Podcast appearances and mentions of Ingrid Y Helander

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4022: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how fear of returning depression can quietly intensify anxiety and emotional shutdown, especially during the summer when sadness feels harder to hide. Drawing from Polyvagal Theory and Internal Family Systems, she offers simple ways to shift your nervous system toward safety, connection, and emotional balance so you can move through difficult feelings with more confidence and self-compassion. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/hack-your-nervous-system-to-prevent-summer-blues/ Quotes to ponder: “Any energy (even fear) is actually a great way to move out of symptoms that feel depressing.” “When you get overly anxious about becoming depressed and push those old feelings away, you are actually more likely to fall back into a depression.” “Breathe and recognize that you shift up and down between these portions of your nervous system all the time every day.” Episode references: Internal Family Systems: https://ifs-institute.com/ Polyvagal Theory: https://www.polyvagalinstitute.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4022: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how fear of returning depression can quietly intensify anxiety and emotional shutdown, especially during the summer when sadness feels harder to hide. Drawing from Polyvagal Theory and Internal Family Systems, she offers simple ways to shift your nervous system toward safety, connection, and emotional balance so you can move through difficult feelings with more confidence and self-compassion. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/hack-your-nervous-system-to-prevent-summer-blues/ Quotes to ponder: “Any energy (even fear) is actually a great way to move out of symptoms that feel depressing.” “When you get overly anxious about becoming depressed and push those old feelings away, you are actually more likely to fall back into a depression.” “Breathe and recognize that you shift up and down between these portions of your nervous system all the time every day.” Episode references: Internal Family Systems: https://ifs-institute.com/ Polyvagal Theory: https://www.polyvagalinstitute.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4022: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how fear of returning depression can quietly intensify anxiety and emotional shutdown, especially during the summer when sadness feels harder to hide. Drawing from Polyvagal Theory and Internal Family Systems, she offers simple ways to shift your nervous system toward safety, connection, and emotional balance so you can move through difficult feelings with more confidence and self-compassion. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/hack-your-nervous-system-to-prevent-summer-blues/ Quotes to ponder: “Any energy (even fear) is actually a great way to move out of symptoms that feel depressing.” “When you get overly anxious about becoming depressed and push those old feelings away, you are actually more likely to fall back into a depression.” “Breathe and recognize that you shift up and down between these portions of your nervous system all the time every day.” Episode references: Internal Family Systems: https://ifs-institute.com/ Polyvagal Theory: https://www.polyvagalinstitute.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3538: Ingrid Y. Helander explains how chronic worry can distort your ability to recognize real danger, disconnecting you from your natural instincts. By calming everyday anxieties and tuning into your body's signals, you can rebuild trust in your intuition and respond wisely when it truly counts. Her approach highlights simple, practical habits that transform fear into clarity and grounded confidence. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/effectively-respond-to-danger-by-calming-your-daily-worries/ Quotes to ponder: “Listen to your gut.” “When you try to ignore, dismiss or shame worry, anxiety and fear, you teach your body to mistrust itself.” “Tiny practical changes that calm worry help you stay connected to your body, clarify your thoughts and create more trusting relationship within.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3538: Ingrid Y. Helander explains how chronic worry can distort your ability to recognize real danger, disconnecting you from your natural instincts. By calming everyday anxieties and tuning into your body's signals, you can rebuild trust in your intuition and respond wisely when it truly counts. Her approach highlights simple, practical habits that transform fear into clarity and grounded confidence. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/effectively-respond-to-danger-by-calming-your-daily-worries/ Quotes to ponder: “Listen to your gut.” “When you try to ignore, dismiss or shame worry, anxiety and fear, you teach your body to mistrust itself.” “Tiny practical changes that calm worry help you stay connected to your body, clarify your thoughts and create more trusting relationship within.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3538: Ingrid Y. Helander explains how chronic worry can distort your ability to recognize real danger, disconnecting you from your natural instincts. By calming everyday anxieties and tuning into your body's signals, you can rebuild trust in your intuition and respond wisely when it truly counts. Her approach highlights simple, practical habits that transform fear into clarity and grounded confidence. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/effectively-respond-to-danger-by-calming-your-daily-worries/ Quotes to ponder: “Listen to your gut.” “When you try to ignore, dismiss or shame worry, anxiety and fear, you teach your body to mistrust itself.” “Tiny practical changes that calm worry help you stay connected to your body, clarify your thoughts and create more trusting relationship within.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3968: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how fear and worry subtly shape our daily behaviors and relationships, often disguising themselves as logic or care. She offers compassionate, practical ways to slow down, comfort fear, and recognize worry's influence so we can reconnect with a deeper sense of safety and clarity. By embracing rather than suppressing these emotions, we open the door to greater freedom, connection, and emotional resilience. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/fear-and-worry-in-daily-living-5-ways-to-untangle-frightened-feelings/ Quotes to ponder: "When you are feeling fearful, slow your thoughts down as much as possible." "When we feel immediate fear, the most natural thing to do is try to quickly push it away. Unfortunately, this practice tends to increase our fear and create more worry." "The opposite of worry is not blandness. It is freedom, vulnerability, connection and bravery." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3968: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how fear and worry subtly shape our daily behaviors and relationships, often disguising themselves as logic or care. She offers compassionate, practical ways to slow down, comfort fear, and recognize worry's influence so we can reconnect with a deeper sense of safety and clarity. By embracing rather than suppressing these emotions, we open the door to greater freedom, connection, and emotional resilience. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/fear-and-worry-in-daily-living-5-ways-to-untangle-frightened-feelings/ Quotes to ponder: "When you are feeling fearful, slow your thoughts down as much as possible." "When we feel immediate fear, the most natural thing to do is try to quickly push it away. Unfortunately, this practice tends to increase our fear and create more worry." "The opposite of worry is not blandness. It is freedom, vulnerability, connection and bravery." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3968: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how fear and worry subtly shape our daily behaviors and relationships, often disguising themselves as logic or care. She offers compassionate, practical ways to slow down, comfort fear, and recognize worry's influence so we can reconnect with a deeper sense of safety and clarity. By embracing rather than suppressing these emotions, we open the door to greater freedom, connection, and emotional resilience. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/fear-and-worry-in-daily-living-5-ways-to-untangle-frightened-feelings/ Quotes to ponder: "When you are feeling fearful, slow your thoughts down as much as possible." "When we feel immediate fear, the most natural thing to do is try to quickly push it away. Unfortunately, this practice tends to increase our fear and create more worry." "The opposite of worry is not blandness. It is freedom, vulnerability, connection and bravery." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3967: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how constant exposure to fear-driven information can quietly overwhelm the mind and body, blurring the line between worry and true danger. She offers grounded insights into how fear distorts perception and shares practical ways to reconnect with a sense of safety. Listening further reveals how to stay calm, present, and emotionally balanced even in an anxiety-filled world. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/fear-and-worry-in-daily-living-5-ways-to-untangle-frightened-feelings/ Quotes to ponder: "No matter what frightens you, you know that you are not fully yourself when you are living in fear." "Fear has a laser focus that can confuse and when you feel strong fear, it is not a good time to make judgements about the reality of you, others or your world." "You cannot be proactive and wise when life seems scary." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3967: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how constant exposure to fear-driven information can quietly overwhelm the mind and body, blurring the line between worry and true danger. She offers grounded insights into how fear distorts perception and shares practical ways to reconnect with a sense of safety. Listening further reveals how to stay calm, present, and emotionally balanced even in an anxiety-filled world. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/fear-and-worry-in-daily-living-5-ways-to-untangle-frightened-feelings/ Quotes to ponder: "No matter what frightens you, you know that you are not fully yourself when you are living in fear." "Fear has a laser focus that can confuse and when you feel strong fear, it is not a good time to make judgements about the reality of you, others or your world." "You cannot be proactive and wise when life seems scary." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3967: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how constant exposure to fear-driven information can quietly overwhelm the mind and body, blurring the line between worry and true danger. She offers grounded insights into how fear distorts perception and shares practical ways to reconnect with a sense of safety. Listening further reveals how to stay calm, present, and emotionally balanced even in an anxiety-filled world. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/fear-and-worry-in-daily-living-5-ways-to-untangle-frightened-feelings/ Quotes to ponder: "No matter what frightens you, you know that you are not fully yourself when you are living in fear." "Fear has a laser focus that can confuse and when you feel strong fear, it is not a good time to make judgements about the reality of you, others or your world." "You cannot be proactive and wise when life seems scary." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3342: Ingrid Y. Helander reveals how your perception of time may be the hidden source of daily stress, and how small mental shifts can quickly restore a sense of calm and control. By reframing time as flexible, meaningful, and abundant, she offers practical ways to ease anxiety, improve focus, and experience your day with greater ease and intention. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/3-quick-ways-to-master-time-for-stressed-out-people/ Quotes to ponder: "When you feel anxious about having insufficient time, remember that the experience of time belongs to you. Change your experience, change time." "Imagining something may be the first step in making it happen, but it takes the real time and real efforts of real people to learn things, make things, turn thoughts into deeds or visions into interventions." "Time itself may be your anxiety trigger and you don't even realize it." Episode references: The Soul of Money: https://www.amazon.com/Soul-Money-Transforming-Relationship-Finances/dp/0393353974 The Big Leap: https://www.amazon.com/Big-Leap-Conquer-Hidden-Level/dp/0061735361 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3342: Ingrid Y. Helander reveals how your perception of time may be the hidden source of daily stress, and how small mental shifts can quickly restore a sense of calm and control. By reframing time as flexible, meaningful, and abundant, she offers practical ways to ease anxiety, improve focus, and experience your day with greater ease and intention. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/3-quick-ways-to-master-time-for-stressed-out-people/ Quotes to ponder: "When you feel anxious about having insufficient time, remember that the experience of time belongs to you. Change your experience, change time." "Imagining something may be the first step in making it happen, but it takes the real time and real efforts of real people to learn things, make things, turn thoughts into deeds or visions into interventions." "Time itself may be your anxiety trigger and you don't even realize it." Episode references: The Soul of Money: https://www.amazon.com/Soul-Money-Transforming-Relationship-Finances/dp/0393353974 The Big Leap: https://www.amazon.com/Big-Leap-Conquer-Hidden-Level/dp/0061735361 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3769: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how frustration, anxiety, and anger often arise when we “trip” over hidden parts of ourselves. By using mindful techniques rooted in Internal Family Systems, Polyvagal theory, and journaling, she shows how to compassionately recognize these inner parts and shift from pain into clarity. Her practical steps help transform emotional roadblocks into deeper self-understanding and healthier relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/are-you-frustrated-anxious-or-angry-listen-inside-you-may-be-tripping/ Quotes to ponder: “It's so important to have the openness and curiosity of another person's wise eyes and ears when we feel frustrated.” “Get enough perspective to kindly observe this part of you that's saying painful things or has yucky feelings. THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART!” “Hearing people's experiences and struggles is truly not tiring for me. In fact, it can be invigorating.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3769: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how frustration, anxiety, and anger often arise when we “trip” over hidden parts of ourselves. By using mindful techniques rooted in Internal Family Systems, Polyvagal theory, and journaling, she shows how to compassionately recognize these inner parts and shift from pain into clarity. Her practical steps help transform emotional roadblocks into deeper self-understanding and healthier relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/are-you-frustrated-anxious-or-angry-listen-inside-you-may-be-tripping/ Quotes to ponder: “It's so important to have the openness and curiosity of another person's wise eyes and ears when we feel frustrated.” “Get enough perspective to kindly observe this part of you that's saying painful things or has yucky feelings. THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART!” “Hearing people's experiences and struggles is truly not tiring for me. In fact, it can be invigorating.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3769: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how frustration, anxiety, and anger often arise when we “trip” over hidden parts of ourselves. By using mindful techniques rooted in Internal Family Systems, Polyvagal theory, and journaling, she shows how to compassionately recognize these inner parts and shift from pain into clarity. Her practical steps help transform emotional roadblocks into deeper self-understanding and healthier relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/are-you-frustrated-anxious-or-angry-listen-inside-you-may-be-tripping/ Quotes to ponder: “It's so important to have the openness and curiosity of another person's wise eyes and ears when we feel frustrated.” “Get enough perspective to kindly observe this part of you that's saying painful things or has yucky feelings. THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART!” “Hearing people's experiences and struggles is truly not tiring for me. In fact, it can be invigorating.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3672: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how avoidance silently undermines key areas of life - from work and health to relationships and finances, and reveals how small, compassionate steps can interrupt this cycle. Her gentle, evidence-backed approach helps listeners face discomfort without self-blame, empowering lasting emotional and behavioral change. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/6-life-areas-youre-avoiding-and-4-ways-to-stop/ Quotes to ponder: "Avoiding can become a way of life if you're not careful, robbing you of time, relationship, money, fun and other pleasures." "Basically avoidance is a habitual coping skill, aimed at reducing pain that is reinforced each time you do it." "Avoidance is trying to save your system from pain. Granted, avoiding things and people creates more pain over time, but in the moment, it can feel pretty darn good." Episode references: Avoidance Coping by Elizabeth Scott, MS: https://www.verywellmind.com/avoidance-coping-ways-to-cope-with-stress-3144664 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3672: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how avoidance silently undermines key areas of life - from work and health to relationships and finances, and reveals how small, compassionate steps can interrupt this cycle. Her gentle, evidence-backed approach helps listeners face discomfort without self-blame, empowering lasting emotional and behavioral change. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/6-life-areas-youre-avoiding-and-4-ways-to-stop/ Quotes to ponder: "Avoiding can become a way of life if you're not careful, robbing you of time, relationship, money, fun and other pleasures." "Basically avoidance is a habitual coping skill, aimed at reducing pain that is reinforced each time you do it." "Avoidance is trying to save your system from pain. Granted, avoiding things and people creates more pain over time, but in the moment, it can feel pretty darn good." Episode references: Avoidance Coping by Elizabeth Scott, MS: https://www.verywellmind.com/avoidance-coping-ways-to-cope-with-stress-3144664 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3672: Ingrid Y. Helander explores how avoidance silently undermines key areas of life - from work and health to relationships and finances, and reveals how small, compassionate steps can interrupt this cycle. Her gentle, evidence-backed approach helps listeners face discomfort without self-blame, empowering lasting emotional and behavioral change. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/6-life-areas-youre-avoiding-and-4-ways-to-stop/ Quotes to ponder: "Avoiding can become a way of life if you're not careful, robbing you of time, relationship, money, fun and other pleasures." "Basically avoidance is a habitual coping skill, aimed at reducing pain that is reinforced each time you do it." "Avoidance is trying to save your system from pain. Granted, avoiding things and people creates more pain over time, but in the moment, it can feel pretty darn good." Episode references: Avoidance Coping by Elizabeth Scott, MS: https://www.verywellmind.com/avoidance-coping-ways-to-cope-with-stress-3144664 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3620: Ingrid Helander shares five unexpected yet powerful lessons in self-confidence, creativity, and purpose drawn from observing her toddler grandson. Through playful moments and unfiltered honesty, she reveals how reclaiming childlike wonder and emotional authenticity can transform our approach to work and life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/5-lessons-about-self-confidence-play-and-the-meaning-of-work-that-i-learned-from-a-toddler/ Quotes to ponder: "True confidence comes from the inside, not from what you do or how well you do it." "He takes his own ideas seriously and has no need to compare them to anyone else's." "When he's done with something, he's done. And he knows it." Episode references: Play: How It Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul: https://www.amazon.com/Play-Shapes-Brain-Imagination-Invigorates/dp/1583333789 The Whole-Brain Child: https://www.amazon.com/Whole-Brain-Child-Revolutionary-Strategies-Developing/dp/0553386697 Self-Compassion by Kristin Neff: https://self-compassion.org/ Greater Good Science Center: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3620: Ingrid Helander shares five unexpected yet powerful lessons in self-confidence, creativity, and purpose drawn from observing her toddler grandson. Through playful moments and unfiltered honesty, she reveals how reclaiming childlike wonder and emotional authenticity can transform our approach to work and life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/5-lessons-about-self-confidence-play-and-the-meaning-of-work-that-i-learned-from-a-toddler/ Quotes to ponder: "True confidence comes from the inside, not from what you do or how well you do it." "He takes his own ideas seriously and has no need to compare them to anyone else's." "When he's done with something, he's done. And he knows it." Episode references: Play: How It Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul: https://www.amazon.com/Play-Shapes-Brain-Imagination-Invigorates/dp/1583333789 The Whole-Brain Child: https://www.amazon.com/Whole-Brain-Child-Revolutionary-Strategies-Developing/dp/0553386697 Self-Compassion by Kristin Neff: https://self-compassion.org/ Greater Good Science Center: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3620: Ingrid Helander shares five unexpected yet powerful lessons in self-confidence, creativity, and purpose drawn from observing her toddler grandson. Through playful moments and unfiltered honesty, she reveals how reclaiming childlike wonder and emotional authenticity can transform our approach to work and life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/5-lessons-about-self-confidence-play-and-the-meaning-of-work-that-i-learned-from-a-toddler/ Quotes to ponder: "True confidence comes from the inside, not from what you do or how well you do it." "He takes his own ideas seriously and has no need to compare them to anyone else's." "When he's done with something, he's done. And he knows it." Episode references: Play: How It Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul: https://www.amazon.com/Play-Shapes-Brain-Imagination-Invigorates/dp/1583333789 The Whole-Brain Child: https://www.amazon.com/Whole-Brain-Child-Revolutionary-Strategies-Developing/dp/0553386697 Self-Compassion by Kristin Neff: https://self-compassion.org/ Greater Good Science Center: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3546: When spring arrives, nature bursts into life effortlessly, so why do our dreams stay locked inside? Ingrid Y. Helander explores how our fears and worries act as protective buds, preventing our true potential from blooming. By acknowledging and working with our anxieties instead of resisting them, we can finally step into the life we were meant to live. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/its-spring-the-secret-to-make-your-life-dreams-bloom/ Quotes to ponder: "Instead, we usually keep our dreams locked up inside their bud well protected by a long list of worries and excuses." "If those summer buds on the trees worried about all the cold, wind, and bleakness ahead, we'd probably never have those fresh green leaves." "You cannot simply dismiss these worries. If you could, you would already be living your dreams." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3546: When spring arrives, nature bursts into life effortlessly, so why do our dreams stay locked inside? Ingrid Y. Helander explores how our fears and worries act as protective buds, preventing our true potential from blooming. By acknowledging and working with our anxieties instead of resisting them, we can finally step into the life we were meant to live. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/its-spring-the-secret-to-make-your-life-dreams-bloom/ Quotes to ponder: "Instead, we usually keep our dreams locked up inside their bud well protected by a long list of worries and excuses." "If those summer buds on the trees worried about all the cold, wind, and bleakness ahead, we'd probably never have those fresh green leaves." "You cannot simply dismiss these worries. If you could, you would already be living your dreams." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3546: When spring arrives, nature bursts into life effortlessly, so why do our dreams stay locked inside? Ingrid Y. Helander explores how our fears and worries act as protective buds, preventing our true potential from blooming. By acknowledging and working with our anxieties instead of resisting them, we can finally step into the life we were meant to live. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/its-spring-the-secret-to-make-your-life-dreams-bloom/ Quotes to ponder: "Instead, we usually keep our dreams locked up inside their bud well protected by a long list of worries and excuses." "If those summer buds on the trees worried about all the cold, wind, and bleakness ahead, we'd probably never have those fresh green leaves." "You cannot simply dismiss these worries. If you could, you would already be living your dreams." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2396: Ingrid Y. Helander explores gentle strategies to overcome social anxiety, especially during social gatherings. By shifting focus to self-discovery, connecting with one person, or taking on a supportive role, you can turn anxiety into opportunities for personal growth and authentic connections. These methods help you embrace your comfort zone while gradually expanding it. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/3-safe-ways-to-be-a-little-more-social-and-have-a-lot-more-fun/ Quotes to ponder: "Notice parts of you that feel broken or imperfect. These parts of you need your love and care." "Your goal in this technique is to have just a moment to appreciate someone and feel a comfortable connection." "Young parts of us love it when they realize we are grown and they do not have to go to the party alone." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2396: Ingrid Y. Helander explores gentle strategies to overcome social anxiety, especially during social gatherings. By shifting focus to self-discovery, connecting with one person, or taking on a supportive role, you can turn anxiety into opportunities for personal growth and authentic connections. These methods help you embrace your comfort zone while gradually expanding it. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/3-safe-ways-to-be-a-little-more-social-and-have-a-lot-more-fun/ Quotes to ponder: "Notice parts of you that feel broken or imperfect. These parts of you need your love and care." "Your goal in this technique is to have just a moment to appreciate someone and feel a comfortable connection." "Young parts of us love it when they realize we are grown and they do not have to go to the party alone." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2366: When a child struggles with chronic worry, parents often feel helpless and frustrated. Ingrid Y. Helander shares three practical shifts parents can adopt to better support their anxious child, including recognizing that worry is just one part of the child, staying calm in the face of anxiety, and offering help when the child is ready. These techniques foster a more compassionate and effective approach to managing childhood anxiety. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/the-worried-child-and-3-little-shifts-for-parenting/ Quotes to ponder: "Like happiness or frustration, worry tends to build on itself: more worry creates more worry." "Teach your child about their feelings as normal parts of a healthy nervous system." "Be patient with yourself in the meantime, and take small breaks to calm and center." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2366: When a child struggles with chronic worry, parents often feel helpless and frustrated. Ingrid Y. Helander shares three practical shifts parents can adopt to better support their anxious child, including recognizing that worry is just one part of the child, staying calm in the face of anxiety, and offering help when the child is ready. These techniques foster a more compassionate and effective approach to managing childhood anxiety. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/the-worried-child-and-3-little-shifts-for-parenting/ Quotes to ponder: "Like happiness or frustration, worry tends to build on itself: more worry creates more worry." "Teach your child about their feelings as normal parts of a healthy nervous system." "Be patient with yourself in the meantime, and take small breaks to calm and center." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2346: Ingrid Y. Helander shares five powerful steps for defusing tension in overheated relationships, emphasizing the importance of pausing, self-reflection, and empathy. By fostering patience and curiosity, partners can shift away from conflict and rediscover unity. The practical strategies offered promote healthier communication and deeper personal insight, allowing for more meaningful and peaceful interactions. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/5-steps-to-chill-out-overheated-relationships-calm-down/ Quotes to ponder: "Couples have a special radar for the smallest cue of a potential negative reaction and once things heat up, it's hard to calm down." "When you own 100% of your part in a relationship, you'll have a lot more power for what happens within it." "Take a moment and imagine that you and your dearest may want the same thing - like to be heard and loved - but you have been going about it in the wrong way." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2346: Ingrid Y. Helander shares five powerful steps for defusing tension in overheated relationships, emphasizing the importance of pausing, self-reflection, and empathy. By fostering patience and curiosity, partners can shift away from conflict and rediscover unity. The practical strategies offered promote healthier communication and deeper personal insight, allowing for more meaningful and peaceful interactions. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/5-steps-to-chill-out-overheated-relationships-calm-down/ Quotes to ponder: "Couples have a special radar for the smallest cue of a potential negative reaction and once things heat up, it's hard to calm down." "When you own 100% of your part in a relationship, you'll have a lot more power for what happens within it." "Take a moment and imagine that you and your dearest may want the same thing - like to be heard and loved - but you have been going about it in the wrong way." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3260: Ingrid Y Helander explains why asking "Why?" during moments of anxiety can be counterproductive, leading to more stress and negative self-beliefs. Instead, she suggests a mindful approach by acknowledging the body's sensations with curiosity using "Hmmmm," fostering a more effective way to manage anxiety. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/dont-ask-why-how-to-ask-the-right-question-when-youre-anxious/ Quotes to ponder: "When you ask 'Why?' without first acknowledging the feeling of your body's nervous system, you can get easily trapped in an anxiety loop that has no end." "Anxiety is an activation of your nervous system based upon receiving a cue of danger. In other words, it's a body feeling." "A simple 'Hmmmm' is a great place to start." Episode references: Lynne Twist: https://soulofmoney.org/about-lynne-twist Shefali Tsabary: https://www.drshefali.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3260: Ingrid Y Helander explains why asking "Why?" during moments of anxiety can be counterproductive, leading to more stress and negative self-beliefs. Instead, she suggests a mindful approach by acknowledging the body's sensations with curiosity using "Hmmmm," fostering a more effective way to manage anxiety. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/dont-ask-why-how-to-ask-the-right-question-when-youre-anxious/ Quotes to ponder: "When you ask 'Why?' without first acknowledging the feeling of your body's nervous system, you can get easily trapped in an anxiety loop that has no end." "Anxiety is an activation of your nervous system based upon receiving a cue of danger. In other words, it's a body feeling." "A simple 'Hmmmm' is a great place to start." Episode references: Lynne Twist: https://soulofmoney.org/about-lynne-twist Shefali Tsabary: https://www.drshefali.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3260: Ingrid Y Helander explains why asking "Why?" during moments of anxiety can be counterproductive, leading to more stress and negative self-beliefs. Instead, she suggests a mindful approach by acknowledging the body's sensations with curiosity using "Hmmmm," fostering a more effective way to manage anxiety. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/dont-ask-why-how-to-ask-the-right-question-when-youre-anxious/ Quotes to ponder: "When you ask 'Why?' without first acknowledging the feeling of your body's nervous system, you can get easily trapped in an anxiety loop that has no end." "Anxiety is an activation of your nervous system based upon receiving a cue of danger. In other words, it's a body feeling." "A simple 'Hmmmm' is a great place to start." Episode references: Lynne Twist: https://soulofmoney.org/about-lynne-twist Shefali Tsabary: https://www.drshefali.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3148: Ingrid Y Helander's exploration of the relationship between worry, our nervous systems, and personal insight sheds light on the intricate ways our minds and bodies react to fear. By understanding the reasons behind our worries and adopting a more curious, gentle approach towards them, we can foster a sense of calm and self-awareness that empowers us to face life's challenges with a renewed sense of confidence and clarity. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/4-reasons-worry-scares-you-and-how-to-be-more-fearless/ Quotes to ponder: "Facing your worries can actually open the door to valuable personal insights and a deeper understanding of yourself." "Worry is not inherently bad; it's a part of our complex personalities, aiming to protect us." "By inviting curiosity rather than fear into our relationship with worry, we cultivate a healthier, more compassionate self-awareness." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3148: Ingrid Y Helander's exploration of the relationship between worry, our nervous systems, and personal insight sheds light on the intricate ways our minds and bodies react to fear. By understanding the reasons behind our worries and adopting a more curious, gentle approach towards them, we can foster a sense of calm and self-awareness that empowers us to face life's challenges with a renewed sense of confidence and clarity. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/4-reasons-worry-scares-you-and-how-to-be-more-fearless/ Quotes to ponder: "Facing your worries can actually open the door to valuable personal insights and a deeper understanding of yourself." "Worry is not inherently bad; it's a part of our complex personalities, aiming to protect us." "By inviting curiosity rather than fear into our relationship with worry, we cultivate a healthier, more compassionate self-awareness." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3148: Ingrid Y Helander's exploration of the relationship between worry, our nervous systems, and personal insight sheds light on the intricate ways our minds and bodies react to fear. By understanding the reasons behind our worries and adopting a more curious, gentle approach towards them, we can foster a sense of calm and self-awareness that empowers us to face life's challenges with a renewed sense of confidence and clarity. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/4-reasons-worry-scares-you-and-how-to-be-more-fearless/ Quotes to ponder: "Facing your worries can actually open the door to valuable personal insights and a deeper understanding of yourself." "Worry is not inherently bad; it's a part of our complex personalities, aiming to protect us." "By inviting curiosity rather than fear into our relationship with worry, we cultivate a healthier, more compassionate self-awareness." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2123: In Ingrid Y. Helander's enlightening piece, "Your Worsening Worry Wants Your Help to De-Stress," the author sheds light on the transformative power of acknowledging and naming your worries. Through a compassionate and insightful approach, Helander guides us to a better understanding and management of our stress and anxiety, illustrating the profound benefits of forming a relationship with our internal experiences to promote healing and resilience. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/your-worsening-worry-wants-your-help-to-de-stress/ Quotes to ponder: "Names provide definition, meaning and most importantly a calm connection." "Creating a name and relationship with the parts of you that are stressed out does not increase the worry. In fact, it calms anxiety and empowers you to be helpful." "This is the beginning of your journey together with your worry, anxiety and stress. Remember that no part of you is trying to hurt you." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2123: In Ingrid Y. Helander's enlightening piece, "Your Worsening Worry Wants Your Help to De-Stress," the author sheds light on the transformative power of acknowledging and naming your worries. Through a compassionate and insightful approach, Helander guides us to a better understanding and management of our stress and anxiety, illustrating the profound benefits of forming a relationship with our internal experiences to promote healing and resilience. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/your-worsening-worry-wants-your-help-to-de-stress/ Quotes to ponder: "Names provide definition, meaning and most importantly a calm connection." "Creating a name and relationship with the parts of you that are stressed out does not increase the worry. In fact, it calms anxiety and empowers you to be helpful." "This is the beginning of your journey together with your worry, anxiety and stress. Remember that no part of you is trying to hurt you." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3116: The podcast discusses Ingrid Y. Helander's blog post on converting worry to confidence using Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy concepts. It highlights common reactions to worry and presents four new methods to promote emotional well-being and build a strong, confident foundation. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/four-new-ways-to-convert-worry-to-confidence/ Quotes to ponder: "Using Internal Family Systems (or IFS) Therapy concepts, you can actually change the way you react to the parts of your personality that work like a little 'internal family' inside you." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3116: The podcast discusses Ingrid Y. Helander's blog post on converting worry to confidence using Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy concepts. It highlights common reactions to worry and presents four new methods to promote emotional well-being and build a strong, confident foundation. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/four-new-ways-to-convert-worry-to-confidence/ Quotes to ponder: "Using Internal Family Systems (or IFS) Therapy concepts, you can actually change the way you react to the parts of your personality that work like a little 'internal family' inside you." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2056: The article "Six Helpful Steps to Follow When You're Stressed Out & Frazzled" offers practical and compassionate guidance for dealing with stress, particularly during challenging times like a global pandemic. It provides a relatable description of stress symptoms and encourages a six-step process to foster internal calm, including breathing exercises, physical release, and taking small, motivated actions. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/six-helpful-steps-to-follow-when-youre-stressed-out-frazzled/ Quotes to ponder: "Refocusing from your outside world to your body's internal sensations is the first step to calm your stress." Episode references: "The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy: Engaging the Rhythm of Regulation" by Deb Dana: https://www.amazon.com/Polyvagal-Theory-Therapy-Interpersonal-Neurobiology/dp/0393712370/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2056: The article "Six Helpful Steps to Follow When You're Stressed Out & Frazzled" offers practical and compassionate guidance for dealing with stress, particularly during challenging times like a global pandemic. It provides a relatable description of stress symptoms and encourages a six-step process to foster internal calm, including breathing exercises, physical release, and taking small, motivated actions. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/six-helpful-steps-to-follow-when-youre-stressed-out-frazzled/ Quotes to ponder: "Refocusing from your outside world to your body's internal sensations is the first step to calm your stress." Episode references: "The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy: Engaging the Rhythm of Regulation" by Deb Dana: https://www.amazon.com/Polyvagal-Theory-Therapy-Interpersonal-Neurobiology/dp/0393712370/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2009: Ingrid Y. Helander's insightful article, "You Care About So Much – But Do You Really," sheds light on the misconceptions between worrying and caring. Helander elucidates how worry often masks itself as care, creating a diluted form of genuine attention and love, ultimately leading to a disconnected state that drains our energy and affects those around us. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/you-care-about-so-much-but-do-you-really/ Quotes to ponder: "Worrying may be the only way you express care about someone or something important to you." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2009: Ingrid Y. Helander's insightful article, "You Care About So Much – But Do You Really," sheds light on the misconceptions between worrying and caring. Helander elucidates how worry often masks itself as care, creating a diluted form of genuine attention and love, ultimately leading to a disconnected state that drains our energy and affects those around us. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/you-care-about-so-much-but-do-you-really/ Quotes to ponder: "Worrying may be the only way you express care about someone or something important to you." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3001: Ingrid's insightful take on sleepless nights reveals how worry can be channeled into creativity. She offers practical self-guided meditations to transform anxious thoughts into restful opportunities, emphasizing that rest is achievable even without sleep. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/cant-sleep-create-your-own-guided-meditation-for-peace-and-rest/ Quotes to ponder: "Sleepless worry is creativity all dressed up with nowhere to go." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ingrid Y. Helander offers 4 therapy-tested steps for people who are feeling lost. Episode 1898: If You're Feeling Lost, 4 Therapy-Tested Steps To Find Your Way by Ingrid Y. Helander on Find Your Path in Life Ingrid began her career in Marriage and Family Therapy after she had her three children. After her youngest son was diagnosed with a chronic illness, she decided that she wanted to train to work alongside people as they work through life's difficulties. She has a Master's Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Central Connecticut State University. Ingrid specializes in Internal Family Systems and and Intimacy from the Inside Out Couples Therapy. The original post is located here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/feeling-lost/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ingrid Y. Helander tells us how to understand and prepare for the dangers you perceive. Episode 2403: Effectively Respond to Danger by Calming Your Daily Worries by Ingrid Y. Helander on How to Stay Calm and Ready Ingrid began her career in Marriage and Family Therapy after she had her three children. After her youngest son was diagnosed with a chronic illness, she decided that she wanted to train to work alongside people as they work through life's difficulties. She has a Master's Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Central Connecticut State University. Ingrid specializes in Internal Family Systems and and Intimacy from the Inside Out Couples Therapy. The original post is located here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/effectively-respond-to-danger-by-calming-your-daily-worries/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalFinanceDaily Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ingrid Y. Helander tells you how to embrace the one you love even when it's tough Episode 2554: 5 Steps To Embrace The One You Love Even When It's Tough by Ingrid Y. Helander Ingrid began her career in Marriage and Family Therapy after she had her three children. After her youngest son was diagnosed with a chronic illness, she decided that she wanted to train to work alongside people as they work through life's difficulties. She has a Master's Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Central Connecticut State University. Ingrid specializes in Internal Family Systems and Intimacy from the Inside Out Couples Therapy. The original post is located here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/5-steps-to-embrace-the-one-you-love/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalLivingDaily Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices