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Are you a Latter-day Saint or Christian in general who’s tired of your beliefs being demonized? Here at Sit Down with Sky, our main concern is the preaching and practicing of the Gospel of Jesus Christ as outlined by His Church, The Church of Jesus of Latter-day Saints. Our goal is to approach common, controversial topics such as LGBTQ issues, sex and intimacy, and church history in a tactful, loving, but firm way.

Skyler


    • Oct 24, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
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    The Sit Down with Sky & Preston podcast is a refreshing and enlightening listen that delves into important and controversial topics within the LDS community. Sky and Preston have the courage to discuss these issues openly and honestly, providing their unique perspectives while remaining faithful to the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Their love for the church shines through in each episode, as they navigate the tensions between love and law, striving to find balance in their beliefs and teachings.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is the genuine love and respect that Sky and Preston have for all individuals, regardless of their backgrounds or beliefs. They approach each topic with empathy and understanding, creating a safe space for listeners to explore these complex issues. Their insights on how to navigate difficult conversations with kindness are invaluable, offering practical advice for those seeking to bridge the gap between differing viewpoints.

    Another great aspect of this podcast is its scriptural focus. Sky and Preston dive deep into scripture and use it as a guide for navigating modern-day challenges. Their ability to articulate the meaning behind certain passages and apply them to current social advocacy climate is truly inspiring. Through their discussions, listeners gain a deeper understanding of how scripture can be relevant in today's world.

    While there are many positive aspects to The Sit Down with Sky & Preston podcast, one potential downside is its limited perspective. As Sky and Preston share their own experiences and beliefs, it would be beneficial to hear from a wider range of voices within the LDS LGBTQ community. Including diverse perspectives could provide a more well-rounded understanding of these complex issues.

    In conclusion, The Sit Down with Sky & Preston podcast is an incredible resource for those seeking insight and guidance on controversial gospel topics within the LDS community. With their thoughtful discussions, genuine love for all individuals, and emphasis on scripture, Sky and Preston offer a unique perspective that encourages listeners to draw nearer to Christ while navigating difficult conversations surrounding faith. This podcast is truly making a difference by shedding light on these important topics and providing a platform for open and respectful dialogue.



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    Latest episodes from Sit Down with Sky & Preston

    3 Flawed Ways to Address LGBTQ as Latter-day Saints

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2024 14:12


    Send us a textThis is the audio only from my new YouTube series. See the full video here:https://youtu.be/131ZABgskxcHow often do we hear, "Who am I to judge?" in response to LGBTQ topics in a Latter-day Saint context? Sometimes, that's a perfectly reasonable response. But more often, we use that line to justify our fear of addressing the topic altogether.In this new series, I want to explore the state of the LGBTQ conversation within Latter-day Saint circles. What do we say that unnecessarily alienates people? What might we say that inadvertently undermines important, eternal truths? What are the negative consequences of not saying anything?In this first video, I explore 3 rationales for maintaining a morally apathetic approach to the question of LGBTQ relationships and identities.If you'd like to support the channel, consider subscribing. I post the transcripts and other related content on my Substack:https://skylersorensen.substack.com/All our links:https://linktr.ee/SitdownwithskyOn this podcast, we are faith-affirming first. This means before anything else, we affirm and support the doctrine of Jesus Christ as found in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review. Order Skyler's bookhttps://www.deseretbook.com/product/6026415.htmlListen to Skyler's Audiobookhttps://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1462144489/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1678206898&sr=8-1 Follow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_link Follow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21 All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Why We Don't Celebrate Pride Month - (Plus, updates on the future of the podcast)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2024 50:30 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.On today's episode, some changes are coming to the podcast!  Also, how do we navigate pride month without celebrating it? How can we seek understanding for those who celebrate pride while maintaining our boundaries?   We also take your questions at the end of the episode.On this podcast, we are faith-affirming first. This means before anything else, we affirm and support the doctrine of Jesus Christ as found in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.On this podcast, we are faith-affirming first. This means before anything else, we affirm and support the doctrine of Jesus Christ as found in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review. Order Skyler's bookhttps://www.deseretbook.com/product/6026415.htmlListen to Skyler's Audiobookhttps://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1462144489/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1678206898&sr=8-1 Follow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_link Follow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21 All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Raising Gen Z to Seek Christ - w/ Guest Host Lynnette Sheppard

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2024 58:17


    On today's episode, we're joined by Lynnette Sheppard from the "Stand with Lynnette" podcast. We get her wisdom as a mother of 5 on how we can raise Gen Z to seek Christ. We discuss the issues we see in Gen Z, the strengths they possess, and offer ideas for raising them to rise above modern standards of morality.Lynnette's Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/lynnettesheppard?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==Lynnette's Podcast: https://linktr.ee/lynnettesheppardOn this podcast, we are faith-affirming first. This means before anything else, we affirm and support the doctrine of Jesus Christ as found in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review. Order Skyler's bookhttps://www.deseretbook.com/product/6026415.htmlListen to Skyler's Audiobookhttps://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1462144489/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1678206898&sr=8-1 Follow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_link Follow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21 All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Gay Dating — How Speculating on the Doctrine Can Hurt

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2024 46:17 Transcription Available


    We're back for a new season! On today's episode, why do some church members think the doctrine is unclear when it comes to gay dating? Is it unclear? How can we know, what can we do about it, and how can we move forward? Also, how can a "maybe the doctrine will change" narrative negatively affect church members who experience same-sex attraction?We'll also be taking your questions at the end of the episode. On this podcast, we are faith-affirming first. This means before anything else, we affirm and support the doctrine of Jesus Christ as found in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review. Order Skyler's bookhttps://www.deseretbook.com/product/6026415.htmlListen to Skyler's Audiobookhttps://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1462144489/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1678206898&sr=8-1 Follow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_link Follow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21 All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Please Don't Be My Ally - Allies vs. Advocates for Christ

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2023 42:58 Transcription Available


    On today's episode, how do we wish church members would handle LGBTQ issues within the church? What does being an "ally" mean, and is there a better alternative to that term?Why do so many adopt a relativistic approach to morality when dealing with LGBTQ issues? And how can we combat that approach? We'll also be taking questions at the end.If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review. Order Skyler's bookhttps://a.co/d/f3qwL8VListen to Skyler's Audiobookhttps://open.spotify.com/show/1FsQxtINCYuUuiKOpSBZlE?si=1h3TDI33T8KDhSj6eoayJw Follow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_link Follow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21 All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Surviving Online Discourse - Disagreeing without Disparaging

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2023 41:41


    How can we disagree without disparaging each other? What are best practices for meaningful conversations, both online and in person? How should we handle divisive media spreading lies and half-truths? Plus, we take your questions at the end of the episode!If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review. Order Skyler's book https://a.co/d/f3qwL8V Follow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_link Follow us on Twitter https://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21 All of our links: https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    The Redefinition of "Woman" - Reclaiming Womanhood

    Play Episode Play 39 sec Highlight Listen Later Jul 15, 2023 54:13


    What is a woman? And why is that a controversial question? In today's episode, we're tackling womanhood and motherhood. How does the world see them, vs how does God define them? In what ways does our society devalue motherhood in the pursuit of equity?Also, why are roles so important, and why has that word lost favor?We also take your questions at the end of the episode!If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review. Order Skyler's book https://a.co/d/f3qwL8V Follow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_link Follow us on Twitter https://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21 All of our links: https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Divine Masculinity & Fatherhood - Where the World Gets it Wrong

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2023 45:28


    With Father's Day here, how does the world define masculinity and fatherhood, and how does God define them? What are the differences and where does the world get it wrong? Also, we'll be taking some of your questions at the end.If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review. Order Skyler's book https://a.co/d/f3qwL8V Follow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_link Follow us on Twitter https://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21 All of our links: https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Our Guide to Pride - (and Why We Don't Celebrate It)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2023 54:00 Transcription Available


    On today's episode, how do we handle pride month, and why don't we celebrate it?  We'll also be taking some of your questions at the end of the episode!If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Pre-order Skyler's book https://a.co/d/f3qwL8V Follow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_link Follow us on Twitter https://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21 All of our links: https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Keeping Grace Tied to Truth - Plus Q&A!

    Play Episode Play 33 sec Highlight Listen Later May 5, 2023 52:16 Transcription Available


    On today's episode, how can we be kind and graceful when advocating for truth? And how can we do so while not watering down the truth? We'll also be taking some of your questions at the end of the episode.If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Pre-order Skyler's book https://a.co/d/f3qwL8V Follow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_link Follow us on Twitter https://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21 All of our links: https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Teens & Transgenderism - A Gospel-Centered, Compassionate Approach

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2023 57:55


    On today's episode, with the rise of transgenderism among teens, what worries us and what brings us hope? What do we know, what do we not know, and what clarity does the gospel and our Savior bring to this hard topic? Also, what is the most compassionate, gospel-centered approach to the issue? All that and more on today's episode of Sit Down with Sky and Amanda.Sources:Limited understanding on the effects of puberty blockers and cross-sex hormones for children:https://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2019/04/51524/https://jessesingal.substack.com/p/researchers-found-puberty-blockershttps://www.deseret.com/opinion/2023/4/10/23672904/transgender-youth-bill-spencer-cox-utah?utm_source=twitter&utm_medium=dn-social&utm_campaign=twitter&utm_content=deseretnewsROGD study https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-023-02576-9Suicide rates pre and post-op:https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21364939/The vast majority of children who show signs of gender confusion grow out of it:http://www.sexologytoday.org/2016/01/do-trans-kids-stay-trans-when-they-grow_99.htmlJordan Peterson talks with de-transitioner Chloe Cole:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6O3MzPeomqs&pp=ygUaam9yZGFuIHBldGVyc29uIGNobG9lIGNvbGU%3DIf you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Pre-order Skyler's book https://a.co/d/f3qwL8V Follow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_link Follow us on Twitter https://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21 All of our links: https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Are Mixed-Orientation Marriages for Everyone? [ & General Conference Backlash ]

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2023 54:44


    On today's episode, we'll be seeking to answer the question, “are mixed-orientation marriages for every gay church member?” We'll also be covering a couple of talks from General Conference that have received backlash, and what we think of the backlash. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Pre-order Skyler's bookhttps://a.co/d/f3qwL8VFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/SitdownwithskyIf you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Pre-order Skyler's book https://a.co/d/f3qwL8V Follow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_link Follow us on Twitter https://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21 All of our links: https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Man vs. God on "Identity"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2023 47:30


    On our first episode as husband and wife, we give a brief overview of our progression as a couple—from dating to marriage—to give context for the rest of the episodes. We also tackle the question of identity. How does God define it? How does man define it? How can we align our self-perception with God's Plan of Salvation? If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Pre-order Skyler's book:https://a.co/d/f3qwL8VFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/SitdownwithskyIf you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Pre-order Skyler's book https://a.co/d/f3qwL8V Follow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_link Follow us on Twitter https://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21 All of our links: https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    LGBTQ Suicide & How the Gospel Helps

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2022 54:58


    On today's episode, what leads LGBTQ teens to suicide, and how can we help?We look at this question through the lens of David Archuleta's recent announcement of leaving the church. Plus, stay tuned until the end for an exciting announcement about the future of the podcast.If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use.  Buy Preston's book:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B59HFQLJSubscribe to your YouTube Channel!https://youtube.com/channel/UCQLkj5TX9vqhibqdj8yi0RgFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Advice for New Missionaries - Gay or Straight

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2022 54:30


    On today's episode, we recount mission experiences, including hard ones like Preston's sexual assault, and provide advice for new missionaries entering the field—gay or straight. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Buy Preston's book:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B59HFQLJSubscribe to your YouTube Channel!https://youtube.com/channel/UCQLkj5TX9vqhibqdj8yi0RgFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/SitdownwithskySources:https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/jbms/vol1/iss1/7/https://www.fairlatterdaysaints.org/answers/Book_of_Mormon/Nephi%27s_killing_of_Laban/Ethical_considerations

    FSY Pamphlet Changes - Free Rein for Sin?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2022 56:25


    On today's episode, we're introducing a new opening segment.We also give our brief thoughts on General Conference, the changes to the FSY pamphlet, and what people are missing in regard to the changes. Plus, would God ever inspire you to break the commandments or a covenant?All that and more on today's episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston.If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use.  Buy Preston's book:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B59HFQLJSubscribe to your YouTube Channel!https://youtube.com/channel/UCQLkj5TX9vqhibqdj8yi0RgFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Embrace Being Weird - Elder Oaks Devotional Recap

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2022 43:55


    On today's episode, we're reviewing President Oak's devotional from a couple of weeks ago.We'll discuss the importance of being unique by worldly standards.All that and more on today's episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston.If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use.  Buy Preston's book:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B59HFQLJSubscribe to your YouTube Channel!https://youtube.com/channel/UCQLkj5TX9vqhibqdj8yi0RgFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Tactics of Evil and BYU Pamphlet Controversy

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2022 48:36


    On today's episode, what are common tactics of the adversary? And what can we learn about them from the BYU pamphlet controversy? Preston shares some insider info from a friend in the New Student Orientation BYU department.All that and more on today's episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use.  Buy Preston's book:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B59HFQLJSubscribe to your YouTube Channel!https://youtube.com/channel/UCQLkj5TX9vqhibqdj8yi0RgFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Q&A with Our Wives!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2022 75:28


    On today's episode, Preston and Sky are joined by their wives! We answer your questions about our relationships, dealing with opposition online, and how we've each cultivated a loving marriage centered around Christ.If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use.  Buy Preston's book:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B59HFQLJSubscribe to your YouTube Channel!https://youtube.com/channel/UCQLkj5TX9vqhibqdj8yi0RgFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Raising Kids to Reject Modern Sexuality Standards

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2022 47:32


    On today's episode, how on earth are you supposed to raise kids surrounded by modern sexual morality? Also, a special announcement about next week's episode. All that and more on today's episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston.If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use.  Buy Preston's book:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B59HFQLJSubscribe to your YouTube Channel!https://youtube.com/channel/UCQLkj5TX9vqhibqdj8yi0RgFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Why We Use "Gay" and Other Questions We're Asked

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2022 46:34


    On today's episode, why do we use the term “gay” if we're married to women?Also, we'll discuss other common questions we're asked as gay Latter-day Saints. All that and more on this episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston.If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Buy Preston's book:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B59HFQLJSubscribe to your YouTube Channel!https://youtube.com/channel/UCQLkj5TX9vqhibqdj8yi0RgFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Spirituality over Sexuality & Pure vs. Misplaced Compassion

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2022 55:28


    On today's episode, why should we prioritize our spirituality over our sexuality?Plus, what is compassion from a gospel perspective, and how is it sometimes misused?All that and more on this episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston.If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Buy Preston's book:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B59HFQLJSubscribe to your YouTube Channel!https://youtube.com/channel/UCQLkj5TX9vqhibqdj8yi0RgFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Healing from Abuse as a Gay Latter-day Saint - Review of Preston's Book

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2022 51:29


    On his first mission in Asia, Preston experienced the unthinkable: he was sexually and emotionally abused by a companion. Returning home early, he dealt with clinical PTSD, depression, and was understandably bitter toward God. Preston wrote about his experience of healing through Christ's atonement in his new book, "This Boy and His Mother"—the title coming from a quote in Elder Holland's conference talk, "Behold Thy Mother," in which he detailed some of Preston's story.   On today's episode, we talk about Preston's experience, the book, and some of the key lessons he learned in the healing process. You can purchase Preston's book here:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B59HFQLJIf you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Subscribe to your YouTube Channel!https://youtube.com/channel/UCQLkj5TX9vqhibqdj8yi0RgFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Getting Along While Everyone Calls You a Bigot

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2022 50:58


    Tired of being called a hateful bigot because of your religious beliefs?  Feeling a little burnt out from Pride month? We are. Especially during times like Pride month, how can we get along with those who differ in our beliefs?Plus, how can we have arguments without being contentious? All that and more today on this episode of Sit Down with  Sky and Preston.Preorder Preston's book "This Boy and His Mother" for Kindle! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B4278RSZ?ref_=pe_3052080_276849420Talk referenced:https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2014/10/loving-others-and-living-with-differences?lang=engIf you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Subscribe to your YouTube Channel!https://youtube.com/channel/UCQLkj5TX9vqhibqdj8yi0RgFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Our Problems with Pride Month

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2022 54:00


    On today's episode, what do we think about pride month? And why is the answer that we kind of hate it? Plus, how would “going against” our sexuality be in our best interest? And we'll end by answering your questions.  All that and more on today's episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston.If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Subscribe to your YouTube Channel!https://youtube.com/channel/UCQLkj5TX9vqhibqdj8yi0RgFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/SitdownwithskyWe got some of our study material from this website:https://www.calledtoshare.com/2021/06/15/love-love-love-message-is-not-the-gospel-of-jesus-christ/

    Valuing "Niceness" over Truth

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2022 56:07


    On today's episode, what are "cultural Saints", and how can we avoid being one? Also, what is the "Gospel of Niceness" they so often subscribe to, and what harm does it do to impressionable church members?Plus, we end with a short Q&A. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Scripture Plus TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdnMEpyC/?k=1Subscribe to your YouTube Channel!https://youtube.com/channel/UCQLkj5TX9vqhibqdj8yi0RgFollow us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/sitdownwithsky?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow us on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/sitdownwithsky?s=21All of our links:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Is the Church Safe for LGBTQ People?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2022 39:46


    There's an increasingly prevalent narrative that LGBTQ have a pressing incentive to distance themselves from the church and its teachings. In this episode, we discuss the reasons we believe this assumption is ill-founded and ultimately damaging to LGBTQ people.Consider sharing this episode with someone you think would find it helpful. And be sure to subscribe and follow us on our social media channels!https://linktr.ee/SitdownwithskyShow Notes:Religiosity positivity affects. Mental healthhttps://www.wiley.com/en-us/The+International+Handbook+of+Suicide+Prevention%2C+2nd+Edition-p-9781118903278"CDC Family Foundations of Youth Development study found 44% of Latter-day Saint LGBTQ youths had seriously considered suicide compared to 47% of LGBTQ youths from other religions and 77% of Atheist/Agnostic LGBTQ youths"https://health.utah.gov/wp-content/uploads/Final-Report-UtahEpiAid.pdfhttps://www.deseret.com/2019/5/7/20672662/guest-opinion-the-church-and-lgbt-youth-suicide-inaccurate-claims-may-do-more-harm-than-good Data from the OME shows that suicides of youth age 10–17 make up about 6 percent of suicides per year in Utah.The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention points out, “suicide deaths are almost always the result of multiple overlapping causes, including mental health issues that might not have been recognized or treated.”https://www.qsaltlake.com/news/2018/12/06/utah-research-on-faith-related-suicide/

    The Family Proclamation & Gender Roles

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2022 53:06


    On today's episode, what does the Family Proclamation say about gender roles? And how are those principles twisted in pop culture?Plus, we'll end the episode answering questions submitted by listeners. All of that and more on this episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston. Subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, leave a comment and subscribe on YouTube. Also, follow us on Twitter, Instagram, or TikTok for shareable content.https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky***Shout-out to TheFamilyProclamation.org for the annotated Family Proclamation guide.

    General Conference and Anti-Christ Patterns

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2022 56:40


    On today's episode, we give our brief thoughts on President Oak's talk and go through common themes we noticed in General Conference. Also, what parallels do we see between ancient antichrists and ones today? And how can we recognize them in ideologies today?Consider sharing this episode with someone you think would benefit from it, and be sure to follow us on social media!https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Standing Out & Finding Joy in Hardship

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2022 67:58


    In today's episode, we explore what it means to be a "peculiar people". Spoiler: there are more than one definitions. We discuss some hard things we've been through and how we were able to get through them with Christ's help.  Consider sharing this episode with someone you think would benefit from it. You can follow us on our social media pages here:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Dealing with Church-Related, LGBTQ Controversies

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2022 57:35


    WE'RE BACK!  And we're discussing how LGBTQ / LDS controversies affect us now, how they would've affected us growing up, and how they likely affect young, impressionable, LGBTQ members of the church today.Examples of these controversies would be David Archuleta's recent video about his desire to date men, LDS author and podcaster Charlie Bird's admission to dating a man, the BYU investigation of its treatment of LGBTQ students, and Elder Holland's remarks last year.We looked for common themes throughout these controversies, what we can learn from them, how we can avoid being offended, and how we can stand firm in our faith while the online mob ascends on us. Follow us on our social media pages to stay up-to-date!https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Let's Talk about Porn

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2021 52:10


    **LAST EPISODE BEOFRE HOLIDAY BREAK**As ubiquitous as pornography is, it's still often misunderstood.  In this episode, we attempt to make sense of one of the most difficult and pervasive issues plaguing our culture.  And we do it while still trying to have a little fun. We'll be back in Early Spring!  Follow us on TikTok, Twitter, or Instagram, where we'll still be posting periodically.  Send your suggestions and questions to sitdownwithsky@gmail.com.Consider sharing this episode with someone you feel would find it helpful. https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    What if My Child Comes out as LGBTQ?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2021 56:38


    As a believing member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, what is the best approach to take if your child comes out to you? How can you balance the doctrinal truths of the gospel with your child's situation? How can you help your child navigate the complicating and contrasting messages of our society?  Sky and Preston discuss these questions and more in this episode. Consider sharing this episode with someone you think would find it helpful.https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Will We Be Straight in the Next Life?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2021 46:27


    Preston and Sky tackle the question as to whether or not they'll be "straight" in the next life and if it's even the right question to ask.  They also discuss how to not overcomplicate the gospel and our honest questions. Consider sharing this episode with someone you think would find it helpful!https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Truth over Politics

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2021 63:15


    How do you balance your political beliefs with gospel truths? What do you if your political beliefs don't align with the gospel?  In this episode, we explore some answers to these questions. Consider sharing this episode with someone you think would benefit from it! https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    "A Mess of Pottage" - General Conference Recap

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2021 49:01


    Why is it so easy to sell your salvation for such inconsequential things?Sky and Preston discuss their favorite insights from October 2021 General Conference and major themes they noticed.  Chief among them was the parallel from the Biblical story of Esau giving up his birthright for a "mess of pottage". Consider sharing this episode or following us on our social media pages!https://linktr.ee/SitdownwithskyShow notes:Traditional family values bring most happinesshttps://ifstudies.org/blog/does-sexual-history-affect-marital-happinessReligious people tend to report more happinesshttps://www.pewforum.org/2019/01/31/religions-relationship-to-happiness-civic-engagement-and-health-around-the-world/LDS tied with Jews for highest happiness scorehttps://news.gallup.com/poll/152732/religious-higher-wellbeing-across-faiths.aspx

    Repentance Over "Authenticity"

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2021 62:12


    Preston and Sky have heard many times that they aren't being their "authentic" selves, because they are gay and in relationships with women.  What does our culture classify as "authentic",  and should we prioritize, even at the expense of repenting? We discuss our experience finding our truly authentic selves through repentance and faith in Jesus Christ.Consider sharing this episode with someone you think would benefit from it!  You can follow us on YouTube, Twitter, or Instagram.https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Feeling Inspired to Sin

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2021 57:10


    Would God ever give you personal revelation that goes contrary to His commandments?  We certainly don't think so.  Like many of you, we've noticed the rise of the "live your truth" crowd within the church who pushes the idea of a subjective, buffet-style approach to living the gospel.  We're here to fight against that perversion of truth and advocate for the simple, profound truths of Christ's teachings. Consider sharing this episode with someone you think would find it helpful!https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Finding God Offensive

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2021 54:49


    Is being offended a choice?  Short answer--absolutely.   Sky and Preston explore how we can choose not to be offended--especially by eternal truths--and what to do when we find ourselves with that choice.Please consider sharing this episode with someone who would benefit from it! https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    BONUS EPISODE: Elder Holland Was Right

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2021 61:27


    Sky and Preston address what has been on everyone's mind: Elder Holland's talk at BYU's Leadership Conference and the reaction to it.  Preston shares his personal interactions with Elder Holland, and we discuss more broadly what the overreaction to his message means for our culture and church.The talk Preston was mentioned in: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2015/10/behold-thy-mother?lang=engPlease consider sharing this episode with someone who may find it helpful.https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Do Our Beliefs Do Harm?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2021 52:14


    Sky and Preston respond to the common claim that our beliefs, as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, cause harm to young people and especially LGBTQ individuals.  Please consider sharing this episode with someone who might find it helpful!https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Richard "Papa" Ostler Interview

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2021 39:43


    Richard Ostler (known broadly as "Papa Ostler" on social media) sits down with Sky to discuss his approach to help LGBTQ members of the church.  They discuss their disagreements, their common ground, and criticism Richard has received from both sides of the debate.  If you think this episode will resonate with someone you know, please consider sharing it with them! And be sure to follow along on your platform of choice:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Why Are Gen Z'ers Leaving the Church?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2021 49:41


    Sky and Preston tackle the age-old question: "Why are young people rejecting traditional religion and finding other 'religions' in media and pop culture?"  They also discuss how we can help these young people in a positive, productive, and non-judgmental way.  If you think this episode will resonate with someone you know, please consider sharing it with them! And be sure to follow along on your platform of choice:https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Katie Whitehead - Disagreeing Agreeably

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2021 86:58


    Katie Whitehead is a BYU pre-law student, active LDS member, politically liberal, and Skyler's sister-in-law.  She sits down with Skyler--a gay, conservative LDS member--to discuss how they've been able to maintain a good relationship while disagreeing so fundamentally on political issues. They discuss their disagreements in politics, specifically those that bleed over into religion, and how we can all promote civility in discourse. Be sure to follow along on your social media platform of choice!https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Love My Choices

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2021 48:47


    Sky and Preston dissect the increasingly popular idea that "you can't disagree with my life decisions and still love me."  I'm sure we've all seen this idea growing in popularity, especially when applied to LGBTQ issues, e.g. "If you believe homosexuality is a sin, you're homophobic."  We discuss the flawed nature of this idea and how we can fight against it. If you think this episode will resonate with someone you know, please consider sharing it with them! And be sure to follow along on your platform of choice:https://linktr.ee/SitdownwithskyFootnotes:2 Nephi 2:6

    What about Disagreeing with the Prophet?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2021 65:47


    In today's episode, Preston and Sky tackle the hot topic on LDS social media: can you disagree with the prophets and apostles and still claim to sustain them?  Follow along with us at https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

    Travis and Margaret Steward

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2021 64:29


    Travis and Margaret Steward sit down with Skyler and Amanda to discuss how they've maintained their happy marriage throughout life and as Travis came to terms with being gay.  They are parents to 6 children, and they served as Mission President in Houston, Texas from 2005–2008. If you'd like to reach out to them, you can email them at margaretsteward@gmail.com or travis.steward007@gmail.com.  You can also follow their Instagram "Living in the Mixed" at this link:  https://www.instagram.com/livinginthemixedThey went into more detail about their story on Richard Ostler's podcast, "Listen Learn, and Love", which you can listen to here:  https://soundcloud.com/user-818501778/episode-177-travis-steward-former-mission-president-gay-and-his-dear-wife-margaret-steward-1Thanks to Travis and Margaret for coming on the podcast! 

    Ep. 1 - Preston Jenkins Interview & SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2021 53:29


    We sit down with lifelong Latter-day Saint, Preston Jenkins, as he shares how he has kept the gospel of Jesus Christ at the center of his life during his journey coming out as gay.  He shares some experiences from serving a partial mission abroad, coming home, and serving the rest of his mission in the states.  Stay tuned until the end for a special announcement! 

    Pilot - The Great LGBTQ & LDS Divide - Joined by Riley Jeffs

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2021 62:18


    On our pilot episode of Sit Down with Sky, we discuss why the LGBTQ and LDS communities are at such odds and what each groups can do to put out the fire.  We're joined by Riley Jeffs, an active LDS member who happens to be gay, to explore this topic and set realistic boundaries for each side. -----Are you a Latter-day Saint or Christian in general who's tried of your beliefs being demonized? Here at Sit Down with Sky, our main concern is the preaching and practicing of the Gospel of Jesus Christ as outlined by his church, The Church of Jesus of Latter-day Saints. Our goal is to approach common, controversial topics such as LGBTQ issues, sex and intimacy, and church history in a tactful, loving, but firm way. Did you enjoy the episode? Please subscribe, like, and share it with your long lost cousin you haven't spoken to in 10 years! I promise they'll appreciate you ending the years of silence by sending them a random podcast about a contentious issue.

    Sit Down with Sky Promo

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2021 1:09


    Are you a Latter-day Saint or Christian in general who's tried of your beliefs being demonized? Here at Sit Down with Sky, our main concern is the preaching and practicing of the Gospel of Jesus Christ as outlined by his church, The Church of Jesus of Latter-day Saints. Our goal is to approach common, controversial topics such as LGBTQ issues, sex and intimacy, and church history in a tactful, loving, but firm way.  The first episode will be out next week! Follow along at https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky

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