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Million Dollar Influence: How to Drive Powerful Decisions through Language, Leverage, and Leadership by Alan Weiss, Gene Moran Genemoran.com Amazon.com Even senior people, business owners, and board members are unaware of the nuances of influence on a daily basis. They think in a straight line and try to "strike deals," use hierarchical power, make "trade-offs," or bargain as if at a flea market. They unwittingly sacrifice vital needs to gain minor and temporary bright, shiny things. Influence is not about fast-talking, it's about fast-thinking and carefully constructed language that one applies within a specific context. Influence is thought to be programmable—that is, it can create scarcity or consistency of positive responses. In reality, it's about accountability, innovation, and leverage. No pre-pandemic strategy is worth a cent in a post-pandemic world. There is no "new normal" or "return to normal." There are only new realities. In this book, one of the boldest, most aggressive, most successful consultants in the world makes his predictions and provides recommendations that may frighten and stun, but ultimately can lead to market domination. Million-dollar influencers understand that influence doesn't mean kissing up to everyone. While we may all be equal as human beings, not everyone has a stake in the outcomes in the business of influence. Some will resist change for the sake of resisting change. They lack imagination or let fear hold them in place. Recognizing actual stakeholders will guide your positioning of stakes in the ground that will mark critical positions leading to your desired outcome. Features How consensus building is something to live with, not something to die for The fundamental difference between accountability and authority The need for innovation and even improvisation in wielding influence The scientific and magical contrasts of language How to effectively maneuver within political environments How to rally the right stakeholders at the right time The powerful role of consequence About the Author Gene Moran, founder and President of Capitol Integration, is the foremost expert on federal defense and security lobbying. He guides and advises defense companies of all sizes to dramatically improve federal sales through funding and policy change in Washington DC. Thanks to his strategic advisement and proven methodology for success, Gene's clients enjoy extraordinary returns on investment. With 10+ years operating as a highly successful independent consultant, lobbyist and advisor, Gene's results for his clients are measured in billions of dollars. The extent of his impact has seen Gene's policy initiatives implemented by Congress (in law), The President (in Executive Order), and the Executive branch (in agency policy and contracts).
Carla D. Bass, a retired U.S. Air Force Colonel is responsible for managing vital communications between high-ranking government officials and Congress. She emphasizes the importance of effectively conveying one's story to make a meaningful impact. SUMMARY In this episode, Gene Moran talks with Carla Bass, a retired U.S. Air Force veteran who continues to serve in the national intelligence community. From a young age, Carla knew she wanted to follow in her father's footsteps and serve her country. After her retirement from active duty, Carla took a one-year break before joining the Office of the Director of National Intelligence (ODNI). The ODNI is a senior-level agency that provides oversight to the Intelligence Community. It primarily employs subject-matter experts in various areas, including collection, analysis, acquisition, policy, human resources, and management. Carla shares with us the importance of telling a story through a resume and why details matter when exploring post-military career options. She emphasizes the power of the written word and how it can influence outcomes. In fact, she wrote a book on the subject called "Write to Influence!" Join us in this episode as Carla shares her insights and experiences about transitioning from military to a civilian career and how to use effective communication to achieve your goals. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS 00:56 – 04:55 Carla's 30 years of active-duty service. 04:56 – 15:25 Preparing for transition. 15:26 – 19:07 Lessons learned and finding balance. YOUR MOVE Most board members, CEOs and businesses owners don't understand the nuances of influence. They try to “strike deals” or assert hierarchical power. But the future belongs to the fast-thinkers, and to the people who know that influence is about accountability, innovation and leverage. “Influence” is the power to shape policy or ensure favorable treatment from someone. Influence is reciprocal, the proverbial “win/win.” Order your copy of Million Dollar Influence here. Get all the resources from this episode at genemoran.com/e61 Learn more about Write To Influence! here. Connect with Carla Bass on LinkedIn here.
Former US Navy data systems and electronics technician, Rebecca Paris, served on the aircraft carrier, John C. Stennis and traveled the world. She turned down a $45,000 re-enlistment bonus when she decided she wanted to build her own company focused on financial intelligence. SUMMARY Veteran, Rebecca Paris, discusses her experience of active duty, including her role as a data systems technician on board the aircraft carrier John C. Stennis and riding in the Blue Angels's C-130, “Fat Albert.” Coming from a military family, with her grandfather serving in the Army and her dad in the Air Force, Rebecca had clear aspirations to serve in the military too. In this interview, Rebecca emphasizes the role financial intelligence and security played in making the fundamental decision to leave the Navy and pursue civilian opportunities. She now faces uncertainty traveling through life as a civilian, but exciting things are on the horizon as she starts her own company. She shares with us what work she has been doing to re-establish the balance in her life as a civilian. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Rebecca shares her experience as a data systems technician in the US Navy. How she found her way to a civilian opportunity. Finding balance in civilian life. YOUR MOVE Have you ordered your copy of Make Your Move? Not everyone has a stake in the outcomes in the business of influence. How will you secure yours? I co-wrote Million Dollar Influence with Alan Weiss to help people drive powerful decisions through language, leverage, and leadership. All proceeds for the book go to Freedom Fighter Outdoors. Ready to chart your post-military career? Order your copy of Make Your Move here. Get all the resources from this episode at genemoran.com/e60 Connect with Rebecca Paris on LinkedIn here.
Want PD that's like a Master Class for Teachers? Connect with Peer Driven PD at Connect with Peer Driven PD at https://peerdrivenpd.com/ to learn more. Make sure you tell them the Leaning into Leadership podcast sent you and get your FREE trial access!Aaron Keith Hawkins is an author, motivational leadership and success keynote speaker, and personal performance mentor. He's an internationally recognized podcast host, and has been featured as a subject matter expert on dozens of podcasts, radio shows, and other media outlets.Aaron is a retired Police Captain with decades of leadership experience. He's been a teacher, mentor, coach and speaker since the 1990's. Aaron holds a Master's Degree in Administrative Leadership with a focus on Professional Coaching from the University of Oklahoma, he's a certified NLP Practitioner, and is a proud alumnus of the 255th session of the invitation-only FBI National Academy where he engaged in advanced leadership studies alongside his fellow hand-picked delegates from dozens of countries.As is often the case, Aaron's believes his greatest education has come from life itself, including fatherhood, and his journey of marriage to his best friend and wife, Cathy, with whom he's been sharing life since 1996. His book Million Dollar Influence gives actionable and research-backed insights on create life-changing connection, trust, and impact in your business and life. Grab a copy today, read it, then share with a friend. Connect with Aaron at https://aaronkeithhawkins.com/ or email him at aaron@aaronkeithhawkins.comGet your autographed copy of Road to Awesome: The Journey of a Leader hereBook Darrin to speak at your school or conference contact us hereGrab your copy of Darrin's FREE e-book Walk in Your Purpose Check out Darrin's blog for great leadership tips and ideasSign up for the Road to Awesome email list and newsletterHave a book idea you'd like to submit to Road to Awesome? Click here
Misty Cook, United States Marine Corp (Ret.) supported three and four-star General Officers for two decades during her military service as an Adjutant and now operates her successful business helping retired General and Flag officers at all stages of their transition. SUMMARY Misty served 20 years on active duty as an Adjutant in the USMC. Her duties included providing administrative support to three and four-star general officers which ultimately led to the founding of her business called COC. Her business helps retiring General Officers and Flag Officers start and build their consulting businesses. Transition planning was on Misty's radar at the 15-year mark of her career. She knew that COC was her dream business and started planning that post-military career path prior to her retirement from the Corps. She credits starting a “side hustle” before starting COC for teaching her about the mistakes that can be made in business and when one should hire a business strategist to help guide an entrepreneur along the business journey which can ultimately prevent costly pitfalls. Enjoying the freedom that comes with running her own business, Misty advises those transitioning out of military service to build a network of people doing different things. A direct connection may not be able to offer a solution to your query but someone they know may. A large network yields many resources in life and in business. Enjoy this episode and please share the Make Your Move podcast with fellow veterans. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS 01:12 – 06:18 Summary of Misty Cook's USMC 20-year active-duty career. 06:19 – 13:22 Leaving active-duty and planning for transition to entrepreneurship. 13:23 – 17:33 Unexpected upsides to transition and running a business. 17:34 – 19:28 Working on work/life balance. YOUR MOVE Not everyone has a stake in the outcomes in the business of influence. How will you secure yours? I co-wrote Million Dollar Influence with Alan Weiss to help people drive powerful decisions through language, leverage, and leadership. Order your copy of Million Dollar Influence here Get all the resources from this episode at genemoran.com/e55 Learn more about Misty Cook's business - COC here Connect with Misty Cook on LinkedIn here
Zachary Green, United States Marine Corp. (Ret.) took his warrior spirit to corporate America after his active duty and reserve service and later founded his own multi-million-dollar company. SUMMARY Zachary Green joined the USMC in 1991 and was assigned to a cold weather infantry unit. His goal was to serve in a combat role but as the years went by it appeared time was going to be spent in Garrison garrison and not fighting. Changes came and went and so after 7 years of service, Zachary decided to transition out. Without any career transition support from the Military, Zachary took his grit, perseverance, integrity, and courage and paved his own path. A 10-year career in leadership and development at Eli Lilly and serving his community as a volunteer firefighter led to the founding of his company, MN8 LumAware/Firefox. His entrepreneurial spirit had him leave his career at Eli Lilly and start his company from the trunk of his car which he later grew to over $30 million in sales. He credits military service for giving him the warrior spirit and writes about his experience and how veterans can pursue entrepreneurship after leaving the service in his book – Warrior Entrepreneur. The WarriorAcademe.com is another resource “where warriors regroup to learn the tactics of gaining superiority in both business and life.” Zachary is passionate about helping veterans pursue the American dream after military service and believes anyone with warrior traits should be given a chance to demonstrate that they have what it takes to succeed in the corporate space. He chooses not to slow down in life and business and gives back by lecturing graduating Marines about honor and commitment at Parris Island, SC. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS 01:06 – 04:50 Summary of Zachary's 7-year USMC career. 04:51 – 08:34 The decision to transition to civilian life. 08:35 – 13:00 A 10-year career at Eli Lilly and a volunteer firefighter position leads to the founding of Zachary's business. 13:01 – 17:24 Unexpected upsides and finding work/life balance – Warrior Entrepreneur. YOUR MOVE Written by Gene Moran and Alan Weiss, Million Dollar Influence is required reading for everyone who wants a stake in the outcomes in the business of influence. You'll learn how to place your stake in the ground, marking critical positions that lead to your desired outcome. Order your copy of Million Dollar Influence- How to Drive Powerful Decisions Through Language, Leverage, and Leadership here Get all the resources from this episode at genemoran.com/e53 Learn more about Zachary's book- Warrior Entrepreneur here Learn all about the Warrior Academe here Connect with Zachary Green here
Influence is such an important word in business. Yet, it is often taken the wrong way. People think that influence has to be forceful or assert power. This is far from the truth, and if you influence the right way, you can get powerful outcomes that leave both parties winning. In this episode, Patrick Veroneau interviews consultant, speaker, and author, Alan Weiss. Sharing wisdom from his book, Million Dollar Influence, Alan tells us everything we need to drive powerful decisions through influence. He dives deep into the role of language, leverage, and leadership in the process as well as the power of improv and emotional intelligence. Plus, Alan talks about the importance of thinking of employees as your first customers and reading your audience. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://www.emeryleadershipgroup.com
Show date 10/12/2018
As a leader, we must become masterful in our relationships.What's the greater priority: Leadership or Relationship? Does it have to be one or the other?If we don't have to choose between the two how can we better bring the two together?Our guest on this episode is Aaron Keith Hawkins is an author, coach and professional speaker on Relationships and Influence. He's an internationally recognized podcast host of Unbreakable Success and has been featured as a subject matter expert on dozens of podcasts, radio shows, and other media outlets. Aaron also has over two decades of leadership experience as a law enforcement executive, and has been teaching, coaching and speaking since the 1990’s. He holds a Master's Degree in Administrative Leadership with a focus on Professional Coaching,His book Million Dollar Influence gives you actionable and research-backed insights to create life-changing connection, trust, and impact in your business and life. On this episode:What is Million Dollar InfluenceWhy effective influence isn’t about more or even better content but about something far more basicThe 3 fastest steps to heal a relationshipThe power of ethical influenceHow you'll know the quality of your leadership when they aren't speaking about your leadershipAfter two decades of leadership, the most effective leadership tool he's seen work every timeAlumnus of the invitation-only FBI National Academy Being part of advanced leadership studies alongside delegates from dozens of countriesWhat are the challenges faced by law enforcement in Pakistan Vs the USAnd so much more...To find out more about Aaron Keith Hawkins: https://aaronkeithhawkins.com/To find out more about hiring Dov Baron as a speaker or strategist for your organization: http://fullmontyleadership.com/consulting or http://fullmontyleadership.com/speaking.Remember you can now also find us on iTunes, Spotify, iHeart Radio, or wherever you tune into podcasts.And on traditional radio stations across the US every Monday and Thursday on: 99.5 FM & 1520 AM Las Vegas102.1 FM & 1640 AM Lancaster, Philadelphia87.9 FM & 810 AM Macon, Georgia 92.1 FM & 1630 AM Tampa, Florida97.7 The Villages, Florida96.3 FM Boulder, Colorado90.3 FM Milwaukee, Wisconsin 94.7 FM Pittsburg, Philadelphia87.9 FM Colorado Springs, ColoradoAnd NOW LIVE on 96.7FM WASHINGTON, DC and on 96.7FM covering THE WASHINGTON DC & QUANTICO area.Also, look for us on ROKU TV where there are 100K subscribers. If you are a regular listener, then a big thank-you to you for making us the #1 podcast globally for Fortune 500 listeners! And with a potential reach of 2.5 to 3 million listeners for every show, we’re honored and grateful to be cited in INC.com as The #1 Podcast To Make You a Better Leader See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Aaron was a Police Chief, Husband and Father when he experienced a close call with death. After realizing he could have suffered a heart attack, mini-stroke or aneurism he experienced a change in his life. He shares his journey through more than a decade of personal growth and a shift from surviving to now living an intentional life that is thriving. Throughout his career, he was often asked, "Why did this happen to me"? He shares his experience answering this for himself as well as how he helped others navigate through this process to understanding. Links: Synergymindsetcoaching/aaronkeithhawkins.com Web:https://aaronkeithhawkins.com/ Free copy of Million Dollar Influence:https://aaronkeithhawkins.com/mdi/ LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronkeithhawkins/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/aaronkeithhawkins/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aaronkeithhawkinsfan Twitter:https://twitter.com/aaronkeithtweet --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lvmountaintops/message
We are nothing without an identity! Without a brand, it will be difficult to pick you out of over 28 million small businesses currently running in the United States. You can pursue your passion for making a positive impact on Humanity, but first, you need to stand out from the competition. Join Special Guest, Influence and Relationship Strategist, Aaron Keith Hawkins as he shares his genius nuggets on serve others on a platform unique to only your brand! This is an episode that you don't want to miss!
The ability to influence others is at the root of your success and satisfaction in work and relationships. You don't have to be born an "influential person." Influence is a skill that can be learned!
The ability to influence others is at the root of your success and satisfaction in work and relationships. You don't have to be born an "influential person." Influence is a skill that can be learned!
The ability to influence others is at the root of your success and satisfaction in work and relationships. You don’t have to be born an “influential person.” Influence is a skill that can be learned! http://traffic.libsyn.com/manalive/influence-Hawkins.mp3 Show notes What does it take to be an influencer — to be a man people listen to, trust […] The post Million Dollar Influence – Aaron Keith Hawkins appeared first on Shana James Coaching.
In addition to being the author of Million Dollar Influence and host of the Unbreakable Success podcast, Aaron Keith Hawkins is a high-performance coach who supports entrepreneurs and individuals committed to creating a powerful and positive impact with their business and life. He works empathetically and strategically to support his client's ability to authentically influence themselves, and others. He's also honored to be a rare alumnus of the invitation-only FBI National Academy in Quantico, Virginia and has spent over 2 decades as a public servant. He’s currently Police Captain, still serving his New Jersey community as a Law Enforcement Executive. If you want time off it requires influencing your boss. If you want a better marriage it requires influencing your partner. If you want better habbits it requires influencing yourself! It all comes down to influence.Aaron is going to share 4 tips on how to influence the people around us to empower ourselves and others to make a positive difference in the world! We are going to cover setting boundaries, authentic generosity, being you authentically, and more! Timestamp: Four Main Mistakes when trying to influence 01:10- Mistake #1 04:35- Mistake #2 06:50- Mistake #3 09:38- Mistake #4
In this Dr. Jaime episode, Dr. Jaime chats with Aaron Keith Hawkins, author of Million Dollar Influence, about the 4 pillars to game changing relationships. Together, we discuss how game changing relationships are up to you, why self care must be scheduled, why conflicts are not for winning and how to give with both hands. Change all of your relationships for the better, now! Visit me at www.drjaimek.com
In this Dr. Jaime episode, Dr. Jaime chats with Aaron Keith Hawkins, author of Million Dollar Influence, about the top mistakes we make when trying to be influential. What mistake is holding back your influence? Find out now. Visit me at www.drjaimek.com
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Aaron Keith Hawkins is the host of Unbreakable Success podcast. He is a high-performance coach who loves working with entrepreneurs and those looking to create a powerful impact with their business and life. He works empathetically and strategically to draw out his client's ability to create transformational changes to their sense of identity. He graduated from the FBI National Academy and has spent over 2 decades as a public servant. He's currently a Police Captain, still serving his New Jersey community as a Law Enforcement Executive. In this 2-part episode, Aaron and I did an experiment where we are interviewing each other. We are essentially taking the same recording and applying edits as we see fit for both of our shows. Therefore you will be hearing questions and answers from both ends. If you want to skip over the Feisworld content, jump right to minute 16:00. To learn more about Aaron Keith Hawkins, please visit his website: https://aaronkeithhawkins.com/. He has a great book called "Million Dollar Influence", which you can download for free right here. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/feisworld/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/feisworld/support
Aaron Keith Hawkins is the host of Unbreakable Success podcast. He is a high-performance coach who loves working with entrepreneurs and those looking to create a powerful impact with their business and life. He works empathetically and strategically to draw out his client's ability to create transformational changes to their sense of identity. He graduated from the FBI National Academy and has spent over 2 decades as a public servant. He's currently a Police Captain, still serving his New Jersey community as a Law Enforcement Executive. In this 2-part episode, Aaron and I did an experiment where we are interviewing each other. We are essentially taking the same recording and applying edits as we see fit for both of our shows. Therefore you will be hearing questions and answers from both ends. If you want to skip over the Feisworld content, jump right to minute 16:00. To learn more about Aaron Keith Hawkins, please visit his website: https://aaronkeithhawkins.com/. He has a great book called "Million Dollar Influence", which you can download for free right here. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/feisworld/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/feisworld/support
In this show, Carol and her guest, Aaron Keith Hawkins, will discuss "Million Dollar Influence." The show will increase your awareness of how your thoughts and actions are influencing your experiences and results. When applied, this can be a game-changer!
In this show, Carol and her guest, Aaron Keith Hawkins, will discuss "Million Dollar Influence." The show will increase your awareness of how your thoughts and actions are influencing your experiences and results. When applied, this can be a game-changer!
Several years ago, Aaron found himself on his bedroom floor, clutching his chest and thinking it was all over. Luckily, it wasn’t, and it set Aaron a path to have a bigger impact and leave a legacy of expansion. Aaron is a police captain in New Jersey. He’s also a husband and a dad, the host of Unbreakable Success Podcast, Author of the book Million Dollar Influence, an inspirational speaker, and a coach. In this episode, Jay and Aaron chat about the deeper definition of 'beyond connecting', the benefits of shifting 'them' to 'me', and so much more. Aaron also shared a very memorable moment when he realized he needed to see a bigger picture of life, and the steps he needed to take for personal growth. Visit https://jayrooke.com/019-aaron-keith-hawkins/ for resources and show notes. Check out my website: https://jayrooke.com/ Follow me on: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TribeCreator/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayrooke/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JayRooke
In episode 9 of the New Construction Marketing Podcast I chat with Aaron Keith Hawkins about his incredible story of transformation and his new book the Million Dollar Influence.
Aaron's website is aaronkeithhawkins.com Support Us on Patreon & Join the Learn True Health Book Club!!! Patreon.com/learntruehealth https://www.patreon.com/learntruehealth P.U.R.E. Success http://learntruehealth.com/p-u-r-e-success/ P.U.R.E. Success initially sounds unattainable. And I know we all want to have P.U.R.E. Success in everything we do. That’s why I decided to have Aaron Keith Hawkins back on the show to dive into how P.U.R.E. Success can be achieved. Personal Realization Aaron Keith Hawkins helps people become excellent in their personal and professional life. He helps them see their blind spots, eliminate barriers and alibis. Ultimately, he maintains his clients transform their lives with intention and purpose. And in doing so, it helps him to be more aware of himself. “I realized when life is good, a lot of times people tend to settle in. And people feel something is missing. A connection is the most important thing to allow us to succeed,” said Aaron Keith Hawkins. “If we’re not actively willing to connect, express ourselves and allow people to express themselves, things can get tough.” Life Purpose When we’re in a good mood but we don’t have any form of evolution, Aaron Keith Hawkins says that’s when things get stale. Naturally, as our life progresses, we should be interested in other things and try new things. One of the needs we have as human beings is the need for novelty. “We need things and experiences that are new. If we don’t engage with it somehow, that’s one of the most common mistakes,” Aaron Keith Hawkins said. He adds, “I know for most people; if nothing comes along and shakes them up, or someone doesn’t come along and shake them up, they can spend their entire life just feeling “good.” We can do better and feel amazing.” Facing Fears Fear is something a lot of people struggle with. But I think it’s all about recommitting to your goal or being flexible in achieving that goal rather than giving up so we can attain P.U.R.E. Success. “The truth is, having some quality fears are necessary. Example, if there are so many drastic changes in diet and you’re feeling depleted, that’s a good time to evaluate. It’s just about awareness,” said Aaron Keith Hawkins. He adds, “The point is, we own fear and the fear we have is a tool. It is our tool to be able to reflect on whatever it is. Most of the time, most of our fears are not dangerous.” Aaron Keith Hawkins further explains that the fear of it not working is usually the fear of it not working fast enough. Another scenario would be fear of the fact that it’s working but isn’t noticeable enough yet. It’s usually about judgment and how do we feel about ourselves. Love Yourself Sometimes we’re so lost in taking care of others that we end up neglecting ourselves. But when we learn not to feel guilty about doing the things we want to do, that’s when we can make some significant progress in realizing P.U.R.E. Success. “The truth is, you love yourself. That’s why you want it in the first place. It’s so easy to forget our values. And one of the best ways to have more patience is exercise curiosity,” said Aaron Keith Hawkins. Aaron Keith Hawkins adds that it’s really about who can we inspire by creating a plan that will make this last long term. Aaron Keith Hawkins usually convinces his clients to serve someone else with regards to what they are trying to do for themselves. Because he says, people tend to do more for somebody else than they’ll ever do for themselves. Making Decisions Before making any step, we first have to consider our identity. It’s a pathway to shift our belief system from a negative to a positive. This way, our habitual behavior also turns into the ones that help us get the result we want. “Choose what we need to learn. Find what we need to learn and what we need to do differently. You don’t have to fake anything to make it,” said Aaron Keith Hawkins. Aaron Keith Hawkins also explains that there’s no better time in history than to be whoever you want to be than now. Because we have almost literally unlimited information about the things, we want to do. There’s information that can help you do it. “We can put it to use. It’s not copying what someone else is doing. But rather looking at how can you can implement it, in what way you can use it, and for what you want to accomplish. It’s part journey and part process. And another part is remembering those values like patience,” Aaron Keith Hawkins said. Gaining Curiosity How do we have curiosity? Aaron Keith Hawkins advises being innocently curious. Think about what how a decision, or thing affect what’s going to happen next. And whatever identity you choose, you will eventually find evidence to support it. You see that it’s part of human nature. That is a critical piece of truth for all of us to remember. Four Laws Of P.U.R.E. Success The word “pure” in P.U.R.E. Success is an acronym: P – Pivotal choice U – Unconditional high standards R – Reflective comparison E – Elevating our situational response. Pivotal Choice First of all, the pivotal choice from P.U.R.E. Success means being 100% responsible for everything that happens in our life. Aaron Keith Hawkins calls it a pivotal choice because people who choose to not adopt this as a mindset there will have their life turn out one way. And people who do decide to act as if they’re 100% responsible for everything going on in their life, their life turns out in a completely different way. Ultimately, Aaron Keith Hawkins says it’s not about blaming yourself. It’s about accepting that you are entirely responsible for what’s going to happen next. That’s where responsibility comes in. This includes emotional reaction, plan of action, thoughts, and interpretation of the event. Unconditional High Standards Aaron Keith Hawkins mentions Tom Robbins, a speaker he looks up to, who said that to change the quality of our life, have to improve our standards. We have to change the standard of who we are and what we’re going to tolerate. “It’s relatively easy to keep those high standards once we decide on something. And it’s easy to live up to them when everything is going right. The problem is, for a lot of people, a lot of those standards are conditional,” said Aaron Keith Hawkins. Furthermore, Aaron Keith Hawkins says that when we have a reason not to maintain our standards, or when we have an excuse to drop the standards that we set for ourselves, that’s when it matters the most. The standard you set doesn’t matter. What matters is the standard you keep when you have an excuse not to. Those are the life-altering moments. Reflective Comparison Aaron Keith Hawkins says this is simply the idea of looking in the mirror and asking ourselves what we’d do if we had no ego, flaws, baggage or alternative agenda. It’s about asking yourself what will happen if you couldn’t get something wrong. Ultimately, if we have to hear a question, we have to have an answer. And every time we ask ourselves a question, we would indeed come up with a solution. Elevating Your Situational Methodology Aaron Keith Hawkins says that for this last step, it’s about stepping up your habits. Most people do what’s familiar to them. They hope, they believe or create. Only a few people choose to create an outcome in any situation. “We don’t have to rely solely on hope. Because we can hope while we’re believing and we can hope while we’re creating something,” advises Aaron Keith Hawkins. He adds, “Always look for a way to create in any situation whether it be an outcome, a situation, a story or a question. When we’re willing to do that in conjunction with these other rules, it’s life-changing.” Unbreakable Success Podcast Aaron Keith Hawkins has a great podcast called Unbreakable Success. He interviews successful people from all walks of life, and it’s a great resource to learn golden nuggets of wisdom. The Unbreakable Success podcast is on iTunes, and I highly encourage my listeners to check that out. Million Dollar Influence Book If you can’t get enough of Aaron Keith Hawkins, he also has a new book called Million Dollar Influence. It teaches people how to be an influencer at home or work. The book also teaches influence in a way that completely flips the lid on how a lot of people look at influence. Just link to Aaron Keith Hawkins’ official website to download your free copy of Million Dollar Influence. “It’s a step-by-step process to understanding human behavior, understanding the building blocks of influence and relationship building. The book is a culmination of many lessons and mistakes I’ve learned over the years,” shares Aaron Keith Hawkins. Bio Aaron Keith Hawkins ‘s mission is to help you recognize that you are capable of succeeding in literally every aspect of your life once you realize success is a lifestyle to live, not a trophy to chase. In addition to being the host of Unbreakable Success podcast, Aaron Keith Hawkins is a personal performance and relationship coach who works empathetically and strategically to quickly guide his clients toward transformational changes in their own lives, careers, and marriages. Aaron Keith Hawkins completed his graduate studies at the University of Oklahoma where he majored in Leadership with an emphasis in professional coaching. He has spent over two decades as a public servant. Currently a Police Captain, he’s still serving his community as a Law Enforcement Executive. Aaron Keith Hawkins and his wife have been married for 21 years and live in New Jersey with their 12-year-old daughter. Get Connected With Aaron Keith Hawkins! 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