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This week I share some thoughts after watching a video of a mom telling her boy "To stop crying, be a man". We've all done it. This starts at a very young age and is teaching our boys to suppress their emotions instead of giving them the tools to navigate them.

This week I sit down with Tommy Trenton Jr. to get his thoughts, experience, and perspective of being a dad. I love what he said "I was built for this! I was built to be a dad". We explore what he means and what it takes to be the dad that your kids need.Check it out!

Today I sit down with Tyler Butler; Father of 4, Recovering Alcoholic, Ironman Athlete and Keynote Speaker.Are you struggling with addiction and trying to figure out how to break the cycle? In this episode, ee dig deep in to overcoming addiction, mending relationships, being a single dad, and healing together. Guest: Tyler Butler https://www.ty-butler.com/ Host: Jody Sedrick Fathers Fire

This week I sit down with Rob Schruefer to explore his experience being a dad. My biggest take away "be annoyingly present as a dad". They may not appreciate it know but they will when they get older! Guest: Rob Schruefer Host Jody Sedrick Fathers Fire ========= Check out my books But How Far Must I Go? A journey in faith https://a.co/d/1uqS0Ab Learn to Dance With the Currents of Life; When You Feel Like You're Drowning https://a.co/d/h5NZzNu

In this heartfelt episode of Fathers Fire, we dive into the nuances of fatherhood with guest Tracy Fisher. Navigating the complexities of co-parenting and blended family dynamics can be challenging. Tracy shares his journey of raising two sons in a positive co-parenting relationship with his ex-partner, how he fostered stability and love amid changes, and the challenges of integrating with his girlfriend's children, all while showing the importance of leading with gratitude and empathy. Tracy also reflects on his own upbringing without a father, the lasting impact of that absence, and how it shaped his determination to be a strong, loving presence for his kids. This candid conversation highlights the power of growth, resilience, and love in shaping healthier family dynamics. Gueat: Trace Fisher InvolvedDad https://involveddad.org Host: Jody Sedrick Fathers Fire Check out my books But How Far Must I Go? A journey in faith https://a.co/d/1uqS0Ab  Learn to Dance With the Currents of Life; When You Feel Like You're Drowning https://a.co/d/h5NZzNu

Today, I share personal insights on parenting hurt kids. Working through the pain of divorce, separation, new family dynamics can be tumultuous and chaotic. How can we support them as they navigate the emotional mine fields that accompany these experiences and help them become resilient, emotionally vulnerable and strong?

Today, I sit down with Josh Hernandez to discuss the heartwarming journey of adopting his daughter. We dive into the emotional and transformative experience of building a blended family, exploring the meaning of unconditional love, unity, and the bonds that go beyond blood. Guest: Josh Hernandez Hosts: Jody Sedrick Fathers Fire ============================ Check out my books Learn to Dance With the Currents of Life; When You Feel Like You're Drowning https://a.co/d/h5NZzNu But How Far Must I Go? A journey in faith https://a.co/d/1uqS0Ab 

In this episode, I sit down with Guinness World Record holder Joe Carlucci for a thoughtful conversation about his experiences in the kitchen with his daughter, Valentina. Together, we dive into the deeper aspects of fatherhood—how to nurture your child's gifts, the importance of fostering genuine connection over performing for others, and the challenges of co-parenting in today's world. Joe opens up about his personal “recipe” for successful parenting, sharing his wisdom on how to stay connected with your children while navigating the complexities of modern fatherhood. I truly loved this conversation, and I'm confident you'll walk away with valuable insights and actionable advice. Guest: Joe Carlucci https://www.instagram.com/joecarlucci_fj/ https://valentinaspizzeria.com/

This week, I'm excited to sit down with my good friend Giancarlo Rengifo for a heartfelt conversation about fatherhood. We dive deep into the joys and challenges of being a dad, but also explore the often-overlooked importance of being best friends with your spouse or partner. We discuss how this deep connection can be a cornerstone of a strong, resilient family, and why nurturing this friendship is just as crucial as parenting itself. Join us for an insightful and inspiring discussion on building and maintaining these essential relationships in our lives. Guest: Giancarlo Rengifo

This week I sit down with my brother Chad Sedrick to talk about our experience at the 2024 Paris Olympics watching his daugther "Spiff" Sedrick play on the USA Women's Rugby Team. We explore our experience and the highlight of the Olympics when Spiff broke three tackles and ran the entire length of the field to tie the Bronze Medal game against Austrailia and then to score the extra point to win the Bronze Medal.Yes it was over the top amazing. Join in to hear what it was like to be there at the 2024 Paris Olympics!

Today I've been pondering a post that I saw on Facebook by my friend Shon Hart. If you don't know Shon is the creator and Executive Director of InvolvedDad. He invited his son Levi to one of his speaking events and had his son share his daily affirmations. It reinforced in my mind the power of affirmations to help you become the man, husband and father you aspire to be.

A lot of people complain about their father-in-law? But my father-in-law is next level! Next level AWESOME! This father's day I wanted to pay tribute to him and all of you immigrant fathers who have fled your home to build a new home in a different country. Plus my good friend  @ShonHart  from InvolvedDad drops into share a few thoughts!

The past week I have been pondering conversations on both sides of the Gay Pride Month. It has really given me pause to reflect on my own experiences as with my children - what I could've done better and what I wish I could do over. I hope that as I share this parable of love and some personal thoughts that it helps you build better relationships with your children or family members who are in the LGBTQ community. I LOVE you more than I can express. Jody

If your buddy calls and invites you to a last minute car show, fishing trip, business event you will move mountains, change schedules, to make it happen. But whens the last time you moved things to do get away with your wife or do something she likes? Maybe you were first dating and married you did, but somewhere we lost that interest and passion.

I'm a little late on posting this week's podcast because rather than recording a podcast I was spending time with my beautiful wife on Mother's Day. My wife loves barbecue so while I was barbecuing steaks, asparagus, and pineapple I had a moment to reflect on my mom, my wife, and the women who have impacted my life. Today I share some of those thoughts Happy Mother's Day Jody Check out my book But How Far Must I Go? A journey in faith https://a.co/d/1uqS0Ab  If you would like a signed copy. Send $19.00 to cover postage to  Venmo @jody-sedrick Cashapp $Jodysedrick Or just order from Amazon https://a.co/d/1uqS0Ab 

This I sit down with Alex Russell and explore what it takes to be a dad of a competitive athlete. We talk about the demands on you as a dad, figuring out how much to push them, and giving them the space to discover their own talents and commitment to the game.

I had the AMAZING opportunity to go down to El Salvador to be part of the 1st IDA Certified Detailer and Skills Validated training event with Jorge Rivera, Rigo Santana, Christian Ramos Pwee, Manuel Martinez, Steve Thompson, and Little Steve (The Detail Kid). I share some thoughts and observations about being a dad from my experience in El Salvador.

How do you work through betrayal and disappointment? Today I share some thoughts on how to work through being disappointed and let down by others while not becoming hardened in our heart. Thanks for joining me every week! Jody Also check out my books But How Far Must I Go? A journey in faith https://a.co/d/1uqS0Ab  Learn to Dance With the Currents of Life; When You Feel Like You're Drowning https://a.co/d/h5NZzNu

This week I sit down with Steve Thompson to explore how he balances time between all of his kids. How do you balance the time between all of your kids especially when one is a YouTube sensation and traveling the world? Meeting the emotional needs of children Finding a way to connect one on one with your children Setting your schedule around your family Are you late with your kids? If they don't have a plan will they fail? And have you failed? How do you prepare your kids for success and failure? Driven for success or more relaxed? Which is right? Parenting so that you diminish regret "Smart" vs "Street Smarts" Guest: Steve Thompson Detail Doctors https://www.detaildrs.com/ Hosts:Jody Sedrick

This week I sit down with my friend Joab Flores. We talk about the very real feelings that accompany enforcing consequences on your kids when the don't live up to the family rules. Guest Joab Flores

Today I sit down with my friend Joe Kimball to talk about not seeing the impact of what you do as a dad until later. Was I to hard on my kids? Balancing the line between being hard and abusive Setting the pattern and expectation of eating together as a family Owning your mistakes and becoming the kind of dad you want to be. How did you feel as a kid? Getting to the age where your kids are teaching you lessons Now the kids are moving out what are the conversations like with his wife Guest Joe Kimball Host Jody Sedrick FathersFire === Check out my 1st Book "Learn To Dance With The Currents of Life - When You Feel Like You're Drowning" Order on Amazon https://a.co/d/0q8xo6r 2nd Books "But How Far Must I Go?" A Journey In Faith Scheduled to launch Saturday March 2nd

Yesterday I got a private text message congratulating me and Judie Sedrick for our 35th Wedding Anniversary. This person also commented how he had always felt like his marriage was a burden instead of being founded on friendship and love. I thought I'd share 10 things that have helped Judie and I build our relationship over the past 35 years. I hope these help you and would love to hear what you've found helpful Be in hot pursuit of your wife Little things matter Sarcasm can cut the heart Date night Let it go! It's not that important Be the protector of her heart in how you speak to her and about her Be present- just because you're there doesn't mean you're there Dream, plan, and work together If you are a couple of faith pray together Love fiercely

Last week I had an experience that really got me thinking about how we treat the women in our life. It got me thinking about 3 key things that we need to teach our daughters: 1. You have a voice and deserve to be seen 2. It's ok to be strong, intelligent, beautiful and sexy. (It's not your fault he's a pig) 3. You belong, you are precious, and I love being with you as your dad I'd love to hear your comments! Jody

What do you do when life hits you with unexpected storms?

For the past couple of days I've been troubled by a post that I saw on Facebook that basically said "Carry Your Own Burden". When I think about the fact that 70% of all suicides are men I think there has to be a better way than "Carry Your Own Burden" or "Pull yourself up by the bootstraps". I explore some thoughts about creating an environment were we can support and love each other through our dark moments and be there for each other. I'd love to hear your thoughts Have a blessed day! And be the blessing that someone needs. Cheers Jody Sedrick

This week I sit down with Ryan Griggs to talk about his journey of being a single dad, a girl dad, dating, working through addiction, getting married, and going to be a dad for a second time this summer. What are the key things he's learned along the way? Show highlights: • Being a girl dad of a 13 year old going on 30 • The challenges of being a single dad, dating, and getting married • Being purposeful in your relationships with your kids and your wife • Working through addiction - Being open with your addiction • Working through expectations placed on us • 3 keys things to become a better dad Guest: Ryan Griggs Blue Line

Today I'd thought I'd share an experience I had as an 8/9 year old boy where I didn't get a present for Christmas, or at least that's what I thought. Sometimes the gifts are right in front of us, we just need to look up.

Wil and I got so many amazing interaction, comments, advice and questions in episode 247 "What is the difference going from one kid to two?" where Wil brought up the question "How do I make my wife feel secure?" In this episode we dig deeper into his questions and some of the comments that were made.We'd love to hear your comments and advice. Enjoy this very important conversation Guest: Wil Fosett Hosts: Jody Sedrick

A lot of us men struggle because we are trapped in the swamp of yesterday. We didn't have a father in the home. One of our parents had an addiction problem. ":Parenting" was administered by physical and emotional abuse and a myriad of other reasons that have left you destitute of a positive role model. How do you break the cycle? How do you change the trajectory? We tend to act out of a place of pride, anger, or fear? What triggers us? Do we feel unappreciated?  Do we feel unseen? Do we feel disrespected? Is that rooted in never having a voice as a child? You can't heal what you never reveal!  Unveil the mask A lot of times we are holding on to ill feelings and the other person doesn't even know, is oblivious, or doesn't care. So the animosity you feel is cankering your heart and soul Be the change you want to see

This week I sit down with Wil Fosset to explore the difference in going from one child to two. Can it be that different? How are he and his wife managing the difference? We also explore what it takes to keep your relationship alive and thriving when you are juggling kids and a career. What has your experience been when you added a child to your family? Was it is going or a totally new experience. Guest: Wil Fosset Millenial Mentor Host: Jody Sedrick Fathers Fire

This week I give a shout out to Steve Thompson owner of The Detail Drs in Boise, Idaho. He and his family decided to do 75 hard together. They were doing really well as a family and one of his daughter's missed a day. So what did he do? Rather than let her fail he started over with her. What would you have done? Have a GREAT week! Jody

This week I share some thoughts about taking on the entire weight of the challenges of life on your shoulders and neglecting to include your wife who wants to be part of your life and finding the solution. I also talk about running into a hurricane of problems and trying to control every aspect as well as stirring up the pot in the name of "solving the problem" I'd love to hear your thoughts Cheers Jody

We tend to define our life by a single moment. When in reality it is a series of moments that lead to something tragic or something amazing. A series of moments define our character and who we become. A single moment can ruin a reputation, it can set us on a new trajectory. When we are purposeful in crafting moments we can create a life that is fulfilling and leave a legacy on our children that will last far into their life. What are you doing with the moments you've been given?CheersJody

This week I sit down with Ray Evans and talk about the challenges and fun of being with his wife 24/7 juggling a thriving detailing business, keeping their 10-year relationship fresh, and parenting a 7-year-old daughter. As you guessed it takes work so what is the secret sauce to make it work? Guest Ray Evans Stick To The Details https://www.sticktothedetailsinc.com/ Host Jody Sedrick

Hey gents, It's been three weeks since we last sat down. I have been swamped with business travel and neglected to get some episodes pre-recorded. My apologies. On a positive note, in the past two weeks I've had some amazing opportunities to sit down with men all over the globe to talk about business, family, and personal challenges. In my conversations the reality that many of us are walking with serious personal emotional trauma from our childhood that continues to haunt us even though we've tried to hide it behind the masks we wear. Today I explore the masks we wear to hide our pain with the hope that it will help us come to grips with what we are trying to hide and have the courage to look at them and start the healing process. Thanks for listening Jody Check out my book "Learn To Dance With The Currents of Life - When You Feel like You Are Drowning" https://www.amazon.com/Learn-Dance-Currents-Life-Drowning/dp/B09MC6HNL9/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PO1QMQ9FGLVK&keywords=learn+to+dance+with+the+currents+of+life+when+you+feel+like+drowning&qid=1697414732&sprefix=learn+to+dance+with+the+currents+of+life+when+you+feel+like+drowning%2Caps%2C170&sr=8-1

This week I sit down with my brother Mike Sedrick and we have a very raw and authentic discussion about the before, during, and after challenges and realities of a divorce. Highlights: 0:00 Intro 03:00 How he's doing after the divorce 06:00 How did you come to terms with you needed to divorce? 10:30 “Until death do us part” 14:00 How did you help the kids work through their own pain and loss? 26:30 What has been helpful for you and the kids looking forward Guest: Mike Sedrick (My brother) Jody Sedrick jody.sedrick@gmail.com  @jodysedrick on YouTube and Instagram

Show highlights: 0:00 Introduction  03:00 "A lot of lasts as a dad" 05:30 Dark night of the soul 14:30 We're all broken - emotionally bankrupt 17:45 Working out of addiction and emotional bankruptcy 24:00 His son working through his own trauma Guest: Sam Davis TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@the.interventionist.sd Hosts: Jody Sedrick  @JodySedrick   Instagram and TikTok: @jodysedrick  ============= Order my book "Learn To Dance With The Currents of Life - When You Fell like Drowning" - Paperback and Kindle ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09MC6HNL9/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_866DKBJTKR73JH3MS48W

This week I sit down with serial entrepreneur, coach, father and husband to explore what it takes to juggle being an entrepreneur and being a husband and father. One of the key things we explore his how to be the launching pad for your kids. What does that look like and how do you build a launching pad that builds independence but also let's your kids know you are present when they need you. Come join this amazing conversation. Guest Kevin Davis Maxed Out Men https://www.maxedoutmen.com/ Hosts: Jody Sedrick Instagram @fathersfire Instagram @jodysedrick

In the. depths of a heavy challenge has someone ever told you "Just have faith!" and the words rather than comfort, ring hollow, or even come across as unintendly harsh? I share a few thoughts that I hope will help you walk with greater tenderness and love as you try to support a loved one. There is a time to acknowledge pain and loss, a time to extend love, and a time to know when to encourage faith. Wisdom is knowing the difference. Have a great day! Jody

What do you do when you have an unexpected baby? You take a step back, re-evaluate and pivot. George Gonzalez Jr. joins me this week to explore becoming a new dad and the changes he made in every aspect of his life to focus on his family Show highlights: 0:00 Intro 1:30 Everything in my life has changed 07:00 Downsizing strategically to take care of my family 11:00 What surprised him about having a baby 14:00 Having a kid has given you a different perspective on your dad 19:30 His recommendations for new dads ** Interview with George and his dad on The RoadFS Podcast - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTIELD4b4sw Guest: George Gonzalez Jr. Host: Jody Sedrick Instagram @jodysedrick and @fathersfire Website: jodysedrick.com Order my book "Learn To Dance With The Currents of Life - When You Fell like Drowning" - Paperback and Kindle ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09MC6HNL9/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_866DKBJTKR73JH3MS48W

This week I sit down with my oldest son, Devon, to talk about the back story of his new song, "A Love Letter To My Suicidal Friends" We discuss our own personal experiences with loved ones and friends who struggle with feeling like they don't belong and don't want to stay in this world. Let's be honest life can be REALLY tough sometimes and put your heart and mind in a very sad and lonely place. We recognize this is a very personal and emotional issue and are trying to bring an open, loving, caring, and empathetic discussion that will help you and a loved one walk through a dark season of your life. Love Jody and Devon

Hey guys, Last week I went and saw the movie Sound of Freedom. It is a powerful and compelling origin story of Tim Ballard and his work rescuing children from the sex trade. In the very beginning of the movie, it shows how he is working to earn the trust of a pedophile to get more information so that he can rescue a kid. As I watched this interaction, it highlighted that porn was a contributing factor (and overlooked) part of the illegal sex trade. I know a lot of you men struggle with overcoming your porn addiction and I thought I'd share some insights that maybe will put into perspective and help you ultimately overcome your addiction, I know it's a challenge and talk about this in the spirit of helping us all be men of integrity both in private and in public, and guardians of our heart. I'd love to hear your thoughts! Thank you for listening! Jody

For the past couple of weeks, I've thought about why men struggle in their relationship with their spouse or significant other.  At the beginning of the relationship we're great a love bombing; going out of our way to prove we are the one. But somewhere we lose the pursuit of her heart and wonder why she's nagging and always complaining about you not doing your part. Perhaps it's time to look in the mirror and look at what you used to do versus now.  Your actions will be very revealing. I'd love to hear your thoughts. Cheers Jody

This week I sit down with Brian Prescott to explore his resistance and final acceptance of becoming a father. His journey has a surprising curve but also highlights the challenge of working through his wife wanting to have a kid when he was totally against it. Show highlights: 0:00 Intro 03:20 taking on a huge role as a father with a new baby and his wife unable to walk 5:30 Never planned on having kids which caused real friction with my wife 11:00 Working through the pain of disagreement and not having the same goals 14:00 - Taking on the responsibility of having a kid and starting a business 19:00 - Eliminating the hurry 29:00 - Having the difficult conversations Guest: Brian Prescott Host: Jody Sedrick Instagram @jodysedrick and @fathersfire Website: jodysedrick.com Order my book "Learn To Dance With The Currents of Life - When You Fell like Drowning" - Paperback and Kindle ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09MC6HNL9/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_866DKBJTKR73JH3MS48W

This week I sit down with Daniel G aka Stoner Gump. We explore making time to have deep conversations with his 7-year-old son while driving in his truck. We also explore the challenges of co-parenting, letting kids explore, and learning how to be friendly. Show highlights: 0:00 Intro 2:00 Amazing conversations in the truck 4:00 How should we deal with a bully 07:30 Teaching kids to work 11:30 The dynamic of having 4 kids and managing co-parenting 16:00 getting married at 17 20:00 Looking back on being a dad Daniel G Tiktok @stonergumper Host: Jody Sedrick Instagram @jodysedrick and @fathersfire

This past week we had the opportunity to go to Springdale Arkansas to celebrate my mom's 80th Birthday and have a family reunion. All 8 of us siblings were able to come along with a lot of the grand and great grandkids. We had such a fun time together. As I watched the interaction and love between everyone I thought about the little things my dad did with my mom to create such an amazing legacy for our family. Caught up in the minutiae of life you can't see the impact you are having. But from the lens of time, we can see how little things add up. If I were to sum up the little things that my dad did it would be Showed us that Mom was preeminent in his life and heart He made time for us kids He taught us to work and worked beside us He played with us He owned his mistakes, said he was sorry, and showed more love after I hope you enjoy this episode and that something touches your heart.   Cheers Jody

Happy Father's Day I wanted to wish you a Happy Father's Day and share a few thoughts with you Dads are critically important! Mad respect for single moms and single dads Many kids struggle because they have a huge hole in their hearts in the shape of their father; abandoned, abusive, oppressive, in the room but not involved, addicted, You don't need to be the perfect dad, throw out perfection and replace it with purpose, involvement, leadership, mentorship, fun, playfulness and a whole lot of love. Your kids don't need you to be perfect they need you in their lives.  I hope you have a GREAT day with your kids! Cheers! Jody

Recently I had the opportunity to go to Orlando Florida to watch my mentor and personal coach give the keynote speech at the MOAA Conference. He shared a story about his father and how his father attempted to bridge the gap of years of strain by lovingly placing his hand on his shoulder. His story has made me think of how many children are yearning, hoping for a dad's touch. A dad's love! I also share a story I had with my own dad where he extended a hand of love and mended a little boy's heart. I'd love to hear your stories of how you've connected with your dad, or maybe even still trying to figure out how to connect! Have a Blessed day! Thanks for tuning in! Jody

In honor of Memorial Day here is Pt 2.  I revisit an episode with Ty Watson a Navy Corpsman. We discuss the challenge of getting out of that military mindset when working with your kids. Some highlights of the show * The challenge of being a dad while serving in the Navy * Recognize that your wife is creating a regimen in the home and support what she has built * The power and blessing of having a strong relationship with his wife * Allowing our kids to ask questions  * Putting unrealistic expectations on your kids * Learning to dad the way each of your kids needs to a dad * Growing through transitions * As much as I want to be a perfect dad I'm not Guest: Ty Watson Host: Jody Sedrick Instagram @jodysedrick and @fathersfire Website: jodysedrick.com Order my book "Learn To Dance With The Currents of Life - When You Fell like Drowning" - Paperback and Kindle ⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09MC6HNL9/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_866DKBJTKR73JH3MS48W

Today I want to take a moment to recognize the men and women (and their families) who have given so much for us to enjoy the freedoms that we enjoy. I thought it would be fitting to revisit two episodes with men who are serving or who have services and talk about the challenges of being a dad while serving in the military. In part 1 we will revisit a conversation with my brother Mike Sedrick. He shares the challenge he and his family have experienced when he is deployed on military assignments.  Many families experience this challenge so I thought it'd be great to sit down with him to hear some of the things they've done before, during, and after the deployment. Thank you to all of you men and women who serve our country! Host Jody Sedrick ⁠jodysedrick.com⁠ Fathersfyre@gmail.com

We rarely talk about grief. And as men, we often avoid the conversation entirely. This puts men in a real corner when we lose a loved one - a parent, spouse, friend, and even a child. When confronting we tend to isolate, self-medicate, avoid, and sometimes do all three rather than face the very real emotions associated with losing a loved one. In this episode, I sit down with Andy Bohart, host of the TikTok channel DadsGrieve2, and we have a very raw and heartfelt discussion about the loss of his son and working through the very real feelings associated with grief. Show Highlights: 00:00 Intro 02:00 We don't talk about grief - What do I say? 05:30 Men haven't been taught to deal with emotions 8:30 Grieving along side of your wife 12:00 There is no timeline for grief 17:00 “What IS your son's name?” 20:30 People mourn differently 24:00 Telling stories about our loved ones 28:30 Working through loss Guest: Andy Bohart TikTok @DadsGrieve2 @lifeaftergrief (his wife's TikTok https://www.helpingparentsheal.org/affiliate-groups/helping-fathers-heal/ Host: Jody Sedrick Instagram @jodysedrick and @fathersfire Website: jodysedrick.com Order my book "Learn To Dance With The Currents of Life - When You Fell like Drowning" - Paperback and Kindle ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09MC6HNL9/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_866DKBJTKR73JH3MS48W