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Episode SummaryIn this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores why December feels so emotionally intense and why anticipation plays such a powerful role in our thoughts, feelings, and habits. Anticipation is not just psychological. It is driven by the brain's predictive systems that simulate the future long before it arrives.Using findings from neuroscience, including research highlighted in Neuron, University College London, Stanford University, and studies on dopamine and reward processing, Molly explains how imagining the future changes our emotional state in the present. She shows how anticipation can create craving, heighten anxiety, and influence behavior before anything even happens.Importantly, she connects this science to behavior change. When we understand anticipation, we gain the ability to shape our emotional experience, support our habit goals, and build a stronger relationship with our future selves.What You Will LearnWhy the brain is not reactive but predictiveHow the prospection network simulates possible futuresWhy anticipation activates the same regions involved in memory and emotionHow dopamine spikes during anticipation more than during rewardWhy the holidays intensify emotional forecastingHow the brain treats future you similarly to a strangerHow anticipation contributes to cravings, stress, and anxietyPractical strategies for using anticipation intentionally in behavior changeKey Insights from the EpisodeAnticipation is a physiological experience. Heart rate, dopamine, and emotional readiness all shift based on prediction.December amplifies anticipation because the brain is projecting ahead using vivid emotional memories from past holidays.Many habit patterns with alcohol, eating, and spending are anticipatory rather than reactive in the moment.The medial prefrontal cortex becomes less active when imagining the distant future, which explains why future you feels separate.Mental rehearsal activates the same neural pathways as actual behavior and can support intentional change.Anticipatory framing can influence how stressful events are interpreted afterward.Practical Tools from the Episode1. Anticipate the emotional landscape, not the event. Shift from worrying about what will happen to planning for how you want to feel.2. Rehearse your chosen identity. Imagine yourself acting in alignment with your values to strengthen the neural pathways that support follow-through.3. Shorten the distance to future you. Ask questions like:What will tonight's me thank me forWhat does tomorrow morning's me need4. Anticipate urges with curiosity. Recognize that urges are forecasts of relief, not emergencies.5. Create micro anticipations that ground you. Examples include expecting the first sip of warm tea, a quiet step outside, or the feeling of waking up proud the next morning.Studies and Sources Mentioned2023 review in Neuron on the prospection networkUniversity College London study on dopamine release during anticipatory uncertaintyStanford University research on future self representation in the brainStudies from the University of Michigan and Max Planck Institute on dopamine and anticipation2024 Psychological Science study on anticipatory framing and stress interpretation ★ Support this podcast ★
If you're working to change your drinking habits and create a peaceful relationship with alcohol, you're in the right place. In today's episode, we revisit a very special conversation with internationally renowned neuropsychopharmacologist, Dr. David Nutt.This episode originally aired when the podcast was still called Breaking the Bottle Legacy, but the message and insights are just as powerful—and relevant—today.In this episode, Molly speaks with Dr. David Nutt, author of Drink? The New Science of Alcohol and Your Health. The conversation dives into the science behind alcohol's impact on the brain and body, while also exploring how to make more informed, intentional choices about drinking.Dr. Nutt shares:Why he wrote Drink?, and why science must inform our alcohol decisionsThe duality of alcohol: pleasure and poisonHis personal journey with alcohol, including owning a wine bar while being a leading voice in alcohol harm reductionHow using science can help you assess the role of alcohol in your life and your long-term goalsWhy This Episode MattersMolly revisits this conversation as a holiday-season reminder: it's possible to enjoy social events with alcohol while staying aligned with your goals. Dr. Nutt emphasizes the power of planning ahead, staying self-aware, and not drinking alone—core pillars of the Alcohol Minimalist approach.If you're seeking peace with alcohol—not necessarily abstinence—this episode delivers practical insights and validation that change is possible when you lead with knowledge and intention.Resources MentionedBook: Drink? The New Science of Alcohol and Your Health by Dr. David NuttWebsite: mollywatts.comTakeawaysAlcohol is a drug—understanding that fact is key to moderation“Think about drink”: intentionality and self-reflection help you stay in controlYou can challenge past patterns and create a new story for yourselfSubscribe and Share If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe and share it with a friend. And if you have a favorite adjective for your weather report or a show guest you'd love to hear from, email Molly at molly@mollywatts.comLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★
Anither chance to hear last years chat with Susan from Hola Sober Join our free webinar Bossing a Sober Christmas Wed 10 Dec 7.30pm Register HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/bossing-a-sober-christmas/If you're not a Sober Club member please consider making a donation to my justgiving fund https://www.justgiving.com/page/janey-lee-grace-3Ditched the booze and thinking of a new purpose?Join our free webinar – Explore a career as a sober coach Monday 15 December 7.30pmRegister now for the free webinar – its not salesy!https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/ Thinking about 2026 already Join our Setting your intentions 2026 workshop online Friday 2 Jan at 4pm (special guest TBA) https://www.thesoberclub.com/setting-your-intentions-for-2026/The Magnesium Blend I recommend is back in stock, use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489If you enjoyed our recent chat with leading organic hairdresser Tabitha James Kraan Grab a 22 per cent discount on the incredible natural products Use the discountcode JLGSC22 atwww.tabithajameskraan.com Joinus in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.Thought abouttraining to be a sober coach?Whatdoes it mean to be a sober coach ? Monday 15 December Free webinar Registerhere https://www.thesoberclub.com/from-sobriety-to-purpose-2/PLEASE DONATE!Janey has signedup to do a Strictly Come Hospice Dance Challenge to raise funds for RennieGrove Peace Hospice, please check it out, share and donate HEREConnection is key Xmas meet up andlive podcast recording - Join us for a very special recording of the AlcoholFree Life podcast live at Club Soda Monday 8 Dec - my special guests is thewonderful Andy Ramage Youcan come on your own! Try some amazing AF drinks and meet like minded people https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety?Sober Curious?Checkout The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration,connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgementalcommunity online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusivewellbeing contentIfyou want to support the work go to www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThankyou for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIfyou're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this!@janeyleegrace Ditched the Boozeand want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts Jan31-1stFeb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janeyatjaneyleegrace.com Supplementsfor recoveryTheBEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend from Clive – if you use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489…foreverything you buy, a bit goes into our Sober Club giveback fund. If youcan afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Checkout my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollowJaney on social media@janeyleegrace
Send us a textIn this powerful episode of The Sober Butterfly, host Nadine Mulvina sits down with Ash Meredith, an Australian mum, fitness creator, and wellness influencer whose life has radically transformed since quitting alcohol. Ash opens up about her struggles with body image, disordered eating, food noise, emotional drinking, and the constant pressure to “look healthy” while feeling anything but.Ash shares how alcohol quietly affected her digestion, metabolism, mental health, sleep, self-talk, and relationship with food—and how removing it helped her finally feel connected to her body in a healthy, nourishing way. Her journey offers an honest look at what sustainable wellness really means, far beyond diets or trends.Listeners will learn: ✨ How alcohol impacts food cravings, stress, bloating, and body composition ✨ What “food noise” actually is & how to quiet it ✨ Simple, science-backed health habits for more energy ✨ The morning routine that changed Ash's life ✨ Why nourishing breakfasts matter for hormone balance ✨ Tips for better digestion, sleep, and mindful eating ✨ How sobriety can unlock true self-optimization ✨ Practical ideas for navigating social drinking pressure ✨ How to build wellness habits that last (even as a busy mum)Whether you're sober-curious, working on your wellness, or trying to heal your relationship with food and body image, Ash's story is empowering, relatable, and full of actionable nuggets you can start using today.Connect with Ash on Instagram @ashmeredith11 https://www.instagram.com/ashmeredith11/Connect with Nadine on Instagram @the.soberbutterfly https://www.instagram.com/the.soberbutterfly/?hl=enPartnershipClasspasshttps://classpass.com/refer/MQ30HIPH11exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!)Episodes debut every Friday :) Please follow the show and leave a 5 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review! Support the showPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services refereed to in this episode.
In this episode, Molly explores why holiday creativity is far more than a nostalgic pastime. New research highlighted in The Washington Post shows that engaging in creative activities, even at a beginner level, is associated with younger looking brains and stronger cognitive health.Molly explains how creative acts like crafting, drawing, baking and building stimulate multiple brain networks, reduce stress hormones, and support emotional regulation.She connects these findings to childhood holiday memories while discussing why those early creative experiences were neurologically important. Molly also shares how creativity can support habit change by providing a healthy reward pathway, reducing urges, and strengthening identity. The episode ends with simple, low pressure ideas for tapping into creativity during the holiday season.What You'll LearnWhy creativity often feels counterintuitive but is deeply supported by neuroscienceHow creative activities activate the motor cortex, prefrontal cortex, reward system and the default mode networkThe connection between creativity, reduced cortisol, and emotional regulationWhy childhood crafting strengthened attention, fine motor skills and dopamine pathwaysHow creativity supports behavior change and identity transformationWhy the holiday season is a perfect time to reconnect with play and creative explorationSimple, nostalgic creative ideas that help the brain settle and feel groundedKey Ideas from the EpisodeYou do not need talent to benefit from creativity; beginners gain the same cognitive advantagesThe brain responds to the creative process, not the quality of the final productHoliday crafts from childhood created sensory, emotional and learning experiences that supported brain developmentCreativity provides a self-generated way to shift emotional states and manage urgesCreative acts reengage curiosity, novelty and presence, which help the holidays feel richer and less overwhelmingSmall creative behaviors can be a meaningful substitute for less helpful coping habitsPractical Creative Ideas MentionedMake a paper snowflakeTry a salt dough ornamentDecorate a gingerbread house kitMake a single handmade holiday cardPaint pinecones with simple suppliesCreate a photo collage from the yearDo a puzzle or coloring pageTreat cooking as a creative actTry a new recipe or texture-based food projectRelated Think Thursday EpisodesThe Paradox of FreedomNovelty for Habit ChangeDefensive PessimismThe Neuroscience of Mental RestSilence Is GoldenBrain Time: Why the Mind Does Not Experience Minutes the Way the Clock Does ★ Support this podcast ★
If your brain is telling you, “It's the holidays, I'll start in January,” this episode is here to challenge that script. Molly dives into why the belief that we need a perfect time to change our drinking is one of the most misleading and damaging patterns we fall into. In this episode, you'll discover why December is actually the ideal time to begin changing your relationship with alcohol—and how doing so can help you build real-life skills that stick.Drawing from neuroscience, behavior science, and lived experience, Molly shows you how to bypass the perfectionism trap and gain momentum before the new year even begins.What You'll LearnWhy “I'll start after the holidays” is a psychological trapThe science of temporal discounting and how it sabotages habit changeHow to work with your brain's neuroplasticity to make change easierWhy starting now creates more resilient, long-term resultsPractical tools to begin moderating your drinking todayFeatured ConceptsHabit change during high-stress seasonsReal-life application of the Behavior Map-Results CycleBuilding skills in real time vs. waiting for “perfect” conditionsEmbracing discomfort as part of sustainable behavior changeQuote to Remember“If you wait for life to calm down to make a change, you'll be waiting forever. Change happens when you decide it does—even in December.” – Molly WattsLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★
Bonus episode! A Calm Stress Free December - I am noticing how frenzied everything feels, so here are a few FAQ's and tips for an alcohol free December, whether you have been sober for years or its early days, lets make this December calm and happy!Join our free webinar Bossing a Sober Christmas - we will do a deep dive into setting intentions, I will be sharing some NLP techniques that really work to transform your relationships and the family dynamics Wed 10 Dec 7.30pm Register HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/bossing-a-sober-christmas/If you're not a Sober Club memberplease consider making a donation to my justgiving fund https://www.justgiving.com/page/janey-lee-grace-3Ditched the booze and thinking of a new purpose?Join our free webinar – Explore a career as a sober coach Monday 15 December 7.30pm Register now for the free webinar – its not salesy!https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/The Magnesium Blend I recommend is back in stock, use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489If you enjoyed our recent chat withleading organic hairdresser Tabitha James Kraan Grab a 22 per cent discount on theincredible natural products Use the discount code JLGSC22 at www.tabithajameskraan.com Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.Thought about training to be a sober coach?What does it mean to be a sobercoach ? Monday 15 December Free webinar Register here https://www.thesoberclub.com/from-sobriety-to-purpose-2/PLEASE DONATE!Janey has signed up to do a Strictly Come Hospice DanceChallenge to raise funds for Rennie Grove Peace Hospice, please check it out,share and donate HEREConnection is key Xmas meet up and live podcast recording - Join us for avery special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Club Soda Monday 8 Dec - my special guests is the wonderful Andy Ramage You can come on your own! Try someamazing AF drinks and meet like minded people https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for lowcost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzzwithout the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regularzoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work goto www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Pleaseshare, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reachout, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janeyoffers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts Jan 31-1stFeb email Janey for achat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever isthe blend from Clive – if you use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489…for everything you buy, a bitgoes into our Sober Club giveback fund. If you can afford it, also getVit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Check out my new Substack,you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…&The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace
Janey's guest is Suzy Reading chartered Psychologist and author of the book How to be Selfish 7 Steps totaking back your power Buy it HERE https://amzn.to/4rnPS51www.suzyreading.co.ukWe were talking about supplements last week, and to get the B12 et al Use this link https://natureprovides.com/janey(for transparency a bit goes to our Sober Club giveback fund) The Magnesium Blend I recommend is back in stock, use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489If you enjoyed our recent chat with leading organic hairdresser Tabitha James Kraan Grab a 22 per cent discount on the incredible natural products Use the discount code JLGSC22 at www.tabithajameskraan.com Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.Thought about training to be a sober coach?What does it mean to be a sober coach ? Monday 15 December Free webinar Register here https://www.thesoberclub.com/from-sobriety-to-purpose-2/PLEASE DONATE!Janey has signed up to do a Strictly Come Hospice DanceChallenge to raise funds for Rennie Grove Peace Hospice, please check it out, share and donate HEREConnection is key Xmas meet up and live podcast recording - Join us for avery special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Club SodaMonday 8 Dec - my special guests is the wonderful Andy Ramage You can come on your own! Try someamazing AF drinks and meet like minded people https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regularzoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work goto www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Pleaseshare, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reachout, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janeyoffers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts Jan31-1stFeb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janeyatjaneyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever isthe blend from Clive – if you use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489…for everything you buy, a bitgoes into our Sober Club giveback fund. If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Check out my new Substack,you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…&The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace
In this special revisited Thanksgiving edition of Think Thursday, Molly reflects on the transformative power of gratitude—how it can reshape your mindset, elevate your mood, and even improve your physical health. Originally aired in 2024, this episode has become a listener favorite for the Thanksgiving holiday and beyond.With both scientific insight and personal reflection, Molly shares why gratitude is more than a seasonal tradition. It's a practice with real, measurable impact on your brain, your emotions, and your long-term well-being.In This Episode, You'll Learn:How gratitude impacts your brain and supports long-term change through neuroplasticityResearch from Dr. Robert Emmons showing gratitude's connection to greater joy, optimism, and emotional resilienceThe link between gratitude and physical health—lower cortisol levels, improved sleep, reduced inflammation, and stronger immunityWhy a simple gratitude journal can decrease depression and increase happiness in as little as 10 weeksWhat the "gratitude-happiness loop" is and how to use it to shift your mindsetMolly's personal story of loss, healing, and why Thanksgiving is an especially meaningful time for reflectionScience Spotlight:Functional MRI scans show that gratitude activates the medial prefrontal cortex, a key area of the brain related to learning, decision-making, and reward processingRegular gratitude practice can literally reshape neural pathways, strengthening more positive emotional responses over timeKey Quote:“Gratitude is like a superpower we all have—but we rarely use it to its full potential.”Resources and Mentions:Gratitude episode of Live Happier Longer Related episode: The Gap and The Gain, focused on reframing your perspective toward growth and appreciationResearch references to Dr. Robert Emmons' work on gratitude and positive psychologyIdeal For:Listeners dealing with grief, family tension, or emotional overwhelm during the holidaysAnyone interested in how mindset shapes behavior and long-term changePeople seeking science-based strategies to increase happiness and well-being ★ Support this podcast ★
In this heartfelt and empowering conversation, Molly Watts welcomes Deb Gutierrez, a seasoned nutritional therapist and friend of the show. Deb shares her powerful story of surviving a life-threatening health crisis and how it reshaped her approach to wellness from the ground up.Deb's experience with endocarditis and open-heart surgery forced her to surrender control in ways she never expected. Her story offers a vivid reminder of why foundational habits—like moving your body, getting sunlight, and yes, minimizing alcohol—are critical not only for longevity but for resilience.Together, Molly and Deb explore the importance of honoring your body, the long-term impact of nutritional and lifestyle choices, and how to stay connected to your "why" when making change.Whether you're rethinking your relationship with alcohol or looking for inspiration to prioritize your health, this episode delivers hope, science-backed insight, and practical wisdom. What You'll Learn:Why foundational habits like movement, sleep, and morning light matter deeplyThe surprising diagnosis that led to Deb's open-heart surgery—and her recovery journeyHow surrendering control became Deb's most empowering lessonWhy "being built for it" isn't just about physical fitness, but mental and emotional readinessHow alcohol fits into a whole-person view of long-term healthWhy your habits today are either compounding problems or investing in resilienceResources & Links:Connect with Deb Gutierrez: www.debghealth.comLearn more about creating a peaceful relationship with alcohol at www.mollywatts.com Featured Quote:“Minimizing alcohol is a foundational health habit—just like sleep, movement, and nutrition. These are the basics that build resilience when life throws the unexpected your way.” — Molly WattsLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★
Janeys guest is Rachel Aceso fromNature Provides, use this link to buy your B12, Natura C, the excellentMountain Blood Rocks and more Use this link https://natureprovides.com/janey(for transparency a bit goes to ourSober Club giveback fund) If you enjoyed our recent chat with leading organic hairdresser Tabitha James Kraan - Grab a 22 per cent discount on the incredible natural products Use the discount code JLGSC22 at www.tabithajameskraan.com Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.Thought about training to be a sober coach?What does it mean to be a sober coach ? Monday 24 November Free webinar Register here https://www.thesoberclub.com/from-sobriety-to-purpose-2/PLEASE DONATE! Janey has signed up to do a Strictly Come Hospice DanceChallenge to raise funds for Rennie Grove Peace Hospice, please check it out,share and donate HEREConnection is key Xmas meet up and live podcast recording - Join us for a very special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Club SodaMonday 8 Dec - my special guests is the wonderful Andy Ramage You can come on your own! Try someamazing AF drinks and meet like minded people https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzzwithout the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work goto www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and review If you're struggling, always reachout, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts October 18-19, then Jan 31-1stFeb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.comMore Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever isthe blend from Clive – if you use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489…for everything you buy, a bitgoes into our Sober Club giveback fund. If you can afford it, also getVit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Check out my new Substack,you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…&The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace
Send us a textIn this episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, Nadine sits down with Kristen Bear, founder of Creative Sobriety, for a powerful conversation about recovery, self-expression, and the creative rebirth that often follows getting sober.Kristen opens up about her journey from the chaotic party scenes of LA and NYC to a spiritual awakening in February 2020 that marked the start of her alcohol-free life. She shares how the lockdown became a sacred period for healing—rediscovering hobbies, reconnecting with nature, and expressing herself through writing and creativity.Together, Nadine and Kristen explore what it means to pursue a creative life in sobriety, moving beyond traditional recovery narratives, and empowering women to live authentically. Kristen also talks about her upcoming memoir, building her shipping-container tiny home, and the mission behind Creative Sobriety. A fun rapid-fire Q&A closes the episode with inspiration for anyone embracing a sober-curious or alcohol-free lifestyle.Follow Kristen:
In this Think Thursday episode, we're diving into a subject that touches millions of lives — Alzheimer's disease.Molly shares recent, promising research on dementia and cognitive decline while weaving in her own powerful experiences from World Alzheimer's Day at the senior living community where she works.From the beauty of a memorial garden filled with pinwheel tributes to being part of the top fundraising team at the Oregon Zoo Walk to End Alzheimer's, this episode is both science-forward and deeply personal.You'll hear:The latest neuroscience headlines about dementia preventionWhy music, walking, and sleep are powerful brain-protective toolsWhat current research reveals — and why a cure remains elusiveReal-life stories from a senior living community taking actionWhat you can do today to protect your brain and support the causeKey Takeaways:Daily music engagement — especially singing — may significantly reduce dementia risk.Moderate walking preserves brain function and slows plaque buildup.Circadian rhythm regulation is critical for reducing inflammation and memory loss.Alzheimer's is a complex condition involving immune response, metabolism, and brain structure — clearing plaques is not enough.Simple, daily habits — paired with community action — can make a powerful difference.Whether you're thinking about your own cognitive future or honoring someone you love, this episode will leave you both hopeful and empowered. ★ Support this podcast ★
ชวน เชฟทักษ์-นุติ หุตะสิงห เจ้าของเพจ TUCK the CHEF - เชฟทักษ์ มาคุยเรื่อง Ultra-processed Food ให้เข้าใจ ตั้งแต่เรื่องประโยชน์ และผลกระทบต่อร่างกาย การสังเกตฉลากด้วยตัวเอง แนะนำให้รู้จักสารเจือปนต่าง ๆ ที่ใส่เพิ่มเข้าไปในอาหาร ตัวไหนกินได้ ตัวไหนควรสงสัย และแนะนำการกินอาหารให้พอดี และไม่กลัวการกินจนเกินไป ติดตามชมรายการ Eat Direction EP.1 เทรนด์ล่าสุดวงการราเมง https://youtu.be/msHms2gJhdY?si=K3p4rhUwcsHbk3ZO EP.2 กินเนื้อยังไงให้อร่อย https://youtu.be/wxXxxMLz1Wk?si=zNHPiJ0dpYsnbcT5 EP.3 ทำไมกล้าขายไอติมถ้วยละพัน https://youtu.be/PyNIbT-k4j8?si=2dscX5Qk9JPiXokz EP.4 Slow Sake เทรนด์เปลี่ยนวงการสาเกญี่ปุ่น https://youtu.be/HQxmfJYT19M?si=flAnLT56DpLn8tv6 EP.5 เชียงรายกินอะไรดี https://youtu.be/C4l5KNXIjfk?si=q372etymqx5-4ofB EP.6 ปัญหาของอาหารอีสาน https://youtu.be/jxJpJ4n7fz8?si=AJARW0H0Yu-ylpb0 EP.7 ไก่แบบไหนทำข้าวมันไก่อร่อย https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUuQz7Egd_Q EP.8 10 อาหารที่ต้องกินในปี 2025 https://youtu.be/JLcm7LypU3s?si=k_h1BkY1cC94qezW EP.9 เลือกไวน์ยังไงให้เหมาะกับอาหาร https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ehUkng2s2NI&t=21s EP.10 วิธีกินซูชิให้เป็น https://youtu.be/wSpq87KTUWY?si=L8qsdRsojsK-hWFK EP.11 อาหารเชียงใหม่สายลึก https://youtu.be/nw208m1tsQY?si=JPQV5JvNlVhwF7Uh EP.12 เบื้องหลังของ Food Blogger https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pD_HQmYzYDI EP.13 วิธีกินข้าวแช่ พร้อมเครื่อง 40 อย่าง https://youtu.be/4dLSSgF8IAw?si=UfnqEgPTA1KvBXvb EP.14 สอนสูดเส้น และความรู้เบื้องต้นก่อนเข้าร้านราเมง https://youtu.be/VL5U1BGcRKM?si=pHLi_QMO5YdvJyjd EP.15 ขนมปังเปรี้ยวและเปลือกแข็งต้องกินยังไง https://youtu.be/pi2zx5VrJtM?si=yhX_LBDAt7zFyF1d EP.16 คู่มือเข้าใจชีส ฉบับคนอยากลอง https://youtu.be/K591jbc8W-w?si=HjRX0gFbvHywkDe- EP.17 ชานม ชาไทย ชาใต้ ชาชัก ชานมใต้หวัน นมอังกฤษ ชานมฮ่องกง ต่างกันยังไง https://youtu.be/ALvszt--PJI?si=nEMEwgx4sv_9MjK- EP.18 แนะนำร้านอาหาร หาดใหญ่เช้าจนดึก https://youtu.be/DoDvqor38AQ?si=5a-Jn4vPikDLh76u EP.19 วิธีดื่มน้ำอัดลมแบบที่สุขภาพจะไม่พังในอนาคต https://youtu.be/KnPQyCLA3WE?si=61rtqSbs_P5V-4H1 EP.20 อาหารเป็นพิษ ออกฤทธิ์หลังจากกินกี่ชั่วโมง และอีกหลายคำถามเรื่อง Food Safety กับ เชฟทักษ์ https://youtu.be/nePzNbKjJkY?si=F12pBMky_rDL-j3l EP.21 ทำไมคนไทยไม่ชอบให้ใคร ว่าอาหารไทยไม่อร่อย https://youtu.be/Wy9hCFMFPMI?si=31_f-6ECLIwJ011W EP.22 ลงใต้ไปเบตง กินหมูย่างทั้งตัวที่หน้าเตา Feat. อารยา และ บิ๊ก อิทธิชัย https://youtu.be/CezFe-Hu2-8?si=JVnFP8luHc_rutri EP.23 ใส่ผงชูรสเท่าไหร่ ใส่ตอนไหน ปลอดภัยและอร่อยที่สุด https://youtu.be/lIOT_nOV118?si=5FJj3hjcsuGTrV6c EP.24 ขนมไหว้พระจันทร์ผสมอะไร ถึงเก็บได้หลายเดือนสมัยไม่มีตู้เย็น https://youtu.be/0EOuPKAsOps?si=aA-c_O9aOqpybjzk EP.25 Sober Curious ถ้าไม่อยากดื่มแอลฯ แล้วจะดื่มอะไรดี https://youtu.be/lY1m_ZwA-hw?si=1m5qmuBYbqQwPDWU EP.26 เชฟทักษ์ตอบคำถามจากทางบ้านเรื่อง Food Safety ครั้งที่ 2 https://youtu.be/L50EidWWMKw?si=qlPDf1mweHlNAGnB EP.27 วิธีเลือกและสังเกตปลาคุณภาพดี อัปเดตปี 2025 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NSkwMQr1oCM&t=159s EP. 28 เปิดจักรวาลแกง กับบังก้อง Schwedakong https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOVnDaiRMJc&t=2050s #readthecloud #TheCloud #eatdirection #foodsafety #ความปลอดภัยทางอาหาร #จัดตู้เย็น #เคล็ดลับ #สารปรุงแต่ง #INS #ดูฉลาก #ร้านสะดวกซื้อ #อาหารเหลือ #ครัว #อาหาร #มะเร็ง #ถนอมอาหาร #หมดอายุ #สุขภาพ #อาหารเป็นพิษ #เชฟทักษ์ #TuckTheChef #ของดิบ #วิธีเก็บอาหาร #อันตราย #อาหารสุขภาพ #ดูแลตัวเอง #พัฒนาตัวเอง #รีวิว #ความรู้ #UPF #Ultraprecessedfood #Healthy #trend #jiranarong #จิรณรงค์ #เครื่องดื่ม #รายการอาหาร #รายการสัมภาษณ์ #พอร์ตแคส #พอดแคส ทีมงาน กำกับ : ทรัพย์ทวี สมีแจ้ง ครีเอทีฟ : จิรณรงค์ วงษ์สุนทร ช่างภาพ : เมธี สมานทอง , คฑาวุฒิ เผือกสอาด ลำดับภาพ : ชนม์ชนก ธนัสทีปต์วงษ์ , นภาวดี กันยาประสิทธิ์ ควบคุมการผลิต : ชนกพัดชา สินอาษา
Health & Wellness Checklist: https://bit.ly/3uPXhkU If you have ever wondered whether alcohol is helping or hurting your retirement, you are not alone. In this video, Jody shares her honest sober curious journey and the surprising habits she uncovered when she finally stopped treating alcohol as a default and started looking at it with real intention. You will learn why drinking often increases after retirement, how subtle patterns keep you stuck, and the powerful health and lifestyle changes that happen when you begin cutting back. Jody walks through the emotional triggers, the nightly rituals that quietly shape your choices, the impact alcohol had on her sleep, mood, energy, and fitness, and why curiosity became her most helpful tool. Whether you want to explore a sober curious lifestyle or simply get more control over your drinking, this video will give you practical steps, relatable stories, and the mindset shifts that make change feel possible. If you want to improve your energy, mental clarity, relationships, and overall health in retirement, this is a conversation that can change everything. #retirement_transformed #retirementcouple #retirement BUY MARK'S BOOK! The Evolving Man: Life Virtues Men Don't Talk About USEFUL FINANCIAL TOOLS https://geni.us/new_retirement Use this link for a FREE 14 Day Trial! [Get the FREE Downsizing Guide] How to prepare to downsize your home CONNECT: Engage in our Free Facebook Community ✔️ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/retirementtransformed ✔️ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/retirementtransformed ✔️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/retirementtransformed ✔️ Amazon Shop: https://www.amazon.com/shop/retirementtransformed ABOUT RETIREMENT TRANSFORMED Husband and wife duo, Mark & Jody Rollins, inspire and serve as personal guides to meaningful, transformational journeys for individuals who are planning for, going through or are living in retirement. This is everything in retirement beyond your financial plan. We are not financial advisors or medical experts. Any advice we give is our own and should not be taken as professional advice. This video is for informational and entertainment purposes only. Please seek professional assistance before making any financial decisions or changes that can affect your physical or mental health. FTC: Some links mentioned above may be affiliate links, which means we earn a small commission if you buy a product from the specific link. This video is not sponsored. All Content and video segments are the copyright and owned by ©Retirement Transformed and cannot be used without permission.
In this inspiring episode, Molly welcomes special guest Jillian Fontana, a certified sommelier and founder of Mod Elixirs, a new line of thoughtfully crafted alcohol-free beverages. Jillian shares her personal journey from being fully immersed in the wine and hospitality industry to re-evaluating her relationship with alcohol—all while staying true to her passion for wine and food.Through their conversation, Molly and Jillian explore what it means to be an alcohol minimalist even when you're deeply connected to the beverage industry. Jillian's story offers a powerful example of how we can rewrite our beliefs about alcohol, prioritize our well-being, and still celebrate the joy of tasting and pairing in a new way.What You'll Learn in This Episode:How Jillian's professional identity as a sommelier intersected with her personal struggle around overdrinkingThe subtle but important difference between alcohol moderation and alcohol minimalismWhy redefining rituals and routines around alcohol is a key part of long-term changeHow Jillian used her industry experience to develop Mod Elixirs, a brand-new line of alcohol-free elixirsPractical ways to incorporate mindful drinking while honoring your passion for food, wine, and connectionAbout Jillian Fontana:Jillian is a certified sommelier with a background in high-end restaurants in Boston and New York. After becoming a mother and noticing the increasing role alcohol played in her daily life, she began rethinking her habits and redefining her relationship with drinking. Drawing on her deep knowledge of flavor and pairing, she launched Mod Elixirs—a brand dedicated to crafting complex, delicious, non-alcoholic beverages for those who want a new way to celebrate.Resources & Links:Learn more about Mod Elixirs: Mod Elixirs WebsiteConnect with Jillian Fontana on Instagram: @modelixirsMolly's book: Breaking the Bottle LegacyJoin the Alcohol Minimalist community: Facebook GroupLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★
Lorraine Mc Donnell is an accomplished entrepreneur,Bestselling Author of I am Lorraine, Keynote Speaker, and Well-Being Consultant dedicated to empowering individuals to discover their inner courage. She is proud to be the first combined Sundoor Firewalking Instructor and Level 2 Wim Hof Method Instructor in the UK. If you enjoyed last weeks chat with leading organic hairdresser Tabitha James Kraan Grab a 22 per cent discount on the incredible natural products Use the discount code JLGSC22 at www.tabithajameskraan.com Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.Thought about training to be a sober coach?What does it mean to be a sober coach ? Monday 24 November Free webinar Register here https://www.thesoberclub.com/from-sobriety-to-purpose-2/PLEASE DONATE!Janey has signed up to do a Strictly Come Hospice Dance Challenge to raise funds for Rennie Grove Peace Hospice, please check it out, share and donate HEREConnection is key Xmas meet up and live podcast recording - Join us for a very special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Club Soda Monday 8 Dec - my special guests is the wonderful Andy Ramage You can come on your own! Try some amazing AF drinks and meet like minded people https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work go to www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts October 18-19, then Jan 31-1stFeb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend from Clive – if you use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489…for everything you buy, a bit goes into our Sober Club giveback fund. If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace
In this Think Thursday episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly explores how visual triggers—those subtle, often overlooked cues in your environment—powerfully influence your behavior. Whether it's a bottle on the counter, a glowing screen, or a browser tab, your brain is constantly scanning for shortcuts and responding to what it sees.Drawing on neuroscience and habit psychology, Molly explains why visual input is processed faster than any other sense and how it becomes tightly linked with repetitive behaviors. More importantly, she offers practical strategies to reduce unwanted visual cues and introduce new ones that support the behaviors you want to reinforce.This episode is for anyone curious about how to work with their brain—not against it—to build healthier, more intentional habits.What You'll Learn:Why your brain processes visual information in just 13 millisecondsHow visual cues trigger automatic behaviors—even before you're aware of themWhat “cue reactivity” is and how it affects desireHow dopamine gets released in anticipation of a reward, not afterReal-world examples of visual triggers you might not be noticingTwo powerful strategies for managing your visual environment intentionallyHow visual design can help you create new habits with less frictionPractical Strategies from the Episode:Remove Visual Triggers You Don't WantClear counters, put items in drawers, reduce sensory reminders of unwanted habits“Out of sight, out of mind” is more than a phrase—it's a cognitive toolAdd Visual Cues for Behaviors You Want to ReinforcePlace journals, shoes, or water bottles in visible spots tied to your goalsUse sticky notes or phone screensavers with thought prompts or affirmationsReady to Take the Next Step?Explore Molly's Drink Less Success 30-day self-starter program—grounded in neuroscience and designed to help you rewire your habits through simple, daily actions. Find the link in the show notes or visit mollywatts.com to learn more.Connect with Molly:Email: molly@mollywatts.comWebsite: mollywatts.comFacebook Group: Alcohol MinimalistInstagram: @alcoholminimalist ★ Support this podcast ★
Episode Summary:In this timely revisited episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly dives deep into the topic of binge drinking—what it is, how it affects your brain, and most importantly, how to avoid it. In the spirit of No Binge November, Molly reflects on the broader implications of binge behavior across all areas of life, not just alcohol. She challenges long-held assumptions, shares science-backed insights, and offers both mindset shifts and practical tools to help you reduce or eliminate binge episodes.Whether you've ever thought, “I'm not a binge drinker,” or you've struggled with black-and-white thinking like, “Once I start, I can't stop,” this episode provides clarity, context, and encouragement to build a more peaceful, mindful relationship with alcohol.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why binge drinking might look different than you thinkThe scientific definition of binge drinking from the NIHHow higher ABV drinks can quietly turn moderate drinking into binge drinkingThe impact of binge drinking on your brain and behaviorMindset patterns that contribute to binge episodesTools and strategies to help you stay mindful and break the cycleKey Takeaways:Binge drinking isn't just about getting sloppy drunk—it can be more subtle, and many daily drinkers may unknowingly meet the criteria.A typical IPA may pack more alcohol than you realize, impacting your overall intake more than expected.Mindset plays a powerful role—believing "I just can't stop" can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.The goal of being an alcohol minimalist inherently means avoiding binge episodes and embracing calm, controlled drinking habits.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★
Janey hosted an exclusive Sober Club Q and A on skincare and haircare and here is an opportunity to hear Janey chat to leading organic hairdresser Tabitha James Kraan Grab a 22 per cent discount on the incredible natural products Use the discount code JLGSC22 at www.tabithajameskraan.com Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.Thought about training to be a sober coach?What does it mean to be a sober coach ? Monday 24 November Register here https://www.thesoberclub.com/from-sobriety-to-purpose-2/PLEASE DONATE!Janey has signed up to do a Strictly Come Hospice Dance Challenge to raise funds for Rennie Grove Peace Hospice, please check it out, share and donate HEREConnection is key Xmas meet up and live podcast recording - Join us for a very special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Club Soda Monday 8 Dec - my special guests is the wonderful Andy Ramage You can come on your own! Try some amazing AF drinks and meet like minded people https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzzwithout the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work go to www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts October 18-19, then Jan 31-1stFeb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend from Clive – if you use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489…for everything you buy, a bit goes into our Sober Club giveback fund. If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace
Welcome back to a revisited edition of Think Thursday from the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast. These Thursday episodes are all about understanding your brain, challenging outdated thought patterns, and using neuroscience to support real, lasting change in your relationship with alcohol.This week, we're bringing back one of the foundational Think Thursday conversations: The Privilege of Self-Improvement. Whether you're hearing it for the first time or coming back for a refresh, this episode is especially relevant as we approach the end of the year and the start of the holiday season.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why self-improvement isn't a burden, but a privilege uniquely available to humansThe role of your prefrontal cortex in planning, reflection, and long-term behavior changeHow to shift out of the “start over in January” mindset and build momentum nowWhy changing your drinking habits is an act of personal development, not punishmentThe neuroscience behind why your brain can work for you—or against you—and how to make it your allyWhy This Episode Still Matters:Too often, people think change has to wait until a new year, a clean slate, or a big external motivator. But this episode reminds you that the ability to grow, reflect, and choose new actions is one of the most powerful parts of being human. And that process can start today—right where you are.Key Quote:"The very fact that you're capable of imagining a better version of yourself and taking steps to create it is something to celebrate—not dread."Resources:Read the book: Breaking the Bottle Legacy by Molly WattsFree guide: Alcohol Truths — science-based info to guide your choicesLearn about our core programs: Making Peace with Alcohol, Drink-Less Success, and Proof PositiveNew episodes release every Monday and Thursday. If this conversation resonated with you, share it with a friend or leave a review to help others discover the Alcohol Minimalist approach. ★ Support this podcast ★
When divorce, infidelity, and “just one more drink” collide — the journey back to yourself begins.In this episode of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, host [Your Name] sits down with Jeannette Levitt, mom of four, divorce survivor, and alcohol freedom coach, to explore how she turned pain into purpose — and found freedom beyond the bottle.Jeannette opens up about how casual social drinking became a coping mechanism, why infidelity shattered her sense of self, and what it really takes to rebuild life after heartbreak. Together, they unpack the gray area of drinking, the healing power of awareness, and how self-compassion can lead to lasting change.
Alkohol und Feiern gehören für viele zusammen. Zoé feiert seit acht Jahren nüchtern. Oft erwarten andere, dass sie das rechtfertigt. Ein Psychopharmakologe erklärt, warum Alkohol locker macht. Eine Suchttherapeutin gibt Tipps fürs Feiern ohne Promille. **********Ihr hört: Gesprächspartnerin: Zoé, geht seit acht Jahren nüchtern feiern Gesprächspartner: Rainer Spanagel, Wissenschaftlicher Direktor im Institut für Psychopharmakologie in Mannheim Gesprächspartnerin: Stefanie Bötsch, Suchttherapeutin und Sozialarbeiterin Autor und Host: Przemek Żuk Redaktion: Anna Maibaum, Anne Bohlmann, Friederike Seeger Produktion: Oskar Kühl**********Quellen:IWSR (26. Juni, 2025). Don't blame Gen Z: as challenges persist, younger legal-drinking-age consumers are re-engaging with alcohol.Havas Paris. (6. Dezember, 2023). Stimmen Sie der Aussage „Ich verzichte während der Party auf Alkoholkonsum“ zu? [Graph]. In Statista. Zugriff am 17. Oktober 2025, vonBliznac, M. (2022). “It´s Almost Like Going to a Party with Pink Sequins and an Umbrella on your Head” A Qualitative Research Study on the Experiences of Being Sober (or mostly sober) in the Norwegian Drinking Culture [Masterarbeit]. University of South-Eastern Norway.Myles, C.C., Vander Weil, B., Watson, B., Wiley, D.S. (2023). “Sober Curious” or “Semi-Sober”? An Exploration of the Moderation Movement in the United States as “Trendy Teetotalism” or “Neo-Temperance”. In: Patterson, M.W., Hoalst-Pullen, N. (eds) The Geography of Beer. Springer, Cham.Kraus, L., Loy, J.K., Wilms, N. et al. Altersspezifische Trends des risikoreichen Alkoholkonsums in Deutschland: Parallele oder unterschiedliche Verläufe?. Bundesgesundheitsbl 64, 652–659 (2021).**********Mehr zum Thema bei Deutschlandfunk Nova:Gesundheit: Wie es ist, auf Alkohol zu verzichtenTrinkverhalten: Wie man Freunde auf zu viel Alkoholkonsum ansprichtAlkohol: Wie wir merken, dass wir zu viel trinken**********Den Artikel zum Stück findet ihr hier.**********Ihr könnt uns auch auf diesen Kanälen folgen: TikTok und Instagram .**********Meldet euch!Ihr könnt das Team von Facts & Feelings über Whatsapp erreichen.Uns interessiert: Was beschäftigt euch? Habt ihr ein Thema, über das wir unbedingt in der Sendung und im Podcast sprechen sollen?Schickt uns eine Sprachnachricht oder schreibt uns per 0160-91360852 oder an factsundfeelings@deutschlandradio.de.Wichtig: Wenn ihr diese Nummer speichert und uns eine Nachricht schickt, akzeptiert ihr unsere Regeln zum Datenschutz und bei Whatsapp die Datenschutzrichtlinien von Whatsapp.
In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly explores how your environment—your physical space, routines, and sensory cues—quietly shapes your drinking habits. From the shape of your glass to the spot you sit in at night, environmental triggers can powerfully reinforce auto-pilot behavior.But here's the key: these external cues are not the full story. They don't create your drinking habit—they support it. Real change comes from understanding why you're drinking in the first place and learning to respond to that emotional need in a new way.If you're ready to interrupt automatic drinking patterns and create more space for intention, this episode offers practical experiments and key mindset shifts to help you get started.What You'll Learn:The science behind “cue-induced behavior” and why your brain responds to drinking cues before you even decide to drinkHow physical environments and sensory cues reinforce habit loopsWhy changing your environment won't change your desire—but can support itFive practical, science-based experiments to reduce drinking triggers and increase awarenessHow to use those experiments as a bridge to deeper internal workThe emotional questions to ask when you interrupt a habit loopWhy lasting change requires more than just tactics—it requires managing your thoughtsExperiments to Try This Week:Swap Your Glass – Use a different shape or style to disrupt routineChange Your Location – Don't drink in your usual “drinking spot”Clear Visual Cues – Remove bottles, tools, and reminders from sightSwap the Soundtrack – Introduce new music or lighting to shift moodCreate a Wind-Down Zone – Design a new space for tea, reading, or journaling and anchor it to relaxation instead of alcoholLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★
I will be recommending a sober curious friendly shop for you available in Minnesota. Also, some thoughts on finding the fun in sobriety (in my outro). Enjoy!
Text Me!What really happens after you quit drinking, and how do you rebuild your identity once alcohol is out of the picture?In episode 248 of the Sober Vibes Podcast, I sit down with Sarah Treacy, founder of The Sober Adventure Collective and creator of Sobriety Is the New Epic, a virtual speaker series redefining what recovery can look like. After quitting alcohol in 2020 and leaving her 20-year corporate marketing career in 2024, Sarah's mission is clear: sobriety isn't boring or restrictive, it's your next great adventure.Together, we talk about getting sober during COVID, moving from secrecy to confidence, and building a community that makes alcohol-free living feel expansive, not small. Sarah shares tangible tools for identity shifts, emotional regulation, and creating a life that feels aligned, purpose-driven, and fun.What You Will Learn in This Episode: Quitting alcohol to protect your career and health and what truly happens after you quit drinking The connection between alcohol and anxiety, and alcohol and depression Working through shame, identity, and fear of judgment as a sober curious womanBuilding sober community through retreats and adventure-based connectionPractical quitting alcohol tips for cravings, emotions, and confidenceIf you've been wondering how to step into your new identity after quitting alcohol or you're craving proof that sobriety can be joyful, connected, and creative this conversation will inspire you to see recovery as the adventure of a lifetime.Join HERE for The Speaker SeriesTo Connect with Sarah-Website InstagramPODCAST SPONSOR:This episode is sponsored by Soberlink, a trusted accountability tool for anyone navigating early recovery. Whether you're rebuilding trust with loved ones or want more structure in your sobriety, Soberlink offers a discreet and empowering way to stay on track.Sober Vibes listeners, sign up HERE and claim our $100 Enrollment Bonus.This episode is sponsored by ExactNature, a trusted holistic tool for anyone navigating recovery and sobriety. Use code SV25 at checkout to save on your order. Click here to shop and save.
Congrats if you did Sober October! Now KEEP GOING!Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.Thought about training to be a sober coach?If you missed our webinar on What does it mean to be a sobercoach, dm or email and sign up for the next one Monday 23 November Register here https://www.thesoberclub.com/from-sobriety-to-purpose-2/This weeks special guest is Lizzy Farmer from Tellus-Mater on sustainability and foraging (and her sobriety!) https://www.tellus-mater.co.uk/Connection is key Xmas meet up and live podcast recording - Join us for a very special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Club Soda Monday 8 Dec - my special guests is the wonderful Andy Rammage You can come on your own! Try some amazing AF drinks and meet like minded people https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzzwithout the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work go to www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts October 18-19, then Jan 31-1stFeb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend from Clive – if you use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489…for everything you buy, a bit goes into our Sober Club giveback fund. If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace
Your inner critic: that voice in your head that says, “You're not good enough,” or “You'll never stick with this.” We all have one. But what if there was a way to take back your power—starting with something as simple (and science-backed) as giving it a name?In this episode of Think Thursday from the Alcohol Minimalist, Molly dives into the neuroscience and psychology behind naming your inner critic and how this deceptively small move can have a big impact on your identity, your habits, and your peace of mind.In this episode:Why self-critical thoughts become default neural pathwaysWhat psychology research tells us about the “self-critic sequence”How naming your inner critic creates psychological distance and disrupts habit loopsThe brain science behind identity-based changeWhat to do when your critic shows up (including journaling prompts and self-compassion techniques)You'll also hear how Molly uses the phrase “Old Molly” to talk back to her own inner critic—and how this practice can create space for a new self to emerge.This is your brain's inner dialogue—rewired for growth.Resources Mentioned:Work of Dr. Kristin Neff on self-compassionIdentity-based habits from James ClearPsychology research on emotion naming and self-criticismDialogical Self TheoryYour Think Thursday Challenge:Choose a name for your inner criticSpeak to it with awareness and intentionJournal about the shifts you noticeYou're not trying to silence the voice—you're learning how to lead it. And that's how you move from reaction to intention, and from habit to identity.Subscribe to the Alcohol Minimalist for more episodes like this. And if this resonated with you, share it with someone who's working on self-talk and habit change.Until next time—choose peace, and choose good thoughts. ★ Support this podcast ★
主播:Flora(中国)+ Maelle(法国) 音乐:Comfortable今天我们要探讨一个非常有趣的话题,那就是当前饮酒文化(alcohol culture)的一个全球趋势(a trend around the world)。01. A Review of France's Drinking Culture 法国饮酒文化回顾��法国的饮酒文化是怎样的呢?是不是也像中国一样,把它看成一种社交的方式甚至是社交技能呢?In France, alcohol — especially wine — is very embedded in the culture (在文化中根深蒂固).在上一期葡萄酒品酒的节目里,主播Maelle就曾提到过:在法国,人们吃午餐、晚餐的时候可能会小酌一杯,比较casual(随意)。In France, it's not just for parties, but also part of meals, family gatherings (家庭聚餐), and even casual conversations (随意的谈话). It's seen as something sophisticated and almost expected (大家认为很有格调,同时这也已经成为一个约定俗成的习惯了).02. What is “Sober Curious”? 什么“戒酒好奇”?现在的年轻人,他们有一种叫做“sober curious”的说法。More and more young people are starting to ask themselves: what if I just... didn't drink (我不喝酒又能怎样呢)? This is where the “sober curious” movement has kind of been growing.Sober curious:直译是“戒酒好奇”或“戒酒尝试”。它的意思不是绝对不碰酒(not necessarily quitting forever),而是有意识地去思考酒在自己生活中的位置,还有是否需要切断迫于社交压力的饮酒。从字面理解的话,sober curious就是“出于好奇想尝试一下没有酒自己会过得怎么样”。03. Why is This Trend Growing? 为什么“Sober Curious”的趋势在增长?当下的年轻人很“惜命(value their well-being)”。They put emphasis (重视) on mental health (心理健康). They care more about quality of life (生活质量), healthy eating and good sleep. 在这种情况下,他们开始思考:喝酒,还有必要吗?并且,现在生活成本(cost of living)也越来越高了,健康文化(wellness culture)已经成为mainstream(主流)了,不宿醉的清晨(hangover-free mornings)也开始流行了。Hangover是“宿醉”的意思,hangover-free mornings就是“不宿醉的清晨”。Social media is playing a role too — people want to feel and look healthy.04. The Impact of the “Sober Curious” “戒酒好奇”带来的影响After the rise of “sober curious”, nightlife is evolving! 无酒精酒吧(sober bars)、戒酒节(alcohol-free festivals),餐厅还推出了特调无酒精鸡尾酒菜单(mocktail menus at restaurants)。You can stay sober and healthy while still being social — it's just so perfect for young people!之前不喝酒会觉得很难融入、有点不合群,但现在这波年轻人有了一种很强的自我意识和拒绝集体压力的一种精神状态。Being sober is seen as empowered and intentional.Empowered:表示“一种内在的自信和掌控感”。Intentional:“有意识的”,在这里指的是“有自我意识的”。But new things always come with challenges. There's real social pressure (社交压力) to drink. 人们担心自己会被left out(冷落),或者没有酒的派对就不好玩了。 社会留下来的习惯在短时间内很难完全改变。In Europe, especially places like France or the UK, alcohol is very normalized (常态化的,司空见惯的). People start drinking at a younger age, and it's just expected in most social settings (社交场合).但是主播Flora观察发现,她身边的年轻人很少有经常喝酒的了,所以sober curious or non alcohol trend好像是全球统一了。Statistics are showing that heavy drinking (酗酒) is decreasing (减少). 取而代之的是drinking less (少喝) 或者completely stopping (直接不喝)。So the younger generation in both East and West is changing that. 05. Personal Views on Alcohol 两位主播对于“酒”的个人看法��主播Maelle:She personally doesn't drink alcohol anymore. She likes dancing and going out once a while with friends. 在聚会上也她也能轻松跳过喝酒环节 (skip the drinking part)。因为梅莉不喝酒,所以她就成了那个designated driver(特定的司机),专门负责送朋友回家。��主播Flora:For sort of alcohol curiosity (出于对酒的好奇), she has actually tried beer and wine before. But after a few tries, she realized they're really not as good as people say. 她对酒的味道(the taste of alcohol)并不“感冒”,所以在那之后她就没再尝试过了。幸运的是,她的朋友也不喝酒,所以她没有什么“社交压力”。Being “sober curious” also can make us reflect: What do I actually enjoy? 哪个部分只是习惯或迫于压力(What part is just habit or pressure? )?不管你是否喝酒,重要的是你的选择、你的想法,所以去做你觉得真正对的事情吧!
In this episode of the Nutritional Therapy and Wellness Podcast, host Jamie Belz, FNTP, MHC sits down with Kristin Rowell, JD, FNTP, PHWC—former trial lawyer, marathon runner, and professional bodybuilder turned Functional Nutrition Coach, Energetic Healer, and Spiritual Advisor to executives, professionals, and other high-performing humans. Kristin is the founder of Energetically Efficient and co-owner of Discover Strength Nashville, where she helps clients align their physiology and frequency to live with power, clarity, and purpose. Together, Jamie and Kristin take an unfiltered look at alcohol, health, and consciousness—from the cultural normalization of drinking to the biological, emotional, and spiritual toll it quietly takes. They explore: How alcohol impacts each of the Foundations of Health—digestion, blood sugar regulation, nutrient density, sleep, stress, movement, and hydration.. Why your liver halts everything to process alcohol first—and what that means for fat metabolism, detoxification, and hormonal balance. How alcohol damages gut integrity and microbiome diversity, disrupts circadian rhythm, and amplifies inflammation in the brain and body. The truth about how alcohol interacts with stress chemistry, depletes key nutrients like B vitamins and zinc, and sabotages recovery and muscle repair. The emotional and energetic dimension—how alcohol lowers vibration, clouds intuition, and distances us from spiritual clarity and self-trust. Why the "Sober Curious Movement" isn't about restriction or perfection—it's about awareness, agency, and living more fully alive. Spoiler alert: Both Jamie and Kristin have come to the same realization—alcohol no longer serves them. This isn't an episode about how to cure hangovers or find a cleaner cocktail. It's an invitation to step back, get curious, and truly see what alcohol might be doing to your body, your foundations of health, and your life. If you've ever wondered what's on the other side of "normal drinking," or how to live with more energy, alignment, and clarity—this honest, science-backed, and spirit-filled conversation will meet you there Resources Mentioned: Kristin's Podcast - "Alcohol and The Body" on The Energetically Efficient Show The Huberman Lab Podcast (alcohol) BOOK: "Breath" by James Nestor Episode 66: SIBO Symptoms and Solutions Distraction Detox Series: Ep 51: Death By Distraction - Rewire Your Rhythms, Restore Your Health Ep 52: The Hidden Health Cost of Distraction Ep 55: Distraction Detox - Dizzy Busy and Dying Inside Ep 56: Distraction Detox - Cluttered Spaces, Cluttered Brains Ep 57: Distraction Detox - THE MONSTER (Jamie's Favorite) Ep 58: Distraction Detox - Live Immediately Episode 46: Wellness 101 - A Common Sense Approach Episode 31: Cold Turkey - From Overwhelmed to Unstoppable Episode 29: Quick Tips for Blood Sugar Regulation Episode 28: Blood Sugar 101 - Hope for Reversing Pre- and Type II Diabetes Episode 24: The Challenge of Leading Yourself Episode 21: STRESS!!! How It Impacts Your Brain and Body Episode 19: Habit Stacking and Biohacking (WITH KRISTIN!) Episode 4: Bio-Individuality - A Freedom You've Never Known Episode 3: The MIssing Piece - From Mom to MD Episode 2: Reverse the Trend of Preventable Poor Health Episode 1 The Nutritional Therapy Association Please subscribe! Give us 5-Star reviews. Comment directly to us on Spotify.
Episode Summary: As we close out More Sober October, Molly invites you to reflect not just on how many drinks you had—or didn't have—but on who you became along the way. This episode brings the month's theme full circle, offering a powerful emotional close and a neuroscience-backed perspective on identity change.Molly revisits the month's key concepts, including identity scripts, neuroplasticity, and casting “votes” for the kind of person you want to become. You'll hear encouragement to look beneath the surface of your habits and recognize the deeper shifts that may already be taking place.Whether October went exactly to plan—or not even close—this episode is a celebration of your progress, your resilience, and your values in action.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why change often feels subtle—and how that's a sign it's workingHow repetition rewires the brain and reshapes identityJames Clear's insight on identity-based habits and casting votesWhy you don't need to be perfect to be proudHow to create a powerful future-focused reflection practiceTry This Practice: Write a short letter to your “future you” with these prompts:This is what I've learned about myself…This is what I want you to remember next time it gets hard…This is what I'm proud of from More Sober October…This is what I know is possible for you…Bonus Reminder: Change isn't just about what you believe. It's about what you remember. Document your growth and create a breadcrumb trail for the future you to follow.Next Steps: Join Molly for No-Binge November, featuring the Just One More? Rewiring the Binge Brain course. For just $39, you'll receive lifetime access plus two live group coaching calls. Sign up here. Connect with Molly:Website: www.mollywatts.comInstagram: @alcoholminimalistFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/alcoholminimalistsLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★
Janey addresses some frequently asked questions about the early days of sobriety, and then shares some tips from her recent blog - Your sober boost, offering reminders and tips for selfcare in sobrietyJoin us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection. Thought about training to be a sober coach?Free webinar What does it mean to be a sobercoach,sign up for Monday 24 November Register here https://www.thesoberclub.com/from-sobriety-to-purpose-2/Connection is key Join me for an ultimate selfcare retreat at Homefield Grange Spa 24-26 October Nov 9th come to Ayewrite Glasgow I'm talking about the new edition of Happy Healthy Sober Xmas meet up and live podcast recording - Join us for a very special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Club Soda Monday 8 Dec - my special guests is the wonderful Andy Rammage You can come on your own! Try some amazing AF drinks and meet like minded people https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzzwithout the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work goto www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and review If you're struggling, always reachout, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts Jan 31-1stFeb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is theblend from Clive – if you use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489…for everything you buy, a bit goesinto our Sober Club giveback fund. Ifyou can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Check out my new Substack, youcan be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& TheWoo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace
In this episode of Think Thursday, Molly explores the powerful difference between joy and pleasure, and why understanding this distinction matters for anyone pursuing lasting behavior change — including changing your relationship with alcohol.We often use “joy” and “pleasure” interchangeably, but from a neuroscience lens, they activate different brain pathways and lead to profoundly different emotional outcomes. Pleasure is short-lived, dopamine-driven, and external. Joy, on the other hand, is sustainable, meaning-based, and internally constructed.Molly breaks down the brain science behind each, explaining:Why our reward system is wired for instant gratificationHow dopamine can lead to tolerance (and increased consumption)Why joy isn't just felt — it's built and interpreted by the brain's meaning-making systemShe offers five brain-friendly strategies to create more joy in your life — and how these tools can directly support your alcohol minimalist journey.What You'll LearnThe key neurochemical differences between pleasure and joyWhy pleasure tends to fade quickly (and leave you wanting more)The role of dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and endorphins in how we feelWhy joy can be cultivated, even in challenging momentsPractical, science-backed ways to bring more joy into your daily lifeJoy-Building Practices:Savoring – Pause and stretch out positive experiencesGratitude – Practice genuine (not performative) thankfulnessConnection – Strengthen relational bonds in simple waysAligned Action – Do one small thing that reflects your valuesNovelty – Try something new to spark curiosity and attentionMentioned in the Episode:The SPARK acronym from Monday's main episodeInsights from the book Aesthetics of Joy by Ingrid Fetell LeeWhy This MattersWhen you're changing your drinking habits, it's not about removing pleasure — it's about building something more lasting and meaningful. Understanding how to create joy gives you a powerful tool to replace the quick fix of alcohol with something far more fulfilling.Ready to practice joy on purpose? Start with just one idea from today and notice how it shifts your mindset. ★ Support this podcast ★
Send us a textWhat if giving up alcohol wasn't the end of fun—but the beginning of a rebellion? In this facinating episode of Sober & Lit, Susan and Ruby sit down with the vibrant and unfiltered Abby Calabrese—creator of the Alcohol Free Rebellion podcast and Instagram community.From late nights in New York's “work hard, play hard” scene to building an empowered, sober-curious life, Abby shares the real story behind her decision to ditch drinking—and what happened next. Think: awkward social events, the surprising role of THC mocktails, and the messy, magical freedom of her first 100 days alcohol free.✨ Is it possible to feel "lit" without alcohol?✨ Can controversial tools support your sober journey?✨ What does it look like to dance through discomfort instead of drink through it?We go there. And then some.Expect bold honesty, pop culture references, practical tools—and plenty of laughs—as we explore what it really means to redefine fun, reclaim your energy, and rewire your joy without numbing out.If you're sober curious, stuck in the “just on weekends” trap, or wondering if life without alcohol could actually be… better—this episode is your sign to press play.________Here's how to reach Abby:Website: www.abbycalabrese.comPodcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1qNUSaFZnmMEm0NNImFgQpInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/alcoholfreeabby/ Don't forget to follow and subscribe and leave a review! It helps to get the word out that living sober is lit! Listeners have said that our podcast has helped them get alcohol free! Get started by taking a break that feels lit with a Feel Lit 21 Day Break. Click here to find out more: https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/buy-feel-lit-21-sg Join our private community! Connect with the Podcast Hosts:Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/ Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/Follow Susan: @drinklesswithsusanFollow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoachingIt is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.
What does a healthy relationship with alcohol really look like? Dr. Nzinga Harrison, chief medical officer and co-founder of Eleanor Health, joins Natalie to break down the realities of addiction, substance use disorders, and how compassion and open conversations can transform families. With deep expertise in adult psychiatry and addiction medicine, Dr. Harrison shares actionable tools to recognize early signs, navigate stigma, and support loved ones—plus insights from her new book and experience as a parent. You'll learn how to use the powerful CAGE screening tool, why support systems are essential, and how addiction is influenced by both biology and environment. Discover the importance of self-compassion, how to talk with teens, and the value of the sober curious movement. Whether you're reevaluating your own habits or helping someone else, this episode equips you with practical strategies and hope for lasting wellness. Follow Natalie: Website: https://natalietysdal.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntysdal TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@ntysdal Facebook: https://facebook.com/natalietysdal Disclaimer: Natalie Tysdal is a health journalist, not a licensed medical professional. This podcast is informational only, not medical advice.
Episode Summary:In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly explores a powerful and often overlooked question: Can you truly celebrate without alcohol? As we wrap up More Sober October and gear up for No Binge November, Molly dives into the neuroscience behind celebration and what it means to detach joy from a drink.Drawing on personal insight and scientific research, she challenges the deeply ingrained belief that alcohol is necessary for joy, milestones, or connection. This episode is a reminder that true celebration comes from meaning—not from what's in your glass.What You'll Learn:Why our culture ties alcohol so tightly to celebrationHow to redefine what celebration really meansThe neuroscience of joy and how your brain creates itPractical strategies for celebrating without relying on alcoholThe importance of identity in alcohol change workSpecial Announcement:Molly introduces her limited-time course Just One More? Rewiring the Binge Brain—offered exclusively for No Binge November. This $39 course includes:Lifetime access to the course contentA downloadable workbookTwo live group coaching calls with MollyA community of support to help you stick with your goalsThis is a great opportunity for anyone looking to shift their binge patterns and move into a more peaceful relationship with alcohol.Resources Mentioned:Sign up for No Binge November and the Just One More? course: https://alcoholminimalist.thrivecart.com/just-one-more-no-binge-november/To get email updates about upcoming events and coaching, join Molly's mailing list.Connect with Molly:Website: www.mollywatts.comInstagram: @alcoholminimalistFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/alcoholminimalistsLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★
Janey and Susan from Hola Sober chat about their sobriety journeys and the importance of carrying on, its the best thing you will ever do!www.holasober.comJoin us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection - Thoughtabout training to be a sober coach?If you missed our webinar on What does it mean to be a sobercoach, dm or email and sign up for the next one Monday 24 November Register here https://www.thesoberclub.com/from-sobriety-to-purpose-2/Connection is key Join me for an ultimate selfcare retreat at Homefield Grange Spa 24-26 October Family Constellations day Sat 28 November in Herts https://www.thesoberclub.com/family-constellations/Xmas meet up and live podcast recording - Join us for a very special recording of the Alcohol Free Lifepodcast live at Club Soda Monday 8 Dec - my special guests is the wonderful Andy Ramage You can come on your own! Try some amazing AF drinks and meet like minded people https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for lowcost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzzwithout the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regularzoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work goto www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Pleaseshare, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reachout, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coachtraining, our next course starts October 18-19, then Jan 31-1st Feb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is theblend from Clive – if you use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489…for everything you buy, a bit goesinto our Sober Club giveback fund. Ifyou can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& TheWoo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace #thesoberclub #sobrietyrocks
In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores why sometimes not knowing can actually make you calmer, more focused, and more creative. Continuing the theme of counterintuitive brain science, she builds on previous Think Thursday episodes like The Paradox of Freedom, Novelty for Habit Change, and last week's Defensive Pessimism to show how Selective Ignorance helps protect the brain's limited capacity for attention, energy, and emotion.What You'll LearnWhy so many principles of neuroscience and psychology feel counterintuitive at firstHow your brain filters 11 million bits of information every second through the reticular activating systemWhy constant news, emails, and notifications drain your mental energyHow dopamine drives curiosity and why too much novelty burns it outWhat studies show about the benefits of “information fasting” and reduced mental inputPractical ways to practice Selective Ignorance to improve focus and reduce stressKey Quotes“The people who make meaningful change aren't the ones who know the most—they're the ones who filter the best.” — James Clear, Atomic Habits“Sometimes not knowing helps you know yourself better.” — Molly WattsPractical TakeawaysCurate your inputs. Follow fewer, higher-quality sources.Schedule mental quiet. Set “ignorance hours” for digital silence.Replace input with reflection. Journal, walk, or sit in quiet thought.Remember the enough threshold. Progress comes from applying what you already know, not learning more.Studies and Sources MentionedClear, J. (2018). Atomic Habits – Selective Ignorance and focusLevitin, D. (2014). The Organized Mind – The attention economyStanford University and University of London – Research on multitasking and IQKillingsworth, M. & Gilbert, D. (2010). Science – Mind-wandering and happinessPsychological Science (2015) – Information fasting and creative problem solvingDesimone, R. & Duncan, J. (1995). Annual Review of Neuroscience – The biased competition model of attentionRelated Think Thursday EpisodesDefensive Pessimism—How Planning for the Worst Helps You Do Your BestThe Paradox of FreedomNovelty for Habit ChangeThe Neuroscience of Mental RestSilence Is GoldenNeurodivergence and the Brain's Energy Economy ★ Support this podcast ★
You don't have a willpower problem. You have a nervous system problem. In this episode, I'm breaking down the eight principles of self-directed neuroplasticity—how to actually rewire your brain so drinking less stops being a battle and starts becoming automatic. Here's what most people don't understand: You can't change your drinking habits while you're operating in overwhelm. Your brain literally doesn't have access to the circuits required for behavior change when you're in survival mode. Which is why all the rules, commitments, and white-knuckling haven't worked. You've been trying to force change from a state that makes change neurologically impossible. In this episode, you'll learn: Why alcohol use disorder is a stress response pattern, not a character flaw The 5 steps of the stress response (and why recognizing The Wall changes everything) Why shame makes change impossible—and what to do instead The 8 principles that make lasting brain change possible Why short, gentle daily somatic practices work better than dramatic or intense lifestyle changes How to build new habits without fighting the old ones This isn't fluffy self-help. This is neuroscience. And once you understand how your brain actually works, you stop blaming yourself and start solving the real problem. Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL if you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober. Side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking. Want daily updates from me? TikTok: @hangoverwhisperer Instagram: @thehangoverwhisperer Twitter (X): @NotAboutTheAlc YouTube: @hangoverwhisperer Do you want coaching from Colleen on a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question. Your name will not be mentioned on air!
On Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik Chakraborty digs into the choice to stop drinking—not from pressure, but from self-awareness, mental health, and intentional living. Founder Michelle Houston of To Be Honest Beverage Company breaks down the sober-curious movement, social dynamics of not drinking, and why flavor + function (including CBD, 0% THC) are redefining adult beverages. We cover anxiety, habit design, navigating pushback, and building a sophisticated alcohol-free ritual that doesn't sacrifice connection—or sleep. About the guest : Michelle Houston is the founder of To Be Honest Beverage Company, a U.S.-based brand creating mindful, non-alcoholic functional spirits designed for sophisticated, cocktail-like experiences—without alcohol or THC. Her personal pause from alcohol to manage anxiety led to a purpose-driven product line focused on taste, calm, and presence. Key takeaways: The real turning point: Anxiety and low-level depression exposed how alcohol was borrowing from tomorrow—hurting sleep, energy, and focus. Mindset shift: Don't make it about deprivation; add in enjoyable alcohol-free rituals to replace default drinking. Culture is changing: Not drinking is now a spectrum (Dry January, drink less, or 0%)—choose what fits your season. Social navigation: Lead with a simple, confident “I'm not drinking tonight.” You don't owe explanations; sharing your “why” can open real dialogue. Flavor + function win: Adults want taste and a subtle benefit; TBH uses CBD with 0% THC to support calm without intoxication. Design the environment: Align friends, home setup, and work habits to support your intention; remove default triggers. No hard ultimatums: Avoid rigid timelines (“never again”/“30 days or bust”); instead, practice mindful choice every time. Unexpected gift:Time—no more lost mornings, compromised workouts, or decision fatigue from hangovers. Connect with the guest Brand & socials:@ToBeHonestBev (all platforms) Website: https://www.tobehonestbev.com/ (U.S. distribution currently) DM: Message the brand accounts; Michelle will connect from there. Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it's become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty—storyteller, survivor, wellness advocate—this channel shares powerful podcasts and soul-nurturing conversations on: • Mental Health & Emotional Well-being• Mindfulness & Spiritual Growth• Holistic Healing & Conscious Living• Trauma Recovery & Self-Empowerment With over 4,400+ episodes and 168.4K+ global listeners, join us as we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters.
Shadows of Sobriety .. is an honest and moving look at what it means to grow up in the shadow of addiction and still find a way to heal. Author Keith Burton joined the show to talk:What prompted him to write the bookFacing FearsFamily and forgiveness... and so much moreThis story isn't just about pain. It's about perspective, forgiveness, and the strength that comes from facing hard truths Shadows of Sobriety Book To subscribe to The Pete McMurray Show Podcast just click here
The Seattle school board nixed plans to bring back school resources officers. CNBC’s Joe Kernen didn’t pull any punches when confronting House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries about the government shutdown. There’s a new ‘Sober-Curious’ fad gaining steam across Washington State. // LongForm: GUEST: Congressman Michael Baumgartner (R-WA) on the historic Middle East peace deal brokered by the Trump Administration and an update on the government shutdown. // Quick Hit: Stealing from Boy Scouts, fighting for beach access, and swastikas in Issaquah.
Another chance to hear the interview with Tawny Lara onnavigating sober sex.Get the book Dry Humping https://amzn.to/4ny2pQZJoin us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.Thought about training to be a sober coach?If you missed our webinar on What does it mean to be a sober coach, dm or email and sign up for the next one Monday 24 November Register here https://www.thesoberclub.com/from-sobriety-to-purpose-2/Connection is key Join me for an ultimate selfcareretreat at Homefield Grange Spa 24-26 October Nov 1st register your interest for a special retreat day in Herts Xmas meet up and live podcast recording - Join us for a very special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Club Soda Monday 8 Dec - my special guests is the wonderfulAndy Ramage You can come on your own! Try some amazing AF drinks and meet like minded people https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work goto www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts October 18-19, then Jan 31-1st Feb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is theblend from Clive – if you use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489…for everything you buy, a bit goes into our Sober Club giveback fund. If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media @janeyleegrace
This week on Think Thursday, we're exploring an idea that turns conventional wisdom on its head: defensive pessimism. While it may sound like a negative mindset, it's actually a powerful, evidence-based cognitive strategy that helps anxious or overthinking brains perform better, reduce stress, and follow through on goals more effectively.Defensive pessimism isn't about catastrophizing or giving up. It's about anticipating obstacles and using those thoughts to prepare instead of panic. In this episode, you'll learn how this approach taps into the brain's natural tendency to predict outcomes, and how making one critical shift — understanding the difference between prediction and probability — can dramatically improve your results.We'll talk about:What defensive pessimism is and why it worksThe neuroscience of prediction and how it affects your behaviorWhy your brain's “what ifs” might be trying to help youA simple three-step process to start using this strategy todayWhether you're trying to build a new habit, overcome self-doubt, or just want to feel more in control of your daily life, this mindset can help you stop overthinking and start planning with confidence.Want more support? Join the Alcohol Minimalist Facebook group or email Molly directly at molly@mollywatts.com. We'd love to hear how you're using defensive pessimism to create change. ★ Support this podcast ★
Today I'm sharing a powerful conversation from The Period Whisperer podcast with host Bria Gadd. We talk about the hidden link between hormones, stress, and drinking—why so many high-achieving women end up using alcohol as a coping mechanism. You'll hear the truth about emotional sobriety, how the toxic cultural pressure to be “productive” leads to inevitable breakdown in midlife, and why you don't actually lose control of your drinking—you lose control of your thinking. If you use alcohol to quiet your mind or reward yourself for another exhausting day, this episode will shift your diagnosis of the problem so you can start working towards a solution that doesn't require you to stop drinking completely. Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL if you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober. Side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking. Want daily updates from me? TikTok: @hangoverwhisperer Instagram: @thehangoverwhisperer Twitter (X): @NotAboutTheAlc YouTube: @hangoverwhisperer Do you want coaching from Colleen on a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question. Your name will not be mentioned on air!
In this week's episode, Molly dives deeper into the More Sober October theme: Who are you without the drink? If you've ever felt like you're at war with yourself when it comes to drinking decisions, you're not imagining it. Molly unpacks the neuroscience behind this inner conflict and introduces listeners to the concept of our two selves—the automatic self and the intentional self.Referencing Daniel Kahneman's book Thinking, Fast and Slow, Molly breaks down how System 1 (your fast, emotional, habitual brain) and System 2 (your slow, rational, goal-focused brain) influence your drinking choices. This science-backed framework explains why your default drinking habits feel so hard to break and why it's absolutely possible to rewire your brain to make intentional, value-aligned decisions.Whether you're navigating more alcohol-free days this October or simply trying to understand why it's so hard to say no sometimes, this episode offers practical insight and compassionate encouragement.Key Topics CoveredWhy identity and habit formation go hand-in-hand with your drinking storyThe difference between your default (automatic) self and your intentional selfHow Kahneman's System 1 and System 2 thinking applies to alcohol habitsWhy the brain resists effortful thinking and defaults to the familiarHow to start training your intentional self to become your new defaultResources MentionedBook: Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel KahnemanJoin More Sober October with Molly: More Sober October InfoLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★
In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores why the brain doesn't experience minutes the way the clock does. Our perception of time is not fixed—it stretches and compresses depending on novelty, memory, attention, and emotion. That's why childhood summers feel endless while adulthood years can seem to vanish.Molly unpacks the psychology and neuroscience of time perception, including how prospective and retrospective time work, why novelty sharpens attention and stretches moments, and how emotions like fear, boredom, and joy distort our sense of time. She also shares fascinating phenomena like the “stopped clock illusion” and highlights how mindfulness can expand our sense of presence and create richer memories, making life feel fuller and more meaningful.What You'll Learn in This Episode:The difference between prospective time and retrospective timeWhy childhood feels longer than adulthoodHow novelty, memory, and dopamine influence time perceptionHow emotions like stress, boredom, and joy distort our experience of timeWhy mindfulness slows down prospective time and lengthens retrospective memorySimple practices to stretch brain time and savor everyday momentsKey Quote:“Clock time is rigid—sixty minutes is always sixty minutes. But brain time is elastic. Two people can live the same number of years yet experience them very differently depending on how much novelty, presence, and emotion they build into their days.”References and Resources:Eagleman, D. (2009). Brain Time: The Temporal Dimension of ExperienceWittmann, M. (2016). Felt Time: The Psychology of How We Perceive TimeConsciousness and Cognition (2019): Mindfulness meditation and time perceptionPrevious Think Thursday episodes: The Power of Reminiscing, The Science of Awe ★ Support this podcast ★
Today I'm back with Sunnyside podcast host Mike Hardenbrook for a conversation that pops the hood on why willpower isn't enough to change your drinking habits. We talk about what's really happening in your brain and nervous system when you reach for a drink, why your desire to drink has nothing to do with alcohol. Your body craves relief from stress and anxiety and the pressure of everyday life. You'll walk away with the exact, science-backed shifts I teach my clients that make drinking in moderation a natural side effect of feeling more grounded and at ease. If you've ever wondered why wanting to change doesn't stop you from pouring another drink, this episode will show you how to break the cycle from the inside out. Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL if you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober. Side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking. Want daily updates from me? TikTok: @hangoverwhisperer Instagram: @thehangoverwhisperer Twitter (X): @NotAboutTheAlc YouTube: @hangoverwhisperer —Do you want coaching from Colleen on a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question. Your name will not be mentioned on air!
Have a question? Click here. In this episode, we explore the science behind habit formation and personal transformation with clinical psychologist Silvia Subirana. As Head of Content Development at MyDry30, an innovative app designed to help users take control of their relationship with alcohol, Silvia brings unique insights into how we can discover greater meaning, happiness, and fulfillment in our lives to become healthier versions of ourselves.What We DiscussThe science behind habit formation and behavior changeHow hypnotherapy creates new neural pathwaysWhy understanding your "why" is crucial for lasting changePractical tools for intentional living (whether you use the app or not)Moving beyond alcohol moderation to discover deeper meaning and purposeThe psychology of becoming a healthier version of yourselfTarget AudienceThis conversation is intended for those in the "gray area" of alcohol use - people who are sober curious or looking to moderate their drinking.Important NoteIf you suspect you may have a physical dependence on alcohol, please consult with a medical professional before making changes, as stopping suddenly can be dangerous.About MyDry30MyDry30 is more than just an alcohol moderation app - it's designed to help people discover greater meaning, happiness, and fulfillment in their lives while taking control of their relationship with alcohol.Get the Unconscious Moderation App from the Apple StoreLearn More:https://www.UM.appInstagram: @um_app_Nourished Notes Bi-Weekly Newsletter 30+ Non-Gym Ways to Improve Your Health (free download)Connect with Amy: GracedHealth.com Instagram: @GracedHealthYouTube: @AmyConnell
In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly explores how deeply alcohol can become tied to our identity. Phrases like “wine mom,” “party girl,” or “craft beer enthusiast” may sound harmless, but they often reinforce the idea that drinking is part of who we are rather than something we do. Molly explains how self-schemas shape our beliefs, why identity disruption can feel unsettling when you change your drinking, and how to navigate the friction that comes with rewriting your personal story.You will learn about the psychology behind identity labels, the concept of status quo bias, and four evidence-based tools to help you separate fact from story, soothe the discomfort of change, and begin building a future identity that reflects your values.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why cultural labels around drinking can feel like part of your personalityHow self-schemas and alcohol expectancies reinforce drinking habitsWhy change can feel like loss and how to view it as growthThe role of status quo bias in resisting identity changeFour practical strategies to shift your identity and reclaim who you are without alcoholResources Mentioned:Studies on alcohol-related self-concept in Addictive Behaviors and the Journal of Studies on Alcohol and Drugs2015 article on identity disruption in the Journal of Substance Use and MisuseSunnyside app (recommended tool for tracking and building new drinking habits)Want to sign up for More Sober October? Click here.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★