Grow and Glow with Ashy and Keiara

In this Flashback Friday episode, we revisit a powerful conversation about projection — how the comments people make about us often reveal more about them. From confidence and parenting to money and success, this episode explores how to stop taking things personally and start seeing triggers as a chance for growth.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week’s bestie advice segment… this one hit deep.A widowed mum of two has rebuilt her life and found love again but now she’s being faced with an ultimatum that changes everything.From grief, blended families, and second chances… to control, insecurity, and impossible choices, she’s being asked to choose between her relationship and her children’s wellbeing. This episode is raw, emotional, and confronting, and we unpack what’s really going on beneath it all. Because sometimes the hardest question isn’t what do I do? It’s what am I willing to tolerate?

In this episode, we’re breaking down the 10 things women do to fast track their results and it is not about doing more. It is about thinking differently, raising your standards, taking aligned action and putting yourself in the right rooms. If you are tired of feeling stuck or wondering why everyone else seems to be moving faster, this is your loving push forward. We talk identity shifts, bold decisions, proximity, accountability and the mindset that collapses time on your goals. If you are ready to rise quicker, this one is for you

If you missed the episode where we talked about friendship breakdowns and why they feel so hard, here's a short bite-sized best bit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this Bestie Advice episode of the She Rises Podcast…we unpack a story that will leave you questioning everything you think you’d do in her position. A 10-year relationship. Two young kids. A husband on deployment. And one moment that shattered everything she thought was safe. This is about betrayal, intuition, self-trust… and the impossible decisions women are faced with when love and self-respect collide.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of She Rises Tijana shares a story she’s never told in full. What started as a “perfect” relationship, the dates, the attention, and the image quickly turned into something that didn’t feel right. Behind the scenes, there were red flags, control, gaslighting, and a growing feeling she couldn’t ignore. This episode dives into the moment you start questioning your reality, the courage it takes to trust your intuition, and what happens when you realise the person you thought was everything… isn’t safe for you. This one is deep, confronting, and an important conversation every woman needs to hear.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you missed the episode where we talked about the darkside of drinking and why we're now 100% sober, here's a short bite-sized best bit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this weeks Bestie Advice Segment, we talk about long term love under pressure. After 15 years together, building a home, upgrading cars, planning a wedding and juggling high stress careers, why does communication suddenly feel harder? We unpack why arguments can increase in seasons of growth, how stress impacts connection, and the difference between resolving conflict and truly understanding each other. If you love your partner deeply but feel the tension rising as life gets bigger, this conversation will give you practical and grounded ways to strengthen communication before resentment builds See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode of She Rises we’re pulling back the curtain on what it really looks like to show up online. From being told we’re “not qualified,” to debates around sobriety, motherhood, and even how we choose to express ourselves… the internet has a lot to say.This episode is a real, unfiltered look at the comments, the judgments, and the conversations that come with visibility and how to stay grounded in who you are when everyone has an opinion.Because at the end of the day… not everyone will understand you and that’s okay.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week’s Bestie Advice Segment, we talk about friendships that start to feel one-sided. When someone watches your stories, opens your messages, but never replies, what does that really mean? We unpack the hurt of feeling ignored by a friend, why life changes can shift friendship dynamics, and how to know whether it is worth having one honest conversation or quietly letting the friendship go. If you have ever questioned where you stand with someone, felt disappointed by a lack of effort, or wondered if a friendship has simply run its course, this conversation will help you honour how you feel while still leaving room for compassion, clarity and closure.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of She Rises Podcast, we sit down with Emma, the founder of Your Reformer and the woman who turned her own health crisis into a movement. After years of high-impact training took a serious toll on her body and her fertility journey, Emma slowed down, discovered Pilates, and never looked back. Now, with over 1 million hours of Pilates watched on the Your Reformer app and 1,500+ five star reviews, Emma is on a mission to make reformer Pilates accessible to every woman, right from her own home. No commute, no class times, no excuses. Let’s make health a lifestyle and not a chore. Tune in! Check out www.yourreformer.com.au @yourreformer on Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we unpack a conversation that feels vulnerable but so real… what do you do when you love your partner, feel attracted to him, but struggle with intimacy in the bedroom? We talk about comparison being the thief of joy, how past chemistry can quietly impact your present relationship, and the pressure of wanting passion to feel effortless. This is not about blaming a “soft” man or chasing stereotypes, it is about understanding desire, polarity, emotional safety and the stories we carry from past connections. If you have ever wondered why love does not always equal fire, this episode will feel honest, nuanced and freeing

On this episode we’re talking about how to have a healthy relationship with social media and why some of the messages we consume might be quietly keeping us stuck. We unpack the rise of “soft girl culture,” the difference between rest and avoidance, and how easily self-protection can turn into self-abandonment when there’s no structure to support it. This conversation isn’t about becoming harder; it’s about understanding that real feminine power comes from the balance of safety, discipline, and self-leadership. Because true freedom doesn’t come from doing less, it comes from learning how to lead yourself well. Grounding, honest, and gently confronting.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we dive into the question so many mums quietly carry… how do you know if you’re truly done having kids? We talk about motherhood after PND, moving from survival to feeling light again, the pressure of other people’s opinions, and the fear of disrupting a life that finally feels good. If you feel content but still curious, torn between protecting your peace and wondering if you might regret not having one more, this conversation will feel like a warm hug and an honest mirror. It is not about the “right” answer, it is about learning how to make the decision from clarity instead of fear

On this episode of She Rises, we’re breaking down what a real apology actually looks like and why saying “sorry” is often the smallest part of it. We explore the different ways to apologise with integrity, from taking accountability and changing behaviour to repairing trust and addressing the root of your actions. Because emotional maturity isn’t about getting it perfect, it’s about being willing to own your impact and grow from it. This episode is a conversation about self-leadership, responsibility, and becoming someone others can feel safe with. Simple. Practical. Necessary. Tune in! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we unpack what it feels like to be the “responsible one” while quietly feeling trapped. She is a mum of three, working full time, carrying financial pressure, supporting her husband’s dream job and pay cuts, yet feeling terrified to spend money on herself and shut down every time she talks about changing her own career. We talk about financial control versus financial responsibility, resentment that builds when dreams feel one sided, and the mental load of being the steady one while your own needs get postponed. If you have ever felt unseen, stuck, or like your happiness is always the five year plan, this conversation will feel validating, confronting and deeply empoweringSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we unpack the question so many women quietly carry… can we really have it all, or are we burning out trying? We talk about seasons of life, ambition and motherhood, wanting the thriving career, present parenting, a strong marriage, friendships, health, and space for yourself… and the pressure to hold it all at the same time. Maybe it is not about having everything all at once, but knowing what season you are in and giving yourself permission to prioritise without guilt. If you feel stretched, torn or like you are failing because you cannot do it all, this conversation will feel grounding and freeing from both Ashy and Tijana who are in very different seasons and being ten years apart in age.

On this week’s Bestie Advice segment, we hear from a woman who says sex is the last thing she feels like right now. Between motherhood, emotional exhaustion and carrying more than anyone around her can see, she feels completely touched out, burnt out and disconnected from the woman she used to be. If you’ve ever felt emotionally exhausted, lost in responsibility, or unsure how to reconnect with yourself or your partner… this conversation is for you.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week’s episode of the She Rises Podcast, we sit down with skin expert Renee from The Skin Clinic in Sydney to talk about what it really takes to achieve healthy, glowing skin from the inside out. If you’ve ever struggled with breakouts or skin conditions or simply want to understand how to support your skin on a deeper level, this episode is packed with practical advice and expert knowledge. If you'd like to check out The Skin Clinic it's located on Majors Bay road in Concord, NSW. You can email Renee concord@theskinclinic.com.au or follow on Instagram or Facebook @theskinclinicconcordSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week’s Bestie Advice segment, we’re holding space for a listener navigating an unimaginable season of change. We talk about what it means to make big life decisions while your world still feels like it’s falling apart, how vulnerability can blur clarity, and the difference between moving forward and trying to outrun pain. This conversation explores emotional safety, self-trust, and why you don’t have to have everything figured out to begin listening to your inner voice.

On this episode of She Rises we’re talking about the quiet way confidence erodes when you make everyone else the priority. We share the moments we abandoned ourselves to keep the peace, how it slowly impacted our self-worth, and why constantly putting yourself last doesn’t just drain you; it changes how you show up in every area of your life. From resentment and reactivity to feeling unseen, no one truly wins in that dynamic. If you’ve been running on empty or calling it “just who I am,” this conversation will invite you to choose differently. Grounded, honest, and quietly empowering.

On this week’s Bestie Advice segment, we respond to a listener who feels torn between the partner she’s building a life with and unexpected feelings for someone who has long been a close friend. We talk about why attraction can surface even in loving relationships, what these moments can reveal, and the importance of getting honest with yourself before making lifelong commitments. This conversation explores clarity, emotional responsibility, and the difference between curiosity and compatibility. Thoughtful, grounding, and here to help you listen to the truth beneath the confusion.

On this week’s She Rises, we’re talking about the power of betting on yourself even when it feels uncomfortable. We share what it looked like to make a significant investment in our growth, the fear and resistance that surfaced, and why this decision was ultimately about self-trust and expanding our vision, not just money.If you’ve been standing at the edge of your next level, wondering whether you’re ready, this conversation is your reminder that sometimes growth begins the moment you decide to back yourself.

On this week’s episode we’re talking about what it actually means when you’re not in the mood for sex, and why it usually has nothing to do with something being “wrong” with you. This episode reframes desire through safety, softness, and nervous system regulation, and shares simple ways to reconnect with your body without pressure or performance. We also challenge the idea that sex is about pleasing someone else, and bring the focus back to connection, curiosity, and self-trust. If desire has started to feel forced or confusing, this conversation will help you soften back into it, on your terms.

On this week’s Bestie Advice segment, we respond to an anonymous listener navigating the reality of a long-term partner struggling with alcoholism, aggression, and unpredictable moods while raising two children. We talk about the emotional toll of walking on eggshells, overcompensating to keep the peace, and the difficult line between supporting someone and protecting yourself and your family. This conversation explores what you can and cannot control, when responsibility has to shift back onto the person who needs help, and why emotional safety in a home is non-negotiable. Tune in! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

**Trigger Warning:** This episode discusses eating disorders, grief, and body image. Please listen with care and take breaks if needed. On this episode we sit down with Kyra Dooley for an honest conversation about eating disorders, grief, and the parts of the dance world no one really talks about. Kyra shares who she was before dance became about her body instead of her love for it, how losing her dad at just 16 shaped the way she coped, and how control, food, and performance slowly became intertwined. This episode isn’t about blame or glamour, it’s about awareness, compassion, and rebuilding trust with your body after trauma. If you’ve ever struggled with control, perfectionism, grief, or feeling like your worth was tied to how you looked or performed, this conversation will land.

On this episode of She Rises, we’re sharing a real life update because 2026 was harder than we expected. January felt heavy, slow, and emotional. We talk about the residue from 2025, burnout after a big end-of-year push, and what it’s been like starting the year in a shedding, reflective season instead of a motivated one. This episode is for anyone feeling flat, behind, or quietly overwhelmed as the year begins and needs a reminder it’s okay to be HUMAN. A gentle listen for you today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week’s Bestie Advice segment, we’re talking about jealousy, the kind that lingers after betrayal and quietly follows you into new relationships. We respond to an anonymous listener who shares her experience of being cheated on. This conversation explores where jealousy often comes from, how past wounds shape present reactions, and why these feelings are usually less about your partner and more about the safety you feel within yourself. Supportive, honest, and very big-sister energy.

On this week’s She Rises Podcast, Tijana shares her breakup story - what really happened and the lessons she learned the hard way. What began as an instant, deeply aligned connection slowly turned into a push–pull dynamic that left her feeling uncertain, unchosen, and disconnected from herself. In this episode, she opens up about the anxious–avoidant dance, ignoring her intuition, and staying longer than she should have while trying to believe words that didn’t match actions, reflecting on the hard truths heartbreak teaches: you can’t love someone into loving you, you can’t prove your worth, confusion is a red flag, and intuition never lies.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of She Rises, we’re unpacking the conditioning so many women grow up with, the pressure to be nice at the expense of being honest, expressed, and self-respecting. We explore how “nice girl” behaviour often shows up as people-pleasing, over-extending, avoiding conflict, and abandoning your own needs just to keep the peace or protect how others perceive you. We talk about why being nice isn’t the same as being kind, and how niceness can quietly suppress the parts of you that are opinionated, fiery, strong-willed, or deeply authentic. If you’ve ever felt exhausted from always being the “easy” one, this episode will help you see why and what actually changes when you stop abandoning yourself to be liked. tune in to get the full scope! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week’s Bestie Advice Segment, we hold space for one of the most distressing submissions we’ve received. An anonymous listener shares her story of an affair that didn’t end when the truth came out, but instead evolved into manipulation, intimidation, and abuse.In this episode, we talk about coercive control, trauma bonds, shame, and the dangerous grey areas where fear keeps people stuck. This is a raw conversation about survival, safety, and what it really looks like when someone feels trapped between past mistakes and present danger. If you’ve ever felt silenced by fear, guilt, or the belief that you’re “too far gone” to ask for help… this episode is for you. Tune in for the full scope!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of She Rises we’re unpacking what it actually looks like to have a healthy relationship with social media without letting it impact your confidence, nervous system, or sense of self. We talk about the difference between using social media as a tool versus unconsciously measuring your worth against it, how to recognise when scrolling is disconnecting you from yourself, and why boundaries online are just as important as the ones you set in your real life. This episode is a reminder that social media isn’t the problem how we engage with it is. And when you learn to lead yourself in that space, it becomes something that supports your growth instead of silently draining it. Honest, practical, and empowering.

On this week’s She Rises Podcast, we’re looking back on the ten episodes that defined 2025, the conversations you shared, replayed, DM’d us about, and felt deeply seen by. From raw personal stories and relationship revelations to uncomfortable truths, unexpected humour, and moments of profound healing, we unpack why these episodes landed the way they did, and what they revealed about where our community was at emotionally. Whether you’re new here or you’ve listened since day one, this episode is a reminder of how far we’ve come together and why honest conversations will always be at the heart of She Rises! Let’s dive in! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week’s Bestie Advice Segment, we unpack one of the most heartbreaking and complex situations we’ve ever received. An anonymous listener shares her experience navigating a deeply painful relationship with her stepdad the man who raised her as he relapses into heavy drug use and begins to spiral out of control in their relationship. Tune into today’s episode to get the full scope and what to do when someone you love turns on you. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week’s She Rises Podcast, we’re sharing our lived experiences of inner child healing, not from theory, but from the quiet, everyday moments where it actually shows up. We talk about the subtle ways we were still parenting ourselves the way we were raised: being hard on ourselves, rushing our healing, minimising emotions, and feeling the need to always be “good” or “strong,” even when that wasn’t true to how we felt inside. If you’ve ever felt frustrated with your healing, disconnected from your emotions, or like you’re doing everything “right” but still feel tender inside, this conversation will help you feel less alone and more understood. tune in for the full scope!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week’s She Rises Podcast, we’re breaking down the 5 Love Languages and how to actually use them in real life…. beyond romantic relationships. We explore what love languages really are, how they shape the way we give and receive love, and why so many misunderstandings happen when people are speaking different emotional languages. From friendships and romantic relationships, to parenting and even workplace dynamics. This episode shows you how to communicate care, appreciation, and connection in ways that actually land. Tune in for the full scope! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

TRIGGER WARNING - This episode contains talk about sexual assault On this week’s She Rises Podcast Bestie Advice segment, an anonymous listener shares a deeply vulnerable situation that raises a question many women quietly carry: what do you actually owe your partner about your past? We unpack a story involving sexual trauma, privacy, a breached journal, and a relationship now caught between guilt, control, and confusion. Together, we explore the difference between honesty and entitlement, sexual autonomy versus disclosure pressure, and when conflict crosses the line into emotional harm rather than repair. Tune in for the full scope!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Tijana opens up about one of the most painful chapters of her life, the breakdown of an entire friendship group. She shares the backstory, the role she played, what it felt like to be abandoned, and how it shaped her trust in women and friendships moving forward. From having her name spoken about publicly to navigating triggers and healing old wounds, Tijana reveals the raw truth of what really happened , and how she’s rebuilding connection, safety, and trust today.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week’s She Rises Podcast, we’re pulling back the curtain on a decision that sparked a lot of conversation, and a lot of reaction. After being contacted by the PR team representing a very controversial woman in the sex industry, we made the intentional choice to say no and we explain why. We unpack the difference between sexual liberation and objectification, why we believe some narratives are harmful rather than empowering, and how certain content can quietly normalise behaviour that ultimately impacts women, relationships, and emotional accountability. Tune in for the details!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A bestie shares her story of losing a sibling and feeling misunderstood by a close friend who believes she should have moved on. This episode explores boundaries, emotional validation, and why your journey through grief is yours alone. If you’ve ever felt rushed to “be okay,” this conversation is for you.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week’s She Rises Podcast, we’re opening the year with honesty, intention, and a few uncomfortable truths. We share what we’re consciously leaving behind in 2026… the patterns, reactions, habits, and stories that no longer fit and what we’re intentionally inviting more of instead: freedom, enjoyment, trust, health, deeper relationships, and sustainable growth. If you’re craving a year that feels more aligned, embodied, and honest, this is where it begins.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

TRIGGER WARNING This episode contains talk about addiction, listener discretion is advised. On this week’s She Rises Podcast, we’re joined by the incredible Margot Miller and this is one that will stay with you! Margot’s story spans years of loss, illness, addiction, and deeply confronting experiences that reshaped how she saw herself and the world. We talk about survival, self-trust, and what healing really requires beyond the highlight reel. This episode isn’t about the details, it’s about the depth, the growth, and the strength that comes from living through what should have broken you. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a chapter you can’t see your way out of, this conversation will meet you right where you are, and remind you why hope is never out of reach.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.