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Sanjib Nandi is a former Pharmacist, founder of the Luvo Meditation App and the Author of the book, “The Man With Zero Talent” sits down with me to share his journey of not accepting anything less than an awesome life. He shares with us how to know if your Chakras are blocked (and what that means) and how incremental steps lead to something much bigger and better. Get the Luvo App:GooglePlay: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.luvo AppStore: https://apps.apple.com/app/luvo-zest2live/id1617104475 The Man with Zero Talent: https://www.amazon.com/Man-Zero-Talent-REINVENTED-REDISCOVERED-ebook/dp/B09J4LDC3P Luvo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0A_uPGXeQS8YGHAWHSAPwgQuestions, comments, or need a hand? Contact me at Nadia@Killingcupid.com Support Killing Cupid:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni #meditation #mindfulness #chakras #chakrahealing #kaizenSupport the show

Thinking about them all the time doesn't mean you're still in love with them or that you want to get back together. Most of the time it's not even about them, it's about you. Here are the 3 reasons that they get stuck in your mind and what it's trying to tell you. Instagram.com/KillingCupid__Nadia@KillingCupid.comhttps://www.killingcupid.com/5-day-breakup-challengeSupport the show

Off again on again relationships aren't usually successful. Today I share why couples get stuck in the breakup makeup cycle, and how to end this (or have a successful reconciliation) once and for all. Free 5 Day Breakup Challenge: https://www.killingcupid.com/5-day-breakup-challenge Free consult: https://app.squarespacescheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=26058093&appointmentType=32780901 Instagram: Instagram.com/KillingCupid__Contact me: Nadia@KillingCupid.comSupport the show

Karma departed from her decade long career as a conservative journalist to write about kink. One night while working a story, she met Master Joshua, and her life radically changed. Karma (who is happily married to another man, with two children) is now Joshua's sex slave. They talked candidly about how their relationship came to be, and how their journey through the weird and misunderstood world of kink helped them to find self acceptance and actualization. About Karma Said:Karma has departed from a decade-long career as a conservative journalist to write and report about kink. She is the author of Surviving Master Joshua: The BDSM Memoir Of An Unfaithful Wife" and an editor at Carnal Culture Publishing, an indie press devoted to publishing, promoting and supporting non-fiction writers of kink and erotica.About Master Joshua:Joshua Rodriguez is a facilitator, educator, event promoter and host, and spiritual counselor. In one-on-one sessions, Joshua guides his clients towards self-acceptance, empowering them to gain control of and become active participants in their own lives. Drawing upon his own unique, hard-earned transformative experiences, he has developed personalized methods of counseling, geared particularly towards catalyzing self-actualization. Over the past 12+ years, this system has helped dozens to rid themselves of shame, see and embrace their identities as a whole, and live richer, better materialized lives.CONTACT JOSHUA at INFO@MASTERJOSHUA.COMSurviving Master Joshua: The BDSM Memoir Of An Unfaithful Wife / By Karma Saidhttps://www.amazon.com/Surviving-Master-Joshua-Memoir-Unfaithful-ebook/dp/B09SQBVL1Z?ref=d6k_applink_bb_dls&dplnkId=5ce2b559-d944-41ec-9712-e1c814891383https://survivingmasterjoshua.com/https://carnalculturepublishing.com/Master Joshua:https://masterjoshua.com/https://kinkcollective.net/https://ssdce.org/Question, comment, or idea for a show? I'd love to hear from you! Contact Nadia at Nadia@KillingCupid.comSupport the show

In this episode, I take a question from someone whose boyfriend ghosted after 2 months of bliss, only to get angry with her after she ended the relationship. I explain what drives someone to disappear when everything seems great, why it feels like you are so close and connected even though it ended badly, and how to make sure your next date doesn't get lost. If you're getting out of a relationship you can get my 100% free 5 Day Breakup Challenge to Get Them off Your Mind, Start Healing and Turn This Shitty Experience Into the Best Thing That's Ever Happened. https://www.killingcupid.com/5-day-breakup-challenge Want more Killing Cupid?Free consult: https://app.squarespacescheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=26058093&appointmentType=32780901 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/killingcupid__SUGGESTION & CONTACT: Nadia@KilllingCupid.comSupport the show

Bullies are another kind of toxic relationship. Today I sat down with Catherine Mattice, CEO & Founder of Civility Partners and the author of 3 books on workplace bullying to talk about what human resources can teach us about keeping out the toxic in your work, and your home. All toxic relationships follow a similar pattern- they use the same techniques and employ the same kind of enablers to maintain the status quo. Catherine breaks down why do people bully, why does it go ignored for so long, and how to nip it in the bud from the start (just like we have to do with other toxic people in our lives). Read her books: https://civilitypartners.com/books/ Learn about the awesome work Catherine is doing: https://civilitypartners.com/services/Get in touch: Info@CivilityPartners.com If you liked this episode, be sure to share it and subscribe- and if you really liked it consider supporting the show! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni Have a question, comment, or idea for an episode? Get in touch with me at Nadia@KillingCupid.comIf you need help getting over a toxic relationship, I'd love to help. You can book a free consult here: https://app.squarespacescheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=26058093&appointmentType=32780901 Support the show

What can men who are struggling with their dating life, learn from someone who struggled with sex addiction? The answer is, A LOT. Gallo Chingon, also known as the Chivalrous Chauvinist is a podcaster and coach who shares his life experience so you don't have to fuck yours up. In this interview we talk about incels, the rise of MGTOW, and how we can all learn from the kink and BDSM community to have better relationships, and even better sex. Get in touch with Gallo: https://sucias.xyz/https://www.instagram.com/sucias.are....Want more Killing Cupid?Free consult:https://app.squarespacescheduling.com...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/killingcupid__Free 5 Day Breakup Challenge: https://www.killingcupid.com/5-day-br...SUPPORT KILLING CUPID: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAniSUGGESTION & CONTACT: Nadia@KilllingCupid.comSupport the show

Today I'm going to answer the age old question of why toxic people don't change. I'm going to break down the 3 mental distortions that toxic people use that prevent them from moving forward to help you understand this frustrating dynamic and get off this infuriating roller coaster. BOOK A FREE CONSULT: https://app.squarespacescheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=26058093&appointmentType=32780901 FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/killingcupid__Support the show

What does it mean to be sexually powerful? It's not about buying a new dildo, or trying a new position, it's much, much deeper than that (pun intended). Dr. Tara is a sexual communications expert and the host and founder of luvbites.co. She joined me to answer those questions and talk about how you can take back charge of your sexual life. We talk about taking ownership for your own sexual wellness, why are aren't, and what sexual incompatibility looks like (and no, it's not bad sex). This episode is chock full of great information and insights (plus what counseling sex workers taught me about having great sex). Get in touch with Dr. Tara:https://www.luvbites.co/ https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/ Support the show

If you're asking this, it's because something isn't working. Maybe you're arguing more and you're doing your best but you can't figure out the source of the problem. Maybe your partner (or now, ex) has accused you of being toxic and you're racking your brain trying to figure out what you did wrong. In this episode, I take you through what toxic means, and how to identify it (in yourself, and other people). Book a free consultWatch on YouTubeSupport the show

Friendly reminder here that unsatisfying and boring sex is NOT the norm. Did you know that 10-15% of women have NEVER had an orgasm?

Today I'm going doing a Q&A quickie on one of the questions that every person whose ever been with a narcissist has asked- why is it, that even though the relationship was so difficult, and so fraught, they seem to manage to have a better relationship after the breakup? The answer is, they don't- but they REALLY want you to think they do. Listen up and learn how the cycle of narcissistic relationships makes this all an illusion, and how to break out of the fog.Book a session: KillingCupid.com/ServicesFollow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/killingcupid__/Questions, comments, ideas for a show? Hit me up at Nadia@KillingCupid.com (my emails are for my eyes only)Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)

Virginia is a financial freedom fighter and the creator of the Money Project. She's a certified money coach with 20 years of coaching experience under her belt, but she's spent the last 6 years helping women take control of their finances. Money is one of the hardest things for us to talk about- we'll discuss sex, death, and ANYTHING else before we get to our finances. When we know where the money is going, we have control over what to do with it so we can start to create for ourselves, and our lives. In this episode, we talk about how to uncover your own money blockages, rewrite your money story, and even how to enjoy doing a budget. If you like money, have ever struggled with money, or want more money, you're definitely going to want to listen! Free downloads from Virginia: https://themoneyproject.net/wealth-mindset-ebook-optinhttps://themoneyproject.net/EmailNaysayer/https://themoneyproject.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Manifesto.pdfLearn more about The Money Project:https://www.facebook.com/themoneyproject.vbwhttps://www.instagram.com/the.moneyproject/https://www.linkedin.com/in/money-coaching/https://themoneyproject.net/ If you liked this episode, consider supporting Killing Cupid! If you want to book a session with me, have ideas for an episode, or a question you want me to answer on the podcast, head over to the website to get in touch at KillingCupid.com Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)

Cults! Cults! Cults!With more information than ever available at the tips of our fingers, how is it possible that destructive cults still manage to hook unsuspecting people? Well, we could say the same thing about red flags, but lord knows that's not stopping anyone as well as we'd hope. Last episode we got to why there are so many more cults, and today we're looking at how they do it. We all know the cycle of manipulation, but how does this work on a massive scale? This episode I'll be taking you on a deep dive into the twisted worlds of Herbalife and QAnon. We're going into the nitty gritty- how they recruit, who they target, and a thorough investigation of the specific tools of manipulation each of these groups use. Plus, how our old friend Abraham Maslow might combat this rise in toxic groups. If you were ever curious about how cults work in the day to day, this is the episode for you. Questions? Comments? Suggestions for an episode? Send em' my way at Nadia@KillingCupid.comIf someone you know is under undue influence of a destructive organization, there is help! Check out FreedomofMind.com for training, resources, and support. If you loved this episode, be sure to share or subscribe- and show some love if you can. If you want to just listen, that's okay too. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)

Modern cults are more sophisticated, more insidious, and further reaching than ever before. And, to be frank, it's scarier and weirder than I could have ever imagined. In 1982, it was estimated there were between 300,000 and 3 million people in a cult. In 2017, Herbalife alone had 4.7 million members around the world.

Is dating really harder for men? A lot of  men feel like the standards and expectations aren't stacked in their favor and even getting their foot in the door is a monumental task. So what do you do if you're not tall or rich? I sat down with Dominey Drew, host of the Art of Attraction podcast and a premier dating coach for men who takes a intuitive approach to helping men find love through self-mastery. Instead of focusing on numbers and hookups, she takes a different approach and focuses on self-awareness and mindset management. In this episode we talk about what your body has to teach you, the nonsense of pick up artistry, and how to stop letting online dating get in the way of finding the one. Dominey Drew is a premier dating coach for men who takes an intuitive approach to help her clients make the inner shift to find love through self mastery. She has helped CEOs find the same success in love that they have in business through a powerful process of mindset management. She has been featured in Forbes, Entrepreneur magazine, and Thrive Global. Art of Attraction podcast: domineydrew.com/podcastWebsite: domineydrew.comBreathing exercises: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hq0sDB6gAJ0Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)

It's been almost a full year since Covid-19 hit, and our work lives are where it hit us the most. It's no secret that a lot of us had jobs that were crappy, and we are longing for something bigger, better, and more meaningful. Today, I sit down with Elinor Moshe, to discuss how to change the course of your career and how to stop just working a job, and create one that is aligned with your best you. We discuss how mentors can lead you wrong, why we're so burned out, how to work with all of this pressure and how to make the most of these dull moments to construct something great, even when it feels like the world is stopped. Elinor is a thought leader in the construction industry, #1 bestselling author, Property Council of Australia's Top 500 Women in Property programme 2019, Top 100 Women in Construction, and the founder of Construction Coach. She also hosts her own podcast, Constructing You, where she shares the successful journeys of others to show you what's possible. Her book, Constructing your Career gives you inspirational, practical action and unconventional career intelligence to construct your career.Constructing You Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/constructing-you/id1501998634 Construction Coach: https://theconstructioncoach.com.au/Constructing your Career: https://www.amazon.com/Constructing-Your-Career-Elinor-Moshe-ebook/dp/B08FVQF9D2Killing Cupid's music graciously provided by bensound.com Questions, comments, ideas for an episode? Email me at Nadia@Killingcupid.com Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)

No two relationships are the same-but sometimes we find ourselves in the same pattern again and again. So why is that? How is it possible that even after you swore you would NEVER date another guy like your ex, the relationship after him ended the same way? Why do people always have a "type" that falls for them. Do you have sign on your head that's making the wrong kind of person flock to you? Are you cursed?In this episode, I explain how your Relationship Map is the mental structure that dictates who you are attracted to, what kind of relationships you have, and even who you believe you are supposed to be. Your map goes far beyond just your romantic life, it is your guide to all relationships- your relationship to work, friends, colleagues, and even yourself.If you are looking for a fresh start, to figure out what the heck happened, and to live your authentic self, this episode is an absolute must listen.Questions, comments, or ideas for a show? Email me at Nadia@KillingCupid.com Follow me on Instagram for regular IGTV streams about how to master your relationships and live your authentic self @KillingCupid__Music provided by bensound.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/NadiaAni)

Manipulation is to a narcissist what a surfboard is to a surfer. Manipulation isn't just about getting one over on someone, in some ways it's the lifeblood of what keeps them going. Narcissism isn't just an extremely dangerous personality disorder, narcissistic abuse (I believe) is one of the biggest dangers in our society today. Why would someone want to manipulate someone else in the first place? Why do narcissists discard? Why are their interactions so confusing? As dangerous as they are, the good news is that manipulation and narcissism are predictable patterns of behavior, and once we underlying the underlying pieces and motivations it's very easy to understand, and stop it in it's tracks. You can't manipulate someone who already knows what you're up to. In this episode, I break down the structure of narcissistic manipulation so you can understanding and neutralize it, keeping you sane and safe. More information on narcissism: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/narcissism-101-abnormal-self-esteem-or-debilitating/id1471683642?i=1000454148127Readings: KillingCupid.com/ReadingsHave a question or idea for an episode? Email me at Nadia@KillingCupid.comAll music by Purple-planet.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/NadiaAni)

Why is it the most empathetic people have the hardest lot in life? Is your desire to be compassion f***ing up your chances? Is your intuition making you a slave to desire? It seems like every time I’ve looked at my cards lately, they’ve been here to tell us that we need to use our Queen energy to get ahead. (And no, this isn’t just for women or people with vaginas.)In today’s episode, we're going to sit down with the Queen of Cups and learn how to use the forces of empathy, compassion, and intuition to be totally in charge of your kingdom to manifest your desires, and create anything you want. Rewrite your relationship map with my mini-self study course: https://www.killingcupid.com/product-page/your-personal-blueprint-to-emotional-freedom-stress-free-happy-relationshipsSchedule a reading: Killingcupid.com/readingsMusic by Purple-Planet.com Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/NadiaAni)

Tools like Tarot and Astrology provide us with deeper knowledge about ourselves and others that we might have been blind to before, and gives us hope. It shows us the other side that touches everything we can see with our eyes and then some. They connect us to the higher parts of ourselves and help us to go places we could only imagine- but it's no secret that these powerful tools can be used for some stuff that's not so good. Today I'm going to give you the down low on how this works when looking for love, what questions to ask, and how thinking about using these magical tools can still help even the staunchest of skeptics. Plus- I'm going to share with you a cautionary tale to help you identify the real deal, and when you should run. Get my mini course on sale now: Relationship Map: Discover Your Personal Blueprint to Emotional Freedom https://www.killingcupid.com/product-page/your-personal-blueprint-to-emotional-freedom-stress-free-happy-relationshipsReadings, questions, comments, or just saying hi- email me at Nadia@KillingCupid.com(Nobody but me reads my emails).Music by Purpleplanet.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/NadiaAni)

Trying times have a way of making us wonder where we're supposed to go, and how do we rebuild from here? How do we know where to go, when we don't even know where we are or have a ground to stand on? These are the questions we're all faced with right now, and so I want to share with you the things that got me through one of the hardest times in my life.My narc ended up taking me around the world with what began as a beautiful story, only to become a hole I never thought I’d get out of- that in the end propelled me to levels I had never even conceived of. He ultimately taught me how to stop settling and demand (and get) more, to trust myself, to love myself, and who I wanted to be in the world (this even helped start Killing Cupid!).Light is brighter when you're in the dark. If you’ve ever been with a narcissist, or even if you're just going through a hard time and you're not sure where to start, this is the episode for you. Download my free video series to help you stop people pleasing and get back control: KillingCupid.com/3-steps Check out my episode dedicated to decoding narcissism: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/narcissism-101-abnormal-self-esteem-or-debilitating/id1471683642?i=1000454148127Have a question or suggestion for the show? Need some help? Email me at Nadia@KillingCupid.comMusic by purple-planet.com Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/NadiaAni)

Nobody wants to deal with a fuckboy, and everyone wants to know how to spot them (I hear some dress like lumberjacks). They're blamed for the demise of countless relationships, time wasted, and generally f***ery that nobody has time for. Lucky for you, I've put in years of hands on research to break down the tell tale signs of this modern marvel, and how to avoid getting burned. Do you always seem to end up with fuckboys? Download my guide to understanding your Relationship Blueprint so you can cut the bs of your dating life: https://www.killingcupid.com/relationship-blueprint Music by Purple-planet.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/NadiaAni)

Isn't dating supposed to be easier when you have it all? Get a good job they said, it'll be fun!Hah! Nice Try! Dating sucks for everyone, and that includes you! Today I took a Q&A questioner from a listener who despite having it all, can't seem to get her love life to progress past a few dates and boring dinners. So what gives? Isn't dating supposed to be fun and exciting (especially if you're hot and successful)? It can be, but in some cases, being hot and successful might be making it harder than it has to be. I'm making a YouTube channel! I recorded this episode live, check it out: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEMf8MmRGLTHCyITQIk94IAPodcasts take a lot of time to put together, if you enjoyed listening consider donating to my patreon: patreon.com/NadiaAniMusic by purple-planet.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/NadiaAni)

Even if you haven't heard of the Coolidge Effect, you've heard of it. Simply put, it's what drives us to keep seeking out more intense sexual experiences, or new partners even when we love what we've got. The Coolidge Effect is blamed for the breakup of marriages, porn addiction, and a whole host of other relationship issues- but is that the truth? Are we looking outside of our relationships for new stimulation because that's how nature intended, or are we doing it because we've been watching too much porn and need to see crazier s*** to get off? Today I'm teaming up with an old friend, fellow domme and relationship coach Harley O'Connor for a lesson what it's really about, and how to make sure relationship stands the test of time. Love what you hear? Support the show!Music by Purple-planet.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/NadiaAni)

You know them better than they know themselves. Your research skills could beat out a CIA operative. You have multiple fake accounts because they've already blocked you and you laugh at their piddly privacy settings. You know everything they do, who they hang out with, where they ate lunch- it's only stalking if you get caught, right?Then, one accidental, "like", and it all comes crashing down before you. Jokes aside, social media stalking is serious s***. It's a heartbreaking waste of time that prevents you from moving on, and is really f***ing creepy for the person you're stalking. You know this, you hate it, and you keep doing it. So what gives?In this episode, I'm going to dig in deep about what's going on behind the scenes that's driving you to stalk your ex, and how to get a grip and get free. Like this episode? Subscribe and share! If you REALLY liked this episode, show your love by donating patreon.com/NadiaAniMusic by Purple-planet.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/NadiaAni)

"You can't get over someone by getting under them"You don't have to like someone to fuck them, but you should at least not hate them. Why then do we keep doing it? Why do we keep messing around with the people who hurt us when there's a sea of people who would never? Breaking up isn't easy, and making a clean break is even harder. In this episode, Nadia goes into the psychology of why we can't seem to stop messing around with the people who hurt us, even if it's at our own expense.Music by purple-planet.comWant me to keep making new episodes? Support the show!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/NadiaAni)

Did you know that soulmate breakups are the worst kind of breakup there is? I mean, of course you did-but do you KNOW WHY that is?In this episode, Nadia goes into the sneaky psychology that causes us to fall for the worst people for us- and why we think it's divine intervention (PLUS-what your soulmate says about the rest of your dating life). Music by purple-planet.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/NadiaAni)

If you've ever dated someone who left you feeling confused, burned out, and lonely, this is the episode for you. Narcissism is a term that gets thrown around- A LOT. But what does it mean? It's not your self-esteem (or lack thereof), it's not only a personality disorder, but dealing with someone who has narc like tendencies can be a big deal for everyone. In this episode Nadia breaks down what the DSM has to say about Narcissism, and real talk about what that means. Music by purple-planet.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/NadiaAni)

Can you really make money selling pictures of your feet online? Can you make a living just off of showing up for dinner and being cute? Does being a sugar baby really work, or is it all just an urban legend?But more importantly- what happens when a porn star personality & a relationship psychotherapist domme get together? In this episode, Minnie and Nadia give you a behind the scenes look at what sugar babies and financial domme relationships are really all about, the psychology behind them and what they can teach you about your own relationships. Music courtesy of purple-planet.com Support the show: patreon.com/NadiaAniSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/NadiaAni)