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A conversational style podcast by The Bachelor Australia Season 7 Runner up Abbie Chatfield, aiming to be just like having a thoughtful conversation while having a wine with your friends. Abbie and her guests will answer listener questions, doing the best to give her advice about dating, friendships, sex and all other facets of life and then do a deep dive into a topic of interest. Guests will include personal friends of Abbie's, people she admires and experts in fields that she thinks we could all learn from. For Q&A questions, topic suggestions or corrections email Abbie at itsalotpod@gmail.com Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram

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    • Jun 11, 2026 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 39m AVG DURATION
    • 720 EPISODES

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    The It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield podcast is an absolute gem that has captured my heart completely. As a listener from the US, I am grateful to be able to enjoy this podcast and all its wonders. What sets it apart and makes me fall in love with it time and time again is the raw and unapologetic authenticity that Abbie brings to every episode. She fearlessly tackles a wide range of topics, from love and relationships to mental health and societal issues, with such genuine passion that it's impossible not to feel inspired. The relatability factor is off the charts, making it feel like you're sitting down for a casual chat with a close friend.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is how realistic it is. Abbie doesn't shy away from sharing her own experiences, even if they may be uncomfortable or vulnerable. This authenticity creates a safe space for listeners to connect on a deeper level and encourages open dialogue about important issues. Abbie also takes the time to invite guests who are experts in their fields or have personal experiences that add valuable insights to the conversations. This diversity in perspectives keeps each episode fresh and enlightening.

    Furthermore, Abbie's insightful nature shines through in every episode, making her an incredible host. She approaches each topic with thoughtfulness and provides well-researched information alongside her personal anecdotes. Her ability to strike a balance between vulnerability and intelligence allows for meaningful discussions that leave listeners feeling both enlightened and validated.

    While there may not be any glaring flaws in this podcast, one possible downside could be the occasional lack of variety in topics covered. While Abbie does delve into multiple areas of interest, some listeners may crave more diversity in subject matter over time. However, this is merely a minor flaw compared to all the incredible content she consistently delivers.

    In conclusion, The It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield podcast is an absolute must-listen for anyone seeking a blend of insightful conversations and light-hearted fun. Abbie's honest and unapologetic approach, coupled with her intelligent insights, create an experience that feels like a genuine heart-to-heart conversation. I am forever grateful for this podcast and sincerely hope that it continues to captivate audiences for years to come.



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    NMF: The Chaplain's Secret

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2026 20:29


    We've had office drama, now it's time for some teacher drama! This chook takes us through some wild stories from her Christian high school and we're so happy to be along for the ride.LINKSSee Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmenSend us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITSHost: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    SOLO: Men's Rights Reddit HATES This Phrase

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2026 62:23


    It's been a while and Abbie needed some cheering up, so what better medicine than the Men's Rights Reddit?? Some absolutely kooky takes from the lads about respect, parenting, and office doors.LINKSSee Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmenABC article about AFL: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2026-05-31/tyrendarra-football-sexual-assault-minor-return-club/106691104Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITSHost: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    NMF: Healthcare Horrors ft. Emma Hardy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2026 19:17


    What better time to hear from a chook about her healthcare horrors than when Emma Hardy is in the studio!! Medical misogyny is truly the stuff of NIGHTMARES.LINKSBuy Emma Hardy's book Periodic Bitch https://www.allenandunwin.com/browse/book/Emma-Hardy-Periodic-Bitch-9781761473593See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmenSend us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITSHost: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Emma Hardy @emahrdyExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Breaking Down the Budget with Larissa Waters

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2026 54:34


    In the weeks since the 2026-27 Federal Budget was announced there's been a lot of misinformation to navigate, complicated tax lingo to get around, and of course a bunch of terrible AI content. Abbie sits down with Senator Larissa Waters, leader of the Australian Greens, to talk about what these changes actually mean for the everyday Aussie, what could have been done better, and why One Nation are leading in the polls.LINKSFollow Senator Larissa Waters on IG @larissawaters Follow the Australian Greens on IG @australiangreens See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmenSend us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagramReview the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Senator Larissa Waters @larissawaters Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    EMMA HARDY: PMDD and the Myths of Monstrous Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2026 53:39


    Emma Hardy lives with PMDD, and spent years of her life trying to work out what actions and feelings were 'her', and what was her PMDD. Her new memoir, Periodic Bitch, intertwines her exploration of her own psyche with cultural depictions and (mis)understandings of monsters, menstruation, and monstrous women. Emma and Abbie discuss the frustrating cycles of medical misogyny, identity and illness, female rage and so much more. A must-listen for people with PMDD, and those that love and support them.CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains discussions of mental ill-health and suicidal ideation. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call 000. For 24/7 support, contact Lifeline on 13 11 14 or visit www.lifeline.org.au. Help is also available 24/7 via Beyond Blue at www.beyondblue.org.au or on 1300 22 4636.LINKSBuy Emma Hardy's book Periodic Bitch https://www.allenandunwin.com/browse/book/Emma-Hardy-Periodic-Bitch-9781761473593See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmenSend us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITSHost: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Emma Hardy @emahrdyExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    My New Reality TV Obsession

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2026 34:06


    There's a brand new Aussie reality show and Abbie is OBSESSED. The first ep of Turned On: Dirty Sexy Money just dropped on Stan, and we were lucky enough to chat to one of the cast members! Chloe tells us about her journey unpacking her own internalised misogyny, and shares some insider goss about all the drama to come this season. LINKSWatch Turned On: Dirty Sexy Money only on Stan https://www.stan.com.au/watch/turned-on-dirty-sexy-moneySee Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmenSend us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Chloe Mira @chloemiraaExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    SURYA MCEWEN: 80 Hour Detention was "A Different Level of Aggression"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2026 62:12


    Surya McEwen is one of 11 Aussies who have just arrived back in Australia, after another attempt to break the naval blockade and bring aid to Gaza. He speaks to Abbie about his experience on his fourth mission, and how the escalation in violence, and the international attention has changed since October last year.This episode contains graphic descriptions of violence. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, help is available at Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14. LINKSFollow Surya McEwen @surya.sails.for.gaza Listen to Surya's previous episode https://shows.acast.com/its-a-lot-with-abbie-chatfield/episodes/69cc6bc3bfb99db0bc96a24bSee Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmenSend us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITSHost: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Surya McEwen @surya.sails.for.gazaExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    NMF: Open Plan and Out of Pocket

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2026 20:08


    While being an independent podcast has its perks, we also miss the weird and wonderful world that is an office. Thankfully, we can have a dose of the goss thanks to this chook's WILD office NMF!!LINKSSee Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmenSend us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    SOLO: Getting Out of the Sludge

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2026 56:10


    NOTE: This episode contains discussion of mental ill-health, if any content in this episode raises issues for you, please remember that help is always available. Contact Lifeline on 13 11 14, or visit www.lifeline.org.au for 24/7 help. You can also contact Beyond Blue on 1300 22 4636 or visit www.beyondblue.org.au. If you or anyone you know is in immediate danger, call 000.LINKSSee Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmenSend us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    KAYLA JADE'S NMF: The Botched BBL

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2026 14:22


    As promised, Kayla tells the story of her disastrous Turkiye BBL trip... For more stories like this, pick up a copy of Kayla's book Call Girl ConfidentialLINKSGet Kayla's book Call Girl Confidential: https://bit.ly/m/kaylajadebookFollow Kayla on IG @itsmekaylajadeFollow Kayla on TikTok @blueeyedkaylajadeSubmit your guest suggestions and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Kayla Jade @itsmekaylajadeExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    KAYLA JADE RETURNS: Snark Threads, Body Image, and Motherhood

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2026 53:27


    NOTE: This episode contains discussions of eating disorders, and sexual assault. Please take care while listening, and remember that help is always available. If this content raises any issues for you or someone you know, contact Butterfly at 1800 33 4673 or visit butterfly.org.au, or contact 1800RESPECT at 1800 737 732 or visit 1800respect.org.au.The one and only Blue Eyed Kayla Jade is BACK on the podcast! If you think you know all there is to know about the TikTok and OnlyFans sensation, buckle up, because her new book Call Girl Confidential peels back the curtain on her incredible story. They discuss when Kayla was forced to reveal she was a mum of two, her experience withLINKSGet Kayla's book Call Girl Confidential: https://bit.ly/m/kaylajadebookFollow Kayla on IG @itsmekaylajadeFollow Kayla on TikTok @blueeyedkaylajadeListen to Kayla Jade's first appearance on It's A Lot: https://shows.acast.com/its-a-lot-with-abbie-chatfield/episodes/69cc6bd3bfb99db0bc96b4e6Submit your guest suggestions and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Kayla Jade @itsmekaylajadeExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    NMF: Calamity Holes

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2026 19:52


    Are there any witches or other magic-inclined beings in the audience who can help this chook break her curse??LINKSSubmit your Nightmare Fuel: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    SOLO: How To Become An Alpha Male

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2026 80:23


    Every day is a new opportunity to learn, so Abbie is sitting Amy down for a lesson from her favourite book on how to become an Alpha Male. What is an Alpha Male? What's the biggest secret about women you don't know? And where do you meet these chicks anyway??LINKSSee Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmenSend us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    NMF: A Wedding, A Cake, and a Club Bathroom

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2026 22:21


    PEW PEW PEW IT'S TIME FOR MORE QUICKFIRE NIGHTMARE FUELS!!! The last one has really raised the bar for what's possible in the soundscape of a NMF.LINKSSubmit your Nightmare Fuel: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    ANTOINETTE LATTOUF: Women Who Win

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2026 55:06


    Antoinette Lattouf decided she'd won before her court case was over. In the midst of a ground-breaking fight against her unfair dismissal from the ABC, Antoinette turned to the annals of history, desperately searching for stories of women in Australian history who have fought similar battles. She found strength in what they'd been through, and has intertwined her own saga with these amazing women's fights in her new book Women Who Win. Abbie and Antoinette discuss the cost of speaking up, what it means to show up as an ally, facing the grief of 'what could have been' and much more.LINKSGet Antoinette's book Women Who Win: https://www.penguin.com.au/books/women-who-win-9781761355370Follow Antoinette on IG: @antoinette_lattoufSubmit your guest suggestions and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Antoinette Lattouf @antoinette_lattoufExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    NMF: Too Close For Comfort

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2026 16:40


    There's six degrees of separation and then there's this...LINKSSubmit your Nightmare Fuel: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    ROXANE GAY: How Do We Protect Women's Rights?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2026 44:50


    We still can't believe it, the one and only ROXANE GAY is on the podcast!! Abbie consults Roxane on a bunch of pressing topics, including the state of feminism in 2026, the lure of glamorized lifestyles like 'trad wife' and 'soft life', and why men need to step up in the dating world.LINKSSee Roxane Gay: In Conversation at Vivid Sydney on June 12: https://www.vividsydney.com/event/minds/roxane-gay-in-conversationSubmit your guest suggestions and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Roxane Gay @roxanegay74Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    NMF: He's A Runner He's A Track Star

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2026 39:18


    We've been treated a globe-trotting tale of international intrigue, and crimes of many sorts!!LINKSSubmit your Nightmare Fuel: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    IT'S A LITTLE: Do Influencers Owe You Exposure?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2026 50:09


    Is it entitled to expect payment for someone sharing your content? Do influencers owe small businesses exposure?Welcome to It's A Little. This is a place for Abbie to share quick thoughts on timely stuff that we might not have time to talk about in the solo eps - think the Chappell Roan hotel drama, or the latest TikTok beef. For our first instalment; Abbie came across a video from a makeup artist who was told she would need to pay to use content from an influencer she offered to do makeup for. Abbie and Amy share their thoughts on the video, and the wider world of the influencer economy.LINKSSend us your thoughts, topic suggestions and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    MITCH GREER: Answering Your FAQs as a Trans Woman

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2026 81:45


    She's back by popular demand!! Number one chooky-la-la AKA Mitch Greer is back to answer all your questions about her experience as a trans woman. When did she know she was trans? How did her family react? Does she ever wish she was born a cis woman?LINKSFollow Mitch on IG @mitch.greerSubmit your guest suggestions and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Mitch Greer @mitch.greerExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    NMF: Too Cool To Love His Wife

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2026 30:02


    This man needs to do a lot of things but number one is GROW UP!!LINKSSubmit your Nightmare Fuel: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    MAFS' Alissa Fay

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2026 68:30


    Alissa had - to put it mildly - a rollercoaster on this season of MAFS. Alissa went fiery wedding ceremony, to being relentlessly bullied by fellow participants - then from what seemed like a rock solid relationship to being left at the altar at final vows. Alissa sits down with Abbie to set the record straight on what you didn't see, and how she feels now about some of her more questionable actions.LINKSWe want to hear from you! Fill out the It's A Lot listener survey here: https://podcastsurvey.typeform.com/ItsALotFollow Alissa on IG @alissafay_Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Alissa Fay @alissafay_Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    MAFS RECAPS: Week 11 Episode 39 (Final Reunion)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2026 27:14


    We made it and we have questions! Why were Steph and Tyson on the couch? What's with the naughty corner for Gia and Bec? Where the hell was David and Alissa's couch session??? LINKSWe want to hear from you! Fill out the It's A Lot listener survey here: https://podcastsurvey.typeform.com/ItsALotCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    SOLO AMA: These Fan Interactions Need To Stop

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2026 77:37


    We've been overdue for an AMA, so Abbie is answering some of your burning questions including: What movies has Abbie seen lately (cue unpacking The Drama), does she want to have kids with Adam, and advice on getting an ADHD diagnosis. Plus, Abbie reveals some shocking incidents that have meant looking to leave Sydney.LINKSWe want to hear from you! Fill out the It's A Lot listener survey here: https://podcastsurvey.typeform.com/ItsALotCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    MAFS RECAPS: Week 11 Episode 38 (Reunion Dinner Party)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2026 101:38


    If you can believe it, we've actually got Danny on the podcast!!!! JK it's Carmen in a hat here to help us through the penultimate episode of MAFS Australia Season 13LINKSFollow Carmen in IG @zigs_momFollow Carmen on TikTok @zigs_momCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Carmen Azzopardi @zigs_momExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    CHRIS PARKER'S NMF: "My Anal Virginity Story"

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2026 28:41


    Chris Parker is in the building, with a doozy of a NMF for us about his first time doing anal with a guy.LINKSSee Chris on tour https://www.chrisparkercomedy.com/eventFollow Chris on IG @chrisparker11Listen to Chris' podcast The Male Gayz on Apple and SpotifyCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Chris Parker @chrisparker11Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    MAFS' Bec Zacharia (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2026 40:06


    Bec is back! She's breaking down what happened from the 'Grass is Greener' challenge, all the way through to reunion and beyond. Tea galore, chooks.LINKSFollow Bec on IG @bec_zacCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Bec Zacharia @bec_zacExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    MAFS' Rachel Gilmore

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2026 75:40


    In a very chaotic season of MAFS, Rachel and Steven seemed to be one of the most solid couples in the experiment. But now, Rachel can reveal her side of the story including the double standards she faced with intimacy, her relationship with Bec now, and what really happened between her and Steven.LINKSFollow Rachel on IG @rachlea_xCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Rachel Gilmore @rachlea_xExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    MAFS RECAPS: Week 10 Episode 36 (Final Vows ft. Zigsmom)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2026 73:58


    IT'S FINALLY OVER!!! Carmen joins us again to recap final vows and boy oh boy are there some wild moments to finish on. But first, a walk down memory lane to a simpler time when we knew nothing about these people...We can see the light at the end of the MAFS tunnel, and so what better time to get on friend of the show Carmen (aka Zigsmom) to unpack the madness that was the final dinner party!LINKSFollow Carmen in IG @zigs_momFollow Carmen on TikTok @zigs_momCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Carmen Azzopardi @zigs_momExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    MAFS RECAPS: Week 10 Episode 36 (Final Dinner Party ft. Zigsmom!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2026 109:12


    We can see the light at the end of the MAFS tunnel, and so what better time to get on friend of the show Carmen (aka Zigsmom) to unpack the madness that was the final dinner party!LINKSFollow Carmen in IG @zigs_momFollow Carmen on TikTok @zigs_momCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Carmen Azzopardi @zigs_momExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    SARAH ROSENBERG: The Reality Of Reporting Rape

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2026 67:30


    Why do perpetrators get independent legal representation and not victims? Sarah Rosenberg found out first-hand the overwhelming bureaucracy, and lack of resources and representation for victim-survivors when reporting crimes such as sexual assault. Abbie sits down with Sarah to explore how the system is actually geared against victims to have a fair fight, and her work to change it and give victims more agency through her organisation With You We Can.If this content raises any issues for you, help is available via Lifeline at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14, and via 1800Respect at https://www.1800respect.org.au/ or by calling 1800 737 732.NOTE: Any advice in this podcast is general, and is not a substitute for professional legal advice.LINKSLearn more about With You We Can https://www.withyouwecan.org/Follow With You We Can on IG @withyouwecan_Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Sarah Rosenberg @withyouwecan_Executive Producer & Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeSocial Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    MAFS' Bec Zacharia

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2026 74:40


    Bec is here to chat about those texts, her biggest regret from MAFS, what really happened between Danny and Gia, and much more!!LINKSFollow Bec on IG @bec_zacCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Bec Zacharia @bec_zacExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    JOSH THOMAS RETURNS: The Homemade Glory Hole (And Other Tales)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2026 31:32


    The man who raised the bar for Nightmare Fuels is BACK!! And this time he's sourced a collection of bonkers tales about himself from a twelve-person group chat. STRAP IN!!!LINKSSee Josh on tour https://joshthomas.com.au/#datesListen to Josh's podcast https://tr.ee/t84YN1fqtvWatch Josh's podcast https://tr.ee/jKgOd7fQQeFollow Josh on IG @joshthomas87Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Josh Thomas @joshthomas87Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    MAFS RECAPS: Week 9 Episode 35 (Final Test Pt2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2026 27:52


    This twist in the final test... the MAFS producers are sick for this one...LINKSCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    MAFS RECAPS: Week 9 Episode 34 (Final Test Pt1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2026 45:58


    As we get closer t final vows, the producers decide to pull out the 'Final Test' for the couples and the results are... interesting. Some couples are pushed to the brink, and those who aren't we probably won't talk much about. PLUS! A bit of goss in the form of a VM from one of the Final Test participants! LINKSCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    MAFS RECAPS: Week 9 Episode 33 (Commitment Ceremony)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2026 33:08


    Thank you for waiting chooks, Week 9 recaps are here! HOME STRETCH!! LINKSCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    END OF AN ERA (Tears On My Tits)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2026 34:42


    It's the end of an era for It's A Lot, and the start of an exciting new one! LINKSFollow Oscar on IG at @oscargordonCheck out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewGet instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXYCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballVideo Producer: Amy CodeIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Stay Tuned...

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2026 0:21


    Sorry chooks, no new ep today but exciting things coming!! Keep an eye out on the feed later this week for updatesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    MY SISTER'S NMF: "What's Your Worst Date Ever?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2026 24:03


    Somehow Jolie has never been on the podcast?? She calls in with a story of how a first date was ruined by her date's story of a first date! Our heads are spinning... LINKS Follow Jolie on IG @f0xy_m0r0n Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Jolie Chatfield @f0xy_m0r0n Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    MAFS RECAPS: Week 8 Episode 32 (Dinner Party)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2026 69:14


    Week 8 is over! It's the last dinner party for Chris and Sam and they're hashing out their sides of the story. Plus, some really weird vibes and comments from Danny that for some reason all the blokes agree with??? Weird one! LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    MAFS RECAPS: Week 8 Episode 30+31 (Home Stays)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2026 64:47


    Time for Home Stays! Gia's positive attitude doesn't last long and some cracks appear with David and Alissa. Plus, are we starting to see the 'real' Danny?? LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    ADELLE PETROPOULOS: Life Lessons from a Cancelled Wedding

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2026 56:12


    In September 2025, Adelle Petropoulos announced to her followers that she had broken up with her partner, and called off her wedding. Adelle discusses her journey of healing, decentering men, and why the 'he fumbled' comments aren't actually helpful. LINKS Follow Adelle on TikTok @adellepetros Follow Adelle on IG @adelle.petropoulos Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Adelle Petropoulos @adelle.petropoulos Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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