Podcasts about self abandonment

Today we’re unpacking a pattern so many strong women carry: the trauma of over-responsibility. Why do we take on all the blame? Why does it feel safer to carry the emotional load alone than risk someone being upset with us? From peacekeeping to people-pleasing, we dive into the hidden wounds behind this dynamic—and the ways it silently builds resentment, robs us of connection, and stunts the growth of everyone involved. This is a raw, honest convo on what it means to stop performing emotional labor for two, and start honoring your voice, needs, and truth. If you’ve ever been scared to express how you really feel because it’s easier to just say, *“it’s my fault”… this one’s for you. Follow us on Instagram @sherises.podcast Join us in our Facebook forum

Many of us confuse self-care routines with self-love, but real healing happens when we learn to stay present with ourselves, especially in those quiet moments when walking away feels easier. In this episode, we explore what self-abandonment really looks like and how reconnecting with your inner child can be the beginning of deep emotional healing. You'll be guided through a gentle inner child dialogue, a reparenting practice that helps build genuine self-love from the inside out. This isn't about doing it perfectly. It's about meeting yourself with compassion, presence, and the kind of love that makes you feel safe and whole.   Watch Valina Live Here!

In this episode, Dr. Danielle gets real about a topic too many Christian women silently carry: codependency. If you've ever lost sleep over someone else's choices, kept quiet to “keep the peace,” or felt guilty for taking care of yourself, this conversation is for you. Dr. Danielle unpacks what codependency really is—not just an addiction issue, but a pattern of self-neglect disguised as love. Learn how it shows up in your body, why it keeps you from healing, and how to start reclaiming your God-given identity.This isn't about quick fixes. It's about breaking free from bondage, choosing truth over people-pleasing, and learning to live whole and free in Christ.SERVICES & MEMBERSHIPS:$7 Mentorship: How to Fix Your Energy, Cravings, and Mood in Just One Day

Send us a textHow many times have you forced yourself to stay in a job, a relationship, or even a “healing” practice that secretly drained your soul? In this unapologetic episode of The Dimple Bindra Show, we're exposing the truth about why women push themselves into toxic cycles that don't feel good, and how to finally break free.If you've ever felt the weight of burnout, betrayal trauma, toxic love, or emotional abuse, this conversation will hit home. You'll discover why exhaustion isn't weakness, it's your body screaming for freedom. Your intuition, your feminine energy, and your truth are the medicine you've been waiting for.Here's what you'll learn inside this no-BS, healing-from-the-inside-out episode:Why “should” is the most dangerous word in your vocabularyHow forcing yourself to perform is actually self-abandonmentThe hidden ways your body has been protecting you all alongClear signs that your job, relationship, or healing journey is out of alignmentA grounding exercise to get radically honest about what you've been forcingSoul-level declarations to reclaim your truth, power, and embodimentThis isn't another motivational pep talk. This is a wake-up call for your nervous system. If you've been faking smiles through burnout, staying silent in toxic relationships, or numbing yourself with “spiritual to-do lists,” this episode is your permission slip to stop performing and start living in alignment with who you really are.✨ Not sure why you keep sabotaging your healing or staying stuck in survival mode? Take my free Healing Archetype Quiz to uncover the hidden pattern blocking your power and discover how to rise as the woman you were born to be.✨ Take the free Healing Archetype Quiz

This episode is a special one because I was interviewed on the Girls Gone Wellness Podcast and the questions they asked me were so good that I knew I had to share it with you here.If you've ever wondered how to break free from anxious spirals, stop attracting emotionally unavailable partners, or move from self-abandonment to secure love, this conversation is for you.Inside this episode, we talk about:The four main attachment styles (and how they actually play out in dating + long-term relationships)Why anxious and avoidant partners feel “magnetized” to each other (and how to break that cycle)The difference between trauma bonding and genuine emotional intimacyPractical tools to self-soothe, stop self-abandonment, and rewire toward secure love✨ If you loved this episode, make sure to share it on Instagram and tag me @drmorgancoaching — I'd love to hear your takeaways.And I want to give a huge shout-out to the incredible hosts of Girls Gone Wellness!

Today on Can't Be Contained, I am beyond excited to welcome back one of my absolute favorite humans, Terri Cole. If you've been around this space, you already know she's the OG boundary queen, psychotherapist, bestselling author, and a woman who has radically changed the way thousands of us show up in life and love. This conversation? It's all about reclaiming yourself. We go deep into boundaries—not as some rigid rulebook, but as your sacred rules of engagement with the world. We talk about what it really takes to release resentment, stop self-abandoning, and create the kind of relationships that feel safe, alive, and deeply nourishing. Terri and I get real about: ✨ The difference between standing in your truth vs. getting hijacked by old triggers ✨ The sneaky ways high-achieving women (yes, us) fall into codependency—especially with our work ✨ How to clean up energetic leaks so you can reclaim your freedom + vitality ✨ Why empathy (not advice) is the medicine your relationships are craving ✨ Simple, doable steps to set and express boundaries—without drama, guilt, or shame And because Terri is pure magic, she shares her signature “three cues for clarity” that will shift the way you understand your reactions forever. We even explore what it looks like to have a codependent relationship with your own business (yep, it's a thing) and the liberation that comes when you finally choose YOU. If you're ready to call your energy back, stop doing it all, and step into more joy, more wealth, and more love—you don't want to miss this one. Terri brings the wisdom, the heart, and the fire… and my prayer is that this episode feels like a giant permission slip to stop overgiving and start thriving. Check the show notes for Terri's free toolkit, her incredible community, and all the details on what she's creating next, you'll want in. Claim a Free 30-Day Trial in GoHighLevel: http://www.pausebreathwork.com/highlevel Join the Women & Wealth Event: https://www.pausebreathwork.com/wealth Learn How to Grow Your Income, Impact and Freedom by Becoming a Certified Breathwork Facilitator: https://do.pausebreathwork.com/breathwork-training About Can't Be Contained Can't Be Contained' is the unscripted, unedited – fully uncontained journal entries & real-life experiences of those who follow their bliss & intuitive hits, the freedom seekers, the sacred rebels – the ones who are here to disrupt what preceded us & create what is ahead of us. Subscribe now to stay tuned for every episode!   For full show notes, resources, and links: https://www.samanthaskelly.com/episode-351-terri-cole-no-more-self-abandonment/   The Pause Breathwork App is the #1 app to clear stress using your breath. Download the app here: https://pause.live/Pause-Breathwork-App   

226. Building Self Respect vs Self Abandonment

We are so back. Welcome to a brand new era of the Empowered Consciousness Collective podcast - where we explore & discuss all things meaningful, empowering, important and juicy related to living your best life!!! On this episode we are talking about something that I notice so often: a lack of clarity into what we really truly want in this life - big and small - especially as women. We have become so used to saying "I don't know" or "I'm good with whatever" and so afraid of being seen as difficult, bitchy or demanding that we have actually truly forgotten how it feels to have a desire and express it. Time to reclaim your power, speak up - and what you fucking want out of your life. Call in and create the experiences, relationships and lifestyle that truly tickles your fancy. Starting today. Check me out on Instagram @rileymurthaa or visit my website to learn more about my offers & programs www.rileymurtha.com

What if the guilt and shame you carry as a mother or caretaker weren't yours to begin with?In this episode of The Big Silence, Karena Dawn sits down with Vanessa Bennett, LMFT, licensed depth therapist, and author of the new book, The Motherhood MythFrom growing up as a “parentified child” to raising her daughter with intention, Vanessa shares how generational wounds, from the “witch wound” to the “mother wound”, shape our lives in ways we may not realize. Together, they explore self-abandonment, the myth of perfection, codependency in relationships, and how to reclaim your identity through micro moments of self-choosing. Whether you're a mother, daughter, partner, or friend, this conversation offers tangible ways to break cycles, set boundaries, and follow the breadcrumbs back to yourself.How Do We Heal Generational Wounds Without Losing Ourselves?Vanessa reveals how recognizing inherited patterns and our part in them is the first step to breaking free.(00:00:22) Depth Psychology and the Path to IndividuationVanessa explains depth psychology as the “psychology of the soul,” focusing on the whole being and the unconscious.Her upbringing as a parentified child and how it shaped her initial decision not to have children.The importance of holding your upbringing objectively to heal. “They're not all bad. And also, they're not all good.”(00:06:11) The Trinity Wound: Witch, Sister, and MotherThe witch wound: epigenetic trauma silencing women's power, sexuality, and individuality.The sister wound: competition among women fueled by scarcity thinking.The mother wound: how women unconsciously uphold patriarchy and pass down harmful narratives.Why ending these cycles starts with self-awareness and modeling change for the next generation.(00:12:30) Self-Abandonment, Guilt, and Rebuilding Your Sense of SelfGuilt and shame are by design. They are tools of societal control, not signs you're broken.Accept guilt as part of the process, then act anyway.Use “micro moments” (like saying no when you mean it) as bricks in the foundation of self-trust.Following breadcrumbs: orienting toward what makes you feel alive, even if it's small or scary.(00:22:09) Codependency, Resentment, and Healthy BoundariesWe live in a codependent culture that teaches us to outsource our emotional regulation.Resentment as a diagnostic tool: a signal that a boundary is being crossed or unspoken.Attachment styles are fluid and change depending on the relationship dynamic.The link between resentment and projection and how awareness can stop the cycle.Why attraction often fades when relationships take on a parental dynamic, and how both partners can reclaim responsibility for their own happiness.(00:32:50) Friendships, Attachment Styles, and CommunicationVanessa and her co-host model conflict resolution through a commitment to talk about issues openly.The cultural trap of expecting a partner to “reparent” us and why it can kill romantic attraction.Building safety without losing mystery or eros in long-term relationships.(00:40:17) Therapy, Accessibility, and the Power of Group WorkWhy therapists need therapists, and the stigma that still exists around seeking help.Alternative paths to healing: coaches, low-cost...

You've grown — but others still expect the old you. If you've been shrinking to keep the peace, this episode helps you stop self-editing and start honoring who you've become, without apology.You've evolved. But the people around you — family, clients, old colleagues — still relate to the version of you that no longer exists. And without realizing it, you begin shrinking. You soften your words. You avoid saying what's true. You tone it down to keep connection intact.But here's the truth: shrinking doesn't preserve connection — it fractures authenticity.In this episode of Identity-Level Recalibration, Julie Holly helps you name this stretch with compassion and clarity. You'll learn why your nervous system resists visibility, how “don't be too much” becomes a quiet script, and what to do when you feel the pull to edit your voice or shrink your spark.You'll also hear how Julie navigated a personal season of outgrowing a table she once set — and why honoring identity growth sometimes means releasing roles that no longer align.This episode is a deep exhale for anyone who's tired of self-abandoning for the sake of loyalty, image, or familiarity. If you've been shrinking — even subtly — this is your permission to stop.In This Episode, We Cover:Why we shrink even when we're proud of our growthThe nervous system's hidden role in tone-policing yourself“Don't be too much” — how it shapes our identity expressionJulie's personal experience of outgrowing a table she createdHow to model identity integrity in leadership and lifeWhy alignment requires visibility — even when it's uncomfortableA fresh take on Michelle Obama's Becoming and identity as evolutionHow ILR helps you outgrow survival roles and honor your next chapterToday's Micro-Recalibration:Ask yourself:Where have I been shrinking so others don't feel stretched?Where am I still apologizing for who I've become?Anchor this:“Shrinking doesn't preserve connection. It fractures authenticity.”If people look to you — whether in your family, your workplace, or your friend group — you're shaping culture. Model what it looks like to stand in your integrity. Not arrogantly, but unapologetically.Let them see the real you — even if they're still catching up to her.If this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.

Today, I'm talking about a pattern that's silently robbing high-achieving Black women of money, joy, and energy: self-abandonment.  What is Self-Abandonment? Self-abandonment happens when you leave yourself emotionally, mentally, or physically to secure someone else's comfort, approval, or validation. It's when you side with others over yourself. We do this because somewhere along the line, we learned being fully ourselves wasn't safe. For Black women, this is compounded by generations of being told our bodies, voices, and desires needed to be managed to avoid backlash. 5 Signs You're Abandoning Yourself: You override your "no" - Agreeing to things that make you dread your calendar You need a "good reason" to rest - Otherwise, you feel guilty You shrink your joy - Speaking less, dimming your shine, or even stopping yourself from laughing You defer your decisions - Letting others decide for you, even on things that deeply impact you You gaslight yourself - Downplaying your needs or telling yourself you're overreacting The Cost Is Too High Studies show: The APA found that suppressing authentic self-expression is linked to higher cortisol and inflammation levels Harvard Business Review reports Black women face the steepest emotional tax in professional settings, leading to earlier burnout Chronic self-abandonment is associated with higher rates of depression, anxiety, and stress-related illness For high earners, this shows up as: Emotional: Loss of self-trust, chronic resentment, burnout Physical: Sleep disruption, weight fluctuations, immune issues, hypertension Relationship: Surface-level connections, resentment in partnerships The Path Forward Ask yourself: "What would I choose if I didn't need anyone's approval?"   Take Action Take my free quiz to discover how your nervous system and survival patterns may be blocking your clarity:

This month's Q&A episode is a deep dive into the real, messy, beautiful work of recovery.I'm answering powerful, personal questions from women in my group coaching programme (shared anonymously) – and I know you'll see yourself in so many of them.We cover:Feeling threatened by GLP-1 weight-loss drugs, especially when loved ones are taking themProtecting your recovery when diet culture feels louder than everSetting boundaries around triggering conversations and environmentsHow to get back on track after slipping into delayed eating patternsNavigating mental hunger without fear of “repeating the past”Daily and in-the-moment nervous system regulation tools for ED recoveryFacing an osteoporosis diagnosis and fears about stopping exerciseLetting go of the “good listener, easy one with no needs” identityUnderstanding self-abandonment and building more balanced relationshipsHow to actually use “What would love do?” as a recovery toolIf you've ever felt like the world is pushing you back into weight loss obsession… if you've been scared of gaining weight and “still being disordered”… or if you've struggled to meet your own needs in relationships – this conversation will meet you where you are and help you take the next step forward.

Today, Jay reflects on the lessons about love he wishes he had known in his twenties. He examines how movies, media, and cultural narratives have long shaped unrealistic expectations about romance, often equating love with grand gestures, nonstop excitement, and fairy tale endings. Jay challenges these ideas, by showing that true love is not constant fireworks, but a balance of peace, stability, and passion. He explains how the thrill is often mistaken for attraction, and how the calm that comes from trust and consistency is actually the real foundation of a healthy relationship, even if often mistaken for boredom. Jay also explores the critical role of self-awareness and boundaries in fostering meaningful relationships. He discusses how love without boundaries can cause you to lose yourself, and how repeating familiar emotional patterns from the past can keep you stuck in cycles that feel comfortable but are ultimately harmful. Through relatable examples, Jay highlights the importance of defining emotional non-negotiables, paying attention to how a partner handles boredom and conflict, and understanding the influence of attachment styles. Jay emphasizes that successful relationships are not about finding someone perfect, but about choosing a partner who is willing to heal, grow, and face challenges together. In this episode, you'll learn: How to Set Boundaries Without Pushing Love Away How to Handle Conflict Without Ruining a Relationship How to Recognize the Difference Between Lust and Love How to Break Unhealthy Relationship Patterns How to Choose Patience and Healing in Relationships Finding real love isn’t an end goal, it’s an ongoing journey you take with intention, compassion, and patience. It’s something you build over time through quiet moments, healthy boundaries, and a commitment to grow, both on your own and together. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:13 Everything You Need to Know About Love 04:12 #1: Chemistry Does Not Equal Compatibility 09:19 #2: Love Without Boundaries is Self Abandonment 12:25 #3: How They Handle Boredom Tells You Everything 14:25 #4: Conflict Doesn't Ruin Relationships, Avoidance Does 16:44 #5: The Thrill is Temporary, Steady Love is Lasting 20:57 #6: How Does Your Partner's Attachment Style Affect You? 23:01 #7: What Feels Familiar Isn’t Always What’s RightSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“What's wrong with me? Why can't I just be happy with what I have? Why do I keep wanting more when I already have a ‘good' relationship?” If that question has been looping in your head, this episode is for you. Spoiler: there's nothing wrong with you. You've just been taught your whole life that love only “counts” if it fits in the monogamy box—even if that box is crushing you.I'm getting real about my own story—how I contorted myself in my first marriage until I barely recognized who I was, why I stayed way too long, and how my second marriage turned into something more honest, more spacious, and more us once I stopped shrinking and started telling the truth.We're diving into:The sneaky, everyday ways self-erasure shows up in relationships.Why “compromise” isn't the same as collaboration (and how to tell the difference).How your nervous system tries to keep you small—and how to rewire it so you can take up space.A quick grounding practice you can use before those scary, important conversations.Six tools to help you be fully yourself without automatically burning it all down.If you've ever thought you're “too much” for wanting more—more love, more connection, more you—this one's your permission slip to stop twisting yourself into a shape you don't even recognize.Links & Resources:Join Breaking Free From Monogamy → https://www.elleciapaine.com/breakingfreeHang out with me on TikTok → http://tiktok.com/@elleciapaineShare the Love:If this episode hit home, send it to your partner, your best friend, or that one person who's definitely tired of playing small. Let's stop pretending everything's fine and start talking about what love could look like when it actually fits.Send us a texthttps://elleciapaine.com/callSupport the show

Amber Rae, an internationally acclaimed author, illustrator, and speaker, is a force in the world of self-discovery and empowerment. With her bestselling books like "Choose Wonder Over Worry" and "The Answers Are Within You," she has touched the lives of millions across nearly 200 countries. Amber's work, filled with emotional depth and wisdom, has not only resonated with audiences globally but has also empowered individuals to embrace their authentic selves. Through her advocacy for journaling and her transformative workshops for global brands, she has become a beacon of inspiration for those seeking the courage to choose self-honoring paths. Amber's latest book, "Lovable," reflects her commitment to guiding others to rediscover their worthiness, making her a sought-after mentor for those on a journey of self-trust and authenticity.   The key moments in this episode are:  00:02:04 - Embracing Imperfection and Honesty  00:10:57 - Embracing Flickers of Awareness  00:15:12 - Reevaluating Ambition  00:25:00 - The 51% Rule  00:29:00 - Choosing Self as a Radical Act    Connect with Amber Rae Website: amberrae.com Instagram: @heyamberrae Book: amberrae.com/loveable   Connect with Amina AlTai Website: aminaaltai.com Instagram: @aminaaltai TikTok: @theaminaaltai Linkedin:   linkedin/in/aminaaltai  Book: aminaaltai.com/book

Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

I'm back and diving into the depths of self abandonment: where it stems from, how it shows up internally with your relationship to yourself, to your emotions, and how it shows up externally through your behaviors and patterns.In this episode I go into:•Inner child healing•Honoring your emotions•Honoring your needs •Nervous system repair + repatterningIf you're in a season of healing and unlearning self abandonment, this one is for you!If this episode really resonated and you are desiring deeper support through your own coming home, you can book a clarity call for 1:1 embodied coaching here: www.tiannleehealing.com/embodiedcoaching

EP297: Can I Trust Me to Show Up? In this episode, we take a close look at something we don't talk about enough: the quiet ways we drift from ourselves. We often pride ourselves on being reliable, supportive, and present for others—but what happens when we're not offering the same loyalty inward? This isn't about harsh self-criticism or impossible standards. It's about noticing the gap between what we say we want and what we actually follow through on when it comes to our own needs, boundaries, and truth. We explore why we tend to abandon ourselves in small ways and how that adds up over time—not because we're weak, but because we were taught to survive that way. This isn't about fixing yourself. It's about remembering how to listen, recommit, and rebuild the trust you've been craving from within. No drama. No shame. Just one small, self-honoring moment at a time.   Three Takeaways: 1.     There's a big difference between being dependable for others and being dependable for yourself. 2.     The small moments where you follow through—or don't—have a bigger impact than you think. 3.     Rebuilding self-trust doesn't require perfection, just consistent presence and gentle repair. Top of Form Bottom of Form    Every small promise you keep to yourself matters. That's how the healing begins.     Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here! If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!   Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:   https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words     Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out: https://findyourvoicecourse.com/   Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey!  https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour     Resources: Join the private Facebook group! It's a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143   Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don't forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don't miss a thing!

Resentment gets a bad rap, but what if it's actually a guidepost?   This episode is a look inside one of my recent Catalyst Studio mentoring sessions, where a brilliant practitioner found herself loving the work… and hating how it made her feel. Sound familiar? She wasn't burned out, yet, but the resentment was building. And it wasn't loud. It was quiet, chronic, and easy to ignore. Until it wasn't.   We talked through where that resentment was coming from, how it tied to people-pleasing, guilt around pricing, and the belief that overdelivering somehow proves your worth. We named it. We mapped it. And then we got to work.   Inside this episode, I share the tools and scripts I gave her to start protecting her energy and time, without shrinking or apologizing. We talk about boundaries (internal and external), membership models, and why policies aren't just for your practice… they're for your passion.   If you've been carrying silent resentment, feeling overextended, or struggling to hold your own boundaries, this one's for you.   Let's talk about what needs to shift, before burnout makes the decision for you.   Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Resentment as a Burnout Warning Sign 05:00 The Pressure to Be Liked and Its Hidden Costs 08:13 Scripts for Saying No 10:12 Public vs. Private Boundaries 15:05 Self-Abandonment and Internal Boundaries 16:10 Practicing Discomfort 18:00 How to Spot Quiet Resentment 20:14 Building Structure for Sustainable Care 22:04 Final Reflections and the Catalyst Quiz   Links https://3nb09zv7070.typeform.com/archetype  https://drlarasalyer.com/shop  https://rightbrainrescue.com/p/membership-magic-design-your-3-tier-functional-medicine-membership-to-grow-and-scale https://drlarasalyer.com/2025/07/11/episode-154-the-big-comeback-ten-rules-that-changed-my-practice-and-life/    Connect with Dr. Lara Salyer:  Website: https://drlarasalyer.com The Catalyst Way: https://drlarasalyer.com/catalyst Instagram: @drlarasalyer Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drlarasalyer Linked-In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlarasalyer/ YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/c/DrLaraSalyer TikTok: @Creativity.Doctor     Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

In this episode, we're diving deep into one of the most important shifts you'll ever make:Moving from self-abandonment to self-embodiment.If you've spent years waiting...Waiting to feel worthy…Waiting for the circumstances to change…Waiting to finally become the version of you that feels safe, powerful, and whole…This conversation is your invitation to stop waiting and start embodying.We'll explore:Why embodiment is the key to lasting transformation (not just mindset work)How your nervous system keeps you stuck in old patterns of survivalThe difference between trying to earn worthiness and choosing itSimple practices to reconnect to your body and create the feelings you want nowHow to use embodiment to expand your life, relationships, and businessPractical steps to embody your future self todayThis is the path from performing to becoming.From surviving to thriving.From chasing to receiving.If you're ready to create your desired reality not someday, but right now this episode will show you how.

In this potent and practical episode, Clara shares the most overlooked reason many women stay stuck in inconsistency, burnout, and self-doubt—self-abandonment. You'll learn how subtle daily behaviours like people-pleasing, overthinking, and breaking your own commitments slowly erode your sense of self-trust and personal power.Drawing from Radical Self-Honouring, Clara explores what self-abandonment really looks like in business and life—and how you can begin the process of reclaiming your worth, neutrality, and magnetism. This episode is especially for women business owners who feel like they're doing all the right things but still don't feel aligned.Tune in to hear: What self-abandonment looks like for women business owners. How victim energy, comparison, and people-pleasing lead to inconsistency. The first step to building lasting self-trust and creating sustainable success. Why neutrality protects your creativity and emotional energy.Find the Complete Show Notes Here → https://sigmawmn.com/podcastIn This Episode, You'll Learn:How self-abandonment shows up in your business decisions and daily routines.Practical examples of the micro-decisions that drain your energy and magnetism.A powerful mindset shift to help you keep your promises to yourself.Why this is the foundation for building confidence, clarity, and consistency.Themes & Time Stamps:[00:00]Introduction to Self-Abandonment[01:33] Sustainable Success System[02:22] Extract from the Book: Understanding Self-Abandonment[03:37] Examples of Self-Abandonment[08:09] The Impact of Small Choices[08:54] Methods to Stop Self-Abandonment[10:00] Conclusion and Book PromotionFree Offerings to Get You Started:FREE 20 minute alignment call.Support the podcast and help us keep creating value-rich episodes for women in business.Resources:Get the Book: Radical Self-Honouring is now available on Amazon.Sustainable Success System: 6-month coaching for energy-aware business ownersBranding with Sigma Studio: Elevate your visuals to match your message.Repurpose Ai: Streamline your content creation and repurpose effortlessly with Repurpose Ai.Later Content Scheduling: Simplify your social media strategy with Later.Flodesk: Elevate your email marketing with Flodesk – get 50% off your first year using this link.Other Resources:Submit a question to be featured on the podcast and receive live coaching! Send a voice note or fill out the question form.Where To Find Us:Instagram: @sigma.wmnTikTok: @sigma.wmnNewsletter: Subscribe hereThreads: @sigma.wmn

In this episode, we take a deeper look at the slow, often unnoticed ways we begin to disconnect from ourselves—especially when survival, acceptance, or love seemed to depend on it. Whether it started in childhood or in a past relationship, the moment you began second-guessing your gut or hiding your truth was likely a moment of self-protection. But over time, those small choices can add up to a life that doesn't quite feel like your own. We'll explore how shame, emotional detachment, and a need for approval can pull us away from our true voice—and what it means to gently start coming home to yourself. You'll be invited to reflect on your own turning points, not with judgment, but with curiosity and compassion. Because the goal isn't to blame yourself for how you've coped—it's to recognize that you now have the power to choose something different.   Three Takeaways: 1.   There are moments in your story that quietly shaped how you relate to yourself - and they're worth revisiting with fresh eyes. 2.   What feels like a personality trait might actually be a survival pattern you no longer need. 3.   Reconnection doesn't happen in a single breakthrough - it's a series of tiny, loyal choices to stop leaving yourself behind.     Coming back  to yourself isn't dramatic. It's in the quiet choice to stop abandoning yourself -  even in the small moments.         Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here! If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!   Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:   https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words     Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out: https://findyourvoicecourse.com/   Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey!  https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour     Resources: Join the private Facebook group! It's a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143   Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don't forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don't miss a thing!

This week I'm going into discernment, the practical stuff and the woo spiritual discernment. I also go into friendship breakdowns and how this is all related to discernment and the unconscious ways we can self abandon.Find more from me at KirstyDee.comI'm also on Facebook and my Instagram is @KirstyDeeSharesText the show. Ask a question

Apply for my 6 month high level private mentoring and coaching: http://leanneoaten.com/wholewomancoaching   Get my free class: Should I Stay or Go? https://awakeningwomensupport.kit.com/a52df3d035 Connect with Leanne on Social Media:    Instagram: www.instagram.com/awakeningwomenofficial/  Facebook: www.facebook.com/awakeningwomenofficial/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/theevolvedfeminine Website: leanneoaten.com  Leanne Oaten is a former Registered Professional Counsellor with a background in Counselling Psychology and has over 13 years of experience counselling and coaching women. Over the past 6+ years, she has focused her expertise on educating and helping women identify narcissistic abuse break free from destructive relationships, and transform their lives on the other side of divorce. Her mission is helping successful career-driven, entrepreneurial women and moms who want to reach new levels in their income, success, and health but their destructive, high-conflict relationship is holding them back. She works with powerhouse women who are ready to transform their lives on the other side of narcissistic abuse and turn their pain into power to create a new sense of purpose and fulfillment in their new chapter.  You can find out more about her and her offerings at leanneoaten.com

Send us a textIn this soul-stirring episode, Tracey Watts Cirino unpacks what it really means to stop abandoning yourself — and how that one shift changes everything in life, business, motherhood, and leadership. Learn why self-leadership is the missing key to sustainable success and how the Aligned Women Mentorship gives you the tools and support to finally thrive on your own terms.Enroll in The Aligned Mentorship today!Are you ready to say goodbye to fear, frustration, and overwhelm when it comes to growing and scaling your business? You're in the right place. Welcome to Beyond Common Business Secrets Podcast I'm your host, Tracey Watts Cirino Support the showGet your FREE Checklist to save time every week 5 Time-Saving Strategies Checklist https://www.beyondcommoncoaching.com/strategiesTime Mastery for Female CEOs: Unlocking Your Path to Freedom

In this episode, we explore how emotional avoidance and self-abandonment often disguise themselves as being “helpful,” “productive,” or “strong.” Whether it's saying yes too quickly, fixing others' emotions, or numbing out with distractions, these patterns are not bad habits - they're survival strategies we picked up when it wasn't safe to feel or express ourselves. We look at where these behaviors come from, why they served a purpose, and what they're costing us now. We discuss gentle, practical ways to begin recognizing and shifting these patterns. You'll walk away with a deeper understanding of why it's hard to stay with yourself emotionally and how beginning to do so—even for a few seconds at a time—is a powerful act of healing.     We don't always notice when we're abandoning ourselves – it can look like overdoing, over giving, or overcommitting.   Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here! If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!   Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:   https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words     Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out: https://findyourvoicecourse.com/   Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey!  https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour     Resources: Join the private Facebook group! It's a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143   Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don't forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don't miss a thing!  

This conversation is a masterclass in why we abandon ourselves in sex and relationships, and how to feel safe being disliked, judged, rejected, or disagreed with.Luis Mojica is a somatic therapist, trauma nutritionist, and founder of Holistic Life Navigation, where he teaches thousands of people around the world how to recover from stress and trauma. He uses whole foods, self-inquiry, and Somatic Experiencing as tools to find safety within yourself.In this powerful, honest, and compassionate episode, Luis and I explored the roots of fawning, people-pleasing, and sexual appeasement… not as personal flaws, but as evolutionarily intelligent trauma responses rooted in survival.You'll learn how to discern discomfort from threat in the body, the nuanced ways we abandon ourselves in order to be liked, wanted, or validated, and how to create a real sense of inner safety and security.This conversation also explores the unexpected beauty and brilliance of people-pleasing when reclaimed consciously, how trauma lives in the body, and how to build capacity for big sensations without falling into old patterns.We discuss American cultural fragility around conflict, difference, discomfort, and diversity, the healing power of platonic intimacy, loving touch, and group witnessing, and some practical tools and somatic practices to come home to your truth and integrity.You will also hear:• What fawning really is, and why it's not a defect to be fixed• The nervous system roots of people-pleasing• Sexual fawning and why we abandon ourselves in our most intimate relationships• Discerning between discomfort, stress, and threat• The brilliant and surprising gifts inside your people-pleasing pattern• How trauma responses become personalities• Somatic practices to feel safe and connected in your body• Embodied boundary setting and congruence• Cultural fragility, codependence, performative allyship, and co-dysregulation• The difference between performance and presence in sex• Conscious fawning vs unconscious manipulation• Learning to expect connection instead of threat• Expanding capacity & tolerance for rupture, conflict, and being different• A guided practice to track tension, safety, and truth in the body• A powerful pendulation technique to self-resource during a trigger✨ CONNECT WITH LUIS:•⁠ Website• Instagram: @holistic.life.navigation✨ CONNECT WITH NADINE:•⁠ ⁠1:1 Somatic Coaching⁠⁠• Instagram:⁠ ⁠@iamnadinehamilton⁠⁠•⁠ ⁠Join the email list• Explore my current offerings______________

We talk a lot about the regrets people have when they're dying, but what about the regrets we carry every single day? In this episode, Hilary Silver, former therapist and master coach of 25 years, shares the four most common regrets she hears in her work with high-functioning women. These are micro-regrets that quietly erode your confidence, peace, and sense of self. From staying silent when you should've spoken up, to ignoring your intuition, to being too critical of your appearance, Hilary unpacks the everyday ways we abandon ourselves, and how to stop.   Episode Highlights: What self-abandonment really looks like (and how it shows up) Why burnout keeps you from showing up as your best self How to stop dismissing your inner voice The sneaky regret most women have about their bodies—and how to stop repeating the cycle   Episode Breakdown: [00:00] Why We Regret What We Do (and Don't Do)   [01:47] Regret #1: Self-Abandonment in Relationships & Life   [04:36] Regret #2: Not Being Your Best Self   [06:33] Regret #3: Ignoring Your Intuition   [07:46] Regret #4: Being Too Hard on Yourself   [09:33] How to Learn from Regret Without Shame     Regret can either weigh you down or wake you up. This episode is your reminder to choose differently, starting now. ✨ Want more? Sign up for Hilary's free weekly newsletter, Self-Centered, where she shares mindset shifts and lifestyle favorites: https://hilarysilver.com/newsletter/

What happens when your ego hijacks your healing? That's exactly what this week's episode dives into—with real, raw stories that reveal how emotional growth can get derailed by the very part of us that's trying to protect our wounds: the Ego. I open up about how not wanting to feel like a burden led me to ignore my body's needs—and ultimately abandon my Inner Child. The result? A full-blown crash…and a gut-level wake-up call I couldn't ignore. I also reflect on moments when my ego took the wheel—deflecting blame, taking things personally, and unintentionally hurting people I care about. This is what it looks like when healing gets hijacked. But more importantly, this episode is a call to step up as the adult in your Inner Child's life, especially when the ego wants to run the show. That may mean reaching for tools, support, or resources that were never modeled for you—and choosing to respond in new, grounded ways. Healing isn't about perfection. It's about recognizing when old patterns are in charge, pausing, and making a conscious choice to do things differently—even when it's hard.

In this podcast, learn about the codependent communication struggles no one talks about. In codependency, the focus is usually on keeping the peace, avoiding conflict, and managing someone else's emotions, at the expense of your own truth. This makes authentic communication feel dangerous, especially if you grew up in a toxic environment where speaking up led to punishment, rejection, or emotional withdrawal. Poor communication is one of the defining features of toxic relationships, especially when one or both partners are codependent. Rather than say what they mean, codependent people tend to hint, people-please, or stuff their emotions down to avoid being abandoned. Over time, this leads to resentment, confusion, and emotional disconnection. Without clear, honest communication, even the strongest connection can break down under the weight of unspoken expectations and unmet needs. Healing from codependency means learning how to communicate with clarity, courage, and compassion. It requires unlearning the belief that your needs don't matter and developing the inner safety to speak your truth.  Whether you're in recovery from a toxic relationship or just starting to recognize codependent patterns in your life, learning how to communicate effectively is essential if you want to build real intimacy and self-respect. The first step, is telling the truth, and learning to take accountability for poor communication skills, while understanding with self compassion, it could literally be no other way.  Today, if this resonates with you, you have a shot at healing your life by unlearning the survival patterns that kept you feeling safe, that also kept you stuck repeating the faulty patterns from the past. Are you codependent? If so, you probably have an insecure, anxious attachment style, and the good news is, we can fix that!  Calling all serious, ready, willing and able souls who have the time and can invest in themselves at this time to finally take their lives back.

What happens when you realize the life you've built is running on self-abandonment? In this episode, Heather sits down with Renee Warren to talk about what it really takes to stop people-pleasing, honor your boundaries, and lead yourself from a place of truth instead of performance. Listen in as they explore:

Feeling disconnected, even when life looks “fine”? In this episode, we explore the subtle ways women betray themselves—by dimming their needs, silencing their truth, and losing touch with who they are. Whether you're caregiving, achieving, or just holding it all together, this is your invitation to return to yourself. Discover why honoring your soul isn't selfish—it's necessary.

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Send us a textIf you've ever obsessed over someone's potential while ignoring the patterns and reality, this episode is for you.We're unpacking a hard truth today: sometimes, “seeing the good” is a trauma response and self-abandoment...and it causes more rumination!In this episode, I break down:Why abuse survivors are wired to overlook red flags and overanalyze behaviorHow attachment wounds wire you to be okay with inconsistency and crumbsHow “people can change” keeps you trapped in cognitive dissonanceThe subconscious link between your childhood wounds and adult ruminationWhy your brain clings to answers and why those answers won't actually set you freeListen through and I'm giving you a powerful reframe to shift out of this cycle, and one practice you can start using today to come back to clarity and self-trust.✨ Want to go deeper? Grab my Break Free from Rumination course for just $15. It's a bite-sized, high-impact tool to stop obsessive thinking and start feeling peace finally. Get it here -- https://www.radiatenrise.com/break-free-from-rumination-online-courseSupport the showEmail: Allison@radiatenrise.comJoin Radiate and Rise Together - Survivor Healing Community for Women Complementary Consultation to see if my coaching programs are a fit for youTo send a DM, visit Allison's profiles on Instagram and Facebookhttps://www.instagram.com/allisonkdagney/https://www.facebook.com/allisonkdagney/To learn more about my Programs visit the websitewww.radiatenrise.com*Formerly (The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast)

#102: On today's episode, Crystina Rowntree and Danielle Lamadrid of Empaths Anonymous, join Han on the podcast to share their stories. They get into what it means to be an empathy or highly sensitive person, and how we can create boundaries in our lives as an empath. The girls get into:growing up parentifiedreligious trauma and how it can confuse our identities as we get oldermaneuvering through identity crisis creating our own belief systemswhat self abandonment looks like and how we can healmoving through depression and negative self talkwhat it looks like to come home to ourselvesboundaries within our relationships& MORE!LISTEN TO HAN on EMPATHS ANONYMOUS HERECONNECT BELOW:follow Crystina ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠follow Danie ⁠here⁠follow Empaths Anonymous hereCONNECT with HAN:follow Han ⁠⁠here⁠⁠follow HOW I SEE IT ⁠⁠here⁠⁠shop the podcast merch ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠work with Han: howhanseesit@gmail.com

Sometimes it's easy to spot when you're abandoning yourself, other times, not so much. Especially when it comes to dating. I'm droppin' gems, so make sure you pick them up ;)For 1:1 coaching and all of my books, click here: Sis, Get Your Ish Together

EP. 211: In this episode, I'm sitting down with UK-based women's health practitioner Adele Winslett to talk about the intersection of ADHD, neurodivergence, and the hormonal rollercoaster of perimenopause. It's a raw, honest conversation about what happens when estrogen dips and the brain fog sets in and why you're absolutely not alone. We also explore how midlife can unmask long-standing ADHD and neurodivergent traits that were once manageable and how this shift can feel both disorienting and illuminating. If you've been silently struggling or questioning what's going on with your mind and body, this episode is a powerful reminder that there's clarity and support on the other side. Topics Discussed:  Can perimenopause make ADHD symptoms worse? What are the signs of ADHD in women over 40? How does estrogen affect brain function and focus? Is brain fog during menopause linked to neurodivergence? What happens when ADHD and hormone changes collide in midlife Sponsored By: Nutrisense | Head over to ⁠nutrisense.io/drtyna ⁠to get 30% off your first order BIOptimizers | Go to ⁠bioptimizers.com/tyna⁠ to order MassZymes now and use code TYNA10 Manukora | Head to ⁠manukora.com/DRTYNA⁠ to get $25 off the Starter Kit, which comes with an MGO 850+ Manuka Honey jar Timeline | Timeline is offering 10% off your order of Mitopure ⁠Go to timeline.com/drtyna.⁠ Relax Tonic | Go to ⁠https://store.drtyna.com/products/relaxtonic⁠ and use code and use DRTYNASHOW Puori | Go to ⁠Puori.com/drtyna⁠ and use code DRTYNA to get 20% off On This Episode We Cover:  00:00:00 - Introduction  00:04:38 – Adele's Background 00:07:22 – Perimenopause & Neurodivergence  00:12:10 – Dr. Tyna on Estrogen Dominance 00:14:56 – Understanding Labs in Perimenopause 00:21:42 – Key Symptoms of Neurodivergence  00:26:24 – Neurodivergence in Later Life 00:32:32 – The Impact of Self-Abandonment 00:33:48 – Unmasking Neurodivergence 00:36:22 – Medications: Adderall & Alternatives 00:40:28 – Hormonal Shifts & Changing Needs 00:43:14 – GLP1s & Dopamine: What You Need to Know 00:47:44 – Brain Noise, Hyperfixation & RSD in ADHD 00:51:53 – Effective Sleep Strategies 00:53:58 – Letting Go of Outdated Beliefs 00:56:05 – Exercise & Strategies for Managing Symptoms 00:59:34 – Embracing Your Uniqueness 01:03:28 – Understanding Your Brain's Needs 01:07:33 – Overcoming People-Pleasing & Setting Boundaries 01:13:13 - Where to Find Adele Further Listening:  Hormone's Playlist  GLP1's Done Right University Check Out Adele Wimsett: Instagram Website More Adele Disclaimer: Information provided in this podcast is for informational purposes only. This information is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice provided by your physician or other healthcare professional, or any information contained on or in any product. Do not use the information provided in this podcast for diagnosing or treating a health problem or disease, or prescribing medication or other treatment. Always speak with your physician or other healthcare professional before taking any medication or nutritional, herbal or other supplement, or using any treatment for a health problem. Information provided in this blog/podcast and the use of any products or services related to this podcast by you does not create a doctor-patient relationship between you and Dr. Tyna Moore. Information and statements regarding dietary supplements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent ANY disease.

Hidden warning signs of self-abandonment often manifest in subtle ways, such as consistently putting others' needs before your own, feeling disconnected from your emotions, or experiencing a persistent sense of dissatisfaction despite external achievements. These signs can be easily overlooked, yet they hold the key to understanding how you might be neglecting your true self.Being aware of these signs is crucial because they serve as indicators that your life may not be aligned with your core values and desires. Recognizing them allows you to pause and reflect on whether your daily actions and decisions resonate with who you truly are. This awareness is the first step toward reclaiming your autonomy and living a life that feels authentic and fulfilling.When you acknowledge and address these hidden signs, you open the door to a life that is aligned and free. You begin to make choices that honor your true self, leading to a sense of inner peace and fulfillment.Discover the warning signs of self-abandonment and what it might be costing you in this episode.

In this episode of Heart Snuggles, host Lexy Davis sits down with dating coach and podcast host Sabrina Zohar for a raw and refreshing conversation about love, attachment styles, and the truth behind modern dating.Sabrina shares her personal journey of overcoming anxious attachment and how it shaped her approach to relationships. She breaks down the difference between chemistry vs. compatibility, explaining why that initial spark isn't always a sign of a healthy connection. We also explore how past relationship patterns influence our dating lives and why self-awareness and emotional intelligence are the keys to breaking free from toxic cycles.This episode tackles common dating misconceptions, including the viral phrase "If he wanted to, he would," and why a more compassionate approach is needed in relationships. Sabrina offers expert advice on navigating dating anxiety, managing emotional triggers, and building deep, meaningful connections.This episode is a must-listen if you've ever felt stuck in cycles that don't serve you, questioned your romantic instincts, or wanted to feel more confident and calm in healthy love. Golden Nuggets From This Episode:✨Modern Dating: Are We Chasing Love or Just a Feeling? – In today's dating world, many of us are chasing a fleeting feeling rather than real connection.✨Chemistry vs. Compatibility: The Truth About Attraction – That spark you feel isn't always love—it could be your nervous system reacting to past patterns.✨The Key to a Healthy Relationship? Continuous Communication – A strong, lasting relationship is just one deep, ongoing conversation.✨Self-Love First: Stop Seeking External Validation – You must love yourself more than you crave love from others.✨Who Are You Without Their Validation? – If you're constantly waiting for someone else's approval, you're losing your own identity.✨The Danger of Self-Abandonment in Relationships – The moment you prioritize them over yourself is when you truly risk losing who you are.✨Fear-Based Thinking Creates a Toxic Reality – If you assume everyone is out to hurt you, your world will be shaped by fear.✨You Can Change Yourself, Not Others – Growth isn't about manipulating someone else—it's about transforming you.✨Want Better Relationships? Start With How You Show Up – If you expect others to meet certain standards, ask yourself if you're embodying them first.Connect More with :Sabrina IGSabrina PodcastSabrina Tik TokMore Lexy from Heart Snuggles:Soft Girl Season {Instant Access Course}: https://iamlexydavis.com/soft-girl-seasonEmail: lexy@alivetoenjoy.comDating + Relationship Coaching - https://iamlexydavis.com/Instagram: Alivetoenjoy & Heart SnugglesTimestamps from episode:00:00 - Introduction to Heart Snuggles01:00 - Meet Sabrina Zohar: Dating Coach and Entrepreneur02:30 - Acts of Kindness: The Little Things Matter03:50 - Shameful Memories: Anxious Attachment Style06:00 - Chemistry vs. Compatibility in Relationships09:10 - The Importance of Conflict Resolution10:30 - The Illusion of Love at First Sight12:30 - Chasing Feelings vs. Building Real Connections13:50 - The Dangers of Matching Energy16:00 - Self-Reflection in Dating Patterns19:00 - The Myth of "If He Wanted To, He Would"22:00 - Navigating Anxiety in Early Dating Stages25:00 - The Role of Communication in Relationships30:00 - Understanding Attachment Styles33:00 - The Importance of Self-Love and Awareness34:30 - Soft Girl Season Ad36:00 - Breaking the Cycle of Attachment38:43 Navigating Breakups and Moving On42:39 The Role of Intentions in Dating49:51 Recognizing True Romance53:11 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Explore the hidden epidemic of self-abandonment—why you disconnect from yourself, where it comes from, and the profound healing that becomes possible when you finally choose to come home and let Spirit (and yourself) back in.We'll examine the ways you leave yourself behind—people-pleasing, numbing out, silencing our intuition, and mistaking self-sacrifice for strength. But what if the loneliness you feel isn't about being unseen by others… but by you? What if your deepest longing isn't for something outside you, but for your own fierce, unshakable self-love?WORK WITH SINCLAIRNEST Group Integration Membership https://sinclairfleetwood.com/nest1:1 Private Coaching https://sinclairfleetwood.com/psychedelic-integrationSubscribe to The Visionary Within weekly newsletter - https://mystical-heart-collective.kit.com/5623fed941FREE Ultimate Guide to Healing with Psychedelics https://mystical-heart-collective.kit.com/ultimate-guideRetreatshttps://sinclairfleetwood.com/events

Do you carry guilt from past self-abandonment or struggle deeply to forgive yourself for not holding boundaries?In this heartfelt episode of Codependency Alchemy, I guide a member from our membership— who's been on her recovery journey for over two decades—through shadow work and inner child healing. Together, we explore her patterns of people-pleasing, self-harm, and difficulty setting boundaries, uncovering her underlying fears of abandonment and loneliness. We get to witness her reconnect deeply with her inner child and learn how nurturing herself with compassion and accountability can transform her healing journey. This session beautifully highlights why self-forgiveness, patience, and consistent self-care are crucial to breaking generational cycles.This episode is for you if:* You struggle with self-forgiveness and feelings of guilt.* You're navigating the complex feelings of abandonment or loneliness.* You find yourself trapped in patterns of people-pleasing and self-abandonment.* You're ready to heal your inner child and cultivate deep self-compassion.SPECIAL INTRO OFFER: Join the Codependency Alchemy Membership today and save 40% off!

You're the go-to girl at work, the one who gets it DONE… but when it comes to your relationship? Cue the overthinking, second-guessing, and constant need for reassurance.

In this episode, we dive deep into the body's role in healing with Kate, a physical therapist, author, and embodied freedom and transformation coach. Kate specializes in helping service-driven women who feel like they're falling apart—overwhelmed, exhausted, and trapped in cycles of chronic anxiety, pain, and fatigue. We also unpacked how shame shapes our identity and how the unhealed stress and trauma we carry doesn't just affect us—it ripples into our relationships. When we stay disconnected from our bodies, we struggle to show up fully for ourselves and others. But when we begin to listen, release, and heal, we open the door to deeper connection, compassion, and freedom. With a background in neuro and pain science, she offers a powerful lens into how stress and trauma are held in the body—and how releasing them can create real transformation. We talked about what it means to come back to your body, how physical tension reflects emotional holding, and she even guided me through some surprising exercises to uncover what I've been carrying. This conversation is a reminder that healing isn't just a mental process. It's physical. It's embodied. And it's deeply personal. Resources & Mentions: Her book: The Good Girl RX Freebie: Sneak Peek of The Good Girl RX     Connect with me: Dr. Zoe Shaw on Instagram Dr. Zoe Shaw on Facebook Dr. Zoe Shaw Website

Why do so many of us feel anxious, disconnected, or low — even when, on the surface, life looks fine? Psychologist and author Dr Margaret Paul believes the answer lies in self-abandonment — the subtle but powerful ways we disconnect from our feelings, judge ourselves, and hand responsibility for our emotional lives to others. In this episode, Simon is joined by the creator of the Inner Bonding process, a six-step pathway to healing that's helped tens of thousands of people reconnect to themselves. This conversation is particularly personal — as Margaret's work had a big impact on Simon's life over a decade ago, and continues to inform his own work around burnout, flow and self-leadership today. What we explore: The four core ways people abandon themselves How digital distraction keeps us emotionally disconnected What it means to develop a “loving adult” inner voice Practices for tuning into your feelings with compassion How this work can transform relationships, leadership and wellbeing https://www.simonmundie.com/restore-balance-mini-course https://www.simonmundie.com/restore-balance-coaching My links: Book: https://www.simonmundie.com/book YouTube: https://tinyurl.com/YouTubeSimonMundie Website: simonmundie.com Substack Newsletter: https://simonmundie.substack.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/simonmundie/ Info@simonmundie.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Insights from the Couch, we're joined by Dr. Kelly Kessler, a physical therapist and transformation coach, who's on a mission to help high-achieving women break free from self-abandonment and stress. Kelly shares her own journey of moving from a life of chronic self-sacrifice to one of self-honor and balance, offering strategies that can help you find your way back to yourself. She talks about nervous system regulation, the power of breath work, and why setting boundaries is essential to reclaiming your well-being. Together, we uncover why it's crucial for women to prioritize their emotional and physical health, even in the midst of busy, driven lives. From techniques like the physiological sigh to embracing your inner critic with compassion, Dr. Kessler's approach is both gentle and transformative. Tune in for practical tips, grounding insights, and actionable steps to start putting yourself first. Episode Highlights:[0:00] – Welcome and introduction to Dr. Kelly Kessler's background and mission.[1:14] – Kelly shares her journey from self-abandonment to self-care and transformation.[4:33] – Defining self-abandonment and how it impacts high-functioning women.[6:51] – Recognizing patterns of perfectionism and external validation in personal and professional lives.[9:48] – Breathwork as a gateway to slowing down and self-connection.[12:33] – Starting small: how breathwork and gentle exercise initiated Kelly's healing journey.[15:39] – Introducing the “physiological sigh” breath technique and its calming effects.[20:30] – Exploring the connection between body, mind, and anxiety management.[23:38] – Taming the inner critic and cultivating self-compassion through daily practices.[27:46] – The role of boundaries in self-care and why they're essential for personal peace.[34:08] – The grief of setting boundaries and the empowerment it brings.[38:27] – Final takeaways: honoring yourself as a non-negotiable priority. Resources:Dr. Kelly Kessler's Website – Optimal You Health and Wellness – Find resources, coaching, and programs for personal transformation.Free Guide: Eight Daily Practices for Self-Loyalty and Nervous System Harmony – Available on her website.Follow Dr. Kelly on Instagram: @drkellykessler

Joined by special guest, Julie Menanno, our hosts sit down to discuss how to heal insecure attachment by focusing on self-awareness, emotional regulation, and developing a secure relationship with oneself. She emphasizes that attachment wounds manifest through self-abandonment, which leads to unhealthy relational patterns. Healing involves learning to sit with and process difficult emotions rather than seeking external reassurance, shifting from self-protection to self-support. In relationships, individuals must take turns being caregivers for one another, creating an attachment-friendly environment that fosters trust and security. Listen to learn more about topics like:  Self-Abandonment as the Root Issue Emotional Processing Over Quick Regulation Building Secure Attachment with Self Discerning Between Attachment Triggers and Relationship Red Flags and more! Julies Bio & Links: Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC, is a therapist, author, and creator of The Secure Relationship, a community dedicated to helping people build secure, loving relationships. With over 1.3 million Instagram followers, Julie's relatable advice and real-time couples therapy sessions have made her a trusted voice in relational health. Her book Secure Love, published by Simon & Schuster in 2024, dives deep into attachment theory and is available worldwide.  Secure Love, written by Julie Menanno The Secure Love Podcast Give Me Discounts! Amazfit - Visit www.amazfit.com/IDO to get 10% off Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, we're diving into the world of trauma healing and emotional regulation with the insightful Dr. Nima Rahmany. If you've ever found yourself caught in the web of people-pleasing or feeling like you're stuck in a cycle of self-abandonment, this episode is your golden ticket to understanding why. Dr. Nima shares his journey from a successful chiropractic career to becoming a trauma healing guru. We unravel the intriguing concept of fawning as a trauma response — ever caught yourself saying "yes" when you really mean "no"? Yep, that's fawning. Dr. Nima explains how this reflexive behavior is ingrained in cultural norms and service industries. And if you've ever wondered why those "I can't say no" moments often lead to resentment, both towards others and yourself, Dr. Nima's insights are bound to hit home. Join us as we discuss how healing personal traumas can lead to empowerment and authenticity. With real-life stories and actionable insights, this episode encourages you to let go of guilt, shame, and those pesky victim identities.  In this episode, you will hear: Exploration of fawning as a trauma response and its impact on relationships and health. The importance of setting boundaries and acknowledging personal needs. The role of attachment styles in emotional healing and relationship transformation. Stories of personal empowerment through overcoming feelings of unworthiness and victim identities. Mastering self-regulation skills for personal growth and healing. Resources from this Episode   Dr Nima's Website: drnima.com   Attachment Style Assessment - https://drnima.com/lp/attachment-style-assessment/?sl=AdultChair_2025_02_25   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT My Website: michellechalfant.com   Membership: The Academy of Awakening theacademyofawakening.com   Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant    Facebook https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant/    The Adult Chair® Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair/    YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant  

In this special episode, Dr. Rick and Forrest explore how we can become more self-reliant, and learn to trust ourselves. This helps us be resilient in the face of life's challenges, and it's a key resource for people who tend to abandon their wants and needs. They start by discussing why some people struggle with self-trust, the difference between inside-out and outside-in safety, and changing the model we have of ourselves. Forrest introduces a framework for developing self-trust based on self-efficacy, flexibility, self-advocacy, and accurate appraisal, and Rick applies this to how we can build self-worth and feel strong and capable.  You can watch this episode on YouTube. Key Topics: 0:00: Introduction 1:10: Why some people have an easier time trusting themselves than others 4:30: An outside-in vs, inside-out sense of safety, and feeling reliable 9:50: Welcoming positive feedback, and psychological flexibility 14:10: Sticking up for yourself 19:55: Stabilizing yourself when feeling helpless 25:00: Evaluating internal stories, and living moment to moment 30:15: Feeling like someone who matters, and feeling seen by others 35:00: Three aspects of self-regulation, and self-appraisal 41:35: Object relations, and focusing attention on your inner world 48:55: Seeing yourself as the creator of your world, and authenticity 55:15: Recap I am now writing on Substack, check out my work there.  Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors Head to acorns.com/beingwell or download the Acorns app to start saving and investing for your future Zocdoc helps you find expert doctors and medical professionals that specialize in the care you need. Head to zocdoc.com/being and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Use promo code hanson at the link below to get an exclusive 60% off an annual plan at incogni.com/hanson. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/beingwell.  Get 15% off OneSkin with the code BEINGWELL at https://www.oneskin.co/  Transform your health with the ZOE Science & Nutrition podcast. Find it wherever you listen to podcasts. Connect with the show: Subscribe on iTunes Follow Forrest on YouTube Follow us on Instagram Follow Forrest on Instagram Follow Rick on Facebook Follow Forrest on Facebook Visit Forrest's website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Around this time of year, people begin to evaluate their life choices and circumstances. Relationships are no different. It's a great to reflect on what is working well, what isn't, and maybe even what is no longer worth pursuing. In fact, many people find themselves in break-ups, separation, and divorce on the tail-end of the holidays. My guest today, Licensed Therapist, John Kim, joins me to talk about the different types of break-ups and breakdowns that occur in romantic relationships. But we also talk about common themes you see in ending relationships (and, how to avoid them), the differences between healthy and unhealthy love, how ruptures in a relationship can lead to some of the biggest relational breakthroughs, how to communicate what you need without coming across needy, obnoxious, or over-bearing, and so much more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Episode Introduction 00:40 – The Reality of Breakups 01:50 – Intentionality in Relationships 03:19 – Types of Breakups: Understanding the Differences 07:09 – Healthy vs. Unhealthy Love 10:59 – Turning Breakups into Breakthroughs 15:15 – Balancing Self-Discipline and Self-Compassion 18:52 – Living in the Moment vs. Pursuing Goals 23:49 – Embracing Solitude and Self-Discovery 27:50 – Compromise vs. Self-Abandonment in Relationships 33:11 – Repairing Ruptures: Building Trust in Relationships 39:00 – Rewriting Your Narrative and Emotional Growth 43:12 – Swimming Past the Breakers: Building Resilient Love 50:09 – Reflecting on Expired Relationships 53:47 – 31 Days to Rebuild: A Practical Approach to Healing 57:19 – Therapy, Coaching, and Corrective Experiences Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready