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This is it friend. The finale.Ten episodes ago you started a journey — and you showed up every single time. For yourself. That is everything.In EP 283 — the final episode of the Unavailable for Self Abandonment series — we are declaring who you are on the other side of this work. We are honoring how far you have come. And we are sending you off with the F.I.N.A.L.L.Y. Framework™ — seven declarations for the woman who chose herself and is never going back.Because the day you stop abandoning yourself? Everything changes. WHAT WE GET INTO✦ Honoring the full journey — from EP 274 to EP 283 ✦ What actually changes the day you stop abandoning yourself ✦ The F.I.N.A.L.L.Y. Framework™ — seven declarations for the woman on the other side ✦ The signature question to carry with you every single day from here forward ✦ A celebration of everything you've built over this seriesTIMESTAMPS00:00 Becoming Her Today01:14 Series Finale Welcome03:59 Celebrating Your Progress06:24 The Hidden Cost08:20 You Were Never Broken09:03 The FINALLY Framework12:59 Meet the Uncovered Woman15:04 Momentum Builder Offer15:47 Two-Step Self Love Practice17:38 Mirror Moment Healing18:33 Final Blessing and SendoffTHE SELF LOVE 2-STEPStep 1 — The Declaration Write Write all seven letters of F.I.N.A.L.L.Y. at the top of a fresh journal page and complete each one in your own words. Your declaration. Your handwriting. Your page.Step 2 — The Celebration Mirror Moment Stand in front of your mirror and say out loud: "I showed up for myself. I did the work. I am proud of who I am becoming. And I am completely, finally, unapologetically unavailable for self-abandonment." Then say "I love you" — and smile. You earned it.
Have you ever found yourself saying yes to everyone else while your own needs are stuck at the very bottom of a massive to-do list? Ever find yourself changing your behavior just to keep the peace, even when it leaves you feeling totally depleted and burned out? If you're nodding now, this is actually one of many survival strategies your mind and body developed early in life to keep you safe or connected. In this episode, we're breaking down the habits that impact your emotional health and your personal growth, plus: How to stop shrinking and start taking up space again People pleasing and why we practice self-abandonment to avoid the discomfort of others. How diet culture and societal pressures turn food and exercise into a performance. Practical ways to move toward empowerment by identifying your patterns of conflict avoidance. How to practice a "pause" before responding to others, which helps you stop the cycle of self-abandonment. How to build genuine self-respect and reconnect with intuitive eating so you can finally have a healthier body image Ready to stop operating on a learned pattern that was designed to protect you when your feelings weren't being heard or validated? Tune in now and discover how to leave behind what no longer serves you. Let's rebrand wellness together! Elizabeth, Tara & Maria If you want to start a podcast or grow your existing one, visit julianabarbati.com and let them know we sent you! Ditch the stress, keep the sparkle! Let Klean's expert team handle the mess! Book your cleaning now and feel the difference! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/klean_cleaningservices/ Website: https://krissklean.com/ Connect with us! The Ultimate Self Care Planner: https://elizabethharrisnutrition.ck.page/9e817ab37e Elizabeth Harris, MS, RDN, LDN FB: Health and Healing with Intuitive Eating community https://www.facebook.com/groups/healthandhealingwithintuitiveeating Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ElizabethHarrisNutrition Take the free quiz, What Type of Eater Are You?: https://elizabethharrisnutrition.com/quiz Tara De Leon, Master Personal Trainer Email: FitnessTrainer19@hotmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tara_de_leon_fitness Join Tara's Newsletter: www.taradeleonfitness.com/connect Maria Winters, LCPC, NCC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coaching_therapist/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/MWcoachingtherapy Website: www.thecoachingtherapist.com
In this episode we'll talk about:You don't have to extinguish parts of your life to succeed.You have to design your life so your success doesn't cost you yourself.How hustle culture subtly normalizes sacrifice as maturityWhat sustainable success actually requiresAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here's the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn't Knowing the Whole Path… It's Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
Text us, We would love to her from YOU!If you're the kind of woman who can “handle everything” the fixer, the achiever, the one who keeps it together, this episode is for you.In this conversation, Tracy Doyle (author, resilience expert, and creator of the Aurora Method) shares what burnout really looks like beneath the surface: not just exhaustion, but disconnection from self, emotional implosion/explosion, and the quiet belief that you must earn belonging through over-giving.We talk about the patterns that keep high-functioning women stuck, why awareness isn't enough, and what actually creates change: daily practice, nervous system regulation in real life, and learning to shift the beliefs that drive the “always responsible” identity.In This Episode, You'll LearnWhy success doesn't always equal fulfillment (and what that disconnect is signaling)How emotionally over-responsible women drift into self-abandonmentThe real burnout progression: stress → overwhelm → conflict → implosion/explosionWhy insight alone doesn't change behavior (and what does)Tracy's “reaction cascade” + how beliefs trigger emotional patternsHow daily practices create nervous system regulation and relational repairWhat it means to reclaim internal authority emotionally, not just intellectuallyThe difference between breakthrough moments and sustainable changePractical ways to stop over-functioning and rebuild connection to your voiceLinks: Tracy Doyle Support the showPlease subscribe and follow the show to get updates on new releases.Kindly asking to share with friends who may enjoy or benefit.Support Happy Hour for the Spiritually Curious WildSoulsGathering.comEmbrace YOUR Wild Soul!https://www.youtube.com/@wildsoulgatheringhttps://www.tiktok.com/@spirituallycurioushttps://www.twitter.com/@soul_gatheringshttps://www.instagram.com/wildsoulgatheringshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/669456900799583
Text us, We would love to her from YOU!If you're the kind of woman who can “handle everything” the fixer, the achiever, the one who keeps it together, this episode is for you.In this conversation, Tracy Doyle (author, resilience expert, and creator of the Aurora Method) shares what burnout really looks like beneath the surface: not just exhaustion, but disconnection from self, emotional implosion/explosion, and the quiet belief that you must earn belonging through over-giving.We talk about the patterns that keep high-functioning women stuck, why awareness isn't enough, and what actually creates change: daily practice, nervous system regulation in real life, and learning to shift the beliefs that drive the “always responsible” identity.In This Episode, You'll LearnWhy success doesn't always equal fulfillment (and what that disconnect is signaling)How emotionally over-responsible women drift into self-abandonmentThe real burnout progression: stress → overwhelm → conflict → implosion/explosionWhy insight alone doesn't change behavior (and what does)Tracy's “reaction cascade” + how beliefs trigger emotional patternsHow daily practices create nervous system regulation and relational repairWhat it means to reclaim internal authority emotionally, not just intellectuallyThe difference between breakthrough moments and sustainable changePractical ways to stop over-functioning and rebuild connection to your voiceLinks: Tracy Doyle Support the showPlease subscribe and follow the show to get updates on new releases.Kindly asking to share with friends who may enjoy or benefit.Support Happy Hour for the Spiritually Curious WildSoulsGathering.comEmbrace YOUR Wild Soul!https://www.youtube.com/@wildsoulgatheringhttps://www.tiktok.com/@spirituallycurioushttps://www.twitter.com/@soul_gatheringshttps://www.instagram.com/wildsoulgatheringshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/669456900799583
You don't have a people problem. You have a settling problem. And today we are fixing that.In this episode I'm breaking down the real reason the wrong people keep showing up in your life — and giving you two powerful frameworks plus a Self Love 2 Step to actually do something about it starting TODAY.Friend, that person who keeps draining you? You already knew. Your gut told you early. The signs were there. So why did you stay?That's exactly what we're getting into. This is your mirror moment AND your movement — because awareness without action is just a really emotional therapy session. We're not leaving without a plan.
ResourcesGet the book Radical Self-Honouring: https://amzn.to/3JPwY5FRepurpose Ai: Streamline your content creation and repurpose effortlessly with Repurpose Ai.Later Content Scheduling: Simplify your social media strategy with Later.Flodesk: Elevate your email marketing with Flodesk – get 50% off your first year using this link.Other Resources:Submit a question to be featured on the podcast and receive live coaching! Send a voice note or fill out the question form.Where To Find Us:Instagram: @sigma.wmnTikTok: @sigma.wmnNewsletter: Subscribe hereThreads: @sigma.wmnIn this solo episode, Clara explores why Radical Self Honouring is not a personal development concept separate from business, but the foundation that sustainable growth is built upon. If you ended the last year burnt out, frustrated, or disconnected from your direction, this episode offers a grounded reframe on what actually creates momentum and clarity.Clara breaks down the difference between fleeting realisations and true integration, explaining why insight alone does not change your business or your life. Instead, she highlights how self-abandonment, comparison, and people-pleasing quietly erode confidence, consistency, and creative power over time.This episode is an invitation to step out of the epiphany cycle and into embodied action. It offers a clear lens for assessing your goals, energy, and values, so you can move forward with integrity, self-trust, and a business that genuinely reflects your worth.Tune in to hear:Why burnout and stagnation are signs of misalignment, not personal failure.The difference between realisation and integration, and why integration creates results.How self-abandonment shows up in business through comparison and fitting in.What Radical Self Honouring looks like in practical, everyday decision-making.Find the Complete Show Notes Here → https://sigmawmn.com/podcastIn This Episode, You'll Learn:Why Radical Self Honouring is essential for sustainable business growth.How to recognise when you are self-abandoning in subtle, habitual ways.Why comparison and envy disconnect you from your own direction and power.How to shift from insight to embodied action that creates momentum.Themes & Time Stamps:0:00 Introduction 0:44 Radical Self-Honouring Book Overview 1:17 Free Workbook and Journaling Prompts 2:03 Breaking the Epiphany Cycle 2:44 Integration vs Realisation 3:28 Actionable Steps for Authentic Living 3:46 Goal Setting and Achievement Assessment 4:10 Signs You Need This Work 6:47 Prioritising Your Values and Needs 7:38 Self-Abandonment and Putting Yourself First 9:39 Letting Go of Comparison and Envy 10:05 Embodying Authentic Beingness
The Happier Life Project's Self-Love Sessions Self-abandonment happens when you silence your needs, feelings, or truth just to be accepted. It's quiet, learned, and deeply human — but it doesn't have to be your future. In Day 12 of 14 Days of Self-Love, we explore what it means to stop leaving yourself behind and begin staying loyal to your needs, your feelings, and your truth. You'll explore: • What self-abandonment looks like • Why you learned it • How to start choosing yourself • Staying with yourself in small moments Self-love is not loud. It is loyal. To download the free My Possible Self App: https://mypossibleself.app.link/podcast To follow My Possible Self on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mypossibleself/
Most of us were raised inside an invisible contract: if you try hard enough, improve yourself enough, and play your role well enough, you'll be loved, safe, and chosen. So we become diligent students of “better.” Better habits. Better productivity. Better mindset. Better communication.But when that contract stops working, it's not a personal failure. It's often the psyche refusing to keep participating. In Episode 1, Vanessa Bennett, LMFT explores the difference between growth and self-optimization as a survival strategy, how people-pleasing and overfunctioning once kept you attached, and why your anxiety, burnout, or identity unraveling may be a threshold into something more honest. You'll leave with prompts and one “micro-moment” practice to start rebuilding an inner compass you can trust.If this landed, follow the show, share it, and leave a rating or review.Additional ResourcesExplore: VanessaBennett.comBook: The Motherhood MythCommunity: Inner Compass CollectiveTraining: Inner Compass AcademyConnect with Inner CompassFollow on InstagramConnect with Vanessa Bennett:Follow on InstagramFollow on TikTokSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, we are joined by Author, Podcast Host, and Coach for Midlife Women Valerie Jones to explore how a lifetime of being the good girl can lead to self-abandonment. Valerie reveals why being selfless is often a trap for burnout and how you can reclaim your power through her transformative Selfish Year model.Tune in to learn:How to move from self-abandonment to soul-connection by prioritizing your needs so you can lead and give from a state of true abundance.The secrets to excavating the old, performative foundation of your life and building a new one that feels as good as it looks.How to take terror-excited action, remove the masks of performance, and tune into the intuitive channel that guides you home to your true self.Practical ways to become a curious observer of yourself—noticing mistakes without shame to break the cycle of self-criticism and build courage.What if being selfish is actually the key to your greatest impact? In this soulful session, Valerie shows you how to stop living as the walking dead and start building a life on a foundation of unshakeable self-trust. Free Gift: Reveal Your Mask QuizIdentify how you self-sabotage by hiding behind masks of thought, emotion & action, and discover how to remove the masks and live from your authentic power! Valerie's Giveaway Contribution: The Unmasking Toolkit The Unmasking Toolkit is a 7-video course designed to guide you through the process of identifying the masks you wear that sabotage you and keep you stuck, unmasking in real time, and choosing thoughts, emotions & actions that reflect your true Self. Connect with Valerie: Website | Podcast | Instagram---Enter the Book Launch Celebration Giveaway!
Host Erin Kerry is joined by Dr. Nima Rahmany, a trauma and nervous-system expert who helps high-performers heal attachment wounds and become “trigger-proof” in love, leadership, and everyday life. They break down the least talked about trauma response: fawning—the automatic people-pleasing pattern rooted in attachment injury, self-abandonment, and chronic dysregulation. You'll learn how the fawn response affects physiology, how it shapes boundaries, and why your body often becomes the boundary when your voice can't. They also explore attachment styles, polyvagal theory, somatic healing, and the neuroscience of safety. Dr. Nima shares practical tools to rewire your stress response, break away from shame, restore connection, and create secure relationships from the inside out. Links from this episode: Website: becometriggerproof.com Attachment Style Quiz: https://becometriggerproof.com/attachment-style-assessment/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drnima/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/chironimz Erin's links: Join Erin's monthly mailing list to get health tips and fresh meal plans and recipes every month: https://mailchi.mp/adde1b3a4af3/monthlysparksignup Order Erin's new book, Live Beyond Your Label, at erinbkerry.com/upcomingbook/ 45 Journaling Prompts for Mind-Body Regulation https://mailchi.mp/dc24677d1aad/45-journaling-prompts
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If you've ever walked away from a conversation thinking,“Why did I explain myself like that?” — this episode is for you.In this conversation, we're talking about why explaining yourself can feel easier than standing firm, even when you're clear about your decision. This isn't about trauma or overthinking — it's about belief formation and how self-trust is built (or quietly eroded) in everyday moments.You'll learn why over-explaining is often a nervous-system response, not a clarity issue, and how standing firm—without justification—is one of the most powerful ways to strengthen your internal authority.This episode is an invitation to stop negotiating with your truth and start practicing self-trust in real time.WHAT WE GET INTOWhy explaining yourself is often about relieving discomfort, not communicating betterHow over-explaining quietly trains self-doubt and weakens internal authorityWhy standing firm feels hard because it's new, not because it's wrongA nervous-system reframe for the urge to soften, justify, or over-functionWhat it really means to let people learn their own lessons (without guilt)How self-trust is built through action, practice, and repetition — not insight aloneThe difference between being misunderstood and abandoning yourselfHow to stop outsourcing your knowing and stand rooted in your decisionsCHAPTERS00:00 Introduction: The Power of Saying No00:53 Breaking the Habit of Over-Explaining01:15 Welcome to 'Unavailable for Self Abandonment'02:02 The Emotional Receipts: Knowing Your Truth03:11 Redefining Explaining: From Soothing to Clarity04:08 Managing Reactions Without Losing Authority04:44 Standing Firm: The New Normal05:26 Parenting and Letting Go: Lessons in Self-Trust08:40 Building Self-Trust Through Action13:07 The Self-Love Two Step: Stand and Stay15:27 Conclusion: Choosing YourselfTHE SELF-LOVE 2-STEP: Stand & StayStandSay what's true—once, clearly, and without over-explaining. Let your decision be complete without a backstory.StayStay with the sensation that follows. The pause. The discomfort. The silence.This is where belief is built—by teaching your nervous system that you're safe to stand firm without collapsing or reaching.This episode is for the woman who is done circling, done cushioning her truth, and ready to trust herself in moments that actually matter. Stay unavailable for self-abandonment.
What if the thing you're calling commitment is actually costing you yourself? In this episode of Your Yes Filled Life, Brenda explores how staying — in jobs, relationships, habits, or roles — can quietly turn into self-abandonment, especially for empathic, high-capacity people. You'll learn: The difference between integrity-based commitment and hope-based endurance Why clarity gets quieter the longer you override yourself How nervous system safety restores discernment and self-trust Two simple reflection questions to help you know when it's time to choose differently This episode is for anyone who keeps thinking, “Maybe if I just try harder…” and feels the cost in their body. ✨ If you're ready to stop carrying this question alone, join us at the Intuitive Leader Retreat, March 3–5 in Lincoln City, Oregon. Enrollment closes February 26. Pre-retreat integration calls are included with registration when you register by February 18.
Healthy boundaries are essential - but most men don't know what they actually look like. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down eight practical boundaries every man must establish in his personal, professional, and romantic relationships to build respect, alignment, and long-term success. These boundaries aren't about control or ultimatums - they're about clarity, self-respect, and creating relationships that truly work. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Why Boundaries Matter 01:10 - Why Men Struggle with Boundaries 02:38 - Grace, Communication, and Relationships 03:05 - High Fences Make Great Neighbors 05:05 - Alignment in Healthy Relationships 06:15 - Boundary #1: Reciprocity 07:26 - Boundary #2: Initiation 08:50 - Boundary #3: Flow 10:55 - Boundary #4: Capacity 12:08 - Boundary #5: Self-Abandonment 14:45 - Boundary #6: Regulation 17:30 - Boundary #7: Exit Boundary 22:55 - Boundary #8: Potential 24:10 - Identifying Triggered Boundaries 26:05 - Communicating Boundaries Effectively 28:40 - Join Iron Council 30:05 - Final Thoughts & Sign-Off Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
This episode is part of the Unavailable for Self-Abandonment series — conversations for women who are done negotiating with themselves.If you've ever wondered why confidence feels solid one moment and shaky the next, especially when things get uncomfortable, this episode will shift everything. Confidence isn't lost in discomfort — it's built there.We're breaking down why discomfort shows up right before growth, how to interpret it correctly, and what to do instead of abandoning yourself the moment things feel unfamiliar. This is about self-trust, nervous system safety, and learning how to stay with yourself long enough for confidence to form.This isn't about pushing harder or fixing yourself.It's about learning how to stay connected to who you already are — especially in the gap.WHAT WE GET INTO✨ Confidence Grows in the GapThe gap — the space between uncomfortable and comfortable — is where most people panic, overthink, and assume something has gone wrong. But that gap is actually the training ground. Discomfort isn't random — it's information.✨ What “Uncomfortable” Is Really SignalingDiscomfort isn't danger. It's your nervous system saying, “This is new. Pay attention.” New boundaries, new standards, new versions of you. Alert doesn't mean incapable — it means unfamiliar.✨ Why Interpretation Is EverythingTwo people can experience the same discomfort and walk away with completely different outcomes. Your interpretation shapes your confidence, your identity, and your future choices. Same sensation — different meaning.✨ The Bridge Between Uncomfortable and ComfortableComfort isn't something you wait for — it's something you create through repetition. Confidence forms when you stay instead of escape long enough for unfamiliar to become familiar.
If confidence has felt inconsistent lately, this episode is here to remind you: nothing has gone wrong.We've been taught to believe confidence is just a feeling — calm, certain, ready — and that once we feel it, then we can move. But real confidence doesn't work that way. Confidence is conditioned. It's built through action, repetition, and staying connected to yourself when things feel unfamiliar.This episode starts the Unavailable for Self-Abandonment series — conversations for the woman who is done negotiating with herself and is confident enough to disappoint because self-trust is now the standard.We're reframing confidence as something you practice, not something you wait for — and reconnecting you with the version of yourself who already knows how to move without guarantees.If you've ever thought, “Why do I feel less confident now than I used to?” — this episode will land deeply.WHAT WE GET INTO✨ Confidence is conditioningConfidence isn't motivation or mindset — it's built through action, practice, and repetition, especially when things feel uncomfortable.✨ Why confidence gets mistaken for a feelingWe confuse calm with capability. Calm comes after repetition — not before.✨ Discomfort isn't dangerYour nervous system feels alert when something is new — that doesn't mean you're incapable. It means you're in unfamiliar territory.✨ Why confidence feels inconsistent during growthNew environments require new reps — and new reps create new confidence.✨ Reconnecting with the version of you who already trusts herselfYou don't need to become someone new. You need to remember who you've been before.
What if self-abandonment isn't a personal flaw—but a survival strategy you once needed, and no longer have to carry?In this episode, I'm joined by Rocio Aquino and Angel Orengo, co-authors of The Orchid: The Secret Code of Modern Goddesses and founders of For the Highest Good, an initiative devoted to expanding human consciousness through storytelling, healing tools, and community.Based in Los Angeles, Rocio and Angel bring a rare blend of lived experience, emotional intelligence, and spiritual psychology to their work. Through media, public speaking, and live events, they guide women, especially those who have learned to over-give or disconnect from themselves, back to authenticity, inner authority, and alignment with their highest good.At the heart of our conversation is The Orchid, a transformational novel following seven women from different backgrounds who gather at a retreat in Northern California. Each woman embodies a distinct struggle with identity, self-trust, and emotional survival, offering readers (and listeners) mirrors for their own patterns of self-abandonment.Together, we explore how storytelling can be a powerful healing modality—one that moves beyond intellectual insight and into the body, where real change begins.The hidden cycle of self-abandonment and how women begin to recognize when they've learned to leave themselves to stay connected to othersForgiveness as a nervous-system process, not a bypass—why true forgiveness requires safety, presence, and self-honestyThe pathway from thought → emotion → body, and how unexamined beliefs become stored tension, disconnection, or collapseWhat it means to truly hold space—for yourself and for others—without fixing, rescuing, or self-betrayalThe five transformational lessons of The Orchid—Awareness, Gratitude, Forgiveness, Acceptance, and Intention—and how they can be practiced in everyday lifeThe challenges faced by the seven women in the story, and how each character reflects common patterns women carry around worth, voice, boundaries, and belongingWhy storytelling bypasses overthinking and creates emotional safety, allowing women to reconnect with inner truth and intuitionThis episode is an invitation for the woman who is capable, self-aware, and exhausted from holding it all together to soften, listen inward, and begin choosing herself without guilt.
This episode closes the I Didn't Change. I Integrated. series.In Episode 1, we explored the grief that often comes with growth.In Episode 2, we talked about integration—becoming whole instead of becoming new.And in this final episode, we talk about what it looks like to live the work.In Entering Whole, Pamela reflects on embodiment—how growth shows up in real life, in love, in faith, and in the quiet choices we make when we stop explaining ourselves and start trusting our alignment. This episode isn't about perfection or performance. It's about peace, discernment, and entering your next season whole.In this episode, we explore:Moving from awareness to embodimentLetting your life reflect your growthLoving without self-abandonmentFaith as alignment, not performanceChoosing peace over explanationEntering new seasons whole—not reinventedReflection for the Listener:Where are you being invited to live the work instead of talking about it?What would change if you trusted that who you are right now is enough?What does it look like for you to enter your next season whole?The Previous Episodes: The Grief of Growth: https://www.buzzsprout.com/851650/episodes/18485472-the-grief-of-growth.mp3?download=trueIntegration Over Reinvention: https://www.buzzsprout.com/851650/episodes/18524413-integration-over-reinvention.mp3?download=trueStay Connected:Follow me on Instagram & Threads: @thenotoriouspldbWatch us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thewelldonelifepameladavis1928 Learn more about The Well Done Life: @thewelldonelifepodcastListen to past episodes on all streaming platforms.Thank you for listening. Text me your feedback. I really appreciate you!
Today, Kendra is exploring the concept of microabandoning: the small, repeated decision to overlook your own needs. She explains how this can lead to full self-abandonment, causing significant emotional and physical stress. Kendra gives strategies for combating micro-abandonments, and encourages listeners to choose themselves by making small, intentional decisions to prioritize their own needs and well-being, aiming for a more fulfilling and balanced life. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Welcome to the Summer of Me 00:25 Introducing the Substack Community 01:08 Understanding Micro Abandonment 04:54 Defining Micro Abandonment 05:42 Self-Silencing Behaviors 09:45 Minimizing Your Feelings 12:07 Shrinking to Keep Others Comfortable 13:31 Embracing Uniqueness and Rejecting Conformity 14:34 The Trap of Over-Functioning 16:00 Listening to Your Body's Signals 17:35 Unmet Needs and Emotional Starvation 19:39 Psychological Drivers of Self-Abandonment 21:24 Micro Choosing Yourself: Steps to Self-Rediscovery 26:33 Conclusion and Final Thoughts LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co
Manifestors are here to serve others, but not in the way we've been taught. In this episode, Holly, a 4/6 Splenic Manifestor and founder of The Manifestor Community, explores how Manifestors serve the world not through guidance, caretaking, or self-sacrifice, but through impact. Through voice, and through creative expression. Through allowing our power to be trusted and seen. This conversation unpacks one of the most common distortions Manifestors carry: the belief that serving others requires self-abandonment, silence, or shrinking. Instead, Manifestor service comes from sovereignty, from honoring the creative self and letting our voice initiate movement in others. We cover: Why “service” often turns into self-abandonment for Manifestors The difference between guidance and impact How the Manifestor voice creates movements, not instructions Why trusting the creative self is essential to leadership How voice, throat energy, and creative expression are central to Manifestor service This episode is an invitation to reframe service, not as something that costs you, but as something that flows through you when your voice is clear, expressed, and uncompromised. Manifestors don't serve by disappearing. We serve by being heard. Free Support: Your Voice, Your Power If you feel your voice has been suppressed, softened, or disconnected from your creative truth, we've created a free resource to support you. Your Voice, Your Power is a guided download designed to help Manifestors reconnect with their voice, express themselves with sovereignty, and trust the impact they create when they speak and initiate from alignment.
Feeling numb doesn't mean something is wrong with you – it means something important has been missing. If you're doing everything right on the outside but feel disconnected on the inside, this episode is for you. Emotional numbness often hides beneath productivity, people-pleasing, and constant motion, quietly pulling you away from your truth without you even realizing it. I explore why numbness isn't a failure but a survival strategy – a response to years of self-abandonment, over-responsibility, and living from obligation instead of desire. When your life hasn't made space for your truth, disconnection becomes the way you cope. I then share three simple, grounded tools to help you gently interrupt autopilot and restore connection with yourself. This is about coming home – without force, without shame, and without needing to change everything all at once. What we explore: Why emotional numbness often looks like productivity How people-pleasing quietly disconnects you from your desires The cost of living on autopilot Three simple tools to restore connection and self-trust How to move from avoidance into aligned, honest action Why your desires are signals – not problems If this conversation is stirring something inside you and you're ready to reconnect with the part of you that's been dormant, I invite you to join my free five-day experience, Reignite Your Spark at https://www.nancylevin.com/spark Connect with me: Newsletternancylevin.comInstagramFacebook
Being "easy to be around" is often praised. But for many of us, it's not a personality trait. It's a survival strategy. In this episode, I talk about the quiet, socially acceptable ways self-abandonment shows up in everyday life, how it slowly drains your energy and clarity, and why guilt appears when you start choosing yourself. This is not about fixing yourself. It's about naming what's been happening. If you're tired of putting yourself last to keep the peace, this conversation is for you. If you want to keep exploring this work in a real, human way, The Done Era is where these conversations continue.
Many women believe that if they are loved well enough, they will finally feel secure, whole, and at peace. But here's the hard truth: love doesn't heal self-abandonment—it reveals it. In this episode, Dr. Zoe explores why self-abandonment forms, how it shows up in romantic relationships, and why expecting love to fix it quietly sabotages intimacy. This conversation is compassionate, direct, and deeply hopeful, especially if you've ever felt loved yet still unseen, exhausted, or emotionally alone. In This Episode, You'll Learn: • Why self-abandonment is a learned survival strategy—not a character flaw • How love activates self-abandonment rather than curing it • The hidden ways self-abandonment disguises itself as being "easy," "loyal," or "low maintenance" • How Complex Shame convinces women their needs are the problem • Why expecting love to heal you turns relationships into emotional labor • How your romantic patterns often mirror how you treat yourself • What it actually means to choose yourself without blowing up your relationship • Why healing self-abandonment requires grief—not just insight • How small acts of self-return change the way love feels • The hope: why self-abandonment can be unlearned—and how love becomes safer when you stop disappearing A Gentle Reminder You don't heal self-abandonment so someone will finally choose you. You heal it so you stop leaving yourself—even when love gets hard. Reflection Question Where in your life are you staying quiet, flexible, or agreeable at the expense of your truth—and calling it love? Resources & Next Steps: Connect with me on Instagram @drzoeshaw for daily encouragement. Subscribe to my newsletter for more conversations on healing, boundaries, and healthy love. Order the book Stronger in the Difficult Places: drzoeshaw.com/book Join the waitlist for Stronger Woman Collective: here Free Downloads: Download the Steps to Healing from Complex Shame™ PDF: here Get the First Chapter of Stronger in the Difficult Places: here If this episode spoke to you, please share it with a friend who needs hope in their relationships. And don't forget to subscribe to Stronger in the Difficult Places so you never miss an episode.
Recover Your Soul: A Spiritual Path to a Happy and Healthy Life
Send one way text to Rev Rachel You Can Be Happy Even When Others Aren't: Acceptance as a Path to Healing from CodependencyOne of the most painful beliefs many of us carry is that we can only be okay when the people around us are okay.This belief sits at the core of codependency, people-pleasing, control, and self-abandonment. It keeps us exhausted, anxious, and disconnected from our own lives as we try to manage, fix, or emotionally carry the experiences of others.In this episode, I introduce the theme for 2026 on the Recover Your Soul Podcast: Acceptance as a Path to Peace. We explore what acceptance really means from a spiritual perspective and what it does not mean. Acceptance is not giving up, denying reality, or tolerating what harms us. It is learning to see what is clearly, without resistance, so we can stop abandoning ourselves and begin healing.This episode invites you to consider a new possibility:That your happiness does not require anyone else to change or heal.In this episode, we explore:How codependency teaches us to tie our well-being to othersWhy accRecover Your SOUL CIRCLE Group coaching with Rev Rachel is now open for enrollment.Join a sacred space to deepen your healing, connect in community, and walk the Recover Your Soul Process together: 1. Parents of Adult Children 2. Partners & Family 3.Alumni IntegrationYour Soul Circle is waiting. Start your journey with the FREE Recover Your Soul™ 9-Step Mini-Workbook- A gentle spiritual path to healing, letting go, and awakening. This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not allied or representative of any organizations or religions, but is based on the opinions and experience of Rev. Rachel Harrison or guests. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein. Take what you need and leave the rest.Support the showRev Rachel & Recover Your Soul www.recoveryoursoul.net FREE Support Group on Zoom 6-7PM MT on the 1st Monday of the Month Work the Process with Rev Rachel TRYASESSION for 40% off 1st session Working the Steps Program WORKSTEPS%50 Instagram, Insight Timer, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook private Facebook group RYS Bonus Podcast Patreon Member or subscribing on Apple Podcasts. Transcripts
In today's episode, I sit down with the amazing Jessica Baum, psychotherapist and author of Anxiously Attached and Safe, for a powerful and deeply personal conversation about how our early attachment patterns shape everything, our relationships, our sense of safety, and even how we show up as parents. Jessica brings a rare mix of clinical expertise and lived experience, making this a must-listen if you've ever felt stuck in the same patterns or wondered, "Can I really heal this?"We explore the science behind attachment styles, what secure connection actually feels like, and how healing isn't just about understanding, it's about feeling, co-regulating, and being anchored in safe relationships. Whether you're navigating a breakup, parenting with intention, or ready to call in healthier love, this episode will meet you right where you are.I trust you will get what you need from this episode, and make sure you come let me know how it resonated with you on instagram @the_human_design_coachBig love,MxxJessica's Details:Socials -https://www.facebook.com/@beselffullhttps://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc/https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-baum-lmhc-cap-038a1538/Book - https://www.amazon.com/Safe-Attachment-Informed-Building-Secure-Relationships/dp/0593850815Free gifts for listeners: https://jessicabaumlmhc.com/safeBodyGraph Chart SoftwareCreate your own Human Design chart tool with BodyGraphChart! Embed a chart tool on your own website, so you can engage with your leads, grow your business, teach Human Design the way YOU want to teach it and create success!Get BodyGraphChart here: https://bodygraphchart.com?via=emmadunwoodyUse the code humandesignpodcast for 30% off for 6 months!OTHER RESOURCESWant more on Human Design? Explore the ways to get involved below:Get Your Free Human Design Chart: https://www.emmadunwoody.com/get-your-chartThe Feminine Success Framework: https://www.emmadunwoody.com/feminine-success-frameworkMaggie - Magnetic by Design AI: https://www.emmadunwoody.com/maggieThe HDx Collective: https://www.emmadunwoody.com/collectiveHuman Design Unhinged: https://www.humandesignunhinged.com/Secret Podcast: The Human Design Podcast (Unhinged): https://thehumandesignpodcast.supercast.com/Instagram @the_human_design_coachMusic: Spark Of Inspiration by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.comSupport the show
Recover Your Soul: A Spiritual Path to a Happy and Healthy Life
Send one way text to Rev Rachel Season 7 Begins: Releasing the Inner Critic and Choosing Self-Compassion in 2026As Season 7 of the Recover Your Soul Podcast begins, I invite you into a deeper conversation about healing self-judgment and choosing a more compassionate relationship with yourself.The spiritual path to a happy and healthy life is not linear. For many of us, the journey into healing begins through codependency, people pleasing, over-functioning, and self-abandonment. We learn early on to take care of others, to stay small, and to silence our own needs in order to feel safe or loved. Over time, this creates an inner critic that speaks harshly in the name of protection.In this episode, I reflect on how the Recover Your Soul Process invites us to gently uncover these patterns, understand where they came from, and release what no longer serves us. As we step into 2026 and a new season, we are being called to move beyond awareness and into embodiment, living from our wholeness rather than our wounds.I also share my own experience of how self-compassion, honesty, and spiritual practice allow real healing to occur by choosing kindness and truth instead of self-judgment.In this episode, we explore:How codependency and people pleasing lead to self-abandonmentThe role of the inner critic as a learned protectorUsing the Recover Your Soul Process to release old patternsChoosing self-compassion as a spiritual practiceStepping into a new cycle of healing and Start your journey with the FREE Recover Your Soul™ 9-Step Mini-Workbook- A gentle spiritual path to healing, letting go, and awakening. This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not allied or representative of any organizations or religions, but is based on the opinions and experience of Rev. Rachel Harrison or guests. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein. Take what you need and leave the rest.Support the showRev Rachel & Recover Your Soul www.recoveryoursoul.net FREE Support Group on Zoom 6-7PM MT on the 1st Monday of the Month Work the Process with Rev Rachel TRYASESSION for 40% off 1st session Working the Steps Program WORKSTEPS%50 Instagram, Insight Timer, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook private Facebook group RYS Bonus Podcast Patreon Member or subscribing on Apple Podcasts. Transcripts
Do other people's happiness tend to get put before your own?Does the thought of being alone terrify you? And do you feel like you cling to relationships with others in an attempt to feel safe?If so - you might be stuck in the habit of self abandonment. Let's talk about it!Email directly about 1:1 coaching - rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com
Join Wendy for the Word of the Year Workshop on Saturday, January 3rd — a 90-minute guided experience designed to help you uncover the word that will anchor your year ahead. We'll use meditation, journaling, and a beautiful mind-mapping practice to move beyond resolutions and choose a word that speaks to who you're becoming.Save your seat here. In this episode, Wendy sits down with Meghan O'Malley and Laura Cardwell for a rich, soulful conversation about Human Design—not as a label, but as a tool for returning to the truth of who you are.Meghan and Laura share how learning their unique designs changed everything—from how they use their energy to how they make decisions, handle conditioning, and create more ease in their lives. Whether you're brand new to Human Design or already deep in the language of types, authorities, and strategy, this episode offers an invitation to slow down, trust your body, and begin living in alignment with what was never broken to begin with.They explore:Why learning your Human Design is less about information and more about permissionHow different energy types experience burnout, resistance, and clarityWhat happens when you start making decisions from your body, not your mindThis is a conversation about energy, deconditioning, and remembering the version of you that was always there—before the world told you who you had to be. Tune in and discover how Human Design can help you live with more ease, impact, and self-trust.Connect with Laura and Meghan:On Instagram @embodiedleadershipbydesign @lauracardwellqiw @meghanomalleymagicEmbodiedLeadershipbyDesign.comGet their book: Unstuck Yourself: Thrive Beyond Burnout & Discover Your True Purpose________________________________________________________________________________________ Connect with Wendy: LinkedinInstagram: @phineaswrighthouseFacebook: Phineas Wright House Website: Phineas Wright House PWH Farm StaysPWH Curated Experience and Travel Interested in being a guest on the show? Send your pitch to podcast@phineaswrighthouse.com Podcast Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective Want to start your own podcast? Let's chat! If this episode resonated, follow Say YES to Yourself! and leave a 5-star review. It helps more women in midlife discover the tools, stories, and community that make saying YES not only possible, but powerful.
Many adults struggle with a quiet, persistent sense of loneliness — even when they're in relationships, surrounded by people, or constantly giving to others. In Episode 3 of 6 in the Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents series, we explore emotional loneliness and self-abandonment — how they develop, why they make sense, and how they continue to shape adult relationships, boundaries, and self-connection. In this episode, we discuss: What emotional loneliness really is (and what it isn't) How self-abandonment forms in emotionally immature family systems Why disconnecting from yourself once helped you stay connected to others Common misconceptions about emotional loneliness and independence How these patterns show up in adulthood through over-giving, guilt, and difficulty identifying needs This conversation isn't about blame — it's about understanding the emotional environments we adapted to, so we can begin responding differently now.
Bonus Episode #2 coming at you! Welcome back to our special five-episode series, where we're re-running some of our most impactful + memorable episodes. These conversations changed us but also deeply touched you, our community—and in many ways, put our show on the map.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.
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Enroll in the Collective: The mentorship space for ambitious career women who are ready to break addictive love patterns for good: leanneoaten.com/membership Watch my free 20-minute mini-class: Break the Emotional Grip of Toxic Love: leanneoaten.com/detox Instagram: www.instagram.com/awakeningwomenofficial/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/awakeningwomenofficial/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/theevolvedfeminine and https://www.youtube.com/@awakeningwomenofficial Website: leanneoaten.com Leanne Oaten is a former Registered Professional Counsellor with a background in Counselling Psychology and has over 13 years of experience counselling and coaching women. This podcast is for high-achieving CEO, entrepreneurial women who refuse to settle in a life that looks successful on the outside but feels empty on the inside. If you're juggling business, career, family, and a relationship that doesn't light you up while secretly craving more freedom, more abundance, and more joy - this is the podcast for you. I help women reclaim their power, build unshakable self-trust, and create the kind of life they no longer want to escape from. We're not here to hustle harder or burn it all down, we're reinventing ourselves and our lives from power. We're no longer focused on changing men, or fixing ourselves for men, we are building for ourselves so that we never settle again. We're here to make power moves with ease, and feminine energy that attracts everything you want without losing yourself in the process. So if you're ready to stop waiting for him to change, stop negotiating your worth, and start embodying the woman you want to be, welcome home. Let's dive in.
Full Plate: Ditch diet culture, respect your body, and set boundaries.
Because it's the end of the year, I figured we needed this one: Yasmine Cheyenne helps us walk some of our most challenging paths: self-forgiveness, people-pleasing, unhealthy relationships, and comparison.In this revisited episode, we explore:How perfectionism leads to self-abandonmentSetting boundaries as protection from burnoutHow early relational dynamics shape the way we show up in the worldIdentifying red flags in relationshipsBreaking free of what keeps us stuck in painful cyclesHow we lose ourselves when we make choices out of fearWhat is really happening when we compare ourselves to othersUsing our past as information — not a life sentenceYasmine Cheyenne is a self-healing educator, mental wellness advocate, author, and motivational speaker who helps people cultivate daily practices to build healthy, joyful lives. Yasmine's app, The Sugar Jar Community®, provides meditations and healing workshops to support our mental wellness. She's been featured on the Today show, InStyle, Forbes, and more. An Air Force veteran and native New Yorker, she now lives in Washington, DC with her family.Support the show: Enjoying this podcast? Please support the show on Substack for bonus episodes, community engagement, and access to "Ask Abbie" at abbieattwoodwellness.substack.com/subscribe Apply for Abbie's Group Membership:Already been at this anti-diet culture thing for a while, but want community and continued learning? Apply for Abbie's monthly membership: https://www.abbieattwoodwellness.com/circle-monthly-group Social media:Find the show on Instagram: @fullplate.podcastFind Abbie on Instagram: @abbieattwoodwellness Podcast Cover Photography by Anya McInroyPodcast Editing by Brian WaltersThis podcast is ad-free and support comes from your support on Substack. Subscribe HERE. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit abbieattwoodwellness.substack.com/subscribe
Today's episode is a special one. I hand the mic over to my friend Angela for a deep, no-holding-back conversation about my book In Pursuit. We get into the writing process, the messy middle, the self-abandonment patterns we carry, and what it really takes to live a life that feels like home to yourself. This isn't an interview as much as it is a soul-level conversation between two coaches about purpose, discomfort, emotional mastery, and the wild courage required to become who you were meant to be. If you've ever felt like you were “living in black and white,” chasing the next achievement, or waiting for the rulebook that everyone else seems to have…this episode is for you.In This Episode, We Explore:The limiting beliefs and inner narratives I had to rewrite in order to write In PursuitWhat “the prison” looks like and how to know when you're living in itUnderstanding the Arrival Fallacy and Arrival AddictionWhy so many of us abandon ourselves on the way to our goalsThe nervous-system side of people-pleasing, boundaries, and emotional discomfortHow to stop outsourcing your worth and start building self-trustWhat it truly means to succeed without abandoning yourselfWhat I'm personally “in pursuit” of right nowWhat it means to live an unblocked lifeClick HERE to watch this episode on YouTube.If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, or tag me on IG with your biggest takeaway. Your support helps these conversations reach more people who need them.Links and Resources:Order my #1 New Release book In PursuitIf you love what you're hearing on the podcast, you've gotta check out my private coaching offers. Click HERE to learn more about one-on-one coaching with me!Get your complimentary copy of The Unblocked Journal to help bring awareness to perfectionist thinking and what it's creating in your life.Join My Do The Thing Community Let's Connect:Follow me on Facebook & Instagram: @JessicaSmarroShare your thoughts and experiences with the hashtag #UnblockedPodcast and tag @jessicasmarro!
Today's podcast covers the topic of self abandonment. We often identify abandonment as taking place within a dyad or within interpersonal relationships. However, we can abandon ourselves in various ways. These ways can range from self-doubt to more serious self abuse, with many more forms in between. When self-abandonment occurs, this opens the door to despondency and despair. When we do not abandon ourselves, and maintain self compassion, we will not down-spiral emotionally.
We talk a lot about boundaries, but almost always in the context of protecting ourselves from other people. This episode is about the boundary no one talks about: the one you hold with yourself. I'm diving into containment, which is the ability to feel your emotions fully without discharging them onto someone else, and why lack of containment quietly destroys intimacy, even when you think you're "just being honest." Moreover, I truly believe that every human is capable of emotional regulation, and am pulling apart the idea floating around the New Age / polarity world that men should be the stoic containers for the unbridled rage and emotional expression of women. We'll explore: Why the most important boundaries are self-boundaries How emotional dumping differs from real vulnerability, and examples of the difference between the two Why anxiety, sadness, and fear can be just as uncontained as anger The difference between sharing to connect vs. spilling to feel better How to be raw, honest, and unrehearsed without abandoning responsibility Why containment is a human relational skill - not a gendered one This isn't about suppressing emotions or trying to be nice (which is often dishonesty in disguise.) It's actually an invitation into deeper intimacy, true connection, and allowing your authenicity to shine through in a way that invites others in rather than pushing them away unconsciously. It's about self-leadership, relational safety, and learning how to feel everything without making the people you love pay for it. So much to unpack here! Let's dive in, AND... Don't forget to check out my BRAND NEW podcast Love in Practice, co-hosted with my husband Kelly Gardner. You can find it on Youtube or anywhere you listen to podcasts! Listen here. CONNECT WITH EMILY Grown Ass Woman Era: Group details HERE Book a Connection Call With Emily To Work Together COUPLES COACHING with Emily & Kelly Gardner (apply here) Get Your FREE Guide "The Four Tools Missing From Your Relationship" here Follow Emily on Instagram: @emilygoughcoach Website: https://emilygoughcoaching.com/ BOOK: "You Grow Me: The Next Level Human Philosophy of Love, Sex and Romantic Connection
WelcomeHello, lovelies. It's Juliette here, and today I'm joined by the deeply attuned Michael Edwards.In this conversation, we speak about staying with yourself, especially in love. We explore authenticity beyond personality, the subtle ways self abandonment shows up, and what it takes to remain centered when intimacy asks more of you.We touch grief, nervous system safety, and the courage to stop shrinking, even when it would be easier to be chosen than to be true.This is about holding your own field, feeling fully, and letting love meet you without leaving yourself behind. Let yourself feel what opens as you listen.Episode Summary In this episode, Michael and I move through what it means to stay with yourself, especially in love. We speak about authenticity beyond personality, the quiet ways self abandonment creeps in, and the moment you choose truth over being chosen. We touch grief, nervous system safety, energetic sovereignty, and the power that returns when you stop managing yourself and start listening to your body. This conversation invites you back to your center, your lived truth, and the part of you that was never meant to be negotiated.Key Takeaways Staying With Yourself Is the WorkWhen you stop leaving your center to be chosen, something steadies. Love no longer pulls you off your axis.Authenticity Is an Energetic TruthNot a personality, not a performance. A frequency you live from, or don't.Grief Is a GatewayWhen you let yourself feel it fully, without story or collapse, the body reorganises around truth.Self Abandonment Is SubtleIt hides in silence, in softening your edges, in managing yourself to keep connection.Safety Is Built From the InsideNot through control or strategy, but through presence, honesty, and staying when it gets tender.Power Lives in the CenterWhen you stop chasing and return to yourself, life meets you there.Resources and Links
What if the hardest part of healing isn't forgiving others — but returning to the part of yourself you left behind?In this episode of The Lucas Mack Show, Lucas shares a deeply personal story from childhood — a moment of abandonment that shaped how he learned to survive by disconnecting from his true self. What begins as a seemingly small memory reveals a universal pattern: when fear, pain, or trauma overwhelms us, we don't just endure it — we abandon parts of ourselves to stay safe.As adults, that survival strategy becomes a prison.We wear masks.We armor up.We perform strength.And slowly, we lose touch with the innocent, truthful, loving self we once were.In this episode, Lucas explores:How childhood trauma teaches us to abandon our inner childWhy survival masks feel protective but keep us stuckThe difference between coping and healingWhy freedom requires facing, naming, and speaking past painHow to become the hero and rescuer of your own inner innocenceThis isn't about blaming the past — it's about reclaiming what was lost.Healing begins when you stop waiting for someone else to save you…and choose to return to the part of you that never stopped longing for truth and love.You don't heal by becoming stronger.You heal by becoming whole.If you've ever felt disconnected from yourself, stuck in performance, or afraid to slow down and feel — this episode is for you.
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Every one of us has lived through something that could've broken us. This episode is about the people who refused to stay broken. In this Harder Than Life Best Of mashup, you'll hear powerful moments from Darren McCarty, Ezra Frech, Forbes Riley, and Dana Grant — four humans who took their pain, their trauma, their disabilities, their failures, their rock bottoms, and turned them into fuel. These stories prove one thing: Pain doesn't define you. It refines you. If you're healing, rebuilding, or climbing out of something heavy, this episode will remind you what you're made of. Key Takeaways:
Welcome back to The Summer of Me! In case you're new here, Kendra is diving deep into her personal journey, navigating through self-abandonment, divorce, and the realization that she needed to reclaim her own identity. Reflecting on her wake-up call, Kendra is here to encourage women to prioritize themselves and take small, intentional steps toward their true selves. Tune in for practical advice and the validation that it's never too late to choose yourself. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction 00:12 The Slow Loss of Identity 01:02 Personal Stories of Self-Abandonment 04:59 Realizations and Turning Points 11:37 The Summer of Me 15:46 Reinventing Myself 17:18 Encouragement and Conclusion LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co
We're taught to toughen up, care less, harden ourselves. But you probably already know that none of that actually works. It doesn't make us safer or more confident, it just sends us into a tug of war with ourselves. In this episode, April unpacks the powerful middle ground — where softness and self-respect can live together — and shares a story that reframes what real strength can look like.In This Episode:Why “toughening up” disconnects you from your instinctsThe trap of believing softness equals weaknessHow we confuse fear-based posturing with strengthThe difference between the performance of confidence and genuine grounded powerWhat it looks like to be clear without being cruelHow to listen to your body's cues instead of overriding themThe third option between collapsing and attackingWhy real safety lives in self-trust, not force.Key Takeaways:Softness isn't vulnerability to harm — it's your internal compass.If you have to try to force someone to respect you and treat you well- you're dealing with a completely different problem.Power isn't making others bend to your will; it's knowing you can have your own back in any room you walk into.Discernment comes from staying connected to yourself and listening to your emotions, not armouring up and shutting down.Links Mentioned:Join the Bold as Love Collective Experience (starting January)Learn more about the programConnect with April on Instagram / EmailWant to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Get on the Newsletter List here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.
#355: We need to talk about burnout - and not just the kind that comes from working too many hours or answering emails at 10 p.m. This week, I'm addressing that bone-deep exhaustion that's become the background noise of so many of our lives, where your body feels like it's moving through wet cement and everything feels like way too much. I'm talking about the burnout that happens even on maternity leave, even in retirement, even while doing things you genuinely love. This isn't a work problem that a vacation can fix. It's about the chronic, relentless abandonment of yourself in the name of keeping everyone else comfortable. Tune in this week to discover how emotional outsourcing keeps us trapped in the burnout cycle. You'll learn why your nervous system reads disappointing others as life or death, and most importantly, you'll get a practical remedy for starting to source safety internally and becoming your own North Star once more. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://beatrizalbina.com/355 Order your copy of End Emotional Outsourcing here: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/ Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=enMentioned in this episode:Buy Your Copy of End Emotional Outsourcing Today!Please support the book by reviewing it on Amazon or Goodreads. It helps the book reach more folks who are still living in old survival patterns and don't have language for it yet. Drop your screenshot at beatrizalbina.com/book and you'll get access to thank-you gifts and raffles for free breathwork sessions, coaching, and audiobook copies. I appreciate you more than you know. Get your copy today: https://feminist-wellness.captivate.fm/bookEEO Pre-Sale
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Sometimes, in the name of love, we slowly dim our own light. We shape-shift to keep the peace, stay quiet to avoid losing someone, or give more than we have so we don't disappoint. But there is a vast difference between loving someone and abandoning yourself.This episode is your reminder that you can return to yourself at any moment. It's never too late. You can begin today.✨ CHANGES – December 13th, New York CityThis end-of-year workshop is your space to release what's weighing you down, reset your energy, and walk into 2026 with clarity, power, and emotional freedom. If you've been craving a fresh start, a breakthrough, or a moment to breathe and realign… CHANGES is for you.Join me.https://mailchi.mp/e69896ad15c5/changescambios
Tenderoni Hotline #8: This week on Feminist Wellness, I'm joined by the wise and wonderful Mary Jelkovsky, author, podcast host, and founder of Mary's Cup of Tea, for a deep and playful conversation on healing emotional outsourcing, letting go of perfectionism, and reclaiming your self-worth. We explore how so many of us were conditioned to earn love by being agreeable, productive, or self-sacrificing, especially those of us who are eldest daughters, children of immigrants, or socialized as women in patriarchal systems. Together, we unpack the invisible pressure to be “good” and how it robs us of self-trust, the link between people-pleasing and nervous system dysregulation, and the cultural and generational stories that shape codependency and first-gen expectations. We talk about how to stop managing other people's feelings and come back to your own, how projection shows up in relationships, and the power of presence work in interrupting old survival patterns. You'll laugh, reflect, and walk away with new insights into how emotional outsourcing shows up in your life and what it truly means to begin choosing you. Order your copy of End Emotional Outsouring here: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/ Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en Check out Mary's podcast: Mary's Cup of Tea: www.maryscupoftea.com
What if the thing keeping you stuck isn't your strategy, your team, or your market? What if it's how often you abandon yourself without even realizing it?In this episode, I sit down with Danielle Laura, a human design expert, clairvoyant, and former healthcare executive who completely transformed her life after experiencing what she calls "soul death." Danielle shares her journey from climbing the corporate ladder to losing everything when she finally chose to honor her gifts, and how she built an unshakable sense of self-loyalty in the process.We get into the real signs of self-abandonment that most entrepreneurs miss, why visionaries and creatives often feel like outsiders, and the micro-moment shifts that can change your entire trajectory without burning you out. Danielle also shares her favorite nervous system regulation practices and explains the difference between maintenance seasons and evolution seasons in business.If you've ever felt like you're living someone else's life, or you're so busy taking care of everyone else that you've lost yourself, this conversation will give you the permission and the practical tools to choose yourself first.In this episode, you'll learn:[04:46] Danielle's journey from healthcare executive to experiencing "soul death"[08:47] How human design and gene keys became the missing link[15:06] Signs you're living in self-abandonment (and don't even know it)[20:40] The "future cost" question that makes hard decisions easier[27:55] Why micro-moment shifts beat massive life overhauls[35:17] Nervous system regulation practices for high achieversHere are the resources mentioned in the show:Follow @_daniellelaura_ on Instagram Listen to H.O.T Talks PodcastDanielle's WebsiteJoin the 21-Day Creativity to Cashflow ChallengeAre you enjoying the podcast? We'd be so grateful if you gave us a rating and review! Your 5 star ratings help us reach more businesses like yours and allows us to continue to deliver valuable content every single week. Click here to review the show on Apple podcast or your favorite platformSelect “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review”Share your favorite insights and inspirationsIf you haven't done so yet, make sure that you subscribe to the show wherever you listen to podcasts and on Apple Podcast for special bonus content you won't get elsewhere.xo, Tracy MatthewsFollow on Social:Follow @Flourish_Thrive on InstagramFollow @iamtracymatthews InstagramFollow Flourish & Thrive Facebook
In this episode of the Spirit and Soul Podcast, Tiffany delves into the concept of self-abandonment, exploring its roots, manifestations, and the journey towards reclaiming one's true self. She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, setting boundaries, and the impact of childhood conditioning on adult behavior. Through personal anecdotes and insights, Tiffany encourages listeners to recognize their patterns of self-abandonment and take steps towards authenticity and empowerment.
How do we show up not only for other people but for ourselves during seasons where so much is being demanded of us? Today, I'm answering questions from our text community on how to break cycles of burnout, over-giving, and self-abandonment. As we approach the holidays, we can start to feel the build-up of pressure to continuously show up, even at the expense of ourselves. That's why I'm sharing tangible steps you can take to set clear boundaries & expectations, reclaim your focus, and bring your energy back into yourself, so you can show up as your best version this season! HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 How to reclaim your focus and creativity after burnout. 11:00 How to keep your desire to serve in tact WITHOUT feeling like you're being taken advantage of. 15:10 Where does a feeling of lack come from + how do you fill it? 20:20 Ways to support yourself (+ others) during challenging seasons. 26:30 Where can you negotiate your own healing? RESOURCES + LINKS Join the waitlist for the 2026 Powerhouse Women Event HERE FOLLOW Powerhouse Women: @powerhouse_women Lindsey: @lindseymarieofficial Visit the Powerhouse Women website: powerhousewomen.co Join the PW Community Facebook Group: facebook.com/groups/powerhousewomencommunity
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