Podcasts about sober curious

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores reminiscing as more than nostalgia. After returning from a family reunion, she reflects on how shared stories can reconnect us with earlier versions of ourselves and remind us of the courage, humor, resilience, and connection that are still part of who we are. Key Points Reminiscing is not just remembering events; it is reconnecting with identity, meaning, and emotion.  Autobiographical memories help us understand our personal life story and the versions of ourselves we have been.  Family stories can preserve shared identity by reminding us what we value, what we survived, and how we belong to one another.  Healthy reminiscing can support behavior change by reminding us that our current emotional state is not the whole story.  Reminiscing is different from rumination. Rumination loops in shame or regret, while reminiscing helps us integrate the past with curiosity and compassion.  The past can be a courtroom or a library: rumination puts us on trial, but reminiscing helps us retrieve something useful. Science Mentioned The hippocampus helps organize memory and context.  The medial prefrontal cortex is involved in self-reflection and personal meaning.  The default mode network becomes active when we think about ourselves, our past, our future, and the stories that shape our lives.  Erik Erikson's stage of integrity versus despair describes the process of looking back over life and making meaning from both joys and losses. Think Thursday Invitation Take ten minutes to intentionally reminisce.  Look through old photos, listen to a meaningful song, ask a family member to tell a story, or think about a place you used to love.  Ask yourself:  What version of me was present in that memory?  What mattered to me then?  What does this memory remind me is still part of me?  What is one small way I could bring that version of myself into today? Closing ThoughtLooking back is not always about wanting to go backward. Sometimes reminiscing helps us gather pieces of ourselves we forgot we could bring forward. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly continues the series When Drinking Less Feels Hard, looking at the real-life challenges that make drinking less feel difficult through the lens of Alcohol Core Beliefs.This week's focus is the belief Alcohol Is My Reward—the thought that shows up at the end of a hard day, a long week, while cooking dinner, on vacation, or anytime alcohol feels like the treat you've earned for getting through something. Molly explores why this belief can feel so reasonable, how the brain learns to associate alcohol with reward and transition, and why drinking less can feel like deprivation when alcohol has become the main way you mark completion, rest, or pleasure.Before the episode, Molly also shares a reminder about Mostly Dry July-The Daily, which includes daily support, weekly group coaching calls, weekly brain boosts, and a private daily podcast to help you practice drinking less with peaceful mindfulness and without all-or-nothing thinking.  www.mollywatts.com/mostly-dry-july  In This EpisodeWhy alcohol can become tied to end-of-day and end-of-week ritualsHow the brain learns to predict alcohol as a rewardWhy “I deserve this” is often a clue, not a problemThe difference between true reward and coping in disguiseHow alcohol can represent completion, freedom, pleasure, or feeling like something is finally yoursWhy expanding your reward system is essential for drinking lessHow to use See, Soothe, Separate, and Shift with the belief Alcohol Is My RewardKey TakeawayYou deserve reward, pleasure, rest, and celebration. But alcohol may not be the reward you actually deserve.The reward you deserve is one that restores you, supports you, and helps you feel cared for in the moment and proud of yourself later.Listener PracticeChoose one reward-drinking moment: the end of the day, Friday night, cooking dinner, vacation, or after finishing something hard.Ask yourself:What am I trying to reward?What do I want this reward to give me?Will alcohol actually give me that, or is there another way to create it more honestly?Then practice creating one real reward before alcohol. It might be quiet, rest, movement, food, connection, or a nonalcoholic ritual.Resources MentionedMostly Dry July-The DailyAlcohol Core BeliefsSee, Soothe, Separate, ShiftAlcohol Minimalist Facebook groupLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Our sponsor this week is the brand AURA from The Sozial Club https://thesozialclub.com/I chat to Adrian from the brand.Men's mental health month of June means we have a re reun of some voice notes, tips and insights from 4 of our Sober Coaches, who trained with me, Tony Worsdall, Richard Fox, Paul Briley and Nigel HarpleyInterested in training to be a sober coach? If you missed our webinar on What does it mean to be a sober coach, dm or email and you can listen to the audio recordingIts the 11th annual Platinum Awards to recognise the best in natural and organic products and one of our sponsors is Noughty AF, Janey chats to Amanda Thomsonabout alcohol free fizz and its rise to success.Connection is keyJoin us for a very special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Hello Love , my special guest is Matt Pink Thursday 15 June 6,30-8.30 in Bloomsburyhttps://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work go to www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIfyou're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next coursestarts October 17-18, email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.comSupplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend from Clive – if you use this link for everything you buy, a bit goes into ourSober Club giveback fund If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal)   https://clivedecarle.com/?sld=16 Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly reflects on the meaning and importance of Juneteenth, observed on June 19th. Rather than approaching the holiday as a historian, she explores Juneteenth through the lens of memory, truth, freedom, and the stories a culture chooses to remember.Juneteenth commemorates June 19, 1865, when Union troops arrived in Galveston, Texas, and announced freedom to enslaved African Americans there, more than two years after the Emancipation Proclamation. This episode invites listeners to consider the difference between freedom declared and freedom actually delivered, and why that distinction still matters.Molly connects Juneteenth to the broader Think Thursday themes of awareness, learning, collective memory, and behavior change. Just as personal transformation requires honest awareness, cultural growth requires a willingness to tell fuller, more truthful stories.In This EpisodeMolly explores:The historical significance of Juneteenth and why June 19, 1865, mattersWhy freedom on paper is not the same as freedom in lived experienceHow national holidays act as moments of public memoryWhy Juneteenth did not begin when it became a federal holiday in 2021How Black communities preserved and celebrated Juneteenth for generationsThe connection between memory, truth, and collective identityWhy fuller truth can create deeper compassion, dignity, and responsibilityHow discomfort can be part of learning and expanding our understandingKey ReflectionJuneteenth is both a celebration and a remembrance. It honors freedom, resilience, and generations of Black Americans who carried this history long before it received broader national recognition. It also asks us to look honestly at the ways freedom has been delayed, denied, and unevenly experienced.Questions to ConsiderWhat did I learn about Juneteenth growing up, and what did I not learn?What does this holiday ask me to remember more fully?How can I honor freedom not just as an idea, but as something that should be real in people's lived experience?Closing ThoughtMemory matters. Truth matters. Freedom matters. Juneteenth reminds us that remembering is not passive. It is a choice, a practice, and part of how we become more honest, more awake, and more human. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly continues the series “When Drinking Less Feels Hard” by looking at one of the most common places drinking less can feel difficult: social situations where alcohol feels like part of the fun and everyone else is drinking.This episode explores two powerful Alcohol Core Beliefs: alcohol makes things more fun and alcohol creates connection. These beliefs often show up around dinners out, parties, weekends, vacations, celebrations, and those moments when you had a plan—until you were surrounded by other people drinking.Molly explains why the challenge is not simply being in a bar, at a restaurant, at a party, or on vacation. The deeper issue is that your brain may have learned to associate alcohol with belonging, ease, confidence, playfulness, and connection. When that belief is running in the background, choosing to drink less can feel like choosing a lesser version of the experience.But alcohol is not the source of your humor, warmth, courage, or ability to connect. Those parts of you already exist.In this science-forward episode, Molly breaks down how alcohol expectancies, social cues, dopamine, reward prediction, and alcohol myopia can make drinking feel automatic in social settings. She also shares how to challenge the thoughts that make alcohol feel necessary and how to build new evidence that fun, connection, and belonging are still fully available when you drink less.You'll learn how to use the 4S process—See, Soothe, Separate, and Shift—to question the belief that alcohol makes everything better. Instead of relying on willpower in the moment, Molly encourages you to create a doable drink plan ahead of time, protect your awareness before alcohol narrows it, and practice proving to your brain that you can enjoy social situations without giving alcohol all the credit.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why social situations can make drinking less feel harder than drinking less at homeHow the beliefs “alcohol makes things more fun” and “alcohol creates connection” fuel desireWhy “everyone is drinking” can feel so powerful, even when you genuinely want to drink lessHow alcohol expectancies shape what you believe a drink will do for youWhy familiar cues like restaurants, vacations, Friday afternoons, and celebrations can trigger urgesWhat alcohol myopia is and why “I'll decide later” is often not a strong enough planHow to separate the facts of a social situation from the story your brain is tellingHow to use the 4S process to challenge old beliefs and practice new onesWhy alcohol may be present during fun and connection without being the cause of either oneKey Takeaway:Alcohol may be present during fun, connection, celebration, and belonging—but that does not mean alcohol created those things.When you stop giving alcohol full credit for the experience, you can begin reclaiming your own confidence, humor, warmth, playfulness, and ability to connect. Drinking less is not about having less fun. It is about learning that fun was never dependent on alcohol in the first place.Mentioned in This Episode:Mostly Dry July: The Daily begins July 1st.Join Molly for daily support, coaching, and practical tools to help you create a peaceful relationship with alcohol throughout the month of July.Learn more at: https://mollywatts.com/mostlydryjuly/Resources:Join the Alcohol Minimalist Facebook group for support, conversation, and real-life strategies for changing your drinking habits.Learn more about Molly's programs and resources at mollywatts.com.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Rethinking drinking? You're not the only one. Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from an episode that you might have missed.  We all know alcohol messes with our health, but do you know how much it gets in the way of real connection? We're throwing it back to a deep chat with Amanda Kuda on how alcohol impacts our confidence, energy, social lives and more. Tune in to find out if you fall into the moderators vs. abstainers archetype, and how to realistically change your relationship with booze. Amanda is an alcohol-free life coach, speaker, and author of Unbottled Potential: Break Up With Alcohol and Break Through to Your Best Life. Amanda teaches a modern, empowering approach to personal development and self-actualization through the lens of elective sobriety—no rock bottom necessary. Whether you're looking to cut back, reassess your relationship with drinking, or explore what an alcohol-free lifestyle could do for your energy, confidence, dating life, and emotional wellbeing, Amanda offers tons of vulnerability and insight. Listen to our full episode with Amanda here. Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. Follow Amanda: https://www.amandakuda.com/  For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Subscribe to my Substack:teachmehowtoadult.substack.comFollow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

Sonja Grace (sonjagrace.com) is a mystic healer, energy surgeon and spirit traveler with over forty years of experience. Of Norwegian descent with Native American Choctaw and Cherokee heritage, she was adopted on the Hopi Reservation in Arizona and is recognised there as a medicine woman.She is the creator of the COVR Visionary Award-winning oracle deck Odin and the Nine Realms, and the Beverly Hills Book Award-winning author of Spirit Traveler and Dancing with Raven and Bear (Simon & Schuster). Her latest book, The Journey Around the Medicine Wheel: The Sacred Trinity, draws directly on the Hopi ceremonial teachings she carries.She has appeared across four seasons of GAIA TV's Beyond Belief, and her recent conversation with Alex Ferrari on Next Level Soul has drawn over 277,000 viewsThought about training to be a sober coach?Join our Webinar Explore a career as a sober coachtuesday 16 June at 7.30pmConnection is keyJoin us for a very special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Hello Love thursday 25 June 6.30You can come on your own! https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regularzoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work goto www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts JUne 25 email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend from Clive – if you use this ??link for everything you buy, a bit goes into ourSober Club giveback fund If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& TheWoo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace

This week on Think Thursday, Molly explores a fascinating concept from Jim Collins' newest book, What to Make of a Life: encodings—the unique interests, abilities, and areas of engagement that make us come alive.Using the remarkable story of NFL legend and Minnesota Supreme Court Justice Alan Page, Molly examines how our lives may hold more possibilities than we realize and why the person we are today is not the final version of ourselves.Drawing connections to Benjamin Hardy's Personality Isn't Permanent and the science of neuroplasticity, this episode challenges the belief that our identities are fixed and invites us to remain curious about who we might still become.In This Episode: What Jim Collins means by "encodings"  The surprising second career of Alan Page  Why identity is more flexible than we think  How neuroplasticity supports lifelong growth and discovery  The difference between your history and your potential  Why changing your relationship with alcohol can create space for new possibilities  How curiosity may be more important than finding a single purpose Key TakeawayYour past tells the story of what you've experienced so far. It does not define everything you're capable of becoming. There may be strengths, interests, and opportunities still waiting to emerge—and your next chapter may reveal a side of yourself you haven't yet discovered.Resources MentionedWhat to Make of a Life by Jim CollinsPersonality Isn't Permanent by Benjamin HardyListen in and consider this question: What if the most interesting part of your story hasn't happened yet? ★ Support this podcast ★

Send us Fan MailMost people don't talk honestly enough about drinking more than they planned.Not because they have no discipline.Not because they are broken.Not because they need more shame.But often because alcohol has become the way they switch off, calm down, reward themselves, or deal with stress, overthinking, grief, or emotional overload.In this episode, I'm joined by Tansy Forrest, clinical hypnotherapist and author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well.Tansy shares her own story of realizing alcohol had become a coping tool after grief, and how hypnotherapy helped her change her relationship with drinking. Today, she helps high-functioning adults drink less without labels, shame, or all-or-nothing thinking.We talk about:Why alcohol often becomes the “off switch” after a long dayThe connection between overthinking, overworking, and overdrinkingWhy willpower alone usually doesn't workWhy moderation is a skill you can learnHow to plan your drinking before the evening startsWhat to do after a night where you drank more than plannedHow hypnotherapy can help calm the nervous system and interrupt automatic patternsBetter ways to unwind without using alcohol as the only toolThis conversation is not about judging alcohol or telling everyone they must quit forever.It is about awareness, planning, self-trust, and learning how to feel more in control.If you've ever told yourself, “I'll just have one,” and then it turned into more than you planned, this episode is for you.Learn more about Tansy's work at tansyforrest.com , her YouTube Channel @tansyforrest and find her book Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well on Amazon.If you want help building healthier routines around food, fitness, stress, and real-life habits, check my coaching options here:personaltrainerturo.it

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly kicks off the series When Drinking Less Feels Hard, inspired by real responses from the Alcohol Minimalist community about the hardest parts of changing drinking habits.Today's episode focuses on one of the five Alcohol Core Beliefs: Alcohol Helps Me Relieve Stress.Alcohol can feel like relief in the moment because it creates a short-term shift in the brain and body. But that does not mean it is actually reducing stress. Molly explains how alcohol can disrupt sleep, increase next-day anxiety, and keep the brain stuck in the loop of believing alcohol is necessary for relaxation. This episode helps you look at stress drinking with curiosity instead of shame, and offers a practical way to challenge the belief that alcohol is the best or only way to unwind.In This Episode Why alcohol feels calming at first  The difference between a state change and real stress relief  How alcohol can affect sleep, anxiety, and next-day resilience  Why the brain learns to associate alcohol with relief  How to use See, Soothe, Separate, and Shift to challenge the urge to drink Key TakeawayWanting relief is human. But alcohol often borrows calm from tomorrow instead of creating real relief today.Listener PracticeBefore drinking in response to stress, pause and complete this sentence:“I need a drink because…”Then use the Alcohol Core Beliefs process:See: I'm having the thought that alcohol will relieve this stress. Soothe: Of course my brain is offering this; I've practiced this pattern. Separate: The fact is I'm stressed. The story is that alcohol is required. Shift: I can create real relief before I decide what to drink.Choose one action that actually addresses the need underneath the urge.Resources Mentioned:Alcohol Core Beliefs MindmapSee, Soothe, Separate, ShiftWhen Drinking Less Feels Hard seriesLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Dry July, No Drama: Daily Tips for a Take It or Leave It Relationship With Alcohol EPISODE 7: The Sober Curious Secret - Stop Trying to Stop Drinking - Dry July, No Drama I know this sounds counterintuitive. Stick with me. All that stopping and starting - the trying, the failing, the trying again - plays havoc with our hearts and nervous systems when we are trying to cut back on drinking. In the methodology I teach, we call it The Pause. It is the very best preparation for taking a successful break from alcohol. Not white-knuckling it. Not battling. Pausing - and getting genuinely curious. If you are breaking your own heart on a daily basis - stop trying and start learning: Notice your routines, rituals and triggers around drinking Notice the actual physical and emotional experience of drinking - without judgement Become a data gatherer, not a failure counter Stop breaking your trust in yourself. Get into choice. This is how a sober curious 30-day break starts to feel effortless - and how alcohol becomes a genuine non-issue rather than something to white-knuckle your way through. This episode is part of Dry July, No Drama - a daily MidlifeAF podcast mini series with tips for cutting back on alcohol without willpower, labels or forever. My free resources below will help you prepare for and get the most out of your break. See links below: FREE TOOLS - four beautiful resources to help you drink less and feel fabulous: 1. 7 Steps to Take Back Control of Alcohol - the exact steps I took when I started out on this journey nearly five years ago. hoperisingcoaching.com/7-steps 2. Awareness Worksheets - if you do nothing else, working through the answers to these questions will change your relationship with alcohol for the better. hoperisingcoaching.com/awareness-worksheets-opt-in 3. Your North Star Visualisation - stops your brain freaking out about doing something unfamiliar. hoperisingcoaching.com/northstarvisualisation 4. Grounding Meditation - you know that feeling when you have a drink and the body goes "aaaaaaaahhhhhhh" and everything seems to relax? What the body really needs is to ground - to come back home to self, and for self to feel lovely. That is what we work on in my live programs. We start every session with a grounding and connect with ourselves to find out what our body really needs when it thinks it wants to drink. hoperisingcoaching.com/grounding READY TO GO DEEPER? Ready to make alcohol a non-issue? Watch my free one-hour masterclass: 5 Surprising Ways Taking a Break from Booze Can Be Effortless and Change Your Life. One hour. Five shifts. Your take it or leave it relationship with alcohol starts here. WATCH NOW FOR FREE: hoperisingcoaching.com/masterclass Are you tired of the mental back-and-forth about drinking? I am running a FREE 3-Day Alcohol Reset on 23, 24 and 25 June, 7pm Melb/Syd (replays available). No willpower talk. No abstinence pressure. You can even drink while you do it. A judgement-free space to learn the tools to step into a take it or leave it relationship with alcohol. REGISTER FREE: hoperisingcoaching.com/3-day-reset Want a take it or leave it relationship with alcohol? Want to stop all the "will I, won't I" internal conflict around wine? I am running the Great Aussie Alcohol Experiment LIVE from Wednesday 1 July. 30 days. Small group coaching. Only 25 spots. Small, intimate and private. Rewire your brain and nervous system so you no longer have to reach for a glass to quieten your busy brain, calm your overwhelmed soul or socialise when your social battery is spent. Early bird pricing open now - $500 off the full price, plus two 1:1 counselling sessions with me and 3 webinars included (worth +$1,000). We won't run this live again until October. YOUR NEXT RIGHT MOVE STARTS HERE: hoperisingcoaching.com/the_great_aussie_alcohol_experiment Change happens in a moment, my friends - the preparation for change takes a little bit of time. Take the time. You will be amazed at the difference it makes.

June is Men's mental health month, so there is another chance to hear the first interview I did with Sam Delaney author of Mental Health without all the b**llocks and Sortyour s**t out.Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.Thought about training to be a sober coach?Join our next webinar Tuesday 16 June at 7.30 pmRegister HEREConnection is keyJoin us for a very special recording of the Alcohol Free Life podcast live at Hello Love thursday 25 June, myspecial guest is Matt Pink and Noughty AF will be served! You can come on your own! Try some amazing AF drinks and meet like minded people https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regularzoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work go to www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts June 27-28 email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend from Clive – if you use this link for everything you buy, a bit goes into ourSober Club giveback fund If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& TheWoo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly revisits the past episode on why habits can feel unbreakable—and why the real issue is often not the behavior itself, but the story we keep repeating about it.Your brain is not broken. It is designed to recognize patterns, conserve energy, and repeat what feels familiar. But when familiar patterns are fueled by negative self-talk, change can feel harder than it needs to be.Molly explains how the negativity bias keeps us focused on what went wrong and shares a simple framework to help interrupt old thought patterns: See, Soothe, Separate, and Shift.What You'll Learn Why your brain defaults to familiar habits.  How negative self-talk keeps old patterns alive.  Why one mistake can feel bigger than five wins.  How to separate facts from stories.  How to practice a next-best thought that supports change. Key TakeawayYour habit is not unbreakable. It is learned.And if your brain can learn one pattern, it can learn another. Changing your relationship with alcohol starts with changing the story you tell yourself about what is possible.Mentioned in This EpisodeThink Thursday Negativity bias  Negative self-talk  Habit change Alcohol Minimalist Facebook GroupMaking Peace with AlcoholUntil next time, choose peace. ★ Support this podcast ★

Vulnerable episode alert!!!! After two bad drinking experiences back to back, I'm finally doing what I should've done years ago: taking a hard look at my relationship with alcohol and creating a new normal.I'm breaking down why I don't drink like other people do (if you've never questioned how you've made it home, don't talk to me), what it means to be sober curious without committing to full sobriety, and why I keep getting conflicting advice — everyone says I don't need to quit, but why do I feel like I need to?Will people stop inviting me out if I'm not drinking? Will I seem boring? And most importantly: will this tank the Literally Heinous brand I've spent years building? I share the mindset shifts and practical tricks that are helping me maintain my youthful spirit and zest for life while also putting my health and career first.But first a Knicks rant. SORRY

In this revisited episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly explores the connection between ADHD and alcohol use. For many people with ADHD, alcohol can seem helpful at first—quieting a busy brain, easing anxiety, or creating a sense of calm—but it can also worsen impulsivity, sleep, emotional regulation, and decision-making over time. Molly explains why ADHD may increase vulnerability to overdrinking, binge drinking, and using alcohol as a coping tool. She also discusses why it's important to be thoughtful about drinking when taking ADHD medications and why support, planning, and self-compassion matter.In This Episode What ADHD is and how symptoms can show up differently  Why alcohol may feel temporarily useful for ADHD symptoms  How alcohol can make ADHD challenges worse  The role of dopamine, impulsivity, and emotional regulation  Why ADHD medication and alcohol can be a concerning combination  Practical supports like a Doable Drink Plan, mindfulness, therapy, coaching, and medical guidance Listener ReflectionAre you using alcohol to quiet your brain, regulate emotions, reduce restlessness, or make life feel more manageable?Noticing the pattern is not a reason for shame. It is a starting point for change.DisclaimerThis episode is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Please consult a qualified healthcare provider if you have questions about ADHD, alcohol use, or medication interactions.Until next time, choose peace.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Another chance to hear Clare Pooley in conversation at Club Soda some time ago, back then the new novel How to age disracefully was just published.I hope that inspires you to come to our next live podcast event on Thursday 25June at Hello Love in London with special guest Matt Pink Thursday 25 Junein Bloomsbury London, Join us for a live podcastrecording with special guest Matt Pink, best selling author, co founder of Dryyand founder of THOM, its going to be a great evening! Book tickets HERE https://www.hellolove.org/eventsBefore then, come see me at the Be MoreYou day near East Midlands airport  Gettickets https://hausofwisdom.com/bemoreyouThought about training to be a Sober Coach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach drop me a message.  The price is risingconsiderably after our June cohort due to VAT hitting, so get in touch now if you're getting the ‘nudge'.Join us for a webinar Tuesday 16 June https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesan online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentwww.thesoberclub.comSupplements for Sobriety, we all need Magnesium! Try this blend it's the best, and also buy the Vit C, D and Iodine from CliveUse this link and a bit goes to our giveback fund https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Platinum Awards If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enter and Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukRegisterHERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/www.thesoberclub.comThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts  June 27-28 email Janey for a chat to see ifits right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.comCheck out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace 

In this final Think Thursday episode for Mental Health Awareness Month, Molly explores the difference between emotional regulation and emotional suppression — and why so many high-functioning people are carrying emotional stress they've never fully acknowledged.You'll learn how the nervous system continues responding to emotions even when we try to override or ignore them, why coping behaviors often emerge when emotions go unnamed, and how becoming more aware of your thoughts and feelings can create powerful emotional agency and lasting behavior change.This episode also explores: The neuroscience of emotional suppression and stress  Stanford psychologist James Gross's research on emotion regulation  UCLA research on “affect labeling” and calming the nervous system  Why thoughts — not circumstances — create emotional experiences  How awareness creates space, and space creates choice  The connection between emotional honesty, nervous system health, and behavior change If you've been feeling emotionally flat, chronically overwhelmed, unusually reactive, or disconnected from yourself, this conversation is an invitation to slow down, get curious, and begin listening to what your nervous system may be trying to tell you.Resources & Research Mentioned: James Gross, Stanford University — Emotion Regulation Research  Matthew Lieberman, UCLA — Affect Labeling & Emotional Processing ★ Support this podcast ★

Let's get one thing straight: this isn't another “just drink less” conversation. Because if it were that simple, you would've solved it already. In this raw, honest, and slightly uncomfortable episode, Nicole sits down with intuitive drinking coach Colleen Freeland—host of the It's Not About the Alcohol podcast and a former high-functioning overdrinker herself—to unpack what's really behind overdrinking, especially for high-achieving women who “have it all together”… on paper.  It's not about willpower. It's not about discipline. And it's definitely not just about alcohol. It's about what you're trying to escape. Colleen breaks down why alcohol is often just the symptom—not the problem—and how coping mechanisms like perfectionism, overworking, and even “healthy habits” can be just as numbing if we don't address the root cause. What We Talk About: Why alcohol isn't the problem—it's the signal The real reason high-achieving women overdrink (hint: it's not lack of discipline) Why removing alcohol doesn't fix the issue—it just replaces it Nervous system regulation: the skill no one taught you (but you desperately need) How to rebuild self-trust after patterns you're not proud of Why feeling better starts with admitting you don't feel okay This conversation flips the script on everything we've been taught about drinking, self-control, and “fixing” ourselves. Because the goal may not be to eliminate the coping mechanism… maybe the goal is to build a life you don't constantly need to escape from. Thank you to our sponsors! Visit Upwork.com right now and post your job for free! Families are better when they're working together… go to myskylight.com/WOMANSWORK for $30 off your Skylight Calendar. Become a Fora Advisor today at Foratravel.com/woman  Connect with Colleen: Website: https://www.emotionalsobrietycoaching.com/  IG: https://www.instagram.com/thehangoverwhisperer/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hangoverwhisperer  Podcast: https://www.emotionalsobrietycoaching.com/podcast  Related Podcast Episodes Stop Saying “I'm Fine”: Nervous System Regulation for High-Achieving Women with Michelle Grosser | 372 How Our Dysregulated Nervous Systems Are Impacting Us with Victoria Albina | 244 Sober Curious with Amanda Kuda | 270 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform!

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly revisits one of the show's most popular topics: buffering.Buffering is what we do when we use alcohol, food, shopping, scrolling, or other distractions to avoid uncomfortable emotions. It is not a character flaw—it is a human coping strategy driven by a brain wired to seek pleasure and avoid pain.Molly explains how alcohol can become a buffer for stress, boredom, insecurity, or discomfort, and why temporary relief often leads to more anxiety, regret, or overconsumption later. The goal is not to feel good all the time. The goal is to build awareness, feel your feelings, and stop using alcohol to escape your life. In This EpisodeYou'll learn: What buffering is  Why alcohol is commonly used to avoid emotions  How the lower brain seeks quick relief  Why buffering creates temporary pleasure but long-term consequences  How awareness helps you change your drinking habits  Why feeling discomfort is part of creating a peaceful relationship with alcohol Key TakeawayBuffering does not solve uncomfortable emotions—it only delays them. When you stop using alcohol to numb, distract, or escape, you can begin to understand what you are actually feeling and create real, lasting change.Reflection QuestionThe next time you want a drink, pause and ask:“What am I feeling right now, and what am I trying not to feel?”Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Janey chats to Louise Marwood, actor, comedian write and CEO of Sober and the city about her work in TV, her journey from rock bottom to recovery.Thought about training to be a Sober Coach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach drop me a message.  The price is risingconsiderably after our June cohort due to VAT hitting, so get in touch now ifyou're getting the ‘nudge'.Join us for a webinar Tuesday 16 June https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/Thursday 25 June in Bloomsbury London, Join us for a live podcast recording with special guest Matt Pink, best selling author, co founder of Dryy and founder of THOM, its going to be a great evening! Book tickets HERE https://www.hellolove.org/eventsBefore then, come see me at the Mind Body Spiritfestival Friday 22 May at 3.45, my talk is Happy Healthy Sober or Sober Curious?https://shorturl.at/PJkFLJoin us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentwww.thesoberclub.comSupplements for Sobriety, we all need Magnesium! Try this blend it's the best, and also buy the Vit C, D and Iodine from CliveUse this link and a bit goes to our giveback fund https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Platinum Awards If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enter and Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/www.thesoberclub.comThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts  June 27-28 email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.comCheck out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace

Do you ever reach the end of the day feeling mentally exhausted but wonder what you actually accomplished? You're not imagining it. What we often call multitasking is actually rapid task switching, and every shift in attention comes with a hidden cost.In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores the neuroscience behind attention, cognitive fatigue, and why modern life constantly pulls our brains in more directions than they were designed to handle. You'll learn why your brain can feel drained even when you haven't done anything physically demanding and why protecting your attention may be one of the healthiest things you can do.In this episode:• Why multitasking is mostly a myth • The concept of “attention residue” and how it impacts focus • The role of the prefrontal cortex and working memory • Why novelty and dopamine keep pulling us toward distractions • How modern technology competes for your attention • A simple 20-minute experiment to help reclaim your focusThink Thursday Experiment:Choose one thing and give it 20 uninterrupted minutes. Close the extra tabs, silence the notifications, and notice what changes.Referenced in this episode:• Research on Attention Residue by Sophie Leroy • Cognitive shifting and attention science • Previous Think Thursday episode on Cognitive Shuffling and Sleep  ★ Support this podcast ★

Amy Edwards and I start this episode discussing the most Austin way possible to meet someone… at a pussy casting workshop.

Memorial Day weekend marks the unofficial start of summer, and for many of us, summer brings familiar alcohol cues: barbecues, beach trips, camping weekends, and backyard gatherings.In this episode, Molly shares how to head into holiday weekends and summer events with more clarity, confidence, and peace. You'll learn how the habit loop of cue, behavior, and reward can show up around seasonal drinking, why cravings are not a sign that you're powerless, and how to make a simple plan that supports the version of you who wants to drink less.Whether you plan to drink or not, this episode will help you stay curious, avoid shame, and create more conscious choices around alcohol all summer long.Resources Mentioned: Unwinding Anxiety by Dr. Jud Brewer The Craving Mind by Dr. Jud Brewer Dopamine Nation by Dr. Anna Lembke Sunnyside Med The Alcohol Minimalists: Change Your Drinking Habits Facebook groupKey takeaway: You don't need rigid rules to change your summer drinking habits. You need awareness, curiosity, and a peaceful plan.Choose peace.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Janey shares some thoughts on the powerof curiosity and being able to listen to your gut instincts.Thought about training to be a Sober Coach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach drop me a message.  The price is risingconsiderably after our June cohort due to VAT hitting, so get in touch now if you're getting the ‘nudge'.Thursday 25 June in Bloomsbury London, Join us for a live podcast recording with special guest Matt Pink, best selling author, co founder of Dryy and founder of THOM, its going to be a great evening! Book tickets HERE https://www.hellolove.org/eventsBefore then, come see me at the Mind Body Spiritfestival Friday 22 May at 3.45, my talk is Happy Healthy Sober or Sober Curious?https://shorturl.at/PJkFLJoin us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentwww.thesoberclub.comSupplements for Sobriety, we all need Magnesium! Try this blend it's the best, and also buy the Vit C, D and Iodine from CliveUse this link and a bit goes to our giveback fund https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Platinum Awards If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enter and Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukRegisterHERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/www.thesoberclub.comThankyou for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIfyou're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this!@janeyleegrace Ditched the Boozeand want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts  June 27-28 email Janey for a chat to see ifits right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.comCheckout my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollowJaney on social media@janeyleegrace 

On this Think Thursday episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly explores the strange kind of exhaustion that happens when your brain is overstimulated but your body has barely moved.Inspired by a TED Talk from journalist Manoush Zomorodi and research from Dr. Keith Diaz at Columbia University, this episode looks at how prolonged sitting, constant screen input, and disconnection from body signals can affect focus, energy, mood, and nervous system regulation.The takeaway: your brain is not just a thinking machine. It is part of a moving biological system, and even small movement breaks can help you feel more clear, calm, and connected. What You'll Learn Why screen-based work can leave you mentally drained  What interoception is and why it matters  How small movement breaks support focus, energy, and mood  Why movement is not just exercise, but a way to reconnect with your body Try ThisToday, interrupt sitting with five minutes of gentle movement. Walk, stretch, stand outside, or take a lap around the house.The goal is not intensity. The goal is reconnection.Reflection Question: Where in your day are you ignoring your body's signals because your brain is busy chasing the next task, email, or scroll? ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly revisits the powerful belief so many people carry: “I come from a long line of drinkers.” Whether that story comes from family history, cultural identity, holiday traditions, or growing up with a parent who struggled with alcohol, it can quietly shape the way we think about our own drinking.Molly shares how her mother's alcohol use impacted her life, her relationship with alcohol, and the narrative she carried for years about genetics and inevitability. But while genetics may play a role in alcohol use disorder, Molly reminds listeners that your future relationship with alcohol is not predetermined by your family, your heritage, or your past.This episode is an invitation to look at the stories you learned about alcohol and decide which ones you want to keep, which ones you want to question, and which ones you're ready to leave behind. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why “I come from a long line of drinkers” may be a story worth questioning  How family history and cultural traditions can influence your desire to drink  The difference between genetic predisposition and predetermined outcomes  Why awareness of science, society, family patterns, and the alcohol industry matters  How alcohol-related beliefs can be passed down without ever being intentionally taught  Why discomfort at family gatherings is not the same thing as a true trigger  How to begin creating a new path toward a peaceful relationship with alcohol Key TakeawayYour family history may explain how some of your alcohol beliefs were formed, but it does not have to decide your future. You can honor your family, your heritage, and your traditions while still choosing a different relationship with alcohol.Listener ReflectionBefore your next family dinner, holiday, celebration, or social event, ask yourself:What story am I telling myself about why alcohol needs to be part of this experience?Then get curious. Is that story absolutely true? Is it helping you create the relationship with alcohol you want? Or is it simply a belief you've practiced for a long time?Mentioned in This Episode: Episode 46: Alcohol and Genetics  Previous discussion on the ALDH2 genetic variant  Episodes featuring Dr. David Nutt and Dr. Eddie Jaffe Breaking the Bottle Legacy Sunnyside Med and naltrexone support  The role of media and family culture in normalizing alcohol use Action StepPut on your “scientific observer” hat at your next family or social gathering. Notice the thoughts that come up around drinking, especially thoughts like: “This is just what we do.”  “I need a drink to get through this.”  “It won't be the same without alcohol.”  “Everyone in my family drinks.” You do not need to argue with those thoughts. Just notice them, question them, and practice choosing the next best thought that supports the relationship with alcohol you actually want.Changing your drinking habits and creating a peaceful relationship with alcohol is possible. You can stop worrying, stop feeling guilty about overdrinking, and become someone who desires alcohol less.To learn more about working with Molly, visit the website or reach out directly by email.Until next time, choose peace.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

This week's guest is Susie Pearl, best selling author, coach and former PR to the stars.  What an incredible life shehas! Get herbook Instructions for Happiness https://amzn.to/4tYn4RH⁠ H Check out www.susiepearl.comThought about training to be a SoberCoach? If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach drop me a message. Join our next webinar Thursday 14 May at 7.30pmI'll be chatting to one of the coaches I trained Polly who now works full time as a sober life coach https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.Thursday 25 June in Bloomsbury London, Join us for a live podcast recording with special guest Matt Pink, best selling author, co founder of Dryy and founder of THOM, its going to be a great evening! Book tickets HERE https://www.hellolove.org/eventsBefore then, come see me at the Mind Body Spirit festival Friday 22 May at 3.45, my talk is Happy Healthy Sober or Sober Curious?https://shorturl.at/PJkFLNew to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentwww.thesoberclub.comSupplements for Sobriety, we all need Magnesium! Try this blend it's the best, and also buy the Vit C, D and Iodine fromClive Use this link and a bit goes to ourgiveback fund https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Platinum Awards If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enter and Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/www.thesoberclub.comThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts  June 27-28 email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.comCheck out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace

Sleep, Mental Health, and the Science of FlourishingThis week on Think Thursday, Molly revisits a topic that has shown up many times on the podcast: sleep. But this conversation takes a different angle in recognition of Mental Health Awareness Month.Drawing from recent research from the National Sleep Foundation, Molly explores the connection between sleep and “flourishing” — not just the absence of anxiety or depression, but the ability to feel emotionally well, resilient, hopeful, connected, and capable in daily life.In this episode:Why sleep is foundational to emotional regulation and mental healthHow sleep deprivation impacts the amygdala and prefrontal cortexThe relationship between sleep, dopamine, impulsivity, and behavior changeWhy exhaustion has become normalized in modern cultureMolly's personal experience tracking sleep with an Oura ringHow alcohol impacts REM sleep, recovery, and sleep qualityThe concept of “sleep debt” and why recovery sleep mattersA fascinating sleep technique called cognitive shuffling and how it may help calm an overactive brain at nightKey takeaway:Sometimes what feels like a motivation problem, mindset problem, or emotional resilience problem may actually be an exhausted nervous system asking for restoration.Referenced research:National Sleep Foundation Sleep in America Polls (2023 & 2025)If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast. It helps more people discover the show and supports the mission of helping people better understand their beautiful, brilliant human brains. ★ Support this podcast ★

รวมคำแนะนำเรื่องไขมันจาก รศ.ดร.สถาพร งามอุโฆษ ผู้เชี่ยวชาญเรื่องไขมันจากคณะสหเวชศาสตร์ ภาควิชาโภชนาการและการกำหนดอาหาร จุฬาลงกรณ์มหาวิทยาลัย มาอธิบายเรื่องไขมันแบบละเอียด และตอบคำถามตั้งแต่วิธีกินไขมันให้ดีกับร่างกาย และวิธีเลือกน้ำมันแบบต่าง ๆ มาทำอาหารเองที่บ้าน   ติดตามชมรายการ Eat Direction  EP.1 เทรนด์ล่าสุดวงการราเมง  https://youtu.be/msHms2gJhdY?si=K3p4rhUwcsHbk3ZO EP.2 กินเนื้อยังไงให้อร่อย https://youtu.be/wxXxxMLz1Wk?si=zNHPiJ0dpYsnbcT5 EP.3 ทำไมกล้าขายไอติมถ้วยละพัน https://youtu.be/PyNIbT-k4j8?si=2dscX5Qk9JPiXokz EP.4 Slow Sake เทรนด์เปลี่ยนวงการสาเกญี่ปุ่น https://youtu.be/HQxmfJYT19M?si=flAnLT56DpLn8tv6 EP.5 เชียงรายกินอะไรดี https://youtu.be/C4l5KNXIjfk?si=q372etymqx5-4ofB EP.6 ปัญหาของอาหารอีสาน https://youtu.be/jxJpJ4n7fz8?si=AJARW0H0Yu-ylpb0 EP.7 ไก่แบบไหนทำข้าวมันไก่อร่อย https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUuQz7Egd_Q EP.8 10 อาหารที่ต้องกินในปี 2025  https://youtu.be/JLcm7LypU3s?si=k_h1BkY1cC94qezW EP.9 เลือกไวน์ยังไงให้เหมาะกับอาหาร https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ehUkng2s2NI&t=21s  EP.10  วิธีกินซูชิให้เป็น  https://youtu.be/wSpq87KTUWY?si=L8qsdRsojsK-hWFK EP.11 อาหารเชียงใหม่สายลึก https://youtu.be/nw208m1tsQY?si=JPQV5JvNlVhwF7Uh EP.12 เบื้องหลังของ Food Blogger https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pD_HQmYzYDI  EP.13 วิธีกินข้าวแช่ พร้อมเครื่อง 40 อย่าง https://youtu.be/4dLSSgF8IAw?si=UfnqEgPTA1KvBXvb  EP.14 สอนสูดเส้น และความรู้เบื้องต้นก่อนเข้าร้านราเมง https://youtu.be/VL5U1BGcRKM?si=pHLi_QMO5YdvJyjd  EP.15 ขนมปังเปรี้ยวและเปลือกแข็งต้องกินยังไง https://youtu.be/pi2zx5VrJtM?si=yhX_LBDAt7zFyF1d EP.16 คู่มือเข้าใจชีส ฉบับคนอยากลอง https://youtu.be/K591jbc8W-w?si=HjRX0gFbvHywkDe-  EP.17 ชานม ชาไทย ชาใต้ ชาชัก ชานมใต้หวัน นมอังกฤษ ชานมฮ่องกง ต่างกันยังไง https://youtu.be/ALvszt--PJI?si=nEMEwgx4sv_9MjK- EP.18 แนะนำร้านอาหาร หาดใหญ่เช้าจนดึก https://youtu.be/DoDvqor38AQ?si=5a-Jn4vPikDLh76u  EP.19 วิธีดื่มน้ำอัดลมแบบที่สุขภาพจะไม่พังในอนาคต https://youtu.be/KnPQyCLA3WE?si=61rtqSbs_P5V-4H1  EP.20 อาหารเป็นพิษ ออกฤทธิ์หลังจากกินกี่ชั่วโมง และอีกหลายคำถามเรื่อง Food Safety กับ เชฟทักษ์ https://youtu.be/nePzNbKjJkY?si=F12pBMky_rDL-j3l  EP.21 ทำไมคนไทยไม่ชอบให้ใคร ว่าอาหารไทยไม่อร่อย https://youtu.be/Wy9hCFMFPMI?si=31_f-6ECLIwJ011W EP.22 ลงใต้ไปเบตง กินหมูย่างทั้งตัวที่หน้าเตา Feat. อารยา และ บิ๊ก อิทธิชัย https://youtu.be/CezFe-Hu2-8?si=JVnFP8luHc_rutri  EP.23 ใส่ผงชูรสเท่าไหร่ ใส่ตอนไหน ปลอดภัยและอร่อยที่สุด https://youtu.be/lIOT_nOV118?si=5FJj3hjcsuGTrV6c  EP.24 ขนมไหว้พระจันทร์ผสมอะไร ถึงเก็บได้หลายเดือนสมัยไม่มีตู้เย็น https://youtu.be/0EOuPKAsOps?si=aA-c_O9aOqpybjzk EP.25 Sober Curious ถ้าไม่อยากดื่มแอลฯ แล้วจะดื่มอะไรดี https://youtu.be/lY1m_ZwA-hw?si=1m5qmuBYbqQwPDWU EP.26 เชฟทักษ์ตอบคำถามจากทางบ้านเรื่อง Food Safety ครั้งที่ 2 https://youtu.be/L50EidWWMKw?si=qlPDf1mweHlNAGnB EP.27 วิธีเลือกและสังเกตปลาคุณภาพดี อัปเดตปี 2025 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NSkwMQr1oCM&t=159s EP. 28 เปิดจักรวาลแกง กับบังก้อง Schwedakong https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOVnDaiRMJc&t=2050s EP.29 Ultra Processed Food อะไรกินได้ อะไรควรเอ๊ะ! https://youtu.be/_kDNRc9sKjk EP. 30 รู้จักโลกของน้ำพริกและรสเผ็ด กับ อาจารย์ต้น-อนุสรณ์ ติปยานนท์  https://youtu.be/BSBDO9LgkBU?si=IJGdubhYoV99QMwz  EP. 31 เทรนด์อาหารน่ารู้ไว้ในปี 2026 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=viObUs9J8d8  EP.32 Flexitarian การกินแบบยืดหยุ่น แต่กินได้ทุกอย่างช่วยให้ร่างกายดียังไง https://youtu.be/Kjievbv3Jbs?si=pzBB63dxSis928k- EP.33 ฉลากโภชนาการ อ่านยังไง อ่านแล้วช่วยอะไร https://youtu.be/VZ_oo4aOtvg?si=H0Ekoj99iheOK57q EP.34 กินยังไงให้นอนหลับดี https://youtu.be/SitIb9tmBPw?si=f5BZHJ2xrkdbYEhM EP.35 หมูกระทะ ส้มตำเผ็ด ๆ ช่วยคลายเครียดได้ยังไง  https://youtu.be/SiFq1L5N6Kc?si=Cx6rx93oieRobR9U EP.36 ตัวจริงวัตถุดิบไทย ไปครบ 77 จังหวัด หาวัตถุดิบมาทำอาหาร https://youtu.be/4nvHg7ATlHs?si=AD9sd1AP3WxSAgTI EP.37 จะเกิดอะไรขึ้นกับร่างกายถ้าเรากินโปรตีนไม่พอ https://youtu.be/x1jHv_dDqdI EP.38 วิธีรักษาโรคกรดไหลย้อนแบบคนโบราณ https://youtu.be/LyvogIUPOT4 EP. 39 | นักกำหนดอาหารแนะนำวิธีกินแป้ง-น้ำตาล แบบไม่ต้องกลัวอ้วน  https://youtu.be/95nSLr3n0Ao EP.40 ณเดชน์วางแผนการการกินยังไงก่อนไปแข่ง HYROX https://youtu.be/fkQ3ftJraJk?si=w25AONFuekN3rpbK   #readthecloud #TheCloud #eatdirection #ไขมัน #น้ำมัน #fat #nutrition  #ความรู้ #food #อาหาร #trend #jiranarong #จิรณรงค์ #เครื่องดื่ม #รายการอาหาร #รายการสัมภาษณ์ #พอร์ตแคส #พอดแคส    ทีมงาน กำกับ : ทรัพย์ทวี สมีแจ้ง ครีเอทีฟ : จิรณรงค์ วงษ์สุนทร ช่างภาพ : ศวิตา ศีลตระกูล , เจษฎา ขิมสุข , ชรันธร แก้วไพฑูรย์ ลำดับภาพ : กิตติรักษ์ คงอาวุธ ควบคุมการผลิต : ทิพย์นารี โถทอง , ชนกพัดชา สินอาษา  

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly revisits episode 100: “5 Things I Had to Change Before I Changed My Drinking.” Originally released in November 2022, this conversation is just as relevant today because lasting change doesn't begin with the perfect drink plan. It begins with mindset.Molly shares the five foundational shifts she had to make before she could create a peaceful relationship with alcohol. From giving up the need to know she would succeed, to no longer using fear, failure, timing, or life circumstances as reasons to stay stuck, this episode is a practical and compassionate reminder that changing your drinking habits starts with learning how to work with your beautiful, brilliant human brain. This episode is especially timely for Mental Health Awareness Month because it focuses on the thinking patterns, beliefs, and emotional habits that often keep people trapped in the cycle of overdrinking, guilt, and self-doubt. Molly reminds listeners that fear and doubt are normal—but they don't have to be in charge. In This Episode, You'll Learn Why you don't need to know you'll succeed before you begin.  How fear and faith both ask you to believe in something you can't yet see.  Why telling yourself “this is going to be so hard” makes change feel even harder.  How to trade all-or-nothing thinking for small, doable steps.  Why waiting for the “right time” keeps you stuck in conditional success.  How to stop letting mistakes, disappointment, and failed attempts derail you.  Why complaining about your genetics, history, job, stress, or life circumstances keeps the focus on the problem instead of the solution. Key Takeaways1. You don't need certainty to get started.Molly shares that when she first began changing her drinking habits, she had plenty of evidence from her past that suggested she might fail. The shift came when she stopped treating fear and doubt as reasons not to act. Instead, she chose to move forward one day at a time.The question becomes: What can I do today that is just a little bit better than yesterday?2. Stop rehearsing how hard change will be.When you repeatedly tell yourself changing your drinking will be miserable, impossible, or too hard, your brain naturally wants to avoid trying. Molly encourages listeners to meet themselves where they are and ask a more useful question:What can I do to make this easier?That question opens the door to education, small wins, and doable plans instead of all-or-nothing pressure. 3. Stop waiting for the perfect time.There will always be holidays, stress, travel, hard days, celebrations, and unexpected challenges. Molly calls out the trap of “conditional success”—believing life has to calm down before you can take care of yourself.Instead, she encourages “deliberate success”: deciding how you will support yourself no matter what is happening around you. 4. Failure cannot be the reason you stop.Mistakes are not proof that you can't change. They are information. Molly reminds listeners that they get to try as many times as they want, and that disappointment is already present when you aren't trying.The goal is not to avoid every mistake. The goal is to have a plan for how you will respond when things don't go as planned.5. Quit using your life as the reason you overdrink.Molly shares that she had to stop complaining about her genetics, her mom, her history, her job, and her life. Not because those things didn't matter, but because focusing only on the obstacles kept her from finding solutions.Changing your habits is not just about counting drinks. It is about what is happening in your mind.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

This week's guest is Anna Wolfe the host of HowTo Get Wet When You're Dry, a podcast that cuts through the shame around sex and sobriety with honestyand levity. Anna is also an award-winning London-based journalist specialising in mental health, addiction, eating disorders, and investigative features. Pic of Anna - Louie wittner Thought about training to be a Sober Coach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach drop me a message. Join our next webinar Thursday 14 May at 7.30pmI'll be chatting to one of the coaches I trained Polly who now works full time as a sober life coach https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration,connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentwww.thesoberclub.comSupplements for Sobriety, we all need Magnesium! Try this blend it's the best, and also buy the Vit C, D and Iodinefrom Clive Use this link and a bit goes to ourgiveback fund https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Platinum Awards If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enter and Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/www.thesoberclub.comThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this!@janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts  June 27-28 email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.comCheck out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace

Episode SummaryWhat is it like to live with someone who is struggling with their mental health?In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores the often-overlooked experience of living alongside mental illness—and how growing up with or caring for someone with emotional unpredictability can shape the way your brain processes safety, relationships, and control.This conversation is especially relevant as we enter Mental Health Awareness Month, offering both insight and compassion for those navigating these complex environments.What You'll Learn The difference between having mental illness and living alongside it  How emotional unpredictability shapes the nervous system  Why you may feel hyper-aware of other people's moods  The role of the reticular activating system in “reading the room”  How neuroplasticity reinforces patterns like monitoring, anticipating, and adjusting  The critical difference between being responsive and feeling responsible How to begin shifting from external control to internal grounding Key Takeaways Your brain adapts to the environment it experiences  Growing up with or living alongside mental illness can wire heightened awareness  Emotional sensitivity is not a flaw—it is adaptation  You can care deeply about someone without taking responsibility for their emotional state  Awareness is the first step toward creating new patterns and responses Resources MentionedIf this episode resonated with you, support is available:988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or text 988 for free, confidential support 24/7 National Alliance on Mental Illness Education, support groups, and resources for individuals and families Mental Health America Free mental health screenings and tools for self-care and support Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) for substance use and mental health resources World Health Organization Global data and resources on mental health Connect + Next StepsIf this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who might need it.And as we move into Mental Health Awareness Month, take a moment to check in—not just with others, but with yourself. ★ Support this podcast ★

As Alcohol Awareness Month comes to a close, Molly reflects on what alcohol awareness really means and why it is about more than fear, labels, or all-or-nothing thinking. Drawing on this month's episodes about alcohol facts, moderation support, and alcohol-free alternatives, she reframes awareness as something empowering: a way to make more honest, informed choices about your relationship with alcohol. In this episode, Molly explores why awareness begins with informed truth, why the “middle ground” of drinking deserves more attention, and how support does not have to be one-size-fits-all. She also shares how alcohol-free alternatives can help preserve ritual while supporting change. The result is a hopeful conversation about clarity, choice, and taking the next right step. In this episode, Molly discusses: What Alcohol Awareness Month really means  Why awareness is about honesty, clarity, and choice rather than labels  Why the drinking “middle ground” deserves more attention  What Molly took away from her conversations with Moderation Management and Curious Elixirs How alcohol-free alternatives can support change  Why learning what a standard drink actually is can be a powerful first step  How awareness helps us move beyond cultural myths and into a more honest conversation about alcohol's role in our lives Key takeaways Awareness is not punishment. It is power.  You do not need a label to begin paying attention.  You do not need a dramatic story to deserve support.  The next right step does not have to be dramatic.  Information creates choice, and choice is what allows change to begin. Resources mentionedModeration ManagementNIAAA Alcohol Treatment NavigatorCurious ElixirsSunnyside Med Molly's coaching and support options Questions to consider after listening What is alcohol costing me?  What do I believe alcohol gives me?  What am I defending?  What would change if I stopped waiting until it got worse?  What kind of relationship with alcohol actually fits the life I want to live?Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

This weeks' guest has had an amazing career in rock & roll and has come full circle as a transformational voice guide, offering healing music, meditation, breath work, cacao ceremonies, sound healing et al Franko Heke ran the NZ Spirit festival and now tours the world and is coming to the Medicine Festival in August.www.frankoheke.co Thought about training to be a SoberCoach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach drop me a message. Join our next webinar Thursday 14 May at 7.30pmhttps://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentwww.thesoberclub.comSupplements for Sobriety, we all need Magnesium! Try this blend it's the best, and also buy the Vit C, D and Iodine fromClive Use this link and a bit goes to ourgiveback fund https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Platinum Awards If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enter and Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/www.thesoberclub.comThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts  June 27-28 email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.comCheck out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace 

Your brain doesn't wait to tell a story about your life—it creates one in real time.In this Think Thursday episode, Molly builds on the foundational concept of “the gap and the gain” and takes it one step further. Instead of focusing on how we reinterpret our past, she explores how the brain assigns meaning in the moment—and how those interpretations quietly shape identity, behavior, and long-term change.By understanding how your brain predicts, labels, and stores experiences, you can begin to create space between what happens and what you decide it means—unlocking a more effective and sustainable approach to behavior change.What You'll Learn: Why your brain is constantly interpreting—not just observing—your experiences  How predictive processing shapes the meaning you assign to events  The role of the amygdala and emotional tagging in forming your personal narrative  Why you don't remember what happened—you remember what you decided it meant  How repeated interpretations become identity over time  The connection between dopamine, motivation, and perceived progress Why missed goals aren't the problem—but how you interpret them might be Key Takeaway:Behavior change doesn't just depend on what you do—it depends on the meaning your brain assigns to what you do.The moment something doesn't go as planned isn't the problem. The story you tell about that moment is what determines what happens next.A Simple Practice to Try This Week:The next time something doesn't go the way you planned: Notice your immediate interpretation  Pause before labeling it as “good” or “bad”  Ask yourself: “Is that the only way to see this?”Creating that small amount of space allows you to choose a more useful interpretation—one that keeps you engaged instead of shutting you down.Final Thought:The gap and the gain help you reinterpret your past.But the real shift happens when you recognize that you are shaping that story in real time—moment by moment, meaning by meaning. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly talks with J.W. Wiseman, founder of Curious Elixirs, about the rise of craft non-alcoholic cocktails and why they matter so much for people who want a more peaceful relationship with alcohol. J.W. shares how his own desire to drink less led him to create one of the earliest brands in the non-alcoholic beverage space, long before “sober curious” became a mainstream term. Together, Molly and J.W. explore the idea that drinking less does not have to mean settling for something boring, basic, or deprived—it can still feel elevated, flavorful, social, and deeply satisfying. From the origins of Curious Elixirs in 2015 to the role of functional herbs, adaptogens, and intentional drink design, this conversation offers a fresh look at how non-alcoholic beverages can support people across the sobriety spectrum. Molly also challenges the common belief that a drink needs alcohol to be worth enjoying, reminding listeners that taste, ritual, and experience matter too. In This Episode, You'll Hear: Why J.W. started Curious Elixirs before the term “sober curious” even existed  How non-alcoholic beverages can support a more intentional relationship with alcohol  Why flavor, ritual, and connection matter more than alcohol itself  How Curious Elixirs helped pioneer the craft, functional non-alcoholic cocktail category  The role of herbs and adaptogens in creating drinks that feel sophisticated and supportive  Why “less alcohol” does not have to mean “less fun”  How J.W.'s own drinking habits pushed him to rethink what he wanted alcohol to do in his life Key TakeawaysJ.W. explains that people do not need alcohol to have fun—they need connection, intention, and something that genuinely feels good in their body. That idea aligns beautifully with the Alcohol Minimalist philosophy: creating a relationship with alcohol that is conscious, peaceful, and free from all-or-nothing thinking. This episode also highlights an important mindset shift: non-alcoholic drinks are not “less than.” They can be crafted, complex, beautiful, and worthy of the same appreciation people often reserve for alcoholic beverages. Molly and J.W. discuss how that reframe opens up more options for people who want to drink less without feeling like they are missing out. And finally, J.W.'s story is a reminder that change often starts with curiosity. What began as a personal effort to cut back and reset his tolerance eventually became a company built to help others find more freedom and flexibility in how they drink. About the GuestJ.W. Wiseman is the founder of Curious Elixirs, one of the early leaders in the non-alcoholic cocktail movement. Before launching the company in 2015, he worked across media, marketing, and hospitality, including roles with NBC, Broadway, Thrillist, and Skillshare, before founding his own agency, Good Business. Mentioned in This EpisodeCurious Elixirs The “sober curious” movement  Functional herbs and adaptogens Curious Red The Curious Elixirs flavor quiz  Molly's idea of living “mostly alcohol-free” Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly revisits a timely conversation on mindset, neuroscience, and the biology of belief. Drawing on the work of Stanford health psychologist Dr. Alia Crum, she explores how our thoughts and expectations can influence physical outcomes, stress responses, and even the way we experience cravings and behavior change. The episode connects that research directly to becoming an alcohol minimalist by showing that lasting change is not just about behavior. It is also about how we think about our behavior. In This Episode, You'll Hear Why mindset matters so much during stressful or uncertain seasons  How repetition and consistency help reshape the brain through neuroplasticity  The story that sparked Dr. Alia Crum's research into the biology of belief  What the hotel housekeeper study revealed about belief and physical change  How reframing stress can change the way the body responds  What the “milkshake study” teaches us about expectation, biology, and perception  Why changing your relationship with alcohol is about more than willpower  How small decisions can reinforce a new identity and a more peaceful path forward Key Takeaways Your mindset acts like a filter that shapes how you interpret and respond to life.  Beliefs can influence physical outcomes, not just emotions or motivation.  Stress is not always the enemy. How you frame stress can affect how you experience it.  Alcohol change work becomes more sustainable when it moves from restriction to intention.  Reframing “I can't drink” into “I'm choosing not to drink because it aligns with my goals” creates a very different internal experience.  Every small choice matters. Each decision is a chance to reinforce who you are becoming. Studies and Ideas DiscussedThe hotel housekeeper study Housekeepers who were told their physically demanding work counted as exercise experienced measurable physical improvements without changing the work itself. The difference was their belief about what they were already doing. Stress mindset research Participants who viewed stress as something that could support performance reported fewer negative physical symptoms and felt more engaged. The milkshake study Participants drank identical shakes, but their bodies responded differently based on what they believed they were consuming, highlighting how expectation can influence biology. Practical Tools Molly Shares Reframe challenges as opportunities to build resilience  Meet cravings with compassion and curiosity instead of judgment  Use visualization for 2 to 3 minutes each morning to mentally rehearse the person you want to become  Practice empowering affirmations  Repeat: “Every choice is a chance”  Keep a simple mindset journal or daily “gains” journal to reinforce progress Memorable Themes Mindset can shape physical reality  Belief influences biology  Small repeated thoughts become beliefs  Beliefs drive feelings, actions, and results  Lasting alcohol change is built through consistent, intentional thinking  Your brain is not broken. It can learn, adapt, and change Listener Reflection What belief can you shift today that would move you closer to your goals?  What would change if you saw each craving as an opportunity to practice resilience?  What might become possible if you treated every decision as a vote for the person you want to be? ClosingThis episode is a reminder that your thoughts matter, your beliefs matter, and your brain is always listening. When you practice new thoughts consistently over time, you create new beliefs. And those beliefs can help build a more peaceful relationship with alcohol, one choice at a time. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly shares 8 evidence-based facts everyone should know about alcohol. From cancer risk and “safe” drinking limits to binge drinking, sleep, tolerance, and decision-making, this conversation is designed to cut through myths and mixed messages and help you think more clearly about your relationship with alcohol.This episode is not about fear, shame, or labels. It is about awareness. Because when we understand alcohol more clearly, we can make more honest, informed choices.In this episode, Molly discusses: Why alcohol is a known carcinogen and how alcohol use increases cancer risk  Why there is no guaranteed safe amount of alcohol for anyone  What a standard drink actually is  Why many people unintentionally underestimate how much they drink  How binge drinking is defined by amount, not by whether you black out or pass out  Why most people who drink excessively are not alcohol dependent  How alcohol may make you sleepy but still disrupt sleep quality  The way alcohol affects judgment, reaction time, and decision-making  Why being able to “hold your liquor” is not a sign that alcohol is safer for you Also mentioned in this episode:Sunnyside, Molly's top recommendation for a mindful drinking app  How positive reinforcement and honest tracking can support behavior change  Molly's reflection questions for Alcohol Awareness MonthQuestions to consider after listening: What is alcohol costing me?  What am I defending?  What do I want for my health?  What do I want for my peace?  What kind of relationship with alcohol actually fits the life I want to live? Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Letting Go of Perfect! That's the title of the book by this weeks' guest is Daniel O'Shaughnessy Itsan exploration of what it means to grow up, and grow into oneself, as a gay man navigating body dysmorphia, shame, and the pressure to be perfect.https://danieloshaughnessy.com/booksThought about training to be a Sober Coach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach webinar  or drop me a message.https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentwww.thesoberclub.comSupplements for Sobriety, we all need Magnesium! Try this blend it's the best, and also buy the Vit C, D and Iodinefrom Clive Use this link and a bit goes to ourgiveback fund https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Join us!   www.thesoberclub.com/eventsPlatinum Awards If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enter and Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukThought about training to be a Sober Coach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach webinar  Thursday May  147.30pmRegisterHERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/www.thesoberclub.comThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this!@janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts  June 27-28 email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.comCheck out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media @janeyleegrace

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores Brené Brown's ideas on paradox and why emotional resilience is less about certainty and more about our capacity to hold two truths at once. When we stop forcing life into either/or thinking, we create space for growth, self-compassion, and lasting behavior change.This episode looks at why the brain prefers simple answers, how paradox shows up in everyday life, and why allowing both sides of a tension to exist can make us stronger, more grounded, and more emotionally mature.In This Episode What paradox really means  Why the brain prefers certainty and simplicity  How either/or thinking can keep us stuck  Why behavior change often feels contradictory  How both/and thinking builds emotional resilience  A reflection question to help you apply this in your own life Key TakeawayEmotional resilience is not about eliminating discomfort. It is about increasing your capacity to stay grounded in complexity without rushing to escape it.Reflection QuestionWhere in your life are you forcing an either/or answer when what is really being asked of you is the emotional resilience to hold both/and? ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly talks with Andrea Pain, Executive Director of Moderation Management, about alcohol support options for people who want to drink less, explore moderation, or change their relationship with alcohol without shame or rigid labels. Released during Alcohol Awareness Month, this conversation highlights how Moderation Management offers free meetings, online community, and practical programs that help people take the next step toward a healthier, more peaceful relationship with alcohol. In This Episode, You'll Hear: What Alcohol Awareness Month can mean beyond traditional recovery narratives  How Andrea Payne found Moderation Management while looking for support to reduce drinking, not necessarily quit forever  Why community and connection are often the missing piece for people trying to change their drinking habits  How Moderation Management helps people explore moderation, abstinence, or drinking less without judgment  What makes Moderation Management different, including free meetings, online support, and Kickstart programs  Why meeting yourself where you are is one of the most important parts of lasting change Key Takeaways There is no one-size-fits-all path for changing your relationship with alcohol  You do not need to identify with a specific label to get support  Free, accessible alcohol support exists  Community can make it easier to build momentum and stay engaged  Small steps matter when you are trying to drink less or create long-term change About Andrea Pain and Moderation Management Andrea Pain is the Executive Director of Moderation Management Her journey began when she wanted support for changing her drinking habits without committing to an abstinence-only path  After discovering the organization's Facebook group and resources, she became involved as a meeting leader, volunteer, program manager, and eventually Executive Director  Today, Moderation Management offers free meetings, a large online community, and self-guided or seasonal Kickstart programs designed to help people reduce drinking and build healthier habits Resources MentionedModeration ManagementFree online meetings Kickstart programs Facebook support community Andrea Pain: andrea@moderation.orgWhy This Episode MattersIf you have been searching for ways to drink less, change your drinking habits, or find alcohol support without an all-or-nothing approach, this episode offers a practical and encouraging starting point. Molly and Andrea both reinforce the same core message: start where you are, take one step, and keep going.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

The power of connection!Enjoy the live chat with Catherine Gray at Hello Love!Thank you to Noughty AF - I told everyone they must grab a copy of Versions of a Girl https://amzn.to/4cbDyOK and her new book Little Adddictions, Freedom from our tiny but might compulsions https://amzn.to/4cbDyOKThought about training to be a SoberCoach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach webinar  Thursday April 9 at 7.30pmRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentwww.thesoberclub.comSupplements for Sobriety, we all need Magnesium! Try this blend it's the best, and also buy the Vit C, D and Iodinefrom Clive Use this link and a bit goes to ourgiveback fund https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Join us!   www.thesoberclub.com/eventsPlatinum Awards If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enterand Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukThought about training to be a SoberCoach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach webinar  Tuesday March 17  7.30pmRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/www.thesoberclub.comThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts april26-27 and the following one is June 27-28 email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.comCheck out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace 

In this revisited Think Thursday episode, Molly explains why March may be a better time than January to build lasting habits. If your New Year's goals have faded, this conversation offers a science-backed reframe: you have not failed. Your brain may simply respond better to change when routines are steadier and the timing supports follow-through.Molly explores the neuroscience of habit formation, the difference between short-term challenges like Dry January and sustainable behavior change, and why the fresh start effect can help you begin again at any time of year. She also shares simple strategies to make new habits easier to repeat and more likely to stick. Source transcript:In this episode:Why most January resolutions lose momentumThe difference between a short-term alcohol break and true habit changeHow the brain responds to the fresh start effectWhy stable routines make behavior change easierHow habit stacking and environmental design support successKey takeawayYou do not need to wait for January 1 to change your drinking habits. Lasting change happens when you work with your brain, not against it. Small, repeatable actions done consistently matter more than ambitious resets.Mentioned in this episodeDry Januaryfresh start effecthabit stackingAtomic Habits ★ Support this podcast ★

What happens when you want to drink less—but your partner doesn't?In this episode, Molly talks with midlife sobriety coach Matt Wing about how to change your relationship with alcohol, even when your partner is still drinking. This is one of the most common challenges people face when they start working on drinking less.Matt shares his journey from years of binge drinking to becoming alcohol-free at 52, along with the mindset shifts and simple strategies that helped him stop.Together, they explore why some people can moderate and others can't—and how to move forward without needing your partner to change first.What You'll Learn How to drink less when your partner still drinks  The difference between binge drinking and daily habit drinking  Why moderation works for some people—and not for others  How to stay consistent with your goals around alcohol  The mindset shifts that make change feel easier Key Takeaways1. Your relationship with alcohol is yours to change You don't need your partner to change in order to move forward.2. The first drink matters most For many people, control is lost after the first drink—not the third or fourth.3. Moderation isn't for everyone If one drink rarely stays one, your most peaceful relationship with alcohol may be less—or none.4. Drinking to feel different is a signal Using alcohol to relax, escape, or feel “normal” is important information—not something to ignore.5. You can still live your life without drinking Social situations don't have to derail your goals.Practical Tools Discussed Play the tape forward  Identify your trigger window  Change the ingredients, not the ritual  Build structure into your evenings  Have an honest conversation with your partner About Matt WingMatt Wing is a midlife sobriety coach who helps people stop drinking and build a life they don't need to escape from. After years of binge drinking, he became alcohol-free at 52 and now works with others through coaching, courses, and content.Connect with Matt on Instagram and Facebook at Midlife Mentor.Resources Mentioned Sunnyside mindful drinking app  Matt Wing's “4PM Reset” course Final ThoughtYou don't need your partner to change first.You just need to decide what's right for you—and start there.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

The power of connection! Janey in conversation with Catherine Gray at Hello LoveWed 1 April 6.30-8.30 pm with Noughty AFJoin us!   www.thesoberclub.com/eventshttps://shorturl.at/u2euxThis weeks' guest is Sara from Sober Points www.soberpoints.comMake sure you check out some venues!Last weeks guest Julian Tittershill has entered thePlatinum Awards Alsoplease vote for Julian in the author category in the Platinum Awards 26https://imperfectlynatural.com/2026-platinum-awards-sneak-preview-booze/Thought about training to be a SoberCoach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach webinar  Thursday April 9 at 7.30pmRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentwww.thesoberclub.comSupplements for Sobriety, we all need Magnesium! Try this blend it's the best, and also buy the Vit C, D and Iodinefrom Clive Use this link and a bit goes to ourgiveback fund https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Janey in conversation with Catherine Gray at Hello LoveWed 1 April 6.30-8.30 pm with Noughty AFJoin us!   www.thesoberclub.com/eventshttps://shorturl.at/u2euxPlatinum Awards If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enter and Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukThought about training to be a Sober Coach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach webinar  Tuesday March 17  7.30pmRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/www.thesoberclub.comThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts april26-27 and the following one is June 27-28 email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.comCheck out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace 

Text Me!If you feel like you're constantly starting over with drinking, making rules, breaking them, and promising yourself “this time will be different,” you're not alone. In this episode of the Sober Vibes Podcast, I break down the moderation cycle and why trying to “drink less” often keeps you stuck longer than you need to be. This episode offers a practical, no-shame approach to quitting alcohol without the constant reset, guilt, or all-or-nothing thinking.  In This Episode, You'll Learn • the subconscious reason moderation keeps you stuck • signs you're bargaining with alcohol (rules, exceptions, “starting Monday”) • why trying to control drinking can feel more exhausting than quitting • why bargaining feels safer than stepping away completely • how the “start over” mindset reinforces shame and inconsistency • a simple 3-step plan to quit drinking without starting over again • how to reduce cravings by changing your environment and routine • how to prepare for triggers and “danger moments” ahead of time Sobriety becomes easier when you remove the constant decision-making and create a system that supports you.Ready for Support? Here Are 3 Ways to Work With Me: • Stop Starting Over Program • Sobriety Circle • 1:1 Sober Coaching Gain access to my Masterclass when you submit a review on iTunes. Email me sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in!Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast.Connect w/ Courtney:InstagramJoin the Sobriety CircleApply for 1:1 CoachingOrder the Sober Vibes Book

Episode SummaryWhy does your brain keep bringing things back up—especially when you're trying to relax?In this Think Thursday episode, Molly expands on the Zeigarnik Effect, a psychological principle that explains why unfinished tasks stay active in your mind. What feels like overwhelm isn't always about how much you have to do—it's often about how many “open loops” your brain is trying to track.By understanding how your brain holds onto incomplete tasks, you can begin to reduce mental noise, ease cognitive tension, and create more clarity without needing to do more.In This Episode, You'll Learn:What the Zeigarnik Effect is and how it was discoveredWhy unfinished tasks stay active in your brainHow “open loops” create mental noise and low-grade tensionThe role of working memory and cognitive monitoringWhy starting a task can reduce stress more than finishing itThe difference between open loops and contained loopsHow structure and direction help your brain settleKey Concepts Discussed:The Zeigarnik Effect and its originsPrediction error and the brain's need for closureWorking memory and cognitive loadMental load vs. actual workloadOpen loops vs. contained loopsThe nervous system's response to uncertainty vs. directionReflection Questions:What unfinished tasks are currently sitting in the background of your mind?Where are you carrying open loops without realizing it?What is one thing you could start—not finish—to reduce mental tension?What could you write down, schedule, or define to contain a loop?Key TakeawayIt's not always about doing more.Sometimes it's about reducing what your brain is trying to hold.Open loops create tension.Direction creates relief.Closing ThoughtYou don't always have to finish the thing to feel better.But your brain does need to know…that the thing has somewhere to go. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this final installment of the March Madness series, Molly brings the conversation full circle by focusing on the long game.After exploring your playbook, your scoreboard, and how to rebound when you drift, this episode answers the most important question: how do you keep going?Using the powerful metaphor of the game clock, Molly reminds listeners that change is always possible as long as there is time left. In the context of your life, that means right now.This episode weaves together neuroscience and lived experience, explaining how real change happens through repetition, not intensity. Molly breaks down neuroplasticity, extinction bursts, and dopamine recalibration to show why change can feel harder before it gets easier—and why that's not failure, but progress.Most importantly, she reinforces the identity at the core of this work: Mostly Alcohol-Free means consistently returning, not being perfect.You haven't missed your chance.You're still in the game.In This EpisodeWhy change is always possible while there is still timeThe difference between intensity and consistency in behavior changeThe neuroscience principle: “neurons that fire together wire together”What an extinction burst is and why urges can feel stronger at firstHow dopamine adapts to repeated alcohol useWhy alcohol-free life can feel “flat” before it feels betterThe importance of staying in the process long enough for recalibrationWhat it means to live a Mostly Alcohol-Free lifestyleWhy drifting doesn't mean you're out of the gameKey TakeawaysThe game isn't over until the clock hits 0:00.Change happens through repetition, not short bursts of effort.Increased urges can be a sign of progress, not failure.Your brain is always adapting—direction matters.Mostly Alcohol-Free means returning, not perfection.You are not behind, late, or disqualified.ReflectionWhere have you been telling yourself it's “too late”?What would it look like to stay in the game right now?Are you measuring progress by perfection or by consistency?Work With MollyTo learn more about working with Molly, visit: www.mollywatts.comOr email directly: molly@mollywatts.comLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

We talk about luck constantly. Lucky breaks. Bad luck. Some people just seem to “have it.”But what if luck isn't magic at all?In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores what's happening in the brain when we attribute outcomes to luck. From attentional style to the Reticular Activating System and attribution bias, this episode unpacks how mindset and neural filtering shape what we see, what we miss, and what we believe about ourselves.If you've ever caught yourself thinking, “I never get lucky like that,” this episode will challenge that narrative in a grounded, science-forward way.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why the brain prefers simple explanations like “luck”How defaulting to luck can short-circuit pattern recognitionWhat Dr. Richard Wiseman's research reveals about “lucky” vs. “unlucky” peopleHow cognitive flexibility influences opportunity detectionWhat the Reticular Activating System does and why it mattersHow beliefs shape attention, perception, behavior, and outcomesThe role of attribution bias in protecting identityWhy probability is often mistaken for magicKey Concepts Discussed:Pattern detection and neuroplasticityAttentional style and cognitive flexibilityThe Reticular Activating System as the brain's filtering systemBelief → Attention → Perception → Behavior → Outcome loopsProbability vs. randomnessMoving from passive observer to active participantReflection Questions:Where in your life are you using the word “luck”?What patterns might be present beneath the outcome?What is your attention currently trained to notice?Where could you widen your focus?What inputs could increase the probability of the result you want?Closing ThoughtWhat if the difference between lucky and unlucky isn't fate, but focus?Your brain will support whatever you consistently train it to scan for.Until next time, choose peace. ★ Support this podcast ★

Episode SummaryIn this third episode of the March basketball series, Molly shares transparently about a recent three-week stretch of travel that disrupted her Mostly Alcohol-Free rhythm.With retreats, vacation, conferences, disrupted sleep, and limited access to her usual alternatives, she drifted from her typical low-risk limits and had fewer alcohol-free days than usual.Instead of spiraling, she chose to rebound.This episode explores the neuroscience of short-term pattern shifts, why regulation comes before restriction, and how to interrupt a streak without shame. Molly shares her real-time rebound plan — including five alcohol-free days this week — and what she'll do differently next time.Drifting happens.Rebounding builds self-trust.In This EpisodeWhy travel and novelty increase dopamineThe impact of sleep disruption on regulationHow environment shapes drinking behaviorWhy streaks strengthen neural pathwaysThe difference between drifting and spiralingWhy curiosity regulates and shame dysregulatesMolly's five-day rebound planKey TakeawaysDrift is human.Regulation comes first.Interrupting a streak restores flexibility.Pre-decision reduces in-the-moment choices.You are defined by your response, not your slip.ReflectionIf you've drifted recently, ask yourself:What contributed to it?What would your rebound look like this week?What can you pre-decide next time?Work With MollyLearn more at:www.mollywatts.comOr email: molly@mollywatts.comLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★