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13x Author www.AuthorCiciB.com - From toxic relationships to healthy ones, heartbreaks to healing, dating to committed relationships, spirituality to self-love, accountabilty and growth - I talk candidly about it all. Go get a snack, a juice box, or a glass of wine, move your triggers to the side so you can open up your mind... and enjoy. Instagram: @TheCrimsonKiss

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    • Jun 19, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 57m AVG DURATION
    • 174 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Sis, Get Your Ish Together

    You're Gonna Date Anyway, So You Might as Well Learn How

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2025 70:19


    Retiring the “Just Don't Date Men” Advice (Because... Come On)You can quit dating men if you want to, girl, but let's not act like that's the only option. The truth is, a lot of women were never taught how to date — we just picked it up through heartbreak, trial and error, and TikToks that contradict each other. But if you're already out here, talking stages and all… it's probably in your best interest to actually learn how to date — you know, with standards, with self-respect, and with your eyes wide open. This episode is for the women who are still dating (or want to), and are ready to actually learn how to do it better. As always: put your triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind. Let's get into it. 

    For the Girl Who's Just Trying Her Best Today (I See You... and Same)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2025 40:53


    I don't know who needs to hear this today... but I know someone out there does. So, here ya go ;)

    When Old Wounds Show Up (A Vulnerable Episode on Healthy Relationships)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2025 80:59


    Today's episode is a vulnerable one for me—like, deep sigh before hitting record kind of vulnerable. But I know it's a conversation so many of you need to hear, so I'm taking one for the team (lol, but also… not really). We're talking about healthy relationships—not just the soft and sweet parts, but the hard parts too. The moments where you feel exposed. Triggered. Like your old wounds just pulled up a chair and made themselves at home. I'm sharing a recent experience with Dwayne where I had to sit with feedback that touched a nerve… and how we worked through it, together. It's a long one, because this kind of growth has layers, and honestly, some of them I'm still peeling back in real time.So, if you've ever asked yourself, “Why does being loved well bring up all my old shit?”—this one's for you.For all of my books or for 1:1's click here: SisGetYourIshTogether.com

    You Can Build a Business or Build a Man - Pick ONE.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2025 46:22


    There's a whole internet full of tools, resources, and opportunities to turn what you already do for free—advice, gossiping, storytelling, planning—into a business. But when your focus is always on chasing men, well... how could you ever tap into that? This episode is your reminder: Leave these men ALONE and focus on yourself the REAL way. For all of my books, workbooks, and coaching calls you can click here: SisGetYourIshTogether.com

    This Is Why You Attract Frenemies

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 60:55


    Yep, we're talking about frenemies today. So you know the drill: put your triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind... and enjoy. XO For all coaching info, my books, and my Substacks (yes, I have two) you can click here: SisGetYourIshTogether.com

    Self-Abandonment Can Look Like...

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2025 40:58


    Sometimes it's easy to spot when you're abandoning yourself, other times, not so much. Especially when it comes to dating. I'm droppin' gems, so make sure you pick them up ;)For 1:1 coaching and all of my books, click here: Sis, Get Your Ish Together

    To the Women Who Want Kids (But Need a Reminder to Take Their Time)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2025 48:04


    In this episode, I'm talking to the women who want kids but need a reminder to take their time. Because, girl, before you let family, friends, or Instagram guilt you into rushing this season of your life, I need you to remember a few things: You have time. You don't have to settle. And there's a whole world waiting for you outside the four walls of your home and your comfort zone. For my books and coaching program click here: Mother's Day Special 

    A 'Girls, Girl' With Boundaries

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2025 55:44


    This topic has been on my mind for a minute now, so today is the day I'm unpacking it. Triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind... and enjoy! XOFor all of my books, workbooks, and coaching programs click here: SisGetYourIshTogether

    Your Pussy Is a Portal (And He Was Lucky to Be Let In)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2025 43:08


    I'm reading you a bit of a book in this episode - get some snacks and enjoy :)To get this book, and any of my others, click here: Your Pussy Is a Portal If you'd like to book a session with me, click here: The Wake-Up CallMuch love! XO

    Feel Your Feelings Friday: Strong women feel their sh*t too.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2025 28:35


    Hai :) As always, I hope todays episode helps in some way, shape, or form. Sending you love. XO. For all of my books, workbooks, both Substacks, and coaching info, click here: www.sisgetyourishtogether.com

    Processing Out Loud Isn't Complaining

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2025 82:22


    Been a while. Let's catch up :)You can find all my books, the Substacks, and my coaching programs here: Sis, Get Your Ish Together

    A Love Letter to Life's Simple Joys

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2024 55:07


    I really hope today's episode inspires you to lean more into life's simple joys. XO.To join the membership and access all 8 mondules of the No More Toxic Relationships group class (and 20 other classes) click here: Memebership

    The Magic of Healing, Believing, and Intentions

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2024 61:21


    Today's episode is a story-time with a profound message wrapped up in it. I hope it helps someone out there who needed it. XOFor my books and journals click here: SisGetYourIshTogether.comTo book a personal reading or to grab one of my coloring books click here: Quick Links

    The Power of Perspective

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2024 25:19


    May this episode inspire someone today to shift their perspective for the better. XO

    15 Underrated Signs of Character Development

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2024 42:49


    Hope this helps someone out there today. Remember: it's always progress over perfection :) Go be great! XOFor my books, coloring books, and to book a reading click here: Quick Links

    "Dear B, how can I create a safe place for a man to talk to me?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2024 45:42


    I hope this episode helps y'all to have better conversations with the (GOOD) men in your life that you care about. Sending love! XOTo work 1:1 with me click here: Creating Your Soft Life 

    Respecting the Seasons of Your Life.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2024 39:00


    As always, I hope today's episode inspires a woman out there. Sending love. XOFor all my books, journals and coloring books click here: Sis, Get Your Ish Together 

    Have You Been Rejecting Parts of Yourself?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2024 85:16


    This is a long episode, but a much needed one. I know it's going to help someone out there dive deeper into their own self-discovery journey, and that's the goal. Sending love! XOFor all of my books and journals click here: SisGetYourIshTogether To book for my 1:1's click here: Soft Life

    Girl...Slow Down

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2024 65:03


    We're having a Big Sis Talk pep talk today. Enjoy! XOFor all of my books and journals, click here: Sis Get Your Ish Together

    The Eldest Daughter

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2024 29:06


    Such an important topic that isn't talked about enough. To subscribe to Danyell's blog, click here: www.HardTruthsToMyself.com

    "Love Is Blind" is no different than a dating app.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2024 30:12


    You know the drill - triggers to the side so you can open up your mind ;) XOFor all of my books and journals click here: Sis Get Your Ish Together

    The Pep Talk You Didn't Even Know You Needed Today

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2024 36:23


    I really hope this inspires someone today and lights a beautiful fire under their ass ;) GO BE GREAT. XOFor my books and journals click here: SisGetYourIshTogetherFor my coaching program click here: Creating Your Soft Life

    8 Things You Might Need to Hear Today.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2024 50:40


    I hope this episode inspires whoever needs it. Sending y'all love! XOIf you'd like to show a lil' love to the podcast, click here: Buy Me a CoffeeIf you'd like to grab my books and journals with prompts in them, click here: SisGetYourIshTogetherIf you like to color and want to grab the coloring books I made, click here: Bring Your Own Crayons

    I Think I'm Done with Social Media

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2024 56:03


    Done scrolling, done posting - I think I'm just done with it all. Can you relate?For all of my books and workbooks, click here: SisGetYourIshTogether.com

    Teaching Yourself to Not Take Things Personally

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2024 56:31


    I'm really excited about today's episode because I am in the THICK of teaching myself not to take things personally. I hope this inspires someone today - Enjoy! XOFor all of my books and journals with prompts in them, click here: www.SisGetYourIshTogether.com

    Stop Overthinking it, and Start Making Moves.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2024 48:44


    A pep-talk you didn't even know you needed today ;) Go be great. XOTo join our upcoming Ladies Night, click here: Questions and Advice Ladies Night 

    Get in, Girl...We're Working Out and Eating Better.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2024 94:26


    Today we're talking about my journey through this new lifestyle of eating better and working out. As always, I hope it inspires anyone out there who needs it. XOTo book your seat for September's class, click here: Q&A Ladies NightTo book for my two month 1:1 coaching program, click here: Creating Your Soft Life

    Debates I'm Sick and Tired of In the Dating and Relationship Space

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2024 86:22


    Get ready to move your triggers to the side for this one the real way, because I've got a lot to say. Enjoy! To book with me for the 1:1 program, click here: Creating Your Soft Life

    So, You're Looking for the Perfect Man...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2024 74:51


    Triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind! Enjoy. XO To join the upcoming workshop, click here: Girl, Let's Get This Money

    So, You Wanna Date a Man Who Has Kids...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2024 78:48


    As a bonus mom, I have a lot to say about this topic, so as always: put your triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind! If you'd like to join the upcoming workshop, click here: Girl, Let's Get This Money

    Money, Self-Esteem, Manifesting

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2024 84:26


    This might be a senistive topic for a lot of folks, so y'all know the drill: Put your triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind, and enjoy. XO To grab your seat for the upcoming workshop, click here: Girl, Let's Get This Money

    What type of experiences do you want to have?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 37:27


    Heads up: I was having a little bit of issues with my mic today so I might sound a little low in the in the beginning, but then the audio fixes itself after the intro. Sorry about that! As always, triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind. Much love! XO Email list + all books: www.SisGetYourIshTogether.com

    Healing and Manifesting

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2024 59:14


    Today's episode is full of gems so take notes! Much love, ladies.For those who want to sign up to the Soft Life 1:1 two month program, click here: Creating Your Soft Life

    Calling Up My Spirit Team Like... "Really? Really, Y'all?"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 67:27


    It's giving mid-life crisis LOL. Sigh. I hope today's episode inspires y'all today in some way. Sending y'all love. XOYou can find all my books and journals here: www.SisGetYourIshTogether.com

    Here's why other women don't like you (spoiler alert) it actually has nothing to do with you

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2024 76:18


    Y'all know the drill - triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind! Enjoy. xo! For all of my books and journals, click here: www.SisGetYourIshTogether.com

    Healing VS Performative Inner Work

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 78:47


    Today we're gonna upack healing for what it is. Triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind!For all of my books, journals, and to learn more about Girl, Work Smarter, Not Harder: SisGetYourIshTogether.comIf you've already been in any of my classes and would like to sign on for the two month 1:1 program, click here: Creating Your Soft LifeMuch love! xo 

    Girl, are you living your life...or just surviving life?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2024 64:56


    We're talking about being in survival mode today. Triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind! xo Books, journals, membership: www.SisGetYourIshTogether.com

    Dropping Your Friends When a Man Enters the Chat

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2024 79:29


    Y'all know the drill! Triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind. Much love! For all of my books, journals, and to join the membership, click here: www.SisGetYourIshTogether.com

    Navigating Life & Growing Pangs

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 38:31


    I've been away for a while, and today's episode is just an honest girl-talk about where I've been and what's been going on with me. Shout out to my regular listeners - I appreciate y'all. Xo

    You are NOT WORTHLESS AFTER 30. Please stop listening to the BROKEN, BITTER MEN of social media.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2023 87:08


    WARNING: Today's episode is really loaded. In order to genuinely receive what I'm saying in this episode, you're going to have to put your triggers to the side the REAL way. Okay? Okay. Much love. xo BOOKS + NO MORE TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS CLASS: SisGetYourIshTogether.com

    The Duality In Healing

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2023 69:46


    May this episode inspire you to look at healing with a new perspective. Sending y'all love! Books + Dating Workshop: www.SisGetYourIshTogether.com

    10 Ways To Make Money Online

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2023 93:31


    I feel like this episode is long overdue, but we're here now so that's what matters! If nothing else, I hope this episode helps you get the wheels in your head turning in the direction that will serve you. Sending y'all love!To sign up to Flodesk with my link click here: FlodeskFor my books + the Dating workshop click here: www.SisGetYourIshTogether.comGo be great! xo

    1st Date Etiquette

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2023 66:57


    Put your triggers to the side so can open up your mind! Books + No More Abandoning Yourself While Dating Workshop: www.SisGetYourIshTogether.com Go be great! xo

    Why being HIGH MAINTENANCE works in your favour

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2023 60:28


    Triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind! For books + workshops & group classes: www.SisGetYourIshTogether.com Much love! xo

    Love Is Blind: Season 5

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2023 90:19


    Let's doooo it! To sign up for classes and workshops, and to find my books and blog: SisGetYourIshTogether.com Much love! xo

    Milestones you should celebrate that have nothing to do with a man

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2023 49:06


    Everything can't and shouldn't always be about a man, girl. Journals with Prompts + All Books: www.AuthorCiciB.com

    Allow Yourself to Recognize What You Deserve WHILE You're Experiencing It

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2023 75:39


    We're unpacking a lot today, so y'all know the drill: triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind! Books + Last Round of No More Toxic Relationships: www.AuthorCiciB.com New Shirts: Bonfire.com/store/sis-get-your-ish-together/

    Never stay with a man who thinks humiliating you is funny

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2023 37:04


    Triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind! Books + Journals + No More Toxic Relationships Class: www.AuthorCiciB.com go be great. xo

    "B, where have you been, girl?" - Taking care of my mental and emotional health.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2023 66:30


    While I'm known for my vulnerability, this is episode is an extra vulnerable one. I've been MIA for a couple of weeks and there's a good read reason for that. There are a lot of moving parts to this episode, therefore, a lot of things you can take away from it to reflect on - not only about taking care of your own mental and emotional health, but being mindful of the mental and emotional health of others. To sign up for the last round of No More Toxic Relationships for 2023: www.AuthorCiciB.com

    I Don't Cook, I Don't Clean...But Let Me Tell You How I Got This Ring

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2023 59:10


    Whew! We're going there todaaay ;) Put your triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind!Books, Journals, Membership: www.AuthorCicib.comGo be great. xo

    Mom Life. The Real Deal: Social Media VS Reality

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2023 47:01


    Today we're hearing from Mama J - one of our columnist who wrote for The Mommy Corner. As always, put your triggers to the side so you have room to open up your mind, and enjoy. For all of my books, journals, and to access the Sis, Get Your Ish Together Membership: www.AuthorCiciB.com Go be great! xo

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