Terry Roseland Podcast

Two hosts trace a line from childhood confrontations to adult courage, unpacking how fear multiplies when we avoid hard choices and how truth ends the loop. We answer a listener facing grief, money strain, and trust wounds, then map courage across love, work, and parenting.• stories of being pressed and how fear lingers• the quote that frames courage vs avoidance• cheating, faux bro code, and real brotherhood• listener question on space, grief, money, and past infidelity• negotiation, self-worth, and career in tech• dating confidence that spills into networking• speaking up vs suffering in silence• logic over heat in hard talks• boy moms: prepare, don't overprotectIf you're chasing anything in life, make sure you give it y'all man: decide, plan, sacrifice. Shoot a shoot we outJoin our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

The phrase that won't leave my head is simple: regardless of circumstance. Not the kind of confidence that shows up when the room is friendly and the clock is kind—but the kind that stays steady when the stakes jump, the rules change, and the finish line disappears. I walk through what that looks like when a kid drains a paper ball until push-ups are on the line, when love pulls in two directions no text can fix, when a savings plan meets a totaled car, and when creative work asks you to keep going long after applause would have helped.We unpack the difference between belief that depends on comfort and belief that survives consequences. I share why some destinations don't change no matter how many detours you take, and how to protect your time by choosing the straighter path. From mapping a real plan to provide for someone you love—even if the numbers are tight—to stacking cash for legal support and still hitting a year-end goal, the throughline is ownership. Not bravado. Not luck. Ownership that plans for friction, presses through setbacks, and keeps promises out loud.If you've ever felt your confidence vanish when the moment mattered, or watched your goals wobble after one bad week, this is the reset. We talk reps under pressure, the “by any means” posture without the theatrics, and the no-finish-line mindset that keeps a podcast alive through changing co-hosts, broken cameras, and quiet months. I'm still here because the standard is the standard, even when nobody's looking. Hit play, then tell me: which promise are you keeping regardless of circumstance? Subscribe, share with a friend who needs the push, and leave a review so more people find the show.Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

We dig into how financial insecurity shows up in dating, why freedom is really about time, and how disciplined leadership turns money stress into a plan. The Freedom Coach maps the road from independence to wealth and shows why budgets, boundaries, and boring habits win.• defining financial insecurity in relationships• freedom as time, not dollars• independence vs rich vs wealthy• $250 date math and lifestyle creep• budgets, emergency funds, and petty cash rules• three paths to wealth: business, markets, real estate• leading dates with a plan and a frame• dating in your bracket across money and values• public respect, polarity, and private conflict• repetition and mastery in fitness and financeIf y'all want to get the book, go to cashflowfollowassets.com, After 5 A Millionaire, show you how to buy your time back, let you know freedom is not for saleJoin our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

The moment everything feels too fast is the moment we forget we can hit pause. We unpack a simple rule that saved us in rough seasons—don't let anything overwhelm you—and turn it into a step-by-step way to handle chaos without burning out. From summer fun that pushed bills into collections to car notes that bought status but sold peace, we get honest about avoidance, pressure, and the stories we tell ourselves that make small problems feel like doom.We walk through the mental switch that changes everything: choosing your pace. There are still twenty-four hours on your worst day. When the phone won't stop buzzing and everyone wants a favor, you can stop the show, write it all down, and act in the order that matters. We look at money stress with clear eyes—credit scores, debt, and false urgency—and explain why “no cop at the door” means you probably have time to plan. We trade the flashy car for a beater with freedom, set boundaries that hold, and accept that other people may not like the picture they paint when we say no. That's fine. Peace costs less than approval.We also zoom out to strategy: position yourself in the good times for the potholes you know are coming. Build a small cushion, keep maintenance current, and let a bump stay a bump. When everything hits at once—the boot, the starter, the locked account—we triage: fix the one thing that unlocks motion, then the next. No grand gesture, just calm execution. By the end, you'll have a practical checklist for turning panic into a plan and a mindset you can carry into any season: slow down, simplify, and solve what's in front of you.If this hits home, follow the show, share it with someone who needs a reset, and leave a quick review to help more people find these tools. Your future self will thank you.Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

What if the “boogeyman” threatening your relationship isn't another man—it's your insecurity? We open with jealousy in its messiest form and trace how comparison, gossip, and social-media fantasy twist harmless moments into stories that ruin good things. From there, we go straight at the money myths: why men overspend to “keep” someone, how to set a season for stacking cash without starving the relationship, and the one mindset shift that turns panic into a plan. No shaming—just empathy, accountability, and steps you can actually use.We also tackle timing and pressure. Want a family and big career moves? You don't need to pick one. We show how to vet partners with clear goals, align on seasons of grind, and protect your future from outside voices. The home-buying analogy hits home: once you sign, it's your roof when it caves—so choose for your life, not the crowd. Along the way, we break down past/body-count anxiety, the urge to control, and a better alternative: an abundance mindset that lets you love hard without policing rooms for ghosts.Then we get to the core: identity as your competitive edge. If your value depends on money, looks, or vibes, your confidence will always shake. When it rests on character—calm under fire, problem solving, protection without recklessness, warmth without need—you become the one-of-one combination that's hard to replace. We share real scripts for handling weird ex energy in public, why therapy and reflection help you name your strengths, and a powerful message for boy moms about raising sons who recognize love as normal, not suspicious.If this hits, share it with a friend who needs to hear it, subscribe for more honest conversations, and drop a review with the insecurity you're letting go next.Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

Ever felt like you're sharing a home but not a life? We unpack how a vibrant love can quietly slide into “roommates with kisses,” from the moment attention slips to the day intimacy feels like a chore. The turning point wasn't a single blowup—it was comfort turning into entitlement, a phone turning into a third person, and habits that once made love easy slowly fading into autopilot.We begin with the early romance—flowers, affirmations, planned dates—and follow the slow drift: Twitter tunnel vision, missed eye contact, and the quiet resentment that grows when one person feels unseen. We get honest about sex too. Desire didn't die; the daily signals did. For many women, foreplay starts long before the bedroom—in tone, respect, compliments, and the way conflict is handled. For men, visual cues matter. So we talk attraction maintenance without vanity: grooming, simple fits, feeling good in your body, and why looking like you want to be chosen today actually changes the energy between you.From there, we offer the rebuild. No grand gestures without follow-through. No “scorekeeping.” Instead, a reset: consistent, small, repeatable practices—one phone-free hour, a weekly intimacy check-in, a planned date start-to-finish, and compliments that honor who your partner is, not just what they do for you. We challenge the usual alibis—kids and work never stop, so they can't be the reason your effort does—and share scripts for emotional steadiness, not shutdown, during tough talks. There's real-world texture here too: a raw faith wobble and reset, the weight of middle management, and a frank look at power, safety, and policy in our city.This one is part mirror, part manual. If you've been “quiet quitting” your relationship, here's your playbook to turn presence back on and let desire follow. If it hits home, share it with your person, subscribe for more real talk on love and growth, and leave a review with the one habit you're recommitting to this week.Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

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Ever been used as somebody's “I used to talk to them” flex? That's not information—that's currency. In this episode we crack open the clout economy: how people trade names, rumors, and proximity for status—and how that hustle wrecks dating, friendships, church circles, and the wider Chicago scene.We decode a viral-style post (“I had shorty on stage before—no biggie”) and show what's really being bought: attention. Then we map where social currency circulates (DMs, group chats, pews, orgs), why humans gossip (bonding, status hunger, algorithm juice), and the bill it leaves behind—privacy violations, misogyny, and relationships fighting ghosts.Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

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Jameis Winston said the real regret wasn't underperforming—it was dreaming too small. Michael Vick admitted he just wanted to make it. That hit us. In this episode, we talk about the trap of arrival-only goals—when you aim to get in the room but never plan to own the room. We unpack who installed our ceilings, why visibility can feel scarier than failure, and how to think bigger without losing your soul or your community.What we cover:Arrival vs. impact: why “making it” isn't the finish lineThe voices that shrink our vision (family, school, neighborhood, timeline)The cost of a bigger dream: public failure, success guilt, identity shiftsIdentity lag: habits sized for the old youDreaming bigger together—ambition with humilityIf this episode pushes you, subscribe to our Patreon for the Shadow Work community, daily monologues, prompts, and live sessions that go deeper than the feed.Keywords: dream bigger, dreaming big, self-limiting beliefs, scarcity mindset, goal setting, personal growth, purpose, confidence, identity shift, success mindset, Jameis Winston interview, Michael Vick, Black excellence, community, motivation, Roses Are Dead Podcast.Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

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In this episode, we explore the ways women can play a powerful role in safeguarding the physical, mental, and emotional well-being of the men in their lives. From encouraging healthy habits and supporting emotional vulnerability to challenging societal pressures and creating a safe space for growth, we dive into actionable steps women can take to build stronger, more balanced relationships. Learn how mutual care and protection can foster deeper connections and help dismantle the stereotypes that often hold men back. This is a conversation about love, partnership, and creating a safe haven for each other in today's world.   Click here to buy tickets or donate to RoseGold   Leave me a voicemail: 773-340-1509 Tap into Patreon   MERCH!!!!!    

From “Money over Bitches” to “F*** Nigga Free." In this episode, we explore the evolution of messaging in rap and R&B, discussing whether men's early focus on money over connection set the tone for today's mainstream music. We'll dive into the decline of love in modern R&B, the positive and negative effects of rap culture on relationships, and ask: Does the good outweigh the bad? Finally, we'll examine how music, as part of the problem, can also be part of the solution. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation about love, money, and the cultural soundtrack shaping Black relationships today.   Leave me a voicemail: 773-340-1509 Tap into Patreon   MERCH!!!!!  

Our relationships with our parents can be a mix of love, joy, and sometimes deep pain. In this episode, we explore the journey of forgiving your parents—not for their sake, but for your own healing and peace. We'll unpack the impact of unmet expectations, generational trauma, and the human imperfection of parenting. With practical steps, honest reflections, and compassionate insights, we'll guide you through understanding the hurt, setting boundaries, and finding empathy without excusing harmful actions. Forgiveness isn't about erasing the past—it's about freeing yourself to create a better future. Tune in to discover how to begin this powerful journey of healing.   Leave me a voicemail: 773-340-1509 Tap into Patreon   MERCH!!!!!    

How do we raise our sons to lead lives of opportunity and success without losing their connection to the struggles of the Black community? In this episode, we explore the delicate balance of breaking cycles of poverty while fostering compassion and understanding for those still navigating the challenges of inner-city life. From teaching humility and gratitude to addressing systemic barriers that create inequality, we discuss how to raise sons who are proud of their roots, empathetic toward others, and committed to uplifting their community. This is a conversation about legacy, identity, and the responsibility of raising the next generation of kings.   Leave me a voicemail: 773-340-1509 Tap into Patreon   MERCH!!!!!

In a world driven by instant gratification, how often do we pause and choose patience over impulse? In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of delayed gratification—what it is, why it's so important, and how it can transform your relationships, career, finances, and personal growth. From mastering self-discipline to resisting the lure of instant rewards, we'll explore practical strategies to build resilience and stay focused on long-term goals. Tune in for inspiring stories, actionable tips, and a fresh perspective on why waiting for what truly matters is one of the greatest life skills you can develop.   Leave me a voicemail: 773-340-1509 Tap into Patreon   MERCH!!!!!

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