Podcasts about trauma bonds

Why Can't You Let Go? Trauma Bonds, Infidelity & How to Break Free If you've ever asked yourself, “Why can't I walk away even after everything they did?” — this episode is for you. Lora Cheadle breaks down the truth about trauma bonds: what they are, how they form, and why they make it so hard to leave someone who has betrayed you. You'll learn the neuroscience behind trauma bonding, how ancestral patterns may be keeping you stuck, and the legal and somatic reasons why this type of bond feels like life or death. Through heartfelt insights, somatic tools, and practical steps for reclaiming your power, you'll walk away with more clarity—and a plan to finally break free. Whether you're just starting your healing journey or feeling stuck in the cycle of apology and hope, this episode delivers the aha moments you've been waiting for. TOP 3 TAKEAWAYS: Trauma Bonds Are Biological, Not Weakness: You're not crazy for still feeling attached to someone who hurt you. Trauma bonding is a survival-based, chemical loop created by cycles of betrayal and apology—and it's completely normal (but breakable). Your History Could Be Keeping You Hooked: Ancestral patterns and family modeling may be wiring you to stay stuck in trauma bonds. Lora explains how generational trauma gets passed down—and how to be the one who ends the cycle. You Can Break the Bond Through Body and Soul: From breathwork and somatic anchors to legal awareness and agency-building micro-acts, Lora outlines four powerful steps to reclaim your autonomy and start healing your nervous system for real. Ready to create your own Hot Girl Summer? Join us at SparkleAllSeason.com for a soulful, sexy, and supportive summer of confidence, connection, and comeback. It's your time to glow—inside and out! https://lora-cheadle.kit.com/347883581d Subscribe, Rate & Review: If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend and leave a review—it helps other women find the support they need! Don't miss Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! 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If you've ever asked yourself, “Why can't I walk away even after everything they did?” — this episode is for you. Lora Cheadle breaks down the truth about trauma bonds: what they are, how they form, and why they make it so hard to leave someone who has betrayed you. You'll learn the neuroscience behind trauma bonding, how ancestral patterns may be keeping you stuck, and the legal and somatic reasons why this type of bond feels like life or death. Through heartfelt insights, somatic tools, and practical steps for reclaiming your power, you'll walk away with more clarity—and a plan to finally break free. Whether you're just starting your healing journey or feeling stuck in the cycle of apology and hope, this episode delivers the aha moments you've been waiting for.   TOP 3 TAKEAWAYS: Trauma Bonds Are Biological, Not Weakness: You're not crazy for still feeling attached to someone who hurt you. Trauma bonding is a survival-based, chemical loop created by cycles of betrayal and apology—and it's completely normal (but breakable). Your History Could Be Keeping You Hooked: Ancestral patterns and family modeling may be wiring you to stay stuck in trauma bonds. Lora explains how generational trauma gets passed down—and how to be the one who ends the cycle. You Can Break the Bond Through Body and Soul: From breathwork and somatic anchors to legal awareness and agency-building micro-acts, Lora outlines four powerful steps to reclaim your autonomy and start healing your nervous system for real.  

Have you or somebody you care about ever been in a toxic relationship? If so, it's possible that it was a trauma bond. Knowledge is power, and understanding and recognizing the signs of this type of relationship can be life-changing. In this show, host Gretta interviews Jordanne Sculler, LMHC, about trauma bonds and ghosting. Jordanne is a licensed therapist and mental health expert in New York City, and is dedicated to helping individuals and couples unlock their potential for growth, self-awareness, and authentic connection. Tune in to Discover:• The Trauma Bond Stages: love bombing, trust and dependency, criticism, gaslighting, emotional addiction, loss of self, and resignation• Why ghosting happens in trauma bonds and toxic relationships• How to break out of a trauma bond and heal To anyone out there who is healing after being in a trauma bond: You can get better. Please take it one day at a time. Connect With GrettaFree & Private Facebook Support Group | Instagram | YouTube | copingwithghosting.comHost Gretta Perlmutter, MA, a Certified Post Betrayal Transformation® Coach, delivers evidence-based strategies for turning personal betrayal into a powerful catalyst for growth and healing.Connect With Jordanne Website |  InstagramMusic: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools. Coping With Ghosting does not provide health care or psychological therapy services and does not diagnose or treat any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or registered professionals.Please take my survey: I'm launching a low-cost membership for those of you who want deeper support after being ghosted or betrayed. Nothing's set in stone yet — I want you to help shape it.

Have you ever watched someone you care about repeatedly return to a relationship that's clearly hurting them, despite all logic and reason? Or found yourself unable to break free from a partner who alternates between cruel indifference and intoxicating affection? Tony Overbay, LMFT, comprehensively examines all of the factors at play in hopes of shining a light on understanding and ultimately healing from one of psychology's most misunderstood phenomena: trauma bonding. Tony explains how the same mechanisms that kept B.F. Skinner's rats frantically pressing a lever for unpredictable rewards are at work in toxic relationships. He explains the biological "amygdala hijack" that literally shuts down one's ability to think rationally when anxiety strikes and why well-meaning advice like "just don't worry about it" actually makes things worse through psychological reactance. This comprehensive episode covers: The neurological science behind trauma bonding and why it creates addiction-like withdrawal symptoms How childhood experiences shape our relationship with emotions and set us up for unhealthy patterns Why telling someone "don't think about it" guarantees they'll think about it more The critical difference between guilt ("I did something bad") and shame ("I am bad") Practical ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) techniques like expansion and mindfulness The powerful Buddhist salt and water metaphor for managing emotional pain Why no one—not even identical twins—experiences the world exactly as you do How to break the cycle of seeking external validation that keeps you trapped Whether you're personally experiencing a trauma bond, supporting someone who is, or simply want to understand why people stay in painful relationships, this episode provides compassionate insight and practical tools for healing. Tony's conversational style makes complex psychological concepts accessible while offering hope that with time, understanding, and the right support, you can reclaim your emotional autonomy and build healthier connections. 00:00 Introduction: The Impact of 'Say Anything' 01:21 Setting the Stage: Understanding Relationship Dynamics 01:50 Who This Episode is For 03:10 Introduction to Trauma Bonding 04:03 Welcome to the Virtual Couch 04:35 Engage with Us: Social Media and Upcoming Events 07:04 The Concept of Trauma Bonding 16:51 The Science Behind Trauma Bonding 21:25 Understanding the Amygdala Hijack 21:49 The Impact of Stress Hormones on the Brain 23:03 The Cycle of Trauma Bonding 24:21 The Ineffectiveness of Well-Meaning Advice 24:59 Psychological Reactance and the White Bear Effect 26:24 Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) 28:18 The Concept of Expansion 30:05 Mindfulness and Changing Your Relationship with Thoughts 32:27 Guilt vs. Shame 34:11 Healing from Trauma Bonds 36:45 The Importance of Self-Validation 43:43 Seeking Support and Practicing Mindfulness

Dr. Laura Copley believes that at the core of most toxic relationships is a painful trauma wound desperate to be healed. She contends that trauma survivors try to navigate romantic relationships in the only way they know how – fearfully and painfully. She discusses how to untangle trauma bonds and transmute toxic patterns into healing opportunities for intimacy and connection. Dr. Copley is a licensed professional counselor and trauma researcher. Her new book is Loving You Is Hurting Me: A New Approach to Healing Trauma Bonds and Creating Authentic Connection.

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If you're curious as to whether you have any stored emotions or trauma that might be causing your illness, preventing you from achieving your best, or even just showing up as the best, authentic version of yourself, I invite you to take my free Stored Emotions and Trauma Quiz.In this episode, you'll learn how to identify which stage of healing you're in, what to do when you're stuck in pain and symptoms, how trauma can show up physically, and why nervous system regulation is the key to moving forward.Timestamps:[00:00] Introduction[00:45] The three stages of healing[01:28] What the pain and symptom stage looks like[02:35] How to know what stage of healing you're in[03:08] Tips for starting the healing process[03:45] Why physical pain blocks emotional healing[04:30] Common physical symptoms from trauma[05:12] How to know where to start when healing[05:46] The problem with one-size-fits-all approaches[06:32] Understanding the cell danger response[07:08] Sympathetic vs parasympathetic nervous system[07:46] How to calm the nervous system[08:14] Case study introduction: Sarah[09:24] Importance of symptom tracking[10:32] Hormonal imbalances and autoimmunity[11:10] Gut symptoms linked to emotional suppression[11:54] Brain fog, memory issues, and mood symptoms[12:36] Signs of trauma in relationships[13:06] Why adverse childhood experiences matter[13:45] What to do when symptoms feel overwhelming[14:20] The value of connecting with others who relate[15:02] Limitations of traditional talk therapy[15:39] Why some elimination diets don't work[16:20] Case example of treatment customization[17:03] Supporting the body before trauma work[17:40] Signs someone isn't ready for deep work[18:26] Managing medication and mental fog[19:10] Importance of starting with what's manageable[20:54] Healing applies to entrepreneurs, too[22:48] Addressing root causes and stress[23:25] How emotional setbacks affected her gut[24:00] Functional medicine vs trauma work[25:04] How trauma bonds affect relationships[27:28] Understanding healing through clarity[28:02] Prioritizing self over others[30:20] Keep trying different approaches[30:52] Don't let bad days become bad years[31:24] When to start emotional healing work[32:00] Recognizing when you're stuck[32:30] Handling the ups and downs of healing[33:02] What to expect when you start treatment[33:36] Small changes can cause ripple effects[34:36] Simple tools for nervous system support[35:06] Importance of having someone to talk to[35:42] Let yourself feel hard moments[36:10] Taking the first step when you're stuckFind More From Dr. Stephanie Davis:Thrive Mama Tribe | WebsiteThrive Mama Tribe | InstagramThrive Mama Tribe | Skool

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"How do you rebuild when everything you've known is completely shattered in a single day?"In this powerful episode of Life in Transition, host Art Blanchford speaks with Melissa Saleh about her journey through devastating loss and remarkable rebirth. Melissa shares how a single day in 2014—when she lost her daughter at birth—shattered her entire existence, leading to the end of her marriage, career, and life in New York City. She describes the process of hitting rock bottom and how she began rebuilding in Charleston, South Carolina, finding healing through food, nature, and putting creative energy into renovating her home.Melissa reveals how trauma invaded her nervous system and required years of intensive healing work, including a dedicated year focused solely on trauma therapy. She discusses developing powerful intuitive skills, learning to surrender to pain instead of avoiding it, and how this transformation led to a loving marriage and two healthy children that doctors said would be impossible. The conversation offers profound insights on living with uncertainty, the importance of self-love, and how trauma can be transcended—not eliminated—to create a meaningful, authentic life aligned with one's deepest values.Melissa Saleh is a force of nature—former lawyer and journalist turned serial entrepreneur, masterful storyteller, and advocate for survivors of trauma. With a career spanning technology, media, and brand strategy, she has shaped the narratives of Fortune 500 giants and startups alike, helping them carve out their place in a fast-moving world. As the co-founder of FairPlayAI, she works to promote equity and reduce bias in automated decision-making.About The Show: The Life in Transition, hosted by Art Blanchford focuses on making the most of the changes we're given every week. Art has been through hundreds of transitions in his life. Many have been difficult, but all have led to a depth and richness he could never have imagined. On the podcast Art explores how to create more love and joy in life, no matter what transitions we go through. Art is married to his lifelong partner, a proud father of three and a long-time adventurer and global business executive. He is the founder and leader of the Midlife Transition Mastery Community. Learn more about the MLTM Community here: www.lifeintransition.online. In This Episode: (00:00) Melissa's Devastating Loss, The Bottle Analogy: Complete Shattering(05:38) The Inevitable End of Marriage and New York Life(12:30) Going to Zero: Healing A Dark Night of the Soul(17:22) Learning Through the Process of Rebuilding(25:06) MidLife Transition Mastery Ad(27:06) Finding Healing in Charleston(36:21) Nourishment Through Food and Connecting with Chefs(48:53) Transition Mastery Coaching Ad(47:30) Developing Intuitive Skills and Their Power(56:33) Trauma Bonds(01:02:30) Purpose Greater Than Pain(1:10:00) Feeling Your Pain: The Key to Transcendence(1:12:27) Connecting with Melissa and Final ThoughtsResources:Melissa Saleh Website: https://www.melissasaleh.com/Melissa Saleh LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-saleh/Email Art BlanchfordLife in Transition WebsiteLife in Transition on IGLife in Transition on FBJoin Our Community: https://www.lifeintransition.online/My new book "PURPOSEFUL LIVING" is out now. Order it now: https://www.amazon.com/PURPOSEFUL-LIVING-Wisdom-Coming-Complex/dp/1963913922Explore our website https://lifeintransitionpodcast.com/ for more in-depth information and resources, and to download the 8-step guide to mastering mid-life transitions.The views and opinions expressed on the “Life In Transition” podcast are solely those of the author and guests and should not be attributed to any other individual or entity. This podcast is an independent production of Life In Transition Podcast, and the podcast production is an original work of the author. All rights of ownership and reproduction are retained—copyright 2025.

My Story pt6. Just because we leave a traumatic relationship, situation, or toxic cycle doesn't mean we then have the capacity to remain free from it. On this episode, I share what my life was like after I had left the trauma bonded relationship (the first time). That by leaving, it then created the space for my supressed pain to finally be felt so I could get free from internal suffering... but, I didn't actually have the capacity to be with that discomfort and feel it. This was the period of my life where I was in full swing of operating off my shadows. Doing anything I could to distract myself from my pain, and as a result, it lead me right back to what I had left.  Key Takeaways: Gaining a relationship with your darkness, your internal world, is a direct link to you being able to maintain freedom from internal suffering. People show you who they are early, and you need to believe them. When your story is messy, let it be what it is. Let it be messy. If you're unable to be with discomfort, the likelihood of you choosing dynamics that perpetuates past trauma is very high. How you show up in daily life is a mirror to how you relate to your darkness. Distraction, escapism, avoiding, and numbing are protective mechanisms from feeling emotional pain. Your shadows are not innately bad.      https://creatinglight.co Try a somatic activated healing class for free, here! Somatic Class Replays Work with me 1:1 Instagram: @creatinglight_ YouTube: @creatinglight_

In this episode, we dive into why hidden and repetitive porn use and cheating is emotional and psychological abuse, what an abuse cycle is, and what trauma bonds areReady to transform your life after discovering his betrayal (cheating, p*rn use, etc.)? Book a 1-on-1 Support Call: click here Free Webinar: Click here Self-paced, online course "Betrayal Survival Guide: Transforming Pain Into Power": Click here Apply for my 3-month coaching package: Click here Click below for more resources: TikTok Instagram Join my Women's Support Group "WTF Do I Do Now?" Website **Please subscribe and rate the show so the algorithm can help more girls find this resource and know they aren't alone in their healing journey from his cheating, p*rn use, etc.!

This episode is brought to you by Alma. Visit HelloAlma.com/ATPP to learn more Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/ Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new Join The Couples Therapist Couch Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/295562197518469/ In this episode, Shane talks with Dr. Laura Copley about trauma bonds. Laura is a trauma therapist, international speaker, and author of the relationship self-help book, Loving You Is Hurting Me. Hear the stigma around trauma bonds & toxic relationships, how trauma bonds work, how to help your clients face their fears, the similarities between trauma bonds & addiction, and how to give hope to your clients' relationships. To learn more about Dr. Laura Copley, visit: Loving You Is Hurting Me on Amazon Loving You Is Hurting Me on Barnes & Noble Instagram @DocCopley  

What Makes Trauma Bonds So ADDICTIVE?Join My Newsletter: https://beacons.ai/mattphifer.coaching/page2Are you stuck in a toxic relationship and wondering why it's so hard to leave? In this video, therapist and relationship coach Matthew Phifer breaks down the stages of a trauma bond, a powerful psychological attachment that keeps people trapped in unhealthy relationships.You'll learn:✅ What a trauma bond is and why it happens✅ The 7 stages of a trauma bond (including love bombing, devaluation, and isolation)✅ How manipulation and control keep you emotionally hooked✅ Why breaking free from a trauma bond is so difficult—and how to start healingIf you find this video helpful, be sure to like, share, and subscribe for more relationship advice. Need professional support? Connect with a BetterHelp therapist using my link below and get 15% off your first month of therapy.

In this insightful conversation, we explore the deeper layers of relationships, attachment styles, and emotional healing. Key takeaways include:Understanding anxious attachment styles and how they are shaped by childhood experiences.Breaking free from repetition compulsion and the cycle of attracting similar partners.Insights into perfectionism as a protector and its roots in childhood environments.Recognizing patterns of people-pleasing and setting healthier boundaries.The power of self-awareness in transforming relationship dynamics.Whether you're navigating attachment issues or simply seeking to understand yourself better, this episode offers tools and perspectives to help you create healthier connections.Chapters:  00:00 - Intro: Understanding perfectionism as a protector.02:19 - Identifying attachment patterns in relationships.05:00 - What is anxious attachment, and how does it form?07:44 - The impact of absent fathers and seeking healthy masculinity.12:00 - How trauma bonds and attachment styles affect relationships.14:21 - The role of perfectionism in managing inner chaos.18:02 - Rebellious behavior and seeking control in childhood.22:54 - Breaking people-pleasing habits and setting boundaries.25:39 - Changing patterns through awareness and self-regulation.29:13 - The science of focus: How observation changes outcomes.Stay Connected:Follow Oliver on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yeskingoliverWant to regain control of your life from modern-day stress, anxiety, and influence?Check out my FREE course - take control!     http://www.talkwitholiver.com

Has your narcissistic ex decided to ghost you? The experience can be gut-wrenching, as the sudden loss of communication triggers a physiological craving within your body.  Narcissistic abuse creates a trauma bond, where the mind and body become addicted to the abuser's presence.  Even when your rational mind knows it's unhealthy, your body may still yearn for the narcissist's attention.  This is fueled by the dopamine and cortisol surges that occur during the abuse cycle.  Resist the urge to question your worth. The narcissist's decision to ghost you is a tactic to maintain control and manipulate your emotions. Instead, focus on your own healing journey and address the nervous system and emotional aspects of the trauma. Surround yourself with a supportive community and commit to self-care.  In time, you'll be grateful to have escaped the narcissist's toxic grasp. Your value is not defined by their fleeting actions, but by the strength you have within. https://carolinestrawson.com/roadmap 0:00 Understanding Trauma and Narcissistic Abuse 1:09 Rebranding the Podcast and Therapy Integration 2:11 Ghosting and Trauma Bonds 4:31 The Physiological Impact of Narcissistic Abuse 8:26 Healing and Taking Control 10:43 Resources and Support for Survivors 12:11 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Podcast Resources: Join my FREE Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse Access my low cost Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Programme https://go.carolinestrawson.com/heal-the-trauma-of-narcissistic-abuse Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/ Find me on TikTok!: https://www.tiktok.com/@carolinestrawson My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/

More women than you think are stuck in dysfunctional or even destructive relationships. Many have a tough time breaking free emotionally even after they have left. There is a reason for that. Breaking trauma bonds is tough. Dr. Laura Copley is a trauma expert and helps her clients heal from past trauma that keeps them trapped and identify their triggers. She offers an insider's perspective on difficult relationships to create healing opportunities. She is the author of Loving You is Hurting Me: A New Approach to Healing Trauma Bonds and Creating Authentic Connections. It is a book for the individual or couple caught in the patterns of their past complex trauma so they fail in intimacy and vulnerability. It helps people understand why they do what they do so they can move forward to find their pivot point to change. A key focus of her book is on cultivating Post-Traumatic Growth. Laura guides the reader toward a path of positive transformation, both in their personal lives and in their relationships. It is a valuable workbook with steps to heal from complex trauma. Tune into this episode of Women Road Warriors as Shelley Johnson and Kathy Tuccaro gain new insight from Dr. Copley into how to shed attachment injuries and move into healing.www.lauracopley.comhttps://lauracopley.com/my-book/@doccopleyhttps://women-road-warriors.captivate.fmhttps://womenroadwarriors.com/ https://www.podpage.com/women-road-warriors/https://womenspowernetwork.net#MentalHealth #TraumaBonds #PTSD #PostTraumaticGrowth #Trauma #DrLauraCopley #LovingYouIsHurtingMe #ShelleyMJohnson #ShelleyJohnson #KathyTuccaro #WomenRoadWarriors

Trauma bonds are a very real dynamic that can keep us in very unhealthy relationships and prevent us from developing meaningful intimacy even after we untangle ourselves from the person we have found ourselves taken hostage by. In this powerful replay I cover: -What trauma bonds ARE-What trauma bonds are NOT-Identifying if you are trapped in one-Recovering from a trauma bond-Fantasy bondsIf this episode helps you please let me know by going over to IG and sending me a DM. Want to connect?Email: breakupspodcast@gmail.comIG: @janiceformichellaLove Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.  ____________________________________________________________________________Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

Breaking trauma bonds is one of the hardest yet most empowering steps in healing. These bonds keep you tied to someone who has hurt you, making it feel impossible to walk away, even when you know you should. The key is recognizing that the emotional attachment is built on survival, not love. Let's get into it!

Are you stuck in a toxic relationship but can't seem to break free? In this episode, we're diving deep into trauma bonds—what they are, why they happen, and how they keep you emotionally trapped in unhealthy dynamics. Trauma bonding is often mistaken for love, but in reality, it's a cycle of emotional manipulation, psychological attachment, and intermittent reinforcement that keeps you hooked, even when you know it's harming you. We'll explore: ✔️ The science behind trauma bonds—how your brain gets wired to crave the highs and lows of toxic relationships. ✔️ Why trauma bonds feel so powerful and addictive—and why logic alone isn't enough to break them. ✔️ Signs you're in a trauma bond—so you can recognize the emotional red flags keeping you stuck. ✔️ How childhood wounds and past experiences contribute to these unhealthy attachments. ✔️ Steps to start breaking free—so you can reclaim your power and rebuild your sense of self. If you've ever felt emotionally tied to someone who hurts you, this episode is for you.  Share it with anyone who needs to hear the truth about trauma bonds!

This week on From Mrs. to Ms., we're joined by the remarkable Dr. Nadine Macaluso, aka Dr. Nae—a licensed marriage and family therapist, trauma expert, and author of Run Like Hell: A Therapist's Guide to Recognizing, Escaping, and Healing from Trauma Bonds. As a 22-year-old, Nadine was swept up in a fairy tale romance with Jordan Belfort, the infamous "Wolf of Wall Street," played by Leonardo DiCaprio in the hit movie. Their eight-year marriage started with extravagant gifts, romantic dinners, and lavish parties, but soon turned into a nightmare filled with infidelity, narcissistic abuse, and uncontrollable addiction. Nadine, like so many others in toxic relationships, remained trauma-bonded—believing her love could save him—until the pain became unbearable. At 30, Nadine made the courageous decision to leave Jordan, pack up her children, and start over in Los Angeles. Through intensive therapy and deep self-reflection, she not only healed but discovered her passion for helping others break free from similar cycles of abuse. By 39, she returned to school and later earned her PhD in Counseling and Somatic Psychology, becoming an industry expert in narcissistic abuse, trauma bonds, and complex PTSD. In this powerful conversation, Dr. Nae shares her personal journey from a trauma-bonded marriage to finding healing, purpose, and ultimately, love again. She breaks down what trauma bonds are, why they're so hard to escape, and the steps you can take to reclaim your authentic self. Whether you're navigating a difficult relationship or simply curious about the psychology of toxic dynamics, this episode is filled with valuable insights and hope. Don't miss this heartfelt discussion with a woman who turned her pain into power and is now helping countless others do the same. IG: @threaldrnadine TikTok: @drnaelmft Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drnaelmft Website: https://drnae.comSupport the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrstoms.netEmail: info@frommrstoms.netYouTube: @FromMrs2Ms

In this episode of The Moving On Method, Michelle Dempsey-Multack sits down with Dr. Nadine Macaluso who shares her inspiring journey from being the woman behind the character Naomi Belfort in The Wolf of Wall Street to becoming a therapist specializing in trauma and personal transformation. She discusses the realities of her past relationship, the concept of trauma bonds, and the importance of recognizing red flags in toxic relationships. Dr. Macaluso emphasizes the need for self-care and empowerment for women seeking to break free from abusive situations, offering insights and strategies for healing and recovery. How it often takes multiple events for someone to leave an abusive relationship The importance of education on trauma bonds Self-care is imperative for healing Recognizing red flags AND MORE Meet Dr. Nae, a licensed psychotherapist and expert in trauma bonds and narcissistic abuse, who was formerly married to the Wolf of Wall Street, Jordan Belfort. Her inspiring story begins with growing up on welfare in Brooklyn, becoming a model to support herself and her mother, then falling madly in love with a charming stockbroker. After eight tumultuous years, she sets out to heal the trauma of an abusive marriage, finds healthy love, survives two forms of cancer, and her story culminates in finding her calling as a therapist, earning a PhD at 39, and becoming a global source of wisdom and hope for women recovering from pathological partnerships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Susan Guthrie welcomes Dr. Nadine Macaluso (Dr. Nae), a renowned therapist specializing in trauma healing, to tackle a transformative topic for January, known as “Divorce Month.” As the real-life inspiration for Naomi in The Wolf of Wall Street, Dr. Nae blends her personal journey of escaping a trauma bond with her professional expertise to help you recognize, escape, and heal from toxic relationships. This episode offers a roadmap for understanding trauma bonds, preparing your exit safely, and embracing a healthier future. Whether you're just beginning to see the dynamics of your relationship or are ready to take your next steps, Dr. Nae's practical strategies and insights will empower you to reclaim your life. What You'll Discover in This Episode: How to prepare to leave safely, the importance of having a strategy, and why “never let them see you coming” matters. How awareness leads to empowerment by understanding trauma bonds as the first step to breaking them. The role of trusted professionals, including therapists, attorneys, and divorce coaches, in assembling your wraparound team. More About Our Special Guest, Dr. Nadine Macaluso: Affectionately known as Dr. Nae, Dr. Nadine Macaluso is a therapist specializing in trauma healing and personal transformation. Her life inspired the character Naomi Belfort in The Wolf of Wall Street. After overcoming personal challenges, she earned a Master's in counseling and a Ph.D. in somatic psychotherapy. Dr. Macaluso helps individuals recover from trauma bonds, C-PTSD, and shame. She is also the author of Run Like Hell: A Therapist's Guide to Recognizing, Escaping, and Healing From Trauma Bonds. Website: https://drnae.com/ Book: Run Like Hell: A Therapist's Guide to Recognizing, Escaping, and Healing from Trauma Bonds  Download the First Chapter of Dr. Nae's new book, Run Like Hell: A Therapist's Guide to Recognizing, Escaping, and Healing from Trauma Bonds https://drnae.com/giveawaybook/ Social Media: https://www.linkedin.com/in/therealdrnadine http://instagram.com/therealdrnadine http://facebook.com/drnaelmft http://youtube.com/TheRealDrNadine Make the Most of Your Listening Experience: If this episode resonates with you, be sure to: Subscribe to Divorce & Beyond so you never miss an episode. Share this episode with friends or loved ones who need hope and healing. Leave a 5-star review to help us reach even more listeners. 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Episode Summary: 
In this eye-opening episode, Dr. Nadine Macaluso, renowned therapist and trauma expert, shares her journey of overcoming a toxic relationship with "The Wolf of Wall Street" and explains the dynamics of trauma bonds. Together, we explore how these relationships form, why they're so difficult to leave, and actionable steps for breaking free and rebuilding your life. Dr. Nae offers profound insights, practical strategies, and hope for anyone trapped in a trauma bond.

    Key Topics Covered:
  1. Dr. Nadine's Personal Journey  Married to the infamous “Wolf of Wall Street,” Jordan Belfort, and the realities behind the glamour depicted in the movie.  Her experience with love bombing, coercion, abuse, and the eventual breaking point that led her to leave.  How her journey inspired her to become a therapist specializing in trauma and toxic relationships.    2. What Is a Trauma Bond?  A toxic, dysfunctional relationship characterized by power imbalance and cycles of intermittent reinforcement (e.g., love bombing followed by abuse).  Key conditions: One partner seeks control while the other becomes emotionally attached despite the harm.  The confusing mix of highs and lows that keeps people trapped in these relationships.    3. Recognizing a Trauma Bond  Signs of a trauma bond: self-sacrifice, self-abandonment, and rationalizing abusive behavior.  The importance of radical acceptance and recognizing the reality of the relationship.  Dispelling the myth that the victim is at fault for the abuse.    4. Breaking Free from a Trauma Bond  The importance of having a plan before leaving: gather financial, legal, and personal resources.  Learning to “wear the mask” and act normal while preparing your exit.  Why reaching out for support and building resilience in a safe community is critical.    5. Rebuilding Your Life After Leaving  Turning the focus inward: rediscovering who you are, addressing developmental trauma, and strengthening your self-worth.  The role of self-care, therapy, and community in stabilizing after a trauma bond.  Embracing the healing journey as an opportunity to create a life you love.    6. Dr. Nae's Advice for Healing  Abuse is never the victim's fault, and healing is possible for everyone.  The importance of recognizing the impulse to heal and following it step by step.  Building new neural pathways to replace patterns of shame and self-blame with empowerment.  
  Key Takeaways:  Trauma bonds are rooted in control and manipulation, not love. Recognizing the reality of the relationship is the first step to breaking free.  Healing requires a plan, support, and the willingness to prioritize your self-care and growth.  The power to rebuild your life lies within you, and a brighter, healthier future is possible.  
  Resources Mentioned:  Dr. Nadine's Website: DrNae.com  Free assessments and resources, including a trauma bond assessment.  Dr. Nadine on Social Media:  Instagram: @NadineMacaluso  TikTok: @DrNaeLMFT  Dr. Nadine's Book: Run Like Hell  Available on her website and Amazon.  
    Subscribe to the PBT Institute's resources for more on healing from betrayal and transforming your life!     The PBT Institute: Break free from the pain of betrayal and find safety, love, and trust again.    For the betrayed – Reclaim: Heal from your betrayal and take your life back.    For the betrayer – Rebuild: Heal yourself and help heal the heart you broke.    Take the Post Betrayal Syndrome Quiz – Post-Betrayal Syndrome Quiz    Want to become a Certified PBT Coach/Practitioner? Check out our FREE masterclass here.     Closing Message:
If you're in a trauma bond or recovering from one, know that healing is possible. With the right support, resources, and inner work, you can rebuild a life filled with freedom, strength, and love. Follow Dr. Nadine for more insights and take that first step toward your breakthrough today.
















 

Teddi and Erika are joined by psychotherapist, Dr. Nadine Macaluso, the real-life inspiration behind Naomi Belfort's character in "The Wolf of Wall Street." Dr. Nadine gives us a deep dive into trauma bonds, manipulation tactics, as well as the signs people can look out for from a pathological and narcissistic partner. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

With Kail trying to find herself she is exploring what style she thinks best suites her and Becky doesn't agree. The ladies discuss the difference in Trauma Bonds and Trauma Bonding. Talking to your friends is hard but Becky brings up why you need to and maybe she has to take her own advice too. Becky went through a period of lost memories when her and Kail weren't friends and she is still looking for answers. Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KARMA Shopify: Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/karma Quince: Upgrade your closet this year without the upgraded price tag. Go to Quince.com/karma Hiya: Receive 50% off your first order. To claim this deal you must go to hiyahealth.com/KARMA. Acorns: Ready to help your kids learn the value of money? Just head to acornsearly.com/kail

Send us a textThere are powerful psychological reasons why love bombing works nearly every time. In this episode, Dr. Nadine Macaluso, the ex-wife of the Wolf of Wall Street shares what she's uncovered about why we fall so easily spellbound for a toxic or narcissistic individual. What questions you have asked Dr. Nae about the movie, The Wolf of Wall Street? Find out ours when you subscribe to the Podcast Extra Substack newsletter. Unlock access here: http://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuseTo learn more about Dr. Nadine Macaluso (often known to as Dr. Nae), please visit: https://drnae.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drnaelmftInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealdrnadine/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheRealDrNadineLinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/therealdrnadine/FREE GIFT FOR LISTENERS: Download the First Chapter of Dr. Nae's new book, Run Like Hell: A Therapist's Guide to Recognizing, Escaping, and Healing from Trauma Bonds: https://drnae.com/giveaway-book/ Dr. Nae's Book: Run Like Hell: A Therapist Guide to Recognizing, Escaping, and Healing from Trauma Bonds: https://amzn.to/3PodpkA                                      ****************************************Stay in Touch with Us!Kerry McAvoy, PhDYoutube - https://youtube.com/kerrymcavoyphdInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/kerrymcavoyphdTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@kerrymcavoyphdFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/kerrymcavoyphdLisa SonniYoutube -  https://youtube.com/@strongerthanbeforeInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/_stronger_than_before_coachTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@_stronger_than_beforeFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/StrongerThanBeforeCoachingMore About Us!Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D.Dr. Kerry, a retired psychologist and author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships and deconstructing narcissism. Her blogs have been featured in Mamami, YourTango, Scary Mommy, and The Good Men Project. In Love You More, Dr. McAvoy gives an uncensored glimpse into her survival of narcissistic abuse, and her workbook, First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist, helps victims break free from the confusion common in abusive relationships. She hosts the Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse podcast and offers trauma-related advice on social media.Lisa Sonni Lisa Sonni is a certified Life & Relationship Coach, specializing in trauma bond recovery and abuse education, who helps clients from all walks of life overcome challenges stemming from traumatic partnerships. She has published an online self-guided course, The Trauma Bond Recovery Course, and several books, The Trauma Bond Recovery Journal, and Surviving to Thriving: A Six-Step Blueprint to Narcissistic Abuse Healing and Recovery.With 7 professional certificSupport the show

In this ENCORE episode, we discuss the importance of self-forgiveness after trauma. We go over helpful tools that you can utilize to mitigate the shameful feelings that trauma inflicts. We also shared powerful quotes from Gabby Bernstein's book, "The Universe Has Your Back."Learn more about the Whole Health LabConnect with us!Website: https://www.mendingtrauma.com/Instagram: @mendingtraumaFacebook: @mendingtraumaYouTube: Mending TraumaLinkedIn: Mending TraumaTikTok: @mendingtrauma

In this ENCORE episode, we discusses how trauma can lead to the development of a harsh inner critic and explores strategies for taming it. We go over the impact on relationships and why that occurs. We also highlight the importance of recognizing and addressing the inner critic through techniques such as internal family systems and practicing curiosity without judgment.Learn more about the Whole Health LabConnect with us!Website: https://www.mendingtrauma.com/Instagram: @mendingtraumaFacebook: @mendingtraumaYouTube: Mending TraumaLinkedIn: Mending TraumaTikTok: @mendingtrauma

In this episode Toby sits down with High Vis vocalist Graham Sayle! They chat about diverse show lineups, his earlier life, early bands, inspirations, doing different types of art, Muay Thai, therapy, Trauma Bonds, making tables, handy work, videos, his wife, love, touring and travel. Please remember to rate, review and subscribe and visit us at https://www.youtube.com/tobymorseonelifeonechance Please visit our sponsors! Athletic Greens https://athleticgreens.com/oloc Removery https://removery.com code TOBYH2O Liquid Death https://liquiddeath.com/toby Refine Recovery https://www.instagram.com/refinerecoverycenter/  

In this ENCORE episode, we discuss the benefits of crying and how it helps with self-regulation. We explore the shame and vulnerability associated with crying and the importance of allowing ourselves to cry. We also discuss the role of crying in trauma healing and the release of trapped emotions.Learn more about the Whole Health LabConnect with us!Website: https://www.mendingtrauma.com/Instagram: @mendingtraumaFacebook: @mendingtraumaYouTube: Mending TraumaLinkedIn: Mending TraumaTikTok: @mendingtrauma

#179 - This week, I'm unpacking: The cultural obsession with “pretty privilege” and the viral Luigi Mangione phenomenon. Selena Gomez's happily-ever-after and what it teaches us about self-worth and healthy love. Megan Fox's break up, healing era and the lessons we can take from love, trauma bonding, and moving on and ‘I can fix them'. Why David Beckham wants us to replace all of our supplements (and who's coming for AG1)  David Ghiyam's podcast on aligning your vessel with your vision: Why you need a body that can hold the energy of your future self. Why trauma responses deserve respect—and how they've saved your life. Gut health gossip: Are your stomach issues actually nervous system issues? A game-changing podcast on aligning your vessel with your vision via David Ghiyjam. Normal consumption ‘core' - anything worth buying is worth finishing.  Let's go! JOIN THE NEWSLETTER:

The effects of trauma are complex and show up in a variety of ways. One of these ways is in the manner in which our brain processes information. Rigid thinking is when we tend to see things in black and white. In this episode, we discuss how that type of thinking can hurt us and our relationships with others. We also give helpful tools to assist you in the process of changing your thought processes.Learn more about the Whole Health LabConnect with us!Website: https://www.mendingtrauma.com/Instagram: @mendingtraumaFacebook: @mendingtraumaYouTube: Mending TraumaLinkedIn: Mending TraumaTikTok: @mendingtrauma

A trauma bond forms when individuals develop an unhealthy attachment to someone who perpetuates a cycle of abuse, manipulation, or emotional harm, often due to intermittent reinforcement of affection and mistreatment. This bond thrives on confusion, fear, and hope, making it difficult for the victim to break free despite recognizing the toxic nature of the relationship. To avoid trauma bonds, it's essential to establish healthy boundaries and recognize red flags early, such as controlling behaviors or emotional manipulation. Cultivating self-awareness and self-esteem through personal growth and supportive relationships can also fortify resilience against such dynamics. Seeking therapy or support groups provides a safe space to process emotions and gain clarity about unhealthy patterns. Prioritizing emotional safety and fostering relationships rooted in mutual respect and trust is key to avoiding the trap of trauma bonds. Fuel Innovative Teamwork in your Business - Join ( http://patreon.com/Aswand44 )

With the month of November already in full swing, we wanted to draw attention to a popular movement that supports men's mental health: Movember. We discuss whether or not men's mental health differs from women's mental health. We also talk about the benefits of finding community in the ongoing journey of overcoming trauma.Learn more about the Whole Health LabConnect with us!Website: https://www.mendingtrauma.com/Instagram: @mendingtraumaFacebook: @mendingtraumaYouTube: Mending TraumaLinkedIn: Mending TraumaTikTok: @mendingtrauma

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Gratitude is a skill that takes a lot of effort to obtain. Today we discuss tips and tools you can implement to have more gratitude. We go over the benefits of gratitude and how it can help you overcome trauma.Learn more about the Whole Health LabConnect with us!Website: https://www.mendingtrauma.com/Instagram: @mendingtraumaFacebook: @mendingtraumaYouTube: Mending TraumaLinkedIn: Mending TraumaTikTok: @mendingtrauma

With the holiday season approaching, it is normal to feel apprehensive about family gatherings. Whether you are anxious about old dynamics or have some trauma from poor experiences, this episode is for you. We discuss the common issues related to family functions and tools you can use to focus on connecting with those you love.Learn more about the Whole Health LabConnect with us!Website: https://www.mendingtrauma.com/Instagram: @mendingtraumaFacebook: @mendingtraumaYouTube: Mending TraumaLinkedIn: Mending TraumaTikTok: @mendingtrauma

Meet Kerie Logan, an inspiring Coach, Author, Spiritual Advisor, and Hypnotherapist, who overcame a toxic childhood and now dedicates her life to helping others heal. Kerie opens up about her journey and shares her expertise on trauma bonding, attachment styles, and identifying toxic people. Learn tools to heal from the past and start your jouney to higher awareness and healthier relationships. Don't miss her free guide at https://mastertheupperrooms.com/product/17-steps-to-raise-your-vibration-and-consciousness-free-handout/To Contact Kerie: www.empoweredwithin.comFor comments, show ideas, or guest requests: www.lifecoachmaureen.com #spirituality #elevatingyourvibration #kerielogan #lifecoachmaureen #affirmingandfocusingBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/i-never-knew-ink-but-my-dog-did-by-lifecoach-maureen--5602763/support.

In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the psychology of toxic relationships with author and creativity coach Caitlin Liz Fisher. Breaking the silence on why leaving isn't as simple as "just walking away," Caitlin shares her raw, personal journey through abuse, manipulation, and, ultimately, freedom.In This EpisodeThe shocking truth: It takes an average of 7 attempts to leave an abusive relationshipWhy abuse only works with "good times" in betweenHow gaslighting and isolation tactics gradually erode self-worthRed flags in relationships and early warning signsThe role of trauma bonds in keeping us stuckRebuilding identity and self-trust after abuseKey InsightsUnderstanding the cycle of abuse and love bombingHow abusers target and exploit past traumaThe connection between childhood experiences and adult relationshipsWhy smart, capable people stay in toxic relationshipsThe importance of recognizing patterns before they become chainsContent Warning: This episode contains discussions of emotional abuse, manipulation, and toxic relationships.If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, help is available. You're not alone.Connect with Caitlin Liz FisherWebsiteInstagramYouTube_____________________________________________________________________Desire to find your Scenic Route? Visit jenniferwalter.me — a welcoming space for the emotionally exhausted to rest, discover, and playfully embrace inner peace. Embrace a softer, more fulfilling life today! For snapshots from Jennifer's scenic route to a softer life come over to Instagram TikTok PICK YOUR SCENIC ROUTE AFFIRMATIONReady to embrace your Scenic Route? Step off the beaten path with the Scenic Route Affirmation Card Deck. It's not about the hustle; it's about finding the courage to trust your inner compass and carve a path that's authentically yours. Tap into your inner wisdom and let it guide you.

In today's episode, we talk about seasonal affective disorder (SAD). We go over common symptoms and things to look out for. We also talk about non-judgmental ways to work through this struggle.Learn more about the Whole Health LabConnect with us!Website: https://www.mendingtrauma.com/Instagram: @mendingtraumaFacebook: @mendingtraumaYouTube: Mending TraumaLinkedIn: Mending TraumaTikTok: @mendingtrauma

In this episode we make an attempt to clarify misconceptions about the nature of trauma and what can be constituted as trauma. We discuss divorce cases in which tensions are high and how that can be considered a type of trauma. We go over different approaches to these situations and how to support those going through them.Learn more about the Whole Health LabConnect with us!Website: https://www.mendingtrauma.com/Instagram: @mendingtraumaFacebook: @mendingtraumaYouTube: Mending TraumaLinkedIn: Mending TraumaTikTok: @mendingtrauma

There is a BIG difference between trauma bonding and bonding over shared trauma, they are not the same. On today's show we get into the difference between the both of these. So many times we refer to things as we think we understand them but it may in fact not be the correct way to refer to it when you don't fully understand the true definition of something. You know we love to break things down and we do in this show. What is a trauma bond? And what is bonding over trauma? Lets dive deep into it.  _________________________________________________________ Follow us on IG: @straightupsistersthepodcast @raqcsworld @lasusie Follow us on YOUTUBE: Straight Up Sisters Podcast Email us: hello@straightupsisters.com

I'm beyond thrilled to have Dr. Nadine Macaluso (Dr. Nae, as I call her!). on today's episode! Dr. Nae's story is nothing short of jaw-dropping — she was married to The Wolf of Wall Street himself, Jordan Belfort. But this conversation isn't just about her past; it's about her incredible journey of survival, healing, and growth. Dr. Nae has taken what she's learned from that chapter of her life and is using it to help others break free from toxic relationships and trauma bonds (she went back to school and got her doctorate as part of her journey to help herself and others). We had such an amazing chat, and I know you're going to love it! Dr. Nae has been through it all, and she's come out the other side stronger, wiser, and ready to share her insights on how to stop repeating old patterns and start thriving in healthier relationships. We talked about: Her experience with trauma bonds and why we keep picking the same type of partner How to break free from unhealthy patterns and build a stronger sense of self What it really takes to heal after trauma and thrive in love again Why choosing healthier partners isn't just about avoiding red flags, but learning to trust yourself The power of resilience and how to bounce back from hardship I can't wait for you to hear this episode! Dr. Nae's story is powerful, and her advice is game-changing if you've ever struggled with toxic relationships. If you love the episode, please subscribe, rate, and share it so we can keep bringing you these incredible conversations! Website: Drnae.com For more free tips and up to date information, click here to register for the Smart Dating Academy free newsletter!   https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact Follow us on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/smartdatingacademy/

In this episode, we cover difficult topics that have huge implications. We discuss abusive relationships that involve sexual assault or abuse. We go over telltale signs to look out for and steps you can take to find help. We also talk about the relationship these situations have to trauma and how we can address those issues.Learn more about the Whole Health LabConnect with us!Website: https://www.mendingtrauma.com/Instagram: @mendingtraumaFacebook: @mendingtraumaYouTube: Mending TraumaLinkedIn: Mending TraumaTikTok: @mendingtrauma

In this episode, we discuss the link between domestic violence and trauma perpetuated through multiple generations. We talk about certain prevalent patterns in cases of domestic violence. We also go over ways that we can find healing and resolve trauma from these experiences.Learn more about the Whole Health LabConnect with us!Website: https://www.mendingtrauma.com/Instagram: @mendingtraumaFacebook: @mendingtraumaYouTube: Mending TraumaLinkedIn: Mending TraumaTikTok: @mendingtrauma

In this episode we go over several types of domestic abuse; from physical to mental to financial. We discuss early red flags to watch out for as well as tips to seeking help. Learn more about the Whole Health LabConnect with us!Website: https://www.mendingtrauma.com/Instagram: @mendingtraumaFacebook: @mendingtraumaYouTube: Mending TraumaLinkedIn: Mending TraumaTikTok: @mendingtrauma

What if you're doing all you can to maintain your own health and well-being but you have someone in your life who a consistent drain on your mental and emotional health? Can you rebuild your energy or do you have to accept that it may never stop and you may have to make tougher choices about the relationship?

If you are questioning your relationship or wondering why you are putting up with sh*t that doesn't serve you, then bestie - this one was made just for you! This week we're joined by Relationship and Mental Health Expert, Dr. Ally as she discusses what makes a relationship toxic, how to acknowledge the signs and identify the red flags, the importance of boundaries, how to properly communicate with your partner and why we can become addicted to toxic patterns. Plus, we'll dive into your tricky relationship advice questions! Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford and Relationshit @relationshit on Instagram for more. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, Follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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The Narcissism Doctor: “1 in 6 People Are Narcissists!” How to Spot Them & Can They Change? Life-Saving Tips: Revealing Narcissists & Breaking Free from Trauma Bonds. Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a clinical psychologist & Professor Emerita of Psychology at California State University, and the Founder & CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. She is also the author of books such as "It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People." Dive deep into the dangerous world of narcissism and discover how to spot narcissistic behavior, protect yourself from emotional trauma, identify the 6 types of narcissists, and learn about their covert tactics, like gaslighting and deprivation. We're breaking down the alarming rise in narcissism, its connection with addiction, the risks in online dating and why we often miss red flags in harmful relationships. Dr. Durvasula explains the true definition of narcissism and gaslighting, the negative impact of being raised by narcissistic caregivers, how trauma bonding can evolve from a parent-child relationship to an adult romantic relationship, and the most disturbing aspects of being in a romantic relationship with a narcissist. She also covers:- Her top tips for being GASLIGHT-PROOF- What grandiosity and lack of empathy really looks like in a relationship- Who is most at risk for attracting narcissists?- Why online dating is the perfect preying ground for narcissists- The biggest challenges narcissists face in therapy- Once you're diagnosed as a narcissist, is that the nail in the coffin?- How to have compassion for the narcissist in your life and find a way to engage while sticking to your boundaries- Post-separation abuse and why some people may stay with a narcissist- Harmful institutions that are contributing to the narcissism problem- Why chemistry isn't the most important thing in a relationship- Why she thinks so many people are interested in narcissism now Dr. Durvasula wants you to know that YOU are not the problem. Don't miss these critical life-saving insights - TUNE IN to MBB today! Dr. Ramani Durvasula's Healing Program, Taking Yourself Back: Healing from Narcissistic & Antagonistic Relationships: https://doctor-ramani.teachable.com/p/taking-yourself-back-healing-from-narcissistic-antagonistic-relationships Dr. Ramani Durvasula's latest book, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/710202/its-not-you-by-ramani-durvasula-phd/ BialikBreakdown.comYouTube.com/mayimbialik