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This episode means so to me. But before you hit play, do yourself a favor—grab a box of tissues, because I cannot keep it together. Today, February 21st, is my best friend Shannon's birthday. She should be here celebrating, but instead, I'm honoring her memory. Shannon passed away at just 28 years old due to alcohol addiction, which led to acute kidney and liver failure. Losing her changed me forever. In this episode, I take you through the journey of our friendship—the laughter, the love, and the moments that still make me smile. But I also open up about the guilt I carry, the what-ifs that haunt me, and the things I would give anything to change. I miss her every single day, and if I had known that our last phone call would truly be the last, I would have said so much more. If you or someone you love is struggling with addiction, please know you're not alone. There is help out there:

Hi lovers! Friendships in your 30s are definitely a whole vibe—some stick, some fade, and some just look totally different. In this episode, I'm chatting about why friendships change as you grow and how to navigate those shifts without losing your mind (or your squad). Plus, I'll mention that I'm getting yoga certified—because let's be real, a little zen goes a long way when you're juggling it all. Whether you're queer, figuring it out, or just looking for some guidance, this episode's got you covered. So get comfy, and let's chat :)  Follow Bianca: @dearbiancapodcast Follow Saphyx: @saphyxsociety Have a topic you want me to cover or a story to share? Email me: dearbiancapodcast@gmail.com xx B

Happy New Year, babes! We're kicking off 2025 with a little self-love because what's a new year without some fresh goals, a little therapy chat, and of course, queer vibes all around? In this episode, I'm diving into the wild world of therapist hunting (trust me, it's a journey), what I look for in a therapist and why insurance makes it feel like we're just trying to survive the system. Plus, I'll share the deets on how I'm starting my yoga certification this month—yes, I'm getting even more zen—and finally, I'm revealing my words of the year to set my 2025 intentions. So grab your favorite drink, get comfy, and let's chat about all the things that make this new year feel like the perfect time for growth! Follow Bianca: @dearbiancapodcasrt Follow Saphyx: @saphyxsociety Have a topic you want me to cover or a story to share? Email me: dearbiancapodcast@gmail.com   xx B

Ever noticed how the vibe can suddenly shift when a guy finds out you're gay? On this episode of Dear Bianca, I'm diving deep into the "Straight Guy Shuffle" – that awkward dance they do when their initial interest takes an unexpected turn. From the subtle cues to the more obvious changes, I'm sharing my candid observations on how some men react when their attraction goes from "interested" to "uh oh" just because they find out you're gay - weirdos!  Plus, we're chatting about uncertain stress of the holiday season and sending out happy holiday vibes to all! Oh, and did I mention the exciting launch of Saphyx Society – my elite community for sapphic women? I'll be sharing some of the juicy details on this exclusive club. Follow Bianca: @dearbiancapodcast Follow Saphyx Society: @saphyxsociety Have a topic you want me to cover or a story to share? Email me: dearbiancapodcast@gmail.com xx B

"This is a new light, a new energy, a new chapter" | Bianca is back bitches, and Season 2 of Dear Bianca is about to take you on another wild ride! In this premiere, Bianca dives into the jaw-dropping scandal involving college basketball player Sedona Prince and her tangled mess of exes, flings, and everyone in between. Alex Cooper's new SiriusXM deal for Call Her Daddy - insane. But that's not all—Bianca shares her rollercoaster of a life, moving three times in just a few months. Plus, get a taste of what's coming this season with fresh guests and a mix of sexy and not-so-sexy topics. Welcome BACK to Dear Bianca

Living with an Ex - Lesbian Edition. "How the fuck is everybody doing?" - Join me on a whirlwind emotional journey in this short, but special episode. Living through the aftermath of a breakup while sharing space with your ex can be tumultuous, but here I am diving deep into my feelings, giving you an intimate peek into where my soul is at.I bare it all, expressing the exhaustion and hope coexisting within me. In this quick check-in, I share the excitement pulsating through my veins as I anticipate a fresh start in a space I can truly call my own.Feeling the void of connection, I open up about the yearning to reconnect with my audience - I miss the fuck out of you all! My soul may be tired, but the spark of hope and excitement is undeniable!But wait, there's more! Chicago awaits, and so does the Lesbian Social Club Event! Next weekend, I'm set to embark on a new adventure, ready to revel in the company of friends, forge new connections, and raise a glass to a promising new chapter. I'm inching closer to the threshold of normalcy. Welcome (almost) back to "Dear Bianca," where vulnerability meets resilience, and every ending is a prelude to a beautiful new beginning! 

"I'll be 105 years old on my deathbed telling whoever is standing over me 'don't give up on love'" | LOVERS! Can you believe it's been over a year since we embarked on this incredible journey together? I am beyond grateful for each and every one of you who has supported, loved, and dedicated time to making Dear Bianca the empowering platform it is today. Connecting with all of you has been an absolute dream, and I'm thrilled to see what the future holds for us.In this episode, Bianca dives into the whirlwind of the latest celebrity revelations that have left us all scratching our heads. The spotlight is on Billie Eilish, who, in a recent interview with Variety magazine, dropped a hint about her sexuality, expressing her physical attraction to women. But that's not all—brace yourselves as we unfold the wild and unexpected queer love story involving none other than the fabulous Sophia Bush, who has become entangled in the romantic escapades of professional soccer power couple Ashlyn Harris and Ali Krieger. Seriously, what on earth is happening? I'm convinced no one has a fucking clue. Bianca also opens up about a more personal note – the recent conclusion of her three and a half year relationship. She shares her unique perspective on love, emphasizing the importance of choosing yourself,  human connection and resilience in the face of change. Love takes many forms, and growth often emerges from the unexpected. And hey, before you go, head over to Wetforher.com! They're currently offering a fantastic Black Friday sale with products at up to 60% off. Treat yourself or a loved one to something special—you deserve it.Follow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcast 

"I feel like I've lived a million lives and this is my last life to just do it all" | In this episode, we get up close and personal with  sensational queer singer/songwriter, Lauren Sanderson as she takes us behind the scenes of her electrifying tour, the 'IDC AT ALL Tour'.Hailing from the Midwest, now capturing hearts worldwide with her music journey that began on YouTube. Fast forward to today, and she's not just selling out shows, but she's doing it with a purpose. But this episode isn't just about music; it's about life, love, and self-discovery. Lauren opens up about her personal journey, including the moment she realized she was gay. And for those who have been captivated by Lauren's charisma and talent, Bianca naturally has to ask the question on everyone's mind - is Lauren Sanderson single? What's her type?  Well, you're about to find out.Listen the fuck in, bitches. WELCOME, to Dear Bianca

"To us, traveling is about learning someone else's culture, not imposing ours on them" | We're BACK in the Dear Bianca studio - fuck, I missed you all. Kirstie and Christine, the dynamic duo behind @OnAirplaneMode__ take us on a journey through their extraordinary world of LGBTQ travel influencing. Listen to how they transformed their passion into a profession and learn the insider secrets to turning wanderlust into a thriving career.Get ready for some travel inspiration as they reveal their top recommendation for celebrating Pride and why you shouldn't boycott destinations based on their political views. And yes, we even delve into the intriguing world of the mile-high club! But that's not all. Kirstie and Christine are more than just world travelers; they're changing the world one trip at a time. Find out how they're using their platform to collaborate with brand and countries, all in an effort to raise awareness, educate, and influence LGBTQ policies and legislation worldwide. So, fasten your seatbelts and press play for this free flight with @OnAirplaneMode__!

"With straight women, there's no committment" | We have a very special guest joining us on the show - Sara, my childhood friend and the only lesbian friend from my hometown. We go way back to our travel softball days when we were kids. Sara and I take a trip down memory lane as we recall the moment we realized we were attracted to women. It's fascinating to explore how we navigated those feelings as commitment, trying to make sense of our identities. We even lived together! What a fucking shitshow. The amount of countless stories of the wild adventures we've had - you're in for a treat. Sara has a pattern of really only dating straight women, so we dive into the reasons behind it. She also shares her experience growing up as a lesbian in a Catholic School environment. This is just the beginning of Sara's appearances on Dear Bianca. You can expect a whole lot more as she'll be joining us more frequently in episodes to come. So sit back, relax, and get ready to laugh a whole lot as we welcome Sara to Dear Bianca! LFG.Follow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcastxxB

"I'm in love with a girl who likes to play with my emotions, what's your advice?" | Taylor Swift, Noah Beck, Relationship Mind Games, and The Importance of Kissing - let's dive TF in. Bianca takes the hot seat this week for a solo episode as she answers questions submitted by her followers on Instagram. With Pride Month wrapped up, Bianca also reflects on her experience celebrating pride in New York City this year. Follow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcast xxB

"I can help people facilitate their awakenings with psychedelics" | Bianca is in Los Angeles this episode to connect with beautiful soul, Iris Dailey. Known for her unique perspective on life and the profound impact of psychedelics, Iris takes us on a deeply personal journey of self-discovery and healing.In this candid and vulnerable conversation, Iris shares never-before-told stories of the emotional and mental abuse she endured as a child. Through her remarkable strength and resilience, Iris emerged from these dark experiences, finding solace and transformation in the realm of psychedelics. Exploring how and why she welcomed these substances into her life as a teenager, Iris unveils the profound impact they had on her spiritual journey. But, it doesn't stop there - Iris and Bianca dive into Iris' music career and of course.... her dating life. How does she identify? What's her type? Tune TF in to find out. Welcome to Dear Bianca :)Follow Iris on TikTok & Instagram: @irisdaileyyFollow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcast xxB

Let's dive into the latest Netflix sensation, 'The Ultimatum: Queer Love,' dissecting each couple's journey with our own unique perspectives and sharing our unfiltered opinions. Follow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcastxxB

"I fucking ripped apart every single letter that she ever wrote me" | Get ready, folks, because Bianca is back and she's bringing the heat in this one! Today, she's diving headfirst into a topic that's sure to stir up some controversy: should you keep gifts and letters from your ex? Should you hold on to those sentimental trinkets that remind you of a past love, or is it time to get that shit out of your life? Bianca also takes a moment to spill the tea on the new season of everyone's new favorite Netflix show, "The Ultimatum: Queer Love." With June officially kicking off Pride Month, she's celebrating like a boss and bringing all the queer love vibes to your eardrums. So, grab your headphones, turn up the volume, and get ready to dive into this one. Happy MF Pride Month, bitches! Follow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcastxxB

"Heterosexuals sin just as much as we do" | Being gay and having to go to church is kind of weird. Bianca touches on the challenges of finding acceptance in a community that traditionally condemns homosexuality. Pride Month is around the MF corner, bitches. Where can you find Bianca at this year's celebrations? Let's get into. Follow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcastxxB

"I would have lived what I thought was the perfect American dream because I cared so much about what other people thought about me." | Well-known in the queer TikTok world for her "Are You Gay?" videos, Lindsay Perrin shares her journey as a gay woman who was married to a man for nine years. She opens up about the challenges of living a life that didn't feel true to herself, and how coming out and divorcing her husband allowed her to feel more alive and authentic than ever before. From happiness and love to breakups, divorce, and navigating new sexual experiences, Lindsay and Bianca discuss it all in this candid and inspiring conversation. Buckle up for a wild one. Follow Lindsay on TikTok & Instagram: @laperrin10Follow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcast 

"And at that moment, I did not want to fuck Harry Styles" | She's insanely funny, fashion-forward, and newly single - it's MF, Georgia Bridgers. Georgia started her social media journey as quite the YouTube star, but has also recently become a TikTok sensation. On this episode of Dear Bianca, Georgia shares the moment she realized she was no longer bisexual + never-shared details about her recent breakup, and so much more. This is an episode you don't want to miss, so listen tf in. Follow Georgia on TikTok: @georgialynnroseFollow Georgia on Instagram: @georgiabridgersFollow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcast xxB

"I will address this here once and for all, so everybody can calm the fuck down" | Do you think posting your significant other on social media validates your relationship? Does your boyfriend or girlfriend get upset if you don't post them? + Bianca addresses questions that have been thrown at her recently, providing the clarity these people may need to carry on. Let's get into it, welcome to Dear Bianca . February Partnership: Wet For Her. Visit http://wetforher.com & use code: BIANCA10 at checkout on your order of $85 or more. Follow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcast xxB

"Get out of your comfort zone" | Happy MF Valentine's Day, bitches. In this week's episode we talk a whole lot about sex. I sit down with Alice Derock - founder of the queer sex toy company, Wet For Her. Alice sheds light on many thought-about, but rarely spoken about topics. Sit back, relax and listen tf in.February Partnership: Wet For Her. Visit http://www.wetforher.com & use code: BIANCA10 at checkout on your order of $85 or moreFollow Wet For Her on TikTok & Instagram: @wetforherFollow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcastxxB

"What you see with the human eye is unreal" | Bianca is off to the beautiful islands of Turks and Caicos. This is a super short and sweet episode, a quick check in with the Dear Bianca fam. Full episodes are scheduled to resume next week on February 14th! February Partnership: Wet For Her. Visit wetforher.com & use code: BIANCA10 at checkout on your order of $85 or more. Enjoy bitches, have fun. Follow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcast xxB

On this weeks episode, Bianca gets real and vulnerable. She shares the current reality of her life. This episode is short and sweet, but a powerful and important episode that Bianca wants everyone to hear. Take time for yourself and recognize when it's time to reset. xxB

"Who the fuck cares" | Bianca is back for another solo episode. People are loving these solo episodes, so turn it the fuck up and listen in. Bianca touches on a bunch of random shit like why Valentine's Day is overrated. She also answers the questions you submitted to her on Instagram. As a lovely example, "How do you make a girl squirt"? In addition, Bianca gives her perspective on how to let go of a relationship and why your energy with another human being means more than their sexual orientation. Enjoy, lovers. Follow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcast xxB

"It was hard for me to truly accept that I was transgender" | Liam Lazore is a Transgender Man . When did he know he was trans? How did he come out to his parents? What surgeries has he gotten so far? What d*ck size has he committed to for his bottom surgery? He shares it all on this episode of Dear Bianca. Oh, he also admits that Bianca is his 'type'. How honored am I?! I've learned a fuck ton this episode, so will you. Enjoy, bitches! Follow Liam on TikTok: @liamlaz23Follow Bianca on TikTok: @dearbiancapodcast xxB

"In every relationship with a man, I felt like I was suffocating" | Singer-songwriter, Manda Malina was once bisexual, but officially identifies as a lesbian. In this episode, she brings us through what her queer journey looked like and why dating women is just...better tbh. Manda who was born in Sweden, now resides in Los Angeles and is pursuing music full-time. Her voice is amazing, her songs are explicit, and we're here for it all. Listen to her latest viral single, 'her ocean' (FYI - not a song you listen with your parents) - ENJOY BITCHES! Follow Manda on TikTok: @mandaamalinaFollow Bianca on TikTok: @dearbiancapodcastxxBThis is a virtual recording, audio quality may be altered. 

"It's a reality show playing out on social media" | The drama continues. JoJo Siwa and Avery Cyrus call it quits. Soph Mosca and Avery have rekindled and are going on a trip to Europe?! What the f**k is happening. Miley Cyrus has asked FLETCHER to perform at her annual New Years Eve Party. 2023 is around the corner bitches, are you ready? Follow Bianca on TikTok: @dearbiancapodcastxxB

"I don't want a public relationship ever again" | They're newly single, living in California, friends with Fletcher, on a journey of self-love, and their career is thriving. Alissa sheds light on the intimate moments of their healing journey, post-breakup. They take us back in time to the first crush they had and shares the reality of what it was like to come out to their family. What's their type? What's their biggest turn-on? What's their biggest turn-off? Ask, and you shall receive. Alissa 2.0 is here and ready to play. LFG. Follow Alissa on TikTok: @itsalissabuttFollow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcastxxBThis is a virtual recording, audio quality may be altered.

"She knew it hurt me and she kept doing it" | Have you ever been in a relationship, situationship, or an entanglement with a fuck girl or fuck boy? Listen to Bianca's advice on how to deal with one. Damn does it feel like a never ending shitshow.  Brianna Musco gives us insight into her life as an independent artist. Join her in New York City on January 7, 2023 for her show at Heaven Can Wait (East Village). Her new song, Why Don't You Want Me is out NOW! Follow Brianna on TikTok: @_briannamuscoFollow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcastxxB

"Kehlani, sit on my face" | On this week's episode, Bianca discusses all the LGBTQ-related issues that fans, teams, and locals are experiencing at the World Cup in Qatar. Bianca discusses The L Word + The L Word: Generation Q on the podcast for the first time. We are also looking for clarity on if Dixie D'Amelio actually came out as a lesbian this week. If so, welcome to the MF community babygirl. Let's get it. Follow Bianca on TikTok: @dearbiancapodcastxxB

"Let's talk about something a little lighter, let's talk about Only Fans" | A tech issue causes Bianca to record a solo episode on the fly - no agenda, no preparation. Just you, her, and the mic tonight. Have fun listening to this shitshow :) Follow Bianca on TikTok: @dearbiancapodcastxxB

“In 2011 to be exact, Bianca was in my bed” | With over a quarter of a million followers on social, international celebrity makeup artist Jamie Saunders takes us through her journey of building her makeup business empire. She voices how hateful comments on social effect her and why she now avoids posting on TikTok. Jamie and Bianca may have also made out a few times...Follow Jamie on TikTok: @makeupbyjaysaunzFollow Bianca on TikTok: @dearbiancapodcastxxB

"Just the feeling of a man on my body, I can't do this." | Jess Gesto gives Bianca insight into what her experience was like being gay in the military. Jess also takes us through the societal challenges that her and her girlfriend face because they are in an interracial relationship. Follow Jess on TikTok: @jma.reeFollow Bianca on TikTok: @dearbiancapodcastxxB

"I became gay and then the world shut down. So, if that's not the devils work I don't know what is." | Bianca sits down with TikTok sensation, Clara Cox to discuss what her first experience with a woman was like and how it changed her life forever. Clara shares why her relationship with her partner is so special and why a non-limiting relationship works for them. Follow Clara on TikTok: @clarajordancox Follow Bianca on TikTok: @dearbiancapodcastxxB

"She told her husband about me, but I don't know to the depth of what she told him about our five year relationship" | In this episode, Bianca shares intimate details of her first love - a love that was so beautiful and special, but ultimately ended up in devastating heartbreak. Follow Bianca on TikTok: @dearbiancapodcastxx B

"I have silenced myself for years out of respect for her and her family, but no more" | To kick things off here on Dear Bianca, a friend interviews Bianca to give listeners a glimpse into what makes her....her. Bianca shares why she decided to start a podcast, why she was a part of an intensive meditation group for two years, and what coming out was like to her family.Thank you to all of you who are here starting this journey with me. This show holds no boundaries, be prepared for a wild ride :)Follow Bianca on TikTok: @dearbiancapodcast xxB