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Send us a textIn this episode of Sex, Drugs, and Soul, I chat with certified sexologist Coral Osborne. Our paths crossed in Austin at various events, and I've been impressed by her advocacy for men and the valuable insights she shares online on topics such as dating, intimacy, and authentic relating. We also share stories from our lived sex work experiences and how they have informed our views on intimacy, personal growth, and relationships. We explore everything from the Madonna-Whore complex, eroticizing trauma, and self-inquiry to why men often seek out sex workers, how childhood informs our relationships, and the subtle ways we deflect vulnerability, like making vulgar jokes to avoid being seen. If you find yourself feeling disheartened about modern dating, confused by relationship dynamics, or curious about intimacy drivers and lived sex work experiences delivered in a no-BS style, give this one a go. 00:00 - Introduction02:08 - Exploring Personal Turn-Ons 04:04 - Navigating Radical Honesty and Vulnerability05:46 - The Impact of Past Experiences on Sexuality09:06 - Understanding Men's Core Desires and Wounds11:50 - The Madonna-Whore Complex in Male Psychology14:58 - Self-Inquiry for Emotional Availability18:06 - Dating in the Modern Age: Apps vs. Real Life20:46 - Polarity and Gender Dynamics in Relationships25:04 - Navigating Modern Dating Dynamics28:03 - The Complexity of Receiving and Giving30:30 - Understanding Masculinity and Emotional Needs32:56 - Childhood Influences on Adult Relationships40:23 - Addressing Common Sexual Struggles47:20 - Upcoming Projects and ResourcesConnect with Coral:WebsiteInstagramStay tuned for her podcast that will be launching in July!Connect with Kristin:WebsiteInstagramYouTube Kristin's Best-Selling Book:Sex, Drugs, & Soul on AmazonSpotify Audiobook LinkSubscribe to the Podcast:YouTubeSpotifyApple
Send us a textCan you be a mom and a sexual being? Our culture loves moms—as long as they're selfless, sleepless, and silent about their desire. But what happens when a mother wants to reclaim her seductress energy?In this raw and radically honest episode, I'm joined by licensed therapist Emma Shandy Anway to take a wrecking ball to the Madonna/Whore complex and everything it's done to women's sex lives.We talk about:Why birth trauma and invisible labor silently sabotage libidoThe myth of “bouncing back”—and why it shouldn't mean bouncing away from sexWhat partners get wrong about postpartum intimacy (and how to show up right)How moms can start feeling sexy again—even if their body feels like a strangerAnd how reclaiming pleasure can actually make you a better parentWhether you're a mom, a partner, or just sick of purity politics hijacking pleasure, this episode is your permission slip to get turned on—and stay that way.Because sexy isn't something you lose after motherhood. It's something you fight to reclaim.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
Have you ever wondered if you're the asshole in your sex life and relationships? Today, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you're approaching asshole territory - and not the good kind. One listener hooked up with someone else while they were on a break, and now her partner says she can't be trusted. Who's the asshole here? Another listener wants to spice it up in the bedroom, but her husband with a kinky past sees her as a “delicate little angel.” Sounds like a case of the classic Madonna-Whore complex. What about when your partner won't perform oral sex? Are you the asshole for craving it? We get into all this and more. In today's episode, you'll learn: The importance of identifying your sexual fantasies How to work through ultimatums in relationships Why your sex life should evolve over time Show Notes: Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Nobody does selling better than Shopify. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/swe Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let's get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let's text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com
Sabrina Carpenter's 'Short n' Sweet' tour is off to a (literal) bang as right wing parents and TikTok teens are up in arms over Carpenter wearing lingerie on stage, claiming her costume is too sexual for her underage audience. Simultaneously on SWERF twitter, a new term has reared its head: Pedobaiting.Is the internet combining the Madonna/Whore complex to produce a new kind of sexism? Is this all because of decades of a cultural infantilisation of adult women? This week Ione and Gina get to terms with the issues facing female sexual expression in a post Qanon landscape.Support our work and become a Polyester Podcast member
In this episode, Candice Horbacz and Dr. Tara dive deep into the complexities of sexuality, discussing everything from the importance of early sexual education to the impact of societal norms like the "Madonna-Whore complex." They explore how shame-based education and purity culture can lead to riskier sexual behaviours and emphasize the importance of open communication in relationships, particularly around sexual desires and fantasies. Dr. Tara shares her journey of overcoming sexual shame and offers insights on reconnecting with one's sensuality, especially after life changes. The conversation also covers the use of somatic practices, the role of foreplay, and the importance of feeling emotionally safe in a relationship. Follow Candice Horbacz on socials: link.me/candicehorbacz Support The Podcast on Patreon: / candicehorbacz Checkout Dr. Tara's socials: - Follow on Instagram: / luvbites.co - Follow on X: https://x.com/luvbitesco - Follow on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2SZ60Rx...
Today Elaine chats to musical comedian Selena Mersey new show Madonna/Whore. We chat the inspiration for the show, how we face a new situation and how that challenges us, how society pts roles on us and how we fight against it and much more. Selena Mersey: Madonna/Whore - Underbelly Cowgate Dates: 13th - 25th August @ 6.40 pm Tickets available here: https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on/selena-mersey-madonna-whore Madonna/Whore Award-winning musical comedian and professional overthinker Selena Mersey is in a long-term relationship for the first time in her life. Unfortunately, she's also been reading about Freud. Can Selena's straight-passing romance survive the weight of anxiety, progressive politics, and an incredibly impactful psychology A Level? Presenting Madonna/Whore: a filthy, Freudian, feminist odyssey into the desire to be both and neither a mother and a slut. After a sellout run at Brighton Fringe, Mersey presents a souped-up redux of the psychodynamic sensation, featuring songs, stand-up, burlesque, and a live birth. Let this shambolic chanteuse enchant you out of your Freudian slip and show you what relationship counselling really looks like. Selena Mersey Selena Mersey is a musical comedy powerhouse, bisexual burlesque babe, and a force of nature theatre maker. A rising star on the UK's cabaret scene, she has performed in the finals of the Musical Comedy Awards, graced the stage of Europe's most prestigious burlesque competition ‘Burlesque Idol', been featured on the UK's premier comedy streaming platform NextUp, and made a splash on TikTok with over 3.5 million views. The shambolic songstress presented her hour-long debut Madonna/Whore at Brighton Fringe to great acclaim, winning 3 festival awards and being awarded funding to debut at Edinburgh Fringe. HIPA GUIDES: HIPA GUIDES OUR WEBSITE - www.persistentandnasty.co.uk Persistent Pal & Nasty Hero - Pals and Hero Membership Email – persistentandnasty@gmail.com Instagram - @persistentandnasty Twitter - @PersistentNasty Coffee Morning Eventbrite - Coffee Morning Tickets LINKTREE - LINKTR.EE Resources Samaritans - Rape Crisis Scotland - Rape Crisis UK ArtsMinds - BAPAM Freelancers Make Theatre Work Stonewall UK - Trevor Project - Mermaids UK Switchboard LGBT+ - GATE PLANNED PARENTHOOD DONATE - DONATE ABORTION SUPPORT NETWORK UK - ASN.COM- DONATE
VOTE FOR US FOR BEST PODCAST, BES ESCORT & BEST SEX THERAPIST AT THE AUSTRALIAN ADULT INDUSTRY AWARDS:https://adultawards.com.au/MAKE SURE YOU VOTE EVERYDAY! EVERY VOTE COUNTS :) HELP US WN FOR THE 2ND YEAR IN A ROW Catch up this week with Playboy Playmate of the Year Katija Cortez and International Sex Coach Markus Wolf for episode 62 of The Kat & Mark Show On the show this week:00:00 - The week that was 03:10 - Kat's 2nd Mandela Effect08:15 - Why do some men have bent dicks?12:18 - The Madonna/Whore complex 16:36 - The girlfriend experience 27:30 - Deepthroat is overrated32:20 - Reinvent yourself after a breakup? BTS & BONUS FOOTAGE:TIK TOKhttps://www.tiktok.com/@katandmarkshowINSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/katandmarkshow/KATIJA CORTEZ @playmatekatija https://katijasworld.com/MARKUS WOLF: @markasswolfhttps://linktr.ee/markasswolf
In episode 4 of Call My Agent (Dix Pour Cent) we enter the world of Audrey Fleurot, our guest star du jour, who struggles to juggle motherhood, being an actress, and obscenely high taxes - as well as a really pissy agent! Meanwhile, the relationship between Andrea and Colette finally progresses after many failed attempts by Andrea... Plus, Gabriel attempts to secure auditions for Sofia but faces racism from casting directors. We also discuss the Madonna-whore complex and the perception of women, classism, unexpected house calls, and a very satirical paparazzi shot.So please, grab a croissant or a Danish pastry, if you prefer… And let's get started!Music - QubeSoundsDesign - Our very own CamilleDon't forget to hit that subscribe button and please leave a review. You can also follow us on Instagram @callmyaccentpodcast. And if you have any questions or comments about the show, remember to ASK us on Instagram or our email callmyaccentpodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode, Graeme Daniels, co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, discusses again the psychic defense of splitting in the context of one famously understood "split", Freud's Madonna Whore complex, and a lesser known female-to-male splitting analogy, the Saint-Brute.
Leola chats with Kaisa who is a sexual empowerment and feminine business coach. Kaisa discusses her journey from fitness to sexual liberation and women's empowerment. She shares how she overcame her fear of speaking about sex and the challenges she faced with her family's reaction. Kaisa explains her approach to teaching and empowering women, combining spiritual and sexual elements. She also delves into the concept of women having it all and the importance of embracing both the light and dark aspects of femininity. The episode concludes with a discussion on the inner masculine and the power of integrating all aspects of oneself.FREE offer: Sexual Shadow Work Book & Pleasure Positive MeditationReady for a Higher Love? Join our community today.Use code LEOLA for 15% off at WAANDS.com.Let's connect IRL. Check out all upcoming events and offerings here.Find and follow KaisaIG: @kaisaminnihttps://www.kaisaminni.com/Find and follow Leola...www.talktantratome.comIG: @talktantratomeTwitter: @talktantratome
Trigger Warning: Sensitive subject matter on sexuality discussed Carmen Z and special guest Niajah B, her trusted sidekick, do another round of exploring life's hot topics with more of Lana Del Rey's lyrics, because Lana is a God. Sigmund Freud, everyone's favorite Grandfather of psychoanalysis, coined the phrase “Madonna Whore Complex,” to try and make sense of man's complex relationship with women's sexuality. The best way to explain how they harmonize the music and the madness, is to listen! Check out Carmen F. Zumot's book Empire Amethyst A Harmoniously Blended Poetry Collection: Light, Love & Madness And more about Carmen Z @ www.carmenfzumot.com
Have you ever wondered if you're the asshole in your sex life and relationships? Today, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you're approaching asshole territory - and not the good kind. One listener hooked up with someone else while they were on a break, and now her partner says she can't be trusted. Who's the asshole here? Another listener wants to spice it up in the bedroom, but her husband with a kinky past sees her as a “delicate little angel.” Sounds like a case of the classic Madonna-Whore complex. What about when your partner won't perform oral sex? Are you the asshole for craving it? We get into all this and more.In today's episode, you'll learn:The importance of identifying your sexual fantasiesHow to work through ultimatums in relationshipsWhy your sex life should evolve over timeSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Send us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at sexwithemily.com/aita.Show Notes:Ages & Stages In Your Sex LifeSoraya Beads from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)Flavored LubesYes No Maybe List & Other GuidesSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet's get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let's text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sponsor Link: Stoic Indifference: Manual of Basic Mental Disciplinehttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Stoic-Indiff...Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QfbHM...Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-2039428Odysee.TV: https://odysee.com/@SandmanMGTOW:cBitchute Link: https://www.bitchute.com/channel/YIxe...SubscribeStar.com: https://www.subscribestar.com/sandmanPaypal / Email: Sandmanmgtow @ Gmail.comBitcoin Address: bc1qtkeru8ygglfq36eu544hxw6n9hsh22l7fkf8uvHi Everyone Sandman Here,This video is brought to you by a donation from Roger. He didn't give me a specific topic so what I wanted to do was cover something that I ran into on the going your own way dot com forum called The Madonna Whore Complex posted by someone named Jugernaut. And his words explains why I had zero performance anxiety issues when in my mind I was about to break up her and I was just using her for sex the last few times we were together. But before that I could never get turned on as much as when it didn't mean anything emotionally. I think that if women understood this they would gain understanding that it's not that their husbands' aren't as attracted to them as they used to be over time it's that they idealise them and in the process lose their ability to let go and relax. Anyways, here's what Jugernaut has to say and I quote: "This phenomenon was first characterized by Sigmund Freud as a case series where he used it to describe why some married men were unable to be physically intimate with their wives (most men he used were of high status) but had absolutely no problem with sexual performance at brothels. His summation, after psychoanalysis, was that these men were suffering from a form of psychosexual impotence caused by the mischaracterization of women into distinct archetypes and one of them the man had zero sexual attraction to. The Madonna Whore complex describes women as being of 2 separate archetypes: The Madonna, or goddess - She possesses all the qualities of the ideal or perfect woman. She is what you want in a wife, the idealized perfect version in every way. Men for the most part have a set of qualities that they would like in a woman but with minor variances between them I won't list them. In other words, this is the woman you marry and have a family with. As a man, you are more likely to pedestalize her so your sexual arousal for her is lower than the other archetype. The second is the whore. She possesses qualities that you deem unworthy of being a wife and mother to your children. But she sexually arouses you much more than the first type. She is the ultimate pump and dump woman. You do not value her opinion, you do not listen to her. Her only purpose is sexual release. (Freud had a lot of descriptors for both types which I won't list because every man already knows the characteristics... it doesn't need to be listed.) Currently, boys are being taught to see women as goddesses (point 1) while ignoring that humans are not perfect and women neither fall into one category nor the other. In fact, I'd argue that the modern woman is more of a whore (point 2) than a goddess. But the modern woman desires the benefits that come with the goddess characterization and the treatment delivered unto them by the males to which they are pedestalized by. So they want to behave like whores but get the security as if they were a goddess. It is no surprise then that the catchphrases and statements they use push this narrative exist today. But it does not work. At a psychological level, these are all triggered by your subconscious. Remember how we couldn't negotiate attraction; either she's into you or she isn't? Well, this is the male version of that. We'll smash anything but we won't wife the whores. So no matter what happens, it is up to you as a man to recognize that this woman who is appearing as a goddess in your eyes is basically your subconscious telling you to make her your wife and let your instincts kick in - protect, provide, procreate.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
One of the most notorious – and least seen – erotic narrative films of the 90s, Boxing Helena was the misbegotten passion project of Jennifer Lynch, daughter of David Lynch. Four years after Boxing Helena, the elder Lynch released one of his most controversial films, Lost Highway, which tackles similar themes as Boxing Helena, including male sexual fragility and the “Madonna-Whore” complex. Today we'll talk about how Boxing Helena became bigger as a punchline than a movie, and we'll trace David Lynch's career as a provocateur to try to explain why his excavation of the dark, sexual core of Americana was celebrated when he made Blue Velvet, and pilloried a dozen years later when he made Lost Highway. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
The world's taught us there's only two types of women..."The one you'd wife".And..."The one you'd fuck".The homemaker.And...The whore.The 'good girl'.And...The slut.And, as women we're conditioned to think we've got to fit in one of these boxes.Usually we choose the 'good girl'.Because, well…are we really given any other fucking choice?Our society demonises the s.xually ALIVE woman (a.k.a. the whore).Our society makes us believe that a woman rippling with Eros is NOT a respectable woman.BEING HER DOES NOT FEEL SAFE!
Do you marry the person that you have the best sex with? Ashley Cobb opens up about being the best every man has ever had and also struggling to find a man who's capable of having her. Plus the men previously known as Enjoy the Podcast link up to share their insights on the Madonna Whore complex. So, this complex describes a psychological phenomenon in which a man's perception of women is divided into two distinct categories: the Madonna and the whore. The Madonna is perfect, pure, and really caring. She's the nurturing type and has qualities like innocence and morality. This side of the complex is associated with safety, comfort, and connection. The whore, on the other hand, is associated with sexual desire, sensuality, and eroticism. This side of the complex involves fantasies or desires for more adventurous or taboo experiences and whores are seen as mysterious and unpredictable. If men have this complex and subscribe to its ideologies that a woman is either pure innocence or pure erroticism, it makes it tough for him to see one woman as both a sexual partner and someone he could have a real, serious relationship with. Watch full videos of Lovers and Friends podcast https://www.youtube.com/@loversandfriendspodcast Thanks to the sponsors of this episode HoneyLove Get 20% Off your entire order (including the best bra you'll own) with our exclusive link http://honeylove.com/LOVERS. Babbel Ready to learn another language? Get up to 55% off at http://Babbel.com/LOVERS Rules and restrictions may apply FabFitFun Sign up at http://FabFitFun.com/LOVERS to get access to discounts up to 70% off on brands like Fenty, Free People, and Our Place - to name a few. BetterHelp Visit http://BetterHelp.com/lovers today to get 10% off your first month Follow our guest Ashley Cobb https://www.instagram.com/sexwithashley/
Get ready for a saucy exploration of intimacy, postpartum, and parenthood in this candid episode with Kelli and Conner. They're flipping the script on the Madonna-Whore complex while spicing up their love life in new and creative ways - from fun fooling around sessions to intentional infusions of novelty. Balancing this hot and heavy banter is a no-bullsh*t talk about the importance of self-care and not losing oneself in parenting. Join K & C for a conversation that's equal parts introspection, naughty fun, and invaluable parenting advice.Today on OK, Babe.Postpartum intimacy: deeper, better sex after kidsConfronting and navigating the Madonna-Whore complexReigniting sex drive with creative, novel approachesNervous system regulation & self-care in parenthoodImpact of fatherhood on empathy and emotional resilienceThis show is supported by:Organifi | Use code OKBABE to get 20% off at organifishop.com/okbabe Cured Nutrition | Visit curednutrition.com and use the code KELLIT for 15% off.Follow K+C: Kelli: @kellitmoore Conner: @connerwanders OK, Babe: @okbabeshowPodcasts: The Naked Mama / Conner WandersThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions
In celebration of Pride month, I sat down with the incredible Emilie Lavinia - the new Sex & Relationships Editor for Cosmopolitan magazine - and had an incredibly insightful conversation that I'm thrilled to share with you in this week's episode. We chatted about:
The term was originally coined by Freud. And it basically places women into two distinct categories. Either the Madonna or the Whore. So, the underlying belief is that women can be either pure, virgin Mother figures of sexual beings. Basically, men who live with this complex compartmentalize women into one of these two buckets. Join us at we explore this topic
The Madonna-Whore complex is a psychological term that describes the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship, and it's more common than you think. In this episode we learn more about this complex and why it happens, and talk about why it can be tricky to navigate your way out. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Kelli Moore is the co-founder and CEO of Soulfire Productions, co-host of "Ok, Babe" podcast, and a new mama! The hosts chat with Kelli about IVF, creating safe spaces for non-judgement, and the madonna-whore complex. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Description;On today's episode, our host is joined by Olumurewa and Michael from the Menisims podcast!They discuss the Madonna-Whore complex (where some men reserve certain sexual acts for non-committed relationships) gender based ‘sexpectations', vulnerability in sex and so much more!Don't forget to like, subscribe and share! It allows more people find and enjoy the podcastThemes discussed: Relationships, Non-consensual Consent, KinkDon't forget rate us and Share!Stay connected with us on:-instagram : @spitorswallowpod- Twitter: @sospodofficial- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8mLOyYYqz1SX9WBlEO04VAAlso follow our host- @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Brooke Brownlee, APCC is an Associate Professional Clinical Counselor at Modern Intimacy under the supervision of Dr. Kate Balestrieri. Brooke is passionate about helping clients heal from trauma, feel more empowered sexually, and repair relationships. Brooke is continuing her education and working towards becoming a Certified Sex Therapist.“Where such men love, they have no desire, and where they desire, they cannot love.” This quote directly from Sigmund Freud describes a phenomenon he called the Madonna Whore Complex. The Madonna Whore Complex is deeply rooted in misogynic beliefs and is damaging to women on both an individual and societal level.The Madonna Whore Complex (MWC) is a psychological complex often perpetuated by heterosexual, cisgender males which places women into two categories the “Madonna, “ a woman who is pure, virtuous, and nurturing, or a “Whore,” a woman who is deemed as overly sexual, manipulating, and promiscuous. The dichotomy of MWC creates a rigidity that limits women's sexual expression, agency, and freedom by defining their sexuality into one of two categories.Dr. Kate and Brooke discuss the origin and effects of the Madonna Whore Complex in this podcast: the effects on women and men.Brooke wrote a blog on the Madonna Whore Complex that can be found on the Modern Intimacy website.https://www.modernintimacy.com/the-psychology-of-the-madonna-whore-complex/Website: www.modernintimacy.com Dr. Kate Balestrieri Modern Intimacy
Sex and sexuality among believers isn't as monolithic as you might think, and of course there's the outlying "bad actors" to keep this spectrum broad.The Torah has some strict rules about who Jewish men should avoid, but isn't too quick to prescribe punishment for premarital sex. The Christian New Testament has some rules about minding your own business. Islamic tradition has some strong words about oral sex. And so much more....The word 'abomination' gets a brief exploration, the sort of thing you might not expect.Marianismo is a growing problem among religious communities, though it's been around for a long time, too. We also explore "purity culture" and the "Madonna-Whore" complex of Freudian fame.The Dharmic religions have another angle on sexuality, and the Buddha encourages the faithful to avoid such attachments. The sexy theme of the month wouldn't be complete if we didn't take a quick look at the Kama Sutra. Support us at Patreon and SpreadshirtJoin the Community on DiscordLearn more great religion facts on Facebook and Instagram
In today's episode we talk about Daddy issues, and mommy issues too. Ashley talks about recognizing how much impact someone who wasn't even in your life can have on you. Ress discusses how the impact can be felt by those who still had their father in their life daily. A question is brought up, why aren't mother issues talked about as widely? Men with Madonna /Whore complexes and those with psychological Oedipus complexes. We recognize the perils of Jodi in the Baby Boy but struggle with addressing the complexities of mother issues in real life. So let's have the talk.
This week, sex positive content creator Leeza Mangaldas joins us to discuss sex positive feminism in India, the Madonna-Whore complex in pop culture, and what it means for sex positivity to be inclusive of asexuality. Respectfully Disagree is The Swaddle Team's very own podcast series, in which we get together to discuss and dissect the issues we passionately differ on.
The Pope finally defined the dogma of The Immaculate Conception on 8th December, 1854; confirming that, in the view of the Catholic Church, Christ's mother Mary had not only been ‘full of grace', but was completely absent of sin even at her own conception. Even though this had been an unofficial concept for centuries prior, it still proved controversial, with 10% of Bishops believing it should not be adopted as doctrine. In this episode, Arion, Rebecca and Olly marvel at just how recently this fundamental principle of Catholicism was established; probe around in James, Brother of Jesus' Oedipal memoirs; and look at the role of Marian devotion in the Madonna-Whore complex… Further Reading: • ‘Christianity: Immaculate Conception' (BBC, 2011): https://www.bbc.co.uk/religion/religions/christianity/beliefs/immaculateconception.shtml • ‘Did Jesus Have Siblings?' (Franciscan Media): https://www.franciscanmedia.org/ask-a-franciscan/did-jesus-have-siblings • ‘Pope Francis explains the Immaculate Conception' (Catholic News Service, 2013): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MCGZRGkTq3U Thanks so much for supporting the show! We massively appreciate it. The Retrospectors are Olly Mann, Rebecca Messina & Arion McNicoll, with Matt Hill. Edit producer: Sophie King Theme Music: Pass The Peas. Announcer: Bob Ravelli. Graphic Design: Terry Saunders. Copyright: Rethink Audio / Olly Mann 2022. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
What is the Madonna-whore complex? Why has this caricature pit women against each other? How can we disrupt the good girl/ bad girl narrative that impacts the way we see and are seen?Inspired by a story shared by our Assistant Producer, Effy and Jacqueline unpack why some men don't feel like they can get freaky with their girlfriends/fiancés/wives, and instead seek out adventurous or kinky sex with other women. They discuss how media and art perpetuate the binary way that men see women, women see themselves, and anyone in between is not seen. And they dig up images of women that transcend this dichotomy and suggest how we can change the noise, to honor the multiplicity of all humans.To find more about Effy Blue and Jacqueline Misla, follow them at @wearecuriousfoxes, @coacheffyblue, and @jacquelinemisla on Instagram.If you have a question that you would like to explore on the show, reach out to us and we may answer your question on one of our upcoming episodes. Leave us a voicemail at 646-450-9079 or email us at listening@wearecuriousfoxes.comFollow us on social media for further resources on this topic:fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxesinstagram.com/wearecuriousfoxesJoin the conversation: fb.com/groups/CuriousFoxSupport the show
The Madonna-Whore complex is a psychological term that describes the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship, and it's more common than you think. In this episode we learn about why this happens, and take part in an exercise that Dr. Skyler uses to understand more about objectifying your partner in a positive way.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
General Visit Louise's website: https://www.louisemperry.co.uk/ Buy Louise's book ‘The Case Against the Sexual Revolution: A New Guide to Sex in the 21st Century': https://www.amazon.com/Case-Against-Sexual-Revolution/dp/1509549994 Follow Louise on Twitter: https://twitter.com/Louise_m_perry References ‘Lady Windermere's Fan' by Oscar Wilde: https://www.gutenberg.org/files/790/790-h/790-h.htm Rachel Moran's ‘Paid For: My Journey Through Prostitution': https://www.amazon.com/Paid-My-Journey-Through-Prostitution/dp/0393351971 ‘Aella - Sex Work in the Digital Age' Two for Tea episode: https://soundcloud.com/twoforteapodcast/82-aella-sex-work-in-the-digital-age Timestamps 0:00 Opening and introduction. 4:11 Iona reads a passage from Louise's book ‘The Case Against the Sexual Revolution'. 9:33 Iona argues against the view that conservative mores protect women from harassment and rape better than liberal ones; discussion ensues on this, the promiscuity double standard, the Madonna/Whore complex, and more. 17:22 Does the sacralisation of sex protect women? Does desacralisation improve things for women? Is sex special? Plus: why women are choosier and the perils of prostitution. 27:40 The trouble with universalising, Gen Z's (lack of?) sex lives, porn, and the rise of OnlyFans. How does this all tie into/effect Louise's thesis? 34:32 Does a more public sexual culture help or hinder women? Does sexually violent porn make for sexually violent men? 42:17 Are some desires wrong? Why would anyone agree to or seek out, for example, sexual relationships involving subservient BDSM? Is liberalism enough to understand and resolve such issues? 53:00 Last words and outro.
Margaret Gorman, a schoolgirl from Washington DC, was crowned ‘Miss Intercity Beauty' at the “Fall Frolic” in Atlantic City on 8th September, 1921 - an event that would eventually become known as Miss America, and watched by 75% of American households. She and her fellow competitors took part in an early incarnation of the swimsuit round (complete with woollen leggings), making their grand entrance on a barge, headed up by ‘Neptune' (played by the octogenarian inventor of smokeless gun powder. Of course.) In this episode, Arion, Rebecca and Olly revisit the controversy that saw early favourite Virginia Lee kicked out on day one; consider the appeal of the ‘rolling chair parade'; and address the intrinsic Madonna/Whore complex at the heart of this iconic beauty pageant… Further Reading: • ‘Margaret Gorman won first Miss America pageant amid scandal' (The Washington Post, 2021): https://www.washingtonpost.com/history/2021/12/16/first-miss-america-margaret-gorman/ • ‘Live from Atlantic City: The History of the Miss America Pageant Before, After and in Spite of Television By Armando Riverol' (Bowling Green State University Popular Press, 1992): https://www.google.co.uk/books/edition/Live_from_Atlantic_City/sf1dR1iEC78C?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=%22miss+america%22&printsec=frontcover • ‘Miss America and Atlantic City Become Forever United [1921-2006]' (The Spectacular History of the New Jersey Shore): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7VJBnDkkgA Enjoy this? There's FIVE MINUTES MORE available to our show's top supporters, in which you can discover what Margaret Gorman did next; how the competition came to be called ‘Miss America'; and what the consolation prizes on offer were for the less-than-beautiful beauties. Unlock it - and a bonus bit like it, every single week - by supporting our show on Apple Podcasts, or at https://patreon.com/Retrospectors We'll be back tomorrow! Follow us wherever you get your podcasts: podfollow.com/Retrospectors The Retrospectors are Olly Mann, Rebecca Messina & Arion McNicoll, with Matt Hill. Theme Music: Pass The Peas. Announcer: Bob Ravelli. Graphic Design: Terry Saunders. Edit Producer: Sophie King. Copyright: Rethink Audio / Olly Mann 2022. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
How long does this man want in between roots? GROW UP! Send your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com LINKS Listen Abbie's 'Hot Nights' radio show https://bit.ly/3vDRYDw CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield www.instagram.com/abbiechatfield/ Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia https://www.instagram.com/lemzakharia/ Video Producer: Oscar Gordon https://www.instagram.com/oscargordon/ Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ See www.omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode, Graeme Daniels, co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, discusses addiction from the POV of a psychoanalytic theory of thinking. Addicts don't like to think, or they fear thinking, is the idea. Daniels also speaks of how sex addicts dichotomize their own sexuality and that of objects, referencing Freud's famous Madonna Whore complex.
A listener sent in for us to read about the madonna whore complex and wow was that a goodie! We explain what it is and how it actually makes alot of sense in some situations!We play a little round of incoherent, you guys have to play along and see you if you can guess them before us lolVABBING! what is is and why/if we'd do it! Which somehow leads us into talking about things that should just not be cheesey. If you know what we mean. As well as Trauma being involved in literally everything these days.
Loving his partner and desiring another woman; the duality of men. According to Sigmund Freud's theory named The Madonna-whore Complex, there can be no love in man's desire and vice versa. To discuss and dive better into this psychological complex, the sex and relationship coach, Jamie Elizabeth Thompson, will join us in this episode. You will learn how to communicate your desires as a couple, why men suffer from this complex, and how to solve it. Could any man in the world love and desire his partner at the same time? Let's hear what Jaime has to say. ABOUT JAMIE ELIZABETH THOMPSON Jamie helps high-caliber people to navigate intimate desires and differences with loving, open communication. She believes people deserve to be completely met, deeply connected, and profoundly satisfied in their relationship and sex life. CONNECT WITH JAMIE Website: https://awakenedwoman.life/paths/erotic-muse/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holisticsexcoach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/missjamieelizabeth WHAT YOU'LL HEAR [2:55] Who's Jamie Thompson [4:18] What does embodying our erotic expression mean? [8:23] Celebrate your desires while respecting your partner's. [16:22] What's the Madonna-whore Complex? [26:22] Why does this complex prevent you from sexually desiring your partner? [30:27] Does this complex also exist in men? [39:02] How does this complex play out in relationships? [43:24] How do personal differences affect relationships? [50:31] How to connect with Jamie? If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here for dates and to signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course. Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized
Today's question comes from a listener who is in a loving relationship but feels a little stuck in the way her partner is seeing her. The Madonna/Whore complex is a phenomenon that our culture perpetuates as a script for how women are sometimes viewed by their partners. We talk about what it is, how it shows up culturally and in relationships, and what you can do about it if it is present in your relationship. (And how to kink it up if you want to play with it --with consent of course!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
On this week's episode of Whoreible Decisions, Weezy and Mandii are joined by another podcast duo, Shanti and Antoinette from the Around the Way Curls Podcast. In an icebreaker, both women dive into their “Heaux Tales” interludes on Jasmine Sullivan's album and open up about their previous relationships. Vanilla Sh-t this week features Semen cupcakes and then somehow the Bible is brought up and the entire group fall down a biblical rabbit hole. Did you know that Taxpayer money has been funding abstinence-only-until-marriage education since the Reagan era? Well we get into it before discussing the layers of the Madonna-Whore complex. Follow our guests and listen to their podcast “Around the Way Curls” wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts Instagram: @AROUNDTHEWAYCURLS Twitter: @ATWCURLS Antoinette @antoinettewashere Los Angeles! Come see us LIVE at for a television live taping of a Whoreible Decisions Live Show THIS SATURDAY, APRIL 16th @ Hollywood Improv. Buy tickets here: https://improv.com/hollywood/event/whoreible+decisions%3a+a+live+taping/11997535/ If you want to share a heaux mail or heaux tale, email us at whoreibledecisions@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whoreible Decisions pages Instagram @whoreible_decisions Twitter @whoreiblepod Don't forget to tag #whoreibledecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions Want some Whoreible Decisions merchandise? GET YOURS NOW AT WHOREHIVE.COM Visit Officialboxowner.com now and receive 15% off your entire purchase when you use promo code: WDP ALL OBO PRODUCTS CURRENTLY $10!! GET YOURS NOW! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Disclaimer: this episode was recorded back in November of 2021, but we said what we said! We respond to a listener's negative experiences with male entitlement (trigger warning for sexual harassment) as well as their hot take on the Madonna/Whore dynamic in relationship to lesbianism. This listener's message was a delight to go through, and Renaissance really saw themself in their email. To sum up our advice- you will learn and grow and change, and current high school sapphic listeners should apply to historically women's college if they're considering going to college. For the media analysis portion of the pod, Renaissance reveals being a long time Adele stan, but Sunny is a bit more of a reluctant listener. As usual with our album reviews, we rank the songs on 30 from least enjoyed to most enjoyed, and while everything we said in this episode still stands, keep in mind that these were our fresh reactions and our thoughts on the album have settled and ruminated over time. And as usual, we make comparative analyses to Taylor Swift. (We are diehard swiftie gaylors and that's the truth!) For the final third part of the podcast where we recommend each other media, Sunny pitches The Secret Lives of Church Ladies by Deesha Philyaw, a short story collection about various Black women's experiences in loose relationship to their churches. Renaissance recommends Adele's debut album 19 for its parallels to her current work. You can support The Lavender Menace podcast by becoming a patron at patreon.com/TheLavenderMenace. Follow us on socials for updates and extra content, @thelavendermenacepod on Tik Tok and Instagram, @thelavenderpod on Twitter and Letterboxd. Sunny can be found discussing books on YouTube and Twitter at a sunny book nook, and Renaissance can be reached at @renaissancemarie on Instagram and Tik Tok, and @rxnaissance on Twitter.
Many of the labels we still put on women - good girls and bad girls, wifeys and femme fatales – come from Madonna-Whore dichotomy. Here's how to spot these archetypes on-screen.
Follow Obie on IG @ 14_obie and on TikTok @livelumani Obie is my sister's friend and classmate at Harvard University. I've been a fan of hers on instagram because she's hilarious and she occasionally offers some interesting social commentary. I had a bad habit of making this misogynistic joke that "women aren't funny" but my sister's hilarious. I didn't really notice how much of a problem that comment was until Obie pointed it out. It made me reflect and I felt gross for using in the past. It was something that was really funny to me but for someone who has so many women in their life and who "claims" to be an advocate for women, it's insensitive and distasteful. I was embarrassed after reflecting on it, but I'll be adjusting in the future. I love this podcast for me because I want to understand my unconscious biases and make corrections. Not to virtue signal, but to make myself a more well-rounded and respectful person. I also hope others, especially other men, can follow my example and understand that you won't always be perfect, just admit when you're wrong and bow out gracefully. Misogyny is baked into our culture so listen when people tell you when you do or say something misogynistic and allow correction. The majority of the conversation was very interesting. It started off with "when's the right time to tell a woman her man is tryna get with you". She shared some insightful takes about the Madonna-Whore complex and how patriarchy has both genders striving for the approval and validation of men. Very fascinating perspective I hadn't yet considered. As I was reviewing the convo, there were a bunch of questions I was kicking myself for not asking so may have to get her on in the future. Thanks again for your time Obie! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/big-skut/message
WARNING -- Discussion of sex practices ahead! Tell Me About Your Mother ventures into the world of sex education and sexual health in this unscripted expression of how psychotherapists broach the subject of sexuality with our clients, ourselves, as well as with colleagues. Speaking about sexuality also generated discussions related to:What is anxiety really about?How do we help our clients dissect their experiences with anxiety?Romantic infatuation as evidence of attachment trauma;What does it mean to like and know someone?Paradox of wanting interpersonal connection while fearing emotional intimacy;Interactions with others through the lens of the Four Agreements;Madonna-Whore complex;Partnering with physicians to treat mental health.Please join us weekly as Tell Me About Your Mother discusses topics relevant to pursuing excellence in psychotherapy. Melissa Martin, Eli Branscombe, and Evan Miller are three licensed psychotherapists who have come together for peer supervision and in doing so, created Tell Me About Your Mother so that we may share our passion for psychotherapy with our fellow healers.Melissa is excited to announce a partnership with maude, a sexual health, modern intimacy company solely focused on sexual wellness for all people. Check out getmaude.com and receive a discount at checkout with the promo code MELISSA5.Tell Me About Your Mother is seeking sponsorship! If you'd like to connect with us, please send an email to contactus@tellmeaboutyourmother.run.
My guest today is Maya Luna, a poet and creator of the Deep Feminine Mystery School. She has also authored a book of poetry, OMEGA: Feral Secrets of the Deep Feminine and released a spoken word album, Holy Darkness: A Tantric Opus. In our conversation today, we discuss how to tune into the frequency of the Deep Feminine, through the gateways of the senses. We speak of the historical consequence of literacy on the cultures that venerated the Goddess and the subsequent rise of distorted masculinity. We wonder on the original trauma that may illuminate the gender conflict still unfolding today, and the Madonna/Whore split that many women (and men) are seeking to integrate. And finally, Maya shares one of her powerful poems on the truth of Feminine power. Join the Network http://themythicmasculine.com/network Support this Podcast http://patreon.com/ianmack
Welcome back to A Rad Momma Podcast. This episode, I discuss the her/history on the F-word "Feminism," where it came from and how it has evolved to our contemporary experiences. This is an intersectional approach that touches on menstruation, educational and professional experiences, and the Madonna-Whore paradox. Of course we can't unpack everything in 40 minutes, but it is a start. Subscribe & follow, give a 5-Star review on Apple Podcasts!! STAY RAD FAMILIA! Sad Girl Period Vibes Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5AsUhhai1XkPh7kE0sz39l?si=bDXT2BhDRRyheuMi5OZWtw @LatinxLuna Challenge Contributors (ig handles): @aida_writes, @Las.Doctoras, @howlatthewomb, @bailalina, @theflowperiod --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
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23 | How many people have you had sex with? And does it matter?This week on the podcast I'm talking all about what the term body count means, why we all need to be a lot less judgemental, the Madonna-Whore complex, prioritising your pleasure, having real conversations about sexual exploration and so much more.This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at hello@eleanorhadley.com or over on instagram @eleanorhadleyLinks and Resources:Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage~ Other links / resources mentioned in episode ~→ Sensualista 1:1 coaching: http://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/coaching/→ Book a chemistry call: https://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/chemistry-call-schedule/Articles referenced:https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-surprising-roots-of-the-word-sluthttp://yeoja-mag.com/origin-word-slut/https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-13333013
Hi Gorgeous! In this episode I dive into The Madonna/Whore paradigm and how it was one of the biggest hurdles for me to overcome in order to be embodied, and sexually empowered. If you realize it or not this paradigm controls a lot in a woman's life. I talk about what it is, and how moving past it is liberating. Also if you are ready to dive into deeper work in this area, I invite you to join me in Shamelessly Sexy! Just click here. http://themagneticwoman.com/shamelessly-sexy
Season One has come to an end and I'd love to treat you to a little bonus material, focusing on dedicated topics so central to our experience of motherhood and womanhood. Today we delve into the complex realm of sexuality with holistic sex coach O.Lesya. Her own journey of healing has inspired her to start a new career helping women to reconnect to their sexuality and experience pleasure on their own unique terms. In this episode we talk about sexuality and motherhood, the paradox of the Madonna / Whore complex, how to practice intimacy and sensuality with our partners, how to reclaim pleasure in our daily lives to ourselves, how to accept and nurture our bodies and very importantly we talk about sexuality and our children. How to provide a healthy start for our children sexual and sensual life - how to nurture and respect their sexuality and their bodies. This episode is full of extraordinary insight that opens up the limiting mainstream framework to help us fully embody our our sensual and sexual selves. Please join in this very important conversation with us over on Instagram @alissatimoshkina and @magiyachuvstv To explore this subject further O.Lesya offers some useful references during the show: Lacey Haynes Evyan Whitney Naomi Wolf Sexposivite family
CWs: Mentions of sexual violence (3:06-3:12, 49:02-49:10, and 1:06:53-1:06:57), transphobia (1:02:38-1:03:23), and misogyny throughout. This week, Sam and Hannah tackle Glee's 15th episode, The Power of Madonna. Topics discussed include: "Why is Artie very randomly a misogynist for 5 minutes this week?", "Why does Schue think misogyny is worse than sexism?", and "How much money did Ryan Murphy spend buying the Madonna back catalog?" Thanks so much for listening! If you like the show, subscribe wherever you subscribe to things, and consider leaving us a review on Apple Podcasts! You can also follow us on Twitter @TheGleeWatch or email us at TheGleeWatch@gmail.com. Our theme music is by Sebastian Black and we have no sponsors because we spend all our money on Madonna albums and podcast hosting.
Narcissists and Sex: Porn Addiction and the Madonna Whore Complex (Narcissistic Abuse Recovery) In today's video, I'm talking about how some narcissists have the Madonna Whore complex, which is defined officially as: "the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship.[1] First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence,[2] this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna).[3] Freud wrote: "Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love."[4] Clinical psychologist Uwe Hartmann, writing in 2009, stated that the complex "is still highly prevalent in today's patients".[3]" This relates to narcissists and sex, why they cheat and how they become addicted to porn. If you're dealing with (or have dealt with) an abusive narcissist with a porn addiction, this one's for you - no man or woman should ever have to put up with a partner who has pornography addiction issues. It's toxic to the soul, to say the very least. If you enjoyed this video, please subscribe to my channel! http://youtube.com/angieatkinson Schedule a narcissistic abuse recovery coaching appointment with me at http://narcissisticabuserecovery.online Learn more at http://queenbeeing.com. Get my books at http://booksangiewrote.com, schedule a coaching appointment and/or pick up your free 5-day fear-busting email course (specially designed for narcissistic abuse survivors) at http://narcissismsupportcoach.com.Subscribe to Narcissistic Abuse Recovery with Angie Atkinson on Soundwise
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