Podcasts about sober curious

Janey in conversation with Catherine Gray at Hello LoveWed 1 April 6.30-8.30 pm with Noughty AFJoin us!   ⁠www.thesoberclub.com/events⁠https://shorturl.at/u2euxSober Club member Tina Felton shares herjourney and her recent experience of seeing how alcohol impacts on crime. Come to The Health Hub and meet Clive!  Sun 1 Marchhttps://www.tickettailor.com/events/thewellnessway/1975697At Checkout use the code IMPERFECTLYNAT Supplements for Sobriety, we all needMagnesium! Try this blend it's the best, and also buy the Vit C, D and Iodine from CliveUse this link and a bit goes to our giveback fund https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Janey in conversation with CatherineGray at Hello LoveWed 1 April 6.30-8.30 pm with Noughty AFJoin us!   www.thesoberclub.com/eventshttps://shorturl.at/u2euxJoin us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentwww.thesoberclub.comJoin us for The Wellness Way Health Hub in London Sun 1 March at College of Naturopathic Medicine Let me know you have a ticket, and you will get an invite to my exclusive receptionto celebrate 20 years of  ImperfectlyNatural Woman, my first book, which kickstarted it all!Platinum Awards If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enter and Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukThought about training to be a SoberCoach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach webinar  Tuesday March 17  7.30pmRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/www.thesoberclub.comIf you want to support the work go to ⁠⁠⁠www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegrace⁠⁠⁠Thank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Boozeand want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts April 26-27 then 27 28 June email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janeyatjaneyleegrace.com Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace

Send a textWhat does a night really cost?In this solo episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, Nadine shares reflections from a recent trip to Dubai that sparked a powerful realization about sobriety. After being mistaken for a sex worker in an elevator the night before Ramadan — when a man asked her “how much for a night” — she began thinking deeply about the hidden cost of her nights when she used to drink compared to the nights she experiences now in sobriety.Nadine contrasts her calm, grounded response in sobriety with a similar experience from 2020 in Medellín at The Click Clack Hotel, when she was drinking, spiraled emotionally, and was initially denied entry because staff assumed she was a sex worker. Through these parallel moments, she explores identity, self-trust, and how sobriety changes internal reactions to external events.This episode breaks down:The financial and emotional cost of drinkingHangovers, anxiety, shame, and lost timeThe hidden price of numbing emotionsWhat sobriety actually costs (vulnerability, discomfort, growth)What sobriety gives back (peace, confidence, clarity, mornings)Writing a breakup letter to alcoholHow to reflect on your own relationship with drinkingNadine also reads an excerpt from a breakup letter to alcohol and invites listeners to consider: How much do your nights cost?If you are sober curious, alcohol-free, or questioning your relationship with drinking, this episode will resonate deeply.Sponsors

When Change Feels Hard: Understanding “Belief Echoes”In this episode of Think Thursday, Molly revisits a powerful concept at the heart of behavior change—belief echoes. If you've ever told yourself, “Change is just hard for me” or “I'm not someone who sticks with things,” this episode will help you understand what's actually happening in your brain—and why you're not broken.Grounded in neuroscience and mindset work, Molly explains why lasting change isn't about willpower. It's about the thoughts you've practiced for years without realizing it.What You'll Learn1. What a “Belief Echo” IsA belief echo is a thought you've repeated so often that it no longer feels like a thought—it feels like truth.Statements like:“This is just who I am.”“I never follow through.”“I'm not consistent.”These aren't facts. They're rehearsed mental patterns.2. Why Your Brain Protects Limiting BeliefsYour brain is a pattern-recognition machine. It craves familiarity—even when that familiarity is painful. Through confirmation bias, it selectively gathers evidence that supports your existing identity.If you believe you “never stick with things,” your brain will:Highlight every time you quitDownplay or ignore times you followed throughStore that “evidence” to reinforce the beliefIt's not sabotage. It's efficiency.3. The Real Reason Change Feels HardChange feels hard because you're asking your brain to:Let go of a familiar identityBelieve something new before you have proofYou must interrupt an old belief before you have evidence of the new one.That gap is where discomfort lives.4. Change Takes Thinking TimeWe often say “change takes time,” but what it really takes is intentional thinking time.New belief → practiced repeatedly → new feelings → new actions → new results.You don't build evidence first. You build belief first.5. A Practical ExampleOld belief: “I never stick with things.” New thought to practice: “I am learning how to follow through.”That subtle shift:Reduces shameCreates possibilityOpens the door to consistent actionSmall, believable thoughts are how identity shifts begin.The Science Behind ItThis episode reinforces foundational Alcohol Minimalist principles found in Breaking the Bottle Legacy , including:The Behavior Map-Results CycleCognitive behavioral principlesConfirmation bias researchThe Think-Feel-Act frameworkAt its core: Your drinking behavior is never random. It is driven by thought.Key TakeawaysYou are not failing at change.You are experiencing the momentum of well-practiced thoughts.Beliefs are not identity—they are rehearsed sentences.Sustainable change starts with choosing a new sentence on purpose.Your brain can learn a new identity—but only through repetition.Reflection QuestionsWhat sentences about yourself are you reinforcing daily?What belief echo might be quietly driving your drinking?What is one small, believable thought you could begin practicing today?Change begins with noticing the story you're telling about who you are.What belief echo do you suspect might be operating in the background of your drinking right now? ★ Support this podcast ★

Alcohol consumption in the United States is declining. Gallup reports that only 54% of Americans now drink — the lowest level recorded in decades — and nearly half of Americans say they are actively trying to drink less.On the surface, this sounds like clear progress.But in this episode, Molly explores an important question raised by Dr. Adi Jaffe in a recent article: Are we truly becoming more emotionally resilient… or are we simply swapping one escape route for another?As cannabis use rises alongside declining alcohol consumption, it's worth examining whether substitution equals transformation — or whether real change requires something deeper.This episode unpacks the cultural shift away from alcohol, the rise in cannabis use, and the critical distinction between behavioral change and emotional growth.In This Episode, You'll Learn:The latest statistics on declining alcohol consumption in the U.S.Why cannabis use is increasing as alcohol use declinesWhat research says about cannabis use and alcohol reductionThe difference between substitution and emotional resilienceWhy simply replacing alcohol doesn't necessarily change your relationship with discomfortHow psychological dependence operates beneath surface-level behavior changeThe core beliefs that often drive alcohol useA simple self-reflection exercise to assess your own coping patternsKey Statistics Discussed54% of Americans report drinking alcohol (Gallup 2025)Nearly half of Americans are trying to drink less65% of Gen Z plans to cut down or abstain from alcoholApproximately 178,000 alcohol-related deaths occur annually in the U.S.41% of young adults report cannabis use in the past year29% report past-month cannabis use10.8% report daily cannabis useAbout 3 in 10 cannabis users are at risk of Cannabis Use DisorderThe Core QuestionReducing alcohol is meaningful.But emotional resilience is something deeper.This episode challenges you to consider:If alcohol disappeared tomorrow, what would you reach for?Are you choosing relaxation — or needing escape?Have your behaviors changed… or have your beliefs changed?True transformation happens when you dismantle the belief that you need something outside of yourself to manage your internal state.Resources MentionedDr. Adi JaffeThe Abstinence Myth by Dr. Adi JaffeUnhooked by Dr. Adi JaffeSunnyside mindful drinking app (15-day free trial available)Monitoring the Future (University of Michigan)CDC Cannabis Use DataHarvard Health on cannabis vs. alcohol risksBrown University study on cannabis and alcohol consumptionLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Send a textIn this powerful episode of the Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina sits down with Kristen, creator of The Alcohol Free Alchemist and founder of Queen City Sober, to share her deeply relatable sobriety journey.Kristen opens up about how her drinking evolved from social partying to daily coping — influenced by anxiety, grief, motherhood, and the normalization of “mommy wine culture.” After experiencing profound life stressors, including the sudden loss of her grandmother and her husband's lymphoma diagnosis, alcohol became her way to numb and manage overwhelm.But her sobriety didn't begin with a dramatic rock bottom. It started with an awakening — a Father's Day morning realization that changed everything.Now nearly 600 days alcohol-free, Kristen shares how sobriety transformed her relationship with herself, her marriage, her children, and her identity. She also discusses navigating social situations without alcohol, sober intimacy, non-alcoholic alternatives, and building real-life sober community through Queen City Sober in Buffalo, New York.If you're sober curious, questioning your relationship with alcohol, navigating motherhood, or looking for inspiration to start again, this conversation will resonate deeply.You don't need to hit rock bottom to choose something better.

Text Me!If you've ever wondered whether your drinking is “bad enough” to quit — this episode is for you.In episode 264 of the Sober Vibes Podcast, Courtney shares what I lost by waiting years to quit alcohol and why delaying sobriety cost more emotionally than she realized at the time.This conversation speaks directly to women navigating grey area drinking or Sober Curious, those who aren't hitting rock bottom, but know alcohol and stress are more connected than they'd like to admit.You don't have to be falling apart for alcohol to be quietly holding you back.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why waiting for a “worse” problem keeps women stuckHow alcohol and stress become deeply intertwined over timeThe hidden emotional cost of delaying sobrietyWhy trying to figure out how to drink less often prolongs the cycleWhat actually shifts when you stop waiting and choose clarityWhat life on the other side of alcohol really feels likeThis episode is especially powerful if you're sober curious and constantly Googling how to drink less but still feeling unsatisfied with the results.Many women stay in this space for years because they're trying to drink less instead of questioning why alcohol feels necessary in the first place.Resources & Support Mentioned:Sobriety Circle — ongoing support for women exploring alcohol-free livingSober Breakthrough Session — personalized guidance from a sobriety coach1:1 Sober Coaching Free tools for navigating the first 30 days without alcoholThe After-Emotional Sobriety ProgramGain access to my Masterclass when you submit a review on iTunes. Email me sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in!Ready to stop the start-over cycle with alcohol?For 1:1 coaching with me 

Janey's guest is Clive De Carle, who is sharing a stage with Janey at The Wellness Way Health Hub, - Sun 1 March, they discuss the importance of Supplements for Sobriety and beyond, we all need Magnesium! Try this blend it's the best, and also buy the Vit C, D and Iodine from CliveUse this link and a bit goes to our giveback fund https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Come to The Health Hub Sun 1st March and meet Clive!https://www.tickettailor.com/events/thewellnessway/1975697At Checkout use the code IMPERFECTLYNAT Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentwww.thesoberclub.comJoin us for The Wellness Way Health Hub in London Sun 1 March at College of Naturopathic Medicine Let me know you have a ticket, and you will get an invite to my exclusive reception to celebrate 20 years of  ImperfectlyNatural Woman, my first book, which kickstarted it all!Platinum Awards If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enter and Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukThought about training to be a Sober Coach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach webinar  Tuesday March 17  7.30pmRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/ www.thesoberclub.comThinking of treating yourself to the Ultimate Selfcare retreat? Join me in Feb at Homefield Grange Spa,it's a game changer!https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/ The Magnesium Blend I recommend is back in stock,use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489If you want to support the work go to ⁠⁠⁠www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegrace⁠⁠⁠Thank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts april26-27 email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janeyatjaneyleegrace.com Checkout my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollowJaney on social media@janeyleegrace 

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In this week's Think Thursday, Molly builds on last week's conversation about overwhelm and takes it one level deeper—into uncertainty and the brain's fundamental need for coherence.Many people say, “I'm overwhelmed by everything.” But often, what they're describing isn't simply busyness. It's destabilization. The pace of technological change, the relentless news cycle, economic uncertainty, global conflict, and cultural instability create a steady stream of input that the human brain was not designed to process.Our brains evolved for village-level information flow—not constant global exposure in real time.The Brain as a Prediction MachineModern neuroscience describes the brain as a prediction engine. Researchers such as Karl Friston (predictive processing theory) suggest that the brain's primary job is not just to react to reality, but to anticipate it.Your brain is constantly generating internal forecasts about what is likely to happen next. It builds models of what is safe, familiar, and probable. When those models align with experience, the brain operates efficiently. Monitoring decreases. Stress drops. Calm increases.But when prediction fails—when the future feels unstable or unclear—the brain increases vigilance. Cortisol rises. The amygdala becomes more reactive. Monitoring intensifies.Uncertainty is not just emotionally uncomfortable. It is neurologically expensive.Research comparing predictable and unpredictable stressors shows that unpredictable stress can create stronger physiological responses than predictable stress—even when the predictable stressor is objectively worse. The brain often prefers a known negative outcome to an unknown one because predictability allows preparation, and preparation reduces perceived threat.Coherence vs. AmbiguityResearchers such as Travis Proulx and Steven Heine have explored how disruptions in meaning and narrative coherence increase anxiety and motivate the brain to restore order. Coherence stabilizes the nervous system. Ambiguity destabilizes it.When someone says, “I'm overwhelmed by everything,” that word everything represents a collapse of hierarchy and narrative. The brain cannot model everything at once. It cannot prioritize everything simultaneously. So it defaults to alarm.Language plays a powerful role here. Molly revisits her recent quote:“Every time you replace ‘I'm overwhelmed' with ‘I need to decide what matters most and go slow,' your brain stops firing alarm signals and starts organizing information again.”While this shift does not immediately shut down the amygdala, research on cognitive reappraisal by psychologist James Gross shows that reframing increases prefrontal cortex activity and decreases amygdala activation over time. Changing language changes the predictive model the brain uses.Molly also revisits a core Alcohol Minimalist concept: thoughts are both descriptive and prescriptive. Repeating “I'm overwhelmed” reinforces a future expectation. The brain uses repeated thoughts as data. Language influences prediction.Why This Feels Amplified NowThe modern nervous system is metabolizing more information than at any point in human history. Our brains evolved to monitor a small social circle, not global crises, economic forecasts, political unrest, and technological revolutions delivered instantly.When input exceeds the brain's capacity to construct stable models:Uncertainty risesScanning increasesStress increasesCognitive flexibility decreasesThis is not fragility. It is neurobiology.And it has direct implications for behavior change.The brain invests effort when it believes the future is navigable. When the future feels chaotic, it shifts toward short-term safety behaviors—scrolling, avoidance, comfort-seeking, and returning to familiar habits—not because discipline has disappeared, but because predictability feels safer than uncertainty. Coherence builds confidence. Confidence supports effort. Effort sustains behavior change.When coherence drops, consistency often drops with it.Five Ways to Restore CoherenceWhile you cannot eliminate global uncertainty, you can restore local coherence. The brain does not require certainty everywhere. It requires stability somewhere.Here are five actionable steps:Narrow the time horizon.Focus on today or tomorrow rather than the entire month or year. Short predictive loops are easier for the brain to manage.Identify what is controllable.Research shows perceived control reduces amygdala activation. Even one controllable action restores agency.Establish one predictable ritual.A consistent morning routine, defined work block, or nightly wind-down creates stability the brain can model.Limit interpretive overload.Too many possible explanations increase cognitive load. Choose the most useful interpretation instead of entertaining every hypothetical scenario.Build one daily evidence loop.Follow through on one manageable commitment each day. Predictable behavior strengthens the brain's trust in its own forecasting.Each of these steps restores hierarchy. Each reduces prediction error. Each sends a stabilizing signal to the nervous system.You are telling your brain: “The world may be uncertain, but my behavior has structure.”The Bottom LineYour brain does not require absolute certainty in order to function well. It requires enough pattern to feel oriented. Enough structure to reduce constant monitoring. Enough stability to believe its predictions will not be continuously disrupted.You cannot calm the entire world. But you can restore order in your immediate sphere.When coherence returns, clarity follows. ★ Support this podcast ★

On this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly reflects on what would have been her mother's 95th birthday and the years lost not only at the end of her life, but throughout decades spent in active addiction. With compassion and clarity, she explores the difference between alcohol dependence and alcohol reliance, and why that distinction matters more than most people realize.Drawing from her recent conversation with Dr. Charles Knowles , Molly breaks down the difference between the small percentage of adults who are physically dependent on alcohol and the much larger group who fall into gray area drinking or alcohol reliance. She explains how neuroadaptation occurs over time, how reinforced thought patterns shape behavior, and why learned helplessness can quietly keep people stuck.This episode is not about blame. It is about progression, influence, and the hopeful reality that most people questioning their drinking are not powerless. Through science, reflection, and practical questions, Molly invites listeners to examine the beliefs that may be giving alcohol more authority than it actually has.In This Episode:Reflecting on the years lost to active addictionThe difference between alcohol dependence and alcohol relianceThe 2 to 3 percent statistic on physical dependenceThe 20 percent gray area drinking categoryHow neuroadaptation and tolerance develop over timeDopamine as a learning signal, not just a pleasure chemicalCue conditioning and incentive salienceThe psychology of learned helplessnessWhy belief shapes behavior and behavior reinforces beliefAlcohol's health risks, including cancer and sleep disruptionWhy low risk drinking guidelines reduce harm, not riskThe importance of examining your belief system around alcoholKey Takeaways:Physical dependence develops gradually through repeated reinforcement and neuroadaptation.Most people questioning their drinking are not physically dependent but are operating in reinforced patterns.Alcohol influences the brain but does not automatically remove agency unless long term dependence has shifted the baseline.Beliefs such as “Once I start, I can't stop” can strengthen neural expectation and reduce effort.Small cognitive shifts precede behavioral shifts, and repeated behavior reshapes the brain.Questions to Reflect On This Week:What belief about alcohol might you be carrying that deserves closer examination?Is there a sentence you repeat internally such as “I need it to relax” or “It helps me connect” that feels solid and unquestioned?What might happen if you approached that belief with curiosity rather than judgment?What is one small step you can take this week to observe rather than act automatically?Resources Mentioned:Molly's interview with Dr. Charles Knowles Alcohol Truths: How Much Is Too Much?If you are questioning your relationship with alcohol, remember that awareness is the first step. Change does not require a dramatic declaration. It begins with curiosity, clarity, and small shifts practiced steadily over time.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

What happens when creativity replaces substances?On this episode of Painful Lessons Podcast: Punk Rock Sober, Tyler Ramsey sits down with fashion designer, artist, and podcast host Mary Alice Haney for a raw, thoughtful conversation about sobriety, ADHD, creativity, and purpose.Mary Alice opens up about her journey from high-pressure fashion and red-carpet success to discovering that creativity—not Adderall—was the real solution all along. Together, they explore sober curiosity, addiction genetics, parenting with honesty, and why telling the truth to yourself is the foundation of recovery.This episode isn't just about quitting substances—it's about building a life that no longer needs them.

Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentwww.thesoberclub.comWe are doing a self love challenge and there is a chance to hear an exclusive chat with mindset coach Fiona Drake onself love and mirror work.Buy your tickets for The Wellness WayHealth Hub in London Sun 1 March at College of Naturopathic Medicine.  I will be speaking alongside Philly and Dr Sarah Myhill, it's the perfect place to explore holistic wellbeing Get tickets from https://www.tickettailor.com/events/thewellnessway/1975697Use the code IMPERFECTLYNAT at checkout for a discountLet me know you have a ticket, and you will get an invite to my exclusive reception to celebrate 20 years of  ImperfectlyNatural Woman, my first book, which kickstarted it all!Platinum Awards If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enter and Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukThought about training to be a SoberCoach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach webinar  Thursday 19 Feb 7.30pmRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/www.thesoberclub.comThinking of treating yourself to the Ultimate Selfcare retreat?Join me in Feb at Homefield Grange Spa, 20-22 febit's a game changer!https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/ The Magnesium Blend I recommend is back in stock,use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489If you want to support the work go to ⁠⁠⁠www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegrace⁠⁠⁠Thank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts Jan31-1stFeb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.com Supplements for recovery Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace 

Many people are saying the same thing lately: “I'm overwhelmed by everything.”In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores what overwhelm actually is from a neuroscience perspective. Is it just busyness? Or is something deeper happening in the brain?Drawing from research on the amygdala, stress hormones, working memory, and executive function, Molly explains how overwhelm is not about volume alone. It is about perceived overload and a loss of prioritization. When the brain detects too many competing demands and not enough resources, it shifts from organizing to alarming.This episode also revisits a recent WisdomWednesday quote about replacing “I'm overwhelmed” with “I need to decide what matters most and go slow.” Molly clarifies why that statement is directionally true but not neurologically instant. She explains how language influences prediction, prediction shapes physiology, and physiology drives behavior.What You'll LearnWhy overwhelm is a perception of overload, not simply busynessHow the amygdala flags cognitive threatWhat happens to the prefrontal cortex under stressWhy everything feels urgent when executive function is compromisedThe difference between descriptive and prescriptive thoughtsHow repeating “I'm overwhelmed” reinforces neural prediction loopsWhy prioritization restores cognitive flexibilityHow cognitive reappraisal shifts neural activity over timeKey Concepts ExplainedPerceived Overload Overwhelm occurs when the brain interprets demands as exceeding available resources.Amygdala Activation When ambiguity, uncertainty, and competing priorities rise, the amygdala signals threat, increasing stress hormones like cortisol and norepinephrine.Executive Function The prefrontal cortex is responsible for planning, sequencing, prioritizing, and organizing. Under stress, its efficiency decreases.Descriptive vs Prescriptive Thinking Some thoughts label experience. Others shape future experience. Repeating “I'm overwhelmed” reinforces prediction patterns that sustain the feeling.Cognitive Reappraisal Research shows that reinterpreting a situation increases prefrontal cortex activity and decreases amygdala activation over time.Why Language MattersWhen you repeatedly say “I'm overwhelmed,” your brain begins scanning for confirming evidence. Increased vigilance raises stress. Stress reduces clarity. Reduced clarity reinforces overwhelm.Replacing that statement with a prioritizing phrase does not instantly shut down the alarm system. However, it recruits executive function and begins shifting neural activity toward organization and task-based thinking.Language guides prediction. Prediction guides physiology. Physiology guides behavior.Practical ReframeInstead of:“I'm overwhelmed.”Try:What matters most today?What is the next smallest step?What can wait?This is not positive thinking. It is restoring organizing capacity.Overwhelm signals that prioritization has collapsed. Prioritization is a skill that can be strengthened.Behavior Change ConnectionPeople often abandon habits when they feel overwhelmed, not because they lack discipline, but because executive function is compromised.You cannot build new neural pathways from a chronically alarmed state.Restoring order supports follow-through. ★ Support this podcast ★

Last week marked World Cancer Day, and in this episode, Molly revisits an important—and often misunderstood—topic: the relationship between alcohol and cancer.This is not a new conversation, and it's not a reaction to headlines. Instead, it's part of an ongoing commitment to helping you understand the science well enough to make informed, intentional choices about alcohol—without fear, shame, or all-or-nothing thinking.One reason this topic continues to matter is a striking gap in awareness: while nearly 90% of adults recognize smoking as a cancer risk, fewer than half realize that alcohol is also classified as a carcinogen Project 1 (50). That lack of awareness makes informed choice difficult—and that's what this episode aims to address.In this episode, you'll learn:Why alcohol is classified as a Group 1 carcinogen, and what that designation actually meansThe seven types of cancer that are clearly linked to alcohol use, including breast cancerHow alcohol increases cancer risk at a biological level (acetaldehyde, inflammation, hormones, and nutrient disruption)Why alcohol research in humans is mostly observational, and what that means for how we interpret the dataThe critical difference between relative risk and absolute risk—and why this distinction mattersWhat experts mean when they say there is “no safe level” of alcohol for cancer riskHow to think about cancer risk through an Alcohol Minimalist, harm-reduction lensKey takeaways:Alcohol does increase cancer risk, but risk is dose-dependent and cumulative, not absolute or immediateRelative risk headlines often sound scarier than the actual, absolute numbersYou do not need perfection—or abstinence—to meaningfully reduce riskReducing frequency, quantity, and duration of drinking patterns mattersAlcohol Minimalism is about reducing unnecessary exposure, not eliminating all riskThis episode is about clarity, not commands. Science isn't here to scare you—it's here to inform you.If you've ever felt overwhelmed by alcohol and health messaging, this episode offers a calmer, more grounded way to understand the risks and decide what feels right for you.As always, choose peace.Resources mentioned:TIME Magazine article on alcohol and cancer riskCDC information on alcohol-related cancersAlcohol Minimalist framework for informed, harm-reduction decision makingIf this episode was helpful, consider sharing it with someone who would appreciate a thoughtful, non-alarmist conversation about alcohol and health.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

รายการ Eat Direction ตอนนี้ ชวน เชฟทักษ์-นุติ หุตะสิงห เจ้าของเพจ TUCK the CHEF - เชฟทักษ์ กลับมาอีกครั้งเพื่อพูดคุยเรื่อง Comfort Eating หรือการกินเพื่อให้รู้สึกสบายใจ ขยายความผ่านสิ่งคุ้นเคยอย่าง Comfort Food ว่าทำไมอาหารรสมือแม่ถึงส่งผลกับความสุขในการกินของแต่ละคน อาหารส่งผลกับความรู้สึกสบายใจของเรายังไง ทำไมบางคนถึงชอบกินของเผ็ดให้หายเครียด การกินข้าวกับเพื่อนหรือครอบครัวช่วยให้รู้สึกดีขึ้นได้ยังไง ทำไมร้านอาหารบุฟเฟต์หรือหมูกระทะจึงเป็นที่นิยม   ติดตามชมรายการ Eat Direction  EP.1 เทรนด์ล่าสุดวงการราเมง  https://youtu.be/msHms2gJhdY?si=K3p4rhUwcsHbk3ZO EP.2 กินเนื้อยังไงให้อร่อย https://youtu.be/wxXxxMLz1Wk?si=zNHPiJ0dpYsnbcT5 EP.3 ทำไมกล้าขายไอติมถ้วยละพัน https://youtu.be/PyNIbT-k4j8?si=2dscX5Qk9JPiXokz EP.4 Slow Sake เทรนด์เปลี่ยนวงการสาเกญี่ปุ่น https://youtu.be/HQxmfJYT19M?si=flAnLT56DpLn8tv6 EP.5 เชียงรายกินอะไรดี https://youtu.be/C4l5KNXIjfk?si=q372etymqx5-4ofB EP.6 ปัญหาของอาหารอีสาน https://youtu.be/jxJpJ4n7fz8?si=AJARW0H0Yu-ylpb0 EP.7 ไก่แบบไหนทำข้าวมันไก่อร่อย https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUuQz7Egd_Q EP.8 10 อาหารที่ต้องกินในปี 2025  https://youtu.be/JLcm7LypU3s?si=k_h1BkY1cC94qezW EP.9 เลือกไวน์ยังไงให้เหมาะกับอาหาร https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ehUkng2s2NI&t=21s  EP.10  วิธีกินซูชิให้เป็น  https://youtu.be/wSpq87KTUWY?si=L8qsdRsojsK-hWFK EP.11 อาหารเชียงใหม่สายลึก https://youtu.be/nw208m1tsQY?si=JPQV5JvNlVhwF7Uh EP.12 เบื้องหลังของ Food Blogger https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pD_HQmYzYDI  EP.13 วิธีกินข้าวแช่ พร้อมเครื่อง 40 อย่าง https://youtu.be/4dLSSgF8IAw?si=UfnqEgPTA1KvBXvb  EP.14 สอนสูดเส้น และความรู้เบื้องต้นก่อนเข้าร้านราเมง https://youtu.be/VL5U1BGcRKM?si=pHLi_QMO5YdvJyjd  EP.15 ขนมปังเปรี้ยวและเปลือกแข็งต้องกินยังไง https://youtu.be/pi2zx5VrJtM?si=yhX_LBDAt7zFyF1d EP.16 คู่มือเข้าใจชีส ฉบับคนอยากลอง https://youtu.be/K591jbc8W-w?si=HjRX0gFbvHywkDe-  EP.17 ชานม ชาไทย ชาใต้ ชาชัก ชานมใต้หวัน นมอังกฤษ ชานมฮ่องกง ต่างกันยังไง https://youtu.be/ALvszt--PJI?si=nEMEwgx4sv_9MjK- EP.18 แนะนำร้านอาหาร หาดใหญ่เช้าจนดึก https://youtu.be/DoDvqor38AQ?si=5a-Jn4vPikDLh76u  EP.19 วิธีดื่มน้ำอัดลมแบบที่สุขภาพจะไม่พังในอนาคต https://youtu.be/KnPQyCLA3WE?si=61rtqSbs_P5V-4H1  EP.20 อาหารเป็นพิษ ออกฤทธิ์หลังจากกินกี่ชั่วโมง และอีกหลายคำถามเรื่อง Food Safety กับ เชฟทักษ์ https://youtu.be/nePzNbKjJkY?si=F12pBMky_rDL-j3l  EP.21 ทำไมคนไทยไม่ชอบให้ใคร ว่าอาหารไทยไม่อร่อย https://youtu.be/Wy9hCFMFPMI?si=31_f-6ECLIwJ011W EP.22 ลงใต้ไปเบตง กินหมูย่างทั้งตัวที่หน้าเตา Feat. อารยา และ บิ๊ก อิทธิชัย https://youtu.be/CezFe-Hu2-8?si=JVnFP8luHc_rutri  EP.23 ใส่ผงชูรสเท่าไหร่ ใส่ตอนไหน ปลอดภัยและอร่อยที่สุด https://youtu.be/lIOT_nOV118?si=5FJj3hjcsuGTrV6c  EP.24 ขนมไหว้พระจันทร์ผสมอะไร ถึงเก็บได้หลายเดือนสมัยไม่มีตู้เย็น https://youtu.be/0EOuPKAsOps?si=aA-c_O9aOqpybjzk EP.25 Sober Curious ถ้าไม่อยากดื่มแอลฯ แล้วจะดื่มอะไรดี https://youtu.be/lY1m_ZwA-hw?si=1m5qmuBYbqQwPDWU EP.26 เชฟทักษ์ตอบคำถามจากทางบ้านเรื่อง Food Safety ครั้งที่ 2 https://youtu.be/L50EidWWMKw?si=qlPDf1mweHlNAGnB EP.27 วิธีเลือกและสังเกตปลาคุณภาพดี อัปเดตปี 2025 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NSkwMQr1oCM&t=159s EP.28 เปิดจักรวาลแกง กับบังก้อง Schwedakong https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOVnDaiRMJc&t=2050s EP.29 Ultra Processed Food อะไรกินได้ อะไรควรเอ๊ะ! https://youtu.be/_kDNRc9sKjk EP.30 รู้จักโลกของน้ำพริกและรสเผ็ด กับ อาจารย์ต้น-อนุสรณ์ ติปยานนท์  https://youtu.be/BSBDO9LgkBU?si=IJGdubhYoV99QMwz EP.31 เทรนด์อาหารน่ารู้ไว้ในปี 2026 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=viObUs9J8d8  EP.32 Flexitarian การกินแบบยืดหยุ่น แต่กินได้ทุกอย่างช่วยให้ร่างกายดียังไง https://youtu.be/Kjievbv3Jbs?si=pzBB63dxSis928k- EP.33 ฉลากโภชนาการ อ่านยังไง อ่านแล้วช่วยอะไร https://youtu.be/VZ_oo4aOtvg?si=H0Ekoj99iheOK57q EP.34 กินยังไงให้นอนหลับดี https://youtu.be/SitIb9tmBPw?si=f5BZHJ2xrkdbYEhM   #EatingIsAMiracle #กินอร่อยใจก็ดีขึ้น #Ajinomoto #อายิโนะโมะโต๊ะ #ComfortEating #กินดีมีสุข   #readthecloud #TheCloud #eatdirection #ComfortEating #comfortfood #umami #dopamine #เชฟทักษ์ #TuckTheChef #ของดิบ #วิธีเก็บอาหาร   #อันตราย #อาหารสุขภาพ #ดูแลตัวเอง #พัฒนาตัวเอง #รีวิว #ความรู้  #UPF #Ultraprecessedfood #Healthy #trend #jiranarong #จิรณรงค์ #เครื่องดื่ม #รายการอาหาร #รายการสัมภาษณ์ #พอร์ตแคส #พอดแคส   ทีมงาน กำกับ : ทรัพย์ทวี สมีแจ้ง ครีเอทีฟ : จิรณรงค์ วงษ์สุนทร ช่างภาพ : ทรัพย์ทวี สมีแจ้ง, ปัญญ์ จันทราพิพัฒน์ ลำดับภาพ : จารุภา ควนปัญญา ควบคุมการผลิต : ชนกพัดชา สินอาษา

Freedom from clutter ! Its the year of the Fire House, so another chance to hear Rachel Smith The House Whisperer, so many parallels with decluttering and ditching the booze! You can get a copy of From Wham to Woo - A LIfe on the mic⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ or message me if you'd like asigned copy and I will add P * P EVENTSNew to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support,accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holisticliving. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze,our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus awhole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work go towww.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someoneyou're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts end April 26, email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.com Supplements for recovery The BEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend fromClive – if you use this ⁠⁠ link ⁠⁠foreverything you buy, a bit goes into our Sober Club giveback fund If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acidsand Iodine (if you're menopausal) Use this ⁠link⁠ for everything:Buy your tickets for The Wellness WayHealth Hub in London Sun 1 March at College of Naturopathic Medicine. I will be speaking alongside Philly and Dr Sarah Myhill, it's the perfect place to explore holistic wellbeing Get tickets from https://www.tickettailor.com/events/thewellnessway/1975697Use the code IMPERFECTLYNAT at checkout for a discountLet me know you have a ticket, and you will get an invite to my exclusive receptionto celebrate 20 years of  ImperfectlyNatural Woman, my first book, which kickstarted it all!Platinum Awards If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enter and Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukThought about training to be a SoberCoach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach webinar  Thursday 19 Feb 7.30pmRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/www.thesoberclub.comThinking of treating yourself to the Ultimate Selfcare retreat? Join me 20-22 Feb at Homefield Grange Spa,it's a game changer!https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/  Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber orpaid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media @janeyleegrace 

In this Think Thursday episode, we explore how the human brain evolved to use discomfort as information—and what happens when modern life removes nearly all friction, effort, and delay.Our brains weren't designed for constant comfort. Discomfort once served as critical feedback, helping guide behavior, attention, rest, and problem-solving. But in today's world of instant gratification and instant relief, discomfort is often treated as a problem to eliminate rather than a signal to interpret.This episode unpacks why that shift matters for brain health, motivation, resilience, and long-term satisfaction—and how intentional discomfort can support a hedonic reset.In this episode, we discuss:Why discomfort evolved as a key feedback mechanism in the human brainHow instant relief interrupts the brain's ability to learn from discomfortThe difference between regulation and comfort from a neuroscience perspectiveHow highly concentrated, low-effort rewards shape motivation and satisfactionThe concept of hedonic adaptation and why “enough” keeps movingWhat a hedonic reset actually is (and what it isn't)How intentional discomfort supports nervous system regulationThe role of dopamine, effort, and delay in sustaining motivationWhy distress tolerance is a foundational skill for behavior changeHow identity shifts through repeated, slightly uncomfortable choicesExpert perspectives referenced:Dr. Anna Lembke, author of Dopamine Nation, on pleasure–pain balance and modern reward concentrationDr. Andrew Huberman on dopamine signaling, effort, and motivationJames Clear on identity following behaviorInspiration from a conversation on the Mel Robbins Podcast with Dr. LembkeOne gentle experiment to try this week:Choose one moment per day when you notice mild discomfort—boredom, restlessness, or the urge to distract—and pause instead of fixing it.Examples:Standing in line without reaching for your phoneSitting with boredom for 60–90 secondsLetting an urge rise and fall without reactingNotice:Where you feel the sensation in your bodyWhat thoughts show upWhether the feeling changes on its ownThis isn't about forcing discomfort or pushing through distress. It's about teaching your nervous system that discomfort is tolerable and temporary—and that awareness alone can create change.Key takeaway:Discomfort isn't a problem to solve. It's information to work with.In a culture built around instant relief and effortless reward, intentional discomfort can be a powerful way to restore balance, protect motivation, and support long-term brain health. ★ Support this podcast ★

Join the conversation by letting us know what you think about the episode!"Dry January", "Sober Curious", "taking a break" - does any of this sound familiar? Many of us have questioned our relationship to alcohol, whether because of a rough morning after a night of debauchery, just because, or for any number of reasons. Our guest, Suzanne Warye, had her own reasons for stopping drinking. She writes about her experience in her new book The Sober Shift: A Moder-Day Guide to Living an Abundant Sober Life. In sharing her sober journey, Suzanne also provides helpful information and tools along with stories of other women's journeys with sobriety. Our conversation with Suzanne is hopeful, helpful, and full of compassion and humor. Where to find Suzanne Wayre:Instagram: @suzannewayre, @thesobermomlifePodcast: The Sober Mom LifeBook: The Sober ShiftSupport the showBe part of the conversation by sharing your thoughts about this episode, what you may have learned, how the conversation affected you. You can reach Raquel and Jennifer on IG @madnesscafepodcast or by email at madnesscafepodcast@gmail.com.Share the episode with a friend and have your own conversation. And don't forget to rate and review the show wherever you listen!Thanks!

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly sits down with Dr. Charles Knowles, professor of surgery at Queen Mary University of London and author of Why We Drink Too Much.This is a deep, science-forward conversation about why humans drink alcohol, why some people lose control while others don't, and how culture, biology, psychology, and learning all intersect in our relationship with alcohol.Dr. Knowles shares his personal journey through alcohol dependence, recovery, and ultimately peace—alongside the neuroscience, history, and behavioral science that explain why alcohol can quietly shift from pleasure to reliance.If you've ever wondered “Why me?”, questioned your own drinking without fitting neatly into a label, or felt stuck in the gray area between “fine” and “not fine,” this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and perspective.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeWhy problematic drinking is not a moral failure or lack of willpowerThe difference between reward drinking and relief drinking—and why that shift mattersWhy consumption alone is a poor measure of alcohol's impactThe Three C's of Drinking: Consumption, Consequences, and ControlWhat “alcohol reliance” means—and why so many people live in this gray areaWhy sobriety, abstinence, and neutrality are not the same thingHow emotional sobriety and peace are built after (or alongside) behavior changeWhy understanding the brain can help some people change—and why action still mattersThe role of culture, normalization, and storytelling in how we relate to alcoholWhy a period of alcohol-free time can be valuable, regardless of long-term goalsKey Concepts DiscussedAlcohol as a learned behavior, not a character flawPsychological dependence vs. physical dependenceCognitive dissonance in gray-area drinkingNeuroplasticity and habit reinforcementEmotional sobriety as a state of mind, not a rule setIdentity, agency, and discovering who you are without alcohol driving the storyNotable Quote“Peace is an incredibly important thing—and it's not until you find it that you realize you never had it.”About the GuestDr. Charles Knowles is a professor of surgery at Queen Mary University of London, a consultant colorectal surgeon, and the author of over 300 peer-reviewed scientific publications. Why We Drink Too Much is his first popular science book, combining rigorous research with lived experience to challenge how we think about alcohol, addiction, and recovery.Recommended ResourceWhy We Drink Too Much: The Impact of Alcohol on Our Bodies and Culture by Dr. Charles KnowlesFinal TakeawayChanging your relationship with alcohol isn't about labels, perfection, or deprivation. It's about understanding what's driving your behavior, questioning old narratives, and creating enough space to build peace—mentally, emotionally, and physically.This episode is an invitation to look at alcohol with curiosity instead of judgment—and to remember that meaningful change is always possible.Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Janey chats to Sober Club member Annie Simpson about her first year of sobriety and being part of the community.Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentGet in now at 2025 prices as the monthly fee for new members is rising  Sun 1 Feb www.thesoberclub.comLast weeks guest was Kristina Locke from Sugavida, the first HEALTHY sugar alternative with added vitamins. Use the code JANEYLEE at www.sugavida.comBuy your tickets for The Wellness WayHealth Hub in London Sun 1 March at College of Naturopathic Medicine.  I will be speaking alongside Philly and Dr Sarah Myhill, it's the perfect place to explore holistic wellbeing Get tickets from https://www.tickettailor.com/events/thewellnessway/1975697Use the code IMPERFECTLYNAT at checkout for a discountLet me know you have a ticket, and you will get an invite to my exclusive reception to celebrate 20 years of  ImperfectlyNatural Woman, my first book, which kickstarted it all!Platinum Awards If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enter and Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukThought about training to be a Sober Coach?If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach webinar  Thursday 19 Feb 7.30pmRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/www.thesoberclub.comThinking of treating yourself to the Ultimate Selfcare retreat?Join me in Feb at Homefield Grange Spa,it's a game changer!https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/ Keeping Dancing!! Its tonight!!!Please consider making a donation to my justgiving fund https://www.justgiving.com/page/janey-lee-grace-3The Magnesium Blend I recommend is back in stock, use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489If you want to support the work go to ⁠⁠⁠www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegrace⁠⁠⁠Thank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts Jan31-1stFeb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.com Supplements for recovery Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace

Send us a textWhat can Chrissy Teigen's return to sobriety teach us about the moderation myth?In this reflective episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina opens with a trending celebrity sobriety story and uses it to explore a truth many people discover privately: trying to “mindfully drink” after quitting often leads right back to why we stopped in the first place.Nadine shares her perspective on relapse, moderation, and why sobriety ultimately feels better for mental clarity, emotional stability, and real joy.Then, she takes listeners back to Season One (2022) for a special replay of an early Sober Butterfly episode with Keisha Scott from Done With Debauchery — one of the first sober creators Nadine connected with in real life and the woman who helped her host her very first sober girl meetup.Together, Nadine and Keisha discuss well-known celebrities who have publicly shared their sobriety journeys, including:Samuel L. JacksonJada Pinkett SmithNicki MinajChrissy TeigenNaomi CampbellBella HadidThis episode is about more than celebrities — it's about how seeing sober people can inspire you, but meeting sober people can change your life.Whether you're sober-curious, newly sober, or years into your alcohol-free journey, this conversation reminds you that sobriety is not about perfection — it's about presence, honesty, and community.

In this final Think Thursday of Mostly Dry January, Molly delivers an empowering message for anyone questioning whether their efforts this month "counted." If you've found yourself wondering why change feels so slow, or why your results don't match your effort, this episode is for you.She explains why progress in behavior change is often invisible at first — especially when it comes to changing deeply ingrained habits like drinking. Backed by neuroscience, Molly reveals how your brain rewires itself through small wins, micro-pauses, and increased awareness, even if those changes aren't yet reflected in your habits or outcomes.Key Topics CoveredWhy behavior change often doesn't look like progress at firstThe role of neuroplasticity in rewiring your brain through repetitionWhat researchers call latent change — and why it mattersThe difference between outcomes and indicators in habit changeSubtle but powerful signs of invisible progressHow identity and self-talk begin shifting before results show upScience Concepts MentionedNeuroplasticity: Your brain is shaped by repetition, attention, and intentionAmygdala down-regulation and dopamine recalibration during early behavior changeLatent change: Internal shifts that occur before external behaviors visibly improveInvisible Wins to Look ForPausing more often before acting on a cravingFeeling curious instead of critical when things go off-planMore compassionate self-talkA stronger desire to re-engage, even after misstepsGrowing awareness of what drives your decisionsWeekly Reflection PromptWhat kind of progress have you made this month that no one else can see — but you can feel?Wrap-Up MessageYou don't need to be perfect. You don't need to be done. You just need to keep noticing.Progress is often invisible — until it's not. ★ Support this podcast ★

ชวน โจ๊ก-จักรพันธ์ จักรสมิทธานนท์ เจ้าของ ZMITH แพลตฟอร์มให้ความรู้เรื่องชาและกาแฟ มาแนะนำให้รู้จักคาเฟอีนจากชาและกาแฟที่ช่วยให้ร่างกายรู้สึกตื่นและมีสมาธิ รวมถึงอธิบายการทำงานของสารเคมีในสมองที่มีผลจากการกินและดื่ม พร้อมแนะนำวิธีกินและดื่มเพื่อให้นอนหลับได้ดี   ติดตามชมรายการ Eat Direction  EP.1 เทรนด์ล่าสุดวงการราเมง  https://youtu.be/msHms2gJhdY?si=K3p4rhUwcsHbk3ZO EP.2 กินเนื้อยังไงให้อร่อย https://youtu.be/wxXxxMLz1Wk?si=zNHPiJ0dpYsnbcT5 EP.3 ทำไมกล้าขายไอติมถ้วยละพัน https://youtu.be/PyNIbT-k4j8?si=2dscX5Qk9JPiXokz EP.4 Slow Sake เทรนด์เปลี่ยนวงการสาเกญี่ปุ่น https://youtu.be/HQxmfJYT19M?si=flAnLT56DpLn8tv6 EP.5 เชียงรายกินอะไรดี https://youtu.be/C4l5KNXIjfk?si=q372etymqx5-4ofB EP.6 ปัญหาของอาหารอีสาน https://youtu.be/jxJpJ4n7fz8?si=AJARW0H0Yu-ylpb0 EP.7 ไก่แบบไหนทำข้าวมันไก่อร่อย https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUuQz7Egd_Q EP.8 10 อาหารที่ต้องกินในปี 2025  https://youtu.be/JLcm7LypU3s?si=k_h1BkY1cC94qezW EP.9 เลือกไวน์ยังไงให้เหมาะกับอาหาร https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ehUkng2s2NI&t=21s  EP.10  วิธีกินซูชิให้เป็น  https://youtu.be/wSpq87KTUWY?si=L8qsdRsojsK-hWFK EP.11 อาหารเชียงใหม่สายลึก https://youtu.be/nw208m1tsQY?si=JPQV5JvNlVhwF7Uh EP.12 เบื้องหลังของ Food Blogger https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pD_HQmYzYDI  EP.13 วิธีกินข้าวแช่ พร้อมเครื่อง 40 อย่าง https://youtu.be/4dLSSgF8IAw?si=UfnqEgPTA1KvBXvb  EP.14 สอนสูดเส้น และความรู้เบื้องต้นก่อนเข้าร้านราเมง https://youtu.be/VL5U1BGcRKM?si=pHLi_QMO5YdvJyjd  EP.15 ขนมปังเปรี้ยวและเปลือกแข็งต้องกินยังไง https://youtu.be/pi2zx5VrJtM?si=yhX_LBDAt7zFyF1d EP.16 คู่มือเข้าใจชีส ฉบับคนอยากลอง https://youtu.be/K591jbc8W-w?si=HjRX0gFbvHywkDe-  EP.17 ชานม ชาไทย ชาใต้ ชาชัก ชานมใต้หวัน นมอังกฤษ ชานมฮ่องกง ต่างกันยังไง https://youtu.be/ALvszt--PJI?si=nEMEwgx4sv_9MjK- EP.18 แนะนำร้านอาหาร หาดใหญ่เช้าจนดึก https://youtu.be/DoDvqor38AQ?si=5a-Jn4vPikDLh76u  EP.19 วิธีดื่มน้ำอัดลมแบบที่สุขภาพจะไม่พังในอนาคต https://youtu.be/KnPQyCLA3WE?si=61rtqSbs_P5V-4H1  EP.20 อาหารเป็นพิษ ออกฤทธิ์หลังจากกินกี่ชั่วโมง และอีกหลายคำถามเรื่อง Food Safety กับ เชฟทักษ์ https://youtu.be/nePzNbKjJkY?si=F12pBMky_rDL-j3l  EP.21 ทำไมคนไทยไม่ชอบให้ใคร ว่าอาหารไทยไม่อร่อย https://youtu.be/Wy9hCFMFPMI?si=31_f-6ECLIwJ011W EP.22 ลงใต้ไปเบตง กินหมูย่างทั้งตัวที่หน้าเตา Feat. อารยา และ บิ๊ก อิทธิชัย https://youtu.be/CezFe-Hu2-8?si=JVnFP8luHc_rutri  EP.23 ใส่ผงชูรสเท่าไหร่ ใส่ตอนไหน ปลอดภัยและอร่อยที่สุด https://youtu.be/lIOT_nOV118?si=5FJj3hjcsuGTrV6c  EP.24 ขนมไหว้พระจันทร์ผสมอะไร ถึงเก็บได้หลายเดือนสมัยไม่มีตู้เย็น https://youtu.be/0EOuPKAsOps?si=aA-c_O9aOqpybjzk EP.25 Sober Curious ถ้าไม่อยากดื่มแอลฯ แล้วจะดื่มอะไรดี https://youtu.be/lY1m_ZwA-hw?si=1m5qmuBYbqQwPDWU EP.26 เชฟทักษ์ตอบคำถามจากทางบ้านเรื่อง Food Safety ครั้งที่ 2 https://youtu.be/L50EidWWMKw?si=qlPDf1mweHlNAGnB EP.27 วิธีเลือกและสังเกตปลาคุณภาพดี อัปเดตปี 2025 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NSkwMQr1oCM&t=159s EP. 28 เปิดจักรวาลแกง กับบังก้อง Schwedakong https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOVnDaiRMJc&t=2050s EP.29 Ultra Processed Food อะไรกินได้ อะไรควรเอ๊ะ! https://youtu.be/_kDNRc9sKjk EP. 30 รู้จักโลกของน้ำพริกและรสเผ็ด กับ อาจารย์ต้น-อนุสรณ์ ติปยานนท์  https://youtu.be/BSBDO9LgkBU?si=IJGdubhYoV99QMwz  EP. 31 เทรนด์อาหารน่ารู้ไว้ในปี 2026 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=viObUs9J8d8  EP.32 Flexitarian การกินแบบยืดหยุ่น แต่กินได้ทุกอย่างช่วยให้ร่างกายดียังไง https://youtu.be/Kjievbv3Jbs?si=pzBB63dxSis928k- EP.33 ฉลากโภชนาการ อ่านยังไง อ่านแล้วช่วยอะไร https://youtu.be/VZ_oo4aOtvg?si=j8Zjp6Oy7kymJZeP   #readthecloud #TheCloud #eatdirection #มัทฉะ #matcha #คาเฟอีน #กาแฟ #coffee #ความรู้ #Zmith #caffeine #dopamine #โดปามีน #Healthy #trend #jiranarong #จิรณรงค์ #เครื่องดื่ม #รายการอาหาร #รายการสัมภาษณ์ #พอร์ตแคส #พอดแคส 

In this episode, Molly explores one of the most emotionally charged moments in any behavior change journey: going off plan. Whether you're trying to drink less, eat healthier, or shift any long-standing habit, that moment of “I said I wouldn't, but I did” can feel like failure.But what if it's not?Molly shares how deeply rooted perfectionist narratives — especially around alcohol — make us believe that if we slip, we must be broken, or incapable of moderation. Drawing from neuroscience and psychology, she explains how our brains create conditioned responses and how off-plan drinking isn't a diagnosis, it's data.You'll learn why changing your relationship with alcohol (or any habit) doesn't require perfection — it requires compassion, curiosity, and a willingness to keep going. And you'll be introduced to the Off-Plan Plan, which is a tool  she teaches in her programs. What You'll LearnWhy culturally conditioned narratives frame abstinence as the “only” answerHow your lower brain creates automatic responses to stress and emotionThe science behind why intention alone doesn't drive behaviorWhat perfectionism is really about — and why it shuts down progressHow compassion and curiosity fuel lasting changeA powerful mindset reframe: Off-plan moments aren't failure — they're feedbackKey Quote from the Episode“Off-plan drinking is not a diagnosis. It's not proof that you can't do it. It's information. It's data. It's your brain telling you that something about that moment overwhelmed the tools you had available.”Weekly ReflectionWhen I drink off plan, what story do I immediately tell myself about who I am?And what would change if I treated that moment as information instead of evidence?Resources & MentionsSunnyside mindful drinking appPrevious episodes in the January arc:Fresh Start Effect (Jan 1)Mostly Dry is Enough (Jan 5)Neuroscience of Follow-Through (Jan 8)From Restraint to Reward (Jan 12)Identity Lag (Jan 15)Emotional Freedom (Jan 19)Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Janey chats to Kristina Locke from Sugavida, the first HEALTHY sugar alternative withadded vitamins. Use the code JANEYLEE at www.sugavida.comAnd another chance to hear Philly J Lay's story, and do Buy your tickets for The Wellness Way Health Hub in London Sun 1 March at College of Naturopathic Medicine.  I will be speaking alongside Philly and Dr Sarah Myhill, it's the perfect place to explore holistic wellbeing Get tickets from https://www.tickettailor.com/events/thewellnessway/1975697Use the code IMPERFECTLYNAT at checkout for a discountLet me know you have a ticket, and you will get an invite to my exclusive reception to celebrate 20 years of  ImperfectlyNatural Woman, my first book, which kickstarted it all!Platinum Awards 2026If you have a natural brand, product or service, or you are a wellbeing coach or therapist, or wellbeing author enter the Platinum Awards, its not just Enter and Wait, there is great promo along the way www.platinumawards.co.ukIf you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach webinar  Thursday 19 Feb 7.30pmRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/Sober curious, or already quit the booze? Join us in The Sober Club and get a free gift Alcohol Free Cocktail Making workshop series (as well as hypnosis audios withleading hypnotherapists) Get in now at 2025 prices as the monthly fee for new members is rising end Janwww.thesoberclub.comThinking of treating yourself to the Ultimate Selfcare retreat?Join me in Feb at Homefield Grange Spa, it's a game changer!https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/ Keep Dancing!!Please consider making a donation to my justgiving fund https://www.justgiving.com/page/janey-lee-grace-3TheMagnesium Blend I recommend is back in stock, use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work go to ⁠⁠⁠www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegrace⁠⁠⁠Thank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this!@janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts 25 April email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janeyatjaneyleegrace.com Supplements for recovery Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace 

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly breaks down a powerful concept at the heart of sustainable habit change: micro-yeses. These are the small, often overlooked decisions that align with your long-term goals—even if they feel too minor to matter.Whether you're working on behavior change related to exercise, diet, spending, screen time, or any other habit, micro-yeses are the building blocks of momentum. This episode explores how these tiny choices affect the brain, create identity shifts, and lead to real progress over time.Key Topics CoveredWhat a "micro-yes" is and why it mattersHow small decisions activate the prefrontal cortex and build new neural pathwaysWhy repetition, not perfection, drives real behavior changeThe role of self-recognition in maintaining motivationWhat behavior scientists like BJ Fogg say about starting smallScience and InsightsMicro-yeses interrupt automatic behavior loops by engaging intentional brain regions like the prefrontal cortexThrough consistent action, these moments create synaptic plasticity, helping rewire the brain for new habitsAs Stanford researcher BJ Fogg notes:“Tiny actions, repeated consistently, change identity.”Reflection Prompt:Where have you said yes to yourself this week, even in a small or imperfect way?Recognize it. Count it. It matters.Related Episodes to ExploreThe Fresh Start Effect (January 1)Neuroscience of Follow-Through (January 8)Identity Lag: Why Your Brain Hasn't Caught Up Yet (January 15) ★ Support this podcast ★

Is "What's up?" officially dead? Gary and Shannon break down the exhausting new trend of "Hot Take" dating and why courtship now requires a controversial opinion just to get a reply. Then, we head to the gridiron, is Las Vegas ready for the Mendoza Era? With Heisman winner Fernando Mendoza likely headed to the Raiders as the #1 pick, we ask if the "Sin City" vibe is actually a fit for the college superstar. In this hour: #SwampWatch: President Trump takes the mic live at the White House while the Dow continues its "Greenland Slide." The House Whisperer: A surprise walk-by from Dena Sharp to talk home trends. The $18 Mocktail: Why "Dry January" is suddenly more expensive than actually drinking. We look at the "Sober Curious" economics of 2026. Heismandoza to Vegas: Why the Raiders are betting the house on Indiana's golden boy. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this reflective episode, Molly explores the concept of emotional freedom—what it is, what it isn't, and how it's connected to both her personal story and the Alcohol Minimalist approach.Recorded on Martin Luther King Jr. Day and the day after what would have been her father's 98th birthday, Molly connects the legacies of two powerful men who shaped her understanding of what true strength looks like: calm, steady, and intentional.You'll learn how emotional regulation plays a critical role in creating lasting change with alcohol habits, and why your ability to pause between feeling and acting is key to sustainable freedom. Drawing from neuroscience, psychology, and her own lived experience, Molly unpacks the subtle but powerful shift from automatic drinking to intentional living.Topics DiscussedWhy emotional freedom isn't about never feeling uncomfortableThe Viktor Frankl quote that changed Molly's approach to habit changeHow emotional avoidance and low distress tolerance fuel drinking patternsThe role of the basal ganglia in automatic habits and how to rewire itHer father's example of strength without reactivityHow to use the PB&J tool (Pause, Breathe, Just Ten Minutes) to interrupt urgesA deeper look into the “Figuring Out Your Feelings” chapter from Breaking the Bottle LegacyKey Quotes“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” — Viktor Frankl “You can tell the size of a man by the size of the thing that makes him mad.” — Adlai Stevenson, as taught to Molly by her fatherResources MentionedBreaking the Bottle Legacy by Molly Watts – especially the chapter “Figuring Out Your Feelings”Drink-Less Success: A 30-day self-paced program based in neuroscience and habit psychology Includes the audiobook version of Breaking the Bottle Legacy Learn more at: mollywatts.com/drink-less-successWeekly Reflection PromptWhat does emotional freedom mean to me right now? Not in theory. Not for the future. But right now.Ask yourself:Where am I reactive?Where could I create more space?What would it look like to respond instead of escape?Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

While every non-alcoholic brand is shouting Dry January, Recess is telling you to quit. Literally. Joining us is Ben Witte, CEO and co-founder of the #1 mocktail brand, to unpack a provocative new campaign that swaps all-or-nothing resolutions for something far more realistic: balance. From a bold manifesto to a full-page New York Times ad timed for “Quitter's Day,” Ben explains why going against the seasonal grain isn't risky—it's exactly why Recess is winning. What You'll Learn in This Episode Why moderation—not elimination—is the real shift happening in drinking culture How going against category conventions can create sharper brand differentiation What most brands get wrong about Dry January and behavior change How narrative-driven branding builds permission to expand into new categories Why “do the unexpected” is more than a creative idea—it's a leadership strategy Episode Chapters (00:00) Why Recess Is Telling People to Quit (01:00) The Myth of Sober Curious and the Rise of Moderation (04:30) Why Dry January Is Losing Relevance (06:45) Anti-Perfectionism as Brand Strategy (09:45) The Hidden Downsides of Rules and Streaks (13:00) Naming, Narrative, and Building Red Bull for Relaxation (18:00) Knowing When to Push Against Conventional Wisdom (25:00) Brands That Make Us Smile About Ben Witte Ben Witte is the CEO and co-founder of Recess, a leading functional beverage company built around the idea of calm, balance, and taking a break from modern stress. Coming from a Silicon Valley background rather than traditional CPG, Ben has consistently challenged category norms—shifting the conversation from sobriety to moderation and from ingredients to outcomes. Under his leadership, Recess has grown into a category-defining brand spanning mocktails, mood drinks, and relaxation-focused products sold nationwide. What Brand Has Made Ben Smile Recently? Ben points to a Thanksgiving campaign from Tito's Handmade Vodka that flipped the familiar “Turkey Trot” on its head with the idea of a “Turkey Rot”—leaning into cultural truth with humor and self-awareness. The campaign stood out by inverting expectations, tapping into real behavior, and reminding us that the best brand moments often come from saying the quiet part out loud. Resources & Links Check out the Recess website and their Amazon store. Recess on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/recess Connect with Ben Witte on LinkedIn and X. Listen & Support the Show Watch or listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Amazon/Audible, TuneIn, and iHeart. Rate and review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify to help others find the show. Share this episode — email a friend or colleague this episode. Sign up for my free Story Strategies newsletter for branding and storytelling tips. On Brand is a part of the Marketing Podcast Network. Until next week, I'll see you on the Internet! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever thought about inspiring others and training to be a Sober Coach? Gillian Cockburn trained with me on my first ever Sober Coach training programme and shares how rewarding the work is.Follow Gillian at Findingyoucoaching.co.ukIf you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach webinarWed 21 Jan at 7.30-pmRegister HERE https://www.thesoberclub.com/explore/Lastweeks chat re Collagen Quitting the booze is the best anti ageing hack EVER, and help it along with amazing natural Collagen. We have a  sponsor this week Rejuvenated, and I chatted to the founder Kathryn Dancey Buy it HERE https://tidd.ly/49hjb0Mwww.rejuvenated.co.ukSober curious, or already quit the booze? Join us in The Sober Club and get a free giftAlcohol Free Cocktail Making workshop series (as well as hypnosis audios with leading hypnotherapists) Get in now at 2025 prices as the monthly fee for new members is rising mid Janwww.thesoberclub.comThinking of treating yourself to the Ultimate Selfcare retreat?Join me in Feb at Homefield Grange Spa, it'sa game changer!https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/ Keeping Dancing!!Please consider making a donation to my justgiving fund https://www.justgiving.com/page/janey-lee-grace-3Grab tickets for Charlenes' LLightbulb silent disco charity event in Farnhamhttps://www.the-lightclub.com/events-2The Magnesium Blend I recommend is back in stock, use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusivewellbeing contentIf you want to support the work go to ⁠⁠⁠www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegrace⁠⁠⁠Thank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIfyou're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this!@janeyleegrace Ditched the Boozeand want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts Jan31-1stFeb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janeyatjaneyleegrace.com Supplementsfor recovery Checkout my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollowJaney on social media@janeyleegrace

With alcohol-free months such as 'Dry January' or 'Sober October' gaining popularity in recent years, many people are exploring semi-sobriety by having a break from alcohol, or drinking less. We talk about the benefits of participating in a dry month, and helpful hints to help you get through it: https://bit.ly/4sLrk6DIn this Episode:04:40 – Tips for Longevity and Living Well from People in their 90's: Staying Connected09:10 – What is Dry January? The Emerging Sober Curious Trend and Benefits13:05 – Helpful Hints for Taking a Break from Alcohol15:43 – Discussion with Charlie: It's all About Moderation26:13 – “Grief is Like a Really Ugly Couch”, from Leaving Time by Jody Picoult27:05 – OutroWhat happens when alcohol isn't part of the picture, even for a short time? In this episode, we explore the origins of Dry January and what research shows about taking a break from alcohol. From improved sleep and mood to better energy, focus, and long-term changes in drinking habits, the benefits often go beyond what people expect. Learn practical, supportive strategies that help make a pause easier - whether you're sober-curious, cutting back, or simply interested in what you might notice when alcohol takes a back seat.Support the showGet show notes and resources at our website: every1dies.org. Facebook | Instagram | YouTube | mail@every1dies.org

By mid-January, many people are still taking action toward change but feel increasingly unsure of themselves. In this Think Thursday episode, Molly introduces the concept of identity lag to explain why behavior often changes before belief does and why that gap can feel uncomfortable.Building on recent conversations about the Fresh Start Effect and the neuroscience of follow-through, this episode explores what happens in the brain when new behaviors challenge long-held self-stories. Molly explains how identity is shaped through evidence over time, why self-doubt often peaks after consistency begins, and how cognitive dissonance plays a central role in this phase of change.Rather than seeing discomfort as a sign that something is wrong, listeners are invited to understand identity lag as a normal and necessary transition in sustainable behavior change.What You'll LearnWhy behavior change often feels awkward before it feels alignedWhat identity lag is and why it shows up in mid-JanuaryHow the brain prioritizes stability and safetyWhy confidence does not come first in lasting changeHow cognitive dissonance creates tension during growthWhy self-doubt often increases after consistency beginsHow identity actually updates through repetition and evidenceKey Concepts ExplainedIdentity lag as the gap between behavior and beliefDefault mode network and self-referential processingCognitive dissonance and the brain's drive for consistencyEvidence accumulation in identity-based behavior changeNeuroplasticity and learning across time and contextImpostor syndrome as a byproduct of uncertainty during growthCore Takeaways from the EpisodeBehavior leads and identity followsFeeling unfamiliar does not mean being misalignedSelf-doubt is information, not instructionConfidence grows from repetition, not declarationsConsistent behavior resolves cognitive dissonance over timeOver time, research shows that behavior is often what resolves cognitive dissonance, not beliefs.When behavior stays consistent, identity eventually follows.That's why you don't have to convince yourself. You just have to keep showing up.Practical Anchors SharedSeparate behavior from beliefLook for evidence rather than feelingsAvoid premature identity labelsNormalize discomfort during transitionUse language like “I am learning to become someone who…”Related Think Thursday EpisodesThe Myth of the Fresh Start BrainThe Neuroscience of Follow-ThroughBelief Echoes and Why Change Feels HardUnbreakable Habits and the Voice That Keeps Them AliveWhat's Coming NextNext week's Think Thursday explores what happens when progress starts to feel quieter, calmer, and even boring, and why that phase is actually a sign that change is taking hold. ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, hosts Erin and Elizabeth delve into the sober curious movement, discussing its cultural significance, health impacts, and generational perspectives on alcohol consumption. They share personal experiences and insights on navigating social situations without alcohol, the influence of social media, and the importance of mindfulness in drinking habits. The conversation emphasizes the need for new activities beyond drinking and the effects of aging on alcohol tolerance, ultimately encouraging listeners to reflect on their drinking habits and consider a more mindful approach to alcohol consumption.   Follow us on social media: TikTok account: https://www.tiktok.com/@estrogen.dropouts?_t=ZT-8wTKvGNOQv5&_r=1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/estrogendropouts?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstrogenDropouts

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If you've ever said, “I deserve a drink,” that thought may feel small, but it reflects something deeper — a powerful belief that alcohol is your reward.In this episode, Molly explores Alcohol Core Belief #4: Alcohol is my reward, and how this unconscious narrative can quietly fuel your desire to drink. The episode offers a new way forward — not through willpower or restriction, but by intentionally creating new, satisfying reward rituals.You'll learn:Why the brain links alcohol with reward — and what to do about itHow removing alcohol without adding new sources of pleasure leads to resistanceThe importance of building emotional reward systems that reinforce the habit of drinking lessWhy this work isn't about deprivation, but about creating lasting satisfaction and peaceTopics and TakeawaysHow “reward thinking” fuels the desire to drinkThe role of dopamine and learned associationsHow to create alcohol-free rewards that actually feel goodWhat to do instead of white-knuckling your way through dry daysThe mindset shift from “restriction” to “reinforcement”Resources MentionedAlcohol Core Beliefs Episodes: Episode 158: https://pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/12f5397f/5d182193.mp3 Episode 159:https://pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/eda56e8a/ac4e075a.mp3Episode 160: https://pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/0bc07446/a0266a75.mp3Episode 161: https://pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/e62c3a01/cdd8df70.mp3Episode 163: https://pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/bb7c0709/5c68cc4e.mp3 Rewards Rewired WorksheetLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Quitting the booze is the best anti ageing hack EVER, and help it along with amazing natural Collagen. We have teamed up with Rejuvenated, and I chatted to the founder Kathryn Dancey Buy it HEREhttps://rejuvenated.com/There is also a chance to hear the lovely Susan from Hola Sober Magazine talking with me on the Setting intentions workshop, we chatted about the importance of rituals in sobriety.If you're interested in training join our next Explore a Career as a Sober Coach webinar Wed 21 Jan at 7.30-pmRegisterHERE Sober curious, or already quit the booze? Join us in The Sober Club and get a free gift Alcohol Free Cocktail Making workshop series (as well as hypnosis audios with leading hypnotherapists) Get in now at 2025 prices as the monthly fee for new members is rising mid Janwww.thesoberclub.comThinking of treating yourself to the Ultimate Selfcare retreat? Join me in Feb at Homefield Grange Spa, it'sa game changer!https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/ Keeping Dancing!!Please consider making a donation to my justgiving fund https://www.justgiving.com/page/janey-lee-grace-3The Magnesium Blend I recommend is back in stock, use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusivewellbeing contentIf you want to support the work go to ⁠⁠⁠www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegrace⁠⁠⁠Thank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts Jan31-1stFeb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey atjaneyleegrace.com Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollowJaney on social media@janeyleegrace

Send us a textIn this honest and educational solo episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina explores why Dry January isn't the same as sobriety—and why that distinction matters for anyone questioning their relationship with alcohol.Drawing from personal experience and years of conversations within the sober and sober-curious community, Nadine breaks down the two biggest pitfalls of Dry January: the “fuck it” mindset when the challenge feels too hard, and the false reassurance that completing 30 days automatically means alcohol isn't an issue. She explains how both can keep people stuck in the same drinking patterns long-term.This episode reframes Dry January as a starting point—not a finish line—and offers practical, compassionate guidance for those attempting Dry January, as well as tools and reminders for people who are already sober and navigating January with clarity and intention.Whether you're sober, sober-curious, taking a break, or supporting someone who is, this episode invites you to prioritize honesty, self-trust, and sustainable change over perfection or willpower.

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly picks up where last week's conversation on the Fresh Start Effect left off and explores what happens in the brain after motivation fades. Using neuroscience and behavior change research, she explains why January 8 is often the point where people assume they have failed, even though this is actually the phase where real change begins.Molly breaks down why most New Year's intentions are abandoned by mid-January and reframes this not as a lack of discipline, but as a misunderstanding of how the brain works. She explains the difference between motivation and follow-through, the role of dopamine, and why the brain naturally resists energy-intensive new behaviors. The episode focuses on how to create conditions that support consistency without relying on willpower.What You'll LearnWhy most New Year's resolutions are abandoned by mid-JanuaryHow the Fresh Start Effect creates motivation but not sustainabilityThe difference between motivation and follow-through in the brainThe role of dopamine in anticipation versus long-term changeWhy habits live in different brain circuits than goalsHow the brain prioritizes energy conservationWhy resistance and friction are expected during behavior changeHow follow-through builds self-trust over timeKey Concepts ExplainedFresh Start Effect as a motivational sparkDopamine and why motivation naturally fadesPrefrontal cortex as the center of planning and intentionBasal ganglia and its role in habit automationEnergy conservation as a primary function of the lower brainFollow-through as infrastructure, not enthusiasmPractical Principles Shared in the EpisodeReduce decisions to conserve cognitive energyAnchor new behaviors to existing routines through habit stackingShrink behaviors to reduce resistance and threatExpect friction as part of learning, not failureBuild evidence through repetition rather than relying on excitementKey TakeawaysMotivation fading does not mean you are behindFollow-through begins when excitement endsConsistency during low motivation is what rewires the brainSmall steps repeated over time create sustainable changeSelf-trust is built through evidence, not intentionRelated Think Thursday EpisodesThe Myth of the Fresh Start BrainConsistency: The Brain's Super PowerThe Iterative Mindset and Behavior ChangeBelief Echoes and Why Change Feels HardUnbreakable Habits and the Voice That Keeps Them Alive ★ Support this podcast ★

As we enter 2026, the global beverage industry is undergoing a seismic shift. Consumer demand has moved beyond simple hydration toward functional benefits, mindful consumption, and flavor sophistication. Tony Vieira, Founder of Mocean, is leading the conversation on how brands must pivot to meet these changing expectations. Vieira is available to provide expert commentary on: * The Rise of Beverage Alternatives: Why "sober-curious" culture is no longer a niche market but a primary driver in product development. * Adult-Centric Formulation: Moving away from the high-sugar, neon-colored energy drinks of the past toward sophisticated, performance-based ingredients. * The Moderation Movement: How shifting consumer habits around alcohol and caffeine are creating a new "Middle Ground" in the beverage aisle. * Flavor Profiles for the Mature Palate: Why modern consumers are trading artificial sweetness for complex, botanical, and fruit-forward profiles like White Peach and Strawberry Guava. Designing for the "Real World": Energy with Intent While the traditional energy drink market has long focused on extreme sports and gaming, Mocean has identified a significant white space: the high-achieving adult. "Our drinks are designed for people with real jobs, real responsibilities, and real goals," says Vieira. "We aren't just selling energy; we're selling the ability to stay sharp and balanced throughout a demanding day without the crash associated with legacy brands." Starting the New Year with Purpose As millions of consumers participate in "Dry January" and set wellness-focused New Year's resolutions, the demand for "better-for-you" alternatives is at an all-time high. Mocean provides a bridge for those looking to maintain their social rituals and energy levels without compromising their health goals.

It's the first full week of the new year — and if Dry January is on your mind, than this episode is for you. In this solo episode, Molly shares insights from her current Mostly Dry January program and explains why your month doesn't have to be perfect to be powerful. You'll learn what the science says about cutting back (even partially), how to rewire your drinking habits using positive reinforcement, and why “mostly dry” is more than enough.If you're ready to ditch the all-or-nothing mindset and start building real momentum with your relationship with alcohol, this episode will help you do it — one small decision at a time. In This Episode:Why “failing” Dry January doesn't mean starting overWhat research says about partial reductions in alcoholThe real reason willpower isn't working — and what to try insteadHow to use temptation bundling to feel good about changeWhy moderation isn't an excuse — it's a skillResources & Links:Download the Temptation Bundling Worksheet Create alcohol-free routines that feel good — not forced.  Download the PDFExplore Drink-Less Success A 30-day neuroscience-based support system for peaceful drinking habits.  Start Drink-Less SuccessTry the Sunnyside App (15-day free trial) Molly's top recommendation for mindful drink tracking.  Join SunnysideLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Text Me!If you're searching for how to quit drinking alcohol in 2026, you're not alone, and you're not behind.In this Season 8 kickoff episode of the Sober Vibes Podcast, I break down why the old way of quitting alcohol no longer works for so many women, especially high-functioning, successful women stuck in the moderation cycle.White-knuckling, willpower, and “just drinking less” may have worked for some in the past, but in 2026, we understand more about the nervous system, emotional regulation, and why so many women drink to cope with stress, anxiety, and burnout.This episode introduces a calmer, smarter, and more sustainable way to stop drinking without shame, fear, or all-or-nothing thinking.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why trying to drink less keeps you stuck in the cycleHow to stop drinking every night without relying on willpowerWhy grey area drinking is so common  and so exhaustingWhat actually helps after 30 days without alcoholHow to quit drinking wine when it's tied to stress and identityWhy quitting alcohol in 2026 is about lifestyle + emotional sobrietyHow to build a sober lifestyle that feels freeing, not restrictiveWhether you're sober curious, stuck asking “Do I really have to quit forever?”, or quietly Googling how to stop drinking wine at night, this episode will help you rethink sobriety in a way that feels realistic and supportive.Resources & Support Mentioned:Soberity Circle 1:1 Sober Coaching Book Free ResourcesPODCAST SPONSOR:This episode is sponsored by ExactNature, a trusted holistic tool for anyone navigating recovery and sobriety. Use code SV25 at checkout to save on your order. Click here to shop and save. Grab my Masterclass for Free:Gain access to my Masterclass when you submit a review on iTunes. Email me sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in!Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney:InstagramJoin the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 CoachingOrder the Sober Vibes Book

Happy New Year, we have a run down of some of the podcasts from last year in case you want to go back and listen again! There are some top tips for kicking off your sober streaks for Dry January with some of the sober coaches who trained with me, find them on our Find a Coach Directory:Thank you Ali Payne, Hannah Gardner, Lucy Hall, Sarah Bennett, Annie Knowles Zoe Brough If you're interested in training join our next webinar!Sober curious, or already quit the booze? Join us in The Sober Club and get a free giftAlcohol Free Cocktail Making workshop series (as well as hypnosis audios with leading hypnotherapists) Get in now at 2025 prices as the monthlyfee for new members is rising early Janwww.thesoberclub.comDon't miss Setting your intentions for 2026  TODAY Friday 2nd Jan An online workshop to guide you through letting go of what you no longer need andset your intentions for 2026Register here (small fee for this one)https://www.thesoberclub.com/setting-your-intentions-for-2026/Ditched the booze and thinking of a newpurpose?Join our free webinar – Explore a career as a sober coach Wed 21 January 7.30pmRegister now for the free webinar – its not salesy!https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/ Please consider making a donation to my justgiving fund https://www.justgiving.com/page/janey-lee-grace-3The Magnesium Blend I recommend is back in stock, use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work go to ⁠⁠⁠www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegrace⁠⁠⁠Thank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIfyou're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this!@janeyleegrace Ditched the Boozeand want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts Jan31-1stFeb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janeyatjaneyleegrace.com Supplementsfor recovery Checkout my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollowJaney on social media@janeyleegrace 

Join Mostly Dry January-The Daily!In this New Year's Day episode of Think Thursday, Molly explores why January 1 feels so powerful psychologically and why that feeling so often fades. Drawing on neuroscience, mindset research, and behavioral science, she explains the difference between the Fresh Start Effect and the myth that our brains reset overnight.Using research from behavioral scientist Katy Milkman, Molly breaks down why temporal landmarks like January 1 increase motivation, how dopamine fuels anticipation, and why habits do not change through symbolism or intention alone. She explains what actually drives sustainable behavior change and how identity, repetition, and environment shape the brain over time.This episode reframes January not as a moment of reinvention, but as an opportunity to continue building momentum with clarity and compassion.What You'll LearnWhy January 1 feels emotionally different from other daysWhat the Fresh Start Effect is and why it works as a motivatorHow dopamine drives anticipation rather than follow throughWhy the brain does not reset habits or patterns overnightThe role of the basal ganglia in habit formationHow identity based change can either support or sabotage progressWhy self rejection increases all or nothing thinkingWhat works better than willpower for sustainable behavior changeKey Concepts ExplainedFresh Start Effect and temporal landmarksDopamine and anticipation versus long term habit wiringNeural efficiency and why the brain prefers familiar patternsIdentity based behavior change and evidence gatheringIteration over intensity for neuroplasticityEnvironment over willpower as a driver of consistencyPractical Reframes from the EpisodeShift from starting over to continuing forwardFocus on strengthening what already existsThink aligned habits instead of new habitsUse January as an informative month rather than a performanceBuild identity through small repeated actionsReduce friction instead of relying on motivationResearch and References MentionedKaty Milkman's research on the Fresh Start EffectHow to Change: The Science of Getting from Where You Are to Where You Want to BeNeuroscience research on the basal ganglia and habit loopsIdentity based behavior change research in psychologyRelated Think Thursday EpisodesThe Illusion of Starting Over in Habit ChangeConsistency: The Brain's Super PowerThe Iterative Mindset and Behavior ChangeBelief Echoes and Why Change Feels HardDefensive Pessimism ★ Support this podcast ★

Text us a comment or question!This episode originally aired on January 2, 2023.Are you sober curious? Have you ever seriously examined your relationship with alcohol – how it serves you and how it doesn't? Today were going to examine your relationship with alcohol. No preaching or moralizing, just a surprisingly refreshing invitation to step back and objectively explore the role of alcohol in your life.  And of course we'll mention the health benefits of reducing or eliminating alcohol – but that's not really what this episode is about. This episode is about you stepping into your most beautiful life, your most beautiful self. It's about examining your behaviors and being mindful. It's about growth and self-experimentation. And ultimately, it's about becoming – and owning – your most authentic self. My guest today is Karolina Rzadkowolska. Karolina is an alcohol-free empowerment expert and bestselling author who specializes in helping people change their relationship with alcohol for good, value their worth, and discover their greater purpose. Join us today as Karolina challenges our relationship with alcohol and helps us discover and unleash our greater purpose. Website - https://euphoricaf.comFacebook - @euphoricafInstagram - @euphoric.afBook – https://www.amazon.com/Euphoric-Ditch-Alcohol-Happier-Confident/dp/0785245847  Sponsor Information – Living Libationshttps://livinglibations.com/silveredge Want more over 50 health & wellness goodness? Check out our private Facebook group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/silveredgefitness

Join Mostly Dry January-The Daily!As 2025 wraps up, Molly celebrates a major milestone—five full years of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast. In this reflective and empowering episode, she shares five impactful lessons learned over the past five years—lessons that have shaped her journey and the lives of thousands who are building a more peaceful relationship with alcohol.Whether you're a longtime listener or new to the show, this episode will meet you where you are with compassionate wisdom, science-backed insights, and practical tools to support moderation—not perfection.What You'll LearnYour Brain Isn't Broken—And It Can ChangeUnderstand why psychological dependence on alcohol isn't a character flaw but a learned habit—and how your brain is capable of rewiring.You Don't Have to Be All or NothingExplore the alcohol minimalist approach as a valid, sustainable alternative to both abstinence and overdrinking.Your Thoughts Create Your DesireDiscover how your core beliefs and inner dialogue shape your cravings—and how to challenge them.Willpower Isn't the Answer—Planning IsLearn why planning, not willpower, is the key to long-term change. Molly revisits her most impactful strategies, including the "Doable Drink Plan."You Can Break the LegacyMolly shares how she rewrote her story as an adult child of an alcoholic and invites you to do the same.Key Questions for ReflectionWhat do you understand about alcohol now that you didn't a year ago?Where have you made quiet, meaningful progress?If you felt confident and peaceful around alcohol in 2026, what else would need to change?Mentioned Episodes & ResourcesEpisodes: 14, 92, 115–117, 143, 167, 189, 198, 258Alcohol Core Beliefs Series: Search "alcohol core beliefs" in your podcast appMostly Dry January Challenge: Daily support, private podcast, coaching, and a powerful start to 2026Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Evr set out to do something, change a habit, start on a new path, but suddenly you're back where you started. Another chance to hear a clip of a session with NLP expert Jo Creed, on how NOT to hit the f**k it button over the festive season, Jo is one of our expert teachers in our Sober Coach training.Sober curious, or already quit the booze? Join us in The Sober Club and get a free giftAlcohol Free Cocktail Making workshop series (as well as hypnosis audios with leading hypnotherapists) Get in now at 2025 prices as the monthlyfee for new members is rising early Janwww.thesoberclub.comDon't miss Setting your intentions for 2026An online workshop to guide you through letting go of what you no longer need and set your intentions for 2026Register here (small fee for this one)https://www.thesoberclub.com/setting-your-intentions-for-2026/Ditched the booze and thinking of a newpurpose?Join our free webinar – Explore a career as a sober coach Wed 21 January 7.30pmRegister now for the free webinar – its not salesy!https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/ Please consider making a donation to my justgiving fund https://www.justgiving.com/page/janey-lee-grace-3The Magnesium Blend I recommend is back in stock, use this link https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489Join us in The Sober Club for inspiration, and connection.New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host of content on holistic living. Membership includesand online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regular zoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work go to ⁠⁠⁠www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegrace⁠⁠⁠Thank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this!@janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training, our next course starts Jan31-1stFeb email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janeyatjaneyleegrace.com Supplements for recovery Checkout my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extrasSobriety Rocks…& The Woo WorksFollowJaney on social media@janeyleegrace #sober #sobercurious #sobercoachtraining

In this special holiday revisited episode of Think Thursday, Molly explores why mental rest is essential for brain health, especially coming out of a season of overstimulation. She explains how modern life is designed to hijack our attention, keeping us in constant reaction mode and depriving the brain of the downtime it needs to function well.Molly breaks down what happens neurologically when the brain is exposed to nonstop input, including cognitive fatigue, reduced creativity, increased stress, and weaker memory consolidation. She revisits the role of the default mode network and explains why creativity and quiet, not constant consumption, are key to restoring mental clarity and emotional regulation.The episode closes with practical, science backed strategies for reclaiming mental rest and intentionally creating space for the brain to recover and thrive.What You'll LearnThe difference between mental rest and sleep or meditationWhy the brain is not designed for constant stimulationHow nonstop input leads to cognitive fatigue and decision fatigueThe role of the default mode network in creativity and problem solvingWhy overstimulation increases stress, anxiety, and emotional reactivityHow modern technology has removed natural stopping points for the brainWhy attention is the product in today's digital economyKey Concepts ExplainedCognitive fatigue from continuous information processingDefault mode network and its role in reflection and creativitySympathetic nervous system activation from constant stimulationMemory consolidation requiring downtime and restAttention as a limited resource that must be protected intentionallyPractical Strategies Shared in the EpisodeSchedule at least 30 minutes of tech free time each dayEmbrace boredom and allow moments of silence without distractionCreate a no phone zone in one part of your day, such as meals or bedtimeReplace scrolling with hands on, real world creativityPrioritize presence over constant consumptionReal World Creativity Ideas MentionedPlaying music or learning an instrumentDrawing, painting, or doodlingWriting by hand through journaling or copying quotesGardening, crafting, sculpting, or woodworkingCreative movement such as dancing, stretching, or mindful walkingWhy Mental Rest MattersMental rest is not wasted time. It allows the brain to process information, regulate emotions, consolidate memory, and restore cognitive energy. Without intentional breaks, the brain stays in reaction mode, making it harder to focus, create, and feel calm.Listener InvitationFor the next 24 hours, find one way to engage in real world creativity with no screens involved. Notice how your brain and body feel afterward, and share your experience by emailing Molly or connecting in The Alcohol Minimalist community. ★ Support this podcast ★

ad free on patreon @www.patreon.com/dopeypodcastThis week on Dopey! It's Christmas Eve! Wishing all the listeners a Merry Fucking Christmas! This week we open the show reminding everyone about patreon and reading a note from incarcerated Dope - Montana about prison life, Toastmasters, college aspirations, and his badass DIY cubicle decor.We reflects on Christmas's universal meaning – love, hope, togetherness – while sending love to the Reiner family. The main interview features longtime friend and DopeyCon organizer Rachel Hechtman (@soberincentralpark), recorded the day the Nick Reiner news broke. Rachel shares her wild journey: early drinking and coke at 14, boarding school antics (including Paris Hilton-sourced coke), dealing at Dartmouth, drug-induced psychosis, a secret marriage to an Italian guy (Giuseppe!), massive weight loss (80 lbs), and getting sober through daily Central Park walks with her dog George during COVID – no 12-step, just determination, walking, and community-building.All that plus copious Nick Reiner Spotify comments on this brand new Wednesday version of that good old dopey show! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Sign Up for Mostly Dry January--The DailyIn this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly tackles a common end-of-year mindset trap: the “sin and repent” cycle. It's the idea that December is for overindulgence and January is for repentance—a pattern that often reinforces all-or-nothing thinking and keeps us stuck in old drinking habits.Through personal reflections and practical coaching, Molly unpacks the power of permission-giving thoughts like “It's the holidays, I deserve this” or “I'll get back on track in January.” These seemingly harmless ideas delay change, undermine self-trust, and reinforce avoidance patterns.But there's a better way—and it starts by practicing mindful thought shifts right now, not later. With her See, Soothe, Separate, Shift method and a science-backed approach to building new thought habits, Molly shows listeners how to move through the holiday season with more clarity, agency, and peace.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why the “I'll be good in January” mindset is not harmless—and how it reinforces habits you're trying to breakWhat permission-giving thoughts sound like and why they feel so rationalHow delaying behavior change until January trains your brain to avoid discomfortThe difference between self-compassion and excuse-makingHow to use the See, Soothe, Separate, Shift framework to rewire your thinking in real timeKey Quote“It's not a willpower problem—it's a pattern problem. The thoughts you choose now are training your brain for what you'll do next month and next year.”Mentioned in This EpisodeBehavior Map – Results CycleSee, Soothe, Separate, Shift framework for thought changeGet InvolvedJoin Mostly Dry January: The Daily Go beyond white-knuckling Dry January. Molly's new daily experience gives you:Real-time behind-the-scenes video check-insA private podcast feed for bite-sized daily mindset coachingWeekly science-backed brain lessonsLive group coachingAccess to a private Facebook community Sign up here: [Insert Link] or visit mollywatts.com/dryjanuaryTake Action This WeekYou don't need to “start over” in January. You can begin noticing and shifting thoughts right now—before the year ends.Ask yourself:Is this a self-compassionate thought?Or is it a permission-giving excuse?What's one small choice I can make today that aligns with who I'm becoming?Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

Text Me!What if the bravest thing you do is stop negotiating with alcohol?In this episode of the Sober Vibes Podcast, Courtney Andersen sits down with women's mentor and certified EFT tapping practitioner Sophia Grinjella to explore what really happens after you decide to quit drinking and how to actually stay alcohol-free without white-knuckling.Sophia shares how quitting alcohol at 29 reshaped her identity, friendships, travel experiences, and daily energy. What started as years of moderation and “trying to control it” eventually led to a full pivot into presence, health, and self-trust. A key part of that transformation? EFT tapping—a powerful blend of cognitive and somatic work that helps regulate the nervous system, calm cravings, and replace liquid courage with embodied confidence.Together, Courtney and Sophia unpack the messy middle between deciding to quit and truly living free. They talk about grief for the old self, navigating FOMO, setting boundaries with friends, and learning how to show up at dinners, dates, airports, and social events without a glass in your hand.In this episode, you'll learn:What EFT tapping is and how it works for cravings and anxietyHow daily tapping routines can reduce urges and ease FOMOWhy the moderation cycle stalls real changeRegulating the nervous system to build absolute, lasting confidencePractical tools for airports, dinners, and social eventsHow to replace “liquid courage” with self-trustThis episode is for anyone ready to stop bargaining with alcohol and start building a life rooted in calm, clarity, and self-trust.Resources Mentioned:Subscribe to my YouTube Channel1:1 CoachingMy Book Connect with Sophia:WebsitePODCAST SPONSOR:This episode is sponsored by Soberlink, a trusted accountability tool for anyone navigating early recovery. Whether you're rebuilding trust with loved ones or want more structure in your sobriety, Soberlink offers a discreet and empowering way to stay on track.Sober Vibes listeners, sign up HERE and claim our $100 Enrollment Bonus.This episode is sponsored by ExactNature, a trusted holistic tool for anyone navigating recovery and sobriety. Use code SV25 at checkout to save on your order. Click here to shop and save. Grab my Masterclass for Free:Gain access to my Masterclass when you submit a review on iTunes. Email me sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my MaThank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney:InstagramJoin the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 CoachingOrder the Sober Vibes Book