The Ruby Hour

We get practical, bring up real fetishes, real fantasies, and real talk around certain desires. This episode is funny AF, sure to make you blush, maybe even give you a little rush. You'll walk away from listening to this episode with a sneaky little smirk on your face and probably feel a little more normal in your own skin about where you're at. In this episode, we have such a beautiful conversation around:  How to expand your sex life with your partner when you're stuck in "mom mode," "career mode," "I'm-too-busy mode." How to turn yourself on. Get out of your head and into your body. Find that connection to yourself again. Discovering your erotic blueprint (inspired by the teachings from Miss Jaiya - you can take the erotic blueprint quiz here!) — what actually turns you on? The practical (and wonderful!) world of KINK! How to PRACTICALLY bring up something you want to try with a partner that you're scared they might FREAK OUT ABOUT Masculine and feminine polarity in your sex life — what does this mean, how does it show up in other parts of your life, and the shocking reality of maybe what you secretly want. How to actually drop into your feminine energy to create polarity with your masculine partner as a go-getter/driven/I-Got-It/Miss Independent woman (with real-time tips and feedback around what that looks like and stumbling blocks us power-women tend to revert to.) Stigmas around certain sexual fantasies you may have but are too embarrassed to admit (but still wildly turn you on.)

How do you settle and recharge into the feminine [ease, gentleness, softness] while still conducting power as a woman entrepreneur when it comes to your business?  In this episode, I interview Maren Liv Anderson Moore around: balancing the masculine and the feminine energy you bring to the table as a woman entrepreneur, how to "come down" from being in your head or in the masculine chronically in your business how to steward your "creative tension" or discomfort working through a struggle in your life all things inner-development/ shadow work / spiritual work and some things to look for to find a safe group setting to explore those deeper levels of yourself and life as a "textbook" enneagram Seven.   If you've ever spent any time with Maren, you immediately feel her warm, inclusive mama energy. In this episode we explore her journey with redefining the childcare space in Charleston. Maren founded Play Garden, creative arts learning center with a focus on childcare that appeals to different children's intrinsic learning styles and educational learning theories, AND complements so many parents who are no longer doing the nine-to-five work schedule and need something different for their family.

EMBRACING YOUR INNER B!TCH. ...Whaaat!?!

I want you to meet one of Charleston's biggest rays of sunshine — Trinidad scorpion pepper delinquent, Surfer Babe, and one of Charleston's top up-and-coming chefs — Lauren Furey. See more details about this episode over on https://www.rubyriotcreatives.com/podcast Lauren's been coming up under the radar in the culinary scene here in Charleston this past few years - training under culinary legend Nathalie Dupree (one of the most prolific cookbook authors and James Beard award-winning chefs of our generation.) Lauren has such vibrant, soulful energy she brings to her cooking and conversations. In this episode, we talk shop around who she is in and out of the kitchen: - A visit to the principal's office incident that deemed her the “pepper dealer” of her high school. - Mentors who taught her subtle details of elevating what she's learned in the kitchen - Cocktails that have changed our lives This episode will make you hungry and thirsty not only physically but creatively, too, in your kitchen and craft! And if you're not already following Lauren's delectable Instagram feed or need a private chef for your upcoming event — connect with her over at @laurensfurey

Emmy award-winning cinematographer John Barnhardt swaps stories today The Ruby Hour. From close call wildlife adventure stories in the field as a filmmaker to roughing the wilderness and challenges of creative entrepreneur's mind-- we cover some ground. John shares candid stories about "soul pieces" he's filmed in his life, and we discuss how you can keep those meaningful "why" projects into your creative workflow to keep your creative fire burning hot. 

Today I had the Barnett girls— Maddie and Beth Barnett, founders of Eat Me Cookie Co. on the podcast. If you don't know who these two humans are, buckle up. These sisters started a crude cookie company; they write vulgar and inappropriate things on cookie cakes for birthdays, bachelorette parties. You type it — they'll pipe it and ship it across the country to your old college roommate, bae, your old boss, your favorite Bachelor contestant…   We took turns wearing a strange sex-kitten face mask, horror stories of online dating in Charleston (and how Maddie and my Stage-5 Clinger approach is wildly different from Beth's "Hands-Off" Approach.) I introduced the girls to garlic-stuffed olive and gin martinis in the making of this episode, they're sitting in their pink and purple icing stained leisurewear -- and we discuss how we're all obsessed with Maddie and Beth's mom, Maureen.    Maddie and Beth are some of my favorite humans in Charleston. In today's episode, we had absolutely no filter in discussing all things relationships, dating, starting a wildly creative (and hilarious) business during a pandemic; all here on today's episode of The Ruby Hour Podcast.   To order your very own crude cookie cake - visit https://www.eatmecookiecakes.com/ and if you're not already following their hilarious Instagram feed - do yourself a favor and follow them now — https://www.instagram.com/eatmecookiesnyc 

From processing the unknown (and TERRIFYING) territory of going through a divorce, leaving the Mormon religion, recreating yourself as a 50-something-year-old bombshell, Lisa Staff spills the tea today. A Hilton Head Island-based photographer and gazelle-of-a-human, Lisa shares her inner world: being a “shameless” self-promoter, an ENFJ, and ways she's finding the beauty in the uncomfortable spaces in life and how to continue moving forward despite the vultures and naysayers from the past.   You can follow (and be wildly entertained by) Lisa Staff over on Instagram @LisaStaffPhoto or on her website, https://www.lisastaffphoto.com

A tale of my Screamo/Post-Hardcore crush on Bert McCracken, growing up in a turbulent home environment, and my journey with self-mutilation. !!! TRIGGER WARNING !!!! TRIGGER WARNING !!!! TRIGGER WARNING !!!! TRIGGER WARNING !!!! This episode references domestic violence, alcoholism, and self-mutilation/self-harm and includes some very graphic descriptions and intense sound-scoring that may be unsuitable for some listeners. If this triggers you or is too close to home, I invite you to check out our many other episodes of The Ruby Hour Podcast. This episode is part of our new sound-scored intimate short-story sessions for this season of The Ruby Hour Podcast. If you or someone you know struggles with self-harm, I encourage you to check out To Write Love On Her Arms' Self Care Resources: https://twloha.com/self-care/ This is an amazing organization that helps people in their journey of self-harm. And please know you are never alone!

In this episode, we talk shop around the biggest fetish Shelby just found out about (this is a must-listen pro tip, ladies looking for a man), our recent brainchild collaboration "Fragile," do-overs from Jenny's time spent with her mom, the origins of the Bad Girls Club, and horror movies--the last place you'd expect to find epic music playlists. The queen of dance, Chief Mad Scientist herself Jenny Broe -- founder of Dance Lab Charleston comes on the show today, and we discuss starting a safe place for women to express their sexuality, Shelby's failed attempts at doing "the worm" at The Bad Girls Club auditions, and much, much more.   To BOOK one of the badass classes at Dance Lab - visit https://www.dancelabcharleston.com.    To watch our recent creative collaboration music video, "Fragile" - depicting the woman entrepreneur's journey through COVID-19, visit https://www.rubyriotcreatives.com/fragile.    To take a look at recent class recaps at Dance Lab or see when the Bad Girl Club auditions are -- check out https://www.instagram.com/dancelab_843 and see the deets on the SICKEST dance crew around -- The Bad Girls Club over at https://www.badgirlsclubcharleston.com/. 

A tale of two moms + polar opposite homes, first love in an evangelical/charismatic Christian culture, and the first time I ever morally betrayed myself. This episode is part of our new sound-scored intimate short-story sessions for this season of The Ruby Hour.   To see the visual story of this episode and see a home video clip from that summer, check out the video + episode extras here: https://www.rubyriotcreatives.com/blog/mom-life-first-love-moral-betrayal   This episode was recorded and produced in our dear friends' Davíd and Shea's AirBnB tree-top getaway in West Asheville -- if you're looking for an amazing mountain getaway - check out their sweet place: https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/8362668    For the family I mention in this episode, you know who you are, I love you, thank you for the beauty you've added to my life.

Do you work late hours working in the hospitality industry and feel totally drained the next day? Well, we've got our girl Rachel Starling here with us today to talk all about that. This main chick knows all about the world of hospitality, from becoming a pro at talking with clients to working those brutal late hours. In this episode, Rachel talks about: knowing how to speak to clients not taking things personally in a high-speed industry and the true power of self-love. Rachel Starling On The Ruby Hour Show Notes 30:00 Who is Rachel Starling? 1:55 How Rachel got involved in the world of hospitality 10:30 How to be an introvert in a leadership role 13:07 Rachel's secret super power 16:09 How to have productive and energetic conversations with clients 18:11 Having thick skin in the hospitality industry 24:54 Rachel's message to the world 27:12 How to not let working late hours affect your mental health 31:07 What Rachel does for fun 33:40 Why doing things solo can be the best gift you ever gave yourself 35:56 Why Shelby can't run in downtown Charleston   Visit Rachel at Parcel 32, and check out the restaurant at https://parcel32.com/ and https://www.instagram.com/parcel32/?hl=en

“Well doggonit! Slap my head and call me silly! We got Shannon Wooten round here today!” *said with Shelby's deep southern accent* But for real y'all…this is a goodie. Have you ever thought your dog was an absolute maniac? Well, maybe it's not your dog after all. Shannon Wooten is a world-renown hunting dog trainer, based out of Camden, SC. Her and her husband have taught me numerable lessons about working with dogs and myself. She will literally blow your mind with things you think you're doing right by your dog…but actually you'd be surprised. In today's episode, we talk about: practical ways you can change your home life with your dog how to mind your dog's manners…and your own Shannon Wooten On The Ruby Hour Show Notes: 00:50 Meet Shannon Wooten! 2:12 Getting started with Palmetto Gun Dogs 6:26 Everything you're doing wrong with dogs that you think is right 13:35 Enabling certain behaviors in your life 15:30 Is your dog a maniac? The one thing you might not be considering 20:10 Every dog has a purpose 23:35 Projecting negative energy onto your dog 25:38 There's more than meets the eye: Creative ways to bond with your pup while living in a city 26:23 The impact Shannon and her team have on clients 27:40 Redneck yoga 29:20 Balancing work life when work is literally living at your home 31:52 Calling people on their dog $#!t 32:47 Implementing daily repetition in your dog's life 41:05 Recognizing differences in breeds 41:30 How to train your puppy 47:19 Why it's really not cute when dogs jump on you Get in touch with Shannon and check out Palmetto Gun dogs on Facebook at @palmettogundogs and on Instagram at @palmettogundogs !

Do you hate social media most days? We've all been there, trust me. We judge ourselves and our lives constantly by looking at what we THINK people's lives are like. We've got another cat herder in the house today; the amaazzinngg Sunny Dublick is here to talk marketing! This cat's got all the experience in dealing with not knowing what the heck she wanted to do as a career, and now she's freaking crushing it by owning her own business! In this episode, Sunny talks about: the perks of being your own boss prioritizing yourself and your own needs and the deep, dark world of social media Sunny Dublick On The Ruby Hour Show Notes: 00:39 Meet Sunny Dublick! 1:20 Starting out in the marketing world 5:14 Working a flexible job 7:47 How Sunny balances her solopreneur work life and her personal life 12:03 How to come to terms with saying no to clients or projects 14:59 Sunny's favorite form of self care 20:49 Social media shifts in today's society 24:00 What people are actually looking for on social media 28:42 JOMO: Joy Of Missing Out…and taking care of yourself 41:30 Imposter syndrome: Who do you think you are? 43:40 Putting priorities on the back burner 50:20 Asking for help from professionals is not embarrassing Check out Sunny's site and get to know her more at sunnydublick.com and @sdublickmarketing on Facebook!

We took a trip down memory lane with our good friend and wedding photographer Sol Basconcillo. This guy is literally the bomb, and we're super excited to share some nuggets of his wisdom today with you! In this episode, Sol takes photography to the next level by: advising photographers who are just getting started in the industry sharing all the tricks he has up his sleeve on a wedding day and encouraging a healthy work-family balance Sol Basconcillo On The Ruby Hour Show Notes 0:43 Meet Sol! 1:40 Getting started in photography 4:23 How to transition into photographing weddings and events 5:20 Advice to couples evaluating their big day 6:46 Pro tips for photographers/videographers to stay alive on long shoot days 9:58 Who is Sol beyond the camera? 11:32 How to manage your business as a solo entrepreneur 13:21 Balancing work and family time 16:00 Are you an introvert or an extrovert? 19:08 Sol's past life 22:55 Advice to couples who aren't exactly camera hogs 25:16 The importance of "taking five” on your wedding day 35:44 Sol's philosophy in energy positivity 40:21 Shifting in your business 43:08 Sol's favorite Charleston venues 45:55 How to delegate funds for what you really want on your wedding day Check out Sol and his portfolio at https://sol.photography/ and @solography on Instagram!

Are you an introvert finding yourself in an extroverted role in your job? This episode is for you! Erica Peper, founder of Peper Events, shares her journey on how to rock a luxury wedding planning service here in Charleston as an introvert. In this episode, Erica shares: moving across the country learning to make new friends as a grown-ass woman some practical ways she likes to recharge after a big extroverted wedding weekend Erica Peper On The Ruby Hour Show Notes: 1:02 Meet Erica Peper! 4:15 What herding kindergarteners and groomsmen have in common 5:30 Being an introvert in an extroverted job position 7:10 How to get your energy back after a draining work event 8:01 How to generate additional business from a “One Hit Wonder” industry 13:03 The real cost of going with “a good deal” instead of trusting your gut 15:55 The power of working with your squad 17:15 How to spread your baby-bird wings when you're a grown-ass adult 18:58 How to not pay people to be your friends when you're twenty-something 21:48 How to create an inclusive, collaborative community with partners in your industry 26:28 How to deliver exceptional service when shit hits the fan 33:13 Advice to couples when having sticky conversations about budget and family involvement 35:29 How to wheel and deal to get exactly what you want on your wedding day 39:53 Erica's number one regret on her wedding day 41:00 That time Shelby gunned down all her bridesmaids Visit Erica's website and check her out at http://peperevents.com/services/

Have you ever experienced physical pain from something that has emotionally hurt you? I think we can all say yes to that one. Today, we've brought in massage therapist Mark Foil. We have experienced his amazing work at first hand and can truly testify to this massage guru's words. In this episode, we dig deep into: how emotional trauma can trigger certain parts of our bodies how self-care is so important to someone who cares for others all day long and an amazing story about one of Mark's most special patients.   Mark Foil On The Ruby Hour Show Notes 00:46 Meet Mark Foil 2:00 Origin of becoming a massage therapist 7:14 Recognizing the energy and tension of a patient's body 11:13 How emotional trauma can physically affect your body 15:12 How Mark decompresses after a long day of taking care of other people 18:24 Energy forcefield 22:50 Energetically traveling back in time with clients 27:45 Mark's dream client 33:49 Mark's cold-blooded patient 42:16 How Mark enjoys winding down from a long day 43:47 The secret life of Mark 47:54 Balancing energy for self-care   Contact Mark Foil at markfoiljr@gmail.com to book an appointment with him!

Ever wondered what goes on behind DJ booths? We're breaking it down *wink wink* with David Fox who shares his DJ experience at weddings and behind the scenes. We take it way back with our friend David and may even get a little off-topic…multiple times. In this episode, David talks about:        -the secrets to becoming the best DJ        -why being a good MC is so important        -and the inappropriate middle school trickery that got him to where he is today David Fox On The Ruby Hour Show Notes 00:45 - Meet David Fox 1:47 - Origin of becoming a DJ? 5:00 - How to find legit employees that match your company 8:00 - If looks could kill: The secret to making a fantastic impression with your clients 11:55 - How to get comfortable using a microphone 17:03 - Shelby's lav mic nightmare 20:23 - David's videographer horror stories 26:40 - How to make David uncomfortable 32:33 - David's three movies he'd take on a desert island 34:36 - Lord of the rings impressions and such 36:40 - David's craziest nature story 37:20 - Boydholes 40:20 - Would you rather 42:17 - What DJs go through on wedding days 46:45 - A walk down David's middle school memory lane 49:08 - The flasher 49:30 - David's spirit animal Visit the BunnDJ website and check them out at https://bunndjcompany.com/ and https://www.instagram.com/bunndjchs/?hl=en

If you've ever been in a role of leadership, yet haaaaate confrontation — this episode is for you. In today's episode, we talk with Haley Kelly — mama of 2 little ones, and one of the most brilliant and soulful power-house planners here in our city.  If you've ever wondered how to maneuver: scaling your business while balancing your home life and friendships, giving yourself permission to slow down and take time to recharge, how the heck to stay relevant in this #insta social media era  You're gonna wanna jump in this episode. Listen now! Haley Kelly On The Ruby Hour Show Notes: 00:38 Who is Haley Kelly? 1:40 How did you get to where you are today? 3:50 How to balance being a mom and a business owner 7:55 Working your way from the ground up 10:21 Working as a full-service wedding planner 12:21 Haley Kelly's mantra to live by 13:55 Haley Kelly's happy place 15:22 What the heck is a babymoon? 16:08 How to be assertive while hating conflict? 20:36 Haley Kelly's lady squad 23:30 How to launch and scale a wedding planning business 27:12 How to stay relevant on social media 29:00 Best advice for a couple planning a wedding 31:08 How do you like to unwind? 32:14 Behind the scenes wedding stories 35:23 Haley Kelly's wedding day 37:38 Wedding venues in Charleston, SC 40:27 Tips for handling family involvement in your wedding plan

Did you ever have teacup parties underwater? Today we introduce you to an alternate reality, the world of Leigh Webber. She combined her childhood love of water and her passion for photography into a successful business here in Charleston! In this episode, we talk about having an unusual service offering, adapting to constantly changing environments as a photographer, and becoming unique to your social media viewers in a world where anyone can take a picture. The Ruby Hour With Leigh Webber Show Notes: 00:32 Who is Leigh Webber? 1:53 Why underwater photography is a totally different world 3:07 How this creative form of photography took on a life of its own 6:00 Diving into the unknown process of underwater photography 11:40 From a water baby to becoming an underwater photographer 12:08 What's one of your favorite memories with water growing up? 13:16 Working with first-timers during an underwater shoot 15:25 How to stand out in a world where anyone can take a picture 18:58 How to adapt to changes that come with photographing underwater 22:05 The difference in shooting in the water versus on land 29:46 Keys to owning your own business and taking chances 31:06 Working with people who have a similar vibe and love what you love 33:09 Rolling with the punches during a shoot 35:18 What's your happy place? 36:56 The struggle of traveling with heavy ass cameras 41:20 How to set yourself up to succeed as a photography business owner Check out more of Leigh's work at https://www.leighwebber.com 

    Have you ever found yourself stuck in the weeds of growing your own business? Well, today we've brought in the BIG GUNS. Hilary Johnson, founder of Hatch Tribe, is the queen of supporting badass women entrepreneurs in Charleston.   In this episode, we talk about growing a business while also maintaining a personal life, becoming a pro at public speaking, and how to face the fears that come along with owning a business. Check out the community she's created at https://www.hatchtribe.com/ or on social at @hatchtribe .   The Ruby Hour Podcast With Hilary Johnson Show Notes: 00:42 Meet the genius behind Hatch Tribe 2:24 How did Hatch Tribe start? 4:12 Why women entrepreneurs are such a big deal 7:15 Early detection of badassery 9:42 How to allow your client to grow without getting too involved in their business 11:50 How to maintain your business while also taking time for yourself 13:12 How to get past your limiting beliefs when road blocks pop up 15:52 Daily routines and intentions to shift your energy throughout the day 20:37 How to become comfortable with public speaking and being in the public eye 23:23 How to deal with the haters and negative reviews 26:17 How to set goals without spreading yourself too wide 28:36 How to “break up” with energy draining clients 32:40 Getting past the fear of losing revenue when saying “no” to a client 36:09 Leveling up your sales game 40:49 Why video and face to face interaction will always trump text 43:20 The relationship to social media as a consumer AND as a business owner 45:16 Making investments in your business that could change your life

In today's episode, we interview the elusive animal, PJ Brown -- a brilliant cinematographer who happens to be based out of Charleston. PJ has produced and directed commercial content, music videos, and is also a long time friend in the wedding filming world. In this episode we discuss origin stories involving funerals, nudist weddings, and pizza shops-- evaluating the soul values of projects and if that dream client is truly a "dream", and the power of leaving the camera at home to take in the real moment (even when you're in portfolio-worthy places.) PJ Brown On The Ruby Hour Show Notes: 1:31 Our gigantic guest: Who is PJ Brown? 4:15 Pizza to cinematography: How did you start your journey in cinematography? 11:45 F*ck your gear list, I'll take an elbow to the face 12:45 If you think everyone's your client, you're wrong. 17:00 The key to getting repeat business as a videographer 20:00 Thought Bazooka cameras 25:00 Impromptu Photographers: Family members with iPads 29:00 Is it a photo shoot or a wedding day? Time of your life or waste of money? 36:00 If you were handed a bajillion dollars tomorrow, what would you shoot? 45:45 When you're not filming, how do you like to relax? 50:30 The face drop 52:00 The best technique with social media as a business owner (if you hate social media) 55:40 What's the best advice anyone's ever given to you? 57:00 How can people find you on social? Check out PJ's incredible portfolio and get to know him more at Life In Rewind and on Instagram at @lifeinrewindfilms!

If you've ever had ghost or spirit experiences, and you've been scared or “unnerved” of these experiences- this episode is for you. We got weird in this episode and explored some of our personal first-hand experiences “beyond the veil” of our day-to-day lives, as well as discussing the emotional health demands of the event industry (and what you can do to nurture yourself to bounce back quicker.) Buckle up for this episode. Meredith Tanton is co-owner and principal designer at Sweet Grass Social -- an exceptional luxury event planning company here in Charleston SC. Meredith and her business partner Jacqueline have been in business for the past 11 years in Charleston and are truly some of the "OG"s of our event community; we've had the privilege of working alongside their incredible team and documenting their gorgeous events for several years now. Without further ado -- I give you the lovely Meredith Tanton!

Going through a rough break-up? Angry at your business partner/printer/boyfriend/toy poodle named Alfred that keeps pooping on your brand new rug? Have an idea that's a little "out there" and you're scared to launch? Are you a millennial launching a business but you think you're too young, too inexperienced, too _____ to launch your concept? If any of this is hitting home, this episode is meant for you. Meet Cole Wadsten, twenty-something millennial entrepreneur, innovator, and founder of The Break Room: Charleston's first ever "rage room."  What's a Rage Room, you ask? It's exactly what you think it is -- A safe place where you go and smash shit. Choose your unique weapon of choice (crowbar, screwdriver, golf club, baseball bat-- you know, the things fantasies are made of) and then proceed to wail on items such as microwaves, box fans, china, TV's; even cars.  Offering Something A Little Counter-Culture In A Traditional Market Now, I needn't remind you we're in good ole Charleston, South Carolina -- a land laden with rich Southern tradition and heritage (which overall is a beautiful, beautiful thing), but at times can come with an undercurrent of conformity. So we've got parts of our community still dripping with nepotism, small-minded thinking, and strong resistance to anything considered "different;" then we've got Cole Wadsten over here launching a business that freely encourages letting out not-so-southern-charming emotions while listening to Ludacris. Think he may have ran into a little resistance? If you have a trail you're meant to blaze in your heart, this episode is for you.    Low on time? Jump to the sections of the episode that appeal to you! Be sure to share in the comments your favorite take away! 1:00 How did The Break Room get started? 1:49 What exactly is a Rage Room? 2:40 What are the biggest take-aways 6:15 Why this doesn't encourage aggressive behavior. 8:42 Instrument of Choice- What you can choose to smash with 10:10 What are the responses from the public from opening a “rage room”? 11:25 How did this idea come about? 14:25 What other things are you up to? 15:10 How do you find and choose people to train who will facilitate the Rage Room? 16:45 The Key to running a tight ship- Don't Be Weird! 17:50 “Don't let your food get cold looking at someone else's plate” 19:10 What is a moment in your life that has contributed most to where you are now? 21:00 Staying in your lane as a millennial: How to avoid getting caught comparing your life with your millennial friends 25:45 Being a twenty-something in 2020: 26:35 1990s Babies - How to cope with being in "young" and in business 27:49 The one question you should be asking yourself about running your business as a twenty-something year old. 31:00 Playing on Neopets in 2002 as a 12 year old compared to sexting in 2020 33:28 How being young in business is an ASSET, not a liability, and the power of picking up the phone 34:00 the most sought after skillset for the next generation's workforce 37:00 Ditching your phone in social situations, and mocktails: The lost social skillset and upcoming trends of the millennial generation 38:30 Why YOLO is bullshit: Stewarding your life well 39:05 What's been your journey having a disruptive company in a culturally conservative market? 42:00 What advice do you have for someone who has their own disruptive idea? 46:30 How to find Cole Wadsten and Rage Charleston? Visit The Break Room and schedule your smash party online or social -- @ragecharleston or on their website: https://www.tbrcharleston.com

Have you ever had that moment where you're stuffing your face with Nutella and Ritz crackers during a His Dark Materials binge-fest, and then one of those horrific starving children in Africa commercials comes on? You look down, spoonful of Nutella trembling in-hand, and you have that moment where you feel like an utter and absolute asshole? If you've ever felt that pang of oh-my-gosh-what-am-i-doing-with-my-life-i' m-such-a-cold-hearted-lizard, I made this episode just for you. Meet your new girl crush and today's podcast guest, Hope Caldwell. Founder of KLH Group here in Charleston, Hope is an advocate for bringing your soul back into the workspace (and especially corporate Fortune 500 workspace.) This woman gets CEOs of multibajillion dollar organizations to put their hands in the dirt (literally) one half of the day, and then on the other half of the day throws the most baller 5-star gala event you've ever been to in your life. In this episode, get ready to be liberated from the old "martyrdom thinking" that you have to take a vow of poverty to be a soulful person - and step into the truth: that you need to be wildly successful so you can radically bless and serve the things that light your heart on fire (and have your Nutella, too.)

This guy is who you want on your team during a zombie apocalypse. Chef Shaun Brian's roots are in fishing off his dad's sailboat and foraging on St. John, USVI. Named 30 under 30 by Zagat, nominated for a Rising Star by StarChefs and invited to cook in the James Beard House — Shaun is one of the most progressive and talented chefs of our generation, and he's right “in our backyard” for us foodies here in Charleston. In this episode Shaun shares his unorthodox (and wildly entertaining) journey through his culinary career, what it's like growing up in the Caribbean, funny stories cooking for celebrities, and offers some practical AF advice on building your team and growing as a leader.

It's one thing to see a wedding photographer's work online, it's a whole other thing to meet them in person and meet the person behind the lens. Today we interview Sara Boyd, one of our all time favorite friends in the wedding industry, who's came a long way from her roots of dropping cameras in glasses of chocolate milk. In this incriminating episode, Shelby tells all the bad and inappropriate jokes she knows, Sara shares horrific childhood tales as a tiny dancer, her most embarassing wedding day stories, and how unapologetically being her awkward, weird @$$ self has helped her find real down-to-earth connections with her clients.

In this inaugural episode of the Ruby Hour, we bring in the big guns — Jessica Rueger, Shelby's personal self-mastery coach. In this episode Jessica shares some Jedi mind tricks on how you can kick butt and take names this holiday season— regardless of your child's meltdown in the airport, Uncle Terry not wearing a shirt to Thanksgiving dinner, or "that b*tch"'s social media feed that's constantly reminding you how much better her life is than yours.