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AuDHD brains face many challenges when it comes to projects. It's something I've put a great deal of time and learning into, both personally and professionally. This episode covers many ideas and approaches that tend to work for us.Key Takeaways:We usually learn to use what I call the Adrenaline-Anxiety Approach. While effective short-term, it can lead to burnout and other issues.A monotropic approach is more sustainable and individualized... and it can feel slow at first.Experimentation as a core toolCreating just enough structure and safety to get going, without getting bogged down (loose planning)Working with the brain states you haveManaging interruptions, inputs, and daily lifeFinding the balance that works for youThe episode also walks through the Love Your Brain course, designed to help AuDHDers understand their mind-body system, work with brain states, and navigate project challenges. The course emphasizes self-compassion, experimentation, and building processes tailored to individual needs.Repost - originally posted July 12th 2024Note: not strictly in the current 10-episode series, but still relevant!Links mentioned:Devon Price's Laziness Does Not Exist article, and a PDF if you're not on MediumThe transcript may be especially useful for this episode! (It'll take a few seconds for the link to fully load to this episode)Love Your Brain course (and the Sep/Oct 2025 live round info) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Hiiii besties!Today on the podcast we are discussing ADHD and social media/phone addiction. We share our theory as to why ADHDers often find their communities online, why we get stuck in dopamine DOOM SCROLL loops. We talk about how we are attempting to create digital boundaries for ourselves (while still being kind to our ADHD brains) and what might help us to get a bit more of our time back from Marky Mark Zuck and his sneaky ways.
Check out the collection of fidgets Team Shiny loves! Are ADHD, autism and other neurodevelopmental disorders overdiagnosed? Is it all in our heads? Is self-diagnosis legit? Isabelle and David take some common stigmas and misperceptions to task and explore how labels and identities can help or hurt, how policing stigma when you're not a member of the group being stigmatized (or asking us what we need), and the huge weight our world puts on external, visible behaviors rather than internal pain, frustrations, and strengths.-----Isabelle references a podcast episode she listened to recently, Armchair Expert with guest Suzanne O'Sullivan on overdiagnosis. She brings up the idea of psychosomatic illness, and the example this epilepsy expert uses is that there are a certain percentage of cases of epilepsy that appear very different on brain scans, that appear to be psychologically caused (or psychosomatic). This is one of those confusing, stigmatized concepts—Isabelle would originally think that this means “made up.” But NO. What it means is that people are still experiencing the symptoms, are still suffering from symptoms of seizures, sometimes way worse than those who on EEGs, etc. appear to have ‘epilepsy.' It is the opposite of ‘in your head,' it is very real. The same goes for the placebo effect, which is that when they do studies on medications or treatments, they have people do something neutral or take a sugar pill or a pill with no active ingredients. A percentage of people in every case will see symptom improvement or a positive effect. This does not mean it's made up, it means the mind is powerful and just because we don't know how something works doesn't mean it doesn't bring relief. And the same goes with nocebo, or the way things can have an adverse or ill effect, too. But now David and Isabelle get to the other idea this author has, about how ADHD and autism and other diagnoses are being ‘over diagnosed,' because, as the author states, autism used to mean something different than it does now, because now people later in life who are high masking are being diagnosed with it—and the cutoff points for diagnoses are being too muddled, and isn't it (as the author puts it), “awful that kids will be labelled with these self-fulfilling prophecies” that will create limiting beliefs for them, isn't it causing harm, can't we meet kids needs without these labels? And more so, the cut off point should be “disablement.” But wait a minute, isn't that pre-diabetes? But isn't it like the biggest predictor of heroin use is milk consumption…because everyone who takes heroin used to drink milk. David wants to come at this. David wants more inclusive education, he doesn't want smaller and smaller classrooms, and what to have a very diverse set of people in the room. A diverse group of people learning at once. To answer why do we need to label them? Because every person has different needs, we need labels to tailor education to each person. The more standardized it becomes the more it becomes marginalized. Stay in your lane, let people within the culture manage the stigma around the culture. “Can you just include someone from these communities?” A bunch of people talking about us and deciding what's harming us without talking to us. Isabelle refers back to psychopharmacology and psychopathology class—you gotta learn a ton about diagnostic criteria and learn how to categorize the experiences of people your seeing. Isabelle's professor was a neuropsychologist and was very into accurate language. You can look at diagnoses from a couple of different angles—why do we diagnosis? We need to have a standardized understanding of a group of experiences, so when we talk about it we all say “this is the part that we mean.” There needs to be some kind of shared consensus around what ADHD means. Cut off points could be true for insurance purposes, political, and financial, and for research and understanding, and it also is not all encompassing—but if you accurately sync a person up to a diagnosis, it gives them an understanding of a person that helps them. Everyone isn't self-diagnosing. It's the people who resonate with the experiences of those who are AuDHD or autistic or an ADHDer. David names that he loves the podcast (as does Isabelle, she's a big archerry) and that the people on this podcast are falling into something society does, not necessarily leading society there, which is validating external manifestations of pain rather than internal frustration. David leans on the work of Marcus Soutra, with the idea that perhaps instead of thinking of things as diagnoses, it's more of an identification. We're accurately identifying people. Isabelle further details that they mention that mental health diagnoses go up when mental health awareness is spread. To which she wonders—what about how psychoeducation and awareness allow for people to be more vulnerable and feel safe disclosing what's really going on, internally? The example that ‘doesn't everyone have a little ADHD' is—-wrong. Nope, Not everyone. But maybe those who have untreated ADHD do? And with the example of Bill Gates identifying as autistic, and the author naming that she doesn't see him as having struggles or disability, again, a very external definition—they have no clue about what he has gone through or what it is like to go through life not fully understanding yourself without such an identity. Autism and ADHD is not necessarily a learning difference Armchair Expert episode Isabelle is referencingSuzanne O'Sullivan's book, The Age of DiagnosisUSEFUL DEFINITIONSPsychosomatic - a word that literally means "mind" and "body" -- where stress or worry make a symptom or condition develop, get worse, or show up in the first place. While common usage means we often think this is saying "it's all in your head,"or that it's not real---it's saying the opposite: it's saying that the mind has such a powerful effect that it can cause real physical pain and suffering and that illnesses and all kinds of conditions can have many different causes. This does not mean what you're experiencing is not real, it means we now understand that stressors and emotions and our minds can connect to a number of health conditions. See here for more (Source: Cleveland Clinic).Placebo effect - the way a sugar pill or random remedy (used in clinical research trials for a medication, let's say, or a 'fake surgery' in surgical trials, where nothing is implanted or changed) produces symptom relief and improvement as if it were a real pill or real surgically-altering procedure. This means that the person experiences actual change, again, that is not explained by the treatment or pill being studied. We don't fully understand why this is, but we know it's there, and it likely has something to do with a person's expectations of whether something could help them. It has a big impact on research and neuroscience in general. See here for more (Source: NIH 2023)Nocebo effect - opposite from placebo, where a person's negative expectations play out when given a sugar pill or 'sham' surgery and their symptoms get worse even thought they did not receive any medicine or treatment that would give them side effects. 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In this twenty-second episode of 'THE ND THRIVE GUIDE' we have the returning Charlotte Crawford. Charlotte is a Neurodivergent Coach. She helps people with resilience for anxiety and empowers people to follow their dreams. We explore how we can live a steady and controlled way of life when it comes to our emotions. Owen and Char discuss how emotional intensity shows up and what it can lead to in our behavior. We explore how we can live a steady and controlled way of life when it comes to our emotions. Thank you Char. WHAT IS THE ND THRIVE GUIDE 'ND Thrive Guide' Series, we will explore how to live a full, thriving and authentic life with our Neurodivergent Brain. A show all about hope and growth. Tips, advice and ideas from coaches, therapists and experts. Thank you to all our experts. MORE ON Charlotte Check out Charlortte links - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/Charlotte.Crawford Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/neuroroost/ Website - https://sites.google.com/view/neuroroost/bio ND & Free is in partnership with Ankhway Mushroom Gummies. A tasty supplement with 10 functional mushrooms bundled in a gummy. They can help with gaining shaper focus, a clearer mind, a more balanced mood, a natural energy boost and so much more. Enjoy 15% of your order at checkout with code 'OWEN15'. Find out more about the gummies at www.ankhway.com More about The ND & FREE Podcast series Welcome back to the ND & FREE podcast brought to you by the Awareness Space Network. A podcast and social media platform that explores how ND'ers can live their truth and feel free in their lives. We hear from inspiring COACHES, THERAPISTS, EXPERTS AND FELLOW ND'ers from all over the world, who sit down with me Owen Morgan to share their wisdom with us. Our mission is to explore how the human spirit and understanding our whole self can bring us a life full of possibilities Check out our website https://www.ndandfree.com/ Follow our instagram and TikTok for information, facts and useful content in and around Adhd, Autism and AuDHD. - Instagram https://www.instagram.com/nd_and_free/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@nd_and_free?_t=8scJhGZ4Sp6&_r=1 These conversations are not a substitute for professional medical or therapeutic support. Please seek support from professionals trained within Neurodiversity support. Listen to episodes with care. Keep up to date with our latest posts on Instagram. Thank you for supporting the show, Owen
You speak to share or receive useful information.So when someone asks, “How was your weekend?” your brain looks for purpose.If there's no shared understanding, the exchange feels like noise.When you know your purpose in a conversation, you feel less drained and more confident.If you've ever shut down mid-chat or wondered why casual talk feels like wasted energy, this episode is for you.Want meaningful relationships? Click here.Grab your spot at the Social Connections Summit!It's a free, 2-day virtual event happening September 24 and 25.You'll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who've lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.There'll be giveaways, special bonuses for those who invite others, and full access to replays—so don't sweat it if you can't make it live.Join us at www.socialconnectionssummit.com.#smalltalk #latediagnosedautistic #relationships
If you've ever felt like traditional parenting advice, or even the school system, just doesn't FIT your child, especially if they're neurodivergent, this episode is going to shift your perspective.I'm joined by the brilliant Christina Keeble—an AuDHD mother of two neurodivergent PDAers, and a Neurodiversity and Educational Consultant with over 23 years of experience. Christina has worked with schools, families, businesses, and government organisations to change the way we see and support neurodivergent kids.Together we dive into:✨ Why kids' need for connection never fades (even if society acts like it should)✨ How school expectations often clash with children's real needs✨ Why rewards and consequences often do more harm than good✨ How neurodivergent kids challenge social hierarchies—and why that's actually a strengthStick around to the end, where Christina shares powerful insights for parents considering leaving the school system—you don't want to miss it.This is one of those conversations that will leave you both challenged and encouraged. You'll walk away with a deeper understanding of how to nurture trust, connection, and resilience in your kids.
What was your biggest Takeaway from this Episode! I would Love to hear from you!What if the very things you've been told are weaknesses… were actually the reasons different brains win in business and life?This 13-minute After Show episode goes deeper into the gifts of neurodivergent brains. Christine Molina, LCSW, and I explore how ADHDers and Autistic individuals bring innovation, structure, creativity, and resilience to business and everyday life.What we cover:ADHD as a visionary, risk-taking, people-focused brainAutism as a precision, system-building, detail-driven brainThe unique blend of AUDHD and how it balances both gifts and strugglesWhy companies, communities, and families need different brains to thrive
WE ARE BACK IN THE HOUSE!!! This feels like a whole new chapter of the Connected Divergents pod, and certainly of my life!Excited to chat with you about what it's been feeling like being back, and a discovery I made about how I experience 'routines' with my autism: not linked to time or sequences, but physical space & visual cues! Hope you enjoy
Friendship, Boundaries, and Other Olympic Sports for Autistic Brains Patricia gets real about friendship challenges, navigating communication mismatches, and how OCD and autistic wiring can shape our relationship expectations. She shares a behind-the-scenes peek into her new podcast project, the insecurities that surfaced while collaborating with her co-host, and how unexpected moments of validation reminded her that what she brings to the table is more than enough. HIGHLIGHTS · Patricia plans to release the podcast bi-monthly to avoid burnout. · Insecurities can arise when starting new projects, but validation helps. · Everyone has unique strengths, even when they feel insecure about them. · Communication in friendships can be challenging, especially for neurodivergent individuals. · It's important to recognize that others' actions are not always about us. · Self-reflection is can be helpful in understanding relationships. · Sharing experiences can have a profound impact on listeners. · Validation from others can remind one of the importance of one's work. · It's okay to change and evolve over time, both personally and professionally. · Setting boundaries is essential for maintaining comfort and well-being. SOUND BITES · "It's not about me." · "It's okay for things to change." · "What I have to share is enough." · "You're not for everybody and everyone's not for you." · "Reliability, plans, and clear communication are high values of mine and they calm my nervous system." · "We can't know what we don't know." SENSITIVITY IS NOTHING TO APOLOGIZE FOR; IT'S HOW YOUR BRAIN IS WIRED You are not broken. You were shaped by systems that weren't built for you. You deserve rest, joy, and support exactly as you are. CHAPTERS (please add time for addition of introduction) 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Changes 01:30 Navigating Insecurities and Trusting Strengths 05:30 Friendship Dynamics and Communication 09:14 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth 14:23 Validation and Impact of Sharing Experiences 21:17 Recognizing and Embracing Strengths PODCAST HOST Patricia Young (she/her) was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile, OCD and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcasts Unapologetically Sensitive and Unapologetically AuDHD to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people. LINKS To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review” Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com
This week's podcast is for anyone who keeps second-guessing whether they misread the situation or whether they're being manipulated. If you've ever had your words twisted, been left out of the loop, or felt guilty for saying no, this episode is for you. We'll talk about three clear signs it's manipulation and not just a misunderstanding, how narcissistic behavior shows up in everyday interactions, and what you can do to protect your boundaries without losing yourself.Want meaningful relationships? Click here.Grab your spot at the Social Connections Summit!It's a free, 2-day virtual event happening September 24 and 25.You'll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who've lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.There'll be giveaways, special bonuses for those who invite others, and full access to replays—so don't sweat it if you can't make it live.Join us at www.socialconnectionssummit.com.#Manipulation #Misunderstanding #Boundaries #Gaslighting
Serena Palmer is an ADHD activist and author focusing on ADHD's alarming connection to addiction. Equipped with her own late ADHD diagnosis and incredible recovery story, she's on a mission to help you change your habits and optimise your ADHD. 00:00 Trailer 02:35 Serena's Mission in the ADHD space 08:01 Serena's definition of ADHD 10:17 How ADHD looks in women and girls 15:05 Early signs of addition in kids 16:47 Good addictions VS bad addictions 23:20 New ADHD management technique 29:29 Tiimo advert 30:30 The link between ADHD and mobile phone addiction 33:59 Common addictions in ADHD adults 42:41 Are ADHD adults at risk of toxic relationships 45:28 How ADHD adults experience love 53:41 How many ADHD women are addicted to something 56:19 3 challenges when trying to go ‘cold turkey' 58:03 The complex link between AuDHD and addiction 59:28 Serena's ADHD item 01:01:59 The ADHD agony aunt 01:07:33 A letter from the previous guest Buy Serena's book
Send us a textFeeling stuck, burned out, or boxed in at work? Career strategist Julia Toothacre (Ride The Tide Collective) breaks down how neurodivergent professionals can own their careers—without masking or burning out. We cover smart pivots (without “starting over”), asking for accommodations that actually help, navigating toxic managers, handling feedback without spiraling, and building influence in ways that fit your brain.In this episodeHow to spot misfit roles vs. misfit cultures—and what to do nextPractical accommodations (agendas, debriefs, flexible hours) that boost performanceManager conflict: scripts, documentation, and when to loop in HRCareer pivots that don't send you back to entry-levelAdvocacy without oversharing: lead with strengths like pattern recognitionBurnout cues, recovery, and sustainable advancementAbout JuliaJulia Toothacre is a strategic career consultant, coach, and host of the Control Your Career podcast. She's guided thousands of high-achieving professionals with a 5-phase framework to clarify goals, build influence, and move up—minus the burnout.Links & resources
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In this twenty-first episode of 'THE ND THRIVE GUIDE' we have award-winning entrepreneur, international keynote speaker, and passionate advocate for dyslexia and neurodiversity, Darren Clark. Owen and Darren discuss how Dyslexia presents itself and the impact it has on daily life. We discuss where Dyslexia fits when it comes to ADHD and our neurotypes. We unpack where we are as far as support and understanding how we can thrive with dyslexia. We hear about Darren's diagnosis journey and his why, for supporting the Dyslexia community. Thank you Darren. WHAT IS THE ND THRIVE GUIDE 'ND Thrive Guide' Series, we will explore how to live a full, thriving and authentic life with our Neurodivergent Brain. A show all about hope and growth. Tips, advice and ideas from coaches, therapists and experts. Thank you to all our experts. MORE ON Darren. Growing up undiagnosed, Darren faced challenges in school that left him doubting his abilities — but those same experiences shaped his resilience, creativity, and drive. Today, he works with organisations like Nike, Disney, Amazon, and Barclays to change how the world sees neurodivergent talent. Whether on stage, in boardrooms, or through his global campaigns, Darren's mission is clear — to empower people to see their strengths, live their truth, and thrive despite any hurdles their neurodivergent brain might present. Check out Darren links - YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@neurodiversitystories5128 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/_darren_clark/ & https://www.instagram.com/neurodiversity_stories/ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/darrenclark2/ ND & Free is in partnership with Ankhway Mushroom Gummies. A tasty supplement with 10 functional mushrooms bundled in a gummy. They can help with gaining shaper focus, a clearer mind, a more balanced mood, a natural energy boost and so much more. Enjoy 15% of your order at checkout with code 'OWEN15'. Find out more about the gummies at www.ankhway.com More about The ND & FREE Podcast series Welcome back to the ND & FREE podcast brought to you by the Awareness Space Network. A podcast and social media platform that explores how ND'ers can live their truth and feel free in their lives. We hear from inspiring COACHES, THERAPISTS, EXPERTS AND FELLOW ND'ers from all over the world, who sit down with me Owen Morgan to share their wisdom with us. Our mission is to explore how the human spirit and understanding our whole self can bring us a life full of possibilities Check out our website https://www.ndandfree.com/ Follow our instagram and TikTok for information, facts and useful content in and around Adhd, Autism and AuDHD. - Instagram https://www.instagram.com/nd_and_free/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@nd_and_free?_t=8scJhGZ4Sp6&_r=1 These conversations are not a substitute for professional medical or therapeutic support. Please seek support from professionals trained within Neurodiversity support. Listen to episodes with care. Keep up to date with our latest posts on Instagram. Thank you for supporting the show, Owen
If you're looking for polite conversation and maximum eye contact, this may not be the episode (or podcast) for you, because we're autistically staring right past each other as we discuss the ins and outs of recreational arguing. We're appointing ourselves the official Founding Fathers of recreational arguing, aka competitive thinking, and providing some official guidelines to help you achieve that sweet, sweet dopamine without destroying your friendships. We're also weighing in on your family's most controversial Scattergories answers, sharing cases of recreational arguing gone wrong, and trying our best to control the rage that's always bubbling right below the surface. Resources Craving Drama and Starting Arguments When You Have ADHD. – ADD Resource Center Anhinga (SnakeBird) Calls FYV Visit our website: weirdsofafeather.com Follow us on TikTok: @weirdsofafeather Watch full-length episodes on Youtube: youtube.com/@weirdsofafeather Join our Reddit community: reddit.com/r/WeirdsofaFeather/ Find us on Instagram: @weirdsofafeather Become a Patreon member for bonus content: patreon.com/weirdsofafeather
After 3 months off, we're BACK bestie babes - and WE MISSED YOU!!!! And for the first time ever, you can watch Your ADHD Besties on YOUTUBE! You guys asked, so we finally obliged.
Send us a textn this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April Ratchford sits down with Murphy Monroe to explore how neurodivergent adults can thrive without compromising their authenticity. From practical self-advocacy tools to navigating relationships and careers, Murphy shares real-world strategies for building a life that works for you—not against you.
Feeling misaligned as a highly sensitive person? Maybe you're following the rules but something still feels off. In this episode of SelfKind, I'm exploring how knowing your values can not only shine a light on why you feel misaligned in certain places and spaces, but also transform decision-making, reduce overwhelm, and help you show up in ways that feel true to you as a highly sensitive person (HSP).As a highly sensitive person, “rules” can feel safe—but they can also pull you out of alignment if those rules (whether yours or someone else's) don't align with what is truly important to you. In this video I unpack values vs rules, why values-misalignment is so distressing for HSPs, and how a simple values lens can guide choices at work, in relationships, and in everyday life.In this episode you'll hear:
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Are you constantly showing up for others, but no one sees what it's costing you? This episode is a powerful acknowledgment of the invisible exhaustion that autistic and AuDHD women often carry—emotionally, mentally, and physically. You'll explore:12 core truths about what's really draining your energy How emotional suppression leads to burnout and disconnection Why masking creates deep internal confusion (and what to do instead) How helping professionals can support without adding pressure or shame Whether you're an autistic woman ready to reclaim your emotional world—or a therapist or coach supporting neurodivergent clients—this episode offers practical Root-to-Practice insights you can use today.
This week's podcast is for anyone who walks away from conversations feeling tense and drained. If one text, one tone of voice, or one last-minute change can throw you off for hours, this episode is for you. We'll talk about five simple ways to protect your energy without becoming a different person.Want meaningful relationships? Click here.Grab your spot at the Social Connections Summit!It's a free, 2-day virtual event happening September 24 and 25.You'll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who've lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.There'll be giveaways, special bonuses for those who invite others, and full access to replays—so don't sweat it if you can't make it live.Join us at www.socialconnectionssummit.com.#autisticadult #unmasking #latediagnosedautistic #friends
Autistic & AuDHD Humans Do Not "Understand" Hierarchy This month's Out From Behind The Paywall Episode is a Little Pod bonus episode that until today was on Patreon only. I'm talking about the AuDHD and Autistic tendency to not be motivated by social climbing and not wanting to cooperate with workplace hierarchies. I know what it's like to feel alone with your brain. That's why I make this show—and most of the deep-dive, honest stuff lives on Patreon. This episode is just a taste. If it helped you feel seen, come hang out with us. I'm giving listeners 50% off of their first month right now! You get bonus episodes, videos, and access to a private chat community where we all talk about our challenges being neurodivergent. Click this link https://www.patreon.com/c/ALOTADHDPOD to pay just $6 right now and use CODE C1782
Send us a textIn this inspiring episode of Adulting with Autism, host April Ratchford chats with Nathaniel A. Turner—author, TEDx speaker, and creator of the powerful “Life Template.” Nathaniel shares how he reverse-engineered his future to empower both himself and his son, despite challenges like ADHD and uncertainty.We explore:Why starting with your destination helps create any path to purposeHow neurodiverse adults can build clarity and drive through backward designThe emotional and practical tools used to thrive in education, career, and relationshipsWays to foster a legacy of impact for yourself and your loved onesWhether you're an autistic adult, caregiver, or ally, Nathaniel's wisdom helps you shift from survival mode to intentional living.Summit Spotlights1. Social Connections Summit 2025 A free virtual gathering on September 24–25 for late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals & allies.Learn accessibility tools for workplace connectionGet scripts for neurodivergent communicationJoin community and boost self-advocacy Register here
Tired of forgetting the self-care things that actually keep you thriving? In this episode of SelfKind - a podcast for Highly Sensitive People - I'm sharing the ultra-simple habit stack that finally got me taking my vitamins every single day—no guilt, no mental drama. If you're a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) or neurodivergent soul who tends to overthink wellness routines, this simple strategy could be a game-changer.In this episode you'll hear:❓ Why habit stacking works for Highly Sensitive People (and a shout-out to Atomic Habits by James Clear!)
Where have I been? Writing. This episode is an accurate reflection of my busy brain. Listen as I uncover what's been stopping me from showing up to record the podcast. Those cheeky BIG, BORING, IMPORTANT, VAGUE barriers. Lemme know if you liked this rambly-style episode, as I coached myself and reflected on how to navigate a completely valid ADHD-related challenge with compassion! My ADHD self-coaching tools: externalising thoughts via a journal, verbalising the challenge, breaking down the goal, lowering the bar to entry with a shorter episode, being specific by creating parameters around how to do the task, choosing 1% of action over inaction, and staying curious to find an entry point. Oh, and you're welcome to listen in 1.3 x speed. Don't worry, I do it too xx Tune in, subscribe, share with a friend to hear all about: Disclaimer: this is completely unscripted Ebbs and flows of consistent inconsistency Journal Ecosystem Tours on TikTok The Artist's Way: magic of *Morning Pages* Using ADHD self-coaching tools Favourite Journals: Leuchtturm 1917, Design Works Inc, Cath Kidston, Quirky Cup Collective Subscribe to my newsletter:
Send us a text“Community is where hope lives.”In this inspiring episode of Adulting With Autism, we sit down with Jamie Olson, the creator of Uniquely You Magazine, a publication written by and for the special needs community. Jamie shares her journey as a mom of three—including her 12-year-old son with autism and epilepsy—and how she's building spaces that connect, inspire, and empower families nationwide.Through her work as a publisher and community builder, Jamie is proving that sharing our stories and creating meaningful connections can bring hope, understanding, and practical support to neurodivergent families everywhere.
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In this Seventeenth episode of the Me, Myself and ND series Owen sits down with Scott Frampton of Sober_Compass on Instagram. Scott shares his experience of recovery, healing and the power of breathwork. Scott shares his journey with alcohol addiction and how his ADHD Diagnosis changed everything. We discuss the links between addictive behaviours and ADHD and addiction as a whole. This is a powerful and honest conversation about how we can work with our emotions, sensations and ND brains to live a more empowered life. Thank you to Scott for being on our show. Follow Scott's journey on Social media. Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sober_compass/ More about the show 'Me, Myself and ND. We dive into conversation with a guest on all things ADHD and other Neurodivergent brain presentations (should they be part of their experience). We will cover the run up to diagnosis, the diagnosis experience and how life unfolded afterwards. Including looking at the guests' passions and how they thrive. ND AND FREE AND ANKHWAY MUSHROOM GUMMIES ND & Free is in partnership with Ankhway Mushroom Gummies. A tasty supplement with 10 functional mushrooms bundled in a gummy. They can help with gaining sharper focus, a clearer mind, a more balanced mood, a natural energy boost and so much more. Enjoy 15% of your order at checkout with code 'OWEN15'. Find out more about the gummies at www.ankhway.com More about 'the ND & FREE' Podcast series Welcome back to the ND & FREE podcast brought to you by the Awareness Space Network. A podcast and social media platform that explores how ADHD'ers and other neurodivergent brain types can live their truth and feel free in their lives. We hear from inspiring COACHES, THERAPISTS, EXPERTS AND FELLOW ND'ers from all over the world, who sit down with me Owen Morgan to share their wisdom with us. Our mission is to explore how the human spirit and understanding our whole self can bring us a life full of possibilities Follow our instagram and TikTok for information, facts and useful content in and around Adhd, Autism and AuDHD. - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nd_and_free/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@nd_and_free?_t=8scJhGZ4Sp6&_r=1 These conversations are not a substitute for professional medical or therapeutic support. Please seek support of professionals trained within Neurodiversity support. Listen to episodes with care. Keep up to date with our latest posts on Instagram. Thank you for supporting the show,
Breaking Down Internalized Ableism Summary In this conversation, Patricia explores the concept of internalized ableism, particularly among neurodivergent individuals. She discusses how societal stigma and expectations can lead to negative self-perceptions and feelings of inadequacy. Patricia shares personal experiences and insights on how internalized ableism manifests in various aspects of life, including relationships, self-acceptance, and the pressure to conform to neurotypical standards. She emphasizes the importance of unlearning these hurtful beliefs and embracing one's neurodivergent identity with compassion and understanding. HIGHLIGHTS · Internalized ableism is the unconscious adoption of negative beliefs about oneself due to societal stigma. · Neurodivergent individuals often feel pressure to conform to neurotypical standards, which can lead to trauma. · Resting is a valid need and should not be seen as a failure. · Asking for accommodations is essential for well-being and should not induce guilt. · The concept of 'high functioning' can be harmful and does not reflect true capabilities. · Time agnosia is a common experience for neurodivergent individuals. · Self-compassion is crucial in overcoming internalized ableism. · Relationships can be affected by the fear of being a burden. · Unlearning internalized ableism involves recognizing and challenging societal expectations. · Embracing neurodivergence includes acknowledging strengths and practicing self-acceptance. 115 SPECIFIC POINTS DISCUSSED 1. How internalized ableism shows up in everyday life o Masking, pushing through burnout, or feeling "lazy" when you're resting. 2. Messages we absorbed growing up o From school, parents, peers, or media about being "too much," "distracted," "weird," or "wrong." 3. Perfectionism and people-pleasing as survival o How needing to be “better” or “easy to manage” is often rooted in internalized shame. 4. The trap of “not disabled enough” or “faking it” o How we invalidate our own struggles because we don't “look” stereotypically disabled. 5. ADHD, autism, OCD & “high-functioning” narratives o The myth of being “high functioning” and how it reinforces ableist expectations. 6. Feeling guilt for needing accommodations or rest o That voice that says “you're being difficult” when you ask for what you actually need. 7. Shame around executive dysfunction o Struggling to start tasks, follow through, or manage time — and blaming yourself. 8. Rejecting your own needs to fit in o Forcing eye contact, avoiding stimming, hiding rituals, not using noise-canceling headphones in public, etc. 9. The pressure to be “independent” all the time o How internalized capitalism + ableism equates needing support with being a failure. 10. Comparing yourself to neurotypical peers · Especially in productivity, relationships, or emotional regulation. 11. “If I can do it sometimes, I should always be able to” myth · Inconsistent ability = inconsistent worth? Nope. Talk about spoon theory and fluctuating capacity. 12. How OCD-specific traits are misunderstood or mocked · And how that seeps into how you see yourself (e.g., feeling “crazy,” “irrational,” or “a burden”). 13. Internalized ableism in dating & relationships · Fear of being too much, too emotional, or too rigid — and minimizing yourself as a result. 14. How healing looks like reclaiming your needs unapologetically · Self-accommodation, boundaries, rest, and neurodivergent joy as rebellion. 15. Relearning self-compassion and identity pride · Ending with hope: unmasking, connecting with community, and defining success on your own terms. SOUND BITES · "Rest is resistance." · "You are not broken." · "You deserve rest, joy, and support." SENSITIVITY IS NOTHING TO APOLOGIZE FOR; IT'S HOW YOUR BRAIN IS WIRED You are not broken. You were shaped by systems that weren't built for you. You deserve rest, joy, and support exactly as you are. CHAPTERS (please add time for addition of introduction) 00:00 Understanding Internalized Ableism 02:40 The Impact of Societal Expectations 05:31 Navigating Personal Experiences with Internalized Ableism 08:18 The Struggle for Accommodations 10:55 Executive Dysfunction and Inconsistent Abilities 14:01 The Pressure of Productivity 16:53 Feeling 'Not Enough' in Neurodivergence 19:43 Unlearning Internalized Ableism 22:27 Building Self-Compassion and Acceptance PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile, OCD and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you LINKS Rest Is Resistance: Free yourself from grind culture and reclaim your life by Tricia Hersey. Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/ Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6 To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review” Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com
This week's podcast explores when getting invited to a social gathering sends you into a spiral of self-doubt and uncertainty. If you overthink what to bring, worry about being judged, and feel like every social moment is a test you didn't study for, this episode is for you.Want meaningful relationships? Click here.Grab your spot at the Social Connections Summit!It's a free, 2-day virtual event happening September 24 and 25.You'll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who've lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.There'll be giveaways, special bonuses for those who invite others, and full access to replays—so don't sweat it if you can't make it live.Join us at www.socialconnectionssummit.com.#autisticadult #unmasking #latediagnosedautistic #friends
Rebecca is a mental health counsellor in Australia. Diagnosed at 47 — with level-two autism and ADHD combined type — she shares her story of self-recognition, complex emotions around diagnosis, and the challenges of navigating neurodivergence in both personal and professional life.Rebecca reflects on masking, internalized ableism, and how people-pleasing tendencies developed as survival strategies. The conversation also explores her work as a counsellor and how parenting neurodivergent children has shaped her own self-understanding.Topics explored include:The slow unmasking processHow late autism diagnosis reframes childhood memories and identityParenting with empathyAvoiding the pitfalls of compliance cultureThe nuanced relationship between sensitivity, empathy, and strengthDisbelief from healthcare professionals and the impact of diagnostic invalidationWatch this episode on YouTube.Rebecca recommends these resources:Camouflaging Autistic Traits Questionnaire (CAT-Q)Embrace Autism websiteIs This Autism? — A Guide for Clinicians and Everyone Else by Donna Henderson and Sarah Wayland, with Jamell WhiteThe Neurodivergent Woman podcast Theme music: "Everything Feels New" by Evgeny Bardyuzha. All episodes written and produced by Kristen Hovet.Send in your questions or thoughts via audio or video recording for a chance to be featured on the show! Email your audio or video clips to otherautism@gmail.com through WeTransfer. Buy me a coffee!Buy The Other Autism merch. Use code FREESHIP for free shipping on orders over $75 USD! The views, opinions, and experiences shared by guests on this podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host or production team. The content is intended for informational purposes only and should not be taken as medical or professional advice. Please consult with a qualified healthcare provider before making any decisions related to your health, fitness, or wellness.
Send us a textIn this powerful episode of Adulting with Autism, host April Ratchford welcomes Beatty Carmichael, a leading expert on the spiritual roots of mental health, chronic pain, and emotional struggles. With over 25 years of experience, Beatty reveals why most medical solutions only treat symptoms—and how identifying the true spiritual root can create lasting freedom.Discover:✅ How chronic pain, depression, and anxiety can disappear in days✅ The 3 steps to uncovering the spiritual causes behind mental and physical health struggles✅ Real-life breakthroughs from over 1,000 clients and a 90% documented success rate✅ How Beatty's book The Prayer of Freedom can help you unlock your own healing journey
Maria Bowler recently published the book Making Time: A New Vision for Crafting a Life beyond Productivity. It's a relaxing take on doing what you want to do, and feeling okay while doing it.One of the main themes is being present, and being true to yourself even if you're doing boring stuff you don't want to do. Finding those moments of resonance that turn the entire activity into building self-trust.If you already read the book and found it resonant even though it doesn't mention AuDHD... that's because Maria is AuDHD and snuck all that good neurodivergent content in!Connect with Maria: Maria's website, MariaBowler.comMaria's Substackthe book Making Time (affiliate link)Resources:Transcript DocMattia's NewsletterLike Your Brain community space (Patreon/Discord) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Some Challenges in Neurodivergent Communication Summary In this episode, Patricia discusses the challenges faced by AuDHDers and other neurodivergent individuals in communication, particularly regarding lack of responding to messages. She explores the concept of internalized ableism and how it affects self-perception and interactions. Patricia shares personal experiences and insights on the importance of flexibility in relationships and the need for authenticity in communication. The conversation emphasizes the struggles of neurodivergent individuals, including executive functioning challenges, and the significance of self-acceptance and understanding in navigating social situations. HIGHLIGHTS It's not uncommon for neurodivergent individuals to struggle with responding to messages. · Internalized ableism can affect how we perceive our struggles. · Flexibility in relationships is helpful for understanding each other's challenges. · People often have their own timeframes for communication. · It's important to give ourselves permission to not always follow plans. · Authenticity in communication can foster better relationships. · Neurodivergent individuals often attract other neurodivergent friends and partners with similar experiences. · Comparison can lead to feelings of inadequacy among neurodivergent individuals. · Being open about our struggles can help others feel validated. · Sensitivity is a natural part of being neurodivergent and should be embraced. SOUND BITES "I have so much room for that." "We have a hard time taking breaks." "It's hard for me to not compare." SENSITIVITY IS NOTHING TO APOLOGIZE FOR; IT'S HOW YOUR BRAIN IS WIRED · You have a right to be joyful, forgetful, ableist, non-ableist, stimmy, non-stimmy. · You're not for everyone. Everyone's not for you. · It's okay to push through. · It's okay to rest. It's okay to compare. · It's okay to trust that how you show up in the world is fine and all you have to do is be you and who is meant to be in your life will be there and the people that aren't, will drop away. CHAPTERS 00:00 Navigating Communication Challenges 06:35 Understanding Internalized Ableism 11:39 The Struggles of Neurodivergence 17:24 The Importance of Authenticity in Relationships PODCAST HOST Patricia Young, she/her was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile, OCD and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive, and Unapologetically AuDHD to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you LINKS Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/ Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6 Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4 To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review” Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com
In this episode, I talk about how we label people "friends" but never set expectations on how we want a "friend" to show up for us. We'll look at some common types of friends and how I categorize my relationships to keep me from expecting too much and being disappointed.Want meaningful relationships? Click here.Grab your spot at the Social Connections Summit!It's a free, 2-day virtual event happening September 24 and 25.You'll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who've lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.There'll be giveaways, special bonuses for those who invite others, and full access to replays—so don't sweat it if you can't make it live.Join us at www.socialconnectionssummit.com.#autisticadult #unmasking #latediagnosedautistic #friends
In this episode: Most people don't associate ADHD with hope — but they should. This episode explores the science behind hope as a cognitive process. Drawing on research I look at how hope is built, how it functions in the brain, and how it can get eroded by chronic adversity — especially for people with ADHD and AuDHD. If you've been struggling with follow-through, feeling stuck, or wondering why things feel harder than they “should,” this is an episode that explains why — and how you can cultivate hope! SHOW NOTES Jen's Every 10 Day Newsletter: “This Is A Lot” Call The “A Lot” Line at (347) 674-2201 Send an email to the podcast at alotadhdpod at gmail dot com 30 FREE DAYS to BRAIN FM Wire Your Brain For Focus! 15% Off HUGIMALS weighted stuffed animals with code JENKIRKMAN 15% off APPOINTED planners & notebooks with code JENKIRKMAN SOURCES Build Resilience By Learning To Hope; ADDitude Magazine Promoting Hope in ADHD; Dr. Hallowell The Gift of Hope; Dig Coaching The Science And Power Of Hope; Dr. Chan Hellman
This episode is about how education works better when people are relaxed about it, how gatekeeping is a capitalist ploy to keep us separate, and how communication is my goal - not “proper” language. Trigger warning: mention of an unpleasant bodily function - skip from 7:20ish to 8min.
Are you craving deeper conversation as a Highly Sensitive Person? Wonder why small talk leaves you feeling flat? Or why your thoughts only settle into meaning once you say them out loud?In this episode of SelfKind—a podcast for Highly Sensitive People—I unpack two often-overlooked essentials for HSP wellbeing:
What happens when your buyer doesn't respond how you expect? In this powerful episode, Sam Wakefield unpacks how to recognize and adapt to neurodivergent communication in the home — from autism to ADHD to AuDHD and beyond. Learn how to modify your approach without losing the heart of the sale.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Common traits and behaviors of neurodivergent buyersHow to spot communication friction (without labeling anyone)Adapting your tone, tempo, and scripting in real timeWhy clear frameworks like the Permission Stack make sales easierCreating safety and clarity in high-stakes conversationsResources & Links:Download the Close It Now Follow-Up System: https://www.closeitnow.net/coachingWatch this series on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CloseitnowsalesJoin the Close It Now Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/closeitnowBook Sam for live training or coaching: https://www.closeitnow.netLet's Connect:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealcloseitnowLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/closeitnowWebsite: https://www.closeitnow.netFinal Thought:You don't need to be a psychologist to sell with empathy — but if you ignore neurodivergence, you're leaving trust (and tickets) on the table. This is how you serve every homeowner at the highest level.
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Epi 131 - Working With The Mind & Our Thoughts as ADHD'ers - With Leah Carroll - The ND Thrive Guide Epi 20 In this twentieth episode of 'THE ND THRIVE GUIDE' we have ADHD Life and Mindset Coach Leah Carroll. Owen and Leah discuss how our mindset around ADHD and how we relate to our inner voice can hold us back. We unpack the impact of rigid thinking, black and white thinking, Perfectionism and how we can thrive in our own unique way. . We hear about Leah's diagnosis journey and her why, for supporting the Neurodivergent community. Thank you Leah. WHAT IS THE ND THRIVE GUIDE 'ND Thrive Guide' Series, we will explore how to live a full, thriving and authentic life with our Neurodivergent Brain. A show all about hope and growth. Tips, advice and ideas from coaches, therapists and experts. Thank you to all our experts. MORE ON LEAH. Leah helps fellow ADHDers stop relying solely on meds and advice from Instagram reels, and start building a real-life toolbox to navigate life with more control and way less chaos. While medication can be life-changing, pills don't teach skills and that's where coaching can be a game-changer in learning how to actually work with your ADHD brain. Through 1:1 coaching, small group programs, and a soon-to-launch monthly membership, Leah supports the neurodivergent community with realistic, sustainable strategies tailored to your specific brand of ADHD. Her work centers around less shame, more self-trust, and helping ADHDers finally feel like they're not doing it all wrong. Check out Leah links - Website - https://leahccoaching.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/adhd.coach.leah/ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/leahdcarroll/ ND & Free is in partnership with Ankhway Mushroom Gummies. A tasty supplement with 10 functional mushrooms bundled in a gummy. They can help with gaining shaper focus, a clearer mind, a more balanced mood, a natural energy boost and so much more. Enjoy 15% of your order at checkout with code 'OWEN15'. Find out more about the gummies at www.ankhway.com More about The ND & FREE Podcast series Welcome back to the ND & FREE podcast brought to you by the Awareness Space Network. A podcast and social media platform that explores how ND'ers can live their truth and feel free in their lives. We hear from inspiring COACHES, THERAPISTS, EXPERTS AND FELLOW ND'ers from all over the world, who sit down with me Owen Morgan to share their wisdom with us. Our mission is to explore how the human spirit and understanding our whole self can bring us a life full of possibilities Check out our website https://www.ndandfree.com/ Follow our instagram and TikTok for information, facts and useful content in and around Adhd, Autism and AuDHD. - Instagram https://www.instagram.com/nd_and_free/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@nd_and_free?_t=8scJhGZ4Sp6&_r=1 These conversations are not a substitute for professional medical or therapeutic support. Please seek support from professionals trained within Neurodiversity support. Listen to episodes with care. Keep up to date with our latest posts on Instagram. Thank you for supporting the show, Owen
Coping and Prepatory Strategies for Overstimulating Situations Summary In this episode, Patricia discusses her experiences with content creation, coping strategies for overstimulation, and managing sensory sensitivities during significant life events like weddings. She shares insights on emotional preparation, adjusting to changes in family dynamics, and maintaining a healthy work-life balance to prevent burnout. Throughout the conversation, she emphasizes the importance of self-care, embracing imperfection, and recognizing the rights of individuals to rest and be themselves. HIGHLIGHTS · I struggle with overstimulation at events. · Earplugs help me manage sensory sensitivities. · Having a plan can reduce anxiety before events. · It's okay to slow down and take breaks. · I feel a little jealous of my husband's attention to our kids. · Managing workload is about finding balance. · I have a right to rest and take care of myself. · Sensitivity is nothing to apologize for. · Embracing imperfection is key to self-acceptance. SOUND BITES "Done is better than perfect." "It's okay to slow down." "I have a right to rest." SENSITIVITY IS NOTHING TO APOLOGIZE FOR; IT'S HOW YOUR BRAIN IS WIRED · You have a right to rest. · you have a right to push through. · you have a right to be nervous and anxious and to overthink. · You have a right to use tools that help you. · You have a right to be stimmy and happy and loud and bouncy. · You have a right to be quiet and reserved and to rest and to take care of yourself. CHAPTERS 00:00 Navigating Content Creation Challenges 01:22 Coping Strategies for Overstimulation 05:35 Managing Sensory Sensitivities at Events 10:17 Emotional Preparation for Major Life Events 15:42 Adjusting to Changes in Family Dynamics 18:45 Work-Life Balance and Preventing Burnout 25:22 Overcoming Perfectionism and Embracing Imperfection PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile, OCD and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you LINKS Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/ Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6 Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4 To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review” Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com
In this episode, I talk about the heartbreak of being blamed for the very conversations that could bring you closer, how desperation for connection can push people further away and most importantly, what you can do about it.Want meaningful relationships? Click here.Group coaching is finally here. 12 weeks. 4 people. 1 massive transformation.We start July 30: Learn more.Grab your spot at the Social Connections Summit!It's a free, 2-day virtual event happening September 24 and 25.You'll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who've lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.There'll be giveaways, special bonuses for those who invite others, and full access to replays—so don't sweat it if you can't make it live.Join us at www.socialconnectionssummit.com.#autisticadult #unmasking #trust #latediagnosedautistic #rejection
EPISODE 49: An ADHD Guide To Cortisol + 13 Tips To Lower Your Cortisol Levels In this episode: Exhaustion during the day, racing thoughts at night, sleep problems, anxiety, and unexplained inflammation can all be signs of a nervous system stuck in high-alert mode. While dopamine gets most of the attention in ADHD conversations, cortisol — the body's primary stress hormone — plays a major role in how energy, focus, and fatigue are regulated. High cortisol, not low, is often behind chronic stress patterns in people with ADHD and AuDHD. I give tips on how to interrupt your long-term stress loop in ways your nervous system can actually handle. SOURCES The Intersection of ADHD and Hormones, CHADD The WorkOut Witch The Complex PTSD Workbook SHOW NOTES "You Are A LOT" Podcast on Patreon "You Are A LOT" Podcast Website Jen's Every 10 Day Newsletter: “This Is A Lot” Call The “A Lot” Line at (347) 674-2201 Send an email to the podcast at alotadhdpod at gmail dot com 30 FREE DAYS to BRAIN FM Wire Your Brain For Focus! $50 Group ADHD Coaching (Jen's Coach) 15% Off HUGIMALS weighted stuffed animals with code JENKIRKMAN
CW: Addiction & BullyingBestselling author and broadcaster Matt Cain opens up about discovering autism and ADHD at 50 after decades of feeling "othered" as a gay man.In this chat with Ben, Matt unpacks how his autism and ADHD were long blurred with queer expression, explains how ADHD fuels his creative work but also complicates his relationship with alcohol, and emphasises why "coming out" as proudly neurodivergent- just as he has as a gay man- is so vital._________________On "The Hidden 20%," host Ben Branson chats with neurodivergent [ADHD, Autism, Dyscalculia, Dyslexia, Dyspraxia, Tourette's etc.] creatives, entrepreneurs, and experts to see how great minds.. think differently.Host: Ben BransonHead of Production: Bella NealeAssistant Producer: Phoebe De LeiburnéVideo Editor: James ScrivenSocial Media Manager: Charlie YoungMusic: Jackson GreenbergBrought to you by charity The Hidden 20% #1203348__________________Follow & subscribe…Website: www.hidden20.orgInstagram / TikTok / Youtube / X: @Hidden20podcastBen Branson @seedlip_benMatt Cain @mattcainwriterIf you'd like to support The Hidden 20%, you can buy a "green dot" badge at https://www.hidden20.org/thegreendot/p/badge. All proceeds go to the charity. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
What if your buyer wasn't “difficult”—just different? In this eye-opening episode, we kick off the Neuro-Aware Selling mini-series by breaking down how neurodivergence influences communication and decision-making. You'll walk away with tools to sell more effectively, respectfully, and confidently to a segment of the population that's been misunderstood for too long.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeThe definition of neurodivergence and why it matters in sales todayHow Autism, ADHD, Dyslexia, and AuDHD show up in buyer behaviorCommunication signals to look for in the fieldWhy clarity, pacing, and permission are vital for ND buyersHow emotionally intelligent selling leads to better resultsThe opportunity cost of ignoring neurodivergent needsResources & Links
Overstimulation & Recharge and the Impact on Relationships In this conversation, Patricia explores the themes of overstimulation, the importance of recharging, and the dynamics of friendship, particularly in the context of neurodivergence. She shares her personal experiences with protesting, the challenges of feeling safe in crowds, and the emotional complexities of friendships, including rejection sensitivity, and the trauma that many Autistics have experienced in relationships. The discussion emphasizes the need for self-care, understanding one's limits, and the significance of connection in navigating life's challenges. HIGHLIGHTS · We often need to recharge after overstimulation. · Protesting can be a positive experience despite initial fears. · It's important to communicate needs in friendships. · Rejection sensitivity can affect how we perceive relationships. · Predictability and routine can provide comfort for neurodivergent individuals. · Self-care is essential for emotional regulation. · Understanding our triggers can help in managing our responses. · Friendships can change, and it's okay to let go. · We should honor our sensitivity and the way we connect with others. · It's important to recognize that not everyone is meant for us. SOUND BITES "You have a right to rest." "You are not meant for everyone." SENSITIVITY IS NOTHING TO APOLOGIZE FOR; IT'S HOW YOUR BRAIN IS WIRED You have a right to reach out to friends. You have a right to rest. You have a right to be playful. You have a right to be serious and quiet. Our idea of fun is not always what a neurotypical's idea of fun is, and that could be studying a language, studying something that you're interested in, doing a craft project, spending time with animals. You have a right to be quiet. You have a right to be loud. You are not meant for everyone and everyone is not meant for you. CHAPTERS 00:00 Navigating Overstimulation and Recharge 06:04 Experiencing Protest: A Personal Journey 11:54 Friendship Dynamics and Rejection Sensitivity 18:48 Patterns of Engagement and Disengagement PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile, OCD and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you LINKS Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/ Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6 Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4 To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review” Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com
Sign up for the FREE Masterclass- How to Build a 7-Figure Group Practice → https://mccancemethod.com/webinar-free-masterclass-from-solo-to-superteam/ In this episode, I'm joined again by Patrick Casale to tackle a key challenge for group practice owners—therapist retention. We share what's worked in our own practices to build teams that stay, including how to balance profit with a positive culture, foster loyalty, and lead in a way that aligns with your values. If you're ready to stop the turnover cycle and create a team that thrives long-term, this episode is for you.Make sure to bring your paper and pen because this episode is full of actionable tips!Here are some key points in this episode:[02:12] Patrick explains why investing in people actually increases your profitability[06:02] Why transitioning from 1099s to W2s helped create stronger retention and culture[09:44] Patrick shares how his therapists earn an average of $80K annually with benefits[13:07] Non-monetary strategies for building a strong culture on a limited budget[15:01] How Patrick uses virtual game nights and connection groups to build belonging[19:15] Patrick's $100K mistake and how transparency helped him grow a loyal teamLinks From The Episode:More about Patrick:Patrick Casale is an AuDHD‑licensed Mental Health & Addiction Therapist who launched his first private practice after graduating in 2015 and later built a thriving group practice of over 20 clinicians. He is the founder of All Things Private Practice, the host of two podcasts, an international retreat planner, keynote speaker, and business strategist. Since 2008, he's supported thousands of mental health professionals in growing their businesses, with a mission rooted in empowering neurodivergent clinicians and addressing imposter syndrome through his motto “Doubt Yourself, Do It Anyway”.Want to Connect with Patrick?All Things Private Practice Website: https://allthingspractice.comAll Things Private Practice Podcast: https://www.allthingspractice.com/all-things-private-practice-podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/patrick.casale/#YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCr_LFaJ_SGwM9LjUFaiL_FAFollow me on Instagram, @nicole.mccanncemethod. If this episode provided you with value and inspiration, please leave a review and DM to let me know. Click here: https://www.instagram.com/nicole.mccancemethod Join the FREE private community for therapists: Expand your Psychotherapy Practice → https://www.facebook.com/groups/947689352498639 Sign up for the FREE Masterclass- How to Build a 7-Figure Group Practice→ https://mccancemethod.com/webinar-free-masterclass-from-solo-to-superteam/
Matt Gupwell is a globally recognised ADHD mentor, who's work has helped millions of people understand their neurodivergent brains He's the most powerful voice in the ADHD & Autism space and an expert in all things AuDHD, helping you optimise your ADHD in ALL sectors 00:00 Trailer 03:10 What are your specialties within the ADHD or Autism space? 10:04 Early life ADHD diagnosis VS late life ADHD diagnosis 19:47 Processing a diagnosis: men VS women 22:34 The truth about neurodiversity and loneliness 29:14 Tiimo advert 37:19 The ADHD coping strategy called ‘Cages' 55:38 The truth about ADHD and grieving 01:02:05 Medication 01:08:26 New ADHD research 01:16:59 The ADHD agony aunt section 01:20:21 A letter from the previous guest Find Matt on Linkedin
Send us a textDr. Micah Perez is a Filipino-Australian occupational therapist, educator, and entrepreneur who proudly identifies as an AuDHDer. She joins Adulting with Autism to share how neurodiversity-affirming OT, executive function coaching, and short-term therapy models are transforming care for autistic and ADHD adults. With a PhD in Clinical Neuroscience and over 14 years of experience, Micah brings clarity, evidence, and compassion to everything she does.We explore the flaws in traditional OT models, how migraine and invisible illness intersect with Autism and ADHD, and how we can build freedom and function without shame. Micah's work is rooted in lived experience and her powerful motto: “Neurodiversity is your superpower.”
Lessons learned from ~17 years of therapy over the last 20 years. How I'd approach therapy now based on that.What to look for in therapists, goal-setting in therapy, and reasons to quit your current therapist. Also connects back to last week's interview with Joe about AuDHD therapy.Links mentioned:Book Decolonizing Therapy (also mentioned last week, affiliate link)Blog post on finding a neurodivergent-affirming therapist (with links)More resources suggested by a community member:Dueling Minds, AuDHD SupportAutistic Girls Network in-person support groups for adultsADHD Support Groups in Canada (CADDAC)ADDA Virtual Support for ADHDResources:Transcript DocEmail Newsletter: Nothing Wrong With UsLike Your Brain community space (Patreon/Discord) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this 1:1 interview, Grace finally gets her wonderful mother-in-law Judy into the pod loft for an AuDHD chat.
Performative Expectations vs. Honoring Your Neurodivergent (AuDHD) Needs In this conversation, Patricia discusses the challenges of navigating personal truths, autonomy, and performative expectations, particularly as an AuDHDer. Patricia reflects on her struggles with body image, the importance of self-trust, the need for autonomy (PDA), honoring her needs as a neurodivergent human, and prioritizing her comfort. She also addresses social anxiety, the joy of spontaneity, and the balance between assertiveness and sensitivity in relationships. Ultimately, Patricia emphasizes personal growth and the acceptance of one's unique identity through the planning and execution of her son's wedding. HIGHLIGHTS · Navigating personal truths is essential for autonomy, and working with PDA (pervasive or persistent drive for autonomy) · Performative expectations can override the needs of the human. · Body image issues are apt to come up when asked to wear clothes one doesn't normally wear. · Self-trust is crucial in making personal choices. · Finding comfort in clothing is important for self-regulation, and feeling authentic. · Fear of overwhelm and dysregulation can be mitigated with preparation. · Embracing spontaneity can enhance connections with others. · Assertiveness is necessary in family dynamics. · Personal growth often comes from challenging experiences. · Sensitivity is a strength, not a weakness. SOUND BITES "This is not about getting married." "I felt so present." "I really wanted to honor the bride." "I was very disheartened." "I fell in love with it." SENSITIVITY IS NOTHING TO APOLOGIZE FOR; IT'S HOW YOUR BRAIN IS WIRED You have a right to trust that you are exactly where you need to be. There's not anything you need to do. Your value and worth does not come from being productive. You can be stimmy. You can be joyful. You can be quiet. You can be assertive. You can be moving your body. You can be still. You can want to touch all of the dogs in the world, and all of the horses. You can want to be left alone. You can enjoy being with people not being with people. Every single part of you is okay exactly the way you are. CHAPTERS 00:00 Navigating Personal Truths and Autonomy 03:01 The Impact of Performative Expectations 05:55 Body Image and Self-Trust 09:11 Finding Comfort in Personal Choices 12:11 Overcoming Social Anxiety and Overstimulation 14:52 Embracing Spontaneity and Connection 18:08 Balancing Assertiveness and Sensitivity 20:46 Reflections on Personal Growth and Relationships PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile, OCD and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you LINKS Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/ Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6 Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4 To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review” Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com