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Have you ever experienced an awkward "stepfamily moment" in public? Like when someone notices that you and your child have different last names or makes assumptions about your family dynamics? We've experienced plenty of those moments in our blended family journey, and it doesn't feel very good. In today's conversation, we address the experience of feeling “marginalized” or "less than". And we'll share what we've done to stand in our true identity and invite others into genuine connection, rather than avoiding the awkwardness.It's liberating to simply normalize the reality that blended families are everywhere, and we embrace three mindset shifts that make a real difference: Be confident and secure about how your family came together Be authentic by offering a simple, positive message that honors your story Avoid comparison traps Our hope is that you'll feel seen, supported, and empowered to carry your story with courage and to know that you aren't alone.You'll DiscoverWhat feeling “marginalized” looks like in everyday moments, and why blended families are part of the cultural mainstreamA simple, unapologetic way to respond to awkward situations without shaming yourself or your kidsFour tools to escape comparison traps and stay confident and secureResources from this Episode:CLICK HERE to check out the Blending Together CommunityEpisode 11. 3 Hidden Strengths for Imperfect Blended FamiliesEpisode 156. The 3 Super Strengths of a Blended Family Marriage Episode 114. Beware of Common Comparison Traps that Create Disconnection and Negativity Episode 160. A 4-Part Framework for Achievable Expectations and How to Live Them OutEpisode 14. 3 Helpful Steps to Overcome Your "Perfectionistic" Ideals and Disappointments Episode 180. Break Free From Guilt and Blend with Authenticity and Security Ready for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!Ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click here to get started!
What if you don't like your stepkids? It's the question that stepmoms whisper to themselves and rarely admit out loud. In this episode, Alicia unpacks why these feelings show up, why they don't make you a “bad stepmom,” and how to move through them without shame.You'll learn:Why it's normal to not always like your stepkidsHow societal expectations set stepmoms up for guiltSimple shifts to ease the tension when relationships feel strainedHow to release the pressure to force a bondThis is your permission slip: you don't have to like your stepkids 24/7 to be a good stepmom.Support the showWant a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list, get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.
On this week's episode, host Bree Mills is joined Penny Barber, Lilly Bell, & Max Fills! Hot off of wrapping the latest PURE TABOO feature ‘THE SECRETS WE SHARE,' the trio sit down to talk through their experiences filming the most challenging film roles they've encountered yet! Lauded as the most disturbing role they've each held, the cast discuss bringing their characters to life, the challenge of performing “rock bottom”, and how they flip the switch to film different scenes. Tune in to hear the gang discuss hot mean girls, go-to goon fuel, Penny Barber's 40th birthday tribute, and SO MUCH MORE!Penny Barber: https://www.instagram.com/penny.barber.truly/Lilly Bell: https://www.instagram.com/bellofthe_ball/Max Fills: https://www.instagram.com/maxfills1/Bree Mills: https://www.instagram.com/thebreemills/ The ADULT TIME Podcast: https://linktr.ee/TheADULTTIMEPodcast ABOUT ADULT TIME:Adult Time is a digital subscription platform for a new era of adult entertainment. We are a brand built by people who believe in a future where mature audiences can safely, securely, and proudly have a place in their lineup for premium adult content. In addition to our addictive programming, Adult Time is dedicated to creating a personalized content experience for all our viewers with 400+ channels, 60,000 episodes, and VR and interactive toy integration.
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What if you could take that familiar whisper of "You don't quite belong" and give it the heave-ho? Picture this: at your stepdaughter's sorority Parents Weekend, everyone's wearing their "sorority mom" pins . . . everyone but you. That familiar whisper starts: "I wonder if they notice I don't belong here." But then something incredible happens: you pause, breathe, and choose a different thought. This episode is about that moment - how triggers that used to wreck you now don't have to. You know what I'm talking about: It can be the smallest, most seemingly-insignificant moments that hits stepmoms where we're most vulnerable and surfaces our deepest insecurities. And then before we know it, we embark on the mental gymnastics of analyzing every interaction to verify our assumptions that we have, in fact, been rejected - or that we are, in fact, inadequate . . . and we spiral. Sound familiar? But what if we didn't have to go down that rabbithole of doubt? What if we could catch ourselves in that moment and choose to focus on what's actually true? I'll talk you through how to do just that so next time you can change your experience. And your stepfamily. Connect with Cameron: Website: stepfamilysolutions.com Instagram: @stepfamilysolutions TikTok: @stepfamilysolutions Resources Mentioned Join the Stepfamily Circle: Ready to stop navigating stepfamily life alone? The Stepfamily Circle offers ongoing support, group coaching calls, and a community that truly gets it. Learn more at stepfamilycircle.com For Aspiring Stepfamily Coaches: Ready to help other stepmoms through coaching? Or just want to dive deep into learning everything about stepfamily life and see what happens from there? Learn about the Stepfamily Coach Academy at stepfamilysolutions.com/stepfamily-certification Are you enjoying The Stepmom Diaries? If so, please consider rating and reviewing the show. It will help me reach more stepmoms just like you so they can get MORE out of stepmom life! It's super easy – all you have to do is click HERE and scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “write a review.” Then just let me know what you like best! And the best part about leaving a review? If you send me a screenshot of your review, I'll send YOU my 20-minute Stepmom Self-Care Blueprint. For FREE. It's normally $49 and it's a great tool to quickly set up a self-care plan you'll actually use. Just head HERE to send me your screenshot and grab your blueprint!
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CLICK HERE to learn more about the Blending Together CommunitySuggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know!We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!Ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click here to get started!
Being the “strict” house isn't easy — especially when you're parenting a teenager who has unlimited freedom at their other home.In this episode, Alicia dives into a real stepmom story from Erica, who's been a stepmom for 11 years and is now facing the challenges of raising a 13-year-old stepdaughter in two very different households. At Erica's house, structure, healthy meals, and clear phone boundaries are the norm. At mom's house, the rules are… basically nonexistent. The result? Erica feels like the bad guy, and the close bond she once had with her stepdaughter seems to be slipping away.Alicia breaks down why this happens in blended families, why teens push away even when they love you, and most importantly — how to hold onto your values and boundaries without losing the relationship.You'll walk away with:Validation that you're not crazy for feeling like the “bad guy” when your house has rules.Practical ways to hold firm boundaries without pushing your stepkid further away.Strategies to shift from being the “strict” house to the safe house.Encouragement that your consistency today builds connection for tomorrow.If you've ever felt like you're losing your stepchild to the other house because of clashing rules, this episode will remind you: you're not the villain. You're the steady anchor they can rely on.
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We got a voice note from Sam. She says her child’s stepmom wants to attend the school’s mother-and-child dinner instead of her – but Sam’s not having it. She says, “I’m the real mom, I want to go. So here’s the question: who should get that seat at the table — the biological mom, the stepmom, Hang out with Anele and The Club on 947 every weekday morning. Popular radio hosts Anele Mdoda, Frankie du Toit, Thembekile Mrototo, and Cindy Poluta take fun to the next level with the biggest guests, hottest conversations, feel-good vibes, and the best music to get you going! Kick-start your day with the most enjoyable way to wake up in Joburg. Connect with Anele and The Club on 947 via WhatsApp at 084 000 0947 or call the studio on 011 88 38 947Thank you for listening to the Anele and the Club podcast.Listen live on Primedia+ weekdays from 06:00 to 09:00 to Anele and the Club broadcast on 947 https://buff.ly/y34dh8Y For more from the show go to https://buff.ly/gyWKIkl or find all the catch-up podcasts here https://buff.ly/K59GRzu Subscribe to the 947s Weekly Newsletter https://buff.ly/hf9IuR9 Follow us on social media:947 on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/947Joburg/ 947 on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@947joburg947 on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/947joburg947 on X: www.x.com/947 947 on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@947JoburgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Over our 24 years of blending, we've discovered that every couple needs a clear strategy to get unstuck and move toward the family future they really want. In this conversation, we share a proven approach to aligning around your family's goals, creating a values-based parenting approach, and avoiding the common pitfalls that lead to chaos, resentment, and division. We know how confusing and lonely blended family life can feel at times—it's complicated! Even with millions of stepfamilies across the country, it can still feel like you're on an island trying to figure it all out alone. That's why in today's episode—released on National Stepfamily Day—we're tackling this question: How can you reduce blended family chaos and instead build a united front as a couple while connecting with a supportive community that truly understands?Additionally, in honor of National Stepfamily Day, we're introducing a special opportunity to join our Blending Together Community free for 30 days, where you'll benefit from genuine connections, encouragement, and proven strategies that work. You'll Discover:How Parenting ‘by default' often leads to places you never intended to go. But when you choose to parent with intention, you can guide your family toward the future you truly want.The importance of prioritizing a few key family values to create unity, reduce conflict, and avoid getting overwhelmed.Practical ways to communicate your values to the kids without lecturing or undermining the stepparent.How a values-based approach simplifies discipline and builds long-term character, not just short-term compliance.The life-changing difference that comes from being part of a supportive community that understands the unique challenges of blending a family.Resources from this Episode:Episode 218. How to Positively Influence Your Kids' Character When Your Ex Undermines Your ValuesCLICK HERE to learn more about our Blending Together CommunityQuestions? Email us at: kim@blendedfamilybreakthrough.comReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed to or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!
In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia Krasko opens up about her why—the real reason she started coaching stepmoms, built The Stepmom Side Community, and launched this very podcast.She shares her raw, unfiltered story of hitting rock bottom as a stepmom, googling “how to get divorced,” and feeling like an outsider in her own home. Alicia explains the turning point when she admitted she needed help, how outside support transformed her stepmom journey, and why she decided to step into the role of coach.You'll hear why The Stepmom Side Community was created as an affordable, supportive space for stepmoms, how imposter syndrome showed up for Alicia as both a stepmom and a community founder, and the moments inside the community that remind her she's exactly where she's meant to be.Alicia also shares the behind-the-scenes story of starting The Stepmom Side Podcast—from her stepson gifting her a microphone to now reaching stepmoms in 96 countries with nearly 50,000 downloads.If you've ever felt like you're struggling alone on “stepmom island,” this episode will remind you:
"You're not the problem. You're just doing it alone." If you attended the Stepmom Summit last weekend, you wrapped up in a high - feeling seen and understood. But it's over now, and you're back in a house that doesn't feel like yours with zero space to land. Today we're talking about why "trying harder" isn't the answer, and what you actually need to create lasting change in your stepfamily life. In This Episode, We Cover: Why Stepmom Life Feels So Isolating The myth of "trying harder" and the stepmom spiral of second-guessing your boundaries and interactions How "trying harder" leads to losing yourself in the effort That you're not actually failing - the system is failing you You don't need to try more - you need to be seen You weren't meant to navigate stepfamily life alone Resources Mentioned Join the Stepfamily Circle: Ready to stop navigating stepfamily life alone? The Stepfamily Circle offers ongoing support, group coaching calls, and a community that truly gets it. Learn more at stepfamilycircle.com If you missed The Stepmom Summit For a few more days, you can still grab a VIP ticket and access all of the presentations and $2,000 in bonuses. Don't wait because the opportunity to grab your ticket will expire on September 15th! For Aspiring Stepfamily Coaches: Ready to help other stepmoms through coaching? Or just want to dive deep into learning everything about stepfamily life and see what happens from there? Learn about the Stepfamily Coach Academy at stepfamilysolutions.com/stepfamily-certification Connect with Cameron: Website: stepfamilysolutions.com Instagram: @stepfamilysolutions TikTok: @stepfamilysolutions Are you enjoying The Stepmom Diaries? If so, please consider rating and reviewing the show. It will help me reach more stepmoms just like you so they can get MORE out of stepmom life! It's super easy – all you have to do is click HERE and scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “write a review.” Then just let me know what you like best! And the best part about leaving a review? If you send me a screenshot of your review, I'll send YOU my 20-minute Stepmom Self-Care Blueprint. For FREE. It's normally $49 and it's a great tool to quickly set up a self-care plan you'll actually use. Just head HERE to send me your screenshot and grab your blueprint!
In this episode, a 17-year-old girl is caught in a family dispute when her half-brother's stepmom, Amelia, demands she remove her facial piercings to continue picking him up from school. When Amelia's lies are exposed, the tension escalates. In the end, the teenager must decide whether to continue putting up with the stepmom's behavior for the sake of her relationship with her brother.
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Do you ever catch yourself spiraling with intrusive thoughts about not being “enough” as a stepmom? Maybe you wonder if you'll ever feel as important as your partner's kids' mom. Or you feel that rush of pressure to have a baby of your own—just so you can finally feel “equal.”If that's you, you are not alone.In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia dives deep into what she calls the messy middle of stepmomming—the stage where you've been in the role long enough to know the hard stuff, but you're still figuring out how to handle the constant tension of:Dealing with intrusive thoughts of feeling inferior as a stepmom without biological kidsThe pressure and jealousy around wanting your own kids just to feel equalFacing the double standard: what makes you a “great mom” with an ours baby would've been called “evil” with your stepkidsBalancing care and control—wanting to show up for your stepkids but not having the legal authority to make decisionsRecognizing when it's time to step back and let the actual parents handle it, even when you see the gapsCoping with frustration, resentment, and those “rage-cleaning the bathroom” momentsWhy comparison to the ex or to a “perfect family” is a trap you don't have to stay stuck inAlicia shares her own messy middle stories—like jealousy when she didn't have kids of her own yet, or the time she literally walked four miles at night just to calm down after stepfamily stress. You'll hear real talk, honest encouragement, and strategies to help you feel less alone and more grounded in your role.
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Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know!We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!
Struggling with the challenges of blending families? Discover practical ways to set healthy boundaries and rediscover yourself in stepfamily life! In Episode NKP327 of the Nacho Kids Podcast, host Lori welcomes Heather, a stepmom navigating her first year in the blending trenches. Heather opens up about her journey from confident “super stepmom” to being overwhelmed by unrealistic expectations - especially around food, household chores, and parenting differences. She shares how discovering the Nacho Kids approach helped her step back, reduce resentment, repair relationships, and reclaim her joy. Listeners will learn: Why even experienced parents can feel blindsided by blending families How the pressure to be a perfect stepmom creates unnecessary stress The transformative power of “nachoing”—letting go, stepping back, and focusing on your role as a supportive partner rather than a replacement parent Strategies for addressing common stepfamily struggles, like different household routines and conflicting parenting styles The importance of self-care, healthy communication, and seeing situations from the stepchild's perspective Heather's story is relatable, candid, and full of “aha!” moments for anyone in a blended family. Whether you're a new stepparent or a veteran, this conversation will inspire you to find more peace in your home. Listen now and remember: Life is good when you Nacho! Nacho Kids Testimonial: My stepdaughter still ignores me, and I'm fine. That's the Nacho shift. ~ H.P., New York, NY, USA
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If you've ever felt like the values you're trying to instill in your kids get undone the moment they step into the other home, you're not alone. We've been there—and we know how discouraging it can feel.In this episode, we share a powerful tool we first learned from Ron Deal called the Inoculation Strategy. It's a simple, practical way to prepare your kids to recognize and resist negative influences—without badmouthing or creating loyalty binds. We'll walk you through real-life examples from our own blended family journey, explain how to stay in the “neutral zone” while teaching important lessons, and encourage you to keep planting seeds of character even when it seems like they aren't taking root. Over time, your kids will internalize what you've instilled—and those intentional lessons will matter more than you think.You'll Discover:The “wild card factor” that often fuels conflict between householdsTwo key realities you must accept before using the Inoculation StrategyPractical ways to engage your kids by using movies, books, current events, and personal stories as teaching moments that countHow to avoid loyalty binds and protect your child's wellbeing while guiding them toward positive values, character traits, and life skillsResources from this Episode:The Smart Stepfamily by Ron DealEpisode 207. Four Myths About Parenting When Your Ex Has Different RulesReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!
In this candid episode, Alicia gets real about something most stepmoms won't say out loud: you want to be over your partner's past… but reminders keep ambushing you—kids' faces, old photos, in-law stories, even the house you live in. She explains why your brain grabs the past when you don't feel safe, the hidden cost of re-hashing old wounds, and a step-by-step plan to stop using history as ammunition so you can build the future you actually want.Who this is for:Stepmoms who feel caught between “I'm fine” and “I'm about to bring up 2014 again.” If you've ever tossed a decades-old moment into a current disagreement, this one's for you.What you'll learn:Why the past feels so present: Safety responses, stepfamily triggers, and the comparison trap (you're not “first,” so it feels like you'll never “come first”).The real cost of holding on: Erosion of trust, the resentment loop, and how re-reading old chapters keeps you from writing new ones.Six tools to move forward (without pretending it never happened):Catch the trigger in real timeSeparate past from presentJournal it (hello, Ex-Files) instead of dumping it on your partnerChoose your future over your fear (simple visualization prompt)Forgiveness vs. boundaries (what each one actually does)Shift the self-talk: from “I'll never measure up” to “I am the present and the future”Key takeawaysWhen you don't feel safe, your brain reaches for “proven” past evidence to protect you. That doesn't mean it serves your relationship now.The more you punish your partner for the past, the less space there is to create something new—today.You are not in competition with their past. You are their present and future.Boundaries protect you; expectations attempt to control them. Keep them separate.If the roles were reversed, you wouldn't want your old chapters thrown at you either.Related episodes & resourcesEpisode 111 – Spiraling: Why It Happens & How to Feel Safe Again → aliciakrasko.com/111Episode 110 – The Secret Journal Every Stepmom Should Have (Your “Ex-Files”) → aliciakrasko.com/110Want a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list, get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.
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Every stepmom has that moment where reality hits and you think: “Wait… I didn't sign up for this.” In today's episode, I sit down with Alicia Krasko - stepmom coach, podcast host, and CEO of the Stepmom Side Community. Alicia's story will sound familiar: she went into stepmom life thinking it would be smooth sailing (kids liked her, in-laws liked her, even the ex liked her)… until suddenly, everything changed. In the episode, we talk about: What happens when “happily ever after” collides with blended family reality Why traditional therapy often misses the mark for stepmoms (and what to look for instead) How to handle high-conflict situations without losing yourself The truth about always being asked to be “the bigger person” — and what to do when it feels exhausting Why stepmom struggles look so similar (and why you're NOT the only one going through this) ✨ Plus, Alicia gives us a sneak peek of her upcoming live session at the Stepmom Summit, where she'll dive into extended family drama (yes, we're talking in-laws) and how to navigate it without losing your peace. If you've ever found yourself Googling “how to get divorced” or wondering why stepmom life feels harder than you imagined — this conversation will remind you that you are not alone, and there is a way forward.
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ResourcesSurviving & Thriving in Stepfamily Relationships by Patricia PapernowEpisode 217. Feeling Overwhelmed and Powerless? How to Regain Hope with Tools that Heal [with EJ and Tarah Kerwin]Episode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple ExperiencesEpisode 206. Avoid These 5 Common Pitfalls to Ensure a Successful PartnershipSuggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know!We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!
Spiraling happens to every stepmom. You're not broken—you're human. In this episode, Alicia breaks down why stepmoms spiral, when it usually happens, and the steps you can take to calm your nervous system and find your footing again. If you've ever felt like your thoughts are racing, your chest is tight, and everything feels like too much, this episode will help you feel safe and grounded.What you'll learn in this episode:Why spiraling is normal and not a personal failureCommon triggers that make stepmoms spiralSimple, practical tools to stop a spiral and find safetyHow to shift from survival mode into calm confidenceWhether you're new to stepmom life or years in, this episode will help you find peace in the middle of the chaos.Want a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list, get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.
Sign up for the FREE live event: The Stepmom SummitWhat happens when you suddenly go from living alone to managing a busy blended family home? The clutter piles up. The chaos feels endless. And overwhelm can hit hard.I know so many of us—whether we're stepmoms or not—have felt that same frustration. You want peace, calm, and order in your space. But how do you actually get there?In this week's episode, I'm joined by Cameron from Stepfamily Solutions. She shares her story of becoming a stepmom to four children overnight—and what she learned about declutter strategies, home organization, and overcoming overwhelm along the way.We talk about KonMari-inspired tidying, intentional organizing choices, and simple systems that can completely shift the feel of a home. And no matter what your family looks like, these insights will spark ideas you can use right away.Because let's be honest: doesn't every family need easier routines, less stress, and more calm? And wouldn't it feel amazing to finally put clutter in its place—for good?This conversation will leave you rethinking not only how you declutter and organize your home, but also how you approach the relationships inside it.Tune in now and get ready to take away practical, doable ideas that will help you create a more peaceful space—without the overwhelm.Links mentioned in this episode: – Sign up for the FREE live event: The Stepmom SummitI would LOVE to hear from you. Text Message me here. Thanks for listening! For more organizational motivation, support and free resources:Join my online membership Clutter Free CollectiveJoin my podcast Facebook group Living Clutter Free Forever Podcast: KonMari® Inspired Organizing | FacebookVisit my website www.caroline-thor.com Come and say 'hi' on Instagram @caro.thor Follow me on Facebook @carolineorganizer
This week I speak with Kim Wyse who is a Mom to one, Stepmom to four, and Grama of four. She is Happily Married and living life in the mountains. Kim says she has become a “ridiculous dog-mom” in her older years, and enjoys her days as best as she can although she struggles with pain and still has bad days from her stroke. She is a relentless renovator and has supervised her way through a complete re-haul of her home. Kim's physical strength is not what it used to be, but she can still boss the trades around and put a design plan into place! She is a freelance writer and real estate assistant, and works on personal branding materials and videos for clients. Kim is proud to be a first-time author of her book, “Tails of Kindness.” We look at her childhood up to the present to find the beautiful thread of Jesus in her life. You won't want to miss this encouraging episode! https://www.facebook.com/share/14JXaJz2x3F/?mibextid=wwXIfr*Theme Music "Blessed Time" by Ketsa
This episode began life as a livestream in my free Facebook community of 1400 members, The Essential Stepmom. If you're not already there, please join us!https://www.facebook.com/groups/theessentialstepmomIf there are any top takeaways from this episode, it would be these:1. You can arrange your household and family dynamics to make it more conducive to you getting the respect you want.2. If you're feeling disrespected, you probably need to bite the bullet and look to your partner to fill that need.3. If you want to fix this problem so that you never feel disrespected again, in any situation, there's only one thing to be done. If you're ready for high-level support getting solid with #3, you know where to find me - info@essentialstepmom.com.
Ever feel like you're doing all the things — but still questioning if you're doing any of it right?In this episode, I chat with Michaela, a fellow stepmum and clinical psychologist — you might know her on social media as The Anxious Stepmom. We unpack what it's like to navigate the ups and downs of blended family life while living with anxiety: the emotional toll of constantly second-guessing yourself, the mental load of trying to be everything to everyone, and how anxiety can quietly shape how we show up in our homes and relationships.You might notice a few jumpy moments — we had some tech glitches mid-recording — but the heart of this conversation still shines through. It's raw, honest, and full of those “I thought it was just me” moments.If you've ever felt like your brain won't slow down and your heart is carrying more than it should… this one's for you.Follow & Support:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorMichaelaWebsite: https://www.theanxiousstepmom.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theanxiousstepmom?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theanxiousstepmom?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theanxiousstepmomSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations
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“You don't have to do this alone. You don't have to guess, or feel guilty. You just have to say yes to support that actually gets it.” Ever feel like you're walking on eggshells in your own home? Like no one truly sees how hard you're working to hold it all together? In this powerful mini episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on why the FREE annual Stepmom Summit (coming up September 4-6th) has become a lifeline for thousands of stepmoms around the world - and why it might be exactly what you've been needing, too. I share my own raw and real moments (yes, including the one where my stepson called 911 on me), and why this annual virtual gathering is more than just a few Zoom sessions—it's a community, a permission slip, and a freaking game-changer. Plus, get a sneak peek at the surprises in store at this year's event (hint: you're going to get to ask all of our speakers your most burning questions in real-time) - along with our jaw-dropping speaker lineup! We'll discuss: Why even “strong” stepmoms need safe spaces The shift from isolation to belonging (with real stories from past attendees) How the summit is going 100% live this year - and why that changes everything Featured Speakers Sneak Peek: Eve Rodsky – on burnout, boundaries, and reclaiming your joy Terri Cole – setting unapologetic boundaries Patricia Papernow - the globally-recognized top stepfamily expert in the field Samantha Boss – parenting plans during high conflict Kristin Cogan - mindfulness in the midst of chaos Jessica Frew, Alicia Krasko, and even a lawyer from the Real Housewives
If you've ever wondered why blending a family feels so hard—even when you're "doing everything right"—this episode is for you.In today's conversation, we connect with EJ and Tarah Kerwin—professional therapists and co-founders of the Relationship Renovation Counseling Center—who open up about the very real and very raw struggles they faced when they merged their lives into one blended family. Despite all their training, nothing could have prepared them for the emotional rollercoaster of stepparenting, co-parenting, and navigating deep-seated personal triggers.But they didn't give up. They got curious. They did the work. And they developed tools that not only brought healing to their own marriage, but are now helping countless couples thrive through their counseling center, podcast, and programs.This isn't a story about perfection—it's a story about partnership, growth, and hope. If you've ever felt powerless, stuck, or just plain exhausted, lean in. There's light at the end of this tunnel.You'll Discover:You aren't alone - even two trained therapists struggled to understand and work through the challenges of blendingHow to reduce tension in your relationship and move toward healthy communication and partnershipHelpful mindsets for moving beyond resentment and dread when your step-kids come for visitationA path to freedom by learning to recognize your own painful emotions - and nurture yourself through them The value of doing repair work with kids when we mess up by using the right approachResources from this Episode:Relationship Renovation Counseling CenterThe Relationship Renovation Podcast with EJ & Tara KerwinReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!
Ever wish you could say exactly what's on your mind to your partner's ex… but know it'll only make things worse? In this episode, Alicia shares the concept of an “Ex-Files”—a private place to store your unspoken thoughts, frustrations, and screenshots. Learn why it's essential for your peace, your relationship, and your stepmom sanity.You'll discover:What an Ex-Files is and how to set one upWhy it protects your relationshipWhen to use it (and when not to)How it helps you release frustration without blowing things upCreate your Ex-Files today and give yourself the gift of peace.Want a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list, get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.
ResourcesEpisode 36. How to Change Your "Stories" and Grow Connection [with Mark Warren] Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know!We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!
In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia dives deep into the challenges that come when in-laws stay close to the ex. This dynamic can leave you feeling like the outsider in your own family, causing frustration, jealousy, and insecurity. But how can you cope with these feelings and build healthier boundaries? Tune in as Alicia shares her personal experiences, provides insight into the complex family dynamics, and offers practical advice to navigate these tricky situations with confidence.In This Episode, We Discuss:The Hard Reality: As a stepmom, you don't get to decide who has a relationship with the ex. This loss of control can be hard, but it's the reality of blended families.It's Not Personal: Just because your in-laws maintain a relationship with the ex doesn't mean they don't like you. It's about family history and dynamics, not about your worth.The Emotional Toll: Feelings of jealousy, exclusion, and frustration are common when in-laws stay close with the ex. Alicia shares how to manage these emotions without letting them control you.Competing Loyalties: In-laws are walking a fine line between supporting their child (your partner) and maintaining relationships with the ex for the sake of the kids. It's important to understand their position without taking it personally.Healthy Communication and Boundaries: Learn how to communicate your feelings to your partner and establish boundaries that work for your relationship. Find ways to navigate family gatherings and sensitive situations without feeling like the “outsider.”Developing Your Own Relationship with In-Laws: Alicia offers tips on how to build a connection with your in-laws separate from the ex. This can help you feel more secure in your role as a stepmom.Want a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list, get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.
Two 911 calls. Two families. And one gunman who knew exactly who he was looking for.On a quiet Saturday morning in March 2024, the calm in Levittown, Pennsylvania, was shattered by gunfire, and it started with a stolen car and a ghost gun. Within minutes, three people were dead, including a mother and her 13-year-old daughter.But this wasn't random. And this wasn't over.In this episode, we follow the manhunt for 26-year-old Andre Gordon Jr., from the break-ins to the hostage scare, to the moment police finally took him down. What made him snap? And how did no one see it coming?Listen now. Some rampages don't come with a warning.**************************************Do you have thoughts about this case, or is there a specific true crime case you'd like to hear about? Let me know with an email or a voice message: https://murderandlove.com/contactFind the sources used in this episode and learn more about how to support Love and Murder: Heartbreak to Homicide and gain access to even more cases, including bonus episodes, ad-free and intro-free cases, case files and more at: https://murderandlove.comMusic:℗ lesfreemusicBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/love-and-murder-heartbreak-to-homicide--4348896/support.
If you're feeling stuck in a blended family marriage that's filled with constant conflict, emotional disconnection, or overwhelming stress, you're not alone—and you're not without hope. Wes and Jennie were right where you are. Ten kids, a new marriage, and the chaos of the pandemic had pushed them into survival mode. Their arguments were frequent and intense. Their connection was fading fast. And they had no idea how to move forward.But instead of giving up, they chose to reach out for help.That's when they found us—and together, we walked through a proven coaching process that provided them with tools to reconnect, resolve conflicts, and build a strong foundation in their marriage. In this episode, you'll hear the breakthroughs they experienced and how they transformed not only their relationship but their entire family dynamic.You'll also hear the amazing update four years later—including BIG wins in building genuine connections with their kids, becoming grandparents, and a special first-time experience as a family.Listen in and be encouraged! You can experience transformation too - all it takes is one brave step forward.You'll Discover:How Wes and Jennie moved from explosive arguments to calm, clear communicationWhy investing in your marriage is essential for blended family successThe surprising power of understanding your personal past in order to show up better in the presentThe long-term results of imperfect progress, even in the toughest seasonsResources from this Episode:CLICK HERE to continue learning, growing, and investing in the health of your relationshipReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!
In this very special episode, I'm joined by my amazing stepdaughter, Teagan, as she celebrates her 15th birthday!
What do you do when someone says, "Just take a break," but you're knee-deep in dinner, the ex is texting, your stepkid is criticizing your cooking, and you're one eye twitch away from totally losing it?In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia is getting real about how to handle stress when stepping back isn't an option. Spoiler: she's not about to suggest you go meditate in the pantry—unless that's the only room with a door that locks.You'll walk away with practical tools to regulate your emotions in the moment, ride the emotional storm without burning your house down (literally or metaphorically), and talk about the aftermath without spiraling into a fight. This is the stress survival guide every stepmom needs.Resources & Links:Join The Stepmom Side Community for coaching, connection, and “I get it” vibes: aliciakrasko.com/communityReady to work through your resentment? Get instant access to the Resentment to Relief course: aliciakrasko.com/reliefWant private support? Apply for 1:1 coaching: aliciakrasko.com/coachingWant a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list, get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.
ResourcesEpisode 215. Does Your Relationship Feel Hopeless? Why Giving Up Might Not Be the Answer The 5 Love Languages by Gary ChapmanEpisode 155. How to Easily Enjoy Meaningful Conversations and More Connection with Your Spouse [with Jennifer Zumbiel]Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know!We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!
In this insightful episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, host Lori sits down with a unique duo - a biomom and stepmom who have successfully navigated the challenges of a blended family to become good friends. With over 11 years in their blend, the stepmom and the biomom discuss how they overcame early co-parenting hurdles, managed shifting visitation schedules, and built a friendship rooted in mutual respect and the well-being of the children. Listeners get a candid look at real-life co-parenting dynamics, from open communication and handling tough emotions to supporting each other through life's challenges, like divorce and a child's medical needs. Tune in to hear their firsthand advice on keeping the kids' best interests at the center while fostering harmony between households. Perfect for anyone seeking real-world tips on blending families, building trust with co-parents, and maintaining respectful boundaries in a stepfamily dynamic. In this episode we discuss: Building Positive Stepmom and Biomom Relationships Co-parenting and Communication Challenges Navigating Divorce and Blended Family Dynamics Prioritizing Children's Well-being and Stability Support Systems During Family and Health Crisis #BlendedFamily #CoParentingSuccess #NachoKidsPodcast Nacho Success Story: “We stopped arguing about parenting once I stopped parenting kids that weren't mine.” ~ R.P., San Diego, CA, USA
In this important episode, we're talking to the spouse who feels stuck, discouraged, or even ready to throw in the towel. We get it. We've been there too.We're diving into a powerful resource: Dr. Gary Chapman's book, Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away. We'll unpack four painful myths that keep couples stuck and explore six powerful “realities” that can spark real change, starting with you. And yes, we're sharing our own story of how we nearly gave up, what we did instead, and why we're so thankful we didn't walk away.Whether you're barely hanging on or just in a tough season, this episode is filled with vulnerability, truth, encouragement, and hope. We hope you know you're not alone, and there is a path forward.You'll Discover:Four common myths that keep couples stuck, feeling hopeless in their relationshipSix powerful realities that can shift your mindset and help you move forwardWhy shifting your own attitudes and actions is the key to influencing your relationshipHow “reality living” helped us break destructive patterns in our marriage The difference between giving up and letting go with peace and clarityResources from this Episode:Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away by Gary ChapmanEpisode 138. How Relational Dysfunction Plagued Our Marriage and How We Finally Broke FreeEpisode 202. How to Break Free From Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron and Nan Deal]Episode 200. A Heart-to-Heart Conversation Exploring the Secrets to Lasting LoveEpisode 190. Where can you turn for help? Understand the Difference Between Counseling and CoachingEpisode 65. 6 Simple Steps for Inviting Your Spouse to Get Help with YouEpisode 147. Do Sensitive Conversations End Up Creating Conflict in Your Relationship? Episode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences (The Stranded Stranger & Trapped Teammate Dynamic)Episode 120. 3 Valuable Lessons That Saved Our Marriage and Blended FamilyEpisode 101. Are you overwhelmed because your marriage feels like too much work? (Part 1 of 2)Episode 51. Overcoming Discouragement (Part 1 of 3)Ready for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionAre you ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether
On another hilarious and splendiferous episode of No Need for Apologies, we've got comedian, writer and Roast Battle OG Mike Lawrence in the turtle lair! From TMNT toy nostalgia to Love Island trauma, nothing is off limits. Dave and Derek dive into wild stories about interracial childhoods, parenting Black kids, Vegas casinos, and the brutal world of comedy roasts. Mike breaks down writing for Love Island and why stand-up has turned into a marketing game. Oh! Don't miss another classic NNFA game at the end
One of our listeners is freaking out over what his new stepmom just posted online...He says it has potential to ruin their entire family dynamic UNLESS he can convince her to take it down. That's why he's come to us for help in a brand new Awkward Tuesday Phone Call!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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One of our listeners is freaking out over what his new stepmom just posted online...He says it has potential to ruin their entire family dynamic UNLESS he can convince her to take it down. That's why he's come to us for help in a brand new Awkward Tuesday Phone Call!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.