Podcasts about stepdads

ResourcesEpisode 210.  Is Your Child Pulling Away?  Here's How to Respond with Wisdom and LoveEpisode 211.  8 Warning Signs Your Ex is Manipulating Your Child's Heart and MindEpisode 6. Are Your Kids Stuck in a 'Parental Allegiance' and What Can You Do About It?Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts, too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we appreciate your feedback!

We know how heartbreaking it can be when your child starts pulling away from you.  It can leave you wondering if your ex is negatively influencing them behind the scenes. We've lived it. In this deeply personal episode, we open up about the painful season we went through with Kim's daughter, Annika. We talk through how to recognize the signs of manipulation, avoid common parenting missteps, and respond in ways that protect your child's emotional well-being.  All while preserving your connection. Plus, we share the powerful strategy we call “the pebble in the shoe” and how it can shift distorted narratives over time and help your child embrace the truth. If it seems like you're living under a black cloud, and you're feeling discouraged or defeated, there is hope. You're not alone, and your story isn't over.You'll Discover:How to identify subtle signs that your co-parent may be manipulating your child — and how you can respond effectivelyHelpful ways to communicate with a hurt, angry, rejecting, distant child.A powerful strategy (“the pebble in the shoe”) to gently counter misinformation without escalating conflictThe importance of remaining steady and staying connected even when your child is distancing themselves from youResources from this Episode:Episode 210. Is Your Child Pulling Away?  Here's How to Respond with Wisdom and LoveArticle by Dr. Bob Evans:  17 Primary Alienation StrategiesEpisode 194. Powerful Tips for Effectively Connecting with Your Angry or Distant Child [ with Dr. Amy J.L. Baker]Book by Amy J.L. Baker:  Parenting Under Fire - How to Communicate with Your Hurt, Angry, Rejecting, Distant ChildEpisode 195. Connecting with Kim's HARD Child - Facing the Challenges of Parental AlienationEpisode 161. How do Healthy Parent/Child Roles Help Avoid the Pitfalls of Parentification [with Ron Deal & Lauren Reitsema]Episode 112. 3 Dangerous Dynamics That Can Destroy Co-Parenting - And Hurt the KidsEpisode 113. How to Respond When Being Disregarded, Devalued, or Dismissed by Your Former SpouseEpisode 175. 8 Tips to Protect Kids From Stress and Tension When Moving Between HomesEpisode 33. How to Cope with a Difficult Ex and Protect Your Kids Ready for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Leave a Review in Apple PodcastsWe would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts. Your review will help others find our podcast. Are you ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether

De podcast is jarig! Hoera, we zijn 6 jaar en dat vieren we met... alleen Perry en Marnix? Gelukkig hebben ze wel genoeg gespeeld, biedt random Wikipedia een uitkomst, en is er ook nog wat nieuws om over te praten.Games die we gespeeld hebben:Clair ObscureAssassin's Creed ShadowsOnimusha 2 remasterIt Takes Two Voor films die we aanraden, check onze lijst op Letterboxd!Vragen, suggesties of andere opmerkingen kun je makkelijk en snel achterlaten in dit formuliertje of via de mail: info@gamelovepodcast.nl. Wil je niets missen? Bekijk dan onze website, gamelovepodcast.nl, en volg ons op Twitter en Instagram: @gamelovepodcast. Gamelove podcast by Gamelove is licensed under Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike 4.0 International

A 26-year-old man is dead in Florida after his stepfather shot him during an argument that started with a child playing Fortnite. Jussie Smollett is settling a long-running civil case in Illinois by agreeing to donate $50,000 to a Chicago charity instead of repaying the full cost of the police investigation into the actor's fake hate crime report. Drew Nelson reports.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Florida Mom, Rachiel Moore Gets Life Without Parole for Hiring Ex-Stepdad to Take Out Father In Custody Battle A 27-year-old Florida mother will die in prison for orchestrating the murder of her 4-year-old daughter's father—an ambush carried out in front of the child only hours after a judge granted the victim shared custody. On Thursday, Santa Rosa Circuit Judge Clifton Drake sentenced Rachiel Moore to life without the possibility of parole for the March 2023 slaying of 24-year-old Colby Vinson. A jury had convicted Moore of first-degree murder and evidence tampering, finding she enlisted her former stepfather, 55-year-old Jason Curtis, to pull the trigger. Curtis was convicted of the same murder in May and also received life without parole. Prosecutors said phone and social-media records showed Moore and Curtis traded messages “all week” plotting the hit. Moore wired gas money and provided Vinson's home and work addresses, physical description, and daily routine so Curtis—nicknamed “Booger”—could identify and kill him. Deputies were dispatched just after 10 p.m. on March 19 to an apartment complex on Navarre Parkway, about 170 miles west of Tallahassee. They found Vinson on his back outside his doorway, shot once in the face, as his preschool-aged daughter stood beside his body unharmed. Moore's godmother told detectives the shooting came the very night Vinson first exercised overnight visitation in nearly a year. Hours earlier, a family-court judge had awarded him split custody after a contentious legal fight with Moore. When investigators questioned Moore, she admitted venting to Curtis about the ruling. She said Curtis responded by sending Facebook Messenger photos of guns and knives. Moore thanked him “for making her feel better” and then deleted the app, later claiming she had not believed Curtis would act on his threats. According to the probable-cause affidavit, Curtis phoned Moore around 10 p.m. on the night of the murder and told her, “You don't have to worry about it—everything is fine. I have to put my a-- in the wind.” Moore described his tone as “excited” and promised to reimburse him $50 for gas. License-plate readers and cellphone data placed Curtis's vehicle on a northbound route to Alabama, where state troopers arrested him the next day. Inside the car, officers recovered a handgun believed to be the murder weapon and a handwritten note listing Vinson's appearance and both residential and workplace addresses. During trial, jurors heard that Moore deleted messages, removed apps from her phone, and asked acquaintances to lie about her whereabouts in an effort to hide her involvement. The tampering conviction stems from those attempts to erase digital evidence. After Thursday's sentencing, State Attorney Ginger Bowden Madden praised local, state, and federal agencies that “worked seamlessly to secure justice for Colby Vinson and his daughter, who witnessed an unimaginable crime.” Moore showed little emotion as she was led from the courtroom in shackles. She offered no apology to Vinson's family, who filled several rows wearing blue ribbons in the victim's memory. Curtis remains in a Florida state prison; Moore will soon join him, both without any chance of release. Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/tonybpod Listen Ad-Free On Apple Podcasts Here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/true-crime-today-premium-plus-ad-free-advance-episode/id1705422872

ResourcesEpisode 210. Is Your Child Pulling Away?  Here's How to Respond with Wisdom and Love Episode 207. 4 Big Myths About Parenting When an Ex Has Different Rules and How to Build ConsistencySuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts, too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Send us a textIn this episode of the Dad Club Japan Podcast, Christian—an Australian YouTuber now living in Fukuoka—shares his personal journey of moving to Japan, getting married, and becoming a stepfather to an 11-year-old boy.We talk about the culture shock of parenting in Japan, how he gave up photography to pursue YouTube full-time, and how removing screens changed his stepson's behavior for the better.Christian also opens up about daily routines, creative inspiration in Japan, and his future dream of opening a community café that blends Aussie and Japanese culture.Watch to hear the real-life highs and challenges of being a foreign parent in Japan.Christian's YouTube channel here:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc23bEqMGwa_bsKVw4pt0wg

On today's episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori sits down with Chad Bignac, transformationist, consultant, author, and coauthor of the new book “Blend, Don't Break.” Drawing from over 22 years of blended family experience, Chad opens up about the challenges he and his wife faced merging their families after personal tragedies, including the loss of his first wife and his current wife's ex-husband. Chad shares candidly about the painful missteps and valuable lessons learned along their journey, from clashing parenting styles and personal assumptions to the importance of unity, compassion, and self-growth. He details the turning point in his family's story, catalyzed by his wife's severe health crisis, and how choosing to respond rather than react helped heal deep family rifts. Through heartfelt stories and practical wisdom, Chad emphasizes the power of compassion, influence over authority, and the need to unpack old emotional baggage before starting anew. Whether you're in a blended family or looking for guidance on overcoming personal and family struggles, this episode offers honest insights and hope for healing and connection. In this episode, we discuss: - Early Challenges in Blending - Authority vs. Influence in Parenting - Becoming a “Student of Your Children” - Creating Environments for Healing in Blended Families - Advice for Prospective Stepfamilies  Nacho Kids Success Story: I thought stepping up meant stepping all the way in, but it was destroying me. As a stepdad, I believed it was my job to take the lead and fix everything. I disciplined, managed homework, scheduled appointments… and got nothing but pushback. My wife and I were constantly arguing, and I felt like an outsider in my own home. Then we found Nacho Kids. Learning to Nacho helped me stop parenting by proxy and start supporting my wife as her partner, not as a replacement dad. The stress lifted, and surprisingly, my stepkids started warming up to me once I stepped out of the power struggle. Nacho Kids didn't just change our home, it gave me my peace back. ~Mark T., Stepdad of 2            

A New Jersey couple's twisted torture and years of abuse, involving dog crates and collars, is finally exposed...after the woman's teen daughter escapes this house of Hell & runs to a neighbor for help! A 48-year-old fingerprint on a cigarette pack nails a killer in a young California mom's brutal murder. Plus, a $2.5Mill fake food free-for-all uncovered! Now 3 delivery drivers are being served some justice! Jennifer Gould reports. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode, we hear about: ·       A woman feeling violated by a recent discovery ·       A father who is angry about time lost with his kids since the divorce ·       A mother struggling to explain to her son why he can't go to sleepovers Next Steps: 

This one hits close to home for us. In this episode, we're opening up about a painful season in our parenting journey when Kim's daughter began pulling away from our home and requesting to spend more time at her dad's. We know how confusing, heartbreaking, and disorienting this can be, especially for blended families with limited time together. That's why we're sharing 3 essential tips that can help you manage yourself in a tough parenting moment, retain connection with your child, and respond in a healthy, constructive way.   You're not alone—and there is a path forward.You'll Discover:The emotional impact of watching a child distance themselves from you - and how to manage your emotions and reactions.How to ask powerful, curious questions that open the door to connection and uncover what's under the surface.Why validation can change the tone of any tough parenting conversation.A practical way to co-create one new action step with your child, without caving in to their requests.The truth about whether kids “get to choose” where they live at a certain age.Resources from this Episode:Episode 184. The Heart of Motherhood:  Navigating Messy Moments with Empathy and Love (emotional regulation)Episode 168. Actionable Steps For Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem SolveEpisode 33.  How to Cope with a Difficult Ex and Protect Your Kids  Ready for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! Are you ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether

Title: Show Me Your Circle: The Truth About Who You Are BecomingStep into Episode 164 of On the Delo as David DeLorenzo explores the powerful truth behind the phrase: “Show me your circle, and I'll show you who you are.” In this deeply personal solo episode, Delo reflects on the evolution of friendships, family, and connection through each season of life—and why identifying your “top 5” people might just reveal who you're becoming.Drawing from his own upbringing, relationships, and even humorous memories of childhood and high school awkwardness, Delo guides listeners through an honest exercise in evaluating the energy we keep around us. From childhood best friends and step-parent bonds to former classmates and fleeting connections—he unpacks how every relationship shapes our growth, purpose, and mindset.Chapter Guide (Timestamps): (0:00 - 3:00) Introduction: Episode 164 and Why Your Circle Matters (3:01 - 7:00) Aging, Parents, and the Shrinking Support System (7:01 - 11:00) Childhood, Divorce, and Unexpected Gifts (11:01 - 15:30) Stepdad, Atlanta Roots, and the McGuire Brotherhood (15:31 - 19:30) Family Isn't Always Blood—Finding Your True Tribe (19:31 - 23:00) Navigating Social Circles in High School and Beyond (23:01 - 26:30) Reunions, Reflections, and Resonance in Relationships (26:31 - 30:00) The Top 5 Audit: How to Protect Your Energy (30:01 - 31:23) Built Different, Masterminds, and What's NextThis episode is packed with raw reflections, funny moments, and a challenge to look inward—who's really showing up for you when it counts? Whether you're reassessing your current relationships or just need a reminder to protect your peace, Delo's storytelling will inspire you to level up your circle and your life.

Brace yourself. This Dirty Little Secret might just be one of the most jaw-dropping confessions yet. A caller reveals a romantic entanglement that’s not just scandalous—it’s a full-blown family bombshell. It starts with suspicion... and ends in a place no one saw coming.

ResourcesEpisode 129. What does it take to build and maintain trust in your relationship?Episode 119. 6 Tips to Grow Empathy and Create More Connection in Your MarriageEpisode 203. How to Make Better Decisions and Solve Problems as a United TeamEpisode 108. 3 Unity Breakers that are Detrimental to Your Connection and How You Can Avoid ThemEpisode 206. Avoid These 5 Common Pitfalls to Ensure a Successful PartnershipEpisode 192. A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's KidsEpisode 154. What practical and emotional shifts can you expect as you blend your family?Episode 107. 3 Disheartening Realities That No Couple Wants To Go Through - But We all Have ToEpisode 187. Basics for Blending:  How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 1 of 2)Episode 160. A 4-Part Framework for Achievable Expectations and How to Live Them OutSuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! 

If you've ever wrestled with second-guessing yourself, feeling stuck in past mistakes, or wondering if you can truly trust yourself again, you're not alone. In this episode, we open up about the very real struggles with self-doubt that we've faced personally and that we often see in the blended couples we coach.Together, we're exploring five powerful habits that can help you break free from the cycle of self-doubt and start building real, lasting confidence. We'll share practical mindset shifts and simple steps you can take today to start building more self-trust. We hope that you'll walk away feeling seen, encouraged, and ready to believe in yourself again — because real healing, growth, and breakthrough are possible.You'll Discover:5 essential habits to break free from self-doubt and trust in yourselfReplace self-criticism with self-compassion. Conquer fear, guilt, and worry. Embrace a growth mindset. Speak up with confidence. Let go of perfectionism by adjusting your expectations.Why your daily habits matter more than your genetics or past experiences when it comes to self-confidence.Simple tools to overcome self-sabotaging habits and learn to trust yourself.Resources from this Episode:Check out our supportive community, Blending TogetherSoundtracks by Jon AcuffThe Beginner's Guide to Self-Compassion by Nick WignallEpisode 99. 3 Tips to Help You Move Beyond Painful Guilt and RegretEpisode 180. Break free from Guilt and Blend with Authenticity and SecurityEpisode 179. Conquer Fear and Embrace Your Blend with Confidence and Clarity Episode 165. How important is your mindset when it comes to blended family life?Episode 50. How to Openly Communicate What You Really Want (Assertive Communication)What Causes Perfectionism and How to Get Over It by Nick WignallEpisode 14. 3 Helpful Steps to Overcome Your "Perfectionist" Ideals and DisappointmentsEpisode 187. Basics for Blending:  How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 1 of 2)Ready for some extra support?We're here to help!  Schedule your free coaching call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsWe would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts .  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you!

In this episode, we wrap up our McNerdy tribute to the early films of Patrick Dempsey, along with discussing a couple of movies, TV shows, and how it's a great time for the Gen Xer to get back into gaming!

Additional ResourcesEpisode 178. Suriving the Turbulent Teen Years:  Expert Insight and Strategies for Today's Parent [with Dr. Michael Bradley]Episode 124. How to Effectively Parent Through Each Stage of Development - and Reduce Painful Interactions (Part 1)Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts, too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you. We really appreciate your feedback!

For the first time ever, Josh's parents, Mike and Sharon Hess, join the show! We're in a season called The People Who Shape Us, and we thought it fitting to have the most influential people in our lives share their own story of faith, and in this case, blended family.  Josh shares his perspective of growing up in a blended family, and Mike and Sharon address co-parenting, raising kids in a two income home on shift work, and overcoming shame. Looking for hope and healing in your story? May this one be your catalyst.   Time Stamps: 0:00 Introduction 4:30 Shift work and parenting on two incomes8:08 How our family navigated blended family20:19 Hard conversations with parents, teachability, and healing in blended families 35:00 From shame and isolation, to acceptance and community, after divorce 40:30 Showing respect for stepparents and stepchildren  Show Notes:  Ladies, interested in the fall Tender & Fierce Coaching Cohort? Register here: https://www.famousathome.com/offers/dDt2Aobj/checkout Download NONAH's brand new single Find My Way Home by clicking here: https://bellpartners.ffm.to/findmywayhome

In this episode, we share a practical and powerful strategy to help step-parents confidently navigate solo time with their stepchildren. Whether you're a biological parent or a step-parent, this episode is for you!  You'll discover how preparation, communication, and teamwork can transform tension into opportunities for connection. The key? A simple but often overlooked strategy called the Transfer of Power. You don't want to 'wing it' when flying solo with step-kids — instead, be smart and plan for success.You'll Discover:Why solo time can trigger anxiety, fear, or dread for step-parentsHow the "Transfer of Power" can set the step-parent up for success - and the critical role of the bio-parentSteps to prepare beforehand: Anticipate tension, plan for fun, and discuss expectationsHow to manage yourself and the kids during solo time — without power strugglesSimple strategies to stay calm and set kind, clear boundariesHow to reflect as a couple and make improvements for next timeResources from this Episode:Episode 192.  A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's KidsEpisode 204. 4 Facets of Stepparenting:  Defining Appropriate Roles and Responsibilities (Part 1 of 2)Episode 187. Basics for Blending:  How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 1 of 2)Episode 158.  An Effective Stepparenting Approach Focused on What Works - and What Doesn'tEpisode 159. How to Stay Hopeful as a Stepparent When You're Continually Rejected and Hurt Episode 85. How to Uniquely Build More Love and Connection in Your Blended Family [with Ron Deal]Episode 37. Why do kids struggle to accept their stepparent? Episode 39. How to Create Strong Bonds with Resistant Stepkids Ready for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsWe would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts, too. Your review will help others find our podcast. :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review”. Thank you. We really appreciate your feedback!

*WARNING* This episode discusses inappropriate behavior towards minors! Amber's Stepdad did WHAT?! Beck's Ex did WHAT?!

r amithejerk? where AITA for feeding my daughters soft ball team “junk” at our sleepover AITAH for refusing to drive if my wife is in the car? AITA for cutting off all personal communication with my ex and only allowing co-parenting contact through a court app? AITAH for telling my wife her homophobic family can't stay with us AITA for yelling at a mom and her kid to get out of my home? AITA? Daughter broke down because we said no to the college she wanted WIBTA if I refused to give up a water fountain the previous homeowners abandoned 4 years ago? AITA for sending my kids to their dad instead of implement his decisions myself? AITA for telling my kids mom that her husband can't have my kids while she's deployed? AITA for being frustrated that my roommate last minute said "uhm I don't want anyone to drink to night" and then angrily went to his room? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Parenting in a blended family can be tough — especially when your ex has completely different rules and expectations. Today, we're tackling a common source of frustration: navigating household differences.  We'll uncover the four biggest myths that keep blended couples stuck and reveal the counteractive truths that bring clarity, confidence, and collaboration. Plus, we'll share our Four A's strategy for communicating with your ex to build more consistency between homes.You'll Discover:The four myths about parenting across different households—and what you can do to move beyond delusion, confusion, and frustration.How to establish healthy boundaries in your home without trying to control the other home.Why "Our home is our zone" should be your mantra.How to avoid fear-based parenting and hold firm to your values—even when they don't align with the other home.A simple four-step communication framework to foster better co-parenting collaboration and create more consistency for your kids.Resources from this Episode:All Episodes on Parenting and DisciplineAll Episodes on Co-Parenting Ready for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you. We really appreciate your feedback!Join us on April 5th for Blended & Blessed! Click here: https://www.blendedandblessed.com/

Struggling with kids who are picky eaters? Want to involve your kids in meal preparation but don't know where to start? This episode is for you. We welcome esteemed professional chef (and professional dad) David Nayfeld, who brings fresh ideas to your family kitchen. With his upcoming cookbook, Dad, What's for Dinner?, David shares recipes and strategies for engaging your kids in cooking—transforming mealtime from a chore into an adventure. And for parents of kids who only like mac and cheese with a side of pre-packaged preservatives, David offers insights into making meals and snacks that are fun, healthy, and easy to prepare. Stay to the end for the first installment of a new segment, How Would You Dad This?In Episode 120 of Modern Dadhood, hosts Adam Flaherty and Marc Checket delve into the culinary and paternal worlds of David Nayfeld, a professional chef based in San Francisco. Known for his expertise in some of the top kitchens globally, Nayfeld shares insights about his upcoming cookbook Dad, What's for Dinner? which is packed with recipes designed to engage children in the cooking process.Throughout the interview, they explore key topics such as the joys and challenges of involving kids in cooking, tips for managing picky eaters, and the importance of planning nutritious meals. David also discusses his unique family dynamic, referencing his role as a father to his biological and "bonus" children and how these experiences have influenced his culinary approach. Conversation topics include:•  How inviting your kids into the food preparation process inspires them to take ownership of what they are making, (and more likely to eat it themselves!)•  Strategies for Picky Eaters•  Tricks to get kids to try new foods•  Meal planning strategies•  Family cooking activities•  And more! After the interview, listeners are invited to participate in a new segment, How Would You Dad This? where they can offer advice on common parenting scenarios. Marc ponders how you might have handled a situation involving scrambled eggs and a kid who was late to the party.[Episode art photo by Eric Wolfinger]LINKSPre-Order Dad What's For Dinner?David Nayfeld (Instagram)David Nayfeld (X)David Nayfeld (Facebook)David Nayfeld (LinkedIn)Caspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeModern Dadhood (website)AdamFlaherty.tvStuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)MD (Instagram)MD (Facebook)MD (YouTube)MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

Join your ol' stepdads as we discuss Steve's Hot Carl, have a spirited debate about a movie we both watched (channeling the spirits of Siskel & Ebert), how replaying video games can be better than playing new games, and Jim's love of a show that NO ONE saw coming.

ResourcesEpisode 135. How to Set Appropriate Boundaries and Negotiate Well with your Ex-SpouseEpisode 188. Basics for Blending:  How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and DistressEpisode 153. How to Empower Organization, Improve Communication and Create Peace Between Your Kids Two HomesEpisode 112. 3 Dangerous Dynamics That Can Destroy Co-Parenting - And Hurt the KidsEpisode 113. How to Respond When Being Disregarded, Devalued, or Dismissed by Your Former SpouseEpisode 67. The Best Co-Parenting Strategy That You Already KnowEpisode 31. Unexpected Ways to Improve How You Cope with You ExEpisode 33. How to Cope with a Difficult Ex and Protect Your KidsSuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts, too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you. We really appreciate your feedback!

Does it ever feel like you are miles apart as a couple when it comes to leading your blended family?In this episode, we dive into the most common partnership pitfalls that couples face. From feeling unheard and untrusted to navigating misaligned parenting expectations, we unpack the challenges that often create disconnection, stress and conflict. We also share practical tools to shift from frustration to deeper connection, trust, and teamwork.You'll Discover:How assumptions about each other's motives can fuel conflictThe impact of feeling unheard or untrusted in a blended family dynamicPractical strategies to stay connected and solve problems togetherHow to build resiliency and effective communication in your relationshipResources from this Episode:Episode 204. 4 Facets of Stepparenting:  Defining Appropriate Roles and Responsibilities (Part 1)Episode 205.  4 Facets of Parenting:  What Bio-Parents Need to Know to Achieve Best Outcomes (Part 2)Episode 154. What practical and emotional shifts can you expect as you blend your family?Episode 134.  How to Make Good Decisions in Tough Situations and Stay Connected as a CoupleEpisode 59. Why are you stuck in a Parent-Child Allegiance? Episode 160. A 4-Part Framework for Achievable Expectations and How to Live Them OutEpisode 167. Achievable Strategies to Make Your Marriage the Foundation of Your Blended Family Episode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron & Nan Deal]Episode 187. Basics for Blending:  How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and DistressEpisode 192. A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's KidsEpisode 147. Do sensitive conversations end up creating conflict in your relationship?Episode 203. How to Make Better Decisions and Solve Problems as a United TeamEpisode 79. 4 Conflict Communication Patterns That are Hurtful and Toxic to Your RelationshipEpisode 172. 2 Key Elements to Resolve Your Parenting Style Differences - And Get UnitedEpisode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences (The Trapped Teammate / Stranded Stranger Dynamic)Ready for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a FREE coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionJoin us on April 5th for Blended & Blessed! Click here: https://www.blendedandblessed.com/

ResourcesEpisode 74. How to Develop Appropriate and Effective Consequences that Empower ResponsibilitySuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

We know firsthand that parenting in a blended family isn't the same as parenting in a first family. A biological parent's role is crucial in helping kids adjust to change, supporting step-relationships, and keeping things running smoothly.But here's the challenge—many bio parents either hold too tightly to their old parenting patterns or step back too quickly and expect their spouse to fill in. Both can create major tension.In this episode, we're breaking down the four key facets of parenting and defining the roles and responsibilities of the bio-parent: Meeting practical needs while avoiding unnecessary frictionProviding support while managing shifting priorities Teaching important life lessons  - and overcoming parental blind spotsDelivering discipline in a way that strengthens relationships rather than tearing them apartIf you've ever felt stuck between your kids and your spouse—or if you've struggled with guilt, fear, or parental paralysis—this episode is for you. You'll Discover:The most common 'easy wrong turns' that bio parents make when trying to “blend” the familyHow to avoid creating unnecessary frustration, and resentment in your homeWhy bio parents need to lead in discipline—and how to set step relationships up for successHow to provide boundaries and emotional support for your kids without letting guilt or fear take overStrategies for building an effective parenting partnership — even when you see things differentlyResources from this Episode:Episode 204. 4 Facets of Parenting:  Clarifying the Roles and Responsibilities (Part 1) Episode 163. How Intentionality Helped One Couple to Accomplish a Successful Blend [with Sean & Staci] Episode 81. How a Missing Bio-Parent Impacts Kids in the Delicate Blending Process (Part 1 of 2)Episode 132. How do loss and grief impact blended family integration?Episode 108. 3 Unity Breakers that are Detrimental to Your Connection and How You Can Avoid ThemEpisode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences (Trapped Teammate / Stranded Stranger Dynamic)Episode 168. Actionable Steps For Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem SolveEpisode 49. Should your highest priority be your marriage - or your kids?Episode 25. How to Survive Time Alone with Your Step-Kids (Transfer of Power Strategy) Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child by John GottmanReady for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

Join your ol' Stepdads as we discuss one of our greatest heroes, John Candy, what we've been watching and what we've been playing over the course of a short February month.

An Illinois man faces murder charges after alleged abuse and torture lead to the death of his 16-year-old stepson. A Minnesota woman is charged in Angola for allegedly plotting and committing her husband's murder while on a missionary trip with their family of seven. Drew Nelson reports.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

ResourcesEpisode 136. How to Intentionally Create Positive Family Time and Reduce Relational TensionEpisode 149. How to "Blend" Holiday Traditions and Create Meaningful Connection This SeasonEpisode 85. How to Uniquely Build More Love and Connection in Your Blended Family [with Ron Deal]Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

A 15-year-old in Ohio faces a murder charge after allegedly shooting a man a dozen times. A man in Virginia is arrested more than 900 miles away from a crime scene in Florida after allegedly assaulting the mother of his child and abandoning their newborn in the snow. Drew Nelson reports.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Stepparenting raises many questions: What's my role? How involved should I be? What if my stepkids don't accept me? It's easy to make wrong turns without even realizing it.In this episode, we're delving into four key facets of parenting: meeting practical needs, providing support, teaching life lessons, and delivering discipline. We'll uncover the unique roles and responsibilities of a stepparent regarding each facet and define what's appropriate and inappropriate.If you're feeling frustrated, disconnected, or unsure how to navigate parenting in your blended family, this conversation is for you! We'll share best practices, real-life examples (yes, including our own!), and strategies to help you stay in your lane while building healthy bonds with your stepkids and strengthening your parenting partnership.You'll Discover:Why stepparents should focus on connection before correction How to support your stepkids and meet practical needs without overstepping or experiencing resentment The best approach for building genuine connection, trust, and respect with your stepkids Why delivering discipline too soon can backfire—and what to do insteadA simple but powerful strategy to create a strong parenting partnership with your spouse and reduce tension in your homeResources from this Episode:Episode 47. How to Like Your Stepchild Even When You're Feeling Frustrated and AnnoyedEpisode 39. How to Create Strong Bonds with Resistant StepkidsEpisode 9. A Surprisingly Simple Strategy for Bonding with Step-KidsEpisode 29. What is a Loyalty Bind and What Can You Do About It?Episode 102. 4 Revealing Myths About 1 on 1 Time Between Parents and their Bio-Kids (Part 1 of 2)Episode 192. A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's KidsEpisode 25. How to Survive Time Alone with Your Step-Kids (Transfer of Power Strategy)Building Love Together in Blended Families by Ron Deal & Gary ChapmanStepparenting: Keeping it Sane by Charles Fay, Ph.D.In Their Shoes by Lauren ReitsemaPreparing to Blend by Ron DealReady for some extra support?Connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!Ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: Blending Together Community — Blended Family Breakthrough

“New Parent Decision Coin.” It's a great gag gift for new parents. On one side it reads - “daddy's turn” and on the other it reads “mommy's turn.” When the baby starts getting fussy, you flip the coin, and whoever's side it lands on gets to take care of the new baby. 13 year old Maddie sends the link to the coin with the text - “We need this - can you get this for us?” She sends the text message to her mom's 37 year old boyfriend, Stephan Sterns. It does not appear that Maddie's mother is pregnant… so who is the coin for? 2 months later - Maddie is found dead. Her “stepfather” is arrested and graphic pictures and videos of Maddie are found on his phone. Did he kill her? Why did he kill her? Was she pregnant? And how did her mother not know anything about this? Those are all the questions netizens have in the case of Madeline Soto.    Full show notes at rottenmangopodcast.com

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What's up, STS Nation? Welcome to the podcast that brings you the very #BestGuests in all of #TrueCrime. In a powerful collaboration between Surviving the Survivor and the Jury Duty Podcast, we sit down with Nichole Schmidt, the mother of Gabby Petito, and her husband Jim Schmidt, Gabby's stepfather, for an emotional and insightful conversation. This episode goes beyond the headlines, focusing on Gabby's life, her spirit, and the legacy she left behind. Nichole and her husband Jim share their personal journey through unimaginable grief and how they've channeled their pain into purpose with the Gabby Petito Foundation—an organization dedicated to raising awareness about domestic violence and supporting victims. Get Joel's Book: Https://amzn.to/48GwbLxAll Things STS: Https://linktr.ee/stspodcastSupport the show on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SurvivingTheSurvivorCatch us live on YouTube: Surviving The Survivor: #BestGuests in True Crime - YouTube #GabbyPetito #GabbyPetitoFoundation #BrianLaundrie #DomesticViolenceAwareness #TrueCrime #JusticeForGabby #NicholeSchmidt #SurvivingTheSurvivor #JuryDutyPodcast #MissingPersons #DVRedFlags #RelationshipAbuse #TrueCrimeCommunity

Near-death experience guest 1259 is Bubba Herrick who during his NDE was full of regret because he hadn't lived his life fully. Bubba's YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@therealbubbaherrick Bubba's Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094360406293 Bubba's Instagram https://www.instagram.com/therealbubbaherrick/ CONTACT: Email: jeff@jeffmarapodcast.com WEBSITE www.jeffmarapodcast.com SOCIALS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeffmarapodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeffmarapodcast/ Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/jeffmaraP/ JeffMara does not endorse any of his guests' products or services. The opinions of the guests may or may not reflect the opinions of the host.

 In this episode, we're delving into a common challenge for blended family couples: decision-making and problem-solving. Whether managing kids' expectations, negotiating with an ex, or facing the pain of being a “trapped teammate” or “stranded stranger,” disagreement and differing perspectives can create tension and keep you stuck.We've been there ourselves, and we share relatable stories, including a meltdown at the mall over a swimsuit and how it almost derailed our unity. Plus, we unpack practical strategies that have been game-changers for us and the couples we coach. We believe every blended couple needs a strategy for decision-making and problem-solving that helps them stay united and avoid confusion, pain, and disconnection.  Grab a coffee, sit back, and let's tackle this together.You'll DiscoverHow to avoid falling into the "trapped teammate" or "stranded stranger" dynamic.Three key “DON'TS” that will safeguard your relationship from unnecessary conflict.A powerful brainstorming hack to make decisions and solve problems as a united team.How to manage decision-making pressures from kids and ex-spouses.Practical tips to stay connected and strengthen teamwork in tough moments.Resources from this EpisodeEpisode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron and Nan Deal]Episode 21:  What is the Stranded Stranger & Trapped Teammate ExperienceEpisode 22:  One Simple - and Romantic - Way to Combat Being Stranded or Trapped Episode 23:  How to Move From Feeling Stranded to Being ConnectedEpisode 24:  What if You Could Relieve the Trapped Teammate Pressure?Episode 95:  Do You Dread Negotiating Schedule Changes with your Ex - Try These 5 Practical TipsEpisode 13:  How to Parent as a Team in Your Blended FamilyEpisode 83:  4 Everyday Favoritism Traps that Dishearten Kids in a Blended FamilyReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part Ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: Blending Together Community — Blended Family Breakthrough Ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: Blending Together Community — Blended Family Breakthrough

Ryan Dilks and Justin Peach look ahead to the weekend's action in the Championship with the Preview Show sponsored by SBK.Can Plymouth get their survival bid back on track?A relegation six-pointer at Hull!Liam Manning's first trip back to Oxford!Luton look to improve their fortunes on the road!It's the Second Tier.Sign up to our Patreon here!Watch this episode on YouTube here!Follow us on X, Instagram and email us secondtierpod@gmail.com.Not heard of SBK yet? Then where have you been! SBK is sports betting for sports fans. It's purely about sports, there's no casino or roulette wheels or any of that funny business – and they offer some of the best odds around.SBK has a load of markets across all sports and their exclusive offers - which we flag up on our Preview Show each week - make it the best place to bet on the Championship this season. Don't believe us? Sign up today and find out: https://bit.ly/SecondTierSBK.T&Cs apply, 18+ only, and visit https://gambleaware.org. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

ResourcesEpisode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron & Nan Deal]Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

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Host Ben Rice travels to Santa Rosa, CA, to record with US craft beer legends Moonlight Brewing, with Moonlight's Chaos Management Specialist and Adult In Charge Erin Latham-Ponnack. Joining us for the conversation is comedian Jon Lehre, who is also the booker at Santa Rosa's premier comedy club Barrel Proof Lounge. Together, we'll discuss Moonlight's magnificent flagship beers, their efforts to keep to their goal of clean, beautiful beers that still break the rules in an increasingly bolder craft model; replacing hops with redwoods; and do side by sides of Bombay By Boat IPA on draft and on cask and Reality Czech versus its supercharged cousin 14 P Special. Plus! FeBREWary, which takes place every Saturday in February, which involves a free shuttle between Sonoma County mainstays Moonlight, Shady Oak, Cooperage, Iron Ox, Cuvee, and Russian River (Windsor); doing comedy on a dare; and some of Ben's worst ideas ever. Enjoy!You can always learn more about Moonlight Brewing at moonlightbrewing.com or on IG @moonlightbrewingSee what's going on at Barrel Proof Lounge, including live stand up and music, at www.barrelprooflounge.com or on IG @barrelproofloungeYou can follow Jon Lehre's comedy journey @jlehre or at www.stepdadofcomedy.comBarley & Me can be found across social media @barleyandmepodCheck out past episodes, show dates, and more at barleyandmepod.comEmail questions, comments, concerns, guest ideas, brewery ideas to barleyandmepod@gmail.comIntro Music: "Functional Alcoholism" by Be Brave Bold Robot (@bebraveboldrobot)Interstitial Music: "JamRoc" by Breez (@breeztheartist)Logo by Jessica DiMesio (@alchemistqueen)

No one enjoys being in conflict with their spouse.  But the reality for every couple is that conflict is unavoidable.We all experience disagreement that leads to conflict.  But there's a big difference between doing conflict well versus spiraling into unproductive patterns where we say and do things that at best aren't helpful and at worst erode love and trust in  our relationship.You can probably relate.  Your spouse does something that triggers a painful emotion and you react.  You might blame, shame yourself, take control, or try to avoid the whole situation.  It's natural and normal for all of us to react these ways, but you don't have to stay stuck in unproductive, damaging patterns.  You can learn to do conflict well,  just like we have!In this episode, our friends Ron and Nan Deal share their personal journey.  After hitting rock bottom in their marriage, finding restoration, and discovering the tools that transformed their relationship, they've written an amazing book called The Mindful Marriage.  Their new book breaks down powerful concepts into relatable, practical steps for couples everywhere.Ron and Nan are popular speakers who specialize in restoration therapy, blended families, and supporting grieving parents. Ron, a bestselling author, licensed marriage and family therapist, and podcaster, also serves as a senior director at FamilyLife. Nan, a retired teacher, now champions her community through Live Thankfully.From navigating destructive cycles of conflict and emotional pain to increasing love, trust, and intimacy in your relationship — today's conversation is full of hope, encouragement, and actionable wisdom!What You'll Learn:Identifying and breaking free from pain cycles in your relationship.Practical steps to create a “peace cycle” that strengthens love and trust.Insights into how family history impacts marriage dynamics.Why emotional regulation is a game-changer for blended families.The importance of “usness” in building a thriving relationship.Resources Mentioned:The Mindful Marriage by Ron and Nan DealRestoration Therapy model by Dr. Terry HargraveBonus materials are available at RonDeal.orgReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

ResourcesEpisode 139:  The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple ExperiencesSuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Neal Brennan interviews Paul Scheer ('Joyful Recollections of Trauma,' Human Giant, The League, Black Monday, How Did This Get Made? Podcast) about the things that make him feel lonely, isolated, and like something's wrong - and how he is persevering despite these blocks. ---------------------------------------------------------- 00:00 Intro 1:48 Writing about Trauma 3:02 Origin of the book 5:50 Childhood abuse 10:05 Dad vs. Stepdad fight 11:59 Fighter  14:18 Leaving his abusive stepfather  20:21 Sponsor: Tushy 21:33 Sponsor: Mando 22:45 How childhood trauma affected his relationships 27:25 Relationships with his mother & kids 36:20 Anger 43:00 Afraid to Rock the Boat 47:54 Sponsor: BetterHelp 49:17 ADHD 51:40 Figuring out Who He Is 1:00:00 Worst Thing He Ever Did 1:04:00 Embracing Anger 1:07:40 Parenting 1:13:40 Self-Reflection ---------------------------------------------------------- Order 'Joyful Recollections of Trauma' by Paul Scheer: https://www.paulscheer.com/my-book Follow Neal Brennan: https://www.instagram.com/nealbrennan https://twitter.com/nealbrennan https://www.tiktok.com/@mrnealbrennan Watch Neal Brennan: Crazy Good on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/title/81728557 Watch Neal Brennan: Blocks on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/title/81036234 Theme music by Electric Guest (unreleased). Edited by Will Hagle (wthagle@gmail.com)  Sponsors: https://www.HelloTushy.com/NEAL for 10% off your first bidet order. #sponsored  https://www.ShopMando.com & use promo code: NEAL for $5 off your Mando Starter Pack The Blocks https://www.BetterHelp.com/NEAL for 10% off your first month Sponsor Blocks: https://public.liveread.io/media-kit/blocks ---------------------------------------------------------- #podcast #comedy #mentalhealth #standup Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How serious are you about creating enjoyment and fun in your relationship (and in your home)?You probably started off your relationship experiencing lots of enjoyment as you were getting to know each other and falling in love.  But as the busyness and stress of blended family life set in, maybe your enjoyment started to wane a bit. The truth is, if you want to increase enjoyment and safeguard your relationship, then you've got to take FUN seriously!Our friends Rich and Christa blended their family 13 years ago.  Although they've had their share of ups and downs, they've managed to make fun a top priority……and they've reaped the benefits of deep connection, laughter, and genuine enjoyment in their relationship (and in their home).Rich and Christa are on a mission to strengthen marriages and families in a culture that's losing hope.  They want to help couples avoid the tragedy of divorce and enjoy a thriving marriage full of joy, friendship, and fun.Join us for a raucous conversation as Rich and Christa share practical — and serious — ways they've discovered to increase fun and how you can do the same.What You'll LearnWhy fun is a safeguard for your marriage and how it deepens connection.How to create a family culture of fun, even in challenging stepfamily dynamics.The importance of “micro-moves of fun” and small intentional gestures.Practical ways to align your schedule and priorities to boost enjoyable couple time.How to balance personal expectations with the realities of blended family life.Resources MentionedEpisode 200.  A Heart-to-Heart Conversation Exploring the Secrets to Lasting Love Click here to connect with Rich and ChristaBook by John Gottman:  7 Principles for Making Marriage WorkBook by Sam Jolman:  The Sex Talk You Never GotClick here to learn more about Weekend to Remember marriage eventsTo learn more about our Relate Strong program, CLICK HERE to schedule your FREE coaching callEpisode 136. How to Intentionally Create Positive Family Time and Reduce Relational TensionEpisode 146. Friendship and Connection or Friction and Distance - what's the state of your relationship?Actionable TakeawaysDefine Your Fun: Identify activities you and your spouse enjoy and prioritize them in your schedule.Celebrate Small Wins: Whether it's playful traditions like funny birthday cake messages or silly rituals, embrace the small moments.Move at Your Child's Pace: Honor your stepchild's readiness for connection without pushing. Small cracks in the door can lead to big breakthroughs over time.Model Connection: Let your kids see you laughing and enjoying each other—it's a powerful way to teach them about healthy relationships.Invest in Growth: Attend retreats, read books together, or explore coaching prAre you ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether

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