Podcasts about sober curious

Unbottled Potential: From Sober Curious to Sober Serious  As the sober curious movement gains traction, more people are reevaluating their relationship with alcohol and changing their habits. Challenging societal myths around alcohol's role in relaxation, celebration and socializing can result in mindset shifts to begin exploring an alcohol-free lifestyle and discover how sobriety can impact core areas of life and enhance both personal and professional success. Tune in to this episode to learn about: ●       the sober curious movement ●       how sobriety impacts life pillars ●       why alcohol can be a barrier to success ●       perceived norms about alcohol ●       alcohol, sobriety and weight ●       how drinking impacts women in particular ●       how to address shame in a healthy way ●       a quiz to assess your feelings about drinking ●       tips for embracing an alcohol-free lifestyle ●       common challenges and how to stay on track ●       information on moderation, portion sizes, ABV and more Full shownotes, transcript and resources: https://soundbitesrd.com/289            

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly Watts challenges the deeply ingrained belief that we must “start over” any time we slip up in our habit change journey—especially when it comes to drinking. Drawing from neuroscience, behavior psychology, and the Alcohol Minimalist framework, Molly explains why this mindset is not only emotionally unhelpful but also neurologically inaccurate.Listeners will learn how to reframe off-plan moments not as failures, but as meaningful data points that contribute to long-term growth and brain change. Whether it's drinking, eating, spending, or any behavior you're trying to shift, this episode offers an empowering new narrative: you are not behind, you are evolving.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why the idea of “starting over” is a product of traditional recovery models like Alcoholics AnonymousHow the AA concept of relapse and abstinence has shaped our cultural view of success and failureWhy your brain doesn't erase progress, but rather integrates and learns from each experienceHow to shift away from shame and into self-compassion without compromising growthThe role of automaticity in habit formation, according to Dr. Wendy WoodHow the brain builds resilience through “returning,” not perfectionA 3-step process to reframe setbacks and keep moving forwardKey Concepts & Tools:The Iterative Mindset – Growth is not linear; it's a spiral of adjustment and awarenessPause the Narrative – Catch the story you're telling yourself about failureName the Learning – Reflect on the experience with curiosity, not blameMake a Micro-Move – Realign in the moment with one small actionNeuroplasticity – Your brain is always adapting; no step is wastedSelf-Compassion Science – Dr. Kristin Neff's research shows kind self-talk leads to more consistent behavior changeReferenced Episode:Think Thursday: The Iterative Mindset Takeaway Quote:“Let's drop the idea of Day One. You are not behind. You are learning. You are aligning. You are leading your brain—one choice at a time.” ★ Support this podcast ★

Download the Daily Sobriety Toolkit to help you plan your day and stay connected to your choice to be alcohol-free.  Episode 323 Hello, friend!  This episode is one to come back to whenever you feel alone in choosing to live alcohol-free. Whether you're at home watching your favorite show where drinking is everywhere (hello, Real Housewives!) or at a party surrounded by drinkers, your choice to be alcohol-free is a badass one. You're never truly left out when you're choosing what's right for you, and you always have support and community here with me and with other women making the same choice. I'm right here with you. Thank you for listening. If you liked this episode and want to hear more, please make sure to "follow" the podcast and consider leaving a rating and review on Apple or Spotify.  Are you looking for a supportive community to help you enjoy your alcohol-free lifestyle and not feel left out?  Join Team Alcohol-Free and connect with a coach who truly cares (that's me!), weekly online meetings designed for real growth, and a daily support thread that's fun, empowering, and a fantastic resource for midlife women. Join the Team here.    If you would like to work with me privately, please send me an email.    

Click here to watch the full interview with Carley on YouTube In this raw and relatable conversation, I'm joined by one of my incredible clients, Carley — a driven healthcare professional, mom of two, and former daily drinker who once believed her only two choices were to either quit drinking forever or keep white-knuckling it with shame and regret. Carley opens up about what her drinking looked like behind closed doors and the pressure she put on herself to “keep it together” — until it started to fall apart. She shares how overachieving, perfectionism, and people-pleasing became coping mechanisms, and how alcohol slowly crept in as her off-switch. We talk about the moment she realized her mental math wasn't working anymore, the emotional buildup that led her to finally book a discovery call, and what shifted when she heard someone say: “You don't have to get sober. You just have to feel better.” This is an incredibly powerful episode for anyone who has ever felt stuck between drinking too much and feeling like you can't stop completely. Carley's story is proof that emotional sobriety isn't about rules — it's about freedom. What you'll hear in Part 1: The hidden stressors that led Carley to overdrink (even as a healthcare worker who knew better) The fear of reaching out for help — and what made her finally do it The myth of “just try harder” and why it never works The exact moment she realized she didn't have to choose between chaos and abstinence   Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL if you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober. Side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking. Want daily updates from me? TikTok: @hangoverwhisperer Instagram: @thehangoverwhisperer Twitter (X): @NotAboutTheAlc YouTube: @hangoverwhisperer —Do you want coaching from Colleen on a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question. Your name will not be mentioned on air!   

I'm having a conversation with my best friend about our friendship, and our journeys with sobriety and menopause. It's a good one!FREE (OR SUPER AFFORDABLE) RESOURCES:∂ if you'd like to reach out, you can email me at elisabeth@elisabethklein.com or you can visit mywebsite at www.elisabethklein.com episodes mentioned here: ∂ Sober Curious?: https://bit.ly/atts-are-you-sober-curious∂ Peri-menopause & Menopause: https://bit.ly/atts-perimenopause-menopause∂ A Conversation with Erika on Emptying Your Nest: https://bit.ly/atts-emptying-your-nest-conversation-with-friend∂ This Naked Mind by Annie Grace: https://amzn.to/3Hue9nsin a difficult marriage: ∂ if you're not safe or if you or your children are being physically or sexually hurt, please set up a safety plan (⁠https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/⁠)and contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233) ∂ confidential marriage assessment: ⁠http://bit.ly/marriage-assessment⁠∂ 7 Days of Prayer for Your Hard Marriage: ⁠https://bit.ly/7-days-of-prayer-for-your-hard-marriage⁠∂ Surviving in a Difficult Christian Marriage e-book: ⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠∂ Better Way to Stay e-course: ⁠https://bit.ly/better-way-to-stay-marriage-ecourse⁠separated or divorced or single mom: ∂ Unraveling: Hanging Onto Faith Through the End of a Christian Marriage book: ⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠∂ Moving On as a Christian Single Mom e-book: ⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠∂ Heartbreak to Hope divorce recovery e-course: ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://bit.ly/Heartbreak-to-Hope-ecourse⁠∂ all other courses: https://bit.ly/wholeness-courses∂ if my work has been helpful to you in any way, feel free to leave a little tip: ⁠https://www.venmo.com/u/Elisabeth-KleinFisher

Episode SummaryIn this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly dives into one of the most challenging but common scenarios: staying committed to your goals when everyone else around you is celebrating with alcohol. As summer ramps up—bringing with it weddings, barbecues, vacations, and concerts—the social pressure to drink can feel stronger than ever.Molly explores the neuroscience behind our desire to fit in, how FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) hijacks our behavior, and why choosing intentionality over impulsivity can feel so hard—but is absolutely doable. She shares mindset tools, practical planning strategies, and science-backed techniques to help you enjoy life fully without sacrificing your peace or self-trust.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why our brains are wired for social belonging—and how that impacts drinking decisionsWhat Solomon Asch's conformity studies reveal about peer pressureHow FOMO combines scarcity and shame (and how to spot it)Ways to shift your thinking from “missing out” to “building something better”Four brain-based tools you can use to feel more confident at social eventsThe power of novelty in rewiring the brain's reward systemHow to ground yourself in the moment and align with your long-term goalsTools & Concepts Discussed:Play the Movie to the End – visualizing the real outcomes of drinking off-planIf–Then Planning – a simple framework to prepare for triggers ahead of timeDistanced Self-Talk – how using your name can help regulate your emotionsGrounding Techniques – practices to stay present and calm in the momentThe Behavior Map – Alcohol Minimalist's foundational tool for changeNovelty as a Catalyst – why small, intentional changes can shift how you feelIdentity-Based Decisions – aligning your choices with who you are becomingReferenced Think Thursday Episode:“The Brain Loves Novelty—Use It to Reinvent Summer” — a short companion episode on how newness boosts engagement, motivation, and brain health.Mentioned Resources:Drink Less Success: More Dry July – Molly's 31-day email program + live coaching Takeaway Quote:“Peace isn't about perfect behavior. It's about aligned behavior. It's about becoming someone who desires alcohol less—even when the world around you doesn't.”If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone you love. And remember: peace is the goal—not perfection.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Men's mental health June is Mens mental health month, and we have some voice notes, tips and insights from 4 of our Sober Coaches, who trained with me, Tony Worsdall, Richard Fox, Paul Briley and Nigel Harpley Watch this space we will be announcing another series of the free Sober Men Talking webinars too.Interested in training to be a sober coach? If you missed our webinar on What does it mean to be a sober coach, dm or email and you can listen to the audio recording Its the 10th annual Platinum Awards to recognise the best in natural and organic products and one of our sponsors is Noughty AF, Janey chats to Amanda Thomson about alcohol free fizz and its rise to success.Connection is key Join us for a very special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Club Soda Wed 18 June, my special guests are Clare Pooley and The Sober Socialites You can come on your own! Try some amazing AF drinks and meet like minded people July 2nd Penzance literary festival https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/Newto Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work goto www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts October 18-19, email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend from Clive – if you use this ⁠⁠link ⁠⁠for everything you buy, a bit goes into ourSober Club giveback fund If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace  

In this insightful Think Thursday episode, Molly dives into the surprising power of novelty and how it can support meaningful behavior change. While consistency remains a cornerstone of habit transformation, Molly explores how introducing small shifts in your routine can re-engage the brain, disrupt unhelpful patterns, and open new pathways for intentional living—especially during seasonal transitions like summer.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why novelty activates the brain's dopaminergic reward system and what that means for motivation and attention.How neuroplasticity supports lasting change—and why new experiences help strengthen it.The paradox of the brain craving both efficiency and stimulation, and how you can work with this tension to support your goals.Why seasonal changes, like summer, naturally disrupt routines and how that disruption can become a tool for habit change.Key Takeaways:Shift Your Sensory Cues Change what you see, hear, smell, taste, and feel. Rearrange a workspace, change your walking route, or experiment with new mocktails. Novel sensory input breaks habitual patterns and opens the door to mindfulness.Run Mini Experiments Instead of overhauling everything, try low-pressure, short-term changes like replacing your evening drink with a new non-alcoholic option for a few days. Observe how it feels rather than focusing on outcomes.Leverage Seasonal Disruption Use the natural shifts of summer—lighter evenings, altered schedules, and more outdoor time—to gently reframe routines and rewrite old stories connected to alcohol.Mentioned in This Episode:Dr. Andrew Huberman on novelty and neuroplasticityDr. Wendy Wood's work on habit change and context shiftsMolly's “dopamine-driving” summer playlist Final Thoughts: Novelty doesn't have to mean a complete transformation. Often, the smallest shifts provide the greatest openings for change. Use this summer as your mini reinvention lab—a season to experiment with new patterns, and to gently interrupt the old narratives that no longer serve you. ★ Support this podcast ★

The Drinking Habits of Gen Z: Alcohol, Coffee, and the Pursuit of Sobriety In this episode, we dive into the evolving drinking habits of Gen Z compared to previous generations. We explore the reasons behind the decline in alcohol consumption among young people, including health concerns, social media influence, and the rise of non-alcoholic beverages.

If you're drinking more than you want to, but every time you try to cut back it feels like one more thing to do… this episode is for you. Today, I'm sharing the real story that kept me stuck in the drinking cycle for years—the one that has nothing to do with alcohol:

Episode Summary: We're officially halfway through the year, and today's episode is your invitation to pause, check in, and realign. If you're feeling like you've drifted from your intentions around alcohol—or life in general—this isn't about judgment. It's about awareness. Molly introduces a powerful, science-informed tool called the PEACE Self-Audit to guide your mid-year reflection and help you gently reassess where you are and where you want to go.This episode ties back to a recent Think Thursday episode on values alignment and burnout, highlighting how the gap between our professed and practiced values can impact our emotional and physical well-being. Through five thoughtful prompts—Progress, Emotions, Alignment, Consistency, and Expectations—you'll reconnect with your goals and reclaim your power to move forward with peace.What You'll Learn:Why the midpoint of the year is a psychologically powerful time to reflectThe meaning of cognitive dissonance and how it shows up in our habitsHow to use emotions as data instead of judgmentWhy values alignment is essential for lasting change (including a callback to a Think Thursday episode)How habit science supports small, consistent actions over big overhaulsThe difference between expectations rooted in growth vs. shameReferenced Framework: PEACE Self-AuditP – Progress: Recognizing small wins and the “Progress Principle” (Dr. Teresa Amabile)E – Emotions: Understanding emotional states as behavior signals (Dr. Marc Brackett, Yale)A – Alignment: Exploring congruence between values and behavior (Self-Determination Theory)C – Consistency: Anchoring change in repetition, not perfection (Dr. BJ Fogg, Charles Duhigg)E – Expectations: Shifting mindset around what success looks like (Dr. Carol Dweck)Mentioned In This Episode:Download the PEACE Self-Audit PDFThink Thursday episode: “Why Burnout Lives in the Gap Between Your Professed & Practiced Values”Sunnyside App – Start your 15-day free trialResources for Continued Support:Making Peace with Alcohol Group CoachingIf this episode resonated with you, share it with someone you love. And remember: peace is the goal—not perfection.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community.  We're re-releasing one of our most popular episodes—Episode 13: Did Jesus Drink Wine? With Pastor David—because some truths are worth hearing twice. Or ten times. This episode gets to the heart of a phrase many of us used to justify the habit: “But Jesus drank wine.” It's not just the name of our podcast—it was a story that kept us stuck in a nightly-ish drinking cycle. So today, join us in the studio as they welcome a very special guest: Meade's pastor, David Walters, who joins us as our resident biblical scholar to tackle the burning question: Did Jesus really drink wine—and does it matter? David bravely and graciously unpacks this question and so many more, including: What does Scripture actually say about wine and drinking? What does it mean to “take our thoughts captive”? Why is the heart mentioned over 800 times in the Bible—and what does that have to do with the lies we believe? What are false idols, and how do they relate to alcohol or anything else we turn to for comfort? How do we uncover the deeper truth beneath the stories that keep us stuck? And yes… what do kids and CrossFit have to do with any of this? This episode is packed with spiritual depth, practical wisdom, and powerful applications for anyone on the journey to freedom—from alcohol, or anything else taking up too much space in your life. And don't miss the end of the episode—this week's “tiny TINA” might just be the most brilliant yet. Whether you're new to the pod or you've heard this one before, hit play with fresh ears. Because this might be the replay your heart needs right now. #ButJesusDrankWine #FreedomFromAlcohol #BiblicalTruth #FaithAndFreedom #TheMissingPeace #RenewYourMind #ChristianWomen #ReRelease Join our private, small-group coaching space, The Missing Peace, and get BJDW all-community access for free! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/coaching Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind  Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE.   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.  

Alcohol is still big business in America—but the numbers are shifting. From wine to beer to spirits, sales are dropping across the board, and it's not just Gen Z driving the change. Today, you'll hear some surprising data on drinking habits and the rise of non-alcoholic options, and then you'll hear a personal take on what it's really like to give up alcohol. Whether you're wine-loyal or booze-free, this episode dives into the cultural shift reshaping what—and why—we drink.   Join us again for our 10-minute daily news roundups every Mon-Fri!  Learn more about our guests: https://www.theNewsWorthy.com/shownotes  Become an INSIDER for ad-free episodes: https://www.theNewsWorthy.com/insider Get The NewsWorthy MERCH here: https://www.theNewsWorthy.com/merch This episode is sponsored by  Go to zocdoc.com/NEWSWORTHY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince. Go to Quince.com/newsworthy for FREE shipping on your order and 365-day returns! To advertise on our podcast, please reach out to ad-sales@libsyn.com #wine #alcohol #sobercurious #drymovement

June is Men's mental health month, so there is another chance to hear the first interview I did with Sam Delaney author of Mental Health without all the b**llocks and Sortyour s**t out.Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.Thought about training to be a sober coach?If you missed our webinar on What does it mean to be a sober coach, dm or email and you can listen to the audio recording Connection is key Join us for a very special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Club Soda Wed 18 June, myspecial guests are Clare Pooley and The Sober Socialites You can come on your own! Try some amazing AF drinks and meet like minded people July 2nd Penzance literary festival https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regularzoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work goto www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts October 18-19, email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend from Clive – if you use this ⁠⁠link for everything you buy, a bit goes into ourSober Club giveback fund If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& TheWoo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace  

In this short and powerful Think Thursday episode, Molly explores a feeling we all face—discomfort—and why it's so often misunderstood. Rather than being a sign that something's gone wrong, discomfort is often evidence that change is happening.Through the lens of neuroscience and personal insight, you'll learn why your lower brain instinctively resists unfamiliar experiences, how to engage your higher brain to override outdated fear responses, and why discomfort is a natural and even necessary part of learning and growth.You'll Learn:Why the lower brain (your survival brain) misinterprets discomfort as dangerHow the motivational triad (seek pleasure, avoid pain, conserve energy) works against growthWhat Dr. Andrew Huberman says about friction and neuroplasticityWhy Dr. Jo Boaler's research shows that struggle is the best signal of brain developmentA simple mindset shift: how curiosity builds resilienceKey Quote: “Discomfort isn't a red flag. It's a signal to stay curious. It means your brain is being asked to grow. And while your lower brain might resist, your higher brain is ready.”Referenced Experts:Dr. Andrew Huberman – Neuroscientist, Stanford UniversityDr. Jo Boaler – Author of Limitless Mind, Stanford UniversityResources Mentioned:Listen to my conversation with Dr. Jo BoalerJoin the Community: Looking for more support in changing your habits and building peace with your mind and choices? Join our private Facebook group:  Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Drinking HabitsWork With Molly: Explore coaching programs and courses at:  www.mollywatts.com ★ Support this podcast ★

Today's episode is for the woman who's doing everything right—and still feels like she's falling apart.   Colleen sits down with Laurie James, somatic coach and author of Sandwiched: A Memoir of Holding On and Letting Go to talk about what happens when your nervous system hits a breaking point. Laurie ended up in the hospital—twice—after leaving a toxic marriage, raising four daughters, dating again, writing a book, and trying to heal.   This is a raw, honest conversation about how success can hide trauma, why “pushing through” is often dissociation in disguise, and how to regulate your nervous system before your body takes matters into its own hands.  

If you've ever said, “I just don't have the discipline,” or wondered why it feels so hard to follow through on your intentions—this episode will help you understand what's really going on in your brain.Molly takes a science-forward look at dopamine, the neurotransmitter that drives motivation, pleasure, and effort. With insights from Dr. Andrew Huberman and Dr. Anna Lembke (Dopamine Nation), she shares why alcohol's unnatural impact on dopamine matters and how to support your brain's reward system as you change your drinking habits.This episode doesn't prescribe one-size-fits-all advice. Instead, it offers useful frameworks, practical tools, and a compassionate perspective on how to manage dopamine to support motivation and self-discipline—without relying on willpower alone.In this episode, you'll learn:Why dopamine isn't just about pleasure—it's the foundation of motivation and effortHow alcohol hijacks the dopamine system and rewires your brain's reward pathwaysSix key strategies to stabilize dopamine and strengthen self-discipline, including:Avoiding the layering of high-dopamine activitiesDelaying rewards to build intrinsic motivationStarting your day without artificial dopamine spikesUsing movement and gratitude to raise baseline dopamineWhy Molly didn't start with a 30-day break—and why gradual change still worksHow to think critically about neuroscience trends online while staying curious about your own brainThe importance of working with your brain rather than against itResources and Links:Listen to the episode with Dr. Anna Lembke: Dopamine Nation Go back to Think Thursday: Understanding Dopamine Learn more about Making Peace with Alcohol, the 12-month group coaching experienceGet started with a free trial of Sunnyside www.sunnyside.co/mollyStay Connected:Have questions or want support applying what you heard today?Reach out to Molly directly at molly@mollywatts.comYou don't need more willpower. You need the right tools—and a way to work with your brain. ★ Support this podcast ★

This isn't a wellness chat about sobriety.  This is a full-body transmission from inside The Altared State - my 30-day ritual of choosing presence over performance, power over numbing, and pleasure that doesn't need permission.  In this unfiltered episode, I walk you through Days 1 to 6 of the journey. From moss to molasses, from mocktails to jalapeno clarity. I talk about the shame women carry around craving intoxication, and the radical act of becoming the substance we've been reaching for.  If you're tired of outsourcing your aliveness, if you're ready to burn the rules, feel the power, and live at full volume - this one's for you.  It's raw. It's real. It's a little unhinged.  Welcome to The Altared State.  I want to hear what stirred in you.  Email me at valerie@valeriejonescoach.com and tell me what this brought up.  Subscribe to Substack here 

In this episode, I'm sharing my top 5 tips for living an alcohol-free life—from setting strong intentions to building new habits that actually feel good. Whether you're sober curious or fully committed, these tips will help you stay empowered, clear, and confident in your decision.Connect with Me:Instagram: sarahtmwellnessWebsite: www.sarahtwellness.comIf you want to optimize your overall health with rebalancing your body & mind, let's connect! I offer 1:1 online fitness and health coaching through my coaching program where you can achieve that and much more: Schedule a free discovery call! Join my newsletter!!!!!Sun & Moo Tallow-Based Skincare - Discount code: sarahdavies Prime Protein- 15% off Discount (my fave protein powder) Namarie Activewear - Discount code: sarahtmwellness10 (non-toxic)Find the Good Brand - Discount code: sarahdavies10If you found this episode helpful, don't forget to share it with a friend or a new mom you know and leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform!Sending you love, health, and all good vibes!xoxo, Sarah

In this episode Unique and I talk about alcohol and our personal experiences with it. We discuss the journey of what it looks like to repress underlying causes and then recognizing what it takes to overcome. The hope is always that you take one thing away or share it with someone who can. As always wishing you both Peace and Love. ❤️ Unique's Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/fengali?igsh=MWttZTk4ODNxaDQ5aw==Nia's Instagram https://www.instagram.com/_iampurpose?igsh=NmR1anV4YTVzazN4&utm_source=qrTik tok https://www.tiktok.com/@_iampurpose?_t=ZP-8wmbcrURCdK&_r=1

Meet Bryttany Hyde - The owner of The Little Sober Bar and coined the term Soberbanite

Nutrition basics in sobrietyJaney chats to The Medicinal Chef Dale Pinnock on the basics of nutrition, its good to be reminded!Buy Theanine here https://amzn.to/4jw2H8hBuy the Magnesium blend I recommend, plus Vit D, Vit C and if you're menopausal consider iodine https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Thought about training to be a sober coach?If you missed our webinar on What does it mean to be a sober coach, dm or email and you can listen to the audio recording Connection is key Join us for a very special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Club Soda Wed 18 June, myspecial guests are Clare Pooley and The Sober Socialites You can come on your own! Try some amazing AF drinks and meet like minded people Tues 24 June The No Booze SupperClub at Lussmanns St Albans (the best restaurant in Herts)July 2nd Penzance literary festival https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regularzoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work goto www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reachout, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts October 18-19, email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend from Clive – if you use this ⁠⁠link for everything you buy, a bit goes into ourSober Club giveback fund If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Check out my new Substack, youcan be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& TheWoo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace  

Send us a textIn this solo episode, Nadine explores the hidden cost of “free” drinks and how pretty privilege shaped her drinking experiences. From VIP invites to ER visits, she unpacks the illusion of power tied to beauty and booze, and what sobriety has taught her about self-worth. Tune in for a raw, reflective, and empowering take on how we trade our peace for acceptance.✨ If you've ever mistaken attention for value, this one's for you. 

Welcome to Think Thursday from the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, where we explore the power of your brilliant human brain. In this episode, we're revisiting the very first Think Thursday conversation. If you're new to the series or need a powerful reminder of just how capable you are of creating change, this episode is a must-listen.Molly is taking a brief pause this week, making it the perfect opportunity to revisit the core concept that sparked Think Thursdays—how your mindset literally changes your brain.This episode explores one of the most exciting and empowering discoveries in neuroscience: neuroplasticity. It's the science that explains how your thoughts and beliefs influence the physical structure of your brain, ultimately shaping your habits and behaviors.What You'll Learn:How your brain is constantly reshaping itself based on your thoughts and actionsWhy the belief that you can change is essential for rewiring your brainWhat a growth mindset looks like—and how it supports lasting changeWhy old patterns feel so automatic, and how to replace them without willpowerThe neuroscience behind habit formation, including synaptic pruningHow to start shifting your internal dialogue to align with your goalsKey Insight:Your thoughts are not just passive ideas floating in your mind. They are the foundation for the physical structure of your brain. When you change your mindset, you change your brain's wiring. That's not motivational fluff—it's science.If you've ever felt stuck in your drinking habit or frustrated by how hard it is to make a change, this episode will give you both the understanding and encouragement to try again—this time, with your brain on your side.Listen With Intention:Whether your drink of choice today is alcoholic or not, make it a moment to sit with this episode and reflect on the habits you're reinforcing—and the new ones you're ready to build.Additional Resources:Explore Molly's book, Breaking the Bottle LegacyJoin the Alcohol Minimalists private community on FacebookFinal Note:Lasting change doesn't come from gritting your teeth. It comes from training your brain to make the new habit easier than the old one. This episode lays the groundwork for doing exactly that. ★ Support this podcast ★

After 10 months of consistent progress, one of my clients recently found herself drinking every day for two weeks. In this episode, I walk you through the private coaching conversation we had—what really caused the setback, how she responded, and why it had nothing to do with alcohol. If you've ever told yourself “I should be farther along by now,” or felt the crushing weight of shame after slipping into old patterns, this episode is a must-listen. You'll learn how to recognize when you're caught in a thinking problem—not a drinking problem—and how to respond in a way that propels you forward instead of holding you back. What You'll Learn: Why over-drinking isn't a sign of failure—but an invitation to go deeper The biological reason why stress makes you revert to old coping habits How thoughts like “I don't have enough time” silently sabotage your behavior Why the perception of failure activates the “kill-switch” for your motivation The power of slowing down, asking for help, and telling yourself the truth Key Insight: You can't change your drinking without changing your thinking. And you can't change your thinking if your body is in a stress response. Emotional sobriety means learning to create enough internal safety that you can question your own thoughts—without collapsing into shame.   —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer and YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@hangoverwhisperer   —Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL if you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober. Side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking.   —Do you want coaching from Colleen on a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question. Your name will not be mentioned on air!   

In honor of Memorial Day Weekend in the U.S., we're revisiting a popular episode that dives into the practicalities of drinking like an alcohol minimalist. If you've ever wondered what the day-to-day approach looks like or how to create a plan that helps you drink less and worry less, this episode is for you.Molly shares actionable tips and strategies that go beyond theory. She breaks down how alcohol minimalists navigate drinking decisions with intention and how the Alcohol Minimalist approach differs from other moderation-based communities.In this episode, you'll learn:What it really means to be an alcohol minimalistWhy planning ahead of time is a tool for empowerment, not restrictionHow to create an alcohol plan that aligns with your long-term goals and reinforces your autonomyTactical guidance for drinking more mindfully and with less anxiety, including:Choosing lower alcohol-by-volume (ABV) optionsManaging mixers and understanding how caffeine interacts with alcoholHow to split one drink into two by making simple swapsScience Meets Strategy:This episode reflects the heart of the Alcohol Minimalist philosophy—science-based strategies paired with practical tools to help you shift habits and thinking patterns. With relatable stories and a dose of science, Molly shows that making alcohol a non-factor is not only possible but peaceful.Quote from the Episode:“Changing your drinking habits starts with how you think about alcohol. Your plan isn't punishment—it's proof of your power.”Links and Resources:Get your copy of Breaking the Bottle LegacyJoin the free Facebook community: Alcohol Minimalists - Change Your Alcohol HabitsLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community.  In this episode, we continue our deep dive into Dr. Lee Warren's 10 Commandments of Self-Brain Surgery, focusing on commandments 6 through 10. As freedom-from-alcohol coaches, we share how these powerful principles shape our approach to helping women break free from the overdrinking cycle. From prioritizing long-term well-being to understanding the transformative power of thoughts, we explore actionable steps—what we like to call Tiny Tinas—to help you take practical steps toward change. Throughout the conversation, we offer personal anecdotes, real-world applications, and insights on how to overcome the immediate discomfort that often comes with transformation.  This episode is packed with advice for anyone looking to rewrite their story, not just in terms of addiction, but in breaking generational patterns, celebrating progress, and renewing your mind. Commandments 6-10: 6️⃣ I Must Love Tomorrow More Than I Hate How I Feel Right Now Hope is the key that pulls us forward. We talk about how focusing on the possibilities ahead can change your outlook on today's temporary discomfort, helping you take action toward a brighter future. 7️⃣ I Must Stop Making an Operation Out of Everything Life is hard, but not every challenge requires drastic measures. We discuss the importance of choosing humor, forgiveness, and simply moving forward—without making everything a major operation. 8️⃣ I Must Not Perpetuate—or Start—Harmful Generational Thought or Behavioral Issues in My Life or Family This is a game-changing commandment. It's all about breaking the cycle. You don't have to pass on trauma, shame, addiction, or fear. We explore how you can rewrite your family's story by making changes in your own life and actions. 9️⃣ I Must Believe That I'm Getting Better at What I'm Doing Growth is a fact, not a feeling. In this section, we dive into how consistency in doing the work—no matter how invisible it seems at first—leads to tangible growth. Trusting the process is key, even when progress feels slow.

Janey chats to Patrick Fox on the challenges facing men who are quitting alcohol  Patrick is a life coach and hosts The Alcohol Rethink podcast https://www.patrickjfox.com/Thought about training to be a sober coach?If you missed our webinar on What does it mean to be a sober coach, dm or email and you can listen to the audio recording Connection is key Join us for a very special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Club Soda Wed 18 June, my special guests are Clare Pooley and The Sober Socialites You can come on your own! Try some amazing AF drinks and meet like minded people Tues 24 June The No Booze Supper Club at Lussmanns St Albans (the best restaurant in Herts)July 2nd Penzance literary festival New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regularzoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work go to www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts October 18-19, email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend from Clive – if you use this ⁠⁠link ⁠⁠for everything you buy, a bit goes into ourSober Club giveback fund If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Use this link for everything: ⁠?https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489?⁠ Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& TheWoo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace  

Welcome to Think Thursday from the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast — where we take a moment to pause, reflect, and recalibrate. This week, we're honoring Mental Health Awareness Month by digging into a powerful insight from Brené Brown:“The space between our professed values and our practiced values is where burnout lives.”In this episode, Molly explores what that space looks like in everyday life and why it might be the real reason behind your emotional exhaustion — not just your schedule.You'll hear:Why busyness has become a badge of honor in our cultureA personal story about raising four boys and how a simple narrative shift changed everythingThe difference between behavioral misalignment and mental misalignmentHow to identify the gap between your actions and your valuesA 3-step reflection practice to gently bring your life back into alignmentIf you're feeling off, overwhelmed, or like you're going through the motions — this episode will help you reconnect with what really matters.Reflection PromptWhat's one value I say I care about — and what's one small way I can actually live it this week?Write it down. Let it guide you.Links Mentionedhttps://www.valuescentre.com/pva (optional paid resource Molly references for identifying your top values)Join the Alcohol Minimalist Facebook Group for deeper discussionEmail Molly directly: molly@mollywatts.com ★ Support this podcast ★

Most women assume their drinking habit is a willpower issue. But what if your body is actually sounding an alarm?   In today's episode, Colleen sits down with functional medicine expert Dr. Meg Mill to unpack the hidden connection between histamines, hormones, and alcohol. If your wine tolerance has changed, your moods are all over the place, or you're feeling bloated, anxious, or inflamed—this conversation is essential.   Dr. Meg explains how histamines affect everything from headaches to anxiety, why your red wine might hit differently depending on the time of month, and what to do if you feel like your body is reacting to everything lately.   This isn't about giving up pleasure—it's about understanding what your body is asking for.

Memorial Day weekend often marks the unofficial start of summer—and for many, it can also signal the return of old drinking patterns. In this episode, Molly explores how to approach holiday weekends with clarity, confidence, and a sense of peace—whether you plan to drink or not.You'll learn:Why holidays feel neurologically “loaded” and how nostalgia and social cues activate habit loops.How mindfulness disrupts old behavior patterns and quiets negative mental chatter by downregulating the Default Mode Network.The neuroscience of craving and why anticipation creates more dopamine than the drink itself.What to do if you overdrink—and how to reframe it without spiraling into guilt.Three planning prompts to help you stay intentional and proud through Monday and beyond.Whether it's your first alcohol-free Memorial Day or just another chance to practice moderation, this episode will help you prepare your mind, your habits, and your heart for a peaceful summer.Referenced Experts & Resources:Dr. Jud Brewer, neuroscientist & author of Unwinding Anxiety and The Craving Mind Listen to my interview with Dr. Jud Brewer →Dr. Anna Lembke, psychiatrist & author of Dopamine Nation Listen to my interview with Dr. Anna Lembke →Key Takeaway: You're not required to drink to have fun. You're not obligated to say yes to anything you don't want. Your relationship with alcohol is yours to define—especially on holiday weekends.Join the Conversation: Come join our private Facebook community: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Drinking HabitsWork With Molly: Ready for deeper transformation? Learn more about my coaching programs and resources at:

Janey chats to two sober coaches she has trained, Monica Jordache who runs High Sobriety in Munich and Darren Ashman who runs The Pub in Paris.The Paris venues Darren shares: https://le-paon-qui-boit.odoo.com/61 Rue de Meaux, 75019 Paristhepubparis.com4 rue Caron 75004Thought about training to be a sober coach?Join us for a free non salesy webinar Monday 19 May at7.30pm uk time You do need to register – please share this link  https://www.thesoberclub.com/from-sobriety-to-purpose-2/Newto Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work goto www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Pleaseshare, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reachout, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coachtraining, our next course starts October 18-19, email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend from Clive – if you use this ⁠⁠link ⁠⁠for everything you buy, a bit goes into ourSober Club giveback fund If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Use this link for everything: ⁠?https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489?⁠ Check out my new Substack, youcan be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace

In this deeply honest and science-backed episode, Molly explores a topic that often gets misunderstood in the world of personal development: toxic positivity. While optimism, hope, and gratitude are powerful tools for creating a more peaceful relationship with alcohol—and life in general—Molly dives into the real science of why ignoring negative emotions does more harm than good.Learn how suppressing your feelings can lead to stress overload, impaired decision-making, and disconnection, and how true emotional resilience means feeling your emotions, not avoiding them.What You'll Learn:Why toxic positivity isn't helpful (and can actually be harmful)What happens in your brain when you suppress emotionsHow emotional suppression affects your mental and physical healthThe difference between emotional resilience and emotional repressionA powerful, practical method to process emotions with the Four S Belief System:See – Gain awareness of what you're thinking and feeling.Soothe – Offer self-compassion and calm your nervous system.Separate – Distinguish between facts and the story your brain is telling you.Shift – Choose small, believable thoughts that help you move forward.Takeaway Message: You don't have to fake being okay. Feeling your emotions fully and honestly is what allows your brain to process them and grow your resilience. It's not about avoiding discomfort—it's about learning to navigate it with care.Let's Practice Together: Take a deep breath and ask yourself: Where have I been pushing myself to stay positive instead of allowing myself to feel honestly? Your emotional truth is the beginning of your clarity.Resources & Links:Learn more about the Four S Belief System inside Molly's programs: mollywatts.comFree E-book: Alcohol Truths – How Much Is Safe?Connect with Molly on Instagram: @alcoholminimalistSubscribe & Review: If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it really helps others discover the podcast! ★ Support this podcast ★

Imagine a society where drinking culture wasn't normalized, have you ever considered this?(PS, the audio in today's episode isn't as sharp as it normally is. I thought the recording was pretty good so I decided to keep it anyway, thanks for understanding and enjoy the episode!)

In this timely episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, host Molly Watts takes a deep dive into a public health conversation that few people are having—but everyone should be listening to. In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, Molly tackles the proliferation of legal but dangerously unregulated mood-altering substances that are readily available at gas stations, vape shops, and convenience stores.From kratom and delta-8 THC to nitrous oxide and nicotine salts, Molly explains how these substances affect the brain, the risks they pose (especially to teens and young adults), and why they are anything but harmless. She shares critical scientific insights on how these substances hijack brain chemistry and emotional resilience—and why genuine peace doesn't come from a bottle, capsule, or vape pen.This episode is both educational and urgent, equipping listeners with the awareness needed to protect themselves and their communities.What You'll Learn:The science behind substances like kratom, Neptune, phenibut, delta-8 THC, and othersWhy these products are addictive—even when marketed as “natural” or “legal”The impact these substances have on dopamine, glutamate, GABA, and acetylcholine systemsWhy teen brains are especially vulnerableHow these substances are a false solution to emotional distressA call to rethink how we cope, connect, and seek calm in a chaotic worldKey Quote: “We are living in a world where brain-altering substances are being sold next to chewing gum—and we are not prepared. But we can be.”Mentioned in the Episode:Mental Health Awareness MonthThe importance of internal emotional regulationMolly's reflections on her mother's struggles and legacyResources to support your journey to peace with alcohol—and beyondIf you found this episode eye-opening, please consider sharing it with a friend, parent, or community leader. These conversations matter—and they start with awareness.Website: www.mollywatts.comInstagram: @alcoholminimalistFacebook Group: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol HabitsLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Disclaimer: This episode discusses topics including suicide and suicidal ideation, which may be distressing to some listeners. If you are experiencing emotional distress or feel unsafe, please know that help is available. If you are in immediate danger or need urgent support, call 911 (if in the United States) or your local emergency services immediately. For those in the United States, you can reach the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 (available 24 hours) or 1-800-273-8255. If you're located outside the United States, please consult your local crisis intervention resources or visit https://findahelpline.com for international hotline information. Your well-being matters, and you are not alone. Please consider seeking help from trusted friends, family, or mental health professionals if you need support. Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community.  In this vulnerable and powerful conversation, we sit down with our dear friend and community leadership team member Heather Dillion to hear her story of stepping out of the darkness of alcohol and into the light of God's grace. Heather is a successful attorney, wife, and mom—but behind the scenes, she was quietly struggling for years. Heather shares how a high-pressure lifestyle and long-standing habits slowly eroded her peace, her joy, and her ability to show up fully in her own life. From early drinking in college to a deeply public rock bottom that led her to seek help, Heather speaks honestly about the unraveling—and the rebuilding—that followed. With the support of her family and community, and a deepening relationship with God, Heather began to heal. She opens up about her time in traditional rehab treatment, how she learned to regulate her emotions in healthy ways, and how community and faith became her anchors in the storm. Her story reminds us that there is zero shame in seeking help.  This episode is for the woman who's silently struggling, the one who's managing everything on the outside but feeling broken inside. Heather's message is clear: freedom is possible, and Jesus is not afraid of your darkest moments. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How alcohol quietly became a barrier between Heather and the life she truly wanted The mental, emotional, and spiritual toll of trying to keep it all together Why hitting a low point became the very thing that opened the door to healing The role of faith, community, and professional support in her transformation Daily practices that help Heather experience peace and presence Encouragement for anyone who feels alone in their struggle Join our private, small-group coaching space, The Missing Peace, and get BJDW all-community access for free! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/coaching Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind  Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/   Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/   Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine   You can find this episode on YouTube HERE.   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.  

Is it time for you to break thecycle! Join us for a Family Constellationsworkshop Sat 10 May in HertsMore info https://www.thesoberclub.com/family-constellations/Sign up for the free 14 days speakerseries - relay this weekend!!!!speakerseries.soberadventurecollective.com/janeyleegraceJaney chats to Toby Ernberg who trained with Janey as a sober coach recently. Toby shares his story from rock bottom and talks about life in Switzerland.If you're interested in coach training join our free webinar 19 May 7.30 pm you do need to register https://www.thesoberclub.com/from-sobriety-to-purpose-2/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regularzoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work goto www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Pleaseshare, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reachout, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts October 18-19, email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.com Supplementsfor recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend from Clive – if you use this ⁠⁠link for everything you buy, a bit goes into ourSober Club giveback fund If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Use this link for everything: ⁠?https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489?⁠ Check out my new Substack, youcan be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& TheWoo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace You can get a copy of FromWham to Woo - A Life on the mic ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ or message meif you'd like a signed copy and I will add P * P   

In this episode, Dr. Aimee joins Colleen to explain what it really means to have “stored trauma” in the body—and why unresolved trauma often shows up not as flashbacks, but as fatigue, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and habits like nightly drinking. You'll hear how trauma is stored at the cellular level, why cognitive awareness isn't enough to heal it, and what it really takes to feel safe in your own body. Key Takeaways: Trauma isn't defined by an event—it's defined by your body's response to overwhelm, powerlessness, and isolation. Many women don't realize they're stuck in a trauma response because it looks like being “too busy,” “not having willpower,” or “just needing to try harder.” The trauma response shows up biologically, at the cellular level, often causing fatigue, anxiety, inflammation, and shut down. The nervous system doesn't respond to logic—it responds to cues of safety and danger. When your body perceives a threat, you can't use reason to override shame, fear and anxiety. You don't heal trauma by talking about it—you heal it by completing the stress response, regulating the nervous system, and shifting how safe you feel in your body. You can pre-order Dr. Amy's new book Biology of Trauma and get over $400 in bonuses at biologyoftrauma.com.   —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer and YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@hangoverwhisperer   —Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL if you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober. Side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking.   —Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question. Your name will not be mentioned on air!   

This week on SHE MD, women's advocate and designer Mary Alice Haney sits down with Aurora Culpo, best known for starring in the Discovery+ series The Culpo Sisters and hosting the podcast Barely Filtered. In this lively and unfiltered conversation, no topic is off-limits. From Aurora's journey with PCOS and miscarriage to her experiences with divorce, monogamy, and motherhood, they dive deep into women's health, relationships, and life after childbirth. They also explore the sober curious movement, dating apps, and how exercise and meditation affect well-being. Get ready to laugh, reflect, and learn in this engaging episode of SHE MD.Access more information about the podcast and additional expert health tips by visiting SHE MD Podcast and Ovii. Sponsors:OneSkin: Visit OneSkin.co/SHEMD and use code SHEMD at checkout for 15% off your first purchase.Osea: Get 10% off your first order sitewide with code SHEMD at OSEAMalibu.comCymbiotika: Go to Cymbiotikia.com/SHEMD for 20% off your order + free shipping today.Midi Health: You deserve to feel great. Book your virtual visit today at JoinMidi.comEquip: Belli Welli: Go to belliwelli.com and use code our exclusive code SHEMD20 at checkout for 20% off our order.Saks: Shop Saks.comKEY TAKEAWAYS Painful Periods Are Not Normal. Painful periods could be a sign of PCOS. The lack of conversations about women's health issues is a significant concern. This podcast helps educate women on important health topics, empowering them to become their own health advocates. SHE MD gives women the knowledge they need to have informed discussions with their doctors.Would You And Your Spouse Agree To Have One Fling A Year Before Marriage? No! Of course, you wouldn't. But live and learn. Aurora did just that and regrets that decision. Her story about her husband's flings will make your head spin. Open Marriage And Swingers—Do Those Marriages Stand The Test Of Time? It might seem exciting, but if you're hoping for a lasting marriage, consider whether you know of any swinging relationships that have endured.Men And Women View Sex Differently. For a man, a fling might just be casual, while his wife may see it as a deep betrayal, knowing that for her, an affair would likely involve emotional attachment. This reflects the idea that men and women approach relationships from different perspectives; as the saying goes, "Men are from Mars, women are from Venus."Does a Woman Disconnect from Her Husband After Childbirth? Many significant changes occur after having a child. Physically, a woman's body is different. Her focus often shifts as well, with her attention now centered on caring for her baby, which can impact her relationship with her husband. It can take time to resume intimacy, especially if she's breastfeeding, as this adjustment period requires patience.Does Being Sober Curious Resonate With You? Are you curious about living a sober lifestyle? The "sober curious" movement is real and encourages people to rethink their relationship with alcohol. It's about questioning why you drink and whether it's enhancing or complicating your life. Are you drinking because of a social event, the time of day or another reason? Does this resonate with you?IN THIS EPISODE, HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT: (00:00) Introduction(4:00) Aurora talks about her podcast(6:30) PCOS symptoms and miscarriage(11:14) Divorce, monogamy, and childbirth(26:20) Getting serious about finding a man and the latest dating apps(29:00) What does being sober curious look like and Aurora talks about exercise and meditationRESOURCES:Aurora Culpo - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/auroraculpo/?hl=enBarley Filtered - Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/barely-filtered/id1675375857GUEST BIOGRAPHY: Aurora CulpoAurora Culpo is best known for starring in the Discovery+ series The Culpo Sisters alongside her sisters Olivia Culpo and Sophia Culpo. She has appeared in many episodes of the TV show, which began airing in 2022. The show covers her love life and the business side of her life in Los Angeles. She graduated with a teaching degree and worked for many years in the field of behavior analysis and special education. She is the daughter of Pete Culpo and Susan Curran Culpo. She has two siblings in addition to Olivia and Sophia: Pete and Gus. She is married to Michael Bortone and they have two children, Solei and Remi.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Molly revisits a listener favorite: Undoing the Urge to Overdrink — a heartfelt and informative conversation first shared just before Thanksgiving 2023. Molly reflects on how emotional triggers, life events, and deeply rooted habits shape our relationship with alcohol — and how we can interrupt the cycle to create lasting change.Molly also shares a poignant personal moment, connecting the episode's theme with the anniversary of her father's passing on Thanksgiving night in 2022, making this revisited conversation especially meaningful.This episode coincides with the launch of Just One More, Molly's new two-week mini-course aimed at helping binge drinkers take the first powerful step toward a peaceful relationship with alcohol. (Sign-ups are open now! Check the link in the show notes.)Key Topics Covered:Defining Overdrinking and Binge Drinking: Molly clarifies what constitutes a binge for women (4+ standard drinks) and men (5+ standard drinks) — emphasizing why even gradual consumption across a day still counts as overdrinking.Impact of Overdrinking Beyond Intoxication: How even without reaching a "drunk" state, overdrinking disrupts sleep, elevates anxiety, taxes the liver, and triggers inflammatory responses.Holiday Drinking Traps: Common ways Thanksgiving and other holidays can lull us into overdrinking patterns — and why "spreading it out" doesn't negate its negative effects.Personal Reflections on Thanksgiving: Molly shares her experience navigating family-induced stress (especially dealing with her mother-in-law's anxiety) without turning to alcohol, highlighting the importance of mind management.The Cycle of Overdrinking: Breaking down the behavioral patterns and emotional triggers that drive overdrinking — and how building awareness interrupts the urge before it turns into action.Tools for Undoing the Urge: Molly emphasizes key strategies:Practicing mindfulness during urgesChoosing empathy over resentment in stressful family situationsReframing thoughts to shift emotional responsesFocusing on gratitude and emotional resilienceImportant Reminder: Changing your drinking habits isn't just about counting days — it's about understanding your brain, managing your mind, and creating a lifestyle of peace and intentionality.Featured Resource: Just One More A two-week mini-program designed to help binge drinkers interrupt old patterns and create a sustainable path toward mindful drinking.  Sign up here (link in the show notes)Connect with Molly:Website: www.mollywatts.comFacebook Group: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol HabitsLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community.  In this honest and hope-filled conversation, Christy and Meade welcome Jill, a beloved member of the But Jesus Drank Wine leadership team, to share her powerful story of breaking free from alcohol and drawing closer to God. After ten years of trying to moderate her drinking, Jill was inspired by Christy's sobriety story in the summer of 2023 and made the bold decision to stop drinking entirely. What followed was a journey of spiritual renewal, mental clarity, and deeper intimacy with God. Jill opens up about the subtle ways alcohol had taken hold of her life—emotionally, physically, and spiritually. She shares how it consumed her mental energy, fueled guilt and shame, and ultimately stood in the way of the peace and purpose she longed for. Through surrender, community, and daily obedience, Jill experienced true freedom—and now encourages others to do the same. This conversation is especially meaningful for women navigating caregiving, motherhood, and the pressure to “keep it together.” Jill's courage to speak up and step out is a reminder that the cost of honesty is far outweighed by the gift of freedom. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why moderation isn't always harmless—and what it might be costing you How alcohol can quietly become a spiritual and emotional burden What it means to truly surrender a habit to God The role of testimony and vulnerability in personal transformation Encouragement for women in the “sandwich generation” carrying invisible loads How community and faith walk hand-in-hand toward lasting sobriety Join our private, small-group coaching space, The Missing Peace, and get BJDW all-community access for free! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/coaching Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind  Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/   Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/   Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

Are young people really drinking less? Janey chats to Danielle Moore about her journey through alcohol and cocaine to being completely sober and training with Janey as a sober coach.Ditched the booze and want to inspire others?Join our free webinar 19.5 at 7.30pm Register HEREIs it time for you to break the cycle!Join us for a Family Constellations workshop Sat 10 May in HertsMore info https://www.thesoberclub.com/family-constellations/Sign up for the free 14 days speakerseries speakerseries.soberadventurecollective.com/janeyleegraceNew to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for lowcost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regularzoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work goto www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reachout, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditchedthe Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts October 18-19, email Janey for a chat tonsee if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.com Join our webinar 19.5https://www.thesoberclub.com/from-sobriety-to-purpose-2/ Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is theblend from Clive – if you use this ⁠⁠link⁠⁠for everything you buy, a bit goes into ourSober Club giveback fund If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids andIodine (if you're menopausal) Use this link for everything: ⁠?https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489?⁠ Check out my new Substack, youcan be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace You can get a copy of FromWham to Woo - A Life on the mic ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ or message meif you'd like a signed copy and I will add P * P  

In this week's Think Thursday episode, we explore an unexpectedly powerful topic: the science of smiling. Is being a "natural smiler" something you're born with? Can smiling actively improve your mood, or is it just a reflection of how you feel?And what role does a simple grin play in rewiring your brain for resilience, positivity, and emotional peace?Molly dives into the research on genetic influences on smiling, the concept of the facial feedback loop, and the emotional benefits of practicing intentional smiles. You'll also hear a heartwarming story about how even our beloved dogs have evolved to smile at us—showcasing the profound social importance of smiling across species. If you're interested in learning how a small daily action can contribute to building emotional resilience and improving your relationship with alcohol, this episode is for you.Key Topics Discussed:Is being a "natural smiler" genetic or learned?How smiling activates dopamine, serotonin, and endorphinsThe Facial Feedback Hypothesis: influencing emotions through physical expressionsSmiling as a low-stakes, daily practice for emotional regulationHow dogs evolved to recognize and return human smilesWhy mindful smiling can be a strategic habit change toolWhy It Matters for Alcohol Minimalists: Creating small, intentional shifts in behavior—such as practicing a mindful smile—supports the larger work of reshaping your relationship with alcohol. It's about using neuroscience-backed techniques to create positive feedback loops in your brain, promoting calmness, resilience, and emotional flexibility.Notable Quotes:"Genetics sets the stage, but your environment writes the story.""Smiling isn't just a reflection of how we feel—it actively creates our mood.""Dogs smiling back at us is a beautiful example of how emotional connection transcends species."Take Action This Week:Practice mindful smiling when you wake up in the morning, even before any external circumstances influence your mood.Try smiling intentionally when encountering minor irritations to train your brain toward a more resilient emotional response.Reflect on where you might use a simple smile to interrupt old emotional habits and create a new feedback loop.Join the Conversation:Follow Molly on Instagram: @alcoholminimalistJoin the Alcohol Minimalists private Facebook group for additional support.Subscribe & Review:If you're enjoying the podcast, please consider leaving a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it helps more people discover the show! ★ Support this podcast ★

Welcome (or welcome back!) to the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast with your host, Molly Watts, coming to you from salubrious Oregon!In this final episode for Alcohol Awareness Month, Molly gets personal and shares the three major ways her drinking habits — and more importantly, her thinking about alcohol — have evolved over the years.This isn't just about counting drinks or cutting back to a “magical low number.” It's about creating peace with alcohol and living intentionally. Molly dives into how shifting from automatic drinking to intentional, mindful drinking has been the cornerstone of her transformation. She also introduces her brand-new mini-program, Just One More, designed to help you rewire the "binge brain" for vacations, weekends, and parties where overdrinking used to sneak in.If you're looking for inspiration and actionable strategies to rethink your relationship with alcohol, you won't want to miss this episode.Key Takeaways:Intentionality over Autopilot: Molly explains how she shifted from drinking mindlessly to making conscious, purposeful decisions about alcohol.Alcohol as an Option, Not a Solution: She no longer uses alcohol to solve problems or enhance experiences — vacations and celebrations are about the moments, not the drinks.Freedom Through Planning: Rather than feeling restrictive, planning her alcohol consumption ahead of time actually brings freedom and protects her long-term goals.New Program Launch! Get the inside scoop on the upcoming mini-program, Just One More, launching May 6th — perfect for anyone who struggles with binge drinking during "special occasions."Resources Mentioned:Just One MoreWebsite: www.mollywatts.comInstagram: @alcoholminimalistFacebook Group: Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Alcohol HabitsLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode we welcomed Julie Miller, RCP, an addiction recovery coach and podcaster from Colorado. After overcoming a decade-long battle with alcohol addiction, Julie transformed her life by facing shame, embracing authenticity, and creating a purpose-filled existence. Now, she dedicates herself to helping others find freedom from addiction through coaching, podcasting, and fostering a supportive recovery community.Tune into this episode for an engaging discussion about what comes after the initial step into sobriety. We'll explore how to move beyond sober curiosity in January, embrace long-term lifestyle changes, and build a life so full there's no space left for alcohol. Together, we'll delve into integrating yoga, mindfulness, and intentional practices to sustain sobriety throughout the year.Learn more about Julie and her podcast at: https://throughtheglassrecovery.com/Support the showRead Alex's Writing at the Intersection of the Bhavagad Gita, Patanjali's Sutras, The Buddha Dharma and Mental Health at:https://thedailydharma.substack.com/Check Out All Our Upcoming Retreats, Programs and Offerings at:https://www.themindfullifepractice.com/

Join the conversation in our community HERE! In this empowering episode, Christy and Meade welcome author and speaker Laura Smith for a rich conversation about her latest book, Brave Woman, Mighty God. Laura—now a 15-time published author—shares her heart behind the book's message and reminds us that strength doesn't come from “girl power” but from God power. Together, they explore the stories of bold biblical women like Mary Magdalene, Sarah, and others who did mighty things—not because they were fearless, but because they were faithful. Laura unpacks how faith invites us to overcome hustle culture, live out our God-given purpose, and root our strength in Christ, not in performance. Drawing from both Brave Woman, Mighty God and her previous book The Urgency of Slowing Down, Laura encourages listeners to let go of burnout culture and embrace restorative spiritual rhythms. The conversation gets personal as the hosts reflect on their own struggle with hurry, the importance of screen sabbaths, and how true rest is found in presence with God, not productivity. This episode is filled with scripture, wisdom, and compassion for women who want to trust God more deeply—especially in seasons of waiting, struggle, or uncertainty. If you've ever doubted your calling, wrestled with comparison, or felt worn down by the world's demands, this conversation will meet you right where you are. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How biblical women inspire courage through their faith, not their perfection The dangers of hustle culture and the healing power of slowing down How to embrace rest as a spiritual practice, not just a productivity tool Why community is essential in walking out our faith and freedom What to do in seasons of waiting, and how to trust God's timing Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community.  Join our private, small-group coaching space, The Missing Peace, and get BJDW all-community access for free! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/coaching Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind  Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/   Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/   Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine   You can find this episode on YouTube HERE.   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

Have you ever said to yourself, “This habit feels unbreakable”?Whether it's procrastination, nighttime snacking, or pouring that end-of-day drink, it often feels like these behaviors are wired into our identity. But what if the real thing holding you back isn't the habit itself—but the story you're telling yourself about it?In this Think Thursday episode, we're exploring why some habits feel impossible to change—and why negative self-talk might be quietly reinforcing the loop. We'll unpack the science behind the negativity bias, the way your brain treats repeated thoughts as evidence, and how to finally start rewriting the narrative using the 4-S New Belief System.This is the real work—not just changing what you do, but changing what you believe is possible for you.What You'll Learn:Why your brain defaults to old habits even when they no longer serve youHow the negativity bias evolved—and how it keeps you hyper-focused on mistakesWhat research tells us about the impact of self-critical thinking on behavior changeWhy the story you tell yourself becomes the blueprint for your identityA step-by-step breakdown of the 4-S New Belief System:See the beliefSoothe the inner criticSeparate fact from fictionShift into a next-best thoughtMentioned in the Episode:Clinical Psychology Review (2010): Research on negative self-talk and health outcomesJournal of Behavioral Medicine: Study linking self-talk to follow-through and stressThe Alcohol Minimalists Facebook Group – Join hereMaking Peace with Alcohol Group Coaching ★ Support this podcast ★

Colleen answers a listener question from a woman who's done incredible work reducing her drinking—but still finds herself overdoing it when she's with her best friend. Sound familiar? Whether it's wine with your ride-or-die or happy hour with the same old crew, this episode gives you the tools to enjoy yourself and feel good the next morning. Colleen breaks down how to stop waiting for your friend to change, and start setting yourself up for success instead—without guilt, codependency, or willpower battles halfway through the second bottle. This is a powerful behind-the-scenes coaching session on redesigning your habits, your environment, and your intentions, so you can stay connected, grounded, and in control (without being the boring one).

In this compelling episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly reconnects with Katie Lain, founder of Thrive Alcohol Recovery, to explore the power of neuroscience-based strategies for changing your relationship with alcohol. Katie shares her personal recovery story and how the Sinclair Method, a treatment protocol that uses the medication naltrexone, gave her a new lease on life.This conversation goes beyond the medication to highlight the vital role of mindset, habit formation, and long-term commitment to behavior change. Molly and Katie discuss the real-world challenges people face in recovery, the importance of self-compassion, and how small, sustainable steps create the most lasting transformation.What You'll Learn in This Episode:How the Sinclair Method works and why it's effective for both binge and daily drinkersWhy medication is a support tool, not a standalone solutionThe mental space that opens up when cravings start to fadeThe average timeline to regain control and build a peaceful relationship with alcoholUnique challenges for binge drinkers, including compliance and thought patternsThe critical importance of mindset and identifying unconscious beliefsWhat to expect on the journey: setbacks, progress, and learning to keep goingWhy self-compassion and curiosity are non-negotiables for long-term changeKey Message: Naltrexone can be a powerful part of the journey, but it must be paired with thought work, intentional habit-building, and a willingness to take small steps forward—even after setbacks. There is no one-size-fits-all approach, and both Molly and Katie emphasize that you don't have to wait until alcohol becomes a serious problem to start creating change.Resources Mentioned:Learn more about Thrive Alcohol Recovery: thrivealcoholrecovery.comKatie Lain on YouTube, Instagram, and other social platformsMolly's coaching programs and podcast archive: www.mollywatts.comLet's Connect:Website: www.mollywatts.comInstagram: @alcoholminimalistFacebook: Join the Alcohol Minimalists GroupLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Today, I'm joined by Megan Klein, founder of Little Saints—one of the most exciting brands in the non-alcoholic drink movement. In this hilarious and deeply insightful conversation, we dive into the intersection of psychedelics, brain mapping, and how to build a conscious beverage company from scratch.Megan's story is anything but ordinary. From her early days as an environmental lawyer to a full-blown spiritual awakening and multiple Holon brain mapping intensives, her entrepreneurial path is one of reinvention and purpose. She shares how she turned a pandemic-era mocktail into a booming brand and why she believes neurofeedback is the future of transformation.We also tackle shifting drinking culture, the science of functional mushrooms, and how rituals can remain sacred—even without spirits.DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and not intended for diagnosing or treating illnesses. The hosts disclaim responsibility for any adverse effects from using the information presented. Consult your healthcare provider before using referenced products. This podcast may include paid endorsements.THIS SHOW IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:LIMITLESS LIVING MD | Book your free consultation today at limitlesslivingmd.com/luke and use code LUKE for 12% off your first order.LITTLE SAINTS | Visit lukestorey.com/littlesaints and use code LUKE to get 20% off your first order. MAGNESIUM BREAKTHROUGH | Use code LUKE10 for 10% off at bioptimizers.com/luke.QUANTUM UPGRADE | Get a 15-day free trial with code LUKE15 at lukestorey.com/quantumupgrade.MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE:(00:00:00) Twitter Rabbit Holes & Conspiracy Detoxing(00:01:22) Mocktail Cheers & Holon Brain Mapping Origins(00:04:11) Psychedelics, Plateaus, & the Power of Neurofeedback(00:10:01) Less Reactivity, More Resilience: Life After Brain Mapping(00:12:41) From Courtroom to Cocktails: Megan's Path from Law to Launch(00:19:29) Crafting Little Saints: From CBD to Mushroom Mocktails(00:24:38) Functional Mushrooms That Actually Work(00:32:21) The Rise of the Non-Alcoholic Cocktail Culture(00:36:29) Why Megan Quit Drinking—and How It Changed Everything(00:45:21) Ritual Without Intoxication: Sacred Social Alternatives(00:47:02) Sourcing Palo Santo & Plant-Based Alchemy(00:52:03) Crafting Flavor Without Perfume: Trial, Error, & Essence(00:54:50) The Future of Fun: Where Conscious Culture Meets Party VibesResources:• Website: littlesaints.com• Instagram: @littlesaintsco• Instagram: @meganjokleinThe Life Stylist is produced by Crate Media.