up about how their mothers affected them. Entertainment reporter Tanika Ray discovers how her destructive behaviors are linked to a strained relationship. A 25-year-old woman is anxious about passing along unresolved trauma to her children. A motherless mother shares how devastating losses have affected her own parenting. Don't miss this unforgettable RTT full of life-changing wisdom! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
Third Degree Mother Hunger with Jennifer Acker

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 46:36


If you listen to the podcast you've likely heard Jodi talk about Mother Hunger and the role it plays in love addiciton. But there's an extreme form of this attachment injury: Third Degree Mother Hunger--which happens when a daughter grows-up frightened of her mother. For this episode, Jodi invited fellow Mother Hunger facilitator and therapist, Jennifer Acker, to share her personal Third Degree Mother Hunger story. Music by JD Pendley

Mamaste with Tanika Ray
When Mother's Day Is Hard!

Mamaste with Tanika Ray

Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2022 31:31


“You can learn to become your own best parent” As a mom, there is mourning for what you are providing your children that you didn't get from your own parents, but we can learn to become our own best parent when we take action towards healing our inner child.Today, I'm doing a solo episode about how it's important for us moms to mother ourselves. Do you tend to keep yourself busy and distracted so you don't have to address the trauma from your own childhood? Ignoring the pain doesn't make it go away, it just allows it to continue to grow bigger and bigger. Addressing and uncovering childhood trauma is incredibly difficult and can bring up confusing emotions, but it will ultimately lead you to becoming a better mother for your own children. Tune in and listen to episode twenty-nine of Mamaste with Tanika Ray. I talk about the deep and emotional inner work that I have been focusing on and what I have learned about mothering myself. I share the realizations I have had about my complex relationship with my own mother, books that have changed my perspective on motherhood, what I do when I am triggered, and so much more. In This Episode, You Will Learn:How I spent Mother's Day (4:31)To connect with your inner child as a mother (07:19)About the book Mother Hunger and how it has completely shifted my perspective on motherhood (13:23)Why I turn to self-isolation when I am triggered (18:51)The two different ways we mother our children (24:25)Resources MentionedBook - Mother HungerBook - Happy DaysLet's Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramYouTubeTwitter Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

Tell Me Something True with Laura McKowen
Jodi White on Love Addiction, Mother Hunger and Codependency

Tell Me Something True with Laura McKowen

Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2022 60:13


Let's be real. The words “Love Addiction” can trigger a massive eye roll. Jodi White gets it and she's here to show us that it's real and a lot more common than we think. Jodi draws on the groundbreaking work of Pia Mellody and builds on it in a way that is comforting, clarifying and hopeful. Jodi is open about the ways SHE's struggled in this area and we talk about what it's like to be love anorexic (yes, that's a thing). We dig into Mother Hunger and some of the other behaviors that prime us for love addiction. Wondering if this is for you? The three primary symptoms of love addiction are: assigning too much time and value to another person, neglecting ourselves while in relationships, and expecting unconditional positive regarding from partners. This is one of those you may need to listen to a few times. There's a lot in it and it's packed with goodness from Jodi. Don't forget…there's a Spotify playlist that accompanies this episode and if you haven't become a paid subscriber, we hope you'll do that. The support of all of you who get something out of these conversations keeps them going. It matters. Jodi's site: https://www.jodiwhitelpc.com/ Jodi's IG: https://www.instagram.com/jodiwhite_/ Episode link: https://www.tmstpod.com/episodes/47-jodi-white-love-addiction-mother-hunger-codependency Spotify playlist for this episode: Tell Me Something True is a 100% independent podcast. There are no corporations or advertisers backing this community. We are 100% funded by the TMST community. Support TMST today so you can hear the uncut interviews, attend private events with Laura and help keep TMST ad-free: https://tmst.supercast.com/

Mamaste with Tanika Ray
Mama, Me, Myself, & I

Mamaste with Tanika Ray

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2022 39:34


We can put in all the effort, all the work, all the intense struggle that we have inside of us to try and overcome trauma, but sometimes it still sticks around. Trauma, especially that which we suffered as children, has a tendency to rear its head at the most surprising moments and all of the self love and self care in the world won't ever fully heal us. But the amazing thing we can gain from it is wisdom, courage, and a sense of enduring peace and empowerment.Today, I'm putting it all out there and sharing with you some thoughts I had after a discussion about the book Mother Hunger by Kelly McDaniel. If you're a regular listener, you've probably heard me speak about my mother and the complicated relationship I share with her—this is a further peak into that.Tune in and listen to episode twenty three of Mamaste with Tanika Ray. I'm diving deep and getting real about the way my upbringing and my relationship with my mother affected everything from the way I learned to love others, to picking men, to parenting my own daughter.In This Episode, You Will Learn:I parent my daughter in a way that I wasn't when I was a little girl (04:35)I've put in so much work to overcome my childhood trauma, but it still surfaces and surprises even me (07:00)I automatically respond when I'm triggered the way I, unbeknownst to me, triggered my mother. It's all connected (09:23)Being a mother myself made me realize that I have the ability in my hands to fuck her life up royally or to make her life manageable (14:44)It's so easy to break your child's heart, to burn out their spirit (18:17)Continue to discover yourself, continue to remind yourself what love is, continue to ask yourself and question, “Does this work?” (26:22)Mothering yourself can be an amazing experience in healing (32:25)Resources mentioned:Mother Hunger by Kelly McDanielLet's Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramYouTubeTwitter Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

Not Only, But Also
Rambling, but also reasoning

Not Only, But Also

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2022 62:15


Renee and Nicole are back with their first ever shoot-the-breeze-episode, in which you are invited into their back-and-forth of trying to figure out this week's topic. They end up discussing mentoring, heaven and hell, Oprah, and justice, among other things...including Renee discovering that she prefers monogamy. Welcome to the process.Special appearances by Jonathan Cottrell  and our very own producer, Evan Bates. Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” and outro by Gregory Kyle Klughttps://gregorykyle.com/Referenced in this episode:“Mother Hunger” by Kelly Mcdaniel

Velvet's Edge with Kelly Henderson
Our First Love: Mother Hunger (the Velvet)

Velvet's Edge with Kelly Henderson

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2022 66:58


In the first podcast of this "Month Of Love" on Velvet's Edge, Kelly is joined by licensed therapist and author, Kelly McDaniel. Kelly is the author of Ready to Heal: Breaking Free of Addictive Relationships and her latest book, Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection and Guidance. The women address the ins and outs of toxic relationship dynamics that are so normalized in our society, why our relationships with our mother's are such an integral part of these dynamics and the steps to healing and finding the love and intimacy you truly deserve.  website: kellymcdanieltherapy.com Instagram: @kellymcdanieltherapy  Books: Ready To Heal  Mother Hunger Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com

SHE RECOVERS® Podcast
Episode 61: Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

SHE RECOVERS® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2021 69:01


Kelly McDaniel, LPC, NCC, CSAT, is a licensed professional counselor and author, specializing in treating women who struggle with relationships. As the first clinician to name an attachment injury as Mother Hunger, she explores the legacy of maternal deprivation. Her book 'Mother Hunger', speaks to the millions of women who suffer with a life-long emotional burden that adversely affects self-worth.This podcast episode is Dawn Nickel and Kelly's live session of #MentalHealthMonday.An endless ache to love and be loved. Periods of overeating or starving. A pattern of unstable moods and painful relationships.Do any of these sound familiar?Trauma psychotherapist and author Kelly McDaniel has seen these traits over and over in clients who feel trapped in cycles of harmful behaviors — and are unable to stop.Many of us find ourselves stuck in unhealthy habits simply because we don't see a better way. With Mother Hunger, Kelly McDaniel helps women break the cycle of destructive behavior by taking a fresh look at childhood attachment injuries and their lasting impact.In doing so, she de-stigmatizes the shame that can come with being under-mothered and misdiagnosed, and offers a healing path with powerful tools that include therapeutic interventions and lifestyle changes.In this session of #MentalHealthMonday, Kelly McDaniel weaves her 30 years of research, clinical expertise, and a deep understanding of mothering myths, to explore 'Mother Hunger' and provide an opportunity to understand and heal the misunderstood root of poor eating patterns, chronic relationship disappointment, and distorted self-image. Connect with Kelly at  kellymcdanieltherapy.com and on Instagram: @kellymcdanieltherapy .The SHE RECOVERS FOUNDATION is a grassroots movement and non-profit public charity with a community of women in or seeking recovery from substance use disorders, behavioral health issues and/or life challenges. This lifeline organization connects women through its virtual platforms and in-person community networks, provides resources and supports women to develop their own holistic recovery patchworks, and empowers them to thrive and share their successes. All efforts are designed to end the stigma and shame often associated with recovery so that more women may heal and grow.SHE RECOVERS has launched a partnership with BetterHelp to provide accessible and individualized therapy to those seeking healing.We are honored to offer our listeners a 35% discount on the first month of therapy @  BetterHelp until December 31. Register at betterhelp.com/srf.  SHE RECOVERS is grateful to BetterHelp for making a $100,000 donation in support of our mission in 2021.

You Can Heal Your Life®
Kelly McDaniel | Mother Hunger (Audiobook Excerpt)

You Can Heal Your Life®

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2021 42:04


This is an excerpt from Kelly McDaniel's audiobook, Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection and Guidance. You can listen to the full audiobook FREE for 14 days in the Hay House Unlimited Audio App. Apple users visit hayhouse.com/apple and Android users visit hayhouse.com/google.

Your Permission Prescription with Nancy Levin
E6: How to Heal Your Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Your Permission Prescription with Nancy Levin

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2021 39:09


It's a true joy to welcome Kelly McDaniel, author of Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance, to Your Permission Prescription this week! In this episode, Kelly shares the complex roots of attachment injuries and the common denominator we all experience where there is a lack of nurturing, protection, and guidance. Prepare to take notes and begin to heal as we discuss a connection so many of us yearn for and how it's shaped from birth.

System Speak: Dissociative Identity Disorder ( Multiple Personality Disorder )

Kelly McDaniel is back to tell us about her new book all about “Mother Hunger” after introducing the concept on our podcast in her first interview with us.  We discuss “Third Degree Hunger”, and apply it to what we learned last year.  We share examples of historical parenting trauma due to behaviorist training, and how we have worked to repair that in our family.  She explains the neural pathways of bonding and survival, and how this leads to the betrayal blindness in relational trauma.  She explains the difference between authentic hope and pathological hope.  Trigger warning for topical content of mothers and relational trauma.Trigger  Warning:  Content on this website and in the podcasts is assumed to be trauma and/or dissociative related due to the nature of what is being shared here in general.  Content descriptors are generally given in each episode.  Please use appropriate self-care and your own safety plan while exploring this website and during your listening experience.  Natural pauses due to dissociation have not been edited out of the podcast, and have been left for authenticity.  While some professional material may be referenced for educational purposes, Emma and her system are not your therapist nor offering professional advice.  Any informational material shared or referenced is simply part of our own learning process, and not guaranteed to be the latest research or best method for you.  Please contact your therapist or nearest emergency room in case of any emergency.  This website does not provide any medical, mental health, or social support services. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel: Part Three

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2021 37:55


In the previous two episodes, author and therapist Kelly McDaniel has explained Mother Hunger, how it happens, and provided some well-known cases of Mother Hunger from her forthcoming book for reference. In Part Three, Jodi and Kelly continue their conversation with the definition of Third-Degree Mother Hunger, as well as the steps involved in the healing process. Music by JD Pendley  

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel: Part Two

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2021 35:02


Nurturance, guidance and protection are three developmental needs for appropriate brain development in childhood; but what happens if any (or all) of these are inconsistently provided? In this episode, Jodi continues the Mother Hunger discussion with author and therapist, Kelly McDaniel; listen as they talk about the importance of protection, how daughters look to their mothers for guidance, and how carried shame messes everything up. Music by JD Pendley      

Connectfulness Practice
Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Connectfulness Practice

Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2021 43:05


Kelly McDaniel, LPC returns to the podcast (she joined us on episode 28: https://connectfulness.com/episode/28-legacy-of-chronic-loneliness-kelly-mcdaniel (The Legacy of Chronic Loneliness)) to explore the legacy of maternal deprivation. Her upcoming book, https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/books/ (Mother Hunger), soothes the legacy of shame that accompanies being under-mothered. Mother Hunger addresses the constant search for love —nurturance, protection, and guidance— that may lead to a lifelong quest for what was missing. It’s not about critiquing how you were raised, rather it’s about learning how to heal and re-parent the hungry parts inside. Healing begins with knowing and naming what we are missing. If you’re one of many who feel a sense of dread and grief as Mother's Day nears, these feelings may be related to Mother Hunger and I hope this episode helps you feel a little less alone. RESOURCES: Kelly McDaniel's Website: https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/ (kellymcdanieltherapy.com) https://www.amazon.com/dp/1401960855/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_7ND6ZQGX7BMF41CRY7DJ (Preorder the “Mother Hunger” book) https://connectfulness.com/ (connectfulness.com) If you enjoyed this episode and want to dive in deeper, consider joining one of Rebecca’s online offerings to deepen your relational skills and expand your Self care. Learn more at https://connectfulness.com/offerings (connectfulness.com/offerings) Also, please check out the new http://whydoesmypartner.com/ (WHY DOES MY PARTNER) short form weekly podcast. This podcast is not a substitute for counseling with a licensed provider.

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel: Part One

Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2021 45:08


Mothers are valuable: they're our first love and the source of everything we need to survive. But what happens when a mother doesn't get the support she needs, or is struggling with her own unresolved trauma? In this episode (part one of a three-part series), Jodi talks with Kelly McDaniel (author or "Ready to Heal") about her upcoming book, "Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance". The conversation includes a definition of Mother Hunger, how it happens, and how it can affect us. Music by JD Pendley  

Freedom from CPTSD & Anxiety
Mother’s Day And Mother Hunger with Kelly Mcdaniel

Freedom from CPTSD & Anxiety

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2021 27:14


I’m joined once again with Trauma therapist Kelly McDaniel. She is author of the books “Ready to Heal” and the very soon to be released “Mother Hunger”. We are talking about the experience of feeling grief on Mother’s Day. YouTube videohttps://youtu.be/98-g1UA2VAE You can find Kelly on IG @ kellymcdanieltherapy and www.kellymcdanieltherapy.com

Freedom from CPTSD & Anxiety
Mother Hunger with Kelly Mc Daniel

Freedom from CPTSD & Anxiety

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2021 31:08


Today I’m joined on the podcast with Kelly Mc Daniel. Kelly is a therapist that works predominantly with women and is the author of the books Ready to Heal and Mother Hunger. Kelly will be talking about her soon to be released book Mother Hunger and how that can show up for women. https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/about-kelly/ IG kellymcdanieltherapy

Connectfulness Practice
The Legacy of Chronic Loneliness with Kelly McDaniel

Connectfulness Practice

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2021 76:57


We need relationship in order to survive. If you were raised without a secure base you likely learned early on to modify yourself. In this episode I am talking with Kelly McDaniel, LPC, NCC, CSAT, author and psychotherapist, about the complex trauma of chronic loneliness and how to heal from the toxic stress of disconnection. Kelly McDaniel’s first book Ready to Heal (2008) was written for women healing from addictive love and sex. Her new book Mother Hunger arrives July 2021 from Hay House. For full show notes click here. Resources:  kellymcdanieltherapy.com Find Kelly on Instagram: @kellymcdanieltherapy connectfulness.com Supporting Your Relational Self | Begins February 2021 6-week-online-course focuses on your relationship to Self, other intimate relations. Cultivate practices to sustain during these chaotic times. Essential Skills Relationship Bootcamp | April 24-25, 2021This is an authorized presentation of Terry Real's Essential Skills Relationship Bootcamp. Open to individuals, couples and therapists. A combination of lecture, role-play, small group exercises and personal work. Jules, Vickey and I are seeking listener questions to fuel the production of our upcoming podcast at whydoesmypartner.com This podcast is not a substitute for counseling with a licensed provider. After listening, we invite you to deepen into the discussion with us on instagram and please support the show by sharing and reviewing the episode.

UNcivilized UNplugged
Mother Hunger and Accessing Your Shadow With Rainier Wylde

UNcivilized UNplugged

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2020 57:22


Your relationship with the world and the people in the world is greatly affected by your relationship with your mother. That's something we discussed in this episode with guest Rainier Wylde. Rainier talks about the term, mother hunger and how it differs from father wounds. We also explore what your shadow is and how men and women deal with their shadow in different ways. You'll hear all about Rainier's experience of disowning his embodied self, how he overcame that and why he doesn't want the world to have hope. About Rainier: Rainier Wylde is a teacher, guide, and writer who works with men and women to confront their shadow, find intimate union with the masculine and feminine and experience spiritual awakening. Connect with Rainier: Website | www.rainerwylde.com Facebook | www.facebook.com/evolvingwild Instagram | @rainierwylde What You'll Hear: 1:47 How this illness is exposing the fracture points 6:03 Who Rainier is and what he does 11:22 His experience of being suppressed and disowned by his embodied self 13:18 What shadow means to him and his thoughts around accessing the shadow 16:25 The divide in the opinion around the shadow 18:23 How men and women deal with shadow in different ways 23:38 One of Rainier's biggest frustrations 26:40 Why there's secrecy around sexuality 29:37 What would happen if there was less secrecy 32:09 What the mother hunger is 35:30 The differences in performance and mastery 40:24 What you need to know about the father wound and the mother hunger 46:02 How absent fathers cause a hollow experience for young men 50:30 The workshop conundrums that people run into 53:54 Why you should put yourself out there to find a community If you look at the civilized work and think, “no thank you,” then you should subscribe to our podcast so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on my website, Facebook or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests and more.

The Healing Place Podcast
Kelly McDaniel – Mother Hunger & Early Attachment Injuries

The Healing Place Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2020 53:56


What a powerful, informative, transformative, and inspirational conversation I enjoyed with Kelly McDaniel, LPC, NCC, CSAT. Please join us as we discuss: Mother Hunger ® early attachment injuries her upcoming book release Mother Hunger Her book Ready to Heal: Breaking Free of Addictive Relationships EMDR and more! Welcome to The Healing Place Podcast! I am … Continue reading Kelly McDaniel – Mother Hunger & Early Attachment Injuries →

Sex and the Bull City
What is Mother Hunger? Interview with Kelly McDaniel, LPC, CSAT

Sex and the Bull City

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2020 42:06


Kelly McDaniel discusses her concept of Mother Hunger, which is an early attachment trauma.

System Speak: Dissociative Identity Disorder ( Multiple Personality Disorder )

We share the processing we have done following the Mother Hunger episode and the interview with Dr. Siegel. We share how understanding what Dissociation is actually helps us deal with both false beliefs from shame and the protective denial that comes with it. We explain how Dissociation isn’t just avoidance of what was bad, but avoidance of the realization we couldn’t do anything about it. This tells us, we learned, what the wall of terror is and how to get through it.

Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery
What is Mother Hunger with Carol the Coach

Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2019 61:00


Carol the Coach is interviewing Kellyb McDaniel who specializes in treating women who experience addictive relational patterns. She is the first clinician to name Mother Hunger as an attachment injury and urges clinicians to explore the repercussions of bonding or non-bonding with an emotionally compromised mother. Find out how women with  these issues experience a variety of cyclical, self-sabatoging behaviors.

System Speak: Dissociative Identity Disorder ( Multiple Personality Disorder )

We speak with Kelly McDaniel, who coined the term Mother Hunger. She explains what this means, and how it is the earliest trauma and a disenfranchised grief. We discuss not having “permission” to talk about our mothers, much less work out mother trauma, which leaves us isolated from mothering and healing. In this, she is able to explain how and why dissociation starts in infancy - and what it is protecting us from exactly. Trigger warning for mother related content, and reference to the mother-baby dynamic, though no specific abuse stories are discussed.

Sex, Love, and Addiction
Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Sex, Love, and Addiction

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2018 35:02


Kelly McDaniel is an expert on women and addiction. Her deep empathy in the field helps women find, develop and be okay with themselves despite the trauma that may have occurred in early attachment. Today, she speaks about her upcoming book “Mother Hunger”, the lasting patterns that emerge due to early trauma, and how Mother Hunger treatment is different that typical sex and love addiction treatment.   TAKEAWAYS: [1:04] Kelly McDaniel, LPC, NCC, CST, maintains a private practice in Nashville, where she specializes in the treatment of adults and couples. In addition, she is an EMDR trained therapist and member in the Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health (SASH), and holds an education of an MA from Georgetown University and St. Mary’s University. [1:39] In 2008, Kelly’s first book “Ready to Heal” came out, written for women healing from addictive love and sex. The book kicked off that women needed gender-specific information in a culture that objectifies female bodies and women’s wisdom. [2:38] In 2012, the second edition was expanded to include a chapter on McDaniel’s original term “Mother Hunger​.” Mother Hunger​ is a concept that has assisted both clinicians and clients to identify the origin of addictive relationships and foster the healing process. Currently, Kelly is offering two, three-day therapeutic Intensives for women who are exploring their relational patterns in depth. [5:31] Kelly finds her work resonates with both clinicians and the women that seek help. [7:02] Kelly defines “Mother Hunger” as a form of pre-verbal trauma that occurs in early attachment (5 weeks into conception in utero to age 3) that affects a woman’s belief system, physiology, psychology and relationship capacity. [8:37] A neglected child that is left hungry for connection, touch or love will turn to dissociation, or a freeze state, in order to protect and comfort themselves. [13:32] Our most basic idea of what a good partner would be is deeply affected when we are neglected or abused. When Kelly works with women in betrayal, it is a replay of the original wound and a map of where to go to heal. [17:22] The first ways we take in the world are through our mother’s love and some form of feeding and nourishment. These traumas are related to our most primitive stages of love, and continue to play romantically with both our current day lovers and support system or lack thereof. [20:46] Crisis is when your emotions and intellect is out of balance, and you are so invested emotionally in a situation that you are not thinking clearly. When those who have Mother Hunger get into a relationship, they get weighed down by the emotional need that comes up with the possibility of finally being loved. [21:37] Mother Hunger treatment is very different than standard sex and love addiction treatment. It is more related to the treatment in EMDR and somatic training, and sitting inside the grief for a longer intensive amount of time. [24:04] Women with Mother Hunger haven’t yet built a sense of identity, community or trust within themselves and others. [27:25] We profoundly underestimate postpartum depression and how that affect the ability to give love and nurturing. [29:39] The trauma forms before language, and is wired in to the body as the norm for what the world feels like. [31:30] Women with Mother Hunger transfer their attachment needs to men early on.   RESOURCES Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101 Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Kelly McDaniel Ready to Heal: Breaking Free of Addictive Relationships Mother Hunger Partner Hope Dr. Kenneth Adams Christine Courtois   QUOTES: “There is a huge gap between I am safe and I feel safe that goes into adulthood.” “If your responsiveness from your most important caregiver is impaired from the start, then you don’t even have a sense of what normal or healthy is, because you have never experienced it.” “Our first love is our mother.” “Women gain strength from each other. One of the ways healthy women even tolerate men are with the help of other women.”

Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery
How Mother Hunger Effects Love Addiction for Women with Carol the Coach

Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2018 62:00


Love addiction is common for people who have childhood wounds that occured in their family. Carol the Coach will be interviewing Kelly McDaniel who is an expert in the field of love addiction. Kellly  sees a pre-existing factor called "mother hunger" which feeds into the desire to find love and the compulsion to ease the pain. Listen as Kelly talks about her book, Ready to Heal which helps people to determine how to get healthy from love addiction.

Thanks For Sharing
Episode 61: Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Thanks For Sharing

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2017 52:30


Jackie and Jon spoke with Kelly McDaniel recently about Mother Hunger and it's particular impact on women in sex addiction recovery- don't tune out men- this is good for you too!  Kelly is a renowned Sex Addiction Therapist, Author (Ready to Heal: Breaking Free from Addictive Relationships), and Trauma Therapist.  Buckle up and get ready to have more light shed on some of the darker corners of your psyche!   Be sure to get more of Kelly's work at www.kellymcdanieltherapy.com or at www.healingheartbreaktherapy.com   You can get Kelly's Book here: http://www.gentlepath.com/product.php?productid=62

Thanks for Sharing
Episode 61: Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

Thanks for Sharing

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2017 52:30


Jackie and Jon spoke with Kelly McDaniel recently about Mother Hunger and it's particular impact on women in sex addiction recovery- don't tune out men- this is good for you too!  Kelly is a renowned Sex Addiction Therapist, Author (Ready to Heal: Breaking Free from Addictive Relationships), and Trauma Therapist.  Buckle up and get ready to have more light shed on some of the darker corners of your psyche!   Be sure to get more of Kelly's work at www.kellymcdanieltherapy.com or at www.healingheartbreaktherapy.com   You can get Kelly's Book here: http://www.gentlepath.com/product.php?productid=62

Black Girls Heal
#231: Mother Hunger with Dr. Piper Grant

Black Girls Heal

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 1970 41:25


In this episode, Dr. Piper Grant breaks down for us the concept of Mother Hunger and its impact on our lives along with discussing the 3 pillars of motherhood: Nurturance, Guidance, and Protection.CONNECT WITH OUR GUESTInstagram: @dr.pipergrantWebsite: Numiwellness.comClick here to register for the Cutting Wounds with Your Mother WoundsClick here to see an overview of all Winter WorkshopsReady to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled Can't find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast?Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgOur Sponsors:* Check out NPR - Black Stories, Black Truths: https://www.npr.org/podcasts/510372/black-stories-black-truthsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The Trauma Therapist | Podcast with Guy Macpherson, PhD | Inspiring interviews with thought-leaders in the field of trauma.

Kelly McDaniel (a Licensed Professional Counselor & National Certified Counselor) developed the term “Mother Hunger” in her first book Ready to Heal to name the attachment trauma between mother and daughter that creates an environment ripe for love addiction to grow. Since publication, Kelly speaks regularly at conferences to raise awareness about the cultural and relational complications facing women recovering from addictive habits. In her practice, Kelly offers individual healing Intensives to support women healing Mother Hunger. Set for publication with Hay House in the summer of 2021, Kelly is currently writing her second book. *In This Episode* * Kelly's Website ( https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/ ) * Connect with Kelly on Facebook ( https://www.facebook.com/kellymcdanieltherapy ) * Contact Kelly ( https://kellymcdanieltherapy.com/contact-visit-again/ ) * Adrienne Rich ( https://www.amazon.com/Adrienne-Rich/e/B000APH346/ref=dp_byline_cont_book_1 ) * Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine: A Nove ( https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0735220697/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?creative=9325&creativeASIN=0735220697&ie=UTF8&linkCode=as2&linkId=a06a9552bfecdad5aa41b1069bf406cf&tag=wescoatrapro-20 ) l ( https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0735220697/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?creative=9325&creativeASIN=0735220697&ie=UTF8&linkCode=as2&linkId=a06a9552bfecdad5aa41b1069bf406cf&tag=wescoatrapro-20 ) , Gail Honeyman Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-trauma-therapist-podcast-with-guy-macpherson-phd-inspiring-interviews-with-thought-leaders-in-the-field-of-trauma/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands