AdVANCE Your Life Podcast

we will talk about how being intentional with your spouse/partner creates the energetic momentum to getting to where you want to be and fueling the relationship with power and fuel source- vs - living on autopilot and allowing life to happen to you & responding from the same filters - keeping you living in programming and creating the same life and relationship together- vs manifesting your mutual desired life. https://hoo.be/the_conscious.woman?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaamEm1lFIaqlm4iAjFLNRW67kT0KeBC_y92_9uFNDSumSZw5eY8iTF0oBY_aem_MRQVQrjnsC2ELoEhv4wWPg   https://hoo.be/the.conscious.man?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabMSG6NqSlQKljPN5GEefG10Sdd4h1aygTGrTw0CuNEir5wvclJB9C3EBc_aem_b6-zvW2UjaTQqSKDSKplhA   https://linktr.ee/the_conscious.couple?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaYHOEitNwxHsFk9S7JwhNq0-kTay8HJ7NJaj62T8u23wHzuMQgmnfpDxIk_aem_2n-5IYHtpatmTKBYTMfY6w  

We will be covering our journey in our emotions and being able to truly hold space for, navigate through, and allow our emotional body to be the source of our greatest conscious power as individuals and as a couple.  We dive into the emotional journey we have had this year in our own individual growth and how it deeply impacted our relationship and purpose. We give a transparent viewpoint on what it truly means to be aligned with mind, body, and soul- to lead yourself from true essence and be able to balance consciousness, logic, and nervous system regulation- to raise your energetic signature and frequency in the world.  https://hoo.be/the_conscious.woman?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaamEm1lFIaqlm4iAjFLNRW67kT0KeBC_y92_9uFNDSumSZw5eY8iTF0oBY_aem_MRQVQrjnsC2ELoEhv4wWPg   https://hoo.be/the.conscious.man?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabMSG6NqSlQKljPN5GEefG10Sdd4h1aygTGrTw0CuNEir5wvclJB9C3EBc_aem_b6-zvW2UjaTQqSKDSKplhA   https://linktr.ee/the_conscious.couple?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaYHOEitNwxHsFk9S7JwhNq0-kTay8HJ7NJaj62T8u23wHzuMQgmnfpDxIk_aem_2n-5IYHtpatmTKBYTMfY6w  

We will talk how the evolution of our relationship from high levels of toxicity into a conscious loving relationship. We spend time explaining the wounds and the stories that created terrible relational practice and how we healed those together to grow into our best selves.  https://linktr.ee/the_conscious.couple?fbclid=IwAR2XOaYyZMIeQNWGUBoKwx7x4QtZFvClOhs4HJJFzllTo7KlqshdckPKcy0    

Attachment is anything that we put outside of ourselves that creates a feeling within us and we tie that FEELING To THE THING OR PERSON GIVING US WHAT WE WANT.  Emotional Attachments: These are the attachments we form to people, possessions, roles, or beliefs. We become emotionally attached when we feel that our happiness, well-being, or identity is contingent upon the presence or possession of someone or something. Intellectual Attachments: These attachments pertain to the beliefs and concepts we hold about ourselves, others, and the world. Intellectual attachments can be rigid beliefs, prejudices, or fixed ideas about how things should be. https://linktr.ee/theconsciousman?fbclid=PAAabzlBszi0QsP3V2_mMM05HjMwrwtqCp6maakW2lL6_onG6-ilKeLOHUVjE_aem_Aa5nhP09j5dlLDfxHHUSM8GUpESSY_AnpS2RxHdsx0gGZBZmD7yzJM48ViQUjuv204I   https://linktr.ee/the_conscious.woman?fbclid=PAAaa5vn2QMwvf9f7ac0cQqDtiSqkaVDFonTdtMF3-0rAC9mCDVAiU6P5yrOU_aem_ARbvZf8B_GHTjt7W7okGHjn2sqLoochdM0dbhHGGhR1_qSYyhu0gyC-ywfQRM0FH5KA

What we will be talking about: In our life, we have subconscious values - the things that we ultimately value in and for ourselves and what we value in others- patterns of behavior we run that are aligned with what we determine to be good/important to us. Values drive everything we do- yet we do not wake up in the morning and say “What subconscious values will I be implementing today” https://jocelynvance.clickfunnels.com/launch-page-11681927609881

What we will be talking about: How you may have found triggers to ignite negative emotions - typically towards someone else and without consciousness- you may even become a victim to them or run from them - and blame and shame the person who triggered you in the process. In this episode we are going to cover how your triggers could lead you to your truth and become your greatest blessing!  https://jocelynvance.clickfunnels.com/launch-page-11694440603755?fbclid=IwAR2weCrnNx15NTg3uNyeXdUxeFe4pfUl1_b_ULUJN-kXSWwTM4U3EFQRKgA https://jocelynvance.clickfunnels.com/launch-page-11681927609881  

 In this episode we are going to talk about our focus, attention, and intention and how these affect what we think, how we feel, what actions we take or do not take, the energy we are in, and ultimately - what we attract back to ourselves over and over again. What you seek- you will find. https://linktr.ee/the_conscious.couple?fbclid=IwAR2XOaYyZMIeQNWGUBoKwx7x4QtZFvClOhs4HJJFzllTo7KlqshdckPKcy0  

What we will be talking about: You do not get what you want/desire in your life - you get your habits and subconscious Identity. We can say we WANT something and even see it in another and desire it deeply. We may set goals or intentions to go out and get it- but if we do not shift our identity or habits to be aligned with attracting it - we will not ever truly have it. https://linktr.ee/the_conscious.couple  

What we will be talking about: In this episode we are going to be covering a lot about understanding yourself fully and how you may be showing up speaking your desire for connection - but showing up in your actions creating conflict. We often consciously desire something & feel it is outside of ourselves as to why we are not receiving it & sometimes receiving the complete opposite. follow us: https://linktr.ee/the_conscious.couple?fbclid=IwAR18hgk9p8VarsQzh1bOCrFcs8I5XH_SD93YfzMEm5mdX-fWLuCLj7loCDE  

Today we are going to talk about how we often allow fear to come between us and what we desire. Fear is false evidence appearing real. It's based on a set of stories, beliefs, and patterns that we have created throughout our lives to “PROTECT” ourselves from PAIN or HURT. https://linktr.ee/the_conscious.couple  

In this episode, we are going to cover how you may unconsciously be sabotaging the ultimate connection within your relationships that you desire and small things you can be more conscious of and implement in your day can serve the highest potential between you and your partner  https://linktr.ee/CreatingConsciousCouples  

What we will cover in this episode: In this episode, we are going to cover the common conundrum of a lot of Men's complaints and women's frustrations. WHY WOMEN “AREN'T IN THE MOOD” Follow Us: https://linktr.ee/CreatingConsciousCouples      

What we will cover in this episode: In this episode we are going to cover why Men go in to an energy of Rejection and Not being loved when Sex is being withheld or taken off the table in their relationships.  Follow Us: https://linktr.ee/CreatingConsciousCouples Ravishing:https://jocelynvance.clickfunnels.com/launch-page-11648491056665

What we will cover in this episode: In this episode, we are going to cover why it may appear that someone is not giving something to you - that they may give to another. Why someone may come across as unhappy with you, but be elated by another. Why someone couldn't give you the relationship you desired - but it appears they can give it to another? Why does someone not show up the same as a friend to you- that they do to another?  In this episode, we are going to be uncovering the different energetics that has someone show up differently to different people.  https://linktr.ee/CreatingConsciousCouples

ONE OF THE BIGGEST TURN OFFS for healthy people with their partners is NEEDY/CLINGY energy.  This is actually coming from wounded feminine energy and is typically developed at a young age due to not feeling good enough or having to manipulate people to get attention and to be seen. s Today We will talk about what this looks like, how it affects relationships, and how you can shift through it.     Check us out: https://linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples

What we will cover in this episode: In this episode, we are going to cover how to grow trust in your relationships and with partners - without needing the person to prove they are trustworthy.  We often show up to relationships carrying big bags of rocks, experiences, and many reasons why we can't trust… Yet we do not take the time to REALLY look in the mirror and ask ourselves- do we TRUST ourselves?  In this episode, we are going to be focusing on how you are actually the cause of the lack of trust in your relationships and how to start showing up differently - to receive differently. https://linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples  

In this episode, we explore what It means to have energetic standards for your relationships.  We explain the differences between Standards vs Boundaries How too create standards for your relationships?  How too use boundaries to enforce the standards? What does it mean to Stand on the Standards you set for love?    Follow us :  https://linktr.ee/CreatingConsciousCouples

  What we will cover in this episode: In this episode we are going to cover how unconsciously we are typically attracted, interested, and drawn to others that mirror our wounds to us - rather than attract a whole and healthy relationship with someone that is actually who our soul self and higher self desires and thrives with.  In this episode, we are going to be focusing on relationship mirrors and why we feel so drawn to, in love with, or overly attached to certain people that we KNOW are not good for us and do not provide the relationship we ultimately desire know we are meant for. And how we chase wounds through potential partners - rather than heal them and actually attract a soulmate relationship that is healthy for us. https://linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples      

What we will cover in this episode: Oftentimes we hear from couples that they are not being fully authentic or showing up with FULL truths in every area of their lives. Whether it be money, desires, the vulnerability of emotions, hobbies, etc- there is on some level hiding of who we TRULY are vs who we show up as so that we feel we can have a better relationship, be accepted, be loved, and not rock the boat.  In this episode, we are going to be focusing on why transparency is NECESSARY to be TRULY connected with someone and to truly be able to FEEL loved by someone. Also, we will be covering the negative sides of transparency - that may lend to awakenings within self in the long run.   https://linktr.ee/theconsciousman

What we will cover in this episode: In this episode we are going to be covering the DEPTHS of why women could cheat, the misconceptions out there- giving you a full spectrum into the Feminine ways of being, deepest desires, and the misunderstandings of WOMEN that our society holds.  In this episode, we are going to touch on many pieces that will uncover truths.  https://linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples Ravished

What we will cover in this episode: In this episode we are going to be covering the DEPTHS of why men could cheat, the misconceptions out there- giving you a full spectrum into the MASCULINE's ways of being, deepest desires, and the misunderstandings of MEN that our society holds.  In this episode, we are going to touch on many pieces that will uncover truths. Don't worry ladies - we will be covering you in the next episode.  Follow Us: https://linktr.ee/theconsciousman

In this episode, we are going to dive into Relationship Stories/Beliefs systems - whether conscious or unconscious - and how they are affecting your current reality in your relationships.  All too often - we leave relationship challenges up to - their problem. What they are doing or not doing, how they are showing up or not showing up, how they are loving or not loving, how they are reacting or not reacting to me, etc.  Not too often do we STOP and take what we are receiving in our relationships as a MIRROR to who we ARE or what we BELIEVE about ourselves or relationships at the unconscious level. WE attract within our intimate partnerships - our greatest teachers.  Follow Us:  https://linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples

In today's episode, we are going to be covering how having individual purpose leads to having polarity within your relationship as a couple.  In this episode, we are going to touch on how important it is to be fulfilling your own soul's purpose - and why it is important to not allow the relationship with your partner to be your sole purpose and priority.  We all came to this planet as individual souls who have an individual walk and journey. We each came here for a purpose and reason. And although we believe that we also have a collective purpose being here at this time - we find that a lot of people lose themselves and their direction in life through the dynamics of their own relationships.  Check us out at : linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples  

What we will cover in this episode: How building confidence in yourself is key to truly connect with your true self, your deepest purpose, in your relationships, and to the abundance you desire - so that you can create the sense of fulfillment, peace, and inner happiness that we all seek. Self-confidence is oftentimes spoken about as if it is something we need to gain or get - when in reality - confidence is created- through us. In this episode, we are going to touch on what confidence actually is and how you can start creating it more in yourself while highlighting how self-confidence creates connection in every area of your life and deepest desires.  Follow Us : https://linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples  

We are going to be discussing what it means to lead YOURSELF towards the life, business, and relationship you desire and how we can not put what comes to us - outside of us!  In this episode, we are going to be focusing on how self-leadership is one of the MOST important identity aspects to embody to actually attract what your soul desires and deserves. 

We are going to cover how to prevent ourselves from repeating our past over and over - rather than moving forward towards the true desires of our heart and soul. In this episode we are going to be focusing on how we move ourselves from stuck energy, hamster wheel vibes, to forward progress- shifting and changing our core identity to be that which is aligned with the version of ourselves we desire to be. 

On today's episode - we are going to cover the depths of why your partner may not be showing up completely honest, authentic, and truthful in your relationship & how understanding this can up-level YOU, the relationships you are available for, and your understanding of a partner that you may have lost trust in.  In this episode, we are going to be focusing on what role your partner may be playing unconsciously and how you can understand them more- and lead the relationship to a better foundation for a deeply connected & honest relationship. 

What we will cover in this episode: We are going to cover in a two-part series - we are going to cover the depths of why your partner may not be showing up completely honest, authentic, and truthful in your relationship & how understanding this can up-level YOU, the relationships you are available for, and your understanding of a partner that you may have lost trust in.  In this episode, we are going to be focusing on what role you may be playing unconsciously and how you can lead yourself to create a better foundation for a deeply connected & honest relationship.  Connect with Us: https://linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples

What we will cover in this episode: Today we are going to be diving into one of the MAIN ways of BEING to ensure you are creating trust and receiving trustworthy actions within your relationship.  This is going to be the first of a serious we are going to be doing on TRUST within yourself and your relationships!  TRUST or LACK thereof can come in MANY forms and manifests MANY challenges within the relationship.  There are many different forms of trust - some conscious and some unconscious that affect the connection we have or do not have within our relationships. Today we are diving into how who YOU ARE BEING - in the realm of SELF-INTEGRITY - is lending for a trusting relationship with self and partner - or not so much.  https://linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples

We will be diving into VALUES and how your values in life are manifesting your current reality - and how the alignment or lack thereof in your top values are determining connection or conflict in your relationships.    Follow Us  Here : https://linktr.ee/CreatingConsciousCouples

What We Will Cover:  In this episode, we will be diving into key traits- that when embodied into the core of the masculine-  he is able to create the life & relationship he desires. We will cover 5 Key Tenants That- When integrated - will radically shift who he is BEing and therefore - what he sees manifest into his reality.   FOLLOW US HERE...  linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples

What this episode is about: In today's episode we will be covering how your lack of authenticity - whether conscious or unconscious - is causing a lack of trust within your relationships and how this may show up for the masculine and for the feminine.    Our goal today is to awaken you to where you may have desires in your relationship - yet they are not being met - because you are not being integral and exude non-trustworthy energy- whether you realize it, are meaning to, or not!

What we will be covering on the episode today: Today we will be talking about how to ensure you are embodying your OWN identity within your relationships- rather than allowing the relationship to BE your identity. Often we see that individuals lose themselves & their own identities when they enter relationships with others.  Follow US: https://linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples  

  Today we will be talking about how your overgiving, people pleasing, and having no boundaries- is NOT actually getting you what you want - in fact- it is repelling what you truly desire and burning you out in the process. Leaving you disconnected, lacking true fulfillment, standing in your truth and power, and even being resentful. NO MARTYRS WELCOME HERE!!  RAVISHED - STILL TIME TO JOIN OR GET ON THE WAITLIST!    Check out the linktree in the call notes to get signed up!  https://linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples Follow us on IG and FB.

We are going to be talking about how to attract what you actually desire in your relationships by releasing attachments you have within your unconsciousness.    follow us: https://linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples  

We are going to talk about how the feminine can lead herself and her relationship to ignite more passion and connected intimacy - and watch her man rise as a byproduct.  We will be sharing with you a method that we have come up with that has radically shifted me(Jocelyn) in the relationship and what it ultimately takes for the feminine to be a magnet to all she desires within the relationship with her masculine partner.  Follow us:  https://linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples  

The three different types of Sexual Energies, and how they show up in your relationships and create polarity when in alignment.  And what happens When one person in the partnership is out of alignment with their true sexual essence.    This is a huge foundation for a program that we have coming up Called Ravished for the Success Seeking Female who desires to create a deeper connection, more passionate intimacy, and more powerful communication. https://linktr.ee/creatingconsciouscouples  

In Today's Episode: We are going to talk about how we have expectations in our relationships, based on our own identity and experiences, and How those expectations can impact the connection we have with our partner.  Follow us...  Jim Vance - https://www.facebook.com/jimmyv520   Jocelyn Vance - https://www.facebook.com/jocelynnvance/  

Today we are going to go a bit deeper and highlight some ways you can shift the balance within & things you can do to start shifting into your true essence and create the polarity you desire in your relationships! 

In today's episode, we are diving into the most visible form of polarity in your life and relationships.  MASCULINE vs FEMININE ENERGY and how these energies are affecting your connection, your intimacy & passion, your individual alignment, & who and what you attract.

In today's episode, we are going to give you some background into who we are, how we became identity and success coaches, and shed some light on our expertise and why we do the work we do now. As we have grown to see polarity in our lives as power and not a hindrance - we are excited to share this concept with you.