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Spit Or Swallow is a podcast hosted by self-appointed orgasm gap eradicator of the federal republic @hausachocolate who puts the ‘ho’ in wholesome. SOS navigates and explores the world of Sex and Sexuality with no limits. Nothing is too over the top, emba

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    • Apr 26, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekly NEW EPISODES
    • 50m AVG DURATION
    • 55 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Spit or Swallow Podcast

    Marital Sex Isn't Boring ft. William and Ayo Lawal

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2024 79:48


    Welcome to another special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast!Today, Hausa Chocolate is joined by talented creatives, William and Ayo Lawal.Together they discuss marriage, infidelity, assumptions and misconceptions about monogamous marriages, Madonna-Whore Complex, sexual safety, contraceptives, keeping sex spicy and so much more.Themes: Long Term Relationships, Infidelity, Madonna-Whore ComplexEnjoyy!Don't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Are You D!ckmatized or Lost In The Sauce? Ft. Ed Gothboy

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2024 66:01


    Welcome back to Spit or Swallow, where we dive deep into the juiciest topics around sex, relationships and intimacy. In this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by our favourite guest, amazing journalist, critic and Sex Sensei, Ed Gothboy.Join them as they delve into the concept of "dickmatization," explore the allure of having that unexplainable "Sauce,", unpack the complexities of casual yet ever-present sexual encounters and so much more!EnjoyyThemes: Relationships, Boundaries, Casual SexDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    I Identify As A Form ft. Gozie

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2024 60:50


    Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow!On this special episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by a gender non-conformist Gozie who is a model and creative powerhouse. They share their experience navigating being a minority in Nigeria, shed light on their journey and coming into their own identity while tackling the social challenges of non-conformity head-on and so much more!Enjoy!Themes: Gender Identity, Labels, Queer Existence Don't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Trigger Warning ft. Aanu

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2024 42:03


    Welcome back to Spit or Swallow Podcast! Joining your favourite host Hausa Chocolate today is Licensed Clinical Psychologist Aanu and they discuss trauma and sex. What trauma really means, how it manifests, cause and effect and what healing can look like. Aanu shares her insights on how inclusive therapy can be a game-changer in healing and growth, the importance of safe and affirming spaces for all types of sexualities and much more.Enjoy!Themes: Mental Health, Therapy, Sexual WellnessDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Love And High Fenced Streets ft Amiola

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2024 50:18


    What's the difference between love and crack? Today on this special episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Dark Chocolate Amiola and they talk about our favourite chemical reaction in the brain, love. They examine the relationship between sex and love. From the complexities of developing strong emotional attachments to the delicate balance between desire and vulnerability. Does love make bad sex feel better than it actually is? They explore it all in a heartfelt conversation about love, relationships, and everything in between.Themes: Love, Vulnerability, RelationshipsDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Navigating Different Identities In A Heterosexual Marriage ft. Tolu

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2024 54:01


    On the latest episode of Spit or Swallow your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by Tolu, a married, queer-identifying Nigerian. She shares her becoming story. They talk about her first pride event after moving, navigating queer sexual identities in a heterosexual marriage, discovering community abroad, how relocating changes how a person views and expresses their sexual identity and much more.Enjoy!Themes: Labels, Sexual Identity, Japa/RelocationDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Sex Education (The Lack Thereof) In Nigeria ft. Olori Coitus

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2024 66:53


    In today's episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Olori Coitus, a brilliant Sex Educator, Intimacy Director and Public Health Expert. They unpack the exciting world of spreading accurate information on sex in Nigeria's sexually ‘repressed' society. Olori Coitus shares how she got into Sexual Health, her journey so far, the road blocks she's experienced in Nigeria being a sex educator and much more!Enjoy!Themes: Sex Education, Women's Health, Advocacy Don't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Can I Take My Clothes Off? ft. Sugar Ken

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2024 48:41


    Hausa Chocolate is joined by a male stripper extraordinaire, Sugar Ken! Together they dive into the exciting world of stripping!While Sugar Ken might not be giving away free lap dances, he's certainly serving up some piping hot truths! They discuss the highs and lows of stepping into the spotlight, tips for successful marketing and branding in the industry, and the delicate dance of managing client emotions while baring it all. And yes, even with his clothes off, he's setting boundaries like a pro!Enjoyy!Themes: Sex Work, Dance, Societal NormsDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here:Betty Godson Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Divine Desire: Unveiling Eros With An Erotic Goddess ft. Joy

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2024 57:27


    On today's episode, Hausa Chocolate sits with an erotic goddess, a reiki healer, companion and guide, Joy. They talk about the connection between sex and spirituality, helping men access deeper intimacy and their inner eros. Joy's journey as a medium and a creator and also exploring unconventional love and relationship styles.Enjoyy!Themes: Spirituality , Polyamory, ErosDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Silver Sex ft. Cheron K. Griffin & Mr. Hunni Bunni

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2024 84:48


    On this amazing episode of the podcast, Hausa Chocolate gets into silver sex with Cheron. K. Griffin an dating concierge, author, matchmaker and relationship coach together with her husband Mr. Hunni Bunni. They discuss her journey transitioning out of purity culture as an ex preacher's wife, her various marriages, finding herself and true love with her new partner. They also discuss misconceptions about sex and love within older couples and much more EnjoyyThemes: Love, Relationships, Older CouplesThemes: Spirituality, Relationships, Sexual WellnessDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    True Romance Is Dead! ft. Luciano & Torera

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2024 69:55


    Love is in the air! Isn't it? On this special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast, Hausa Chocolate, Luciano and Torera talk about love, romance and everything Valentine's Day! What do you do when your situationship airs you on Love Day? They also discuss their hate languages, share funny stories, past experiences and talk about what love means to them.Themes: Love, Valentine's, RelationshipsDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Sexual Revolution ft. Teso The Star Seed

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2024 75:49


    On this amazing episode, your favourite host is joined by Teso, a model, writer and podcaster and creative. They discuss their sexual liberation journeys. The impact of visible voices going against the grain. They also talk about partnerships, community and finding alignment into today's society.EnjoyyThemes: Sexual Liberation, Feminism, SocietyDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Mind-Body-Spirit Wellness ft. Oyin Talabi

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2024 63:11


    On this amazing episode of the pod, Hausa Chocolate gets into holistic wellness with Oyin Talabi.They discuss New Year Resolutions, the Mind-Body-Spirit connection mindful living practices, becoming in tune with one's self and general tips on improving our mental health and sex lives.Themes: Mindfulness, Meditation, WellnessDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    We Are In An Open Marriage ft. The Play Smith & Venolia

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2024 52:32


    On this interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Play Smith and his wife Wade who are in an open marriage. They discuss how they met, the easy and hard parts of being in an open marriage, navigating it with friends, family and the dating pool, trust, honesty and so much more!Enjoyy!Themes: Open Relationships, Polyamory, Sexual WellnessDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Logical Lovers, Intimacy and Size Queens ft. Dr. SID

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2024 64:40


    Welcome back to another amazing season of the Spit Or Swallow Pod with your favourite host Hausa Chocolate!On today's slightly chaotic episode, Hausa Chocolate and the multifaceted Dr SID discuss intimacy differences in men and women, how logic and emotion feed love, analyze what makes long term relationships last, sexual liberalism, communication and so much more!Themes: Non Exclusive Partnerships, Emotional Honesty, IntimacyEnjoyy!Don't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Living in a Post-Label Lagos (ft. Tushar )

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2023 54:48


    It's another Season Finale! Thank you so much for sticking with us this season!On this episode, Hausa Chocolate and Tushar talk labels, gender and queer s-x! They have an insightful conversation about what it's like to be questioning while actively exploring your identity in the tumultuous yet exciting city of Lagos! Themes: Gender, Sexuality, LabelsEnjoyy!Themes: Mental Health, Anxiety, Sexual WellnessDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a full episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Streets To Sheets (ft. Nengi Adoki)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2023 58:42


    On this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Nengi Adoki and they discuss going from the streets to the sheets and the messiness that happens in between. They also talk open relationships, cheating, what to do when you're propositioned by a couple and more!Themes: Casual Sex, Polyamory, Power DynamicsEnjoyy!Don't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Emotional Safety and Sex (ft. Tayo Bero)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2023 62:05


    On this episode Hausa Chocolate holds an insightful conversation about sexual safety with award winning writer and activist , Tayo Bero. they talk about psychological and emotional safety and sex, sexual agency, power dynamics and the radicalisation of pleasure.Themes: Safe Sex, Sexual Agency, Gender NormsEnjoyyThemes: Mental Health, Anxiety, Sexual WellnessDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The Period (Sex) Episode (ft. Valerie Ekpo)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2023 52:54


    On today's important episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by storyteller Valerie Ekpo and the girls talk red! They discuss Periods, PMS, PMDD, and other conditions like PCOS and Endometriosis. They also talk about period sex and period shame.Enjoy!Themes: Periods, Period Sex, PCOSDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    In The Mood For Sex (ft. Ed Goth Boy)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2023 61:05


    On this juicy episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an SOS favorite Ed Goth Boy and they get into a loaded and informative conversation about what gets us in the mood for sex. How media influences the kind of sex we have, they also go into sex playlists and the differences between Ritual and Ego Sex Music.Dive in and enjoy!Themes: Sex In Media, Sex Playlists, Sensory StimulationDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Erotic Stories and Sexual Fantasies (Ft Lavezzed Out & Ore Badmus)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2023 52:43


    On this riveting episode your fave Hausa Chocolate is joined by two Erotic Writers Ore Badmus and sexfluencer Ola AKA Lavezzed Out. They talk about erotica, sex writing and sexual fantasies. They also discuss multipartnered sexual relationships and share some real life and slightly garnished sex stories.Enjoyyy!!Themes: Erotica, Sexual Fantasy, PornographyDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Sex and Mental Health

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2023 25:42


    As mental health awareness month draws to a close your favorite host Hausa Chocolate touches on the nexus between mental health and sex. How they are connected and all moving parts of the same system. She discusses the psychological benefits of a good Sex Life, some sexual dysfunctions and the importance of sexual self-actualization, and more.Enjoyy!Themes: Mental Health, Anxiety, Sexual WellnessDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    “Fellas, Is It Gay?” (ft. Kayode Ani)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2023 65:47


    On this exciting episode of the pod, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by queer activist, creative, and writer, Kayode Ani. They dive into a multifaceted discussion about the politics and realities of queerness in Nigeria. Kayode shares his experiences being an activist, they discuss his journey, facing violence as well as the various nuances of masculinity and how heteronormative norms and behaviors sometimes spill into queer spaces.Enjoy!Themes Discussed: Queerness, Activism, HeteronormativityDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodListen to a new episode here: https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Bad Sexual Communication (ft. Alexis)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2023 40:41


    On today's episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by visual artist, Alexis and they discuss bad sexual communication during sex. We always go on about ‘communication' being the bedrock of good sex but what are the wrong ways to do it in and out of the bedroom?Enjoy!Themes: Sexual Communication, Shame, GhostingDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Being A Pornstar In Nigeria (ft. Wunmin Savage)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2023 32:25


    On this super interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an Adult Film Star and they take a glimpse into the Nigerian porn industry. Wunmin Savage shares her experiences being a porn actress and navigating the adult content scene in Nigeria. They talk about dealing with the attention, revenue and so much more!Themes Discussed: Adult Entertainment, Porn, Societal Norms Don't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    What That Mouth Do? (ft. Lotanna Don)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2023 42:17


    On today's episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Lotanna Don and they discuss Oral Sex, its importance, societal and gender attitudes towards giving and receiving oral sex and share some of their experiences. They also discuss tips for better head and Hausa Chocolate whips at some interesting tools so don't forget to catch the episode on YouTube too!Themes Discussed: Oral Sex, Foreplay, Sex ToysDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Sex and Religion (ft. The Mansu )

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2023 51:10


    This week on the pod Hausa Chocolate is joined by @the_mansu, CEO of HerRyde and they have an insightful conversation about reconciling sex and sexuality with religion. A lot of societal attitudes and views on sex are shaped by religion and interpretations of it, so how do you express yourself sexually when some of your beliefs are inherently suppressive?Themes: Sexual Exploration, Religious Influences, MoralityDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Sex Tapes, MMF Threesomes and The Underground Sex-Scene (ft. Folusho OG)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2023 49:02


    On this episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by music consultant Folusho OG and they have a hilarious, informative episode about masturbation, early sex education, MMF threesomes, sexting, sex tapes, and the underground sex scene.Themes Discussed: Erotophobia, Morality, MonogamyDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Throat Goats, Dirty Sheets and Sexual Communication (ft. Valerie Ike)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2023 48:18


    On this week's episode, our delectable host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by TV presenter and fellow podcaster Valerie Ike. They dive into a riveting discussion about sexual communication and all the chaos in between. Why don't people communicate with their partners easily about sex? How do you express your sexual needs? What happens if you throw up Egusi during head?Tap in to listen to all this and more.Themes Discussed: Sexual communication, Ghosting, ShameStay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Bisexual for Sex, Heteroromantic for Love (ft. Coco)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2023 53:14


    This week, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Coco and they have a super interesting discussion about the continuum of sexuality and attraction. If a bisexual woman can only have sex with women but will date and marry men could that be homophobia and social conditioning? How much of our preferences are not externally influenced? Tap in to listen to this conversation.Themes Discussed: Heteroromanticism, Pansexuality, Relationship DynamicsDon't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Sexuality vs Sensuality (ft. Ashley Okoli)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2023 39:10


    On this sizzling episode, our self-appointed orgasm gap eradicator is joined by Ashley Okoli where they discuss sexuality and sensuality, objectification, Living confidently as your truest self and so much more!Don't forget to like, subscribe and share! It allows more people to find and enjoy the podcast Themes discussed: Sexualization, Sexuality, QueernessDon't forget rate us and Share!Stay connected with us on:-instagram : @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8mLOyYYqz1SX9WBlEO04VAAlso follow our host- @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Discovering Your Sexual Self (As A Man). (ft Anny Roberts)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2023 53:16


    Our delectable host, Hausa Chocolate is back and putting the ho in wholesome. On this episode, she's joined by illustrious artist and photographer Anna Roberts and they discuss the intricacies and nuances of coming into oneself sexually, sexual expectations of men and overall ways to have a more fulfilling sex life.Themes Discussed Stereotypes, Pleasure, Morality Don't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Embodied Sexuality, Sensuality and Pleasure (ft. The Pleasure Priest)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2023 48:34


    This episode, Our host - The Orgasm Gap Eradicator' and The Pleasure Priest - Two women in the sexual wellness space link up for an exciting episode. They discuss sensuality, sex education, teaching women how to connect with their bodies and how to live a more orgasmic life. And much more! Themes discussed: Sensuality, Orgasms, Sexual Wellness, SexualityDon't forget rate us and Share!Stay connected with us on:-instagram : @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8mLOyYYqz1SX9WBlEO04VAAlso follow our host- @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The Madonna–Whore complex (ft. Menisms Podcast)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2023 67:15


    Description;On today's episode, our host is joined by Olumurewa and Michael from the Menisims podcast!They discuss the Madonna-Whore complex (where some men reserve certain sexual acts for non-committed relationships) gender based ‘sexpectations', vulnerability in sex and so much more!Don't forget to like, subscribe and share! It allows more people find and enjoy the podcastThemes discussed: Relationships, Non-consensual Consent, KinkDon't forget rate us and Share!Stay connected with us on:-instagram : @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8mLOyYYqz1SX9WBlEO04VAAlso follow our host- @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Sex Lives of, Step-Siblings and Sex Stories (ft RnB Princess)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2023 52:02


    On this episode, our host is back for a new season with bigger, badder energy, still putting the ‘ho' in wholesome and staying sexy while doing it.She is joined by musician and the podcast producer 'RnB Princess, they take a peek into Hausa Chocolate's DMs, discuss interesting “Sex Lives Of' submissions and share a few Sex Stories.Themes discussed: Relationships, Public sex, Sex Stories and the more.Don't forget to rate us and Share!Stay connected with us on:-instagram : @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8mLOyYYqz1SX9WBlEO04VAAlso follow our host- @hausachocolateHosted on Acast. See cast.com/privacy for more information Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    STDs, STI‘s and other Sexy Time Infections (ft. Dr. Stallion)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2022 50:49


    And for our last episode of the season, our host is joined by health professional, Dr. Nosa Jeff Oshodi (a.k.a Dr. Stallion) to discuss sexually transmitted infections, diseases and all other sexy time infections. In this episode, they discuss the distinction between STIs and STDS, unprotected sex, using over-the-counter relief options or self-medication, the importance of getting tested regularly, sharing sex toys, stigmatization, unprofessional medical practitioners, and more. Themes: Sexual Health, Stereotypes, Medication, etc.Don't forget to rate us, comment and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodAlso follow our host - @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Sexpectations, Stereotypes and Fine Boy Privilege (ft. Eso Dike)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2022 38:48


    This week our host is joined by one of the sexiest men in Nollywood, Eso Dike. In this episode, they discuss sexual stereotypes and ‘sexpectations' of men alongside parental influence and sexual kinks. Eso also shares some tea on his experience as an attractive actor in Nollywood, being sexualized, ‘pretty privilege' and more.Themes: Stereotypes, Pornography, Fluidity, Pretty-Privilege, Sexual Kinks, etc.Don't forget to rate us, comment and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodAlso follow our host - @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Solo Session: How to Have Better Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2022 35:01


    On this week's special solo episode, our host takes us through an in-depth discussion into having better and more enjoyable sex. She dissects popular sexual myths, explores the importance of some key sexual concepts such as consent, communication (when & how), masturbation, performance anxiety, premature ejaculation, and more. She also speaks about various sexual preferences and how to be more comfortable with sex. Towards the end, she engages the SOS team in a fun & spontaneous Q&A session on individual sexual challenges. Themes: Consent, Pornography, Communication, Masturbation, Performance Anxiety.Don't forget to rate us, comment and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodAlso follow our host - @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Transactional Sex and the Billings Pandemic (ft. SGawD)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2022 48:45


    On this episode, our host is joined by multifaceted artiste/rap goddess, SGawD to discuss Transactional Sex and how it differs from Sex Work. They also talk about the ‘Billings' pandemic, Lagos streets and if there is true romance without finance.Themes discussed: Sex Work, Finances, Relationships, and more. Don't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodAlso follow our host - @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Age Gaps, Ratchet Fucks & Dependable Fucks (ft. Ed)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2022 55:17


    On this episode, our host is joined by Bespoke Designer & Writer and dependable fucks connoisseur, Ed. This fully-packed conversation spanned from Age Gaps in sex & relationships, gender performance and sexuality to dependable and ratchet fucks. We also touch on the primality of sex, your vestigial sex self and how your ultimate orgasm might lie in the hands of someone in the ‘trenches'.Themes discussed: Age, Patriarchy, Economy Disparites, Good Sex and more. Don't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodAlso follow our host - @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The Asexuality Episode (ft. Enee)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2022 45:56


    This week, our host is joined by Enee (artist/creative) and they discuss Asexuality. Together, they dissect the sex life of an Asexual person within the African community and the performative culture of sex due to heteronormativity. Enee also shares her journey of self discovery and experiences amidst under-representation.Themes discussed: Sexuality, Relationships, Purity Culture, and more. Don't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodAlso follow our host - @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    If You Can't F**k Your Friends Who Can You F**k (ft. Mene)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2022 43:18


    On this week's episode, our host is joined by Mene (digital creator & entrepreneur) to discuss sexual relationships and friendships. Is having sex with your friends a big deal? Does it change the friendship for the worse or better? They discuss their experiences, preferences and boundaries. They also open the floor to a few men in the room to share personal experiences with sex in their friendships.Themes discussed: Friendships, Relationships, Gender, and more. Don't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodAlso follow our host - @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Being Over-Sexualized as a ‘Baddie' (with Yazzavelli)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2022 49:45


    On this week's episode, our host is joined by Yazzavelli - rapper, singer and songwriter. They discuss the over-sexualization of women who are comfortable in their sexuality, being stereotyped when you have a ‘baddie' persona and their general experiences in a conformist society. Themes discussed: Over-Sexualisation, Nudity, Dressing, Patriachy, and more.Don't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodAlso follow our host - @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Polyamory, Consensual Non-Monogamy, etc (with Ozzy Etomi)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2022 44:31


    On this week's episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Writer and Founding member of the Feminist's Coalition, Ozzy Etomi!They discuss relationships styles such as Polyamory and Consensual Non-Monogamy and why people would rather cheat than have Open Relationships. They also touch on living your best life amidst family and societal pressures.Don't forget to rate us and share!Stay connected with us on:- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpodAlso follow our host - @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Sex With the Lights On/Off (with Tomisin and Malobi)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2022 38:58


    On this week's episode, our host is joined by the girls of the TMT Podcast (Tomisin and Malobi) for an exciting episode on sexual preferences. They discuss sex with or without the lights, wigs, bonnets and the savagery of the Lagos dating scene.Don't forget to rate us and share!Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @spitorswallowpod & our host - @hausachocolate Follow our new Twitter page: @sospodofficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Fuck Dem Kids (with Muyideen)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2022 36:17


    This week on the Spit or Swallow podcast Hausa Chocolate is joined by Muyideen to discuss birth control! We go over different methods of birth control from pills to the pull-out method etc. We also explore why some people may not opt for any form of birth control and touch on STD's too.Don't forget to rate us and share!Follow us on Instagram: @spitorswallowpod @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Relationships, Situationships & Fuck Buddies (with Chi-Chi and Mad Maryam)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2022 50:17


    For today's episode Mad Maryam returns with Chi-Chi to discuss relationships with Hausa Chocolate.  We talk about everything from situationships, love languages and designing your sex life in a way that works for you. We also share some of our experiences and preferences! Don't forget to rate us and share!Follow us on Instagram: @spitorswallowpod @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    African Perspectives Of Sex And Sexuality (with Seun Kuti)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2022 43:09


    This week on the Spit or Swallow we're joined by music royalty - Seun Kuti! We discuss everything from the African self to how culture/society influence our perspectives on culture, gender roles and sex!Don't forget to rate us and share!Follow us on Instagram: @spitorswallowpod @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Good sex! (with D-truce and Kissu)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2022 49:32


    This week on the Spit or Swallow podcast Hausa Chocolate is joined by D-truce and Kissu to discuss what exactly good sex is! We share some of our best (and worst) experiences + explore what we think makes up good sex.Don't forget to rate us and share!Follow us on Instagram: @spitorswallowpod @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Sex Toys: Allies Not Enemies (with Seye)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2022 34:59


    For today's episode The Orgasm Organizer of the Federation @hausachocolate discusses Sexy Time Tools with @seyeay. We discuss the stigma around sex toys, how they are allies not enemies and our experiences with them.Don't forget to rate us and share!Follow us on Instagram: @spitorswallowpod @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The Consent Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2022 35:00


    It's another solo session this week (say yes to masturbation)! Today, Hausa Chocolate explores consent! We go beyond the surface level definition, explore what it means to give consent in different scenarios and discuss rape culture in general.Don't forget to rate us and share!Follow us on Instagram: @spitorswallowpod @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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