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In this episode of "The Nice Show" from WP Builds, hosts Nathan Wrigley and Mark Westguard discuss the importance of positivity. They share stories of meeting nice people, like Derek Ashauer and Miriam Schwab, and mention useful WordPress plugins like Conversion Bridge. They explore online tools like Loveable for web design and highlight community events like PressConf, WP Accessibility Day, and the Page Builder Summit. The conversation lightens with real-world anecdotes, delightful short videos, and curious news about bringing extinct animals back to life, all in the spirit of spreading niceness.
Send us a textIf your school avoids hard conversations, you don't have belonging. You have politeness.We confuse being nice with building belonging. But “nice” often means silence, avoidance, and surface-level smiles. Comfort isn't the same as safety. Harvard researcher Amy Edmondson coined the term psychological safety—the ability to speak up, take risks, and be vulnerable without fear.In “nice” cultures, people feel comfortable... but not safe. Real belonging requires vulnerability, not just harmony. Listen to this episode to find out how to move your culture from polite silence to real belonging—and why discomfort might be the missing piece. Want more on this?
Rivals appeal to NZME shareholders as Stuff carves its chief's one share into a million. Also: MAGA-powered podcasters control the zone - and have we lost the appetite for school lunch scrutiny? Rivals appeal to NZME shareholders as Stuff's chief turns one share into a million. Also: MAGA-powered podcasters control the zone, have we lost the appetite for school lunch scrutiny?Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
This week the boys are back with Part 2 on their conversation about Narcissism! Micah and Chris explore how Narcissists use Gas lighting as a tool and what to do if you're being gas lit.. They also discuss the toxic mixture of when a narcissist uses faith and gas lighting. Why are millennials are so nice when dealing with Narcissism? Find out on this in depth episode of the Doughnut Box Podcast!
Right, rebels, we need to talk. You've probably heard the whispers - DEI is out of fashion, companies are quietly shelving their initiatives, and the world seems to be moving backwards. But here's the thing: just because something is out of favour doesn't mean it's not essential. In fact, it's more important than ever. Today, I'm joined by the brilliant Gardy Guiteau, a powerhouse in this space, to unpack what's really happening, why fear is driving the backlash, and what leaders need to do next. Join me. Highlights:(4:11) Challenges in DEI Work(7:54) Niceness vs. Authenticity(16:33) Historical Context and Lessons(26:10) Addressing Fear and Resistance(40:01) Managing Polarisation and Fostering Inclusion(46:35) Empowering Individuals and Organisational Responsibility Find out more:GJG Training & Consulting websiteGardy Guiteau LinkedInCCWE DEI Competency ProgrammesTake the Aurora 360 Quiz: How Effective Is Your Company's Wellbeing Strategy? Click HereConnect with us here:Website: aurorawellnessgroup.co.ukLinkedIn: NgoziLinkedIn: ObehiAurora Company Profile 2024Book a Call here
Yesss Ites, Here you are able to listen and download the Humpday Niceness Mini Mix. Fulljoy approx. 20 Minutes of big tunes. Blessings outta Vogelgesang Paul
Are you a people pleaser? Do you find yourself apologizing for things you shouldn't? Ann Leary, New York Times bestselling author, is here to inspire you to rewrite the script. In her newest collection, I Tried Being Nice, Ann shares witty, insightful essays about overcoming lifelong tendencies to people-please, redefining kindness, and embracing the unapologetic freedom of midlife. From confrontations with a neighbor (and their unruly dog) to honest reflections on her marriage, parenting, and self-discovery through tennis, Ann discusses the trials and triumphs of finding one's voice later in life. Find out why she believes post-menopause is her prime and how shedding old habits has transformed her relationships and outlook.Key Topics:The difference between kindness and people-pleasing Why midlife is the perfect time to embrace authenticity Parenting, empty-nesting, and reclaiming your true self How tennis became both a hobby and a metaphor for life Join us for a heartfelt conversation that will leave you feeling empowered—and ready to embrace your unapologetic self. More About Ann LearyOfficial WebsiteFollow Ann on InstagramGet her book I Tried Being NiceConnect with Us:Email us at info@seniorityauthority.orgVisit Seniority Authority on the webFollow us on Facebook and InstagramSubscribe to Seniority Authority on Apple Podcasts or Spotify today! Timestamps02:00 - Exploring Ann's Writing Journey10:08 - Inspiration Behind I Tried Being Nice13:01 - Empty Nest Adventures19:45 - Life Lessons from the Tennis Court24:03 - Breaking Free from People-Pleasing
Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last? We've all heard the phrase, nice guys finish last, but is it really true? In this episode of Shrink for the Shy Guy, Dr. Aziz dives into the hidden costs of being too nice—how people-pleasing can hold you back in relationships, career, and life. But don't worry, the solution isn't to become a jerk. Instead, you'll discover the real opposite of nice: authenticity. Learn how to express yourself boldly, set boundaries without guilt, and step out of the nice cage so you can stop finishing last and start living fully. If you're ready to break free from the fear of upsetting others and claim your confidence, tune in now! --------------------------------------------------------------- You've probably heard the phrase, “Nice guys finish last.” But is it really true? What does it mean for you? Are you doomed if you're too nice? Isn't being nice a good thing? If you've ever wondered about the impact of people-pleasing on your life, you're in the right place. In today's post, we'll dive deep into the origins of this phrase and, more importantly, how being overly nice may actually be holding you back in life. I'll share with you some powerful insights and actionable steps to stop pleasing others at the expense of your own happiness, so you can start living more boldly and authentically. The Real Cost of Being "Nice" Being nice might sound like a virtue, but when it's rooted in fear of rejection and disapproval, it can actually harm your relationships, career, and even your health. Niceness isn't the same as kindness. Kindness is about genuinely caring for others, but niceness is driven by a desire to avoid conflict or rejection at any cost. This people-pleasing behavior can leave you feeling disconnected from yourself, burned out, and ultimately, overlooked by others. “Niceness is not kindness; it's fear. Fear of being rejected, judged, or abandoned. When you live in fear, you end up losing yourself.” If you've ever said “yes” when you really wanted to say “no,” you know exactly what I mean. This habit of putting others' needs above your own comes at a price — one that often leads to frustration, resentment, and even physical symptoms like burnout. The Myth of "Nice Guys Finish Last" The phrase “nice guys finish last” originated in the world of sports, when Leo Durocher, a baseball manager, claimed that being overly nice was detrimental to success. The idea was simple: in competitive environments, the nicest person is often the one who gets passed over or overlooked. But what does that mean for you in your everyday life? Being nice out of fear doesn't just hurt you in sports; it's a pattern that shows up in every part of life. Whether it's at work, in relationships, or in social situations, excessive niceness can make you feel like you're finishing last. You might be overlooked, undervalued, or even taken advantage of because you haven't learned to assert your needs, wants, and boundaries. Breaking Free from the "Nice" Cage Here's the good news: You can break free. The opposite of being nice isn't about becoming a jerk or a narcissist; it's about being authentically you. It's about expressing your true thoughts, setting boundaries, and confidently saying “no” when you need to. “The opposite of being nice isn't being mean, it's being authentic. You don't need to please everyone to win in life. You need to please yourself first.” In my upcoming event, Not Nice Live, we'll dive into how you can shed the pattern of people-pleasing and start living in alignment with who you truly are. We'll explore powerful tools and practices to help you break free from the cage of niceness. You'll gain clarity on why you've fallen into this pattern, how it impacts you, and most importantly, how to start shifting it during the event — and carry those changes forward into your life. The Permission to Be Bold Imagine a life where you confidently say no when you need to, ask for what you truly want, and express your feelings without fear of judgment. That's the power of reclaiming your authenticity. It might feel uncomfortable at first, but with consistent practice and the right support, you'll start to feel a sense of freedom and empowerment. “The true cost of staying nice is the regret of not living fully. The cost is a life that's out of alignment with who you are meant to be.” I know it may sound like a far-off dream, but this is within your reach. You can step out of the shadows of people-pleasing and step into the light of being unapologetically yourself. The best part? You don't have to do it alone. Action Step: Start Reclaiming Your Rights Today As a first step, start by giving yourself permission to do one thing you've been holding back on. Maybe it's saying “no” to an invitation you don't want to accept, or expressing your true feelings about something that's been bothering you. Write it down, say it aloud, and practice it every day until it feels natural. The more you practice, the more you'll internalize this new way of being. And I promise you, it will change your life. Remember, it's not about being rude or inconsiderate; it's about showing up as your true self, without fear of judgment. If you're ready to take your boldness to the next level, I invite you to join me for Not Nice Live in March. The event is virtual, so you can attend from anywhere in the world, and we're offering a special early-bird price right now. Don't miss out — this is your chance to step into the life you truly want, without the guilt.
This week, Kelley and Malin recap Season 5, Episode 11! Join us as we discuss the importance of enjoying Riding Around in these tough times, the temperament of the Shiba Inu, and – of course – this fantastic episode of television. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok! Email us at ridingaroundpod@gmail.com. Theme music by John Purcell Logo by Kelsey Bailey
Yesss Ites, Here you are able to relisten and download the 181st Sunday Niceness that has been broadcasted live on the 26th of January 2025. Fulljoy the selections! Blessings outta Vogelgesang Paul
Thanks for joining us for the C3 Calgary podcast! We are glad you are here with us! We know you will enjoy this powerful and relevant message from Ps Steve Burgess! For more information on our church, or to give, visit our website at www.myc3church.ca
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Yesss Ites, Here you are able to relisten and download the 180th Sunday Niceness that has been broadcasted live on the 29th of December 2024. This was the final show for 2024. Have a blessed jump into the new year 2025! Blessings outta Vogelgesang Paul #reggae #dancehall #livestream #sundayniceness #kingdubtv #raggakings
Cindy Esliger talks about the double-edged sword that niceness can be in this episode. The pressure to be nice in the corporate world can feel overwhelming but forced niceness can lead to self-sacrifice and the impression of being easily manipulated. Being kind is a far better goal than being nice and Cindy explains why that is and how to pursue kindness over being nice. Cindy outright states that “niceness is overrated” and then delves into why that is. Niceness often comes at the expense of being real, honest, and kind. Niceness is about appearances and is surface level. It means keeping things pleasant even when it betrays our own feelings or needs. Kindness, however, digs deeper. Kindness is showing up for people, and not just in easy moments. It's caring enough to tell someone an uncomfortable truth. And kindness is compassionate without being a doormat. The vast differences between working in a culture of nice and working in a culture of kindness are explored by Cindy. Kindness is generous, fair, honest, and vulnerable. Niceness might say positive things but kindness does positive things. The difference between simply keeping things cordial at the expense of ourselves and our goals and finding kind ways to tell truths and remain true to ourselves is the point of this episode. Cindy highlights the benefits of kindness in the workplace and shares advice on how to let go of being nice and pursue kindness instead. Resources discussed in this episode:Guide to Being Kind in the Corporate WorldAstronomic AudioConfidence Collective—Contact Cindy Esliger Career Confidence Coaching: website | instagram | facebook | linkedin | email
The sermon from the Sunday, November 17, 2024, worship service of Atlanta First United Methodist Church by Lead Pastor Rev. Jasmine R. Smothers. “True Kindness: Beyond Niceness” in the worship series “United at the Table: Gratitude Beyond Differences.” Scripture lesson: Hebrews 10:11-25 (The Message and New Revised Standard Version, Updated Edition).Support the show
Meet Gui Costin, founder and CEO of Dakota, an investment services company that has helped clients raise more than $40B since its launch. But Gui's story goes beyond just numbers—he's an innovator who's transforming what it means to build a successful workplace culture in the world of finance. As the author of "Millennials Are Not Aliens" and "The Dakota Way," Gui brings new perspectives to marketing, leadership & sales in the investment world. His people-focused approach has led him to build two companies generating $20 million every year by prioritizing what he believes matters most: people. (A strategy that has had him featured in Forbes, Inc., and appearing on Yahoo Finance's morning show!) His "no-policy policy" fosters autonomy and trust, while his talent for engaging millennial and Gen Z workers challenges traditional management styles. Gui's journey—from his initial career in real estate to founding Dakota—is filled with insights on building strong company cultures, modernizing sales processes, and adapting leadership styles that motivate and inspire teams across generations. —Cultivating a Culture of Calm: How Trust and Autonomy Drive High Performance —The No-Policy Policy: Empowering Employees in The Modern Workplace —Selling in The Digital Age: Leveraging Content and Relationships to Reach RIAs —Bridging The Generational Divide: Leadership Strategies for a Multigenerational Workforce —From Founder to Coach: Guiding Your Sales Team to Success Through Mentorship 00:00 Introduction to Gui Costin and Dakota 02:23 Leveraging Content for Business Growth 04:02 Learning from Failure: The Birth of a New Business 06:09 Generational Perspectives in the Workplace 08:05 Results Over Reasons: A Mindset for Success 08:58 Transitioning from Employee to Entrepreneur 12:19 The Importance of Leadership and Mentorship 15:20 Creating a Positive Work Culture 18:11 Kindness vs. Niceness in Leadership 19:51 The Importance of Continuous Feedback 22:42 Hiring for Culture and Team Dynamics 23:58 Iterating on Existing Ideas 27:30 Identifying and Solving Acute Problems 28:18 Overcoming Excuses and Taking Action 32:32 Learning from Failures and Adjusting Strategies 34:12 The Value of Responsiveness in Business 38:41 Final Thoughts and Resources for Entrepreneurs Join The Inner Circle: https://info.wesschaeffer.com/inner-circle-silver Market like you mean it. Now go sell something. SUBSCRIBE to grow your sales. https://www.youtube.com/@TheSalesWhispererWes ----- Connect with me: Twitter -- https://twitter.com/saleswhisperer LinkedIn -- http://www.linkedin.com/in/thesaleswhisperer/ Podcast -- https://feeds.libsyn.com/44487/rss BUSINESS GROWTH TOOLS https://12WeeksToPeak.com https://CRMQuiz.com https://MakeEverySale.com
What role does kindness play in new-age leadership? In this conversation with Helen McCabe, Anna Jepson, CFO of Institutional Banking & Markets at Commonwealth Bank, reveals why kindness is more than just a virtue in successful leadership. Anna also shares the power of understanding your personal brand and how she reclaimed her career after facing redundancy.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Breaking the Cycle of Niceness Culture in the Church Discover how women in our church can bridge the gap between kindness and faith defense in this compelling video. While they excel in nurturing and supporting the community, there's a noticeable gap when it comes to standing up for their beliefs. We introduce the concept of apologetics, teaching women how to defend their faith through logical and reasoned arguments. The video includes practical tips and personal stories, illustrating how women can be both kind and assertive in their faith. We emphasize the importance of authenticity in relationships, arguing that true kindness involves being honest about one's beliefs. By embracing this approach, women can foster deeper connections and contribute to a stronger, more resilient faith community. #truthmatters #mormongospel #scripturenotes #churchsupportsystem #apologetics #faithdefense #ReliefSociety #LDSwomen #defendfaith #womeninchurch --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/wardradio/support
In this episode, I chat with Sarah Browning, who brings a refreshing take on how kindness can truly make a difference in both our personal and professional lives. Sarah shares some incredible stories that highlight just how much kindness is already out there, if we just stop and look for it. We also talk about how kindness can play a key role in leadership, especially when navigating tough situations.Sarah Browning inspires human connection and wellbeing through kindness and communication. She drives hope and positivity by highlighting kindness that already exists in the world, from individuals and organisations. To this end she wears two hats!1. She runs the Time for Kindness programme to inspire and teach people to notice and value kindness.2. She works with organisations and businesses that have a vision of a kind world to be more effective in their communications.With a background in communication, copywriting and consulting, Sarah has a lot of experience and expertise to draw on in helping her clients towards a vision of a kind world and effective communications.Here are the highlights(01:58) Sarah's Background and Work(05:38) Kindness in Business and Communication(08:08) The Distinction Between Kindness and Niceness(17:07) Self-Kindness and Positive Interpretation(19:20) Kindness in CommunicationWeekly Top Tips To find out more, contact Anne hereBook a Discovery Call hereAnd reach out on Social Media:LinkedInFacebookInstagram
Come away with us for a secluded podcast? What could possibly go wrong? James and Jonathan refuse to hold their tongues and get into the deeper themes of this tense thriller, from family dynamics to people pleasing and how we deal with strangers. Watch the episode here. — Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE and click the notification bell. Follow & connect: https://linktr.ee/popcorntheology Support: https://www.patreon.com/popcorntheology Chapters: COLD OPEN - 00:00 INTRO THEME MUSIC - 00:32 Welcome & Details - 1:33 Popcorn Ratings - 3:42 Theology Ratings - 8:59 Subscribe, Share, Support - 11:52 Ads: - 13:44 SPOILER WARNING! - 15:43 Dealing with Strangers in REAL Life - 16:23 Popcorn Thoughts - 20:38 Viewing Ant as the Protagonist - 21:32 Accessible Horror - 25:50 Three Dimensional Characters - 27:14 Ciara - Victimizer or Victim? - 32:55 The Idolatry of Niceness - 37:00 The Movie Title's Hidden Meaning - 44:05 Covetousness and Temptation- 48:10 Paddy's Satanic Charm - 59:45 The Company We Keep - 1:10:06 Secrets are the Enemy - 1:13:14 Lightning Round: Receive, Reject, Redeem- 1:22:28 Wrap up, What's coming up - 1:32:24 #SpeakNoEvil #JamesMcAvoy #Horror #PopcornTheology #ChristianPodcasts #MoviePodcasts #YouAreNotAMindlessConsumer #MovieDiscussion #FilmCriticism #MovieReview #FilmReview #FilmDiscussion #MovieExplanation #FilmAnalysis #CharacterAnalysis #MovieExplanation #MovieAnalysis #MovieReaction #reformedtheology #medialiteracy Music by Ross Bugden: https://youtu.be/Bln0BEv5AJ0?si=vZx_YiHK3hNxaETA
Jeremy and April Pryor wade into the sensitive topic of what happens in marriages when a wife earns more money than a husband, and eventually becomes the "alpha". This conversation is a reaction to a recent video by Patrick Bet-David. Is it guaranteed to cause problems? What are the effects on family in a world where this is becoming increasingly common? This deeply impacts how we raise our daughters and how we work together as family teams, so at risk of offending everybody, we're diving in to explore relationship dynamics and what this means for modern families. On this episode, we talk about: 0:00 Intro 0:43 Should couples workout together? 2:24 Do alpha women destroy marriages? 5:35 We are running multiple societal experiments...what is the impact on the family? 10:18 Is being a workplace leader and a wife incompatible? 20:18 Niceness and agreeability 29:25 Why it's so hard on marriages when women try to "beat" men 33:28 Do women "lose attraction" to husbands who earn less than them? 40:37 When government reforms fix unimportant problems and do more damage to the family 44:33 Raising daughters to want to be moms, and equipping them for motherhood Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams Website: https://www.familyteams.com Resources Mentioned: Patrick Bet David Video Family Inc --- Hi, welcome to the Family Teams podcast! Our goal here is to help your family become a multigenerational team on mission by providing you with Biblically rooted concepts, tools and rhythms! Your hosts are Jeremy Pryor and Jefferson Bethke. Make sure to subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube so you don't miss out on future episodes!
A very special episode this week, completely free for all listeners. The world-famous philosopher Charles Taylor joins Wisdom of Crowds editors Samuel Kimbriel and Santiago Ramos for a conversation about his new book, Cosmic Connections: Poetry in the Age of Disenchantment. Professor Taylor has spent a long and fruitful career trying to understand the basic questions of modern life. What does it mean to be a modern person? How do we form our sense of identity? How do we relate to the sacred? What does it mean to be secular? What happened to religion? In Cosmic Connections, he tells the story of how the Romantic poets of the nineteenth century sought to reconnect with nature through art, after the rise of modern science and the industrial revolution left many people wondering about man's place in the universe. Appropriately enough, Sam called in from a log cabin somewhere in the Rocky Mountains, and he enthusiastically supported Professor Taylor's thesis that a connection with nature is an essential component of a healthy society. The more city-bound Santiago took a more skeptical approach, at least at first. He questioned Professor Taylor's claim that a connection with nature entails a connection with a transcendent, spiritual reality. Along with these heady topics, the conversation touched upon Beethoven's symphonies, A.I. “friends,” and the idea of progress. Required Reading (and Listening):* Charles Taylor, Cosmic Connections: Poetry in the Age of Disenchantment (Amazon). * Charles Taylor, A Secular Age (Amazon). * Charles Taylor, Sources of the Self: The Making of the Modern Identity (Amazon). * Damir Marusic, “Beauty and Niceness in an Accidental World” (WoC). * Romanticism (School of Life). * Henry David Thoreau (Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy).* Beethoven, Ninth Symphony, Fourth Movement (YouTube). * Beethoven, Sixth Symphony “Pastoral” (YouTube). * “Wear This A.I. Friend Around Your Neck” (Wired). * Joni Mitchell (Official YouTube Page). * Leonard Cohen (Official YouTube Page). This post is part of our collaboration with the University of Pittsburgh's Center for Governance and Markets.Wisdom of Crowds is a platform challenging premises and understanding first principles on politics and culture. Join us! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit wisdomofcrowds.live/subscribe
Daily Puck Drop is back! Jason "Puck" Puckett, former KJR host shares his recent road trip experience and discusses the firing of Scott Servais. He expresses frustration with the team's lack of improvement and accountability, criticizing the front office and ownership. Puck emphasizes the need for new ownership and a complete overhaul of the organization. He also highlights the team's offensive struggles and questions their philosophy. Puck concludes by expressing his love for the Mariners despite his disdain for the people running the organization. In this part of the conversation, Puck discusses various sports topics, including the Seattle Mariners' disappointing season, the upcoming Seattle Seahawks season, and the start of college football. He also announces changes to the show's schedule and teases upcoming podcast episodes. Puck ends the conversation by pondering why Canadians are so nice.Rundown00:00 A Road Trip and Much-Needed Break...Goldee survived!15:13 Frustration with the Firing of Scott Servais16:40 The Need for New Ownership and Overhaul18:50 Questioning the Team's Offensive Philosophy24:07 Expressing Love for the Mariners Despite Frustration26:26 Disappointing Season for the Seattle Mariners28:14 Excitement for the Seattle Seahawks Season29:42 Change in Coaching Approach for the Seahawks32:36 Encouraging Signs for the Seahawks35:30 Start of College Football Season35:59 Impressive Performance by John Mateer39:43 The Niceness of Canadians41:37 Changes to the Show's Schedule45:18 Appreciation for the Audience's Support
Today we're diving into a topic that's often misunderstood—kindness. But not just any kind of kindness—the kind of kindness that requires courage and authenticity, the kind of kindness that goes beyond just being nice or pleasing others. We live in a world that often confuses niceness with kindness, and many of us fall into the trap of people-pleasing, thinking that's what it means to be kind. But true kindness is something deeper, something that demands we step out of our comfort zones and be genuine, even when it's hard. So get ready to explore the courage it takes to be truly kind, to uncover powerful insights, practical tips, and inspiring stories that will transform how you see kindness—and empower you to make a real difference in your own life and in the world around you.Follow me on instagram for more inspiring, motivational and uplifting content. See you there
Is your niceness ever passive? Today Danny shows us the crucial difference between niceness and kindness, sometimes being ‘nice' isn't always the kindest, most loving thing to do.
The True Meaning of Contention: A Scriptural Analysis In this engaging video, we tackle the provocative idea of peace being used as a weapon to stifle dissent and uphold unjust authority. Using the narrative of King Noah and Abinadi from the Book of Mormon as a case study, we illustrate how leaders can manipulate religious teachings to serve their own ends. Our discussion extends to contemporary church culture, where the fear of causing contention can prevent necessary conversations about truth and righteousness. We encourage viewers to critically examine the messages they receive and to prioritize divine principles over societal pressures. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/wardradio/support
In this episode, we dive into the complexities of the often-hidden, manipulative aspects of goodness and niceness within relationships. While these traits are typically seen as virtuous, they can sometimes stem from low self-worth and a deep need for validation, ultimately breeding mistrust. We explore the dynamics of people-pleasing, its connection to resentment, and the critical importance of setting healthy boundaries to disrupt patterns that impede personal growth and authentic connection. Additionally, we examine codependency and how it distorts our understanding of love and support. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on recognizing your own relational patterns, the societal impact of perceived goodness, and ways to cultivate healthier, more genuine relationships rooted in mutual respect. Resources: —Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/aligned —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://markgroves.com/book —Explore My Courses: https://markgroves.com/courses Follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://markgroves.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com Find an archive of my work here: —Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: People Pleasing, Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Manipulation, Goodness, Kindness, Niceness, Low Self-Worth, Validation, Mistrust, Boundaries, Codependency, Personal Growth, Authentic Connections, Relational Patterns, Mutual Respect, Interdependence Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Josh Reeves has built Gusto into a nearly $10B company with over $500M in ARR, serving small businesses. In our conversation, Josh delves into Gusto's 13-year journey, sharing insights on how they achieved product-market fit by initially targeting a very narrow niche. He also highlights the tactics they've used to build an intentional culture of humility and helpfulness, along with lessons he's learned in hiring executives. We also explore the future of Gusto and the opportunities that lie ahead for the business.(00:00) Intro(00:36) Early Days and Product Market Fit(01:02) Building a Scalable Business(01:41) Gusto's Core Offerings and Customer Focus(02:51) Challenges and Strategies in Payroll(05:40) Expanding Gusto's Reach(10:11) Customer Feedback and Product Development(23:03) Hiring and Company Culture(29:23) Values and Leadership at Gusto(37:14) Sustaining Passion and Long-Term Vision(43:27) Balancing Growth and Sustainability(46:29) Balancing Competition and Kindness in Startups(46:38) The Importance of Team Collaboration(47:47) Navigating Feedback: Kindness vs. Niceness(48:25) Hiring for Ambition and Humility(49:57) Aligning Company Values with Success(53:11) Work-Life Integration at Gusto(56:11) Building a Long-Term Oriented Business(57:15) Mentorship and Learning from Other Founders(01:00:09) Structuring and Scaling Product Teams(01:06:16) Organizational Design and Leadership(01:08:31) Hiring Executives and Internal Growth(01:13:13) The Journey of Rebranding to Gusto(01:21:05) The Role of a CEO in a Growing Company(01:28:39) Fundraising and Investor Relations(01:33:14) Future Goals and Impact of Gusto(01:35:48) Conclusion and Final Thoughts Executive Producer: Rashad AssirProducer: Leah ClapperMixing and editing: Justin Hrabovsky Check out Unsupervised Learning, Redpoint's AI Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@UCUl-s_Vp-Kkk_XVyDylNwLA
We have a special guest speaker this week! Longtime member of Goodlife and principal of Nambour Christian College: Geoff van der Vliet. Geoff shared from Luke and challenged us to understand NICENESS & how followers of Christ can be doing more GOOD. "Followers of Christ should do more good today than what they did yesterday." WEBSITE :: https://www.goodlife.org.au/ and https://www.goodlife.org.au/church-notices SPOTIFY https://open.spotify.com/show/5tgYs0DLkpe3yxj15nTRUh?si=KWSJIsI-Q7auMNx4WLn6xg Goodlife Collective:: https://open.spotify.com/track/6AIpkihS5W6fyQb81U53ql?si=eae8759fd4d947f6&nd=1&dlsi=45435542515e4942 CONNECT via socials FACEBOOK :: https://www.facebook.com/goodlifecommunitychurch INSTAGRAM:: https://www.instagram.com/goodlifecommunitychurch/ YOUTH:: https://www.instagram.com/goodlife_youth/ COLLECTIVE:: https://www.instagram.com/goodlifecollective_/
Host Curtis Chang goes back to school and sits down with Geneva College President Dr. Calvin Troup and student Mattigan Burleigh to explore the college's long-standing political coursework, dating back to 1881. They delve into how, in an era fraught with political anxiety, the culture of niceness has eroded an authentic engagement across differences. Listen and learn how to serve your communities by focusing on Jesus as the central norm in our common life. Learn more about Geneva College's Political Science program here Donate to Redeeming Babel HERE Bring The After Party course to your church or small group!
Ærlighet vs å tilpasse seg (people pleasing). Tilhørighet vs å passe inn. Kindness vs niceness. Autentisitet vs å late som. Være meg selv vs å være noe jeg ikke er. Connection vs disconnection. En del av vs ensom og utenfor. Inkludering vs ekskludering. Å bli hørt vs ikke bli hørt. Skaper av eget liv vs offer av omgivelsene. Hvor mye av dette handler om vårt indre selv snakk? Hva om vi kan (internt) snakke oss til bedre relasjoner med oss selv og andre? At det som står i veien for tilhørighet og tilknytning er oss selv og våre egne tanker. Klem fra meg, Moder Mot Therese Fallentin Meg finner du her: https://magefolelsen.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/therese-fallentin/ https://www.instagram.com/magefoelelsen.podcast/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063836841693
Published in 1997, lessons from Gavin de Becker's The Gift of Fear have saved lives. This book is a must-read! Here are some of the most well-known quotes and lessons from "The Gift of Fear": “I encourage people to remember that "no" is a complete sentence.” “No” is a word that must never be negotiated, because the person who chooses not to hear it is trying to control you.” “Niceness is a decision, a strategy of social interaction; it is not a character trait.” “It is understandable that the perspectives of men and women on safety are so different--men and women live in different worlds...at core, men are afraid women will laugh at them, while at core, women are afraid men will kill them.” “There's a lesson in real-life stalking cases that young women can benefit from learning: persistence only proves persistence—it does not prove love. The fact that a romantic pursuer is relentless doesn't mean you are special—it means he is troubled.” “Denial is a save now, pay later scheme.” “If you tell someone ten times that you don't want to talk to him, you are talking to them—nine more times than you wanted to.” “The solution to violence in America is the acceptance of reality” “Believing that others will react as we would is the single most dangerous myth of intervention.” “We must learn and then teach our children that niceness does not equal goodness. Niceness is a decision, a strategy of social interaction; it is not a character trait. People seeking to control others almost always present the image of a nice person in the beginning. Like rapport-building, charm and the deceptive smile, unsolicited niceness often has a discoverable motive.” “Only human beings can look directly at something, have all the information they need to make an accurate prediction, perhaps even momentarily make the accurate prediction, and then say that it isn't so.” --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/wesurviveabuse/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/wesurviveabuse/support
Resources: Register here for our UNLIMITED Moving Beyond People Pleasing Drop-In Group Coaching + Video Curriculum Today, Julie & Leslie are exploring how some of your best qualities and highest Christian virtues can make you a target for toxic individuals. Have you ever wondered why you seem to attract destructive people despite your kind heart and good intentions? This episode will help you understand and transform how you navigate relationships, allowing you to embrace your strengths while safeguarding your heart. People Pleasing: People pleasers are often generous and eager to make others happy, which can make them susceptible to manipulation. Without the ability to say no, people pleasers may find themselves overextended and exploited. Learn to buy time before committing and practice saying no without guilt. Loyalty: Loyalty is a noble trait, reflecting a commitment to relationships. However, blind loyalty can lead to staying in harmful relationships with habitual liars or abusers. Pair loyalty with discernment and wisdom to know when to break away from toxic situations. Forgiveness: Forgiveness is a core Christian virtue, emphasizing grace and mercy. However, endless forgiveness without consequences can enable continued abuse or neglect. Healthy forgiveness includes justice and setting boundaries, ensuring there are consequences for harmful actions. Forbearance: Forbearance promotes patience and tolerance, important in any relationship. Being passive and ignoring habitual sin or evil can be dangerous. Be intentional about forbearance and confront issues when necessary, following Ephesians 5:11 to expose deeds of darkness. Kindness: Kindness reflects God's love and compassion. Niceness without boundaries can lead to being used and misused. Be kind but firm, setting limits on unacceptable behavior without compromising your values. Selflessness: Selflessness mirrors Christ's sacrifice and service. Being overly selfless can lead to losing your identity and becoming an object in the relationship. Steward your life wisely, balancing self-care with serving others, and maintaining your individuality. Trust: Trust is fundamental to any healthy relationship. Naive trust can lead to betrayal and harm. Trust with discernment, recognizing when someone is not trustworthy and acting accordingly. As we discuss these virtues, remember that we are currently enrolling for Leslie's Moving Beyond People Pleasing program. This course is designed to help you apply these principles in your life. Visit leslievernick.com/peoplepleasingcourse to learn more and register. Final Thoughts: Embrace your Christian virtues but pair them with wisdom and discernment to protect yourself from toxic individuals. Taking care of yourself is not selfish, it's stewardship. Prioritize your well-being to better serve others and fulfill your God-given potential. Remember to consider the entire counsel of God, not just isolated verses, to guide your life and relationships. Thank you for joining us today. We hope this conversation helps you navigate your relationships more wisely and embrace your strengths while safeguarding your heart. Until next time, take care and stay true to your values.
In this engaging conversation, Francesca interviews Steven Petrovich about Cardology, a fascinating system that uses playing cards to reveal insights into a person's life and personality. Steven delves into how he discovered Cardology and the profound impact it has had on his life. They explore the significance of birth cards, karma cards, and the intricate patterns represented by the cards. Additionally, they discuss the elements and suits in Cardology and their connections to astrology and numerology. Topics like intuition, gut instincts, and the power of water also come into play, offering a comprehensive introduction to Cardology and its potential for self-discovery and personal growth.Oddcasting is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.In another part of the conversation, Francesca and Steven delve into the associations between numerology and tarot cards. They uncover the meanings of each number in numerology and how these correspond to different planets and zodiac signs. The discussion highlights the differences between numerology and tarot in interpreting certain numbers, shedding light on the complexities of both systems.As the conversation wraps up, Steven and Francesca share their personal experiences with cards and astrology. They explore themes of personal empowerment, the influence of birth order on personality traits, and the importance of self-understanding amidst societal expectations. The discussion concludes with excitement about their upcoming collaboration and the potential for future projects together, leaving listeners inspired by the possibilities of Cardology and self-exploration.(I'm considerably louder than Steven, which makes sense
In this episode of The Daily Dental Podcast, Dr. Addison Killeen talks about the intriguing distinctions between being nice and being kind. Tune in as Dr. Killeen unpacks an insightful article that explores how choosing kindness over niceness can create a profound positive impact on the lives of those around you. Discover practical tips on how to infuse more kindness into your daily interactions and elevate your practice both professionally and personally. Don't miss this enlightening discussion on the power of kindness!
https://newsletter.sankalpgarud.org/52waysguide Ever feel like you're always putting others first, even if it means neglecting yourself? This episode dives deep into the surprising downsides of being "too nice." I explains how people-pleasing tendencies can lead to burnout , stifle your voice , and even damage your relationships. If we haven't met
Wednesday – Fox35 news anchor Amy Kaufeldt is our guest co-host while Deb is away. Is there an issue that you would protest if it meant likely arrest? Animal activist and motivational speaker Lee Asher joins us for Animal House. Orlando Sentinel columnist Scott Maxwell talks about new data showing the the state is losing money with their tourism ad campaigns. Plus, WOKE News, JCS Trivia & You Heard it Here First.
In this episode of Catalyst, we delve into the concept of disrupting niceness. Often perceived as a virtue, niceness can sometimes hinder progress by prioritizing avoidance of conflict over authenticity. We explore the cultural pressures that reinforce niceness, its negative implications, and strategies for disrupting it. Listen now on your favorite platform!Leave a rating and review for the podcast!https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/catalyst/id1555386162 Follow me on IG at https://www.instagram.com/nikeaurea/?hl=en Book A Strategy Call To Start Building out Sustainable & Inclusive Systems: https://www.nikeaurea.com/servicesCheck Out ALL of my links: https://www.nikeaurea.com/linksWant me as a guest on your podcast or to book me as a guest speaker? Email at team@nikeaurea.comSupport the Show.Leave a rating and review for the podcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/catalyst/id1555386162 Follow me on IG at https://www.instagram.com/nikeaurea/?hl=en Book A Strategy Call To Start Building out Sustainable & Inclusive Systems: https://www.nikeaurea.com/services Check Out ALL of my links: https://www.nikeaurea.com/links Want me as a guest on your podcast or to book me as a guest speaker? Email at team@nikeaurea.com
What does being "nice," driving a man WILD and respect have to do with a successful relationship? Well, only everything! I share some of the top tips my clients use the most! Blog:Should you apologize to him to be 'nice?' Video:Drive Him Wild Sexy & Saucy Join my Private Coaching Community Get my *FREE GIFT* scripting guide found here. ♡~♡~♡~♡~♡~♡~ Bonus Links ~♡~♡~♡~♡~♡~♡ Youtube: @AdrienneEverheart Follow Me on Instagram LIKE me on Facebook Get Courses & More at https://everheartcoaching.com Explore my Coaching Community https://iheartloveacademy.mn.co XOXO, Adrienne --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/adrienneeverheart/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/adrienneeverheart/support
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Teacher Friend, I see you over there caring for everyone in your teaching world. You place so much value on your students, their families, your coworkers, and your administrators. That's a good thing!But what happens when you try to do so many things for so many people? Overwhelm. Burnout. Those might as well be four letter words, and you don't need any part of them!So how about we set some boundaries together? This is teacher selfcare, and it isn't selfish at all. When you're at your best for the things that you do, you and the people you are pouring into are better off.Let's do it!If you need more like this, check out these posts:Burnout Buster Series Part 1: Anchor ThoughtsMy 2-Step Process to Tackle Teacher OverwhelmCore Beliefs of the Most Effective Primary TeachersFind Your Teacher CheerleadersDear Tired TeacherSelf Care for the Primary Teacher's Soul
In Book 4 of Mere Christianity, C.S. Lewis warns us to not be content with niceness. Good and nice is not the goal to which Christ is leading us and might actually get in the way.
Welcome to a combo episode of the AnxietyRX and the Manxiety Podcast! Join me, Dr. Russ Kennedy, and my co-host, Dr. Nima Rahmany, as we dive into the fascinating world of boundaries in interpersonal relationships. In this episode, we define boundaries as vital limits that separate our needs from others', and discuss how setting and communicating them can prevent resentment and foster healthy connections. From understanding trauma responses like fawning to navigating codependency and childhood influences, we cover it all. Ready for some practical wisdom? We wrap up with an exciting announcement about a workshop designed to help you develop secure boundaries and stand up for yourself in relationships. Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions. PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 3100+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX The Link for "Fawning to Secure Boundaries" Workshop Event with Dr. Nima: http://go.drnima.com/6qeuz -------------- Timestamps: Differentiating Kindness and Niceness (00:04:20) Defining Boundaries and Their Origins (00:05:51) Impact of Violating Boundaries (00:10:50) Expressing Internal Needs through Boundaries (00:18:10) Setting Boundaries and Integrity (00:21:07) Understanding Clean Communication (00:22:07) Negotiating Boundaries and Repairing Relationships (00:23:11) Codependency and Resentment (00:25:22) Regretting and Changing Boundaries (00:28:32) Making Boundaries About Self (00:35:37) Awareness, Body Connection, and Compassion (00:39:45) Secure Relationships and Authenticity (00:40:43) Embodied somatic relationship to self (00:42:25) Living in the reactive self (00:42:50) Cultivating boundaries and anxiety (00:43:24) Learning awareness and compassion (00:44:17) Workshop on secure boundaries (00:44:31)
When Lisa and I first came across Elise Loehnen's most recent work, On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to be Good, we were taken by the many parallels between Elise's explanation of women's emotional repression and our own work with the TMS community. Elise has written a masterful book that deconstructs the many reasons that women struggle to be heard, both by others and themselves. The synergy between Elise's work and ours is profound. Join us as we chat all together (Lisa and I in our dual interviewing debut!) on how “Niceness”, “Compliance”, “People Pleasing”, “Conflict Avoidance”, and “Sublimated and Unprocessed Anger” are correlated with Cancer, ALS, autoimmune illnesses, and many more. Plus, we discuss Elise's own experience with TMS in the form of chronic hyperventilation and jaw pain. We were thrilled to welcome Elise onto the pod. Enjoy, and go pick up her book. It's incredible. XOOX n. Producer: Lisa Eisenpresser Learn more about Elise's work here: https://www.eliseloehnen.com/ PURCHASE MIGRAINE DEEP DIVE RECORDING! Sign up for my Membership Community on my Website (3 hour ZOOM with me once a month and separate monthly Q&A Hang with me alongside private online community where I answer your personal questions): https://www.thecureforchronicpain.com/ Get 50% off the Curable App: www.getcurable.com/nicole Leave us a message on SpeakPipe! www.speakpipe.com/NicoleSachs New podcast music by the beautiful and talented Danielle Furst. Find her here: Insta - @musicfurst and all her amazing music credits here - https://www.imdb.com/name/nm3895994/ Past virtual retreats recordings available for sale now on my website: https://www.thecureforchronicpain.com/buy-retreat-recordings FREEDOM FROM CHRONIC PAIN course: https://www.thecureforchronicpain.com/course FREEDOM FROM AN ANXIOUS LIFE course: Click here for all the details and to purchase! PLEASE RATE AND REVIEW THE PODCAST HERE TO HELP OTHERS FIND IT! If you are interested in supporting the many free resources I offer to get this message to the global community, please consider donating to my cause on my website, www.thecureforchronicpain.com. Look for the DONATE button on the home page. Thank you so much! ALL MY RESOURCES: Instagram: Follow me on insta @nicolesachslcsw for tons of new content Website: The Cure for Chronic Pain YouTube: The Cure for Chronic Pain with Nicole Sachs, LCSW Book: The Meaning of Truth Online Course: FREEDOM FROM CHRONIC PAIN FB Closed Group:JournalSpeak with Nicole Sachs, LCSW OMEGA General info: OMEGA INSTITUTE Subscribe Apple Podcasts Deezer iHeart RadioPublic RSS Spotify
When Lisa and I first came across Elise Loehnen's most recent work, On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to be Good, we were taken by the many parallels between Elise's explanation of women's emotional repression and our own work with the TMS community. Elise has written a masterful book that deconstructs the many reasons that women struggle to be heard, both by others and themselves. The synergy between Elise's work and ours is profound. Join us as we chat all together (Lisa and I in our dual interviewing debut!) on how “Niceness”, “Compliance”, “People Pleasing”, “Conflict Avoidance”, and “Sublimated and Unprocessed Anger” are correlated with Cancer, ALS, autoimmune illnesses, and many more. Plus, we discuss Elise's own experience with TMS in the form of chronic hyperventilation and jaw pain. We were thrilled to welcome Elise onto the pod. Enjoy, and go pick up her book. It's incredible. XOOX n. Producer: Lisa Eisenpresser Learn more about Elise's work here: https://www.eliseloehnen.com/ PURCHASE MIGRAINE DEEP DIVE RECORDING! Sign up for my Membership Community on my Website (3 hour ZOOM with me once a month and separate monthly Q&A Hang with me alongside private online community where I answer your personal questions): https://www.thecureforchronicpain.com/ Get 50% off the Curable App: www.getcurable.com/nicole Leave us a message on SpeakPipe! www.speakpipe.com/NicoleSachs New podcast music by the beautiful and talented Danielle Furst. Find her here: Insta - @musicfurst and all her amazing music credits here - https://www.imdb.com/name/nm3895994/ Past virtual retreats recordings available for sale now on my website: https://www.thecureforchronicpain.com/buy-retreat-recordings FREEDOM FROM CHRONIC PAIN course: https://www.thecureforchronicpain.com/course FREEDOM FROM AN ANXIOUS LIFE course: Click here for all the details and to purchase! PLEASE RATE AND REVIEW THE PODCAST HERE TO HELP OTHERS FIND IT! If you are interested in supporting the many free resources I offer to get this message to the global community, please consider donating to my cause on my website, www.thecureforchronicpain.com. Look for the DONATE button on the home page. Thank you so much! ALL MY RESOURCES: Instagram: Follow me on insta @nicolesachslcsw for tons of new content Website: The Cure for Chronic Pain YouTube: The Cure for Chronic Pain with Nicole Sachs, LCSW Book: The Meaning of Truth Online Course: FREEDOM FROM CHRONIC PAIN FB Closed Group:JournalSpeak with Nicole Sachs, LCSW OMEGA General info: OMEGA INSTITUTE Subscribe Apple Podcasts Deezer iHeart RadioPublic RSS Spotify