We met while coming out of the most difficult time of our lives. While overcoming the emotional and financial strains of our previous marriages, we both sought after a different way of living. It's our hope that by sharing what we've learned, we can help others turn their stress into success.
Hi all and welcome to another episode of Sig & Stig. In this episode, we talk about Finances with kids. How we can help set our kids up for financial success through our own behaviors. Shop Heather's Designs at https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheStigMomEquipment used:ATH-M20x Headsets https://amzn.to/2Bv4P1fFocusrite Scarlett 2i2 Mixer https://amzn.to/2YYAssUAudio-Technica AT2020 Microphone https://amzn.to/2NZmxwuBuy the entire set here https://amzn.to/2NXl0XEFollow us at:https://www.sigandstig.comhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstighttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
I hope all of you had a wonderful Independence day celebration. Ours has been packed since J's kids arrived. They have been keeping us plenty busy and it's only been a week. What have you been up to?Shop Heather's Designs at https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheStigMomEquipment used:ATH-M20x Headsets https://amzn.to/2Bv4P1fFocusrite Scarlett 2i2 Mixer https://amzn.to/2YYAssUAudio-Technica AT2020 Microphone https://amzn.to/2NZmxwuBuy the entire set here https://amzn.to/2NXl0XEFollow us at:https://www.sigandstig.comhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstighttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStigSee the Aftershow at http://patreon.com/sigandstigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Happy early Father's Day and welcome to Coffee Break with Sig and Stig. This week Heather takes off to California with the kids so she decided to celebrate Father's Day a week early. Heather's T-shirt Designshttps://shop.sigandstig.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheStigMomEquipment used:ATH-M20x Headsets https://amzn.to/399k7DDFocusrite Scarlett 2i2 Mixer https://amzn.to/3affDwpAudio-Technica AT2020 Microphone https://amzn.to/2wmnp9iBuy the entire set here https://amzn.to/33FHvY1Follow us at:https://www.sigandstig.comhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstighttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStigSee the Aftershow at http://patreon.com/sigandstigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Good morning! and welcome to Coffee Break with Sig and Stig. This week Justin's sister gave birth to a beautiful baby girl and so Heather and I decided we would make this episode about parenting advice to the new parents. This, of course, includes the weird advice people on Facebook shared with us.Heather's T-shirt Designshttps://shop.sigandstig.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheStigMomEquipment used:ATH-M20x Headsets https://amzn.to/399k7DDFocusrite Scarlett 2i2 Mixer https://amzn.to/3affDwpAudio-Technica AT2020 Microphone https://amzn.to/2wmnp9iBuy the entire set here https://amzn.to/33FHvY1Follow us at:https://www.sigandstig.comhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstighttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStigSee the Aftershow at http://patreon.com/sigandstigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Good morning! and welcome to Coffee Break with Sig and Stig. This week we give marriage advice for the newlyweds. This of course, includes the weird advice people on Facebook shared with us. Heather and I run through what we found to work for us and we think it may work for you as well. Heather's T-shirt Designshttps://shop.sigandstig.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheStigMomEquipment used:ATH-M20x Headsets https://amzn.to/399k7DDFocusrite Scarlett 2i2 Mixer https://amzn.to/3affDwpAudio-Technica AT2020 Microphone https://amzn.to/2wmnp9iBuy the entire set here https://amzn.to/33FHvY1Follow us at:https://www.sigandstig.comhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstighttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStigSee the Aftershow at http://patreon.com/sigandstigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Happy Mother's Day and welcome to Coffee Break with Sig and Stig. This week we talk about mothers and step-mothers. Heather and I run through the good things they have done in our lives and our children's lives.Heather's T-shirt Designshttps://shop.sigandstig.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheStigMomEquipment used:ATH-M20x Headsets https://amzn.to/399k7DDFocusrite Scarlett 2i2 Mixer https://amzn.to/3affDwpAudio-Technica AT2020 Microphone https://amzn.to/2wmnp9iBuy the entire set here https://amzn.to/33FHvY1Follow us at:https://www.sigandstig.comhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstighttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStigSee the Aftershow at http://patreon.com/sigandstigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Welcome to another episode of Coffee Break with Sig and Stig. This week we talk about sparking joy in your partner. Heather and I run through using the Marie Kondo method to help build a better relationship.Sig and Stig Kids Chores and Jobs List: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1zOp9...Total Money Makeover: https://amzn.to/3et8Gul Smart Money, Smart Kids: https://amzn.to/2RQHQTcHeather's T-shirt Designshttps://shop.sigandstig.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheStigMomThe 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman https://amzn.to/35vE6MnThe 5 Love Languages quiz https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/Equipment used:ATH-M20x Headsets https://amzn.to/399k7DDFocusrite Scarlett 2i2 Mixer https://amzn.to/3affDwpAudio-Technica AT2020 Microphone https://amzn.to/2wmnp9iBuy the entire set here https://amzn.to/33FHvY1Follow us at:https://www.sigandstig.comhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstighttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStigSee the Aftershow at http://patreon.com/sigandstigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Welcome to another episode of Coffee Break with Sig and Stig. This week we talk about the challenges that we faced in our relationship. Heather is overly energetic in this episode BTW. Share your thoughts and opinions. Sig and Stig Kids Chores and Jobs List: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1zOp9...Total Money Makeover: https://amzn.to/3et8Gul Smart Money, Smart Kids: https://amzn.to/2RQHQTcHeather's T-shirt Designshttps://shop.sigandstig.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheStigMomEquipment used:ATH-M20x Headsets https://amzn.to/399k7DDFocusrite Scarlett 2i2 Mixer https://amzn.to/3affDwpAudio-Technica AT2020 Microphone https://amzn.to/2wmnp9iBuy the entire set here https://amzn.to/33FHvY1Follow us at:https://www.sigandstig.comhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstighttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStigSee the Aftershow at http://patreon.com/sigandstigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Hey guys!! Welcome back to another episode of Coffee Break with Sig and Stig. Chores and Jobs is the topic this week. We also covered a bit of Dave Ramsey books and our own chore list with you all. We would love to hear how you handle chores and jobs for your kids. Share your thoughts and opinions. Oh and Heathers new T-Shirt Design
Hey guys!! Welcome back to another episode of Coffee Break with Sig and Stig. We skipped last week because reasons but we are back. This week we recapture two weeks of adventure and other things we have done. Birds, chicks, shopping, education, and people's attitudes because of COVID. Oh and Heathers new T-Shirt Design
We spoke with Sherri Story, a member of the Suffolk School Board of Education, about hurdles faced during these unprecedented times and the ways Virginia schools are getting it right. Sherri Story's linkshttps://www.facebook.com/changesps4thebetter/https://sherristory.com/sherristory@spsk12.netHeather's T-shirt Designshttps://shop.sigandstig.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheStigMomOther Sites talked abouthttps://www.spsk12.net/emergency_informationEquipment usedATH-M20x HeadsetsFocusrite Scarlett 2i2 MixerAudio-Technica AT2020 MicrophoneBuy the entire set hereFollow us at:https://www.sigandstig.comhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstighttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Hey listeners, welcome to another episode of Coffee Break with Sig & Stig. In this episode, we talk about what we have been doing during the ever-increasing quarantine. Heather had some difficulties with her Etsy store because of COVID-19 Policy so we had to make another store outside of Etsy. This wouldn't have happened had it not been for the help and support from the members of the group Drink'n Bros. Heather's T-shirt Designshttps://shop.sigandstig.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheStigMomOther Sites talked abouthttps://the-moc.comhttps://www.warriorsnextadventure.com/Equipment usedATH-M20x HeadsetsFocusrite Scarlett 2i2 MixerAudio-Technica AT2020 MicrophoneBuy the entire set hereFollow us at:https://www.sigandstig.comhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstighttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Hey all and welcome to another episode of Coffee Break with Sig and Stig. In this episode, we are talking about COVID-19 and Heather's anxiety (No correlation to coronavirus). No need to panic, just wash your hands and follow the directions given by the Center for Disease Control (CDC) and you significantly reduce your probability of infection. If you are one of those people who are infected, don't be a jerk and spread it around. Stay home, order delivery and keep everyone safe. Heather's T-shirt Designshttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheStigMomCOVID-19 Website by John Hopkins Universityhttps://coronavirus.jhu.edu/Heather's Favorite Lubricating GelSliquid Organics Natural Lubricating GelFollow us at:https://www.sigandstig.comhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstighttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStig/Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
In this episode, we talk about reconciling after deployment. There are always significant changes that happen when you return from deployment whether it is a few weeks or several months. The person that was away is now the disruptor of the new routine without them. Follow us at:https://www.sigandstig.comhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstighttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStig/Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
This week you get to see our message in action as we come to you together… from separate states. It is difficult to maintain a healthy family balance when one or both partners have to be apart for long periods of time. When we think of families separated by distance, military, first-responders, flight attendants, salesmen and truckers, but some other common examples are migrant workers, inmates, immigrants, and divorced parents. Follow us at:snapchat: thestigmomwww.instagram.com/sigandstighttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStig/https://sigandstig.comSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
In this episode, we talk about giving up on each other. As you can see, we didn't give up BUT we came close to calling it quits. Dating, being engaged after nasty divorces, and dealing with all our excess emotional and mental baggage made living with each other a bit difficult. We made it through and I am glad we did. We talk about how we got there, things we did to make it through, and what we still do to this day. Book Mentions:Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud https://amzn.to/2SQZfvI Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman https://amzn.to/2SU1XANFollow us at:snapchat: thestigmomwww.instagram.com/sigandstighttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStig/https://sigandstig.comSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Stay tuned for today's episode. Last week in episode 17 we talked about divorce (https://youtu.be/9iJ0sxEuYq8) This week we follow it up with prospecting for a partner. We talk about how to avoid making the same mistakes, pitfalls, giving yourself time, red flags and advice that helped us.Don't forget to follow us at @sigandstig and view our blog at sigandstig.com#Divorce #redflags #abusiverelationships #abusiverelationshipsurvivor #pitfalls #mistakes #overcoming #newrelationship #selflove #movingon #movingforward #datingafterdivorce #datingafterabuse #datingadvicehttp://sigandstig.comhttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStig/https://www.youtube.com/c/Thestigmomhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstig/https://twitter.com/sigandstigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Follow us at:http://sigandstig.comhttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStig/https://www.youtube.com/c/Thestigmomhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstig/https://twitter.com/sigandstigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Sig and Stig give a "deep" discussion on the "in's and out's" of sex.We talk about intimacy, communication, sex positivity, body positivity, and building a better and more confident relationship.Follow us at:http://sigandstig.comhttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStig/https://www.youtube.com/c/Thestigmomhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstig/https://twitter.com/sigandstigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Happy New Year Peeps!Any new goals for 2020? Today, we're recapping the emotions we felt leading up to the arrival of all four SigKids, what we did to prepare, expectation management, and the reality of our time together as a whole family for the first time in two years!Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Happy Sunday Peeps!I don't know about you but we have noticed the seemingly infinite things competing for our time and attention, especially during this holiday season. Our children's activities, work, personal goals, housecleaning, appointments, it can leave us feeling drained and disconnected. We've always made date night a priority, but man, those costs add up and frankly, date night breeds these expectations that rarely ever live up to the hype. we've gone over countless ideas on Pinterest for cheap dates, and while some of those ideas were winners, many of them simply didn't suit us as a couple. It's important to keep trying to tailor dates and events that fit your life and personalities because studies show that couples who plan a date night once a month are 30% more likely to stay together. More importantly, studies have found that the key component of successful marriages is the ability to laugh with your partner! So take a listen, then plan some time with your favorite human and let them know how glad you are to have them in your life. *Bonus* We've put together some free date printables on our blog: https://sigandstig.com/2019/12/08/ep-13-dating-to-keep-your-love-life-lively/Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Happy Sunday, Peeps!Today we're discussing what happens when you think you are helping only to find you're really making things worse, and how to aid your partner without taking their burdens on yourself.You can't assume you know how someone else thinks and feels because you see things from your unique perspective and value system, which are rarely the same as your partner’s. So what can you do?To the Listeners: Tell us about a time when you tried to help your partner only to discover that your help was not what your partner needed. Were you able to remedy the situation? What did you find your partner ACTUALLY needed?What advice can you share with others about helping your partner while minimizing the effect on your own mental health? Items talked about:Boiron, Histaminum Hydrochloricum 30C Multi-Dose Tube, 80 Count23andmeAs an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
After some hurtful words last night, we work through our issues and mediate the differences in our parenting styles. Some shocking revelations come to light that adds to the seriousness of today's topic.Listeners: Please share your best advice on how you overcome differences in parenting. Every bit of thoughtful advice will be much appreciated.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Happy Sunday Peeps!Today, we're looking at the importance of family dinners, quality family time, and how extracurricular activities impact the overall wellness of the family.Jackie Mann is a Southern California mama of 2 grown sons who were active in sports, music programs, and engineering pursuits. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Our kids are always keeping us on our toes with their questions, which get more challenging with outside influences, different households, and age. How do we navigate through these conversations? How open is "too open"?To Our Listeners: * How do you determine what is appropriate for your kids? * What things (if any) do you not want to share with your kids? * What do you wish your parents had been more open about with you?Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Happy Sunday Peeps!We are a military family, we have plenty of time apart. When Siggy arrives at home after being gone for duty, or weeks in the field, all the family members want to bombard him, without considering that he may need rest or just time to decompress. Stigmom, spends most of her time around family and craves time to herself just scrolling social media, but when Siggy is around, he doesn't like her to be distracted on her phone. How can Sig and Stig give each other space they both need while still being attentive partners?Today we touch on how to keep your identity in a relationship. It can be so easy to invest your whole self into your partner, family, and friends. after a while, it can feel like we've lost ourselves in our relationship(s), and eventually may even start to feel suffocating. We share about situations we've experienced and have worked through, and some we still need to work on. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
After this last move, we found ourselves without a village, and to be honest, it sucks! What can you do when faced with having to do life so far from home?Listeners who either don't have a relationship with your families or are living a considerable distance apart, who do you turn to when your cup is empty, and you need support? How do you quickly build and maintain close relationships for yourself and your children when you move often?Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Good Morning Peeps!There are about 13.6 MILLION custody agreements in the United States. What happens when the parents named in those custody agreements are high conflict? What happens when one or both parents weaponizes their children against the other? Today’s episode addresses our experience with high conflict exes, what we’ve done in the past, and how we manage to keep our sanity when those ugly situations arise again. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
What's up Peeps! Update: Heather's mental health has been steadily improving, with many "normal" days mixed back in. What a relief. Thank you all for your messages, phone calls, and good vibes. Today, we catch you up on the week including a spat that happened between our girls. To be honest, we're a little divided on the appropriate course of action. What are your thoughts on letting your kids swear (at home)?How do you choose to discipline your child when he/she crosses set boundaries?Check us out at:http://sigandstig.comhttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStig/https://www.youtube.com/c/Thestigmomhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstig/https://twitter.com/sigandstigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
*Sensitive Content Warning*Hey Peeps, today we're discussing the reason behind the time gap. Spoiler alert: Heather finally lost her marbles. We're discussing her hospitalizations, factors, reactions, and what she's doing to recover. About half of the adult population experiences some form of mental illness in their lifetime, about a third of adults battle anxiety disorders specifically, and yet treatments are still (for the most part) left to trial and error. Many medications even increase anxiety and depression and take weeks, even months, to adjust to. Mental illness is something you should never have to face alone. We are big advocates for counseling, but if you ever find your thoughts racing and feelings of hopelessness take over, please, reach out the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255, or take yourself into the emergency room. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Hey Hey Hey! This morning we're touching on a subject that is sexy... glamourous... and something most people don't openly talk about... THE BUDGET! Money matters can be a huge source of contention in relationships, but it doesn't have to be. Dealing with finance issues head on can save precious hours so you can find other things to argue about! Here are our top 5 budgeting tips:1. Plan ahead2. Be conscious of what and why you are buying something3. Live within your means4. Discount stores are your friend5. The budget is flexible, be flexible but prioritize your bills too.Things we use:AMEX Platinum ($550 Fee waived for Active Duty)VetTix.orgAcorns.comBudget SheetDave RamseyBlog post on BudgetingSig and Stig may receive some compensation on some links at no cost to the listeners.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Hey, What's good fam?! Today we're talking a little about who we are, what you can expect from our show, and our week in review. Grab your favorite cup of whatever (we won't judge) and sit down with us. Skrimp Shack menu.Care to Donate:Buy us a CoffeeCheck us out at:http://sigandstig.comhttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStig/https://www.youtube.com/c/Thestigmomhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstig/https://twitter.com/sigandstigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)
Today we’ll catch up on our 3000 mile cross country road trip and the joys of home ownership in a small southern town.Youtube Video of Ava using Siri:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lXUoOS9cPyMPCS photo album:PCS Album 2019Book mentionThe Great SantiniCheck us out at:http://sigandstig.comhttps://www.facebook.com/SigandStig/https://www.youtube.com/c/Thestigmomhttps://www.instagram.com/sigandstig/https://twitter.com/sigandstigSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sigandstig)