The Stories We Tell

In this episode, I interview Jill Geysen whose bio says it all. Jillian Geysen's Bio: Jillian Geysen's journey from a small town in Connecticut, where she grew up in a lower-class family supported by her grandparents, is a testament to her resilience and determination. As the eldest of three sisters, she learned the value of hard work and perseverance from a young age. In the late summer of 2014, just over a year after graduating from Hofstra University in New York, where she studied and played Division 1 field hockey, Jillian faced a life-changing moment when she received a cancer diagnosis at the age of 22. While concurrently pursuing prerequisite courses for PA school in New Haven, CT, she worked at a restaurant and lived temporarily on a friend's basement couch to maintain some degree of independence from her parents. Enduring four months of chemotherapy (twice a week) that resulted in hair loss and a month-long radiation treatment concluding in February, Jillian faced significant medical expenses. Nevertheless, her determination never wavered. In March of 2015, Jillian embarked on a new chapter by relocating to Boston to work at Massachusetts General Hospital, aiming to fulfill pre-requisites for entry into a PA program. Over the course of five years in the healthcare industry, she gained insights from both clinical and administrative roles, ultimately realizing that it wasn't her true calling, scarred by her frequent personal visits to a multitude of healthcare centers. In early 2020, just before the COVID-19 pandemic, Jillian relocated to Tampa, driven by her commitment to her girlfriend, whom she met at Pensacola Pride in 2019. In June 2020, she took a position in exterior home remodeling sales, meticulously saving every penny and making astute financial investments. By October 2023, Jillian had made the bold decision to quit her job, now comfortably sustaining herself through her well-managed investments. Her journey is a story of perseverance, adaptability, and a commitment to shaping her own path in life, living authentically as a proud lesbian. If you'd like to learn more about Jillian, feel free to reach out, as she's always open to sharing her experiences and insights. Follow Jill on Social: IG: @jillang_1 Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Budgeting Apps: Rocket Money Mint --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

Get ready for an amazing episode of our podcast! We're diving into Ashley Bean's inspiring journey. She's a tough single mom raising six kids and facing life's tough hurdles head-on. In this episode, Ashley shares how she turned her hardest times into stepping stones for a fantastic life. Listen in to see how Ashley went from feeling really down to finding her groove and thriving. With a strong will, she takes us through a journey where she fought tough times and came out even stronger. You're in for a touching experience as Ashley talks about the moments that helped her beat challenges and even see them as opportunities to grow. Her story shows how powerful people can be when they face problems with courage. This episode is all about the incredible strength that's inside all of us. It's a reminder that even when things look really tough, we can change and grow. Join us as we cheer for Ashley's amazing journey. Her story is here to inspire us all and prove that with the right attitude and strong determination, we can overcome anything and truly shine. Join The Unleash Your Inner Badass Mastermind: https://jaimecoaches.com/ Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I talk about one of my favorite books of all time, The Four Agreements. This is a super simple, but incredibly powerful book. It is actually what inspired me to create the upcoming Unleash Your Inner Badass 12-Week Mastermind. I am super excited to share it with all of you, I hope you enjoy it! Join us for the Unleash Your Inner Badass Mastermind: https://jaimecoaches.com/ Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @Thejaimemessinamindset LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

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This week I sit down and speak with our favorite TikTok couple Kirby and Ember about all things late in life, Tiktok, husbands, kids, and long-distance relationships among some other juicy topics ;) Follow all things Kirby and Ember: linktr.ee/mykirbygirl Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @Thejaimemessinamindset LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

Raw chat about the fear of intimacy with me, myself, and I. Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @Thejaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

Jen Berlingo, MA, LPC, ATR (she/her) is a midlife coach, a Licensed Professional Counselor, a Nationally Registered Art Therapist, and a master-level Reiki practitioner. After two decades of midwifing hundreds of women through life's major transitions and experiencing her own passage through a fiery midlife portal where she more fully stepped into her queer identity, she was inspired to write Midlife Emergence to accompany other women in traversing their midlife journeys. Jen is also a visual artist who creates custom pieces for collectors worldwide and exhibits her fluid, abstract art locally in her beloved town of Boulder, Colorado. There, among the sunny foothills, Jen can be found making bottomless bowls of popcorn and snuggling on the couch with her unconventional family, her coven of close friends, and her cats, Jinx and Juju. Follow Jen on Social Website: jenberlingo.com  Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @Thejaimemessinamindset LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, we hear from Eliza Hill on her coming out story. A little about Eliza: “As a gay woman who was raised in a sheltered religious home, left my marriage and raised an amazing kid, and who is now in a healthy marriage with my beautiful wife, I want to guide others (LGBTQ, women identifying, teens and young adults) using my intuitive gifts, my own life experiences, and trained and innate understanding of energetics, generational healing, religious recovery, and ancestral work. My “why” in this life is leading with love and guiding others to discover what is underneath the surface and to dive deep towards their own inner knowing, understanding more truly what makes them, them.” Follow Eliza on Social: IG: https://www.instagram.com/elizah_coaching/ Website: elizahillcoaching.com Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @Thejaimemessinamindset LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

n this episode, I interview Zara Barrie who is a published author, writer, and podcaster who has been pouring her heart out on the internet for over a decade. She is the former Senior Writer for Elite Daily and former Executive Editor of GO Magazine, the nation's preeminent lesbian print, and digital publication. In 2020 she published her first book to much critical acclaim Girl, Stop Passing Out In Your Makeup: The Bad Girl's Guide To Getting Your Sh*t Together. We chat about Queer drama, pride, and how to navigate it all Follow Zara on Social: TikTok: @ZaraBarrie IG:  @ZaraBarrie FB: https://www.facebook.com/zarabarriewords Twitter: https://twitter.com/FactoryGrrrl YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9VYgUD9lUnVI5USCY2mdcA Website: https://www.zarabarrie.com/ Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @Thejaimemessinamindset LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I share what's on my heart this Monday afternoon. Follow me on Social:  IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @thejaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Join the Mindset Bootcamp: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I speak with Lauren Smith, author of, The Peaceful Planner A Daily & Weekly Planner to Cultivate More Calm and Balance in Your Life, and host of the Date in Peace Podcast about her coming out story! Follow Lauren on Social: Instagram: @mettadate Listen to Date in Peace on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1JX88tnqPx8TK2R220eiOz?si=0c44659959fd4dc0 Listen to Date in Peace on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/date-in-peace/id1635052287?app=podcasthttps://www.instagram.com/mettadate/ Follow me on Social:  IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @thejaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Join the Mindset Bootcamp: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

This month, in honor of pride month we will be sharing coming out stories, starting with mine! Follow me on Social:  IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @thejaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Mindset Bootcamp? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I chat with The Gay Italian Nonna, Monica about coming out later in life, lesbian fashion, and more! Follow Monica on Social: IG: @gayitaliannonna TikTok: @gayitaliannonna Follow me on Social:  IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @thejaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in Coaching? Let's Chat: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I share what's on my heart about bullying and mean girls. Does it stop when we grow up? Or does it stop when we decide it stops? Follow me on Social:  IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @thejaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in Coaching? Let's Chat: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I speak with Lauren Smith, author of, The Peaceful Planner A Daily & Weekly Planner to Cultivate More Calm and Balance in Your Life, and host of the Date in Peace Podcast about all things dating in the LGBTQ scene. I hope you enjoy it! Follow Lauren on Social: Instagram: @mettadate Listen to Date in Peace on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1JX88tnqPx8TK2R220eiOz?si=0c44659959fd4dc0 Listen to Date in Peace on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/date-in-peace/id1635052287?app=podcasthttps://www.instagram.com/mettadate/ Follow me on Social:  IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @thejaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Join the Mindset Bootcamp: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I speak with Jillian Abby. Jillian Abby has mastered reinvention throughout her life to create the most whole and satisfying journey. She left the comfort of her hometown of Buffalo, NY, to study abroad in Cochabamba, Bolivia, at age 15. As an adult, her resume includes Certified Public Accountant, Licensed Massage Therapist, craft beer bar owner, homeschooling parent, black belt martial artist, and CEO of her executive storytelling business, Storyteller Soul, LLC.Her most recent role as a newly out lesbian and advocate for the LGBTQ+ community was by far her riskiest and most rewarding change. Her memoir, Perfectly Queer, was selected as a global contest winner by Hay House Publishing. She serves on the board for the 501©3 Tampa Homeschool Inclusive Events (TBHIvE) and is a member of Tampa's LGBT Chamber of Commerce. She supports others through her blog site QueerAbby.com and via TikTok at @AskQueerAbby.Jillian lives in Tampa Bay with her partner, Jen, their wildly wacky children, Sophie and Ollie, and a rescue cat named Poe. Follow along with all things Jillian Abby here: https://linktr.ee/jillianabby Follow me on Social:  IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @thejaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Mindset Bootcamp? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I speak with coach Kirsten Bunch. Kirsten Bunch is a writer, speaker, and internationally-known leadership and career coach who helps LGBTQ+ professionals get promoted to leadership positions without sacrificing their queer identities. She works with clients from globally recognized companies including Google, Meta, and EY. Her work has been featured in O, Oprah Magazine, Forbes, and Entrepreneur. Her new book, Queer Careers, will be released in Fall 2023. Follow Kirsten: https://kirstenbunch.com/ ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirstenbunch/⁠ Follow me on Social:  IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @thejaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I speak with Lauren Smith, author of, The Peaceful Planner A Daily & Weekly Planner to Cultivate More Calm and Balance in Your Life, and host of the Date in Peace Podcast about all things dating in the LGBTQ scene. I hope you enjoy it! Follow Lauren on Social: Instagram: @mettadate Listen to Date in Peace on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1JX88tnqPx8TK2R220eiOz?si=0c44659959fd4dc0 Listen to Date in Peace on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/date-in-peace/id1635052287?app=podcasthttps://www.instagram.com/mettadate/ Follow me on Social:  IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @thejaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I speak with mental health coach, breast cancer survivor, and total bad ass, Sandy Strader about her story as a late in lifer in many aspects. Contact Sandy: Email: SandyStrader@gmail.com Follow me on Social:  IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @thejaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I speak with actress Ayesha Harris about her career, life, manifestation, energy, and all the good vibes! Follow Ayesha on Social: IG: @ayesharaasheed Out Front Magazine Article: https://bit.ly/3FXEruK Follow me on Social:  IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @thejaimemessinamindset LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I speak with Chinhee Park about her gifts as a Psychic Medium. Chinhee along with her twin sister Sunhee Park are renowned Mediums, Psychics, and Healers. Follow Chinhee on Social: IG: @chinheepark Tiktok: @chinheepark Contact for bookings: Chinhee.park@gmail.com Follow me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @Thejaimemessinamindset LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I speak with Pasha Marlowe a trauma-informed marriage and family therapist turned neuroqueer/AuDHD coach, working beyond the intersection of neurodiversity and queerness and into the realm of the affirming neurodiversity paradigm. Follow Pasha on Social: Website: https://pashamarlowe.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/neuroqueercoach/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@neuroqueercoach Email: pasha@pashamarlowe.com https://linktr.ee/pashamarlowe Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @Thejaimemessinamindset LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I interview Zara Barrie who is a published author, writer, and podcaster who has been pouring her heart out on the internet for over a decade. She is the former Senior Writer for Elite Daily and former Executive Editor of GO Magazine, the nation's preeminent lesbian print, and digital publication. In 2020 she published her first book to much critical acclaim Girl, Stop Passing Out In Your Makeup: The Bad Girl's Guide To Getting Your Sh*t Together. We chat about overcoming a breakup, personal growth, and all things Lesbian! Follow Zara on Social: TikTok: @ZaraBarrie IG: @ZaraBarrie FB: https://www.facebook.com/zarabarriewords Twitter: https://twitter.com/FactoryGrrrl YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9VYgUD9lUnVI5USCY2mdcA Website: https://www.zarabarrie.com/ Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @Thejaimemessinamindset LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I speak with the first openly gay Miss Nevada, Heather Renner about coming out, being a part of the Miss America family as a Lesbian, and how to handle when people throw negativity your way! Follow Heather on Social: Tiktok: @Missamericanv IG: @Missamericanv Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @Thejaimemessinamindset LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I talk with Whitni from BDE Moves about all things sex, lesbians, and BDE. Follow along with Whitni: https://linktr.ee/Bde.moves Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, with style therapist Christina Stein we go deep into the ins and outs of energy, style, and stepping into who you are. Christina has been featured in British Vogue, The Today Show, Instyle Magazine, Cnn, and Brides. Follow Christina on Social: IG: @stylebychristina Check out her foundation: @thenoirfoundation Website: https://linktr.ee/stylebychristina Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I had the opportunity to chat with Jen, Sarah, and Rachel from The Cruising Pod about their journey of traveling to all the last known Lesbian bars in the US. Follow The Cruising Pod on Social: IG: @cruisingpod Tiktok: @cruisingpod Website: https://www.cruisingpod.com/ Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I speak with Social Psychology Ph.D. candidate, Roxanne Nai'a about all things social psychology, how her research got her in with Cardi B, and the future of social psychology and the LGBTQ community. Follow Roxanne on Social: IG: @roxanne_naia Website: https://beacons.ai/naia_papaia Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Sisterhood Core Wound Healing Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtPPX6Uq1YB_9Pcy_SEEoGw Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I speak with actress Olivia Stambnouliah about coming to terms with sexuality, her first experience in Paris, and growing up as a tomboy! Follow Olivia on Social: IG: @oliviastambouliah Follo Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Sisterhood Core Wound Healing Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtPPX6Uq1YB_9Pcy_SEEoGw Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I interview Tiktoker and business coach Eden Strader on coming out later in life, religion, and that feeling you get when you realize what you have been missing out on! Follow Eden on Social: IG: @edenstrader Tiktok: @edensinternet Website: https://edenstrader.com Follow Me on Social: IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Sisterhood Core Wound Healing Group Club Lilles FB Community Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtPPX6Uq1YB_9Pcy_SEEoGw Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

Follow Me on Social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtPPX6Uq1YB_9Pcy_SEEoGw Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I chat with Brandie Weaver who is the founder of Her Weekend Events. We talk about the lack of Lesbian spaces available and her plan to change that with Her Weekend as well as the need to create a space for lesbians that is less focused on partying and more focused on networking and connection. Follow Brandie on social: IG: @Brandieweaverpartnerships Her Weekend IG: @Herweekendevents Her Weekend Website: https://www.herweekendevents.com/ Brandie's Website: https://brandieweaver.com/ Follow Me on Social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtPPX6Uq1YB_9Pcy_SEEoGw Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ Join Club Lilles on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lilles --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I get to interview Club Lilles favorite, Ky Bragdon on how HBG was born, and all things life, lesbian, and kindness. Follow Along With Ky on Social: Tiktok: kybrag207 Instagram: kbrag207 Website: www.hbgmotivation.com Link to Volunteer form: https://bit.ly/3rlVXRX Follow Me on Social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtPPX6Uq1YB_9Pcy_SEEoGw Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I chat with my good friend Natalia about the differences in lesbian culture in America vs. Abroad. Follow Natalia on Social: IG: @nataliagmichalak Follow Me on Social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtPPX6Uq1YB_9Pcy_SEEoGw Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, Healer Monique Gaffney shares her 6 step process of healing core wounds. I am obsessed with this process. It is one that I have been through and I am sure I will be through again. Follow Monique on Social Media: Website: xoxoMonique.com/core-wound-healing IG: @xoxoMonique FB: @MoniqueGaffneyOfficial Moniques FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/femlm/?ref=share Follow Me on Social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina LILLES After Dark Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CLUBLILLES Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtPPX6Uq1YB_9Pcy_SEEoGw Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

Have you ever met someone and you are planning your future together the next day? That's the lesbian stereotype, right? Well, what if the UHAUL actually worked out? In this episode with energy Jaime & Katie Filer, we discuss their relationship (which stemmed from many a stereotype) and how it's actually working in their favor! Follow The Filers on social: IG: @jaim91 @_Katiefiler TikTok: @jaimefiler Websites: https://linktr.ee/jaim91 Follow Me on Social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaimemmessina/ IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtPPX6Uq1YB_9Pcy_SEEoGw Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode with energy healer Jereanne Elizabeth, we explore how to heal, and different ways to approach marriage and sexuality, and she shares her journey through recovery. Follow Jereanne on social: Website: https://guidedawakenings.net/go-deeper IG: @jereann_elizabeth Follow Me on Social: Facebook: Multiply Your Life IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

Follow Fabiano on Social Media: IG: @Fabiano_Mannino Website: https://linktr.ee/FabianoMannino Have you downloaded my free workbook that will help you begin to shift your story from disempowering to empowering? ----> Download that here! Follow Me on Social: Facebook: Multiply Your Life IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.callcoachjaime.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I talk with Jess "Jkillem" Fowler about her coming out story, the challenges the lesbian community faces, and what's to come! Follow Jess on Social: Instagram/tiktok/Twitter: jkiillem Instagram: Jkiillem.shots Jkiillemshots@gmail.com Have you downloaded my free workbook that will help you to build confidence and magnetize your energy to attract all that you want in life? Download that here! Follow Me on Social: Facebook: The Lifestyle Multiplier IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I speak with 24-year-old Anna Treimer about coming out as a lesbian when your father is a pastor. Follow Anna on IG: @annatphotography Check out her website: https://annatphotography.net/ Eloping Blog: https://annatphotography.net/how-to-elope-in-minnesota/ Have you downloaded my free workbook that will help you to build confidence and magnetize your energy to attract all that you want in life? Download that here! Follow Me on Social: Facebook: The Lifestyle Multiplier IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

Molly Downs-Stoller is an LGBTQ Therapist specializing in LGBTQ Christians. In this episode, she shares her story of coming out as a lesbian in her 30s after meeting her future wife. She shares the story of coming out as gay when you are a Christian, and also after living 30-plus years as a straight woman. Links to everything Molly Mentions in this podcast: Molly Downs-Stoller — The Christian Closet Email: mdowns@thechristiancloset.org Resources: Book: Unashamed, A Coming-Out Guide for LGBTQ Christians by Amber Cantorna Amazon - Unashamed: A Coming Out Guide for LGBTQ Christians: Cantorna, Amber: 9780664265052: Books Q Christian Fellowship: Q Christian Fellowship | Radical Belonging for LGBTQ+ Christians & Allies Reformation Project: The Reformation Project - Advancing LGBTQ Inclusion in the Church Podcast: Queerology – Matthias Roberts Have you downloaded my free workbook that will help you to build confidence and magnetize your energy to attract all that you want in life? Download that here! Follow Me on Social: Facebook: The Lifestyle Multiplier IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

For the month of June and Pride Month, we are sharing coming-out stories. Listen in to hear Jamie Garzot share her story of coming out as a lesbian at the age of 49. Follow along with Jamie Garzot on Social Media: IG: @jamie_garzot Tiktok: @jamie_the_author Get Jamie's book Unconventional Here Have you downloaded my free workbook that will help you to build confidence and magnetize your energy to attract all that you want in life? ----> Download that here! Follow Me on Social: Facebook: Multiply Your Life IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

For the month of June and Pride Month, we are sharing coming-out stories. Listen in to hear my coming-out story. Have you downloaded my free workbook that will help you to build confidence and magnetize your energy to attract all that you want in life? ----> Download that here! Follow Me on Social: Facebook: Multiply Your Life IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I talk about how to align your actions with your vision. Have you downloaded my free workbook that will help you to build confidence and magnetize your energy to attract all that you want in life? ----> Download that here! Follow Me on Social: Facebook: Multiply Your Life IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I talk about self-love and how self-love and building confidence go hand in hand. Have you downloaded my free workbook that will help you to build confidence and magnetize your energy to attract all that you want in life? ----> Download that here! Follow Me on Social: Facebook: Multiply Your Life IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I chat with Lauren Friedrich about all things mental health, social media, imposter syndrome, and more. Have you downloaded my free workbook that will help you to build confidence and magnetize your energy to attract all that you want in life? ----> Download that here! Follow Me on Social: Facebook: Multiply Your Life IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I share why sometimes when you are on a personal growth journey, it seems like the people closest to you are trying to sabotage you or hold you back, and what you can do about it. Have you downloaded my free workbook that will help you to build confidence and magnetize your energy to attract all that you want in life? ----> Download that here! Follow Me on Social: Facebook: Multiply Your Life IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I share some tips for setting boundaries so that you can maintain healthy, thriving relationships. I also share about our upcoming event, The Stories We Tell Live, on April 27th at 8:00 pm est. You can register for that event here! Have you downloaded my free workbook that will help you to build confidence and magnetize your energy to attract all that you want in life? ----> Download that here! Follow Me on Social: Facebook: Multiply Your Life IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I speak with Molly Downs-Stoler, a Marriage & Family Therapist who has a focus on LGBTQ+ Christians. We have an amazing conversation about religion, coming out, and spirituality. Have you downloaded my free workbook that will help you to build confidence and magnetize your energy to attract all that you want in life? ----> Download that here! FOLLOW ALONG WITH MOLLY: Book: UnClobber by Colby Martin Website: http://www.unclobber.com/ Youtube video that talks about homosexuality put in the Bible in 1946 and how the translation committee later said they shouldn't have used that word. If you don't want to watch the whole thing then at least the first 8 minutes. https://youtu.be/rdfxPDZEO5k The Christian Closet Website: www.thechristiancloset.com My profile: https://www.thechristiancloset.com/therapists-1/2022/2/2/molly-downs-stoller Instagram: @lgbtqchristiantherapist TikTok: @lesbiantherapist Follow Me on Social: Facebook: Multiply Your Life IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

Have you downloaded my free workbook that will help you to build confidence and magnetize your energy to attract all that you want in life? ----> Download that here! Follow Me on Social: Facebook: Multiply Your Life IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support

In this episode, I chat with Brittany Cooley, author of, Strength Personified: A Personal Story of Tragedy to Triumph. There is a trigger warning for this one. We go deep and chat about death, suicide, and sexual abuse. If these are things that trigger you please sit this one out. Follow Brittany on Social: IG: @ThebrittanyCooley FB: https://www.facebook.com/brittcool Strength Personified: https://store.bookbaby.com/book/Strength-Personified Have you downloaded my free workbook that will help you to build confidence and magnetize your energy to attract all that you want in life? ----> Download that here! Follow Me on Social: Facebook: Multiply Your Life IG: @jaimemessina Tiktok: @jaimemessina FB Group: Keep Ya Head Up With Jaime Interested in our Coaching Program? Go here: https://www.jaimecoaches.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jaime-messina/support