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We are military wives on a mission to erase the negative stigma of the "Dependa" name, providing a global outreach to all military members and their dependants with insightful information, experience and entertainment with a dose of humor (DOH).

Jennifer, Veronica and Lindsey


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    Ep. 108: Secret Squirrel and special guest Tab Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 53:31


    Welcome back Dependasplainers. This week I get to share with you the amazing story of one of my guests from a previous episode. If you haven't already, go check out episode 105 to hear about Dan's journey and time so far in the Air Force and great information about OSI. This week however we are sharing some hard news that just a few months after we recorded his OSI episode he received. Tune in to hear from Dan and Tab in part 1. 

    Ep. 107: Update, Life and Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2024 39:03


    Hello Hello!  In this episode, we're getting real about what's been happening in our lives over the past year and a half. From personal highs and lows to unexpected challenges, we're laying it all out there. We'll share the ups and downs, the lessons learned, and how it's shaped us moving forward. But it's not just about the past. We're also excited to share what's next for the podcast. With fresh ideas and new directions, we're gearing up to bring you even more engaging content. We want to thank each and every one of you for your support and encouragement. We miss you all and can't wait to dive back in with you. So, stay tuned for what's to come, and let's keep this journey going together.

    Ep. 106: Survivor Megan Hiatt & The Reading of The Air Force Wife

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2022 83:15


    Hello again friends! This week we are back in action and back to our regularly scheduled episodes! We hope you have enjoyed listening to our interviews. This week Veronica tells us the incredible story of a DV survivor Megan Hiatt. **Please note this is a trigger warning for domestic violence and murder.**  National Domestic Violence Hotline   At the end of our story, Jen gives us some insight on a book called The Air Force Wife. Published in the 1950s, this book was used as a self help guide for the new military spouses, at least that is what we assume. Come enjoy some laughs with us how customs were so different back then.    Thanks for listening! Please rate and subscribe on your favorite listening platforms.

    Ep. 105: The Secret Squirrel

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2022 142:39


    Ever wondered what OSI was? Hey me too! Well listen in, and yes its our longest episode yet, but filled with some really amazing information right from our own Special Agent. Jen sits down and interviews SA Dan Scarola, and let me tell you, he does not hold back! If you ever had questions on what they do for their job or your spouse may be looking into this career field, this is an episode you do not want to miss!    Contact  us at Depenasplaining@gmail.com and don't forget to rate and subscribe on your favorite listening platforms! Like what you hear? Let us know and we'll bring you even more content like this!

    Ep. 104: Double Proxy Marriage Interview with Morgan

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2022 56:20


    Hello all you wonderful listeners out there! This episode is extra special. Listen as I sit with my friend Morgan and she gives us her story if a double proxy marriage. Is it something that would work for you? What is a double proxy? Enjoy as she gives us all the details and her own advice on going that route. Thanks again for listening and subscribing. Please rate and share with all your wonderful friends!! Don't forget you can reach out to us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com or find us on Facebook and Instagram.

    Dependasplain-A-sode 3: Cringy Dependas

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2022 35:44


    In this weeks episode we go over some of the cringy-est things that we've encountered on spouses pages or in life. Can you relate to any of these? We give you some great advice on how not to be that cringy dependa! Come have a laugh with us and don't forget to rate and subscribe on your favorite listening platform!   

    Ep. 103: PTSD and Murder

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2022 52:35


    Welcome to another episodes Dependasplainers! This week, Jen gives us the horrible retelling of the murder of Marine girlfriend Nicole Speirs. It seems like red flags were everywhere, so why wasn't there any interventions?    Thanks for tuning in to another fun episode! Hope you all enjoy. Next up is our fun military topic episode, so make sure to check that out. As always please feel free to send us your suggestions on topics or true crimes or just to say hi! Reach us on Facebook and Instagram or email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com   Sources: https://daisysdeadair.blogspot.com/2008/01/case-of-lance-cpl-walter-r-smith.html https://militaryjusticeforall.com/2006/03/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rocket-propelled_grenade

    Dependasplain-A-sode 3: Space A Travel

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2022 38:43


    Ever wonder what it meant to take a hop? Wanted to see more of the world on a budget? Jen gives us some great details on Space A Travel.   ****UPDATE**** Space A Travel IS open now to all categories!!

    Ep. 102: Baby Izzy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2022 43:47


    For Army Sgt Dwight Peterson and his wife Shalay Peterson, the day had finally come to welcome their 7 year-long wait miracle into this world. Everything was going smooth, everything was going just as planned, until it wasn't.   Listen in as Veronica gives us the retelling of the fateful day baby Izzy was born at Tripler Army Medical Center.    Sources: https://www.croninfried.com/in-the-news/mistake-at-tripler-ruins-infants-brain/ https://www.croninfried.com/in-the-news/tripler-at-fault-in-newborns-injuries/    

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    Ep. 101: The Murder of Air Force Spouse, Julie Snodgrass

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2022 40:31


    Welcome welcome! This is the Dependasplaining podcast where we give you your weekly dose of military true crime. It is also where we talk about life and food.  This week Jen gives us the shocking story of military spouse Julie Snodgrass.  Find us on all of your listening platforms and reach out to us! Dependasplaining@gmail.com or DM us on Facebook and Instagram   Sources: Blog: Verity Creates Wikipedia New Peoples Army Military Justice For All Find A Grave Forensic Files: Shear Luck

    DependasplainAsode 2: Adult Military Children and Their Benefits

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2022 19:48


    This week's mini episode we give you some quick but good information about your adult military children and what benefits they can have. Did we miss anything? Send us an email at Dependasplaining@gmail.com   Sources: Military.com Tricare.mil Covered Services Tricare.mil TYA

    Ep. 100: The Sinking of the USS Indianapolis

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2022 54:01


    Hello again listeners! We made it to 100 episodes!!!!! This week Veronica gives us the harrowing tale of the sinking of the USS Indianapolis. Can you imagine having to float in water for 5 days? This story is just insane. And if you have a story you'd like us to share on our next episode, email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com!   Sources: Wikipedia Britanica Boston.com Also check out the IMDB documentary to hear from the survivors. 

    Dependasplain-A-sode 1: Top Military Jobs

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2022 21:42


    Thanks for tuning into our first ever mini episode! This week Veronica dependasplains us the most coveted military jobs in each branch. Were you surprised by the top ones? Jen sure was! If you have any suggestions on military topics OR would like to help us name our new baby episodes, email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com or DM us on Facebook and Instagram.    Sources for this episode are: Top Military Jobs

    Ep. 99: Murder of Army Spouse, Catherine Walker

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2022 37:41


    Hello to all of our wonderful listeners! We are back and ready to give you some more true crime. This week Jen gives us the tragic story of Army spouse, Catherine Walker. Goes to show you that you just never know who someone is.  We hope you enjoy our new, restructured episodes. Listen in later this week for our military information!   Sources for todays episode include: Huff Post CID Army Wane.com Hawaii News Now Marine Corps Times Mirror.Co.Uk CBS News The Daily Beast

    Ep. 98: Catch Up With Us!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2022 53:08


    Come hang out with us as we catch you up on what we've been up to in the last few months! Sorry it has been so long, but life. We hope you enjoy this episode and tune in again for our newest true crime!    Email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com or find us on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter. 

    Ep. 97: An AWOL Killing Spree & What Is AWOL?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2021 64:17


    Helloooooo! ( done in best Mrs. Doubtfire voice) Welcome to another episode! This week Jen has a doozy of a story about 2 AWOL Army soldiers from the last 1950s. And hey, what exactly is AWOL? Well keep listening and find out! Veronica gives us the low down on AWOL, how to avoid being AWOL and some famous people who have gone AWOL. Ok, ok, ok, I'm done saying AWOL.    Sources for todays episode include: George York and James Latham Wiki NY Daily News Military Justice For All   Wikipedia Law.Cornell.EDU The Balanced Careers We Are The Mighty Army.Mil

    Ep. 96: The Chilling Story of Murderer John Battaglia Jr. & Some Post 9/11 GI Bill Changes

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2021 75:58


    You will not be let down with this latest episode! We bring you all kinds of chit chat this time around; a history lesson, food (I mean of course!), murder, some great information, you name it we probably talked about it.    Veronica gives us the horrible story of former Marine, John Battaglia Jr. This is a trigger warning if you do not like stories involving kids. Listener discretion is advised.   Then Jen gives us some great information on some new changes with the Post 9/11 GI bill. More information to come about the GI bills themselves in future episodes, so stay tuned!   Please reach out and email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com or find us on Facebook and Instagram. 

    Ep. 95: It‘s Real, Murder Water & Are You Being Catfished?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2021 75:58


    We've talked about it before, and now we have an actual episode on it. Thanks to a listener recommendation, today we are covering the Camp Lejeune Water Contamination Scandal. Now I feel like I only was able to scratch the gigantic surface of this but I have all the links on this scandal that lasted decades.  Then Veronica gives us some great information on what to look out for when talking to a "military member" online. Do you think you may be being catfished? Well tune in and listen to what to look out for. Number one, do NOT send money! And Veronica also gives us some great recommendations on what to binge and what to stay away from on Netflix and Hulu.    Sources: https://www.thedailybeast.com/semper-fi-always-faithful-ensmingers-tribeca-film-on-a-marine-corps-cover-up https://lejeunecontamination.com/stories-from-the-victims/ https://psmag.com/environment/what-happened-at-camp-lejeune https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marine_Corps_Base_Camp_Lejeune https://www.military.com/daily-news/2012/08/06/obama-signs-lejeune-water-bill.html https://www.ditchthelabel.org/how-to-spot-a-catfish/ https://www.militaryonesource.mil/military-life-cycle/friends-extended-family/learn-the-warning-signs-of-military-scams/  

    EP. 94 Don‘t Trust Your Broke Neighbor & Paying Tribute To The Fallen & ERD

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2021 63:49


    Please excuse ALLLLLL of the technical difficulties we had with this episode, well mostly Jen had with her recording. HA! You should know who we are by now but if not, Hi! We are your hosts of DEPENDAsplaining the Podcast, Jen and Veronica!  This week Veronica gives us the terrible double murder of Army Veteran PFC Samuel "Sam" Herr and Juri "Julie" Kibuishi. Listen in and you'll understand why you cannot trust your broke neighbor. We then pay tribute to the 13 fallen heroes of the suicide bombing at Kabul Airport. Again we send our deepest sympathies to the surviving families and those who have worked alongside those taken too soon.  And finally Jen gives us the basics on ERD or Early Return of Dependents. This only applies to overseas locations but does not include Alaska.    We love brining you new content every week. Thank you for listening and don't forget to rate and subscribe!

    Ep. 93: An Angel Of Death & New Info On Emotional Support Pets

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2021 59:36


    Welcome back to another episode to DEPENDAsplaining. This week Jen gives us a very sad story that deals with murder in the VA hospital. Kristen Gilbert was given the nickname, Angel of Death, by coworkers after a suspicious amount of patients started dying on her watch. Then Veronica gives us some great, informative information on the new rules of travelling with an Emotional Support Animal. It's not the news everyone will be happy about unfortunately, but it is news you do need to know about. She then also gives us great tips on what to do to prepare for PCSing with your pets. 

    Ep. 92: A Mysterious Murder On Fort Hood & Marriage By Proxy

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2021 67:16


    I hope you all enjoy the wonderful background sounds of screaming children and airplanes! Unique and one of a kind you will NOT find on any other podcast except DEPENDAsplaining! You're welcome.   This week Veronica dives deep into the mysterious death of SSG Devin Shuette. Was it really a suicide that they are claiming is the cause of death? Dig deep with us as we come up with our own question to this death.  Then Jen gives us information on marriage by proxy. What is it? Where can you do it? Why would you need it? Listen in and have all (or at least most) of your questions answered about this!    Thank you all for your support and keep sharing and listening!   Sources for today's episode include: Wikipedia Proxy Marriage Military.com Theamm.org Armed Forces Proxy Marriage Kansas Proxy Marriage Military Justice For All Gold Star Mothers Of New Mexico Honoring Devin L Shuette Facebook

    Ep. 91: A Murder for Money? & Operation Birthday Hug

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2021 38:16


    Well who would've guess it? Another murder motivated by money. This week Jen gives us the terrible murder of SSgt Nathan Paet.  Then Veronica gives us some great information about Operation Birthday Hug and other companies that will send care packages and such to overseas members.     

    Ep. 90: Motive to Murder in Okinawa & Base Highlight of Ft. Gordon

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2021 78:14


    Listener discretion is advised.   TSgt Curtis Eccelston was found murdered in his apartment and his wife was no where in sight. What could have happened and why? Find out as Veronica gives us all the twists and turns this case took investigators and OSI on.  Then Jen gives us a base highlight on Army post Ft. Gordon. Just minutes from Augusta Georgia, find out all this base and the surrounding area has to offer!   Thank you to all of our listeners! We appreciate your continued support. Email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com with your stories, comments, concerns or anything military life! Also find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.    Sources for today's episode include: CBS News Stars and Stripes Kadena Air Base Fort Gordon Family Homes Military One Source Army.Mil Spouse Link Visit Augusta

    Ep. 89: Murder of Maj. David Shannon & What is Leave?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 63:00


    This week Jen covers the murder of Army Major David Shannon. Who would want him dead? Did it have to do with his work or his personal life? Tune in a find out all the twists and turns! Then Veronica gives us some great information on Leave. What is it? When can the service member use it? What about Use it or Lose it? Lots of great info coming at ya!     Sources: Cinemaholic Dateline Podcast Military One Source  

    Ep. 88: The Mahmudiyah Massacre & Some Clarifications on Base Regulations

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2021 76:41


    **Trigger Warning** This episode contains content that is not suitable for young children. It also contains graphic retellings of rape and murder. Listener discretion is advised.   This weeks story is HEAVY. We hate to hear it but not all US military members are American heroes. Buckle up because Veronica is taking us on a bumpy ride today. Then Jen brings us back with some great information on base regulations. Ever heard those bugle calls while on base? Been around at 5 o'clock and heard the National Anthem start playing and wasn't quite sure what you should do? Well you're in luck! Jen has all the facts just for you and some rants too. Haha.    What do you all think? Should we start some mini episodes just with our complaints? Send us your complaints too! At Dependasplaining@gmail.com and we will read them on the episodes. 

    Ep. 87: Down the Mineshaft & A Look Into The USO

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2021 47:40


    Sometimes we trust people way too easily. This week we find out how Marine spouse Erin Corwin fell victim to a monster. Trigger warnings and graphic descriptions are apart of this episode, so listener discretion is advised.  Then Veronica gives us a great look into the USO. Where can you find them? What do they offer? Listen in and find out!  Thanks again to all of our listeners out there! We hope you enjoy this episode and don't forget to catch up on all of our episodes on your favorite listening platforms. As well as rate and subscribe! Share, share, share!  Find us on Facebook, Instagram and the Twitter or email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com   Sources for this episode include: NY Post Desert Sun Daily Mail Military Justice For All Wikipedia - USO USO     Not affiliated or endorsed in any way with the DOD or any military branches

    Ep. 86: Double Murder of Andy and Jamie Schliepsiek & Using USAJobs

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2021 61:46


    Ya'll, it is July! We hope you all had a wonderful and safe 4th of July. Welcome back to another episode of DEPENDAsplaining, where we 'splain to you some military true crime stories and military information. This week Veronica gives us the tragic story of the double murder of Andy and Jamie Schliepsiek. And then Jen gives us some great advice on using USAjobs.gov as a military spouse! There is so much you can do with this website in terms of finding a government job and Jen gives us some great tips and how to use your Military Spousal Preference. This, like the rest of our episodes, is one not to miss! Listen in on all of your listening platforms.    Sources for todays episode include: Southern Fried True Crime Podcast Air Force Times Military Wikia USAjobs Hiring Path USAjobs

    Ep. 85: Inspiring Stories for Pride Month & 4th Of July Facts

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2021 60:11


    *Please note the sarcasm in my voice when we talk about the "fly over". Haha!* Thanks for tuning into another great episode of DependaSplaining! This week we share some brave and inspiring stories of military members, fighting the odds to help change history for the military LGBTQIA community! Then Veronica gives us some very fun and interesting facts about the 4th of July. AND you do NOT want to miss our great fire safety facts with our very own Fire Marshal Kyle!   The article that was referenced for the stories can be found here: MilSpouseFest   As always, we love and appreciate your support so much! Feel free to interact with us and ask us your burning military questions. Reach us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com or find us on our social media platforms. 

    Ep. 84: The Courageous Story of Desmond Doss and Hacksaw Ridge & Freebies for the Military

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2021 59:18


    Picture it, Payless Shoe Store, in a BX near you! We could only wish!   Here we are, once again, to complain to you about the price of produce! Guys, its insane, but don't worry it's not our whole episode. We bring you this week the inspirational story of Desmond Doss and Hacksaw Ridge. Veronica does a great job retelling his heroic efforts through the war and all that he had dealt with. Then Jen gives us some fun freebies offered to military members and their families. Check out below for the website where you can dive deeper into each freebie! Also, don't forget to check out our special plug for today, a new children's book called "The Military Child Chronicles, Mission: My First PCS". Find it on the kindle app today!   Freebies For Military

    Ep. 83: The Disappearance and Murder of Tricia Todd & Overseas PCS Advice

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2021 65:31


    This week Jen and Veronica discuss the disappearance and murder of Air Force veteran Tricia Todd. No one could prepare, even the most seasoned investigators, for what Tricia's murderer had done to her. Listener discretion is advised. Veronica then gets real with some great overseas PCS advice! Worried about what to bring with you? Sad you will be leaving Target behind? Well don't you worry! We've got some great help to give you about ALL of that and everything in between!   Sources: YouTube True Crime Daily Pt 1 YouTube True Crime Daily Pt 2     DEPENDAsplaining is not affiliated with the DOD or any military branch. 

    Ep. 82: Ramstein Air Show Disaster & Military Trivia Facts

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2021 63:27


    This week's episode covers the Ramstein Air Show disaster and some fun and interesting Military trivia facts.  Veronica gives us the tragic story of the air show disaster where many lost their lives and even more were injured. Then Jen gives us some fun facts about all branches of the military. Listen to the end to hear about Navy tattoo meanings too! Do you have a tattoo that you love or regret? Jen shares one of her regrets. Don't get a tattoo at 18! Haha. Then head over to our Facebook or Instagram page and comment on your best or worst tattoo choices.  Thanks for all of your support! Email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com or contact us on Facebook and Instagram. 

    Ep. 81: Serial Killer Andrew Urdiales & What Is A POA?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2021 51:14


    Don't forget, wherever you go, there you are! We're back again for another dose of your weekly true crime and military information needs. This week Jen gives us the crazy story about the serial killer, Andrew Urdiales. Not even going to sugar coat this one guys, it is a heavy and hard story so listener discretion is advised. Then Veronica gives us some great military information on having a Power of Attorney. You don't know it until you need it! Also, have a haunted story? Send it to us! At Dependasplaining@gmail.com to be featured on a future episode. As always, thank you for all of your support! Keep sharing, liking, commenting and rating!!     Sources for this week include: POA Military One Source Wikipedia Murderpedia Mirror

    Ep. 80: Cheers To TWO Years!! The Thalys Train Attack & VA Loans

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2021 52:15


    Hello all our wonderful listeners out there! Can you believe its now been TWO years that Jen and Veronica started this magical journey? It's also our 80th episode! So, put on some headphones, grab a drink of your choice and GET READY TO LISTENNNN to a great story and some great information.  First Veronica retells the heroic story of the Thalys train attack and how an American Airman and a few other passengers saved many lives on that train that day. It's a very uplifting story for this week that you don't want to miss! Then Jen gives us some GREAT information on VA loans, starting with what they are and how many times you can use them.  We hope you enjoy this weeks episode! Thank you to all of our listeners we couldn't do all of this without your support. Email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com or find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter!   Sources include Thalys Train Attack VA Loans

    Ep. 79: Murder of Army Spc. Brandy Fonteneaux & AFV Club

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2021 52:02


    A horrible murder purposely done by an acquaintance, or just some random act? Y'all, we have a LOT of opinions on this one. Army specialist Brandy Fonteneaux was brutally murdered in her barracks and her murderer was someone she knew. Listen in as Jen gives us the whole story. What do you think? Was he really in no state to fully know who he was murdering? Or was there some motive behind it?  Veronica then gives us the low down on the Armed Forces Vacation Club! This is something everyone affiliated with the military should be taking advantage of. Find some great deals on accommodation for your next trip! (Which we hope for all of our sanities, will be allowed soon!) Sources Include:  Brandy Fonteneaux Story https://www.macombdaily.com/soldiers-slaying-in-us-is-bitter-irony-for-family/article_b59bfe1d-dea7-5254-ac79-d2a40817ad87.html https://militaryjusticeforall.com/2012/01/09/honoring-brandy-fonteneaux-usarmy-2012/ http://archive.azcentral.com/news/free/20121211army-barracks-killing-court-martial.html https://militaryjusticeforall.com/2012/12/13/us-army-sgt-vincinte-jackson-convicted-of-the-murder-of-army-soldier-brandy-fonteneaux-at-fort-carson-sentenced-to-life-in-prison-2012/ https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2247904/Brandy-Fonteneaux-murder-Army-sergeant-Vincinte-Jackson-sentenced-life-jail.html https://www.themorningsun.com/colo-solidier-guilty-of-unpremeditated-murder/article_5ffe1d61-ae06-547c-a7fa-0f170f38b715.html https://www.military.com/daily-news/2012/05/26/soldiers-mental-state-at-issue-in-barracks-killing.html   Armed Forces Vacation Club

    Ep. 78: Murder of Cpt Theer & A Look Into Camp Pendleton

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2021 89:50


    This weeks episode is a doozy! What were the extreme measures someone took in order to evade police? Find out in this latest episode! Veronica gives us the tragic murder of Air Force Captain Frank Theer. This murder for hire story will keep you on the edge of your seat ( or wherever you are) until the very end.  Jen then gives us a new base highlight on Marine Corps Base Camp Pendleton. Moving there soon or just moved there? Listen in for some fun facts and ideas for things to do in and around the base.  Sources for todays episode include: Military Justice For All OSI.AF.MIL Murderpedia Camp Pendleton: Go Milllie De Luz Family Housing Lincoln Military Housing Military Housing Info CDC My Base Guide Temecula Wineries  USMC Life Schools Base Food  

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    Ep. 77: Murder For Hire & Military Uniforms

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2021 55:48


    Another true crime and another military topic! This week the girls get into some interesting stuff. Jen gives us the story of the murder of Christina Smith. And then Veronica gives us the history on military uniforms. Which ones are your favorites? Listen in to hear which ones we really like and some that just need to be retired. Have some input? Have a question or concern about military life? Email us! At Dependasplaining@gmail.com or reach us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.   Sources for todays episodes include: Military Justice For All ABC 11 Military.com Arlington Cemetery  USA Today Wikipedia Ranker Military.com

    Ep. 76: Tailhook Scandal & Floaty Bois

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2021 81:40


    Welcome to episode 76!  This week Veronica tells us about the infamous Tailhook Scandal. Possible trigger warnings of sexual assault, so listener discretion is advised.  Then Jen gives us some laughter with rejected names of the Space Force members.  Come and join us for some entertainment, because that is what we all need right now! We hope you are all staying safe and taking care of your mental health. Reach out to us with your questions, concerns, comments, anything! Email Dependasplaining@gmail.com or find us on our social media platforms.    Sources for this weeks episode: Military.com Wikipedia LA Times Wisegeek.com Britannica.com NYTimes.com NewsWeek.com San Diego Union Tribune Scholarship Duke Law  

    Ep. 75: Part 2! Interview with Army Spouse Summer

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2021 53:24


    Welcome to part 2 of our 75th episode!  Veronica interviews army spouse Summer and she holds nothing back! Did you see her tik tok that went viral? Summer gives us the real deal behind the criticism she got for posting this video.  It was so much fun interviewing Summer! We thank her so much for joining Veronica and sharing all that she did. DO NOT miss out on this episode!   Email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com or find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. We love interviews and talking to fellow military spouses, so reach out!

    Ep. 75: The Eastburn Murders

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2021 45:40


    This week we cover the murders of the Eastburn family. As always, listener discretion is advised. We do not have our regular military topic this week BUT tune in Monday for the release of the interview Veronica talks about at the end of this episode!    Do you have questions being a military spouse or what to expect as a new spouse? Email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com and we can answer your questions on future episodes! You can also reach us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. Send us your stories, questions, interests, or anything you want to know more about. 

    Ep. 74: A Lover Scorned & Troops To Teachers

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2021 74:13


    In this week's true crime segment, Veronica gives us a horrible story about love, mystery and murder. It is the tragic story of the murder of Tracie McBride. As always, listener discretion is advised.  Then Jen gives us some great information on the program, Troops to Teachers. You can find more information or way to apply by going to www.proudtoserveagain.com    All opinions are those of the hosts of DEPENDAsplaining and in no way affiliated with the DOD or military branches. 

    Ep. 73: Disappearance in Okinawa & Overseas Pack Out Tips

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2021 73:14


    Welcome again to another awesome episode of Dependasplaining! This week GET READY TO LISTEN to the disappearance story of Kelli Abad. There are still so many questions surrounding this case now almost a decade later. Then Veronica gives us some very helpful tips for your overseas pack out along with some pretty good stories straight from the movers! Listen in every other week for a new true crime tale and military topic. Have an idea for the podcast? Email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com or just find us on Facebook and Instagram! 

    Ep. 72: The Kill Team & US War Statistics

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2021 102:13


    Did we catch your interest yet? Are you saying to yourself, " Veronica, Jen, what in the world could be so fascinating about US wars?" Well this in to this weeks episode to find out! Veronica first covers the horrible story of the Kill Team. It is a long one so bare with us! Then Jen gives us some pretty interesting facts on wars the US military has been apart of. This is a longer episode so feel free to split it up between a couple of days!  Listen in to the end to hear a brand new podcast! Mic and Moscato, you can find them wherever you get your podcasts.  As always, listener discretion is advised due to the graphic retelling of the story. Let us know what you think! Or give us some stories to share. Email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com or find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.    Not endorsed in any way or affiliated with the US military or DOD.

    Ep. 71: A Suspicious Death & Military Inaccuracies In Film

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2021 79:15


    **HAPPY NEW YEAR** This week Jen gives us the very questionable death of Mark Leshikar. His death was ruled as "died in the line of duty", but was that really true? Then Veronica gives us some hilarious inaccuracies that have occurred in movies.  Hope you all enjoy the first episode of the new year! Email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com, or find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter!   Sources for this week include: https://www.army.mil/article/241423/soldier_identified_as_one_of_two_found_dead_on_fort_bragg https://www.idahostatejournal.com/news/local/mother-of-slain-green-beret-his-biggest-dream-was-to-protect-america/article_4cdcaf3f-1400-56d3-a636-70605a4923ee.html  

    Ep. 70: Mysterious Crash of Arrow Air Flight 1285 & Kirtland AFB Base Highlight

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2020 78:01


    To date, Arrow Air Flight 1285 is Canada's worst airline disasters and the US Army's deadliest crashes during peacetime. Listen in as Veronica tells us the heartbreaking and mysterious story of Arrow Air Flight 1285.  Jen then gives us a great look into Kirtland AFB, located in Albuquerque, New Mexico.  We hope you all have a wonderful end to 2020 and a very happy New Year!    Sources: Wikipedia Arrow Air Visit Albuquerque Kirtland AFB Housing Kirtland AFB Wikipedia Kirtland AFB   Not endorsed or affiliated in any way with the DoD or Military Branches. Opinions are those of the hosts. 

    Ep. 69: Military Spouse Murder and Compassionate Reassignments

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2020 54:29


    Christmas is right around the corner, so curl up with another great episode of DEPENDAsplaining! This week we discuss the murder of Cindy Ray and the fetal abduction. And as always, listener discretion is advised. Then Veronica gives us great information on the compassionate reassignment program. ALSO!! Keep listening as we have some great questions for all of our listeners! Get at us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com. And message us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.     DEPENDAsplaining is not endorsed or affiliated with the DOD or any military branches. The opinions are that of the hosts of the show. 

    Ep. 68: The DISAPPEARANCE of Corrie McKeague and Being A Sponsor

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2020 82:38


    This week's case is an unsolved mystery case. The disappearance of Corrie McKeague of RAF Honington has troubled not only his family but the whole community around Suffolk County, England. Are the police's theories right? So far it is all we've got to go on.  Jen then gives us some great information on being a Sponsor! Got any questions, concerns, stories to share? Email us! Dependasplaining@gmail.com. You can also find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. 

    Ep. 67 The Ft. Bragg Murders of 2002 & Family Readiness Group

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2020 72:43


    Welcome back, to another episode of your favorite dependas. This week Jen gives us the tragic story of Jennifer Wright. It was a hard time at Ft Bragg in 2002. Four murders in a span of just six weeks. It is a heavy story so as always, listener discretion is advised. Veronica then gives us some great information on the Family Readiness Group. Plenty of sidebars and rambling during this episode. I mean hey, its been over a week since we last got to share our lives with you all! So join us on another riveting episode of DEPENAsplaining. Email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com, Facebook or Instagram us too! Find us on the Milsomuster app or wherever you get your podcasts. 

    Ep. 66: Dover's Mortuary Scandal & Military Spouses Clubs

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2020 66:18


    Providing you with facts and our own opinions on today's topic, so please don't let us steer you in a direction just based on our opinions! This week's episode covers the horrible scandal of Dover AFB mortuary scandal. Trigger warning for anyone who has lost their loved ones, listener discretion is advised. Then we dive into the always opinionated topic of military spouses clubs. What has been your experience in a spouses club? Email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com, or message us on Facebook and Instagram! Sources for our episode today include Washingtonpost.com, wikipedia.org, democratic underground, military.com and militaryfamily.org.   Not endorsed or associated with the DOD or any military branches. The opinions are those of the hosts.

    Ep. 65: The Hi-Fi Murders & Hill AFB

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2020 72:11


    Welcome to another week of your true crime fix! This week Jen brings us the awful story of the Hi-Fi murders. This one is not for the faint of heart. As always, listener discretion is advised. Then Veronica gives us some great information on Hill Air Force Base in Ogden, Utah. True crime, nostalgia, information and comedy are just a few of the things you'll be in for this week! Tune in and make sure to rate and subscribe and find us on the Milsomuster app today! Email us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com or message us on Instagram and Facebook. Sources for today's episode include murderpedia, wikipedia, hillhousing, 75FSS, visitogden and wikipedia. 

    Ep. 64: Unsolved Murder of Matthew Dane & Inconvenience Claims

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2020 55:14


    Hello once again and welcome to November! 2020 is almost over guys, hang in there and listen to this weeks newest episode. Veronica gives us the cold case story of the murder of Matthew Lee Dane. What is your theory on this case? Hit us up at Dependasplaining@gmail.com, Instagram or Facebook us too! Then Jen gives us some great information on filing an inconvenience claim when your HHG is delayed past your required delivery date. Besides experience, Jen found her information on katehorrell.com. Other sources for today's episode come from Reddit and the podcast The Murder In My Family. 

    Ep. 63: Murdered On Post & A Look Into EFMP

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2020 59:32


    It was a senseless murder that left a lot of questions unanswered. Abree Boykin was murdered in her on post home in the early hours of July 9th, 2018. Tune in as Jen tells us the story and we discuss a bit on this case. Then Veronica gives us some great information on EFMP that she has come to know first-hand. Join in on our discussion by emailing us at Dependasplaining@gmail.com or finding us on Facebook, Instagram or twitter.  Sources for this weeks episode include, heavy.com, justice.gov, armedforcesconnect.org, armytimes.com, military.com and militaryonesource.com. 

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