Podcasts about bsdm

What would it be like if you were super into your stalker? Find out in this month's episode as Shelf Pleasure jumps into Lights Out by Navessa Allen. As an added bonus, enjoy snippets from the audiobook (including a Batman impersonation, a screaming cat, and voice modulators) CW: explicit sex; BSDM (including knife, blood, breath, and primal play); violence; references to rape, abuse, and cannibalism (off-page, recounted); stalking; murder; and desecration of a corpse.

“Sex-positive feminism is the idea that women's sexual freedom is an important component of their freedom in general. Academics in this subject cover many elements of female sexuality, including teen sex, prostitution, transgender issues, and the female role in BSDM. In general, sex-positive feminists are against laws and other barriers that aim to control consensual sexual activity. Sex-positive feminism is connected to the sex-positive movement and shares many of its values of sex as fundamentally healthy and pleasurable. Sex-positive feminism may also be called pro-sex feminism, sex-radical feminism, and sexually liberal feminism. Sex positive is a term used to describe the idea that individuals should openly embrace their own sexuality rather than suppress it. Individuals who agree with the sex positive movement are open about their sexual orientations and sexual identities, and are comfortable with wearing sexually revealing clothing or otherwise expressing their sexuality as they see fit. They are comfortable exploring their bodies as well as exploring different sexual practices that intrigue and arouse them. They are also much more tolerant of other people's sexual interests and activities, and do not criticize anyone for their sexual decisions as long as they are safe. Being sex positive does not equate to being careless or putting yourself at risk sexually. While the sex positive movement does encourage sexual freedom, it also centers around being safe while doing so. This means protecting yourself from unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections by using condoms and practicing safe sex. Overall, the sex postive movement views sexuality - in all its many facets - as a positive part of being human, rather than something to be ashamed of.” -Kinkly.com. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support

We've discussed this before but I'm seeing a lot of questions about this topic.  BDSM & Sex...are they inclusive or can be done separately?  Let's find out...Come let us know what you think on IG - https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/

When did you have to call the police on someone? A caller called it BSDM, should she study more about it before doing it? They found a picture of someone they know on a swinging website, should they contact her? When a breakup happens, do they still get to see the dog? More at www.CooperandAnthony.com 

When did you have to call the police on someone? A caller called it BSDM, should she study more about it before doing it? They found a picture of someone they know on a swinging website, should they contact her? When a breakup happens, do they still get to see the dog? More at www.CooperandAnthony.com 

The ladies go after the Left's reaction of lack there of to Balenziaga's newest ad with BSDM teddy bears and children. While the liberal's have not wanted any time canceling everyone and their mother, this one they decided to go silent and RE-EVALUATE. If there was a time for outrage it would be now and everything that lead up to this creation of the ad campaign.

In this episode, we discuss a wide variety of claims about male chastity and power exchange. Episode Art: The Sexual Armor, proposed by Ellen E. Perkins, U.S. Patent, Support the show

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen Vydra sit down with BDSM educator and practitioner, leatherperson, hedonist, and sadist; Phrygian Monk. They have been very active on Tiktok the last couple of years, educating people about kink, leather, and BSDM on the daily. In this episode, we discuss a variety of the nuances involved in kink, BDSM, and leather as well as some of the challenges minorities face in the community and how to combat them. Links from episode: Tiktok: Phrygian_Monk Linkt.ree Monastery discord link Allen's Tiktok Mx. Dizzy's Tiktok Rekkr's Tiktok Other Resources: Gynecologists who will perform a tubal sterilization BDSM/Kink Resources and Media Check out Scruff Pup's #BarkAgainst campaign! https://twitter.com/PuppScruff https://twitter.com/search?q=%23BarkAgainst&src=hashtag_click A Big Thank You to our Patrons: lovelauseng Moon_goddess Check out The Kinky Tavern's socials and more!! If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. Please join our Discord! It's a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thekinkytavern/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thekinkytavern/support

This episode is the third of a three-part discussion of objectification. Episode Art: Atlas Slave, Michelangelo Buonarroti, c.1520sSupport the show

Anni 80 ne abbiamo? Questa band ha rischiato più di una volta di perdere uno dei componenti (chissà quale) per colpa dei suoi eccessi e delle sue dipendenze. In questo episodio, vi raccontiamo cos'è davvero successo. Ovviamente sgravando.

This week on the Spit or Swallow podcast Hausa Chocolate is joined by her long-time friend and Sexpert Barakat. Our discussion centres on Sexual Kinks and Fetishes and societal attitudes + assumptions towards them. We also take a BSDM test and discuss our results! Find your own kink here http://bdsmtest.org/Don't forget to rate us and share!Follow us on Instagram: @spitorswallowpod @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  I often talk about my Leather Daddy or my BDSM mentor I am beyond thrilled to have Ken as my guest. Though he's always had a love for tying people up, Ken Zane didn't connect with the BDSM aspect of this affinity until he was stationed in Germany. There, he found an amazing community that introduced him to BDSM play - and unlocked his passion for being Dominant. But the more BSDM communities Ken explored, the more he found a lot of other Doms played in very unsafe, inattentive ways. So, Ken did what any good soldier would do - he formed a lesson plan.  Ken traveled around the country teaching Doms everything from how to build trust, use tools, and become a better communicator during play. In this episode, he takes us through some of his most essential teachings and gives us an insider look at what makes up a REALLY good BDSM dynamic. Join Ken and me as we discuss:  playing dominant and submissive at parties on Capitol Hill why surrendering yourself to power and submission can feel so freeing the sexiness of solid boundaries how BDSM & sex relate to each other what needs to happen to ensure a positive and safe BDSM experience the importance of trust and communication in BDSM how to check in with each other - without ruining the moment what most Doms get wrong about being dominant How Ken's experience in the military affects his Dominance style Connect with Ken DCBlade@aol.com is good. Connect with Deborah Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session https://www.deborahkat.com/appointments-3 Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Twitter: https://twitter.com/TantraKat     

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss the topic of Total Power Exchange and Consensual Slavery. Masters and slaves in the kink community are at the butt end of a lot of misconceptions. In this episode, we attempt to quell that by defining the general terms for you and getting down to specifics like protocols and different types of controls. It is definitely not the last episode we'll have covering M/s (Master/slave) dynamics, but it is the first one dedicated to the subject! A Big Thank You to our Patrons: lovelauseng Moon_goddess https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thekinkytavern/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thekinkytavern/support

This week we're joined by Sir Marvelous @sirmarvelous who specializes in sensual BSDM.  Who knew BDSM could be so sensual? Get tickets to our live shows! Atlanta 5/12 @ City Winery https://citywinery.com/atlanta/Online/default.asp?BOparam::WScontent::loadArticle::permalink=ATL-cocktales-5-12-22&BOparam::WScontent::loadArticle::context_id= Tickets available @ 10AM/Est Charlotte Tickets 6/5 https://www.cltcomedyzone.com/shows/171530 NYC Tickets 7/20 https://www.carolines.com/attraction/cocktales/ Philly 7/28 https://philadelphia.heliumcomedy.com/shows/171192 Buy I'm Curious to Know www.imcurioustoknow.com Follow Us! @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Check Out Our Sponsors! DAME PRODUCTS- code: COCKTALES visit https://www.dameproducts.com/cocktales Try Taste Vitamins- code: COCKTALES10 http://tastevitainc.com/discount/cocktales?redirect=%2F%3Fafmc%3Dcocktales%26utm_campaign%3Dcocktales%26utm_source%3Dleaddyno%26utm_medium%3Daffiliate Text TALES to 64000 to get your discounted painting at https://www.paintyourlife.com Get Your Vesper! use code DIRTYTALES for a free engraving! https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper/ Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cocktales See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Recorded: 08/29/2021 / Published: 03/20/2021- https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode of The Krypt we are talking about competing in kink.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Kink as a Compition-S04E05” - Who competes?Doms with other Doms: Who has the most subs? Who has the “best” sub? Who is the best top? Who is the most extreme/heaviest top? Who has the most notoriety? Subs with other subs: Who has the “best” dom? Who is the “best” sub? Who is the “best” bottom? Who is the most extreme bottom? Who knows all the slave positions and performs them the best? Who has the most notoriety?- Why?People are naturally competitive.The lingo and talk of our community naturally encourage it.Frenzy.Ego.- Is it healthy?Comparing ourselves to othersActing outside our comfort zoneActing outside our safety zone- What happens when we compete in BSDM?Self-harmThe harm of othersRelationship “bouncing”Bad reputationBanishment- How to recognize when you are competing in kinkBasing the quality of a scene on: The number or color of marks.The number of people watching.How “hard”, sensual, or playful your scene is.Looking around to see what others are doing while you are scening.Moments of jealousy when cruising fetlife - How to stop it.Recognize it within yourselfWork on self-confidenceWork on learning to enjoy yourself in the moment.Make the decision and follow through every time it hits. Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/405National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Send a letter, a check, or a gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92- Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron- Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, Solsticee, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, and Beatrix Kiddo- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and AshleyVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypthttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource

Recorded: 08/29/2021 / Published: 3/10/2022- https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week's episode of The Krypt we are diving into BDSM Discipline and Punishments. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “BDSM Discipline and Punishments-S04E04” Why do we use discipline and punishments?Growth and improvement are part of the Dom/sub dynamic and discipline and punishments are valuable tools in obtaining goals agreed on and set within the dynamic. When is it ok to discipline or punish?When agreed-upon rules have been broken.When the infraction is understood.When anger isn't directing the punishment.What are common types of disciplines and punishments?Spankings, floggings, wooden spoon, …Groundings HumiliationBeing left aloneWithholding cuddlesSilent treatmentTaking away items like stuffies, toys, foods, …Withholding sex, orgasms, …Forced orgasms/pleasure torture Withholding the right to please the DominantWriting linesWriting essaysExtra choresSwear/brat jarLectureFiggingWashing mouth out with soapNipple clamps on the tongueExtended kneelingKneeling on sandpaper, rice, or legosStanding in the cornerHands and or feet in icePopsicle inserted in a holeBoot/ leather care/worshipStaring into a mirrorPaying compliments to selfViolent wandImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/404National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92- Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron- Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, Solsticee, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, and Beatrix Kiddo- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and AshleyVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypthttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss and review the representation of kink in the film Secretary (2002) starring James Spader and Maggie Gyllenhal. Join us as we talk about the different aspects and situations which director, Steven Shainberg chose to depict in this Romantic Dramedy centered around a kinky relationship developing between a lawyer and his secretary. CW/TW: Self harm, mental health, alcoholism, possible abusive situations A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thekinkytavern/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thekinkytavern/support

In this episode we'll talk about how your BSDM archetype is directly linked to who you are as a person and how knowing your BSDM archetypes are key in understanding who you truly are. #goddesstalkspodcast #BSDM #Freud “The more perfect a person is on the outside, the more demons they have on the inside.” - Sigmund Freud Listen to the full podcast on Anchor or Spotify: https://anchor.fm/elise-50003 Goddess Talks Podcast With Elise 5000 on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3hpmsS07nmDfwXUsD6r4lU Goddess Talks Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/goddess-talks-by-elise-5000/id1583447247 Goddess Talks Podcast on Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOWZjeL5FovSmxjWcfq_EU8Zs0uuQ_wYX Stream Elise 5000 Music: Apple Music | https://music.apple.com/us/artist/elise-5000/354056243 Spotify |https://open.spotify.com/artist/2x3vd7CZde5WHwfDIPxftP?si=vpZh-a4KTVqPbWVLWnxL6A&dl_branch=1 Available on ALL Platforms! Follow Elise 5000: Instagram: https://instagram.com/elise5000 Facebook: https://facebook.com/elise5000 Youtube: https://youtube.com/officialelise5000 My name is Cortni Elisa Jordan & I am a recording artist, songwriter by the name of Elise 5000. Part of my life's mission is to help raise the frequency of the planet by expanding my own consciousness & raising my own vibration and then sharing what I've learned on my personal journey. I believe there is a shift happening on the planet, and people are waking up and want to know more about the universe, themselves and the nature of reality. I'm here to be a part of that process, the great awakening & shift from 3D into 5D consciousness. Check out this EPIC content: The Goddess and the Explorer - Part I - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NmzMcSAOq1A The Goddess and the Explorer - Part II - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEEWhtIl4OQ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/elise-50003/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/elise-50003/support

Let's be honest, we all make mistakes. Sometimes we steal from the cookie jar, sometimes we get caught. And sometimes we open a mysterious puzzle box and summon an order of demons who wear leather and like to flay people alive for fun. That's right, in this episode we are talking about The Hellbound Heart, by Clive Barker. So Grab your BSDM attire, your hooks, chains, and... Ok, your jars of Urine... and buckle in for a ride you won't forget. Hosted by Phil Alighieri and Damien Hastur. Next Episode: Perfume: The Story of a Murderer, by Patrick Süskind Get the Book here: https://www.amazon.com/Perfume-Story-Murderer-Patrick-Suskind/dp/0375725849 Our Theme Music: Comfortable Mystery 3 by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3529-comfortable-mystery-3 License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/weirdsequence/message

Diese Folge hat alles: die besonders lustigen und die besonders doofen Momente. Mein Farbspektrum ist kleiner geworden, Andis Marvel-Horizont hat sich vergrößert und dazwischen brainstormen wir noch über Erotik-Autorenpseudonyme. Wild wie das Dschungelcamp im Harz.

BDSM & How you have been using it your whole sexually life & How to be safe in exploring this lifestyle. How can this heal? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/belligerentollo/support

Hosts John Hill and Marc MacNamara are back! For this week's episode, Marc is giving John a crash course on how he positions his films, John has them fill out a very personal BSDM quiz, and both hosts share their thoughts on And Just Like That, Spencer, and House of Gucci for a scorching round of Thot Topics. They are then joined by Marc's best friend and ex-boyfriend, comedy icon Bianca Del Rio (RuPaul's Drag Race, Everybody's Talking About Jamie) and porn star Diego Sans (Get. Away.), for a real shitty conversation on their biggest personal disasters. The four talk all about destroying an IKEA bathroom, horrifying bedroom accidents, the infamous OnlyFans video between Diego and Drag Race star Milk, that one time Bianca got way too high, Madonna's acting career, hooking up with fans, and why Bianca vehemently despises Hocus Pocus. After playing a wild round of Bop or Slop with their guests, Marc and John take turns counting off the most outrageous disasters that have ever happened to them during a live show and even take a call from adult actor Paul Canon (Wild Weekend) on what you should do when you have an incredibly public accident in a restaurant.    WATCH THE PODCAST DiscAdPod.com FOLLOW DISCRETION ADVISED Twitter.com/DiscAdPod Instagram.com/DiscAdPod

This is the second of a two-part episode in which we discuss our past, present, and future experiences with this highly transgressive form of kinky play, including forms of play that are based in past and present non-kinky cultural practices. We also discuss kinky ordeals as spiritual edge play. Episode Art: "Cupid Testing The Flame Of His Torch," Pierre-Paul Prud'hon, 1814Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Jislaaik)

Are you ready to get the inside scoop on a public dungeon experience?  The Wives report back on their sexy homework, including attending a dungeon newbie night and an EDM and play party.  First, if you love pumpkin but are sick to death of a PSL, give this Pumpkin Rum Cider a try, while Kat shares a Hot Tale with Mr. Ams on the side of a mountain! Next, Kat shares her experience with a dungeon newbie night, complete with tickle bench and Shibari rope tie tutorials.  Then, Ams takes it up a notch by attending an Alien Invasion EDM dance and play party at her local dungeon, where she volunteers to get flogged on a St. Andrew's cross.  Finally, the first share Just the Tips so you can have a fun and successful dungeon experience.  A dungeon is a great place to explore kinkier, edgier play, surrounded by people who LOVE to demonstrate their skills.  You can learn, you can watch and you can experience kink including spanking, flogging, bondage and suspension.  You can also use equipment that you might not be willing to invest in at home, such as St. Andrew's cross's (Ams' favorite!), hooks and bars or suspension play, spanking benches and impact toys.  Inspired to create your own personal dungeon or venture into BSDM play?  Check out our website, with articles, bonus content, products we love and more.  We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show!  How to find the 2HotWives: Website Instagram Twitter

Join Nat Higgins, M.Ed., and Ruairi on a journey through Ruairi's ... uh... interesting intro to BSDM. If you are not involved in BDSM or kink, it's often shrouded in mystery and many people assume that certain kinks are entry-level stuff, but they assume wrong! Digressions include Onlyfans, actual oscillating fans, COVID-19, and more! You can find Ruairi on Onlyfans for the time being (Pssssst it's discounted till they get kicked off)! To support Nat continuing to correct the record on BDSM, join us on Patreon! Jingle by Dave Hansen P.S. Check out Dave's Music Projects new album (Released 8/23/21) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Imagine you have a book on your shelf that's been waiting to be read, but despite your desire to read it, it keeps getting pushed back and back...and back...until it's been sitting there for years, lonely and ignored. Well, the three of us decided enough is enough! The time for avoidance is over and the time for reading is now! This week on Romancing the Monsters, we're trying something new and facing the monsters of our TBR shelf, whether it's books we're scared will make us emotional, books with too much hype or simply books we're scared might've not aged well, we're about to take a leap and read them anyway! We invite you, our listeners, on this journey, pick an old book off your own TBR and read with us! Trigger warning: mentions of loss/death of loved ones, abusive environments, BSDM, attempted assault and kidnapping, derogatory term usage, false accusations, and separation from a loved one. Books mentioned: The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid The Law of Moses by Amy Harmon Friend-Zone by Belle Aurora Find us: E-mail—romancingthemonsterspodcast@gmail.com Twitter—@theRTMpod Instagram—@romancingthemonsterspodcast TikTok—@Romancingthemonsterspod Youtube—Romancing the Monsters Podcast Find M: Instagram & Twitter—@foesandlovers Find S: Instagram & Twitter—@butthisbook Find Seff: Instagram & Twitter—@prosewithwoes Romancing the Monsters is a podcast that looks at the monster within: the shadow keeping the characters away from true and absolute happiness. This monster can be a prejudice, fear, insecurity, trauma and so on. We believe that romance novels are as much about one's personal journey as they are about finding love. After all, love makes us vulnerable and forces us to bare our monsters to another.

A few weeks ago, a popular rope artist who predominately does rope on white women, posted a picture of a WOC who bottomed for them and in the process tokenized them in a way that made them feel uncomfortable. They didn't consent to being the token in their feed and in the process of trying to show off for doing rope (finally) on a WOC, they managed to get their race wrong. This lead to a huge debate on their page and a larger conversation about POC in BDSM media. What I didn't know at the time was that some WOC pay rope artists to do the rope they do on white women for free. There's a lot of conversations to be had about accessibility, race and kink, but I also think it's worth considering if you're creating BSDM media as representation or if you're simply showing off your art. Being a black bottom can be...interesting. Support the show

Are you ready for BDSM 101? This week Steph continues on with the fetish series by explaining the basics of BSDM.  She covers BDSM contracts, the variations of D/s and sadomasochist relationships, and different types of safe words. 

En este gran Episodio nos acompaña Pablo Cruz Guerrero, antagonista de la temporada 2 de la serie de Luis Miguel, para hablar de sadomasoquismo. Acompáñanos a resolver tus dudas sobre BSDM a ver si te animas a probarlo...que nosotros te contaremos a qué se animan los flamingos, Pablo y su personaje, Patricio Robles...¿futuro manager de Luis Miguel? Te invitamos a seguir a Pablo Cruz para enterarte más sobre él: https://instagram.com/pablocruzguerrero Y claro, anótate en la lista de flamingos para enterarte de todo ASAP en: https://instagram.com/the.red.flamingo Distribuido por Genuina Media

In this episode we're joined by BDSM performer and educator Sir Ezra. He's the HeadMaster of the Leather/ BDSM household The House of Algos, and he's here to tell us all about the BDSM lifestyle, his career in BDSM and the BDSM community as a whole and how to introduce BDSM into your life. Listen in for an introduction to BDSM We begin the episode with a segment where we hear about our listeners' kinks, from hentai to tentacle porn to bondage, and Sir Ezra teaches us the difference between a kink and a fetish. We then move onto how he got into BDSM, from being into dominating and sadism from a young age to pushing away his interests in BDSM because he thought it was 'bad,' to finally working in the BDSM community. He tells us what it's like to do BDSM as a profession, and that he got into BDSM education because he was interested in teaching. We then move on to BDSM communication, safety, respect and consent, which is extremely important. So many people think that BDSM is a dangerous community, but actually Sir Ezra teaches us that because the BDSM community are so open and educated about power roles that they are actually much better at communicating boundaries and setting safe words so that consent is clearer and safer. He also teaches us some BDSM terms and types of BDSM roles. We end the episode by hearing about how to introduce BDSM into your life, and how to find BDSM community sites so you can learn safe BDSM practices and rules. You can find Sir Ezra on https://www.houseofalgos.com/ (https://www.houseofalgos.com/) for more BDSM information and to take some BDSM courses with an expert. You can buy his book 'Mindfucking Mindfully: A Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM & Sadomasochism' there too, and he's also on Instagram, TikTok and Twitter under House of Algos. Don't forget to subscribe and share with everyone you know, and you can find more of us at all the usual places: Instagram: @sextraspocast Facebook: Sextras Podcast Email: sextraspodcast@gmail.com Website: http://www.sextraspodcast.com/ (www.sextraspodcast.com) See you next week! Produced by Mable Productions Original music by Sacha Puttnam

POLYAMOROUS/ˌpɒlɪˈam(ə)rəs/adjectivecharacterized by or involved in the practice of engaging in multiple romantic (and typically sexual) relationships, with the consent of all the people involved."intimacy and trust are essential to successful polyamorous relationships"OPEN RELATIONSHIPnoun: open relationshipa marriage or relationship in which both partners agree that each may have sexual relations with others.ENMEthical Non-Monogamy. A style of relationship where non-monogamy, the state of being romantically or sexually involved or partnered with multiple people, is practiced in a ethical/moral fashion, in such a manner that every person involved in the relationship, sexual or romantic connections know they and those involved are with multiple people.Remember to listen, like and share! Send your comments, feedback and love to us on Instagram @EncyclopediaOfDating

POLYAMOROUS/ˌpɒlɪˈam(ə)rəs/adjectivecharacterized by or involved in the practice of engaging in multiple romantic (and typically sexual) relationships, with the consent of all the people involved."intimacy and trust are essential to successful polyamorous relationships"OPEN RELATIONSHIPnoun: open relationshipa marriage or relationship in which both partners agree that each may have sexual relations with others.ENMEthical Non-Monogamy. A style of relationship where non-monogamy, the state of being romantically or sexually involved or partnered with multiple people, is practiced in a ethical/moral fashion, in such a manner that every person involved in the relationship, sexual or romantic connections know they and those involved are with multiple people.Remember to listen, like and share! Send your comments, feedback and love to us on Instagram @EncyclopediaOfDating

Disclaimer: graphic content We are so excited to finally release this episode!  We sat down with Domina (not her real name) to discuss the world of BDSM and kink, and how her work as a dominamatrix has allowed her to see another side of humanity.  The idea that we are all weirdos at the end of the day could never be truer, and also never be more liberating.   Join us as we do a deep dive into fetlife ("Fetlife", by the way, is a great resource to go if you are curious about BDSM), how the practice of kink is typically incredibly mindful of safety, consent, and compassion, and how Domina spends more time reading about human psychology and mental health than she does spend reading about how to tie shibari knots.  You would be surprised and pleased to learn how many transferrable skills there are from the kink world that can positively impact our own relationships, kinky and otherwise.   Remember to show us some love by rating, reviewing, and subscribing on Apple Podcasts.  Episode is available on all podcast platforms.  

 Studies:Sexual Exploration American StudyContacts:Dr. Zelaika HepworthFB: Dr. Zelaika Hepworth ClarkeIG: @dr.zelWebsite: www.zelaika.comAshley NetanelWebsite:ashaboutsex.com (Coming Soon)@ashaboutsex (Coming Soon)BooksYes means Yes- Jaclyn Friedman and Jessica ValentiThe Ultimate Guide to Kink - Tristan Taormino - has chapters about different types of kinks written by popular kink educatorsThe New Topping Book & The New Bottoming Book - Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy - two books on power exchange, the dominant and submissive roles respectivelyPlaying Well with Others - Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams - LOVE this book - a great field guide to anyone looking to get involved in the Kink communityArticles “The Fantasy of Acceptable ‘Nonconsent’: Why the Female Sexual Submissive Scares Us (and Why She Shouldn’t)” by Stacey May Fowles

On this episode I speak with Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey about her therapy, coaching, and trauma work with sex positive humans. ⁣ ⁣ Dr. Bisbey specializes in trauma care and clients with PTSD, because she has experienced PTSD as a survivor of sexual assault. As a member of the sex positive communities, she is able to address the specific needs of clients from the kink, BSDM, polyamory, and sex worker communities. In this episode Dr. Bisbey discusses how her trauma therapy is structured, and how a restorative justice model operates for perpetrators of sexual violence and their victims, in contrast to a “cancel culture” model.⁣ ⁣ Shout outs in this episode:⁣ @sit_with_kit⁣ ⁣ Find Dr. Lori Bisbey at:⁣ @drbisbey⁣ Drloribethbisbey.com⁣ ⁣ Support Intellectual Erection at:⁣ patreon.com/intellectualerection⁣ ⁣ Find Intellectual Erection on:⁣ IG: @intellectual_erection⁣ Twitter: @intellectual_EP⁣ FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Det her bliver ikke stuerent, for vi bukkakeer vores analytiske gloser ud over Pornhub, hvor vi tager et voyeurkig på de mest populære genrer i det danske land (lots of step-porn in there). Ret hurtigt får vi en velbevandret guide i Pornhub, da Tobias tager BSDM-pisken og viser de jomfruelige Peter og Anders, hvordan streamingtjenesten skal håndteres. Tobias griber det generelt ret analt an og viser sig at være meget struktureret i sin cockholding af tjenestens content. Vi mødtes på årets varmeste dag, men der var hedt i studiet i forvejen - så du kan se frem til én times røvsved, pearl necklaces, røde kinder og seksuelt uanstændige pornotitler. Vi pegges på åen! Forresten... Vi er på Twitter/Instagram: @streamaaen / @streamaaen. Og Facebook: www.facebook.com/streamaaen. Kontakt os gerne: streamaaen@gmail.com. Bag podcasten står Peter Vistisen, Tobias Iskov Thomsen og Anders Zimmer Hansen - alle tidligere stedsøstre med brother issues.

When I was in school, one of my teachers had a horrible temper. He was not a happy person and he would routinely take out his insecurities on students, but one day he singled out a classmate I'll refer to as Nathan.Nathan had Asberger syndrome and social interaction was challenging for him, so when my teacher got right up in his face and demanded that he repeat a lesson over and over, it was too much.Nathan closed his eyes tight like he was trying to shut out the rest of the world.It was horrible to watch. I felt my blood boiling and I wanted to scream STOP IT! CAN'T YOU SEE WHAT YOU'RE DOING TO HIM??But I didn't say anything. And neither did the rest of the class. We all just sat there, horrified and too scared to speak up.When the class was over, a few of us agreed that we should go to the main office and report the teacher. “Let's go do it now,” I said.At that moment, you could see a change in my classmates. One said, “Well…maybe we should wait a bit.” Another said, “It won't happen again…” The third person said, “I have a test to get to.”I had to do it alone, and the worst part was, I second-guessed myself all the way to the main office. I couldn't help but think…Why does doing the right thing feel so wrong?George Floyd is a Victim of Fear, Not HateWhen I watched the footage this morning of yet another black American being murdered by police offices, what caught my attention was not the act itself but the people witnessing it.Why are we all so scared to intervene?Why are we more intent on filming atrocities than stopping them?I think it comes down to intuition.Bystanders didn't help George Floyd for the same reason that I didn't speak up for my classmate—we felt kindness but didn't act on it.Don't Second-Guess YourselfI don't believe there's any such thing as a “racist” person or a “callous” person. Every human being is programmed for kindness. It's our second voice that makes us harm others or allow others to be harmed.We feel kindness before anything else, but when we don't act on our emotions, the conservative part of our brains takes over.We start to worry about what other people will think of us—how speaking up will affect our status and our safety. And once this second voice gets going, it's very hard to ignore. So we record things instead of challenging them.Never second-guess kindness.What Needs to Change?It's clear to me that nothing we're doing is working. Protesting does not work. Party politics don't work. Rioting certainly doesn't work. All these things just reinforce hatred and fear on both sides.So what do we do?If we follow racist behavior back to its roots, here's what we'll find…Racism is caused by fear.Fear is caused by a lack of understanding.Misunderstandings are caused by an inability to communicate.Unfortunately, the most important piece of communication in the #BlackLivesMatter debate is the one that no one is talking about…Police/bystander relations.Bystanders Have the Best ViewpointThink about it. Police officers and the people they arrest are the least equipped to be reasonable because they're in the middle of flight or fight mode. Bystanders, on the other hand, have an outside perspective.If we want to avoid more senseless deaths, there needs to be a protocol for civilians expressing their concerns—and police officers listening.What comes to mind for me is the idea of a “safeword.”In the BSDM community, this means STOP! Something is very wrong here and we need to bring everything to a dead halt so we can talk about it.Win/Win For People and PoliceAt the end of the day, what everyone wants is to be understood and respected. It seems to me that instead of treating punishment as a longterm solution we should be spending our time trying to develop a code of conduct for extraordinary situations like the one that resulted in George Floyd's death.As a civilian, I want to “say something when I see something,” but frankly I'm intimidated by police offers—first and foremost because I don't know how to safely express my concerns without being perceived as a threat.I think most Americans (especially black Americans) feel the same way.We want to do the right thing.We want to heal our country and our communities.We want to interact safely and respectfully with police officers. It's just that police departments haven't given us a way to do so (other than to “back up” and “disperse”).Communication has been lost somewhere in between protect and serve, but the good news is that both sides want to talk.It's time to figure out how.

We explore how emotional vulnerability or physical touch with complete strangers isn't necessarily intimate. We introduce non-sexual kink and BSDM as a topic. On the fannish side, you'll hear about Smallville, Miraculous Ladybug, The Avengers, and more!

What is BDSM? What makes it any different from being a little freaky in the bedroom? What does BDSM stand for anyway? Join us to learn what makes it different. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ashgurl91/support

Hey Poets!  Tonight we are talking about submission and domination and all the kinky things in between. Bring your open mind and please keep it classy. A little left but not raw. No dissertations please! Tell Ms. VIP what you're bringing...clamps, rope, whips, paddles...who is into Shibari? Bring me some knowledge, some fire pieces and fire up these airways! Dial 319-527-6300 and press 1 to be heard!

On this episode I speak with William Lavinia about the social construction of gender, undergoing hormone replacement therapy, and what it’s like to experience life with high testosterone. Will not only challenges the normative notions of gender but also those of biological sex, or what some folks call sex assigned at birth. It’s a difficult task challenging the hegemonic scientific status quo while also feeling like you have to defend your identity—but this is the lived experience of many humans outside the gender binary. Will discusses hormone replacement therapy and the effects of testosterone both on the body and on behaviour. We also talk about healthy and toxic masculinity and how to exercise the taboos of masculinity in BSDM. Find will on: IG: @william.lavinia Twitter: @crewfoxxx Support Intellectual Erection at: patreon.com/intellectualerection Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectual_erection Twitter: @intellectual_EP FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Cum with Duchess as she travels down the vortex on another sexy adventure. Hot flashes aren't the only on fire! Glow parties, BSDM, and free food always make for a perfect night with plenty of cock-tales to spare. Inside the Cashmere room where pleasure is my Specialty

In this Episode Rocky Talks to Long Island Comedy Kristen Tinsley a former mistress about her story. As well as discussing Rapper T.I's still checking his teenage daughter's hymen while Rocky has a story to share about her cousin's recent friend request. Check out Kristen Tinsley on Facebook.Also Rocky at Pleasurenoise or DjRockyleeSavage . Twitter: Noisypleasure orEmail:Pleasurablenoise.com

No te gusta el sexo duro? NO LO ESCUCHES No te gusta ver como se humilla un hombre por placer? NO LO ESCUCHES No te gusta que pasen al siguiente nivel cuando practicas sexo? NO LO ESCUCHES Solo lo recomendamos para amantes de BSDM y para iniciados al Sexo Hardcore. Conoce nuestra web Cabecera narrada por Natalia Erotica recomendamos sus libros Relato Narrado por nuestra perfectamente perfecta Valentina

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BARNEY RUBBLE! Get your safe words ready because this week we're breaking down Netflix's sexhibitional show, Bonding! We follow BFF's Pete and Tiff (aka Mistress May) into enigmatic world BSDM culture. It's a quick one...quick like those burns Pete (aka Carter) nails at the end. You definitely need to have an open mind for this one. Our minds are way open! Enjoy! Audio: Netflix Music: yocomet

If you read or saw the movie Fifty Shades of Grey and you were curious about the secret world of bondage then this is the episode for you. Bondage guy calls in to discuss the ins and out of the bsdm lifestyle and explains how he got into the lifestyle, how you can get into it, the complex relationship between the master and submissive plus a detailed account of his most recent experience at a bdsm gathering which includes a guy, his wife and a bunch of other guys. Tune in for all the details and a whole lot more.    

BDSM er en form for sex-fetisj. BSDM dreier seg om å dominere andre eller bli dominert. Ofte er binding, lakk og lær involvert og det blir brukt pisk eller andre verktøy for å påføre partner smerte. I denne episoden har vi fått besøk av "Daddy", en person som er dypt dedikert til BSDM, og er en stor del av miljøet. Han kom også med en Ishockey bag til studio med utstyr.. Noe Aron får kjenne på kroppen helt i slutten av episoden!!

Bub skates with meathead Beer League Hockey players. We complain not so much about the lack of gun control but the comments about the subject. We laugh at the kid caught looking at his phone while standing next to JT during the Super Bowl halftime show. We reminisce about the NFL logo coat. We talk about or review A.P. Bio, The Cloverfield Paradox, Far Cry 5, and Cobra Kai. And finally Dave comments on BSDM, and Live PD.

Les vamos a decir TODO lo que deben saber sobre el BSDM, bondage, sadomasoquismo, dominio, etc.

Les vamos a decir TODO lo que deben saber sobre el BSDM, bondage, sadomasoquismo, dominio, etc.

She's the beautiful author of an erotic novel. He's the talk show host who likes to choke women with his belt. Was the sex consensual? Did she really write the book? And why is Munch reading a BSDM book to his blind mother? We're looking at SVU season 14 episode 3 "Twenty-five Acts." Our guest is Julia Turner, Editor-in-Chief at Slate magazine. The episode takes some cues from the blackmail scandal of Late Night host David Letterman. Support the show.

Download here *** Please don't be alarmed by the new intro!!!***   TheWickedJade joins us for this episode as we pick her very knowledgable brain, about all things fashion. Kinky, sexy, fetishy fashion that is. You can follow her on Instagram (@thewickedjade) if you want to see her great pictures of some truly lovely lingerie and clothing pieces.   Once you’ve found you’ve way into the BSDM community and have decided you want to try out a Fetish event, one of the first questions people ask is ‘What do I wear?’ Nearly all of us have been there, and it can really take the edge of an event if you’re panicking that your outfit isn’t going to be right.   There can be a huge temptation to just go for the Latex option, the nature of Latex means it is inherently Fetishy, but at the same time it really isn’t for everyone. Spending the night in Latex if you really don’t enjoy it is no fun. Even those of us who absolutely love Latex, sometimes have the odd event where we just don’t feel in the Latex mood. So why not ditch the generic ideas of what is Fetish fashion, and find something that truly is your style and makes you feel fabulous.   How though? That is the question we need answering. So that is what we discuss in this episode. We talk about accessories, body painting, double act outfits and much more. Some other things we consider are cost of outfits and what you might like to do in the outfit once you’re at the event.   Men seem to flounder even more so when it comes to dressing for Fetish events, especially if they’re really not into Latex or feel it won’t flatter their body type. We have all seen men rocking some great outfits though, so we try and present some ideas that could give the guys listening some inspiration for their next kinky outfit.   We also ask WickedJade how she got into kink, and what sort of kinks interest her. This leads us to talking about vet wrap, mummification, medical play and much more. Including singing the praises of eBay and our quick fire question round. If anything we discuss in the episode doesn’t quite answer all your Fetish fashion queries then please do email us via hello@proudtobekinky.com with any questions you have and we will do our best to find the answers for you. You can also get in touch on all our social media accounts, Instagram, Twitter, Fetlife and Facebook. We will respond to all messages, and we love hearing from you. You can also support us on our Patreon account too.

Sexologist, and expert Michelle Hope is here as we discuss: threesomes, types of genitals, taboos, the problem with porn, BSDM, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://megaphone.fm/adchoices (megaphone.fm/adchoices)

Sexologist, and expert Michelle Hope is here as we discuss: threesomes, types of genitals, taboos, the problem with porn, BSDM, and more.

Kuldrin’s KryptS01E09-Red Flags, Fake Doms, & PredatorsFebruary 6th, 2017IntroThis is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 9 for February 4th, 2017.(start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On the krypt tonight it’s part one of a three part series where we are going to unearth the truth about red flags, fake doms & predators.Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungNow to Red Flags, Fake Doms, and Predatorshttp://www.submissiveguide.com/2009/04/identifying-fake-dominants-posers/To start this discussion we need to get a couple of definitions out of the way...First, what exactly are “red flags”? They are anything that warns you of impending dread, danger, and/or threat. Second, what is a fake Dominant? This is someone who is just out for sex, fantasy and an easy lay. Fake Dominants may also be predators but we will get into those in later in this episode. Most of the time you will be dealing with the fakers, so that’s what this segment is all about.We now have online and real time versions of Dominants. I’m going to blend the two, because in this day and age it is likely that you meet someone online and move to real life.The most obvious fake Dominant will want to skip straight to the sex. They may start their conversation out sweetly enough, but it will soon become sexually oriented. Cyber sex may be suggested or you will be pushed to play on the first date or well before you’d be ready to. They don’t get to know you for who you are first. These are the booty chasers.Fake “doms” will also exaggerate their experience level. It does NOT matter what someone says...unless they can prove it. Chances are a 25 year old does not have 10 years of experience unless they are counting fantasies. However, you can’t judge experience by a number. Someone can say they have 10 years of experience, but if 6 years of that they were ‘on a break’ or not in a relationship...then that’s not experience.Fake Dominants will also try to Dom you without a relationship being present. This could be dictating what you are to wear for first meetings, when you are to be available online to chat, etc. Setting up rules and trying to make you do them before it is agreed upon is a HUGE red flag. If you haven’t negotiated these things then it isn’t informed consent. Some “doms” say they have a lot of references and can list names, but when I asked for phone numbers, email addresses, or Fetlife info they always come up with a reason to not have the requested info. References are meant to be useful. If they can’t give you contact information so that you can check them out, that’s a huge red flag. Honest Dominants will not only give them to you, but be happy that you check them out. Remember, those that have nothing to hide, hide nothing.Fake Dominants may also try to get you to not meet them in public...and they can be pretty persuasive…”oh, just come to the house so we can get to know each other in private.” Yeah, right. DO NOT...and I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH...DO NOT meet anyone you don’t know in a private location! Set up your safe call, and if the “dom” refuses to let you check in, and sometimes they are just really good at distracting you so you forget or don’t think about it, but if this is taking place leave immediately!Another red flag to be cautious of is if they want to get to know you, you are on good terms and they won’t share their phone number, where they live, etc but they expect you to. Also, if you are only able to call between narrow time frames. This is a red flag of not only fake Dominants but also cheaters! Another clue of cheaters is disappearing online without warning and doing it frequently. They bail so that their partner doesn’t see what they are doing.And finally is a Dominant requesting or forcing you to change something before you’ve agreed to a relationship. This could be along the lines of changing your hair because they don’t like it, losing weight, or breaking up with friends because they are ‘bad influences’. No one should make you change. A good Dominant will like you for who you are when getting to know you. There is no reason you should try to fit someone’s mold.Fake Dominants are everywhere and have many tricks up their sleeve. Use this a starting point because the list of things they can do to try to get you to believe in them and open up is almost endless. Stay safe, use your common sense and if it feels wrong it probably is.NEXT WEEK’S AGENDAWe will continue the conversation with part two of red flags, fake doms, and predators. In the meantime be sure to checkout our site kuldrinskrypt.com and while you’re there click on the support us to find out how to receive a Kuldrin’s Krypt t-shirt or hoodie. Also, don’t forget about kuldrinskrypt.com/shop It’s our amazon affiliate store where we tryout fun toys, books and other things...if we like it we add it there.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

Kuldrin’s KryptS01E09-Red Flags, Fake Doms, & PredatorsFebruary 6th, 2017IntroThis is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 9 for February 4th, 2017.(start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On the krypt tonight it’s part one of a three part series where we are going to unearth the truth about red flags, fake doms & predators.Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungNow to Red Flags, Fake Doms, and Predatorshttp://www.submissiveguide.com/2009/04/identifying-fake-dominants-posers/To start this discussion we need to get a couple of definitions out of the way...First, what exactly are “red flags”? They are anything that warns you of impending dread, danger, and/or threat. Second, what is a fake Dominant? This is someone who is just out for sex, fantasy and an easy lay. Fake Dominants may also be predators but we will get into those in later in this episode. Most of the time you will be dealing with the fakers, so that’s what this segment is all about.We now have online and real time versions of Dominants. I’m going to blend the two, because in this day and age it is likely that you meet someone online and move to real life.The most obvious fake Dominant will want to skip straight to the sex. They may start their conversation out sweetly enough, but it will soon become sexually oriented. Cyber sex may be suggested or you will be pushed to play on the first date or well before you’d be ready to. They don’t get to know you for who you are first. These are the booty chasers.Fake “doms” will also exaggerate their experience level. It does NOT matter what someone says...unless they can prove it. Chances are a 25 year old does not have 10 years of experience unless they are counting fantasies. However, you can’t judge experience by a number. Someone can say they have 10 years of experience, but if 6 years of that they were ‘on a break’ or not in a relationship...then that’s not experience.Fake Dominants will also try to Dom you without a relationship being present. This could be dictating what you are to wear for first meetings, when you are to be available online to chat, etc. Setting up rules and trying to make you do them before it is agreed upon is a HUGE red flag. If you haven’t negotiated these things then it isn’t informed consent. Some “doms” say they have a lot of references and can list names, but when I asked for phone numbers, email addresses, or Fetlife info they always come up with a reason to not have the requested info. References are meant to be useful. If they can’t give you contact information so that you can check them out, that’s a huge red flag. Honest Dominants will not only give them to you, but be happy that you check them out. Remember, those that have nothing to hide, hide nothing.Fake Dominants may also try to get you to not meet them in public...and they can be pretty persuasive…”oh, just come to the house so we can get to know each other in private.” Yeah, right. DO NOT...and I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH...DO NOT meet anyone you don’t know in a private location! Set up your safe call, and if the “dom” refuses to let you check in, and sometimes they are just really good at distracting you so you forget or don’t think about it, but if this is taking place leave immediately!Another red flag to be cautious of is if they want to get to know you, you are on good terms and they won’t share their phone number, where they live, etc but they expect you to. Also, if you are only able to call between narrow time frames. This is a red flag of not only fake Dominants but also cheaters! Another clue of cheaters is disappearing online without warning and doing it frequently. They bail so that their partner doesn’t see what they are doing.And finally is a Dominant requesting or forcing you to change something before you’ve agreed to a relationship. This could be along the lines of changing your hair because they don’t like it, losing weight, or breaking up with friends because they are ‘bad influences’. No one should make you change. A good Dominant will like you for who you are when getting to know you. There is no reason you should try to fit someone’s mold.Fake Dominants are everywhere and have many tricks up their sleeve. Use this a starting point because the list of things they can do to try to get you to believe in them and open up is almost endless. Stay safe, use your common sense and if it feels wrong it probably is.NEXT WEEK’S AGENDAWe will continue the conversation with part two of red flags, fake doms, and predators. In the meantime be sure to checkout our site kuldrinskrypt.com and while you’re there click on the support us to find out how to receive a Kuldrin’s Krypt t-shirt or hoodie. Also, don’t forget about kuldrinskrypt.com/shop It’s our amazon affiliate store where we tryout fun toys, books and other things...if we like it we add it there.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

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