Love On Command

Welcome to the Love On Command podcast! I'm Shay, your certified love transformer and master love coach. Join me as I dive deep into the complexities of dating, relationships, and self-discovery. In each episode, I share my nearly 20 years of experience helping women heal, transform, and attract the right partners. Are you frustrated with the dating game? Do you feel lost, hurt, or disappointed? I'm here to reveal the reasons behind these feelings and empower you to trust your intuition and judgment again. With insights drawn from my extensive research, including over 100 dates and interviews with thousands of men and women, I uncover the science of attraction and the patterns in male behavior. I emphasize the importance of understanding your feminine energy and power, guiding you to recognize your worth and discern the intentions of those around you. I challenge common misconceptions about dating and relationships, helping you navigate the confusing advice that often leads to frustration. Whether you're seeking love, healing from past relationships, or simply looking to enhance your understanding of yourself, Love On Command is here to support you. Remember, no matter your past experiences, you are always the prize. Tune in each week for empowering discussions, practical advice, and the inspiration you need to take control of your love life. Join me on this transformative journey and rediscover the confidence to attract the love you deserve! 

In this episode, I'm breaking down why FaceTime and dinner dates are not enough—and how too many women are unknowingly setting themselves up to be consumed like a buffet instead of being savored like fine dining. I'm walking you through the psychology, the energetics, and the strategy behind holding your value from the very beginning. Because here's the truth: if you're giving him access to all of you too soon—your time, your energy, your body—you're killing the very desire you're trying to build. We're talking about setting a standard that says you are high-ticket, high-value, and not everyone gets the privilege of your presence. I'm also diving into the six phases of a relationship, the science behind male attraction, and what actually creates that magnetic pull that keeps him thinking about you long after the date ends. If you've ever wondered why he pulled back after dinner, why he stopped putting in effort after you gave him your time, or how to cultivate real feminine power without chasing or overgiving—this episode is your blueprint. Listen in, take notes, and let this be the last time you show up to a first date hoping to be chosen. From now on, you are the one doing the choosing.

In this episode, we're diving deep into the fascinating world of dating, relationships, and personal empowerment. I'm Shay your love Diva, and today we'll be exploring how your unique love archetype impacts your dating life and how you can harness this understanding to attract healthier, more fulfilling relationships. We'll cover everything from the science behind attraction to the six key phases of a relationship. Plus, I'll be sharing some powerful insights from my work with women across the globe—helping you identify and break free from the patterns that may be holding you back in love. By the end of this episode, you'll have the tools to better understand your love archetype and the confidence to navigate the dating world with clarity and grace. So, get comfortable and let's dive in—your love life is about to transform!

In this episode of Unlocking Love, I'm diving deep into the subconscious blocks that may be sabotaging your love life. I'm going to help you uncover the hidden patterns you may not even know are holding you back—from generational influences to the subtle messages you're unknowingly sending. I'll break down the science of attraction and why knowing your love archetype is key to attracting the right partner. If you've been dating with insecurities, struggling to heal from past traumas, or wondering why you keep attracting the wrong men, this episode is for you. I'm sharing powerful insights and strategies to help you break free from old patterns and open the door to healthy, high-value relationships. Let's transform your love life together and set you up for lasting, meaningful connection.

Hey love, in this episode, I'm breaking down the top 5 mistakes that might be blocking you from finding the relationship you deserve. I'll share the sneaky ways we self-sabotage, why being “too busy” is hurting your chances at love, and the truth about feminine energy that no one talks about. Plus, I'm spilling the #1 mistake I see high-achieving women make that keeps them stuck in a cycle of heartbreak. If you're ready to stop repeating the same patterns and finally attract your romantic best friend, this episode is for you. Let's dive in!

In this episode, I'm breaking down the science of attraction and how to call in a financially successful man who matches your energy and ambition. You'll learn how to tap into the power of your feminine energy, navigate the six phases of a relationship, and avoid the traps that keep women stuck in cycles with emotionally unavailable men. I'm sharing my personal experiences from my dating journey, including what I learned from dating successful men and how I attracted my husband, who still makes me blush after 10 years! Tune in to discover the biochemical processes that shape attraction and bonding, and how you can use them to your advantage in dating. This episode is packed with tips, insights, and real talk to help you level up your love life—don't miss it!

Hey loves, it's Shay here! In today's episode, we're diving deep into why giving too much in a relationship can actually make men less interested. It might seem like you're showing love and care, but sometimes, over-giving can cause imbalance and even push someone away. I'm sharing insights on how to find the perfect balance of giving and receiving and how to keep your energy aligned to attract the right kind of attention. Trust me, you won't want to miss this! Let's talk about how you can love yourself and set boundaries without losing your power. Tune in!

In this episode, we're diving into the dynamics of attraction and the science behind why some women find themselves in unfulfilling relationships. Join me as I share personal experiences and insights, revealing how understanding male psychology can empower you to attract the right partner. Discover the essential rules of the game, learn how to shift your energy, and understand the types of men to look out for. Get ready to take control of your love life!

Welcome to Love on Command Podcast, where we dive deep into the intricate dance of love, relationships, and self-discovery. In this episode, I unpack the essential steps you must take before jumping back into dating—because if you're still healing from heartbreak, battling insecurities, or facing financial challenges, it's time to pause and prioritize your healing journey. Join me as I share insights on the importance of recognizing your love blocks, understanding the different faces of a man—from his public persona to his secret self—and how your past can shape your present relationships. I'll guide you through the transformative process of healing, empowering you to attract the right partner who truly aligns with your worth. Get ready for a candid conversation that challenges societal norms and encourages you to value your time and emotional well-being. It's time to step into your power, embrace your femininity, and attract the love you deserve. Tune in and let's end the cycle together!

Do you really know who you're dating? In this episode, we dive deep into the psychology behind men's behavior and uncover the 3 faces every man has: public, private, and secret. I break down why rushing into a relationship or marriage too quickly can prevent you from truly getting to know who you're with. Learn the importance of taking your time, vetting his character, values, and intentions to avoid toxic relationships and heartbreak. We also discuss how unhealed love blocks may cause you to attract the wrong men over and over again—and how to break the cycle. Tune in to discover why proper discernment in relationships is crucial, just like any other major life decision, and how you can start attracting the love you deserve. If you're ready to stop the pattern of attracting narcissists and want to find a man who truly loves and values you, this episode is for you!

Ready to stay single forever? In this playful yet insightful episode, I'm flipping the script to reveal 10 surefire ways to keep attracting toxic relationships and living a life of mediocrity. Using a little reverse psychology, I'll show you how the mind resists change and how you can use that to your advantage. From dating the wrong types to staying stuck in old patterns, we're diving deep into the self-sabotaging behaviors that keep you from the healthy love you deserve. So, do I have permission to be your coach today? Tune in, and let's trick your brain into choosing better! Perfect for women ready to break free from dating disasters, this episode is your guide to decoding your patterns and turning them around for good.

Did you know that female eagles put their potential mates through a series of challenges to prove they're worthy partners? In this episode, I dive into the fascinating world of eagle mating rituals and uncover what they can teach us about modern dating. Why are so many women still trying to qualify themselves for men who haven't earned their place in their lives? It's time to shift the narrative, ladies. Stop settling and start raising your standards. Learn how to embody the strength of an eagle and choose a partner who truly matches your worth and vision for the future.

Ever wondered why some relationships thrive while others falter? In this compelling session, I'll break down the biochemical and psychological factors that drive romantic connections. Discover how understanding your own and your partner's hormones, like vasopressin, can empower you to attract the love you desire. With over 180,000 women transformed through my unique approach, I've turned heartbreak into happy endings, offering insights from my personal journey of overcoming adversity to mastering the dating game. I'll share my incredible story—from aspiring pediatric cardiologist to dating guru. I'll reveal how I conducted groundbreaking experiments, dating 100 men in just over three months, to uncover the secrets of successful relationships. Learn how to avoid common pitfalls, understand the rules of the dating game, and harness your feminine energy to attract the right partner. My advice isn't just theory—it's a roadmap to real results. Whether you're dealing with love blocks, recovering from a toxic relationship, or seeking to enhance your dating strategy, this session is packed with actionable insights to transform your love life. Join me and discover how you can use the science of attraction to create the relationship and life of your dreams.

Are men truly wired for monogamy? In this episode, we delve into the biological and biochemical factors that influence a man's commitment. From the surge of testosterone to the vital role of vasopressin and dopamine, we break down how science drives male bonding and the instincts behind monogamy. Join us as we uncover the signs of a man who's genuinely committed versus one who's just playing games. This episode offers empowering insights for women navigating relationships, highlighting the importance of recognizing true commitment and knowing when it's time to move on. Tune in for essential relationship advice and truths you won't want to miss!

In this episode, we dive deep into the "Pull Away Phase" in relationships, often referred to as the "Rubber Band Phase," as explained by Dr. John Gray in his book, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. This phase can be confusing and frustrating, but understanding it can significantly affect how you handle it. We explore: The biochemical reasons behind why men pull away. How this phase typically occurs around 2.5 to 3 months into the relationship. The importance of confidence and independence in navigating this phase. Common mistakes women make during this phase, like sending long texts or trying to force commitment too soon. The role of testosterone and cortisol in a man's behavior during this phase. The dangers of rushing into relationships, including the risk of attracting narcissists. The importance of patience and vetting your partner before making long-term commitments. If you're struggling with understanding your partner's behavior or want to strengthen your relationship, this video offers valuable insights. Resources: Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by Dr. John Gray Dr. Leanne Brizendine's research on the male brain Dr. Don Maslar's studies on human attraction

Hey there, beautiful Divas! Join me on a fabulous wine tour in Cape Town with our charming guide, Gray, as we sip and chat about the ins and outs of love, dating, and relationships.  In this episode, we dive into the heart of South African romance, exploring everything from the traditional Lobola (bride price) to the modern dynamics of dating. Gray shares his unique insights on how men choose their partners, what makes someone "marriage material," and the cultural nuances that shape relationships in South Africa. Curious about the real deal behind marriage proposals and relationship expectations? Tune in to hear Gray's take on what it means to be a man in love, how education and financial stability play a role, and why commitment matters.  Get ready for a heartfelt conversation that breaks down barriers and offers a fresh perspective on love. Don't miss this chance to enrich your understanding of global romance and gain valuable relationship advice! Subscribe now and let's discover love together!

In this episode, we're diving deep into the intriguing science behind first dates and why a dinner date might be the worst choice if you're looking for a long-term relationship. We explore how the dinner date can inadvertently sabotage your chances of finding a committed partner by focusing on curiosity, anticipation, and polarity. Learn why setting boundaries and making strategic choices about your time can significantly impact how a potential partner perceives you. From the animal kingdom to modern dating practices, we break down the psychology of attraction and the importance of maintaining your feminine energy. You can tune in to find practical advice on navigating dating with intention and setting yourself up for a successful and fulfilling relationship.

Join me as we dive deep into why some women find themselves doing it all in relationships, only to get minimal effort in return. We'll uncover the science behind true emotional connection and how biochemical responses play a role in commitment. Learn the secrets to distinguishing between genuine affection and mere manipulation. Plus, I'll reveal why it's crucial to set high standards and truly vet potential partners. Tune in for insights that could transform your approach to love and relationships!

Welcome to The Love on Command podcast, where we decode the mysteries of relationships with sass and wisdom! Join me as I spill the tea on navigating love phases, dodging red flags, and reclaiming your power. From attracting quality partners to avoiding heartbreaks, we're diving deep into what makes love work. Get ready to laugh, learn, and boss up in your dating life with me, your host, delivering truth bombs straight to your earbuds!

Welcome to this episode where we explore the intriguing dynamics of masculine and feminine energies in relationships, all through the lens of biology. Drawing from my experience in science and pharmaceutical sales, we'll uncover how a man's behavior directly impacts his biochemistry, influencing everything from testosterone levels to stress responses. I'll highlight why embracing masculine energy is crucial for fostering healthy connections, and we'll dissect the consequences of feminizing men in modern relationships. Join me to discover why mutual investment and self-respect are pivotal in creating and sustaining meaningful partnerships.

Welcome to the Love on Command Podcast, where we dive deep into understanding and overcoming love blocks to attract the relationships you truly deserve. Join us as we explore powerful strategies, insights, and stories from over 20 years of experience, helping women heal, activate their feminine energy, and become an irresistible magnet for love. Get ready to transform your love life and unlock the secrets to attracting the partner who is perfect for you. Tune in, and let's start your journey to finding true, lasting love.

Welcome to the Love on Command Podcast, where we delve into relationships, exploring how masculine and feminine energies influence dating and attraction. Discover why being in your masculine energy might hinder finding the right partner. We'll decode the science—from biochemistry to subconscious patterns—shedding light on why some effortlessly attract great relationships while others struggle. Join us for strategies to heal past wounds and embrace your authentic feminine energy. Whether you're navigating dating, strengthening connections, or curious about personal growth, we're here to empower you. Let's transform your approach to relationships, uncovering insights, inspiration, and actionable steps to cultivate meaningful connections and unlock your true magnetic potential. Tune in for a deeper, more fulfilling love life.

In this episode, we delve into the profound impact of love on our lives, emphasizing its status as a vital human need rather than a mere want. We explore how love, beyond emotional desire, becomes a core element of our existence, influencing us on both biological and spiritual levels. Through personal stories and insightful revelations, we challenge the common dismissal of love, advocating for its transformative power. We celebrate the beauty of genuine, nurturing partnerships while debunking misconceptions about relationships. Join us as we navigate the complexities of attraction, relationships, and self-discovery, urging listeners to seek wisdom in their pursuit of love. With a blend of wisdom, humor, and heartfelt sincerity, we redefine the narrative surrounding love, empowering listeners to embrace its profound gift.

Welcome to the Love on Command Podcast, your ultimate guide to mastering the intricacies of love, dating, and relationships. In this episode, we're diving deep into the heart of romantic connections, offering invaluable insights and advice that you won't want to miss. Join us as we explore the unique dynamics between men and women, drawing on expert advice from relationship coach Alison Armstrong. Understand how men and women differ fundamentally and how this knowledge can work to your advantage. We'll discuss the different stages men go through in their lives and relationships, and how recognizing these stages can help you better navigate your own love life. Learn how to identify a man's intentions, avoid being a placeholder, and ensure you are treated with the respect and love you deserve. We'll also cover the importance of setting standards and maintaining them, the power of feminine energy, and the art of timing in communication. Whether you're single and looking to start a relationship or married and seeking to strengthen your bond, this episode is packed with powerful strategies to help you understand and connect with your partner on a deeper level. Tune in and transform your approach to love and relationships with the Love on Command Podcast. Stay tuned, beautiful boss divas, for a full and powerful episode that will change the way you view and handle your love life!

Join me as I dive into the secrets of creating lasting love and fulfilling relationships. With over two decades of experience helping successful women find their perfect partners, I share practical tips and transformative insights on embracing your feminine energy, attracting high-quality men, and maintaining a loving, supportive partnership. Whether you're single, dating, or married, discover how to become the best version of yourself and build a relationship where love flourishes. Tune in for empowering advice, real-life stories, and strategies to make your love life thrive.

In this episode, we dive into the attraction phase of relationships, exploring how different personality types draw specific kinds of partners. For Type A women, known as "rubies," their career-driven, masculine energy often attracts men in their feminine energy. This dynamic can lead to increased stress and exhaustion, as these women typically have lower estrogen and higher cortisol levels. We'll discuss how this energy imbalance draws in "feminized" men or narcissists, who further drain their energy. We also examine other personality types, such as "amethysts" and "citrines," who have faced extreme trauma. These individuals often attract partners who recognize and exploit their pain, resulting in abusive and manipulative relationships. The importance of healing to break these destructive patterns and attract healthier partners cannot be overstated. Additionally, we debunk the romanticized idea of love at first sight, explaining that initial attraction is driven by biochemical reactions, particularly the triggering of a man's testosterone. By understanding these dynamics, women can recognize and address their love blocks, ultimately transforming their attraction patterns to find fulfilling and balanced relationships. Join us as we explore these insights and empower you to create healthier relationship dynamics.

In this episode of our podcast, I dive deep into the transformative potential of feminine and sexual energy. We explore how societal norms often lead women to feel used and disconnected from their true power. Drawing from historical sources and modern insights, we discuss reclaiming feminine energy as a potent force for manifesting love, wealth, and health. Addressing issues of sexual trauma and societal conditioning, we offer practical guidance on harnessing sexual energy to heal and create the life you desire. Join me for an empowering conversation on reclaiming your feminine power and stopping the leakage of your sexual energy.

In today's episode, we explore Sarah's remarkable journey through Diva University, a transformative experience that saw her overcoming deep-seated fears, dismantling limiting beliefs, and reclaiming her self-worth. Join us as we follow Sarah's courageous steps towards personal growth, which not only empowered her but also led to positive changes in her relationships and overall life. Through dedication, guidance, and perseverance, Sarah exemplified the importance of investing in oneself and seeking support systems conducive to healing and growth. Listen in as Sarah's story serves as a beacon of hope, encouraging listeners to trust the process, embrace vulnerability, and prioritize their personal development. Through her journey, Sarah reminds us of the power we hold to rewrite our narratives, break free from the past, and create fulfilling futures filled with love and possibility.

In this episode, I'll be diving deep into the intricate science of attraction and the six essential phases that define every relationship journey. Drawing from my extensive experience as a master certified love strategist, I'll introduce you to five distinct love archetypes—ruby, amethyst, onyx, diamond, and creme—crafted over my two-decade-long career dedicated to helping women heal and discover their ideal romantic partners. Throughout our conversation, I'll unveil how each archetype approaches the realm of dating, attracts potential partners, and navigates the intricate landscape of relationships. From shedding light on trauma responses to unraveling subconscious patterns, I'll share invaluable insights aimed at empowering women to embark on a journey of transformation in their love lives. So, buckle up and get ready to embark on a journey toward understanding and harnessing the power of love in its myriad forms.

Join me for an insightful discussion on the crucial importance of self-value in relationships and dating. I passionately advocate for women to prioritize their time and avoid freely giving it away. Excessive phone calls and early dinner dates can inadvertently signal low self-worth. Instead, I propose coffee dates as a practical means to vet potential partners and establish mutual respect and compatibility. With an emphasis on dating with intention, I share personal anecdotes and illuminating insights supported by scientific research. Let's delve into how nurturing a healthy, supportive relationship can positively impact various facets of life, from career success to overall well-being. Tune in for a thoughtful exploration of finding lasting love and building a fulfilling partnership.

In this episode, we will cover the profound reasons behind the dissatisfaction experienced by many women in their relationships, whether they are single, dating, or married. Join us as we explore how societal expectations and misconceptions have led women astray, leaving them drained and disconnected. We'll delve into the science of attraction and relationship dynamics, uncovering the secrets to fostering genuine connections and deepening intimacy. Learn about the stages of healing, activating feminine energy, and embracing your authentic self to attract the love you truly deserve. Discover practical strategies and transformative insights that will empower you to navigate the dating landscape with clarity and intention. This episode is a roadmap for women seeking to reclaim agency in their love lives and cultivate relationships rooted in mutual respect, joy, and fulfillment.

In this empowering episode, join us as we hear about Khadija's inspiring journey of transformation. Khadija opens up about her life before Boston University, where she navigated the challenges of divorce and a profound sense of loss and stress. Through her commitment and investment in herself, Khadija discovered a path to true self-worth and confidence. She shares how participating in the transformative Bosti program allowed her to shed fear and embrace love, ultimately leading to a profound shift in her life and relationships. Join us as Khadija discusses the incredible changes she experienced—moving from stress to self-assurance, from fear to love. Through her heartfelt words, Khadija encourages listeners to invest in themselves and prioritize self-love. Discover how she unlocked her feminine energy and found joy, and gain insights into the program that helped her blossom into the woman she was meant to be.

In this episode, we meet Maria Castillon, a successful entrepreneur whose journey from Mexico to Silicon Valley led her to helm a multimillion-dollar furniture company. Despite professional achievements, Maria felt a personal void and turned to self-care and personal development. Joining Shay's Boss Diva program was pivotal for Maria. Guided by mentorship and tools like meditation and coaching, Maria regained clarity and confidence. As she healed personally, her business thrived, expanding globally. Maria's story extends beyond business success. She redefined her relationships, prioritizing self-worth over validation. Now in a fulfilling partnership, Maria advocates fearlessly investing in personal growth, emphasizing that self-worth attracts fulfillment and success.

Explore the fascinating world of dating and attraction through this insightful presentation. Discover the intricate biochemical responses that drive romantic connections, with a focus on triggering vasopressin in men and managing oxytocin in women for lasting relationships. Learn why rushing physical intimacy can hinder long-term bonding and the importance of allowing time for a genuine connection to flourish. Gain valuable insights into power dynamics within relationships and empower yourself to recognize your worth. Ultimately, embrace a message of empowerment and self-value as you navigate the journey of love and connection.

Unlock the secrets of love, dating, and relationships in today's powerful episode. Join us as we debunk myths and explore the true dynamics at play. From understanding masculine and feminine energies to navigating the courting phase, this episode is packed with insights. Don't miss out!

In this episode, we're diving into feminine energy, intuition, and seduction. I'm speaking directly to women who've faced betrayal in relationships, stressing the need to trust their intuition and feminine power. I begin by acknowledging women's innate ability to sense relationship issues, emphasizing the strength of feminine intuition. I discuss how societal pressures lead women to ignore red flags, disconnecting from their authentic selves. Exploring feminine energy, I explain its association with women due to biological factors like estrogen levels. Society's push for equality often causes women to adopt more masculine traits, diluting their feminine power. I also delve into the historical context of seduction, highlighting how women's innate allure has been exploited. Women must reclaim their feminine power and heal past traumas to attract healthier relationships. Ultimately, this episode aims to empower women to embrace their intuition, tap into their feminine energy, and navigate relationships with confidence and authenticity.

Hey there, beautiful Diva! Welcome to another insightful episode where we'll dive deep into the fascinating world of dating and relationships. Today, I want to share some invaluable nuggets of wisdom that will help you navigate the twists and turns of the romantic journey. Let's start by unpacking some intriguing concepts, shall we? Ever heard of the "Pull Away Phase" or the "Coolidge Effect"? Well, buckle up, because we're going to explore why men sometimes seem to lose interest out of the blue, and how understanding these phenomena can empower you in your love life. Now, let's talk about triggering vasopressin and ramping up curiosity, anticipation, and polarity. These aren't just fancy terms; they're keys to unlocking deeper connections and fostering healthy, fulfilling relationships. And hey, setting standards and healing past wounds? Crucial steps in attracting the partner you truly deserve. So, grab a cup of tea, cozy up, and get ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment. By the end of this episode, you'll walk away with a newfound clarity and confidence to navigate the romantic landscape with grace and authenticity. Let's dive in!

Welcome to Love on Command podcast, where we dive deep into the complexities of modern relationships, dating dynamics, and self-love. As a certified Love Transformer and one of the top love coaches in the world, I bring you raw, unfiltered truths about love, dating, and femininity. Join me as I share insights, advice, and practical tips to help you navigate the intricate world of love and relationships. From understanding the pull-away phase to mastering the art of seduction, we cover it all. Get ready to transform your love life and unleash your inner diva.

In today's episode, we explore the intricate link between mental and physical well-being. I propose that a significant portion of weight gain is linked to inflammation, often stemming from past traumas and negative relationships. It's crucial to address these emotional wounds and boost self-worth for overall health and fulfilling relationships. Through personal anecdotes and client interactions, I highlight the transformative power of healing emotional scars on all aspects of life. Let's prioritize self-love, empowerment, and acknowledging our inherent worth for a healthier, happier existence.

In this thought-provoking podcast, join us as we delve into the profound influence of feminine energy and sexual power. From the societal shifts in masculinity to the ancient wisdom of feminine seduction, we explore how women's innate power has been historically marginalized and how reclaiming it can lead to profound personal transformation. Learn how to harness your sexual energy for manifestation, heal past traumas, and step into your true worthiness. Tune in for enlightening discussions and empowering insights to reclaim your feminine power and create your desired life.

Welcome to today's episode where we delve into the intricacies of attracting a deeply fulfilling relationship with a compatible partner. As your guide, I emphasize the crucial role of embracing truth and readiness for transformative change to enhance your journey towards finding love. We explore the common challenges confronted by women, particularly those over 40, shedding light on tendencies towards excessive independence, operating predominantly in masculine energy, and the lingering impact of unresolved traumas on relationship dynamics. Moreover, we dissect the phenomenon of attracting partners who resonate with one's current state rather than aspiring to match one's desired level of personal growth. Throughout our conversation, I extend a compelling call to action, urging listeners to embark on a profound self-reflection journey. It's imperative to discern what you genuinely seek in a relationship and take proactive measures to heal, evolve, and align with your ideal outcomes in love. Join me as we navigate this path together towards fulfilling and authentic connections.

Welcome to the podcast where we break down the intricacies of modern dating and relationships. Join us as we dive deep into the phases of relationships, from attraction to commitment, and learn how to navigate the complexities of love in today's world. In this episode, we explore the five phases of a relationship and delve into the biochemical reactions that drive attraction. From understanding the power of sexual energy to recognizing the importance of the pull-away phase, we uncover the secrets to building lasting connections. Listen in as we discuss the pitfalls of rushing into intimacy, the dangers of ignoring red flags, and the importance of setting boundaries. Discover how to harness your feminine energy, reclaim your power, and create the love life you deserve. Tune in to learn how to navigate the dating landscape with confidence and grace. Don't miss out on valuable insights and practical advice that will help you find and maintain a fulfilling relationship.

Join me, Shay, the love expert, as we unravel the mysteries of successful dating in this episode. We tackle the controversial issue of men expecting women to go 50/50 on dates, diving deep into the underlying reasons for such expectations. Discover the importance of treating dating as an interview process, learn to identify red flags, and explore a proven formula for attracting high-quality men. Drawing from 20 years of documented success and a unique dating experiment, I provide insights and share a feminine dating cheat sheet to guide those navigating the complexities of modern dating. Don't miss out on this episode for essential advice on finding love and forging meaningful connections in today's intricate dating landscape. I am Shay, and we're diving into the heart of dating wisdom!

In this powerful podcast episode, we delve into the transformative journey, unlocking the secrets of love with Shay, Your Love Diva. Learn the crucial principles for attracting the right man and establishing a lasting relationship. Explore the significance of polarity, pitfalls of dating in masculine energy, and the surprising impact of dinner on long-term commitment. Tune in to elevate your love game and embrace the truth – you are always the prize.

Join our empowering podcast episode as we dive deep into breaking through love blocks and transforming your life. In this soul-stirring discussion, we confront common beliefs and fears that hinder your ability to attract and sustain the love you deserve. From debunking the notion of being cursed to unraveling the fear of abandonment, we provide insights that empower you to embrace the magic of love in your life. Discover the profound impact of subconscious beliefs on your relationships and learn how to heal from past traumas. Our expert guide challenges the myths and misconceptions around love, offering a transformative journey towards understanding the true essence of love and relationships. Tune in for a powerful session that will inspire you to break free from self-imposed limitations and open yourself to the abundant love that awaits. Whether you're navigating the complexities of relationships or seeking a deeper connection with yourself, this episode is a beacon of wisdom and encouragement. Unlock the secrets to a fulfilling love life and embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and attracting the love you've always desired. Don't miss this opportunity to shift your perspective and create a love story that aligns with your highest aspirations. Subscribe now for a dose of love, empowerment, and transformation. Your journey to breaking love blocks starts here!

Unlock the secrets of dating and relationships in this eye-opening podcast episode. Join us as we delve into the biological intricacies of attraction, understanding the hormones like vasopressin and dopamine that play a pivotal role. Learn why the way you start a relationship matters and discover the science-backed strategies to build lasting connections. Don't miss out on the essential insights for navigating the world of dating with confidence and authenticity. Tune in now!

Join me in this journey. Let's uncover the complexities, empower ourselves, and learn to navigate the dating landscape with newfound awareness and resilience. This episode is your beacon toward reclaiming control, understanding, and embracing your strength in the world of relationships.

In today's episode, I delve deep into my personal journey – from a place of despair and financial struggle to finding abundance and purpose. I share the pivotal moments that shifted my perspective, the power of investing in oneself, and how aligning with abundance transforms not just your financial state, but your entire life. Join me as I uncover the keys to manifesting wealth and purposeful living.

Join us as we delve into the secrets of seduction and uncover the real essence of lasting connections. Discover how to elevate your dating game and cultivate healthy, meaningful relationships. Learn the power of attraction, the phases of courtship, and the profound impact of energy control. Uncover the truths about intimacy, hormonal health, and the pursuit of genuine, lasting love. This episode is packed with insights to transform your approach to relationships and empower your journey towards love and fulfillment.

In this episode, we delve into the complexities of love blocks, uncovering how they can obstruct the path to genuine love. Join us as we identify these barriers and dismantle them, paving the way for healthier and more fulfilling relationships.

Join us on the Love on Command podcast for an inspiring journey with Sheema, a phenomenal boss diva. She shares her transformation from attracting the wrong partners to manifesting her dream life and career success. From dealing with love blocks to embracing self-worth, her story empowers anyone seeking love and self-growth.