Bourbon & Boyshorts

In this episode WE have a deep and open conversation about missing each other and being vulnerable about recognizing our isolation patterns and how we need to call each other out on it and check in. Also knowing when enough is enough and knowing "you cant be Everything to Everybody" when we allow ourselves to accumulate so much in our lives and take on so many responsibilities we forget to take care of ourselves. WE also speak on doing things to make ourselves happy without feeling guilty or worry about letting others down. Later we discuss how we lean on and walk in community with our friends from UNION CHURCH and being more spiritually led in life, dating, and friendship All this and more..LOVE LIFE LIBATIONS

We kick off this episode with a high spiritual moment in realizing how good GOD is in our lives, Jeremy is speaking life and truth into the ears of the believers and non-believers for all miracles to come true and praying for our dear friend Chantay who is a Ovarian Cancer Survivor and Amanda going through her Battle with Breast Cancer. As we come down off our spiritual high we get into an in depth conversation about Affirming ourselves to greatness and seeing ourselves the GOD sees us and speaking life and truth into ourselves. Also realizing our gifts and perfecting them and using them the GOD intended us to use them.

As we close out the year 2023 we reflect back on how we started, where we went, how we felt, and what we learned. We collectively give each other flowers and show appreciation to the growth that everybody has gone through. We also anticipate Dr. T's re-release of her book "HEALING DISCOVERY" which is now available on Amazon.com or TikTok shop. We also exam and dissect into our old dating habits and how we kicked them and also how we dealt with not sending mixed signals while also setting boundaries All That And more From the Lovely Dr. T

We Sit down with our friend Jamal as we reminisce on how we formed our friendship and also gave the true meaning of "help us help us" also his start in bartending to now owning his on spirit brand. Also later we dig into Jamal's love life and how he handled his emotion while trying balance his career and ambitions Also dig more into what makes his brand so authentic and separate from others, What its like being a black owned spirit brand and his experience within the culture and branching out outside of the culture to make his brand well known to all and tasty for all

On this episode we rewind & recap our time at Black Girls Vote(BGV) Cocktails & ConvHERsation Event where we did red carpet interviews at the event and celebrated all the Beautiful and Brilliant Women that night who are in our community and beyond paving the way for our future young ladies of our nation. Christmas came early for as we go through our gift bags sent from BGV with all the goodies from personal bottle of henny to Kyle first pair of cuff links. Afterwards Kyle and Jeremy also recap their night after the event when trying to get some food and the interesting things they saw while ordering food at their favorite late night spot, from crackheads to intellectual prostitutes lol what time. Then closing out with some proud dad and uncle moments that were experienced throughout the year so far. All we can say A TIME WAS HAD

We sit down without each other and have a very in depth conversation about how we are praying for one another, and making sure that we are using our power of prayer to the best of our abilities. We also reflect on how GOD puts us in places that forces us to use our spiritual light/guidance on others. We get into how we pick and use our "wise counsel" of friends around us and why dont we reach out or use them like we should. While going through life as we change people around us change and we have to relearn people and see if they fit our change. Do women renew their friendship contract more often than men do? And we have a hilarious take on how we built our friendship/cousinship and so much more..tune in kick back and listen

Mother, Daughter, Sister, Friend, and NOW 5 TIME Published Author and Therapist comes to talk with us on her special segment "Therapy Thursdays" Where she gets a prepped for "Cuffin Season" with all the Do's and Don'ts of Dating. NO MORE DINNER DATES an interesting take on how dinner dates aren't good when dating. How our culture needs to stop buying into Toxic Love, and Being loved the way GOD intended you to be love, And many many more GEMs throughout the show Grab your tissues wine/whiskey and note pads this is a great start to a great series

We have the honor and pleasure of sitting down with legendary host of BIG FAT MORNING SHOW Marc Clarke aka Uncle Marc. He gives the behind the scene view point on the radio industry, how he got his start, the sacrifices he made to get where he is now. Also making his transition from radio to tv. Later in the episode we "take flight" into his entrepreneurial lane and his new product that will have you on cloud 9 and feeling fine. all we can say his a time was had getting to know our new found family member from being the voice that get us to school and for some of us to work to being able to laugh and call him UNC is truly an honor

Episode 191: Josh for the Win by Bourbon & Boyshorts

We sit down with our good brother Josh aka greatValue Joe Budden aka mr wheel chair sex lol. He return with a new perspective on life from being a father now a husband and a spiritually guided man he shares how life has changed him and we also reflect on how Josh and Kyle went from Coworkers to damn near brothers And stories of a wild past that shaped his future for the better

Listen as we sit down with WPGC 95.5's own Nori-Nori! We chronicle Nori's 20 year radio career while she takes us on a journey from her hometown of Chattanooga, TN to Washington D.C. The episode starts during our pre-podcast session with Nori while Kyle DJs. At the 28:00 minute mark we start the show with prayer and introductions. You'll learn that Nori is very big on family, intention about her career, and has a story about almost every celebrity…. including Drake. We even asked a question that had her at a loss for words.”

We sat down with Tarah Davidson @tarah_davidson , Clinical Psychotherapist and Certified Clinical Sexologist. Tarah's specialty area of focus is men and sexuality and is sure to drop several gems We discussed the difficulties, excitement, fears and challenges of dating in the current climate. What is Masculine and Feminine energy and the implications associated with them. Tarah gets into a deep cadence and stream of conscience as she unpacks some of the barriers between men and women and shares how patriarchy has impacted the black community and why a disciplined man is a beautiful thing.

Imagine walking into work on your birthday and getting fired. What about being homeless and your family doesn't know. "A Barrel of Testimony" isn't the latest aged bourbon, rather a new age Praise & Worship moment from Bourbon & Boyshorts. Kyle and Jeremy share their testimonies of how good God has been to them over the past year. This is their “Bourbon Breakthrough.”

NOW THATS SAXY...In this episode we have the pleasure of sitting down with local Legend Will Spence the underdog of the saxophone. We start off giving each other flowers, then we move on to how Spence got his start with music trying to impress a pretty young lady from his neighborhood, finding his sound around Baltimore with different groups and schools to being on tour with some of the biggest names in the music world. We also tap into his side hustle of making customs grillz. There's a lot of laughs and real moments on this episode and most importantly give our real thoughts on manhood and fatherhood. Take listen enjoy and as always. Love Life Libations

HEY Baltimore!!..On this episode we have the pleasure to chop it up with Baltimore treasured trombone player RUFUS ROUNDTREE. The journey we went on with him was amazing from him having no interest in the trombone and fighting to play saxophone. Going against the grain of hanging with his friends to practice, grinding his way through HS to play in the band which he found himself with the trombone yet AGAIN. Finding his way through Morgan state University with multiple bands getting fired to rehired as thee only horn player in the band and again given the task of playing the trombone ONCE AGAIN. After college Rufus travels the nation soaking up all the music he can find and also getting the opportunity to play with George Clinton & Parliament alongside other notable artist. Finally Rufus Comes home to Baltimore and shares is story through music and his new found love you guest it the TROMBONE..and more stories throughout the episode..i hope you enjoy the trip as much as we did

On this episode we have the pleasure of talking...well listening to the Key master Aaron Hill Baltimore's premier pianist. We kick off the episode with a freestyle from Aaron while Perfect Gentleman gave him the beats to keep flowing. Then we begin our journey with Aaron from his inspirations of music, how he got his start, playing in church, his parents giving him all the tools needed to be successful in life, starting his own band. And later we get a surprise from Aaron we find out he wrote his own children's book G.E.M.S. which so happens to be about his childhood. Best part is the book it's a long and of course You know we had to join in on the fun. We rap up the conversation with all affirmation towards each other and end the episode on positive light and love. Press play, turn them ears on and enjoy the show

OOUU OOUU...We sit down with Charm City's Own Young and rising star Lor Dae, listen as he breaks down how he stays in his own lane, getting Baltimore back to partying and having fun with his music, his humble upbringing, learing how to play music and so much more. Later in the episode we have a very vulnerable moment about how being a man in this day and age and settling the example for our kids to follow behind is so important

This is a BOURBON BREAKTHROUUUUU..On this episode we chat with Eric the Stylist as she gives her experiences on Love and Loyalty and most importantly RESPECT. We start off with how she got her start in styling when she was 8!! to grinding her way through school to opening and owing her own salon. Later we tap into relationship talk and we struck a nerve when we hit on why she allowed DISRESPECT in her relation and people being real & loyal to her and her reciprocating the realness & loyalty back. And after a while we had a BOURBON BREAKTHRUUUUU with Erica when she realizes she is the reason why DISRESPECT was being done in the relationship. This episode is a really good listen for the people who are going through a rocky or trying time in their relationship and wanting to move on

BOONIE is BACK!! We catch up with Beautiful Boonie of the Boonie Breakdown Podcast to find out what she has been up to since we last spoke 2 years ago. We get down and somewhat dirty on several topics from the rules of engagement on how to set up a 3SUM, Jeremy's secret night time nickname, gay night club experience aka ''THE BALL" the Boonie Breakdown Tour and soooo much more this a conversation you dont want to miss

END RAPE CULTURE What is the “Rape Culture?” Rape Culture is an environment in which rape is prevalent and in which sexual violence against women is normalized and excused in the media and popular culture. Rape culture is perpetuated through the use of misogynistic language, the objectification of women's bodies, and the glamorization of sexual violence, thereby creating a society that disregards women's rights and safety. Listen as we sit down with Enchanta, founder of Black Women Whiskey and host of Women & Whiskey Wednesdays; a monthly happy hour series that raises money for local non profits. We learn what it means to be a abolitionist and focus on restorative justice. From there we move into the predatory practices of the bail system how it structured to keep people impoverished. And of course we couldn't end the this episode without learning who is single and who is in a happy relationship that "works until it doesn't work anymore"

Listen as we sit down w/ Craig C. Chef by Day Painter/Artist by Nite. We follow Craig's journey from his humble beginnings in Baltimore as an up and coming painter and Chef to taking his talents on the road to sharpen his skills having to take those skills and inspire others to get on a superior level while running his own kitchen. We also touch on love and fatherhood and how he found inspiration from his woman and kids to in turn creating new art from new found love. Lastly we round out the convo with not taking life for granted and appreciating the people in our lives and keeping ourselves uplifted by creating a circle of trust and vulnerability for all our brothers out here in the world.

Listen as we sit down with the Ladies of Above the Flame Cigars, African American women owned boutique cigar company offering premium quality hand rolled cigars whose foundation is built on integrity, professionalism, commitment and respect. We find out these ladies who are family decided to start a cigar company during the pandemic. What's more interesting is their story growing up in Southeast DC. https://abovetheflamecigars.com

Listen as we sit down with Chef French of French Toast Connection. Chef starts by giving him his props as a DJ and apologizes for underestimating his abilities. Chef French breaks down the ATL (Atlanta) roots of “French Toast Connection” and explains how she perfected her world famous sweet potato hash……… https://www.frenchtoastconnectionatl.com

“Styling is enhancing who you are, not changing who you are” - Lulu B. Listen as we sit down with Talea Dixon, owner of Lulu B's Closet. We discuss the importance of fashion and feeling good and how it plays a role in our everyday lives. Talea shares why she resigned from her job to pursues the entrepreneurial life, and touches on why she'll never change her store into a boutique.

This is our most vulnerable episode to date. Listen as we open up about the things that hurt, the pressures we're under and a passionate breakdown of tears and emotions from Jeremy. Listen and share your thoughts

On this episode we start with a “Prelude” conversation with our guest we Natasha Edmonds of the No Prelude podcast. We start out learning how Natasha and Jeremy first met and when she first learned his name. Tasha candidly shares why her first marriage ended and the lessons she learned. One thing that is very prevalent with Tasha is that she's a true “daddy's girl” and it shows. Finally we get her to tell us about her top secret job working for the Mayor

Listen as we sit down with our Accountability Brother Travis and jump right into breaking down the facades we present to the world. With his facade gown Travis shares the moment he felt the emotions of separating from his wife. As men we often dong create a safe space to be vulnerable with each other after as evidenced from our emotional intervention with Kyle. One reason being that everything since childhood is building men to guard themselves from heartbreak. Final question we ask….. “Where is your love life now? Do you feel like you deserve love?”

Listen as we sit down with Nykidra Robinson, CEO and founder of Black Girls Vote. Nyki has become our new sister as she opened up. For the first time she shared what it was like growing up with a schizophrenic parent and how she handles it now. She was surprised with the honor of being on the Baltimore Magazine were she discusses women being empathetic leaders. We switch and discuss Nyki's Romantic interest….. Why are her friends freezing their eggs and is she able to rest in her femininity while letting a man lead

Listen as we sit down with "ya favorite bartender's favorite bartender'' Dajai aka Bartending Baddie, mixing up her no marriage margaritas, crazy companion cocktails, and spilling the tea on what she requires from a man who really peaks her interest. Time Attention Penis(TAP)and more twists and turns all thru the episode pour up a drink and kick back and enjoy this one

listen as we sit down with Chelsey aka Chelsey Travels as she gives us financial literacy advice how to plan, save, and move your money. Gives us insight on how she travels and some smart money management tips while you travel. Then later she lets us in on how she wanted to be the "perfect woman" or at least create the image of perfection for her husband in a world filled with so many imperfections

“The 3 reasons high performing woman have toxic relationships After a three week hiatus we reconvene to discuss high performing woman and why they are drawn to toxic partners. Oblivious to what toxic looks like If yiu let him be toxic once, he can do it forever 1. high performing women are willing to put in the work 2. Toxic men target powerful women 3. Their sex lives are blinding https://www.businessinsider.com/why-intelligent-and-high-performing-women-fall-for-toxic-partners-2019-7#1-high-performance-women-are-willing-to-put-in-the-work-1

After we sat down with the world renowned musician Clarence Ward III (Episode 165: “Fish Sandwich & Jazz”), we kept the mics rolling and had a very candid conversation about life, music, and Jazz. We have a vulnerable moment as we experience the full cycle of life live. “Death is hard… I can shed a tear and still be a G”

Black Awesome [blak •ˈôsəm]: Someone who is who portrays and demonstrates great qualities and abilities that strengthen the Black community in the areas of collective economics, family structure, and increased knowledge. Listen as we sit down with Baltimore's Black Awesome Terrence Dickerson, owner of Terra Cafe. The conversation focuses on building community, the transfer of knowledge throughout generations, and how to build healthy families.

Namasté: (nah-mah-stay) Namasté is more than a word used to end a yoga session. With respect and reverence, Namasté is a way to see and honor the reality of others. On this episode we welcome Knae Johnson founder of the popular yoga company “Namaste with Nae”. Knae discusses wanting find a Mentor in business and discovering that even her would be mentor is still “trying to figure it all out”. Knae practices/ teaches Iyengar Yoga, a yoga style that differs from others in three major ways: precision, sequence and use of props. This is were the idea of “give your body grace” comes from…. Have you sat down with yourself and done the “ugly work”? Have yiu done 200 hours of it? What about changing your out look from being a victim to a victor? We unpack this and hear vulnerable truths. “Your mat is your mirror” you can't blame anyone for what you can't do on your mirror…

Take a listen as we talk about being attracted to toxic behavior and in turn giving out the same toxic behaviors as well. Listen as we both tell our stories of being toxic and allowing toxicity to overcome us and how we dealt with it. We also reminisce on our days of partying in DC and our "what ifs" of us meeting back in our hay day of partying. And Sabotaging relationships that we knw we werent ready for and dealing with the aftermath of that

Listen as we sit down with the world renowned musician Clarence Ward III. This is a long episode chopped full of gems, far more than any description can capture. Some of this episodes topics include, “How did you know your wife was the one?”, Breaking down our roles as fathers, have a close and closed off Circle, Being vulnerable as a man and how having expectations and being consistent is a keystone, Manhood is consistency. Respect for elders, and why Clarence's life has been the best since his wife became a stay at home wife…… We start with growing up in Baltimore and the responsibilities of being the oldest child in a single parent household. Inspired by Roy Hargroves “The Tokyo Sessions”, Clarence heard Baltimore trumpeting Antonio Hart and knew that he would master the trumpet. We get into the business of music and learn what it was like performing with Aretha Franklin, Bebe & Cece Winans, Ledisi and more. We touch on the music scene in Baltimore and ask the question, “why are some musicians difficult to book”.

Listen as we sit down with Chef Savory Sweet of Maison intimate style catering. Chef shares how she honed her skills studying in France while relaxing under the Eiffel Tower for hours on end. Why can no one ever make Beef Wellington correctly? Explained what happened when a Wellington was ruined and how see saved the day. From that she dropped a huge gem, “People eat my mistakes…”

This episode is heavy on taking accountability to create the life you want to live. Today we sit down with Tasha Mack of the television show and podcast “Let's Talk Love”. We carry over the conversation from our guest appearance on “Let's Talk Love” and learn why Tasha is dating her Ex-husband. We unpack the reasons she left and what happened in Atlanta that brought them back together. From there we discuss “The Currently Clapped Woman” and why women feel they need to standout.

Listen as we sit Down with Steph J., Dr. McFadden, and Ava. We discuss what it means to have “percolator knees” while being present in the moment. Dr. McFadden discusses why it was important for her to purchase a new home. She opens up losing a home, losing a relationship, and getting kicked out of school. Ava embraces “Thoting through the pandemic” and and giving heard immunity through her “vajayjay” We finally spill the “tea” onKyle sleeping with Steph and Ava……. We end with the question “What do you need a man for if you have friends…”

Listen as we sit down with the “Tastefully Rachet Podcast”....... We start the conversion learning about Syd’s long distance Atlanta boo and discuss expanding your dating search to include the entire country (15:28). Next Sam shares what is keeping her from being with her soulmate (20:05). We dig deeper into the traits of Sam’s dream man: Goal oriented Intentional Great communicator Independent ambition Tall dark with locs..... These are the trait she wants, but is she what he would want? (38:25) The question of the evening “Are you open to being happy, without challenge?”

Listen as we sit down with Kolin Robinson the creator of the “Spirit Man”. Kolin shares his experience attending the first Suit & Sneaker party vs. attending Ladies Night. We learn the origin of Spirit Man necklace and the process to request one (15:40). Conversation transitions as we get into the evenings true topic: “Are your friends keeping you single?” There are 5 types of friends That keep you single: 1. Surrogate partner friend 2. Judgmental Friends 3. Sabotaging Friends 4. Bitter Friends 5. Competitive Friends *The pretty friend *The never do better than me friend We take a more serious time as we discuss why men feel they need to be masculine around their friends and the importance of therapy.

Listen as we sit down with Tenne Thrower aka TNT-Diva. Tenne breaks down what it means to be in her inner circle and what it takes to be removed from inside. What happens when there is disloyalty in your business/romantic relationships? Do you leave? Do you keep doing business? Find out what she does in this scenario. We take the heat off of Tenne and apply pressure to married women who party with their single friends. Our debate is if this is appropriate and/or a sign of trouble at home. We finish the conversation debating “Are Black Women Exotic...”

Listen as we sit down with Ifeanyi owner of Montego Bar & Grille, as well our favorite DJ, DJ Pro2col. Pro2Col shares the story of how he begin to spin and why Kyle Is toughest critic. Next we move into Ifeanyi as he talks about leaving Wall St and Corporate banking to following his passion of becoming a restaurateur. Back into business commentary as both Pro2col and Ifeanyi share stories about doing business with friends and how to navigate giving “handouts”. As the episode closes we are left an amazing gem: “Crabs don’t belong in a barrel”

Listen as we sit down with Jonta'e owner and founder of Bubbles Galore and participant in our "Panty Dropper Brunch" (Episode 5). We start the episode off creating the atmosphere to be our true and authentic selves. We eventually move the conversation and ask if she is being courted or going on dates. We end on the topic of issue women have with sexuality in the business industry.

Listen as we sit down Carla of Carla’s Sugar and discuss her journey from Lefrak Queens to the Military and beyond. Carla drops gems such as “Never stop listening to your intuition” and the idea of Combat vs. Tact; A battle of wills or a place of peace. Have you made love on a beach of jet black sand? Pay close attention to hear if Carla has during her time in Hawaii. Island fever taught her something important “you have to remind yourself you’re in paradise.” Question of the evening: What will it take for you to recognize your true Godhood? https://www.carlassugar.com/

This episode goes deep as we touch on Mental health and the dynamic between a son and a mother.... A mother who told her son “I’ll never love you the way you’ll need to be loved”. Listen to see the ramifications of this statement.

I am Bro The "Black" Zach Morris Women with male friends No one dates they cool chic "She's a entire wife, you're a boyfriend at best"

Listen as we sit down with Davonne D'neil and unpack her latest project "Skin Tone Brown". Davonne shares how she wrote her first song and why Delaware State is were the "Culture" lived during her college years. We spend time in the studio as she shows us her techniques for layering her vocals while we learn the science of the studio versus the art form of live performance.

Who are you when you’re sober? Do you like yourself sober? When was the last time you you can honestly say you were sober? Do you like your partner when they’re sober? More importantly can you eat a salad together (27:15)... Listen as we sit down with Jay7d the "Coochie Cleaner" and break down what it means to “live something twice(21:01). Did you know: Vaginal steaming releases soul ties Question of the night: “What’s your I am?”

All women who are looking to be married should ask these two simple questions before wasting their time, “Are you considering marrying me? What would it take for you to marry me...” At some point you have to ask yourself If what you’re doing isn’t working, then fwhat are you going to do different in dating? Listen as we discuss what it means to apologize and when a apology becomes a red flag. Can you love someone when they are not loveable Watch the energy transferred to you during sex, it may ruin your day. Women choose who to date and who to sleep with, men choose who they’ll marry. Trust the feeling in your gut....

Listen as we sit down with Julius and Julian, the tap dancing duo of the Money Takers. We hear their new song “New New” and get a lesson on booking “Bad Mamas”. More than tapping the Twins are In two upcoming movies, “Time Matters” and “Color Blind” Did you Know: Their first drama teacher was Shemar Moore Their First instrument was the steel drum Their first tap instructor was Savion glover Closing Question: “Are you Ready for greatness?”