Welcome to the Madisonspeaks podcast, where amazing things happen.
It pains me to thing so many people feel so alone that they feel suicidal. We all claim we are friends but are we really? Is this I'm friends with you as long as you are in good spirits? We have to learn to love ppl through highs and lows.
Life and dating
Millennial women are now choosing to love on themselves and prioritize themselves, and not relationships and not everyone's happy. I've chosen to prioritize myself, and not settle.
Every year it seems that we set goals and we never get it together but that's OK because my new mantra is progress over perfection. I'm not looking to be perfect out the gate. I'm looking to build a discipline in order for me to achieve all the goals in which I set for myself I'm looking for me to create action plans for all of the things that I want in my life. Don't let society Rush your process
Today's episode, we're going to talk about how we suppress ourselves to fit in society. The way that we talk the clothes that we buy the things that we say are often times not our own and only what is deemed acceptable by society how much of the things that you wanna do you haven't done because you're so afraid of what someone else is going to think about it? I talk about my struggle and wanting to be excepted by society and how I have suppressed myself in many ways because I don't want to look crazy or I'm afraid that people are going to have an opinion about me and that I was taught that other peoples opinions of me is way more important than what I feel about myself.
I know the title sucks because often times we are our circumstances or so it feels however, our lives is our own and whatever it is that we want we can have we design how it's gonna look what we're gonna do what we're gonna say and what we're gonna be. It's up to us to choose who we are and what we want and so design your life the way that you want it and don't be mad at someone else for designing their life the way that they want it you're either a dreamer or doer.
I'm gonna say this once you can ask a man to respect you and then also ask him to feed you. You can't continue to request someone to respect you, but at any chance for any amount of money you're willing to disrespect yourself. If you want someone to respect you, you have to first respect yourself and then have your own shit. Often times I feel like my community keeps getting it wrong and begging to be taken care when we have all the tools to take care of our self.
For some of us, our entire lives, we've been told that we are to put ourselves on the back burner in order to make others feel comfortable. I discuss here how I've decided to honor myself in doing the things I want to do, and choosing not to do the things that I do not want to do. learning to love yourself outside of the noise. You are just as important as everyone else and how you feel it's just as important as how everyone else feels, and I'm here to say that we no longer need to stretch ourselves in ways that feel unnatural to us or do the things that we do not want to do. When others do not understand.
In life we aren't given the tools to manage life. We aren't taught how to manage stress or when things just don't go away. It's one of the things that you have to learn just by living life and how you want to cope with living an unpredictable life. We can't always control what happens to us but we definitely can control how we respond to those things that do happen to us
From birth we are told what we should want and how we should live our lives. But I'm here to tell you that not everyone wants the ““ American dream. You get to live your life exactly the way you wanna live it
It's funny how everybody is a guru on something. No one it seems today has the proper qualifications to give advice online but yet they do. I'm sick of it
I think often times when we think about life and how it should be live always taught and told to sacrifice what we truly want for the greater good of tomorrow but I don't know we think that's the right thing to do as well
When we think about successful individuals and people we wanna be like we all then think about the person that's in the front runner but the supporting characters are just as important if not often times more important than the person that is in the limelight Steve Jobs would've never been Steve Jobs without a team of Apple employees who are dedicated their lives to seeing Apple become what it is today everyone's important. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Fear is normal but it should atop you listen to how I crushes a major goal today all with a little help from some unlikely strangers
Life is a journey and things will always be perfect but it's not about what's not going wrong it's literally about what can I learn from this particular situation that I can take with me for the rest of my life --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Let's discuss this not so free world. Choosing what to do with your own body shouldn't be a ask or should it? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
how we operate in fear and make excuses for why we can't do something. Let's talk
In this episode we discuss feminism the hor culture and how it doesn't make any sense.
Hi you guys. I am so excited to share today's podcast about fear. Fear is natural but not when it's holding you back from being great. How many of us are afraid to do something because of what others may say or failing miserably. Is it really that bad? I don't think so let's talk
This episode is about figuring out who you are and what works for you. Mental clarity is important and so is knowing yourself but you can only get that through life experience and listening to yourself. This is how I handle things and what I have discovered about myself
A boss is a role I had to grown into couldn’t be a truer statement. Today I discuss transitioning stepping back in the short term for long term gains, hiring, firing and more . The crazy life of an entrepreneur.
This is about how in today’s Microwave society, many people expect so much reward with a little effort. The struggle of being a millennial and bad energy from a young black man’s perspective. Please bear with us we did have a bit of technical difficulties in the beginning but we got through it --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Hey you guys we all have a plan for our lives and have some idea of what we want but are we really planning for the future or are we just hoping it comes to us. Journey with me on this podcast where we will discuss ways and actual steps to achieving your goals --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Hey guys I just wanted to pop in and discuss my thoughts on opinions and how they hold us back from being the best versions of ourselves.
Let’s be honest how much of what we do want is because of what we can afford so many times we suppress the real things that we want because we are afraid that we may not be able to obtain those things because of our current circumstances
Sometimes it’s only through the doing that you’ll be able to learn what’s needed or was not needed we spent so much time trying to get ourselves ready for one particular moment, or to go after that next best thing, or to shoot for a dream is not understanding that it’s The journey that gets you ready
In this day and age or tall to Horus selves out to social media as a way to engage your audience but nobody wants to talk about the challenges and the Darkside to over sharing
This episode is about hyper sexualized culture and not holding ourselves accountable for the bullshit stories we told her self. Not being able to be an individual in this toxic ass culture. The mules in our community and so much more
We all have been there stressing and obsessing about growing and being successful. It’s normal. But when does the obsessing and stressing stop. How much of our lives as entrepreneurs do we need to Miss ? When is enough enough? When do we create time for the ones we love and stop trying to use money as the illusion of success.
Ha role wasn’t build in a day and neither was any Fortune 500 company. Patience is something that’s really hard to have because well you know. Social media makes everything look so easy but in hind sight worrying and obsessing is only making you sick. Let me explain
My take on the American system and how they have convinced us we are not enough. How we should learn to live without so we can pay their bills. Don’t let them play with you.
Just a little discussion on my journey abs what I do to stay motivated when I’m just not feeling it --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
We all want to accomplish our goals and sometimes we fail to realize that the most important part is the journey we take to reach our goals. I discuss how I found a way to be happy with the journey to my dreams.
sometimes you have to embrace embarrassment to grow
Life is nothing but a huge game. We learn to survive and power through. Each level ultimately preparing us for the next stage of life. Listen us while I give my thoughts on this and how I navigate through. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
What to do when you don’t know what to do. Learning to be intentional and get still
Often times we feel lost angry and confused and we don’t know what to do. We experienced so much in our life And we aren’t given the tools to deal with life. I’m here to tell you your valid in your feelings it’s OK to feel what you’re feeling and how we can heal from
We all have that we stop doing things that we want to do because of fear of judgment. We cut ourselves short in so many ways because we are afraid to be outcasts to be different because so many of us understand or have seen other people be made fun of or outcast because of their differences. This podcast is about how to stay true to yourself in a room for the phonies. how to shake the noise --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Some days we don’t feel motivated to do much of anything however on the road to success we have to learn how to turn those on motivated days into days victory --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Change can be scary but if your a person who wants to grow as a person or as a entrepreneur some of your beliefs maybe holding you back. Being a introvert maybe stalking your success Getting comfortable with being uncomfortable is more about stepping out of your shell and allowing yourself to have new experiences --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Being a student of the game is understanding that there will be many times in your life and many circumstances that you will not know. Times when you will be confused or the dumbest person in the room but in order to grow you must understand that you are forever a student to the game. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
It seems like we’re always waiting for a sign. A sign to be better and a sign to do better but I’m here to tell you it’s never gonna happen you have to order your steps create action plans and rebuild your mindset about change --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Yes we’re all on our own personal journey to something somewhere however many times we don’t address the real issues that we’re having. why am I behaving in this way? why do I do the things that I do? once you know the answer to these questions you’re better able to grow and heal from them because now you know what to look for. Listen to me tell the story of the lesson I’ve learned today --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Why do we spend more time planning a wedding then dating our mate? You spend so much time picking the venue and are meticulous about every little detail but fail to be as Meticulous when trying to find a mate. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Being authentic is wack now. Following our own voice is not something many of us do because we are taught that everyone else’s opinion is far more important then our own. I. This podcast I discus why they don’t matter period --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Yes being a workaholic is great you’re getting closer and closer and closer to your dreams. But what are you sacrificing in the meantime with the idea of all work and and no play? Over exerting ourselves is doing more harm than good to Us mentally,physically and emotionally and I’m here to tell you it’s not working --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Hustlers mindset will not work as a entrepreneur. There is a difference between being a entrepreneur and being a hustler. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
So often we get the urge to jump the gun. We prefer to get a cheat code to skip certain levels while that’s all fine and dandy for he short term, it can have long term consequences. Here us out sometimes it can work but many times there was something very important you have to learn on each level --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
We all know people who are just successful and it seems that they can’t do no wrong. Everything they touch turns to gold. While everything you touch nothing. I discuss reason why I feel people make it and others font --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app