Discerning Marriage

Are you constantly second-guessing yourself, replaying conversations, or worrying about what others think? In this episode, Elizabeth Busby, a licensed marriage and family therapist, shares practical, faith-based strategies to overcome overthinking and anxiety. Discover the difference between clinical and situational anxiety, how scripture guides us to peace, and what steps you can take today to gain control over your thoughts. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/_5te0q44Vqk) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Are you a Catholic man looking to date with purpose? In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby shares four essential and practical tips for men who want to pursue a meaningful relationship. From personal hygiene to financial responsibility, integrity, and intentionality in dating—these insights will help you grow as a man and show up well in relationships. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/a8VSsi9PpTw) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Can a celibate priest really give good marriage advice? In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby breaks down this common question with powerful insights. Drawing from theology, experience, and the wisdom of priests who deeply understand God's design for marriage, she explains why their counsel is not only valuable but essential. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/VslpSsBzi80) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Are you afraid that God might call you to something you don't want? Fear distorts discernment, but the truth is liberating. In this episode, Elizabeth Busby breaks down how to discern marriage, priesthood, or religious life with clarity and confidence. Learn why fear of celibacy might be holding you back, why desire plays a key role in God's plan, and how to trust Him fully in your vocation. If you're discerning marriage, check out Next Step, our in-depth course designed to guide you through this process. Watch now and break free from fear! On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/8oyuxONxnBQ) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

What physical intimacy is appropriate within marriage? In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby dives deep into the topic of healthy boundaries after marriage. With her expertise as a Master Theologian and licensed marriage and family therapist, she unpacks what truly upholds the dignity of both spouses in marital intimacy. https://youtu.be/dBxWCU1eUNc?si=CRMYNRvF4-bNelki https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-JDHNqyG9I On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/0fAyUbSeq48) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Struggling with a partner's pornography addiction? You're not alone. In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby shares practical and compassionate guidance on how to navigate this challenging situation. Learn why seeking professional help is crucial, why you shouldn't be your partner's accountability partner, and why incorporating pornography into your relationship is never the answer. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/N62JW67brk4) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Are romantic conversations before marriage okay? What about discussing desires for each other? In this video, Elizabeth Busby answers a viewer's question about boundaries in pre-marital relationships. She explains the difference between healthy expressions of love and conversations that may lead to inappropriate arousal. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/4X40sUxMjc4) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

In this video, Elizabeth Busby dives into clear steps, real-life examples, and essential strategies to build intentional habits in your dating life. Whether you're starting fresh or getting back on track, learn how to craft an environment that supports your goals and aligns with your values. Discover practical and actionable boundaries to help you honor your decision to wait until marriage. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/dBxWCU1eUNc) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

In today's episode, we're flipping the script and focusing on the positives of dating—specifically, the green flags you should look for in a potential partner. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/8SRwqUaWtRA) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

In this heartfelt and honest video, Elizabeth Busby dives into the myths, fears, and truths surrounding intimacy for couples who choose to wait until their wedding night. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/aA0MrnxRasY) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby dives into some of the most overlooked red flags in dating that can impact your relationships and your future. While red flags like communication issues or dishonesty are often discussed, these subtle but significant factors might be flying under your radar. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/A2-LFAvVNs4) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Are you a single Catholic who's never been in a relationship and feeling unsure about dating? You're not alone! In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby dives into why not having dating experience isn't a disadvantage. She challenges the idea that dating more prepares you better for marriage and shares the beautiful advantages of approaching relationships with a fresh heart. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/HUFGb6YgFBc) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth addresses a thought-provoking question from Instagram: Does God reveal to us who our future spouse is? Elizabeth dives into examples from Scripture and the lives of saints, discussing how rare it is for God to give direct instructions about a future spouse. Instead, she emphasizes the importance of free will, discernment, and trust in God's guidance as you navigate dating and marriage. This insightful video encourages you to approach marriage discernment with an open heart, prayer, and personal responsibility. Whether you're single, dating, or discerning marriage, this episode is packed with wisdom and encouragement. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/o-36Q2UayPU) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Discover how men can embrace modesty in their daily lives while upholding dignity and respect for themselves and others. In this insightful video, Elizabeth explores the often-overlooked topic of masculine modesty and provides practical advice for dressing in a way that upholds the dignity of both men and women. Learn how to make thoughtful choices that reflect your inner values and support the well-being of those around you. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/M0Klyn9y1XE) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth dives into the topic of commitment—specifically, when fear of commitment is a red flag and when it's a normal and healthy part of relationship discernment. Elizabeth shares insights for those dating, engaged, or contemplating marriage, helping you understand whether your hesitation is a sign to pause or just part of the natural process. Tune in to gain clarity on navigating your relationship journey. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/ocwxJD8Hp5Y) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth reflects on the passion and excitement surrounding the Paris 2024 Olympics and explores how our love for Olympic excellence mirrors our innate desire for eternal victory in Heaven. Whether you watched the Olympics or boycotted them, there's a spark within us all that yearns for greatness. Elizabeth dives deep into why this fire exists and how we can channel it towards achieving spiritual excellence in our daily lives. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/qtm_gEP3BtA) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth discusses the challenges many women face in embracing their femininity and the desire for motherhood in today's post-feminist movement era. She offers insightful advice on how to rekindle a longing for motherhood by understanding the intrinsic value of femininity, the importance of surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals, and the significant role of a woman's menstrual cycle in shaping her perspective on motherhood. Join the conversation and share your thoughts in the comments below or connect with Elizabeth on Instagram @DiscerningMarriage. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/7triQVkWBbg) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

In this episode, Elizabeth Busby discusses three key qualities that Christian women find attractive in men. Whether you're single and looking for love or seeking to improve your relationship, these insights can help you become the man that a godly woman desires. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/kWeqRJtzh68) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Join Elizabeth as she provides practical advice on how to manage your anxiety as a Christian. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/aJV6fsEmtWo) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth dives into the significance of being friends first in a marriage. She answers a question from Instagram about why friendship is crucial for a healthy and lasting marriage. Drawing from her experience as a licensed marriage and family therapist, she explores insights from John Gottman's research and discusses practical ways to build and maintain a strong friendship with your spouse. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/wpYPaHE8jrg?si=paMa7IOndEFGyGGk) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth Busby dives into the challenging topic of nudity and gratuitous sexual content in popular films. Elizabeth shares her heartfelt thoughts on how these scenes impact viewers and how to respond from a faith-based perspective. She also discusses the biological and psychological effects of such content and offers guidance on maintaining personal and relational integrity. If you have ever struggled with how to navigate explicit content in movies, this video is for you. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/UZHCkx1z8Jw) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth delves into the complex topic of modesty, bikinis, and the responsibility of both men and women in upholding dignity. Should women to cover up, or should men be solely responsible for controlling their lustful thoughts? On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/1YuPMlTkaFA) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Join Elizabeth as she dives deep into the crucial topic of debt and financial freedom from a Christian perspective. Discover why getting out of debt is essential not just for married couples, but for everyone striving for authentic Christian living. Elizabeth shares practical advice, historical insights, and spiritual wisdom to help you align your financial habits with your faith. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/wpYPaHE8jrg?si=paMa7IOndEFGyGGk) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth shares her passionate insights on the importance of being debt-free in marriage. Discover how financial freedom can lead to a healthier, happier marriage and explore practical tips to achieve it. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/SkJMQK4q87U) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth addresses if a woman should go through with her wedding despite discovering her fiancé's porn addiction during marriage prep. Elizabeth offers compassionate advice on navigating this difficult situation, exploring the essential aspects of engagement, and the importance of freedom in marriage. If you're facing similar challenges or need guidance on engagement and marriage, this video is for you. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/--PWdTNAxZU) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Breaking up after a long-term relationship can feel like losing a piece of yourself, especially when you've shared deep physical and emotional connections. In this video, we discuss practical and spiritual steps to heal after such a devastating loss. From understanding the emotional and physiological impacts of breakups to finding comfort in faith and healthy coping mechanisms, we cover it all. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/GGfa0lDC-c4) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Are you a parent of teens wondering whether to allow them to date? In this video, we dive deep into the complexities of teen dating from a Catholic Christian perspective. Learn about the importance of parental guidance, understanding adolescence, and the purpose of dating. Discover practical tips to help your teens navigate relationships with wisdom and discernment. Hold On To Your Kids book: https://drgabormate.com/book/hold-on-to-your-kids/ On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/ERkee453Of0) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Join Elizabeth as she explores the journey into femininity of Brett Cooper from TheCommentsSection . In a culture that often misunderstands its true beauty, Brett Cooper shares her insights on rejecting the cultural narrative and finding freedom in embracing femininity. Discover how to navigate the complexities of femininity and find empowerment in being true to yourself. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/R8B94bfr7o4) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Join Elizabeth Busby on Discerning Marriage as she dives into Taylor Swift's latest breakup anthem, "So Long London". In this video, Elizabeth explores the profound emotions and implications behind the lyrics, dissecting the depth of agony and longing expressed by Taylor Swift. From the perspective of dating, marriage, and fertility, Elizabeth offers insights into the significance of breakup songs in navigating the complexities of relationships. Whether you're going through a breakup or simply appreciate good art, this analysis will resonate deeply. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/DY6ijlyv9-4) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth dives deep into the complexities of dating as a teenager. Adolescence is a challenging time, filled with physical changes, emotional turmoil, and the desire for connection. But amidst the confusion, there's valuable advice to help you navigate this journey with wisdom and grace. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/KJYYMbrQ6uM) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Join Elizabeth in this heartfelt discussion as she explores the topic of regret and finding healing in God's mercy. Drawing from personal experiences and insights, she delves into the profound message that your worth is not defined by your past choices. Discover how to navigate feelings of regret and shame, and learn practical steps towards healing and renewal. Whether you're struggling with past mistakes or seeking guidance for a loved one, this video offers hope and encouragement for the journey ahead. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/YaDC6Z_VROo) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

In this video, we explore seven incredibly intimate activities you can engage in with your partner that don't involve any sexual elements. From fostering honest conversations to learning new things together, these activities are designed to bring you closer emotionally and spiritually. Join us as we delve into practical tips for building a strong and meaningful connection with your significant other. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. Video referenced at the beginning: How To Be Physically Intimate In Dating Without Sinning (https://youtu.be/LqgV8rYbmhM) You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/OOFkkX8Tgow) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Should you talk about your body count on a first date? Join us as we explore the significance of boundaries, respect, and the impact of past experiences on future relationships. We address the sensitivity of discussing intimate details and suggest alternative topics for early conversations. Watch to learn why it's crucial to prioritize dignity and communication before entering into committed relationships. Elizabeth Busby discusses how to know if you're truly ready for marriage. From dispelling common misconceptions to embracing humility, Elizabeth covers three essential signs to consider before taking the plunge. Don't miss this insightful guide to preparing for a lifelong commitment! On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/bH50ANfMHEE) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

After a controversial article from The Washington Post titled "Women are getting off birth control amid misinformation explosion", Elizabeth discusses how the Catholic Church has been speaking for years about some of the issues addressed in the article. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/OLH85CIhW8M) Institute researching reproductive technologies that are on par with human dignity: https://popepaulvi.com/ https://naprotechnology.com/ Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Are you facing the challenging task of ending a relationship without causing unnecessary pain? In this video, Elizabeth explores compassionate ways to break up with someone while preserving their dignity. Learn valuable tips to navigate this difficult conversation and minimize emotional distress for both parties. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/lV4KtxoC61E) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Today we're joined by Erin Dewey and Jackie Aguilar from Natural Womanhood to discuss the beauty and dignity of women as created in the image of God and how Cycle Mindfulness is a way in which we can honor this mystery. https://naturalwomanhood.org https://naturalwomanhood.org/cycle-mindfulness-club-leadership-team/ Erin Dewey is the Education Coordinator for Natural Womanhood. She recently graduated from Texas A&M University with a degree in Biomedical Sciences, with the goal of pursuing PA school. She led one of our first Cycle Mindfulness Clubs during the 2022-2023 school year, where she grew even more passionate about sharing information about authentic women's health and fertility awareness. She aspires to become a women's health PA to continue to develop her skills and play a role in healing women's cycle dysfunctions. Erin currently lives in San Antonio, TX. Jackie Aguilar is the Director of Education for Natural Womanhood. Jackie is a trained FertilityCare Practitioner instructing women and couples in the Creighton model, and a certified Sympto-thermal method instructor with the Couple to Couple League. Jackie also holds a degree in Marketing from Texas A&M University. As a former Zumba instructor, she enjoys salsa dancing with her husband, with whom she has 5 children. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtube.com/live/BXhnuQM-6to) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth reacts to Jordan Peterson's crucial advice for newlyweds. Join us as we delve into the wisdom shared by Jordan, emphasizing the importance of not neglecting the romance in marriage. Discover practical tips on how to keep the spark alive, maintain the commitment to beauty and romance, and navigate the challenges that arise over time. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/wpYPaHE8jrg?si=paMa7IOndEFGyGGk) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth gets into the details of how to be physically intimate in a dating relationship without sinning. She proposes a refreshing approach to sin that will give you a more freeing perspective on the issue. Elizabeth also provides practical tips and suggestions to navigate the waters of physical intimacy in dating. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/LqgV8rYbmhM) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth Busby discusses how to know if you're truly ready for marriage. From dispelling common misconceptions to embracing humility, Elizabeth covers three essential signs to consider before taking the plunge. Don't miss this insightful guide to preparing for a lifelong commitment! On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/wpYPaHE8jrg?si=paMa7IOndEFGyGGk) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth explores the profound impact of marriage on personal transformation. Does marriage destroy or refine? Join us in this insightful discussion as we delve into the complexities of relationships, the sacrament of marriage, and the journey towards authentic holiness. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/8-Vcg1CN_jQ?si=xZDZp3IPI33dfjkm) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth tells us the one quality women seek in a Christian man. Learn why being a man who prays is the secret ingredient to a fulfilling relationship. If you're seeking to be a better husband or are on the path to marriage, this video is a must-watch. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/N8bYuiubEJc?si=ruKbdFXRJgNJvja9) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth delves into the topic of women "trading up" in marriages and why it's not a good idea. Addressing both the emotional and financial aspects, we explore the importance of honoring vows and staying committed. Discover the key to lasting happiness in marriage and why faith plays a crucial role. If you're navigating challenges in your relationship, this video provides valuable perspectives and guidance. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/vEGjPqHmGs4) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Join Elizabeth as she unfolds the Four Horsemen of Relationships and how they will harm your relationship and communication with your significant other. In this video Elizabeth talks about the research of John and Julie Gottman and how their findings have concluded that criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling will hurt your relationship and potentially lead to divorce. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/wpYPaHE8jrg?si=paMa7IOndEFGyGGk) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth poses a crucial question that can determine if your partner is truly meant for you. Discover the litmus test for a lasting relationship and gain insights into making a healthy and holy discernment. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/2tOJn4ObjPM?si=QyS72Q7qOeCarNlo) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth knows how your relationship will end. In this video we discuss a crucial topic: the fate of your relationship. Is it headed for marriage or a breakup? Elizabeth explores the significance of intentional dating and offers insights into the vulnerability required for authentic relationships. Learn why dating casually may hinder your ability to discern marriage and discover the beauty that comes from embracing vulnerability. Don't miss out on valuable advice for navigating the complexities of relationships. Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep) On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BugllnRgKio) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth Busby discusses how to know if you're truly ready for marriage. From dispelling common misconceptions to embracing humility, Elizabeth covers three essential signs to consider before taking the plunge. Don't miss this insightful guide to preparing for a lifelong commitment! On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/wpYPaHE8jrg?si=paMa7IOndEFGyGGk) Try Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep)

Elizabeth delves into the topic of marriage preparation. Why is it that marriage prep radically shorter than driver's ed? Elizabeth passionately shares her insights and introduces an innovative solution to this challenge. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking discussion that could transform your approach to discerning marriage. Next Step: A Course for Discerning Marriage: https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/NextStep 00:00 Introduction 00:22 Discerning a Vocation 00:51 Time Spent Discerning Marriage 02:02 Contrast with Celibacy 04:01 Next Step: A Course For Discerning Marriage On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/45hCydu1ei4?si=4hbBMjFIls9-QmxK) Get 3 FREE sessions (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/YjD233) of our flagship course on Theology of the Body Click here (https://tobpatron.com) to join our Patron Community! Your monthly gift helps us continue to put out the message of Theology of the Body to the world. Thank you! Want to attend a course at the Theology of the Body Institute online or in person? Click here to view our schedule (https://tobinstitute.org/programs/tobi-schedule/) Shownotes Learn more about Discerning Marriage Ministries here (https://www.discerningmarriage.com). Send a question to host Elizabeth Busby here (https://discerningmarriage.fireside.fm/ask).

Elizabeth delves into the challenging topic of breaking up and getting back together. Discover valuable insights on rebuilding trust, navigating post-breakup changes, and approaching the renewed relationship with fresh eyes.

Elizabeth discusses the challenges of maintaining chastity in a relationship while deeply loving Jesus. We discuss the importance of embracing your desires, the impact of past sex education, and the significance of sexual intimacy in God's plan. She shares practical advice on how to avoid crossing physical boundaries and maintain chastity. Discover strategies to strengthen your relationship while upholding your dignity. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FfD0nsZh2Vs) Get 3 FREE sessions (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/YjD233) of our flagship course on Theology of the Body Click here (https://tobpatron.com) to join our Patron Community! Your monthly gift helps us continue to put out the message of Theology of the Body to the world. Thank you! Want to attend a course at the Theology of the Body Institute online or in person? Click here to view our schedule (https://tobinstitute.org/programs/tobi-schedule/) Shownotes Learn more about Discerning Marriage Ministries here (https://www.discerningmarriage.com). Send a question to host Elizabeth Busby here (https://discerningmarriage.fireside.fm/ask).

Elizabeth discusses the challenges and considerations when Catholics marry non-Catholics. She candidly explores the complexities of such marriages, touching on aspects like practicing faith, sexual morality, and raising children. Whether you're a Catholic contemplating such a union or someone interested in understanding the dynamics, this video provides valuable insights. Get Elizabeth's ebook "10 Questions to Ask at the Beginning of Your Relationship" for free (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/xIt287) On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nQ58wXBSdc)

Whether you've realized you need to break up with the person you're with, you're beloved just broke up with you, or you're happily dating and want some advice should you discern the relationship needs to end, this episode with Kateri Bean from Catholic Match will be super helpful. On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God's will for you, and if you already know that you're called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation. You're missing the view! Watch this episode on YouTube () Get 3 FREE sessions (https://tobinstitute.kartra.com/page/YjD233) of our flagship course on Theology of the Body Click here (https://tobpatron.com) to join our Patron Community! Your monthly gift helps us continue to put out the message of Theology of the Body to the world. Thank you! Want to attend a course at the Theology of the Body Institute online or in person? Click here to view our schedule (https://tobinstitute.org/programs/tobi-schedule/) Shownotes Kateri's links: 4 Signs You Should Probably Break Up (https://plus.catholicmatch.com/articles/4-signs-you-should-probably-break-up) Rebuilding Trust Through Prayer After a Bad Breakup (https://plus.catholicmatch.com/articles/rebuilding-trust-break-up) The Do's and Don'ts of Breaking Up (https://plus.catholicmatch.com/articles/the-dos-and-donts-of-breaking-up) Should You Get Back Together With Your Ex? There Are a Few Things to Consider (https://plus.catholicmatch.com/articles/should-you-get-back-together-with-your-ex-there-are-a-few-things-to-consider) How to Find Healing and Growth After a Bad Breakup (https://plus.catholicmatch.com/articles/how-to-find-healing-and-growth-after-a-bad-breakup) How to Reject a Date (With Kindness!) (https://plus.catholicmatch.com/articles/how-to-be-kind-turn-down-dates) Learn more about Discerning Marriage Ministries here (https://www.discerningmarriage.com). Send a question to host Elizabeth Busby here (https://discerningmarriage.fireside.fm/ask).